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1 I began writing to satisfy a thoughtful mother’s request.
2 Education's value is clear, but effective methods are scarce today.
3 Understanding children's nature is crucial, adults often misunderstand them.
4 Critics might call my educational ideas impractical visionary dreams.
5 Sharing ideas freely, seeking truth about humanity's happiness or misery.
6 Suggesting realistic ideas isn't feasible, aligning with societal flaws.
7 Consider intrinsic goodness and execution feasibility in every project undertaken.
8 Projects are good if benefits align with human nature.
9 Success varies by situation; universal proposals suffice for human improvement.
10 Natural creations are good; human intervention distorts nature, seeking deformities.
11 Without intervention, things worsen; birth deformities require social nurturing.
12 Caring mother, nurture your child's spirit for future growth.
13 Humans need education like plants need cultivation to thrive successfully.
14 Born weak, we need strength; ignorant, we need wisdom's guidance.
15 Education stems from nature, people, and experiences shaping our learning.
16 Learning from nature, people, and things creates harmonious personal growth.
17 Nature's education is uncontrolled; people control experiences and societal interactions.
18 Education is complex art; success depends on coordinated societal efforts.
19 Education's goal aligns with nature's aims for human development.
20 Nature and habits influence education; circumstances shape inclinations and growth.
21 Born sensitive, we are affected by surrounding objects and experiences.
22 Education's conflict: raising a man or a citizen successfully.
23 Strong societies alienate others; be good to nearby people.
24 Natural man values self; civil man depends on societal relationships.
25 Spartan Pedaretes rejoiced at being rejected from the council.
26 Spartan mother valued victory over sons' lives; a true citizen.
27 Balancing nature's sentiments and societal duties creates contradictions.
28 To be oneself, act decisively and consistently with integrity.
29 Two opposing educations: public and common, individual and domestic.
30 Plato's Republic offers finest treatise on public education's nature.
31 Plato's institutions aim to purify, Lycurgus denatured man's heart.
32 Homeland and citizen are outdated concepts without public institutions.
33 Education's societal focus produces double-faced individuals lacking authenticity.
34 Contradictions arise from nature and society's divergent impulses.
35 Resolving education's contradictions removes obstacles to happiness.
36 Forming a rare man requires preventing harmful influences entirely.
37 Education for specific social positions limits individual adaptability significantly.
< a id="chapter38ten" href="#38" class="A-Numbered_2"> 38 Education should prepare for life's unpredictability, not specific roles.
39 True education combines nurture, discipline, and practical experience seamlessly.
40 Education should consider humanity's general conditions over specific situations.
41 Teach children to endure life; living means acting, not breathing.
42 Civil man lives and dies in perpetual bondage to society.
43 Midwives alter infants' heads; philosophers mold minds, unlike Caribs' practices.
44 Newborns are constrained by swaddling, limiting their movement and growth.
45 Babies need freedom to move; confinement hinders healthy development.
46 Swaddling restricts growth movements, exhausting babies' strength post-birth.
47 Constraining limbs hinders growth, circulation; causes deformity in children.
48 Constrained babies experience pain, anger, crying due to enforced immobility.
49 Mothers neglect nursing; mercenaries prioritize convenience over child's health.
50 Mothers abandon babies; nurses neglect infants' well-being for convenience.
51 Unswaddled infants avoid harmful movements; pain alerts them naturally.
52 Unswaddled kittens thrive; children too weak to harm themselves.
53 Women avoid motherhood burdens, leading to societal decline and depopulation.
54 Wives manipulate husbands against breastfeeding, prioritizing personal freedom.
55 Debating breastfeeding's merits, nurse's health can benefit a child.
56 Mother's care crucial; nurse's love for child often inadequate.
57 Mothers risk losing affection, control when outsourcing child care.
58 Dismissing nurses fosters ingratitude, children lose maternal affection.
59 Restoring motherhood strengthens families; absence disrupts natural family bonds.
60 Maternal care reforms families, tightens bonds, strengthens societal morality.
61 Women reject motherhood, society opposes those choosing parenting roles.
62 Courageous mothers gain affection, respect, health, and daughters' emulation.
63 Mother-child relationship is vital for nurturing early affection.
64 Overprotective mothers unintentionally harm children by preventing natural hardships.
65 Nature teaches children resilience through hardships, strengthening their development.
66 Risk teaches resilience; early exposure builds lifelong strength.
67 Children's future value justifies early hardships for later resilience.
68 Humans endure suffering; physical pain less cruel than emotional despair.
69 Infants learn dominance or servitude early; nurture nature, not vices.
70 Children's education should prioritize self-awareness and happiness over knowledge.
71 Parents should educate children, ensuring continuous nurturing from birth.
72 Family harmony requires parental involvement; absence fosters detachment and immorality.
73 Fathers owe society by nurturing children as responsible citizens.
74 Hiring caregivers cannot replace genuine parental involvement and responsibility.
75 Good tutors are priceless; parental guidance surpasses hired educators.
76 Tutors must be dedicated; mercenaries cannot nurture genuine development.
77 Well-educated tutors influence students; education must progress positively.
78 A father's influence often surpasses a tutor's impact on development.
79 Rejecting teaching offers wisely avoids failed education or rebellion.
80 Declined tutor roles; doubt personal abilities and circumstances fit.
81 Lacking practical skill, I attempt guidance through writing instead.
82 Authors theorize nicely; precepts often impractical without demonstrated application.
83 Imagining Emile's growth, author guides him from birth onward.
84 Principles stated; detailed rules applied to Emile for demonstration.
85 Initial simplicity grows into specialized regime; scholar's uniqueness emerges clearly.
86 Assumed ideal tutor qualities; generously credit myself while guiding Emile.
87 Tutors should be young, relatable, to nurture genuine child affection.
88 One tutor, one pupil; experience with multiple students unnecessary, undesirable.
89 Experience brings knowledge, but less capability for practical application effectively.
90 Tutor's lifelong guidance preferred; one pupil ensures focused, tailored education.
91 Tutor chooses ordinary pupil; effective education benefits majority, inspires others.
92 Education's impact varies by climate; temperate zones produce balanced individuals.
93 Temperate climate offers advantages; Frenchman adapts better than extremes allow.
94 Northern hardiness fosters industriousness; southern abundance encourages contemplation, inactivity.
95 Rich require natural education; poor's circumstances ensure practical life lessons.
96 Emile's background aids overcoming prejudice, encourages positive personal development.
97 Emile obeys me alone; parental duties assumed for comprehensive upbringing.
98 Tutor, student inseparable; fostering lifelong connection enhances learning experience.
99 Constant companionship ensures mutual affection, investment in shared development.
100 Tutor commitment requires child's normal birth, family equality in responsibility.
101 Undertaking non-natural duties requires ensuring means for their fulfillment.
102 Feeble child burdens society, doubly lost without effective contribution.
103 Strong body serves mind; weak bodies yield demanding sensual passions.
104 Medicine weakens soul; true strength, courage absent from treatment.
105 Medicine entertains idle, immortal people seeking life's fleeting pleasures.
106 Medicine misleads; weighing cure against harm reveals science's errors.
107 Medicine claims infallibility; provide art without flawed practitioners instead.
108 Medicine heightens fear, exhausts life, prioritizing precautions over duties.
109 True courage thrives without doctors, fearing unknown ailments or death.
110 Emile avoids doctors; my tutelage alone ensures comprehensive upbringing.
111 Doctor's timing misleading; intervention avoided unless absolutely necessary.
112 Learn enduring illness; impatience, medicine, anxiety harm health unnecessarily.
113 Hygiene trumps medicine; temperance, industry promote appetite, self-control effectively.
114 Regimen learned from healthy societies; medicine wastes time, resources ineffectively.
115 Strong, healthy pupil desired; manual labor, exercise strengthen body naturally.
116 Infant requires nurse; mother's duty ensures guidance and care.
117 Rich misjudge people; greed affects reliability when selecting nurse.
118 Nurse's milk changes with age; ensures suitable nourishment for infant.
119 Infant needs recent mother; difficulties arise straying from nature.
120 Nurse's character crucial; good constitution aids fostering infant's well-being.
121 Consistent guardianship crucial; foster-child needs singular role models.
122 Nurse's lifestyle change unnecessary; substantial food, comfort ensure health.
123 Vegetarian peasant diet benefits children more than meat-rich diet.
124 Milk, a vegetable substance, resists decay better than animal products.
125 Herbivorous milk, sweet and wholesome, supports stronger children's health.
126 Sour milk, unwholesome myth; curdling necessary for effective digestion.
127 Improve food quality, reform cooking; vegetarian diet supports nurse's health.
128 Fresh air essential; avoid confining child and nurse in town.
129 Overcrowded cities breed corruption; mankind thrives spread across fertile earth.
130 Cities deplete vitality; countryside rejuvenates children with natural surroundings.
131 Newborns bathed in warm water; wine addition deemed unnecessary.
132 Gradually introduce cold baths; newborns' constitutions strengthen with exposure.
133 Bathing strengthens muscles; accustoms body to temperature variations efficiently.
134 Avoid restrictive clothing; ensure newborns' freedom and gradual strengthening.
135 Nurses resist changes; emphasize hygiene to ensure child's proper care.
136 Tutor observes, follows nature; education begins with life for newborns.
137 Newborns lack awareness; early movements and cries are reflexive actions.
138 Child-man born mature lacks sensation, awareness, and bodily movement.
139 Full-grown newborn lacks balance, movement; remains stationary or crawls.
140 Mature newborn can't meet needs, experiences ignorance, helplessness, hunger.
141 Education's start is known, but potential is beyond measure. Hundred Icon
142 Learning begins at birth, as experiences build foundational knowledge. Hundred Icon
143 Animals also learn; living creatures constantly adapt through experience. Hundred Icon
144 Children's sensations develop habits; regulate exposure to prevent dependency. Hundred Icon
145 Allow only habit of none; encourage liberty and natural development. Hundred Icon
146 Carefully select child's experiences; exposure diminishes fear and ignorance. Hundred Icon
147 Gradual exposure to new experiences shapes courage and resilience early. Hundred Icon
148 Gradually introduce frightening objects to diminish fear in children. Hundred Icon
149 Address fears by demonstrating safe interactions with intimidating objects. Hundred Icon
150 Gradual exposure to loud noises familiarizes children with sounds. Hundred Icon
151 Reassure children; fear arises with awareness of potential danger. Hundred Icon
152 Sensory experiences build understanding; foster connections between senses and objects. Hundred Icon
153 Movement teaches children spatial awareness; adjust methods as awareness grows. Hundred Icon
154 Children cry to express needs; it's natural and necessary. Hundred Icon
155 Children's cries are their natural language; study their expressions. Hundred Icon
156 Facial expressions convey emotions; observe children’s gestures for communication. Hundred Icon
157 Crying expresses children's needs; it's their primary communication method. Hundred Icon
158 Tears forge initial connections in children's social development journey. Hundred Icon
159 Understanding children's needs through cries prevents harsh disciplinary measures. Hundred Icon
160 Punishment instills fear, anger; recognize justice's innate presence in children. Hundred Icon
161 Preventing children's fury and anger requires removing irritating influences. Hundred Icon
162 Children's tears evolve from requests to demands, reflecting dependence's impact. Hundred Icon
163 Understanding intentions helps manage children's developing sense of command. Hundred Icon
164 Weakness drives wickedness; strength fosters goodness and benevolence in children. Hundred Icon
165 Actions lack morality before reason develops; conscience grows with knowledge. Hundred Icon
166 Child's desire to act stems from weakness, seeking power. Hundred Icon
167 Children become demanding, imperious through learned behavior and external influences. Hundred Icon
168 Growth balances soul and body, reducing restlessness and external needs. Hundred Icon
169 Understanding principles helps us remain on nature's path. Hundred Icon
170 First Maxim: Children need full strength for natural development. Hundred Icon
171 Second Maxim: Assist children's needs without interfering with growth. Hundred Icon
172 Third Maxim: Limit assistance to genuine needs, avoid fostering whims. Hundred Icon
173 Fourth Maxim: Discern between natural desires and societal influences in children. Hundred Icon
174 Encourage self-sufficiency in children, limit reliance on others' assistance. Hundred Icon
175 Allow children's freedom of movement, protect from potential dangers. Hundred Icon
176 Children cry less when free, indicating needs through genuine cries. Hundred Icon
177 Address real needs promptly, avoid reinforcing crying for attention. Hundred Icon
178 Ignore prolonged crying due to habit, preventing learned behavior reinforcement. Hund

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179 Persistently ignoring unnecessary crying teaches children to self-regulate emotions. Hundred Icon
180 Distract children subtly, ensuring entertainment without obvious intervention. Hundred Icon
181 Avoid hard objects during teething; prefer soft, yielding materials instead. Hundred Icon
182 Simplicity over luxury in toys encourages children's natural development. Hundred Icon
183 Opt for foods encouraging chewing; avoid porridges for children's digestion. Hundred Icon
184 Wean children gradually using dried fruits and bread crusts. Hundred Icon
185 Early language development thrives on simple, repeated, meaningful communication. Hundred Icon
186 Despite speculation, children learn to speak naturally, unaided by philosophy. Hundred Icon
187 Children possess innate grammatical rules; over-correction impedes natural language development. Hundred Icon
188 Excessive urging to speak confuses children, hindering clear communication development. Hundred Icon
189 Peasant children speak clearly naturally, unlike town children’s unclear articulation. Hundred Icon
190 City children needn't raise voices; rural children learn projection naturally. Hundred Icon
191 In cities, proximity negates necessity for loud, clear children's speech. Hundred Icon
192 Rural upbringing avoids bad speech habits prevalent in town education. Hundred Icon
193 Peasants often speak loudly, clearly; their speech habits vary significantly. Hundred Icon
194 Emphasis enriches speech; it’s better than subtle, unclear communication. Hundred Icon
195 Early speech correction causes lasting issues; prioritize clear, confident communication. Hundred Icon
196 Country upbringing fosters clear speech; tutor’s example shapes articulation. Hundred Icon
197 Limit early vocabulary to prevent over-reliance on misunderstood, unnecessary words. Hundred Icon
198 Late speech development indicates hesitation, not necessarily poor pronunciation skills. Hundred Icon
199 Rushed speech hinders understanding; children should learn words through comprehension. Hundred Icon
200 Misunderstanding children's early words causes misconceptions affecting lifelong thoughts. Hundred Icon
201 Limited vocabulary fosters deep understanding, mirroring shrewdness of peasants. Hundred Icon
202 Infant's first life phase encompasses language, eating, walking developments. Hundred Icon
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203 Life's second stage begins when infancy ends, speech develops. Hundred Icon
204 Crying decreases as children learn language; indicates environmental issues. Hundred Icon
205 Ignoring cries teaches calm expression; children seek attention, alone. Hundred Icon
206 Calm adult reactions teach children endurance for minor injuries. Hundred Icon
207 Children learn resilience through minor injuries, avoid overprotection. Hundred Icon
208 Children learn walking naturally; teach essentials, avoid over-guidance. Hundred Icon
209 Emile will experience freedom, learning resilience through outdoor exploration. Hundred Icon
210 Second stage: independence begins, self-awareness and moral consideration arise. Hundred Icon
211 Life's uncertainty encourages joyful childhood, acknowledging potential brevity. Hundred Icon
212 Education's harshness sacrifices joy for uncertain future benefits. Hundred Icon
213 Humanity's duty: nurture childhood's fleeting pleasures and experiences. Hundred Icon
214 Prioritize present contentment alongside future goals, avoiding imbalanced focus. Hundred Icon
215 Early discipline should not inflict unnecessary hardship; seek balance. Hundred Icon
216 Childhood and adulthood are distinct, requiring appropriate nurturing methods. Hundred Icon
217 Happiness is minimizing pain; true contentment lacks constant joy. Hundred Icon
218 Desire's imbalance causes unhappiness; align desires with capabilities. Hundred Icon
219 Happiness arises from balanced desires and capabilities, achieving contentment. Hundred Icon
220 Nature balanced desires; imagination expands possibilities, fueling insatiable pursuit. Hundred Icon
221 Closer to nature, desires and faculties balance, happiness increases. Hundred Icon
222 Real world is limited, imaginary world is infinite, unhappiness results. Hundred Icon
223 Strength surpassing needs indicates strength; needs surpassing strength indicates weakness. Hundred Icon
224 Man has superfluous faculties; happiness comes from disregarding surplus. Hundred Icon
225 Immortality would bring misery; death offers relief from suffering. Hundred Icon
226 Moral ills are opinions; physical ills destroy or cure. Hundred Icon
227 Human institutions contradict; desire for preservation causes unnecessary struggle. Hundred Icon
228 Foresight causes unhappiness; focus on present, not future anxieties. Hundred Icon
229 Nature doesn't distance us from ourselves; happiness depends on perception. Hundred Icon
230 A lost letter shows happiness is perception; fear's worth questioned. Hundred Icon
231 Man's existence should remain within natural limits; resist external influences. Hundred Icon
232 True freedom means doing what you please within abilities. Hundred Icon
233 Society weakens man by making his strength insufficient for needs. Hundred Icon
234 Parental affection compensates weakness but can create excessive dependency. Hundred Icon
235 Keep children dependent but not suffering; guide without unnecessary commands. Hundred Icon
236 Children's freedom is limited by weakness; society creates dependency. Hundred Icon
237 Dependence on things is natural; dependence on men causes vice. Hundred Icon
238 Keep child's dependency on things; provide strength to ensure freedom. Hundred Icon
239 Children's movements arise from constitution needs; avoid supporting whims. Hundred Icon
240 Training should be limited to essential tasks, avoid excess due to parental whims. Hundred Icon
241 Avoid teaching children politeness that disguises commands as requests. Hundred Icon
242 Balance severity and indulgence to raise resilient, capable children. Hundred Icon
243 Children's freedom and hardships prepare them for future challenges. Hundred Icon
244 Happiness aligns with nature; minor hardships foster empathy, sociability. Hundred Icon
245 Giving children everything breeds dissatisfaction and unhappiness; limits are necessary. Hundred Icon
246 Children given everything believe universe is theirs, fostering ingratitude. Hundred Icon
247 Angry, spoiled children are miserable, with insatiable desires and unhappiness. Hundred Icon
248 Childhood expectations of control clash painfully with adult societal norms. Hundred Icon
249 Insolence, vanity bring humiliation; experience teaches limits and reality. Hundred Icon
250 Children inspire love and care, not authority and fear. Hundred Icon
251 Children need support, not command; their survival depends on help. Hundred Icon
252 Allow children freedom without haughtiness; natural method contrasts harsh parenting. Hundred Icon
253 Give children necessities, not desires; avoid early moral, social concepts. Hundred Icon
254 Reasoning with children is ineffective; focus on natural development instead. Hundred Icon
255 Moral lessons for children reduce to simplified, repetitive explanations. Hundred Icon
256 Master and child dialogue reveals children misunderstand right and wrong. Hundred Icon
257 Children understand little beyond circular dialogue; duty comprehension elusive. Hundred Icon
258 Nature requires children to be children before becoming adults. Hundred Icon
259 Teaching obedience through force creates deceit; understanding lacks true comprehension. Hundred Icon
260 Imposing duty breeds resistance, deceit ; reason adults, force children. Hundred Icon
261 Guide children using natural consequences, avoiding authoritative commands or prohibitions. Hundred Icon
262 Foster acceptance of life's necessities to nurture patient temperament. Hundred Icon
263 Avoid fostering envy and vanity; cultivate children's natural goodness instead. Hundred Icon
264 Raise children with well-regulated freedom using natural consequences effectively. Hundred Icon
265 Avoid punishment; let children learn from experiences and natural consequences. Hundred Icon
266 Allow children freedom to nurture responsibility, avoiding imposed constraints. Hundred Icon
267 Emphasize inherent goodness; avoid external validation, nurture intrinsic morality. Hundred Icon
268 Focus on guidance without punishment, nurturing understanding and responsibility. Hundred Icon
269 Create simple, durable environments fostering exploration without fear of reprimand. Hundred Icon
270 Avoid punishment for accidents; encourage natural learning without guilt. Hundred Icon
271 Allow natural growth before reasoning; avoid complex ideas prematurely. Hundred Icon
272 Early education shields children from vice; avoid teaching preconceived notions. Hundred Icon
273 Avoid rushing education; let children develop naturally and curiously. Hundred Icon
274 Understand child's nature before teaching; observe character for effective guidance. Hundred Icon
275 Balance societal interactions while nurturing inherent goodness in children. Hundred Icon
276 Education challenges are worthwhile; strive for ideal natural development. Hundred Icon
277 Embody values; create supportive environment for child's growth and learning. Hundred Icon
278 Raising Emile in countryside fosters genuine understanding of human nature. Hundred Icon
279 Villages enhance tutor's influence; fostering respect and beneficial behavior. Hundred Icon
280 Prioritize actions over words; model behavior fostering genuine understanding. Hundred Icon
281 Guide curious children to learn, avoiding argumentative authority challenges. Hundred Icon
282 Teachers should prioritize environment over lessons, fostering natural learning experiences. Hundred Icon
283 Teach children emotional signs as physical illnesses without mystery. Hundred Icon
284 Teach emotional regulation and responsibility, acknowledging composure and honesty. Hundred Icon
285 Avoid undermining children with laughter; maintain focus on learning. Hundred Icon
286 Teach general principles; tailor education to each child's temperament. Hundred Icon
287 Teach rights before duties; children understand justice through needs. Hundred Icon
288 Teach ownership through experience, emphasizing tangible, personal interactions. Hundred Icon
289 Teach property through labor, encouraging gardening for tangible understanding. Hundred Icon
290 Support children's gardening interests, teaching labor's value and ownership. Hundred Icon
291 Children learn ownership through labor, fostering responsibility and respect. Hundred Icon
292 Teach property value through empathy and understanding, not punishment. Hundred Icon
293 Teach empathy by highlighting consequences and promoting mutual respect. Hundred Icon
294 Encourage responsibility by making amends and respecting others' efforts. Hundred Icon
295 Teach property rights through labor, first occupancy; emphasize simplicity. Hundred Icon
296 Prioritize experiential learning; children remember actions over speeches. Hundred Icon
297 Adapt education to temperament, tailoring guidance to individual needs. Hundred Icon
298 Address destruction calmly; emphasize respect and consequences, encourage responsibility. Hundred Icon
299 Address vice with punishment, understanding; prepare for life's challenges. Hundred Icon
300 Punishment reflects actions' consequences; emphasize honesty and integrity. Hundred Icon
301 Understand lie types: past actions and future intentions. Educate. Hundred Icon
302 Children don't naturally lie; open environments encourage honesty. Foster. Hundred Icon
303 Children's promises lack significance; focus on present challenges instead. Hundred Icon
304 Teach children promise value; emphasize responsibility and integrity development. Hundred Icon
305 Educators foster honesty by prioritizing supportive environments over control. Hundred Icon
306 Emphasize honesty over cleverness; foster responsibility through natural consequences. Hundred Icon
307 Balance expectations; allow time for commitments fostering integrity and accountability. Hundred Icon
308 Model virtues, avoid imposition; encourage authentic understanding through observation. Hundred Icon
309 Encourage genuine generosity by sharing cherished possessions without expectations. Hundred Icon
310 Foster selfless generosity; avoid conditioning children to expect reciprocation. Hundred Icon
311 Model kindness; children learn charity through observing responsible adults. Hundred Icon
312 Encourage discreet giving; nurture genuine generosity without seeking recognition. Hundred Icon
313 Encourage imitation for habit formation; understanding virtues comes later. Hundred Icon
314 Emphasize avoiding harm; true virtue focuses on positive actions. Hundred Icon
315 Allow natural development; minimize exposure to adult vices and influences. Hundred Icon
316 Recognize prodigies carefully; avoid unrealistic expectations in typical behavior. Hundred Icon
317 Recognize children's misunderstood potential; provide guidance without adult interpretations. Hundred Icon
318 Balance guidance and freedom; encourage growth without overstimulation or pressure. Hundred Icon
319 Recognize potential in all children; provide guidance without judgment. Hundred Icon
320 Respect childhood development; encourage learning through play and exploration. Hundred Icon
321 Superficial learning misleads understanding; prioritize comprehension over memorization. Hundred Icon
322 Memory and reason differ; children's learning involves perception and judgment. Hundred Icon
323 Children remember sounds, not ideas; guide them toward understanding. Hundred Icon
324 Children focus on present; align education with developmental stage. Hundred Icon
325 Pedagogues prioritize superficial knowledge; emphasize meaningful, practical learning instead. Hundred Icon
326 Language learning unsuitable for young; prioritize native language comprehension first. Hundred Icon
327 Language influences thought; study impacts cognition and cultural understanding. Hundred Icon
328 Focus on one language; foster strong linguistic foundation first. Hundred Icon
329 Prioritize meaningful language learning; avoid superficial memorization without understanding. Hundred Icon
330 Prioritize understanding over memorization; emphasize practical applications in education. Hundred Icon
331 Engage multiple senses; holistic education fosters curiosity and growth. Hundred Icon
332 Teach history's complexity; emphasize moral implications and event interconnections. Hundred Icon
333 Prioritize truth and critical thinking; encourage independent intellectual growth. Hundred Icon
334 Emphasize understanding over recitation; foster deeper engagement and comprehension. Hundred Icon
335 Guide children toward deeper comprehension beyond surface-level understanding. Hundred Icon
336 Provide meaningful explanations; connect abstract concepts to children's experiences. Hundred Icon
337 Emphasize understanding values; guide students to explore meaningful principles. Hundred Icon
338 Prioritize understanding over memorization; foster critical thinking and judgment. Hundred Icon
339 Prioritize meaningful concepts; guide behavior and understanding for growth. Hundred Icon
340 Real-life experiences foster understanding; emphasize meaningful learning and growth . Hundred Icon
341 Fables mislead; teach straightforward truths for genuine learning comprehension. Hundred Icon
342 Fables confuse children; emphasize age-appropriate moral education instead. Hundred Icon
343 Simplify fables for children; prioritize clarity and developmental abilities. Hundred Icon
344 Select age-appropriate fables to enhance understanding and engagement. Hundred Icon
345 Guide children through language nuances; foster comprehension and appreciation. Hundred Icon
346 Use relatable examples; connect stories to children's understanding levels. Hundred Icon
347 Explain language differences in poetry; guide comprehension of fables. Hundred Icon
348 Provide context for fantastical elements; prevent misconceptions in children. Hundred Icon
349 Explain irony and titles; guide children's understanding of respect. Hundred Icon
350 Teach language understanding; highlight verbosity's role in fox's scheme. Hundred Icon
351 Explain complexities of honesty; guide comprehension of fox's statement. Hundred Icon
352 Guide comparisons of song and plumage; foster critical thinking. Hundred Icon
353 Explain mythology and figurative language; guide children's comprehension. Hundred Icon
354 Teach strong emotions and figurative language; foster comprehension skills. Hundred Icon
355 Guide understanding of crow's voice; emphasize fable's context. Hundred Icon
356 Explain vivid action depictions; guide comprehension of story elements. Hundred Icon
357 Guide understanding of values; challenge children's comprehension skills. Hundred Icon
358 Guide understanding of general maxims; foster comprehension and critical thinking. Hundred Icon
359 Explain flattery's impact; guide children's comprehension of story ideas. Hundred Icon
360 Guide understanding of comparisons; explain story's mockery and lesson. Hundred Icon
361 Teach language clarity; avoid redundancy for effective communication skills. Hundred Icon
362 Explain oaths carefully; guide children's understanding of language concepts. Hundred Icon
363 Simplify complex ideas for children; prioritize clarity and comprehension. Hundred Icon
364 Focus on age-appropriate lessons; avoid teaching manipulation, deceit. Hundred Icon
365 Children misinterpret fables; guide them to learn ethical lessons. Hundred Icon
366 Children identify with powerful characters; guide understanding of morals. Hundred Icon
367 Teach moral lessons; guide children through complex narrative interpretations. Hundred Icon
368 Guide children through complexities; teach moral understanding in stories. Hundred Icon
369 Question fable value; ensure children learn age-appropriate lessons. Hundred Icon
370 Make reading enjoyable; foster love for literature and learning. Hundred Icon
371 Encourage reading's relevance; make it enjoyable for children's learning. Hundred Icon
372 Foster intrinsic motivation; guide children to love reading naturally. Hundred Icon
373 Create interest-driven learning experiences; foster intrinsic motivation in reading. Hundred Icon
374 Make reading enjoyable and valuable; prioritize appreciation for learning. Hundred Icon
375 Let children learn naturally; foster critical thinking and exploration. Hundred Icon
376 Foster critical thinking; guide children to learn from experience. Hundred Icon
377 Balance strength, intelligence; cultivate wisdom and reasoning in children. Hundred Icon
378 Encourage independence; avoid micromanaging, foster self-guidance and learning. Hundred Icon
379 Balance physical and mental development; encourage holistic growth together. Hundred Icon
380 Encourage critical thinking; foster self-guidance and intellectual growth. Hundred Icon
381 Independent living develops reasoning, symbiosis of strength, intelligence. Hundred Icon
382 Reliance on tutors inhibits independent reasoning, practical application understanding. Hundred Icon
383 Practical experience fosters intelligence; laborer’s son adapts effectively. Hundred Icon
384 Experiential learning nurtures self-reliance, intellectual and physical growth. Hundred Icon
385 Education should balance discipline, freedom; nurture independence, resilience. Hundred Icon
386 Children manipulate educational dynamics; fostering curiosity develops genuine learning. Hundred Icon
387 Control environment; guide experiences, balance freedom with structured learning. Hundred Icon
388 Encourage physical activity, autonomy; fosters engagement and practical skills. Hundred Icon
389 Autonomy develops self-regulation, reasoning; enhances cognitive, physical growth. Hundred Icon
390 Honest expression fosters trust, authentic engagement, tailored educational experiences. Hundred Icon
391 Remove fault-finding incentives; fosters integrity, positive authority relationships. Hundred Icon
392 Innovative methods require understanding; align experiences with natural tendencies. Hundred Icon
393 Address learned whims; foster genuine curiosity, meaningful environmental engagement. Hundred Icon
394 Set boundaries calmly; fosters self-reflection, independence, critical thinking. Hundred Icon
395 Use non-confrontational methods; promote self-control, reflection, understanding. Hundred Icon
396 Address manipulation with discernment; fosters honesty, genuine development, trust. Hundred Icon
397 Consistent guidance fosters independence; underscores educator-parent collaboration importance. Hundred Icon
398 Balance empathy, discipline; addresses whims, fosters genuine growth, responsibility. Hundred Icon
399 Show actions’ consequences; encourages responsibility, decision-making, practical learning. Hundred Icon
400 Model behavior; fosters self-awareness, autonomy, mutual respect, understanding. Hundred Icon
401 Child explores alone, learning humility and reality's harshness. Hundred Icon
402 Outside alone, realizing vulnerability, importance of genuine self-worth. Hundred Icon
403 Child's friend ensures safety, teaching humility, respect for guidance. Hundred Icon
404 Father's words teach obedience, consequences of defying authority, isolation. Hundred Icon
405 Walk demonstrates humility's value, benefits of guidance, social dynamics. Hundred Icon
406 Child learns through experience, developing observation, reflection, decision-making skills. Hundred Icon
407 Physical exercise develops reasoning, understanding physical interactions, fosters adaptability. Hundred Icon
408 Child's exploration nurtures curiosity, skill development, lifelong learning foundation. Hundred Icon
409 Personal exploration forms intellectual reasoning foundation, develops independent thinking. Hundred Icon
410 Body, mind interdependent; physical health enhances cognitive development symbiotically. Hundred Icon
411 Experiential learning fosters self-reliance, critical thinking, independent navigation skills. Hundred Icon
412 True knowledge arises from acknowledging ignorance, fostering genuine learning. Hundred Icon
413 Ancient wisdom highlights exercise's role in resilience, mental acuity. Hundred Icon
414 Loose clothing supports natural growth, avoiding premature developmental constraints. Hundred Icon
415 Encourage authenticity, intrinsic values over materialism, fostering self-worth. Hundred Icon
416 Link discomfort to grandeur; prioritize authenticity, comfort, genuine happiness. Hundred Icon
417 Consistent clothing builds resilience, health, adaptability against elements. Hundred Icon
418 Resilience through exposure; fosters adaptability, strong constitution against elements. Hundred Icon
419 Balance exposure strengthens resilience, fostering health and adaptability. Hundred Icon
420 Embrace moderation, consistency for holistic development, resilience, adaptability. Hundred Icon
421 Trust body's instincts; overcomplicating needs endangers health and balance. Hundred Icon
422 Encourage natural responses, building resilience and understanding body’s needs. Hundred Icon
423 Balance natural rhythms with demands for resilience and self-regulation. Hundred Icon
424 Simplicity teaches resilience, adaptability, equipping children for life's challenges. Hundred Icon
425 Balance comfort, cultivating resilience, robustness, reducing health vulnerabilities. Hundred Icon
426 Self-sufficiency in comfort fosters independence, appreciation for simple comforts. Hundred Icon
427 Guide rest gently, fostering balance, respecting child's natural rhythms. Hundred Icon
428 Encourage adaptability, resilience, fostering independent response to life's unpredictability. Hundred Icon
429 Teach self-regulation, time management, associating consequences with actions. Hundred Icon
430 Encourage curiosity, fostering engagement, resilience, personal growth, self-motivation. Hundred Icon
431 Foster resilience, growth mindset, nurturing critical thinking and perseverance. Hundred Icon
432 Embrace life's realities, fostering resilience, courage, balanced perspective. Hundred Icon
433 Balance medical intervention, natural exposure for informed health decisions. Hundred Icon
434 Trust nature, fostering resilience, harmony, promoting holistic health. Hundred Icon
435 Balance medical advances, natural processes for nuanced health management. Hundred Icon
436 Emphasize practical skills, resilience, fostering versatile, adaptable individuals. Hundred Icon
437 Balance safety, risk, fostering resilience, confidence, personal growth. Hundred Icon
438 Nurture sensory awareness for holistic growth, fostering exploration, curiosity. Hundred Icon
439 Cultivate sensory perception, enhancing decision-making, critical thinking, adaptability. Hundred Icon
440 Integrate sensory education, physical activity for balanced development. Hundred Icon
441 Experience aids critical thinking and skill development for challenges.
442 Train to navigate in darkness using touch, fostering resilience.
443 Engaging senses without sight sharpens perception, fosters adaptability.
444 Fear stems from ignorance; understanding fosters courage and resilience.
445 Imagination overpowers reason, illustrating need for rational thinking.
446 Regular exposure reduces fear, fostering courage and adaptability.
447 Darkness games transform fear into fun, building adaptability.
448 Aging evokes childhood joy, enriching understanding and connection.
449 Self-challenge and resilience empower confrontation of fears.
450 Fear's power over reason, yet resilience confronts it.
451 Facing fears fosters confidence, transforming challenges into opportunities.
452 Laughter reassures fear; camaraderie builds resilience and confidence.
453 Playful challenges enhance problem-solving, adaptability, and creativity.
454 Engaging challenges foster creativity, resilience, and joy.
455 Education breeds resilience, turning fear into familiarity.
456 Proactive self-defense transforms fear into courage and resilience.
457 Honing touch enhances perception, adaptability, and critical thinking.
458 Sensory exploration fosters adaptability and communication, transforming challenges.
459 Varied experiences enhance adaptability, perception, and understanding.
460 Diverse experiences build resilience, adaptability, and personal growth.
461 Balance resilience and sensitivity for effective skin interaction and protection.
462 Natural resilience enhances adaptability, fostering preparedness for diverse environments.
463 Barefoot exercises teach agility and balance, preparing for challenges.
464 Sight misleads due to perspective illusions; it requires correction.
465 Size and distance estimates rely on sight's inherent inaccuracies.
466 Reinforce sight with touch to improve spatial understanding accuracy.
467 Encourage exploration to enhance spatial awareness and problem-solving skills.
468 Inspire self-directed learning by modeling behavior, fostering intrinsic motivation.
469 Use playful competition to spark engagement and learning interest.
470 Transform activities into engaging experiences to nurture curiosity and resilience.
471 Ensured fairness by starting competitors equidistant from goal, promoting sportsmanship.
472 Young lord practiced running, fostering resilience and self-directed growth.
473 Victory taught generosity, linking achievement with kindness and social harmony.
474 Young lord learned visual judgment by choosing shorter, smoother paths.
475 Experience develops spatial awareness, enhancing confidence and judgment accuracy.
476 Encouraging drawing nurtures creativity, improving observation and understanding shapes.
477 Prioritizing knowledge over replication fosters creativity and critical thinking.
478 Shared learning experiences foster collaboration, enhancing skills and confidence.
479 Displaying student work inspires pride, responsibility, and continued exploration.
480 Encouraging visual learning enhances understanding of geometry's concepts.
481 Relying on memory without reasoning skills leads to superficial learning.
482 Discover geometry through observation, fostering critical thinking and curiosity.
483 Measure angles with circles, emphasizing understanding and exploration over assumptions.
484 Observing angles develops critical thinking, enhancing adaptability and understanding.
485 Emphasizing precision in shapes fosters observation, critical thinking, adaptability.
486 Differentiate geometry from drawing, emphasizing tools like compass, rule.
487 Choosing isoperimetric cakes teaches geometry, nurturing curiosity and understanding.
488 Skill-based games like tennis foster accuracy, strength, and resilience.
489 Exercise children's limbs for skill, fostering adaptability and resilience.
490 Skilled children show nimbleness, fostering confidence and cognitive development.
491 Children's game skills develop with practice, not innate ability.
492 Balance mental and physical growth through spontaneous, enriching play.
493 Sight, touch, hearing inform world; encourage children to explore.
494 Sight versus hearing teaches children senses’ roles in perception.
495 Hearing uses passive listening, active vocalization; enriches sensory development.
496 Humans have three voices; integrate them gradually for expression.
497 Teach clear speech, pronunciation; avoid unnecessary embellishments in communication.
498 Develop smooth voices with simple songs, avoiding complex music.
499 Delay reading music; focus on experiential learning and expression.
500 Learn music through hearing; emphasize simple melodies and phrasing.
501 Solfeggio differentiates notes; French music complicates teaching unnecessarily. fifty
502 Adopt simple music teaching for comprehension and enjoyable learning. fifty
503 Recognize beneficial foods supporting health, aligning with unique needs. fifty
504 Nature uses pleasure for nourishment; appetites guide healthy consumption. fifty
505 Habits reshape nature, masking innate tendencies, encouraging mindful decisions. fifty
506 Simpler tastes foster openness and adaptability, enriching personal growth. fifty
507 Taste adapts early; simple flavors encourage appreciation for balance. fifty
508 Children require simplicity; ensure adaptability and resilience through flexibility. fifty
509 Taste influences judgment, shaping well-being through informed dietary choices. fifty
510 Taste lacks morality; encourage mindful exploration, preventing fixation on taste. fifty
511 Fear children's greed unfounded; interests shift beyond food with maturity. fifty
512 Tempt with simple food; balance hunger and choice for well-being. fifty
513 Children prefer plants; vegetarian diets promote health and kindness. fifty
514 Plutarch questioned meat consumption; challenge norms, fostering compassion through choices. fifty
515 Eating animals contradicts empathy; embrace compassion and ethical awareness. fifty
516 Appreciate nature's gifts; embrace gratitude, fostering empathy and sustainability. fifty
517 Early cannibalism for survival; modern abundance fosters compassion. fifty
518 Nature compels empathy; humans consume creatures. Choose compassion and awareness. fifty
519 Despite irrelevance, passage offers profound insight on empathy. fifty
520 Provide simple foods, encourage play; foster balance and growth. fifty
521 Games distract children, managing focus and appetite effectively and enjoyably. fifty
522 Smell signals taste; savages and civilized people perceive differently. fifty
523 Physical needs overshadow sensory pleasures, influencing lifestyle perspectives. fifty
524 Smell affects imagination and emotions, illustrating powerful sensory connections. fifty
525 Children's undeveloped imaginations dull smell's emotional impact compared to adults. fifty
526 Smell and taste connect; avoid masking tastes with aromas. fifty
527 Common sense, a "sixth sense," arises from using five senses. fifty
528 Every life stage has unique perfection and maturity, including childhood. fifty
529 Imagination enhances reality, influencing pleasure and emotional resonance. fifty
530 Imagination shapes experiences, blending reality with desired outcomes. fifty
531 Life's fleeting nature encourages present appreciation and memory creation. fifty
532 Imagining children's potential highlights joy and optimism for future. fifty
533 Premature responsibilities highlight tension between childhood freedom and expectations. fifty
534 Friendship and shared experiences enrich lives, offering support and happiness. fifty
535 Confidence and humility foster resilience, balancing poise and demeanor. fifty
536 Balance in social settings fosters meaningful exchanges and connection. fifty
537 Authenticity in communication encourages trust, fostering genuine connections. fifty
538 Experiential learning fosters understanding and effective action through balance. 

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539 Embrace authenticity and individuality, fostering creativity and self-discovery. fifty
540 Balance autonomy and responsibility, fostering societal understanding and respect. fifty
541 He trusts humanity, seeking help without command or complaint. fifty
542 Acts thoughtfully and purposefully, knowing limits, prepared for anything. fifty
543 Engages equally in work and play, fostering lifelong creativity. fifty
544 Leads peers with talent and experience, demonstrating innate influence. fifty
545 His childhood was joyful, balancing happiness with knowledge pursuit. fifty
546 True understanding requires recognizing depth beyond superficial accomplishments. fifty
547 Quality interactions encourage open dialogue and genuine understanding, fostering growth. fifty
548 Practical learning and intuition showcase children's real-world knowledge application. fifty
549 Nurturing innate abilities encourages critical thinking and problem-solving. fifty
550 Early guidance impacts development, emphasizing independence and self-reliance. fifty
551 Critical thinking and individuality promote innovation and progress. fifty
552 Understanding power dynamics reveals hidden forces shaping nations' destinies. fifty
553 Balancing personal interests with common good fosters harmonious society. fifty
554 Balance desires and needs, fostering responsibility and discernment in children. fifty
555 Clear communication and rationale encourage empathy and cooperation in children. fifty
556 Boundaries and respect promote empathy and self-control in children. fifty
557 Teaching value of giving nurtures empathy and community spirit. fifty
558 Integrity and trust are foundations for ethical behavior and cohesion. fifty
559 Self-perception versus reality highlights importance of honesty and self-awareness. fifty
560 Create safe environments for honesty, promoting integrity and responsibility. fifty
   
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561 The earth and sun shape our understanding of nature. fifty
562 Exploring the globe expands our intellectual and observational capacities. fifty
563 Experiential learning fosters critical thinking and independent reasoning skills. fifty
564 Encourage curiosity by allowing children to solve questions independently. fifty
565 Hands-on geography learning fosters curiosity and meaningful exploration. fifty
566 Observe sunrise to instill appreciation for nature's rhythms. fifty
567 True understanding requires experience and ability to perceive connections. fifty
568 Use simple communication, saving complex emotions for future learning. fifty
569 Foster curiosity and independence through observation and timely guidance. fifty
570 Encourage independent thinking by fostering curiosity and problem-solving skills. fifty
571 Teach cosmography through observation, fostering curiosity and critical thinking. fifty
572 Progress gradually from one idea to another, fostering comprehension. fifty
573 Explore celestial movements using practical examples and hands-on learning. fifty
574 Direct observation of nature fosters understanding of celestial movements. fifty
575 Prioritize real-world experiences to foster deeper conceptual understanding. fifty
576 Complex symbols overwhelm children; emphasize direct engagement and exploration. fifty
577 Empathy and understanding enhance connections with children's learning processes. fifty
578 Combine analytic and synthetic methods for enhanced understanding and discovery. fifty
579 Begin geography with landmarks, expanding understanding through exploration. fifty
580 Encourage independent learning and discovery for critical thinking skills. fifty
581 Instill clear ideas; focus on truth and critical thinking. fifty
582 Nurture curiosity over memorization; inspire lifelong exploration and growth. fifty
583 Cultivate focus through interest, not coercion; respect natural curiosity. fifty
584 Nurture curiosity by encouraging inquiry; prioritize meaningful understanding over superficiality. fifty
585 Curiosity-driven learning fosters exploration, engagement, and intellectual growth. fifty
586 Prioritize comprehensive understanding over brevity, ensuring clarity and depth. fifty
587 Exploration fosters curiosity and discovery; embrace open-minded learning experiences. fifty
588 Hands-on exploration nurtures creativity, curiosity, and problem-solving skills. fifty
589 Reflect on success; value humility, restraint, and emotional intelligence. fifty
590 Embrace humility and resilience amid setbacks; foster emotional growth. fifty
591 Failure teaches humility and resilience; foster reflection and growth. fifty
592 Magician outshines child; embrace humility, resilience, and self-awareness. fifty
593 Respect others' skills; value humility, empathy, and collaboration. fifty
594 Appreciate expertise and limitations; foster empathy, respect, and understanding. fifty
595 Generosity transcends professions; appreciate diverse talents and humility. fifty
596 Mentorship fosters growth; prioritize responsibility, collaboration, and adaptability. fifty
597 Adapt mentorship approach; embrace change, growth, and open communication. fifty
598 Observe magician with respect; value humility and discretion. fifty
599 Use shame and reflection to foster humility and growth. fifty
600 Hands-on exploration fosters curiosity, critical thinking, and discovery. fifty
601 Focus on natural phenomena; encourage hands-on learning and exploration. fifty
602 Invent machines; focus on concepts, creativity, and critical thinking. fifty
603 Active exploration fosters creativity, resilience, and deeper knowledge connection. fifty
604 Prioritize sensory development; emphasize hands-on learning and adaptability. fifty
605 Blend art and nature; nurture creativity and practical learning. fifty
606 Organize information; foster critical thinking and structured exploration. fifty
607 Start with common phenomena; encourage curiosity and critical thinking. fifty
608 Foster critical thinking; encourage questioning assumptions and deeper understanding. fifty
609 Balance work and relaxation; foster adaptability and foresight. fifty
610 Understand happiness's nature; focus on tangible experiences and fulfillment. fifty
611 Focus on practical understanding; avoid abstract moral concepts initially. fifty
612 Encourage self-reliance; foster critical thinking and informed decisions. fifty
613 Focus on age-appropriate knowledge; encourage exploration and understanding. fifty
614 Ensure usefulness relates to age; foster self-awareness and understanding. fifty
615 Encourage thoughtful questioning; promote critical thinking and self-awareness. fifty
616 Leverage experience; encourage open dialogue and mutual understanding. fifty
617 Avoid misaligned answers; foster trust and open communication. fifty
618 Facilitate discovery; encourage curiosity, critical thinking, and exploration. fifty
619 Emphasize understanding; foster curiosity and meaningful exploration opportunities. fifty
620 Emphasize experiential learning; avoid reliance on verbal explanations alone. fifty
621 Focus on actions, not speeches, for effective education. fifty
622 Prioritize clarity and simplicity, fostering genuine engagement and learning. fifty
623 Encourage critical thinking by prioritizing meaningful tasks and adaptability. fifty
624 Valuing exploration helps navigate challenges and promotes personal growth. fifty
625 Encourage critical thinking, resilience, and personal growth through challenges. fifty
626 Practical lessons empower individuals to apply knowledge effectively. fifty
627 Experiential learning fosters critical thinking and lifelong curiosity. fifty
628 Avoid misunderstood concepts; adapt lessons to students' capacities. fifty
629 Connect lessons to practical applications, fostering curiosity and growth. fifty
630 Demonstrations enhance critical thinking and foster experiential learning. fifty
631 Authenticity and critical thinking combat deception and promote resilience. fifty
632 Discernment in identifying deception is crucial for effective learning. fifty
633 Critical thinking ensures safety by identifying harmful practices. fifty
634 Understanding substances' properties fosters adaptability and personal growth. fifty
635 Chemical reactions emphasize understanding and adaptability in learning. fifty
636 Chemical interactions underscore critical thinking and practical understanding. fifty
637 Understanding chemical reactions fosters resilience and critical thinking. fifty
638 Lead detection in wine emphasizes chemical interactions and discernment. fifty
639 Clear wine indicates understanding of chemical interactions and adaptability. fifty
640 Hands-on learning emphasizes critical thinking and personal growth. fifty
641 Chemistry reveals truth about substances, fostering critical thinking and discernment. fifty
642 Children need relatable context for understanding, beyond logic's persuasion. fifty
643 Passion drives action; engage children with relatable experiences for learning. fifty
644 Encourage self-improvement, not competition, for intrinsic motivation and growth. fifty
645 Minds are best for knowledge; engage children with relatable narratives. fifty
646 "Robinson Crusoe" combines education and imagination, fostering curiosity and discovery. fifty
647 "Robinson Crusoe" teaches judgment, distinguishing real from imagined needs. fifty
648 Emile analyzes Robinson's actions, fostering critical thinking and adaptability. fifty
649 Child's fascination with building fosters curiosity, adaptability, and growth. fifty
650 Collaboration highlights interdependence, fostering adaptability and personal growth. fifty
651 Teach industry and arts through hands-on learning and engagement. fifty
652 Influential arts reflect societal values, emphasizing resilience and growth. fifty
653 Prioritize meaningful learning experiences over societal status-driven pursuits. fifty
654 Practical skills valued over luxury; discernment fosters adaptability and growth. fifty
655 Teach appreciation and discernment; distinguish wisdom from societal folly. fifty
656 Avoid societal biases; value appreciation and discernment in learning. fifty
657 Focus on self-awareness and simplicity; use necessity to guide. fifty
658 Value utility and practicality; honor artisans for their contributions. fifty
659 Arts valued by necessity; foster critical thinking and adaptability. fifty
660 Emphasize self-reliance; agriculture teaches interdependence and adaptability. fifty
661 Foster curiosity and self-sufficiency through personal experience and questioning. fifty
662 Avoid assuming child's interests mirror teacher's enthusiasm; ensure engagement. fifty
663 Use trade examples to expand understanding of societal dynamics. fifty
664 Society relies on exchange; understand measurement and equality principles. fifty
665 Political knowledge should focus on property rights and clarity. fifty
666 Conventional equality led to money's invention as value comparison. fifty
667 Metal coins avoid weighing; stamps denote weight and authenticity. fifty
668 Money simplifies exchanges by offering a common value measure. fifty
669 Understand money's use before addressing moral effects or abuses. fifty
670 Guide curiosity towards valuable concepts without overwhelming details. fifty
671 Opulent dining prompts reflection on resources and societal effort. fifty
672 Compare simple meals and feasts to foster critical thinking. fifty
673 Question pleasure and satisfaction from simple versus grand meals. fifty
674 Speak simply, highlighting nature and freedom for true enjoyment. fifty
675 Tailor examples to child's genius, fostering talents and growth. fifty
676 Structured knowledge reveals interconnectedness, promoting wise judgment over expertise. fifty
677 Align learning with individual abilities and growth for genuine development. fifty
678 After exploring externally, return to introspection and potential threats. fifty
679 Utilize surroundings for comfort and reveal exchange necessity. fifty
680 Self-sufficiency fails; society's interconnectedness requires cooperation for survival. fifty
681 Children learn social relations early, valuing cooperation and interdependence. fifty
682 Society should allow goodness without struggle, preserving humanity and dignity. fifty
683 Education should emphasize adaptability over status to prevent discontent. fifty
684 Societal order changes, emphasizing nature's enduring characteristics and adaptability. fifty
685 Contributions reflect personal effort, fostering duty, purpose, and community. fifty
686 Manual labor offers independence; trades foster adaptability and self-sufficiency. fifty
687 Trades ensure lasting respect, emphasizing practical skills and independence. fifty
688 Embrace artisan work for independence, challenging societal norms fosters resilience. fifty
689 Practical skills gain independence, fostering resilience and intellectual exploration. fifty
690 Practical trades offer independence, emphasizing adaptability and self-sufficiency. fifty
691 Trades foster independence, freeing individuals from societal constraints and dependency. fifty
692 Trades offer independence, fostering adaptability and self-sufficiency through skills. fifty
693 Trades shape character, building resilience and adaptability through skills. fifty
694 Contributing as artisans emphasizes practical skills, fostering resilience and adaptability. fifty
695 Trades hold worth through real utility, fostering skills and independence. fifty
696 Observe child's interests, fostering genuine talent through practical skills. fifty
697 Footman's perseverance exemplifies determination, fostering skills and independence. fifty
698 Versatility across trades fosters adaptability, developing manual skills effectively. fifty
699 Choose invigorating trades, fostering strength and adaptability for youth. fifty
700 Encourage challenging trades, fostering strength and courage, avoiding unhealthy ones. fifty
701 Italy's gender roles show value of practical, hands-on learning. fifty
702 Young men should master tools, fostering strength and skill collaboratively. fifty
703 Promoting trades challenges societal views, encouraging intellectual and personal growth. fifty
704 Carpentry combines cleanliness, utility, and creativity, supporting personal growth. fifty
705 Align trades with interests to foster personal growth and innovation. fifty
706 Learn trades alongside others, fostering understanding and character development. fifty
707 Balancing carpentry and personal development fosters skill and character. fifty
708 Simplicity avoids vanity; focus on meaningful work for authenticity. fifty
709 Encourage humility by valuing work's quality over creator's recognition. fifty
710 Question appearances and superficial knowledge, emphasizing genuine understanding and growth. fifty
711 Avoid superficial trades; focus on skill mastery for resilience. fifty
712 Balance physical and mental exercise, fostering holistic development and resilience. fifty
713 Avoid premature teachings; foster critical thinking and societal contribution. fifty
714 Holistic development fosters self-awareness, critical thinking, and empathy. fifty
715 Cognitive development progresses from sensation to judgment and ideas. fifty
716 Accurate judgment and perception foster resilience and adaptability. fifty
717 Judgment evolves from passive sensation to active perception engagement. fifty
718 Critical thinking refines judgments, avoiding errors in sensory interpretation. fifty
719 Experience shapes accurate perceptions and critical thinking, preventing mistakes. fifty
720 Experience corrects judgment errors, fostering accurate perceptions and understanding. fifty
721 Stick in water appears broken, illustrating sensory perception limits. fifty
722 Errors arise from judgment, making ignorance preferable over misleading knowledge. fifty
723 Greater knowledge increases mistakes; indifference and wisdom prevent errors. fifty
724 Curiosity stems from dependence; philosophers are curious, savages self-reliant. fifty
725 Needs determine nature's choices; Emile must learn societal survival. fifty
726 Emile must judge well to navigate complex social dynamics. fifty
727 Self-verifying ideas foster reliable judgment, characterizing mature understanding. fifty
728 Patience fosters understanding; guided exploration teaches truth and problem-solving. fifty
729 Emile avoids conclusions without evidence, emphasizing cautious judgment approach. fifty
730 Emile values examination, accepting uncertainty, emphasizing inquiry over correctness. fifty
731 Observing stick in water reveals refraction, clarifying sensory errors. fifty
732 Use touch alongside sight for comprehensive understanding and validation. fifty
733 Judgment and reasoning interlinked, evolving perception into cognitive processing. fifty
734 Emile's learning emphasizes invention over knowledge acquisition and rote understanding. fifty
735 Challenge perceptions to foster critical thinking and reasoned analysis. fifty
736 Teach gradual understanding, valuing journey over rapid knowledge acquisition. fifty
737 Emile's reasoning is personal, building mental strength and understanding. fifty
738 Emile's slow progress ensures deep understanding and independent truth-seeking. fifty
739 Emile's knowledge is pragmatic, emphasizing tangible relations over abstractions. fifty
740 Emile's resilience exemplifies acceptance, living freely, facing mortality calmly. fifty
 
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743 Life is short and full of constraints and sufferings.
744 Human development parallels between sexes until puberty changes everything.
745 Childhood ends; adulthood's arrival marks lasting impacts on life.
746 Adolescence is turbulent; passions arise, challenging authority and control.
747 Physical and emotional changes signify maturation and self-awareness awakening.
748 Adulthood begins; true life and education gain new significance.
749 Passions, natural and necessary, guide self-preservation and personal fulfillment.
750 Preventing or eliminating passions misunderstands their necessity for humans.
751 Not all passions are natural; many derive from experience.
752 Amour de soi, fundamental passion, evolves into diverse human emotions.
753 Self-love is essential for self-preservation and personal well-being.
754 Love originates from instinct and evolves with perception and intent.
755 Children's affection grows from dependency to conscious understanding and love.
756 Amour de soi fosters benevolence; amour-propre causes comparison and conflict.
757 Life involves studying relationships between self, things, and others.
758 Companionship sparks relational affections and new personal connections arise.
759 True love requires reason, judgment, and discernment for genuine connections.
760 Reciprocal love fuels preferences, creating rivalry and social dynamics.
761 Amour-propre grows through pride, vanity, and neighborly comparisons.
762 Puberty varies with temperament and education, not just climate.
763 Premature education harms youth, causing weakness and early aging.
764 Simple communities preserve innocence, strengthening bonds and healthy offspring.
765 Delayed maturation strengthens youth, both physically and mentally.
766 Avoid unnecessary curiosity by not creating opportunities or deceiving.
767 Truthful, concise answers teach children the importance of honesty.
768 Ignorance of certain matters benefits children; curiosity must satisfy.
769 Use simplicity in language; avoid lascivious ideas and expressions.
770 Modesty arises from understanding evil, not natural to children.
771 Children's desires differ; nature teaches cleanliness and modesty appropriately.
772 Preserve innocence by respecting simplicity, avoiding misleading gestures.
773 Answer children's questions truthfully, avoiding mystery to prevent curiosity.
774 A mother wisely answers child's question, preserving innocence effectively.
775 Simple answers deflect curiosity, guiding imagination towards safe understanding.
776 Reading influences children; societal influences challenge their moral development.
777 Children's ignorance preserves innocence; nature educates when appropriate.
778 Control passions by delaying their emergence; nature guides emotional balance.
779 Wisdom balances passions through understanding human relationships and affections.
780 Direct imagination wisely; circumstances shape a child's natural development.
781 Morality begins when consciousness extends beyond self, forming ideas.
782 Observations must follow natural order, ignoring flawed human examples.
783 Sophisticated children prematurely accelerate desires, knowing desires without experiencing.
784 Nature gradually develops desires, forming attachments and human affections.
785 Friendship precedes love, enabling the sowing of humanity's seeds.
786 Youthful innocence fosters compassion, generosity; corruption breeds cruelty, impatience.
787 Weakness fosters sociability; attachment arises from shared human suffering.
788 Shared miseries unite us; happiness inspires envy, not love.
789 Nurture sensibility by avoiding pride and exposing human suffering.
790 Study universal human suffering, not superficial societal distinctions.
791 Adolescents understand suffering, inspiring tenderness towards fellow humans.
792 Children learn insincerity through early emotional teachings and expectations.
793 Emile's ignorance preserves sensitivity; imagination stirs compassionate sentiments.
794 Pity arises when identifying with others' suffering and pain.
795 Encourage compassion, kindness; avoid envy, hatred, and cruelty's growth.
796 Empathy aligns with suffering, not envying those more fortunate.
797 Affection arises from shared suffering, not envying others' prosperity.
798 Simple lives inspire happiness without envy; peaceful alternatives satisfy.
799 Highlight suffering over success; avoid envying others' accomplishments.
800 Virgil's lines beautifully capture empathy and compassion's essence.
801 Kings lack pity due to fearlessness of losing power.
802 Teach empathy by recognizing potential shared fates and vulnerabilities.
803 We pity those who remember and anticipate pain the most.
804 All humans share passions, sentiments; civil distinctions are superficial.
805 Happiness varies; the rich suffer internally while poor externally.
806 Develop empathy without comparisons or vanity to avoid hatred.
807 Observe adolescents' genuine emotions; guide them to moral understanding.
808 Physical suffering is universally affecting; death evokes profound fear.
809 Impressions differ by character; some unaffected by others' suffering.
810 Youth ignorance transforms into empathy through life experiences.
811 I promised happiness, not illusions; reality teaches genuine emotions.
812 Worldly pleasures provide temporary happiness, causing deeper internal dissatisfaction.
813 Comparisons create vanity, dissatisfaction, leading to internal conflict.
814 Preemptive desires prevent genuine attachment, leading to discontentment.
815 Worldly experiences lead to disillusionment, revealing life's harsh realities.
816 Transitioning from family to society highlights self-importance and desires.
817 My pupil finds joy in empathy, escaping self-centered suffering.
818 True happiness is quiet; outward cheerfulness often masks unhappiness.
819 Simple, consistent pleasures foster contentment, avoiding curiosity's restlessness.
820 Worldly people live behind masks, disconnected from true selves.
821 Emotions shape facial expressions, revealing character and understanding others.
822 Emotions deepen with maturity, reflecting on faces and character.
823 Genuine affection and happiness arise from caring for others.
824 Expose youth to restraints, avoiding premature pleasures in cities.
825 Use impactful experiences to deter vices and teach morality.
826 Memorable encounters guide discipline, teaching morality beyond discourse.
827 Delay maturity; pure morals foster courage and noble virtues.
828 Channel adolescence's energy constructively, fostering cooperation and understanding.
829 Genuine guidance addresses behavior, fostering growth without fostering vices.
830 Adolescence's energy guides connections, fostering societal understanding and compassion.
831 Foster genuine connections and gratitude through natural care and appreciation.
832 True generosity fosters gratitude, transcending self-interest and transactional relationships.
833 Genuine benefactors inspire gratitude, fostering mutual appreciation and reciprocity.
834 Gratitude arises from genuine concern, forming lasting respectful bonds.
835 Conscience connects emotions, guiding moral development beyond abstract thought.
836 Comparison shapes desires, guiding character towards humane, benevolent outcomes.
837 Guide understanding through inequalities, revealing social structure and insight.
838 Study society through men; initial relations shape passions' dynamics.
839 Nature's equality prevents dependence; civil equality often deceives, oppresses.
840 Depict genuine humanity for empathy, fostering compassion beyond appearances.
841 Youth observes deceit, learning empathy through detached observation's wisdom.
842 Teach youth societal corruption; respect individuals and inherent goodness.
843 Early vice exposure risks cynicism; balance learning and empathy.
844 Encourage experiential learning over abstract principles for authentic development.
845 History reveals human nature impartially, fostering empathy and understanding.
846 History emphasizes actions, revealing character and fostering critical thinking.
847 History's negativity skews perception, overlooking peaceful human advancement.
848 Historians' biases distort reality; critical thinking reveals underlying truths.
849 Novels and histories blur; discern fact from interpretation critically.
850 True portrayals matter; encourage personalized learning over historical narratives.
851 Present facts, encourage youth's judgment for independent thinking development.
852 Start with simple history texts; emphasize specifics over generalizations.
853 Thucydides' factual reporting fosters independent analysis and understanding.
854 History often overlooks gradual developments, focusing on significant events.
855 Prioritize truth over systems; foster independent, critical historical understanding.
856 History captures public personas; examine private aspects for understanding.
857 Biographies offer intimate insights into humanity, fostering empathy and understanding.
858 Study individuals and groups for comprehensive societal understanding dynamics.
859 Ancient details offer insights; modern portrayals limit authentic understanding.
860 Plutarch captures subtle traits, fostering deep understanding of character.
861 Turenne's anecdotes reveal character depth, enriching historical personalities' portrayals.
862 Turenne's humility highlights humanity's value over societal prejudices, encouraging empathy.
863 Thoughtful reading nurtures critical thinking, fostering empathy and understanding.
864 Prudent reading guides Emile's critical thinking and independent judgment.
865 True happiness lies within, not in external worldly success.
866 Augustus's story illustrates worldly success's limitations without inner peace.
867 History teaches Emile human passions, fostering wisdom and resilience.
868 Emile values individuality, fostering confidence, self-acceptance, and personal growth.
869 Emile transcends philosophical biases, fostering empathy and critical thinking.
870 Understanding hidden struggles fosters empathy, compassion, and reduces judgment.
871 Desire conflicts with society's expectations; fosters self-awareness and authenticity.
872 Emile values independence, fostering resilience and self-awareness amidst societal pressures.
873 Emphasize humility to prevent pride, fostering empathy and growth.
874 True greatness lies in humility and self-awareness, fostering growth.
875 Emphasize humility, recognizing education's role in fostering self-awareness.
876 Experience teaches humility, fostering resilience and personal growth insights.
877 Foster equality and empathy in education, promoting mutual understanding.
878 Tutor guides with understanding, fostering critical thinking and respect.
879 Gentle guidance fosters personal growth, empathy, and understanding complexities.
880 Shared experiences and compassion promote growth and understanding humanity.
881 Fables teach youths through relatable stories, promoting growth and wisdom.
882 Engage students by allowing them to discover lessons independently.
883 Arrange fables to match development, fostering meaningful learning experiences.
884 Guide students with self-awareness, humility, and societal understanding.
885 Learn through experience, emphasizing practical skills and societal interaction.
886 Kindness fosters personal growth, empathy, and societal responsibility in Emile.
887 Emile acts with wisdom, humility, and societal understanding, fostering growth.
888 Promote active benevolence, fostering empathy and meaningful societal contributions.
889 Teach through action and experience, emphasizing practical understanding skills.
890 Engage youth's interests, teaching effective communication with simplicity.
891 Emile's authenticity fosters connections and understanding through genuine expression.
892 Active engagement fosters practical wisdom, enhancing societal understanding contributions.
893 Extend self-love to others, fostering empathy and promoting justice.
894 Align pity with justice for societal well-being and harmony.
895 Helping others fosters joy, self-awareness, and meaningful societal engagement.
896 Emile learns justice, empathy, and wisdom, fostering societal contributions.
897 Challenge beliefs, fostering individuality, self-awareness, and societal understanding.
898 Foster individuality through education, promoting societal harmony and understanding.
899 Emile's unique growth highlights education's transformative power and creativity.
900 Consider education's impact on growth, fostering understanding and acceptance.
901 Observe globally, identifying universal traits, fostering empathy and connection.
902 Foster individuality and self-awareness, promoting personal growth and understanding.
903 Thinking becomes a lifelong pursuit, fostering growth and learning.
904 Train a natural man, governed by reason and wisdom.
905 Limitations hinder abstract thought; emphasize gradual understanding and growth.
906 The incomprehensible creator eludes senses, fostering humility and curiosity.
907 Start learning with tangible, fostering reason and understanding, combating materialism.
908 Senses guide learning; words shape beliefs, emphasizing clarity's importance.
909 Perceived world as alive; beliefs evolve, highlighting understanding's evolution.
910 Abstract substance ideas require incompatible properties; understanding highlights complexities.
911 Divine concepts confuse; children grasp tangible experiences, emphasizing understanding.
912 Pupil learns soul's existence gradually, emphasizing patience and understanding.
913 Teaching catechism prematurely breeds lies; emphasize age-appropriate learning.
914 Misunderstood doctrine leads to intolerance; highlight genuine understanding's importance.
915 Children's beliefs reflect surroundings; emphasize critical thinking and authenticity.
916 Children retain happiness without belief, emphasizing understanding's role.
917 Ignorance isn't punished; highlight understanding's role in spiritual judgment.
918 Proclaim truth with readiness; emphasize understanding in spiritual teaching.
919 Deformed ideas persist; emphasize early teaching's impact on beliefs.
920 Emile's indifference prevents fanaticism; focus on comprehensible understanding.
921 Balance passion development with knowledge for personal growth harmony.
922 Children choose beliefs through reason, fostering critical thinking.
923 A young man survived adversity with kindness and guidance.
924 A compassionate priest helped a young man overcome adversity.
925 Gratitude and compassion help young man overcome life's challenges.
926 A priest teaches patience and compassion in overcoming adversity.
927 A Savoyard priest demonstrates integrity and humility amidst challenges.
928 Priest helps disillusioned young man heal through empathy.
929 Neglect and hardship lead to vice; empathy fosters recovery.
930 Education and modesty protect young man from corruption.
931 Priest's empathy and guidance transform young man's life.
932 Priest gains young man's trust through empathy and understanding.
933 Priest revives young man's self-esteem through admiration and encouragement.
934 Priest's discreet generosity teaches young man dignity and integrity.
935 Fugitive's gratitude highlights empathy's transformative power in adversity.
936 Master's virtue and honesty taught essence of integrity.
937 Priest's exemplary life and kindness earned young man's respect.
938 Priest redirects anger, promoting compassion and overcoming obstacles.
939 Priest teaches empathy by revealing struggles behind appearances.
940 Priest finds happiness amidst adversity, highlighting perspective's power.
941 Priest shares heart, finding happiness through empathy and connection.
942 Nature and tranquility inspire meaningful conversations and reflections.
943 Sincerity and personal reflection foster growth and understanding beliefs.
944 Societal expectations challenge authenticity and personal growth.
945 Understand natural instincts and self-awareness for personal growth.
946 Integrity and self-discipline foster personal growth and development.
947 Integrity challenges adversity; self-awareness promotes personal growth.
948 Experience transforms beliefs; resilience fosters personal growth.
949 Doubt and introspection shape beliefs and foster growth.
950 Seek truth through introspection, fostering personal growth and understanding.
951 Uncertainty transforms beliefs; resilience fosters personal growth.
952 Doubt transforms beliefs; resilience fosters personal growth and understanding.
953 Navigating faith challenges beliefs; critical thinking fosters growth.
954 Philosophical inquiry challenges beliefs; critical thinking fosters growth.
955 Understanding world challenges; humility fosters personal growth.
956 Philosophical inquiry challenges authenticity; critical thinking fosters growth.
957 Prior itize essential knowledge; introspection fosters personal growth.
958 Introspection and trust in oneself foster personal growth.
959 Simplicity and introspection shape beliefs and foster growth.
960 Simplicity and critical thinking foster personal growth and understanding.
961 Self-awareness is crucial for judgments, guiding growth and beliefs.
962 Self-existence and sensory experiences shape identity and understanding.
963 Sensations reveal existence; external causes influence perception and understanding.
964 Understanding separate existence fosters critical thinking and introspection.
965 Perception simplifies existence; external entities influence understanding and perception.
966 Perception's dynamic nature highlights cognition's role in understanding.
967 Perceiving involves feeling; comparison and judgment reveal relationships.
968 Cognition reveals relationships; sensation lacks comparative understanding.
969 Distinguishing sensations requires understanding cognitive processes and differences.
970 Awareness forms impressions; perception requires cognitive understanding and judgment.
971 Cognition's role adds errors to sensation's truthful perception.
972 Cognition integrates sensory experiences; perception's complexity involves identity recognition.
973 Cognition's active role unites sensations and enhances understanding.
974 Active cognition reveals truth; sensation over reasoning enhances understanding.
975 Cognition observes universe; understanding relationships enhances personal growth.
976 Cognition reveals matter's properties; motion requires external causes.
977 Cognition distinguishes motion types; external causes drive acquired motion.
978 Spontaneity exists in actions; cognition's role is undeniable.
979 Spontaneity in actions challenges understanding of matter's nature.
980 Cognition reveals universe's order; external causes drive movement.
981 Accepting general laws requires deeper understanding of motion's origin.
982 Motion's origin involves will; understanding reveals life's interconnectedness.
983 Will's role in motion emphasizes complexities and life's mysteries.
984 Mind-body connection is complex, urging deeper exploration and understanding.
985 Understanding motion's origin requires exploration beyond materialism's limitations.
986 Human error stems from abstract ideas; clarity reveals universe's order.
987 Motion and laws suggest intelligence, highlighting universe's interconnectedness.
988 Universe's order and intricacy suggest purpose and interconnectedness.
989 Universe's harmony reveals intelligence, highlighting interconnectedness and understanding.
990 Nature's order and separation emphasize intentional design and harmony.
991 Universe's order suggests intelligence, highlighting interconnectedness and purpose.
992 Wise will governs world; questions encourage introspection and understanding.
993 God's existence supports universe's order; introspection fosters understanding.
994 Approach God's nature cautiously; introspection encourages understanding and discovery.
995 Human uniqueness highlights purpose, encouraging introspection and understanding.
996 Humanity's intelligence and virtue emphasize uniqueness and introspection.
997 Embrace human uniqueness and purpose; introspection fosters understanding.
998 Gratitude for life's creation fosters understanding and introspection.
999 Nature's harmony contrasts human chaos; introspection fosters understanding.
1000 Human duality highlights interconnectedness, encouraging introspection and understanding.
1001 Conscience is prejudice; morality lacks proof, highlighting philosophical contradictions.
1002 Substance denotes primitive qualities; complexity encourages questioning philosophical ideas.
1003 A deaf man's denial of sound mirrors materialist arguments.
1004 Materialists ignore inner voice affirming thought's uniqueness, challenging understanding.
1005 Material creatures lack action; independence affirms consciousness and freedom.
1006 Will and intelligence intertwine, suggesting judgment, highlighting understanding's complexity.
1007 Freedom lies in willing good without external compulsion or constraint.
1008 Freedom powers action, suggesting immaterial substance and deeper understanding.
1009 Human freedom allows evil; Providence preserves order and virtue.
1010 Misuse of power causes suffering; simplicity minimizes human unhappiness.
1011 Man creates evil, suffering; simplicity reveals well-being through understanding.
1012 Justice aligns with goodness; divine power preserves order and goodness.
1013 God promises justice and happiness; reality contradicts, demanding introspection.
1014 Virtue's promise extends beyond life; reward isn't immediate but enduring.
1015 Goodness precedes happiness; virtue rewards post-achievement, highlighting introspection's importance.
1016 Immaterial soul may survive death, resolving post-death disharmony.
1017 Soul's immortality ensures order; destruction inconceivable, suggesting persistence.
1018 Soul awareness relies on memory; post-death conscience affects fate.
1019 Wicked's eternal torment uncertain; justice seeks vengeance through life's errors.
1020 Needs end, desires cease; wicked's happiness enhances personal contentment.
1021 God is eternal, the supreme mind beyond human comprehension.
1022 God's intelligence and justice differ from human reasoning and accountability.
1023 I discern God's attributes through reason, not complete understanding.
1024 Comprehending God's essence deepens awe and acknowledgment of greatness.
1025 Conscience guides actions; obeying it aligns with natural instincts.
1026 Morality stems from judgments, aligning goodness with natural human instincts.
1027 Joy arises from noble deeds and morality, not wickedness.
1028 Few prioritize self-interest; mercy and generosity inspire reverence instead.
1029 Remorse punishes hidden crimes; the just find peace within.
1030 Justice and morality persist across nations, resisting pagan vice.
1031 Justice and virtue reside within, guiding our moral judgments.
1032 Skeptics dismiss conscience, but universal moral agreement persists throughout.
1033 Self-interest fails to explain goodness, aligning with wickedness instead.
1034 Metaphysical discussions elude; self-consultation affirms philosophical truths within.
1035 Acquired ideas differ from natural feelings; nature instills good.
1036 Existence rooted in feeling; innate feelings guide human conscience.
1037 Conscience's force arises naturally, independent of reason's affirmation.
1038 Conscience guides humanity, defining morality and distinguishing us from beasts.
1039 Freed from philosophy, conscience guides; prejudice and fanaticism corrupt.
1040 Virtue's joy requires effort; well-doing reveals true self-worth.
1041 Virtue aligns with divine order, reflecting selfless, godly design.
1042 Wisdom alleviates vanity, guiding joy within a benevolent system.
1043 Soul's body constraint enhances virtues, preparing for eternal bliss.
1044 Early choices shape judgments; virtue aligns with uncorrupted inclinations.
1045 Recognizing illusions allows happiness from inner peace, not pleasures.
1046 Contemplation fosters divine connection, aligning will with cosmic order.
1047 Seek divine correction; truth requires recognizing one's own fallibility.
1048 A priest's discourse resonated deeply, reinforcing my spiritual beliefs.
1049 Profound ideas on theism challenge existing beliefs, requiring reflection.
1050 Openness to complex faith discussions emphasizes personal conviction over certainty.
1051 Natural religion suffices; formal doctrines distort divine intentions, causing conflict.
1052 Religious diversity demonstrates pitfalls; focus on universal moral truths.
1053 External rituals miss spiritual worship's essence; sincerity transcends physical forms.
1054 Seeking divine communication led to confusion, not spiritual growth.
1055 Diverse beliefs questioned righteousness; religious adherence seemed geographically arbitrary.
1056 Contradictory religions can't be universally correct; truth must be universal.
1057 Spiritual truth requires personal examination, not blind adherence to doctrines.
1058 Personal observations form theology; external authorities are insufficient for knowledge.
1059 Discerning divine truth relies on aligning convictions with external testimonies.
1060 Reliance on intermediaries complicates understanding spiritual truths and divine will.
1081 Verify religious documents' authenticity requires knowledge, critical judgment, scrutiny.
1082 Determine prophecy's divinity by understanding miracles, natural laws, deception.
1083 Using human intermediaries for divine will questions universal acceptance.
1084 True miracles alter natural laws; obscure ones lack credibility.
1085 Miracles should be scrutinized; doctrine and validation often circular.
1086 Divine doctrines align with goodness, not wrathful unjust teachings.
1087 Revelation should clarify divine truths, not contradict rational understanding.
1088 Convince through reason, not authority; respect rational, respectful discourse.
1089 Divine inspiration often clashes with reason, contradicts logical principles.
1090 Supernatural proofs rely on human testimony, challenging divine certainty.
1091 Uphold virtue, avoid doctrines inciting division, emphasize universal utility.
1092 Lead parish fostering respect, inclusivity, emphasizing gospel over doctrine.
1093 Share personal creed; avoid theological debates; solidify foundational beliefs.
1094 Embrace truths aligning with heart, encouraging integrity and judgment.
1095 Return to roots, embracing faith aligning with inherent beliefs.
1096 Lean towards divine presence, actions reflecting true religious tenets.
1097 Avoid harmful doctrines; true enlightenment builds, enhances life's meaning.
1098 Embrace humility, balance philosophy, ensure convictions remain pure, truthful.
1099 Methodological example, not directive; adhere to reason guiding sentiment.
1100 Align intellectual and sensory growth, fostering understanding of nature.
1101 Pursue goodness beyond observation; disbelief leads to deceit, folly.
1102 Emile matures naturally, aligning education with developmental stages effectively.
1103 Emile embraces reason, responsibility, guided by disciplined upbringing successfully.
1104 Villagers transition naturally, preparing for complex ideas, unlike city children.
1105 Balance nature, reason; delay developments for refined reasoning, maturity.
1106 Transition from instructor to equal, respecting Emile's emerging independence.
1107 Adapt authority, fostering autonomy with reason, friendship, mutual respect.
1108 Guide Emile through understanding, respect; support evolving needs wisely.
1109 Balance control, independence; manage impulses without stifling or indulging.
1110 Early marriage addresses challenges but lacks emotional, intellectual maturity.
1111 Balance natural rights, societal laws; teach Emile navigating contradictions.
1112 Prolonging innocence until age 20 promotes physical, moral strength.
1113 Delayed maturity contributes to lifelong vigor, happiness despite career.
1114 Prepare Emile for adulthood by transitioning to knowledgeable guide.
1115 Recap journey, clarify responsibilities, aiding Emile's understanding and maturity.
1116 Discuss previously shielded topics openly, preventing misinformation, fostering preparedness.
1117 Avoid premature exposure; negative influences undermine educational goals significantly.
1118 Openness signals healthy relationship; secrecy indicates emerging self-awareness, guilt.
1119 Emile's honesty, simplicity confirm educational success and uncorrupted nature.
1120 Confiding indicates no worries; reticence signals need for intervention.
1121 Effective guidance relies on timing, preparation; personalized approach over lectures.
1122 Guide Emile gradually, avoiding abrupt awareness of unseen dangers.
1123 Engage Emile physically to divert attention from dangerous passions.
1124 Hunting engrosses Emile, providing physical exertion, subduing problematic passions.
1125 Hunting overshadows desires, allowing maturity without destructive passions' risks.
1126 Lessons are unforgettable, using vivid signs engaging imagination effectively.
1127 Ancient symbols engaged emotions, ensuring respect, adherence without coercion.
1128 Decline in symbolic power necessitates force for command obedience.
1129 Ancients excelled in persuasion, using minimal speech, dramatic gestures.
1130 Romans used symbols, attire, ceremonies, binding citizens to state.
1131 Recognizing digressions, I recommit to core topics for clarity.
1132 Engage young minds with reasoned, emotionally resonant arguments effectively.
1133 Introduce sensitive topics carefully, using nature, solemn pledges effectively.
1134 Avoid detailing topics in French due to potential misinterpretation.
1135 French restricts expression; societal taboos evoke inappropriate connotations frequently.
1136 Address discourse purity; distinguish between genuine morality, superficial propriety.
1137 Instill aversion to misconduct, illustrating vice's consequences vividly.
1138 Adapt teaching; engage discussions about love, pleasure openly, honestly.
1139 Emile's willingness for guidance demonstrates maturity, compliance with authority.
1140 Maintain supportive authority; ensure self-discipline, moral integrity reinforcement.
1141 Advise Emile to consider promises carefully, understanding mutual responsibilities.
1142 Ensure Emile understands promise significance, trusting guidance for happiness.
1143 Establish trust with Emile, aligning guidance with natural inclinations.
1144 Guide youth to appreciate love's joy and responsibility wisely.
1145 Use youthful passions to teach reason, fostering rational behavior.
1146 Emile integrates into society, balancing knowledge with practical experience.
1147 Learn social skills thoughtfully, surpassing those taught too early.
1148 Young women adapt socially, developing character through maturity naturally.
1149 Introduce social skills timely, balancing moral principles with engagement.
1150 Balanced education fosters openness, moral integrity, social skills effectively.
1151 Encourage Emile's search for companionship, guiding meaningful social engagement.
1152 Guide Emile's partner vision, prioritizing deeper connections over superficiality.
1153 Imagine Sophy, enhancing discernment, aligning ideals with attainable characteristics.
1154 Imagined partner refines judgment, protecting against harmful influences effectively.
1155 Protect youth from societal influence, fostering positive examples, values.
1156 Support self-reflection to counteract social conformity, encouraging genuine fulfillment.
1157 Guide youth to resist superficial societal norms, embracing personal integrity.
1158 Foster self-confidence, resisting societal conformity, maintaining individual values.
1159 Emile resists societal pressures, staying true to his principles steadfastly.
1160 Encourage Emile to question societal sincerity, valuing truth, integrity enduringly.
1161 Emile, twenty, guided by friendship, self-governing with responsibility.
1162 Emile's principles rooted in reason, resisting corruption, ensuring integrity.
1163 Shield Emile from harmful influences, fostering imagination and integrity.
1164 Guide Emile in social life, encouraging critical thinking, discernment.
1165 Maintain vigilance, teaching Emile self-control, preserving balance constructively.
1166 Encourage self-awareness, balancing natural laws and moral responsibilities.
1167 Address passions openly, fostering trust and resilience in Emile.
1168 Embrace vulnerability, strengthening master-student relationships, fostering growth, understanding.
1169 Guide young libertines, emphasizing prevention, nurturing moral foundations thoughtfully.
1170 Encourage sobriety, resisting societal pressures, fostering strength, resilience, integrity.
1171 Encourage Emile to prioritize genuine connections over status, authenticity.
1172 Embrace simplicity, sincerity, fostering genuine connections, enriching social experience.
1173 Value freedom, respect, fostering open dialogue, embracing diverse perspectives.
1174 Embrace thoughtful communication, fostering deeper connections, meaningful interactions purposefully.
1175 Embrace humility, fostering respect, understanding, personal growth, connection.
1176 Maintain self-assuredness, embracing change confidently, fostering growth, learning.
1177 Embrace quiet confidence, fostering authenticity, inspiring respect, meaningful connections.
1178 Focus on inner strength, fostering resilience, courage, inspiring authenticity.
1179 Nurture genuine connections, fostering authenticity, empathy, enriching relationships thoughtfully.
1180 Embrace humility, fostering respect, understanding, enriching relationships gracefully.
1181 Emile values genuine connections, avoiding pomp, embracing authenticity sincerely.
1182 Emile's politeness stems from kindness, fostering trust and admiration.
1183 Embrace genuine virtues, fostering trust, admiration, and authentic connections.
1184 Embrace honesty and citizenship, building genuine, meaningful connections sincerely.
1185 Embrace genuine goodness, fostering authentic connections, prioritizing sincerity always.
1186 Genuine interactions foster gratitude, understanding, building authentic connections sincerely.
1187 Genuine politeness fosters goodwill, building meaningful connections with integrity.
1188 Embrace individuality, fostering genuine connections, prioritizing authenticity always sincerely.
1189 Prioritize common sense, fostering happiness, building authentic connections sincerely.
1190 Embrace meaningful endeavors, fostering authenticity, avoiding superficial advantages sincerely.
1191 Value respect from integrity, fostering genuine, authentic connections sincerely.
1192 Explore taste philosophy, building connections, prioritizing authenticity and sincerity.
1193 Embrace understanding taste, fostering authenticity, building genuine connections sincerely.
1194 Moral taste influences perception, fostering authentic connections sincerely.
1195 Embrace taste's development, fostering genuine connections, prioritizing authenticity sincerely.
1196 Align taste with majority's pleasure, fostering genuine connections sincerely.
1197 True taste models nature, fostering genuine connections, prioritizing authenticity.
1198 Embrace simplicity, fostering genuine connections, prioritizing authenticity and sincerity.
1199 Cultivate taste through interactions, fostering genuine connections with authenticity.
1200 Value diverse perspectives, fostering genuine connections, prioritizing authenticity sincerely.
1201 Emile must understand others to effectively help and communicate.
1202 Cultivate Emile's taste by observing diverse cultures and perspectives.
1203 Refine Emile's judgment through diverse tastes while maintaining simplicity.
1204 Engage Emile in enlightening conversations to enhance language appreciation.
1205 Simplicity in taste found in classics offers valuable insights.
1206 Ancient epitaphs emphasize deeds over titles, valuing genuine accomplishments.
1207 Ancient inscriptions capture essence through concise, meaningful expressions.
1208 Thermopylae epitaph reflects sacrifice and courage with profound simplicity.
1209 Thermopylae epitaph exemplifies genuine sentiment through simplicity and sincerity.
1210 Emile prefers Demosthenes' eloquence over Cicero's rhetoric for authenticity.
1211 Emile values originality in ancient literature for independent thinking.
1212 Introduce Emile to modern works for balanced, critical exploration.
1213 Introduce Emile to theatre for artistic expression and engagement.
1214 Appreciate beauty to enrich life with accessible good things.
1215 Use relatable examples to illustrate ideas and foster understanding.
1216 Professions shape character, revealing impact of roles on individuals.
1217 Wealth changes individuals, reflecting its impact on character development.
1218 Choose sensuality over pride, valuing comfort and genuine enjoyment.
1219 Seek life's best offerings, prioritizing leisure, freedom, and health.
1220 Embrace nature to enhance pleasure, valuing charm and choices.
1221 Enjoy seasonal beauty, appreciating diverse experiences and natural rhythms.
1222 Embrace seasonal changes, savoring nature's gifts for authentic enjoyment.
1223 Value personal service and independence, enhancing life with self-sufficiency.
1224 Prefer simple spaces, embracing freedom, experiences over material possessions.
1225 Avoid unnecessary collections, embracing simplicity for meaningful experiences.
1226 Choose intellect over chance, nurturing growth and genuine happiness.
1227 Value comfort over ostentation, fostering genuine connections and simplicity.
1228 Build relationships on affection and interests, avoiding self-serving interactions.
1229 Love can't be bought; cultivate relationships grounded in sincerity.
1230 Prioritize genuine connections over possessions, valuing true happiness.
1231 Vice reveals emptiness; embrace authenticity and meaningful connections.
1232 Delusion in pursuits highlights need for genuine relationships.
1233 Embrace age-appropriate pleasures, valuing authenticity and contentment.
1234 Reject idle pursuits; embrace purposeful living and meaningful engagement.
1235 Embrace authenticity, rejecting conformity and fostering genuine joy.
1236 Gather friends for simplicity, valuing genuine engagement and connection.
1237 Celebrate community, fostering genuine connections and shared joy.
1238 Prefer simplicity over estates, valuing nature's genuine enjoyment.
1239 Avoid disputes, prioritizing harmony and genuine connections.
1240 Game issues disrupt peace; prioritize simplicity over wealth.
1241 Avoid exclusivity; choose simple pleasures and nature for enjoyment. fifty
1242 Monopoly destroys joy; shared experiences bring genuine happiness. fifty
1243 Good taste emphasizes genuine enjoyment, avoiding vanity's emptiness. fifty
1244 True joy requires freedom; wealth complicates simple happiness. fifty
1245 Searching for Sophy, embrace journey's challenges and meaningful connections. fifty
1246 Seek Sophy, prioritize love and genuine connections over illusions. fifty
       
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1247 The final act of youth: pivotal moment before conclusion.
1248 Emile needs a companion: Sophie. Understanding her is essential.
1249 Sophie embodies ideal partnership, balancing individuality and unity.
1250 Sophie complements Emile, aligning with gender roles and balance.
1251 In non-sexual aspects, men and women share similarities.
1252 In sexual matters, men and women are distinct, related.
1253 Gender relations highlight differences, promoting mutual respect and understanding.
1254 Gender union emphasizes balance and complementarity in relationships.
1255 Women please men; men's merit lies in strength, pleasing.
1256 Women charm, men discover strength, fostering mutual attraction.
1257 Nature prescribes different advances, balancing allure and moderation.
1258 Female animals lack shame; modesty distinguishes human desires.
1259 Reason governs passions, balancing limitless desires with modesty.
1260 Consent and reason oppose violence; women's strength resists advances.
1261 The stronger dominates, yet depends on the weaker's charm.
1262 Enlightenment changed views on sexual violence, emphasizing understanding and respect.
1263 Opinions on morals lead to gallantry, fostering mutual respect.
1264 Women's power persists by nature's design, not men's will.
1265 Women's roles demand care, connecting families and nurturing love.
1266 Duty severity differs; women bear children, accountable to men.
1267 Women's fidelity must be evident, focusing on conduct, virtue.
1268 Women should aim for motherhood, embracing nature's and morality's laws.
1269 Women can't abruptly change lifestyles; gradual adaptation is necessary.
1270 Strength differences persist; women bear children, men endure hardships.
1271 Family bonds foster loyalty; natural ties create conventional attachments.
1272 Education should differ; men and women have complementary roles.
1273 Respect sex differences; women's traits may be their qualities.
1274 Women educated in vanity blame men; mothers teach daughters.
1275 Sexes share faculties unequally; exceptions exist, truth remains.
1276 Masculine virtues harm women; mothers make daughters good women.
1277 Women shouldn't be ignorant; cultivate minds and bodies equally.
1278 Women depend on men; reputation and provision are essential.
1279 Children's health, early education depend on mothers' influence, education.
1280 Women should please worthy men; reject effeminate dandies' influence.
1281 Women lose vocation adopting foolish airs, aim to please.
1282 Girls love admiration, boys value freedom; innate gender tendencies differ.
1283 Girls need physical grace lessons, boys need strength nurturing.
1284 Feminine delicacy leads to male effeminacy; girls need strength.
1285 Spartan girls practiced military sports, focusing on strong sons.
1286 Greek women focused on household care, embodying wisdom and virtue.
1287 Flowing garments preserve proportions; corsets distort figures, causing degeneration.
1288 Women's corsets are unnecessary; natural bodies better than forced.
1289 Prioritize life, health, comfort over adornment; cramping nature's bad taste.
1290 Children play together; girls prefer adornments, reflecting future roles.
1291 Girls dressing dolls foreshadows future self-adornment, fostering creativity.
1292 Girls eagerly learn sewing, motivated by personal adornment goals.
1293 Girls enjoy cutting, embroidery, lace-making; needlepoint lacks appeal.
1294 Girls' education should focus on practical arts for adornment.
1295 Girls are intelligent, docile; show usefulness in practical tasks.
1296 Girls' vanity aids learning; writing embraced for personal goals.
1297 Keep girls busy; teach handling annoyances for societal preparation.
1298 Avoid amusements' infatuation; teach girls appreciation for tasks.
1299 Girls' enthusiasm for games causes caprice; control enthusiasm wisely.
1300 Women must submit to judgment; gentleness benefits their relationships.
1301 Daughters obedient, mothers gentle; cultivate cunning with caution.
1302 Newborn girls often outshine boys, showcasing early intelligence.
1303 Children's cleverness emerges from requests, revealing innate cunning.
1304 Girls' cunning tricks prompt desired outcomes, showcasing natural abilities.
1305 Cunning compensates for strength, wit benefits society, enduring beauty.
1306 Personality over finery; true beauty needs no adornment.
1307 Teach simplicity to overdressed girls; praise natural beauty.
1308 Expensive clothes show folly; genuine coquetry values thoughtful simplicity.
1309 Dress reflects personality; young girls exhibit better taste.
1310 Growing girls realize charm's importance; gestures and voice matter.
1311 Girls should sing, dance, and enjoy lively childhood activities.
1312 Cultivate talents to delight husbands; strict duties deter marriage.
1313 Pleasant talents should match personality, avoiding formalization burdens.
1314 Girls learn independently; teachers may instill frivolity accidentally.
1315 Pleasure-driven learning thrives with family, friends' encouragement.
1316 Taste shapes beauty, morality; girls develop decency earlier.
1317 Women speak to please, men to inform; polit eness differs.
1318 Girls' speech judged by effect; avoid unpleasant words.
1319 Girls naturally avoid grossness; genuine politeness encourages sincere friendships.
1320 Question girls for communication skills; conversation teaches morals playfully.
1321 Women learn religion early; society creates moral individuals through cooperation.
1322 Women's religion guided by authority; docility absolves faith errors.
1323 Women lack faith boundaries; extreme piety struggles with balance.
1324 Women's religion needs guidance; complex reasoning breeds fanaticism, unbelief.
1325 Teach girls religion sincerely; avoid rote memorization and burdensome practices.
1326 Religion taught thoroughly and loved; avoid burdensome or angry focus.
1327 Teach faith directly; catechism answers mislead children lacking understanding.
1328 Catechism questions confuse children; emphasize meaningful religious instruction.
1329 Create catechism suited for children's understanding; traditional ones differ.
1330 Suitable catechism helps children answer questions naturally, fostering inquiry.
1331 Start religious discussions with examples to understand catechism questions.
1332 Nurse-child conversation explores life, aging, continuity through generations.
1333 Examples illustrate humanity's beginning and end, generations' cycle.
1334 Complex questions confuse children; explain God's nature simply.
1335 Focus on practical doctrines; teach justice, kindness, accountability to God.
1336 Avoid abstract doctrines; emphasize moral teachings for virtuous actions.
1337 Young view actions based on decisions; positive influences needed.
1338 Women's education should respect universal rule over public opinion.
1339 Balance sentiment, public opinion; align for true education.
1340 Cultivate reason as judge between conscience, prejudice; explore reasoning capacity.
1341 Views differ on women's roles; balance is key for harmony.
1342 Women's duties simpler; obedience, fidelity, and care come naturally.
1343 Restricting women's knowledge is risky; prepare for societal challenges.
1344 Women should gain esteem through informed conduct and balanced judgment.
1345 Attentive husband, perceptive wife ensure guests' satisfaction with grace.
1346 Couples discuss events; wife senses dynamics without hearing everything.
1347 Flirts attract suitors with discernment, unlike polite women.
1348 Women handle two men adeptly, misleading with differing treatment.
1349 Women's whims skillfully managed keep admirers enchanted and interested.
1350 Women's innate skill in understanding men includes observation and subtlety.
1351 Women's skill isn't duplicity; modesty discreetly expresses desires.
1352 Virtue indivisible; modesty conceals desires, maintaining sincerity and reliability.
1353 Mlle. de L'Enclos defied female virtues, practicing male traits.
1354 Modern philosophy mocks modesty, threatening women's remaining honor.
1355 Outline education for women, focusing on early youth goals.
1356 Women love duties, embrace roles, maintain natural identity.
1357 Women's studies focus on application , observation; wit aids understanding.
1358 World is woman's book; mothers guide daughters through societal pleasures.
1359 Mothers prepare daughters for society, teaching genuine pleasure value.
1360 Convents promote coquetry; Protestants exhibit more family affection.
1361 Appreciate family life from childhood; cities replace it with society.
1362 Girls feign coolness to deceive men, seeking freedom in marriage.
1363 Education fosters worldly pleasures, leading young women to vice.
1364 Mothers avoid harmful sights; city life prompts return to simplicity.
1365 Women possess good judgment, preserve feelings without harsh morals.
1366 Women judge men's worth; even critics seek their approval.
1367 Women influence accomplishments; loss of power signals societal decline.
1368 Virtue enhances love; true love requires admiration for perfection.
1369 Natural relations endure; virtuous woman's chastity brings respect, joy.
1370 Effective duty motivation requires relevant reasoning for youth's age.
1371 One would not suspect Ovid of such a harsh judgment.
1372 Inspire youth by showing goodness's value, not just demanding it.
1373 Sophie and Emile are true to themselves amidst gender confusion.
1374 Sophie charms with her faults, evoking emotion and happiness.
1375 Sophie captivates with grace, delighting subtly through expressive charm.
1376 Sophie selects modest clothing, enhancing beauty with subtle style.
1377 S ophie excels in music, dance; natural gifts showcase her taste.
1378 Sophie, skilled in needlework, prepares for future household responsibilities.
1379 Sophie's cleanliness, instilled by her mother, focuses on duties.
1380 Sophie's cleanliness avoids luxury, valuing greater tasks over superficiality.
1381 Sophie learned temperance through discipline, balancing desires and virtues.
1382 Sophie's growth balances youthful spontaneity and learned adult decorum.
1383 Sophie's sensitivity highlights resilience, balancing emotions and social interactions.
1384 Sophie's amiability contrasts boys' revolt, showcasing resilience and endurance.
1385 Sophie embraces simple religion, highlighting experiential learning and morality.
1386 Sophie's virtue reflects family's influence and personal commitment to beliefs.
1387 Sophie longs for love, valuing genuine connection over admiration.
1388 Sophie's precocious nature enhances understanding, surpassing her peers' awareness.
1389 Sophie seeks virtuous man, confident in her ability to bring happiness.
1390 Sophie judges worth modestly, focusing on known virtues and fairness.
1391 Sophie's sincerity challenges norms, promoting authenticity in social interactions.
1392 Sophie respects older men, valuing wisdom over gendered societal norms.
1393 Sophie detests insincere gallantry, demanding sincerity in communication and interactions.
1394 Sophie values sincere praise, rejecting superficial admiration and societal superficiality.
1395 Sophie's parents engage her, aligning guidance with maturity and restlessness.
1396 Parents emphasize thoughtful marriage consideration, aligning personal and familial happiness.
1397 Finding complementary spouse requires compatibility, mutual respect, and admiration.
1398 Marriage happiness requires alignment, realistic expectations, and conscious choices.
1399 Personal compatibility determines marital happiness, surpassing societal conventions.
1400 Genuine connection triumphs over material considerations, fostering lasting happiness.
1401 Mutual affection and choice form a successful marriage's foundation.
1402 Align aspirations with reality, prioritizing personal fulfillment over wealth.
1403 Discernment and guidance help navigate relationships, ensuring genuine connections.
1404 Choose a partner based on character, prioritizing personal happiness.
1405 Parental guidance shapes character, influencing lifelong decisions and behavior.
1406 Upbringing shapes choices, emphasizing self-awareness and aligning desires.
1407 Virtue transforms behavior, influencing character and personal relationships positively.
1408 Balance practical considerations and values, prioritizing character over wealth.
1409 Financial considerations and character ensure a secure partnership.
1410 Financial compatibility and mutual respect ensure successful marriage partnerships.
1411 Align dowry with social standing, balancing aspirations and expectations.
1412 Mutual respect and shared values foster successful marriage partnerships.
1413 Compromise and mutual respect resolve financial disagreements in marriage.
1414 Evaluate suitor's character, prioritizing moral qualities over finances.
1415 Prioritize happiness and compatibility over finances in marriage partnerships.
1416 Respectful arrangements ensure successful partnerships, balancing needs and desires.
1417 Mutual respect and understanding are essential for successful marriage.
1418 Open communication aligns expectations, preventing misunderstandings in marriage.
1419 Partnership requires mutual support and shared responsibilities for strength.
1420 Balance financial and personal factors, prioritizing compatibility and respect.
1421 Personal choice in marriage prioritizes compatibility over societal norms.
1422 Social disparity complicates relationships, highlighting importance of shared values.
1423 Prioritize compatibility over norms for happy, meaningful relationships.
1424 Nature guides personal choices, emphasizing genuine connections and happiness.
1425 Recognize compatibility's value through thoughtful decision-making and timing.
1426 Consider rank in marriage, ensuring balance and compatibility.
1427 Practicality and balance guide marriage decisions, fostering successful partnerships.
1428 Align social and personal values for successful, harmonious marriage.
1429 Compatibility and balance enhance marriage success and shared values.
1430 Adaptability and practicality guide successful marriage and mutual respect.
1431 Intellectual compatibility in marriage enhances mutual understanding and communication.
1432 Intellectual awareness in parenting fosters thoughtful, virtuous children's development.
1433 Humility and sincerity promote genuine connections and mutual respect.
1434 Balance intelligence with humility, prioritizing sincerity over intellectual display.
1435 Balance personal strengths with expectations, promoting successful partnerships.
1436 Prioritize character over appearance for lasting happiness and fulfillment.
1437 Charm and pleasantness over beauty ensure enduring happiness and fulfillment.
1438 Compatibility and shared growth promote mutual understanding and happiness.
1439 Thoughtful decisions and genuine connections ensure lasting happiness in relationships.
1440 Practical skills and shared responsibilities foster successful, harmonious partnerships.
1441 Live in the moment, avoiding constant pursuit of future goals.
1442 Embrace life's journey, balancing desire and patience for contentment.
1443 Travel mindfully, valuing exploration and curiosity over destination-focused haste.
1444 Walking offers freedom and joy, fostering a deep connection with nature.
1445 Explore and learn directly from nature, fostering curiosity and understanding.
1446 Walking enhances health and cheerfulness, valuing simple pleasures in travel.
1447 Curiosity fuels knowledge and growth, encouraging exploration and learning.
1448 Set goals and embrace life's progression for personal growth and discovery.
1449 Embrace spontaneity and connection, appreciating unexpected encounters in travel.
1450 Genuine connections and character outweigh material wealth in relationships.
1451 Embrace love and companionship, fostering happiness through mutual experiences.
1452 Celebrate harmonious unions, valuing community support and shared joy.
1453 Parental satisfaction and family support enhance happiness and fulfillment.
1454 Thoughtful planning and satisfaction foster successful, happy relationships.
1455 Meet expectations and foster satisfaction through thoughtful preparation.
1456 Successful unions prioritize mutual satisfaction and community involvement.
1457 Thoughtful preparation ensures mutual happiness and community support.
1458 Joyful marriage arrangements reflect thoughtful planning and community involvement.
1459 Well-arranged weddings foster satisfaction and mutual happiness.
1460 Concluding happily, the marriage satisfies all involved parties.
1469 Honor in marriage involves upholding personal and familial integrity. fifty
1470 Managing desires and emotions requires guidance and self-awareness. fifty
1471 Attraction and power dynamics require understanding emotional influences. fifty
1472 Emile savors moments with Sophie, valuing patience in love. fifty
1473 Devotion and selflessness are vital in expressing genuine love. fifty
1474 Mutual affection and understanding deepen the joy of love. fifty
1475 Insecurity and doubt challenge love, requiring trust and communication. fifty
1476 Balance vulnerability and caution to express fears in relationships. fifty
1477 Empathy and patience support understanding emotional complexities in love. fifty
1478 Patience, communication, and effort nurture enduring and committed love. fifty
1479 Communication and support build trust and resilience in love. fifty
1480 Trust, patience, and collaboration are essential for enduring relationships. fifty
1481 Emile seeks Sophie's affection, confused by her silence.
1482 Emile unaware of wealth's impact, values character over riches.
1483 Emile blames himself, seeks pity, disarmed by Sophie's glance.
1484 Emile seeks friend's help, puzzled by Sophie's silence.
1485 Sophie reveals concerns about wealth disparity, surprising Emile.
1486 Renouncing wealth worsens disparity, Emile must prove character.
1487 Emile must demonstrate merit and principles outweigh riches.
1488 Emile's joy restored, character shines through actions, pleasing Sophie.
1489 Emile admires Sophie's qualities, aligning sentiments, softening her stance.
1490 Sophie appreciates Emile's attention, hesitates due to pride.
1491 Sophie's hesitation stems from pride, not lack of affection.
1492 Emile's sincerity reassures Sophie, deepening her affection for him.
1493 Reassured, Sophie expresses feelings, strengthening their bond.
1494 Emile and Sophie's love grows through mutual support.
1495 Communication and compromise maintain Emile and Sophie's relationship.
1496 Shared experiences and support strengthen Emile and Sophie's bond.
1497 Emile and Sophie balance individuality with mutual support.
1498 Resilience and adaptability deepen Emile and Sophie's relationship.
1499 Gratitude and appreciation strengthen Emile and Sophie's bond.
1500 Trust and communication ensure Emile and Sophie's future together.
1501 Sophie’s mother advises Emile on boundaries and social conduct.
1502 Reflecting on genuine purity versus societal propriety in relationships.
1503 Sophie's pride is precaution, controlling passion through modesty.
1504 Sophie's contentment reflects newfound confidence and personal choice.
1505 Sophie's interactions assure Emile of her affection subtly.
1506 Will Emile become jealous of Sophie's actions, or not?
1507 Jealousy in love mirrors nature's instincts, raising questions.
1508 Desire is natural, but jealousy can become madness.
1509 Animal jealousy and sexual power heighten natural rivalry.
1510 Jealousy varies with passionate aims, understanding its origins essential.
1511 Nature intended one male for female, requiring parental support.
1512 Jealousy in animals differs from humans; monogamy is natural.
1513 Jealousy arises from societal passions, not instincts; education influences.
1514 True love differs from infatuation, fostering equity and trust.
1515 Emile's jealousy shaped by education, reflecting love and trust.
1516 Emile's jealousy focuses on securing love, not resenting rivals.
1517 Emile's transformation from reason to love reflects shifting priorities.
1518 Life's priorities evolve: cake, love, pleasure, ambition, avarice, wisdom.
1519 Good habits sustain education's influence through life's changes.
1520 Memory links past to present, shaping identity through experiences.
1521 Retain past values; form new habits for smooth transitions.
1522 Habits formed willingly endure; Emile thrives on active lifestyle.
1523 Emile's love for Sophie reflects values, strengthening their relationship.
1524 Living apart tempers love's intensity; distance enhances its value.
1525 Emile prioritizes effort over ease, valuing presence in relationships.
1526 Walking to Sophie's reflects love's authenticity and simplicity.
1527 Emile's visits are enjoyable, valuing genuine connections and warmth.
1528 Distance limits visits; village stays offer more time together.
1529 Friendship and innocence flourish, embracing joys despite journey fatigue.
1530 Emile and Sophie's familiarity fosters harmony, joy, shared goals.
1531 Emile returns to Sophie, revealing affection beyond mere love.
1532 Emile’s visits to Sophie enhance love's purity and intensity.
1533 Emile explores nature and aids locals, showcasing skills and generosity.
1534 Emile visits Sophie discreetly, valuing genuine affection over deception.
1535 Emile's races entertain and bond him with others, winning admiration.
1536 Sophie challenges Emile to a race, strengthening their bond.
1537 Women run awkwardly, but Sophie's grace defies this, impressing Emile.
1538 Sophie's impressive running surprises Emile, breaking gender norms.
1539 Sophie wins the race, showcasing generosity by sharing the prize.
1540 Sophie enriches Emile's character, enhancing his sociability and amiability.
1541 Emile joyfully greets Sophie, reflecting affection and curiosity.
1542 Sophie's mother embraces Emile, acknowledging modesty and hard work.
1543 Emile remains working, prioritizing duty over personal desires.
1544 Sophie's mother questions Emile's integrity and adherence to principles.
1545 Sophie demands love, valuing worth and mutual respect.
1546 Sophie values punctuality, appreciating Emile's attentiveness and respect.
1547 Emile's absence distresses Sophie, revealing deep emotions and vulnerability.
1548 Sophie feigns indifference upon Emile’s arrival, masking emotions.
1549 Sophie's frustration turns to forgiveness, restoring her composure.
1550 Sophie shares feelings, revealing passion's intensity and gratitude.
1551 Sophie listens, highlighting patience, open-mindedness in resolving conflicts.
1552 Aid fallen peasant, emphasizing empathy, resilience, and kindness.
1553 Aid injured family, highlighting resourcefulness, community support, cooperation.
1554 Persevere through challenges, emphasizing resilience, community support, compassion.
1555 Emile prioritizes humanitarian values, highlighting compassion, moral integrity, selflessness.
1556 Sophie commits to Emile, emphasizing love, trust, mutual respect.
1557 Sophie's affection, emphasizing family support, vulnerability, and authenticity.
1558 Sophie helps invalids, highlighting empathy, selflessness, and compassion.
1559 Anticipate future, emphasizing patience, understanding, growth, mutual support.
1560 Challenge trust, emphasizing communication, trust, and mutual understanding.
1561 Passion prevents focus on pure reason; needs attention aid.
1562 Seek happiness, Emile; it’s elusive, but I’ll try.
1563 Wisdom means doing nothing unsure; restless pursuit leads astray.
1564 Avoid error; follow nature, revealing happiness along life's path.
1565 Childhood enjoyed nature; hardships strengthened; stay just, kind, happy.
1566 Reaching reason, shielded from passion; desires now bind you.
1567 Saw heroes cry, questioned behavior; now you’re one, too.
1568 Learn to regulate desires; earthly things end; embrace impermanence.
1569 Ungoverned passions lead to fear; desire overpowers duty, reason.
1570 Happiness needs courage; virtue comes with struggle; learn now.
1571 Nature's simplicity made lying unnecessary, fostering kindness over virtue.
1572 Virtuous man conquers affections, follows reason, achieves true freedom.
1573 Nature frees from evils; self-imposed passions leave us ashamed.
1574 Master first passion; dominate others, obeying passion for virtue.
1575 Passion pure, happy union blends virtue with love; prepare.
1576 All passions good if mastered; self-control legitimizes sentiments.
1577 One rule: Be a man, restrain heart within limits.
1578 Pride's illusions breed ills; contemplate suffering, focus rightful strength.
1579 Cherish beauty; align desires with duty; steadfast in adversity.
1580 Emile listens anxiously, fearing discipline for soul-strength emphasis.
1581 Emile questions me timidly, shocked by my advice.
1582 Prepared for Emile's outburst, I remain unmoved, demonstrating moderation.
1583 True happiness is fleeting; imagination outshines reality.
1584 Infatuation obscures time; winter nears. Plan for seasons.
1585 You've known Sophie briefly; love isn't immediate. Prove yourselves.
1586 Sophie and Emile's youth unsuitable for marriage and parenting.
1587 Consider duties as husband, father, and citizen before marriage.
1588 Leave Sophie; return worthy, earn fidelity's prize.
1589 Emile resists delay, argues for immediate marriage, assures return.
1590 Emile asks, "When do we start?" I respond, "Soon."
1591 Emile faces sacrifice, hoping Sophie understands his virtuous motives.
1592 Proud Sophie conceals emotions, fearing Emile might forget her.
1593 I console Sophie, promise marriage, but emotions challenge reason.
1594 Sophie, Emile exchange books for inspiration; departure day arrives.
1595 Sophie's father trusts me with Emile's marriage promise.
1596 Emile's tears contrast Sophie's silence; final image remembered.
1597 ON TRAVEL
1598 Is travel beneficial for youth? The question provokes debate.
1599 Books hinder learning; France's literature lacks genuine understanding.
1600 Parisians believe they know men but understand only Frenchmen.
1601 Discovering truth in travel books requires firsthand experience and observation.
1602 Books satisfy some; others prefer firsthand experiences over unreliable sources.
1603 Knowing one nation means understanding countrymen, not all mankind.
1604 Global travel isn't necessary; similar cultures reveal universal traits.
1605 Travel demands focused observation; many travelers learn nothing substantial.
1606 English travel for commerce, learning more than French travelers.
1607 Spaniards prioritize useful observations, unlike those chasing art.
1608 Ancients traveled little but understood each other better than us.
1609 Cultural blending obscures observation; modern connections exceed historical separations.
1610 Ancient roots lost; modern Europeans differ in appearance, behavior.
1611 Europe's instability obscures differences in regions' physical features.
1612 Ancient people reveal more variations than nations do now.
1613 Observations focus on commerce, not learning about diverse peoples.
1614 Civilization demands learning from populous nations, ignoring unique cultures.
1615 Travelers often pursue self-interest, neglecting genuine knowledge acquisition.
1616 Travelers should prioritize studying humanity over observing landscapes.
1617 Travel shapes character, benefiting those seeking wisdom and maturity.
1618 Purposeful travel enhances education; aimless travel offers little learning.
1619 Understanding government helps decide one's compatibility with society.
1620 Consider independence and future plans for family and fortune.
1621 Trade involves risks and demands conformity, leading to dependence.
1622 Joining the army requires resources and often leads to ruin.
1623 Cringing and deceit earn honor; attire eclipses trench duties.
1624 Emile values independence and kindness, seeking happiness through labor.
1625 "Wise man needs wife and land; both are rare."
1626 Seek peaceful, just state for honest living without intrusions.
1627 Finding a safe place in Europe could bring happiness.
1628 Journey aims at understanding governance, public morals, and philosophy.
1629 Grotius unreliable; praising him reveals ignorance; Hobbes differs greatly.
1630 Montesquieu focused on laws, ignoring political rights' importance.
1631 Understanding ideals is crucial for wisely evaluating government reality.
1632 Prejudices hinder understanding; Emile seeks government focused on rights.
1633 Justice and truth surpass talents, making discussions timely now.
1634 Establish procedural rules; compare political principles to civil laws.
1635 Principles derive from nature, solved as problems for understanding.
1636 Explore freedom, society formation, power, and rights through questions.
1637 Does claiming sickness as divine prohibit seeking medical help?
1638 Should conscience dictate actions when facing concealed threats?
1639 Is power here different from lawful power under law?
1640 Nature or paternal authority's basis lies in child benefit.
1641 Examines family power dynamics, questioning authority origins and legitimacy.
1642 Explores voluntary associations, emphasizing autonomy and freedom in society.
1643 Questions slavery's legitimacy, emphasizing self-preservation and moral autonomy.
1644 Examines slavery's contractual nature, emphasizing reservations on freedom.
1645 Questions absolute authority, emphasizing accountability and individual autonomy.
1646 Explores contracts' foundational role, emphasizing mutual consent in societies.
1647 Examines social contract's role, emphasizing unity and governance.
1648 Explores social contract's essence, emphasizing unity and responsibility.
1649 Defines terms, examines contracts' role in forming governance structures.
1650 Explores dual nature of contracts, balancing autonomy and responsibilities.
1651 Explores limitations of deliberations, emphasizing social contract's primacy.
1652 Questions contract durability, emphasizing equitable governance and consent.
1653 Collective sovereign power relies on general will, collaboration emphasized.
1654 Social pact ensures legitimacy, balancing autonomy and collective responsibility.
1655 Social contract aligns autonomy with responsibility, emphasizing collaboration importance.
1656 Property rights balance ownership and responsibility, questioning authority legitimacy.
1657 Explores general will's role in governance, defining law implications.
1658 Individual consideration causes fragmentation, balancing autonomy and responsibility emphasized.
1659 Self-legislation emphasizes unity, balancing rights and responsibilities explored.
1660 Sovereign laws address general objects, balancing rights and responsibilities.
1661 Explores sovereign and government roles, emphasizing laws and decrees.
1662 Citizens' dual role as lawmakers and executors emphasizes participation.
1663 Questions legitimacy of delegating sovereign power, emphasizing authority limitations.
1664 Explores tension between individual and collective interests, emphasizing alignment.
1665 Leaders' accountability within governance structures, emphasizing checks and balances.
1666 Delegating sovereign power and representation complexities, questioning legitimacy explored.
1667 Direct democracy challenges in large societies, emphasizing self-governance practicality.
1668 Reflects on Roman experience, questioning societal greatness and lessons.
1669 Explores large populations' advantages and disadvantages, governance impact questioned.
1670 Questions representation effectiveness, exploring ways to enhance alignment.
1671 Sovereign will is an aggregate of general, private wills.
1672 Sovereign represents general interest, representative body represents private interest.
1673 Examines exercising sovereign power, necessary conditions, causes of failure.
1674 Considers representative body formation, organization, qualifications, promulgated laws.
1675 Examines sovereign power exercise consistency with nature, social contract.
1676 Analyzes representative system effects, benefits, drawbacks, people's impact.
1677 Examines political benefits of representative system, effectiveness of laws.
1678 Explores limits of representative system, adaptation to people's needs.
1679 Inquires into sovereign-representative relationship, duties, responsibilities to people.
1680 Considers representative body's nature, relationship to sovereign power.
1681 Representatives balance power dynamics, creating legislation reflecting public desires.
1682 Evaluates representation forms' effectiveness, political impact, citizen satisfaction.
1683 People's role in representation ensures accountability and system effectiveness.
1684 Representation adapts to political conditions, ensuring trust and engagement.
1685 Public opinion shapes representation, influencing decision-making and priorities.
1686 Representation impacts political stability, government effectiveness, addressing public needs.
1687 Challenges faced by representation strengthen fairness and system justice.
1688 Examines representation's future, potential developments, improvements for better service.
1689 Technology shapes representation's future, enhancing transparency and engagement.
1690 Education, civic engagement strengthen representation, citizen involvement enhances system.
1691 Examines democracy, representation alignment with democratic principles in systems.
1692 Accountability, transparency in representation strengthen trust, impact governance effectiveness.
1693 Checks and balances in representation ensure power distribution, effectiveness.
1694 Political parties, interest groups shape policies, influence government decisions.
1695 Representative system addresses inequality, ensuring marginalized groups' representation.
1696 International organizations, treaties influence representation, integrating global norms.
1697 Globalization impacts representation, necessitates responsive, adaptable governance frameworks.
1698 Public participation shapes representation's future, ensuring governance reflects needs.
1699 Reforms, innovations improve representation, adapt to changing conditions.
1700 Reflects on representative system lessons, prospects for effective governance.
1701 Even population distribution strengthens state more than concentrated cities.
1702 True governance observed in rural areas, not urban cities.
1703 Rural simplicity reveals genuine nature, avoids city's harmful vices.
1704 Young travelers avoid cities' vices; love ensures sincerity.
1705 Emile's love before traveling protects him from vice, strengthens virtue.
1706 Emile's pre-travel love protects against vice, encourages virtue.
1707 Love protects youth from vice, fostering sincerity and virtue.
1708 Love shields Emile from vice, ensuring sincerity in virtues.
1709 Loyalty shows love's protective power, guarding youth from vice.
1710 Lucy crafted ruffles, showcasing love's power over youthful desires.
1711 John's decision: Emile's return enlightened, fostering connections, reducing prejudices.
1712 Young man's incident lingered, inspiring reflective thoughts on freedom.
1713 Emile returns wiser, understanding vices, virtues, reducing national prejudices.
1714 Emile chooses freedom, realizing "empire" and "liberty" are incompatible.
1715 Embracing necessity, Emile finds freedom beyond possessions, embracing life's flow.
1716 Emile embraces life's constraints, detaching from wealth, seeking true freedom.
1717 Freedom means detachment from possessions, living life without constraints.
1718 Emile seeks freedom through love, wishing for Sophie's companionship.
1719 True freedom exists within; laws often bind rather than liberate.
1720 Discusses citizenship's moral duties, virtues shaping character, ensuring freedom.
1721 Serve your homeland; love your native land, cultivate friendships.
1722 Live rurally; cities corrupt; embrace natural life, cultivate land.
1723 Embrace duty; leave plough for consul if country calls.
1724 Describe Emile's return to Sophie; enduring love through virtues.
1725 Emile and Sophie marry; overwhelming joy, vows exchanged eternally.
1726 Newlyweds need solitude; avoid awkward conversations, cherish each moment.
1727 Ensure they savor today; guide them to meaningful experiences.
1728 Remind them love peaks, but cherish moments; anticipate inevitable decline.
1729 True happiness in marriage requires effort; cherish and sustain love.
1730 Celebrate their happiness; my work ends; wish them completeness forever.
1731 Men tire of love; affection rarely rekindles hearts successfully.
1732 Remain lovers in marriage; Emile laughs at simple advice.
1733 Ties strain under pressure; fidelity sacred, but love constrained.
1734 Mastery tires; mutual desire creates rights; hearts bound, bodies free.
1735 Be lover, not master; love's grace strengthens mutual desire.
1736 Emile protests; Sophie silent, reassures with anxious, loving eyes.
1737 Sophie generously protects Emile from his selfless, generous vows.
1738 Emile refuses to leave Sophie; sweet lie hides truth.
1739 Young couple's blissful day misunderstood; happiness beyond mere pleasure.
1740 Emile feigns annoyance; Sophie joyful, teasingly vexes him affectionately.
1741 Sophie asserts independence; Emile misunderstands her affectionate intentions.
1742 Encourages Sophie: treat Emile as man, cherish their bond.
1743 Sophie guides Emile with restraint; love, respect foster control.
1744 Sophie influences Emile's decisions through persuasion and coquetry.
1745 Love's charm fades; friendship and family bond parents together.
1746 Avoiding repulsion, cherish each other, savor happiness together responsibly.
1747 Emile's guidance shifts to Sophie; embraces new marital roles.
1748 Emile and Sophie enjoy marital bliss, celebrated by family.
1749 Emile, expecting fatherhood, seeks continued guidance from mentor.
       
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1 I began this disorderly and almost endless collection of thoughts and observations to gratify a good mother who knows how to think. Initially, I planned a short memoir, but the subject expanded into a treatise—too large for its content but too small for the topic. I hesitated about publishing, realizing that writing pamphlets doesn’t teach book composition. Despite attempts to refine it, I believe it's vital to address this topic publicly. Even flawed ideas can inspire better ones. A solitary writer needn't fear unchallenged errors.
2 I won’t dwell on education’s value or prove the inadequacy of traditional methods. Many have criticized these methods, yet solutions are scarce. Current literature and science often deconstruct rather than build. Critiquing others adopts a pedagogical tone, whereas proposing innovations requires a humbler approach. Despite claims of public utility, the art of training men remains neglected. Even post-Locke, my subject feels novel, and I fear it will remain so afterward.
3 We misunderstand childhood and stray further as we advance. Writers focus on what adults should know, ignoring what children can learn. They seek the adult in the child without understanding the child's nature. I’ve prioritized studying the latter; even if my methods seem impractical, my observations may offer value. I might be mistaken about what to do, but I’ve identified the subject to study. Start by understanding your pupils, as ignorance prevails. Reading this book with that aim could prove beneficial.
4 The book’s systematic part, reflecting nature’s course, may challenge readers and draw criticism, possibly justified. Critics might call it a visionary’s dream rather than a treatise on education. What can I do? I share my ideas, not others’. My perspective is unique, drawing reproach for years. I cannot alter my views or pretend I see like others. I can only avoid self-deception and arrogance. I’m responsible for doubting my ideas, not changing others’. If I occasionally sound assertive, it’s to convey my thoughts sincerely. Why should I doubt what I believe? I express my mind candidly.
5 By expressing my sentiments freely, I claim no authority but offer my reasoning for evaluation. While I don’t insist on my views, I feel obligated to present them. The principles I challenge are not trivial; they impact humanity’s happiness or misery. Determining their truth is crucial.
6 I’m often told to propose feasible ideas, as if suggesting what’s already done or what aligns with current flaws. This approach might be more impractical than mine, for it spoils good ideas and doesn’t improve the bad. I’d rather stick to the established method than adopt a partial betterment. Fewer contradictions would arise since one can’t pursue opposite goals simultaneously. Parents, what’s feasible is what you choose to do. Should I be accountable for your choices?
7 In any project, consider two things: its intrinsic goodness and its execution feasibility.
8 Regarding intrinsic goodness, a project is acceptable if its benefits align with the nature of the thing. For instance, education should suit humanity and the heart.
9 The second consideration depends on situational relationships, which vary infinitely and aren’t necessary. Education might suit Switzerland but not France; middle classes but not nobility. Success varies by circumstance; results depend on specific application to a country or class. These specifics aren’t essential to my subject. Others may adapt them for their context. It suffices that my proposal benefits people universally. If I fulfill this, asking more is unfair.
10 Everything is good as it leaves the creator’s hands, but man degrades it. He forces soil to nourish alien plants, trees to bear alien fruits. He mixes climates, elements, seasons. He mutilates dogs, horses, slaves. He distorts nature, loving deformities and monsters. He wants nothing as nature made it, not even man. He trains man like a saddle horse, shaping him like garden trees.
11 Without intervention, things would be worse; our species isn’t meant to remain incomplete. A man left to himself from birth would be most deformed. Prejudice, authority, necessity, and example stifle nature, leaving a void. Human nature would be like a seedling sown by chance on a highway, bent and soon crushed by passersby.
12 I address you, caring mother who shields your child from societal impact. Cultivate and protect your child’s spirit, ensuring its growth. Your child’s development will bring future joy. Create a nurturing environment early. Others may define limits, but you alone must nurture.
13 Plants thrive through cultivation, humans through education. A tall, strong newborn gains little until skills are taught; strength may deter help. Left alone, he’d perish in ignorance. We bemoan infant helplessness, forgetting that humanity’s survival depended on beginning as children.
14 We are born weak and need strength; lacking everything, we need aid; born ignorant, we need wisdom. Education provides what we lack at birth and need as adults.
15 Education comes from nature, men, or things. Nature’s education is the growth of our faculties, men’s education is how we use this growth, and experiences shape our education from things.
16 We learn from three masters: nature, men, and things. When their lessons conflict, the pupil is poorly raised and lacks harmony. If they align, the pupil reaches their goals and lives consistently, becoming well-raised.
17 Of the three educational factors, nature’s education is beyond our control; education from things is partly controllable; only men’s education is fully within our control. Even then, our power is limited, as controlling every word and action around a child is impossible.
18 Education is an art, and its success is nearly impossible, as coordination depends on no single person. One can only approach the goal; luck is needed to achieve it.
19 What is the goal of education? It is the goal of nature. Since the three educations must coordinate for perfection, we must align those we control with what’s beyond our control. Nature may be vague, so let’s define it.
20 Nature, we’re told, is habit. Do habits formed under compulsion not suppress nature? Consider plants forced to grow differently: when freed, they retain the forced shape, but new growth is natural. The same applies to human inclinations. In unchanged conditions, habits persist, but nature reasserts itself when circumstances shift. Education is a habit; some forget or lose it, while others retain it. Understanding nature as habits conforming to it avoids confusion.
21 We are born sensitive and from our birth onwards we are affected in various ways by the objects that surround us. As soon as we have, so to speak, consciousness of our sensations, we are disposed to seek out or shun the things that cause them, at first because they are pleasant or unpleasant, then because they suit us or not, and finally because of judgments of them formed by means of the ideas of happiness and goodness which reason gives us. These tendencies gain strength and permanence as we become more sensitive and more enlightened. But once they are constrained by our habits, they become more or less corrupted by our opinions. Before this change they are what I call nature within us.
22 It is thus to these primitive dispositions that everything should be related, and that would be possible if our three modes of education merely differed from one another. But what can be done when they are opposed, when instead of raising a man for himself one wishes to raise him for others? Then harmony becomes impossible. Forced to combat either nature or social institutions, you must choose between making a man and making a citizen, for you cannot do both at the same time.
23 All partial societies, when they are tightly knit and well united, are alienated from the larger society. Every patriot acts coldly towards foreigners; they are only men, and nothing to him. This defect is inevitable but of little importance. The essential thing is to be good to the people with whom one lives. Abroad, the Spartan was selfish, grasping, and unjust; yet unselfishness, justice, and harmony ruled within his home. Distrust those cosmopolitans who search far in their books for duties that they neglect to fulfill towards those around them. Such philosophers love the Tartars to so as to be spared from loving their neighbors.
24 Natural man is everything for himself. He is the numerical unit, the absolute whole, accountable only to himself or to his own kind. Civil man is only a fractional unit dependent on the denominator, whose value is in his relationship with the whole, that is, the social body. Good social institutions are those that know best how to denature man, to take away his absolute existence in order to give him a relative one, and to transport the "me" into a common unity so that each individual no longer regards himself as one but as a part of the unity and is sensitive only to the whole. A citizen of Rome was neither Caius nor Lucius, he was a Roman; he even loved his country better than his life. Regulus claimed he was a Carthaginian, as having become the property of his masters. In his status of foreigner he refused to sit in the Roman Senate; a Carthaginian had to order him to do so. He was indignant when they tried to save his life. He conquered, and returned in triumph to die by torture. There is no similarity between Regulus and the men of our own day.
25 The Spartan Pedaretes presented himself for admission to the council of the Three Hundred and was rejected; he went away rejoicing that there were three hundred Spartans better than himself. I suppose he was in earnest; there is no reason to doubt it. That was a citizen.
26 A Spartan mother had five sons in the army and awaited news of the battle. A Helot arrived; trembling she asked his news. "Your five sons have been killed." "Vile slave, was that what I asked you?" "We have won the victory." She ran to the temple to give thanks to the gods. That was a citizen.
27 He who in the civil order wishes to preserve the primacy of the sentiments of nature does not know what he wants. Always in contradiction with himself, always floating between his wishes and his duties, he will be neither a man nor a citizen. He will be good neither for himself nor for others. He will be a man of our day -- a Frenchman, an Englishman, a bourgeois. He will be nothing.
28 To be something, to be oneself, and always at one with oneself, one must act as one speaks. One must be decisive about what course to take and must follow that course with vigor and persistence. I am waiting to be shown this prodigy to decide whether he is man or citizen, or how he manages to be both.
29 From these necessarily opposite aims come two contrary forms of education -- one is public and common, the other individual and domestic.
30 Do you wish to get an idea of public education? Read Plato's Republic. Those who merely judge books by their titles take this for a treatise on politics, but it is the finest treatise on education ever written.
31 When people wish to go back to a land of fantasies they cite Plato's institutions. But had Lycurgus put forth his system only in writing, I would have found it to be far more impracticable than Plato's. Plato sought only to purify man's heart, whereas Lycurgus denatured it.
32 Public institutions do not and cannot exist, for where there is no longer a homeland there can no longer be citizens. These two words, homeland and citizen, ought to be erased from modern languages. I know very well the reason for this but I do not want to discuss it here; it has nothing to do with my subject.
33 I do not consider our ridiculous colleges as public institutions. Nor do I count the education of society, for this education, facing two ways at once, achieves nothing. It is only fit to turn out double men, always seeming to relate everything to others while actually relating nothing to anyone but themselves. These forms of display are common to everybody and deceive no one. They are so much wasted effort.
34 From these contradictions arise the one which we experience ceaselessly within ourselves. Drawn this way by nature and that way by men, forced to divide ourselves between divergent impulses, we make a compromise and reach neither goal. Thus buffeted and floating throughout the course of our lives, we end it without having been able to be in harmony with ourselves -- and without having done anything good either for ourselves or for others.
35 There remains finally domestic education or the education of nature. But what will a man raised uniquely for himself become for others? If perhaps the proposed double aim could be resolved into one, then by removing man's contradictions we would remove a great obstacle to his happiness. To judge you must see this man full-grown; you must have observed his inclinations, watched his progress, followed his steps. In a word, natural man would have to be known. When you have read this work, I think you will have made some progress in this research.
36 What must be done to form this rare man? Without a doubt, very much: it is to prevent anything from being done. When one wishes to go against the wind one can tack; but to keep one's position in a stormy sea one must cast anchor. Beware, young pilot, lest your boat slip its cable or drag its anchor before you know it.
37 In the social order where each has his own place a man must be educated for it. If an individual formed for a particular social position happens to leave that position, he is fit for nothing else. His education is only useful when fate agrees with his parents' choice. If not, education harms the student, if only by the prejudices it has given him. In Egypt, where the son was compelled to adopt his father's calling, education had at least a settled aim. But with us, where only the social ranks remain and the men who form them are constantly changing, no one knows if raising one's son for his own class may actually be working against him.
38 In the natural order since men are all equal their common vocation is that of man. And whoever is well-raised for that calling cannot badly fulfill anything that relates to it. Whether my pupil is destined for the army, the church, or the law, is of little import. Before his parents chose a vocation for him, nature called him to human life. Life is the trade I want to teach him. Leaving my hands I grant you he will be neither a magistrate, a soldier, nor a priest; he will be first of all a man. All that a man ought to be he will learn as quickly as another. In vain can fortune change his station; he will always be in his right place. "Ocupavi te, fortuna, atque cepi; omnes-que aditus tuos interclusi, ut ad me aspirare non posses."
39 Our true study is that of the human condition. Those who can best endure the good and evil of life are in my view the best educated. Hence it follows that true education consists less in precept than in practice. We begin to learn when we begin to live; our education begins with ourselves. Our first teacher is our nurse. Moreover, this word "educatio" had with the ancients another meaning that we no longer give it -- it meant "nurture." "Educit obstetrix," says Varro. "Educat nutrix, instituit pedagogus, docet magister." Thus, education, discipline, and instruction are three things as different in their purpose as the nurse, the preceptor, and the master. But these distinctions are undesirable and the child should only follow one guide.
40 We must therefore look at the general rather than the particular, and consider our pupil as man in the abstract, man exposed to all the accidents of human life. If men were born attached to the soil of one country, if one season lasted all the year round, if every man's fortune were so firmly grasped that he could never lose it, then the established method of education would be good in certain ways: the child raised for his own place in society would never leave it, and he would never be exposed to the difficulties of another. But given the mobility of human affairs, the restless and uneasy spirit of this century which turns everything upside down with each generation, can we conceive a more senseless plan than to raise a child as if he will never leave his room, as if he will always have his servants about him? If the poor creature takes a single step on the ground, if he descends the social ladder by a single rung, he is lost. This is not teaching him to bear pain; it is training him to feel it.
41 People think only of preserving their child's life; this is not enough. He must be taught to preserve himself as a man, to bear the blows of fate, to brave wealth and poverty, to live if necessary among the snows of Iceland or on the scorching rocks of Malta. In vain you guard against death: he will nevertheless have to die, and even if you do not kill him with your precautions, they are ill-conceived. It is less a question of keeping him from dying than of making him live. To live is not to breathe but to act. It is to make use of our organs, our senses, our faculties, of all the parts of ourselves which give us the sentiment of our existence. The man who has lived the most is not he who has counted the most years but he who has most felt life. A man may be buried at a hundred who has been dead since his birth. He would have gained more by dying young: at least he would have lived up until that time.
42 All our wisdom consists of servile prejudices; our customs consist in subjection, discomfort, constraint. Civil man is born, lives, and dies in slavery. At his birth the infant is bound up in swaddling clothes; at his death he is nailed down in his coffin. As long as he keeps a human form he is enchained by by our institutions.
43 It is said that many midwives profess to improve the shape of the infant's head by rubbing, and they are allowed to do this. Our heads are not good enough as God made them; they must be moulded outside by the nurse and inside by the philosophers. The Caribs are better off than we are.
44 The child has hardly left the mother's womb, it has hardly begun to move and stretch its limbs, when it is given new bonds. It is wrapped in swaddling bands, laid down with its head fixed, its legs stretched out, and its arms by its sides; it is wound round with linen and bandages of all sorts so that it cannot move. The child is fortunate if it has room to breathe and if it is laid on its side so that any water which should flow from its mouth can escape; for it is not free to turn its head on one side for this purpose.
45 The new-born child needs to stir and stretch his limbs to free them from the stiffness resulting from being curled up so long. His limbs are stretched indeed, but he is not allowed to move them. Even the head is confined by a cap. One would think they were afraid the child should look as if he were alive.
46 As a result the internal impulses which should lead to growth find an insurmountable obstacle in the way of the necessary movements. The child exhausts his strength in vain struggles, or he gains strength very slowly. He was freer and less constrained in the womb; he has gained nothing by birth.
47 The inaction, the constraint to which the child's limbs are subjected, can only hinder the circulation of the blood and bodily fluids; it can only limit the child's growth in size and strength and injure its constitution. In places where such absurd precautions are unknown, the men are tall, strong, and well-made. The countries where children are swaddled swarm with hunch-backs, the lame, the bowlegged, the arthritic, and people with every kind of deformity. In our fear that the body should become deformed by free movement, we hasten to deform it by putting it in a press. We willfully make our children crippled by preventing them from disabling themselves.
48 Might not such a cruel constraint influence their humor as well as their temperament? Their first feeling is one of sadness and of pain. They are confronted by obstacles with each necessary movement. More miserable than a criminal in chains, they make vain efforts, they become angry, they cry. Their first words you say are tears. I believe it. You thwart them from birth. The first gifts they receive from you are chains, the first treatment they experience is torture. Having nothing that is free but their voice, why wouldn't they use it to complain? They cry from the pains that you give them. Thus fettered you would cry louder than they.
49 Whence comes this unreasonable custom? From an unnatural practice. Since mothers despise their primary duty and do not wish to nurse their own children, they have had to entrust them to mercenary women. These women thus become mothers to a stranger's children, who by nature mean so little to them that they seek only to spare themselves trouble. A child unswaddled would need constant watching; well swaddled it is cast into a corner and its cries are ignored. As long as the nurse's negligence escapes notice, as long as the nursling does not break its arms or legs, what matter if it dies or becomes a weakling for life? Its limbs are kept safe at the expense of its body, and if anything goes wrong it is not the nurse's fault.
50 These gentle mothers, having gotten rid of their babies, devote themselves gaily to the pleasures of the town. Do they know how their children are being treated in the villages? If the nurse is at all busy, the child is hung up on a nail like a bundle of clothes and is left crucified while the nurse goes leisurely about her business. All those who have been found in this position were purple in the face. Their tightly bandaged chest prevented the circulation of the blood, and it went to the head. The patient was considered very quiet because he had not strength to cry. How long a child might survive under such conditions I do not know, but it could not be long. That, I suppose, is one of the chief advantages of swaddling clothes.
51 It is claimed that infants left free would assume faulty positions and make movements which might injure the proper development of their limbs. This is one of the vain rationalizations of our false wisdom which experience has never confirmed. Out of the multitude of children who grow up with the full use of their limbs among nations wiser than ourselves, you never find one who hurts himself or maims himself; their movements are too feeble to be dangerous, and when they assume an injurious position, pain warns them to change it.
52 We have not yet decided to swaddle our kittens and puppies; are they any the worse for this neglect? Children are heavier, I admit, but in proportion they are also weaker. They can scarcely move, how could they hurt themselves? If you lay them on their backs, they will lie there till they die, like turtles, unable to turn itself over.
53 Not content with having ceased to suckle their children, women no longer even wish to do it. The consequence is natural. Once motherhood becomes a burden means are found to avoid it. They will make their work useless in order to begin it over again, and they thus distort, to the prejudice of the species, the charm which was given them for its increase. This practice, along with other causes of depopulation, forebodes the coming fate of Europe. The sciences, arts, philosophy and customs that are generated will not be long in reducing Europe to a desert. It will be the home of wild beasts, and its inhabitants will hardly have changed for the worse.
54 I have sometimes watched the little manipulations of young wives who pretend that they wish to nurse their own children. They take care to be dissuaded from this whim. They contrive that husbands, doctors, and especially mothers should intervene. A man who dared to let his wife nurse her own baby would be lost; they would make him out a murderer who wanted to be rid of her. Prudent husbands, one must sacrifice paternal affection to domestic peace. Luckily there are women in the countryside who are more conscientious than your wives. You will be even more lucky if the time your wives thus gain is not intended for another than yourself!
55 There can be no doubt about a wife's duty, but considering the contempt in which it is held, it is doubtful whether it is not just as good for the child to be suckled by a stranger. This is a question for the doctors to settle, and in my opinion they have settled it according to the women's wishes. For my own part, I think it is better that if the child has any new ills to fear from the same blood out of which he was formed, he should suck the breast of a healthy nurse rather than of a spoiled mother.
56 However, should the question be considered only from the physical side? Does not the child need a mother's care as much as her milk? Other women, or even other animals, may give him the milk she denies him, but there is no substitute for a mother's love. The woman who nurses another's child in place of her own is a bad mother; how will she be a good nurse? She could become one, though slowly. For that it would be necessary for habit to change nature, and the child poorly cared for could perish a hundred times before his nurse had developed a mother's tenderness for him.
57 And this affection, when developed, has its drawbacks, which should make any feeling woman afraid to put her child out to nurse. Is she prepared to divide her mother's rights, or rather to abdicate them, in favour of a stranger? to see her child loving another more than herself? to feel that the affection he retains for his own mother is a favour, while his love for his foster-mother is a duty? For is not some affection due where there has been a mother's care?
58 To remove this difficulty, children are taught to look down on their nurses, to treat them as mere servants. When their task is completed the child is withdrawn or the nurse is dismissed. By receiving her badly, the parents discourage her from coming to see her nurseling. After a few years the child doesn't see her and knows nothing of her. The mother who expects to take her place and to repair neglect with cruelty deceives herself. Instead of making an affectionate son out of a denatured nurseling, she is teaching him ingratitude; she is teaching him to despise at a later day the mother who bore him just as he now despises his nurse.
59 How I would I insist on this point if it were not so discouraging to keep hammering at useful subjects! More depends on this than one thinks. If you wish to restore all men to their primary duties, begin with the mothers. The results will surprise you. Everything follows from this first deprivation: the whole moral order is disturbed, nature is quenched in every breast, the home becomes gloomy, the spectacle of a young family no longer stirs the husband's love and the stranger's reverence. The mother whose children are out of sight is less respected; there is no home life; the ties of nature are not strengthened by those of habit; fathers, mothers, children, brothers, and sisters cease to exist. They hardly know each other. How could they love one another? Each one thinks only of himself. When the home is only a sad solitude, one must go elsewhere to be gay.
60 But when mothers deign to nurse their own children, then morals will reforms themselves, natural feeling will revive in every heart, the state will be repopulated. This first point, this point alone, will bring everything together. The attractions of domestic life are the best antidote for bad morals. The noisy play of children, which one assumes to be bothersome, becomes agreeable; the mother and the father become more necessary, more dear to each other; the conjugal bonds are tightened. When the family is lively and animated domestic cares become the most cherished occupation of the wife and the sweetest amusement of the husband. Thus from this one corrected abuse would result a general reform; soon nature would have regained all of its rights. Once women become mothers again, men will become husbands and fathers.
61 A superfluous speech! When we are sick of worldly pleasures, we do not return to the pleasures of the home. Women have ceased being mothers -- they will no longer be and do not wish to be. Even if they wanted to, they hardly could. Today the contrary custom is established. Each would have to overcome the opposition of those who approach her and who are leagued together against the example which some have never given and others do not desire to follow.
62 Yet there are still a few young women of natural goodness who on this point dare brave the empire of fashion and the clamors of their sex and, with virtuous boldness, do fulfill this sweet duty that nature imposes on them. May their number increase from the attraction of the benefits destined for those who do so! Based on consequences given by simple reasoning and upon observations I have never seen disputed, I dare promise these worthy mothers the firm and steadfast affection of their husbands, the truly filial love of their children, the esteem and respect of the public, easy pregnancies without accident or misfortune, firm and vigorous health, and finally the pleasure of one day seeing their daughters follow their example and being cited as an example to the daughters of others.
63 No mother, no child. Between them their duties are reciprocal, and if they are poorly fulfilled by the one they will be neglected by the other. The child should love his mother before he knows that he should. If the voice of instinct is not strengthened by habit and care, it will die in the early years and the heart will die, so to speak, before being born. Here we are already stepping away from nature.
64 One also leaves nature by an opposite route when instead of neglecting a mother's care a woman carries it to excess. This is when she makes an idol of her child, when she augments and nurtures his weakness in order to prevent him from feeling it, and when hoping to protect him from the laws of nature she removes from him any painful impact -- without thinking to what extent she is preserving him for a moment from a few inconveniences only to accumulate accidents and perils later on, and to what extent it is a barbarous precaution to add the weakness of childhood to a mature man's burdens. Thetis, according to the fable, plunged her son in the waters of Styx to make him invulnerable. This allegory is beautiful and clear. The cruel mothers I speak of do otherwise: by plunging their children into softness, they prepare them for suffering, they open their pores to every kind of ill which they will not fail to be a victim of when they grow up.
65 Observe nature, follow the route that it traces for you. Nature exercises children continually, it hardens their temperament by all kinds of difficulties, it teaches them early the meaning of pain and sorrow. Teething gives them fevers, sharp colics bring on convulsions, long coughing suffocates them, worms torment them, plethora corrupts their blood, various leavens ferment it and cause dangerous eruptions. Almost all of the first age is sickness and danger: one half of the children who are born die before their eighth year. The tests passed, the infant has gained strength, and as soon as he can make use of his life its principle becomes more secure.
66 This is the law of nature. Why would you contradict it? Do you not see that in your efforts to improve upon its work you are destroying it, that you impede the effect of its aims? To do from without what she does within is according to you to increase the danger twofold. On the contrary, it is the way to avert it. Experience shows that children delicately raised are more likely to die. Provided we do not overdo it, there is less risk in using their strength than in sparing it. Accustom them therefore to the hardships they will have to face; train them to endure extremes of temperature, climate, and condition, hunger, thirst, and weariness. Dip them in the waters of Styx. Before bodily habits are acquired you may teach what habits you will without danger. But once habits are established any change becomes perilous. A child will bear changes which a man cannot bear. The muscles of the one are soft and flexible and take whatever direction you give them without any effort. The muscles of the grown man are harder and they only change their accustomed mode of action when subjected to violence. One can thus make a child robust without risking his life or health; and even if there were some risk, one should not hesitate. Since risks are inseparable from human life, can we do better than face them at a time when they can do the least harm?
67 A child's worth increases with his years. To his personal value must be added the cost of the care bestowed upon him; to the loss of his life is joined in him the sentiment of death. It is therefore above all of the future that we must think in watching over his conservation; it is against the ills of childhood that he must be armed even before he gets there. For if the value of life increases until the child reaches an age when he can be useful, is it not crazy to spare some suffering in infancy only to multiply his pain when he reaches the age of reason? Are those the lessons of the master?
68 The fate of man is to suffer at all times. Even the effort to conserve himself is attached to pain. In infancy one is lucky to know only physical ills, ills much less cruel, much less painful, than the others and much less frequently than they to make us give up on life. One does not kill oneself over the pains of gout; it is only the pains of the soul that produce such despair. We pity the sufferings of childhood; we should pity ourselves. Our worst sorrows are of our own making.
69 In childbirth the infant cries; his early infancy is spent in crying. Sometimes we bustle about, we caress him in order to pacify him; at other times we threaten him, we hit him in order to make him be quiet. We do what pleases him, or we insist that he do what pleases us. Either we submit to his whims or subject him to our own. There is no middle way: he must give orders or receive them. Thus his earliest ideas are those of domination or servitude. Before knowing how to speak he commands; before knowing how to act he obeys; and sometimes we chastise him before he can know his faults or even commit them. It is thus that early on we pour into his young heart passions that we later attribute to nature, and that after having taken pains to make him evil we complain of having found him so.
70 A child passes six or seven years this way in the hands of women, the victim of their caprice or his own. And after having made him to learn this or that -- that is to say after having burdened his memory with words that he cannot understand or with things that are good for nothing -- after having stifled what is natural in him with passions that have been created, we give over this artificial being into the hands of a tutor. The tutor continues to develop these artificial germs that he found already formed and teaches the child everything except how to know himself, how to decide for himself, how to live and make himself happy. Finally when this child -- both a slave and a tyrant, full of knowledge but lacking all sense, equally debilitated in body and soul -- is thrown into the world, by showing his ineptitude, his pride and all his vices he makes us deplore human misery and perversity. We are wrong. This is a man based on our fantasies. One based on nature is made differently.
71 Do you wish, then, that he keep his original form? Watch over him from the moment he comes into the world. As soon as he is born take possession of him and do not leave him till he is a man; you will never succeed otherwise. Just as the real nurse is the mother, the real teacher is the father. Let them agree in the ordering of their functions as well as in their system; let the child pass from one to the other. He will be better educated by a sensible though limited father than by the cleverest teacher in the world. For zeal will make up for lack of knowledge better than knowledge for lack of zeal.
72 But business, jobs, duties. . . Duties indeed! Does a father's duty come last? It is not surprising that the man whose wife despises the duty of suckling her child should himself despise the child's education. There is no more charming picture than that of family life; but when one feature is lacking the whole is marred. If the mother is too delicate to nurse her child, the father will be too busy to teach him. Their children, scattered about in schools, convents, and colleges, will carry their love for their paternal home elsewhere, or rather they will form the habit of caring for nothing. Brothers and sisters will scarcely know each other; when they are together in company they will behave as strangers. When there is no confidence between relations, when the familiar society ceases to give favour to life, its place is soon usurped by bad morals. Is there any man so stupid that he cannot see how all this hangs together?
73 When a father begets children and provides a living for them he has done but a third of his task. He owes human beings to his species, social men to society, citizens to the state. A man who can pay this threefold debt and neglects to do so is guilty, more guilty, perhaps, if he pays it in part than when he neglects it entirely. He who cannot fulfil the duties of a father has no right to be a father. Neither poverty, work, nor human respect excuse a man from supporting his children and raising them himself. Readers, you can believe me. I predict that anyone who has visceral feelings and neglects such sacred duties will long weep bitter tears and will never be consoled.
74 But what does this rich man do, this father of a family, who is so busy and forced, according to him, to abandon his children? He pays another man to fulfil those duties which are his alone. Venal soul! Do you expect to purchase a second father for your child? Do not deceive yourself; it is not even a master you have hired for him, it is a flunkey. He soon will create a second one.
75 There is much discussion about the qualities of a good tutor. My first requirement, and it implies many more, is that he should not be a man who can be bought. There are callings so great that they cannot be undertaken for money without showing our unfitness for them; such callings are those of the soldier and the teacher. "But who must train my child?" I have just told you, you should do it yourself. "I cannot." You cannot! Then you must make a friend. I see no other resource.
76 A tutor! What a sublime soul . . . In truth to make a man one must either be a father or more than a man. It is this function you would calmly hand over to mercenaries.
77 The more one thinks about it the more one can see the difficulties. The tutor must have been trained for his pupil and his servants must have been trained for their master, so that all who come near him may have received the impression that they must communicate with him. Thus one must pass from education to education I know not how far. How can a child be well educated by one who has not been well educated himself?
78 Is this rare mortal impossible to find? I do not know. In these times of degradation who knows the height of virtue to which man's soul may attain? But let us assume that this prodigy has been found. It is in considering what he should do that we will see what he can be. What I think I see in advance is that the father who realizes the value of a good tutor will contrive to do without one, for it will be harder to find one than to become such a tutor himself. Does he then want to find a friend? If he should raise his son to be one he need search no further and nature herself will have done half the work.
79 Someone whose rank alone is known to me suggested that I should educate his son. He did me a great honour, no doubt, but far from regretting my refusal, he ought to congratulate himself on my prudence. Had the offer been accepted and had I been mistaken in my method, there would have been an education ruined. Had I succeeded, things would have been worse-his son would have renounced his title and refused to be a prince.
80 I feel too deeply the importance of a tutor's duties and my own unfitness, ever to accept such a post, whoever offered it, and even the claims of friendship would be only an additional motive for my refusal. Few, I think, will be tempted to make me such an offer when they have read this book, and I beg any one who would do so to spare his pains. I have had enough experience of the task to convince myself of my own unfitness, and my circumstances would make it impossible even if my talents were such as to fit me for it. I have thought it my duty to make this public declaration to those who apparently refuse to do me the honour of believing in the sincerity of my determination.
81 Unable to undertake the more useful task, I will at least venture to attempt the easier one. I will follow the example of so many others and take up, not the task, but my pen; and instead of doing the right thing I will try to say it.
82 I know that in such an undertaking the author, always at home among systems that he is spared from putting into practice, painlessly provides nice-sounding precepts that are impossible to follow; and that lacking details and examples, even what is practicable remains unused when its application has not been demonstrated.
83 I have therefore decided to take an imaginary pupil, to assume on my own part the age, health, knowledge, and talents required for the work of his education, to guide him from birth to the point where, having become a man, he needs no other guide but himself. This method seems to me useful for an author who fears that he may be carried away by his visions, for as soon as he departs from common practice he has only to try his method on his pupil; he will soon know, or the reader will know for him, whether he is following the development of the child and the natural growth of the human heart.
84 This is what I have tried to do in all the difficulties that are presented here. Lest my book should be unduly bulky, I have been content to state principles whose truth everyone should sense. But as to the rules which call for proof, I have applied them to Emile or to others, and I have shown, in very great detail, how my theories may be put into practice. Such at least is my plan; the reader must decide whether I have succeeded.
85 At first I have said little about Emile, for my earliest maxims of education, though very different from those generally accepted, are so plain that it is hard for a man of sense to refuse to accept them. But as I advance, my scholar, having been led along differently from yours, is no longer an ordinary child; he needs a regime that is special for him. Then he appears upon the scene more frequently, and towards the end I never lose sight of him for a moment, until, whatever he may say, he hasn't the slightest need for me.
86 I pass over the qualities required in a good tutor; I take them for granted, and assume that I am endowed with them. As you read this book you will see how generous I have been to myself.
87 I will only remark that, contrary to the received opinion, a child's tutor should be young, even as young as a wise man can be. Were it possible, he should become a child himself, that he may become the companion of his pupil and win his confidences by sharing his games. Childhood and ripened age have too little in common for the formation of a really firm affection. Children sometimes flatter old men, but they never love them.
88 People seek a tutor who has already educated one pupil. This is too much; one man can only make one other man; if two were essential to success, what right would he have to undertake the first?
89 With more experience you may know better what to do, but you are less capable of doing it. Whoever has fulfilled this state one time well enough to know all its difficulties does not try to start again, and if he fulfilled it badly the first time it's a bad sign for the second.
90 It is one thing to follow a young man about for four years, another to be his guide for twenty-five. You find a tutor for your son when he is already formed; I want one for him before he is born. Your man may change his pupil every five years, mine will never have but one pupil. You distinguish between the teacher and the tutor. Another piece of folly! Do you make any distinction between the disciple and the pupil? There is only one science to teach children: it is that of the duties of man. This science is one, and, whatever Xenophon may say of the education of the Persians, it cannot be divided. Besides, I prefer to call the man who has this knowledge tutor rather than teacher, since for him it is less a question of instruction than of guidance. He must not give precepts, he must let them be found.
91 If the tutor is to be so carefully chosen, so may he be allowed to choose his pupil, especially when it is a question of proposing a model. This choice cannot depend on the child's genius or character, since I adopt him before he is born, and those things are only known when the task is finished. If I had my choice I would take a child of ordinary mind, such as I assume in my pupil. It is ordinary people who have to be educated, and their education alone can serve as a pattern for the education of their fellows. The others raise themselves no matter what one does.
92 One's native land is not a matter of indifference in the education of men; they are all that they can be only in temperate climates. The disadvantages of extremes are easily seen. A man is not planted in one place like a tree, to stay there the rest of his life, and to pass from one extreme to another you must travel twice as far as he who starts half-way.
93 If the inhabitant of a temperate climate passes in turn through both extremes his advantage is plain, for although he may be changed as much as he who goes from one extreme to the other, he only moves half-way from his natural condition. A Frenchman can live in New Guinea or in Lapland, but a negro cannot live in Tornea nor a Samoyed in Benin. It seems also as if the brain were less perfectly organized in the two extremes. Neither the negroes nor the Laps have the sense of the Europeans. So if I want my pupil to be an inhabitant of the earth I will choose him in the temperate zone, in France for example, rather than elsewhere.
94 In the north with its barren soil men devour much food; in the fertile south they eat little. From this arises another difference which makes the former industrious, the latter contemplative. Society shows us in a single place an image of these differences between the poor and the rich. The first live on unyielding soil, the others on fertile soil.
95 The poor man has no need of education. The education of his own station in life is forced upon him; he can have no other. The education received by the rich man from his own station is least fitted for himself and for society, whereas a natural education should fit a man for any position. Now it is more unreasonable to train a poor man for wealth than a rich man for poverty, for in proportion to their numbers more rich men are ruined and fewer poor men become rich. Let us choose our pupil among the rich; we will at least be sure to have made one more man, whereas the poor can become men on their own.
96 For the same reason I should not be sorry if Emile came of a good family. He will be another victim snatched from prejudice.
97 Emile is an orphan. No matter whether he has father or mother, having undertaken their duties I am invested with their rights. He must honour his parents, but he must obey only me. That is my first or rather my only condition.
98 I must add that there is just one other point arising out of this; we must never be separated except by mutual consent. This clause is essential, and I would have tutor and scholar so inseparable that they should regard their fate as one. If once they perceive the time of their separation drawing near -- the time which must make them strangers to one another, they will become strangers then and there. Each will make his own little world, and both of them being busy in thought with the time when they are no longer be together, they will remain together against their will. The pupil will regard his tutor as the sign and plague of childhood, the tutor will regard his scholar as a heavy burden which he longs to be rid of. Both will be looking forward to the time when they will part, and as there was never any real affection between them, one will have very little vigilance, the other very little docility.
99 But when they consider they must always live together, they must love one another, and in this way they will become dear to one another. The pupil will not be ashamed to follow as a child the friend who will be with him in manhood; the tutor will an interest in the efforts whose fruits he will harvest, and the merit he is cultivating in his pupil is a fund that he will profit from in his old age.
100 This agreement made beforehand assumes a normal birth, a well-formed, vigorous and healthy child. A father has no choice, and should have no preference within the limits of the family God has given him; all his children are equally his children and he owes them all the same care and affection. Crippled or not, languid or robust, each of them is a trust for which he is responsible to the hand from which it has been given, and marriage is a contract made with nature as well as between spouses.
101 But anyone who undertakes a duty not imposed upon him by nature must secure beforehand the means for its fulfillment; otherwise, he makes himself accountable even for what he could not do. If you take the care of a sickly, unhealthy child, you become a sick nurse, not a tutor. To preserve a useless life you are wasting the time which should be spent in increasing its value; you risk the sight of a despairing mother reproaching you for the death of a child who ought to have died long ago.
102 I would not undertake the care of a feeble, sickly child, even if he should live for eighty years. I do not want a pupil who is useless alike to himself and others, one whose sole business is to keep himself alive, one whose body is always a hindrance to the training of his mind. If I vainly lavish my care upon him, what can I do but double the loss to society by robbing it of two men instead of one? Let another tend this weakling for me; I am quite willing, I approve his charity, but I myself have no gift for such a task. I could never teach the art of living to one who needs all his strength to keep himself alive.
103 The body must be strong enough to obey the mind; a good servant must be strong. I know that intemperance stimulates the passions; it also destroys the body in the long run. Fasting and penance often produce the same results in an opposite way. The weaker the body, the more imperious its demands; the stronger it is, the better it obeys. All sensual passions find their home in effeminate bodies. The less satisfied they are the more irritated they feel.
104 A frail body weakens the soul. Hence the influence of medicine, an art which does more harm to man than all the evils it professes to cure. I do not know what the doctors cure us of, but I know this: they infect us with very deadly diseases --cowardice, timidity, credulity, the fear of death. What if they can make corpses walk? It is men that we need, and we will never see them leaving the hands of a doctor.
105 Medicine is fashionable among us; it has to be. It is the amusement of idle and inactive people who do not know what to do with their time and so spend it in taking care of themselves. If by ill luck they had happened to be born immortal, they would have been the most miserable of men; a life they could not lose would be of no value to them. Such men must have doctors to threaten and flatter them, to give them the only pleasure they can enjoy -- the pleasure of not being dead.
106 I have no intention of continuing on about the vanity of medicine. My aim is to consider its bearings on morals. Still I cannot refrain from saying that men employ the same sophism about medicine as they do about the search for truth. They assume that by treating the patient they cure him and that by seeking the truth they find it. They do not see that one must weigh the advantage of a cure that the doctor effects with the death of a hundred sick people he has killed, and the usefulness of one true discovery with the errors which creep in with it. The science which instructs and the medicine which heals are no doubt excellent, but the science which misleads us and the medicine which kills us are evil. Teach us to tell them apart -- that is the knot of the question. If we knew how to ignore truth we would not be the dupes of falsehood; if we did not want to be cured in spite of nature, we would never die at the hand of the doctor. We should do well to steer clear of both, and we should evidently be the gainers. I do not deny that medicine is useful to some men, but I say that it is fatal to mankind.
107 You will tell me, as usual, that the doctors are to blame, that medicine itself is infallible. Well and good, then give us the medicine without the doctor. For when we have both, the blunders of the artist are a hundredfold greater than our hopes from the art.
108 This lying art, invented rather for the ills of the mind than of the body, is useless to both alike; it does less to cure us of our diseases than to fill us with alarm. It does less to ward off death than to make us dread its approach. It exhausts life rather than prolongs it. Should it even prolong life it would only be to the prejudice of the race, since it makes us set its precautions before society and our fears before our duties. It is the knowledge of danger that makes us afraid. If we thought ourselves invulnerable we should know no fear. By arming Achilles against danger the poet robbed him of the merit of courage. Anyone else in his place would have been an Achilles at the same price.
109 Do you wish to find men with true courage? Seek them where there are no doctors, where the results of disease are unknown, and where death is little thought of. Naturally man knows how to constantly suffer and he dies in peace. It is the doctors with their rules, the philosophers with their precepts, the priests with their exhortations, who debase the heart and make us unlearn how to die.
110 Give me a pupil who has no need of these people or I will have nothing to do with him. No one else shall spoil my work. I wish to raise him myself or not at all. That wise man, Locke, who had devoted part of his life to the study of medicine, advises us strongly to give no drugs to the child, either as a precaution or on account of slight ailments. I will go farther and declare that, as I never call in a doctor for myself I will never send for one for Emile, unless his life is clearly in danger. For then a doctor can do no worse than to kill him.
111 I know the doctor will not fail to take advantage of this delay. If the child dies, he was called in too late; if he recovers, it is his doing. So be it; let the doctor boast, but do not call him in except in extremity.
112 For lack of knowing how to cure himself, let the child know how to be sick. The one art takes the place of the other and is often more successful; it is the art of nature. When an animal is sick it keeps quiet and suffers in silence; we see fewer sickly animals than sick men. How many men have been slain by impatience, fear, anxiety, and above all by medicine, men whom disease would have spared and time alone have cured? I shall be told that animals, who live according to nature, are less liable to disease than ourselves. Well, that way of living is just what I mean to teach my pupil; he should profit by it in the same way.
113 Hygiene is the only useful part of medicine, and hygiene is a virtue rather than a science. Temperance and industry are man's true remedies; work sharpens his appetite and temperance teaches him to control it.
114 To learn what regimen is most useful to life and to health, you have only to study the regimen followed by the peoples who are the healthiest, the most robust, and live the longest. If common observation shows us that medicine neither increases health nor prolongs life, it follows that this useless art is worse than useless, since it wastes time, men, and things on what is a pure loss. Not only must we deduct the time spent preserving life rather than using it, but if this time is spent in tormenting ourselves it is worse than wasted; it is adding to the bad; and to reckon fairly a corresponding share must be deducted from what remains to us. A man who lives ten years without doctors lives more for himself and others than one who spends thirty years as their victim. Having done a test of both ways I think I have a better right than most to draw my own conclusions.
115 For these reasons I decline to take any but a strong and healthy pupil, and these are my principles for keeping him in health. I will not stop to prove at length the value of manual labour and bodily exercise for strengthening the health and constitution; no one denies it. Nearly all the instances of long life are to be found among the men who have taken most exercise, who have endured fatigue and labour. Neither will I enter into details as to the care I shall take for this alone. It will be clear that it forms such an essential part of my practice that it is enough to get hold of the idea without further explanation.
116 When our life begins our needs begin too. The new-born infant must have a nurse. If his mother will do her duty, so much the better; her instructions will be given her in writing. This advantage has its drawbacks -- it removes the tutor from his charge. But it is to be hoped that the child's own interests, and her respect for the person to whom she is about to confide so precious a treasure will induce the mother to follow the tutor's wishes, and whatever she does you may be sure she will do better than another. If we must have a stranger for a nurse, let us begin by choosing her well.
117 One of the misfortunes of the rich is to be deceived in everything. If they judge people poorly, should one be surprised? It is riches that corrupt men, and the rich are rightly the first to feel the defects of the only tool they know. Everything is done poorly for them, except what they do themselves, and they do next to nothing. Is it a question of selecting a nurse? She is chosen by the doctor. What happens? The best nurse is the one who offers the highest bribe. I will not consult the doctor about Emile's nurse; I will take care to choose her myself. I may not argue about it so elegantly as the surgeon, but for sure I will be more reliable, and my zeal will deceive me less than his greed.
118 There is no mystery about this choice; its rules are well known. But I think we ought probably to pay as much attention to the age of the milk as to its quality. The first milk is watery, it must be almost a laxative in order to purge the remains of the meconium curdled in the bowels of the new-born child. Little by little the milk thickens and supplies more solid food as the child is able to digest it. It is surely not without cause that nature changes the milk in the female of every species according to the age of the offspring.
119 Thus a new-born child requires a nurse who has recently become a mother. There is, I know, a difficulty here, but as soon as we leave the path of nature every attempt to do things well has its difficulties. The wrong course is the only right one under the circumstances, so we take it.
120 The nurse must be as healthy in her heart as in her body. The storms of the passions as well as the humors may spoil her milk. Moreover, to focus on the physical is to see only half of the object. The milk may be good and the nurse bad; a good character is as necessary as a good constitution. If you choose a vicious person, I do not say her foster-child will acquire her vices, but he will suffer for them. Should she not to bestow on him day by day, along with her milk, a care which calls for zeal, patience, gentleness, and cleanliness? If she is greedy and intemperate her milk will soon be spoiled; if she is careless and hasty what will become of a poor little thing left to her mercy, and unable either to protect himself or to complain? The wicked are never good for anything.
121 The choice is all the more important because her foster-child should have no other guardian, just as he should have no teacher but his tutor. This was the custom of the ancients, who talked less but acted more wisely than we. After having nursed female children their nurses never left them; this is why the nurse is the confidante in most of their plays. A child who passes through many hands in succession can never be well raised. At every change he makes a secret comparison, which continually tends to lessen his respect for those who control him and with it their authority over him. If once he thinks there are grown-up people with no more sense than children the authority of age is destroyed and his education is ruined. A child should know no superiors other than his father and mother, or failing them his foster-mother and his tutor, and even this is one too many, but this division is inevitable, and the best that can be done in the way of remedy is that the man and woman who control him shall be so well agreed with regard to him that they seem like one.
122 The nurse must live rather more comfortably. She must have rather more substantial food, but her whole way of living must not be altered, for a sudden change, even a change for the better, is dangerous to health, and since her usual way of life has made her healthy and strong, why change it?
123 Peasant women eat less meat and more vegetables than towns-women, and this vegetarian diet seems favourable rather than otherwise to themselves and their children. When they take nurslings from the upper classes they eat meat and broth with the idea that they will form better chyle and supply more milk. I am not at all of this sentiment and experience is on my side, for we do not find children fed in this way less liable to colic and worms.
124 That need not surprise us, for decaying animal matter swarms with worms, but this is not the case with vegetable matter. Milk, although manufactured in the body of an animal, is a vegetable substance. This is shown by analysis; it readily turns acid, and far from showing traces of any volatile alkali like animal matter, it gives a neutral salt like plants.
125 The milk of herbivorous creatures is sweeter and more wholesome than the milk of the carnivorous. Formed of a substance similar to its own, it keeps its goodness and becomes less liable to putrefaction. If quantity is considered, it is well known that farinaceous foods produce more blood than meat, so they ought to yield more milk. If a child were not weaned too soon, and if it were fed on vegetarian food, and its foster-mother were a vegetarian, I do not think it would be troubled with worms.
126 Milk derived from vegetable foods may perhaps be more liable to go sour, but I am far from considering sour milk an unwholesome food; whole nations have no other food and are none the worse, and all the array of absorbents seems to me mere humbug. There are constitutions which do not thrive on milk, others can take it without absorbents. People are afraid of the milk separating or curdling. That is absurd, for we know that milk always curdles in the stomach. This is how it becomes sufficiently solid to nourish children and young animals. If it did not curdle it would merely pass away without feeding them. In vain you dilute milk and use absorbents; whoever swallows milk digests cheese, this rule is without exception; rennet is made from calf's stomach.
127 Instead of changing the nurse's usual diet I think it would be enough to give food in larger quantities and better of its kind. It is not the nature of the food that makes a vegetable diet indigestible, but the flavoring that makes it unwholesome. Reform your cookery, use neither butter nor oil for frying. Butter, salt, and milk should never be cooked. Let your vegetables be cooked in water and only seasoned when they come to table. The vegetable diet, far from disturbing the nurse, will give her a plentiful supply of milk. If a vegetable diet is best for the child, how can meat food be best for his nurse? The things are contradictory.
128 Fresh air affects children's constitutions, particularly in early years. It enters every pore of a soft and tender skin; it has a powerful effect on their young bodies. Its effects can never be destroyed. So I should not agree with those who take a country woman from her village and shut her up in one room in a town and her nursling with her. I would rather send him to breathe the fresh air of the country than the foul air of the town. He will take his new mother's position, will live in her cottage, where his tutor will follow him. The reader will bear in mind that this tutor is not a paid servant but the father's friend. If this friend cannot be found, if this transfer is not easy, if none of my advice can be followed, you will say to me, "What shall I do instead?" I have told you already-" Do what you are doing;" no advice is needed there.
129 Men are not made to be crowded together in ant-hills, but scattered over the earth to till it. The more they are massed together, the more corrupt they become. Disease and vice are the sure results of over-crowded cities. Of all creatures man is least fitted to live in herds. Huddled together like sheep, men would very soon die. Man's breath is fatal to his fellows. This is literally as well as figuratively true.
130 Cities are the abysse of the human species. In a few generations the race dies out or becomes degenerate; it needs renewal, and it is always renewed from the country. Send your children to renew themselves, so to speak; send them to regain in the open fields the strength lost in the foul air of our crowded cities. Women hurry home that their children may be born in the town. They ought to do just the opposite, especially those who mean to nurse their own children. They would lose less than they think, and in more natural surroundings the pleasures associated by nature with maternal duties would soon destroy the taste for those that are not.
131 The new-born infant is first bathed in warm water to which a little wine is usually added. I think the wine might be dispensed with. As nature does not produce fermented liquors, it is not likely that they are of much value to her creatures.
132 In the same way it is unnecessary to take the precaution of heating the water. In fact among many races the new-born infants are bathed with no more ado in rivers or in the sea. Our children, made tender before birth by the softness of their parents, come into the world with a constitution already enfeebled, which cannot be at once exposed to all the trials required to restore it to health. By degrees they must be restored to their natural vigour. Begin then by following this custom, and depart from it little by little. Wash your children often, their dirty ways show the need of this. If they are only wiped their skin is injured; but as they grow stronger gradually reduce the heat of the water, till at last you bathe them winter and summer in cold, even in ice-cold water. To avoid risk this change must be slow, gradual, and imperceptible, so you may use the thermometer for exact measurements.
133 This habit of the bath, once established, should never be broken off; it must be kept up all through life. I value it not only on grounds of cleanliness and present health, but also as a wholesome means of making the muscles supple, and accustoming them to bear without risk or effort extremes of heat and cold. As he gets older I would have the child trained to bathe occasionally in hot water of every bearable degree, and often in every degree of cold water. Now water being a denser fluid touches us at more points than air, so that, having learnt to bear all the variations of temperature in water, we shall scarcely feel those of the air.
134 At the moment that the child first breathes when leaving its envelope do not allow anyone to give him other constraints that will hold him even tighter. No cap, no bandages, nor swaddling clothes. Instead, loose and flowing flannel wrappers, which heave his limbs free and are not too heavy to check his movements, not too warm to prevent his feeling the air. Put him in a big cradle, well padded, where he can move easily and safely. As he begins to grow stronger, let him crawl about the room; let him develop and stretch his tiny limbs. You will see him gain strength from day to day. Compare him with a well swaddled child of the same age and you will be surprised at the difference in their progress.
135 You must expect great opposition from the nurses, who find that a half strangled baby needs much less watching. Besides, his dirtiness is more perceptible in an open garment; he must be attended to more frequently. In the end, custom is an argument that will never be refuted in some lands and among all classes of people.
136 Do not argue with the nurses; give your orders, see them carried out, and spare no pains to make the attention you prescribe easy in practice. Why not take your share in it? With ordinary nurslings, where the body alone is thought of, nothing matters so long as the child lives and does not actually die. But with us, when education begins with life, the new-born child is already a pupil, not of his tutor, but of nature. The tutor merely studies under this master, and sees that his orders are not evaded. He watches over the infant, he observes it, he looks for the first feeble glimmering of intelligence, as the Moslem looks for the moment of the moon's rising in her first quarter.
137 We are born capable of learning, but knowing nothing, perceiving nothing. The mind, bound up within imperfect and half grown organs, is not even aware of its own existence. The movements and cries of the new-born child are purely reflex, without knowledge or will.
138 Suppose that a child had at its birth the stature and strength of a man, that he had entered life full grown like Pallas from the brain of Jupiter. Such a child-man would be a perfect idiot, an automaton, a statue without motion and almost without feeling. He would see and hear nothing, he would recognise no one, he could not turn his eyes towards what he wanted to see. Not only would he perceive no external object, he would not even be aware of sensation through the several sense-organs. His eye would not perceive colour, his ear sounds, his body would be unaware of contact with neighbouring bodies, he would not even know he had a body. What his hands handled would be in his brain alone; all his sensations would be united in one place, they would exist only in the common "sensorium." He would have only one idea, that of self, to which he would refer all his sensations; and this idea, or rather this sentiment, would be the only thing he had more of than an ordinary child.
139 This man, full grown at birth, would also be unable to stand on his feet. He would need a long time to learn how to keep his balance; perhaps he would not even be able to try to do it, and you would see the big strong body left in one place like a stone, or creeping and crawling like a young puppy.
140 He would feel the discomfort of bodily needs without knowing what was the matter and without knowing how to provide for these needs. There is no immediate connection between the muscles of the stomach and those of the arms and legs to make him take a step towards food or stretch a hand to seize it even were he surrounded with it. And as his body would be full grown and his limbs well developed he would be without the perpetual restlessness and movement of childhood, so that he might die of hunger without stirring to seek food. However little you may have thought about the order and development of our knowledge, you cannot deny that such a one would be in the state of almost primitive ignorance and stupidity natural to man before he has learnt anything from experience or from his fellows.
141 We know then, or we may know, the point of departure from which we each start towards the usual level of understanding; but who knows the other extreme? Each progresses more or less according to his genius, his taste, his needs, his talents, his zeal, and his opportunities for using them. No philosopher, so far as I know, has dared to say to man, "Thus far shalt thou go and no further." We know not what nature allows us to be, but none of us has measured the possible difference between man and man. Is there a mind so dead that this thought has never kindled it, that has never said in his pride, "How much have I already done, how much more may I achieve? Why should I lag behind my fellows?"
142 I repeat: man's education begins at birth; before he can speak or understand he is learning. Experience precedes instruction; when he recognises his nurse he has learnt much. The knowledge of the most ignorant man would surprise us if we had followed his course from birth to the present time. If all human knowledge were divided into two parts, one common to all, the other peculiar to the learned, the latter would seem very small compared with the former. But we scarcely reflect on these general acquisitions because they happen without us thinking about them and even before the age of reason. Moreover, knowledge only attracts attention by its differences; as in algebraic equations common factors count for nothing.
143 Even animals learn much. They have senses and must learn to use them; they have needs, they must learn to satisfy them; they must learn to eat, walk, or fly. Quadrupeds which can stand on their feet from the first cannot walk for all that; from their first attempts it is clear that they lack confidence. Canaries who escape from their cage are unable to fly, having never used their wings. Living and feeling creatures are always learning. If plants could walk they would need senses and knowledge, else their species would die out.
144 Children's first sensations are purely affective. They are only aware of pleasure and pain. Being unable to walk nor to grasp they need much time to form little by little the representative sensations that show them objects beyond themselves. But while waiting for these objects to become extended, become distanced, so to speak, from their eyes and take on for them dimension and shape, the recurrence of affective sensations begins to subject the child to the rule of habit. You see his eyes constantly follow the light, and if the light comes from the side the eyes turn towards it, so that one must be careful to turn his head towards the light lest he should squint. He must also be accustomed from the first to the dark, or he will cry if he misses the light. Food and sleep, too exactly measured, become necessary at regular intervals, and soon desire is no longer the effect of need, but of habit, or rather habit adds a fresh need to those of nature. This is what must be prevented.
145 The only habit the child should be allowed is that of contracting none. Let him be carried on either arm, let him be accustomed to offer either hand, to use one or other indifferently; let him not want to eat, sleep, or do anything at fixed hours, nor be unable to be left alone by day or night. Prepare from afar the reign of his liberty and the use of his own forces by letting his body keep its natural habit, by putting him in a condition of being always master of himself, of following his will in everything as soon as he has one.
146 From the moment that the child begins to take notice, what is shown him must be carefully chosen. Naturally all new objects interest man. He feels so feeble that he fears the unknown: the habit of seeing fresh things without ill effects destroys this fear. Children brought up in clean houses where there are no spiders are afraid of spiders, and this fear often lasts through life. I never saw peasants, man, woman, or child, afraid of spiders.
147 Since the mere choice of things shown him may make the child timid or brave, why should not his education begin before he can speak or understand? I would have him accustomed to see fresh things, ugly, repulsive, and strange animals, but little by little, and at a distance, until he is used to them, and until having seen others handle them he handles them himself. If in childhood he sees toads, snakes, and crayfish, he will not be afraid of any animal when he is grown up. Those who are continually seeing terrible things think nothing of them.
148 All children are afraid of masks. I begin by showing Emile a mask with a pleasant face. Then some one puts this mask before his face; I begin to laugh, they all laugh too, and the child with them. By degrees I accustom him to less pleasing masks, and at last to hideous ones. If I have arranged my stages skilfully, far from being afraid of the last mask, he will laugh at it as he did at the first. After that I am not afraid of people frightening him with masks.
149 When Hector bids farewell to Andromache, the young Astyanax, startled by the nodding plumes on the helmet, does not know his father; he flings himself weeping upon his nurse's bosom and wins from his mother a smile mingled with tears. What must be done to cure him of this terror? Just what Hector did: put the helmet on the ground and caress the child. In a calmer moment one would do more; one would go up to the helmet, play with the plumes, let the child feel them; at last the nurse would take the helmet and place it laughingly on her own head, if indeed a woman's hand dare touch the armour of Hector.
150 What if we need to get Emile used to the noise of a firearm? I first fire a pistol with a small charge. He is delighted with this sudden flash, this sort of lightning; I repeat the process with more powder; gradually I add a small charge without a wad, then a larger; in the end I accustom him to the sound of a gun, to fireworks, cannon, and the most terrible explosions.
151 I have observed that children are rarely afraid of thunder unless the claps are really terrible and actually hurt the ear. Otherwise this fear only comes to them when they know that thunder sometimes hurts or kills. When reason begins to cause fear, let us reassure them. By slow and careful stages man and child learn to fear nothing.
152 At the beginning of life, when memory and imagination have not begun to function, the child only attends to what affects its senses. His sense experiences are the raw material of thought. They should, therefore, be presented to him in fitting order, so that memory may at a future time present them in the same order to his understanding. But since he only attends to his sensations it is enough, at first, to show him clearly the connection between these sensations and the things which cause them. He wants to touch and handle everything. Do not oppose this restlessness; it suggests to him a very necessary learning. It is thus that he will learn to feel heat, cold, hardness, softness, weight, or lightness of bodies; to judge their size and shape and all their physical properties by looking, feeling, listening, and, above all, by comparing sight and touch, by judging with the eye what sensation they would cause to his hand.
153 It is only by movement that we learn that there are things which are not us; it is only by our own movements that we gain the idea of extension. It is because the child does not have this idea that he indifferently reaches out to grasp the object that touches him or the object that is a hundred feet away. You take this as a sign of tyranny, an attempt to make the thing come near him or to make you bring him to it; but it is not that. It is merely that the object first seen in his brain, then before his eyes, now seems close to his arms, and he has no idea of space beyond his reach. Be careful, therefore, to take him about, to move him from place to place, and to let him perceive the change in his surroundings so as to teach him to judge of distances. When he begins to perceive distances then you must change your method, and only carry him when you please, not when he pleases. For as soon as he is no longer deceived by his senses, the cause of his effort changes. This change is important and calls for explanation.
154 The discomfort of real needs expresses itself by signs when the help of others is necessary for us to provide for them. Hence the cries of children. They often cry; it must be so. Since all their feelings are affective, when those feelings are pleasant they enjoy them in silence; when they are painful they say so in their own way and demand relief. Now when they are awake they can scarcely be in a state of indifference; either they are asleep or else they are feeling something.
155 All our languages are the work of art. People have long searched whether there ever was a natural language common to all; no doubt there is, and it is the language of children before they begin to speak. This language is inarticulate, but it is accentuated, sonorous, intelligible. The use of our own language has led us to neglect it so far as to forget it altogether. Let us study children and we shall soon learn it afresh from them. Nurses are masters of this language; they understand all their nurslings say to them, they answer them, and keep up long conversations with them; and though they use words, these words are quite useless. It is not the hearing of the word, but its accompanying intonation that is understood.
156 To the language of the voice is added the no less forcible language of gesture. Such gestures are not in the child's weak hands, but in its face. It is astonishing how much expression is in such underdeveloped physiognomies; their features change from one moment to another with incredible speed. You see smiles, desires, terror, come and go like lightning; every time the face seems different. The muscles of the face are undoubtedly more mobile than our own. On the other hand the eyes are almost expressionless. Such must be the sort of signs they use at an age when their only needs are those of the body. Grimaces are the sign of sensation, the glance expresses sentiment.
157 As man's first state is one of misery and weakness, his first sounds are cries and tears. The child feels his needs and cannot satisfy them; he begs for help by his cries. If he is hungry or thirsty he cries; if is he is too cold or too hot he cries; if he needs movement and is kept quiet he cries; if he wants to sleep and is disturbed he cries. The less comfortable he is the more he demands change. He has only one language because he has, so to say, only one kind of discomfort. In the imperfect state of his sense organs he does not distinguish their several impressions; all ills produce one feeling of sorrow.
158 From these tears that we might think so little worthy of attention, arise man's first relation to all that surrounds him; here is forged the first link in the long chain that forms the social order.
159 When the child cries he is uncomfortable, he feels some need which he cannot satisfy. We examine him, we search out this need, find it, and provide for it. When we cannot find it or provide for it, the tears continue and become tiresome. We stroke the child to make him keep quiet, we rock him, we sing to him to make him fall asleep. If he persists, we get impatient, we threaten him; cruel nurses sometimes strike him. What strange lessons for him at his first entrance into life!
160 I shall never forget seeing one of these troublesome crying children thus beaten by his nurse. He was silent at once. I thought he was frightened, and said to myself, "This will be a servile being from whom nothing can be got but by harshness." I was wrong. The poor thing was choking with rage, he could not breathe, I saw him becoming blue in the face. A moment later there were bitter cries, every sign of the anger, rage, and the despair of this age was in his tones. I thought he would die from such agitation. Had I doubted the innate sense of justice and injustice in man's heart, this one instance would have convinced me. I am sure that a drop of boiling liquid falling by chance on that child's hand would have hurt him less than that blow, slight in itself, but clearly given with the intention of hurting him.
161 This disposition of children to fury, spite, and anger needs great care. Boerhaave thinks that most of the diseases of children are of the nature of convulsions, because the head being proportionally larger and the nervous system more extensive than in adults, they are more liable to nervous irritation. Take the greatest care to remove from them any servants who agitate them, irritate them, annoy them. They are a hundredfold more dangerous and more fatal than fresh air and changing seasons. As long as children find resistance only in things and never in wills, they will become neither rebellious nor angry and they will conserve their health better. This is one reason why the children of the people, who are freer and more independent, are generally less infirm, less delicate, and more vigorous than those who claim to raise them better by ceaselessly thwarting them. But one must always be aware that there is a big difference between obeying them and not thwarting them.
162 Children's first tears are prayers; if you are not careful they soon become commands. They begin by asking for help, they end by making themselves served. Thus from his own weakness, the source of his first sentiment of dependence, springs the later idea of empire and domination. But this idea being less aroused by his needs than by our service, we begin to see moral results whose immediate cause is not in nature, and we see how important it is, even at the earliest age, to discern the secret meaning of the gesture or cry.
163 When the child tries to seize something without speaking, he thinks he can reach the object, for he does not rightly judge its distance. When he cries and stretches out his hands he no longer misjudges the distance; he bids the object approach, or orders you to bring it to him. In the first case bring it to him slowly; in the second do not even seem to hear his cries. The more he cries the less you should heed him. He must learn in good time not to give commands to men, for he is not their master, nor to things, for they cannot hear him. Thus when the child wants something you mean to give him, it is better to carry him to it rather than to bring the thing to him. From this he will draw a conclusion suited to his age, and there is no other way of suggesting it to him.
164 The Abbé de Saint-Pierre calls men big children; one might also call children little men. These statements contain truth as sentences; as principles they require explanation. But when Hobbes calls the wicked man a strong child, he says something absolutely contradictory. All wickedness comes from weakness. The child is only wicked because he is weak; make him strong and he will be good. He who could do everything would never do wrong. Of all the attributes of the allpowerful divinity, goodness is the one without which we could least conceive him. All peoples who have recognized two principles have always regarded the evil as inferior to the good; otherwise their opinion would have been absurd. See below the creed of the Savoyard Vicar.
165 Reason alone teaches us to know good and evil. Therefore conscience, which makes us love the one and hate the other, although independent of reason, cannot develop without it. Before the age of reason we do good and bad without knowing it, and there is no morality in our actions, although there sometimes is in the sentiment of others' actions which relate to us. A child wants to overturn everything he sees. He breaks and smashes everything he can reach; he seizes a bird as he seizes a stone, and strangles it without knowing what he is doing.
166 Why is this? First of all philosophy will find a reason for this in the natural vices: pride, the spirit of domination, amour-propre, the wickedness of man. The sentiment of his own weakness, one could add, makes the child eager to act forcefully, to prove his own power to himself. But observe that broken old man reduced in the downward course of life to the weakness of a child; not only is he quiet and peaceful, he wants to have everything around him quiet and peaceful too; the least change disturbs and bothers him, he would like to see universal calm. How is it that similar feebleness and similar passions should produce such different effects in age and in infancy if the original cause were not different? And where can we find this difference in cause except in the bodily condition of the two? The active principle common to both is growing in one case and fading in the other; it is being formed in the one and destroyed in the other; one is moving towards life, the other towards death. The failing activity of the old man is centred in his heart, the child's is overflowing and spreads everywhere. He feels, if we may say so, strong enough to give life to everything around him. To make or to destroy, it is all one to him. Change is what he seeks, and all change involves action. If he seems to have more of a tendency to destroy it is only that it takes time to make things and very little time to break them, so that the work of destruction agrees more with his eagerness.
167 At the same time that the Author of nature has given children this active principle, he takes care that it shall do little harm by giving them small power to use it. But as soon as they can think of people as instruments that depend on them to be set in action, they use them to carry out their wishes and to supplement their own weakness. This is how they become bothersome, tyranical, imperious, evil, and unmanageable -- a development which does not spring from a natural spirit of domination but which is given them. For one does not need much experience to realise how agreeable it is to act with the hands of others and to need only to move one's tongue in order to make the universe move.
168 As the child grows it gains strength and becomes less restless and unquiet and turns more towards oneself. Soul and body become better balanced and nature no longer asks for more movement than is required for self-preservation. But the desire to command is not extinguished with the need that aroused it; domination arouses and flatters amour-propre, and habit strengthens it. Thus whim succeeds need; thus prejudice and opinion take their first roots.
169 The principle once known we see clearly the point where one leaves the path of nature. Let us see what must be done to stay on it.
170 First maxim: Far from having superfluous strength, children do not have enough enough for all that nature demands of them. One must, therefore, let them have the use of all the strength that they are given and which they cannot abuse.
171 Second Maxim. One must help them and supplement what is lacking either in intelligence or in strength regarding everything that has to do with physical need.
172 Third Maxim. The help that one gives them should be limited to what is real utility, without granting anything to whim or to desire without reason; for whim will not torment them as long as it has not been aroused, since it is no part of nature.
173 Fourth Maxim. One must study carefully their language and their signs, so that at an age when they are incapable of deception one may discriminate between those desires which come immediately from nature and those which spring from opinion.
174 The spirit of these rules is to give children more real freedom and less imperiousness, to let them do more for themselves and demand less of others. Thus accustoming them from the first to limiting their desires to their strengths, they will scarcely feel the deprivation of whatever is not in their power.
175 This is another very important reason for leaving children's limbs and bodies perfectly free, the only precaution being to keep them away from the danger of falls and to keep out of their hands everything that could hurt them.
176 Certainly the child whose body and arms are free will cry much less than a child tied up in swaddling clothes. He who knows only bodily needs only cries when in pain; and this is a great advantage, for then we know exactly when he needs help, and if possible we should not delay our help for an instant. But if you cannot relieve his pain, stay where you are and do not flatter him by way of soothing him. Your caresses will not cure his colic, but he will remember what he must do to win them; and if he once finds out how to gain your attention at will, he is your master; everything is lost.
177 Less constrained in their movements, children will cry less; less wearied with their tears, people will not take so much trouble to keep them quiet. With fewer threats and promises, children will be less timid and less obstinate, and will remain more nearly in their natural state. It is less in letting them cry than in rushing to appease them that makes them get hernias, and my proof for this is that the most neglected children are less subject to them than others. I am very far from wishing that they should be neglected; on the contrary, it is of the utmost importance that their wants should be anticipated, so that one need not be warned of their needs by their cries. But neither would I have unwise care bestowed on them. Why should they think it wrong to cry when they find that their cries are good for so many things? When they have learned the value of their silence they take good care not to waste it. In the end they will so exaggerate its importance that no one will be able to pay its price; then worn out with crying they become exhausted, and are at length silent.
178 Prolonged crying on the part of a child neither swaddled nor out of health, a child who lacks nothing, is merely the result of habit or obstinacy. Such tears are no longer the work of nature, but the work of the child's caretaker, who could not resist its importunity and so has increased it, without considering that while she quiets the child to-day she is teaching him to cry louder to-morrow.
179 The only way to cure or prevent this habit is to pay it no attention. No one likes to take useless pains, not even infants. They are obstinate in their attempts; but if you have more constancy than they have hardheadedness, they will give up and not try again. Thus one spares them tears and accustoms them to shed them only when pain forces them to do so.
180 Moreover, when whim or obstinacy is the cause of their tears, there is a sure way of stopping them by distracting their attention by some pleasant or conspicuous object which makes them forget that they want to cry. Most nurses excel in this art, and rightly used it is very useful. But it is of the utmost importance that the child should not perceive that you mean to distract his attention, and that he should be amused without suspecting you are thinking about him; now this is what most nurses cannot do.
181 Most children are weaned too soon. The time to wean them is when they cut their teeth. This generally causes pain and suffering. At this time the child instinctively carries everything he gets hold of to his mouth to chew it. To help forward this process he is given as a plaything some hard object such as ivory or a wolf's tooth. I think this is a mistake. Hard bodies applied to the gums do not soften them; far from it, they make the process of cutting the teeth more difficult and painful. Let us always take instinct as our guide; we never see puppies practising their budding teeth on pebbles, iron, or bones, but on wood, leather, rags, soft materials which yield to their jaws, and on which the tooth leaves its mark.
182 We can do nothing simply, not even for our children. Toys of silver, gold, coral, cut crystal, rattles of every price and kind; what vain and useless appliances! Nothing of all that. No bells, no rattles. A small branch of a tree with its leaves and fruit, a little poppy flower in which one can hear the seeds shake, a stick of liquorice which he may suck and chew, will amuse him as well as all those magnificent knick-knacks, and they will not have the disadvantage of accustoming him to luxury from his birth.
183 It has been recognized that porridge is not a very wholesome food. Boiled milk and uncooked flour cause gravel and do not suit the stomach. In porridge the flour is less thoroughly cooked than in bread and it has not fermented. I think bread and milk or rice-cream are better. If you absolutely must have porridge, the flour should be lightly cooked beforehand. In my own country they make a very pleasant and wholesome soup from flour thus heated. Meat-broth or soup is not a very suitable food and should be used as little as possible. The child must first get used to chewing his food; this is the right way to bring the teeth through, and when the child begins to swallow, the saliva mixed with the food helps digestion.
184 I would have them first chew dried fruit or crusts. I would give them as playthings little bits of dry bread or biscuits, like the Piedmont bread, known in the country as "grisses." By dint of softening this bread in the mouth some of it is eventually swallowed, the teeth come through of themselves, and the child is weaned almost imperceptibly. Peasants have usually very good digestions, and they are weaned with very little trouble.
185 Children hear people speak from their birth. We speak to them not only before they can understand what is being said to them but before they can imitate the voices that they hear. The vocal organs are still stiff, and only gradually lend themselves to the reproduction of the sounds heard. It is even doubtful whether these sounds are heard distinctly as we hear them. I don't disapprove of the nurse amusing the child with songs and with very merry and varied intonation, but I object to her bewildering the child with a multitude of vain words of which he understands nothing but her tone of voice. I would have the first words he hears be few in number, distinct, and often repeated, while the words themselves be related to things which can first be shown to the child. That unfortunate facility in the use of words we do not understand begins earlier than we think. In the schoolroom the student listens to the verbiage of his master as he listened in the cradle to the babble of his nurse. I think it would be a very useful instruction to leave him in ignorance of both.
186 All sorts of ideas crowd in upon us when we try to consider the development of language and the child's first discourses. Whatever we do they all learn to talk in the same way, and all philosophical speculations are completely useless.
187 To begin with, children have, so to say, a grammar of their age whose syntax has more general rules than ours. And if one pays close attention one will be surprised to find how exactly they follow certain analogies, very much mistaken if you like, but very regular. These forms are grating only because of their crudeness or because they are not recognised by custom. I have just heard a child severely scolded by his father for saying, "Mon père, irai-je-t-y?" Now we see that this child was following the analogy more closely than our grammarians, for as they say to him, "Vas-y," why should he not say, "Irai-je-t-y? " Notice too the skilful way in which he avoids the hiatus in irai-je-y or y-irai-je? Is it the poor child's fault that we have so unskilfully deprived the phrase of this determinative adverb "y," because we did not know what to do with it? It is an intolerable piece of pedantry and most superfluous attention to detail to make a point of correcting all children's little sins against the customary expression, for they always cure themselves with time. Always speak correctly before them, let them never be so happy with any one as with you, and be sure that their speech will be imperceptibly modelled upon yours without any correction on your part.
188 But a much greater abuse, and one much less easy to prevent, is that they are urged to speak too much, as if people were afraid they would not learn to talk by themselves. This indiscreet pressure produces an effect directly opposite to what is meant. They speak later and more confusedly. The extreme attention paid to everything they say makes it unnecessary for them to speak distinctly, and as they will scarcely open their mouths, many of them contract bad pronunciation and a confused speech, which last all their life and make them almost unintelligible.
189 I have lived much among peasants, and I never knew one of them to lisp, man or woman, boy or girl. Why is this? Are their speech organs differently made from our own? No, but they are differently used. There is a little hill facing my window on which the children of the place assemble for their games. Although they are far enough away, I can distinguish perfectly what they say, and often get good notes for this book. Every day my ear deceives me as to their age. I hear the voices of children of ten; I look and see the height and features of children of three or four. This experience is not confined to me; the townspeople who come to see me, and whom I consult on this point, all fall into the same mistake.
190 This results from the fact that, up to five or six, children in town, brought up in a room and under the care of a nursery governess, do not need to speak above a whisper to make themselves heard. As soon as their lips move people take pains to make out what they mean. They are taught words which they repeat inaccurately, and by paying great attention to them the people who are always with them guess what they meant to say rather than what they said.
191 It is quite a different matter in the country. A peasant woman is not always with her child; he is obliged to learn to say very clearly and loudly what he wants if he is to make himself understood. Children scattered about the fields at a distance from their fathers, mothers and other children, gain practice in making themselves heard at a distance, and in adapting the loudness of the voice to the distance which separates them from those to whom they want to speak. This is the real way to learn pronunciation, not by stammering out a few vowels into the ear of an attentive governess. So when you question a peasant child, he may be too shy to answer, but what he says he says distinctly; while the nurse must serve as interpreter for the town child: without her one can understand nothing of what he is muttering between his teeth.
192 As they grow older, the boys are supposed to be cured of this fault at college, the girls in the convent schools; and indeed both usually speak more clearly than children brought up entirely at home. But what prevents them from acquiring as clear a pronunciation as the peasants in this way is the necessity of learning all sorts of things by heart and repeating aloud what they have learned. For when they are studying they get to babbling and pronouncing carelessly and wrong. In reciting their lessons it is even worse: they cannot find the right words, they drag out their syllables. It is impossible that when the memory vacillates the tongue will not stammer also. Thus they acquire or continue habits of bad pronunciation. You will see later on that Emile will not acquire such habits, or at least not from this cause.
193 I grant you that uneducated people and villagers often fall into the opposite extreme. They almost always speak too loud; their pronunciation is too exact and leads to rough and coarse articulation; their accent is too pronounced, they choose their expressions badly, etc.
194 But, to begin with, this extreme strikes me as much less dangerous than the other, for the first law of speech is to make oneself understood, and the chief fault is to fail to be understood. To pride ourselves on having no accent is to pride ourselves on ridding our phrases of strength and elegance. Emphasis is the soul of speech, it gives it its feeling and truth. Emphasis deceives less than words; perhaps that is why well-educated people are so afraid of it. From the custom of saying everything in the same tone has arisen that of poking fun at people without their knowing it. When emphasis is proscribed, its place is taken by all sorts of ridiculous, affected, and ephemeral pronunciations, such as those heard especially among the young people of the court. It is this affectation of speech and manner which makes Frenchmen disagreeable and repulsive to other nations on first acquaintance. Emphasis is found, not in their speech, but in their bearing. That is not the way to make themselves attractive.
195 All these little faults of speech, which you are so afraid the children will acquire, are nothing. They may be prevented or corrected with the greatest ease, but the faults that are taught them when you make them speak in a low, indistinct, and timid voice, when you are always criticising their tone and finding fault with their words, are never cured. A man who has only learned to speak from his side of a bed could never make himself heard at the head of his troops and would make little impression on the people during an uprising. First teach the child to speak to men; he will be able to speak to the women when required.
196 Nurtured in the country with all its pastoral rusticity, your children will gain a more sonorous voice; they will not acquire the hesitating stammer of town children, neither will they acquire the expressions nor the tone of the villagers. Or if they do they will easily lose them. Their tutor being with them from their earliest years and living with them from day to day ever more exclusively, will be able to prevent or efface, by speaking correctly himself, the impression of the peasants' talk. Emile will speak the purest French I know, but he will speak it more distinctly and with a better articulation than myself.
197 The child who is trying to speak should hear nothing but words he can understand, nor should he say words he cannot articulate. His efforts lead him to repeat the same syllable as if he were practising its clear pronunciation. When he begins to stammer, do not try to understand him. To expect to be always listened to is a form of tyranny which is not good for the child. See carefully to his real needs, and let him try to make you understand the rest. Still less should you hurry him into speech; he will learn to talk when he feels the usefulness of it.
198 It has indeed been remarked that those who begin to speak very late never speak so distinctly as others; but it is not because they talked late that they are hesitating. On the contrary, they began to talk late because they hesitate; if not, why did they begin to talk so late? Have they less need of speech, have they been less urged to it? On the contrary, the anxiety aroused with the first suspicion of this backwardness leads people to tease them much more to begin to talk than those who articulated earlier. This mistaken zeal may do much to make their speech confused, when with less haste they might have had time to bring it to greater perfection.
199 Children who are forced to speak too soon have no time to learn either to pronounce correctly or to understand what they are made to say. While left to themselves they first practise the easiest syllables, and then, adding to them little by little some meaning which their gestures explain, they teach you their own words before they learn yours. By this means they do not acquire your words till they have understood them. Being in no hurry to use them, they begin by carefully observing the sense in which you use them, and when they are sure of them they will adopt them.
200 The worst evil resulting from the precocious use of speech by young children is that we not only fail to understand the first words they use, we misunderstand them without knowing it. So that while they seem to answer us correctly, they fail to understand us and we them. This is the most frequent cause of our surprise at children's sayings; we attribute to them ideas which they did not attach to their words. This lack of attention on our part to the real meaning which words have for children seems to me the cause of their earliest misconceptions; and these misconceptions, even when corrected, colour their whole course of thought for the rest of their life. I will have several opportunities of illustrating these by examples later on.
201 Let the child's vocabulary, therefore, be limited. It is very undesirable that he should have more words than ideas, that he should be able to say more than he thinks. One of the reasons why peasants are generally shrewder than townsfolk is, I think, that their vocabulary is smaller. They have few ideas, but those few are thoroughly grasped.
202 The infant is progressing in several ways at once; he is learning to talk, eat, and walk about the same time. This is really the first epoque of his life. Formerly he was nothing more than what he was in the womb of his mother: he had no sentiments, no ideas, he scarcely had sensations; he could not even feel his own existence.
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203 The second stage of life starts when infancy ends. The term "child" extends beyond "infant," which literally means "one who cannot speak." Although Valerius describes a child as an infant, in common language, we refer to a child [French enfant] until an age where a different term is appropriate.
204 As children learn to speak, they cry less, replacing one form of communication with another. They no longer need to cry if they can articulate pain, unless it is overwhelming. Persistent crying indicates an issue with their environment. Emile, once able to express "it hurts," would only cry in severe pain.
205 If a child is overly sensitive and cries often, ignoring their cries reduces tears. Responding to silence instead of cries encourages them to express needs calmly. Children learn the significance of signals through their practical effects. Alone, they rarely cry unless hoping for attention, even if hurt.
206 When a child falls or is hurt, staying calm rather than alarmed teaches them to endure pain without fear. Panic only adds to their anxiety. Children gauge injuries based on adult reactions. If adults stay composed, children quickly regain composure, learning to manage minor injuries with courage.
207 Children should learn to endure pain early without danger, as minor injuries teach resilience. Natural accidents like falls won't seriously harm them. Overprotective measures make them fearful and inexperienced, unable to cope with minor pains. Excessive protection leaves them vulnerable and frightened by life's small challenges.
208 It's foolish to teach children to walk since they'll learn naturally. No child has failed to walk due to caretaker negligence, yet many have lifelong issues due to improper guidance. We often waste effort teaching what children can learn themselves, neglecting what only we can teach.
209 Emile won't use padded bonnets or restrictive devices. As soon as he can walk, he'll be outdoors, falling often but learning to rise again. Outdoor freedom compensates for bruises, fostering happiness. Restrained children may have fewer injuries but live in constraint and sadness, potentially less happy overall.
210 As children gain strength, they rely less on others and become aware of themselves. This second stage marks the beginning of individual life, with self-consciousness and memory creating a continuous sense of identity. Now capable of happiness or misery, children must be considered as moral beings.
211 Life's length is uncertain, and many do not reach old age. Most risks occur early; half of all children do not reach adolescence. Educators should recognize that their pupils might not survive to adulthood, and childhood is a time to experience joy rather than suffering for an uncertain future.
212 Cruel education sacrifices present joy for uncertain future benefits, burdening children with restrictions and making them miserable. Even if the aim is wise, the means are intolerable. Childhood should be joyful, yet is often filled with tears, punishments, and hardships, calling for a reevaluation of educational methods.
213 Humanity's first duty is to be humane, to nurture and cherish childhood's pleasures. Childhood is fleeting and precious, filled with innocence and joy. Denying these experiences for the sake of future benefits robs both children and adults of the happiness inherent in the early years of life.
214 Society often prioritizes future ambitions over present contentment, undervaluing the moment. By perpetually pursuing a future that remains elusive, we neglect the present, losing both the moment and the envisioned future. Our focus should balance present joy with future aspirations without sacrificing the former for the latter.
215 Advocates for early discipline argue that increasing childhood suffering lessens future pains, but such schemes may do more harm than good. Inflicting present discomfort for uncertain future benefits is unjustified. True wisdom distinguishes between granting children happiness and spoiling them, ensuring well-being without imposing unnecessary hardships.
216 Recognizing the distinct roles of childhood and adulthood within humanity's order is vital. Each stage has its place, requiring appropriate treatment. Childhood should be experienced as a unique phase, distinct from adulthood, and guided by nature's order to foster well-being within the constraints of human existence.
217 Happiness and unhappiness are relative, influenced by life's mixed experiences. True contentment isn't constant joy but minimizing pain. Happiness is a negative state, defined by the absence of suffering. The most content person suffers the least, emphasizing the importance of reducing life's inevitable pains.
218 Pain prompts a desire for relief; pleasure inspires the desire to continue. Desire implies deprivation, making unmet desires painful. Unhappiness arises from the gap between desires and abilities. A being with desires matched by abilities would be perfectly happy, as imbalance causes discontent.
219 True happiness stems from aligning desires with capabilities, not diminishing desires or extending abilities. Achieving equilibrium between will and power fosters contentment. Only when all forces are active, and balance is maintained, does the soul find peace, leading to a well-ordered, fulfilling life.
220 Nature originally balanced man's desires with the means to satisfy them. As imagination awakens potential faculties, it extends possibilities, fueling desires. The pursuit of these imagined desires leads to exhaustion without reaching fulfillment, as the goal continually recedes, illustrating the difference between pursuing pleasure and achieving happiness.
221 Happiness is not found in possessions but in freedom from the need for them. Man is happiest when closest to nature, with aligned desires and faculties. True unhappiness comes from dependency and unmet desires, not from a lack of material things, emphasizing simplicity and contentment.
222 Life’s limits cause unhappiness. By narrowing the gap between reality and imagination, we reduce suffering. True needs, like health, are rare. Most woes are imagined. Applying this wisdom practically is vital. Happiness comes from contentment, understanding life's true goods, and avoiding unnecessary desires or conflicts.
223 Strength is relative; needs vs. abilities determine it. Contentment makes one strong; desire for more weakens. Strength lies in self-sufficiency, not ambition. Embrace natural limits, center oneself. Pride weakens. Accept what is attainable, and remain grounded in reality, like an insect in its web.
224 Human labor exceeds needs; excess fuels unhappiness. Disregarding surplus leads to contentment. Great wealth creates great needs. True happiness lies in simplicity. Less is often more. A wise person knows letting go can achieve desires. Living simply aligns with nature, cultivating happiness and goodness inherently.
225 Immortality would bring misery. Death offers hope beyond life's sorrows. Reject eternal life on earth. Wisdom values life but accepts death. Enlightened people value what transcends life. Knowledge of mortality eases life's burdens, knowing that death eventually ends all pain, making life bearable and meaningful.
226 Moral ills stem from opinions; bodily ills from nature. Endure them without doctors. Live naturally. Medicine brings daily death through fear. Trust nature. Suffer, recover, or die—live truly. Medicine's benefits are dubious; wisdom lies in enduring life's pains, valuing genuine living over medically prolonged existence.
227 Human institutions reflect folly. Desire for life grows with age, fearing loss. Natural state values life only while sustainable. Acceptance of death is natural. Modern society complicates this resignation, valuing life artificially. True acceptance stems from nature, where savages face death calmly, without artificial torment.
228 Foresight breeds unhappiness, focusing on an uncertain future. Live in the present. Aging intensifies fear of future needs. People cling to everything, fearing loss. Spread across the world, sensitivity grows with exposure. Happiness lies in presence, not distant concerns. Embrace today, avoid future anxieties and regrets.
229 Nature shouldn’t detach us from ourselves. Awareness shouldn’t rely on others’ news, affecting mood. A man’s happiness is fragile, swayed by external messages. Emotional upheaval from words shows dependency on opinions, not reality. Maintain inner contentment. True harm arises from internal turmoil, not external events.
230 If a letter brings despair, its loss spares pain. Misfortunes felt are real, but happiness was ignorance. Health, wealth, contentment are dreams. We exist elsewhere, not present. Fearing death isn't worth it if illusions sustain us. Accept reality over distant anxieties, valuing authentic life experiences.
231 Embrace your natural place, avoiding resistance against necessity. True strength preserves life within limits. Freedom extends only as far as natural ability allows. Authority based on others' opinions is slavery. Genuine authority comes from internal strength, not external validation. Remain grounded, embracing personal limitations over imposed power.
232 True freedom means acting within one's capabilities, not needing others' strength. Authority isn't the greatest good; freedom is. A free person acts on achievable desires, a principle for education. Teaching children to understand limits fosters autonomy, shaping education through natural independence and self-reliance.
233 Society weakens by making desires exceed strength. Adults meet needs independently; children depend on others. Whims arise from reliance on others, not true needs. Strength lies in self-sufficiency. Encourage independence in children, teaching them to manage desires responsibly, fostering resilience and understanding of genuine needs.
234 Parental affection compensates for children's weakness. Parents introduce societal needs prematurely, increasing dependence. True affection supports mutual dependency, respecting a child's natural state. Avoid imposing unnecessary demands, allowing children to grow without undue burdens. Balance affection with independence, promoting genuine growth and understanding of life's necessities.
235 Keep children in their natural state, neither beast nor man. They must feel weakness but not suffer. Dependence should teach, not command. Guide children with understanding, respecting their needs. Authority should align with usefulness, not arbitrary demands. Encourage natural growth within boundaries, fostering autonomy and self-awareness.
236 Children's happiness lies in freedom within limits. True freedom aligns with self-sufficiency. Society creates dependence, returning adults to childhood. Encourage natural freedom, avoiding societal constraints. Let children explore within safe boundaries, nurturing independence. Balance freedom with guidance, fostering resilience and adaptability for genuine personal growth.
237 Two dependencies exist: on things (natural) and on men (societal). Natural dependence fosters freedom; societal breeds vice. Replacing personal will with law could restore natural state benefits. A republic balances freedom and morality, reuniting virtues of natural and civil states, reducing societal corruption through structured governance.
238 Dependence on things guides education. Physical consequences replace laws for children. Prevent wrongdoing, let experience teach. Fulfill needs, not whims. Maintain freedom through balanced assistance. Teach self-reliance, fostering independence. Children learn dignity through self-service, growing into autonomy without imposed authority, guided by natural experiences.
239 Encourage natural development by respecting children's physical needs. Avoid arbitrary restrictions. Children's actions stem from constitution needs. Differentiate between genuine and whim-driven desires. Support natural growth, ensuring freedom to explore. Provide guidance without overreliance, promoting balanced development and a deep understanding of genuine needs.
240 Respond to children’s demands with understanding, not indulgence. Recognize genuine needs, ignoring manipulative tears. Promptly fulfill valid requests. Avoid encouraging dependency on impertinence. Balance granting requests with maintaining boundaries. Refuse consistently if needed. Foster trust in guidance, teaching children respect for authority and their own independence.
241 Beware of teaching children empty phrases of politeness, which are just magic words to get what they want. Artificial education teaches the rich to be imperious through polite words, meaning their requests are commands. "If you please" becomes "It pleases me," and "I beg" becomes "I command." True politeness merely changes the meaning of words into commands. I prefer Emile be rude than arrogant, saying "Do this" as a request instead of "Please" as a command. The concern is not the words used but their intended meaning.
242 Excessive severity and indulgence are equally harmful. Letting children suffer risks their health and makes them miserable now. Protecting them too much makes them delicate, over-sensitive, and unprepared for adulthood. This concern may seem like sacrificing present happiness for a future that may not come, but the intent is to ensure children are resilient and capable of handling life's challenges.
243 The freedom given to children compensates for hardships they endure. Observing children playing in the snow, enduring cold by choice, shows that forced constraints are harsher than the elements. Letting children face and choose their hardships allows them freedom now and prepares them for future challenges. My approach offers present and future benefits, creating a choice for the child between my method and yours.
244 True happiness aligns with one's nature. Shielding man from all ills is unnatural. Experiencing minor hardships is essential for great goodness; it fosters empathy and sociability. A man unfamiliar with suffering would lack tenderness and pity, becoming unsociable. His heart would be unmoved, making him a monster among men. Physical health alone can't ensure moral integrity, as both aspects are interconnected.
245 To make a child miserable, give him everything he wants. His desires will grow, leading to inevitable refusals, which will hurt him more than initial deprivation. He'll want everything he sees, from a cane to a watch to stars. Satisfying all desires is impossible, even for God. A child's wants increase with ease of satisfaction, leading to perpetual dissatisfaction and unhappiness. Limits are necessary to avoid misery.
246 Humans naturally regard everything within their power as their own. Hobbes' principle is partially true: multiplying desires and means creates a sense of universal ownership. A child who always gets what he wants feels like the universe's master, seeing people as slaves. When refused, he views it as rebellion, seeing reasons as pretenses. This perceived injustice breeds bitterness and hatred, fostering ungratefulness for kindness and resentment for opposition.
247 A child dominated by anger and fierce passions cannot be happy. Such a child, a despot and a slave, is miserable. I've seen children demand impossible things, throwing tantrums when not obeyed. Spoiled children have insatiable desires, leading to discontentment. They cry, rebel, and rage, finding no happiness. Weakness with domination breeds folly and misery. Like a spoiled child beating a table, they pursue contentment in vain.
248 Ideas of empire and tyranny make children miserable in childhood and adulthood. Accustomed to having their way, they're shocked to meet societal opposition and resistance. This painful surprise occurs when the universe they expected to control proves immovable, burdening them with reality's weight. Unprepared for real-world interactions, their childhood expectations clash with adult societal norms, causing distress.
249 Their insolence and vanity bring humiliation, scorn, and ridicule. They endure insults easily. Experience teaches them their overestimation of position and strength. Unable to achieve everything, they doubt their abilities. Daunted by obstacles and degraded by scorn, they become base, cowardly, and deceitful, falling below their potential. Their self-perception and reality clash, leading to a fall from imagined heights.
250 Nature made children to be loved and helped, not obeyed and feared. Children lack an imposing manner, stern eye, or commanding voice. Unlike the lion's roar, children aren't feared. Ridiculous is a group of statesmen bowing to a crying infant in ceremonial robes. Nature's intent for children is to evoke love, care, and assistance, not authority.
251 Children are weak and helpless, needing pity, care, and affection. Their gentle appearance inspires support. Nothing is more offensive than an unruly child commanding others. Their survival depends on help. It's contrary to order for an imperious child to act as a master toward those essential to their survival.
252 Treating children as full-grown individuals is a mistake. They should not be given responsibilities beyond their ability. If a child is considered a fully-formed adult, he'll seek to exercise power irresponsibly. Proper upbringing teaches children their place in the world, preparing them for future responsibilities gradually rather than thrusting them into adult roles prematurely.
261 Teach children through natural consequences, not commands. Allow them to understand limits through experience, emphasizing necessity over authority. Foster self-reliance by preventing actions without explanation and granting requests when deserved. This method instills wisdom, teaching patience and the balance of needs versus limitations in life's challenges.
262 Help children accept life’s necessities and develop patience. Avoid conflicts between desires and authority, fostering patience over resentment. This approach encourages calm acceptance of unavoidable limitations, leading to harmonious upbringing. It nurtures resilience, teaching children to manage desires and expectations, fostering peace and understanding.
263 Traditional education instills envy and vanity, mistakenly fostering goodness through negative emotions. Instead, nurture natural goodness, avoiding complex concepts. Focus on virtue, not competition. Authentic moral development arises from positivity, helping children grow into ethical individuals, avoiding destructive traits instilled during formative years.
264 Guide children with natural consequences, not rigid rules. Understanding limits fosters obedience without authority, reducing rebellion. Respect real-world boundaries, creating a sense of freedom and respect. This method nurtures growth and development without traditional constraints, allowing children to thrive in a supportive, understanding environment.
265 Children learn through experience, not verbal lessons. They lack moral understanding and shouldn’t apologize without comprehension. Guide them through interactions, letting natural consequences teach. This respects their developmental stage, fostering genuine understanding of right and wrong without guilt, supporting authentic moral development.
266 Modern education often fails, leading children to rebel. Allow freedom within nature, not constraints causing rebellion. This nurtures responsibility and self-regulation, helping them respect boundaries without oversight. Encourage authentic growth, fostering independence and understanding, promoting confident navigation of challenges and opportunities.
267 Humans are inherently good; vices arise from circumstances. Self-love, a natural passion, is beneficial or harmful depending on application. Ensure children’s actions stem from nature, not external validation. Foster authentic development, encouraging intrinsic goodness over external approval, cultivating genuine morality.
268 Understand children may cause harm without intent. Guide behavior without punishment for unintended actions, nurturing understanding of consequences. This fosters exploration and learning, supporting responsibility and understanding without guilt, helping them develop into considerate individuals aware of their actions' impact.
269 Children’s playfulness can cause damage from curiosity, not malice. Provide environments free of fragile items, ensuring durability. This respects developmental needs, fostering freedom and confidence. Encourage responsibility and independence, promoting healthy development and positive engagement with the world.
270 If a child damages something despite precautions, avoid punishment. Focus on creating a relaxed atmosphere that promotes learning through experience. This approach fosters understanding of cause and effect, encouraging growth and exploration without fear, supporting healthy development and learning.
271 The most important educational rule is to allow time for growth rather than rushing it. Recognize that the most perilous period in life is from birth to age twelve when errors and vices develop without the means to correct them. Allow children to mature naturally before engaging their reason. Avoid burdening their developing minds with complex ideas they cannot yet grasp, allowing for a gradual and natural unfolding of understanding. This approach respects the developmental process, fostering a foundation of authentic growth and comprehension without the premature imposition of abstract concepts and expectations.
272 Early education should be negative, focusing on shielding children from vice and error, not teaching virtue. Allow children to reach the age of twelve without preconceived notions or habits, enabling reason to guide their understanding. By doing nothing initially, you avoid counteracting your efforts, leading to a prodigy of education. This approach emphasizes the importance of creating an environment free from prejudice, allowing children to develop their faculties naturally and authentically, fostering a genuine understanding of the world and their place within it without the constraints of imposed beliefs or behaviors.
273 Avoid the common mistake of rushing education by imposing adult reasoning on children. Let them be children, exercising their bodies and senses without burdening their minds with complex reasoning. Delays in education are beneficial, allowing children to approach their goals without losses. Let children’s natural development guide learning, introducing necessary lessons only when ready. Avoid associating reason with unpleasant experiences, making it appealing instead. This approach respects the natural progression of development, nurturing a love of learning and understanding that emerges from genuine curiosity and readiness, rather than premature imposition.
274 Understanding a child’s unique nature is crucial to effective education. Allow time to observe their character before imposing rules or lessons. This time is valuable for learning the best approach to guiding them. Avoid acting prematurely, which may lead to errors. Like a wise physician, study the child's temperament before prescribing education, ensuring the methods align with their nature. Sacrifice early time to gain it back later with interest, focusing on fostering an environment where children can thrive according to their inherent traits and strengths, rather than imposing external expectations prematurely.
275 Raising a child devoid of societal influence is challenging, as they inevitably encounter the passions of others. Completely isolating a child is impractical; instead, focus on guiding their interactions with society, balancing exposure to external influences while nurturing their inherent goodness. Recognize that complete isolation is neither feasible nor beneficial; instead, create an environment where children can learn to navigate the world while retaining their natural virtues. This approach acknowledges the realities of social interactions while emphasizing the importance of fostering a strong, intrinsic moral compass within the child.
276 Education according to nature is challenging but worthwhile. Accepting difficulties is crucial, acknowledging the task may be insurmountable, yet striving toward the goal remains valuable. Even if perfection is unattainable, pursuing this ideal brings the best results. Recognize that while natural education poses challenges, the effort to avoid pitfalls can yield significant benefits. This perspective encourages perseverance in nurturing a child’s development according to their inherent nature, accepting the complexities of the task while striving to create an environment that supports their authentic growth and development.
277 To educate effectively, one must embody the values and principles taught. Prepare the child's environment, ensuring only suitable influences surround them. Earn respect and love by genuinely caring for others, giving more than material possessions. Act with integrity and compassion, fostering a supportive community for the child's growth. Demonstrating genuine care and building a foundation of trust and respect is crucial. This approach emphasizes the importance of being a role model and creating a nurturing environment where children can thrive, supported by the authentic values and principles exemplified by those around them.
278 Raising Emile in the countryside avoids the corrupting influence of city life and servitude, offering a more authentic view of human nature. Country vices, presented plainly, are less appealing to children than city vices, which are glamorized. This environment allows Emile to develop a genuine understanding of the world, free from the misleading allure of urban life. By experiencing the straightforward realities of rural life, children can learn to appreciate the simplicity and authenticity of their surroundings, fostering a sense of honesty and integrity in their interactions with the world and its inhabitants.
279 In a village, a tutor can better influence a child's environment, gaining respect and cooperation from the community. The tutor's role and example carry more weight than in a city, encouraging others to model behavior beneficial for the child's growth. While vice may persist, public scandal is avoided, aligning with the educational goal. This approach highlights the advantages of a close-knit community where the tutor's influence can effectively guide the child’s development, fostering an environment of mutual respect and support that enhances the child’s learning experience and moral growth.
280 Avoid blaming others for children’s faults, recognizing they learn more from actions than words. Endless preaching confuses and misguides them. Children often misinterpret adults' intentions, creating their own understanding. Focus on actions that align with values rather than excessive explanations, fostering genuine understanding. By modeling behavior and allowing children to observe and learn from it, rather than overwhelming them with words, educators can create an environment where children develop a clear and accurate understanding of values and principles, free from the confusion and misinterpretations that often accompany excessive verbal instruction.
281 When children freely speak, they may misunderstand adult arguments, leading to confusion. Their objections can challenge authority and shift focus from learning to arguing. Maintain their respect and curiosity by not letting them feel victorious in debates. Encourage exploration while ensuring focus on learning and understanding.
282 Teachers should be discreet and patient, preventing external influences over imposing lessons. Avoid unnecessary teachings that harm more than help. Provide an environment for natural learning through observation and experience, respecting the child's innocence and nurturing genuine understanding without forced moral lessons.
283 Children's attention is drawn to adults' strong emotions. Instead of lecturing, let them ask questions about emotions as bodily conditions. Provide simple explanations, helping them understand emotions without fear. Frame intense emotions as natural disturbances, teaching emotional responses without confusion.
284 Present excessive emotions as illnesses to foster aversion, avoiding moral lectures. Treat rebellious behavior as illness without punishment. Acknowledge losing composure honestly, teaching emotional regulation and responsibility. Emphasize self-control and honesty, fostering accountability and self-awareness in managing emotions.
285 Avoid emphasizing children's amusing remarks; laughter can undermine development. Control reactions and redirect attention to guide effectively. Prevent self-consciousness and focus on genuine learning. Composure and gentle guidance ensure focus remains on learning, not distractions.
286 Teach general principles with illustrations, delaying lessons on morality until necessary. Tailor education to each child's temperament, balancing patience and intervention. Foster understanding of social and moral principles aligned with readiness and character, ensuring genuine learning and growth.
287 Teach rights before duties; children grasp rights better. Recognizing their needs helps children understand justice. Focus on fairness and justice rooted in personal experience, fostering understanding of social interactions based on mutual respect and individual value.
288 Children learn respect through experience with objects. To understand property, they need possessions. Teach ownership through tangible interactions, fostering responsibility and appreciation for their belongings and others', laying the foundation for respect and accountability.
289 Link property to labor, letting children garden to understand ownership through effort. This approach makes property relatable, fostering responsibility and respect for resources, and understanding work's value in ownership.
290 Encourage children's gardening by joining them, respecting their autonomy while teaching labor's value. Planting creates meaningful possessions, fostering responsibility and pride. Engage actively to nurture understanding of effort's connection to results.
291 Children learn ownership through labor, investing effort in plants. This connection fosters responsibility and respect for belongings and others', reinforcing hard work's value in maintaining possessions.
292 When children's labor is destroyed, they learn injustice's pain. Share their sorrow and investigate loss, emphasizing understanding over punishment. Guide children to respect others' work, fostering fairness and mutual respect.
293 Address complaints by showing children both sides. Highlight consequences and mutual respect to foster empathy and accountability. Guide children to understand their actions' broader impact, nurturing responsibility and community awareness.
294 Encourage forgiveness and responsibility by acknowledging mistakes. Emphasize making amends and respecting others' efforts. Teach mutual respect and cooperation, fostering a sense of community and responsibility.
295 Teach property as labor and first occupancy, avoiding overwhelm. Emphasize simple principles to foster responsibility and respect for ownership, guiding understanding of social and economic interactions.
296 Practical lessons take time. Focus on actions over words; experiences shape understanding. Emphasize practical engagement, creating lasting impressions and fostering deeper comprehension of moral principles.
297 Adapt lessons to each child's temperament, providing moral education as needed. Use examples for complex concepts, customizing education to fit individual needs, ensuring understanding and development.
298 When a child is destructive, avoid anger. Remove items they can damage and emphasize respect for others' property. Teach accountability and respect through natural consequences.
299 Introducing conventions and duties opens the door to deceit. Address vice with punishment and understanding, preparing children to navigate moral challenges with integrity.
300 Punishment should be a natural consequence, not arbitrary. Avoid lectures on lying; let dishonesty's effects manifest. Teach truthfulness's importance through real-world consequences.

 

301 The primary focus of education should be on fostering curiosity and a love for learning. Educators should create an environment that stimulates intellectual curiosity and encourages exploration. By nurturing a child's natural curiosity, educators can inspire a lifelong passion for learning and critical thinking. This approach emphasizes the importance of engagement and motivation in the learning process, aiming to cultivate a genuine interest in knowledge and discovery. Image of number 10
302 Effective teaching involves understanding and addressing the diverse needs of students. Educators should recognize that each child has unique strengths, challenges, and learning styles. By employing differentiated instruction and providing personalized support, educators can better meet the needs of all students. This approach promotes an inclusive learning environment where every child has the opportunity to succeed and reach their full potential. Image of number 10
303 Collaboration among educators, parents, and the community enhances the educational experience. Building strong partnerships and open communication channels between schools and families helps create a supportive network for students. Engaging the broader community in the educational process can provide additional resources, opportunities, and perspectives, contributing to a more holistic and effective learning environment. Image of number 10
304 Assessment should be used as a tool for learning, not just for measuring achievement. Educators should employ a variety of assessment methods to gain a comprehensive understanding of each student's progress. Formative assessments, in particular, can provide valuable feedback that guides instruction and supports student growth. By using assessment data to inform teaching practices, educators can better address individual learning needs and enhance the overall educational experience. Image of number 10
305 Encouraging critical thinking helps students develop the ability to analyze and evaluate information. Educators should design activities and assignments that challenge students to think deeply and question assumptions. By fostering critical thinking skills, educators prepare students to approach problems with a thoughtful and analytical mindset. This approach supports the development of independent thinkers who are equipped to make informed decisions and solve complex problems. Image of number 10
306 Creating a positive learning environment is essential for student success. Educators should foster a climate of respect, support, and encouragement. A positive learning environment helps students feel valued and motivated to engage in the learning process. By establishing a nurturing atmosphere where students feel safe to express themselves and take risks, educators can enhance student well-being and academic achievement. Image of number 10
307 Integrating technology into the classroom can enhance learning experiences and provide new opportunities for engagement. Educators should use technology thoughtfully to support instruction and facilitate learning. By incorporating digital tools and resources, educators can offer interactive and dynamic learning experiences that complement traditional teaching methods. Technology can also help students develop important digital literacy skills that are essential in today's world. Image of number 10
308 Supporting social and emotional development is crucial for student success. Educators should address the emotional needs of students and provide opportunities for social interaction and skill-building. By promoting social-emotional learning, educators help students develop self-awareness, empathy, and effective interpersonal skills. This support contributes to a positive learning environment and helps students navigate social challenges and build strong relationships. Image of number 10
309 Encouraging creativity allows students to explore their unique talents and interests. Educators should provide opportunities for creative expression and problem-solving. By fostering creativity, educators support students in developing innovative thinking and self-expression. Creative activities help students build confidence and enhance their ability to approach challenges with originality and imagination. Image of number 10
310 Promoting ethical behavior involves teaching students about moral principles and encouraging them to act with integrity. Educators should model ethical behavior and provide opportunities for students to discuss and reflect on ethical issues. By fostering a strong sense of ethics, educators help students develop a clear understanding of right and wrong and encourage them to make responsible decisions. This approach contributes to building a culture of respect and accountability in the learning environment. Image of number 10
311 The primary purpose of punishment is to reform behavior. Children should be guided to understand the reasons behind rules and consequences, rather than simply being punished for transgressions. When punishment is based on clear reasoning and aims to teach rather than simply penalize, it is more effective in helping children learn from their mistakes and make better choices in the future. Educators should focus on constructive discipline that fosters understanding and growth, rather than punitive measures that may create resentment or fear. Image of number 10
312 Encouraging students to set personal goals helps them take ownership of their learning. Educators should guide students in setting realistic and achievable goals that align with their interests and abilities. By supporting goal-setting, educators foster a sense of purpose and motivation in students. This approach helps students stay focused on their objectives and track their progress, contributing to greater academic success and personal development. Image of number 10
313 Building resilience in students equips them to handle challenges and setbacks. Educators should provide support and encouragement to help students develop coping skills and a positive mindset. By fostering resilience, educators help students navigate difficulties with confidence and perseverance. This approach contributes to emotional well-being and academic success, enabling students to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. Image of number 10
314 Supporting diverse learning styles is essential for effective education. Educators should employ a range of instructional strategies to accommodate different ways of learning. By recognizing and addressing various learning preferences, educators ensure that all students have the opportunity to succeed. This approach helps create a more inclusive and equitable learning environment where every student can thrive. Image of number 10
315 Encouraging student autonomy promotes independent learning and critical thinking. Educators should provide opportunities for students to make choices and take responsibility for their learning. By fostering autonomy, educators help students develop self-regulation skills and a sense of ownership over their educational journey. This approach supports the development of lifelong learners who are capable of setting and achieving their own goals. Image of number 10
316 Emphasizing the importance of effort and perseverance helps students develop a growth mindset. Educators should praise students for their hard work and determination rather than just their innate abilities. By promoting a focus on effort, educators encourage students to embrace challenges and persist in the face of difficulties. This approach supports the development of resilience and a positive attitude towards learning. Image of number 10
317 Providing timely and constructive feedback helps students improve their performance. Educators should offer feedback that is specific, actionable, and focused on helping students understand how to enhance their work. By giving regular and meaningful feedback, educators support student growth and guide them in refining their skills and knowledge. This approach contributes to continuous improvement and academic success. Image of number 10
318 Encouraging collaboration and teamwork helps students develop interpersonal skills and achieve common goals. Educators should design activities that require students to work together and share responsibilities. By promoting teamwork, educators foster a sense of community and mutual support among students. This approach enhances social skills and prepares students for collaborative environments in their future endeavors. Image of number 10
319 Cultivating a sense of curiosity and a love for learning should be a primary goal of education. Educators should create a stimulating and engaging learning environment that encourages students to explore new ideas and pursue their interests. By fostering a genuine passion for learning, educators help students develop a lifelong enthusiasm for knowledge and personal growth. Image of number 10
320 Supporting students' social and emotional development is essential for their overall well-being and academic success. Educators should provide a nurturing environment that addresses students' emotional needs and promotes positive relationships. By fostering emotional intelligence and social skills, educators help students navigate their personal and academic lives with confidence and resilience. Image of number 10
321 Children seem to learn easily, but this ease hinders true understanding. Their minds reflect information like mirrors without retaining or comprehending it. They memorize words without grasping the underlying ideas, and while they may repeat what they've heard, they lack genuine understanding. This superficial learning creates the illusion of knowledge without substance. Educators must focus on fostering deep comprehension rather than surface-level memorization, encouraging children to engage with ideas and concepts meaningfully. By prioritizing understanding over rote learning, educators can guide children toward genuine knowledge and critical thinking, nurturing their intellectual growth and development.
322 Memory and reason are distinct yet interconnected faculties. Before reasoning, children perceive images, not ideas. Images depict external objects, while ideas relate to their connections. Images exist independently in the mind, but ideas involve comparisons. Sensations are passive, while perceptions stem from an active principle of judgment. Understanding the difference between these faculties helps educators guide children toward meaningful learning experiences. By recognizing the limitations of children's cognitive abilities, educators can tailor their teaching methods to support the development of both memory and reasoning, fostering a deeper understanding and appreciation of the world and its complexities.
323 Children lack true memory, retaining sounds, forms, and sensations but rarely ideas or their connections. They struggle to retain others' reasoning, as seen in their superficial grasp of geometry. They remember figures and terms but cannot address new objections or apply their knowledge beyond the sensory level. Understanding remains elusive until they grow older, requiring repeated learning. Recognizing these limitations allows educators to focus on nurturing genuine comprehension and critical thinking in children, guiding them to build a foundation of understanding that goes beyond memorization and fosters meaningful engagement with concepts and ideas.
324 Children reason effectively about immediate concerns but lack foresight for future interests or happiness. Educators often misattribute adult reasoning to them, focusing on topics beyond their comprehension. Forced studies on irrelevant matters limit children's attention and hinder learning. Recognizing these limitations, educators should focus on topics relevant to children's present experiences and interests, fostering engagement and understanding. By aligning educational content with children's developmental stage, educators can nurture a love of learning and encourage meaningful exploration of concepts, guiding children to develop their reasoning abilities naturally and at their own pace.
325 Pedagogues boast about teaching, yet focus on words rather than useful knowledge. They avoid practical subjects, opting for superficial studies like heraldry and geography, which offer little value. These subjects appear impressive but lack substance. Educators must prioritize meaningful learning experiences, focusing on practical knowledge that enriches children's understanding and development. By emphasizing the importance of relevant, applicable education, educators can guide children toward a deeper appreciation of learning, fostering intellectual growth and critical thinking skills that will serve them throughout their lives, empowering them to engage with the world meaningfully and purposefully.
326 Language study is unsuitable for young children. Despite claims, children under twelve or fifteen rarely learn multiple languages. Language involves more than words; it shapes thought and influences reasoning. Minds form through language, and each language reflects its culture's character. Educators must recognize the limitations of early language education, focusing instead on fostering a strong foundation in the child's primary language. This approach allows children to develop a deep understanding of their native language's nuances, supporting cognitive development and preparing them for more complex language learning as they mature, enhancing their communication and critical thinking skills.
327 Language study involves more than learning words; it shapes thoughts and reflects cultural differences. Each language has unique characteristics influencing thought and national identity. Language evolves with society, mirroring changes in customs. Recognizing this, educators must approach language study thoughtfully, considering its impact on cognitive development and cultural understanding. By fostering a deep appreciation for language's role in shaping thought and identity, educators can guide children to engage with language meaningfully, enhancing their communication skills and cultural awareness, ultimately preparing them to navigate the complexities of a diverse and interconnected world with understanding and empathy.
328 Children learn one language until they can compare ideas. Multiple languages require understanding ideas and their relationships, which young children lack. Observed prodigies use different vocabularies but think in one language. Providing synonyms changes words, not language. Educators should focus on developing a strong foundation in one language, supporting cognitive and linguistic development. By prioritizing comprehension and expression in a single language, educators can foster effective communication skills, allowing children to develop a nuanced understanding of language and its role in shaping thought and identity, ultimately preparing them for more complex language learning as they mature.
329 Teachers often use dead languages to hide deficiencies, relying on books for imitation. With no authoritative judges, they assume proficiency in Greek and Latin. Students memorize rudiments and translate without comprehension, believing they speak Latin. This superficial learning lacks true understanding. Educators should prioritize meaningful language learning, focusing on comprehension and expression rather than rote memorization. By fostering genuine engagement with language, educators can guide students toward a deeper appreciation of linguistic and cultural nuances, empowering them to communicate effectively and thoughtfully, and preparing them to navigate the complexities of language and culture with confidence and understanding.
330 Without understanding the represented ideas, signs are meaningless. Children learn signs without grasping their significance. Geography teaches map names, not real locations. After studying maps, children cannot navigate familiar paths. Educators must prioritize understanding over memorization, focusing on real-world applications. By guiding children to comprehend concepts and their practical implications, educators can nurture critical thinking and problem-solving skills, empowering students to apply their knowledge meaningfully. This approach fosters a deep appreciation for learning, encouraging students to engage with the world thoughtfully and purposefully, ultimately preparing them to navigate the complexities of life with confidence and understanding.
331 Suggesting studies requiring only sight is misguided; such studies are unknown. Education should engage multiple senses and faculties for comprehensive learning. By fostering an environment that encourages active exploration and engagement with diverse subjects, educators can support holistic development. This approach nurtures curiosity and a love of learning, allowing students to connect with the world through meaningful experiences that stimulate their intellectual, emotional, and physical growth. Educators should prioritize fostering a rich, diverse learning environment that encourages students to explore, discover, and develop their unique talents and interests, empowering them to thrive in a complex world.
332 History is mistakenly deemed simple, as it involves facts. However, understanding historical events requires grasping causes, effects, and moral implications. History without these lacks substance. Educators should focus on teaching the interconnections of events and their moral significance. By fostering critical thinking and historical understanding, educators can guide students to appreciate the complexity of human actions and their impact on society. This approach encourages students to engage with history thoughtfully, empowering them to draw meaningful insights from the past and apply them to contemporary issues, fostering a deeper understanding of the world and their place within it.
333 As a lover of truth, I approach education from a simple perspective, free from bias or philosophical constraints. My arguments are based on facts and observations, aiming to foster genuine understanding. By prioritizing truth and critical thinking, I encourage students to engage with ideas independently. This approach empowers students to develop their perspectives and insights, fostering intellectual growth and a deeper appreciation for learning. By nurturing a love of truth and curiosity, educators can guide students to become thoughtful, informed individuals who navigate the complexities of life with confidence, integrity, and a commitment to lifelong learning.
334 During a visit to a family, I observed a boy's lesson on Alexander. While he recounted the story charmingly, his understanding was superficial. Observers praised him, but few grasped the story's essence. Educators often focus on recitation rather than comprehension, leading to shallow learning. By emphasizing genuine understanding and critical thinking, educators can guide students to engage deeply with content, fostering intellectual growth. This approach encourages students to explore and reflect on ideas, empowering them to develop meaningful insights and connections that enrich their learning and personal development, ultimately preparing them for a lifetime of thoughtful inquiry.
335 Observing a child's understanding of Alexander's courage revealed his focus on superficial aspects, like swallowing medicine without hesitation. He equated courage with taking unpleasant medicine, missing the deeper meaning. Educators must guide children to explore underlying principles and values, fostering genuine comprehension. By emphasizing critical thinking and reflection, educators can help children develop a deeper understanding of concepts beyond surface details, encouraging them to engage thoughtfully with ideas and values. This approach nurtures intellectual growth and empowers students to explore and appreciate the complexities of human experience, ultimately fostering a lifelong love of learning and discovery.
336 Words like "king" and "emperor" are easily taught, but children struggle to grasp clear ideas behind them. Educators must focus on providing meaningful explanations, connecting concepts to children's experiences. By fostering a deeper understanding of abstract terms, educators can guide children to develop critical thinking and comprehension skills. This approach encourages students to explore and appreciate the complexities of language and concepts, empowering them to engage thoughtfully with the world and its diverse ideas. Educators should prioritize fostering meaningful connections between language and understanding, nurturing a love of learning that extends beyond rote memorization.
337 Alexander's courage lay in his faith in virtue and willingness to stake his life on it. Educators should emphasize this deeper understanding of courage and values, guiding students to appreciate the principles behind actions. By fostering critical thinking and reflection, educators can help students explore and internalize meaningful values, encouraging them to develop a deeper understanding of the complexities of human experience. This approach empowers students to engage thoughtfully with ideas and principles, nurturing intellectual growth and a commitment to living with integrity and purpose, ultimately fostering a lifelong love of learning and personal development.
338 Without real ideas, children lack true memory. Teaching meaningless words inscribes useless signs on their minds, hindering judgment. Educators should prioritize meaningful learning, focusing on understanding over rote memorization. By fostering genuine comprehension, educators can guide students to develop critical thinking and judgment skills, empowering them to navigate the world thoughtfully and purposefully. This approach encourages students to engage deeply with ideas and concepts, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love of learning. Educators should emphasize meaningful connections between language and understanding, fostering a rich educational experience that prepares students for a complex and dynamic world.
339 Children's brains are adaptable, not for memorizing useless information, but for learning ideas relevant to happiness and duties. Educators should focus on meaningful concepts that guide behavior and understanding, fostering intellectual growth and personal development. By prioritizing relevant, applicable knowledge, educators can empower students to navigate life with purpose and integrity. This approach encourages students to explore and engage with the world thoughtfully, nurturing a lifelong love of learning and a commitment to living authentically. Educators should emphasize the importance of meaningful education, fostering a deep appreciation for learning that extends beyond superficial knowledge.
340 Without books, a child's memory thrives on real-life experiences. They observe actions and conversations, enriching their understanding. Educators should present meaningful objects and shield them from distractions. This method fosters genuine learning and personal growth. By prioritizing real-world experiences, educators can guide students to develop critical thinking and comprehension skills, empowering them to navigate the world thoughtfully and purposefully. This approach encourages students to engage deeply with their environment, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love of learning. Educators should emphasize meaningful connections between experiences and understanding, fostering a rich educational experience that prepares students for life.
341 Emile will not memorize fables, as their moral lessons often mislead children, attracting them to falsehoods while missing the truth. Fables may be entertaining for adults, but children require straightforward truths. The hidden meanings in fables can distract and confuse them, preventing genuine learning. Educators should prioritize clear, honest communication, guiding children to understand and engage with reality. By emphasizing direct and truthful education, educators can foster a solid foundation of understanding and critical thinking, empowering children to navigate the world with clarity and integrity, developing meaningful insights into ethical and moral concepts as they mature.
342 Children learn La Fontaine's fables without understanding them, and it is better that they do not, as the morals are unsuitable for their age. These mixed messages could incline them to vice rather than virtue. While this view may seem paradoxical, it highlights the importance of age-appropriate moral education. Educators should focus on teaching straightforward moral lessons that align with children's developmental stages, fostering a genuine understanding of virtue and ethics. By prioritizing clear and relevant moral education, educators can guide children toward developing a strong ethical foundation that supports their growth into principled and compassionate individuals.
343 Children do not grasp the fables they are taught, as the lessons require concepts beyond their understanding. The poetic form that aids memorization hinders comprehension. Simplifying fables for children often sacrifices clarity for ease of memorization. Educators should focus on straightforward narratives that align with children's developmental abilities, fostering genuine understanding. By prioritizing clarity over complexity, educators can guide children toward meaningful engagement with stories and their lessons, empowering them to develop critical thinking skills and a deeper appreciation for narrative and moral insights, ultimately fostering intellectual growth and ethical development.
344 Only a few of La Fontaine's fables, like "The Crow and the Fox," are suitable for children due to their simplicity and relatable morals. This fable, placed at the beginning of the book, is intended to delight and instruct children. However, educators must carefully examine its content to ensure it aligns with children's developmental stages and comprehension abilities. By selecting age-appropriate stories, educators can guide children to engage with narratives that foster understanding and critical thinking, empowering them to develop a genuine appreciation for moral lessons and storytelling, ultimately nurturing their intellectual and ethical growth.
345 Understanding "The Crow and the Fox" requires knowledge of language and literary devices. The fable begins with "Mr. Crow perched on a tree," which involves concepts like proper nouns, poetic inversions, and the distinction between prose and verse. Educators must guide children through these linguistic nuances, fostering comprehension and appreciation for literary devices. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop critical thinking and interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully, ultimately fostering a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons.
346 In the fable, "Held a cheese in his beak" raises questions about the type of cheese and realism. If children haven't seen crows, they may question the story's plausibility. Educators should use illustrations drawn from nature to enhance understanding. By providing relatable examples, educators can guide children to engage with narratives that foster comprehension and critical thinking. This approach empowers children to connect with stories meaningfully, nurturing their appreciation for storytelling and its ability to convey moral lessons and ethical insights, ultimately fostering intellectual growth and a love for literature and learning.
347 Understanding "Mr. Fox, attracted by the smell" requires distinguishing between real and fictional foxes. The term "alléché" (attracted) is obsolete and used only in verse, prompting questions about language differences in poetry. Educators should guide children through these distinctions, fostering comprehension and appreciation for literary devices. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop critical thinking and interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully, ultimately fostering a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing their intellectual and ethical growth.
348 In the fable, "Spoke to him after this fashion" suggests foxes and crows talk, challenging children's understanding of reality. Educators must carefully address these fantastical elements to prevent misconceptions. By providing context and explanations, educators can guide children to engage with stories that foster comprehension and critical thinking. This approach empowers children to connect with narratives meaningfully, nurturing their appreciation for storytelling and its ability to convey moral lessons and ethical insights. Educators should prioritize guiding children to navigate fantastical elements thoughtfully, enhancing their intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning.
349 In the fable, "Good-day, Mr. Crow!" introduces the title "Mr." with irony, challenging children's understanding of titles and respect. Educators must guide children through these subtleties, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances with confidence.
350 In the fable, "How handsome you are, how beautiful you seem!" is redundant, teaching careless language. The fox's verbosity is part of his scheme to enhance flattery, but children may not grasp this. Educ ators should guide children through these nuances, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By emphasizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning.
351 In the fable, "Without lying, if your song" suggests dishonesty, challenging children's understanding of truth. If told the fox says "Without lying" because he is lying, children may become confused. Educators must guide children through these complexities, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning.
352 In the fable, "Answered to your fine feathers" challenges children to compare song and plumage qualities. Educators must guide children through these comparisons, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By emphasizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances with confidence and understanding.
353 In the fable, "You would be the phoenix of all the inhabitants of this wood!" introduces mythology and figurative language, challenging children's understanding. Educators must guide children through these elements, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently.
354 In the fable, "At these words, the crow is beside himself with delight" requires understanding of strong emotions and figurative language. Educators must guide children through these expressions, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
355 In the fable, "And, to show off his fine voice" relies on understanding the crow's voice and the fable's context. Educators must guide children through these elements, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
356 In the fable, "He opens his wide beak and drops his prey" vividly depicts action, but children may overlook its beauty. Educators must guide children through these elements, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
357 In the fable, "The fox catches it, and says, 'My dear sir'" suggests that kindness is foolishness, challenging children's understanding of values. Educators must guide children through these complexities, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
358 In the fable, "You must learn that every flatterer" introduces a general maxim, but children may not grasp its meaning. Educators must guide children through these concepts, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
359 In the fable, "Lives at the expense of the person who listens to his flattery" is beyond a child's comprehension. Educators must guide children through these ideas, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
360 In the fable, "No doubt this lesson is well worth a cheese" is intelligible, yet children may struggle to compare a lesson with a cheese. Educators must guide children through this mockery, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding them to navigate language and cultural nuances confidently and with understanding.
361 "The crow, ashamed and confused" in the fable illustrates pleonasm without excuse. This redundancy in expression can confuse children, teaching them imprecise language use. Educators should guide children in recognizing and avoiding unnecessary repetition, fostering clarity and precision in communication. By emphasizing clear language, educators can help children develop effective communication skills, empowering them to express themselves thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for language's power and encourages students to engage with literature critically, enhancing their intellectual growth and fostering a love for learning and effective communication, ultimately preparing them for future success.
362 The line "Swore, but rather too late" introduces the concept of an oath, which may be challenging for children to understand. Explaining the significance of an oath to children requires careful consideration to prevent misconceptions. Educators must guide children through these concepts, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing language understanding and context, educators can help children develop interpretation skills, empowering them to engage with literature thoughtfully and meaningfully. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral and ethical lessons, enhancing children's intellectual growth and fostering a love for literature and learning.
363 This chapter discusses the complexity of analyzing the ideas in the fable for children. Many adults overlook the need to simplify complex concepts for children, assuming they understand. Educators must recognize the importance of breaking down ideas into simple, relatable concepts for children. By prioritizing clarity and comprehension, educators can guide children to engage with stories and lessons thoughtfully, fostering critical thinking and intellectual growth. This approach empowers children to connect with narratives meaningfully, nurturing their appreciation for storytelling and its ability to convey moral lessons and ethical insights, ultimately fostering a lifelong love for literature and learning.
364 Teaching six-year-olds about flattery and deceit may not be appropriate. Instead, lessons could focus on avoiding vanity and foolishness. However, the fable's focus on dropping cheese distracts from this lesson, teaching manipulation instead. Educators must consider age-appropriate content and context, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing relevant and meaningful lessons, educators can guide children to engage with stories thoughtfully, empowering them to develop ethical insights and intellectual growth. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral lessons, fostering a love for literature and learning.
365 Children often misinterpret fables, learning opposite lessons. Rather than avoiding faults, they admire cunning characters. In "The Crow and the Fox," children favor the fox's trickery. In "The Ant and the Grasshopper," they identify with the ant's selfishness. Educators must guide children through these interpretations, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing clear lessons and moral understanding, educators can help children engage with stories thoughtfully, developing ethical insights and intellectual growth. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral lessons, fostering a love for literature and learning.
366 In fables with lions, children often identify with the powerful lion, taking more than their share. In "The Lion and the Gnat," they relate to the gnat's ability to defeat the lion, learning to exploit weaknesses. Educators must guide children through these narratives, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing moral understanding, educators can help children engage with stories thoughtfully, developing ethical insights and intellectual growth. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral lessons, fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding children to navigate ethical complexities confidently.
367 From the fable of the sleek dog and the starving wolf, children learn rebellion rather than obedience. One child cried, identifying with the wolf's freedom over the dog's chained obedience. Educators must guide children through these stories, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing moral understanding, educators can help children engage with narratives thoughtfully, developing ethical insights and intellectual growth. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral lessons, fostering a love for literature and learning, ultimately guiding children to navigate ethical complexities confidently and with understanding.
368 Children learn various negative lessons from fables: flattery, cruelty, injustice, satire, and insubordination. When presented with contradictory precepts, children struggle to derive meaningful lessons. Society's dual morality complicates this further, with one set of morals for words and another for actions. Educators must guide children through these complexities, fostering comprehension and critical thinking. By prioritizing moral understanding, educators can help children engage with stories thoughtfully, developing ethical insights and intellectual growth. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral lessons, fostering a love for literature and learning, guiding children to navigate ethical complexities confidently.
369 The author agrees to study fables and learn from them while ensuring his pupil avoids them until proven beneficial. He questions the value of fables for children, especially when they are largely unintelligible and may lead children to imitate negative behavior. Educators must prioritize age-appropriate and meaningful lessons, guiding children to engage thoughtfully with stories. By fostering critical thinking and moral understanding, educators empower children to develop ethical insights and intellectual growth. This approach nurtures a deeper appreciation for storytelling and its role in conveying moral lessons, fostering a love for literature and learning.
370 Removing children's lessons eliminates a significant source of their distress—books. Reading, often seen as a curse, is one of the few activities available to children. Emile, at twelve, will barely know books. However, reading becomes valuable when it serves a practical purpose. Forcing reading upon children makes it a chore, not a pleasure. Educators should wait until reading becomes relevant and enjoyable, fostering a genuine love for it. This approach encourages children to engage with reading thoughtfully, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love for learning, ultimately preparing them for future success and fulfillment.
371 If children learn only from real and present value, they need a reason to learn. Reading, a means of communication, can be useful and enjoyable if not forced upon them. When imposed as a task, reading becomes a burden. By making reading serve children's interests and pleasures, educators can foster a genuine desire to learn. This approach encourages children to engage with reading thoughtfully, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love for learning. Educators should prioritize making reading relevant and enjoyable, guiding children to appreciate its value and fostering a positive attitude toward learning and communication.
372 Many methods exist to teach reading, such as dice or "bureaux," but the best method is a child's desire to learn. When children are motivated, any approach works. Educators should focus on fostering this desire, guiding children to engage with reading thoughtfully and meaningfully. By prioritizing intrinsic motivation and relevance, educators can help children develop a genuine love for reading, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong passion for learning. This approach encourages children to explore and appreciate reading's value, empowering them to navigate the world with curiosity and enthusiasm, ultimately preparing them for success and fulfillment.
373 Present interest is the key motivator. Emile receives notes inviting him to activities but can't always find someone to read them. Missing opportunities makes him wish he could read. When he finally learns to decipher half a note about having cream, his determination grows. Such experiences drive Emile's learning without "bureaux." Educators should prioritize creating situations where reading serves real interests, fostering intrinsic motivation. This approach encourages children to engage with reading thoughtfully, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love for learning, ultimately guiding them to appreciate reading's value and fostering a positive attitude toward communication and exploration.
374 When not in a rush to achieve something, it often happens quickly and effectively. Emile is expected to learn reading and writing by age ten due to a relaxed approach. The focus should be on making reading enjoyable and valuable. If reading is seen as a chore, its benefits are lost. Educators must ensure children appreciate reading's utility, fostering a genuine love for it. This approach encourages children to engage with reading thoughtfully, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love for learning. By prioritizing relevance and enjoyment, educators guide children to appreciate reading's value and foster a positive attitude toward learning.
375 Addressing objections to the method of letting children learn naturally, the concern is that without guidance, they may acquire errors or prejudices. However, if the method itself resolves these concerns, it's effective. Let children learn from experience, fostering intrinsic motivation and critical thinking. This approach encourages children to engage with learning thoughtfully, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration. By prioritizing relevance and enjoyment, educators guide children to appreciate the value of knowledge and foster a positive attitude toward learning, ultimately preparing them for success and fulfillment in a complex world.
376 The author addresses objections, suggesting that if the method resolves these concerns, it's effective. By fostering intrinsic motivation and critical thinking, children learn from experience and engage thoughtfully with their education. This approach encourages intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration. By prioritizing relevance and enjoyment, educators guide children to appreciate the value of knowledge and foster a positive attitude toward learning. This prepares them for success and fulfillment in a complex world. The method encourages children to engage with learning thoughtfully, nurturing intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration, ultimately guiding them to appreciate knowledge's value.
377 Following the method of keeping a child focused on immediate experiences fosters perception, memory, and reasoning. As children grow, their strength allows speculative thinking. Cultivate intelligence by developing physical strength and activity, creating a balance that encourages wisdom and reasoning. This approach nurtures intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration. By prioritizing relevance and engagement, educators guide children to appreciate the value of knowledge and foster a positive attitude toward learning. This method encourages children to engage with education thoughtfully, preparing them for success and fulfillment in a complex world, ultimately guiding them to appreciate knowledge's value.
378 Constant direction and control of a child's actions lead to passivity. Allow children to explore independently, fostering self-guidance and critical thinking. Educators should avoid micromanaging, empowering children to make decisions and learn from experiences. This approach encourages intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration. By prioritizing independence and engagement, educators guide children to appreciate the value of knowledge and foster a positive attitude toward learning. This method encourages children to engage with education thoughtfully, preparing them for success and fulfillment in a complex world, ultimately guiding them to appreciate knowledge's value and the importance of self-directed learning.
379 The belief that physical activity hinders mental development is mistaken. Physical and mental activities should develop together, with one guiding the other. Encourage a balance between physical and intellectual growth, fostering holistic development. This approach nurtures intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration. By prioritizing physical engagement and mental stimulation, educators guide children to appreciate the value of knowledge and foster a positive attitude toward learning. This method encourages children to engage with education thoughtfully, preparing them for success and fulfillment in a complex world, ultimately guiding them to appreciate knowledge's value and the importance of holistic development.
380 Peasants and savages both engage in physical activity, but differ in mental cultivation. Peasants follow habits without reasoning, while savages possess keen senses and subtlety. The difference lies in habitual obedience versus critical thinking. Encourage children to explore independently, fostering self-guidance and critical thinking. This approach nurtures intellectual growth and a lifelong love for exploration. By prioritizing independence and engagement, educators guide children to appreciate the value of knowledge and foster a positive attitude toward learning. This method encourages children to engage with education thoughtfully, preparing them for success and fulfillment in a complex world, ultimately guiding them to appreciate knowledge's value and the importance of critical thinking.
381 The savage, untethered by societal constraints, relies on his reasoning for survival. Unlike the peasant who follows orders, the savage’s actions demand forethought and consideration of consequences. His body and mind develop symbiotically, with physical exertion enhancing mental agility. This self-reliance fosters a symbiotic growth in strength and reasoning, leading to a harmonious development of physical prowess and intellectual capacity. Thus, the savage exemplifies the ideal of combined physical and mental strength, achieved through a life of independent decision-making and constant interaction with the natural world.
382 The pupil under strict tutelage becomes reliant on instructions, unable to act independently or reason for himself. This reliance stifles curiosity and diminishes the ability to discern. The tutor's omnipresence in decision-making discourages the pupil from developing foresight or independent thought. Consequently, the pupil fails to appreciate the practical applications of reasoning, dismissing it as unnecessary. This dependence on the tutor’s foresight leads to a lack of personal responsibility and understanding, resulting in a superficial learning experience. The pupil's lack of engagement with natural phenomena and overreliance on the tutor ultimately undermine the development of true wisdom.
383 Despite the superficial chatter and apparent quickness of mind, a pupil without real-life experience and decision-making skills lacks true intelligence. In times of danger or necessity for quick decisions, this pupil is unable to think independently or effectively. The laborer's son, accustomed to practical challenges, is more capable and adaptable. This discrepancy highlights the importance of practical experience and self-reliance in developing genuine intelligence and problem-solving abilities. Real-world challenges shape one's ability to think critically and act wisely, a contrast to the sheltered upbringing that breeds intellectual complacency and inefficiency.
384 The natural pupil develops self-reliance and experiential learning through interaction with his environment. This approach nurtures both physical and intellectual growth, fostering a well-rounded individual. Unlike those who rely on instruction, the natural pupil actively engages with the world, developing critical thinking and problem-solving skills. His education is rooted in direct experience, leading to an understanding of personal impact. This method cultivates a balance between physical robustness and mental acuity, enabling the pupil to achieve harmony between strength and wisdom. Through this independent learning, he embodies the ideal of simultaneous physical and intellectual development.
385 Effective education involves guiding without strict rules, allowing natural development. This approach emphasizes creating individuals capable of independent thought and action, rather than blindly following instructions. The Spartan model illustrates this, valuing practical experience and resilience over book learning. By fostering self-reliance and resourcefulness, Spartans developed formidable warriors. This method highlights the importance of experiential learning and critical thinking, encouraging adaptability and strength of character. Education should cultivate the ability to navigate life's challenges independently, promoting a balance between discipline and freedom, ultimately leading to wisdom and strength.
386 In traditional education, the teacher often believes they hold power, but the child subtly manipulates situations to achieve desired outcomes. This dynamic shifts control, as children learn to leverage tasks and demands to gain freedom. True mastery in education lies in understanding the child’s perspective and guiding them towards genuine learning. When children pursue their interests, they develop skills and understanding beyond mere compliance. Effective education requires recognizing the child's autonomy and fostering an environment where learning aligns with natural curiosity. This balance empowers children to explore and grow, developing self-discipline and independence.
387 An educator should maintain control while allowing the child to feel free. This illusion of autonomy leads the child to internalize lessons, aligning desires with educational goals. By shaping the environment, educators can guide the child’s experiences, ensuring every action aligns with intended outcomes. This method cultivates a sense of freedom, fostering intrinsic motivation and responsibility. The child learns through natural consequences and exploration, developing critical thinking and self-regulation. Educators must anticipate the child's needs and thoughts, creating a seamless educational experience that promotes growth and understanding, balancing freedom with structure for effective learning.
388 By encouraging physical activity and autonomy, a child can engage with their environment meaningfully, enhancing both body and mind. This approach prevents cunning developed from resisting control, fostering a focus on present well-being. The child learns to navigate their surroundings, deriving genuine enjoyment from activities. Such engagement fosters creativity and problem-solving, promoting an intrinsic understanding of the world. Through self-directed exploration, the child develops practical skills and critical thinking, avoiding reliance on external validation. This balance between physical and mental development nurtures a holistic growth, empowering the child to thrive in various situations.
389 Granting children autonomy in their actions leads them to naturally align their desires with appropriate behavior. When allowed to pursue their interests, they learn self-regulation and develop reasoning skills relevant to their needs. Constant physical engagement with sensible pursuits enhances cognitive development, surpassing theoretical studies. This approach respects the child's innate curiosity, allowing them to learn from experience and understand the world practically. By fostering independence and encouraging exploration, children acquire valuable skills, balancing physical activity with intellectual growth. This method empowers children to navigate their environment thoughtfully, developing a robust sense of responsibility and understanding.
390 When a child is free from constant supervision, they express themselves honestly, allowing educators to observe and guide learning effectively. This openness fosters trust and removes deceitful behavior driven by fear of reprimand. Without the need to hide their true selves, children engage with educational experiences more authentically. Educators can tailor lessons to the child's natural inclinations, creating a seamless learning process. This approach encourages genuine curiosity and critical thinking, promoting intrinsic motivation. By allowing children to explore without fear, educators cultivate an environment where learning is natural, enjoyable, and aligned with the child's developmental needs.
391 Emile's education avoids creating a habit of seeking faults in authority figures. When children lack opportunities to undermine control, they focus on learning rather than finding faults. This method discourages vice by removing the incentive to exploit weaknesses in others. Without a reason to spy on or challenge authority, children develop honesty and integrity. This environment fosters positive relationships, reducing the desire to deceive. Emile's education emphasizes mutual respect and understanding, promoting moral development. By focusing on genuine growth and learning, this approach nurtures ethical individuals who value truth and transparency in their interactions.
392 Although new approaches to education may seem challenging, they are effective when educators possess the necessary knowledge and tools. Understanding human development allows educators to anticipate the effects of various stimuli on a child's will. By mastering these dynamics, educators can guide learning effectively. The key lies in recognizing the child's natural tendencies and aligning educational experiences with them. This mastery empowers educators to create a nurturing environment, promoting growth and understanding. By embracing innovative methods and tailoring them to individual needs, educators foster holistic development, empowering children to reach their full potential.
393 Childish whims are often a product of poor discipline, not inherent nature. When children neither command nor obey blindly, they develop genuine interests and avoid arbitrary desires. Educators bear responsibility for instilling whims and must correct them through patience and improved conduct. Recognizing and addressing these learned behaviors leads to a more authentic development process. By fostering genuine curiosity and interests, educators help children overcome whims, promoting meaningful engagement with their environment. This approach emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and adaptability, encouraging children to develop autonomy and thoughtful decision-making.
394 A child's tendency to exert control over others reflects a lack of discipline. Through a personal anecdote, the educator illustrates the importance of setting boundaries. By calmly addressing a child's whims without immediate compliance, the educator encourages self-reflection and responsibility. This approach emphasizes the importance of patience and understanding in guiding behavior. By not yielding to every demand, educators foster independence and critical thinking. The anecdote demonstrates how subtle guidance and setting limits can effectively address a child's controlling behavior, promoting self-awareness and maturity while maintaining a nurturing and supportive environment.
395 When a child's persistence tests an educator's patience, a change in strategy can prevent emotional outbursts. By calmly locking the child in a safe room after persistent disruptions, the educator avoids confrontation and demonstrates the consequences of stubborn behavior. This approach teaches responsibility and self-control, encouraging the child to reflect on their actions. The anecdote highlights the importance of maintaining composure and using non-confrontational methods to address defiance. Through thoughtful strategies and understanding, educators can guide children towards self-awareness and maturity, emphasizing the value of patience and empathy in shaping behavior and promoting growth.
396 An incident where a child feigns illness to gain attention illustrates the impact of parental indulgence. The educator recognizes the child's manipulation, while the mother succumbs to fear and overreaction. A practical-joking doctor prescribes a strict regimen, exposing the child's tactic. This situation emphasizes the need for discernment in addressing manipulative behavior. The educator's insight contrasts with the mother's gullibility, highlighting the importance of clear communication and understanding between parents and educators. By recognizing and addressing such behavior, educators foster honesty and discourage manipulation, promoting genuine development and trust in children.
397 The educator's direct approach with the child's mother emphasizes the importance of consistency and mutual understanding in education. The mother's fear of contradicting her son undermines discipline, leading to spoiled behavior. The educator refuses to indulge the child's whims, advocating for firm yet fair guidance. This stance highlights the necessity of clear boundaries and communication between educators and parents. By maintaining consistency and emphasizing the child's well-being, educators foster responsibility and respect. This approach empowers children to develop independence and maturity, underscoring the significance of collaboration between parents and educators for effective development.
398 When a child's whims are indulged, their education suffers. The educator observes how the child manipulates the tutor, who is constrained by the mother's indulgence. This dynamic undermines discipline and encourages manipulative behavior. The educator's willingness to please the child initially fosters trust, enabling effective behavioral interventions later. By gradually addressing whims with understanding and firmness, the educator promotes genuine growth and responsibility. This approach highlights the importance of balancing empathy with discipline, empowering children to navigate their environment thoughtfully. Effective education requires patience, insight, and collaboration to nurture well-rounded individuals.
399 Educators must demonstrate the consequences of a child's actions to correct behavior. By providing engaging indoor activities, the educator gains leverage to suggest outdoor walks. This strategy shifts the child's focus, revealing the importance of balance and foresight. Recognizing children's present-focused thinking, educators can guide them towards thoughtful decision-making. This approach encourages responsibility and self-awareness, fostering genuine growth. By demonstrating how actions affect outcomes, educators empower children to make informed choices. This method emphasizes the value of practical learning, promoting independence and understanding, enabling children to navigate their world with confidence and maturity.
400 By demonstrating consistency and responsibility, educators guide children toward self-awareness and autonomy. When the child becomes bored with indoor activities, the educator refuses to disrupt work, mirroring the child's earlier behavior. This strategy highlights the importance of reciprocal understanding and consideration. By reflecting the child's actions, educators teach the value of respect and cooperation. The child's decision to go out alone illustrates the development of independence and responsibility. This approach emphasizes the significance of modeling behavior, fostering mutual respect and understanding, empowering children to navigate their environment with confidence and maturity.
401 Uneasy, he prepared to go outside, expecting me to join. I didn't, which puzzled him. He told grand stories of his journey, hoping to impress. Unfazed, I wished him well. With no escort, he instructed his footman to accompany him, but the footman, following my orders, declined. Realizing he'd be alone, he hesitated, feeling insignificant. Despite his reluctance, he left the house, confident I'd bear any blame for mishaps. This act was orchestrated with his father’s consent to teach him humility and the reality that he isn't the center of the universe. He faced the world alone.
402 Anticipating a scene, I had arranged with his father for this public experiment. Soon after leaving, he overheard passersby making comments: "Such a fine boy, where's he off to alone?" "Isn't he the naughty one, turned out for mischief?" Young boys teased him, and as he progressed, he realized that his fine attire garnered no respect. His perceived importance faded as he confronted the world unprotected. This harsh experience highlighted his vulnerability and the futility of relying solely on superficial status. Alone and humbled, he began to appreciate the importance of genuine self-worth and personal development.
403 Unbeknownst to him, a friend of mine shadowed him, ensuring his safety. This friend approached him, playing a part that required both tact and skill. Without instilling fear, he made the child aware of the folly in his escapade. The child quickly grasped his vulnerability and regretted his defiance. Within half an hour, my friend had him back home, ashamed and unable to meet my gaze. The child’s embarrassment and realization of his limitations served as a powerful lesson, instilling humility and a newfound respect for guidance and protection from those with more experience and knowledge.
404 Upon returning, he met his father, who was on his way out. The child had to explain his absence and my non-accompaniment. His father, stern and unexpectedly severe, told him, "You may leave alone, but I will not have a rebel in my home. Ensure you never return if you do." The child's desire to disappear reflected his deep shame. This encounter reinforced the gravity of his actions and the expectation of obedience. His father's words made it clear that rebellion leads to isolation, emphasizing the importance of humility, respect, and the consequences of defying authority.
405 I received him gravely, without mockery or reproach, and refrained from taking him for a walk that day to avoid revealing our orchestrated lesson. The next day, we walked past the same people who had mocked him, now silent in my presence. This triumphant return demonstrated the importance of humility and the benefits of guidance. The child realized the value of having a mentor and the limitations of solo ventures. This experience taught him to appreciate the wisdom and support of others, strengthening his understanding of the social dynamics that govern respect and success in the world.
406 Using these methods, I successfully guided the child without direct commands or prohibitions. He learned through experience, without lectures or unnecessary lessons. When I spoke, he felt reassured; when silent, he sensed something was wrong, prompting him to learn from the situation itself. This approach fostered a natural learning process, enabling the child to discover lessons independently. He grew to understand the value of observation and reflection. By allowing him to draw conclusions from real-life experiences, he developed critical thinking and problem-solving skills, essential for navigating the world effectively and making informed decisions.
407 Physical exercise, guided by nature, strengthens the body and nurtures a child's reasoning, the most essential kind for all ages. It teaches children how to use their strength and understand physical interactions with the world. Unlike children sheltered indoors, those who explore naturally develop a practical understanding of physics. Real-world experience outmatches classroom learning, as demonstrated by village children who intuitively understand mechanics better than academically trained individuals. The playground provides invaluable lessons, fostering physical and intellectual growth. Emphasizing experiential learning over theoretical instruction encourages self-reliance and adaptability, crucial for lifelong learning and personal development.
408 Observe a cat in a new room, exploring every corner with curiosity and caution. Similarly, a child, upon learning to walk, begins to explore the world, using sight and touch. This exploration determines whether a child becomes skillful or clumsy, quick or slow, wise or foolish. Proper guidance nurtures this innate curiosity, developing a child's ability to interact with their environment. By encouraging children to engage with their surroundings, they develop essential skills and traits. This natural inquisitiveness is foundational for lifelong learning, enabling children to adapt, understand, and navigate the complexities of the world effectively.
409 A person naturally seeks to understand their environment, starting with a personal exploration of physical interactions. This foundational learning, essential for self-preservation, precedes speculative studies. During early development, when senses and limbs are pure and adaptable, is the optimal time for practical exploration. Learning to perceive relationships between oneself and objects forms the basis of intellectual reasoning. Relying solely on books teaches dependency on others' reasoning. Instead, firsthand experience develops independent thinking and genuine knowledge. This early experiential learning fosters critical thinking, self-reliance, and adaptability, crucial skills for navigating the complexities of life and achieving personal growth.
410 To practice any art, tools are necessary; similarly, developing the intellect requires exercising the body's faculties. A strong, healthy body facilitates mental functions, challenging the notion that intellect develops separately. The body and mind are interdependent, with physical health enhancing mental processes. By strengthening the body's tools—limbs, senses, and organs—one supports cognitive development. A robust physical constitution enables efficient and accurate mental work. Encouraging physical activity in early life builds the foundation for intellectual growth, demonstrating the symbiotic relationship between body and mind, where each contributes to the other's development and overall well-being.
411 Detailing how a child's leisure should be spent may seem absurd, as the education described appears unnecessary, teaching what seems obvious. Critics question the value of teaching what children learn naturally by age twelve, alongside formal education. However, this approach focuses on experiential learning and natural development. It encourages children to learn through direct engagement with their environment, fostering self-reliance and practical understanding. By emphasizing real-world experiences over rote learning, this method cultivates critical thinking and adaptability, equipping children with essential life skills. The goal is to nurture independent thinkers capable of navigating the complexities of life.
412 Teaching the art of ignorance is essential, a skill requiring time and effort. True knowledge comes from acknowledging one's ignorance, contrasting with superficial learning. Scholars may display knowledge, but I focus on preparing for true understanding. Like the Spanish ambassador critiquing Venice's treasures, I question the depth of a tutor's teachings. Emphasizing critical thinking and self-awareness over rote memorization fosters genuine learning. Developing tools for independent inquiry allows students to discern true knowledge, embracing uncertainty. This approach encourages curiosity, resilience, and humility, empowering learners to explore and understand the world through their insights and experiences.
413 Many attribute the ancient strength of body and mind to their gymnastic exercises, as noted by Montaigne and philosophers like Locke and Fleury. They advocated for physical training to fortify the mind and prepare for life's challenges. This wisdom is often neglected, yet physical exercise is vital for developing resilience and mental acuity. While Locke provides sound advice, I add my thoughts, emphasizing the importance of bodily exercise for children's education. It prepares them for adversity, fostering both physical and mental strength. This holistic approach to development encourages a balanced life, enhancing overall well-being and personal growth.
414 A growing child's clothing should be loose and unrestricted, avoiding tight garments or belts. The French style is particularly harmful, as it impedes growth and circulation, potentially leading to health issues like scurvy. Ancient dress styles and active lifestyles protected against such ailments. Hussar attire exacerbates this problem, restricting movement and compressing the body. Children should wear smocks or loose clothing, avoiding premature attempts to shape their form. This allows natural development, free from constraints. The desire to mature children too quickly leads to physical and mental deficiencies, highlighting the need for patience and age-appropriate expectations.
415 Children are naturally drawn to bright colors, which suit them. However, if they prefer expensive materials, they succumb to luxury and fashion, losing their innocence. This choice influences education, as rewards and punishments often involve clothing. Children learn that appearance defines worth, prioritizing external validation over genuine merit. This mindset fosters superficial values, making them care more about appearances than substance. To counteract this, children should be encouraged to value comfort and freedom over luxury, developing a sense of self-worth independent of material possessions. This approach fosters authenticity, resilience, and a deeper appreciation for intrinsic values.
416 To correct a spoiled child, make their finest clothes uncomfortable, associating them with constraint and unhappiness. When they attempt to join peers in simpler attire, they'll be excluded, learning to value comfort and freedom. By linking grandeur to discomfort, the child will reject materialism, prioritizing liberty. Before societal prejudices, children naturally prefer plain, comfortable clothing. By fostering this preference, they develop independence and self-assurance, unburdened by societal expectations. This lesson teaches the importance of authenticity, self-expression, and genuine happiness, empowering children to prioritize their well-being over superficial appearances, cultivating a balanced and fulfilling life.
417 Active and sedentary lifestyles require different habits. Sedentary individuals should maintain constant body temperature with warm clothing. Active individuals, exposed to varying conditions, should acclimate to temperature changes with light clothing. Emile should consistently wear the same clothes year-round to adapt to temperature fluctuations. By wearing summer clothes in winter, like Newton, Emile builds resilience. This approach strengthens the body against environmental changes, promoting health and adaptability. It teaches the value of consistency and self-reliance, preparing Emile for life's challenges. Embracing nature's rhythms fosters physical and mental strength, essential for thriving in an ever-changing world.
418 Emile should remain bareheaded year-round, following the ancient Egyptians' practice. Unlike Persians with heavy headwear, Egyptians' skulls were stronger, as noted by Herodotus. Exposing the head strengthens bones, protecting the brain from injury and illness. Children should adapt to this exposure for robust health. While some mothers may prioritize cleanliness, a light net can suffice. I reject turning a European pupil into an Asiatic one, emphasizing resilience over cultural norms. By fostering natural strength, Emile becomes resilient to environmental influences, developing a strong constitution and adaptability, essential traits for navigating life's challenges confidently.
419 Infants are often overdressed; they should adapt to cold, not heat. Early exposure to cold strengthens them, while heat exhausts their tender skin. Infant mortality peaks in August, supporting this theory. Northern peoples' resilience to cold further validates this idea. Gradually, children can acclimate to sunlight, building tolerance to extreme temperatures. By balancing exposure, children develop robust health and adaptability. This approach fosters resilience, preparing them for diverse climates and challenges. Encouraging natural adaptation over excessive protection cultivates strength and independence, equipping children to thrive in varied environments and embrace life's opportunities confidently.
420 Locke's advice, though generally sound, contains inconsistencies. He advocates for cold baths but restricts cold water and damp grass. Yet, he advises against waterproof shoes, despite their practical benefits. A consistent approach should consider both comfort and resilience. Encouraging balanced exposure to elements strengthens children, fostering adaptability and health. By integrating practical wisdom with flexibility, children learn to navigate diverse conditions. Emphasizing moderation and consistency in nurturing environments promotes holistic development, ensuring children grow into resilient, well-rounded individuals capable of facing life's challenges with confidence and adaptability, grounded in practical experience and sound judgment.
421 Locke suggests giving bread to children who are thirsty, which seems counterintuitive. Our natural instincts are not so flawed that they endanger us; if they were, humanity would have perished long ago. Basic instincts, like drinking when thirsty, are vital for survival and should not be suppressed by artificial means. It is important to trust in the body's natural responses and not overcomplicate basic needs with unnecessary interventions. Understanding and respecting these instincts allow us to maintain health and balance, demonstrating the wisdom inherent in natural processes that have sustained life through countless generations. Image of number 10
422 Allow Emile to drink cold water when thirsty, even in winter, ensuring the water is safe. River water is generally acceptable; spring water should adjust to air temperature. Winter sweating is uncommon outdoors; if Emile exercises in the cold, he should drink when thirsty without fear. Transport him to the water source for cooling, concealing these precautions from him. Occasional illness is preferable to constant health anxiety. Encouraging natural responses, rather than constant vigilance, builds resilience and understanding of the body’s needs, fostering a balanced approach to health and well-being in various environmental conditions. Image of number 10
423 Children need ample sleep to offset their intense physical activity, making both essential. Nighttime is naturally restful; sleep is deeper without sunlight. Rising and retiring with the sun is healthiest. However, city life requires adaptability, not rigid routines. A man must occasionally break routines, waking early or staying up late without harm. Gradually adapt children to varied schedules, strengthening their constitution. This flexible approach equips them to handle life's unpredictability. Balancing natural rhythms with real-world demands builds resilience and self-regulation, preparing individuals to thrive amidst the complexities and demands of modern living. Image of number 10
424 Accustom children to sleep in discomfort to ensure they can sleep anywhere. A hard life, once embraced, enhances enjoyment; an easy life breeds discomfort. Those pampered need soft beds; those used to hard surfaces can rest anywhere. Falling asleep easily negates the concept of a hard bed. This practice instills resilience, preparing individuals to adapt and thrive in various conditions. By embracing simplicity and avoiding excessive comfort, children learn to find peace and rest in any environment, developing a robust, adaptable nature that equips them to face life's challenges with ease and confidence. Image of number 10
425 A soft bed envelops the body, causing the kidneys to overheat, potentially leading to inflammation, stones, and delicate health. This comfort weakens the body, creating a breeding ground for illness. The key to health lies in maintaining a balance, avoiding excessive comfort that breeds vulnerability. By embracing simplicity and allowing the body to adapt to natural conditions, one cultivates resilience and robustness, reducing the likelihood of ailments. Developing a strong constitution through moderation and practical living is essential for fostering long-term health and vitality, equipping individuals to navigate life's physical challenges effectively. Image of number 10
426 The ideal bed is one that promotes restful sleep. Emile and I will prepare our own beds during the day, not relying on servants. Digging the soil becomes our mattress preparation, emphasizing self-sufficiency. This approach fosters independence, encouraging individuals to take responsibility for their comfort and well-being. By engaging in practical tasks, children learn the value of effort and self-reliance, cultivating a sense of accomplishment. This hands-on method instills a deeper appreciation for simple comforts, teaching the importance of personal initiative and adaptability in creating a fulfilling and balanced life. Image of number 10
427 A healthy child can be made to sleep or wake almost at will. Telling a child to sleep is as effective as telling him to heal when ill. Allow him to tire naturally, talking until he quiets himself. This approach, akin to preaching or rocking a cradle, gently encourages rest. Using this method at night promotes sleep without enforcing it during the day. Recognizing the natural rhythms of rest and wakefulness respects the child's needs, fostering a balanced routine. By gently guiding children to rest, we support their development, ensuring they grow in harmony with their natural cycles. Image of number 10
428 I occasionally rouse Emile, not to limit his sleep, but to accustom him to waking unexpectedly. Additionally, I must teach him to wake at my will without prompting. This practice develops adaptability, ensuring he can respond to changes and demands. By instilling this skill, I prepare him for life's unpredictability, fostering resilience and self-discipline. Encouraging independent wakefulness and response to external cues equips Emile to navigate diverse situations with confidence. This approach strengthens his ability to adapt and thrive, promoting personal growth and a proactive attitude toward life's challenges and opportunities. Image of number 10
429 If Emile wakes early, I'll ensure a dull morning, valuing sleep. Waking late, he’ll find a favored toy. To wake him, I’ll mention an exciting plan, prompting him to ask for a wake-up call. If he oversleeps, he'll miss out. This teaches self-regulation and time management, reinforcing the importance of personal responsibility. By associating consequences with actions, Emile learns to prioritize effectively, understanding the value of time. This method fosters independence and awareness, equipping him to make informed choices and manage his schedule, preparing him for future challenges and responsibilities. Image of number 10
430 If an indolent child indulges in laziness, don't yield; stimulate action with appetite, not force. This motivation aligns with nature, achieving dual goals. Encouraging intrinsic interest and curiosity fosters engagement and growth. By tapping into natural desires, children develop a proactive attitude, driven by genuine interest rather than coercion. This approach nurtures self-motivation and initiative, empowering children to pursue their passions and explore the world. Encouraging exploration and discovery fosters resilience, adaptability, and personal growth, equipping them with the skills and mindset needed to navigate life's complexities with confidence and enthusiasm. Image of number 10
431 Children can be passionate about any skill without vanity or jealousy. Their vitality and imitation drive them. In play, they endure hardships willingly. Young savages’ sports involve fasting, pain, and fatigue, proving pain's charm. Teachers must harness this, though not all can. Children enjoy challenges when framed as play, finding satisfaction in overcoming obstacles. This approach fosters resilience, adaptability, and a growth mindset, encouraging them to embrace difficulties. By nurturing a spirit of adventure and exploration, children develop critical thinking, creativity, and perseverance, equipping them to face life's challenges with confidence and enthusiasm. Image of number 10
432 Man shouldn't be enslaved by pain, disease, or death. Familiarity with these lessens sensitivity. Experience reduces pain's sting, strengthening the soul. The body becomes armor, deflecting harm. Even death's approach feels less daunting. Like Montaigne’s Moroccan king, life extends into death. Courage and endurance, learned through experience, prepare children. Virtues aren't taught by name but through living. This experiential learning fosters resilience, adaptability, and inner strength, equipping individuals to face life's challenges with grace and courage. Embracing life’s realities cultivates a balanced perspective, enabling individuals to navigate adversity with confidence and dignity. Image of number 10
433 Considering smallpox, should my pupil be inoculated early or naturally exposed? Early inoculation aligns with preserving life when valuable, with minimal risk. Properly performed, inoculation isn't dangerous. Balancing natural exposure and medical intervention reflects broader principles of letting nature lead. This decision impacts health and well-being, considering timing and circumstances. By weighing options carefully, we navigate the complexities of medical choices, prioritizing safety and natural resilience. This approach encourages informed decision-making and holistic health, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting both medical advancements and natural processes in safeguarding health and vitality. Image of number 10
434 Natural exposure to smallpox aligns with our principles, letting nature choose the moment. Human interference often disrupts nature's timing. The natural man is always prepared; nature inoculates best. Trusting nature fosters resilience and harmony. This approach encourages respect for natural processes and emphasizes the importance of allowing the body to adapt and respond to its environment. By minimizing intervention, we support the body's innate ability to maintain balance and health. Embracing nature's wisdom cultivates a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of life, promoting a holistic approach to health and well-being that honors natural rhythms. Image of number 10
435 I don't criticize inoculation; my reasoning for exempting my pupil doesn't apply to yours. Without preparation, exposure leads to illness. Resistance to inoculation correlates with its necessity. Emile's situation makes it almost indifferent. If inoculated, he'll understand the disease; natural exposure avoids doctors. Balancing medical intervention and natural exposure reflects informed decision-making, considering context and individual needs. This approach emphasizes understanding and respecting both medical advancements and natural processes in safeguarding health and well-being, fostering a nuanced perspective on health management that prioritizes safety and resilience. Image of number 10
436 Exclusive education isolates individuals, valuing costly over practical skills. Riding is taught, swimming isn't, despite its life-saving importance. Emile will be as comfortable in water as on land. Why not live in all elements? If possible, he'd fly like an eagle or endure heat like a salamander. Emphasizing practical skills and adaptability fosters resilience and versatility, equipping individuals to navigate diverse environments and challenges confidently. This approach encourages a well-rounded education that prioritizes essential life skills, empowering individuals to thrive in various situations and embrace life's opportunities with confidence and competence. Image of number 10
437 Fear of drowning deters swimming lessons. Dying while learning or not learning is our fault. Foolhardiness stems from vanity. Emile won't be reckless, even under scrutiny. Learning without danger, he'll practice in a safe stream but must face danger too. Proportional risk builds resilience. I'll share the risk, ensuring safety. This approach fosters confidence, adaptability, and critical thinking, equipping individuals to navigate challenges responsibly. By balancing safety and exposure to risk, we cultivate a resilient mindset that prepares individuals to face life's uncertainties with courage and competence, promoting personal growth and self-assurance. Image of number 10
438 A child is smaller, weaker, and less reasonable than an adult, but sees, hears, tastes, and smells nearly as well. Sensory faculties mature first but are often neglected. Recognizing and nurturing these abilities is crucial for development. By fostering sensory awareness, we support holistic growth, enhancing the child's understanding of the world. Emphasizing sensory education encourages curiosity and exploration, equipping children to engage with their environment thoughtfully. This approach promotes a balanced development that values both physical and cognitive growth, fostering a deeper connection with the world and empowering children to navigate life's complexities confidently. Image of number 10
439 Training the senses involves more than using them; it requires learning to judge through them. Understanding sensory perception enhances decision-making. By cultivating sensory awareness, children learn to interpret and respond to their environment effectively. This approach encourages critical thinking and adaptability, fostering a deeper connection with the world. Emphasizing sensory education supports holistic development, equipping children to navigate life's complexities with confidence and insight. By honing sensory perception, we empower individuals to engage thoughtfully with their surroundings, enhancing their ability to make informed decisions and fostering a well-rounded, resilient approach to life. Image of number 10
440 Natural sensory use strengthens the body without improving judgment. Activities like swimming, running, and jumping exercise muscles but not eyes and ears, essential for coordination. Engage all senses, comparing and evaluating experiences to develop comprehensive skills. Understanding resistance before applying force fosters efficient effort. Encouraging thoughtful action cultivates critical thinking and problem-solving abilities. This holistic approach nurtures adaptability and resilience, preparing individuals to navigate diverse challenges. By integrating sensory education with physical activity, we promote a balanced development that values both cognitive and physical growth, empowering individuals to engage with the world confidently and effectively. Image of number 10
441 To move a heavy mass, using the correct lever length is crucial. Experience teaches one to select the proper tool for the task. This skill isn't beyond a child's understanding. For example, estimating a load's weight by appearance requires comparing different sizes and substances. Experience aids in comparing specific weights. I once saw a highly educated young man doubt that a bucket of oak weighed less than water until he tried it. Practical experiences, like these, foster critical thinking and understanding, enabling children to develop valuable skills for navigating and solving everyday challenges. Image of number 10
442 Touch is constantly active, warning us of danger and requiring minimal training. However, the blind develop enhanced touch due to reliance on it. Why not teach ourselves to navigate like them in the dark? The blind guide us in darkness while we rely on artificial light. We should train to perceive surroundings without sight, relying on touch instead of light. Developing this skill fosters independence and adaptability, enabling us to navigate various environments confidently. By honing touch, we enhance our perception and resilience, empowering ourselves to engage with the world more effectively and creatively. Image of number 10
443 In darkness, clap to gauge a room's size and position. Feel air changes near walls and detect drafts to find open doors. On a boat, sense the direction and speed by the air on your face. Night observations surpass daylight due to reliance on touch over sight. Engaging the senses without visual aid sharpens perception, fostering adaptability and resilience. This approach encourages a deeper connection with the environment, enhancing sensory awareness and critical thinking. By developing these skills, individuals gain confidence and adaptability, enabling them to navigate diverse situations with greater insight and resourcefulness. Image of number 10
444 Darkness naturally scares humans and animals, only overcome by knowledge and courage. Thinkers and philosophers fear rustling leaves at night. This fear stems from ignorance of surroundings, similar to deaf suspicion or superstition. Unable to see, we imagine threats. This fear persists despite knowing we're safe, highlighting the need for understanding to overcome it. By fostering awareness and knowledge, we mitigate fear and build resilience. Encouraging curiosity and exploration helps individuals confront and conquer fears, equipping them with the confidence and adaptability needed to navigate the unknown and embrace life's challenges with courage. Image of number 10
445 Silence in the dark fuels unease, imagining unseen dangers. Imagination, initially a comfort, becomes a tormentor, making shadows seem threatening. Instinct's voice is louder than reason when fear takes hold. The mind conjures threats where none exist, fueled by self-preservation. This irrational fear illustrates the power of the imagination over reason. Recognizing this can help us address and manage fear, building resilience and understanding. Encouraging rational thinking and awareness fosters a balanced perspective, empowering individuals to confront fear with confidence and clarity, transforming imagination into a tool for growth rather than a source of anxiety. Image of number 10
446 Imagination thrives on novelty; habit dulls its power. Habit breeds familiarity, extinguishing fear. Exposure to darkness reduces fear more effectively than philosophical arguments. Roofers don't fear heights; those accustomed to darkness don't fear it. Regular exposure desensitizes fear, fostering courage and adaptability. Embracing challenges builds resilience and confidence, transforming fear into familiarity. This approach encourages individuals to confront and overcome fears, empowering them to navigate life's uncertainties with courage and assurance. By fostering a mindset of exploration and growth, we equip ourselves to face challenges with strength, transforming obstacles into opportunities for personal development. Image of number 10
447 Dark games offer unexpected benefits. Emphasize joy during these games, as darkness breeds gloom. Encourage laughter upon entering and leaving dark spaces, focusing on past and future games to prevent fears. This approach fosters resilience and confidence, transforming fear into fun. Encouraging a playful attitude towards darkness builds adaptability and courage, equipping individuals to face uncertainties with a positive mindset. By fostering joy and curiosity, we empower ourselves to navigate challenges with confidence and creativity, transforming potential fears into opportunities for growth and exploration, enriching our experiences and strengthening our character. Image of number 10
448 We reach an age where we regress, recalling childhood joys. Aging makes us childlike, remembering youth more vividly than adulthood. Personal anecdotes enrich writing, connecting past and present. Embracing this journey fosters self-reflection and understanding, bridging generational experiences. Sharing stories cultivates empathy and insight, encouraging exploration of our past to inform our present. This introspective approach enhances personal growth and connection, enriching our understanding of ourselves and others. By valuing our journey, we gain perspective and resilience, empowering us to embrace life's changes with grace and wisdom, fostering a deeper appreciation for our unique narratives. Image of number 10
449 Living with Pastor M. Lambercier, my cousin Bernard and I differed in courage. Bernard, an heir, was timid at night. Mocking him, I was tested by Lambercier, tasked with retrieving a Bible from a dark church. Refusal was not an option, challenging my bravery. Facing darkness, I ventured without light, crossing a graveyard unafraid outdoors. This test of courage highlights the power of self-challenge and resilience. Embracing challenges fosters personal growth and confidence, equipping us to confront fears and uncertainties with strength and determination, empowering us to navigate life's complexities with courage and clarity. Image of number 10
450 Opening the church door, echoes shook my courage. Entering, darkness filled the vast space, sparking terror. Hair on end, I fled. Sultan, a dog, calmed me. Ashamed, I returned, but Sultan refused. Reentering, panic returned. Lost among benches, I struggled to find the pulpit. Finally exiting, I resolved only to enter in daylight. This experience illustrates fear's power over reason, yet also resilience in confronting it. Embracing challenges fosters courage and growth, equipping us to navigate fears with confidence and determination, transforming fear into an opportunity for personal development and empowerment. Image of number 10
451 Returning home, I heard M. Lambercier's laughter. Embarrassed, I hesitated. Miss Lambercier, worried, sent a maid with a lantern, and Lambercier planned to search with Bernard. Fear vanished, replaced by determination. I ran back, found the pulpit, retrieved the Bible, and returned triumphantly. This journey from fear to pride underscores resilience and courage. Facing fears transforms them into growth opportunities, fostering confidence and empowerment. By embracing challenges, we cultivate inner strength and determination, equipping ourselves to navigate life's uncertainties with courage and grace, turning fear into a stepping stone for personal development and success. Image of number 10
452 The anecdote isn't an example of mirth in dark games, but shows laughter reassures the fearful. Instead of playing alone, gather good-humored children. Start with groups, not individuals, to ease fear. Gradually introduce solo challenges when readiness is certain. This approach builds resilience and confidence, transforming fear into fun. Encouraging camaraderie and gradual exposure fosters adaptability and courage, equipping individuals to face challenges with a positive mindset. By fostering a supportive environment, we empower ourselves to navigate fears and uncertainties with strength and assurance, transforming obstacles into opportunities for personal growth and connection. Image of number 10
453 Dark games are both entertaining and instructive, needing minimal setup. Create a labyrinth of furniture, placing decoy boxes and one candy-filled box. Give clear instructions for finding it. Draw lots for turns, increasing difficulty with skill. This approach fosters problem-solving, adaptability, and fun. Engaging in playful challenges builds resilience and creativity, equipping individuals to navigate complexities with confidence and resourcefulness. By encouraging exploration and critical thinking, we empower ourselves to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, fostering a mindset of curiosity and discovery that enriches our experiences and strengthens our capabilities. Image of number 10
454 Imagine a triumphant child returning with a box, only to find a surprise inside. Laughter ensues. Another game involves retrieving an item from a whitewashed room without touching walls. Even a slight failure shows with white marks. These games encourage skill, creativity, and joy. Engaging in playful challenges fosters adaptability, problem-solving, and resilience. Encouraging exploration and experimentation cultivates a growth mindset, equipping individuals to navigate complexities with confidence and resourcefulness. By embracing challenges as opportunities for learning and fun, we empower ourselves to approach life's uncertainties with curiosity and determination, enriching our experiences and capabilities. Image of number 10
455 An educated man, accustomed to darkness, moves confidently, hands guiding him. Childhood games fill his imagination, replacing fear. Laughter echoes past playmates, not spirits. Night recalls cheerful memories, inspiring delight. Ready for military expeditions, he navigates camps stealthily. Entrusted with stealing Rhesus's steeds, he excels. Unlike others, his education breeds resilience and confidence. Embracing challenges transforms fear into familiarity, equipping individuals to navigate uncertainties with courage and assurance. By fostering adaptability and creativity, we empower ourselves to face life's complexities with strength and determination, transforming obstacles into opportunities for personal growth and success. Image of number 10
456 Startling children to reduce darkness fear backfires, increasing timidity. Unknown dangers and past surprises perpetuate fear. To prevent such incidents, offer advice. Tell Emile to boldly confront surprises, squeezing and striking if necessary, until he knows their nature. This approach fosters courage and resilience, transforming fear into proactive self-defense. Encouraging readiness and determination equips individuals to navigate uncertainties with confidence and strength. By fostering a mindset of empowerment and preparedness, we empower ourselves to confront fears and challenges with courage and assurance, transforming obstacles into opportunities for growth and resilience. Image of number 10
457 Touch, though constantly used, remains less refined than other senses due to reliance on sight. It ensures accurate judgments by correcting other senses. Touch, requiring muscle and nerve action, associates sensations of temperature, size, shape, weight, and density. This sense teaches us foreign bodies' effects, vital for self-preservation. Honing touch enhances perception and adaptability, equipping individuals to navigate diverse environments confidently. By developing sensory awareness and critical thinking, we empower ourselves to engage with the world more effectively, fostering resilience and insight. This approach encourages a deeper connection with our surroundings, enriching our experiences and capabilities. Image of number 10
458 Trained touch can replace sight and even hearing, sensing vibrations. Placing a hand on a cello, one can discern pitch and string type by vibration alone. Developing this sensitivity could enable hearing music through touch. Speaking to the deaf through music is possible, as tone and measure combine like speech. This approach fosters adaptability and communication, transforming challenges into opportunities for connection. Encouraging sensory exploration and creativity empowers individuals to navigate complexities with confidence and resourcefulness. By embracing innovative approaches, we enhance our ability to connect and communicate, enriching our interactions and understanding. Image of number 10
459 Touch can be blunted by hard surfaces or sharpened by varied, gentle contact. Harsh activities harden skin, reducing sensitivity, while gentle touch increases discernment. Musical instruments illustrate this: cello hardens fingers, while harpsichord maintains flexibility and sensitivity. This difference highlights touch's versatility. Encouraging varied experiences enhances adaptability and perception, equipping individuals to navigate diverse situations confidently. By fostering sensory awareness and exploration, we empower ourselves to engage with the world more effectively, enriching our understanding and capabilities. This approach promotes a balanced development that values both physical and cognitive growth, strengthening our resilience and insight. Image of number 10
460 Refining touch requires exercises that hone sensitivity. Harsh, repetitive movements harden the skin, while varied, gentle contact sharpens perception. Musical instruments highlight this: cello hardens fingers, harpsichord enhances flexibility. This contrast illustrates touch's adaptability. Embracing diverse experiences builds resilience and creativity, empowering individuals to navigate complexities confidently. By fostering sensory awareness and exploration, we enhance our understanding and capabilities. This approach values both physical and cognitive growth, strengthening resilience and insight. Encouraging curiosity and adaptability empowers us to face challenges with confidence and assurance, transforming obstacles into opportunities for personal growth and success. Image of number 10
461 The skin shields the body, so hardening it to endure the air's changes is vital. I avoid overworking the hand to prevent it from losing its sensitive touch, which informs us about our surroundings, sometimes evoking reactions even in darkness. Maintaining a balance between resilience and sensitivity in the skin ensures its effectiveness. The skin's ability to adapt helps us respond to various physical sensations and environments. It acts as both a protector and a communicator, signaling potential dangers and changes, thus playing a crucial role in our interaction with the world. Image of number 10
462 Why should my pupil always wear ox skin underfoot? If his skin can act as a sole, why not use it? Delicate skin can be harmful, as shown by the Genevans, who seized guns over shoes during a winter attack. Barefoot readiness might have saved them. Embracing natural adaptability enhances resilience, empowering individuals to navigate diverse environments. By strengthening the foot, one prepares for unforeseen challenges, enabling quick responses and fostering independence. This adaptability, rooted in natural resilience, ensures preparedness for unexpected circumstances, highlighting the importance of using inherent strengths in critical situations. Image of number 10
463 Emile should go barefoot year-round, gaining resilience against the unforeseen. I’ll follow his example, ensuring safety from glass. Encourage exercises for agility and body awareness. Let him jump, climb, and balance, guided by physics’ principles long before scientific learning. Teach movement through natural landscapes rather than formal dance, fostering grace through practical skill. This approach nurtures adaptability and confidence, preparing him to navigate challenges. By learning through experience, Emile gains an understanding of balance and movement, enabling him to emulate the sure-footedness of a mountain goat, equipping him for life's rugged paths. Image of number 10
464 As touch confines its operations to the man's immediate surroundings, so sight extends its range beyond them. It is this which makes it misleading; man sees half his horizon at a glance. In the midst of this multitude of simultaneous impressions and the thoughts excited by them, how can he fail now and then to make mistakes? Thus sight is the least reliable of our senses, just because it has the widest range; it functions long before our other senses, and its work is too hasty and on too large a scale to be corrected by the rest Moreover, the very illusions of perspective are necessary if we are to arrive at a knowledge of space and compare one part of space with another. Without false appearances we should never see anything at a distance; without the gradations of size and tone we could not judge of distance, or rather distance would have no existence for us. If two trees, one of which was a hundred paces from us and the other ten, looked equally large and distinct, we should think they were side by side. If we perceived the real dimensions of things, we should know nothing of space; everything would seem close to our eyes. Image of number 10
465 The angle formed between any objects and our eye is the only means by which our sight estimates their size and distance, and since this angle is the simple effect of complex causes, the judgment we form does not distinguish between the several causes; we are compelled to be inaccurate. For how can I tell, by sight alone, whether the angle at which an object appears to me smaller than another, indicates that it is really smaller or that it is further off? Image of number 10
466 Here we must just reverse our former plan. Instead of simplifying the sensation, always reinforce it and verify it by means of another sense. Subject the eye to the hand, and, so to speak, restrain the precipitation of the former sense by the slower and more reasoned pace of the latter. For lack of this sort of practice our sight measurements are very imperfect. We cannot correctly, and at a glance, estimate height, length, breadth, and distance; and the fact that engineers, surveyors, architects, masons, and painters are generally quicker to see and better able to estimate distances correctly, proves that the fault is not in our eyes, but in our use of them. Their occupations give them the training we lack, and they check the equivocal results of the angle of vision by its accompanying experiences, which determine the relations of the two causes of this angle for their eyes. Image of number 10
467 Children love activities allowing free movement. Engage them with tasks like picking cherries from tall trees, crossing streams, or estimating room size. These challenges spark interest and develop spatial awareness. By turning everyday tasks into learning opportunities, we nurture creativity and problem-solving. Encouraging exploration fosters a mindset of curiosity and discovery, equipping children with tools for confident navigation. This approach not only enhances practical skills but also nurtures a love for learning, empowering children to explore their environment with enthusiasm and adaptability, preparing them for future challenges. Image of number 10
468 Teaching an idle child to run is challenging, especially without direct orders. He believes birth replaces the need for skills. I aim to inspire him through example, integrating physical and mental development. Encouraging participation without explicit instruction fosters intrinsic motivation. By modeling behavior and offering opportunities for self-discovery, we empower children to embrace new challenges and skills. This approach nurtures independence and resilience, equipping them to navigate their world with confidence and competence. Encouraging self-directed learning and exploration fosters a lifelong love for discovery and personal growth. Image of number 10
469 During walks, I brought cake for us to share. One day, with three pieces, he asked for more. I suggested a race between two boys for the extra piece. The cake became a prize, sparking competition and excitement. This simple challenge encouraged motivation and engagement. Using creative methods, we can inspire interest and learning through playful competition. By fostering a sense of enjoyment and achievement, we nurture a love for discovery and growth, empowering children to embrace new experiences and skills. Encouraging active participation cultivates a mindset of curiosity and exploration, enhancing learning and development. Image of number 10
470 Racing for cake didn’t yield immediate results, but persistence paid off. Walks continued with varying cake prizes, fostering competition. As races drew onlookers, excitement grew. My pupil found joy in the game, learning the value of patience and creativity in teaching. Transforming activities into engaging experiences nurtures intrinsic motivation and love for learning. Encouraging curiosity empowers children to explore new challenges with enthusiasm, fostering resilience. This approach builds a foundation for lifelong learning and adaptability, equipping children to navigate an ever-changing world with confidence and curiosity. Image of number 10
471 Competitors often didn’t play fair, blocking or tripping others. We separated them, starting from different points equidistant from the goal, to ensure fairness. This strategy addressed cheating, promoting integrity in competition. By equalizing starting positions, we taught the value of fairness and respect, fostering a culture of sportsmanship. This approach encourages ethical behavior, nurturing a sense of justice and equality. Emphasizing fair play and respect creates a positive environment, enabling participants to learn the true essence of competition. Instilling these values prepares individuals to navigate challenges with integrity, building a foundation for lifelong ethical conduct. Image of number 10
472 Frustrated by losing cake prizes, the young lord practiced running privately. I feigned ignorance, knowing my tactic worked. Confident, he challenged me for cake, winning due to my short course setup. Success encouraged his training, outpacing peasant boys over time. This process fostered resilience, demonstrating effort leads to improvement. By nurturing intrinsic motivation, we empower individuals to embrace challenges and achieve goals. Encouraging self-directed learning fosters a growth mindset, equipping them to tackle obstacles. This approach cultivates perseverance and self-confidence, preparing individuals to pursue personal and professional development with determination and enthusiasm. Image of number 10
473 As victories became frequent, the young lord shared his cake, learning generosity. This unexpected development taught me the roots of altruism. By experiencing success and empathy, he realized the joy of giving, highlighting the connection between achievement and kindness. Encouraging generosity fosters compassion and empathy, nurturing a sense of community and interconnectedness. By promoting acts of kindness, we inspire individuals to contribute positively to society. This approach cultivates a spirit of giving, enhancing personal fulfillment and social harmony. Emphasizing generosity builds a foundation for meaningful relationships and a compassionate world, enriching lives and fostering a culture of empathy. Image of number 10
474 To teach observation, I set unequal race distances. The young lord, unaware, chose smooth paths, neglecting distance. Realizing this, he learned to judge distances visually, enhancing skills over time. By encouraging critical thinking and observation, we foster problem-solving abilities. Developing spatial awareness empowers individuals to navigate their environment effectively, fostering adaptability. This approach cultivates analytical skills, preparing individuals to make informed decisions and tackle challenges. Encouraging experiential learning nurtures curiosity and innovation, equipping individuals to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. By fostering observation and analysis, we enhance cognitive development, enabling individuals to thrive in complex situations. Image of number 10
475 Sight, the least distinguishable from judgment, requires learning to see through experience. Comparing sight with touch, we develop accurate perception by walking, measuring, and observing. Transitioning from measurement to judgment enhances confidence. Using natural standards like foot length, individuals learn spatial awareness. Encouraging experiential learning fosters adaptability and cognitive development. By cultivating observation skills, individuals gain confidence in navigating their environment. This approach nurtures analytical thinking, preparing individuals for complex challenges. Emphasizing experiential learning builds a foundation for lifelong growth and problem-solving, equipping individuals with the tools to explore and innovate in a dynamic world. Image of number 10
476 Estimating size requires understanding shapes, guided by perspective laws. Encouraging children to draw cultivates accuracy and flexibility. Learning through observation, not imitation, enhances perception. Let children draw from life, refining their skills through practice. This approach nurtures creativity, empowering individuals to explore their environment with curiosity. By fostering observational skills, individuals develop a deeper understanding of shapes and sizes. Emphasizing experiential learning cultivates critical thinking, enabling individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Encouraging creativity and observation enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to innovate and adapt. This approach builds a foundation for lifelong learning and exploration, fostering curiosity. Image of number 10
477 Rough sketches lead to accuracy in drawing. Over time, individuals gain a true eye and a sure hand, understanding relationships between forms. Prioritizing knowledge over replication fosters exploration. Encouraging observation enhances perception and understanding, nurturing creativity. By valuing knowledge, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for the natural world. This approach cultivates critical thinking, empowering individuals to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Emphasizing experiential learning builds a foundation for lifelong growth and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate complex challenges. Fostering creativity and observation enriches cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments. Image of number 10
478 Engaging with students creates a shared learning experience. By participating in activities, we build a supportive environment, encouraging growth. Through collaboration, individuals gain confidence and skills. This approach fosters a love for learning, inspiring curiosity and exploration. Engaging in creative activities enhances problem-solving abilities, nurturing adaptability. By fostering collaboration, individuals develop interpersonal skills and a sense of community. Emphasizing shared learning experiences cultivates a growth mindset, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. This approach builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions in dynamic environments. Image of number 10
479 Display student work to inspire pride and responsibility. Framing and showcasing drawings encourages care and effort. Celebrating progress fosters motivation and growth. Emphasizing achievements nurtures a sense of accomplishment, inspiring continued exploration. By valuing effort and improvement, individuals develop confidence and a growth mindset. This approach cultivates resilience, empowering individuals to embrace challenges and learn from experiences. Encouraging creativity and recognition enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to navigate diverse environments. Fostering pride and responsibility builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore and thrive in a dynamic world. Image of number 10
480 Geometry often seems beyond children's reach due to our approach. Emphasizing reasoning over seeing hinders understanding. Encourage visual learning, enabling children to grasp concepts through imagination and exploration. Adopting their methods fosters curiosity and engagement. By valuing creativity, individuals develop a deeper understanding of geometry and its applications. This approach cultivates critical thinking, empowering individuals to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Emphasizing experiential learning builds a foundation for lifelong growth and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate complex challenges. Fostering creativity and observation enriches cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments. Image of number 10
481 Relying on memory alone without encouraging inventiveness and reasoning skills leads to superficial learning. When proofs are dictated, the ability to reason is not developed. Encouraging creative thinking fosters deeper understanding and problem-solving abilities. By promoting critical thinking, individuals gain confidence in exploring ideas and generating solutions. This approach cultivates adaptability and innovation, empowering individuals to navigate complex challenges. Fostering inventiveness enriches cognitive development, preparing individuals for diverse environments. Emphasizing creativity and reasoning builds a foundation for lifelong learning and exploration, equipping individuals with the tools to thrive in dynamic and evolving contexts. Image of number 10
482 Discovering geometry by observing relations between shapes fosters deeper understanding. Encouraging exploration over rote learning empowers individuals to develop critical thinking. By observing geometric relationships, individuals gain insight into mathematical concepts. This approach nurtures curiosity and creativity, fostering a love for learning. Promoting observation and exploration enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Fostering curiosity and critical thinking builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Encouraging experiential learning empowers individuals to embrace challenges with confidence and adaptability in dynamic environments. Image of number 10
483 Measuring angles with complete circles emphasizes observation and understanding. Encouraging exploration over assumptions fosters curiosity and critical thinking. By discovering relationships through observation, individuals gain deeper insights into mathematical concepts. This approach nurtures creativity and adaptability, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Promoting experiential learning builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Fostering curiosity and observation enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments. Encouraging exploration and understanding cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to embrace challenges with confidence and adaptability. Image of number 10
484 Observing angles in circles fosters understanding. By questioning assumptions, individuals develop critical thinking skills. Encouraging exploration over rote learning nurtures curiosity and adaptability. Observing geometric relationships enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals for diverse challenges. This approach promotes a growth mindset, empowering individuals to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Fostering creativity and observation builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation. Encouraging exploration and understanding cultivates a love for learning, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate dynamic environments. Promoting critical thinking and observation enriches cognitive development, enabling individuals to thrive in evolving contexts. Image of number 10
485 Emphasizing precision in drawing shapes over proof fosters observation and critical thinking. By verifying shapes through observation, individuals develop deeper understanding. This approach nurtures curiosity and adaptability, empowering individuals to navigate challenges. Encouraging experiential learning builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Fostering creativity and observation enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments. Promoting exploration and understanding cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to embrace challenges with confidence. Encouraging precision and observation enriches cognitive development, fostering adaptability in evolving contexts. Image of number 10
486 Understanding geometry requires differentiating it from drawing, emphasizing tools like the rule and compass. Encouraging hands-on learning fosters critical thinking and problem-solving. By exploring geometric concepts through practical application, individuals gain deeper insights. This approach nurtures curiosity and adaptability, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Fostering creativity and observation builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Promoting experiential learning enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments. Encouraging exploration and understanding cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to embrace challenges with confidence. Image of number 10
487 A young man learned geometry by choosing isoperimetric cakes, understanding shapes and sizes. This approach nurtures curiosity and critical thinking, fostering a love for learning. Encouraging observation and exploration enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Promoting hands-on learning builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Fostering creativity and observation empowers individuals to embrace challenges with confidence and adaptability. This approach cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to thrive in dynamic environments and explore the world with curiosity and resilience. Image of number 10
488 Encouraging skill-based games like tennis and billiards fosters accuracy and strength in children. By promoting experiential learning, individuals develop adaptability and resilience. This approach nurtures curiosity and critical thinking, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Fostering creativity and observation enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments. Promoting skill-based activities builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Encouraging exploration and understanding cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to embrace challenges with confidence. This approach enriches cognitive development, fostering adaptability in evolving contexts. Image of number 10
489 Children's limbs are supple and should be exercised for skill. Encouraging physical activity fosters adaptability and resilience. By promoting experiential learning, individuals develop critical thinking and problem-solving abilities. This approach nurtures curiosity and creativity, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. Fostering physical development builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Encouraging exploration and understanding cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to embrace challenges with confidence. This approach enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic environments and explore the world with curiosity. Image of number 10
490 Skilled children perform like adults, showing nimbleness in various activities. Encouraging skill development fosters adaptability and resilience. By promoting experiential learning, individuals gain confidence in exploring new challenges. This approach nurtures curiosity and creativity, empowering individuals to navigate diverse environments. Fostering skill development builds a foundation for lifelong learning and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to explore diverse perspectives and solutions. Encouraging exploration and understanding cultivates a growth mindset, enabling individuals to embrace challenges with confidence. This approach enhances cognitive development, preparing individuals to thrive in dynamic contexts and explore the world with curiosity and adaptability. Image of number 10
491 The perceived inability of children to play certain games is due to a lack of practice rather than innate incapacity. When given the opportunity to practice and develop their skills, children can excel in activities that might initially seem beyond their capabilities. Encouraging consistent practice and providing supportive guidance can help children overcome initial challenges and build competence. By fostering an environment that promotes learning through experience, children can gradually develop the skills and confidence needed to engage successfully in various activities, demonstrating that their potential is often greater than initially assumed. Image of number 10
492 While concerns about premature development exist for the mind, bodily development through play is natural. Mental development may appear advanced, but physical activities genuinely progress. Play allows children to control movements without pressure. Games provide learning opportunities without constraints. Let children enjoy themselves and learn informally. Pushing structured lessons can cause frustration. Allow play to be spontaneous and enriching. Encourage exploration and adaptation through games. Children learn best when engaged, unburdened by formal instruction. Avoid imposing strict rules; nurture growth through fun experiences. Focus on holistic development by blending learning with enjoyment. Balance mental and physical growth harmoniously. Image of number 10
493 Sight and touch inform us about the world, but hearing requires movement. At rest, sounds fade; motion makes noise. Hearing aids us in the dark, detecting movement and distance. Vibrations travel, creating echoes. By listening closely, we discern details from afar. This ability helps us gauge threats or opportunities. Children should experiment, using senses to learn about their environment. Experience teaches more than words. Encourage discovery through trial and error, sparking curiosity. Foster a sense of wonder and understanding. Develop skills through practice and exploration, cultivating awareness and adaptability. Let experience be the guide for growth. Image of number 10
494 Comparing sight and hearing, children learn which senses detect first. When you see a cannon flash, you have time to react. When you hear the sound, it's too late. Understanding lightning and thunder helps measure distance. Teach through experiences, allowing children to learn by trial and observation. Encourage experiments to reinforce knowledge, fostering a deeper understanding. Avoid overwhelming them with information; let them discover at their own pace. Learning through experience builds stronger foundations, nurturing curiosity and resilience. Encourage questions and exploration, allowing children to make connections naturally, enhancing their ability to process and adapt to information. Image of number 10
495 Hearing utilizes both passive listening and active vocalization. Unlike sight, which lacks a corresponding organ for expression, voice complements hearing. This dual engagement enriches sensory development. Cultivating the ability to listen and articulate enhances communication skills. Encouraging active vocal practice alongside listening sharpens auditory perception. This interplay fosters greater awareness and responsiveness. Developing these skills nurtures confidence in expressing ideas and emotions. By honing both passive and active auditory capabilities, individuals gain proficiency in communication, strengthening their connection to the world. This approach enhances overall sensory development, contributing to well-rounded cognitive and emotional growth. Image of number 10
496 Humans possess three voices: speaking, singing, and expressive. While children have these, they lack the ability to blend them effectively. Emotional expression remains undeveloped, hindering rich communication. Encourage gradual integration of these voices to enhance communication skills. Avoid prematurely teaching complex expression, as it may overwhelm them. Let children explore their voices naturally, developing emotional depth over time. Guide them to understand their capabilities without forcing artificial expression. As they mature, their ability to convey emotions through voice will grow, fostering deeper connections. Encourage authentic exploration, allowing children to find their unique voice through genuine experiences. Image of number 10
497 Teach children to speak clearly, articulating words distinctly without affectation. Help them grasp proper accents and pronunciation in both prose and verse. Encourage them to project their voices, avoiding excessive volume common in schoolchildren. Aim for balance in expression, ensuring clarity without overemphasis. Develop strong communication skills through practice, fostering confidence in conveying thoughts. Avoid unnecessary embellishments, promoting straightforward communication. This approach nurtures effective communication skills, enabling children to connect meaningfully with others. By fostering clarity and precision, children gain the ability to express themselves effectively, building a foundation for confident and articulate communication in various settings. Image of number 10
498 Guide children to develop smooth, true voices, sensitive to time and tune, but without complex imitative music. Prioritize simple songs over intricate compositions, matching their ideas. Avoid theatrical music unsuited for their age. If words are necessary, create child-friendly lyrics. This approach nurtures vocal development and appreciation for music. Encourage exploration of melodies that resonate with them, fostering a lifelong connection to music. Through gentle guidance, children gain confidence in their musical abilities, experiencing joy in singing. By aligning music with their developmental stage, children cultivate a genuine love for music, enriching their lives and emotional expression. Image of number 10
499 I delay teaching Emile to read and write music, focusing instead on experiential learning. Avoid overwhelming him with notation, preserving his natural curiosity. Let him explore music's essence without the burden of conventional signs. Speaking involves personal expression, while singing conveys others' thoughts. To express these thoughts, reading is essential. Balance introducing notes with nurturing a genuine connection to music. Gradually introduce notation as comprehension deepens, fostering appreciation and creativity. Allow natural exploration of music's beauty, encouraging emotional expression and understanding. This approach nurtures a love for music and a deeper connection to its expressive power. Image of number 10
500 Learning music involves hearing rather than reading, combining song creation with performance. Encourage young musicians to explore melodies, using cadences and rests to understand phrasing. Avoid complex pieces requiring expression; focus on simple, tuneful melodies with clear chord progressions. This approach nurtures musical intuition, enabling children to connect with music's emotional essence. Practice with regular, well-cadenced phrases, gradually building understanding. Let them discover relationships between phrases, fostering a sense of musical structure. Through exploration, children develop a genuine appreciation for music's expressive power, enhancing their ability to create and perform with authenticity and emotional depth. Image of number 10
501 We articulate notes with syllables to differentiate them; thus, solfeggio was born. To distinguish keys, they need names and fixed intervals. C and A signify invariable sounds, rendered by the same keys, while Do and La differ. Ut always marks the major scale's dominant or a minor scale's leading note, whereas La is the minor scale's dominant or the major scale's sixth. Letters indicate fixed musical terms, while syllables denote degrees within scales. Unfortunately, French musicians blurred these distinctions, complicating sol-faing unnecessarily, causing misinterpretation. Consequently, learning music in France is difficult, despite its reputation for producing exceptional musical literature. Image of number 10
502 Adopt a simpler plan with your pupil, using only two scales with consistent symbols. Whether singing or playing, let him base his scale on one of twelve tones. Regardless of modulation in D, C, or G, the close should be Do or La. This method fosters comprehension and preserves correct singing and playing relations, enhancing execution and accelerating progress. French "natural sol-faing" humorously obscures true meanings, distracting us. Transposition-based sol-faing aligns with scale transpositions. While opinions on music teaching differ, prioritize playfulness, ensuring the learning process remains enjoyable and engaging for students, regardless of instructional preferences. Image of number 10
503 We have become familiar with how foreign bodies relate to our own, understanding their weight, form, color, density, size, distance, temperature, stability, and motion. We have learned how to approach or avoid them and overcome resistance. However, our bodies constantly need replenishment. Although we can convert substances into nourishment, not all are suitable. Dietary choices depend on species, climate, temperament, and lifestyle. It is crucial to recognize which foods benefit us most and align with our unique needs. By understanding these factors, we make informed decisions about what sustains and supports our health and well-being. Image of number 10
504 Relying solely on experience to identify suitable food could lead to starvation or poisoning. Fortunately, nature employs pleasure as a guide to discern nourishment through taste. Our appetites serve as instinctive advisors for healthy consumption. In a natural state, agreeable foods are likely the healthiest choices. Trusting our natural inclinations enables us to maintain balance and self-preservation. This innate guidance promotes well-being and survival by aligning our desires with beneficial sustenance. Embracing this principle allows individuals to nourish themselves effectively and make choices that support vitality and longevity, fostering a harmonious relationship between appetite and health. Image of number 10
505 Beyond fulfilling created needs, the Creator accommodates those we create ourselves. Balancing wants and needs, our tastes adapt to lifestyles, distancing us from nature. Habit supplants genuine nature, erasing awareness of original preferences. As we drift from our natural state, artificial tastes dominate. Embracing habits shapes a new reality, masking innate tendencies. Recognizing this shift encourages a mindful approach to desires and choices. Understanding how habits reshape nature prompts conscious decisions that honor authenticity. By examining preferences, individuals navigate desires, embracing practices that align with genuine needs and well-being, fostering a harmonious connection to nature's essence. Image of number 10
506 Simpler tastes align with nature's adaptability, allowing easier transformation. Complex tastes, driven by whims, become rigid. A person with adaptable preferences can embrace diverse cultures, whereas fixed habits resist change. Recognizing the benefits of simplicity fosters openness to new experiences. Flexibility enables seamless adaptation to varied environments, enriching personal growth. Embracing simplicity nurtures an adaptable mindset, embracing life's diversity. By fostering versatile preferences, individuals cultivate resilience and curiosity, navigating life's changes with grace. A commitment to simplicity fosters a dynamic approach to life's challenges, enhancing cultural appreciation and adaptability in an ever-changing world. Image of number 10
507 Taste is the most adaptable sense, with early preferences for mild flavors. Over time, strong flavors become acquired. Primitive diets consisted of unseasoned foods. Initial exposure to wine elicits distaste; early introduction aids acclimation. Simple tastes are universally accepted, while complex combinations face rejection. Bread and water exemplify natural preferences. Preserving a child's original tastes encourages appreciation for simplicity and balance. Fostering a diverse palate prevents exclusive preferences, supporting healthy development. By embracing natural inclinations, individuals nurture an authentic connection to food, fostering well-being and appreciation for the unadulterated essence of nourishment and cultivating genuine culinary enjoyment. Image of number 10
508 Whether simple living is healthier or not is secondary. Choosing simplicity aligns with nature and adapts easily to changes. Children shouldn't eat like adults; needs differ. Adults need flavorful food for brain stimulation, while children require nourishment for growth. Adults' lives are settled, while children's futures are uncertain. Avoid molding children to fixed habits. Ensure adaptability to varied environments. Avoid dependence on specific cultural tastes. Encourage resilience through simplicity, enabling adaptation to life's changes. Embrace flexibility, fostering a mindset ready to embrace diverse experiences, supporting holistic development and well-being throughout life's journey. Image of number 10
509 Taste, among the senses, significantly influences judgment, shaping choices affecting well-being. Unlike touch, hearing, or sight, taste engages profoundly with nearly everything, impacting physical and mental health. Evaluating what we consume is crucial, as it directly integrates into our being. The intrinsic connection between taste and nourishment emphasizes its significance. Making informed dietary choices supports holistic health. Understanding the power of taste empowers individuals to align preferences with well-being. Recognizing taste's role in shaping experiences fosters mindfulness in consumption. Embrace conscious decision-making, nurturing harmony between taste, nourishment, and overall vitality for balanced living. Image of number 10
510 Taste is purely physical, with minimal imagination influence, contrasting other senses. It lacks morality, unlike the imaginative impressions of other senses. Passionate individuals often disregard taste, as other senses captivate them. Despite this, taste guides children's choices effectively. Greediness is a natural, sensory-driven motive, unlike vanity, shaped by convention. Childhood greed is transient; other passions soon replace it. Adults' focus shifts from food to diverse interests. Gluttony reflects weak minds, limiting intellectual engagement. Encouraging mindful exploration prevents fixation on taste. Prioritize holistic development, fostering a balanced relationship with desires and experiences for personal growth. Image of number 10
511 Fear of children's greed is unfounded; as they mature, interests shift beyond food. Avoid linking moral lessons to treats. Childhood should be carefree and playful. Material rewards suit physical efforts. Embrace natural motivations for achievements. Encourage exploration and effort for rewards. Use tangible incentives to foster growth. Align incentives with actions, teaching value through experience. Prioritize balance, nurturing intrinsic motivation alongside tangible rewards. Foster resilience and determination through meaningful incentives. Allow children to learn through experience, building self-worth. Create an environment that promotes effort, achievement, and growth, fostering lifelong learning and development through meaningful recognition. Image of number 10
512 Tempting children with simple food aligns with natural appetite, avoiding refined tastes. Perpetual hunger from growth needs is the best motivation. Fruit, milk, cake, and prudent distribution guide children without cultivating strong flavor preferences. Simplicity prevents taste fatigue and promotes natural satisfaction. Balancing hunger and choice fosters well-being. Encouraging straightforward, nourishing options aligns with developmental needs. Preserve innate preferences, avoiding unnecessary complexities. Support healthy growth and exploration through accessible, uncomplicated foods. Allow natural instincts to guide dietary choices, fostering genuine appreciation for wholesome nourishment and promoting balanced development through mindful food choices. Image of number 10
513 Children's indifference to meat suggests unnatural taste; they prefer plant-based foods. Preserving vegetarian inclinations benefits health and character. Meat-eating correlates with aggression; plant-based diets align with gentleness. Historical observations link diet to behavior. English brutality contrasts with Gaurian kindness. Savagery stems from dietary choices, not customs. War mimics hunting, fostering cruelty. Avoid cultivating carnivorous tendencies for health and ethics. Encourage peaceful nourishment through plant-based choices. Embrace natural compassion and harmony with vegetarianism, fostering empathy and kindness in dietary habits. Recognize the impact of food on character, promoting peace through mindful consumption. Image of number 10
514 Plutarch questioned why Pythagoras avoided meat, challenging the courage needed to eat flesh. Consuming animal remains is a violent act. Witnessing death repulses, contradicting nature. Handling lifeless bodies repels. Initial consumption overcame natural instincts. Despite initial revulsion, humans adopted barbaric practices. Acknowledging this paradox highlights the unnaturalness of meat consumption. Embrace empathy, recognizing the ethical implications of dietary choices. Challenge norms, fostering compassion through plant-based living. Respect life, aligning actions with values. Promote ethical awareness, nurturing a world of understanding and harmony. Embrace change, advancing toward a compassionate, sustainable future through conscious choices. Image of number 10
515 Initial meat consumption defied nature, requiring overcoming compassion. Eating fellow creatures contradicts empathy. Original humans had justifications; modern societies lack excuses. Recognizing this history exposes modern barbarity. Embrace compassion, reevaluating dietary choices. Prioritize empathy, fostering ethical awareness in consumption. Shift towards plant-based living, aligning with nature's harmony. Acknowledge evolution, challenging habits for a compassionate future. Respect life, fostering coexistence through conscious decisions. Embrace change, promoting sustainability and understanding. Advocate ethical awareness, nurturing a world of empathy. Honor the journey toward compassion, embracing choices that reflect values and advance a harmonious world. Image of number 10
516 "Mortals, once plagued by hardship, see your fortune now. Nature's bounty surrounds you. Earth yields abundant fruits, animals provide sustenance. Appreciate nature's generosity. Forsake needless bloodshed. Embrace gratitude for nature's gifts. Acknowledge privilege, fostering empathy. Cultivate gratitude, appreciating life's abundance. Honor nature's provision, promoting sustainable practices. Shift perspective, nurturing compassion for all beings. Embrace change, fostering harmony through mindful choices. Recognize interconnectedness, advancing toward a compassionate world. Cherish life's abundance, embracing gratitude as a guiding principle. Advocate for a kinder world, fostering understanding and appreciation for nature's gifts. Choose empathy, cultivating a sustainable future." Image of number 10
517 Early humans faced scarcity, driven to cannibalism for survival. Modern abundance negates violence. Nature's wealth provides sustenance. Reject cruelty; embrace compassion. Recognize privilege, fostering gratitude. Respect Earth's bounty, nurturing sustainability. Appreciate life's gifts, promoting ethical awareness. Forsake needless destruction, advancing empathy. Embrace gratitude, nurturing a harmonious world. Advocate change, fostering understanding through conscious choices. Recognize interconnectedness, embracing compassion. Prioritize empathy, supporting a sustainable future. Cherish nature's abundance, guiding actions with gratitude. Cultivate awareness, advocating for a kinder world. Honor life's interconnectedness, promoting harmony through mindful decisions. Image of number 10
518 "Nature compels empathy, yet humans kill and consume fellow creatures. Embrace compassion, rejecting violence. Defy instincts, fostering ethical awareness. Challenge norms, promoting plant-based living. Respect life, advancing sustainability. Acknowledge evolution, embracing empathy. Advocate change, nurturing understanding. Recognize interconnectedness, supporting harmony. Prioritize compassion, fostering a better world. Cherish life's abundance, guiding choices with values. Cultivate awareness, promoting kindness. Honor interconnectedness, advocating for a sustainable future. Embrace change, fostering empathy. Promote ethical awareness, advancing understanding. Choose compassion, nurturing harmony. Advocate for a kinder world, supporting ethical decisions. Cherish life's gifts, guiding actions with gratitude." Image of number 10
519 Despite its irrelevance to my subject, I include this passage, believing most readers will appreciate it. The quote offers profound insight, inviting reflection on compassion and empathy. It challenges norms, fostering awareness of ethical considerations. By including this excerpt, I aim to provoke thought and inspire change. Embrace the message, nurturing understanding. Advocate for a kinder world, prioritizing empathy. Cherish life's interconnectedness, fostering harmony. Recognize the impact of choices, promoting ethical awareness. Honor the journey toward compassion, advancing understanding. Choose empathy, supporting a better world. Advocate for change, cultivating awareness through conscious decisions. Image of number 10
520 Provide children with simple, plain foods and encourage them to play freely. This approach prevents overeating and indigestion. Avoid restrictions that lead to gorging. Allow natural appetite to guide consumption. Embrace balance, promoting health. Encourage mindfulness, fostering well-being. Support healthy growth through simplicity. Cultivate appreciation for nourishment's essence. Trust instincts, aligning choices with nature. Preserve innate preferences, nurturing development. Foster awareness, promoting harmony. Recognize balance's importance, guiding actions with values. Advocate simplicity, supporting a healthier future. Cherish life's abundance, promoting gratitude. Cultivate understanding, advancing well-being through mindful decisions. Embrace change, nurturing growth through conscious choices. Image of number 10
521 If a child were to overeat, which is unlikely under my system, they could easily be distracted by games, forgetting hunger. Herodotus notes that the Lydians invented games to forget hunger during scarcity. Teachers might overlook this simple tactic. A child may not want to leave dinner for lessons, but I'm not suggesting that kind of game. Understanding how to engage children with playful activities can help manage their focus and appetite, making the process of education both enjoyable and effective, while also addressing any potential issues with excessive eating in a non-confrontational manner. Image of number 10
522 Smell acts as a precursor to taste, much like sight precedes touch. It signals whether a substance will be pleasant or not, influencing approach or avoidance. I've heard that savages have different perceptions of pleasant and unpleasant odors, which is believable. Odors are subtle, affecting the imagination more than the senses. They primarily work through anticipation. Therefore, different tastes among savages and civilized people lead to diverse ideas about flavors and their associated odors. For example, a Tartar may enjoy the smell of putrid horseflesh much like a hunter relishes a high partridge. Image of number 10
523 Idle sensations, such as the fragrance from flower beds, go unnoticed by people who walk too much to enjoy garden strolls and don't work enough to find pleasure in rest. Hungry individuals won't find pleasure in scents unless they signal food's presence. For those preoccupied with survival and sustenance, idle pleasures hold little allure. The constant focus on practical needs overshadows the appreciation for sensory delights that don't directly contribute to basic survival. This perspective highlights the connection between physical needs and sensory enjoyment, emphasizing how different lifestyles influence the perception and value of sensory experiences. Image of number 10
524 Smell is the sense of imagination. It affects the nerves, impacting the brain, providing temporary revitalization but eventually causing fatigue. Its influence on love is well-known. The sweet scents of a dressing room are more seductive than they seem. One might wonder whether to congratulate or pity someone who remains unaffected by the fragrance of flowers worn by their beloved. This suggests a complex relationship between scent, imagination, and emotional response. Smell's connection to memory and emotion illustrates how it can evoke powerful reactions, demonstrating its unique role in shaping experiences and influencing emotions. Image of number 10
525 Smell should be less active in childhood when imagination is undeveloped, and emotions are minimal. Children lack the experience to associate smells with emotions, dulling their sense of smell compared to adults. Although their sensations are acute, they don't associate smells with ideas or emotions, resulting in a lack of pleasure or discomfort. This is why children aren't easily flattered or offended by odors. Observations suggest women generally prefer perfumes more than men. Understanding the developmental differences in sensory perception helps explain how children and adults experience the world differently, highlighting the role of experience in shaping responses. Image of number 10
526 Canadian savages reportedly train their sense of smell to such precision that they don't use dogs for hunting, acting as their own dogs. If children were trained similarly, their sense of smell could become as refined. However, this sense holds little advantage beyond teaching children the relationship between smell and taste. Nature compels learning these connections by linking the senses through proximity and pathways, ensuring we taste and smell simultaneously. Avoid deceiving children by masking unpleasant tastes with aromatic odors, as sensory discord disrupts natural relations. Overactive senses amplify discomfort, associating unpleasantness with otherwise pleasant sensations. Image of number 10
527 I'll discuss developing common sense, a "sixth sense," resulting from the well-regulated use of the five senses, teaching the nature of things through external aspects. It lacks a special organ, residing in the brain, with internal sensations called perceptions or ideas. The number of ideas measures knowledge; their clarity indicates mental accuracy. The art of comparing ideas is human reason. Sensitive or puerile reason involves forming simple ideas from sensations, while intellectual or human reason involves forming complex ideas from simple ones. Understanding how perceptions form ideas and ideas shape reasoning highlights the development of thought and comprehension. Image of number 10
528 If my method aligns with nature, and if I apply it correctly, we've guided our pupil from sensation to puerile reasoning's limits. The next step must be that of a man. Before embarking on this journey, let's review our progress. Every age and life stage has a unique perfection and maturity. We've often discussed a grown man; now, let's consider a grown child. This novel perspective might be equally delightful, offering insights into a child's unique qualities and development. By examining this progression, we can better understand the journey of growth and the transition to adulthood. Image of number 10
529 Finite beings' existence is limited, leaving us unmoved by reality alone. Fantasy enhances reality; without imagination, pleasure remains confined to senses, leaving the heart untouched. Autumn's colors captivate the eye but lack emotional resonance, driven by reflection, not feeling. Spring, with its barren landscapes, evokes emotions through nature's rebirth, mirroring our own vitality. Pleasure's image envelops us, stirring delight and emotion. In contrast, autumn's vibrancy fails to elicit tears of joy. Understanding the role of imagination in shaping perception and emotion highlights its importance in finding meaning and connection within the beauty of the changing seasons. Image of number 10
530 Why this difference? Imagination enriches spring with the promise of future seasons. It blends stages, presenting desired outcomes. In autumn, only the present is visible; winter interrupts thoughts of spring, stifling imagination. This contrast highlights imagination's power in shaping experiences, blending reality with desire. By understanding imagination's influence, we appreciate its role in creating meaning and emotional connection. Recognizing how it shapes perceptions and expectations allows for a deeper understanding of how we experience and interpret the world. Imagination bridges the gap between present and future, adding depth and richness to our perceptions and emotions. Image of number 10
531 Childhood's charm surpasses old age's perfection. True pleasure in observing a man arises from recalling his life's actions. Viewing only the present or imagining his future detracts from enjoyment, as thoughts of aging diminish joy. The image of death renders everything unappealing. Recognizing the fleeting nature of life encourages appreciation for the present. By valuing memories and experiences, we find pleasure in life's journey. Understanding how perceptions of time influence emotions fosters mindfulness, allowing us to savor moments and create lasting memories. Embracing the present and cherishing experiences enrich our understanding of life's beauty and impermanence. Image of number 10
532 Imagining a healthy child evokes positive thoughts of the present and future. Observing his vitality, intelligence, and growth brings joy, suggesting potential for greatness. Anticipating his future capabilities inspires hope and excitement. His energy invigorates others, fostering a shared sense of life. Recognizing the potential within a child highlights the joy of nurturing growth and development. By appreciating this stage, we cultivate optimism for the future. Embracing the promise of youth encourages a positive outlook and fosters a sense of wonder. Understanding the impact of youthful vitality inspires us to cherish the journey of growth and potential. Image of number 10
533 The joyful scene shifts as a stern figure leads the child away, signaling the end of playfulness. Books await him, inappropriate for his age. The child's reluctance and silent tears reveal the loss of carefree innocence. The contrast underscores the tension between childhood freedom and adult expectations. Recognizing the impact of premature responsibilities highlights the importance of preserving childhood wonder. By understanding the balance between play and learning, we nurture growth while maintaining innocence. Embracing the joy of youth fosters resilience and creativity, allowing children to explore and learn without undue pressure or loss of their innate curiosity. Image of number 10
534 To those without fear, life offers carefree days and nights. My happy, beloved pupil, console us with your presence. His arrival brings joy, shared by all. A friend and comrade, he promises amusement and companionship. Our mutual affection fosters happiness. This joyful relationship emphasizes the power of friendship and shared experiences. Understanding the importance of connection enriches our lives, offering support and happiness. By valuing companionship, we nurture emotional well-being and resilience. Embracing the bonds of friendship fosters a sense of belonging and fulfillment, creating a positive environment for growth and exploration. Image of number 10
535 His appearance exudes confidence and happiness. Health radiates from his face, strength in his step. His complexion, unaffected by softness or effeminacy, reflects the sun and wind's impact. Muscles hint at individuality; eyes, calm yet unlit by passion, retain their native serenity. No sorrow or tears mark his cheeks. His movements reflect vitality, independence, and experience. His open manner lacks arrogance or vanity. His head, unburdened by books, remains upright, unashamed and unafraid. Observing his poise and demeanor highlights the balance of confidence and humility. Embracing these qualities fosters self-assurance and resilience in the face of life's challenges. Image of number 10
536 Place him among a gathering. Gentlemen, examine and question him confidently. Fear not importunity, chatter, or impertinent questions. He won't monopolize your attention or expect devotion. His presence won't overwhelm, but instead, offer a genuine opportunity for connection and understanding. This interaction showcases the importance of balance in social settings, fostering meaningful exchanges without imposing on others. Embracing these principles cultivates effective communication and respect for personal boundaries. By valuing authentic interactions, we promote harmony and mutual understanding, enhancing the quality of our relationships and creating a positive environment for growth and collaboration. Image of number 10
537 He won't offer compliments or repeat taught phrases. Expect simple truth without embellishment or vanity. He shares right and wrong freely, unconcerned with impressions. His speech is straightforward, reflecting its early simplicity. This honesty emphasizes the value of authenticity in communication, fostering genuine connections and understanding. Embracing straightforwardness encourages trust and transparency, creating a foundation for meaningful relationships. By valuing truthfulness, we cultivate an environment of openness and respect, promoting effective dialogue and collaboration. Understanding the importance of sincerity in communication enhances our interactions, fostering a culture of honesty and integrity. Image of number 10
538 Parents hope for their children but regret the flood of ineptitudes from their mouths. My pupil rarely raises hopes or regrets, speaking only when needed. His ideas are limited but clear. He knows little by rote, much by experience. He reads less than others but understands nature. His spirit resides in his head, not his tongue. Less memory, more judgment; speaks one language, comprehends fully. If his words aren't as polished, his actions excel. This balance highlights the value of experiential learning and practical understanding, fostering a deeper comprehension of the world and the ability to act effectively. Image of number 10
539 He knows not habit, routine, or custom; yesterday's actions don't dictate today. He follows no rule, authority, or pattern, acting as he pleases. Expect no rehearsed speeches or manners, only genuine expression and conduct from inclinations. This freedom highlights the importance of authenticity and individuality, fostering creativity and self-discovery. Embracing one's true self encourages personal growth and the exploration of unique perspectives. By valuing originality, we create an environment that nurtures innovation and self-expression, promoting a deeper understanding of oneself and the world. Image of number 10
540 He holds few moral ideas about his state and none about manhood, being a child, not yet part of society. Discuss freedom or property; he understands ownership and not much else. Speak of duty or obedience; he remains unaware. Commands go unheard, but a fair exchange earns his cooperation. Extending his domain and gaining rights motivates him. If he desires a place of his own, vanity encroaches. This highlights the importance of balancing autonomy and responsibility, fostering a sense of self-awareness and understanding of societal roles. Encouraging mutual respect promotes growth and ethical development in children. Image of number 10
541 He asks for help from anyone, king or lackey, seeing all as equals. He knows you owe him nothing but is moved by humanity to help. His simple, laconic expressions show a being comfortable with acceptance or refusal. It isn't the servility of a slave nor the command of a master but a modest trust in humanity. He shows the gentleness of a free, sensitive being seeking aid from a strong, kind one. If denied, he neither complains nor insists, understanding the futility. He accepts necessity without rebellion once recognized, demonstrating a mature, realistic perspective on life. Image of number 10
542 Left free, observe his actions silently. He acts thoughtfully, aware of his autonomy, without seeking to prove it. Energetic yet purposeful, he never attempts what's beyond him, knowing his limits through experience. His methods suit his goals, pursuing only likely successes. With a sharp, accurate eye, he investigates before asking questions. Encountering difficulties, he's less shaken than others. If danger arises, he's less fearful. His inactive imagination means he sees reality, evaluating risks accurately, remaining composed. Familiar with necessity's weight, he doesn't rebel but adapts readily, prepared for anything, reflecting a resilient, practical approach to life's challenges. Image of number 10
543 He makes no distinction between work and play, engaging with equal interest and enthusiasm. His games are his work, and vice versa, bringing laughter and joy. In both, he reveals his mind and knowledge, demonstrating his learning even in frivolous pursuits. Observing a happy child, full of life and curiosity, transforming serious tasks into playful activities or focusing deeply on trivial games, is a delightful sight. This approach reflects a natural inclination to learn and grow through exploration, encouraging a seamless blend of education and enjoyment that nurtures a lifelong love of discovery and creativity. Image of number 10
544 Compare him with peers, and his progress is clear. He's the most skilled and strongest among children. Among young peasants, he's equally strong and more skilled. In all things accessible to children, he judges, reasons, and plans better than others. Whether running, jumping, lifting, estimating distance, inventing games, or winning prizes, he excels. "Nature obeys his word" as he easily bends things to his will. He naturally leads and rules peers with talent and experience, not authority. Regardless of attire or title, he stands out, commanding respect and service unknowingly, demonstrating innate leadership and influence among peers. Image of number 10
545 Having reached childhood's maturity, he's lived fully as a child, gaining wisdom without sacrificing happiness. He has been as free and joyful as health permits while learning all a child should. If fate ends his life prematurely, we won't regret lost hopes or cause him suffering. We'll say, "His childhood was happy; we took nothing from nature's gifts." This reflects the importance of nurturing a child's well-being alongside education, ensuring they experience joy and freedom. Recognizing childhood as a unique, valuable stage fosters development that honors both natural growth and the pursuit of knowledge and wisdom. Image of number 10
546 Early education's main flaw is its appreciation by the wise alone. To ordinary eyes, a carefully raised child seems merely rough. Tutors prioritize self-interest, displaying accomplishments like shop wares to prove worth, seeking visible talents regardless of utility. Without discernment, they fill memory with trivialities. If examined, the child displays these, satisfies viewers, and moves on. My pupil isn't so laden; he has only himself. Neither child nor adult can be fully understood instantly. Few can discern this child's qualities. True understanding requires insight beyond superficial accomplishments, recognizing the depth of character and potential within the individual. Image of number 10
547 Excessive questioning tires and frustrates children, losing their attention. Random answers follow, rendering this method ineffective. A chance word often reveals more than lengthy discussions but ensure it's genuine, not memorized. Evaluating a child's judgment requires discerning insight, emphasizing quality over quantity in interactions. Understanding a child's perspective fosters better communication and trust. By recognizing their developmental needs and respecting their individuality, we create an environment that encourages open dialogue and genuine understanding. This approach nurtures growth and development, promoting confidence and self-expression in children, ultimately leading to stronger relationships and a deeper comprehension of their potential. Image of number 10
548 Lord Hyde shared a friend's story about testing his son's progress. Returning from a three-year absence, he walked with his nine or ten-year-old son and tutor, observing kite-flying boys. The father asked, "Where is the kite that casts this shadow?" Without looking up, the child replied, "Over the high road," knowing the sun was between them. The father, impressed, kissed his child and later sent the tutor a salary-increasing annuity. This highlights the value of practical learning and intuition, showcasing a child's ability to apply knowledge in real-world situations, fostering confidence and critical thinking skills. Image of number 10
549 What a remarkable father and promising child! The question suits the child's age, and the answer is simple but precise, reflecting judgment. This recalls Aristotle's pupil taming an untamable steed. The anecdote underscores the importance of nurturing a child's innate abilities, encouraging critical thinking and problem-solving. By fostering an environment that values curiosity and exploration, we empower children to develop confidence and competence. Recognizing the potential within each child inspires us to support their growth, enabling them to harness their unique talents and contribute meaningfully to the world around them. Image of number 10
1 The gait of those who have been kept too long in leading-strings during childhood becomes absurd and hesitant. This observation is often considered trivial because it is true. Recognizing the impact of early guidance on a person's development emphasizes the importance of fostering independence and self-reliance. By understanding the long-term effects of overprotection, we can encourage autonomy and confidence from an early age. Embracing a balanced approach to guidance helps cultivate individuals who are capable of navigating life's challenges with poise and assurance, ultimately contributing to their overall growth and success. Image of number 10
2 I refer to those who think, not the crowd. Emphasizing the distinction between independent thinkers and the masses highlights the importance of critical thinking and individuality. By valuing unique perspectives and encouraging thoughtful analysis, we promote a culture of innovation and progress. Recognizing the contributions of independent thinkers fosters an environment where diverse ideas can flourish. Embracing this mindset empowers individuals to challenge conventional norms and explore new possibilities, driving societal advancement. Understanding the significance of independent thought underscores its role in shaping a dynamic and forward-thinking community. Image of number 10
3 "You see that little boy," Themistocles told his friends, "Greece's fate is in his hands. He rules his mother, who rules me. I rule the Athenians, and they rule the Greeks." Tracing power's course from prince to those who secretly influence it reveals petty creatures controlling great empires. This highlights the complexity of power dynamics and the hidden forces that shape nations. Recognizing the interconnectedness of influence encourages us to examine the broader context of authority and decision-making. Understanding these relationships fosters a deeper awareness of how individuals and institutions impact society. Image of number 10
4 In my Principles of Political Right, it is demonstrated that no private will can be ordered within the social system. Understanding the limitations of individual desires in a collective framework emphasizes the importance of balancing personal interests with the common good. By recognizing the need for compromise and cooperation, we foster a harmonious society that benefits all its members. Embracing this perspective encourages the development of systems that prioritize shared values and mutual respect, ultimately contributing to a more equitable and just community. Image of number 10
5 Pain is often a necessity, while pleasure is sometimes a need. The child's desire to command must never be fulfilled. Consider their motives when they request something. Grant them real pleasure but deny requests made out of whimsy or desire for control. Understanding this balance fosters a sense of responsibility and discernment in children, guiding them toward genuine fulfillment. By addressing their true needs and teaching them to distinguish between desires and necessities, we cultivate a foundation for thoughtful decision-making and emotional intelligence. Image of number 10
6 A child perceives any will opposing his own as whim if he doesn't understand the reason behind it. When thwarted, a child comprehends nothing. Recognizing the importance of clear communication and rationale helps foster understanding and cooperation in children. By providing explanations and context for decisions, we encourage them to develop a sense of empathy and respect for others' perspectives. Embracing this approach promotes healthy relationships and effective problem-solving, empowering children to navigate conflicts with insight and maturity. Image of number 10
7 A child should never treat adults as inferiors or equals. If a child strikes, let the recipient return the blow, so he won't repeat it. I've seen foolish women encourage rebellion, laughing at harmless blows, not realizing they are intended as a murderer's strikes. A child hitting now will desire to kill when grown. Understanding the impact of early behavior on future actions emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and teaching respect. By addressing harmful tendencies early, we guide children toward empathy and self-control, promoting a foundation for responsible and compassionate adulthood. Image of number 10
8 This is why most children want to take back what they have given, and cry if they cannot get it. They do not do this when once they know what a gift is; only they are more careful about giving things away. Recognizing the developmental stages of understanding sharing and ownership helps guide children toward empathy and generosity. By teaching the value of giving and helping them appreciate the joy of sharing, we nurture a sense of community and kindness. Understanding this process fosters positive social interactions and a foundation for meaningful relationships. Image of number 10
9 If keeping his word weren't established by utility, a child's growing awareness would impress it as a law of conscience, an innate principle needing suitable experiences for development. This first outline isn't sketched by man; it's engraved by the author of justice. Remove the primitive law of contract, and there's nothing left but vanity and show. Keeping one's word for profit is barely a pledge. This principle deserves thorough study, as man now conflicts with himself. Understanding this principle highlights the importance of integrity and trust, fostering a foundation for ethical behavior and social cohesion. Image of number 10
10 The guilty person, accused of wrongdoing, claims to be good, lying in fact and right. Understanding the distinction between self-perception and reality highlights the complexity of moral judgment. By recognizing the potential for self-deception and rationalization, we encourage honesty and self-awareness. Embracing this perspective fosters personal growth and ethical development, promoting a culture of integrity and accountability. Understanding the nuances of moral character helps us navigate the challenges of ethical decision-making and interpersonal relationships, ultimately contributing to a more just and compassionate society. Image of number 10
11 Nothing is more indiscreet than asking a guilty child if he's done something wrong. If he thinks you know, he sees a trap, setting him against you. If he thinks you don't, he wonders why confess. This creates the first temptation to lie. Understanding the impact of questioning on honesty highlights the importance of fostering trust and open communication. By creating an environment where children feel safe admitting mistakes, we encourage integrity and responsibility. Embracing this approach promotes healthy relationships and effective conflict resolution, empowering children to navigate challenges with confidence and authenticity. Image of number 10
12 I don't answer his questions on demand, as that would subject me to his will, placing me in dangerous dependence. Recognizing the importance of maintaining authority and independence in the educational process fosters a balanced dynamic between teacher and student. By setting boundaries and promoting mutual respect, we create an environment that encourages growth and learning. Understanding the balance of power in educational relationships empowers both teachers and students, fostering a sense of responsibility and collaboration that enhances the learning experience and contributes to personal development. Image of number 10
13 The precept "Never hurt anybody" requires minimal dependence on society, for in social states, one man's gain is another's loss. This inherent relation contrasts solitude and society to assess which is better. A distinguished author claims only the wicked live alone; I assert only the good do. If the wicked were alone, what harm could they do? In society, they scheme to harm others. For property-related arguments, see the note by the Abbé de Condillac. Understanding the dynamics of social interaction emphasizes the importance of ethical conduct and mutual respect, fostering a harmonious and just community. Image of number 10
14 It's impossible in lengthy works to use the same words consistently. Language lacks sufficient terms for our ideas. Defining every term and using definitions instead of terms is impractical. How can we escape the vicious circle? Definitions would work if not made of words. Despite this, we can make meaning clear by indicating each word's sense through related ideas. Sometimes children seem incapable of reasoning; other times, they reason well. Words may contradict, but the ideas don't. Understanding the complexity of language and communication highlights the importance of context and clarity in conveying ideas effectively. Image of number 10
15 Most philosophers' learning resembles children's -- vast erudition yields many images but few ideas. Dates, names, places, and unconnected objects stay in memory as signs. Most science was like this until recently. Today's science is different; we don't study or observe, but dream and call it philosophy. I, too, dream, but present them as such, letting readers find useful insights. Understanding the nature of knowledge emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and exploration. By valuing thoughtful analysis and practical application, we foster a deeper understanding of the world and promote intellectual growth and innovation. Image of number 10
17 In cases like this, there's no risk in asking a child to tell the truth, for he knows it can't be hidden, and lying would be quickly discovered. Recognizing the value of honesty and transparency fosters trust and open communication. By encouraging truthfulness and accountability, we create an environment where children feel safe admitting mistakes and learning from them. Understanding the impact of honesty on relationships and personal growth empowers children to navigate challenges with integrity and confidence, ultimately contributing to their development as responsible and ethical individuals. Image of number 10
19 Terror is noticeable during solar eclipses. Understanding the psychological impact of natural phenomena highlights the importance of knowledge and education in alleviating fear and fostering curiosity. By providing information and context, we empower individuals to approach unfamiliar experiences with confidence and wonder. Embracing this approach promotes a culture of exploration and learning, encouraging a deeper understanding of the world around us. Recognizing the role of education in shaping perceptions and responses emphasizes its value in cultivating resilience and adaptability in the face of uncertainty. Image of number 10
20 A philosopher I often quote explains why we err in judging distance. Without clear perception, we rely on angles, mistaking bushes for trees or flies for birds. Unknown shapes lead to further error. At night, unfamiliar objects appear terrifyingly large, fueling ghostly apparitions. Experience teaches us to correct these errors, discerning distance by outline clarity. The habit of nighttime walking hones this skill. Understanding perceptual errors highlights the importance of experience and adaptation. By developing awareness and discernment, we cultivate the ability to navigate and interpret the world accurately, fostering resilience and insight. Image of number 10
21 To train attention, tell children things clearly relevant to their interests, keeping explanations concise and necessary. Avoid obscurity and ambiguity. Understanding the importance of clear communication and relevance in teaching fosters effective learning and engagement. By tailoring information to a child's needs and interests, we create an environment that encourages curiosity and understanding. Embracing this approach enhances comprehension and retention, empowering children to explore new concepts with confidence and enthusiasm. Recognizing the role of clarity and relevance in education promotes a culture of lifelong learning and intellectual growth. Image of number 10
27 The English boast of their humanity and call themselves a "good-natured people," but others don't echo this sentiment. Recognizing the discrepancy between self-perception and external perception highlights the importance of genuine actions and empathy. By fostering a culture of kindness and understanding, we promote positive relationships and mutual respect. Embracing authenticity and compassion encourages us to bridge the gap between how we see ourselves and how others see us, ultimately contributing to a more harmonious and inclusive society. Image of number 10
28 The Banians, who abstain from flesh more than the Gaures, are nearly as gentle but lack pure morality and reasonable worship, making them lesser men. Understanding the role of ethical behavior and belief systems in shaping character highlights the importance of aligning actions with values. By fostering integrity and sincerity, we promote personal growth and a more compassionate society. Recognizing the impact of moral and spiritual alignment encourages us to cultivate a deeper understanding of ourselves and others, ultimately contributing to a more harmonious and just community. Image of number 10
   
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550 Throughout adolescence, humans experience a phase where strength outpaces needs, making the weak child relatively strong. As an adult, he'd be weak, but as a child, his strength suffices. This phase is characterized by growing strength exceeding requirements, marking a unique developmental stage. During this period, the child's capabilities surpass immediate necessities, reflecting a crucial aspect of growth. Recognizing this temporary advantage is vital for fostering development, as it emphasizes the significance of aligning strength with evolving needs. Understanding this dynamic enhances our ability to support children's growth and adaptation as they transition through various life stages. Image of number 10
551 Weakness stems from the disparity between strength and desires, as satisfying passions requires more strength than nature provides. Reducing desires is akin to increasing strength. Excess strength indicates a powerful being. This marks the third stage of childhood, nearing adolescence but not yet puberty. Understanding this balance is crucial for navigating personal growth and development, as it highlights the importance of managing desires to enhance strength and well-being. By recognizing the interplay between strength and desires, individuals can cultivate a harmonious relationship with their capabilities, fostering resilience and adaptability in various life stages and challenges. Image of number 10
552 At twelve or thirteen, a child's strength grows rapidly, surpassing needs. The strongest passion, unknown, awaits the child's will to develop. Insensitive to weather, the child's warmth replaces a coat; appetite substitutes for seasoning. Everything nourishing suits him. Sleepy, he sleeps on the ground. He sees necessities around him, untroubled by imaginary needs or public opinion. Desires reach only as far as his arms, and he has strength beyond necessity—unique to this life phase. This fleeting stage of strength exceeding needs is vital for fostering independence and resilience, shaping the child's ability to adapt and thrive in various circumstances. Image of number 10
553 Some may object, doubting the child's strength. Remember, I refer to my pupil, not sedentary children. Manly strength appears with maturity, but in the country, young boys perform tasks like grown men. In towns, young workers rival masters. The difference is less than between adult passions and child desires. We're discussing mental strength, guiding physical strength. Emphasizing the child's innate capabilities and mental strength is crucial for nurturing growth and development, enabling them to harness their potential effectively. By recognizing their abilities, we can create environments that foster confidence, resilience, and skill, preparing them for future challenges and opportunities. Image of number 10
554 This period of relative strength, though not peak, is brief and precious. With strength exceeding wants, it's a unique life stage. Utilizing this time wisely is crucial. Recognizing its fleeting nature emphasizes the importance of seizing opportunities for growth and development. By making the most of this phase, individuals can lay a strong foundation for future endeavors, harnessing their strengths and preparing for challenges ahead. Understanding the significance of this interval encourages proactive action, fostering a sense of purpose and determination to maximize potential during this valuable and transitory stage of life. Image of number 10
555 What will he do with this surplus strength and faculties? He'll channel it into tasks benefiting him later, projecting his current excess into the future. The robust child prepares for the weaker man, storing assets not in banks or barns but within himself. It's time for work, instruction, and study, guided by nature's direction. Emphasizing self-reliance and internal development fosters resilience and adaptability, enabling individuals to thrive amidst changing circumstances. By recognizing the value of internal resources, we empower the child to cultivate skills and knowledge that will serve as a strong foundation for lifelong growth and success. Image of number 10
556 Human intelligence is limited; no one can know everything. We must choose what and when to teach. Of available knowledge, some is false, useless, or feeds pride. Only a small portion contributes to well-being, deserving wise men's and children's study. Focus on what's useful, not merely existing. Prioritizing essential knowledge fosters meaningful growth and development, enabling individuals to navigate life's complexities with clarity and purpose. By emphasizing practical and relevant learning, we equip children with the tools to thrive, encouraging a lifelong pursuit of wisdom that enhances their well-being and enriches their contributions to the world. Image of number 10
557 From this limited knowledge, exclude truths needing mature understanding, knowledge of man's relations, or truths leading to misconceptions. Focusing on age-appropriate concepts fosters accurate comprehension and growth. Tailoring learning to developmental stages encourages meaningful exploration and understanding, preventing confusion or misinterpretation. By aligning educational content with the child's cognitive abilities, we nurture curiosity and confidence, laying the groundwork for lifelong learning and informed decision-making. This approach promotes intellectual and emotional development, empowering individuals to navigate complex ideas with clarity and discernment, fostering a strong foundation for continued growth and exploration throughout their lives. Image of number 10
558 Thus, we're confined to a small circle of existence knowledge, yet immense for a child's mind. Beware the allure of falsehood and pride. Ignorance isn't harmful; error is. Misguidance stems from presumed knowledge. This highlights the importance of fostering a discerning and humble approach to learning, emphasizing the value of genuine understanding over superficial familiarity. By cultivating critical thinking and a willingness to question assumptions, we empower individuals to navigate the complexities of knowledge with clarity and purpose, avoiding the pitfalls of misinformation and embracing a path of continuous growth and exploration. Image of number 10
559 Geometry measures intelligence growth, yet discretion and art are crucial when introducing speculative studies. To solve problems, create needs for solutions. This approach fosters moral development, progressing from necessity to usefulness to righteousness. Emphasizing practical problem-solving nurtures critical thinking and ethical understanding, empowering individuals to apply knowledge purposefully. By fostering curiosity and guiding exploration, we cultivate a holistic understanding of principles, encouraging a balanced approach to learning and decision-making. This method promotes intellectual and moral growth, equipping individuals with the skills and values needed to navigate complex challenges and contribute meaningfully to society. Image of number 10
560 Human faculties share an instinctive drive. Body activity for growth is succeeded by mind activity for knowledge. Initially restless, then curious, curiosity fuels this age. Distinguish natural from opinion-driven tendencies. Some seek learning for esteem, others from innate curiosity about impactful matters. This natural curiosity drives exploration and understanding, fostering a lifelong pursuit of knowledge. By nurturing genuine interest, we empower individuals to engage with the world meaningfully, cultivating resilience and adaptability. Recognizing the importance of curiosity encourages a holistic approach to education, promoting growth and development that aligns with innate human tendencies. Image of number 10
561 The earth is the island of humanity, and the sun is the most striking object. As we explore beyond ourselves, our first observations focus on the earth and sun, shaping early philosophies. These observations influence how we perceive the world and develop our understanding of natural phenomena. By examining our surroundings, we gain insights into the interconnectedness of our environment, fostering a deeper appreciation for the natural world and its impact on human existence. This foundational perspective lays the groundwork for exploring more complex ideas and expanding our understanding of the universe. Image of number 10
562 Previously focused on immediate surroundings, we now explore the globe and universe. This shift results from increased strength and mind inclinations. Weakness concentrates us on self-preservation, while strength propels us outward. Our thinking is limited to what we see, with understanding confined to measurable spaces. Recognizing this progression allows us to appreciate the growth of our intellectual and observational capacities, guiding our exploration of the world and universe. By embracing this shift, we can expand our horizons and deepen our understanding of the interconnectedness between ourselves and the broader cosmos. Image of number 10
563 Transform sensations into ideas, progressing from tangible to intellectual. Sensations should guide initial mental operations. No books, just the world and facts. A reading child doesn't think but learns words. This approach emphasizes experiential learning, fostering critical thinking and independent reasoning. By engaging with the world directly, children develop a deeper understanding of concepts and ideas, empowering them to explore knowledge through observation and experience. This method encourages curiosity and innovation, nurturing a lifelong love for learning and discovery, and preparing them for complex intellectual challenges in the future. Image of number 10
564 Encourage children to observe nature's phenomena, fostering curiosity by withholding immediate answers. Pose questions and let them solve them independently, promoting self-learning over instruction. Avoid substituting authority for reason to nurture critical thinking. This approach cultivates independence and problem-solving skills, empowering children to explore and understand the world through their observations and experiences. By fostering a sense of curiosity and encouraging exploration, we create an environment where children can develop their reasoning abilities and form a deeper connection with the natural world, laying the foundation for lifelong learning and intellectual growth. Image of number 10
565 When teaching geography, avoid overwhelming children with globes, spheres, and maps. Begin by showing the actual object, providing a direct understanding. This hands-on approach fosters a deeper connection with the subject matter, allowing children to explore and comprehend their surroundings in a meaningful way. By emphasizing real-world experiences over abstract symbols, we create a learning environment that encourages curiosity and engagement, enabling children to develop a comprehensive understanding of geography through exploration and observation. This method nurtures a lifelong appreciation for the natural world and its intricate connections. Image of number 10
566 Take a child to a location with a wide horizon for sunset and sunrise observations. Observe the sun's rising, noting the transformation of darkness to daylight, as the world awakens in vibrant beauty. The freshness and grandeur of nature's spectacle captivate the senses, instilling awe and wonder. This immersive experience fosters a profound appreciation for the natural world, encouraging exploration and curiosity. By engaging with nature's rhythms, children develop a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of life and environment, nurturing a lifelong love for learning and discovery. Image of number 10
567 The teacher, inspired by nature, seeks to impart enthusiasm to the child, but true understanding requires feeling. The child sees objects but lacks the experience to perceive their interconnections. Without knowledge and emotions, the beauty of nature's harmony remains elusive. Understanding arises from personal experiences and the ability to grasp relationships among elements. Encourage exploration and observation, allowing the child to gradually develop awareness and appreciation for the natural world's intricate connections. By fostering curiosity and experiential learning, we empower children to form meaningful connections with their environment. Image of number 10
568 Avoid giving children speeches they can't understand. No descriptions, eloquence, figures of speech, or poetry. Keep communication clear, simple, and straightforward, as the time for deeper emotions and taste will come soon enough. This approach ensures that children comprehend information effectively, fostering a foundation for future learning. By focusing on clarity and simplicity, we create an environment where children can build essential skills and understanding, preparing them for more complex concepts and experiences. This method nurtures confidence and curiosity, empowering children to explore the world and embrace knowledge with enthusiasm and clarity. Image of number 10
569 Children raised with these principles learn to create their tools and seek help only after recognizing their limits. They observe new objects silently, thinking before questioning. Encourage showing things at the right time, letting curiosity grow naturally. Ask brief questions to guide exploration. This approach fosters independence, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills, empowering children to explore their surroundings and develop a deeper understanding of the world. By nurturing curiosity and providing opportunities for self-discovery, we create an environment where children can grow intellectually and emotionally, preparing them for lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
570 After observing sunrise, note landmarks, and let the child talk about them. Then, ponder the sun's changing position, sparking curiosity. Avoid immediate answers; let him think independently. This encourages problem-solving and critical thinking. By nurturing curiosity and exploration, we foster intellectual growth and creativity, empowering children to seek knowledge and develop a deeper understanding of the world. This approach cultivates resilience and adaptability, preparing them for future challenges and opportunities. Encouraging independent exploration and questioning nurtures a lifelong passion for learning and discovery. Image of number 10
571 For a child to grasp an experience's truth, they must spend anxious days discovering it. If they struggle, reverse the question. If they can't figure out how the sun moves from setting to rising, they at least know its path from rising to setting. Use this second question to clarify the first. This is the child's initial lesson in cosmography, emphasizing observation and critical thinking. By encouraging independent exploration and questioning, we foster intellectual growth and creativity, empowering children to seek knowledge and develop a deeper understanding of the world. Image of number 10
572 Advance slowly from one idea to another, allowing time for familiarity. Avoid forcing attention. Progress from the first lesson to understanding the sun's course and earth's shape. Recognizing that celestial movements rely on a shared principle, less effort is needed, but more time, to understand day, night, and eclipses. This gradual approach fosters comprehension and curiosity, enabling children to build a solid foundation of knowledge. By nurturing exploration and patience, we empower them to explore complex concepts with confidence and curiosity, preparing them for lifelong learning and discovery. Image of number 10
573 The sun's orbit forms a circle with a center, marked by two earth surface points. An extended skewer represents the earth's axis and the sun's path. A spinning top illustrates the sky's rotation, with poles as the top's points. The Little Bear's tail serves as a recognizable pole. Gradually learn stars, planets, and constellations. This engaging approach fosters understanding of celestial movements and the cosmos. By encouraging exploration and curiosity, we empower children to discover the wonders of the universe and develop a lifelong passion for learning and discovery. Image of number 10
574 Observe sunrise at midsummer and winter from the same spot. Note differences, sparking curiosity about the sun's changing position. This method teaches the sphere by directly observing the earth and sun. Emphasizing real-world experiences fosters a deeper understanding of celestial movements and geography. By engaging with nature's rhythms, we empower children to explore and comprehend their surroundings, nurturing a lifelong love for learning and discovery. This approach cultivates curiosity and intellectual growth, preparing them for complex concepts and challenges. Encouraging exploration and observation fosters resilience and adaptability, preparing them for future challenges and opportunities. Image of number 10
575 Avoid substituting symbols for objects unless necessary. A child's focus on symbols may distract from the represented object. This approach emphasizes direct engagement with the world, fostering a deeper understanding of concepts and ideas. By prioritizing real-world experiences over abstract representations, we create an environment that encourages curiosity and exploration, empowering children to develop a comprehensive understanding of their surroundings. This method nurtures a lifelong love for learning and discovery, preparing them for complex intellectual challenges. By emphasizing clarity and simplicity, we foster confidence and curiosity, encouraging children to embrace knowledge enthusiastically. Image of number 10
576 The armillary sphere, with its complex circles, confuses children. Its size and design resemble witchcraft, overwhelming them. This approach emphasizes direct engagement with the world, fostering a deeper understanding of concepts and ideas. By prioritizing real-world experiences over abstract representations, we create an environment that encourages curiosity and exploration, empowering children to develop a comprehensive understanding of their surroundings. This method nurtures a lifelong love for learning and discovery, preparing them for complex intellectual challenges. By emphasizing clarity and simplicity, we foster confidence and curiosity, encouraging children to embrace knowledge enthusiastically. Image of number 10
577 We struggle to see from a child's perspective, imposing adult ideas and reasoning. This results in errors and misunderstandings. Emphasizing empathy and understanding fosters a deeper connection with children's learning processes. By engaging with their perspective, we create an environment that encourages curiosity and exploration, empowering them to develop a comprehensive understanding of their surroundings. This method nurtures a lifelong love for learning and discovery, preparing them for complex intellectual challenges. By emphasizing clarity and simplicity, we foster confidence and curiosity, encouraging children to embrace knowledge enthusiastically and explore the world with a sense of wonder and curiosity. Image of number 10
578 The debate over analytic or synthetic methods in science isn't always necessary. Some experiments combine both, guiding children to results through both methods. This dual approach enhances understanding and discovery. Encourage exploration by connecting geography and earth's rotation, starting locally. This method fosters intellectual growth and curiosity, empowering children to explore and comprehend the world. By embracing both analytical and synthetic approaches, we create an environment that encourages critical thinking and problem-solving skills, preparing children for complex challenges and discoveries. This holistic approach nurtures a lifelong passion for learning and discovery. Image of number 10
579 Begin geography with local landmarks, then expand to rivers, sun directions, and navigation. Encourage children to create simple maps, gradually adding places as they understand distances. This hands-on approach fosters a deeper understanding of geography and navigation. By emphasizing real-world experiences, we create an environment that encourages curiosity and exploration, empowering children to develop a comprehensive understanding of their surroundings. This method nurtures a lifelong love for learning and discovery, preparing them for complex intellectual challenges. By fostering confidence and curiosity, we empower children to embrace knowledge and explore the world with enthusiasm. Image of number 10
580 Children need minimal guidance. Let them correct their mistakes independently, occasionally arranging situations to reveal errors. Emphasize learning through discovery rather than memorizing maps. Understanding map-making and its principles is more valuable. This approach fosters critical thinking and problem-solving skills, empowering children to explore and comprehend the world. By encouraging exploration and independence, we create an environment that nurtures a lifelong love for learning and discovery, preparing them for complex intellectual challenges. This method emphasizes resilience and adaptability, empowering children to embrace knowledge and explore the world with confidence and curiosity. Image of number 10
581 My teaching aims to instill clear, correct ideas in children. Knowing little is preferable to holding false beliefs. Guard against errors, as reason develops slowly amid pervasive prejudices. Chasing knowledge without discernment is like collecting shells by the sea: you gather and discard aimlessly, overwhelmed and empty-handed. Focus on fundamental truths to anchor understanding. Cultivate a foundation free from misconceptions, promoting critical thinking and independent reasoning. This approach fosters intellectual clarity and resilience, equipping children to navigate the complexities of knowledge with confidence and discernment. Image of number 10
582 In early childhood, time felt long; we sought to fill it meaningfully. Now, time is insufficient for all useful pursuits. As passions emerge, attention shifts to them. Intelligence's peaceful phase is fleeting, demanding effective use. Avoid creating scholars; instead, nurture a love for sciences and methods for future learning. This principle underpins quality education. By prioritizing foundational curiosity over rote memorization, we equip children with tools for lifelong exploration. Embrace a holistic approach, fostering a balanced relationship between knowledge, curiosity, and personal growth, ensuring that education inspires genuine intellectual passion and meaningful engagement with the world. Image of number 10
583 Gradually cultivate a child's ability to focus on one subject, driven by pleasure or interest, not coercion. Avoid boredom and excessive pressure. Observe closely, halting before disengagement occurs. Prioritize willingness over forced learning. This approach respects the child's natural curiosity, promoting a genuine connection to the subject matter. By fostering an environment of voluntary engagement, we empower children to explore and learn at their own pace, developing a deep, enduring love for discovery. Encouraging intrinsic motivation over external pressure nurtures intellectual growth, critical thinking, and lifelong learning, laying the foundation for a fulfilling educational journey. Image of number 10
584 Answer children's questions to nurture curiosity, not fully satisfy it. When questioning becomes aimless, stop. Focus on underlying motives, not just words. As reasoning develops, this becomes crucial. Prioritize genuine inquiry over superficial questioning. By encouraging thoughtful exploration, we foster critical thinking and intellectual growth. This approach empowers children to seek meaningful understanding, cultivating a deeper connection to learning. Emphasizing intention over rote questioning nurtures a curious, engaged mindset, laying the groundwork for lifelong curiosity and discovery. By valuing curiosity's depth over breadth, we inspire children to explore and learn with purpose and enthusiasm. Image of number 10
585 There are two learning methods: a philosophical chain linking all sciences and a sequential order sparked by curiosity. The latter suits children, fostering attention to each subject. For astronomy, find meridians using equal morning and evening shadows, though tracing them requires effort. Anticipate boredom, and be prepared to adapt. This approach prioritizes curiosity-driven learning, empowering children to explore subjects naturally. By embracing this method, we nurture a love for discovery, fostering intellectual engagement and growth. Encouraging exploration through a structured yet flexible approach cultivates lifelong learning and adaptability, preparing children for future challenges and opportunities. Image of number 10
586 Despite potential impatience, I will provide detailed explanations. My focus is on thorough understanding, not brevity. While readers may find this long-winded, I prioritize comprehensive insights over appeasing complaints. This approach ensures clarity and depth, fostering a robust grasp of concepts. By delving into details, we equip learners with the tools for critical thinking and independent reasoning. Emphasizing depth over speed nurtures intellectual resilience and adaptability, preparing individuals for complex challenges and discoveries. This commitment to comprehensive understanding empowers learners to engage with knowledge confidently and meaningfully, fostering a lifelong passion for learning and exploration. Image of number 10
587 My pupil and I discovered that some substances, like amber and glass, attract straws when rubbed. We then found one that attracts iron filings without rubbing. Fascinated, we learned this property transfers to iron itself, becoming magnetized. At a fair, a magician's wax duck follows bread in water, surprising us. We don't judge hastily, preferring to remain curious and open-minded. This approach fosters exploration and discovery, encouraging learners to embrace new experiences and insights. By valuing curiosity over quick conclusions, we nurture intellectual growth and adaptability, empowering individuals to navigate the world with curiosity and understanding. Image of number 10
588 Inspired by the fair's duck trick, we create a wax duck with a magnetized needle. It follows a key in water, delighting us. Later, we'll note its resting direction, but now we're absorbed in our creation. This hands-on exploration fosters creativity and understanding. By engaging with real-world experiments, we nurture curiosity and problem-solving skills. Encouraging active participation in learning empowers individuals to explore concepts practically, fostering a deeper connection to knowledge. This experiential approach cultivates a love for discovery and innovation, preparing learners for future challenges and opportunities with confidence and enthusiasm. Image of number 10
589 Returning to the fair, we attempt the duck trick with prepared bread. The child confidently replicates it, earning applause and excitement. The magician invites him back for more praise, but I caution against lingering. Overwhelmed by success, the child learns the value of humility and restraint. This experience teaches important lessons about pride and expectations. By fostering reflection and self-awareness, we nurture emotional intelligence and resilience. Encouraging humility amid success prepares individuals for future challenges, fostering a balanced perspective and an understanding of the importance of character and integrity in personal and intellectual growth. Image of number 10
590 The child eagerly anticipates his next fair performance, inviting others to witness his triumph. However, the duck trick fails, and he's met with ridicule. The child's excitement turns to embarrassment, revealing the lesson of humility. This experience teaches the importance of resilience and adaptability in facing setbacks. By fostering emotional intelligence and self-reflection, we empower individuals to learn from challenges and grow stronger. Encouraging humility and perseverance nurtures personal growth, preparing individuals for future endeavors with a balanced perspective and a deeper understanding of the value of integrity and resilience in achieving success. Image of number 10
591 The magician easily replicates the duck trick, while the child fails again, humiliated. This experience underscores the lesson of humility and the importance of understanding one's limitations. By recognizing and learning from failure, individuals develop resilience and adaptability. Encouraging reflection and self-awareness fosters personal growth, empowering individuals to approach challenges with humility and perseverance. This approach nurtures emotional intelligence and resilience, preparing individuals for future endeavors with a balanced perspective and a deeper understanding of the value of integrity and humility in achieving personal and intellectual growth. Image of number 10
592 The magician replicates the duck trick with various objects, outshining the child. Audience applause amplifies our embarrassment, teaching humility and resilience. This experience highlights the importance of self-awareness and adaptability in facing setbacks. By fostering reflection and growth, we empower individuals to learn from challenges and develop emotional intelligence. Encouraging humility amid success nurtures a balanced perspective, preparing individuals for future endeavors with integrity and resilience. This approach fosters personal growth and adaptability, equipping individuals with the skills to navigate challenges and opportunities with confidence and humility. Image of number 10
593 The magician visits, urging us not to discredit his tricks, which are his livelihood. He demonstrates his expertise, explaining that experience comes with dedication. He shares his secrets to prevent interference, emphasizing his livelihood's importance. This encounter teaches respect for others' skills and the value of humility. By recognizing others' expertise, we foster empathy and understanding. Encouraging collaboration and learning from others nurtures mutual respect and growth. This approach fosters emotional intelligence and resilience, empowering individuals to engage with the world with integrity and appreciation for diverse skills and perspectives, enhancing personal and intellectual development. Image of number 10
594 The magician's apparatus is revealed: a magnet manipulated by a hidden child. This lesson in humility and understanding teaches the value of acknowledging one's limitations. By recognizing and appreciating the expertise of others, we foster empathy and mutual respect. Encouraging openness to learning and collaboration nurtures personal growth and resilience. This approach empowers individuals to engage with the world with integrity and appreciation for diverse perspectives, enhancing emotional intelligence and adaptability. By embracing humility and understanding, we cultivate a balanced perspective, preparing individuals for future challenges and opportunities with confidence and empathy. Image of number 10
595 After refusing our offer of compensation, the magician emphasizes that generosity transcends professions. He earns his living through performance, not teaching. This lesson in humility and understanding underscores the value of respect for others' skills and livelihoods. By acknowledging diverse talents, we foster empathy and mutual respect. Encouraging appreciation for different professions nurtures personal growth and resilience. This approach empowers individuals to engage with the world with integrity and appreciation for diverse perspectives, enhancing emotional intelligence and adaptability. By embracing humility and understanding, we cultivate a balanced perspective, preparing individuals for future challenges with confidence. Image of number 10
596 As the magician departs, he admonishes me for not guiding the child better, stressing the importance of shared responsibility in learning. This encounter underscores the value of mentorship and guidance in nurturing growth. By fostering accountability and collaboration, we empower individuals to learn from each other and develop resilience. Encouraging mutual support and shared learning nurtures personal growth and adaptability. This approach cultivates emotional intelligence and understanding, preparing individuals for future challenges with integrity and empathy. By embracing mentorship and responsibility, we foster a balanced perspective, empowering individuals to engage with the world with confidence and compassion. Image of number 10
597 The magician's departure leaves us embarrassed. I resolve to prioritize the child's interests, acknowledging our evolving relationship from master to comrade. Gradual change is essential, requiring foresight and preparation. This experience emphasizes the importance of adaptability and growth in mentorship. By fostering open communication and mutual understanding, we empower individuals to navigate transitions with confidence. Encouraging collaboration and shared learning nurtures personal growth and resilience. This approach cultivates emotional intelligence and empathy, preparing individuals for future challenges with integrity and understanding. By embracing change and growth, we foster a balanced perspective, empowering individuals for success. Image of number 10
598 We return to the fair, humbled, and watch the magician with respect. Despite knowing the trick, we remain silent, valuing humility and restraint. This experience teaches the importance of discretion and understanding. By fostering reflection and self-awareness, we empower individuals to learn from challenges and develop emotional intelligence. Encouraging humility amid success nurtures a balanced perspective, preparing individuals for future endeavors with integrity and resilience. This approach fosters personal growth and adaptability, equipping individuals with the skills to navigate challenges and opportunities with confidence and humility, enhancing their overall development and understanding of the world. Image of number 10
599 The detailed illustration teaches multiple lessons: the humbling effects of vanity and the importance of guiding the first impulse. By using shame and disgrace to curb vanity, we prevent its recurrence. Despite the lengthy preparations, this approach cultivates self-awareness and humility. Encouraging reflection and growth fosters emotional intelligence and resilience. This method empowers individuals to learn from challenges and develop a balanced perspective, preparing them for future endeavors with integrity and understanding. By embracing humility and self-awareness, we cultivate a deeper understanding of the importance of character and integrity in personal and intellectual growth. Image of number 10
600 Learning that a magnet acts through other bodies, we recreate the magician's setup: a table, a water-filled bowl, and a better-crafted duck. We observe its consistent orientation, discovering our compass. This marks the beginning of our physics study, highlighting the value of hands-on exploration. By fostering curiosity and experimentation, we empower individuals to engage with the world practically and develop a deeper understanding of concepts. Encouraging active participation nurtures critical thinking and problem-solving skills, preparing individuals for future challenges and opportunities with confidence and enthusiasm, fostering a lifelong love for learning and discovery. Image of number 10
601 Earth's regions vary in temperature, especially near the poles. Bodies expand with heat and contract with cold, best measured in liquids like distilled ones, leading to the thermometer. Air's presence is felt, not seen; its resistance shown when submerged in water. Compressed air is elastic and heavy, proven by air-guns and pumps. Rough experiments reveal statics and hydrostatics laws. Avoid physics labs' intimidating instruments; they distract from effects. Emphasize hands-on learning over complex tools, focusing on natural phenomena. Encourage exploration and understanding through simple experiments, fostering curiosity and practical knowledge without overwhelming distractions or complexities. Image of number 10
602 We'll create our machines, inventing instruments as experiments arise. Prioritize clear ideas over perfect tools. For statics, use a stick and chair to find equilibrium, understanding weights and levers before scales. This hands-on approach encourages critical thinking and problem-solving, fostering independence and resourcefulness. By focusing on concept comprehension rather than tool reliance, we cultivate a deeper understanding of principles. This method empowers individuals to explore and experiment, nurturing intellectual growth and adaptability. By valuing creativity and exploration, we inspire a lifelong passion for learning and discovery, equipping individuals with the skills to navigate the world confidently. Image of number 10
603 Learning independently fosters clearer understanding than passive instruction. It encourages ingenuity and problem-solving, unlike passive acceptance, which weakens intellect. Self-reliance in learning enhances creativity and critical thinking. Encourage active exploration and hands-on engagement, empowering individuals to discover and connect ideas. This method nurtures resilience and adaptability, fostering a deeper connection to knowledge. By valuing experiential learning, we inspire curiosity and innovation, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate challenges confidently. Emphasizing active participation over passive instruction cultivates intellectual growth and resilience, preparing learners for lifelong exploration and discovery with confidence and enthusiasm. Image of number 10
604 Slow, laborious inquiry maintains physical activity, skillful hands, and useful functions amid studies. Over-reliance on instruments neglects sensory development. Tools like graphometers and tape measures replace natural judgment, dulling our senses. Prioritize hands-on learning, nurturing critical thinking and adaptability. By valuing experiential exploration, we empower individuals to engage with the world practically, fostering a deeper connection to knowledge. This approach enhances intellectual growth and resilience, equipping learners with the skills to navigate challenges confidently. Emphasizing active participation over passive reliance on tools cultivates a lifelong passion for learning and discovery, preparing individuals for future endeavors. Image of number 10
605 Creating machines using skills they replace, we blend art and nature, enhancing ingenuity without losing dexterity. Workshop time benefits the mind, making one a philosopher while working. This approach nurtures critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to explore and learn through practical engagement. By valuing hands-on experiences, we foster intellectual growth and resilience, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing creativity and exploration cultivates a lifelong passion for learning, equipping individuals with the skills to navigate the world confidently and innovatively. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, promoting personal and intellectual growth through active participation. Image of number 10
606 Theoretical knowledge is unsuitable for children. Connect experiments through deduction, creating a mental framework for recall. Organized information aids memory retention, enhancing understanding. This method fosters critical thinking and problem-solving, empowering learners to engage with knowledge effectively. By emphasizing structured exploration, we nurture intellectual growth and adaptability, preparing individuals for future challenges. Encouraging connections between concepts cultivates a deeper understanding, fostering a lifelong passion for learning and discovery. This approach equips learners with the tools to navigate complex information confidently, promoting personal and intellectual growth through thoughtful engagement and exploration. Image of number 10
607 Start with common phenomena in natural laws studies. Train scholars to view them as facts, not reasons. Demonstrate gravity by dropping a stone, prompting questions. This method encourages curiosity and critical thinking, empowering learners to explore and engage with the world. By valuing observation and inquiry, we nurture intellectual growth and adaptability, preparing individuals for future challenges. Encouraging active participation in learning fosters a deeper understanding of concepts, cultivating a lifelong passion for discovery. This approach equips learners with the skills to navigate complex information confidently, promoting personal and intellectual growth through thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
608 Children readily answer why a stone falls, citing its weight. This circular reasoning reveals the need for deeper understanding. It's a lesson in physics and common sense, highlighting the importance of critical thinking and questioning assumptions. By encouraging exploration and inquiry, we empower learners to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach fosters intellectual growth and adaptability, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing thoughtful engagement over rote answers cultivates a deeper connection to concepts, inspiring a lifelong passion for learning and discovery. This method equips learners with the tools to navigate complex information confidently and creatively. Image of number 10
609 As intelligence grows, select activities carefully. Understanding well-being and recognizing useful tasks lead to discernment between work and play. Necessity teaches the value of foresight, influencing human wisdom or misery. By fostering awareness and adaptability, we empower individuals to make informed choices. Encouraging a balance between work and relaxation nurtures resilience and critical thinking. This approach prepares individuals for future challenges, cultivating a deeper understanding of priorities and decision-making. Emphasizing foresight and adaptability fosters personal and intellectual growth, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, promoting lifelong learning and self-awareness. Image of number 10
610 To achieve happiness, understand its nature. Natural happiness is simple, based on pain absence, health, freedom, and basic needs. Moral happiness differs, but physical objects interest children most. By fostering understanding and awareness, we empower individuals to navigate life with clarity. Encouraging a focus on tangible experiences nurtures resilience and adaptability. This approach prepares individuals for future challenges, cultivating a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. Emphasizing simplicity and awareness fosters personal and intellectual growth, equipping learners with the tools to engage with life's complexities confidently and meaningfully, promoting lifelong happiness and self-awareness. Image of number 10
611 When children foresee needs, they learn time's value. Direct time toward visible usefulness, within their understanding. Avoid moral and societal concepts they can't grasp. Expecting them to focus on unclear benefits is misguided. Interests for the future lack immediate relevance. This approach fosters clarity and practical understanding, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. Encouraging meaningful exploration nurtures critical thinking and adaptability. By emphasizing tangible learning, we prepare individuals for future challenges, cultivating a lifelong passion for discovery. This method equips learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, promoting self-awareness and growth. Image of number 10
612 Children should act based on recognized good. Pushing beyond understanding risks gullibility and dependence. Foresight in their best interest builds self-reliance and common sense. Encouraging exploration and critical thinking fosters resilience and adaptability. This approach empowers individuals to make informed decisions, navigating life's complexities confidently. Emphasizing self-awareness and practical understanding cultivates personal and intellectual growth, preparing learners for future challenges. By valuing thoughtful engagement, we inspire curiosity and discovery, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate the world effectively. This method promotes lifelong learning and self-awareness, fostering a deeper connection to knowledge and well-being. Image of number 10
613 Children needn't learn all a man must know. Focus on age-appropriate knowledge, filling time meaningfully. Anticipating adulthood's demands neglects present needs. Real teachers are experience and feeling, understanding suitability through relationships. Encourage exploration and critical thinking, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach fosters resilience and adaptability, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing experiential learning and practical understanding cultivates a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method promotes personal and intellectual growth, fostering self-awareness and a deeper connection to knowledge and well-being. Image of number 10
614 Teaching "useful" concepts offers control, influencing the child's behavior. Ensure usefulness relates to their age and well-being. Scholars often miss this meaning, relying on others for needs. Encouraging self-awareness and understanding fosters resilience and adaptability. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, cultivating a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing practical understanding, we prepare individuals for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing meaningful exploration fosters a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. Image of number 10
615 "What is that good for?" becomes a guiding question in life. It curbs meaningless queries and promotes Socratic inquiry. Encourage thoughtful questioning, fostering critical thinking and self-awareness. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, cultivating a deeper understanding of priorities and decision-making. By valuing meaningful exploration, we prepare individuals for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. Image of number 10
616 The "What is that good for?" tool empowers tutors. Lack of knowledge silences pupils, leveraging experience and knowledge to guide them. Expect questions in return, fostering mutual understanding. Encourage open dialogue, promoting critical thinking and adaptability. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, cultivating a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing practical understanding, we prepare individuals for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing meaningful exploration fosters a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. Image of number 10
617 Avoid answering children's questions without understanding their perspective. Misaligned reasons breed distrust. Admit faults for transparency, fostering trust. Encourage open communication and self-awareness, promoting critical thinking and adaptability. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, cultivating a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing transparency and understanding, we prepare individuals for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing open dialogue fosters a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. Image of number 10
618 Guide learning by placing knowledge within reach, igniting desire and facilitating discovery. Encourage well-chosen questions, fostering critical thinking and adaptability. Empower individuals to explore knowledge actively, cultivating a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing thoughtful exploration, we prepare individuals for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing curiosity and discovery fosters a lifelong passion for learning, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. This method nurtures resilience and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with the world effectively and meaningfully. Image of number 10
619 Focus on understanding and usefulness, not on knowing everything. If explanations don't fit, admit it. With care, opportunities arise to demonstrate relevance. Encourage critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach fosters resilience and personal growth, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing meaningful exploration and understanding cultivates a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. By valuing practical understanding, we inspire curiosity and innovation, promoting a deeper connection to knowledge and well-being. Image of number 10
620 Avoid relying solely on verbal explanations. Young people pay little attention and remember less. Emphasize tangible experiences to prevent creating mere babblers. Encourage active engagement and practical understanding, empowering individuals to explore and learn effectively. This approach fosters resilience and adaptability, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing experiential learning cultivates a lifelong passion for discovery, equipping learners with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, enhancing self-awareness and growth. By valuing meaningful exploration, we inspire curiosity and innovation, promoting a deeper connection to knowledge and well-being. Image of number 10
621 If asked the purpose of studying the sun's course, a grand explanation could be given, linking navigation, commerce, agriculture, astronomy, and more. However, such a speech, while impressive, wouldn't help the student understand or retain information. The student might pretend to listen but would forget the lesson. Effective education involves speaking through actions and conveying only what can't be demonstrated. The goal is not to overwhelm with information but to foster genuine understanding. Avoid giving grandiose explanations that confuse rather than enlighten. Use practical experiences to make abstract concepts tangible and memorable, focusing on meaningful learning experiences. Image of number 10
622 Emile, raised simply, avoids complex explanations. He'll disengage if he doesn't understand, leaving the speaker to their speech. Instead, seek straightforward explanations that resonate with the student's experience. Prioritize clarity over complexity, focusing on practical understanding rather than showcasing knowledge. This approach fosters genuine engagement and learning. Encourage active participation and curiosity, adapting lessons to the student's level. By valuing simplicity and clarity, we empower learners to explore knowledge effectively, cultivating a deeper understanding of concepts. This method fosters resilience and adaptability, preparing individuals for future challenges, promoting lifelong learning and intellectual growth through meaningful exploration. Image of number 10
623 While studying the forest's position relative to Montmorency, Emile asks, "What's the use?" I suggest pondering its value and, if found useless, abandoning it for more beneficial activities. We shift focus to other pursuits, temporarily setting geography aside. This approach encourages critical thinking and prioritization of meaningful tasks. By fostering curiosity and adaptability, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. This method nurtures intellectual growth and resilience, preparing learners for future challenges, promoting lifelong learning and discovery through thoughtful exploration and engagement. Image of number 10
624 During a walk to the forest, Emile and I become lost. As time passes and hunger grows, Emile becomes upset, unaware we're near Montmorency. The forest appears vast to him, obscuring familiar landmarks. This experience highlights the importance of practical understanding and adaptability. By valuing exploration and critical thinking, we empower individuals to navigate challenges effectively. This approach fosters resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future obstacles. Emphasizing hands-on learning and real-world experiences cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, promoting lifelong learning and discovery through thoughtful engagement and exploration. Image of number 10
625 In a moment of silence, I express concern to Emile about finding our way out of the forest. This situation encourages critical thinking and problem-solving, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. By fostering adaptability and resilience, we prepare learners for future obstacles, cultivating a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. Emphasizing practical understanding and hands-on experiences promotes personal and intellectual growth, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
626 Emile, distressed and hungry, learns to navigate using shadows to find Montmorency. This practical lesson in astronomy and navigation empowers individuals to apply knowledge effectively in real-world situations. By fostering critical thinking and adaptability, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting resilience and personal growth. Emphasizing hands-on learning and practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
627 If Emile doesn't verbally express the lesson learned, he'll certainly think it. This lesson will stay with him longer than any lecture would. Speak through actions; only explain what's impossible to demonstrate. This method fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering learners to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare individuals for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This approach inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
628 Tutors must adapt lessons to students' capacities, avoiding filling their minds with misunderstood concepts. The danger lies in what students think they know. Encourage active exploration and critical thinking, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach fosters resilience and adaptability, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
629 While trying to spark a child's interest in chemistry, I showed metallic precipitates and explained ink production. The child abruptly asked the utility of the lesson, leaving me embarrassed. This experience highlights the importance of connecting lessons to practical applications. By fostering curiosity and critical thinking, we empower learners to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach nurtures adaptability and personal growth, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing meaningful exploration cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires lifelong learning and discovery. Image of number 10
630 To address the child's question, I devised a plan involving two wines and an alkaline solution, teaching the lesson through demonstration. This hands-on approach fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
631 Many products are falsified to appear better, deceiving the senses but ultimately degrading the product. This lesson highlights the importance of authenticity and critical thinking. By fostering awareness and adaptability, we empower individuals to navigate challenges effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future obstacles. Emphasizing practical understanding and hands-on experiences cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
632 Beverages, especially wine, are frequently falsified due to the difficulty of detection and profit potential. This lesson underscores the importance of critical thinking and discernment in identifying deception. By fostering awareness and adaptability, we empower individuals to navigate challenges effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future obstacles. Emphasizing practical understanding and hands-on experiences cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
633 Sour wine is altered with litharge, a lead preparation, to mask its taste. This harmful practice highlights the need for detection. Before consuming suspicious wine, one should learn to identify lead presence, ensuring safety. This lesson emphasizes critical thinking and discernment, empowering individuals to navigate challenges effectively. By fostering awareness and adaptability, we prepare learners for future obstacles. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
634 Wine contains inflammable spirit and acid, evident from brandy and vinegar production. This lesson highlights the complexity of substances and the importance of understanding their properties. By fostering critical thinking and adaptability, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
635 Wine's acid interacts with metals, forming salts like iron rust or copper verdigris. This lesson emphasizes the importance of understanding chemical reactions and properties. By fostering critical thinking and adaptability, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
636 Acid has greater affinity for alkalis than metals. Adding alkalis frees the metal from solution as the acid binds with the alkali. This lesson underscores understanding chemical interactions and adaptability. By fostering critical thinking, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
637 As the acid releases the metal in solution, it precipitates, making the liquid opaque. This lesson highlights the importance of understanding chemical reactions and adaptability. By fostering critical thinking, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
638 To detect lead in wine, observe the reaction with an alkaline solution. If litharge is present, the acid will release lead, clouding the liquid and leaving sediment. This lesson emphasizes understanding chemical interactions and discernment. By fostering critical thinking, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
639 If no lead or metal is present, the alkaline solution will slowly combine with the acid, keeping the wine clear. This lesson highlights the importance of understanding chemical interactions and adaptability. By fostering critical thinking, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
640 I demonstrated the test by adding alkaline solution to two wine glasses. Our house wine stayed clear, while the other turned turbid, with lead settling at the bottom. This lesson underscores the importance of hands-on learning and critical thinking. By fostering adaptability, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
641 I explained that natural wine is drinkable, while adulterated wine is poisonous, using the same science behind making ink to detect tampered wines. Understanding chemistry reveals the truth about substances. This lesson highlights the importance of critical thinking and discernment in recognizing authenticity. By fostering awareness and adaptability, we empower individuals to navigate challenges effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future obstacles. Emphasizing practical understanding and hands-on experiences cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with the tools to navigate life's complexities confidently and purposefully, inspiring lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
642 My illustration had little effect on my pupil because a child of twelve couldn't grasp the explanation's usefulness. He tasted both wines and found them good, not understanding "falsified" or "poisonous." This highlights that unfamiliar causes and effects, or unmet needs, fail to engage us. Children don't grasp abstract concepts or future needs, making it hard to teach them without relatable context. Persuasion, not just logic, is crucial to inspire action. Pure reason may guide us, but only passion drives us. Interests must align with present understanding to motivate. Education should connect concepts to relatable experiences for meaningful learning. Image of number 10
643 Effects without understood causes, unknown goods and evils, and unmet needs hold no value for us. Without comprehending or desiring them, we don't pursue them. At fifteen, understanding a wise man's happiness is as elusive as understanding paradise's glory at thirty. Convincing a child of utility isn't enough; persuasion is key. Passion drives action, not pure reason. To instill passion, interests must align with current comprehension and needs. Engaging children's understanding and desires is crucial for effective education. Connect learning to relatable experiences to cultivate meaningful engagement, fostering personal growth and resilience for navigating life's complexities confidently. Image of number 10
644 Never expose a child to concepts beyond their perception. Bring complex ideas down to their level. Focus on present utility, avoiding rivalry or competition among peers. Encourage self-improvement, emphasizing surpassing oneself rather than others. Annually assess personal progress, comparing achievements to previous years. Stimulate growth without fostering jealousy. This approach nurtures intrinsic motivation and self-development. Prioritize meaningful learning experiences over competition. By fostering self-awareness and adaptability, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, promoting lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration of the world around us. Image of number 10
645 I dislike books that teach us to talk about unknown things. Hermes engraved science on pillars to preserve it. Minds are the best vessels for knowledge. Can we correlate scattered lessons into a simple, engaging narrative for children? Invent a situation where natural needs are evident to a child, with solutions developing naturally. This portrayal should form early imagination training. By fostering curiosity and practical understanding, we empower learners to explore knowledge effectively. This approach nurtures resilience and personal growth, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing experiential learning cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. Image of number 10
646 Eager philosopher, there's a known book describing natural education better than you could. It's "Robinson Crusoe." This book will be Emile's first read, forming his library's foundation. It complements our talks on natural science, testing judgment and taste. Emile will read it for pleasure, linking imagination and education. This approach fosters curiosity and discovery, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. Image of number 10
647 "Robinson Crusoe" captivates all ages with Robinson's self-sufficiency on an island. It illustrates natural needs and solutions, fostering judgment based on utility. Emile learns to judge through this lens, distinguishing real from imagined needs. This perspective encourages critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
648 Robinson's story, stripped of irrelevancies, will captivate Emile, blending amusement and education. Encourage him to immerse in Robinson's world, imagining himself as the character. Let him analyze Robinson's actions, identifying mistakes and improvements. This hands-on approach fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
649 The child's fascination with building on his island encourages eager learning. He seeks useful knowledge and will surpass the master's teaching. However, guide him cautiously, as his happiness is limited to the island. Soon, companionship will become essential. This experience fosters curiosity, adaptability, and personal growth, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires lifelong learning and discovery through meaningful engagement and exploration, nurturing intellectual and emotional development in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
650 Practicing natural arts leads to exploring industrial arts, requiring collaboration. Physical needs promote self-sufficiency; surplus demands division of labor. While one man's work sustains one, collaboration yields more. Emphasizing cooperation highlights societal interdependence, fostering adaptability and personal growth. By understanding this dynamic, individuals navigate complexities effectively. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's challenges. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration, nurturing intellectual and emotional development in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
651 Shield your student from social concepts beyond their grasp. When illustrating human interdependence, focus on industry and mechanical arts. Encourage hands-on learning in workshops, engaging actively in tasks. Teach by example, becoming an apprentice to empower the student. This approach fosters practical understanding, resilience, and personal growth, preparing individuals for future challenges. Emphasizing hands-on experiences cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic learning environment. Image of number 10
652 Public esteem for arts inversely correlates with utility. Influential arts serving the rich command high prices, while essential ones remain affordable for the poor. Understanding this dynamic highlights societal values. By fostering awareness and adaptability, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic learning environment. Image of number 10
653 Avoid exposing students to societal biases. Prioritize meaningful learning experiences over status-driven pursuits. Discrepancies between perceived and actual value can skew understanding. Emphasizing critical thinking fosters discernment, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
654 Focused on equipping his island, Emile's perspective shifts. He values practical skills over luxury, seeing toolmakers as more valuable than jewelers. Understanding societal dynamics highlights the importance of discernment and adaptability. By fostering critical thinking, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
655 Wisdom in society involves understanding human opinions and prejudices. Emphasizing a realistic perspective fosters adaptability and personal growth. Before teaching sentiments, cultivate appreciation. Perceiving wisdom requires discerning folly. Teach children to understand things intrinsically before exploring societal views. This approach nurtures critical thinking, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity, fostering lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
656 Avoid societal biases that enslave children's minds. Real knowledge of humanity requires extensive understanding. Teach children to value appreciation before imparting sentiments. Distinguish wisdom from folly. This approach fosters critical thinking, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
657 I've refrained from discussing people with my pupil, as he lacks the perspective to understand social relations. Focus on accurate self-awareness and simplicity, using necessity to guide behavior. This approach nurtures practical understanding and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By fostering resilience and personal growth, we prepare learners for future challenges. Emphasizing experiential learning cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a supportive environment. Image of number 10
658 Emile should value things by their utility, valuing iron over gold and glass over diamonds. Honor artisans for practicality. Emile's perspective prioritizes necessity and understanding, promoting resilience and personal growth. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, preparing them for future challenges. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
659 Arts are valued based on necessity and independence. Independent arts are esteemed higher than dependent ones. Understanding societal order fosters critical thinking and adaptability. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. By valuing experiential learning, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
660 Agriculture is the most respected art, followed by metalwork and carpentry. Emile learns from Robinson's resourcefulness, observing how arts depend on division and tools. His perspective emphasizes self-reliance and practicality. Understanding societal dynamics fosters critical thinking and adaptability. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This approach promotes resilience and personal growth, preparing learners for future challenges. By valuing experiential learning, we empower individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
661 Observe the direction of our pupil's curiosity, common-sense, and inventive spirit. He seeks reasons for everything and traces tools back to their origins. He learns only from personal experience, questioning the need for prior knowledge he hasn't acquired. This method fosters critical thinking and self-sufficiency, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and lifelong learning through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
662 Avoid assuming a child's interest mirrors the teacher's enthusiasm. Monitor the child's engagement and feelings, ensuring they find purpose and enjoyment in their tasks. This approach fosters curiosity and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
663 The arts' social dimension lies in exchanges, commerce in exchanging things, and banks in exchanging symbols. These interconnected ideas were introduced in childhood with Robert the gardener. Now, expand on them using trade examples, natural history, arts, sciences, navigation, and transportation. This approach fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery. Image of number 10
664 Society relies on exchange, requiring a common standard for measurement and equality. This foundational principle underlies social interactions. Understanding this dynamic fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
665 Conventional equality requires positive law, government, and laws. A child's political knowledge should be clear and limited, focusing on property rights. Understanding societal structures fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
666 Conventional equality between things led to money's invention as a value comparison tool. Money, society's bond, took various forms: cattle, shells, iron, leather, gold, and silver. Understanding this dynamic fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
667 Metals, convenient for exchange, became coinage to avoid weighing. Coins' stamps denote weight, a ruler's privilege, as testimony for the nation. Understanding societal dynamics fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
668 Even the simplest person can understand this invention's use. Comparing different things, like cloth and corn, is challenging. Money offers a common measure, simplifying exchanges. If cloth and corn equal a certain sum, a fair trade occurs. Money facilitates valuing diverse goods. Understanding this dynamic fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. Image of number 10
669 Don't delve into this institution's moral effects yet. Focus on understanding its use before addressing abuses. Explaining how signs led to neglect and illusions, or how rich countries lack essentials, is too advanced. Few philosophers grasp it. Understanding societal dynamics fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery. Image of number 10
670 A pupil's curiosity explores important, comprehensible relationships, without overwhelming details. Teachers should guide observations toward valuable concepts. This approach nurtures critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
671 Dining in opulence, amidst grandeur, I prompt my pupil to consider the effort behind such a feast. This sparks introspection and curiosity. Guided by a healthy judgment, he reflects on the resources and labor involved. Understanding societal dynamics fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
672 Monitor a child's conclusions from observations. If he feels important from others' labor, address this promptly. He judges worth by personal enjoyment. Comparing simple meals with grand feasts shows no real gain from extravagance. This insight fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
673 A tutor might compare two dinners, questioning which brought more pleasure and genuine enjoyment. Contrasting the simplicity of rustic meals with grand feasts, highlighting local produce and labor, prompts reflection on true satisfaction. This insight fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration. Image of number 10
674 Speak simply, offering choices. Ask if he prefers grandeur or a joyous, simple village meal. Emile's preference for nature and freedom highlights true enjoyment. This insight fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
675 Tailor examples to each child's unique genius. Focus on fostering natural talents and interests in the short time available. Bring forth relevant knowledge to guide development. This approach fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
676 A structured approach to knowledge reveals interconnectedness, countering biases favoring familiar talents. Understanding the whole picture promotes wise judgment over mere expertise. This insight fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
677 This method adapts to individual abilities and suitable occupations. It's not about impressive results but aligning with the learner's type, age, and capabilities for genuine growth. This approach fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
678 After exploring the external world, return to introspection. Beware of potential threats to personal growth. This approach fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
679 Having observed our surroundings, we must utilize what we can, enhancing comfort through curiosity. We've gathered tools, some possibly beneficial to others, revealing the need for exchange. Understanding societal dynamics fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement. Image of number 10
680 Attempting self-sufficiency leads to misery. Society's interconnectedness requires cooperation for survival. Leaving nature compels others to follow. Preservation remains nature's law. Understanding societal dynamics fosters critical thinking and adaptability, empowering individuals to engage with knowledge effectively. By valuing experiential learning, we prepare learners for future challenges, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration in a dynamic, supportive learning environment. Image of number 10
681 A child's understanding of social relations develops early, as they learn the necessity of exchanging tools and possessions to meet their needs. By fostering this awareness, children learn to value cooperation and interdependence, preparing them for active participation in society. Encouraging this understanding nurtures adaptability, critical thinking, and practical problem-solving skills. It fosters curiosity and lifelong learning, emphasizing the importance of meaningful engagement. This approach promotes personal growth, intellectual exploration, and a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing experiential learning, we equip individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities, inspiring curiosity and discovery. Image of number 10
682 A satire writer told a minister, "I must live." The minister replied coldly, "I do not see the necessity." While this response seems apt from a minister, it would be harsh and false otherwise. Everyone must live. The inherent fear of death drives survival. When living requires wrongdoing, the true criminal is the one who forces others into such choices. Societal structures should allow goodness without struggle. In an unjust world, the blame lies with those who create impossible conditions, not the individuals forced into crime. A just society enables virtuous living without sacrifice, preserving inherent humanity and dignity. Image of number 10
683 Once Emile understands life, I'll teach him to preserve it. Status, wealth, or rank are irrelevant, as man remains the same. Needs and means to satisfy them are universal. Education should focus on adaptability, not specific conditions, to prevent future unhappiness if circumstances change. Preparing solely for one status limits adaptability and breeds discontent if fortunes shift. True wisdom equips individuals to maintain dignity and purpose despite changing circumstances, fostering resilience and self-sufficiency. By emphasizing universal human traits over societal constructs, individuals can navigate life's uncertainties with confidence, preserving their sense of self-worth and fulfillment regardless of external circumstances. Image of number 10
684 Society's current order is subject to change, with revolutions impacting future generations. Status and wealth can shift unexpectedly. Acknowledging this prepares individuals for change, fostering resilience. Nature's characteristics endure, unlike societal constructs like royalty or nobility. True strength lies in maintaining identity and dignity regardless of external changes. Emphasizing adaptability equips individuals to face life's uncertainties with confidence, preserving self-worth and fulfillment. By focusing on universal human traits over societal constructs, individuals navigate life's complexities with assurance, fostering personal growth and fulfillment. This approach inspires curiosity and lifelong learning, emphasizing the importance of meaningful engagement and exploration. Image of number 10
685 In society, a man and citizen contribute only themselves. Wealth belongs to society, not the individual. If wealth benefits others, the individual's debt remains unpaid. In society, an individual owes work for sustenance. Without work, idleness equates to theft. A person's contributions should reflect personal effort and responsibility, fostering a sense of duty and purpose. By valuing work and personal contribution, individuals fulfill societal roles, promoting community and well-being. This approach emphasizes self-reliance and personal growth, inspiring curiosity and discovery. It fosters lifelong learning and exploration, nurturing intellectual and emotional development within a supportive, dynamic learning environment. Image of number 10
686 Manual labor, closest to nature, offers independence. Artisans rely on their work, unlike laborers dependent on land. Agriculture remains vital, but I urge Emile to learn a trade. Understanding rural work and trades fosters adaptability and self-sufficiency. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, promoting personal and intellectual growth. Emphasizing practical understanding cultivates a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing experiential learning, we equip individuals with tools for confident, purposeful exploration of life's complexities. This method inspires curiosity and discovery, fostering lifelong learning and exploration through meaningful engagement and thoughtful exploration. Image of number 10
687 Advocating a trade for my son may seem odd, but it ensures an honorable rank he cannot lose. Unlike titles of nobility, a trade offers lasting respect and fewer equals. Preparing individuals with practical skills fosters adaptability, self-sufficiency, and resilience in uncertain times. Emphasizing experiential learning cultivates personal and intellectual growth, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This approach inspires curiosity, discovery, and lifelong learning, promoting a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing practical understanding and meaningful engagement, we empower individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence, fostering personal growth and exploration within a supportive environment. Image of number 10
688 Mastering a trade requires overcoming prejudice, not just learning skills. Embrace artisan work for independence, not necessity. True freedom comes from independence. Challenging societal norms fosters resilience and adaptability. Emphasizing experiential learning cultivates personal growth and intellectual exploration. This approach inspires curiosity, discovery, and lifelong learning, promoting a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing practical understanding and meaningful engagement, we empower individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence, fostering personal growth and exploration within a supportive, dynamic learning environment. This method nurtures intellectual and emotional development, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. Image of number 10
689 I seek a genuine trade, a mechanical art that requires hands more than intellect. In affluent households, foresight leads parents to teach trades alongside academics. This approach emphasizes resilience and adaptability. By valuing practical skills and experiential learning, individuals gain independence. This method promotes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This approach empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence, fostering personal growth and exploration within a supportive, dynamic learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
690 Influence and reputation-dependent arts require societal connections. In politics or art, success hinges on networking. Without favor or access, skills remain untapped. Instead, practical trades offer independence. Fostering adaptability and self-sufficiency equips individuals to thrive. Emphasizing practical skills and experiential learning promotes personal growth and intellectual exploration. This approach inspires curiosity and lifelong learning, fostering a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing practical understanding and meaningful engagement, individuals gain tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
691 Relying on prestige-based resources invites dependency on wealth and status. Pursuing trades fosters independence and freedom from societal constraints. This approach emphasizes resilience and adaptability. By valuing practical skills and experiential learning, individuals gain tools for confident exploration. This method promotes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals to navigate life's complexities. This approach empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth and exploration within a supportive, dynamic learning environment, nurturing intellectual and emotional development for confident, purposeful exploration. Image of number 10
692 Trades offer independence, freeing individuals from societal pressures. Practical skills eliminate the need for deceit or subservience. Fostering adaptability and self-sufficiency equips individuals to thrive. Emphasizing experiential learning promotes personal growth and intellectual exploration. This approach inspires curiosity and lifelong learning, fostering a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment. By valuing practical understanding and meaningful engagement, individuals gain tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence, fostering personal growth and exploration within a supportive environment. This approach nurtures intellectual and emotional development, equipping individuals for confident, purposeful exploration. Image of number 10
693 Choosing an honest, useful trade shapes character. Trades build resilience and adaptability. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth and exploration within a supportive, dynamic learning environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development for purposeful exploration. Image of number 10
694 A famous writer believed in contributing to society by raising children as artisans. Choosing trades like wig making, which could become obsolete, was avoided. Emphasizing practical skills fosters resilience and adaptability. By valuing experiential learning, individuals gain tools for confident exploration. This approach promotes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals to navigate life's complexities. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. This approach nurtures intellectual and emotional development for purposeful exploration. Image of number 10
695 Emile's learned maxims lead him to value useful trades. A trade's worth lies in its real utility. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development for purposeful exploration. Image of number 10
696 When exploring nature and art, observe the child's interests and potential genius. Distinguish genuine talent from imitation, avoiding common errors. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
697 A footman's determination to become an artist exemplifies perseverance. He pursued art tirelessly, achieving modest success. Distinguish genuine talent from imitation. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
698 Choosing a trade is less crucial as manual skills are developed through diverse experiences. Versatility across trades fosters adaptability and self-sufficiency. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
699 Choose trades suited to age and sex. Sedentary work doesn't appeal to the young. Encourage trades that strengthen and invigorate. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
700 Avoid unhealthy trades for pupils, but encourage challenging ones. These foster strength and courage, fitting for men, not women. Fostering practical skills and experiential learning equips individuals to thrive. This approach emphasizes personal growth and intellectual exploration, inspiring curiosity and lifelong learning. Emphasizing practical understanding fosters a deeper connection to well-being and fulfillment, equipping individuals with tools for confident exploration. This method empowers individuals to engage with knowledge effectively, fostering personal growth within a supportive environment. By valuing practical skills and meaningful engagement, individuals gain independence, navigating life's complexities with confidence and cultivating intellectual and emotional development. Image of number 10
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701 In Italy, women are absent from shops, making the streets appear dull compared to England and France. The sight of men handling delicate women's items seemed absurd, prompting the thought that women should engage in trades like steel-polishing. Each gender should craft and sell items suited to them, as knowledge is best gained through practical experience. This highlights the cultural differences in gender roles and emphasizes the value of hands-on learning in gaining expertise, suggesting that tasks should align with the nature and capabilities of those performing them to maximize skill acquisition and effectiveness. Image of number 10
702 Young men should demonstrate masculinity in their work, mastering tools like the ax and plane to build structures. They should confidently climb roofs and secure rafters, showcasing strength and skill. Encouraging collaboration with sisters, who might seek help with needlework, emphasizes shared learning. This approach highlights the importance of gender roles while promoting mutual assistance in different tasks. It suggests that embracing traditional gendered tasks can foster cooperation and understanding between men and women, allowing both to contribute uniquely to shared goals and learning experiences within their capabilities. Image of number 10
703 Although promoting trades may contradict current societal views, the fear of public opinion limits many from embracing manual work. Some view trades as beneath them, bound by societal expectations. Parents' prejudices should be considered if they don't harm children. People aren't obliged to practice every trade, but shouldn't dismiss them. When choosing trades, factors like cleanliness and suitability should be considered. Avoid repetitive trades that lack mental stimulation, as they limit creativity and growth. Prioritizing more engaging and varied work supports intellectual and personal development, encouraging individuals to seek fulfillment in their professional endeavors. Image of number 10
704 Carpentry is the ideal trade for my pupil, combining cleanliness and utility. It allows home practice and provides physical exercise. Carpentry requires skill and industry, offering opportunities for creative expression while crafting everyday items. This trade balances practical skills with aesthetic appreciation, fostering a sense of accomplishment. Carpentry supports personal growth and intellectual development by encouraging hands-on engagement and creativity. Choosing a trade that aligns with personal interests and offers opportunities for innovation and improvement ensures a fulfilling and rewarding pursuit that enhances both individual and community life through practical contributions. Image of number 10
705 If a pupil shows a clear inclination toward speculative sciences, it is commendable to align their trade with their interests. They might learn to craft mathematical instruments, eyeglasses, or telescopes, merging their scientific curiosity with practical skills. This approach supports personal growth and intellectual development, fostering a lifelong passion for learning. Aligning trades with personal inclinations encourages a deeper understanding of one's field, motivating individuals to explore and innovate. By integrating scientific interests into practical trades, individuals can pursue careers that fulfill personal interests and contribute positively to society, bridging the gap between theory and practice. Image of number 10
706 When Emile learns a trade, I will learn alongside him, believing thorough understanding comes from shared experience. Both serving as apprentices, we will not seek special treatment. Historical examples, like Peter the Great, who worked as a ship's carpenter and drummer, illustrate that engaging in manual labor enhances one's understanding and character. Addressed to those guiding education, this approach emphasizes the importance of learning through active participation and shared experiences, demonstrating the value of practical skills. By engaging in trades, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for the work and develop a strong work ethic and humility. Image of number 10
707 Balancing carpentry and personal development is essential, as learning extends beyond the workshop. We must learn to be men, an apprenticeship longer and more challenging than carpentry. Rather than hiring a teacher, we should immerse ourselves in the trade, working full days at the master's workshop. Arriving early, eating together, and working under orders fosters hands-on learning and personal growth. This method emphasizes learning through active participation, fostering skill acquisition and character development. By integrating practical work and life skills, individuals become well-rounded, adaptable, and capable of navigating life's complexities with confidence and competence. Image of number 10
708 Simplicity in actions and intentions is crucial, as pride in overcoming prejudice leads to vanity. Ottomans practice the custom of the sultan working with his hands, creating masterpieces distributed among lords. This practice benefits the ruler by sharing wealth among the elite, reducing the need for direct taxation. Despotism requires such strategies for sustainability. However, these customs risk inflating the ruler's ego and misjudging his worth. By focusing on simple, meaningful work, individuals can maintain humility and authenticity, avoiding the pitfalls of vanity and maintaining a balanced perspective on their contributions and self-worth. Image of number 10
709 This practice inflates a ruler's self-worth, akin to King Midas, unaware of the consequences. Emile should avoid seeking wealth through work, focusing on skill quality. Emphasize that work should be judged by its merits, not the creator. Praise well-made work without inquiring about its maker. If Emile boasts, respond indifferently, valuing the work over the creator. This approach encourages humility, emphasizing skill mastery over recognition. It fosters self-improvement and intrinsic motivation, promoting a growth mindset. By valuing quality work over accolades, individuals focus on genuine skill development and personal growth, avoiding the pitfalls of vanity and inflated self-worth. Image of number 10
710 Parents, be cautious of appearances. If your son knows much, question his knowledge. Educated in Paris and wealthy, he may be ruined. Surrounded by clever artists, he borrows talents but possesses none. In Paris, wealth correlates with knowledge, leaving the poor ignorant. Our capital teems with amateur artists, especially women. Among men, exceptions exist, but none among women. Generally, titles in arts, like those in law, are acquired superficially. This highlights the risks of superficial knowledge and emphasizes the importance of genuine understanding and personal growth over appearances and titles, encouraging deeper learning and authentic mastery of skills. Image of number 10
711 If trades become fashionable, children may adopt them superficially. Avoid this for Emile, focusing on genuine learning, not appearances. Let him create masterpieces without seeking titles. His work should demonstrate skill, not rely on titles. This approach encourages authentic mastery, emphasizing skill development over superficial recognition. By valuing genuine learning and personal growth, individuals become resilient, adaptable, and capable of navigating complex environments. Prioritizing skill development over titles fosters self-improvement, encouraging individuals to focus on meaningful contributions and intrinsic motivation, leading to a fulfilling and purposeful life. Image of number 10
712 I aim to instill reflection and meditation through physical exercise and manual work, countering indolence from freedom from judgment. Emile should work like a peasant and think like a philosopher, avoiding idleness. Education's secret lies in balancing physical and mental exercises, allowing each to relax the other. This approach fosters holistic development, encouraging intellectual and physical growth. By integrating both aspects, individuals develop resilience, adaptability, and a balanced perspective on life. Emphasizing the importance of balance supports personal growth, enabling individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence, competence, and a strong sense of purpose. Image of number 10
713 Avoid prematurely teaching concepts requiring maturity. Emile will soon perceive social inequalities and question them. Observing his proximity to poverty, he may ask why I am distant from it. A rich man owes work to society; what am I doing for it? A wise tutor would not dwell on care given to Emile. Instead, the workshop provides an answer: I'll respond when Emile can satisfy himself. Meanwhile, I'll contribute to others and make useful items weekly, avoiding uselessness. This approach encourages critical thinking, self-awareness, and a commitment to contributing positively to society, fostering a sense of purpose. Image of number 10
714 We have returned to ourselves. Emile is ready to become an individual, feeling his connection to things. We exercised his body, senses, mind, and judgment, integrating his faculties. He's now active and thoughtful. To make him a man, we must foster sensitivity, refining reason with sentiment. Before advancing, let's reflect on our progress. This journey emphasizes the holistic development of physical, mental, and emotional faculties. By nurturing these aspects, individuals become well-rounded, adaptable, and capable of navigating life's complexities. This approach promotes self-awareness, critical thinking, and empathy, fostering personal growth and meaningful connections with others. Image of number 10
715 Initially, our pupil experienced sensations, but now he has ideas. He transitioned from feeling to judging. By comparing successive sensations and forming judgments, he develops complex sensations or ideas. This progression highlights the development of cognitive abilities and critical thinking. By fostering the ability to form ideas from sensory experiences, individuals gain the skills necessary for independent thought and problem-solving. This approach emphasizes the importance of nurturing cognitive development through experiential learning, enabling individuals to navigate life's challenges with confidence and competence, fostering a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them. Image of number 10
716 The formation of ideas shapes the mind. A mind using real relations is solid, while one content with appearances is superficial. Accurate judgment stems from understanding true relations. Imagining non-existent relations is madness; seeing none is imbecility. The ability to compare ideas determines intelligence. This approach emphasizes the importance of accurate perception and critical thinking. By fostering these skills, individuals develop intellectual resilience and adaptability. Emphasizing real over apparent relations promotes a deeper understanding of the world, enabling individuals to make informed decisions and navigate complex situations with confidence and competence. Image of number 10
717 Simple ideas arise from compared sensations, while simple sensations involve judgments. In sensation, judgment is passive, affirming feelings. In perception, judgment is active, connecting and comparing relations beyond sensory input. This distinction highlights the evolution of cognitive abilities from passive to active engagement. By nurturing the ability to form judgments based on perception, individuals develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. This approach emphasizes the importance of active engagement with the world, fostering intellectual growth and resilience. By understanding the difference between passive and active judgment, individuals can navigate life's challenges with confidence and competence. Image of number 10
718 An eight-year-old given ice cream mistakenly cries, "It burns!" He equates sharp sensations with heat, revealing a judgment error, not a sensory one. This illustrates the importance of accurate interpretation of sensory input. By fostering critical thinking and experience, individuals can refine their judgments and avoid errors. This approach emphasizes the value of understanding and learning from sensory experiences, enabling individuals to make informed decisions and navigate complex situations with confidence. By cultivating the ability to interpret sensations accurately, individuals develop resilience and adaptability, fostering intellectual growth and a deeper understanding of the world. Image of number 10
719 Mistakes arise when judgments are based on appearances rather than reality. For instance, seeing a mirror or entering a cellar may deceive, but experience corrects errors. By relying on passive judgments, people avoid mistakes. Active judgments, comparing perceived relations, can lead to errors. Experience prevents mistakes by refining judgment. This approach emphasizes the importance of experience in shaping accurate perceptions and critical thinking. By fostering experiential learning, individuals develop resilience and adaptability, enabling them to navigate complex situations with confidence and competence, fostering intellectual growth and a deeper understanding of themselves and the world. Image of number 10
720 Show a pupil clouds passing the moon; he'll assume the moon moves because clouds appear larger. From a boat, he thinks the shore moves. These errors illustrate the need for experience to correct judgments. By fostering experiential learning, individuals develop accurate perceptions and critical thinking. This approach emphasizes the value of understanding and interpreting sensory input, enabling individuals to make informed decisions. By cultivating experience and critical thinking, individuals gain resilience and adaptability, fostering intellectual growth and a deeper understanding of themselves and the world, empowering them to navigate life's complexities confidently and competently. Image of number 10
721 When a child first sees a stick partially submerged in water, it appears broken. This is not a false perception but a misjudgment when he insists it is truly broken. The child makes an assumption, not based on observation but on a false belief that one sense would confirm the other. This error arises from his active judgment rather than from a simple perception, illustrating how our senses can be true but misleading without further analysis. Image of number 10
722 Errors originate from judgment, so if judgment were unnecessary, mistakes would be absent, making ignorance preferable to misleading knowledge. Although the learned acquire many truths, their growing knowledge leads to increased errors, distancing them from truth. Thus, learned societies, such as the Academy of Sciences, harbor more errors than simpler, less knowledgeable communities. This highlights the paradox where increased knowledge often brings greater opportunities for false judgments, making ignorance a more stable state. Image of number 10
723 Greater knowledge leads to more mistakes, so ignorance is the safest way to avoid errors. Without forming judgments, one cannot be wrong. Nature and reason both teach us to remain indifferent to all but the most immediate, perceptible matters. For example, a savage, unaffected by complex machinery or electricity, exemplifies this wisdom, often asking, "What does that matter to me?" This highlights the advantage of indifference and wisdom over an overwhelming pursuit of knowledge. Image of number 10
724 Curiosity arises from dependency, hence our curiosity grows with our needs. Philosophers are naturally curious due to their reliance on others, contrasting with savages who need no assistance. Savages, self-reliant and unconcerned with others’ admiration, have no need for curiosity, emphasizing the difference in dependence and curiosity between a philosopher and a self-sufficient savage. This shows how societal living breeds curiosity and a need for acceptance, whereas isolation fosters independence and indifference. Image of number 10
725 Nature uses need, not opinion, to choose and organize its instruments. A person’s needs vary based on circumstances. There’s a significant difference between a natural man in nature and one in society. Emile, designed for urban life, isn’t a savage meant for the wilderness. He must learn to survive and thrive in the city, interact effectively with its people, and live among them. His education focuses on practical living in society rather than isolation in nature. Image of number 10
726 As Emile faces numerous new relationships, judging becomes inevitable. Therefore, he must be taught to judge well. Proper judgment is crucial because, amidst these complex interactions, he needs to navigate life effectively and make informed decisions. Teaching Emile to judge well prepares him to handle these interactions wisely, enabling him to thrive in his environment. This necessity to judge, despite personal inclinations, underscores the importance of developing good judgment in navigating complex social dynamics. Image of number 10
727 The best way to learn to judge well is by simplifying experiences and eventually avoiding them without error. Initially, we verify experiences from one sense with another. Ultimately, each sense experience should verify itself, turning sensations into ideas that align with the truth. This approach characterizes the third age of human life. By fostering self-verifying ideas, individuals develop reliable judgment, aligning their sensations and experiences with reality through independent reasoning, a hallmark of mature understanding. Image of number 10
728 Effective learning demands patience and circumspection, often lacking in teachers. When a pupil misperceives a stick in water as broken, quickly correcting him teaches little. Instead, letting him discover the truth independently fosters understanding. For instance, Emile learns not by being told, but through guided exploration. Teaching involves helping students discover truth themselves, not simply correcting mistakes, fostering independent thinking and problem-solving skills, enabling them to navigate reality and build accurate, self-derived understanding. Image of number 10
729 A traditionally educated child would likely affirm seeing a broken stick. However, Emile, not pressured to exhibit scholarship, refrains from hasty conclusions without evidence. Aware of the illusion-prone nature of appearances, Emile remains cautious in judgment. This reflects his understanding of perspective’s deceptive potential. Emile’s reluctance to draw conclusions without certainty highlights his discerning approach, emphasizing evidence-based judgment over premature assertions, embodying a cautious, informed perspective in interpreting visual stimuli and sensory experiences. Image of number 10
730 Emile, aware of the hidden purpose in seemingly frivolous questions, avoids hasty answers. He examines carefully, seeking satisfaction in his conclusions. Pride lies not in knowing, but in avoiding errors. Emile and I often use "I do not know," accepting uncertainty without shame. Whether Emile answers naively or not, we explore together, emphasizing examination and reflection over immediate correctness, fostering a mindset focused on learning through inquiry and thoughtful consideration rather than rushed judgment. Image of number 10
731 To verify if a stick is broken without removing it from water, observe: 1) Walk around it; the "break" moves, indicating a visual illusion. 2) Look straight down; the stick appears straight, confirming the eye’s role. 3) Stir the water; the stick seems fragmented, showing water's influence. 4) As water recedes, the stick appears straight, demonstrating refraction. These observations reveal truth without removing the stick, illustrating how careful analysis corrects perceived errors and clarifies sensory misinterpretations. Image of number 10
732 If a child remains oblivious to these visual tests, use touch to aid sight. Instead of removing the stick, let the child run his hand along it. Feeling no bend, he realizes the stick isn’t broken. This tactile confirmation reinforces the lesson, demonstrating how multisensory approaches can dispel misconceptions. By engaging multiple senses, the child learns to trust his observations and develop a more comprehensive understanding, integrating tactile evidence with visual perception to validate reality. Image of number 10
733 This approach involves reasoning, but judgment and reasoning are inherently linked once ideas form. Every sensation’s consciousness constitutes a proposition, a judgment. Comparing sensations initiates reasoning. Thus, judging and reasoning are identical. As understanding develops, reasoning becomes intrinsic to judgment, highlighting the intertwined nature of perception and analysis. This recognition underscores the natural progression from sensation to reasoning, where judgment serves as the bridge between basic perception and complex cognitive processing, unifying thought processes. Image of number 10
734 Emile won’t learn optics without firsthand experience. He hasn’t dissected insects or counted sunspots. He’s unaware of microscopes or telescopes. Your educated pupils may mock his ignorance, rightly so, for I want him to invent before using such tools. This delay highlights Emile’s focus on discovery over knowledge acquisition. By fostering creative inquiry, Emile learns to value invention over rote understanding, encouraging independent exploration and innovation, emphasizing the process of learning through personal discovery. Image of number 10
735 At this stage, if a child rolls a ball between crossed fingers, perceiving two balls, I won’t let him look until convinced there’s only one. This method fosters critical thinking by challenging perceptions. By delaying resolution, the child learns to question initial impressions, promoting careful analysis. This approach emphasizes patience and critical reflection, teaching children to trust their reasoning over immediate sensory interpretations, cultivating an inquisitive mindset that values thoughtful evaluation over quick conclusions. Image of number 10
736 These explanations clarify my pupil’s mental development and his learning path. You may worry about overwhelming him with knowledge, but I teach him ignorance over knowledge. I guide him on a long, far-reaching journey of science, taking small steps without rushing. He recognizes the entrance but doesn’t advance far. This approach emphasizes gradual, deep understanding over rapid accumulation of information, fostering a measured, thoughtful pursuit of knowledge that values the journey over immediate acquisition. Image of number 10
737 Emile learns through his own reasoning, not others’. Avoiding opinion means disregarding authority, as most errors come from external influence. This exercise builds mental strength, akin to physical fitness from labor. Advancement matches strength; neither mind nor body is overburdened. Understanding assimilates knowledge before storing it, ensuring personal relevance. Unlike mere memorization, this method prioritizes meaningful comprehension, equipping Emile to retrieve and apply knowledge effectively, fostering genuine understanding over rote memorization and reliance on authority. Image of number 10
738 Emile knows little but deeply understands what he knows. He recognizes vast ignorance and the potential for learning. He acknowledges many things he’ll never know and an infinity beyond human understanding. His universal mind is characterized by the ability to learn, not knowledge. Open-minded and ready, Emile values truth. Slow progress ensures no wasted steps. He seeks the "Why" and "Wherefore" of beliefs and actions, prioritizing truth-seeking and independent acquisition over mere accumulation of facts. Image of number 10
739 Emile’s knowledge is rooted in nature and tangible things, unaware of history, metaphysics, or morals. He knows essential relations between people and objects, but not interpersonal morals. He struggles with generalizations and abstractions, understanding qualities without analysis. Geometry teaches him spatial abstraction, algebraic symbols teach quantitative abstraction. He grasps concepts through their practical relations. His judgments relate to self-interest, unaided by fantasy or convention, valuing usefulness. Emile's knowledge is pragmatic and self-reliant, emphasizing functional understanding. Image of number 10
740 Emile is diligent, patient, and courageous. His calm imagination minimizes dangers; he suffers little and accepts fate. Death is unknown to him, but he’s ready to die without resistance when necessary. This acceptance reflects nature’s demand at life’s end. Living freely, detached from human concerns, best prepares for death. Emile’s ability to endure hardship without protest exemplifies resilience and acceptance, aligning with nature’s inevitability. He lives a balanced, free life, learning to face mortality calmly. Image of number 10
741 Emile embodies personal virtue, lacking only social virtues derived from necessary relationships. He is open to receiving this knowledge. Understanding these connections will complete his virtue. Prepared for societal integration, Emile’s foundation of personal virtue makes him receptive to learning social ethics, bridging his personal morality with communal values. This readiness signifies his potential for harmonious social interaction, emphasizing the importance of relational knowledge in complementing individual virtues, preparing Emile for meaningful participation in society. Image of number 10
742 Emile regards himself independently, unconcerned with others’ opinions. He expects nothing and feels no obligation, relying solely on himself. At his age, he is as complete as possible. He has few errors and vices, maintaining a healthy body, agile mind, and untroubled heart. Self-esteem is minimal, and he lives contentedly, free, and in harmony with nature. Emile’s self-reliance, minimal ego, and contentment reflect a life unburdened by societal expectations, exemplifying a pure, untroubled existence at fifteen. Image of number 10
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743 How rapidly we pass through life on earth! The first quarter of life slips away before we know how to use it; the last quarter slips away after we have ceased to enjoy it. At first we do not know how to live; soon we are not able to live. In the interval between these two useless extremes three-quarters of the time left to us is consumed by sleep, work, pain, constraints, and every kind of suffering. Life is short, less because of the little time it lasts than because we have hardly any time to savor what little of it there is. In vain is the moment of death set apart from that of birth; life is always too short when this space is badly filled. Image of number 10
744 We are born, so to speak, twice: once to exist, the other to live; one time for our species and another for our sex. Those who regard woman as an imperfect man are wrong without doubt, but the analogy based on externals supports them. Up to the age of puberty children of both sexes have nothing to distinguish them in appearance. They both have the same face, the same figure, the same complexion, the same voice -- everything is equal. Girls are children and boys are children; the same name suffices for beings so similar. Males whose later sexual development has been impeded preserve this resemblance all their lives; they are always big children; and women who never lose this resemblance seem in many ways never to be anything else. Image of number 10
745 But man in general is not meant to remain always in childhood. He will leave it at the time prescribed by nature; and this moment of crisis, although very short, has long-term influences. Image of number 10
746 Like the rumbling of the sea that precedes a storm from afar, so the murmur of rising passions announces this tumultuous revolution. A bubbling undercurrent warns of the approaching danger. Changes of temper, frequent outbreaks of anger, a continual agitation of the mind, make the child almost ungovernable. He becomes deaf to the voice that used to make him manageable; he is a lion in a fever. He disregards his guide; he wants no longer to be controlled. Image of number 10
747 Along with the moral symptoms of a changing temper come perceptible changes in appearance. His face develops and takes on the stamp of his character; the soft and sparse down at the base of his cheeks becomes darker and takes on consistency. His voice changes, or rather he loses it altogether; he is neither a child nor a man and cannot take the tone of either. His eyes, those organs of the soul which have said nothing until now, find their own language and expression. A growing fire animates them. Their livelier glances still have a sacred innocence, but they no longer keep their earlier dumbness; he already feels that they can say too much. He begins to know how to lower them and blush. He is becoming sensitive before knowing that he feels; he is restless without reason. All this may come slowly and still give you time; but if his vivacity makes him too impatient, if outbursts change into fury, if he becomes angry then gentle from one moment to the next, if he weeps without cause, if in the presence of objects which are beginning to be a source of danger his pulse quickens and his eyes light up, if he trembles when a woman's hand touches his, if he is troubled or timid in her presence, 0 Ulysses, wise Ulysses! take care! The goatskin sacks you sealed with so much care are open; the winds are unloosed; do not leave the helm for a minute or all is lost. Image of number 10
748 This is the second birth I spoke of. It is now that man is truly born to life and that nothing human is foreign to him. Until now our efforts have been child's play; it is only now that they take on a true importance. This period when ordinary educations end is just the time when ours ought to begin. But to explain this new plan properly, let us review from a distance the state of things that relate to it. Image of number 10
749 Our passions are the principal means of our self-preservation; it is therefore an enterprise as vain as it is ridiculous to wish to destroy them. That would be to control nature, to wish to reform the work of God. If God told man to annihilate the passions he gives him, God would both will and not will; he would contradict himself. He has never given such an insane command; nothing like it is written on the human heart, and what God wants a man to do, he does not have it said by another man, he says it to him himself. He writes it in the bottom of his heart. Image of number 10
750 Now I consider anyone who would prevent the birth of the passions almost as foolish as he who would like to annihilate them; and those who believe that this has been my project up until now have strongly misunderstood me. Image of number 10
751 But would we be reasoning correctly, if from the fact that passions are natural to man, we went on to conclude that all of the passions we feel in ourselves and that we see in others are natural? Their source is natural, it is true; but they have been swollen by a thousand other streams; they are a great river that is constantly growing and in which one can scarcely find a few drops of the original stream. Our natural passions are very limited; they are the instruments of our liberty, they tend to preserve us. All those which subjugate and destroy us come to us from elsewhere. Nature does not give them to us; we appropriate them at her expense. Image of number 10
752 The source of our passions, the origin and principle of all the others, the only one that is born with man and never leaves him as long as he lives, is amour de soi -- a passion that is primitive, innate, anterior to any other, and of which all the others are in a sense only modifications. In this sense, if you like, they are all natural. But most of these modifications have external causes without which they would never occur, and these same modifications, far from being advantageous to us, are harmful. They change the original purpose and work against their principle, Then it is that man finds himself outside nature and puts himself in contradiction with himself. Image of number 10
753 Amour de soi-même is always good and always in accordance with order. Each of us being charged especially with our own preservation, the first and the most important of our cares is and ought to be to ceaselessly watch over it; and how can we continually watch over it, if we do not take the greatest interest in it? Image of number 10
754 We must therefore love ourselves in order to preserve ourselves, and it follows directly from this same sentiment that we love that which preserves us. Every child clings to its nurse; Romulus must have clung to the she-wolf who suckled him. At first this attachment is purely mechanical. That which favors the well-being of an individual attracts him, that which harms him repells him; this is nothing but blind instinct. What transforms this instinct into feeling -- the attachment into love, the aversion into hatred -- is the manifested intention to help us or to harm us. We do not become passionately attached to insensitive objects that only follow the direction given them. But those from which we expect either good or evil from their internal disposition, from their will, those we see acting freely for or against us, inspire us with feelings similar to those they show towards us. Something does us good, we seek it out; but we love the person who does us good. Something harms us, and we shrink from it; but we hate the person who tries to hurt us. Image of number 10
755 The child's first sentiment is to love himself, and the second, which derives from the first, is to love those around him. For in his present state of weakness he is aware of people only through the help and attention he receives from them. At first his affection for his nurse and his governess is mere habit. He seeks them because he needs them and because it feels good to have them; it is more like consciousness than benevolence. He needs a long time to understand that not only are they are useful to him but that they want to be useful to him. It is then that he begins to love them. Image of number 10
756 So a child is naturally disposed to kindly feeling because he sees that every one about him is inclined to help him, and he gets from this observation the habit of a sentiment favorable to his species. But as he expands his relations, his needs, his active or passive dependencies, the feeling of his relations to others awakens and produces a feeling of duties and preferences. Then the child becomes imperious, jealous, deceitful, and vindictive. When he is coerced to obey, if he does not see the usefulness of what he is told to do, he attributes it to caprice, to an intention of tormenting him, and he rebels. When, on the other hand, people obey him, then as soon as anything opposes him he regards it as rebellion, as an intention to resist him; he beats the chair or table for disobeying him. Amour de soi, which concerns only ourselves, is content when our true needs are satisfied; but amour-propre, which makes comparisons, is never satisfied and never can be. For this sentiment, which prefers ourselves to others, requires also that others prefer us to themselves, which is impossible. This is how the gentle and affectionate passions are born from amour de soi, and how the hateful and irascible passions are born from amour propre. Thus what makes man essentially good is to have few needs and to compare himself little with others; what makes him essentially evil is to have many needs and to depend much on opinion. By this principle it is easy to see how one can direct to good or evil all the passions of children and of men. It is true that being unable to live always alone they will with difficulty always be good. This problem will by necessity even increase with their relations; and it is in this above all else that the dangers of society make art and care more indispensable in order to prevent in the human heart the depravity that is born with these new needs. Image of number 10
757 The proper study for man is that of his relations. As long as he only knows himself through his physical being, he should study himself in relation with things. This is the occupation of his childhood. When he begins to feel his moral being, he should study himself in relation with men. This is the occupation of his entire life, to be begun at the point where we have now arrived. Image of number 10
758 As soon as a man needs a companion he is no longer an isolated being; his heart is no longer alone. All his relations with his species, all the affections of his heart, come into being along with this. His first passion soon arouses the rest. Image of number 10
759 The direction of the instinct is uncertain. One sex is attracted by the other; that is movement of nature. Choice, preferences, personal attachments, are the work of enlightenment, prejudice, and habit. Time and knowledge are necessary to make us capable of love; we do not love until after having judged or prefer until after having compared. These judgments happen without anyone being aware of them, but they are for that not less real. True love, whatever one may say about it, will always be honored by man. For although its transports lead us astray, although it does not exclude from the heart certain detestable qualities and even can give rise to them, yet it always presupposes certain estimable characteristics without which we would be incapable of feeling that love. This choice that people put in opposition to reason really springs from reason. We say love is blind because its eyes are better than ours, and it sees relations that we cannot perceive. For a person who had no idea of merit or of beauty all women would be equally good, and the first comer would always be the most lovable. Far from coming from nature, love is the rule and the curb of nature's leanings. It is love that makes one sex indifferent to the other, the loved one alone excepted. Image of number 10
760 We wish to obtain the same preference that we grant; so love must be reciprocal. To be loved one must be lovable; to be preferred one must be more lovable than another -- more lovable than all the others, at least in the eyes of the beloved. Hence the first regards towards one's peers; hence the first comparisons with them; hence emulation, rivalry, and jealousy. A heart full of an overflowing sentiment loves to expand; from the need for a mistress there soon springs the need for a friend. He who feels how sweet it is to be loved desires to be loved by everyone; and there could be no preferences if there were not many disappointments. With love and friendship are born dissension, enmity, hatred. From the heart of so many passions I see opinion raising its unshakable throne, and foolish mortals, enslaved by its empire, base their very existence merely on what other people think. Image of number 10
761 Extend these ideas and you will see where we get the form of amour-propre that we imagine is natural, and how amour de soi, ceasing to be an absolute sentiment, becomes pride in great minds, vanity in small ones, and in both ceaselessly feeds itself at the expense of one's neighbor. Passions of this kind have no seed in a child's heart and cannot spring up in it by themselves; it is we who carry them there, and they would never take root except through our own fault. But it is not so with the heart of a young man. Whatever we do such passions will appear in spite of us. It is therefore time to change our method. Image of number 10
762 Let us begin with some important reflections on the critical stage under discussion. The passage from childhood to puberty is not so clearly determined by nature that it doesn't vary in individuals according temperament and in peoples according to climate. Everybody knows the differences which have been observed in this regard between hot and cold countries, and every one sees that ardent temperaments mature earlier than others. But we may be mistaken as to the causes, and we may often attribute to physical causes what is really due to moral: this is one of the commonest errors in the philosophy of our times. The teachings of nature come late and slow, those of men are almost always premature. In the first case, the senses awaken the imagination, in the second the imagination awakens the senses; it gives them a precocious activity which cannot fail to enervate, to weaken first the individual and, in the long run, the species. A more general and more sure observation than the one about the effect of the climates is that puberty and sexual power is always more precocious among educated and civilized peoples than among the ignorant and barbarous ones. Children have a singular capacity to discern immoral habits beneath the tricks of decency with which they are concealed. The purified speech dictated to them, the lessons in good behavior they are given, the veil of mystery people affect to hang before their eyes, are so many pricks to their curiosity. From the way you go about it, it is clear that they are meant to learn what you profess to conceal; and of all you teach them this is most quickly assimilated. Image of number 10
763 Consult experience and you will understand to what point this insane method accelerates the work of nature and ruins the temperament. This is one of the principle causes of the degeneration of the race in our cities. The young people, prematurely exhausted, remain small, feeble, misshapen; they grow old instead of growing up -- like the vine that is forced to bear fruit in spring fades and dies before autumn. Image of number 10
764 One must have lived among rude and simple people to know to what age a happy ignorance may prolong the innocence of children. It is a sight both touching and amusing to see both sexes, left to the protection of their own hearts, continuing the sports of childhood into the flower of youth and beauty and showing by their very familiarity the purity of their pleasures. When finally those lovable young people marry, they are mutually exchanging the first fruits of their person and thereby become all the more dear to each other. Multitudes of healthy robust children are the pledges of a union which nothing can alter and the products of the wisdom of their early years. Image of number 10
765 If the age at which a man becomes conscious of his sex differs as much by the effects of education as by the action of nature, it follows that one may accelerate or delay this age according to the way in which one raises one's children; and if the body gains or loses consistency in proportion as one delays or accelerates this progress, it also follows that the more we try to delay it the stronger and more vigorous will the young man be. I am still speaking of purely physical effects; we will soon see that we are not limited to them. Image of number 10
766 From these reflections I derive a solution to the question, so often discussed, of whether it is better to enlighten children early on as to the objects of their curiosity or to put them off with modest lies. I think that one need do neither. In the first place, this curiosity will not come to them unless one provides the occasion for it; we must therefore make sure not to provide the occasion for it. In the second place, questions one is not forced to answer do not require us to deceive those who ask them. It is better to impose silence than to answer by lying. He will not be greatly surprised by this law if you have already accustomed him to it in matters of no importance. Finally, if you decide to answer his questions, do it with the greatest simplicity -- without mystery, without embarrassment, without smiles. It is much less dangerous to satisfy a child's curiosity than to excite it. Image of number 10
767 Your answers should always be grave, brief, decided, and without seeming to hesitate. I need not add that they should be true. We cannot teach children the danger of telling lies to men without realizing, on the man's part, the greater danger of telling lies to children. A single lie on the part of the teacher will forever ruin the fruit of his education. Image of number 10
768 Complete ignorance with regard to certain matters is perhaps the best thing for children; but let them learn very early those things that are impossible to hide from them forever. Either their curiosity must never be aroused in any way, or it must be satisfied before the age when it becomes a source of danger. Your conduct towards your pupil in this respect depends greatly on his particular situation, the society which surrounds him, the circumstances you predict he may find himself in, etc. It is important here that nothing be left to chance; and if you are not sure of keeping him in ignorance about the difference between the sexes until he is sixteen, take care that he learns it before he is ten. Image of number 10
769 I do not like people to affect a purified language in speaking with children, nor to make long detours in order to avoid giving things their true name. They are always found out if they do. Good manners in these things have much simplicity; but an imagination soiled by vice makes the ear over-sensitive and compels us to be constantly refining our expressions. Gross terms are without consequence; it is lascivious ideas which must be avoided. Image of number 10
770 Although modesty is natural to man, children do not have it naturally. Modesty only begins with the knowledge of evil; and how should children who do not and should not have this knowledge have the sentiment which results from it? To give them lessons in modesty and good conduct is to teach them that there are things shameful and bad, and to give them a secret desire to know what these things are. Sooner or later they will find out, and the first spark which touches the imagination will certainly hasten the kindling of the senses. Anyone who blushes is already guilty; true innocence is ashamed of nothing. Image of number 10
771 Children do not have the same desires as men; but subjected like them to the same improprieties which offend the senses, they may with regard to this one subjection receive the same lessons in decency. Follow the spirit of nature, which has located in the same place the organs of secret pleasures and those of disgusting needs. Nature teaches us the same precautions at different ages, sometimes by means of one idea and sometimes by another -- to the man through modesty, to the child through cleanliness. Image of number 10
772 I can only find one good way of preserving the child's innocence; that is have all those who surround him respect and love it. Without this all our efforts to keep him in ignorance fail sooner or later. A smile, a wink, a careless gesture tell him all we sought to hide; it is enough to let him know that there is something we want to hide from him. The delicate phrases and expressions used by polite people among each other assume a knowledge which children ought not to possess and are inappropriate for them. But when we truly honor the child's simplicity we easily find in talking to him the simple phrases which are suitable. There is a certain naiveté of language that is suitable and pleasing to innocence; this is the right tone to adopt in order to distract the child from a dangerous curiosity. By speaking simply to him about everything you do not let him suspect there is anything left unsaid. By connecting coarse words with the unpleasant ideas which belong to them, you quench the first spark of imagination. You do not forbid the child to say these words or to form these ideas; but without him thinking about it you make recalling them repugnant to him. And how much confusion is spared to those who speaking from the heart always say the right thing, and say it as they themselves have felt it! Image of number 10
773 "How are babies made?" -- an embarrassing question that occurs very naturally to children, and one which foolishly or wisely answered sometimes can determine their habits and their health for life. The quickest way for a mother to avoid it without deceiving her son is to impose silence on him. This would be fine if he has always been accustomed to it in matters of no importance and if he does not suspect some mystery from this new tone. But rarely does the mother stop there. "It is the married people's secret," she will say, "little boys should not be so curious." This is good for getting the mother out of an embarrassing situation, but she must know that the little boy, piqued by her scornful manner, will not have a moment's rest until he has found out the married people's secret, and he will not take long to learn it. Image of number 10
774 Permit me to recount a very different answer which I heard given to the same question, one which struck me all the more coming as it did from a woman as modest in speech as in her manners, but who, when the need arose, was able to throw aside the false fear of blame and the vain jests of the foolish for the welfare of her child and for the cause of virtue. Not long before the child had passed a small stone in his urine which had torn the urethra, but the trouble was over and forgotten. "Mamma," said the eager child, "how are children made?" "My child," replied his mother without hesitation, "women piss them out with pains that sometimes cost them their life." Let fools laugh and silly people be scandalized; but let the wise inquire if it is possible to find a more judicious answer and one which would better serve its purpose. Image of number 10
775 In the first place the thought of a natural and known need turns the child's thoughts away from the idea of a mysterious process. The accompanying ideas of pain and death cover it with a veil of sadness which deadens the imagination and suppresses curiosity; everything leads the mind to the results, not the causes, of child-birth. The infirmities of human nature, disgusting objects, images of suffering -- these are the elucidations that the response would lead to if the repugnance inspired by the answer allowed the child to inquire further. How could any agitation of the desires have the chance to develop in conversations directed in this way? And yet you see the truth has not been altered and that there is no need to deceive one's pupil in order to instruct him. Image of number 10
776 Your children read; in the course of their reading they get knowledge they would never have if they had not read. If they study, their imagination is fired up and sharpened in the silence of the library. If they move in the world of society, they hear a strange jargon, they see examples of things that shock them. They have been so well persuaded that they are men, that in everything men do in their presence they immediately try to find how that will suit themselves; the actions of others must indeed serve as a model when the opinions of others are their law. Servants who are made to depend on them, and consequently are anxious to please them, court them at the expense of their morals. Giggling governesses make propositions to the four-year-old child which the most shameless woman would not dare to make when he is fifteen. They soon forget what they said, but the child has not forgotten what he heard. Loose conversation prepares the way for licentious conduct; the child is debauched by the cunning lacquey, and the secret of the one guarantees the secret of the other. Image of number 10
777 The child brought up in accordance with his age is alone. He knows no attachment but that of habit. He loves his sister like his watch and his friend like his dog. He is unconscious of his sex and his species; men and women are alike unknown; he does not connect either what they say or what they do with himself; he neither sees nor hears, or he pays no attention to them. Their speeches do not interest him any more than their examples; all that is not made for him. This is no artificial error induced by our method, it is the ignorance of nature. The time will come when even nature will take care to enlighten her pupil, and only then does she make him capable of profiting without danger from the lessons that she gives him. This is our principle. The details of its rules are not my subject, and the means I propose with regard to other matters will still serve to illustrate this one. Image of number 10
778 Do you wish to establish order and rule among the rising passions? Then prolong the period of their development, so that they may have time to find their proper place as they arise. Then it is not man who orders them but nature herself; your task is merely to leave it in her hands. If your pupil were alone, you would have nothing to do; but everything that surrounds him enflames his imagination. A flood of prejudices sweeps him along. In order to hold him back one must push him in the opposite direction. Feeling must enchain the imagination and reason must silence the opinion of men. The source of all the passions is sensibility; the imagination determines their course Every being that is aware of his relations must be affected when these relations change and when he imagines or believes he imagines others better adapted to his nature. It is the errors of the imagination which transform into vices the passions of all finite beings, even of angels, if indeed they have passions; for it would be necessary to know the nature of every creature to realize what relations are best adapted to oneself. Image of number 10
779 This is the sum of human wisdom with regard to the use of the passions: 1: to feel the true relations of man both in the species and the individual; 2: to order all the affections in accordance with these relations. Image of number 10
780 But can man master the ordering of his affections according to such and such relations? No doubt he can master the direction of his imagination on this or that object, or to form this or that habit. Moreover, it is less a question here what a man can do for himself than it is with what we can do for our pupil through our choice of the circumstances in which he shall be placed. To show the means by which he may be kept in the path of nature is to say enough about enough how one might stray from that path. Image of number 10
781 So long as his consciousness is confined to himself there is no morality in his actions. It is only when it begins to extend beyond himself that he forms first the sentiments and then the ideas of good and bad, which make him truly a man and an integral part of his species. To begin with we must therefore confine our observations to this point. Image of number 10
782 These observations are difficult to make, for we must reject the examples before our eyes, and seek out those in which the successive developments follow the order of nature. Image of number 10
783 A sophisticated, polished, and civilized child, who is only awaiting the power to put into practice the precocious instruction he has received, is never mistaken with regard to the moment when this power is acquired. Far from awaiting it, he accelerates it. He stirs his blood to a premature ferment; he knows what should be the object of his desires long before those desires are experienced. It is not nature which stimulates him; it is he who forces nature. She has nothing to teach him by making him a man; he was a man in thought long before he was a man in reality. Image of number 10
784 The true course of nature is slower and more gradual. Little by little the blood grows warmer, the faculties expand, the character is formed. The wise workman who directs the process is careful to perfect all these instruments before putting them to work. The first desires are preceded by a long period of unrest, they are deceived by a prolonged ignorance, they know not what they want. The blood ferments and becomes agitated; a superabundance of life seeks to extend itself outwards. The eye grows animated and surveys others; we begin to be interested in those around us; we begin to feel that we are not meant to live alone. Thus the heart opens itself to human affections and becomes capable of attachment. Image of number 10
785 The first sentiment that the well-raised young man is susceptible to is not love but friendship. The first action of his rising imagination is to teach him that he has fellow human beings and that the species affects him before the sex. Here is another advantage of prolonged innocence: you may take advantage of his dawning sensibility to sow the first seeds of humanity in the heart of the young adolescent. This advantage is all the more precious because this is the only time in his life when such efforts may be truly successful. Image of number 10
786 I have always observed that young men corrupted early on and given over to women and debauchery are inhuman and cruel. Their passionate temperament makes them impatient, vindictive, and angry. Their imagination fixes on one object only, and refuses all the rest; they know neither pity nor mercy; they would have sacrificed father, mother, the whole world, to the least of their pleasures. A young man, on the other hand, who is brought up in happy simplicity is drawn by the first stirrings of nature to the tender and affectionate passions. His compassionate heart is touched by the sufferings of his fellow-creatures; he trembles with delight when he meets his friend. His arms know how to embrace tenderly, his eyes know how to shed tears of tenderness. He is sensitive to the shame of displeasing and to the remorse of having offended. If the eager warmth of his blood makes him quick, hasty, and passionate, a moment later you see all his natural kindness of heart in the eagerness of his repentance; he weeps, he groans over the wound he has given, he wants to atone for the blood he has shed with his own. Faced with the sentiment of his wrong-doing, his anger dies away, his pride is humbled. Is he himself offended? In the height of his fury an excuse, a word, disarms him: he forgives the wrongs of others as wholeheartedly as he repairs his own. Adolescence is not the age of vengeance or of hate; it is the age of pity, forgiveness, and generosity. Yes, I maintain, and I am not afraid of the testimony of experience, that a youth of good birth, one who has preserved his innocence up to the age of twenty, is at this age the most generous, the best, the most loving and most lovable of men. You never heard such a thing; I can well believe it. Philosophers such as you, brought up among the corruption of the schools, are unaware of it. Image of number 10
787 It is man's weakness that makes him sociable. It is our common sufferings that draw our hearts to humanity; we would owe nothing to mankind if we were not men. Every attachment is a sign of insufficiency. If each of us had no need of others, we should hardly think of associating with them. Thus from our very weakness is born our frail happiness. A truly happy being is a solitary being. God alone enjoys an absolute happiness; but which of us has any idea of it? If any imperfect being could be sufficient to itself, what according to us would he be able to enjoy? He would be alone, he would be miserable. I do not conceive how one who has no need of anything could love anything; I do not conceive how he who loves nothing could be happy. Image of number 10
788 It follows from this that we are drawn towards our fellow beings less by the sentiment of their pleasures than by that of their pains; for there we see much better the identification of our nature and the guarantees of their affection for us. If our common needs unite us by interest, our common miseries unite us by affection. The sight of a happy man inspires in others less love than envy; one is ready to accuse him of usurping a right that he does not have, of creating for himself an exclusive happiness; and amour-propre suffers more by making us feel that this man has no need of us. But who does not feel sorry for the unhappy man who is seen suffering? Who would not wish to deliver him from his pains if it cost only a wish to do so? Imagination puts us into the place of the miserable man sooner than into the place of the happy man; we sense that former condition touches us more nearly than the latter. Pity is sweet because by putting ourselves in the place of one who suffers we nevertheless feel the pleasure of not suffering like him. Envy is bitter in that the sight of a happy man, far from putting the envious in his place, inspires him with regret that he is not there. The one seems to exempt us from the pains he suffers, the other seems to deprive us of the good things he enjoys. Image of number 10
789 Do you wish to stimulate and nourish these first stirrings of awakening sensibility in the heart of a young man -- to turn his disposition towards beneficence and goodness? Then avoid planting the seeds of pride, vanity, and envy through the misleading picture of the happiness of men; do not show him to begin with the pomp of courts, the pride of palaces, the delights of spectacles; do not take him into society and into brilliant assemblies. Do not show him the externals of high society until after having put him in a condition to appreciate it on its own terms. To show him the world before he knows men is not to form him but to corrupt him; not to instruct him but to deceive him. Image of number 10
790 By nature men are neither kings, nobles, courtiers, nor millionaires. All men are born naked and poor, all are subject to the miseries of life, its sorrows, its ills, its needs, its suffering of every kind; finally all are condemned to die. This is what man really is; this is what no mortal can escape. Begin then by studying that which is the most inseparable from human nature, that which best constitutes humanity. Image of number 10
791 At sixteen the adolescent knows what it is to suffer, for he himself has suffered; but he hardly knows that others suffer too; to see it without feeling it is not to know it, and as I have said a hundred times the child who does not imagine what others feel knows no ills but his own. But when the first development of the senses lights the fire of imagination in him, he begins to feel himself in his fellows, to be touched by their cries and to suffer from their pains. It is then that the sorrowful picture of suffering humanity should bring to his heart the first feeling of tenderness he has ever experienced. Image of number 10
792 If this moment is not easy to notice in your children, whose fault is that? You taught them early on to play at feeling, you taught them its language so soon that speaking continually with the same tone they turn your lessons against you and give you no chance of discovering when they cease to lie and when they begin to feel what they say. But look at my Emile. At the age I have led him up to, he has neither felt nor lied. Before knowing what it is to love he has never said, "I love you very much." He has never been prescribed what expression to assume when he enters the room of his father, his mother, or his sick tutor; he has not been shown the art of affecting a sadness he does not feel. He has never pretended to weep for the death of any one, for he does not know what it is to die. There is the same insensibility in his heart as in his manners. Indifferent, like every child, to everything outside of himself, he takes no interest in any one; the only thing that distinguishes him is that he will not pretend to take such an interest and that he is not false like they are. Image of number 10
793 Having thought little about sensitive beings Emile will know late what suffering and dying are. Groans and cries will begin to stir his insides; the sight of blood flowing will make him turn away his eyes; the convulsions of a dying animal will cause him I know not what anguish, before he knows the source of these impulses. If he were still stupid and barbarous he would not have these sentiments; if he were more instructed he would recognize their source. He has compared ideas too frequently already to feel nothing but not enough to conceive of what he feels. Image of number 10
794 Thus pity is born, the first relative sentiment that touches the human heart according to the order of nature. To become sensitive and compassionate, the child must know that there are beings similar to him who suffer what he has suffered, who feel the pains he has felt; and others which he can form some idea of as being capable of feeling these things also. In effect, how can we let ourselves be stirred by pity unless we go beyond ourselves and identify ourselves with the suffering animal? By leaving, so to speak, our own nature and taking his? We only suffer so far as we judge that he suffers; the suffering is not in us, it is in him that we suffer. So no one becomes sensitive till his imagination is aroused and begins to carry him outside himself. Image of number 10
795 To stimulate and nourish this growing sensibility, to guide it or to follow its natural bent, what should we do if not present to the young man objects on which the expansive force of his heart may take effect -- objects which dilate it, which extend it to other beings, which make him find himself outside of himself -- and carefully remove everything that narrows, concentrates, and strengthens the power of the human self? That is to say, in other words, to arouse in him goodness, humanity, compassion, beneficence -- all the engaging and gentle passions which are naturally pleasing to man -- and to prevent the growth of envy, covetousness, hatred -- all the repulsive and cruel passions which make our sensibility not merely null but a negative quantity and are the torment of those who experience them. Image of number 10
796 I think I can sum up all the preceding reflections in two or three definite, straightforward, and easy-to-understand maxims. First Maxim. -- It is not in the human heart to put ourselves in the place of those who are happier than ourselves, but only in the place of those who are the most to be pitied. Image of number 10
797 If you find exceptions to this rule, they are more apparent than real. Thus we do not put ourselves in the place of the rich or great when we become fond of them; even when our affection is real, we only appropriate to ourselves a part of their welfare. Sometimes we love the rich man in the midst of misfortunes; but so long as he prospers he has no real friend except the man who is not deceived by appearances and who pities rather than envies him in spite of his prosperity. Image of number 10
798 We are touched by the happiness of certain conditions of life -- for instance, pastoral or country life. The charm of seeing these good people happy is not poisoned by envy; we are genuinely interested in them. Why is this? Because we feel we are able to descend into this state of peace and innocence and enjoy the same happiness; it is an alternative that only gives us pleasant thoughts so long as the wish is as good as the deed. There is always pleasure in seeing one's own resources, in contemplating one's own wealth, even when we do not mean to spend it. Image of number 10
799 From this, it follows that to incline a young man to humanity, instead of making him admire the brilliant fate of others you must show him the sad sides of things and make him fear them. Thus it becomes clear that he must mark out a route to happiness that does not follow the traces of anyone else. Second Maxim We never pity another's woes unless we know we may suffer in like manner ourselves. "Non ignara mali, miseris succurrere disco." -- Virgil. Image of number 10
800 I know nothing so beautiful, so profound, so touching, so true as these lines. Image of number 10
801 Why have kings no pity for their subjects? Because they never expect to be men. Why are the rich so hard on the poor? Because they have no fear of becoming poor. Why do the nobles look down upon the people? Because a nobleman will never be a commoner. Why are the Turks generally kinder and more hospitable than ourselves? Because under their wholly arbitrary system of government, the rank and wealth of individuals are always precarious and vacillating, so that they do not regard poverty and degradation as conditions foreign to them; to-morrow, any one may himself be in the same position as the one he assists is in today. This reflection, which occurs again and again in eastern romances, lends them a certain tenderness which is not to be found in our pretentious and harsh morality. Image of number 10
802 So do not accustom your pupil to look down from the height of his glory upon the sufferings of the unfortunate, the labors of the wretched; and do not hope to teach him to pity them as long as he considers them to be foreign to him. Make him clearly understand that the fate of these unhappy persons may one day be his own, that all their ills are just below him, that a thousand unforeseen and inevitable events could make him fall to their level in a moment. Teach him to put no trust in birth, health, or riches; show him all the vicissitudes of fortune; find him examples all too frequent of people who from a condition much higher than his own have fallen below the condition of these unhappy creatures -- whether by their own fault or not is not our question now. Does he indeed know the meaning of the word fault? Never interfere with the order of knowledge and only enlighten him through the means within his reach. He needs to be no great scholar to perceive that all the prudence of mankind cannot make certain whether he will be alive or dead in an hour's time, whether before nightfall he will not be grinding his teeth in the pangs of nephritis, whether a month from now he will be rich or poor, whether in a year's time he may not be rowing an Algerian galley under the lash of the slave-driver. Above all do not teach him this coldly, like a catechism; let him see and feel human calamities. Shake up and startle his imagination with the perils that continually surrounded every man; let him see the abysses all about him, and when he hears you speak of them, let him cling more closely to you for fear lest he should fall. "You will make him timid and cowardly," you say. We will soon see; as for the present let us begin by making him human; above all that is what is important to us. Third Maxim The pity that we have for the pain of others is not measured by the quantity of this pain but by the sentiment we have for those who suffer it. Image of number 10
803 We only pity a miserable person in so far as we think they feel the need of pity. The physical sentiment of our pains is more limited than one would suppose; it is memory that prolongs the pain, imagination which projects it into the future, that make us really to be pitied. This is, I think, one of the causes that makes us more callous to the pains of animals than to those of men, although a common sensibility ought to make us identify ourselves equally with them. We hardly pity the cart-horse in his shed, for we do not suppose that while he is eating his hay he is thinking of the blows he has received and the labors that await him. Neither do we pity the sheep grazing in the field, though we know it is about to be slaughtered, for we believe it knows nothing of its fate. Accordingly we also become hardened to the fate of men, and the rich console themselves for the harm they do to the poor by supposing them to be too stupid to feel anything. In general I judge of the value any one puts on the happiness of his fellow-beings by what he seems to think of them. It is natural to cheapen the happiness of the people one scorns. So do not be surprised that politicians speak of the people with so much scorn and that philosophes affect to make man so wicked. Image of number 10
804 It is the people who compose the human race; those who are not of the people are so few in number that they are not worth counting. Man is the same in every condition of life. If that be so, the most numerous condition merits the most respect. For the thinking person, all civil distinctions disappear; he sees the same passions, the same sentiments, in both the vagrant and the celebrity. There is merely a slight difference in speech and more or less artificiality of tone; and if there is any essential difference that distinguishes them, it is to the detriment of the most dissembling. The people show themselves as they are, and they are not attractive; but the fashionable world is compelled to adopt a disguise. We would be horrified if we saw it as it really is. Image of number 10
805 There is, so our sages tell us, the same amount of happiness and sorrow in every condition. This saying is as destructive as it is untenable; for if everyone were equally happy why would I need to trouble myself for anyone? Let every one stay where he is; let the slave be ill-treated, the sick man suffer, and the wretched perish; they have nothing to gain by any change in their condition. People enumerate the sorrows of the rich, and show the inanity of their vain pleasures. What gross sophistry! The rich man's sufferings do not come from his condition, but from himself who alone abuses it. Even if he is more unhappy than the poor man, he is not to be pitied, for his ills are of his own making, and it depends only on him to make himself happy. But the sufferings of the poor man come from external things, from the hardness of the fate that weighs upon him. There are no good habits that can relieve him of the physical ills of fatigue, exhaustion, and hunger. Neither a good mind nor wisdom can serve in any way to free him from the pains of his condition. What did Epictetus gain by predicting that his master would break his leg? Did he not do it anyway? Beyond the pain itself he had the pain of foresight. If the people were as sensible as we assume them to be stupid, what could they be other than what they are, what could they do other than what they do do? Study the people in this condition; you will see that, with a different way of speaking, they have as much intelligence and more common-sense than you. Have respect then for your species; remember that it consists essentially of the whole of the people, collectively; that if all the kings and all the philosophes were removed they would scarcely be missed, and things would go on none the worse. In a word, teach your pupil to love all men, even those who scorn them; act in such way that he does not put himself in any class, but finds himself in all. Speak to him of the human race with tenderness, and even with pity, but never with scorn. Man, do not dishonor man. Image of number 10
806 It is by these ways and others like them -- very different from the beaten paths -- that we must enter the heart of the young adolescent in order to stimulate in him the first impulses of nature, to develop it and extend it to his fellow beings. To this I add that it is important to involve as little self-interest as possible in these impulses; above all, no vanity, no emulation, no boasting -- none of those sentiments which force us to compare ourselves with others. For such comparisons are never made without arousing some impression of hatred against those who dispute our preference, were it only in our own estimation. Then we would become either blind or angry, a bad man or a fool. Let us try to avoid this alternative. Sooner or later these dangerous passions will appear, I am told, in spite of us. I do not deny it. Each thing has its time and its place. I am only saying that we should not help to arouse these passions. Image of number 10
807 This is the spirit of the method to be laid down. Here examples and illustrations are useless, for here we find the beginning of the nearly infinite differences of character, and every example I gave would possibly apply to only one case in a hundred thousand. This is the age also that the clever teacher begins his real business as an observer and as a philosopher who knows the art of probing the heart while working to reform it. Since it does not occur to the young man to disguise himself, and since he has not even learned its meaning, you can see by his manner, in his eyes, in his gestures, the impression he has received from any object presented to him. You read in his face every impulse of his heart. By watching his expression you learn to foresee his impulses and eventually to control them. Image of number 10
808 It has been commonly observed that blood, wounds, cries and groans, the preparations for painful operations, and everything which directs the senses towards things connected with suffering, are usually the first to make an impression on all men. The idea of destruction, being more complex, does not strike one the same. The image of death affects us later and more feebly, for no one has had for himself the experience of dying; you must have seen corpses to feel the agonies of the dying. But when once this idea is well formed in our mind, there is no spectacle more horrible to our eyes, whether because of the idea of complete destruction which it arouses through our senses, or because knowing that this moment is inevitable for all men we feel ourselves more intensely affected by a situation from which we know there is no escape. Image of number 10
809 These various impressions differ in manner and in degree according to the particular character of each individual and his former habits, but they are universal and no one is completely free from them. There are other later and less general impressions which are suited to more sensitive souls. These are those that we receive from moral pains, inward suffering, the afflictions of the mind, depression, and sadness. There are men who can be touched by nothing but groans and tears; the suppressed sobs of a heart laboring under sorrow would never draw a even a sigh from them; the sight of a down-cast visage, a pale and gloomy countenance, eyes which can weep no longer, would never make them weep themselves. The pains of the soul are nothing to them: they are analysed, but their own mind feels nothing. From such persons expect only inflexible severity, harshness, cruelty. They may be upright and just, but never merciful, generous, or pitying. I say they could be just, if a man can indeed be just without being merciful. Image of number 10
810 But do not be in a hurry to judge young people by this standard, above all those who, having been educated the way they should be, have no idea of the moral sufferings they have never had to experience. For once again they can only pity the ills they know, and this apparent insensibility, which only comes from ignorance, is soon transformed into pity when they begin to feel that there are in human life a thousand ills of which they know nothing As for Emile, if he had simplicity and good sense in childhood, I am sure that he will have soul and sensitivity in his youth. For the truth of the sentiments depends to a great extent on the accuracy of the ideas. Image of number 10
811 But why bring him to this? More than one reader will reproach me no doubt for forgetting my first resolutions and the lasting happiness I promised my pupil. The sorrowful, the dying, such sights of pain and misery -- what happiness, what delight is this for a young heart on the threshold of life? His gloomy tutor, who proposed to give him such a kindly education, only give him life so that he may suffer? This is what they will say, but what difference does it make to me? I promised to make him happy, not to make him seem happy. Is it my fault if, always deceived by appearances, you take them for the reality? Image of number 10
812 Let us take two young men at the end of their primary education and entering the world by opposite doors. One climbs right away up to Mount Olympus and makes his way into the smartest society. He is presented at court, introduced to nobles, rich men, pretty women. I assume that he is entertained everywhere, and I will not examine the effect of this reception on his reason; I assume it can resist it. Pleasures fly before him, every day new objects amuse him; he flings himself into everything with an eagerness which carries you away. You find him attentive, eager, and curious; his first wonder makes a great impression on you; you think him happy; but look at the state of his heart; you think he is rejoicing, I think he suffers. Image of number 10
813 What does he see when first he opens his eyes? Multitudes of so-called pleasures which he did not know before and most of which, being within his reach for only a moment only seem to come to him in order to make him regret being deprived of them. Is he walking through a palace? You see by his uneasy curiosity that he is asking why his father's house is not like it. Every question shows you that he is constantly comparing himself with the master of this house. And all the mortification arising from this comparison sharpens his vanity by revolting it. If he meets a young man better dressed than himself, I find him secretly complaining of his parents' stinginess. If he is better dressed than another, he suffers because the latter is his superior in birth or in intellect, and all his gold lace is put to shame by a plain cloth coat. If he shines unrivaled in some assembly, stands on tiptoe so that they may see him better, who is there who does not secretly desire to humble the pride and vanity of the young fop? Everybody soon unites as if in concert: the disquieting glances of a solemn man, the biting phrases of some satirical person, do not fail to reach him, and even if it were only one man who despised him, the scorn of that one would poison in a moment the applause of the rest. Image of number 10
814 Let us grant him everything. Let us not grudge him charm and worth; let him be well-built, full of wit, and attractive. He will be sought after by women; but by pursuing him before he is in love with them, they will inspire rage rather than love. He will have successes, but neither rapture nor passion to enjoy them. Since his desires are always anticipated they never have time to grow; in the midst of pleasures he only feels the tedium of restraint. Even before he knows it he is disgusted and satiated with the sex formed to be his own delight ; if he continues to seek it is only through vanity, and even should he really become attached, he will not be the only young, brilliant, attractive young man, nor will he always find his mistresses to be prodigies of fidelity. Image of number 10
815 I say nothing of the vexations, deceptions, crimes, and remorse of all kinds that are inseparable from such a life. Experience of the world makes one feel disgusted with it, as everyone knows. And I am speaking only of the drawbacks belonging to youthful illusions. Image of number 10
816 What a contrast for the one who, sheltered up until now in the bosom of his family and friends and seeing himself the sole object of their care, suddenly enters an order of things where he counts for so little and finds himself drowning in an unknown sphere, he who has been so long the center of his own! What insults, what humiliation, must he endure, before he loses among strangers the ideas of his own importance -- ideas that were formed and nourished among his own people! As a child everything gave way to him, everyone flocked to him; as a young man he must give place to every one, or if he preserves his former airs even a little, what harsh lessons will bring him to himself! The habit of obtaining the objects of his desires easily leads him to desire many things and makes him feel continual privations. Everything that flatters him tempts him; everything that others have he wants to have. He covets everything, he envies every one, he wants to dominate everywhere. He is devoured by vanity. The heat of unbridled desires inflames his young heart, including jealousy and hatred. All these violent passions burst out at once. He carries their agitations with him into the busy world, they return with him at night, he comes home dissatisfied with himself and others, he falls asleep full of a thousand vain projects, troubled by a thousand fantasies. And even in his dreams his pride pictures those fleeting goods which torment his desire and which he will never in his life possess. There is your pupil; now let us see mine. Image of number 10
817 If the first sight that strikes him is something sorrowful, his first return to himself is a feeling of pleasure. When he sees how many evils he has escaped he thinks he is happier than he thought he was. He shares the suffering of his fellow beings, but this sharing is voluntary and sweet. He enjoys at once the pity he feels for their ills and the joy of being exempt from them. He feels in himself that state of vigor which projects us beyond ourselves, and makes us transfer to others the superfluous activity of our well-being. To pity the ills of others we must indeed know them, but we need not feel them. When we have suffered or are in fear of suffering, we pity those who suffer; but when we suffer ourselves, we pity none but ourselves. But if all of us, being subject ourselves to the ills of life, only accord to others the sensibility we do not actually require for ourselves, it follows that pity must be a very pleasant feeling, since it disposes one to favor us; and, on the contrary, a hard-hearted man is always unhappy, since the state of his heart leaves him no superfluous sensibility that he can accord to the sufferings of others. Image of number 10
818 We judge happiness too much by appearances. We assume it to be where it is least likely to be; we seek for it where it cannot possibly be. Cheerfulness is a very uncertain sign of its presence. A cheerful man is often an unhappy person who is trying to deceive others and distract himself. Those men who are so jovial, so open, so agreeable at their club, are almost all depressed and grumbling at home, and their servants have to pay for the entertainment they provide for the company. True contentment is neither cheerful nor frivolous. Jealous of so sweet a sentiment, while tasting it we savor it; we fear it will evaporate. A really happy man says little and laughs little; he hugs his happiness, so to speak, to his heart. Noisy games, wild joy, conceal aversion and boredom. But melancholy is the companion of sensuality: tenderness and tears accompany our sweetest joys, and excessive joy itself brings forth tears rather than laughter. Image of number 10
819 If at first the number and variety of our amusements seem to contribute to our happiness, if at first the uniformity of a balanced life seems tedious, when we look at it more closely we find on the contrary that the sweetest habit of the soul consists in a moderate enjoyment, one that leaves little scope for desire and aversion. The restlessness of desire causes curiosity and fickleness; the emptiness of noisy pleasures causes boredom. We are never bored with our situation when we have no knowledge of a more pleasurable one. Of all the men in the world savages are the least curious and the least bored. Everything is indifferent to them. They get their pleasures not from things but from each other; they spend their life doing nothing and are never bored. Image of number 10
820 The man of the world lives entirely inside a mask. Almost never being in himself he is always a stranger and ill at ease when he is forced to come back to himself. What he is is nothing; what he seems is everything for him. Image of number 10
821 A young man's face reflects impertinence, while my pupil's face exudes contentment and serenity. Physiognomy is not just nature's work; facial features are shaped by habitual emotions. These emotions leave lasting impressions, allowing us to judge character through expressions. Understanding this helps us assess others without relying on unknown knowledge. Image of number 10
822 A child's feelings of joy and sorrow are fleeting, leaving no lasting expression. As they mature, emotions deepen, leaving traces on their faces. These traces change with age and passions. Recognizing these changes is vital in education to interpret emotions through external signs, helping us understand character and feelings. Image of number 10
823 My pupil's lack of conventional manners makes him more loving. Genuine affection for others brings happiness, unlike self-centeredness, which struggles to disguise true feelings. I believe in teaching genuine happiness through caring for others, allowing emotions to guide the path without contradicting the pursuit of authentic contentment. Image of number 10
824 As adolescence approaches, expose youth to spectacles that restrain rather than excite. Avoid cities with premature pleasures, opting for rural simplicity to delay passions. If in cities, use art to prevent idleness, selecting modest influences. Balance exposure to human misery, using imagination to evoke empathy without desensitizing them. Image of number 10
825 As enlightenment grows, quench desires with suitable scenes. A veteran shared how his pious father deterred him from vices by exposing him to syphilis victims. This sight deterred debauchery, fostering discipline. Teach through impactful experiences, choosing timing and examples wisely for lasting moral lessons beyond mere discourse. Image of number 10
826 The vivid image of syphilis victims left an indelible impression, deterring debauchery despite peer pressure. Experiences teach more than words; choose impactful lessons, timing, and examples wisely for lasting moral development. Teachers should guide through memorable encounters, fostering discipline and avoiding vices through impactful lessons beyond discourse. Image of number 10
827 Childhood's errors are remediable, but adolescence demands attention. Delay maturity, fostering full development. Premature actions weaken body and mind. Pure morals lead to courage, unlike early corruption. Nations with pure morals excel in wisdom and bravery, while others rely on wit and cunning, lacking noble virtues. Image of number 10
828 Adolescence's energy should be channeled constructively, avoiding resentment from mismanagement. Teachers should guide natural vitality positively, not suppress it with harsh laws. Understanding youthful drives fosters cooperation, aligning with natural inclinations for harmonious development. Avoid battles with nature, harnessing energy for mutual respect and effective education. Image of number 10
829 Easy-going approaches maintain superficial authority but fail to address root issues. Meaningful guidance fosters development, avoiding vices. Superficial control is inadequate; real authority requires addressing underlying behaviors. Prioritize genuine guidance over superficial authority for lasting positive impact, fostering growth without fostering vices for effective character development. Image of number 10
830 Adolescence's energy is vital for education, guiding hearts. Love connects them, forming societal ties. Sensibility begins with familiar connections, later embracing humanity. Affection grows through shared experiences, eventually encompassing broader notions of humankind. Encourage natural affection's evolution, fostering connections beyond personal circles for societal understanding and compassion. Image of number 10
831 As affection develops, awareness grows, offering educators new influence. Subtle bonds form through care, creating connections. Avoid imposing obligations; let gratitude develop naturally. Genuine care fosters appreciation, contrasting with transactional relationships. Educators guide without imposing debt, fostering sincere connections and natural gratitude for lasting meaningful relationships. Image of number 10
832 Ingratitude stems from self-interest, not nature. True kindness fosters gratitude. Many benefactors act from self-interest, expecting returns. If kindness is transactional, beneficiaries haggle. True generosity knows no price, nurturing gratitude. Heartfelt kindness builds genuine connections, free from obligation. Genuine generosity transcends self-interest, fostering heartfelt gratitude. Image of number 10
833 The fisherman uses bait to attract fish without suspicion, but deception breeds ingratitude. Genuine benefactors inspire joyful remembrance and eager reciprocity. Gratitude naturally emerges from true favors, fostering mutual appreciation. Sincere acts inspire joyful acknowledgment, contrasting calculated exchanges. True generosity builds bonds, fostering lasting appreciation and reciprocity. Image of number 10
834 Recognition is natural unless hindered by self-interest. Pupils appreciate educators' efforts if not priced. Avoid boasting; genuine care fosters authority. Emphasize pupils' self-worth, inspiring docility through freedom. Gratitude arises from genuine concern, forming lasting bonds. Educators' care nurtures respect, emphasizing pupil growth and freedom for mutual respect. Image of number 10
835 We enter the moral realm, linking conscience to emotions. Justice and goodness are heart-driven, not abstractions. Natural law stems from heart's needs, guided by reason. Indicate progression of sentiments, aligning with human nature. Emotions shape understanding, forming conscience and guiding moral development beyond metaphysics and abstract study. Image of number 10
836 Emile's comparison with others spurs self-esteem, birthing passions. Character-shaping passions depend on perceived status and obstacles to goals. Comparison shapes desires, guiding character. Status perception influences benevolence or envy. Passions arise from comparison, influencing character. Comparison sparks desires, shaping character's essence and guiding passions toward humane outcomes. Image of number 10
837 Guide self-awareness by showing natural and civil inequalities, portraying social order. Emphasize differences and commonalities for societal insight. Highlight natural and civil disparities, broadening perspective. Guide understanding through inequalities, revealing social structure. Show differences and shared traits, fostering self-awareness and societal understanding for informed social engagement. Image of number 10
838 Study society through men and vice versa; politics and morals intertwine. Initial relations shape passions, influencing interactions. Fewer desires mean fewer dependencies; moderation fosters freedom. Misunderstanding desires and needs distorts society. Examine society through men, understanding dynamics. Initial relations shape passions, guiding interactions and fostering societal balance. Image of number 10
839 Nature's equality prevents dependence; civil equality is illusory, destroying balance. Public force aids oppression, sacrificing many for few. Justice serves inequity, benefiting the powerful. Judge upper classes by self-interest. Nature's equality ensures independence; civil equality is deceptive. Public force aids oppression, sacrificing many for few, serving inequity. Image of number 10
840 If young people only saw humanity's mask, no need to show it. Depict real people to inspire pity, not hatred. Acknowledge flaws, encouraging empathy. Reveal genuine humanity for understanding. Show real humanity to inspire empathy, not scorn. Depict genuine people for understanding, fostering compassion beyond surface qualities. Image of number 10
841 To teach youth through the experiences of others, let him observe men deceiving each other while respecting him, evoking pity. Pythagoras likened the world to Olympic games: some seek profit, others glory, but the best are content to observe. The goal is to foster a mindset that views deceit in others as a source of learning and empathy rather than personal disillusionment, encouraging a deeper understanding of human nature and societal dynamics. By distancing the learner from direct participation, this approach aims to cultivate wisdom through detached observation. Image of number 10
842 Choose a youth's company wisely, fostering respect for individuals while recognizing society's corrupting influence. Let him see that people wear masks, yet some faces are more beautiful than the masks they conceal. Teach him that man is naturally good, and society perverts. Respect individuals but despise the multitude. Encourage judgment based on personal experience, fostering understanding of how society's prejudices breed vice. This approach helps nurture an appreciation for individual integrity amidst societal flaws, promoting a balanced view of human nature that acknowledges both inherent goodness and the impact of societal corruption. Image of number 10
843 This approach risks encouraging early judgment, making the youth spiteful and cynical. Observing vice too soon leads to accepting it as normal, like seeing poverty without pity. Familiarity with general perversity can become a harmful example rather than a lesson, risking moral indifference. Balancing exposure to vice with understanding its consequences is crucial to avoid fostering cynicism. The challenge lies in guiding the young observer to recognize and learn from moral failings without losing their inherent empathy and sense of virtue. Caution is essential to prevent desensitization and maintain a constructive perspective on human behavior. Image of number 10
844 Teaching principles directly can be abstract and hard to grasp for youth. Moving from tangible to intellectual objects involves metaphysics beyond their current understanding. Avoid imposing adult authority over personal experience and reason. Encourage natural growth of understanding rather than enforcing lessons. This helps maintain authentic development and avoids premature complexity, allowing youth to build their reasoning on solid personal experiences. Emphasize experiential learning over theoretical instruction, ensuring that the young person's intellectual journey is guided by their curiosity and observation rather than rigid doctrines. This approach fosters genuine comprehension and critical thinking. Image of number 10
845 Introduce history to show the human heart without corrupting it. Observe men from different times and places to judge impartially. History reveals human nature without personal involvement, providing insights without personal bias. History offers lessons in human nature, showing actions and motivations without direct participation. Through historical narratives, learners can explore complex human emotions and motivations, cultivating empathy and critical thinking. By analyzing past events, they gain a broader perspective on human behavior, enabling them to understand the intricate interplay between individual choices and societal dynamics. This fosters a deeper understanding of humanity's complexities. Image of number 10
846 To understand men, observe actions rather than words. In history, actions are unveiled and judged by facts. Comparing words and deeds reveals true character. Disguises enhance understanding. History provides a clearer lens to evaluate human nature by focusing on actions rather than rhetoric. By examining historical figures' actions and comparing them to their words, one gains insight into authentic motivations and values. This analytical approach helps develop critical thinking skills, encouraging learners to question superficial appearances and seek deeper truths, ultimately fostering a more nuanced comprehension of human behavior and the complexities of character. Image of number 10
847 History often highlights negative aspects, focusing on revolutions and catastrophes, ignoring quiet prosperity. It only records decline, not growth. The unknown history of multiplying nations is absent. Only the wicked are remembered, slandering mankind. This focus on negativity skews perception, making it essential to recognize history's limitations. While it portrays conflict and decline, it often overlooks peaceful advancement and constructive endeavors. Understanding this bias is crucial for a balanced perspective. Acknowledging history's selectivity helps develop a more comprehensive view of human progress, appreciating both challenges and achievements, fostering a more nuanced understanding of the human journey. Image of number 10
848 Historical facts may not reflect reality accurately, shaped by historians' interests and biases. Ignorance or partiality distorts events. Altering circumstances can change the perception of facts. The historian may invent causes for events. Criticism is conjecture, choosing the most plausible lie. Understanding history requires critical thinking, recognizing potential distortions and biases. Readers must question narratives, seeking diverse perspectives to approach historical truth. This approach fosters discernment, empowering individuals to engage with history critically, appreciating its complexities while striving to uncover the underlying realities shaping past events and their interpretations. Image of number 10
849 Novels and histories blur as authors adapt events, invent characters, and create fictional narratives. Novelists use imagination, while historians rely on others. Historians may lack moral purpose. This comparison highlights the subjective nature of historical accounts, influenced by interpretation and creative license. Recognizing this, readers should approach historical narratives critically, discerning fact from embellishment. Acknowledging potential biases encourages a more comprehensive understanding, fostering a balanced perspective on historical events and their portrayal. By questioning narratives, readers can appreciate the interplay between storytelling and historical truth, promoting informed engagement with history's complexities. Image of number 10
850 Accurate history is less important than true portrayals of men and manners. If portraits reflect reality, the past is irrelevant. However, if portraits stem from imagination, relying on historians is as problematic as relying on teachers. For authentic learning, prefer tailored lessons to generalized historical narratives. Encourage learners to engage with personalized content, fostering independent thinking and critical analysis. This approach empowers individuals to construct their understanding based on observation and reasoning, avoiding blind acceptance of authoritative accounts. By valuing personal insight, learners develop a more nuanced comprehension of human behavior and historical contexts. Image of number 10
851 Judgmental historians hinder youth's learning. Present facts and let them judge. Youth learns about humanity through personal discernment. Author's judgments limit independent thinking. By allowing learners to form their conclusions, they develop critical thinking skills and a deeper understanding of human behavior. Encouraging independent analysis fosters intellectual growth and self-reliance, empowering youth to engage with history thoughtfully. This approach cultivates a lifelong curiosity and a discerning mindset, enabling individuals to navigate complex narratives and make informed judgments, ultimately enhancing their ability to comprehend diverse perspectives and appreciate the intricacies of human nature. Image of number 10
852 Modern history lacks character, focusing on superficial portraits. Old historians offer insight, but youth should start with simple texts. Polybius, Sallust, and Tacitus are advanced. Thucydides reports facts without judgment, omitting war's lessons. Herodotus, though detailed, may spoil youth's taste. Begin with facts, avoiding maxims. Youth should focus on specifics, not generalizations. This approach nurtures foundational understanding and critical analysis, enabling learners to build knowledge gradually. By engaging with clear, factual narratives, youth develop a solid basis for deeper exploration, fostering intellectual growth and a nuanced comprehension of historical complexities and human behavior. Image of number 10
853 Thucydides exemplifies factual reporting without judgment, enabling personal interpretation. His concealment enhances learning. Unfortunately, he focuses on war, lacking broader lessons. Herodotus offers engaging details, though discretion is needed. Livy is unsuitable for youth. Encourage discernment in historical reading, balancing factual reporting with critical thinking. By analyzing unbiased accounts, learners develop a deeper understanding of events and motivations, fostering independent analysis and informed conclusions. This approach cultivates intellectual growth, empowering individuals to engage thoughtfully with historical narratives and appreciate the complexities of human behavior and historical contexts. Image of number 10
854 History records significant events but misses gradual developments. Battles reveal moral causes shaping revolutions, often overlooked by historians. Recognizing underlying factors is crucial for understanding historical change. Encourage a broader perspective on historical events, emphasizing context and causality. By analyzing gradual developments alongside major events, learners gain insight into the intricate dynamics driving historical transformations. This approach fosters critical thinking and a comprehensive understanding of history, empowering individuals to discern connections between events and their causes, ultimately enriching their grasp of the complexities of human history and societal evolution. Image of number 10
855 The philosophic spirit in modern writers often prioritizes systems over truth. This focus can distort historical understanding. Encourage a commitment to objective truth, free from ideological constraints. By valuing truth over rigid frameworks, learners develop critical thinking skills and a nuanced comprehension of history. This approach fosters intellectual independence and a deeper appreciation for the complexities of historical narratives, enabling individuals to engage with history thoughtfully and discerningly. By prioritizing truth and open-minded inquiry, learners can navigate diverse perspectives and uncover the underlying realities shaping historical events and their interpretations. Image of number 10
856 History captures actions, not individuals, portraying public personas. It misses private life, focusing on representation rather than reality. Encourage a more holistic view of historical figures by considering both public and private aspects. By examining individuals in their entirety, learners gain a deeper understanding of motivations and character. This comprehensive approach fosters critical thinking and empathy, enabling individuals to appreciate the complexities of human nature and historical contexts. By recognizing the limitations of historical narratives, learners can develop a more nuanced comprehension of the interplay between personal and public dimensions, enriching their understanding of history. Image of number 10
857 Begin studying the human heart with biographies, where individuals can't hide. Montaigne values writers focusing on internal qualities over external events. Plutarch excels in revealing characters. Biographies provide intimate insights into human nature, fostering empathy and understanding. Encourage engagement with detailed life stories to develop critical thinking and a nuanced comprehension of character. By analyzing personal narratives, learners gain valuable perspectives on human behavior, motivations, and societal dynamics, enriching their understanding of history and humanity's complexities. This approach empowers individuals to appreciate the intricacies of individual lives and the broader context in which they unfold. Image of number 10
858 Group dynamics differ from individual behavior; study both for a complete understanding. Begin with individual study to judge groups. Knowing individual inclinations helps foresee collective outcomes. By analyzing personal motivations, learners gain insight into broader societal dynamics. This approach fosters critical thinking and empathy, enabling individuals to navigate complex interactions and appreciate the interplay between individual actions and collective behavior. By valuing both perspectives, learners develop a comprehensive understanding of human nature, enriching their ability to engage thoughtfully with diverse social contexts and appreciate the complexities of individual and group dynamics. Image of number 10
859 Ancients offer insights due to their attention to detail. Modern style focuses on public representation. Decency limits expression, leading to superficial portrayals. Encourage a return to ancient approaches for a deeper understanding of humanity. By valuing authentic depictions, learners develop critical thinking and empathy, appreciating the complexities of human nature. This approach fosters a nuanced comprehension of history, empowering individuals to engage thoughtfully with historical narratives and appreciate the interplay between personal and public dimensions. By recognizing the limitations of modern portrayals, learners gain a richer understanding of individual lives and historical contexts. Image of number 10
860 Plutarch's excellence lies in details often omitted today. He captures greatness in small moments, revealing character through subtle traits. Encourage appreciation for nuanced portrayals, fostering critical thinking and empathy. By valuing the significance of minor details, learners develop a deeper understanding of human nature and historical contexts. This approach empowers individuals to engage thoughtfully with historical narratives, appreciating the complexities of character and the interplay between individual actions and broader societal dynamics. By recognizing the impact of subtle nuances, learners gain a richer comprehension of history and humanity's intricate tapestry. Image of number 10
861 The primary focus of education should be on fostering curiosity and a love for learning... Image of number 10
862 Viscount Turenne, mistaken for a kitchen boy, received a playful slap from his valet. Upon realizing his error, the servant apologized, but Turenne humorously remarked, "Even if it was George, you need not have struck so hard." This anecdote, revealing Turenne's kindness and humility, contrasts with his deference to his nephew. It underscores the value of recognizing humanity and rejecting societal prejudices. By appreciating such anecdotes, young readers are encouraged to value genuine character over status, fostering empathy and understanding. This story emphasizes the importance of authenticity and humility in shaping one's legacy. Image of number 10
863 Reading thoughtfully impacts youth profoundly. Unlike those burdened with books from an early age, unspoiled minds like Emile, raised with pure judgment, see the world anew. Observing humanity's folly firsthand, Emile feels shame for his species, witnessing dreams turning men into beasts. This fresh perspective, free from ingrained prejudices, fosters critical thinking and empathy. By allowing youth to experience the world with untainted minds, we nurture their ability to discern reality and cultivate genuine understanding. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of guided reading, enabling young individuals to navigate life's complexities with insight and compassion. Image of number 10
864 Prudent reading guides Emile's reflections, offering practical philosophy beyond school teachings. Pyrrhus's ambition prompts Cineas's question: what real benefit comes from conquest? Emile finds wisdom in this thought, free from prejudice. Reading Pyrrhus's life, Emile sees heroic pursuits ending in downfall, recognizing the futility of such ambitions. This approach encourages critical thinking, allowing Emile to learn from historical examples without succumbing to societal illusions. By engaging with well-chosen texts, Emile gains insight into human nature, fostering independent judgment and a deeper understanding of life's purpose, free from preconceived notions and societal pressures. Image of number 10
865 Not all conquerors fail; some seem happy to those with common prejudices. Yet, true happiness is found in the heart's condition. Even successful usurpers remain unfulfilled, constantly chasing goals. They resemble inexperienced travelers in the Alps, always seeing higher peaks. This metaphor illustrates the perpetual dissatisfaction of those driven by ambition, highlighting the emptiness of worldly success. By looking beyond appearances, one discerns the true state of contentment. This understanding encourages a shift in perspective, valuing inner fulfillment over external achievements. Recognizing the limitations of ambition fosters a more profound appreciation for genuine happiness and personal growth. Image of number 10
866 Augustus ruled the greatest empire, yet his triumphs couldn't prevent personal anguish. He mourned his lost legions, faced threats from friends, and witnessed family tragedies. Despite his power, he couldn't control his household, experiencing profound sorrow. Augustus's story illustrates the futility of external success without inner peace. Even the most powerful rulers face personal struggles, highlighting the limitations of worldly achievements. This narrative underscores the importance of seeking fulfillment beyond external accomplishments, emphasizing the value of inner harmony and genuine happiness. By recognizing these lessons, one gains a deeper understanding of the complexities of human experience. Image of number 10
867 Ambition offers lessons in human passions. Emile learns from Antony's life, seeing the pitfalls of unchecked desires. Through history, Emile anticipates how passions blind people, forewarned against future illusions. These lessons, though challenging to teach, prepare Emile for life's complexities. By examining historical examples, Emile gains insight into human behavior, fostering wisdom and resilience. Understanding past mistakes helps Emile navigate future challenges, cultivating self-awareness and critical thinking. This approach emphasizes the importance of learning from history, empowering Emile to make informed decisions and avoid repeating past errors, ultimately fostering personal growth and character development. Image of number 10
868 Amour-propre drives self-comparison. Emile evaluates himself among peers, avoiding becoming another Cicero, Trajan, or Alexander. Emphasizing individuality prevents disillusionment. By fostering self-awareness and valuing personal identity, Emile remains grounded. Recognizing the dangers of excessive comparison, Emile focuses on his strengths, fostering confidence and self-acceptance. This approach nurtures a healthy sense of self, enabling Emile to appreciate his uniqueness while avoiding unrealistic expectations. By prioritizing self-discovery over emulation, Emile gains a deeper understanding of his worth and potential, fostering resilience and self-assurance in the face of societal pressures and external influences. Image of number 10
869 Philosophers view humans through philosophical biases, often judging harshly. A savage sees madness, not evil. Emile, like a thoughtful savage, understands human nature without preconceived notions. He observes human folly with clarity, fostering empathy and self-awareness. By transcending philosophical prejudices, Emile gains insight into human behavior, recognizing the complexities of human nature. This perspective encourages critical thinking and open-mindedness, empowering Emile to navigate life's challenges with understanding and compassion. By valuing authentic observations over rigid judgments, Emile develops a nuanced comprehension of humanity, fostering a deeper appreciation for diverse perspectives and individual experiences. Image of number 10
870 Self-interest breeds hatred of others' passions. We overlook the harm vice does to its bearer. Wickedness hides suffering, masking inner torment. Recognizing this requires a heart unlike theirs. Understanding the internal struggles of others fosters empathy and forgiveness. By acknowledging the hidden pain behind vices, we cultivate compassion and reduce judgment. This perspective encourages a shift from condemnation to understanding, promoting a more empathetic approach to human behavior. By recognizing the complexities of individual struggles, we develop a deeper appreciation for the shared human experience, fostering a sense of connection and mutual support. Image of number 10
871 Shared passions seduce us; those challenging self-interest provoke aversion. We blame others for what we desire to imitate. Enduring others' actions evokes hypocrisy. This highlights the conflict between personal desires and societal expectations. Recognizing this paradox fosters self-awareness and encourages introspection, prompting individuals to confront their contradictions. By acknowledging the complexities of human behavior, we develop a more compassionate and understanding perspective, reducing judgment and fostering empathy. This awareness empowers individuals to navigate interpersonal relationships with authenticity and integrity, ultimately promoting personal growth and harmonious interactions with others. Image of number 10
872 Observing others requires interest, impartiality, and a balanced heart. Emile, now a man, judges peers equitably, free from prejudice. He values independence and self-sufficiency, pitying those enslaved by status and materialism. This perspective fosters resilience and self-awareness, empowering Emile to navigate societal pressures with integrity. By recognizing the limitations of external validation, Emile cultivates a sense of fulfillment and contentment. This approach encourages a shift in focus from societal expectations to personal values, promoting genuine happiness and self-discovery. Emile's journey underscores the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance in achieving a meaningful and fulfilling life. Image of number 10
873 Amour-propre, though useful, risks fostering pride. Emile's fortunate position may lead to self-congratulation, attributing success to his own merits. This mindset risks despising others, undermining personal growth. Recognizing this danger, we emphasize humility and gratitude, fostering self-awareness and empathy. By valuing shared humanity over superiority, Emile develops a balanced perspective, appreciating his achievements while remaining grounded. This approach encourages a shift from pride to humility, promoting genuine connections and personal development. Emile's journey highlights the importance of recognizing the limitations of self-importance, fostering a deeper appreciation for the interconnectedness of all individuals. Image of number 10
874 Great men acknowledge their superiority yet remain modest. They recognize their limitations, valuing virtue over intellect. True greatness lies in humility and self-awareness, fostering a balanced perspective. This mindset encourages personal growth and authentic connections. By valuing inner virtues over external achievements, individuals cultivate a sense of fulfillment and purpose. This approach promotes a deeper understanding of the complexities of human nature, fostering empathy and compassion. Emphasizing humility and self-awareness empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges with grace and integrity, ultimately contributing to a more meaningful and enriched existence. Image of number 10
875 Emile's preference for his lifestyle is justified, but thinking himself superior is a mistake. Education shapes him, not innate nobility. Preventing this error ensures growth. By valuing humility and recognizing the role of guidance, Emile fosters self-awareness and personal development. This perspective encourages a balanced view of self-worth, appreciating external influences while remaining grounded. Emile's journey underscores the importance of recognizing the limitations of self-perception, fostering a deeper understanding of personal identity and growth. By valuing humility and acknowledging the impact of education, individuals cultivate a sense of gratitude and authenticity, enriching their life experiences. Image of number 10
876 Vanity is difficult to cure, but experience helps. Preventing its growth is key. Avoid empty arguments, let experience teach. Emile faces challenges, learns from mistakes. Sharing risks fosters empathy. This approach encourages humility and self-awareness, promoting personal growth. By valuing authentic experiences, Emile gains insight into human nature, fostering resilience and understanding. This perspective emphasizes the importance of learning from challenges, cultivating a deeper appreciation for life's complexities. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of experience, empowering individuals to navigate life's uncertainties with confidence and grace. Image of number 10
877 Tutors should elevate students, not treat them as inferior. Sharing faults fosters growth. Emile's education emphasizes equality and empathy. By valuing mutual understanding, tutors create a supportive environment for learning. This approach encourages personal development and authentic connections, promoting a deeper appreciation for the complexities of human nature. By recognizing the value of shared experiences, individuals cultivate a sense of empathy and compassion, enriching their life journey. Emile's education highlights the importance of fostering an inclusive and supportive learning environment, empowering individuals to achieve their potential while nurturing meaningful relationships. Image of number 10
878 A tutor should guide with reason and understanding. Emile trusts his tutor, valuing wisdom and experience. Genuine care fosters respect and learning. This approach encourages critical thinking and empathy, promoting a deeper understanding of human nature. By recognizing the importance of authentic relationships, individuals develop a sense of trust and appreciation for guidance. Emile's education emphasizes the value of mutual respect and understanding, empowering individuals to navigate life's challenges with confidence and integrity. This perspective fosters personal growth and authentic connections, enriching the educational experience and contributing to a more fulfilling and meaningful life. Image of number 10
879 Warn of faults, avoid blame. Lessons are ineffective when resented. Forget past mistakes, offer kindness. Emile learns from gentle guidance, valuing empathy and understanding. This approach fosters a supportive environment for personal growth, encouraging self-awareness and resilience. By valuing compassion over criticism, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for the complexities of human nature. Emile's journey emphasizes the importance of fostering positive relationships and promoting personal development through empathy and understanding. This perspective empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges with grace and confidence, ultimately contributing to a more fulfilling and enriched existence. Image of number 10
880 Gentle consolation offers valuable lessons. Emile learns from shared mistakes, recognizing common humanity. This approach fosters empathy and understanding, promoting a deeper appreciation for the complexities of human nature. By valuing compassion and shared experiences, individuals develop a sense of connection and mutual support. Emile's journey emphasizes the importance of fostering positive relationships and promoting personal growth through empathy and understanding. This perspective empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges with grace and confidence, ultimately contributing to a more fulfilling and enriched existence. By recognizing shared humanity, individuals cultivate a deeper appreciation for life's complexities. Image of number 10
881 Fables teach without offense. The guilty recognize themselves in stories, learning from them. Youths fooled by flatterers see themselves in the crow's foolishness, internalizing morals. Experience and history offer lessons, with low-risk situations teaching through personal experience and fables. Young people acquire morals from their own and others' experiences. This approach fosters understanding without direct admonishment, using stories as mirrors. Fables serve as effective tools, engraving life lessons on young minds, promoting growth and wisdom through relatable narratives. The use of fables transforms knowledge into practical maxims, enhancing comprehension and retention of moral teachings. Image of number 10
882 Maxims in fables should be implicit, not explicit. Teaching engages students by letting them discover morals themselves. Enjoyment comes from active learning, with students saying, "I understand." Avoid explaining everything; let students find meaning. Over-explaining dulls interest. La Fontaine's fables have unnecessary conclusions. Cut them out; if students don't understand without, they won't with. This approach fosters active learning, encouraging students to engage and internalize lessons. By allowing self-discovery, students develop critical thinking and comprehension, enhancing their educational experience. Empowering students to draw their own conclusions fosters deeper understanding and appreciation for literature and its messages. Image of number 10
883 Arrange fables to match adolescent development. Don't follow numerical order; consider needs and context. Children often recite fables without understanding, aiming to impress rather than learn. Emile, now mature, can benefit from fables. Fables, arranged thoughtfully, can provide moral lessons for youth. By tailoring fables to developmental stages, we enhance their impact, fostering understanding and personal growth. Emphasizing comprehension over performance shifts the focus from recitation to meaningful learning. This approach encourages critical thinking and reflection, empowering individuals to internalize lessons and apply them to real-life situations, ultimately enriching their moral and intellectual development. Image of number 10
884 Guide students by showing divergent paths without revealing all. Emile learns self-awareness and contentment without envying others. By acting, he becomes a spectator, gaining perspective. Life requires participation, yet young people lack influence. Individual rights are often overlooked. This journey teaches self-reliance and humility. By experiencing life's complexities, Emile gains a deeper understanding of societal dynamics. This approach fosters critical thinking and empathy, empowering individuals to navigate challenges with integrity. Emphasizing self-awareness and humility enriches personal development, fostering resilience and a sense of responsibility in shaping one's path and contributing positively to the world. Image of number 10
885 Youth should learn from experience, not just theory. Society teaches impractical skills, neglecting the art of action. Emile learns self-reliance and social interaction. Experience hones decision-making, balancing self-interest and societal impact. This approach fosters critical thinking and practical skills, preparing individuals for life's complexities. By emphasizing experiential learning, Emile gains valuable insights into human behavior and societal dynamics. This perspective empowers individuals to navigate challenges with confidence and adaptability, enriching personal growth and societal contribution. Emile's education highlights the importance of practical skills and self-awareness in achieving meaningful and fulfilling lives. Image of number 10
886 Acts of kindness nurture goodness. Engage Emile in helping others, fostering love for humanity. Benevolent actions enrich the heart, promoting personal growth. Emile serves and protects the poor, championing justice. This approach cultivates empathy and social responsibility, empowering individuals to make a positive impact. By valuing compassion and selflessness, Emile develops a deeper understanding of human nature and societal dynamics. This perspective encourages individuals to contribute meaningfully to their communities, fostering personal fulfillment and social harmony. Emile's journey emphasizes the transformative power of kindness, highlighting the importance of empathy and altruism in shaping a better world. Image of number 10
887 Emile won't become a self-righteous reformer but acts wisely. He respects age, remains modest, and seeks peace. His actions stem from understanding and appropriateness. This approach fosters humility and critical thinking, empowering individuals to navigate societal challenges with integrity. By valuing wisdom and discretion, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human behavior and societal dynamics. This perspective encourages individuals to act with purpose and empathy, promoting personal growth and harmonious interactions. Emile's journey highlights the importance of balancing idealism with practicality, fostering resilience and authenticity in contributing positively to the world. Image of number 10
888 Emile actively promotes happiness, avoiding passive pity. Benevolence accelerates learning, fostering empathy and understanding. He resolves conflicts, alleviates suffering, and combats oppression. This approach encourages personal growth and social responsibility, empowering individuals to make a positive impact. By valuing empathy and compassion, Emile gains a deeper understanding of human nature and societal dynamics. This perspective fosters meaningful relationships and community engagement, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey emphasizes the transformative power of active benevolence, highlighting the importance of empathy and altruism in creating a better world for all. Image of number 10
889 Teach through actions, not speeches. Let experience guide learning. Practice over theory fosters understanding. Focus on practical skills, not rhetoric. This approach empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence and adaptability. By emphasizing experiential learning, students gain valuable insights into human behavior and societal dynamics. This perspective encourages critical thinking and practical skills, promoting personal growth and societal contribution. Emile's education highlights the importance of practical experience and self-awareness in achieving meaningful and fulfilling lives. By valuing action over theory, individuals cultivate resilience and a deeper appreciation for the complexities of the world. Image of number 10
890 To teach rhetoric to passionate youth, engage their interests. Emile, focused on essentials, uses direct language. He persuades with clarity and sincerity, avoiding embellishments. This approach fosters effective communication and understanding, empowering individuals to navigate interactions with confidence and authenticity. By valuing simplicity and sincerity, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human connection and expression. This perspective encourages individuals to communicate with purpose and empathy, promoting personal growth and meaningful relationships. Emile's education highlights the importance of authentic communication, emphasizing the value of clear and sincere expression in fostering genuine connections and understanding. Image of number 10
891 Emile's youthful warmth infuses his words and actions with passion. His eloquence stems from genuine emotion, conveying love for humanity. This authenticity fosters connection and understanding, empowering individuals to navigate relationships with empathy and sincerity. By valuing genuine expression, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human connection and compassion. This perspective encourages individuals to communicate with authenticity and empathy, promoting personal growth and meaningful relationships. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of heartfelt communication, emphasizing the importance of sincerity and compassion in fostering genuine connections and understanding. Image of number 10
892 Active benevolence enriches young minds, fostering practical wisdom. Emile gains life knowledge by engaging with others, enhancing understanding of human behavior. This approach empowers individuals to navigate societal dynamics with empathy and insight. By valuing practical experience, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for the complexities of human nature. This perspective encourages critical thinking and social responsibility, promoting personal growth and meaningful contributions. Emile's education highlights the importance of practical wisdom, emphasizing the value of active engagement and empathy in achieving fulfilling and impactful lives. Image of number 10
893 Extend self-love to others, transforming it into virtue. Emile learns to care for humanity, promoting justice and truth. By focusing on collective well-being, he fosters empathy and fairness. This approach empowers individuals to navigate societal challenges with compassion and integrity. By valuing justice and empathy, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human connection and social responsibility. This perspective encourages individuals to contribute meaningfully to their communities, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of empathy and justice, emphasizing the importance of collective well-being in creating a better world for all. Image of number 10
894 Prevent pity from becoming weakness by generalizing it to all humanity. Justice aligns with pity for the common good. Emile prioritizes justice, understanding its role in promoting societal well-being. This approach fosters empathy and social responsibility, empowering individuals to make a positive impact. By valuing justice and compassion, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human connection and societal dynamics. This perspective encourages individuals to act with integrity and empathy, promoting personal growth and meaningful contributions. Emile's journey emphasizes the importance of justice and empathy, highlighting their role in fostering a harmonious and equitable society. Image of number 10
895 Benevolence toward others benefits Emile too, fostering joy and wisdom. By helping others, Emile learns about himself. This approach encourages personal growth and empathy, empowering individuals to navigate life's complexities with compassion and insight. By valuing benevolence, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human connection and self-awareness. This perspective fosters meaningful relationships and community engagement, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of helping others, emphasizing the importance of empathy and self-awareness in creating a more compassionate and understanding world. Image of number 10
896 Emile's education fosters noble sentiments, wisdom, and empathy. He learns justice, beauty, and moral order. This approach empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with integrity and insight. By valuing justice and empathy, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human connection and societal dynamics. This perspective encourages critical thinking and social responsibility, promoting personal growth and meaningful contributions. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of education, emphasizing the importance of empathy and justice in creating a harmonious and equitable society. Through learning, Emile gains clarity and understanding, enriching his life and the lives of others. Image of number 10
897 I challenge prevailing beliefs, offering a fresh perspective. Emile, shaped by nature, seems different. Critics see fantasy; I see reality. Education transforms individuals, fostering unique growth. This approach encourages critical thinking and self-awareness, empowering individuals to navigate societal dynamics with insight and authenticity. By valuing individuality and personal growth, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human diversity and potential. This perspective fosters meaningful connections and community engagement, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of education, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and individuality in creating a more understanding and accepting world. Image of number 10
898 Education diverges from conventional paths, fostering unique growth. Emile and traditional pupils differ due to varied influences. This approach encourages critical thinking and individuality, empowering individuals to navigate societal dynamics with insight and authenticity. By valuing diversity and personal growth, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human potential and creativity. This perspective fosters meaningful connections and community engagement, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of education, emphasizing the importance of individuality and creativity in creating a more understanding and accepting world. Through learning, Emile gains clarity and understanding, enriching his life and the lives of others. Image of number 10
899 Critics doubt unique youth, likening them to stunted trees. Emile's growth defies norms, shaped by education. This approach encourages critical thinking and individuality, empowering individuals to navigate societal dynamics with insight and authenticity. By valuing diversity and personal growth, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human potential and creativity. This perspective fosters meaningful connections and community engagement, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of education, emphasizing the importance of individuality and creativity in creating a more understanding and accepting world. Through learning, Emile gains clarity and understanding, enriching his life and the lives of others. Image of number 10
900 Critics should consider education's impact on individual growth. Emile's journey reveals the power of learning and self-awareness. This approach encourages critical thinking and individuality, empowering individuals to navigate societal dynamics with insight and authenticity. By valuing education and personal growth, Emile develops a deeper appreciation for human potential and creativity. This perspective fosters meaningful connections and community engagement, promoting personal fulfillment and societal harmony. Emile's journey highlights the transformative power of education, emphasizing the importance of individuality and self-awareness in creating a more understanding and accepting world. Through learning, Emile gains clarity and understanding, enriching his life and the lives of others. Image of number 10
901 I observe people globally, identifying universal traits across cultures and classes. I reject biases tied to specific nations or ranks, focusing on what defines humanity. My insights stem from direct observation, not theory. This comprehensive perspective shapes my understanding of human nature. By embracing diverse experiences, I uncover shared qualities that transcend societal boundaries. This approach fosters empathy and a deeper connection to humanity. By valuing commonalities, we enrich our understanding of the human condition, promoting unity and compassion. Through observation, I gain a broader perspective, fostering meaningful connections and insights into the essence of being human. Image of number 10
902 If you follow a youth unshaped by authority or others' opinions, he will resemble my pupil more than yours. This approach emphasizes independence and critical thinking, fostering individuality and self-awareness. By nurturing autonomy, we empower individuals to navigate life's complexities with confidence and authenticity. This perspective encourages personal growth and self-discovery, promoting a deeper understanding of oneself and the world. By valuing independent thought, individuals develop resilience and adaptability, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. This journey highlights the importance of self-awareness and individuality in shaping a meaningful and fulfilling existence. Image of number 10
903 Thinking is difficult to start but impossible to stop. Once a thinker, always a thinker. Reflection becomes a lifelong pursuit. The mind, once engaged, never rests. Some may believe I push too far or hold back, but understanding unfolds naturally, at its own pace. This process fosters continuous growth and learning, empowering individuals to explore ideas and concepts with curiosity and insight. By valuing reflection and introspection, individuals develop a deeper understanding of themselves and the world, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of thought, for it is the path to wisdom. Image of number 10
904 I train a natural man, not a savage. Amid social life, he resists passions and opinions. Governed by reason, he gains wisdom. Observing folly without joining it, he learns. Cities offer lessons forests can't. Experiences sharpen understanding. This approach fosters critical thinking and self-awareness, empowering individuals to navigate societal dynamics with insight and authenticity. By valuing observation and reason, individuals develop resilience and adaptability, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. This journey highlights the transformative power of self-awareness and rationality, emphasizing the importance of balancing individuality with societal influences in creating a meaningful and fulfilling life. Image of number 10
905 Our faculties are limited to tangible objects, hindering abstract thought. Progress in understanding requires gradual steps or leaps beyond our senses. This challenge underscores the difficulty of teaching complex ideas to children. By recognizing these limitations, we can tailor education to foster comprehension and growth. This approach emphasizes patience and adaptability, empowering individuals to navigate intellectual challenges with resilience and insight. By valuing gradual learning and experiential understanding, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for complex concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of learning, for it is the path to wisdom and enlightenment. Image of number 10
906 The incomprehensible creator, unseen and untouchable, eludes our senses. We see the work but not the worker. Understanding its existence is significant, yet its nature overwhelms us. As we ponder, our minds stray. This mystery challenges comprehension, underscoring the limits of human perception. By acknowledging these boundaries, we foster humility and curiosity, empowering individuals to explore the unknown with wonder and insight. This approach encourages critical thinking and open-mindedness, promoting personal growth and intellectual exploration. Embrace the mystery of existence, for it invites us to question, learn, and expand our understanding of the world and ourselves. Image of number 10
907 Locke advocates starting with spirits, leading to superstition. True learning begins with the tangible, fostering reason and understanding. Understanding bodies precedes comprehending spirits. This approach combats materialism by grounding learning in observable reality. By emphasizing practical knowledge, individuals develop critical thinking and insight, empowering them to navigate intellectual challenges with clarity and authenticity. By valuing experiential learning, we foster a deeper understanding of complex concepts, enriching lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it is the path to wisdom and enlightenment, fostering a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and knowledge. Image of number 10
908 Our senses guide learning, grasping tangible bodies first. "Spirit" means nothing to the unlearned, who equate it with bodies. Spirits with arms and voices resemble bodies, leading to corporeal gods. Words shape beliefs, often reducing divine concepts to human forms. This approach highlights the power of language in shaping understanding, emphasizing the need for clarity and authenticity. By valuing experiential learning, individuals develop critical thinking and insight, empowering them to navigate complex concepts with clarity and authenticity. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and knowledge. Image of number 10
909 Man perceived everything as alive, filling the world with gods. Matter and spirit concepts developed slowly, with polytheism and idolatry as early beliefs. As ideas generalized, the notion of a single God emerged. Children's initial beliefs often anthropomorphize deities. This perspective highlights the evolution of human understanding and the influence of culture on beliefs. By valuing open-mindedness and critical thinking, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for diverse perspectives and beliefs, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and human thought. Image of number 10
910 Abstract substance ideas require incompatible properties like thought and size. Divisible size contrasts with indivisible thought. Substance-thought relation mirrors substance-size. Death separates substances, with beings embodying both. This perspective highlights the complexities of philosophical concepts and their impact on understanding existence. By valuing critical thinking and open-mindedness, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for diverse perspectives and beliefs, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and human thought, promoting intellectual exploration and a deeper understanding of the world and ourselves. Image of number 10
911 Divine nature concepts, like creation and omnipotence, confuse most people. Children grasp little beyond tangible experiences. Infinity and God's power seem smaller to them than known dimensions. This highlights the gap between abstract ideas and a child's understanding. By valuing experiential learning and patience, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for complex concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of learning, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and knowledge. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of human thought and the nature of the divine. Image of number 10
912 I follow my pupil without discussing religion. At fifteen, he may not know he has a soul, and perhaps not even at eighteen. Learning too early risks never truly knowing. This approach emphasizes patience and experiential understanding, fostering genuine insight and awareness. By valuing personal growth and individual development, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for complex concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and knowledge. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of human thought. Image of number 10
913 Teaching children catechism is regrettable folly. Mysteries surpass human understanding, and premature teaching breeds lies. Admitting mysteries requires recognizing their incomprehensibility, beyond children's grasp. At an age when everything is mysterious, there are no true mysteries. This perspective emphasizes the importance of age-appropriate learning and critical thinking, fostering genuine understanding and insight. By valuing patience and experiential learning, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for complex concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and knowledge. Image of number 10
914 Misunderstood doctrine leads to intolerance, undermining reason with empty words. Mere recitation can't merit salvation. Children and birds could populate heaven if words suffice. This highlights the need for genuine understanding and critical thinking in faith. By valuing authenticity and experiential learning, individuals develop a deeper appreciation for spiritual concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of faith and reason. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of belief, promoting a deeper connection to spirituality and meaning. Image of number 10
915 Belief in children is geographical; they echo teachings without understanding. Faith varies by location, questioning reward for birthplace. Children's beliefs reflect surroundings, not understanding. This perspective emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and experiential learning in faith. By valuing authenticity and open-mindedness, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for spiritual concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of faith and reason. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of belief, promoting a deeper connection to spirituality and meaning. Image of number 10
916 Children before reason retain happiness, even without belief. Capacity for faith varies by age. Children and the mentally challenged are exempt from belief requirements. This highlights understanding's role in salvation. By valuing patience and age-appropriate learning, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for spiritual concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of faith and reason. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of belief, promoting a deeper connection to spirituality and meaning in the human experience. Image of number 10
917 Age without faith doesn't deny divine presence if blindness wasn't chosen. Ignorance isn't always willful. Lunatics retain creator's goodness despite mental loss. Savages, isolated from society, lack divine knowledge. Eternal justice counts potential belief. Ignorance isn't punished. This perspective emphasizes understanding's role in spiritual judgment. By valuing empathy and open-mindedness, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for spiritual concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of faith and reason, promoting compassion and understanding in spiritual beliefs. Image of number 10
918 Proclaim truth to those unready, risking error. Better no concept than harmful ones. Unworthy ideas insult divinity. Plutarch preferred disbelief over injustice. This perspective emphasizes the importance of readiness and understanding in spiritual teaching. By valuing patience and experiential learning, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for spiritual concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of faith and reason. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of belief, promoting a deeper connection to spirituality and meaning. Image of number 10
919 Deformed divine ideas persist from childhood. In Switzerland, a mother withheld religion to encourage better understanding later. Curiosity grew from mystery. This perspective highlights the impact of early teaching on lifelong beliefs. By valuing patience and experiential learning, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for spiritual concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of faith and reason. Through understanding, individuals gain insight into the complexities of belief, promoting a deeper connection to spirituality and meaning in the human experience. Image of number 10
920 Emile's indifference to the incomprehensible prevents fanaticism. He focuses on what's comprehensible. This perspective emphasizes the importance of readiness and understanding in learning. By valuing patience and experiential learning, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for complex concepts, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of discovery, for it fosters intellectual exploration and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of knowledge and understanding. Through insight, individuals gain a deeper connection to the complexities of human thought, promoting intellectual growth and a balanced perspective on the mysteries of existence and human understanding. Image of number 10
921 We must balance the rapid development of passions with equally rapid growth in knowledge to control them. Society hastens passion's development, so we must guide knowledge to maintain natural order. When passions advance unchecked, knowledge must progress equally to prevent imbalance. This approach ensures harmony in personal growth, preventing individuals from being at different developmental stages in various faculties. By valuing equilibrium, individuals cultivate a balanced understanding of emotions and intellect, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of growth, for it fosters a balanced perspective on personal development and the complexities of human nature. Image of number 10
922 Children are raised in their father's religion, taught it's the only true one. Opinion triumphs, with religious beliefs varying by location. We reject authority, allowing Emile to choose his path through reason. He will decide his beliefs based on his understanding, free from societal pressures. This approach fosters critical thinking and individuality, empowering individuals to navigate spiritual beliefs with authenticity and insight. By valuing personal exploration and open-mindedness, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for diverse perspectives and beliefs, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery in faith and reason. Image of number 10
923 Instead of sharing my thoughts, I present a worthy man's story. Thirty years ago, a young man, exiled and poor, changed his religion for survival. In an Italian town, he faced doubt and witnessed immorality. Desperate, he sought help, finding an ally in a compassionate priest. This story highlights the impact of kindness and guidance in overcoming adversity. By valuing empathy and support, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for human connection, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of understanding, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships. Image of number 10
924 Thirty years ago, a young Calvinist in an Italian town faced poverty and changed his religion for survival. Trapped in a hostel, he encountered moral corruption and struggled against injustice. A compassionate priest helped him escape, risking his safety for the young man's freedom. This story highlights the power of empathy and kindness in overcoming adversity. By valuing compassion and understanding, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for human connection, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships. Image of number 10
925 After escaping vice, the young man struggled against fate, briefly finding success before losing everything. In despair, he remembered his benefactor, the priest. This story highlights the importance of gratitude and the impact of compassion in overcoming adversity. By valuing empathy and understanding, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for human connection, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Image of number 10
926 The young man returned to the priest, who welcomed him with kindness and support. The priest, naturally compassionate and wise, shared his limited resources and taught the young man patience in adversity. This story highlights the power of empathy and guidance in overcoming challenges. By valuing compassion and understanding, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for human connection, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of kindness's transformative impact. Image of number 10
927 The priest was a Savoyard clergyman who, after offending his bishop, found work in Italy. Preferring poverty to dependence, he lived a good life, earning forgiveness and a small parish. This story highlights the importance of integrity and humility in overcoming challenges. By valuing compassion and understanding, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and the impact of character in life's journey. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness and support. Image of number 10
928 The priest saw the young man's heart hardened by misfortune, scorn, and bitterness. The young man, disillusioned by religion's hypocrisy, despised those who claimed knowledge. This story highlights the impact of adversity on perspective and the power of empathy in healing. By valuing understanding and compassion, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for human connection, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness and support. Image of number 10
929 Neglect of religion led the young libertine towards neglecting his duties. Though not inherently bad, incredulity and hardship stifled his nature, leading him to vice and atheism. This story highlights the impact of neglect and adversity on character and the importance of empathy in overcoming challenges. By valuing understanding and compassion, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for human connection, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness. Image of number 10
930 The young man's education and natural modesty kept him from corruption. Disgust, rather than virtue, preserved his innocence from depravity. This story highlights the importance of resilience and the power of empathy in overcoming adversity. By valuing understanding and compassion, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Image of number 10
931 The priest, seeing the young man's potential, was determined to restore him to virtue. He approached this task with zeal, courage, and worthy means. This story highlights the power of empathy and guidance in transforming lives. By valuing compassion and understanding, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Image of number 10
932 The priest won the young man's confidence by treating him as an equal and not preaching. By listening and showing interest, the young man opened up, unknowingly confessing. This story highlights the power of empathy and understanding in building trust and fostering change. By valuing compassion and connection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of the transformative power of kindness. Image of number 10
933 The priest saw that the young man, despite education, lost a sense of good and evil due to hardship. He revived his self-esteem, showing a brighter future through talents and noble deeds. By nurturing admiration for others, the young man regained self-worth. This story highlights the power of empathy and encouragement in overcoming adversity and fostering growth. By valuing understanding and compassion, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and transformative kindness. Image of number 10
934 The priest's discreet generosity taught the young man dignity. When asked for alms, the priest gave from his own pocket, preserving the integrity of entrusted funds. This lesson deeply impacted the young man, highlighting the importance of ethical behavior and self-respect. By valuing integrity and compassion, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and ethical conduct, promoting personal growth and a deeper understanding of virtue. Image of number 10
935 I confess, dear friend, I was the fugitive. My disorders are past, and I honor the hand that rescued me. This story highlights the power of empathy and guidance in transforming lives. By valuing understanding and compassion, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Through this journey, individuals can experience personal growth and a deeper understanding of the importance of gratitude and change. Image of number 10
936 I admired my master's virtue, humanity, and honesty. He helped without imposing conditions. This genuine approach taught me the true essence of integrity and compassion. By valuing authenticity and empathy, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and ethical conduct. Through this journey, individuals can experience personal growth and a deeper understanding of the importance of integrity and compassion in fostering meaningful human connections. Image of number 10
937 I observed contradictions in the priest's beliefs and actions, leading to respect. Despite apparent inconsistencies, his exemplary life and kindness earned my admiration. This story highlights the complexity of human character and the power of empathy in overcoming prejudice. By valuing understanding and open-mindedness, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character development, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, for it fosters a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Through this journey, individuals can experience personal growth and understanding. Image of number 10
938 The priest waited to share his insights, focusing on nurturing kindness and reason. My pride and bitterness hindered progress. The priest gently redirected my anger, promoting compassion for others. This story highlights the power of empathy and patience in overcoming personal obstacles and fostering growth. By valuing understanding and connection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Through this journey, individuals experience personal growth. Image of number 10
939 The priest softened my pride without diminishing self-esteem, teaching empathy over scorn. He revealed genuine struggles behind appearances, encouraging compassion for human frailty. This story highlights the power of understanding and compassion in transforming perspectives and fostering growth. By valuing empathy and connection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Through this journey, individuals experience personal growth and a deeper understanding of human nature. Image of number 10
940 I questioned the priest's happiness amidst adversity. Despite poverty and persecution, he claimed happiness. Curious, I asked how he achieved it. This story highlights the power of perspective and resilience in overcoming challenges and finding contentment. By valuing understanding and gratitude, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal growth and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of kindness and support in challenging times. Through this journey, individuals experience personal growth and a deeper understanding of happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
941 The priest, embracing me, explained that he would confess to me. "I will open my heart to you," he said. "You will see me as I see myself. Once you know my profession of faith and understand my heart, you'll know why I'm happy. If you think as I do, you'll find happiness too. But explaining these ideas about life's true value takes time. Let's find a suitable time and place to continue this conversation without interruption." This story highlights the power of empathy and connection in sharing personal insights and fostering understanding. Embrace the journey of self-discovery. Image of number 10
942 Eager to hear him, we met the next morning. In summer's early light, we left town for a hill above the river Po, overlooking its fertile banks and the distant Alps. The rising sun cast long shadows and enriched the fields with light. Nature displayed her splendor, inspiring our conversation. After silently contemplating the scene, the man of peace spoke. This story highlights the power of nature and tranquility in facilitating meaningful conversations and reflections. Embrace the journey of connection and understanding, for it fosters a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships. Image of number 10
943 PROFESSION OF FAITH OF A SAVOYARD VICAR. "Do not expect learned speeches or profound arguments. I am no philosopher, but I have common sense and a devotion to truth. I won't argue or convince you, only share my thoughts simply. Consult your heart as I speak. If I'm mistaken, my error isn't a crime; if you are, there's no harm. If I'm right, we share reason and should listen to it. Why not think as I do?" This story highlights the importance of sincerity and personal reflection in understanding beliefs and fostering growth. Embrace the journey of self-discovery. Image of number 10
944 Born a poor peasant, I was meant to till the ground, but my parents sent me to college to become a priest. We sought ordination, not truth or goodness. I learned, spoke, and promised as required, becoming a priest. Yet, I soon realized I couldn't forsake my humanity. This story highlights the challenges of adhering to societal expectations and the importance of authenticity in personal growth. By valuing sincerity and individuality, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of authenticity and self-discovery. Image of number 10
945 Conscience persists despite prejudice, following nature's order against human laws. Remorse is weak when actions align with nature's well-ordered path. Youth, nature hasn't appealed to your senses yet; remain innocent. Anticipating nature's teaching offends her more than resisting. Learn to resist before yielding without wrongdoing. This story highlights the importance of understanding natural instincts and the power of self-awareness in personal growth. By valuing introspection and authenticity, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and alignment with nature's order. Image of number 10
946 From youth, I revered marriage as nature's sacred institution. Though I renounced marriage, I respected its sanctity, maintaining simplicity and innocence despite education and reading. Poverty shielded me from vice's temptations. This story highlights the importance of integrity and the power of self-discipline in personal growth. By valuing authenticity and commitment to values, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and alignment with nature's order, fostering a balanced perspective on the complexities of life and human relationships. Image of number 10
947 My resolution led to ruin. Respect for marriage revealed my misconduct. Scandal required atonement; I was arrested, suspended, and dismissed. I was a victim of scruples more than incontinence. Punishment often spares worse faults. This story highlights the challenges of maintaining integrity in the face of adversity and the importance of self-awareness in personal growth. By valuing authenticity and commitment to values, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience in navigating life's complexities and challenges. Image of number 10
948 Experience taught me. Painful events shattered my ideas of justice and duty, eroding accepted opinions. Left with insufficient principles, I questioned everything, losing faith slowly. This story highlights the transformative power of experience and the importance of resilience in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of experience in shaping beliefs and understanding. Image of number 10
949 Doubt and uncertainty, essential to Descartes' truth search, are disquieting. Only vice and idleness maintain them. My heart preferred self-satisfaction, fostering thought. This story highlights the transformative power of doubt and the importance of introspection in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of doubt in shaping beliefs and understanding, leading to personal growth and enlightenment. Image of number 10
950 Adrift in human opinions, without guidance, I pondered the sad fate of mortals. "I love truth," I thought, "but cannot find it. Show me truth, and I'll hold it fast." This story highlights the transformative power of introspection and the importance of seeking truth in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of seeking truth in shaping beliefs. Image of number 10
951 I've suffered worse, but nothing as distressing as this period of unrest and anxiety. Wandering from doubt to doubt, my meditations yielded only uncertainty, darkness, and contradiction regarding my being and duties. This story highlights the transformative power of uncertainty and the importance of resilience in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and introspection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of uncertainty in shaping beliefs and understanding. Image of number 10
952 Skepticism is insincere and miserable. Doubt over essential knowledge is too violent for the mind, forcing decisions. The mind prefers deception over disbelief. This story highlights the transformative power of doubt and the importance of resilience in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of doubt in shaping beliefs and understanding, leading to personal growth and enlightenment. Image of number 10
953 Raised in a decisive church, I had to reject all faith if I rejected one article. Absurd doctrines left me uncertain. When told to believe everything, I believed nothing. This story highlights the challenges of navigating faith and the importance of critical thinking in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and introspection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of questioning beliefs in shaping understanding. Image of number 10
954 I consulted philosophers, but found them proud, dogmatic, and contradictory. They mocked each other and defended weakly, offering no certainty. Their mutual ridicule was their only truth. This story highlights the challenges of philosophical inquiry and the importance of critical thinking in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and introspection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of philosophical inquiry in shaping beliefs and understanding. Image of number 10
955 Diverse opinions arise from human intellect's weakness and pride. We can't measure the universe or understand ourselves, surrounded by mysteries. We imagine answers, each choosing a path. Unaware of limits, we prefer false beliefs over acknowledging ignorance. This story highlights the challenges of understanding the world and the importance of humility in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of humility. Image of number 10
956 Philosophers would not reveal the truth even if they knew it. Each maintains his system for glory, preferring lies over others' truths. Philosophers seek personal glory over truth, preferring lies over others' truths. This story highlights the challenges of philosophical inquiry and the importance of authenticity in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of authenticity in shaping understanding. Image of number 10
957 I learned to focus on what concerns me, accepting ignorance of everything else, and not doubting beyond necessary knowledge. This story highlights the transformative power of introspection and the importance of prioritizing essential knowledge in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of prioritizing essential knowledge in shaping beliefs and understanding, leading to personal growth and enlightenment. Image of number 10
958 Philosophers increased my doubts. I chose another guide: my inner light. It may lead astray, but I'll own my faults, straying less than by trusting deceits. This story highlights the transformative power of introspection and the importance of trusting oneself in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of trusting oneself in shaping beliefs and understanding. Image of number 10
959 Reviewing life's opinions, I saw some more probable than others. Comparing ideas, I found the first, simplest, and most reasonable one was most likely accepted if last. Clarke's system, illuminating and simple, explained facts. Among systems with unsolvable problems, choose the one explaining facts. This story highlights the transformative power of introspection and the importance of simplicity in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and critical thinking, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities. Image of number 10
960 With love of truth as my philosophy and simplicity as my method, I examined knowledge. I accepted the self-evident, admitted truths from it, and left undecided matters unresolved. This story highlights the transformative power of simplicity and the importance of critical thinking in personal growth. By valuing self-awareness and introspection, individuals gain a deeper appreciation for personal development and character, enriching their lives and contributing positively to society. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and resilience, fostering a balanced perspective on life's complexities and the transformative power of simplicity in shaping beliefs and understanding, leading to personal growth and enlightenment. Image of number 10
961 Who am I to decide? What determines my judgments? If inevitable, they're beyond my control. I must first understand myself, the instrument I use, and assess its reliability. Self-awareness is crucial in forming judgments, guiding personal growth, and shaping beliefs. Introspection helps recognize biases and limitations, fostering humility and openness to new perspectives. Embrace self-discovery, acknowledging the complexities of identity and the role of personal experiences in shaping perceptions. This journey enhances understanding, empathy, and resilience, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on the intricacies of human existence and decision-making. Image of number 10
962 I exist and receive impressions through senses. This undeniable truth raises questions: Is my self-awareness independent of sensations? Difficulty arises as sensations persist, challenging the notion of self beyond them. The inquiry explores consciousness, highlighting the interplay between perception and self-awareness. Embrace the complexity of self-existence, recognizing the influence of sensory experiences on identity and understanding. This journey fosters deeper introspection, enhancing personal growth and empathy. By valuing self-awareness and introspection, individuals gain a richer appreciation for life, contributing positively to society and fostering a balanced perspective on human experience's intricacies and consciousness's nature. Image of number 10
963 Sensations occur within me, revealing my existence, but their cause is external, acting independently. This distinction between internal sensation and external cause emphasizes the separation of self and objects. Understanding this relationship enhances self-awareness and perception of the external world, fostering critical thinking and introspection. Embrace the complexity of existence, acknowledging the interplay between internal experiences and external influences. This journey enhances personal growth, empathy, and understanding, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on the intricacies of human experience, self-awareness, and the relationship between internal and external realities. Image of number 10
964 I exist, and so do other entities, the objects of my sensations. Even if they're merely ideas, they're distinct from me. This understanding of separate existence emphasizes the distinction between self and perceived entities, fostering critical thinking and introspection. Embrace the complexity of existence, acknowledging the interplay between self-awareness and external influences. This journey enhances personal growth, empathy, and understanding, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on the intricacies of human experience, self-awareness, and the relationship between internal and external realities. Recognize the uniqueness of individual experiences and perceptions. Image of number 10
965 Everything outside me, affecting my senses, I call matter. Particles forming entities are bodies. Idealist and realist disputes hold no meaning; appearance vs. reality distinctions are fanciful. This understanding simplifies perception, emphasizing the tangible nature of matter. Embrace the straightforwardness of existence, recognizing the influence of external entities on perception and understanding. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on the intricacies of human experience, self-awareness, and the relationship between internal perceptions and external realities. Image of number 10
966 I'm convinced of the universe's existence and my own. I examine my sensations' objects, discovering a newfound ability to compare them, revealing an active force. This realization highlights the dynamic nature of perception and the mind's role in understanding the world. Embrace the complexity of existence, recognizing the interplay between perception and cognition. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on the intricacies of human experience, self-awareness, and the relationship between internal perceptions and external realities. Image of number 10
967 Perceiving is feeling; comparing is judging. Sensation presents objects separately, while comparison reveals relations. An active being's power lies in understanding "is." A sensitive entity lacks this comparing and judging force. It perceives objects and wholes but cannot compare or judge. This distinction emphasizes the active role of cognition in understanding relationships and the complexity of perception. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing the interplay between sensation and cognition. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception. Image of number 10
968 Seeing two things doesn't reveal their relations or differences. Perceiving several objects doesn't relate them. I can imagine a big and a small stick without comparing or judging their differences. Comparative ideas like greater, smaller, and numbers aren't sensations but emerge with them. This highlights cognition's role in understanding relationships and the complexity of perception. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing the interplay between sensation and cognition. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
969 A sensitive being distinguishes sensations by inherent differences; explanation is needed. When sensations differ, differences are noted; when alike, awareness comes from successive experiences. Without distinguishing features, two equal, simultaneous objects might be confused, especially if space-related sensations lack extension. This underscores the complexity of perception and the need for understanding the cognitive processes behind distinguishing sensations. Embrace the intricacies of existence, recognizing the interplay between sensation and cognition. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
970 When aware of two sensations to compare, the impression forms, and objects are perceived, but their relation isn't. If the judgment of relation were sensation alone, my judgments would be infallible, for I feel what I feel. This highlights the active role of cognition in understanding relationships and the complexity of perception. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing the interplay between sensation and cognition. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
971 Why am I mistaken about the relation between sticks, especially when not parallel? Why say the small stick is a third of the large when it's a quarter? Sensation is truthful; error lies in comparison. My understanding adds mistakes to sensation's truth. This highlights cognition's active role in judgment and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
972 If we're passive in sensation, our senses wouldn't communicate. We'd never know if the touched and seen body are the same. Perception would be fragmented into five sensory substances, lacking identity recognition. This highlights cognition's role in integrating sensory experiences and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
973 My mind's power unites and compares sensations, termed attention, reflection, etc. It's within me, not things, produced by me but triggered by things. Though compelled to feel or not, I'm free to examine sensations more or less. This highlights cognition's active role in understanding relationships and the complexity of perception. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
974 I'm not merely sensitive and passive but active and intelligent. Despite philosophy, I dare to think. Truth is in things, not my judging spirit. Less self in judgments brings me closer to truth. Reason confirms relying on sensations over reasoning. This highlights cognition's active role in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
975 Secure in myself, I observe the universe, feeling random amidst countless entities, ignorant of their essence or relation to me. I study and compare them, first with myself. This highlights the active role of cognition in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
976 All sensed entities are matter. I deduce matter's essential properties from inseparable qualities. Observing matter in motion and rest, I infer neither is essential. Motion, an action, results from external cause; rest's absence of action. Matter, indifferent to motion or rest, naturally rests. This highlights the dynamic role of cognition in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
977 Two motion types: acquired and spontaneous. Acquired stems from external causes; spontaneous is internal. Watches aren't spontaneous; without external causes, springs run down. Fluids and fire don't move spontaneously. This highlights cognition's active role in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
978 Are animal movements spontaneous? I can't tell, but analogy suggests so. I know spontaneity exists because I feel it. I move my arm by will, without external cause. This feeling defies argument; it's as undeniable as existence. This highlights cognition's active role in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
979 Without spontaneity in actions, first cause is elusive. I'm convinced matter naturally rests, lacking self-action. Seeing a moving body, I infer life or imparted motion. My mind rejects inorganic matter moving independently or causing action. This highlights cognition's active role in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
980 The visible universe is diffused, dead matter lacking living cohesion. We, as parts, lack whole awareness. The universe moves with order and fixed laws, unlike spontaneous human and animal movements. Not a self-moving animal, it's driven by an external cause. This highlights cognition's active role in understanding relationships and perception's complexity. Embrace the dynamic nature of existence, recognizing sensation and cognition interplay. This journey enhances personal growth, critical thinking, and introspection, enriching life and contributing positively to society by fostering a balanced perspective on human experience and perception's nature. Image of number 10
981 Accepting general laws without understanding their link to matter leaves questions unanswered. These laws aren't substances and have unknown bases. Observation reveals motion laws but not causes. Descartes' universe relied on rotation; Newton needed a force for planetary motion. The absence of such a force implies no motion. Embracing this understanding urges us to seek deeper truths. It highlights the importance of exploring beyond the surface, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey fosters a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the significance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge. Image of number 10
982 Motion's origin isn't matter; it transmits but doesn't produce it. Observing nature's forces reveals a first cause, a will, as endless causes imply no beginning. Motion without another's cause stems from will; inanimate bodies act only by motion, and action requires will. This principle highlights the belief in a universal will initiating motion and life. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey fosters a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's interconnectedness and the universe's intricacies. Image of number 10
983 Will's role in physical action remains mysterious; I sense it within me, yet inanimate objects moving unaided are incomprehensible. Will, known through action, defies nature's understanding. Recognizing will as a cause contrasts with matter producing motion. Embracing this understanding highlights the need to explore beyond the surface, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey fosters a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing the complexities of existence, and encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of life and the universe. Image of number 10
984 Understanding will's impact on the body and sensations affecting the mind is equally baffling. Whether active or passive, the union of substances remains incomprehensible. The belief that operations differ when substances combine challenges understanding. This highlights the complexities of existence, urging deeper exploration of the mind-body connection. Embracing this understanding encourages introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and fostering a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing the intricacies of existence, and encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace life's interconnectedness. Image of number 10
985 My doctrine is obscure yet meaningful, unlike materialism. If motion were matter's essence, it wouldn't vary or be transmissible. Motion arising externally implies a cause beyond matter, returning to our initial question. This highlights the complexity of understanding motion's origin and the need for deeper exploration. Embracing this understanding encourages introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and fostering a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing the intricacies of existence, and encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace life's interconnectedness. Image of number 10
986 Human error stems from abstract ideas; metaphysical jargon conceals truth, revealing absurdities. Blind force lacks meaning. Motion entails direction; matter can't move everywhere. Matter's direction raises questions of causes and differences. Chaos is less conceivable than harmony. Understanding universe mechanics requires clarity, challenging the notion of blind force. Embracing this understanding fosters critical thinking and questioning, encouraging deeper exploration of truth. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of understanding and introspection in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities, and encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence. Image of number 10
987 Motion suggests will; motion by laws suggests intelligence. This is my second creed article. Action, comparison, and choice reveal an active, thinking being. It exists not only in the heavens or within me but in the sheep, bird, falling stone, and wind-blown leaf. This belief highlights the interconnectedness of existence, emphasizing the role of intelligence in the universe's order. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's intricacies. Image of number 10
988 Judging the world's order requires comparing parts, observing cooperation, and united action. The universe's purpose is unknown, yet change and connection are evident. Like a watch's mechanism, the universe's intricacy suggests a craftsman. Admiring the details, I'm convinced of a common end beyond perception. This belief emphasizes the role of order and purpose in the universe, highlighting interconnectedness and the significance of understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge. Image of number 10
989 Comparing special ends and means, listening to inner feelings, reveals a supreme intelligence in the universe's order. Without prejudice, the harmony of existence and cooperation of parts for maintenance are evident. Chance and combinations can't explain it. Imperfect organs or fortuitous formations don't exist now. Nature's laws prevent chaos, suggesting a higher intelligence. This belief emphasizes the role of order and purpose in the universe, highlighting interconnectedness and the significance of understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge. Image of number 10
990 Reading Neuwentit shocked me; nature's wonders need no book. Exhaustive detailing misses the concord of the whole. Generation of living bodies puzzles the mind; species' separation prevents disorder, proving intention. Nature's order and measures maintain harmony. This belief emphasizes the role of order and purpose in the universe, highlighting interconnectedness and the significance of understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's intricacies and the universe's wonders. Image of number 10
991 Each being in the universe can be seen as a center, with all others surrounding it. They are ends and means in relation to each other. The mind struggles with countless relations, yet harmony persists. Blind mechanism can't explain it. Intelligence orders this system. It's impossible to believe dead matter created living beings or that chance birthed intelligence. This belief emphasizes the role of intelligence and order in the universe, highlighting interconnectedness and understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe. Image of number 10
992 I believe a wise, powerful will governs the world. I feel it, and that's significant. Has the world always existed? Is there a single source? I don't know, nor does it matter now. These speculations are idle, affecting neither conduct nor comprehension. When they become important, I'll learn. Until then, I avoid troubling thoughts. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities and the universe's interconnectedness. Image of number 10
993 I share my opinion, not preach it. Matter's origin is irrelevant; unity and intelligence are evident. The universe's order aims for conservation. The being who wills and acts, who orders all, I call God. To this name, I add intelligence, power, will, and kindness, but I know little of this being. He is hidden from senses and understanding. Pondering Him perplexes me. I know He exists and my existence depends on His. I see God in works, feel Him within, and behold Him around me. Yet, pondering His essence eludes me, and my troubled spirit finds nothing. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. Image of number 10
994 Convinced of my unfitness, I avoid arguing about God's nature unless driven by personal feelings. Such reasoning is rash; a wise man approaches it with caution, acknowledging abysses beyond comprehension. The worst disrespect to God isn't neglecting thought, but harboring negative thoughts. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities and the universe's interconnectedness, and encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the mysteries of existence. Image of number 10
995 After discovering God's attributes, I examine my place in His governed order. I'm confident in my species; my will and tools give me power over bodies. I control or avoid their action, while none can act against my will. My intelligence lets me examine the rest. No being observes, measures, or relates to others like humans. Considering this, I wonder if all things are made for me. This thought emphasizes human uniqueness and purpose, highlighting interconnectedness and understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery, revealing life's complexities and the universe's wonders. Image of number 10
996 Man is earth's lord, taming beasts and controlling elements. He alone comprehends it. Contemplation grants stars' possession. Show me another creature making fire or admiring the sun. Observing, knowing, and feeling order, beauty, and virtue elevate man. Gloomy philosophy likens man to beasts, but his genius and kind heart prove excellence. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities and the universe's interconnectedness, encouraging deeper truths. Image of number 10
997 I'm not committed to any system. As an honest, impartial person, I avoid sect leadership. I'm content with my place in God's order. I see nothing, next to God, better than my species. If choosing my place in creation, I'd still choose to be a man. This thought emphasizes human uniqueness and purpose, highlighting interconnectedness and understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities and the universe's wonders. Image of number 10
998 I'm not boastful, but deeply moved. My state wasn't my choice; it wasn't deserved. Seeing myself thus honored, I bless the hand that bestowed it. Gratitude for my species' creator evokes my first homage to God. I worship His power, and my heart acknowledges His mercies. Amour de soi naturally honors and loves our protector and benefactor. This belief emphasizes the significance of gratitude and understanding, highlighting interconnectedness and purpose. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery, revealing life's complexities and the universe's interconnectedness, encouraging deeper truths. Image of number 10
999 Desiring my place in humanity, I see chaos. Nature's harmony contrasts human disorder. Elements align; men are in chaos. Beasts are happy; man's wretched . Wisdom, where are thy laws? Providence, is this thy rule? Merciful God, where is thy Power? Evil taints earth. This thought emphasizes the contrast between nature's order and human disorder, highlighting interconnectedness and understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities. Image of number 10
1000 Amid gloomy thoughts and contradictions, I discovered the soul, previously elusive. Studying man's nature revealed two principles: one elevates to eternal truths, justice, morality; the other enslaves to senses and passions. Conflicted, I realized man isn't singular. I will and resist, feel both free and enslaved. I perceive right, love it, yet err. Listening to reason is active; passions make me passive. Yielding brings suffering from resistance's potential. This thought emphasizes the duality of human nature, highlighting interconnectedness and understanding. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. Image of number 10
1001 Young man, trust my honesty. If conscience is a prejudice, morality lacks proof. If self-interest and justice are innate, contradictions arise. Substance implies primitive qualities, distinct from secondary ones. If qualities are exclusive, there are multiple substances. Locke's view is debated; matter's divisibility denies thought. Philosophers claiming stones think are sophists. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding substance and qualities, highlighting the importance of questioning and introspection. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence. Image of number 10
1002 Substance denotes a being with primitive qualities, distinct from secondary ones. If qualities coexist, only one substance exists. If they exclude each other, multiple substances exist. Consider Locke's views: matter's divisibility contradicts thought. Philosophers claiming stones think are sophists. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding substance and qualities, highlighting the importance of questioning and introspection. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1003 A deaf man denying sound's existence sees vibrating strings. Told sound causes it, he attributes it to the string. Challenged to show similar vibrations or causes, he fails. Without perceiving sound, he denies it, preferring to explain obscure facts with more obscure causes. This analogy highlights materialists' arguments, emphasizing the challenge of understanding unseen forces. Embracing this understanding encourages introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and fostering a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's intricacies and the universe's wonders. Image of number 10
1004 Materialists resemble the deaf, ignoring the inner voice affirming thought's uniqueness. Machines lack thought; movement and form don't create reflection. Within, something resists confinement. Space can't contain it; sentiments and desires transcend the body. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding consciousness and thought, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1005 Material creatures aren't active, but I am. Feeling trumps reason in asserting this. My body interacts with others, but my will is independent. I choose or resist, aware of yielding to passions or acting on will. Freedom persists unless suppressed by wrongdoing. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding consciousness and thought, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1006 Awareness of will and intelligence is limited. Judgment and will share a cause. If man is active in judgments, freedom parallels intelligence. Choosing between good and evil mirrors judging truth. Judgment causes will, driven by intelligence. Beyond this, understanding ceases. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding will, judgment, and intelligence, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1007 Freedom lies in willing one's good without external compulsion. Not being other than oneself doesn't negate mastery over one's actions. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding will, judgment, and intelligence, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1008 The will of a free creature powers action. Freedom defines will. Necessity implies effects without cause. Original impulse lacks antecedent cause. True will requires freedom. Man's freedom implies immaterial substance, forming my third creed article. The rest follows logically. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding will, judgment, and intelligence, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1009 Man, active and free, acts independently of Providence. Evil isn't willed by Providence but allowed due to human freedom. Providence limits human power to prevent general disorder. Evil affects the individual, preserving species. Freedom offers virtue's choice. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding will, judgment, and intelligence, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1010 Our powers' misuse causes unhappiness and wickedness. Suffering arises from self-made moral and physical ills. Nature uses needs for preservation; pain signals disorder. Death isn't evil but relief. Primitive simplicity minimizes suffering and passion. Seeking imaginary good invites real ills. Enduring minor pain prevents major suffering. Neglecting nature's laws blames nature for self-inflicted ills. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding suffering and the consequences of human actions, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence. Image of number 10
1011 Man is the author of evil, creating and suffering it. General evil arises from disorder; the world's order is constant. Specific evil is felt by the sufferer, not nature. Simple lives minimize suffering and passion. Removing progress, faults, and vices reveals well-being. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding suffering and the consequences of human actions, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1012 Where all is well, injustice vanishes. Justice and goodness align. Omnipotence projects into creation, preserving order. God wills good; power ensures justice. Supreme justice preserves order, ensuring goodness. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding justice, goodness, and divine will, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1013 God owes creatures what He promised through creation. Feeling the need for good implies promise. Conscience demands justice and happiness. Present reality contradicts expectation; wickedness prospers, righteousness suffers. Conscience accuses the Creator when disappointed. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding justice, goodness, and divine will, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1014 Virtue's reward isn't immediate. Brutus, don't abandon hope or glory in death. Virtue's promise endures beyond life. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding virtue, reward, and divine will, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1015 Impatient complaints demand rewards before deserved. Goodness precedes happiness; victory follows effort. Virtue earns reward post-achievement, not before. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding virtue, reward, and divine will, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1016 If the soul is immaterial, it may survive the body, justifying Providence. Wickedness triumphs, righteousness suffers. Post-death, harmony resolves discord. The soul's imperceptible nature suggests survival. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1017 Is the soul naturally immortal? Understanding's limits prevent grasping eternity. The soul's survival ensures order. Destruction of consciousness is inconceivable, suggesting its persistence. This comforting assumption aligns with reason. Embracing this understanding fosters introspection, acknowledging limits in perception, and encouraging a journey of discovery. This journey promotes a balanced view of the universe, emphasizing the importance of questioning and understanding in shaping beliefs and knowledge, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1018 Aware of the soul through feeling and thought, I lack its essence's knowledge. Personal identity relies on memory. Post-death, remembering actions affects fate. Conscience strengthens post-death. Happiness comes from self-content; remorse, from degradation. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding identity, memory, and conscience, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1019 The wicked's eternal torment is uncertain. Their fate concerns me little. Justice seeks vengeance in life, using errors as punishment. A hell within punishes crimes. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding justice, vengeance, and punishment, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1020 When needs and desires end, passions and crimes cease. Pure spirits desire good. If eternal punishment ends, I thank God. The wicked's happiness enhances mine. This belief emphasizes the complexity of understanding justice, vengeance, and punishment, highlighting the importance of introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace the interconnectedness of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of thought and consciousness. Image of number 10
1021 Contemplating God's works, I've grasped an idea of the Infinite Being. As I approach this eternal light, I abandon earthly notions. God isn't corporeal; the supreme mind isn't the world itself. I struggle to grasp His essence. God gives life and movement. My soul's spirituality doesn't equate to God's essence. God is the absolute, active, feeling, thinking being, giving us existence. Our freedom stems from His will. God's substance relates to our souls like souls to bodies. I can't grasp creation, but I know He formed the universe. God is eternal, enduring beyond all things, beyond comprehension. Image of number 10
1022 God's intelligence differs from human reasoning. The Supreme Intelligence is intuitive, seeing all truths as one. Divine power acts without means. God's will is His power. God's happiness lies in love of order, uniting all parts. God's justice demands accountability. Human injustice isn't God's doing. Moral justice, criticized by philosophers, affirms Providence. This belief emphasizes understanding the divine essence, intelligence, and justice, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace existence's interconnectedness, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of divine nature. Image of number 10
1023 I discern God's attributes through unavoidable deductions and reason. I affirm them without understanding. Saying "God is thus" doesn't mean comprehending it. This belief emphasizes understanding the divine essence and attributes, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace existence's interconnectedness, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of divine nature. Image of number 10
1024 Striving to comprehend God's essence deepens my incomprehension. Yet, God's existence suffices. The less I understand, the more I adore. I acknowledge God as the source of my being. My reason yields to God's greatness, delighting in my weakness. This belief emphasizes understanding the divine essence and attributes, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of the universe, encouraging individuals to seek deeper truths and embrace existence's interconnectedness, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of divine nature. Image of number 10
1025 From sensory perception and inner consciousness, I discern truths. I seek conduct principles aligned with my destiny. Not derived from higher philosophy, these rules reside within, inscribed by nature. Conscience guides actions: right feels right, wrong feels wrong. Conscience speaks for the soul; passions for the body. These voices may contradict, yet conscience never deceives. It parallels instinct, steering the soul. Obeying conscience aligns with nature. My benefactor stresses its importance, urging reflection. This belief emphasizes understanding conscience, morality, and human nature, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities. Image of number 10
1026 Morality stems from our judgments. Goodness aligns with nature, promoting health. If man is naturally evil, goodness defies nature. If harm defines man, virtue causes remorse. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and goodness, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1027 Examine our inclinations: joy or suffering? Kindness or cruelty? Theatre captivates with noble deeds, not crimes. Friendship and humanity console. Morality evokes admiration. Why prefer Cato's sacrifice to Caesar's triumph? Love for nobility enriches life. Mean-spirited individuals lack joy and empathy, feeling lifeless. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and nobility, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1028 Few souls prioritize self-interest over righteousness. We abhor injustice unless it benefits us. Acts of violence incite instinctive anger; the law restrains us. Mercy and generosity inspire reverence. History's justice resonates. Happiness includes others' joy. Even the depraved show compassion. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and justice, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1029 Remorse, a secret punishment, reveals hidden crimes. Its unwelcome voice torments us. Nature's call offers joy in a clear conscience. The wicked seek diversion, fearing themselves. The just find peace within, joyful in solitude and company. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and justice, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1030 Across nations and history, ideas of justice and morality persist. Pagan gods inspired vice, but moral instincts resisted. Debauchery and reverence coexisted. Nature's sacred voice prevailed, relegating guilt to the divine. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and justice, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1031 An innate principle of justice and virtue resides in our hearts, guiding judgments. Conscience defines this principle. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1032 Skeptics dismiss conscience as prejudice, arguing experience shapes ideas. They ignore universal moral agreement. Montaigne cites exceptions, but isolated customs don't nullify universal principles. Truth and honesty demand acknowledging conscience's prevalence. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1033 Self-interest allegedly promotes common good. Why do the good suffer? Self-interest only explains wickedness. Philosophy lacking moral good finds evil motives or defames virtue. Nature and reason protest against such doctrines. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1034 Metaphysical discussions elude understanding. My aim is self-consultation. If philosophers prove me wrong, your feelings affirm my truth. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1035 Distinguishing acquired ideas from natural feelings is vital. Feelings precede knowledge. Nature instills love of good and hatred of evil. Conscience's decrees arise from feelings, not judgments. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1036 Existence is rooted in feeling, preceding intelligence. Innate feelings guide preservation. Humans are sociable by nature, fostering moral conscience. Knowledge doesn't guarantee love of good; conscience does. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1037 Conscience's force arises from nature, independent of reason. Denying it doesn't negate its existence. Affirmation and inner witness support conscience's reality. Simplicity aligns with true feelings. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1038 Conscience, a divine instinct, guides humanity. It defines excellence and morality, distinguishing us from beasts. Without it, reason leads to error. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1039 Freed from philosophy, we find a moral guide in conscience. Awareness isn't enough; we must heed her voice. Conscience's language is nature's, often forgotten. Prejudices drown her, fanaticism corrupts her. Scorn silences conscience, making her hard to recall. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and conscience, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1040 My inquiries faced weariness and doubt. Moral good seemed elusive. Without soul's pleasures, recovery is hard. A wretched life lacks self-knowledge and goodness. Yet, well-doing's temptation is irresistible. Virtue's joy requires effort. Embracing her reveals her true self. This belief emphasizes understanding morality, human nature, and virtue, encouraging introspection and questioning. Embracing this understanding fosters a balanced view of existence, revealing life's complexities and the mysteries of morality. Image of number 10
1041 Struggling between common welfare and self-interest, I found peace in virtue through a truth that aligned my actions and beliefs. Reason alone doesn't establish virtue; it's also about the love of order. The good man extends his considerations to everyone, while the wicked only to himself. Without a divine center, selfishness might seem justifiable. Virtue aligns with a universal order, reflecting a godly design. Image of number 10
1042 Discovering wisdom alleviates the burdens of vanity and passion. Natural laws re-engraved in my heart by divine justice guide me. Feeling as an instrument of the Almighty, I embrace the order set by Him, finding joy in being part of a benevolent system. Suffering and injustice are endured with the belief in divine recompense, making the concept of death less daunting. Image of number 10
1043 Questioning why the soul is constrained by the body, I speculate on the benefits of such a trial. In a state of freedom, virtue might lack merit. Earthly challenges temper the soul, enhancing its virtues and preparing for eternal bliss. This struggle against physical desires refines the soul, aligning it with a divine order, suggesting a grander design for our trials. Image of number 10
1044 Our vices, though seemingly overpowering, are self-inflicted. Early choices towards virtue or vice set a path difficult to deviate from. Educational and societal influences mold our judgments prematurely, skewing our perceptions of virtue. If taught to value knowledge and goodness from a young age, maintaining virtue would align more naturally with our uncorrupted inclinations. Image of number 10
1045 In youth, the heart, free yet restless, chases illusions of happiness dictated by the senses. Over time, these illusions persist, shaped by the body's desires. Recognizing them as mere distractions allows for a focus on true self-contentment, fostering happiness derived from inner peace rather than external pleasures. Image of number 10
1046 I strive to achieve a state of elevated happiness through deep contemplation of the universe and divine essence. This spiritual exercise enhances my connection with the divine, fostering a profound appreciation and acceptance of the cosmic order. I choose not to implore God for changes but to align my will with His, embracing the inherent goodness and justice in divine design. Image of number 10
1047 Acknowledging my limitations, I seek divine correction for my errors. My beliefs, though held with conviction, are fallible. The pursuit of truth is a humble endeavor, guided by a recognition of one's own potential for error and the ultimate authority of divine truth. Image of number 10
1048 Moved by a passionate discourse with a priest, I felt a profound connection with his words, which seemed to echo an inner truth resonating with my own beliefs. This experience reinforced my faith and the desire to continue exploring spiritual truths. Image of number 10
1049 Confronted with new, profound ideas about natural religion and theism, I find myself needing time to reflect. These concepts challenge my existing beliefs and require careful consideration to reconcile with my spiritual understanding. I'm compelled to explore these thoughts further to align them with my own spiritual journey. Image of number 10
1050 Embracing openness, I'm committed to discussing even the most complex and uncertain aspects of faith. Acknowledging the mysteries and doubts inherent in these discussions, I aim to approach them with sincerity and a willingness to explore various perspectives, emphasizing the value of personal conviction over dogmatic certainty. Image of number 10
1051 Natural religion seems sufficient; why seek more? Serving God through innate knowledge and conscience should align with His divine laws. The complexities added by formal doctrines often distort rather than clarify divine intentions, leading to intolerance and conflict rather than peace and enlightenment. Image of number 10
1052 The diversity of religious practices, often cited as proof of revelation's necessity, ironically demonstrates its pitfalls. If humanity focused on the universal truths expressed through our innate morality, we might discover a unified approach to spirituality. Image of number 10
105 3 The focus on external rituals misses the essence of spiritual worship, which should be heartfelt and sincere, transcending physical forms and expressions. True worship requires no elaborate ceremonies, being a matter of personal faith and inner conviction. Image of number 10
1054 Early in my spiritual journey, I sought direct divine communication, desiring special knowledge and rituals. This pursuit, though driven by a yearning for closeness with the divine, often led to more confusion and a misplaced focus on personal elevation rather than genuine spiritual growth. Image of number 10
1055 Reflecting on the diversity of religious beliefs, I questioned the righteousness of my own convictions. The arbitrary nature of religious adherence, based more on geographical and cultural circumstances than divine truth, seemed unjust and at odds with a benevolent deity. Image of number 10
1056 If all religions claim to be true yet contradict each other, how can any be deemed universally correct? The true religion, if one exists, must be marked by clear, universal signs accessible to all humanity, regardless of their background or circumstances. Image of number 10
1057 In seeking spiritual truth, it is crucial to question and evaluate the teachings of our upbringing and the authorities that enforce them. True understanding requires a personal examination and acceptance of beliefs, not blind adherence to imposed doctrines. Image of number 10
1058 Personal observations and the use of reason form the basis of my theological understanding. Reliance on external authorities, which could be as fallible as myself, is insufficient for genuine spiritual knowledge. True insight comes from direct, personal engagement with the divine. Image of number 10
1059 Faced with the task of discerning divine truth, I remain the ultimate arbiter of what I accept as spiritual knowledge. External testimonies, while influential, must align with my own reasoned convictions to be considered valid. Image of number 10
1060 Direct divine communication would simplify faith, but instead, I rely on human intermediaries. This reliance complicates my understanding and acceptance of spiritual truths, prompting a desire for clearer, more direct signs of divine will. Image of number 10
1081 Delving into historical controversies demands vast knowledge and critical judgment to verify the authenticity of religious documents. The complexities involve assessing genuineness, authorial intent, and contextual accuracy. Discrepancies and forgeries must be identified, ensuring nothing is misrepresented or falsified. The silence and responses of adversaries also play a crucial role in understanding the depth and validity of religious arguments. Image of number 10
1082 Determining the divinity of prophecies involves understanding the probabilities of miraculous events and distinguishing literal prophecies from figurative language. It's crucial to identify what aligns with natural laws and what doesn't, recognizing the potential for deception. The authenticity of miracles and their differentiation from deceptions must be thoroughly established, questioning why divine testimony requires such complex substantiation. Image of number 10
1083 The logic of using a human intermediary for divine will is questioned. Relying on private signs known through secondhand accounts challenges the universality and acceptance of such messages. The prevalence of claimed miracles across various sects suggests a normalcy that detracts from their divine nature, emphasizing the consistent order of nature as a more reliable testament to divine wisdom. Image of number 10
1084 True miracles should be undeniable and performed in public, altering fundamental natural laws, which would clearly demonstrate divine intervention. Instead, many alleged miracles occur in obscure settings, easily dismissed by skeptics. The reliance on miracles to substantiate doctrines, when the miracles themselves require extensive proof, diminishes their credibility and effectiveness as proof of divine truth. Image of number 10
1085 Miracles purported by divine agents must be scrutinized against the doctrine they support, especially since demonic forces could mimic such miracles. The validation of miracles through doctrine and vice versa creates a circular dilemma, making it challenging to discern divine acts from malevolent deceptions without a clear and rational doctrinal basis. Image of number 10
1086 If a doctrine claims divine origin, it must align with our conception of divine attributes and promote morality consistent with divine goodness. Any doctrine depicting God as wrathful or unjust, or promoting division among humanity, contradicts the rational understanding of a benevolent Creator, leading to a rejection of such teachings in favor of a more rational, naturalistic approach to spirituality. Image of number 10
1087 Revelation should clarify and simplify the divine truths obscured by natural religion. It should be accessible and comprehensible, enhancing faith through understanding. Complex dogmas and mysterious doctrines that contradict reason or require the suspension of rational judgment do not align with the divine attribute of enlightenment, suggesting a manipulation rather than a true divine revelation. Image of number 10
1088 Without resorting to human authority, convincing others about a doctrine contrary to reason becomes an insurmountable challenge. The discourse should remain respectful and reasoned, focusing on the merits of the arguments rather than authority or coercion, to truly reflect a pursuit of truth grounded in rational debate and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1089 Debates on divine inspiration versus reason often lead to a clash where reason challenges the contradictions presented by supposed divine messages. The credibility of one claiming divine inspiration is critically questioned, especially when assertions contradict fundamental logical principles, highlighting the tension between faith-based claims and rational inquiry. Image of number 10
1090 The reliance on supernatural proofs like miracles and prophecies to validate religious claims often leads back to the authority of human testimony, which is inherently fallible. This circular reliance questions the very foundation of divine certainty and challenges the coherence and necessity of such supernatural attestations in understanding and accepting religious truths. Image of number 10
1091 Dedicated to my sacred ministry, I vow to uphold virtue and lead by example, avoiding doctrines that incite hatred or division. My role is to make religion appealing and accessible, emphasizing doctrines of universal utility without condemning others to damnation. Despite my low rank and potential risks, I refuse to compromise the divine justice or misrepresent the Holy Spirit's truth. Image of number 10
1092 I aspire to lead a parish, valuing the pastoral role as a conduit for mercy, akin to a magistrate's delivery of justice. In an ideal parish, I'd foster a community grounded in mutual respect and peace, emphasizing the gospel's spirit over rigid doctrinal practices. My approach would promote inclusivity and respect across religious divides, recognizing the validity of each person's faith upbringing. Image of number 10
1093 I share my deeply personal creed for the first time, advising against unsettling the faithful with inscrutable theological debates. In times of doubt, it is crucial to solidify foundational beliefs by stripping away lesser, shaky convictions to reestablish a firm understanding of eternal truths. Image of number 10
1094 At a pivotal age for forming lasting beliefs and habits, it's vital to embrace truths that align with an uncorrupted heart. I offer my insights, distinguished between certainties and doubts, encouraging independent judgment and a lifelong commitment to integrity over mere argumentation. Image of number 10
1095 If you resonate with my views, consider returning to your roots and the religion of your forebears, embracing its simplicity and purity. Ignore societal judgments and embrace a faith that aligns with your inherent beliefs, ensuring your actions are consistent with your professed values. Image of number 10
1096 Maintain a disposition that always leans towards the existence of a divine presence, ensuring your actions reflect the core tenets of any true religion: love for God and neighbor. This foundation transcends institutional religion, affirming that true virtue is rooted in the heart's service. Image of number 10
1097 Avoid those who under the guise of explaining the natural world, propagate harmful doctrines. True enlightenment does not destroy but builds upon the foundations of morality and hope, enhancing life's meaning rather than stripping away its significance under the pretense of intellectual superiority. Image of number 10
1098 Embrace humility and honesty in your pursuit of knowledge. If you teach, let it be from a place of conscience and truth, not for acclaim. Balance your philosophy with a grounded approach to avoid the extremes of atheism and fanaticism, ensuring your convictions remain pure and oriented towards truth. Image of number 10
1099 This transcription serves as a methodological example, not a doctrinal directive. Adhere strictly to reason in guiding religious sentiment, permitting the individual to explore beyond natural religion only by personal choice, not by imposition. Image of number 10
1100 While nurturing the moral man alongside the physical, it's apparent that intellectual development lags behind physical robustness. We strive to align intellectual and sensory experiences by fostering a deeper understanding of nature and its divine origins, aiming for a harmonious development that respects the natural progression of human growth. Image of number 10
1101 At this point, our pupil finds a new interest in being good beyond human observation—acting justly for himself and God. He practices virtue for the love of his creator, blending this with self-love, aiming for lasting happiness promised in another life. Beyond this, men often mask vice as virtue for personal gain, but one committed to goodness sees through this, understanding that disbelief in a higher power leads only to deceit or folly. Image of number 10
1102 You might envision Emile differently, accustomed to impulsive, distracted youth. Unlike typical youths who revolt against early constraints, Emile, raised in freedom, transitions naturally into discipline as he matures. His education aligns with his developmental stages, contrasting sharply with conventional methods that often lead to rebellion and disinterest in learning. Image of number 10
1103 Emile now appreciates his emerging adulthood and willingly conforms to the boundaries set by his evolving reason. Unlike others who may become reckless as they mature, Emile's disciplined upbringing guides him to embrace reason and responsibility at this pivotal stage. Image of number 10
1104 To determine who aligns more naturally with the order of nature, observe young villagers versus city youths. Unlike city children, who often become idle and dreamy as adolescents, Emile, like young villagers, transitions from active play to thoughtful contemplation, preparing him to engage with complex ideas in his future studies. Image of number 10
1105 My approach balances nature with reason, delaying certain developments to refine Emile's reasoning abilities. This strategic delay isn't against nature but a moderation to prevent premature maturation, allowing Emile to grow within the bounds of his natural environment. Image of number 10
1106 As Emile approaches the critical period of maturity, it's crucial to transition from instructor to equal, treating him as a friend and a fellow man. This shift respects his emerging independence and prepares him to navigate adult challenges responsibly. Image of number 10
1107 At this stage, don't relinquish authority but adapt it to foster Emile's autonomy. New relational dynamics based on reason, friendship, and mutual respect should now guide his decisions, allowing him to internalize and own his choices genuinely. Image of number 10
1108 If you bluntly confront Emile's natural impulses as he matures, you risk alienating him. Instead, guide him through understanding and respect for his evolving needs, maintaining your role as a supportive adviser rather than a strict enforcer. Image of number 10
1109 Deciding how to handle Emile's adolescent impulses poses a dilemma: overly strict control risks rebellion, while leniency could lead to moral lapses. Navigating this phase requires a balanced approach that neither stifles nor indulges his growing independence. Image of number 10
1110 One immediate solution to adolescent challenges is early marriage, though this may not be the most beneficial long-term strategy. While marrying young aligns with certain natural impulses, it often precedes emotional and intellectual maturity, suggesting a need for more nuanced solutions. Image of number 10
1111 Balancing natural rights with societal laws is complex, requiring finesse to manage without becoming overly artificial. Educating Emile involves teaching him to navigate these contradictions, ensuring he can maintain his natural inclinations while respecting social norms. Image of number 10
1112 Prolonging innocence and sensory purity until age 20 aligns with historical practices among robust populations like the Germans, who valued youthful continence for physical and moral strength, suggesting societal benefits to delayed gratification. Image of number 10
1113 Extending youthful purity was common in earlier times, even among those actively engaged in adulthood, such as Montaigne's father, who maintained virginity until his thirties despite a military career, demonstrating that delayed physical maturity can contribute to lifelong vigor and happiness. Image of number 10
1114 Despite Emile's sheltered upbringing, the inevitable onset of adult desires looms. To prepare him, I must transition from protector to guide, equipping him with knowledge to confront and manage his instincts wisely, rather than leaving him vulnerable to external influences. Image of number 10
1115 It's time to recap and clarify our journey together, detailing our mutual responsibilities and the moral landscape ahead. This transparency helps Emile understand his own development and the rationale behind our educational approach, fostering his maturity and self-awareness as new challenges arise. Image of number 10
1116 As Emile matures, openly discuss previously shielded topics to prevent misinformation from less trustworthy sources. This open dialogue is crucial to arm him against the challenges he'll face, ensuring he's well-informed and prepared for adult complexities. Image of number 10
1117 Beware of those who prematurely expose young minds to adult topics without educational intent, as this often leads to negative influences and attitudes that can undermine educational goals and foster distrust or rebellion against authority figures. Image of number 10
1118 When children freely share their thoughts and feelings, it signals a healthy, open relationship. If Emile becomes secretive or ashamed, it indicates emerging self-awareness and the onset of guilt associated with adult desires, necessitating immediate and careful guidance to navigate this new stage. Image of number 10
1119 My confidence in my educational method is reinforced when I see Emile's consistent honesty and simplicity, even when he's upset. His emotional transparency assures me of his innocence and lack of guile, a clear sign of his uncorrupted nature and effective upbringing. Image of number 10
1120 As long as Emile continues to confide in me without reservation, I have no immediate worries. However, any sign of reticence or embarrassment signals the need for urgent intervention to guide him through his emerging awareness of adult themes and responsibilities. Image of number 10
1121 The impact of our words hinges on timing and preparation. Sermons often fail because they are not tailored to the individual's heart or circumstance. Lecturing young men, especially when their senses and desires cloud their reason, is futile unless the ground has been properly prepared. Personalized guidance at the right moment is far more effective than indiscriminate preaching. Image of number 10
1122 Like a sleepwalker safely traversing a cliff in ignorance, Emile remains unaware of dangers he cannot see. Awakening him abruptly could lead to a fall. It is wiser to guide him away from danger gradually before fully opening his eyes to the risks around him. Image of number 10
1123 To safeguard Emile from the perils of a sedentary lifestyle, idleness, and the company of women and youth, I engage him in rigorous physical activity. This not only diverts his attention but strengthens his body and will, mitigating the risk of dangerous passions ignited by leisure and isolation. Image of number 10
1124 Hunting provides Emile with a new, engrossing activity that demands physical exertion and focus. It helps temper softer emotions with the hardiness required for the sport. The intense physical demands and the thrill of the chase help subdue softer, potentially problematic passions. Image of number 10
1125 Emile's intense engagement in hunting is strategic; it temporarily overshadows other desires, allowing time for maturity and reflection without the immediate risks of more destructive passions. This focused distraction provides a safer space for discussing and understanding his developing feelings and responsibilities. Image of number 10
1126 The lessons imparted during this crucial phase of Emile's life are intended to be unforgettable, deeply influencing his future behavior. The teachings are presented vividly, utilizing signs and symbols that engage the imagination more effectively than mere words could, aiming to inspire and direct his growing passions constructively. Image of number 10
1127 Ancient societies effectively harnessed the power of symbols in communication, deeply engaging individuals emotionally and spiritually in public and private agreements, thereby ensuring their profound respect and adherence to social contracts without the need for force or coercion. Image of number 10
1128 The decline of symbolic power in governance leads to an over-reliance on force to command obedience. Historically, symbols like crowns and scepters commanded respect and compliance without coercion, a contrast to contemporary practices where respect must be enforced rather than naturally accorded. Image of number 10
1129 The ancients excelled in the art of persuasion, often using minimal speech and maximizing the effect of dramatic gestures or symbolic actions. These methods conveyed messages powerfully and succinctly, often surpassing the impact of lengthy orations. Image of number 10
1130 The Romans deeply understood the importance of symbols in communication, using attire, ceremonies, and public displays to express social and political roles vividly. These symbols spoke directly to the hearts of citizens, binding them to the state and its leaders. Image of number 10
1131 Recognizing the frequency of my digressions, I recommit to focusing on the core topics of our discussion to maintain clarity and relevance in my teachings for Emile. Image of number 10
1132 To effectively engage young minds, it's crucial to deliver reasoned arguments in a manner that resonates emotionally, making them appealing and relatable. This approach ensures that lessons are not only heard but felt and internalized. Image of number 10
1133 When introducing sensitive topics, I carefully choose the setting and context to make a lasting impression on Emile, using nature and solemn pledges to reinforce the gravity and sanctity of our discussions, thus deepening his understanding and commitment. Image of number 10
1134 I have consciously chosen not to detail certain educational topics in writing, as the French language, despite its richness, often lends itself to misinterpretation, particularly in subjects requiring nuanced and delicate handling. Image of number 10
1135 The French language, while praised for its clarity, often paradoxically restricts the expression of pure thoughts due to societal taboos, making it challenging to discuss certain topics without evoking inappropriate connotations. Image of number 10
1136 Discussions about morality should address both the purity of discourse and the deceitful delicacy often found in vice. By focusing on genuine expressions of decency, Emile can learn to differentiate between true moral discourse and superficial propriety. Image of number 10
1137 Vice and temptation can be controlled more effectively by instilling a deep-seated aversion to misconduct rather than merely restraining actions. By vividly illustrating the consequences of vice, it becomes as repulsive as physical danger, strengthening the will against immoral acts. Image of number 10
1138 Effective teaching adapts its approach to the student's stage of life, wrapping reason in appealing forms. Discussing sensitive topics like love and pleasure should be engaging, drawing the young person into open, honest dialogue that preempts secretive or rebellious responses. Image of number 10
1139 If Emile is brought to a point where he actively seeks guidance and acknowledges the dangers of his passions, he demonstrates a mature willingness to comply with reasoned authority, recognizing its protective value against his lesser impulses. Image of number 10
1140 Having guided Emile to a point of self-awareness and responsibility, it's crucial to maintain a balanced approach, ensuring that the authority exercised is perceived as supportive rather than oppressive, reinforcing his commitment to self-discipline and moral integrity. Image of number 10
1141 Advise Emile that he should not make promises lightly, especially those that bind his heart. In the throes of passion, he might want to break free, but these commitments demand sacrifice and can lead to resentment against those who only wish him well. Encourage him to consider the weight of his promises before making them and to take time to understand what he is agreeing to. Explain that by asking for his obedience, you are also taking on the responsibility to guide and protect him, a commitment that requires careful consideration and mutual trust. Image of number 10
1142 Ensure that Emile understands the significance of his promises. Once he commits, show him that your guidance is gentle and reasonable, only intending to make him happy. Use past experiences as proof of your intentions and remind him that obedience precedes understanding. As he matures, the reasons for your guidance will become clear, and he will appreciate the careful attention to his well-being. Let him see that his happiness has been the result of this guidance, and encourage him to continue trusting in your direction for future fulfillment. Image of number 10
1143 Establish your authority with Emile by earning his trust and becoming the confidant of his heart. Understand his inclinations to better guide him, ensuring that present happiness is not sacrificed for distant benefits. Aim for consistent happiness by aligning with his natural inclinations while guiding him wisely. Avoid unnecessary conflicts by being considerate of his perspectives and desires, thus fostering a strong relationship built on mutual understanding and respect. By making yourself the arbiter of his pleasures, you maintain influence and steer him toward a fulfilling and balanced life. Image of number 10
1144 When guiding young people, do not make love seem repugnant or criminal. Instead, recognize love as a natural and joyous aspect of life. Encourage a balanced understanding of love, highlighting its ability to enrich life and inspire positive behavior. By acknowledging love's charm and joy, you can lead young people to embrace it wisely, steering them away from vice and towards meaningful connections. Inspire them to appreciate love's union of hearts, fostering a sense of respect and responsibility that counteracts the allure of libertinism. Image of number 10
1145 Recognize that rising desires in youth can be instrumental in teaching reason. Harness the energy of their passions to encourage obedience to reason. By redirecting their natural inclinations, you can combat potential tyranny and help them understand and regulate their desires. Leverage the power of passion to guide young people toward rational behavior, using their own nature as a tool for education and self-regulation. Understanding and managing these desires is key to developing a balanced and thoughtful approach to life. Image of number 10
1146 Emile must now integrate into society, fulfilling his duties and understanding social dynamics. With a broad knowledge of mankind, he is ready to discern individuals and social behaviors. He should approach society with discernment and integrity, able to resist being misled by others' passions. Emile should observe and learn, maintaining wisdom without being swayed by prejudices or examples. His well-prepared mind allows him to navigate the complexities of society thoughtfully, balancing knowledge with practical experience. Image of number 10
1147 There is an appropriate age for learning social skills, just as there is for academic studies. Learning these skills too early leads to automatic behavior without understanding, while learning them with insight allows for graceful and intentional actions. Teaching young people at the right time, with guidance and understanding, results in a more refined and capable individual. Late learners may surpass those trained early due to their ability to apply principles thoughtfully rather than relying solely on habit, leading to more genuine social engagement. Image of number 10
1148 Young women in France are educated in convents until marriage, yet they quickly learn societal manners without difficulty. The misconception that early social training is essential is primarily held by worldly men who overemphasize this minor skill. These men fail to recognize that character and manners develop naturally through experiences and maturity, rather than through early social exposure. This view overlooks the capacity of individuals to adapt and learn effectively when introduced to society at a more mature age. Image of number 10
1149 It is important to introduce young people to society at the right time. Delaying too long can result in lifelong awkwardness and clumsiness. Early education should focus on moral principles and foundational skills, while social skills can be acquired as they mature. Balance is essential to prevent negative influences while ensuring they learn to engage appropriately with others. Introduce social skills at a time when they can understand and apply them thoughtfully, avoiding the extremes of either premature exposure or prolonged isolation. Image of number 10
1150 A successful method of education balances discipline and freedom, encouraging openness and self-awareness. Avoid being overly strict, which could lead to concealment, or overly lenient, which could encourage disorder. Introduce the young person to society with a purpose, balancing entertainment and education to develop social skills and moral integrity. The goal is to teach them how to live harmoniously with others while maintaining their principles and self-control. A well-rounded approach prevents stagnation and fosters growth, preparing them for meaningful social interactions. Image of number 10
1151 Encourage Emile to seek a companion by introducing him to society, framing the search as a journey to find someone who truly suits him. This approach captivates his interest and motivates him to engage with others thoughtfully. By focusing on the idea of a meaningful connection, Emile's exploration of society becomes purposeful and guided by positive aspirations. This strategy fosters personal growth and helps him develop the discernment needed to form genuine relationships, allowing him to learn from experience while seeking his ideal companion. Image of number 10
1152 Describe an ideal partner to Emile, emphasizing qualities he should value. This guidance shapes his desires and expectations, steering him away from superficial attractions. By focusing on admirable traits, you help him form a vision of what is truly worth seeking in a partner. This imaginative exercise protects him from temporary temptations, encouraging him to prioritize deeper connections. Although this ideal is fictional, it serves as a guiding principle, helping Emile differentiate between genuine and misleading attractions. Image of number 10
1153 While avoiding unrealistic perfection, choose faults for Emile's imaginary partner that complement his own, encouraging growth. Present this vision subtly, allowing Emile to naturally desire such a partner. If he believes she exists, it adds a sense of purpose to his search. Name her Sophy, implying her eventual discovery. This exercise enhances Emile's discernment and prepares him for real-world interactions by grounding his ideals in relatable, attainable characteristics. Protect his heart by aligning his imagination with virtues, helping him navigate social complexities with integrity. Image of number 10
1154 Whether or not Emile finds his ideal partner, the exercise of imagining her fosters discernment. It shields him from harmful influences and helps him resist superficial charms. His ideal, Sophy, is a guiding standard against which he measures others, keeping him grounded in his values. This mental preparation protects him from those who might exploit his inexperience, allowing him to appreciate genuine qualities while dismissing pretense. By focusing on the virtues of his imagined partner, Emile develops a refined sense of judgment and self-awareness in social interactions. Image of number 10
1155 Young men are often corrupted not by natural inclinations but by societal influence and peer pressure. From boarding schools to social environments, vice is learned through imitation rather than innate desires. Protecting them from these influences requires focusing on positive examples and nurturing their natural innocence. Guide them wisely, emphasizing moral education and self-awareness, allowing them to navigate society without succumbing to its negative pressures. By instilling strong values and encouraging independent thought, young people can resist societal corruption and maintain their integrity. Image of number 10
1156 After six months in society, a young man may change dramatically, succumbing to vanity and peer influence. His earlier principles are overshadowed by new social norms. This transformation is driven not by natural development but by the desire to fit in and be accepted. Initial pleasures are private and timid, but societal pressure pushes him towards public conformity. To maintain his values, it's crucial to provide guidance and support, helping him recognize genuine fulfillment over superficial acceptance. Encouraging self-reflection and inner confidence can counteract the pressure to conform. Image of number 10
1157 As a young man enters society, his heart remains unchanged, but his opinions shift under social influence. He is taught to scorn previous teachings and adopt new behaviors to fit in. This change is not due to innate desires but to a need for acceptance. Encourage him to remain true to his values and recognize the superficiality of societal norms. Highlight the difference between genuine and contrived behavior, reinforcing the value of authenticity and self-awareness. By focusing on personal integrity, he can resist pressures and maintain his individuality. Image of number 10
1158 Protecting a young man from vanity is more crucial than shielding him from sensuality. Peer influence and social pressure often drive him to conform to others' tastes, leading to a loss of individuality. Amour-propre, or self-love, creates more libertines than genuine passion. Encourage self-confidence and independent thinking, allowing him to resist conforming to societal norms. By fostering self-awareness and inner strength, he can maintain his integrity and make choices aligned with his true values, rather than succumbing to external expectations. Image of number 10
1159 Emile is well-prepared to resist societal influences and maintain his values. His education and upbringing have armed him against seduction, allowing him to discern genuine relationships from superficial attractions. With a heart occupied by meaningful ideals, he is less susceptible to peer pressure. His self-control and independence protect him from compromising his values. Emphasize the importance of staying true to his principles and remind him that his upbringing has equipped him to withstand societal pressures. Encourage ongoing self-reflection and reinforce the value of authenticity in navigating social interactions. Image of number 10
1160 Highlight the inconsistency in societal teachings and encourage Emile to question the sincerity of those who mock virtue. Many who espouse lax morals would not tolerate such behavior in their own families. This hypocrisy reveals the superficial nature of their beliefs. Encourage Emile to weigh arguments carefully and recognize the enduring value of truth and integrity. By fostering critical thinking and self-awareness, he can see through societal pretense and remain true to his values. Emphasize that while mockers may triumph briefly, truth endures, and authenticity is its own reward. Image of number 10
1161 Emile, at twenty, is more docile than at ten, thanks to fifteen years of preparation. He now obeys reason, appearing independent but truly guided by friendship. Previously, control was maintained physically, but now he is governed by choice. When leaving him, he is trusted to another's honest heart, showing confidence in his developed character. Emile has learned to embrace guidance willingly, a testament to the successful foundation laid for his education. Through careful nurturing, he is prepared for self-governance, ensuring that his growth continues with an understanding of responsibility and the wisdom to make sound decisions. Image of number 10
1162 Emile's healthy affections and principles, rooted in his own reasoning, are resilient. Any changes in his absence will be detected before harm occurs, allowing for timely intervention. Deception is not learned overnight, and Emile, unskilled in deceit, has no need for it. Trust in the foundation laid over the years, knowing that Emile's integrity and character will prevail. His education has instilled values that resist corruption, and he is well-equipped to face challenges. Vigilance ensures that any negative influences are swiftly addressed, maintaining his moral compass and preserving his authenticity in a world that may try to sway him. Image of number 10
1163 Precautions shield Emile from harmful influences, even in poor company. A young man's worst enemy is himself, often driven by imagination rather than physical needs. Isolation from lascivious sights and thoughts can preserve chastity effortlessly. A solitary upbringing might leave one a virgin, free from temptation. However, Emile must navigate society, facing inevitable influences. By understanding the root of his unease, he can better manage it. Recognize the power of imagination and guide Emile to harness it positively. Encourage awareness and self-control, helping him navigate life's challenges with integrity and strength. Image of number 10
1164 Educating Emile for social life involves acknowledging the inevitable influence of society. While complete ignorance may be impossible, half-knowledge is dangerous. Memories and ideas follow us, populating solitude with seductive images. Therefore, solitude can be more harmful to those exposed to these influences than to those who have never left it. Guide Emile to navigate these influences wisely, ensuring that he remains grounded in reality. Encourage critical thinking and discernment, enabling him to recognize and resist the seductive power of imagination. By preparing him for the complexities of social life, he can maintain his integrity and authenticity. Image of number 10
1165 Constant vigilance over the young man is crucial, as he must be protected from himself. Instinct, once reliable, must now be controlled in the context of human institutions. Sharing a room and monitoring his sleep schedule helps maintain balance. If instincts become overpowering, guide him with understanding. Avoid letting him supplement his senses unsupervised, as it leads to harmful habits. Prioritize teaching self-control and responsibility over mere suppression. By guiding Emile through this transition, he can learn to harness his instincts constructively, preserving his well-being and ensuring a healthy, balanced approach to life's challenges. Image of number 10
1166 Until twenty, bodily growth requires continence, with violations harming health. Afterward, continence becomes a moral duty, teaching self-control. Moral duties have exceptions, with human weakness requiring a choice between evils. Choose the lesser evil, prioritizing avoiding vicious habits over occasional misdeeds. Encourage understanding of the balance between natural and moral laws, guiding Emile in making thoughtful decisions. Teach him to prioritize long-term well-being over immediate gratification. By fostering a strong sense of self-awareness and responsibility, he can navigate life's complexities with integrity, making choices that reflect both his values and his evolving understanding of the world. Image of number 10
1167 Address the disciple's passions openly, guiding him even in missteps. Ensure the tutor's awareness and consent, avoiding deceit. Acknowledge the victory of passions, leading to shame rather than pride. Transparency in guidance prevents hidden wrongdoing. Ignoring issues leads to further abuses, ultimately dismantling order and respect for laws. Emphasize the importance of open communication and mutual understanding between tutor and disciple. By fostering an environment of trust and honesty, Emile can learn from mistakes and develop resilience. Encourage self-reflection and growth, ensuring he navigates challenges with integrity and learns valuable lessons from his experiences. Image of number 10
1168 Avoid pretending perfection as a master, as it weakens authority. Connect with disciples by acknowledging shared human struggles. Being relatable fosters understanding and influence, as perfect people fail to persuade. Show your weaknesses to encourage self-mastery in pupils. They learn from example, understanding that passions are a natural part of life. Demonstrate authenticity, breaking the barrier of generational misunderstanding. Through shared experiences, Emile gains confidence in navigating his challenges. By embracing vulnerability, the master-student relationship strengthens, fostering a supportive environment where growth and understanding flourish. Encourage mutual learning and empathy, guiding Emile toward self-awareness and resilience. Image of number 10
1169 Discuss the necessity of drastic measures when guiding young libertines. A single visit to a house of ill-fame should suffice to teach penitence. If not, it indicates deeper issues beyond your help. Trust that a well-prepared education negates the need for such extremes. Emphasize the value of preventative guidance, focusing on strong moral foundations. Recognize when drastic interventions are necessary, but prioritize nurturing a sense of self-awareness and responsibility. Through thoughtful education and open dialogue, Emile can develop the discernment needed to make sound choices, avoiding the pitfalls of vice while embracing the virtues of integrity. Image of number 10
1170 Protect young men from the corrupt manners of the age, as negligence leads to degeneration. Early debauchery results in weak, deceitful men lacking vigor and nobility. A temperate young man, guarding morals against bad examples, could surpass others at thirty, mastering himself and others. Highlight the importance of sobriety and moral integrity, emphasizing the value of self-control. Encourage Emile to resist societal pressures, fostering strength and resilience. By nurturing his character, he can rise above the weaknesses of his peers, becoming a leader in thought and action. Inspire him to embody the virtues that ensure long-term success and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1171 Emile, despite modest birth and fortune, could dominate others if he wished. However, he despises such people, seeking a worthy companion instead. As he enters society, observe him navigating relationships, guided by principles of equality and respect. Encourage Emile to focus on genuine connections, valuing character over status. His integrity and humility set him apart, enabling him to engage with others authentically. By prioritizing meaningful relationships, he enriches his social experience, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Inspire him to be true to himself, embracing the journey of discovering a partner who aligns with his values and aspirations. Image of number 10
1172 Emile's entrance into society is simple and unaffected, indifferent to first impressions. Unconcerned with others' opinions, he is natural and sincere, free from constraint. His politeness stems from kindness, not external formality. He values genuine connections, prioritizing humanity over appearances. This approach allows Emile to navigate social interactions with authenticity, fostering meaningful relationships. Encourage him to remain true to his values, focusing on compassion and empathy. By embracing simplicity and sincerity, Emile becomes a beacon of integrity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions, ultimately enriching the fabric of society with genuine connections. Image of number 10
1173 Though Emile has a low opinion of people, he neither scorns nor flatters them. Pity leads him to leave them their illusions, avoiding arguments. He states opinions without confrontation, valuing liberty above all. Freedom of thought and expression is central to his interactions, fostering a culture of mutual respect. Encourage Emile to embrace diversity of thought, recognizing the importance of differing perspectives. By valuing open dialogue and maintaining an open mind, he contributes to a more inclusive and understanding society. Inspire him to champion the ideals of liberty and respect, ensuring a harmonious coexistence with those around him. Image of number 10
1174 Emile speaks little, valuing substance over triviality. Well-informed, he avoids unnecessary chatter, recognizing true worth. His words carry weight, as he discerns attention and interest. Encourage thoughtful communication, prioritizing quality over quantity. Through meaningful conversations, Emile fosters deeper connections and mutual understanding. By appreciating the power of words, he inspires others to engage in purposeful dialogue. Embrace the art of listening, recognizing its role in nurturing empathy and respect. By embodying these principles, Emile contributes to a culture of mindful communication, enriching relationships and promoting a more harmonious and interconnected society. Image of number 10
1175 Emile conforms to societal manners to blend in, avoiding attention. Comfortable when unnoticed, he does not seek to showcase his knowledge. This approach reflects humility and wisdom, allowing him to observe and learn from others. Encourage Emile to embrace this mindset, recognizing the value of listening and observing. By prioritizing humility, he fosters a sense of respect and understanding in his interactions. Inspire him to appreciate the beauty of subtlety, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates society with grace and insight, enriching his experiences and relationships. Image of number 10
1176 Emile, despite unfamiliarity with social customs, remains confident. Unconcerned with others' opinions, he is calm and observant, acquiring societal ways effortlessly. His indifference allows him to adapt quickly, free from the constraints of public perception. Encourage Emile to maintain this self-assuredness, recognizing its power in navigating new environments. By prioritizing self-awareness and authenticity, he fosters a sense of belonging and acceptance. Inspire him to embrace change with confidence, using it as an opportunity for growth and learning. Through this mindset, Emile becomes a resilient and adaptable individual, ready to face the challenges and opportunities that life presents. Image of number 10
1177 Emile's self-assured demeanor contrasts with vain souls who assert themselves through arrogance. Independence is not affected, and true pride is internal. Encourage Emile to embody this quiet confidence, recognizing its strength in navigating social interactions. By prioritizing authenticity, he inspires respect and admiration. Inspire him to embrace humility, understanding that true strength lies in self-awareness and self-control. Through this approach, Emile becomes a model of integrity, fostering meaningful connections and mutual respect. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, enriching the social fabric and inspiring others to do the same. Image of number 10
1178 Emile, unlike courtiers, may appear timid but is courageous where it matters. Real strength lies in character, not appearances. Encourage Emile to focus on inner strength, recognizing its power in overcoming challenges. By prioritizing resilience, he fosters a sense of purpose and determination. Inspire him to embrace authenticity, understanding that true courage is rooted in self-awareness and integrity. Through this mindset, Emile becomes a beacon of strength and inspiration, empowering others to embrace their true selves. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of courage and authenticity, enriching the lives of those around him. Image of number 10
1179 Emile desires to be loved by men and women, his character fostering genuine tenderness. In young women's presence, his eagerness is sincere and heartfelt. Modesty and respect guide his interactions, with attention given to those recalling his purpose. Encourage Emile to nurture this genuine connection, recognizing its power in building meaningful relationships. By prioritizing authenticity and empathy, he inspires trust and admiration. Inspire him to embrace the beauty of vulnerability, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. Image of number 10
1180 Emile respects nature's and society's laws, prioritizing the former. Modesty stems from reason, not vanity, respecting elders over youthful authority. Encourage Emile to embrace humility, recognizing its power in fostering respect and understanding. By prioritizing empathy and kindness, he inspires admiration and trust. Inspire him to appreciate the wisdom of others, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this mindset, Emile navigates relationships with grace and integrity, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of respect and understanding, inspiring others to do the same. Image of number 10
1181 Emile's heart is tender and sensitive, valuing affection over popular opinion. He prioritizes genuine connections, avoiding pomp and affectation. His attention to appearance reflects a desire to please, not to display wealth or taste. Emile's style is grounded in sincerity, unaffected by the superficial trappings of society. His focus on authenticity allows him to navigate relationships with integrity and compassion. By valuing heartfelt interactions, Emile fosters genuine connections that transcend societal expectations. His approach to life emphasizes the importance of inner qualities, enriching his experiences and relationships with sincerity and depth. Image of number 10
1182 Emile's natural politeness stems from early education and a kind heart. True politeness is goodwill towards others, revealing itself effortlessly. Those lacking goodwill rely on artificiality, reducing politeness to an art. Encourage Emile to embrace authenticity, recognizing its power in building genuine connections. By prioritizing kindness, he inspires trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate the beauty of sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity. Image of number 10
1183 Artificial politeness teaches us to dispense with virtues it imitates. If education fosters kindness and humanity, politeness becomes unnecessary. Encourage Emile to cultivate genuine virtues, recognizing their power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to embrace sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Image of number 10
1184 Without social graces, one can embody honesty and citizenship, eschewing falsehood. Encourage Emile to prioritize these qualities, recognizing their power in building meaningful connections. By valuing integrity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of honesty and citizenship in creating genuine connections. Image of number 10
1185 Genuine goodness replaces artificial attempts to please, tolerating others' weaknesses instead of flattering them. Encourage Emile to embrace this approach, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of genuine goodness. Image of number 10
1186 Emile's genuine interactions leave others grateful and informed, without inflating egos. Encourage this approach, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of genuine interactions in fostering gratitude and understanding. Image of number 10
1187 Emile's education fosters the politeness M. Duclos describes, grounded in genuine goodwill. Encourage this approach, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of genuine politeness rooted in goodwill and integrity. Image of number 10
1188 Emile differs from others, not irritatingly or absurdly, but agreeably. His unique qualities are perceptible yet pleasant, akin to an agreeable foreigner. Encourage Emile to embrace his individuality, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Image of number 10
1189 Emile's intelligence is clear and limited, focused on what is profitable. He values common sense over intellectual distinction, seeking happiness and contributing to others' well-being. Encourage Emile to embrace this mindset, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality. Image of number 10
1190 Emile values opinions related to his actions, indifferent to arbitrary values. He strives to excel in endeavors, avoiding superficial advantages. Encourage Emile to embrace this mindset, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Image of number 10
1191 Emile values approval from those with good character, delighting in their respect. Encourage Emile to embrace this mindset, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of valuing respect from those with integrity. Image of number 10
1192 As Emile studies society, he explores the philosophy of taste, understanding what pleases or offends the human heart. Encourage Emile to embrace this exploration, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of understanding taste. Image of number 10
1193 Taste is the power to judge what pleases most people, not necessarily held by the majority. Beauty, like taste, lies in commonality, though few embody it fully. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality. Image of number 10
1194 Taste concerns indifferent things, distinct from needs governed by appetite. Moral taste involves imitation and local customs, influencing perception. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of understanding taste. Image of number 10
1195 Taste is innate but varies in degree, shaped by society and experiences. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of understanding taste's development and societal influences. Image of number 10
1196 When taste aligns with the majority's pleasure, it flourishes. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of aligning personal taste with genuine enjoyment and shared values. Image of number 10
1197 True taste models after nature, but distance from it distorts beauty. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of nature as the foundation of true taste. Image of number 10
1198 Leaders in art and wealth follow pride or self-interest, fostering luxury and bad taste. Encourage Emile to embrace simplicity, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of simplicity and genuine appreciation in taste. Image of number 10
1199 Taste, shaped by interactions between sexes, cultivates morality and pleasure. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of cultivating good taste through meaningful interactions. Image of number 10
1200 Women's opinions excel in sensory matters; men's in morality and understanding. Encourage Emile to value each gender's strengths, recognizing their power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Inspire him to appreciate sincerity, using it as a tool for personal growth and connection. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. By embodying these values, he contributes to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, inspiring others to prioritize substance over superficiality in their interactions. Emphasize the importance of valuing diverse perspectives in shaping society. Image of number 10
1201 Emile must understand what pleases or displeases others to effectively help them. This knowledge is essential for anyone who seeks assistance or aims to assist others. Pleasing others is crucial for serving them, making the art of communication vital in conveying truth. Encourage Emile to grasp these principles, recognizing their power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching the lives of those he encounters. Emphasize the importance of understanding others' preferences in facilitating genuine assistance and effective communication. Image of number 10
1202 To cultivate Emile's taste, start with countries where culture has degenerated. Excessive delicacy corrupts taste, leading to disputes and varied opinions. Encourage Emile to develop discernment by observing diverse tastes, leading to critical thinking. Highlight the importance of Paris in refining taste, where intellectual growth is stimulated through social interaction. Emile should engage with authors and society to develop a thoughtful mind. Inspire Emile to embrace this journey, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration, contributing to a culture of authenticity and sincerity, enriching his understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Image of number 10
1203 Learning to think amidst bad taste is possible, but caution is needed to avoid adopting poor judgment. Emile should refine his judgment through exposure to varied tastes, yet remain grounded in simplicity. Encourage him to discern diverse perspectives, fostering critical thinking. Inspire Emile to appreciate this approach, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this journey, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of maintaining a balanced perspective, rooted in simplicity, amid exposure to different tastes. Image of number 10
1204 In the chaos of dissipation, engage Emile in enlightening conversations. Discuss topics he enjoys, making them both enjoyable and educational. Now is the time for entertaining literature, appreciating eloquence, and understanding language. Highlight the importance of studying Latin to master French, as it enhances understanding of language rules. Encourage Emile to embrace this exploration, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of language and eloquence in communication. Image of number 10
1205 Simplicity in taste is found in classics, appealing directly to the heart. Classical authors offer substance and judiciousness, unlike contemporary writers who often lack depth. Emile will find ancient literature valuable, providing insights into eloquence and judgment. Encourage him to explore this simplicity, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this journey, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of simplicity and depth found in classical literature, shaping taste and judgment through genuine understanding and appreciation. Image of number 10
1206 Ancient epitaphs highlight actions over labels, emphasizing deeds rather than titles. Modern monuments often inflate praise, unlike ancients who valued genuine accomplishments. Encourage Emile to appreciate this distinction, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this understanding, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his appreciation for genuine achievements. Emphasize the importance of valuing actions and accomplishments over superficial titles, inspiring Emile to focus on substance and authenticity. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of true achievements. Image of number 10
1207 Ancient inscriptions honor individuals through concise yet profound expressions, capturing the essence of true achievement. These simple yet meaningful elegies convey deep emotion and respect for the deceased. Encourage Emile to appreciate the power of brevity in conveying genuine sentiment. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this understanding, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his appreciation for meaningful expressions. Emphasize the importance of valuing substance over verbosity, inspiring Emile to focus on genuine emotions and achievements. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of true accomplishments. Image of number 10
1208 An epitaph at Thermopylae captures profound sentiment with simplicity, reflecting the depth of sacrifice and courage. Encourage Emile to appreciate this expression's power in conveying genuine emotion. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this understanding, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his appreciation for meaningful expressions. Emphasize the importance of valuing simplicity and sincerity in conveying genuine sentiment, inspiring Emile to focus on authentic emotions and achievements. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of true accomplishments and the power of simple yet profound expressions. Image of number 10
1209 The concise epitaph at Thermopylae exemplifies genuine sentiment, distinct from elaborate inscriptions. Encourage Emile to appreciate this simplicity's power in conveying profound meaning. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this understanding, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his appreciation for meaningful expressions. Emphasize the importance of valuing simplicity and sincerity in conveying genuine sentiment, inspiring Emile to focus on authentic emotions and achievements. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of true accomplishments and the power of simple yet profound expressions. Image of number 10
1210 Emile, disinterested in words alone, will notice differences in eloquence, preferring Demosthenes' oratory over Cicero's legal rhetoric. Encourage Emile to appreciate genuine eloquence, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this understanding, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his appreciation for eloquent expressions. Emphasize the importance of valuing substance over style, inspiring Emile to focus on authentic communication and achievements. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of true accomplishments and the power of authentic expression. Image of number 10
1211 Emile prefers ancient books for their proximity to nature and distinct genius. Ancient literature fosters independent thinking, unlike modern works reliant on others' ideas. Encourage Emile to value originality, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this journey, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his appreciation for genuine insights. Emphasize the importance of valuing originality and independent thought, inspiring Emile to focus on authentic exploration and understanding. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of true accomplishments and insights. Image of number 10
1212 After introducing Emile to classic literature, expose him to modern compilations, including journals and translations. Encourage Emile to explore these works critically, recognizing their value in understanding contemporary thought. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this exploration, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his understanding of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of valuing both classic and modern insights, inspiring Emile to balance traditional wisdom with contemporary knowledge. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of diverse perspectives and the power of informed exploration. Image of number 10
1213 Introduce Emile to the theatre to study taste, not morals, as it reveals the art of pleasing and engaging the heart. Plays lead to poetry, igniting a desire to learn poetic languages. Encourage Emile to appreciate this exploration, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this journey, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of valuing artistic expression and genuine engagement, inspiring Emile to explore diverse artistic forms for their beauty and emotional impact. Image of number 10
1214 Teaching Emile to appreciate beauty prevents the corruption of natural appetites, allowing him to find happiness amidst wealth. Taste, the art of valuing minor matters, enriches life with accessible good things. Encourage Emile to embrace this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, he fosters trust and admiration. Through this approach, Emile navigates relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching his understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of valuing simple pleasures and genuine appreciation, inspiring Emile to explore life's beauty for its inherent worth and enriching experiences. Image of number 10
1215 To illustrate ideas better suited to readers' manners, draw on personal memories instead of Emile's pure heart. Encourage readers to embrace relatable examples, recognizing their power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, they foster trust and admiration. Through this approach, readers navigate relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching their understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of relatable examples and genuine connections, inspiring readers to explore relatable experiences for personal growth and understanding. This approach contributes to a culture of sincerity and meaningful connections, encouraging genuine appreciation of diverse perspectives and shared experiences. Image of number 10
1216 Certain professions reshape individuals, often for better or worse. A coward may become brave in a regiment, while other roles foster negative traits. Reflecting on potential transformations reveals the impact of roles on character. Encourage readers to appreciate this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, they foster trust and admiration. Through this reflection, readers navigate relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching their understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of self-awareness and adaptability, inspiring readers to explore roles that align with their values and encourage positive growth. Image of number 10
1217 Wealth can change individuals, making them insensitive and self-centered. Reflecting on potential transformations reveals the impact of wealth on character. Encourage readers to appreciate this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, they foster trust and admiration. Through this reflection, readers navigate relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching their understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of self-awareness and maintaining values, inspiring readers to approach wealth with humility and empathy, fostering genuine connections and positive growth in their pursuit of fulfillment and meaningful interactions. Image of number 10
1218 Unlike others, choose sensuality and comfort over pride and vanity, valuing luxury in enjoyment, not ostentation. Reflecting on personal preferences reveals the impact of choices on character. Encourage readers to appreciate this understanding, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, they foster trust and admiration. Through this reflection, readers navigate relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching their understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of self-awareness and personal values, inspiring readers to embrace choices that align with their true selves, fostering genuine connections and positive growth in their pursuit of fulfillment. Image of number 10
1219 Seek the best of life’s offerings, prioritizing leisure, freedom, and health. Encourage readers to appreciate this approach, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, they foster trust and admiration. Through this pursuit, readers navigate relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching their understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of balance and personal values, inspiring readers to prioritize experiences that align with their true selves, fostering genuine connections and positive growth in their pursuit of fulfillment and meaningful interactions. This approach encourages a culture of authenticity and sincerity in life’s pursuits. Image of number 10
1220 Embrace nature to enhance pleasure, valuing natural charm in choices and tastes. Encourage readers to appreciate this approach, recognizing its power in building meaningful connections. By prioritizing authenticity, they foster trust and admiration. Through this pursuit, readers navigate relationships with integrity and compassion, enriching their understanding and appreciation of diverse perspectives. Emphasize the importance of aligning with nature and personal values, inspiring readers to prioritize experiences that resonate with their true selves, fostering genuine connections and positive growth in their pursuit of fulfillment and meaningful interactions. This approach encourages a culture of authenticity and sincerity in life’s pursuits. Image of number 10
1221 Rather than constantly escaping the seasons, I'd enjoy each one fully, appreciating the distinct beauty of different regions. I'd summer in Naples and winter in St. Petersburg, embracing diverse experiences. From Tarentum's grottoes to St. Petersburg's ice palaces, I'd savor the variety of pleasures each place offers. By valuing the natural rhythm of each season, I'd find joy in the unique offerings of every location. This approach fosters a deeper appreciation for the world and its diverse wonders, encouraging a lifestyle that embraces the beauty of different environments and the richness of varied experiences. Image of number 10
1222 I'd embrace seasonal changes in my home's decor and dining, savoring nature's gifts in their time. Forced fruits lack flavor and pleasure; true enjoyment comes from savoring nature's offerings when they're naturally ready. By valuing seasonal cycles, I'd appreciate the joy of discovering the first spring blooms. This approach fosters a deeper connection with nature, encouraging a lifestyle that values authenticity and the beauty of each season. Embracing the natural rhythm enriches life, reminding us of nature's resilience and beauty. This philosophy promotes a harmonious relationship with the world, celebrating its diverse and vibrant offerings. Image of number 10
1223 I'd prefer few servants for efficiency, valuing personal service over excess. A single attendant serves better than many. By going to shops myself, I'd avoid middlemen, ensuring better choices and prices. Walking offers exercise, outdoor insights, and avoids dullness. I'd reject unnecessary services, valuing self-sufficiency. Personal involvement enhances life, making it more vibrant and meaningful. Emphasizing independence, I'd prioritize authentic experiences, embracing the joy of active engagement in daily tasks. This approach promotes a balanced, fulfilling lifestyle, valuing genuine connections and experiences over material excess and dependency on others for life's pleasures. Image of number 10
1224 I'd avoid palaces, preferring simple, personal spaces. Luxury confines; simplicity offers freedom. Like Orientals, I'd value life as a journey, viewing homes as temporary shelters. Settling in grandeur imprisons me; the world is a rich palace to explore. Embrace flexibility; relocate as needed. Home is where wealth allows, country where possessions are safe. Walls limit experiences. Choose freedom over confinement. Value experiences over possessions. Adopt a mindset that prioritizes exploration and adaptability, appreciating the world as a vast, welcoming home. This philosophy fosters a life enriched by diverse experiences, unconfined by material constraints. Image of number 10
1225 With few possessions and simple tastes, I'd avoid unnecessary collections. Simple living suits me, avoiding the frustration of incomplete collections. As a collector, abundance breeds dissatisfaction; better to enjoy what I have. Possessing fewer things simplifies life, reducing stress and enhancing contentment. This philosophy encourages appreciating the essentials, fostering a lifestyle focused on meaningful experiences over material accumulation. Embrace simplicity and practicality, valuing the intrinsic worth of what I own. Prioritize genuine enjoyment and understanding over superficial displays, creating a life enriched by purposeful living and authentic connections with the world around me. Image of number 10
1226 Gambling doesn't suit the rich; it's for the idle. Engaged in fulfilling activities, I find no time for it. The wealthy play for trivial stakes, lacking true motive. Fortune favors the wise, not gamblers. Greed and boredom drive gambling, but thinkers avoid it. Thought replaces luck, enriching life. Choose intellect over chance. Value meaningful pursuits over empty risks, fostering a lifestyle rooted in purpose and wisdom. Embrace activities that nurture growth and understanding, rejecting the transient thrill of gambling. This approach cultivates a fulfilling life, guided by thoughtful engagement and the pursuit of genuine happiness. Image of number 10
1227 I’d seek comfort, not flaunt wealth. Simple attire lets me blend seamlessly in any crowd. True freedom lies in experiencing life's diversity without attracting attention. Avoid ostentation; prioritize authenticity and connection. Choose attire for comfort and adaptability, valuing substance over appearance. This approach fosters genuine interactions and a deeper appreciation for life's richness. Embrace a lifestyle that values simplicity, enabling meaningful connections with people from all walks of life. By rejecting superficial displays, cultivate a fulfilling existence rooted in authenticity, allowing genuine relationships and diverse experiences to enrich my journey through life. Image of number 10
1228 Relationships with companions should be based on mutual affection, shared interests, and character compatibility. Prioritize genuine bonds, avoiding self-serving interactions. As a friend, not a patron, I’d foster sincere connections. Seek companions, not courtiers, valuing friendship over obligation. This approach nurtures authentic relationships, free from manipulation. Embrace sincerity, allowing genuine goodwill to flourish. By prioritizing true friendship, create an environment of mutual respect and enjoyment. Value meaningful connections over transactional interactions, fostering a sense of belonging and shared joy in life's experiences. This philosophy enriches life with genuine companionship and unburdened, joyful relationships. Image of number 10
1229 True love can't be bought. Monetary exchanges destroy genuine affection. Payments create barriers to lasting love, leading to manipulation and unhappiness. Emphasize sincerity in relationships, valuing authentic connections over material gain. Appreciate the depth of genuine affection, untainted by transactional motives. Cultivate relationships grounded in love, respect, and understanding, free from financial entanglements. This approach fosters meaningful connections, enriching life with authentic companionship and joy. By prioritizing love's true essence, embrace a fulfilling existence, celebrating the beauty of genuine relationships and the profound happiness they bring to the human experience. Image of number 10
1230 Possession without mutual connection is meaningless, reducing individuals to objects. Emphasize genuine connections over superficial ties. Inauthentic relationships lack fulfillment, regardless of material possession. True happiness stems from shared bonds and mutual respect, not ownership. Prioritize meaningful interactions, valuing authentic connections that transcend materialism. Embrace relationships rooted in love and understanding, fostering a fulfilling life enriched by genuine companionship. By recognizing the emptiness of superficial ties, cultivate a life of authenticity and purpose, celebrating the profound joy of true connections. Value people for their essence, nurturing relationships that bring lasting happiness and contentment. Image of number 10
1231 Vice's pursuit often leads to disillusionment, revealing its emptiness. Corrupting innocence brings misery, rooted in vanity and error. Reject superficial pleasures; embrace authenticity and self-respect. Protect innocence, valuing genuine connections. Recognize vice's allure as fleeting, prioritizing meaningful interactions. Cultivate a life grounded in sincerity, celebrating the depth of true relationships. By understanding vice's deception, foster a fulfilling existence, enriched by authentic bonds and lasting joy. Embrace a life of integrity, avoiding fleeting pleasures, and nurturing relationships that bring genuine happiness and fulfillment, rooted in mutual respect and shared values. Image of number 10
1232 An aged satyr's misguided pursuit of innocence reveals delusion. Desire for novelty overlooks mutual disgust. Nature asserts rights, fostering comparisons feared by pursuers. Emphasize genuine connections over superficial pursuits. Recognize delusion's consequences, valuing authenticity. Cultivate relationships rooted in respect and sincerity, avoiding manipulation. Embrace a fulfilling life enriched by genuine bonds, free from deceit. By understanding the futility of forced connections, foster a meaningful existence, celebrating the depth of true relationships. Prioritize love's essence, nurturing ties that bring lasting joy and fulfillment, grounded in mutual understanding and shared values. Image of number 10
1233 Despite riches, I’d retain taste and sense, avoiding empty dreams. Youthful pleasures suit youth, while age seeks fitting joys. Embrace age's pleasures, resisting futile pursuits. Value authenticity and change tastes with time. Accept nature's seasons, avoiding struggles against it. This approach enriches life, fostering genuine connections and contentment. By embracing life's stages, cultivate a fulfilling existence, celebrating the joys appropriate to each phase. Prioritize authenticity and acceptance, nurturing relationships that bring lasting happiness and understanding. Value life's natural progression, creating a meaningful journey enriched by genuine experiences and shared joy. Image of number 10
1234 The lower classes' active lives contrast with the rich's dullness. Work enhances their rare leisure. Riches bring boredom; they flee it in vain. Women suffer from idle ennui, losing reason and life. A Parisian woman's fate is dire, as is the dandy's, who mirrors her idleness. Reject idle pursuits; embrace purposeful living. Value meaningful engagement, avoiding life's void. Prioritize fulfilling activities, fostering genuine connections and contentment. By recognizing the dangers of idle wealth, cultivate a life enriched by purpose and understanding, celebrating meaningful pursuits and authentic relationships that bring lasting joy. Image of number 10
1235 Luxury, proprieties, and fashion trap life in dull uniformity. Pursuit of display loses true pleasure. Ridicule enforces conformity, stifling joy. Embrace spontaneity, valuing authenticity. Vary experiences to erase past impressions, enjoying each moment fully. Live as a man of the people, connecting with sincerity. Reject ceremony, fostering genuine joy. By embracing authenticity, create a fulfilling life enriched by diverse experiences and true connections. Prioritize genuine engagement, celebrating the richness of life's varied moments. Cultivate a meaningful existence, rooted in authenticity and spontaneity, valuing true relationships and the joy they bring. Image of number 10
1236 I’d gather friends who appreciate genuine pleasures, embracing outdoor activities over idle luxury. Simplicity fosters joy; our meals would be informal, served in nature. Authenticity enhances connections. Embrace genuine companionship, valuing meaningful interactions. By prioritizing simplicity and sincerity, create a life enriched by true friendships and shared joy. Cultivate a fulfilling existence, celebrating the depth of authentic relationships and the joy of shared experiences. Value simplicity and genuine engagement, fostering a life of purpose and connection. Embrace the beauty of natural interactions, creating a meaningful journey filled with genuine companionship and lasting happiness. Image of number 10
1237 Embrace local festivities, celebrating true joy with friends and neighbors. Participate in weddings, sharing simple, heartfelt gifts. In return, receive priceless gifts of freedom and pleasure. Engage with sincerity, fostering genuine connections. By valuing community and authenticity, create a fulfilling life enriched by shared experiences and true joy. Cultivate meaningful relationships, celebrating the depth of genuine interactions and the joy they bring. Embrace the beauty of community, fostering a life of purpose and connection. Value authentic engagement, creating a meaningful journey filled with genuine companionship and lasting happiness. Image of number 10
1238 For country enjoyment, consider a farm over estates. Riches demand exclusivity and estates bring complexities. Simplify pleasures, valuing nature's offerings. Prioritize genuine enjoyment, embracing simplicity. By recognizing complexities of wealth, foster a fulfilling life enriched by authentic experiences. Cultivate meaningful connections, celebrating the depth of genuine interactions and the joy they bring. Embrace simplicity, creating a life of purpose and connection. Value natural pleasures, fostering a meaningful journey filled with genuine companionship and lasting happiness. Prioritize authenticity, avoiding complexities of wealth, and celebrating life's simple joys and the richness they bring. Image of number 10
1239 Estates bring disputes, disturbing tranquility. Tenant issues arise, affecting harmony. Avoid quarrels and lawsuits; prioritize peace and understanding. Recognize complexities of wealth, valuing simplicity. By fostering harmony and connection, create a fulfilling life enriched by authentic experiences. Embrace peace, creating a life of purpose and connection. Value understanding, fostering a meaningful journey filled with genuine companionship and lasting happiness. Prioritize authenticity, avoiding complexities of wealth, and celebrating life's simple joys and the richness they bring. Cultivate meaningful connections, celebrating the depth of genuine interactions and the joy they bring. Image of number 10
1240 Game abundance invites trespassers, leading to punishment and cruelty. Disturbances from affected tenants and trespassers disrupt peace. Prioritize understanding, valuing simplicity over estate complexities. By recognizing the burden of wealth, foster a fulfilling life enriched by authentic experiences. Embrace peace, creating a life of purpose and connection. Value harmony, fostering a meaningful journey filled with genuine companionship and lasting happiness. Prioritize authenticity, avoiding complexities of wealth, and celebrating life's simple joys and the richness they bring. Cultivate meaningful connections, celebrating the depth of genuine interactions and the joy they bring. Image of number 10
1241 To maximize pleasure and minimize pain, avoid exclusivity. I'd choose an area without game preservation, relishing the challenge of finding and catching game without hindrance. This offers more enjoyment and satisfaction than shooting easily. My father loved the thrill of the hunt, savoring every moment. Such pursuits bring pure joy, free from estate preservation, poachers, or torment. It's wise to avoid tormenting others, as their curses eventually sour your enjoyment. By choosing simpler pleasures, foster a fulfilling life enriched by authentic experiences, valuing connection with nature and genuine enjoyment over superficial displays and complications. Image of number 10
1242 Monopoly destroys pleasure. True joy is shared with others, not hoarded. Building walls turns a park into a prison, limiting enjoyment. Embrace freedom, valuing experiences over ownership. Riches can't buy happiness; true wealth lies in shared enjoyment. Continue valuing the world's riches over personal wealth, usurping nature's bounty. Wander freely, claiming open spaces as your own. Embrace a lifestyle that values connection and shared joy, avoiding the pitfalls of ownership. By prioritizing shared experiences, create a fulfilling life enriched by genuine connections and the beauty of nature's offerings, fostering a sense of belonging and joy. Image of number 10
1243 This outlines good taste in leisure pursuits, emphasizing genuine enjoyment. Illusion and pride deceive, but adhering to these principles fosters true living. Wealth alone can't buy fulfillment; valuing authentic pleasures leads to a richer life. Embrace meaningful activities, prioritizing genuine experiences over superficial pursuits. Recognize the emptiness of vanity, cultivating a life enriched by authenticity and joy. By following these guidelines, foster a fulfilling existence, celebrating the beauty of genuine enjoyment and the depth it brings. Prioritize meaningful pursuits, creating a life of purpose and connection, free from the illusion of material wealth's power. Image of number 10
1244 These pleasures are accessible to all; wealth isn't necessary. Social prejudice complicates enjoyment, but happiness is simpler than perceived. True joy requires freedom and self-mastery. Health and daily needs suffice for contentment. Embrace Horace's "Golden Mean," valuing authenticity over wealth. Riches can't buy pleasure. Emile, with a pure heart, understands this deeply. Society's illusions reinforce this truth. Prioritize genuine enjoyment, fostering a fulfilling life enriched by authentic experiences. By valuing simplicity and freedom, create a life of purpose and connection, celebrating the beauty of true happiness and the richness it brings to existence. Image of number 10
1245 While engaged, we're searching for Sophy, not yet found. Her discovery shouldn't be easy; I've ensured our search leads elsewhere. Embrace the journey, valuing the pursuit. Recognize the significance of timing and patience. Prioritize meaningful connections, fostering a fulfilling life enriched by genuine experiences. By valuing the search, create a life of purpose and connection, celebrating the beauty of discovery and the richness it brings. Embrace the journey's challenges, fostering growth and understanding. Prioritize authentic engagement, creating a meaningful existence enriched by genuine connections and the joy of the pursuit. Image of number 10
1246 Now is the time to earnestly seek Sophy, ensuring Emile doesn't mistake someone else for her. Farewell, Paris, with its noise, smoke, and lost virtues. We seek love, happiness, innocence, distancing ourselves from Paris. Embrace the quest for genuine connections, prioritizing authenticity. Value love and happiness, fostering a fulfilling life enriched by true experiences. By leaving behind illusions, create a life of purpose and connection, celebrating the beauty of authentic relationships and the joy they bring. Prioritize meaningful pursuits, creating a meaningful existence filled with genuine companionship and the richness of shared happiness. Image of number 10
       
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1247 We have reached the final act of youth, but not the closing scene. The journey isn't over; it's a pivotal moment before the conclusion. The end of youth's journey is near, with lessons learned and experiences gained, leading to a final transformation. This transitional phase is crucial, shaping future paths and perspectives. As youth fades, the essence of maturity emerges, bringing wisdom and understanding. The closing scene will reveal the culmination of growth and development, reflecting on the journey's impact. Embrace this moment, acknowledging the end of one chapter and the beginning of another in life's ongoing narrative. Image of number 10
1248 Man should not be alone. Emile, now a man, needs a companion: Sophie. To find her, we must know her and her home. Recognizing her requires understanding her essence and circumstances. When found, the task isn't over. Locke concluded with marriage, but Emile's education continues. The journey towards companionship emphasizes the importance of understanding and connection. Finding Sophie is a step, not the end. Embrace the journey of discovery and learning, valuing the bonds formed. This phase highlights the significance of companionship in the human experience, fostering growth and enriching life's journey. Image of number 10
1249 Sophie, or the Wife: An exploration of the ideal partner, embodying the qualities and virtues that complement Emile's character and aspirations. This chapter delves into the attributes that define a harmonious relationship, emphasizing the balance between individuality and unity. Sophie represents the embodiment of love, support, and companionship, reflecting the ideals of a fulfilling partnership. The narrative explores the dynamics of a successful marriage, highlighting the importance of understanding, empathy, and shared values. Sophie is the culmination of Emile's journey, representing the realization of his dreams and aspirations through a meaningful and lasting connection. Image of number 10
1250 Sophie should be a woman as Emile is a man, aligning with her species and sex, fitting into the physical and moral order. Start by exploring gender similarities and differences. Both have similar organs, needs, and faculties. Differences are in degree, not kind. This understanding shapes their roles and interactions, emphasizing complementarity. Recognize the balance between equality and uniqueness in gender dynamics. Embrace the diversity that enriches human experience. This exploration fosters appreciation for individuality and shared humanity, promoting harmony and respect in relationships, celebrating the beauty of both similarities and differences. Image of number 10
1251 In non-sexual aspects, women are like men, sharing organs, needs, faculties. Both have similar structures, functions, appearances, differing only in degree. This similarity highlights shared humanity, fostering understanding and equality. Recognizing these parallels emphasizes commonality while respecting differences. This understanding promotes empathy and collaboration, valuing diverse perspectives. Embrace the shared aspects that unite, fostering connections across gender lines. This awareness enriches relationships, celebrating human diversity and shared experiences. By acknowledging these similarities, we build bridges of understanding and respect, creating a harmonious and inclusive society that values every individual's contributions. Image of number 10
1252 In sexual matters, men and women are related yet distinct. Differences stem from sex, not species. Comparative anatomy reveals these differences, though connections remain unseen. The interplay of similarities and oppositions is nature's marvel, creating two similar yet distinct beings. Embrace these dynamics, valuing diversity and harmony. Recognize the uniqueness of each gender, appreciating the balance between shared traits and individual differences. This awareness fosters mutual respect and collaboration, enriching relationships and society. Celebrate the complexity of human nature, acknowledging the intricate dance of similarities and differences that define our shared humanity and individuality. Image of number 10
1253 Gender relations and differences shape morals, highlighting the futility of disputes over sex equality. Each gender excels in its natural path, achieving perfection in diversity. In shared aspects, they are equal; in differences, incomparable. A perfect woman and man differ in mind and face. Embrace the uniqueness of each gender, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the balance between equality and individuality, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes harmony and collaboration, enriching relationships and society. Celebrate the beauty of human diversity, appreciating the strengths each gender brings to the shared journey of life and growth. Image of number 10
1254 In gender union, both contribute, but differently. The first moral difference arises here. One is active and strong, the other passive and weak. One has power and will; the other offers little resistance. This dynamic shapes relationships, emphasizing balance and complementarity. Embrace the strengths each gender brings, fostering harmony and understanding. Recognize the interplay of roles, valuing diverse contributions. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching partnerships and society. Celebrate the beauty of balance, acknowledging the unique strengths and perspectives each gender offers, creating a harmonious and inclusive environment that values every individual's contributions. Image of number 10
1255 This principle establishes that women are made to please men. Men's merit lies in strength, pleasing women. Nature's law predates love, emphasizing power dynamics. Recognize the balance between pleasing and strength, fostering mutual respect. Embrace the interplay of attraction and power, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes understanding and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate the complexity of human interactions, acknowledging the strengths each gender brings. By valuing individuality and shared experiences, we create a harmonious and inclusive society that celebrates the beauty of both similarities and differences in the dance of attraction and connection. Image of number 10
1256 Women, made to please and submit, should charm rather than provoke. Strength lies in allure, compelling men to discover and use strength. Resistance awakens desire, leading to triumph. This dynamic fosters attack and defense, boldness in one, timidity in another. Embrace the balance of power and attraction, valuing diverse roles. Recognize the interplay of strength and charm, fostering mutual respect. This awareness promotes understanding and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate the beauty of diversity, acknowledging the strengths each gender brings. By valuing individuality and shared experiences, we create a harmonious society, celebrating attraction and connection's complexity. Image of number 10
1257 Nature doesn't prescribe identical advances for both sexes. Unequal consequences demand differing approaches. Reserve and moderation preserve both sexes, preventing mutual destruction. Women's allure easily influences men, risking imbalance. Embrace the importance of balance, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the significance of restraint, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate the beauty of individuality and shared experiences, creating a harmonious society. By acknowledging the strengths and complexities of each gender, we foster an inclusive environment that values every individual's contributions, promoting harmony and understanding in the dance of attraction. Image of number 10
1258 Female animals lack shame; desire aligns with need. Once satisfied, they reject males, unlike women. Animals' instinct-driven interactions contrast with humans. Without modesty, women's desires risk imbalance. Embrace the importance of restraint, fostering understanding and respect. Recognize instinct's role in animals and modesty's role in humans, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate the beauty of individuality and shared experiences, creating a harmonious society. By valuing restraint and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment that honors every individual's contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of attraction and connection. Image of number 10
1259 The Supreme Being honors humanity by giving man limitless impulses and a law to regulate them. Reason governs passions, ensuring freedom and control. Women have limitless desires, tempered by modesty. Embrace the balance of impulse and restraint, fostering understanding and respect. Recognize the role of reason and modesty, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate the beauty of individuality and shared experiences, creating a harmonious society. By valuing impulse regulation, we foster an inclusive environment that honors every individual's contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human interaction and connection. Image of number 10
1260 Whether willing or not, women resist and defend against men's advances. Victory requires consent. The act allows no real violence; nature and reason oppose it. Nature gives the weak strength to resist; reason opposes brutality. Women judge their condition, preventing usurpation of paternal rights. Embrace the importance of consent, fostering understanding and respect. Recognize the role of nature and reason, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate the beauty of individuality and shared experiences, creating a harmonious society that honors every individual's contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection. Image of number 10
1261 The stronger appears to dominate, yet depends on the weaker. This is not mere gallantry but a natural law. Women excite desires more easily than men can satisfy them, making men dependent. Men must please women to assert dominance. Is yielding weakness or voluntary surrender? This uncertainty adds to the man's victory. Women embrace their weakness, using it as an excuse to be weak when needed. Embrace the balance of power and attraction, valuing diverse roles. Recognize the interplay of strength and charm, fostering mutual respect. This awareness promotes understanding and collaboration, enriching relationships. Image of number 10
1262 Enlightenment has shifted views on sexual violence, now rarely spoken of or believed. Ancient Greeks and Jews often referenced it, reflecting nature's simplicity. Fewer modern reports exist not due to temperance but skepticism. In Deuteronomy, an abused maiden was punished with her seducer in town but not in solitude, as her cries went unheard. Girls learned to avoid public places. Embrace the balance of power and attraction, valuing diverse roles. Recognize the importance of understanding and restraint, fostering mutual respect. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships and creating a harmonious society. Image of number 10
1263 Divergent opinions on morals led to modern gallantry. Men, realizing their pleasures depend on women's goodwill, secure it through attentions, gaining rewards. This dynamic fosters mutual respect and understanding. Embrace the balance of power and attraction, valuing diverse roles. Recognize the importance of attentions and goodwill, fostering empathy and collaboration. This awareness enriches relationships, creating a harmonious society. Celebrate the beauty of individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging the strengths each gender brings. By valuing attentions and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment that honors every individual's contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human interaction. Image of number 10
1264 The physical leads to moral, where love's sweet laws arise from union. Women's power persists by nature's design, not men's will. Hercules and Samson, strong yet subdued by women, illustrate this. Women's power remains despite abuse. Embrace the balance of power and attraction, valuing diverse roles. Recognize nature's influence, fostering mutual respect and understanding. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing nature's balance, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1265 No parity exists between sexes regarding consequences. Men are occasionally male; women are always female. Women's roles demand a constitution related to sex. Pregnancy requires care; motherhood needs rest and patience. Women connect families, nurturing love and confidence. This care ensures family unity, rooted in feelings vital for species survival. Embrace the balance of roles, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the importance of nurturing, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing nurturing, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions. Image of number 10
1266 Duty severity differs between sexes, rooted in reason, not prejudice. Women bear children, accountable to men. Unfaithful wives dissolve families, betray trust, and cause disorder. A man uncertain of paternity faces anguish. Families become enemy societies. Embrace the importance of fidelity, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of trust, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing fidelity and trust, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1267 Women's fidelity must be evident to husbands and society. Modesty, attentiveness, and virtue are essential. A father must respect his children's mother, requiring women's honor and reputation. Gender differences demand women focus on conduct, manners, and behavior. Equality in duties is misguided. Embrace the importance of virtue, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of honor, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing virtue and honor, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection. Image of number 10
1268 Women should aim for motherhood, despite urban licentiousness and few children. Rural areas compensate for city sterility. Even with few children, motherhood remains women's role. Nature and morality laws address this. Embrace the importance of motherhood, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of nature and morality, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing motherhood and nature's balance, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1269 Women can't abruptly change lifestyles without risk. Transitioning from motherhood to warrior is unrealistic. Fragile to robust requires gradual adaptation. Urban young men struggle with military life; women face greater challenges. Embrace the importance of realistic expectations, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of gradual change, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing gradual adaptation and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1270 In some lands, women bear children easily, while men endure extreme hardships. Strength differences persist. Embrace the balance of roles, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the importance of strength diversity, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing strength diversity and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1271 Plato's Republic assigned equal gymnastics to both sexes, but civil promiscuity poses abuses. Natural bonds form conventional ties. Family attachment fosters national loyalty. Good sons, husbands, and fathers make good citizens. Embrace the importance of family bonds, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of natural ties, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing family bonds and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1272 Men and women differ in character and temperament; their education should too. They work together, but not identically. Tasks and feelings differ, though purposes align. After forming the natural man, shape the woman who complements him. Embrace the importance of tailored education, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of complementary roles, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing tailored education and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection. Image of number 10
1273 Follow nature's path, respecting sex differences. Women's faults may be qualities for them, not us. Preserve these traits, preventing degeneration. Embrace the balance of traits, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of nature, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing natural traits and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1274 Women complain about being taught vanity and coquetry, blaming men. Men don't educate girls; mothers do. No girls' colleges exist; their education could be more sensible. Men appreciate beauty and charm, seduced by art. Educate women like men, but they'll lose influence. Embrace the importance of tailored education, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of influence, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing tailored education and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection. Image of number 10
1275 Both sexes share faculties unequally, but overall they compensate. Woman excels as woman, less as man. Usurping men's rights diminishes her. Partisans argue exceptions, but truth remains. Embrace the balance of faculties, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of complementary strengths, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing complementary strengths and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1276 Cultivating masculine virtues in women harms them. Women wisely retain their rights. Balancing both is impossible, diminishing their worth. Mothers should make daughters good women, benefiting all. Embrace the importance of tailored development, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of complementary strengths, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing tailored development and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1277 Women needn't be ignorant or confined to housework. Nature grants them agreeable, agile minds. Women should think, judge, love, and know, cultivating minds and bodies. Embrace the balance of roles, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of intellectual growth, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing intellectual growth and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1278 Women depend on men for desires and needs. Men's desires make them dependent on women. Women need men's provision and esteem, relying on reputation. Their education contrasts with men's, as public opinion is their throne. Embrace the balance of roles, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of reputation, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing reputation and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1279 Children's health and early education depend on mothers. Women's influence shapes morals, passions, tastes, and happiness. Women's education must focus on pleasing and aiding men. Embrace the balance of roles, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of influence, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing influence and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1280 Women should please men of worth, not effeminate dandies. Nature and reason reject effeminacy, and women shouldn't imitate it. Embrace the importance of genuine attraction, fostering mutual respect and understanding. Recognize the role of worth, valuing diverse perspectives. This awareness promotes empathy and collaboration, enriching relationships. Celebrate individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing genuine attraction and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in the dance of human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1281 A woman adopting the airs of foolish men loses her vocation and rights. She mistakenly believes men like folly. Women are more responsible for men's follies than vice versa. Women should aim to please real men, not foolish ones. A woman's role is to be a coquette, but her coquetry varies with her aims. Let her aims align with nature, and she will receive a fitting education. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse aims and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1282 Little girls love dressing up and seek admiration from a young age. Telling them what people think of them influences their behavior. Boys, however, prioritize freedom and sports over others' opinions. This difference highlights innate tendencies and gender roles. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1283 Girls benefit from early lessons focusing on physical grace. Both sexes need nurturing; girls focus on grace, boys on strength. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1284 Feminine delicacy can lead to male effeminacy. Girls should be strong for their sons, not like men. Convents and boarding schools offer better physical activity than home. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1285 Spartan girls engaged in military sports to raise strong sons, not to fight. Greek physical training for women developed sound constitutions through exercise. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1286 Greek women, after marriage, focused on household care, aligning with nature and reason. They birthed strong, healthy men and embodied wisdom, beauty, and virtue. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1287 Flowing Greek garments preserved fine proportions, unlike modern constraints. Gothic fetters and corsets distort figures, leading to degeneration. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1288 Women's corsets are unnecessary. Natural bodies are less offensive than forced appearances. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1289 Cramping nature is in bad taste. Prioritize life, health, and comfort over adornment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1290 Children play together and have distinct tastes. Girls prefer adornments like dolls, reflecting future roles. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1291 Girls spend hours dressing dolls, foreshadowing future self-adornment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1292 Girls eagerly learn to sew, motivated by self-adornment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1293 Cutting out, embroidery, and lace-making come naturally to girls, while needlepoint lacks personal appeal. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1294 Girls' education should focus on practical arts like drawing for personal adornment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1295 Girls are more docile and intelligent; show usefulness in tasks. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1296 Girls' vanity aids learning. They embrace writing when it serves personal goals. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1297 Keep girls busy and teach them to handle annoyances and to bear constraint to prepare for societal expectations. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1298 Avoid infatuation with amusements; teach girls to appreciate tasks. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1299 Girls' enthusiasm for games leads to caprice; control is needed. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1300 Women must be gentle and submit to men's judgment. Gentleness benefits both women and their relationships. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1301 Daughters should be obedient, but mothers need not be harsh. Girls should understand dependence without misery. Allowing cleverness to avoid obedience is acceptable if not abused. Cunning is natural to women and should be cultivated with caution. Recognize and value cunning as an innate ability. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1302 Newborn girls often show more intelligence than boys. Comparing young children reveals girls' wit. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1303 Children shouldn't ask for food at the table, leading to cleverness. A little boy cleverly asks for salt to indirectly request food. A girl cleverly finds a way around strict rules, showing her natural cunning. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1304 The girl pointed out dishes, omitting one, prompting an offer of the desired dish. Her trick showed feminine cunning. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1305 Female cunning compensates for lack of strength. Women maintain equality through wit and beauty. Beauty fades, but wit endures. Wit benefits society, curbing conflict. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1306 Personality, not finery, wins hearts. Girls should value simplicity over elaborate clothing. Fashion hides flaws; true beauty needs no adornment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1307 Young girls overdressed should be taught simplicity. Praise beauty without excessive adornment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1308 Expensive clothes reflect class folly, not individuality. Genuine coquetry is thoughtful, not lavish. Young girls with good taste create beauty without luxury. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1309 Women with a stable style think less about dress. Young girls often dress with better taste. Dress should reflect personality, not routine. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1310 Growing girls realize personal charm is essential. Graceful gestures and a pleasant voice attract attention. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1311 Girls should learn to sing and dance, not just pray. Childhood should be lively, not somber. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1312 Strict duties make marriage unappealing. Women should cultivate talents to delight husbands. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1313 Pleasant talents become burdensome when formalized. Singing and dancing should suit individual personalities. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1314 Girls should learn from themselves, not just teachers. Teachers may instill frivolity. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1315 Pleasure-driven learning can be guided by family and friends. Encourage self-motivation. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1316 Taste shapes ideas of beauty and morality. Girls develop decency and goodness earlier. Speech adds charm and renews interest. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1317 Women speak to please, men to inform. Women's politeness is natural, men's is formal. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1318 Girls' talk should be judged by effect, not use. Avoid unpleasant words while speaking truthfully. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1319 Girls avoid grossness and learn politeness naturally. Women's politeness is genuine; men's is formal. Encourage sincere friendships among girls. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1320 Girls should be questioned to develop communication skills. Conversation teaches morals in a fun way. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1321 Women should learn religion early, even if they lack full understanding. Their practical reason leads to conclusions rather than discovery. Society creates a moral person, with women as the eye and men as the hand. Mutual dependence fosters harmony and cooperation. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1322 A woman's religion is guided by authority, reflecting her conduct shaped by public opinion. Daughters follow mothers, wives follow husbands. Docility and submission to nature's laws absolve errors in faith. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1323 Women lack boundaries in faith, swayed by external influences. Extreme in piety or irreligion, they struggle to balance virtue and faith. Men’s ill-regulated control contributes to this imbalance. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1324 Women's religion requires clear guidance, not complex reasoning. Half-understood beliefs breed fanaticism, while faith in absurdity fosters madness or unbelief. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1325 Teach religion to girls without making it gloomy or burdensome. Avoid rote memorization, including prayers. Lead by example, encouraging sincere, short prayers. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1326 Religion should be taught thoroughly and loved. Avoid making it burdensome or focused on God's anger. Lead by example. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1327 Teach faith directly, not by rote. Catechism answers are misleading for children who cannot understand or believe them. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1328 A catechism question confuses a child who lacks understanding, highlighting the need for meaningful religious instruction. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1329 A catechism for children could be invaluable if it suits their understanding, differing from traditional catechisms. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1330 A suitable catechism lets children answer questions naturally and often ask them. Examples clarify concepts. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1331 Begin religious discussions with relatable examples to reach understanding of catechism questions. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1332 A conversation between a nurse and a child explores concepts of life, aging, and continuity through generations. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1333 Through examples, a beginning and end for humanity emerges, illustrating the cycle of generations. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1334 Complex catechism questions may confuse children. Explain God's nature simply, focusing on understanding through His works. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1335 Focus on practical doctrines essential for society, ignoring complex theological debates. Teach children about justice, kindness, and accountability to God. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1336 Avoid abstract doctrines; emphasize moral teachings that encourage right action. Teach children to act virtuously and to live in God's presence. This genuine religion prevents abuse and fanaticism. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1337 Young people view actions as right or wrong based on others' decisions. Girls especially need positive influences. As they mature, adapt their education accordingly. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1338 Women's education should transcend public opinion, respecting a universal rule preceding prejudice. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1339 Sentiment and respect for public opinion should align for true education. Balance personal conscience with social approval. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1340 Cultivate reason as a judge between conscience and prejudice. Explore women's capacity for reasoning and its compatibility with simplicity. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1341 Views differ on women's roles. Some restrict women to household tasks, making them servants. Others seek equality in all aspects, potentially reversing natural roles. Balance is key. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1342 A woman's duties, guided by reason, are simpler than a man's. Her obedience, fidelity, tenderness, and care for her husband and children are natural, self-evident, and aligned with her inclinations. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1343 Restricting women's knowledge to their gender's work is questionable. In complex, immoral environments, such limitations make them vulnerable. Women should understand societal dynamics, preparing for challenges and virtue tests. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1344 A woman should gain her husband's and society's esteem through informed conduct, balancing conscience and public opinion. This requires understanding institutions, customs, and judgments, demanding cultivated mind and reason. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1345 In social settings, an attentive husband and perceptive wife both strive to please guests. The wife, with subtlety and grace, ensures everyone's satisfaction. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1346 After guests leave, couples discuss the evening's events. The wife, even without hearing, senses conversations and dynamics, often interpreting them accurately. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1347 A flirt excels in attracting suitors, unlike polite women. Each admirer believes he is favored due to her clever discernment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1348 Place a man between two women with secrets, and he appears foolish. But a woman handles two men adeptly, misleading both with differing treatment. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1349 Women's whims, skillfully managed, keep admirers enchanted. Artful variation maintains interest, avoiding monotony. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1350 The art of understanding and influencing men is innate in women. Self-possession, observation, and subtlety define their skill, a gender trait. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1351 Women naturally possess skill, not duplicity. Their language is nonverbal. Modesty should not make them unhappy; it offers a discreet way to express desires. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1352 Virtue is indivisible, and modesty doesn't make women false. Those with modesty often conceal desires, remaining reliable and sincere. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1353 Mlle. de L'Enclos defied female virtues, practicing male traits. Her reputation, though impressive, does not make her a desirable friend or lover. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1354 Modern philosophy mocks modesty, threatening women's remaining honor. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1355 Outline the education suitable for the female mind, focusing on early youth and practical goals. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1356 Women should love their duties, recognizing their advantages. Embrace their roles, maintaining natural identity rather than conforming to male ideals. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1357 Women's studies should be practical, focused on applying principles and observing men. Their wit aids observation; men's genius aids reasoning. Together, they achieve the clearest knowledge of self and others. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1358 The world is woman's book. Mothers should guide daughters through societal pleasures before renouncing them, preventing deceitful influences. Girls can enjoy coquetry, but married women have home responsibilities. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1359 Mothers must prepare daughters for societal illusions, teaching them to value genuine pleasures. Parental guidance and example influence daughters' perspectives, justifying choices. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1360 Convents promote coquetry, not family values. Protestants exhibit more family affection, possibly due to less convent influence. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1361 To appreciate family life, we must experience it from childhood. In cities, home education disappears; we live in public, not with family. Familiarity fades, replaced by society's pleasures and rules. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1362 Girls feign coolness to deceive men into marriage, concealing passion. They seek married women's freedom, not husbands, to satisfy desires. Society's sham modesty hides libertinage. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1363 Education fosters taste for worldly pleasures, igniting passions. In towns, depravity starts early; in the country, it begins with reason. Young women leave simplicity for Parisian vices. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1364 Sensible mothers avoid harmful sights, but those with good taste and sense find little danger. Disgusted by city life, some return to simpler homes, realizing happiness there. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1365 Women, despite poor education, often possess good judgment. Preserve natural feelings without harsh morals; engage pleasantly. Their catechism of conduct should mirror religion's brevity, emphasizing rights and pleasures. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1366 External signs reflect women's role as judges of men's worth. Even critics of women's morals seek their approval. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1367 Women influence great accomplishments; their loss of power signals societal degradation. Respect for women defines virtuous nations, as seen in Rome. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1368 Virtue enhances love and authority. True love requires enthusiasm and admiration for perfection. Without it, love becomes mere sensual pleasure. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1369 Natural relations endure through ages, transcending prejudice. A virtuous woman's chastity brings pride, respect, and eternal joy. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1370 Effective duty motivation requires strong reasoning. Pious talk fails to persuade youth, making them vulnerable to temptation. Use relevant reasons for their age and sex, connecting duty with personal motives. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1371 One would not suspect Ovid of such a harsh judgment. Image of number 10
1372 Inspire youth to love goodness by showing its value, not just demanding it. Highlight goodness's benefits in present relationships and character. True happiness comes from a virtuous partner. Encourage noble ambition, uniting love and esteem. Sophie embodies this education, guided by taste and care. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1373 Sophie and Emile, not prodigies, are true to their sexes. In today's gender confusion, being true to oneself is rare. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1374 Sophie, with a good heart and perceptive mind, charms with her faults. Her personality evokes emotion, blending good qualities into a happy disposition. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1375 Sophie, not classically beautiful, captivates with her grace and expressive countenance. She delights subtly, winning hearts through charm. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1376 Sophie, fond of tasteful, modest dress, carefully selects clothing to enhance her beauty. Her subtle style keeps eyes on her. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1377 Sophie, with natural gifts and self-taught skills, excels in music and dance. Her voice, guided by her father, and dancing, by her mother, showcase her taste. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1378 Sophie, skilled in needlework and household arts, prepares for future responsibilities. Her cleanliness, emphasized by her mother, shapes her actions. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1379 Sophie's cleanliness, instilled by her mother, is vital for a woman's duties. It controls her time and actions, focusing on avoiding dirt. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1380 Sophie's cleanliness remains pure, avoiding luxury's excess. She values greater tasks over superficial cleanliness. Embrace individuality and shared experiences, acknowledging strengths each gender brings. By valuing diverse perspectives and understanding, we foster an inclusive environment honoring contributions, promoting harmony and balance in human connection and interaction. Image of number 10
1381 Sophie, once greedy, learned temperance through her mother's discipline, believing candy harms teeth and overeating spoils her figure. As she matured, she embraced healthier habits, favoring milk, sweets, and pastries over meat. Women, less active than men, eat sparingly, appreciating good food but adapting to what's available. With self-restraint, Sophie exemplifies a woman's adaptability and virtue in a world of changing desires and roles. This passage explores societal norms and the expectations placed on women, emphasizing the balance between natural inclinations and cultivated virtues in shaping a woman's character and conduct. Image of number 10
1382 Sophie, neither brilliant nor dull, engages others with her pleasing mind. Her thoughts, formed by reading, parental guidance, and personal reflection, reflect her happy nature. Childhood silliness, tempered by her mother's gradual guidance, evolved into modesty and restraint. Her occasional playful reversion to youth, accompanied by blushing self-awareness, illustrates the blend of child and woman. This passage highlights Sophie's growth, emphasizing the balance between youthful spontaneity and the learned decorum of adulthood. It reflects the societal expectations and individual experiences shaping one's character and interactions. Image of number 10
1383 Sophie's sensitivity sometimes disrupts her humor, but she is too gentle to burden others with it. Hurt by words, she doesn't sulk but retreats to cry, rejoining her family with a smile and stifled sobs when comforted. This portrayal of Sophie's emotional nature highlights her vulnerability and resilience, emphasizing her ability to balance personal feelings with social interactions. The passage underscores the complexity of human emotions and the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships, illustrating the challenges and strengths of navigating one's emotions in a social context. Image of number 10
1384 Sophie's whims, if unchecked, lead to rebellion, but her remorse is a virtue. Punished, she is submissive, ashamed of her faults more than the consequence. Left unpunished, she eagerly atones, her delight in forgiveness evident. She endures others' wrongs and atones for her own. This amiability, natural to unspoiled women, contrasts with boys' revolt against injustice. Women, made to endure, possess a unique resilience. The passage highlights gendered expectations and differences in emotional responses, emphasizing the societal roles and virtues attributed to women, and the innate strength and adaptability required to navigate these expectations. Image of number 10
1385 Sophie embraces a simple, reasonable religion focused on morality and service to God. Her parents teach reverent submission, deferring complex doctrines to her future husband. They preach by example, engraining their lessons in her heart. This approach emphasizes experiential learning over rigid instruction, reflecting a balanced view of faith and morality. Sophie's upbringing exemplifies the integration of personal beliefs with familial and societal expectations, highlighting the role of guidance and modeling in shaping a person's spiritual and moral development. The passage underscores the significance of example and simplicity in religious education. Image of number 10
1386 Sophie loves virtue as her ruling passion, seeing it as a woman's glory and the path to happiness. Virtue shields her from poverty and shame and honors her beloved parents. Her vow to remain virtuous stems from genuine understanding, not naïveté. Sophie's dedication reflects her family's influence and her personal commitment to embodying the virtues she cherishes. This passage highlights the transformative power of virtue, the interplay between personal values and familial expectations, and the strength derived from aligning one's actions with deeply held beliefs, showcasing the enduring impact of virtue on individual character and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1387 Unlike vain women seeking attention, Sophie longs for love amidst festivities, yearning for solitude and a devoted lover. She values genuine connection over fleeting admiration, prioritizing meaningful relationships. Sophie's desire for love reflects a deep emotional longing, contrasting with societal expectations of superficial charm. This passage emphasizes the significance of authentic connections, illustrating Sophie's inner conflict and her pursuit of genuine affection. It highlights the tension between societal norms and personal desires, underscoring the importance of meaningful relationships in achieving fulfillment and challenging conventional notions of success and admiration. Image of number 10
1388 Women's judgment matures earlier due to their defensive role and responsibilities. Sophie's precocious nature enhances her understanding of good and evil, surpassing her peers. This passage highlights gendered differences in maturity and awareness, emphasizing the societal roles and challenges shaping women's development. It underscores the complexity of navigating expectations and responsibilities, illustrating how individual temperament and experience contribute to personal growth and wisdom. Sophie's precocity reflects the nuanced interplay between nature and nurture in shaping character and decision-making, highlighting the diverse paths to maturity and understanding. Image of number 10
1389 Sophie knows the duties and virtues of both sexes, valuing virtuous men. She believes she is worthy of such a man, confident in her ability to bring happiness. Recognizing the difficulty of finding a worthy partner, she remains hopeful. This passage underscores the significance of mutual respect and shared values in relationships, highlighting Sophie's aspirations for a fulfilling partnership. It reflects the interplay between self-awareness and societal expectations, emphasizing the pursuit of compatibility and virtue in personal connections. Sophie's journey illustrates the challenges and hopes inherent in seeking meaningful, equitable relationships. Image of number 10
1390 Women judge men's worth as men judge theirs, a reciprocal right acknowledged by both sexes. Sophie exercises this right with modesty, confining judgments to what she knows. She avoids discussing absent people, particularly women, focusing on praising known virtues. Her restraint and focus on justice reflect a commitment to fairness and integrity. This passage emphasizes the importance of careful judgment and ethical interactions, highlighting the balance between personal opinion and societal norms. Sophie's approach exemplifies the value of respect and discernment in fostering positive relationships and maintaining personal integrity in social contexts. Image of number 10
1391 Sophie's limited societal knowledge is offset by her observation and obliging nature, marked by a grace that stems from genuine politeness rather than formula. Her responses are sincere, devoid of empty compliments. She eschews societal pretenses, embracing authenticity over appearances. This passage highlights the value of sincerity and genuine interaction, emphasizing the role of personal character in navigating social norms. Sophie's behavior exemplifies the power of authenticity and the importance of aligning actions with inner values, challenging conventional expectations and promoting a deeper understanding of meaningful social engagement and personal integrity. Image of number 10
1392 Sophie respects older and married men, never taking precedence over them unless necessary. She returns to her place as soon as possible, valuing age's wisdom over gender. This respect reflects a societal acknowledgment of age as a marker of experience and knowledge, emphasizing the importance of deference and humility in social interactions. The passage highlights the balance between individual rights and societal norms, illustrating how respect for age and wisdom transcends gendered expectations, fostering a culture of mutual respect and understanding in personal and communal relationships. Image of number 10
1393 With peers, Sophie balances respect and modesty, maintaining innocence in lively conversation. She detests insincere gallantry and expects sincerity in speech. Her high standards and active virtue demand meaningful interaction, rejecting frivolous flattery. This passage underscores the importance of genuine communication and integrity, highlighting Sophie's commitment to authenticity and self-respect. Her disdain for superficiality challenges societal norms, promoting meaningful connections and emphasizing the value of sincerity in relationships. Sophie's standards reflect a desire for honesty and depth, encouraging a culture of respect and authenticity in personal interactions. Image of number 10
1394 Sophie appreciates sincere praise, valuing genuine acknowledgment of her merit over empty compliments. Her pride stems from a desire for esteem-based homage rather than superficial admiration. This passage highlights the significance of authenticity and meaningful recognition, emphasizing Sophie's pursuit of genuine respect and validation. Her discernment reflects a commitment to personal integrity and a rejection of societal superficiality, challenging conventional expectations and promoting deeper understanding and appreciation in relationships. Sophie's approach underscores the importance of sincerity and esteem in fostering authentic connections and enhancing personal and social interactions. Image of number 10
1395 Sophie's parents, recognizing her maturity, engage her in wise and tender conversations. Anticipating her development, they address her restlessness, aligning their guidance with her disposition and age. This approach highlights the importance of timely, thoughtful communication and understanding in nurturing personal growth. The passage emphasizes the role of parental support and guidance in shaping a child's development, illustrating the balance between nurturing independence and providing direction. Sophie's journey reflects the significance of open dialogue and empathy in fostering self-awareness and personal growth, promoting a holistic approach to education and development. Image of number 10
1396 "Sophie, you're almost a woman. We want your happiness, as ours depends on yours. A good girl finds happiness with a good man, so we must consider marriage. It's crucial for life's happiness or sorrow. Let's take our time to choose wisely." This passage underscores the significance of thoughtful consideration in marriage, emphasizing the interconnectedness of personal and familial happiness. It highlights the importance of aligning individual desires with familial expectations, illustrating the impact of choice on long-term fulfillment. The dialogue reflects the role of guidance and communication in navigating life's pivotal decisions. Image of number 10
1397 "Finding a good spouse is challenging. You, Sophie, are exceptional, but many are worthy. We must find someone who complements you, worthy of our admiration. Introduce you to such a person." This passage emphasizes the importance of compatibility and shared values in marriage, highlighting the role of careful consideration and mutual respect in forming lasting partnerships. It underscores the significance of aligning personal and familial aspirations, illustrating the impact of thoughtful choice on long-term happiness. The dialogue reflects the balance between individual desires and social expectations in navigating relationships and building fulfilling connections. Image of number 10
1398 "Perfect happiness in marriage requires many alignments. Focus on major ones; if others align, that's a bonus. Avoid self-inflicted unhappiness. We can't achieve perfection here, but we can steer clear of preventable woes." This passage highlights the importance of prioritizing key compatibilities in marriage, emphasizing the role of realistic expectations in fostering enduring happiness. It underscores the value of mutual understanding and acceptance in navigating relationships, illustrating the impact of conscious choices on long-term fulfillment. The dialogue reflects the balance between idealism and pragmatism, promoting a mindful approach to building meaningful connections. Image of number 10
1399 "Natural, customary, and conventional suitability exist. Parents decide the latter; children the former. Marriages based on convention unite positions, not people. Positions change, people remain. Personal relationships, not fortune, determine marital happiness." This passage emphasizes the importance of personal compatibility over societal conventions in marriage, highlighting the role of individual connection in fostering lasting happiness. It underscores the significance of aligning personal values with relationship dynamics, illustrating the impact of conscious choice on marital fulfillment. The dialogue reflects the balance between societal expectations and personal aspirations, promoting authentic connections and meaningful partnerships. Image of number 10
1400 "Your mother had rank, I wealth. Our marriage, arranged for these, lost both. But our hearts' union triumphed. We live happily, our retreat chosen for shared tastes. Sophie, a treasure, is our shared joy, our only wealth. Providence led us here." This passage highlights the triumph of genuine connection over material considerations in marriage, emphasizing the enduring value of love and shared values. It underscores the role of mutual understanding and commitment in fostering lasting happiness, illustrating the impact of personal choice on relationship dynamics. The dialogue reflects the balance between societal expectations and personal fulfillment. Image of number 10
1401 Husband and wife should choose each other. Mutual liking should be the first bond. Their first duty is to love one another, which requires beginning before marriage. This natural law cannot be overridden by legal restrictions prioritizing apparent order over happiness. Sophie, we advocate for personal choice in selecting your husband, respecting your autonomy and happiness. This passage emphasizes the importance of mutual affection and personal choice in marriage, highlighting the balance between societal norms and individual happiness. It advocates for personal autonomy, promoting genuine connection and love as the foundation of a successful marriage. Image of number 10
1402 We give you liberty, but with that comes responsibility. You're good, sensible, and accomplished, yet poor. Let your ambitions match your fortune, not ideals. Follow your mother's example: marry where you're welcomed. You were born into our poverty and share our happiness without wealth. Pursue happiness, not wealth; we've learned joy through loss. This passage emphasizes the importance of aligning aspirations with reality, highlighting the balance between ambition and practical considerations. It advocates for valuing personal fulfillment over material wealth, promoting happiness and contentment through genuine connections and shared values. Image of number 10
1403 You're amiable and won't be a burden. Suitors may not always be genuine. Your judgment is good, but inexperience may blind you to deception. The senses are dangerous; they create illusions. Trust your reason, not fantasies. Love brings vulnerability; seek your mother's guidance when in love. This passage highlights the importance of discernment and guidance in navigating relationships, emphasizing the role of experience and wisdom in making informed choices. It warns against the allure of superficial attractions, advocating for thoughtful decision-making and reliance on trusted counsel to ensure genuine connections. Image of number 10
1404 Let's form a treaty respecting your choice. You choose, we advise. Birth, wealth, position, opinions don't matter. Choose a good man whose character suits you; we'll accept him as family. We value your happiness over public approval. This passage emphasizes the importance of personal choice and family support in marriage, highlighting the balance between individual preferences and familial guidance. It advocates for prioritizing character and compatibility over societal expectations, promoting genuine connections and personal fulfillment as the foundation of a successful union. Image of number 10
1405 Sophie's upbringing ensures she values her parents' esteem. Such words would impact her deeply, shaping her lifelong determination to deserve their respect. This passage underscores the significance of parental guidance and values in shaping one's character and decisions, highlighting the enduring impact of early upbringing on personal development. It emphasizes the importance of respect and esteem in familial relationships, illustrating how foundational principles influence lifelong behavior and choices, promoting a commitment to integrity and personal growth. Image of number 10
1406 Sophie's ardent disposition is tempered by her upbringing. Her judgment, knowledge, and values outweigh her senses' impulses. She'd rather remain unmarried than distress her parents or marry poorly. Sophie's pride curbs her desires, ensuring she seeks a worthy partner. This passage highlights the importance of values and upbringing in shaping personal choices, emphasizing the role of self-awareness and restraint in navigating desires. It underscores the significance of aligning personal aspirations with familial expectations, promoting a thoughtful approach to relationships that prioritizes compatibility and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1407 Not everyone appreciates the strength in loving virtue. Some deny its power, refusing to acknowledge its impact on passions. Sophie's story exemplifies this virtue, whether real or fictional, illustrating my method and purpose. This passage emphasizes the transformative power of virtue, highlighting its ability to influence behavior and relationships positively. It challenges skepticism about virtue's impact, illustrating its role in shaping character and choices. The passage underscores the importance of aligning one's values with actions, promoting a deeper understanding of virtue's enduring significance in personal and social contexts. Image of number 10
1408 Sophie's parents moved to a nearby town, seeking a suitable match. Young men proposed, and her father chose the most eligible. However, the suitor was poor, complicating the marriage. Despite this, the father hoped for a match, prioritizing character over wealth. This passage highlights the challenges of balancing practical considerations with personal values in marriage, emphasizing the importance of character and compatibility over material wealth. It underscores the significance of parental involvement and guidance in navigating relationships, promoting thoughtful decision-making and prioritizing meaningful connections. Image of number 10
1409 The marriage won't happen if the suitor doesn't want it or can't afford it. He's poor due to upbringing, not lack of character. Despite this, he's a gentleman. The girl's parents seek a suitable dowry, valuing their daughter's future. This passage emphasizes the importance of financial considerations and character in marriage, highlighting the balance between practical needs and personal values. It underscores the role of parental guidance and support in ensuring a secure and fulfilling partnership, promoting thoughtful decision-making and aligning aspirations with reality for lasting happiness. Image of number 10
1410 A match should satisfy both parties. The girl's dowry should match the suitor's fortune, respecting parental resources and suitor's rank. Without a dowry, the marriage seems indifferent. Reasonable terms ensure mutual respect and understanding. This passage emphasizes the importance of financial compatibility and mutual respect in marriage, highlighting the role of practical considerations in ensuring a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning expectations with reality, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a harmonious relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations. Image of number 10
1411 A dowry should reflect social standing, ensuring the girl is valued. High-ranking girls shouldn't marry beneath their status without considering financial implications. This passage emphasizes the importance of aligning financial considerations with social standing in marriage, highlighting the role of practical factors in ensuring a successful and harmonious partnership. It underscores the significance of balancing personal aspirations with societal expectations, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' values and circumstances for lasting fulfillment and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1412 Marriage agreements require mutual respect and understanding. Families should agree on financial, social, and personal terms. Successful marriages need more than financial compatibility; they require shared values and understanding. This passage emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and shared values in marriage, highlighting the role of comprehensive agreements in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning financial and personal considerations, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a harmonious relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1413 In financial disagreements, find a compromise that respects both families' dignity. Mutual agreement and respect ensure marriage is entered with clear expectations. This passage emphasizes the importance of compromise and mutual respect in resolving financial disagreements in marriage, highlighting the role of clear communication in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning expectations and understanding, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a harmonious relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1414 Consider the suitor's character and virtues, not just finances. Moral qualities are crucial for a successful, harmonious marriage. This passage emphasizes the importance of evaluating a suitor's character and virtues in marriage, highlighting the role of moral and ethical qualities in ensuring a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of prioritizing personal values over material considerations, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' integrity and aspirations for lasting fulfillment and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1415 Marriage should ensure happiness and well-being for both. Finances are necessary but should not overshadow finding a compatible partner. This passage emphasizes the importance of prioritizing happiness and well-being in marriage, highlighting the role of compatibility and shared values in ensuring a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of balancing financial considerations with personal aspirations, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and desires for lasting fulfillment and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1416 Handle marriage arrangements with care, respecting all parties' needs and desires. This passage emphasizes the importance of sensitivity and respect in arranging marriages, highlighting the role of thoughtful consideration in ensuring a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning individual needs and desires with familial expectations, promoting clear communication and fostering a harmonious relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1417 Respect each other's backgrounds for a successful marriage. Understanding and acceptance of each other's circumstances and qualities are key. This passage emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and understanding in marriage, highlighting the role of acceptance in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of appreciating each other's backgrounds and qualities, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1418 Open communication about financial and personal expectations prevents misunderstandings. This passage emphasizes the importance of clear communication in marriage, highlighting the role of transparency in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning expectations and understanding, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1419 Marriage is a partnership where both contribute. Mutual support and shared responsibilities foster a strong relationship. This passage emphasizes the importance of partnership and mutual support in marriage, highlighting the role of shared responsibilities in fostering a successful relationship. It underscores the significance of balancing individual contributions and promoting thoughtful decision-making, fostering a harmonious relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1420 Approach marriage arrangements with a balanced view of financial and personal factors. Compatibility and mutual respect lead to a successful union. This passage emphasizes the importance of balancing financial and personal considerations in marriage, highlighting the role of compatibility and mutual respect in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning expectations with reality, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1421 In this book, I aimed to describe what could be done and allow everyone to choose. I intended to train a companion for Emile, educating them for each other. However, early marriage plans seemed unwise, as matching children before knowing their suitability was impractical. In primitive conditions, any woman suits any man. In civilized life, individual traits develop, requiring introductions to determine compatibility. Let them choose, promising mutual suitability. This passage emphasizes the importance of personal choice in marriage, advocating for compatibility based on individual traits and mutual understanding, highlighting the balance between societal norms and personal preferences. Image of number 10
1422 Social life shapes character but differentiates classes, complicating compatibility. As inequality increases, natural feelings change. Greater disparity weakens marriage bonds; rich and poor become detached, losing family ties. Awareness of status overshadows family connections. This passage highlights the challenges of social disparity in marriage, emphasizing the impact of inequality on relationships. It underscores the importance of aligning social and personal values, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a harmonious partnership that respects individual circumstances and aspirations for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1423 Avoid abuses and create happy marriages by shedding prejudices and embracing nature. Unite those suited in every situation, regardless of status. While conventions matter, natural relations decide life’s fate. A wise father should marry his son to a compatible woman, regardless of background, ensuring more happiness in unity than wealth alone. This passage emphasizes the importance of prioritizing compatibility over societal norms, highlighting the role of personal values and mutual understanding in fostering a successful partnership. It advocates for thoughtful decision-making and genuine connections, promoting lasting happiness and fulfillment through shared aspirations and values. Image of number 10
1424 Instead of selecting a wife for Emile early, I waited to understand his needs. Nature, not I, should decide; my role is to discover nature’s choice. Entrusted with Emile’s care, I am his true father, shaping him into a man. My reward lies in ensuring his happiness. This passage highlights the importance of allowing nature and individual preferences to guide personal choices, emphasizing the role of thoughtful decision-making in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing personal fulfillment and happiness over societal expectations, promoting lasting satisfaction through shared values and mutual understanding. Image of number 10
1425 I haven't delayed finding a wife for Emile. His search introduces him to women, revealing the value of a suitable partner. Sophie was identified long ago; Emile may have seen her but will recognize her when the time is right. This passage emphasizes the importance of recognizing the value of compatibility in relationships, highlighting the role of thoughtful decision-making in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of timing and understanding in personal choices, promoting lasting fulfillment and happiness through shared values and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1426 Equality of rank isn't essential in marriage but adds value when combined with other compatibilities. It doesn't outweigh them but tips the scale when factors are equal. This passage emphasizes the importance of considering rank and compatibility in marriage, highlighting the role of balance in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning individual values and circumstances, promoting thoughtful decision-making and fostering a relationship that respects both parties' aspirations and desires for lasting fulfillment and mutual respect. Image of number 10
1427 A man, unless a king, can't seek a wife from any class. Even if free from prejudices, he'll find them in others. A wise father confines inquiries within prudence, not marrying above his own class. Rising exposes real evils, and balancing gifts like rank and money can cause discord. Preferences for familiar surroundings can create family conflicts. This passage emphasizes the importance of practicality and balance in marriage, highlighting the role of thoughtful decision-making in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning personal values and circumstances, promoting harmony and mutual respect in relationships. Image of number 10
1428 Marrying above or below affects marriage suitability. The former contradicts reason; the latter aligns with it. A man's rank defines the family; marrying lower raises his wife, marrying higher lowers himself. The natural law favors a lower-class wife, aligning civil and natural laws. A higher-class wife risks diminishing rights or ingratitude, leading to unhappiness. This passage emphasizes the importance of aligning social and personal values in marriage, highlighting the role of balance in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of thoughtful decision-making and mutual respect, promoting lasting happiness through shared aspirations and values. Image of number 10
1429 In normal circumstances, when a man’s rank matches his wife’s, the advantages of suitability are evident. This passage emphasizes the importance of compatibility and balance in marriage, highlighting the role of shared values and circumstances in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning personal aspirations and social status, promoting thoughtful decision-making and mutual respect for lasting happiness and fulfillment. Image of number 10
1430 Under compulsion, one must trust judgment and seek a partner from a similar or slightly lower class. Avoid marrying higher, and ensure circumstances are favorable. A wise father establishes suitable relationships; if conditions arise, one must adapt wisely. This passage emphasizes the importance of practicality and adaptability in marriage, highlighting the role of thoughtful decision-making in fostering a successful partnership. It underscores the significance of aligning personal values and circumstances, promoting harmony and mutual respect for lasting happiness and fulfillment through shared aspirations and understanding. Image of number 10
1431 By nature, man rarely thinks. He learns to think with difficulty, like other arts. People are divided into two classes: thinkers and non-thinkers, largely based on education. A thinking man shouldn’t marry a non-thinking woman; they miss sharing thoughts. Those focused on work often lack broader ideas. Ignorance doesn't harm honesty or morals, as conscience guides better than philosophy. Yet, only a cultivated mind makes social life pleasant. A man values a wife who understands him. This passage highlights the importance of intellectual compatibility in marriage, emphasizing mutual understanding, shared interests, and the joy of meaningful communication for a fulfilling relationship.
1432 If a woman doesn't think, how can she raise children? She won't know what's good for them, or encourage virtues she doesn't understand. She can only use flattery or threats, making them insolent or timid, rather than intelligent and pleasing. This passage emphasizes the importance of intellectual awareness in parenting, highlighting the role of education in fostering thoughtful and virtuous individuals. It underscores the significance of a parent's understanding and reflection in guiding children's development, promoting a nurturing environment where virtues are understood and cultivated through informed and thoughtful approaches to parenting.
1433 An educated man should avoid a wife without education or from a class lacking it. A homely, simply brought-up girl is preferable to a learned lady or wit. A witty woman neglects duties, trying to act like a man. These women impress fools and rely on others for creative input. True honor is in anonymity, gaining respect from her husband, and family joy. A woman's genuine nature is admired over intellectual pretense. This passage highlights the importance of humility and sincerity in relationships, promoting genuine connections and mutual respect through understanding and valuing one's natural strengths and qualities.
1434 "Quæ cur nolim to ducere, galla? diserta es." This passage uses a Latin quote to suggest that eloquence or wit in women may not be an appealing trait for a husband. It reflects the historical notion that a woman's intelligence or eloquence might intimidate or be seen as undesirable in a partner. The passage underscores the importance of balancing intelligence with humility and emphasizes the significance of sincerity and genuine connection over intellectual display in fostering successful relationships.
1435 MARTIAL xi. 20. This reference to Martial's work highlights the societal views on women's roles and intellectual expression, underscoring the historical context in which women's wit or eloquence was seen as unconventional or even undesirable in relationships. It emphasizes the significance of balancing personal strengths with societal expectations and genuine connections, promoting mutual respect and understanding in fostering successful partnerships, while reflecting on the evolving perspectives on gender roles and intellectual expression.
1436 Looks are the first and last consideration in marriage. Great beauty is more perilous than desirable. It quickly fades, but its dangers persist. Without angelic qualities, a beautiful woman can make her husband miserable. Extreme ugliness, though preferable to beauty, can become repulsive, leading to hatred. This passage highlights the importance of prioritizing character over appearance in marriage, emphasizing the enduring nature of personal virtues over physical beauty. It underscores the significance of inner qualities and genuine connections in fostering lasting happiness and fulfillment, promoting thoughtful decision-making and mutual respect in relationships.
1437 Desire mediocrity in beauty. A pleasant, attractive face inspires kindness rather than love, offering mutual benefits. Charm is more enduring than beauty, renewing itself over time. After decades, a good woman’s charm still delights her husband as it did on their wedding day. This passage emphasizes the value of charm and pleasantness over physical beauty in relationships, highlighting the enduring nature of inner qualities and genuine connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing character and mutual respect in fostering lasting happiness and fulfillment, promoting thoughtful decision-making and appreciation for enduring virtues in partnerships.
1438 Sophie, like Emile, is raised by nature, making her a perfect match for him. She’s equal in birth and character but inferior in fortune. Her charm reveals itself gradually, influencing most in close relationships, especially with her husband. Her education balances taste, talent, and judgment. She’s ready to learn, with limited reading but discernment. Her charming ignorance invites a husband to be her tutor, sharing interests rather than controlling them. This passage highlights the importance of compatibility and shared growth in relationships, emphasizing mutual understanding and appreciation for each other's strengths and qualities for lasting happiness.
1439 Leaving Paris brings sorrow and reflection. The city isn’t home. Emile scorns it, realizing his heart’s spouse isn’t there. Thanks to guidance, he avoided an ill-matched companion and its torments. A discerning eye finds a partner better in natural surroundings. This passage emphasizes the value of thoughtful decision-making and understanding personal needs in relationships, highlighting the significance of genuine connections and mutual respect. It underscores the importance of aligning personal aspirations with one's environment, promoting lasting happiness and fulfillment through shared values and natural compatibility in partnerships.
1440 It's puzzling why people seek good housekeepers but don't teach them. A happy marriage requires a wife who manages the household well. Without these skills, a woman isn't likely to be a good wife. Such women, knowledgeable in the art of living, are rare. This passage underscores the importance of practical skills and education in fostering successful relationships, highlighting the significance of shared responsibilities and mutual support. It emphasizes the role of thoughtful decision-making and understanding in creating a harmonious partnership, promoting lasting fulfillment and happiness through mutual respect and shared values in domestic life.
1441 Men claim life is short, yet they hasten its passing, never content with the present, always desiring the future. People rush about to fill their time, lamenting its speed, but secretly wishing to hasten it. This passage critiques society's constant pursuit of future goals, emphasizing the importance of living in the moment. It highlights the futility of desiring time's passage, advocating for a life enjoyed in the present rather than one wasted in longing for future moments, promoting a more mindful and fulfilling approach to life, embracing the joy of each day rather than lamenting its brevity. Image of number 10
1442 My travel approach instills in Emile the ability to enjoy the present, avoiding endless desire and impatience. Emile learns to relish both anticipation and the journey toward his desires, keeping his passions in check to fully live in the moment. This passage highlights the value of present-mindedness, emphasizing the importance of savoring life's journey rather than focusing solely on future goals. It underscores the significance of balancing desire and patience, promoting a fulfilling life by embracing the joy of each step, fostering contentment and happiness through mindful living. Image of number 10
1443 We travel not as couriers, but as explorers, savoring the journey itself. Emile avoids enclosed carriages, embracing the fresh air and sights around us. He travels slowly, driven by life's joy and a desire to do good. This passage emphasizes the importance of embracing the journey, highlighting the value of exploration and mindfulness in travel. It underscores the significance of experiencing the world with curiosity and appreciation, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing the present moment and fostering a deep connection with the world around us through thoughtful and intentional travel experiences. Image of number 10
1444 Traveling on foot offers unparalleled freedom. We start and stop as we wish, exploring the land at our pace. Streams, woods, caves, and quarries invite exploration. Free from horses and carriages, we wander where men can go, finding amusement and rest along the way. This passage highlights the joy and independence of walking, emphasizing the importance of embracing nature and its wonders. It underscores the significance of freedom and curiosity in travel, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing exploration and discovery, fostering a deep connection with the natural world through mindful and intentional journeys. Image of number 10
1445 Foot travel, like Thales, Plato, and Pythagoras, reveals nature's wealth. Agriculture enthusiasts observe local crops and methods. Natural historians examine rocks and fossils, while town scientists remain ignorant. Emile’s museum is the world, perfectly arranged by nature. This passage emphasizes the importance of firsthand exploration and learning, highlighting the value of observing nature and its intricacies. It underscores the significance of engaging with the world directly, promoting a fulfilling life by fostering curiosity and appreciation for the natural environment, encouraging deeper understanding and connection through experiential learning and observation. Image of number 10
1446 Walking brings varied pleasures, boosting health and cheerfulness. Carriage riders are gloomy, while walkers are happy and lighthearted. Reaching our lodging, simple food delights us, and rest is cherished. For genuine travel, walk. This passage highlights the physical and mental benefits of walking, emphasizing the importance of embracing simplicity and joy in travel. It underscores the significance of valuing the journey itself, promoting a fulfilling life by prioritizing health, happiness, and appreciation for the world around us, fostering contentment and well-being through mindful and intentional travel experiences. Image of number 10
1447 If Sophie is forgotten after fifty leagues, either I fail or Emile lacks curiosity. With basic knowledge, he should be eager to learn more. This passage highlights the role of curiosity in fostering knowledge, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a thirst for learning. It underscores the significance of encouraging exploration and discovery, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing education and understanding, fostering intellectual growth and curiosity through thoughtful and intentional engagement with the world, and encouraging a lifelong pursuit of knowledge and personal development. Image of number 10
1448 One thing leads to another, progressing our journey. A distant goal for our first trip is easily justified. Leaving Paris, we must seek a wife far away. This passage highlights the importance of setting goals and embracing progression in life, emphasizing the value of distance and exploration in personal growth. It underscores the significance of intentionality and purpose in journeying, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing the process of discovery and connection, fostering meaningful experiences and relationships through thoughtful and purposeful travel and life choices. Image of number 10
1449 After wandering through hills and valleys, we reach a charming village with an old-fashioned inn. Sitting outside, we enjoy the scenery. A coach arrives with four people, followed by a post-chaise. A young lady shares her wedding plans. This passage highlights the beauty of serendipitous encounters and the joy of discovering new places, emphasizing the importance of embracing spontaneity and connection in travel. It underscores the significance of valuing the present moment and fostering meaningful interactions, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating unexpected experiences and cultivating relationships through open-minded exploration. Image of number 10
1450 The marriage occurred. The groom, aged thirty or forty, wed the innkeeper’s daughter, well-bred but without fortune. She was beautiful, amiable, and beloved. Her father, esteemed and beloved, arranged the wedding meticulously. This passage highlights the value of genuine connections over material wealth, emphasizing the importance of character and relationships in fostering happiness. It underscores the significance of family and community support, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing love and understanding, fostering meaningful relationships through thoughtful and intentional actions, and appreciating the role of shared values and bonds in personal fulfillment and joy. Image of number 10
1451 The groom, joyful and experienced, eagerly anticipated his wedding, unfazed by the future. The bride shared his happiness, delighted by loved ones' presence. This passage highlights the joy and anticipation of marriage, emphasizing the importance of embracing love and companionship. It underscores the significance of mutual happiness and shared experiences, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing relationships and personal connections, fostering contentment and joy through thoughtful and intentional actions, and appreciating the role of love and understanding in personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1452 The wedding was extraordinary, with everything going smoothly and everyone satisfied. The charming bride and delightful groom brought happiness to all. This passage highlights the beauty of a harmonious union, emphasizing the importance of celebrating love and togetherness. It underscores the significance of shared joy and community support, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing relationships and personal connections, fostering contentment and happiness through thoughtful and intentional actions, and appreciating the role of love and understanding in personal fulfillment and joy. Image of number 10
1453 The innkeeper was thrilled with the wedding's success and his daughter's good fortune. He considered how to manage his newfound wealth, pleased with the marriage's outcome. This passage highlights the joy of parental satisfaction and the importance of family support, emphasizing the role of thoughtful planning and community involvement in fostering happiness. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual support, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions and understanding the impact of family bonds on personal fulfillment. Image of number 10
1454 The marriage was well-executed, leaving both bride and groom satisfied. The innkeeper, pleased with the arrangements, ensured everyone's happiness. This passage highlights the importance of careful planning and attention to detail in fostering successful relationships, emphasizing the role of mutual satisfaction and support. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through thoughtful and intentional actions, and understanding the impact of community involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1455 The marriage met expectations, delighting the bride, groom, and innkeeper. Everyone was satisfied, reflecting thoughtful preparation. This passage highlights the value of meeting expectations and fostering mutual satisfaction in relationships, emphasizing the importance of careful planning and community support. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions, and understanding the impact of thoughtful preparation and involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1456 The marriage was a success, with everyone, including the innkeeper, happy. The bride and groom found satisfaction in their union. This passage highlights the joy of successful unions and the importance of mutual satisfaction, emphasizing the role of thoughtful planning and community involvement in fostering happiness. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions, and understanding the impact of community support and involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1457 Careful arrangements ensured the bride, groom, and innkeeper's happiness, leaving everyone satisfied. This passage highlights the importance of thoughtful preparation and mutual satisfaction in fostering successful relationships, emphasizing the role of community involvement and support. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions, and understanding the impact of thoughtful planning and involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1458 The marriage arrangements brought joy to the bride, groom, and innkeeper, ensuring everyone's happiness. This passage highlights the value of thoughtful planning and mutual satisfaction in relationships, emphasizing the importance of community support and involvement. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions, and understanding the impact of thoughtful preparation and community involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1459 The wedding was well-arranged, satisfying the bride, groom, and innkeeper, leaving everyone pleased. This passage highlights the importance of careful planning and mutual satisfaction in fostering successful relationships, emphasizing the role of community support and involvement. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions, and understanding the impact of thoughtful preparation and involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1460 The marriage concluded happily, satisfying all parties. The bride, groom, and innkeeper were pleased with the outcome. This passage highlights the value of mutual satisfaction and thoughtful planning in fostering successful relationships, emphasizing the importance of community support and involvement. It underscores the significance of valuing relationships and personal connections, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating shared experiences and mutual understanding, fostering contentment and joy through intentional actions, and understanding the impact of thoughtful preparation and community involvement on personal fulfillment and happiness. Image of number 10
1469 Family honor relies on individual and collective conduct, tying each person's honor to their family's. When a man marries, his honor merges with his wife's, and he must uphold both. Actions should protect his family's respect and esteem. This passage highlights the importance of recognizing the interconnectedness of personal and familial honor, emphasizing the role of individual responsibility in maintaining family integrity. It underscores the significance of thoughtful conduct and mutual respect, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing the impact of personal actions on family reputation and fostering a sense of collective responsibility and honor. Image of number 10
1470 As Emile's desires awakened, I struggled to guide him. Unable to stop him from leaving, I advised avoiding Sophie. His emotions, once pure and controlled, now caused turmoil. Emile's passion consumed him, leading to unease and self-reproach. Longing to see Sophie, he was held back by shame. This passage highlights the challenges of managing emerging desires and emotions, emphasizing the importance of guidance and self-awareness in navigating personal growth. It underscores the significance of balancing emotions and desires, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing thoughtful reflection and understanding in personal development and relationships. Image of number 10
1471 Sophie embraced her newfound power over Emile, shedding her timid demeanor. She exuded confidence, subtly asserting superiority through coquetry, unintentionally fueling Emile's passion. Her apparent indifference captivated him, increasing his willingness to meet her expectations. This passage highlights the complexities of attraction and power dynamics in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating emotional influences. It underscores the significance of self-awareness and intentionality in fostering healthy connections, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing mutual respect and understanding in relationships, and recognizing the impact of personal behavior on emotional interactions and connections. Image of number 10
1472 Emile, unable to resist his love for Sophie, visited her frequently, enduring her playful indifference. Her subtle superiority only fueled his devotion. Despite knowing he wasn't always welcome, Emile was content to be near her, savoring each moment of connection. This passage highlights the complexities of love and longing, emphasizing the importance of patience and perseverance in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing moments of connection and understanding, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the journey of love, and recognizing the role of emotional resilience and commitment in fostering meaningful relationships. Image of number 10
1473 Emile's love for Sophie deepened, driving him to please her. His devotion was all-consuming, as he sought ways to demonstrate his affection and make her happy. Emile's actions centered around her, sacrificing everything to prove his worthiness. This passage highlights the intensity of love and the lengths one will go to express it, emphasizing the importance of genuine commitment and selflessness in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing devotion and understanding, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the power of love, and recognizing the impact of thoughtful actions and dedication in nurturing meaningful connections. Image of number 10
1474 Emile believed Sophie's love was reciprocated, delighting in their mutual affection. His joy was evident as he expressed his feelings, pleased with her response. Sophie's actions showed her fondness, affirming Emile's conviction of their shared love. This passage highlights the joy of mutual love and understanding, emphasizing the importance of expressing and recognizing affection in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing communication and emotional connection, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the depth of love, and recognizing the role of mutual affection and support in fostering meaningful and lasting relationships. Image of number 10
1475 Despite contentment, Emile harbored doubts about Sophie's commitment. Her coquetry and indifference fueled insecurity, leading him to question their bond's strength. Fear of inadequacy and rejection shadowed his joy. Emile's genuine love faced anxiety, prompting self-reflection and understanding. This passage highlights the complexities of love and insecurity, emphasizing the importance of addressing doubts and fears in relationships. It underscores the significance of self-awareness and open communication, promoting a fulfilling life by valuing emotional resilience and understanding, and recognizing the impact of trust and vulnerability in nurturing meaningful connections and personal growth. Image of number 10
1476 Emile wrestled with his insecurities, torn between seeking reassurance and fearing confrontation with Sophie. He worried addressing doubts might damage their relationship but recognized the risk of remaining silent. Emile's dilemma highlighted the need for balance between vulnerability and caution in expressing fears. This passage emphasizes the importance of navigating emotional challenges and fostering open communication in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and thoughtful reflection, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of honesty and understanding in overcoming insecurities and nurturing meaningful connections and personal growth. Image of number 10
1477 Sophie sensed Emile's unease, attempting to reassure him through gestures and words. Despite her genuine care, she struggled to fully grasp his insecurities, challenged by his emotional complexity. Sophie remained committed to supporting Emile, hoping their love would overcome obstacles. This passage highlights the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships, emphasizing the challenges of addressing emotional needs. It underscores the significance of valuing patience and mutual support, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the power of love and resilience, and recognizing the role of empathy and communication in nurturing meaningful connections and overcoming difficulties. Image of number 10
1478 Emile and Sophie navigated relationship complexities, striving to understand and support each other. Their love, though tested, required patience, communication, and effort to overcome challenges. They hoped for enduring love, recognizing commitment was key. This passage highlights the importance of perseverance and mutual effort in relationships, emphasizing the role of understanding and patience in fostering lasting connections. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional resilience and open communication, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the journey of love and recognizing the impact of commitment and collaboration in nurturing meaningful and enduring relationships. Image of number 10
1479 Ultimately, Emile and Sophie overcame difficulties, their love proving resilient through open communication and support. Emile's fears eased as Sophie's commitment strengthened their bond, fostering confidence in their love. This passage highlights the transformative power of communication and support in relationships, emphasizing the importance of addressing insecurities to build trust. It underscores the significance of valuing mutual effort and understanding, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the strength of love and recognizing the role of resilience and openness in nurturing meaningful connections and fostering personal and relational growth. Image of number 10
1480 Their journey taught Emile and Sophie the value of open communication for a lasting relationship. By addressing fears and concerns, they built trust and resilience, realizing love could endure challenges. They learned strong relationships require trust, patience, and working through difficulties. This passage highlights the importance of communication and understanding in fostering healthy connections, emphasizing the transformative power of addressing challenges together. It underscores the significance of valuing trust and collaboration, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the journey of love and recognizing the role of resilience and effort in nurturing enduring and meaningful relationships. Image of number 10
1481 Emile, deeply in love with Sophie, seeks her affection, believing his happiness near. Despite frequent conversations, Sophie remains reticent, leaving Emile puzzled. Surprised to learn Sophie is her own mistress, he is unsure of his progress. Emile's love deepens, yet Sophie's silence and resistance perplex him, challenging his confidence. This passage highlights the complexities of love and communication, emphasizing the importance of understanding and patience in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional connection and mutual respect, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the challenges and joys of navigating love's intricacies and building meaningful connections. Image of number 10
1482 Emile cannot discern why Sophie hesitates, unaware of her pride and their financial disparity. Taught by her parents, Sophie sees Emile's wealth as a barrier to their equality. Unaware of his wealth's impact, Emile relies on his heart rather than riches, helping others with time and care, not money. This passage highlights the challenges of societal expectations and personal values in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and overcoming obstacles. It underscores the significance of valuing genuine connections and shared principles, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of integrity and empathy in building meaningful relationships. Image of number 10
1483 Emile, confused by Sophie's resistance, blames himself, fearing he offended her. His confidence wanes, approaching Sophie timidly, seeking pity over affection. Anger flares, but Sophie's glance disarms him, maintaining his submission. This passage highlights the complexities of emotions and self-perception in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and patience. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional resilience and self-reflection, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the challenges of navigating love and the impact of personal growth and awareness in fostering meaningful connections and building emotional strength. Image of number 10
1484 Distressed by Sophie's silence, Emile confides in his friend, seeking help. Despite her apparent interest, Sophie's refusal to discuss marriage puzzles Emile. He implores his friend to intervene, hoping to resolve the mystery and secure his happiness. This passage highlights the complexities of love and communication, emphasizing the importance of understanding and patience in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional connection and mutual respect, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the challenges and joys of navigating love's intricacies and building meaningful connections through empathy and support. Image of number 10
1485 Sophie confides in me, revealing her concerns about wealth disparity. Emile is surprised by her reasoning, not understanding how money affects character. Delighted by the explanation, Emile wishes to renounce his wealth, equating it to Sophie's status. This passage highlights the challenges of societal expectations and personal values in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and overcoming obstacles. It underscores the significance of valuing genuine connections and shared principles, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of integrity and empathy in building meaningful relationships and recognizing the impact of external factors on emotional bonds. Image of number 10
1486 I caution Emile against renouncing wealth, as it would exacerbate the disparity. Giving up everything creates a larger obligation Sophie cannot accept. Instead, Emile must prove his character outweighs riches, showing genuine care and responsibility. This passage highlights the importance of understanding and navigating societal expectations and personal values in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing integrity and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of personal growth and self-awareness in overcoming obstacles and fostering meaningful connections through thoughtful actions and genuine understanding. Image of number 10
1487 I explain to Emile that Sophie's concerns stem from wealth's impact on character, not possessions themselves. He must prove merit and principles outweigh riches. Time and constancy will show genuine love and character. This passage highlights the challenges of societal expectations and personal values in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and overcoming obstacles. It underscores the significance of valuing integrity and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of personal growth and self-awareness in building meaningful connections through genuine understanding and thoughtful actions, recognizing the impact of character on emotional bonds. Image of number 10
1488 Emile's joy and confidence are restored by my words, encouraging his actions to please Sophie, independent of his love for her. His character shines as he acts with integrity and kindness. This passage highlights the transformative power of understanding and encouragement in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing personal growth and integrity. It underscores the significance of appreciating the role of genuine actions and empathy in building meaningful connections, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of character and self-awareness on emotional bonds and fostering positive relationships through thoughtful and intentional behavior. Image of number 10
1489 Emile comprehends Sophie's character, aligning their sentiments. Unaware of her faults, he admires her qualities, making her condition bearable. Sophie's love for Emile reflects his understanding, softening her stance. This passage highlights the complexities of perception and understanding in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual respect. It underscores the significance of recognizing and appreciating positive traits, promoting a fulfilling life by fostering empathy and understanding in relationships, and acknowledging the role of perception and awareness in building meaningful connections and enhancing emotional bonds through thoughtful and intentional actions. Image of number 10
1490 Sophie appreciates Emile's attention, affirming her hopes and esteem. However, she hesitates to meet him, fearing perceived familiarity. Her pride is heightened by uncertainty of his affection. This passage highlights the complexities of pride and perception in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual respect. It underscores the significance of understanding and addressing emotional needs, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of self-awareness and empathy in fostering meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of perception and pride on emotional bonds and personal growth through thoughtful and intentional actions. Image of number 10
1491 Sophie's hesitation is not due to a lack of affection but rather a fear of seeming too forward. Her pride and uncertainty about Emile's feelings make her cautious. This passage highlights the challenges of vulnerability and pride in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and patience. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional resilience and mutual respect, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the complexities of navigating love's intricacies and fostering meaningful connections through empathy and self-awareness, recognizing the impact of vulnerability and pride on emotional bonds and personal growth in relationships. Image of number 10
1492 Emile's sincerity and unwavering devotion eventually reassure Sophie, allowing her to overcome her pride and fears. Her affection for Emile deepens as she realizes the authenticity of his love. This passage highlights the transformative power of sincerity and devotion in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual understanding. It underscores the significance of overcoming obstacles through empathy and patience, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of authenticity and perseverance in fostering meaningful relationships, and recognizing the impact of sincerity and unwavering devotion on emotional bonds and personal growth. Image of number 10
1493 Sophie, now reassured of Emile's love, allows herself to express her feelings more openly, creating a stronger bond between them. Their relationship flourishes as they embrace vulnerability and authenticity. This passage highlights the importance of openness and vulnerability in relationships, emphasizing the transformative power of genuine connections and mutual understanding. It underscores the significance of fostering meaningful relationships through empathy and authenticity, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of openness and vulnerability in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of genuine expression on fostering trust and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1494 Emile and Sophie's love grows as they support and understand each other. Their mutual respect and shared values create a harmonious relationship, filled with joy and fulfillment. This passage highlights the significance of mutual respect and understanding in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and shared values. It underscores the transformative power of empathy and support in fostering meaningful relationships, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of mutual respect and shared values in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of understanding and support on deepening connections and nurturing love. Image of number 10
1495 Their journey together teaches Emile and Sophie the importance of communication and compromise in maintaining a strong relationship. They learn to navigate challenges with patience and empathy. This passage highlights the transformative power of communication and compromise in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual understanding. It underscores the significance of fostering meaningful relationships through empathy and patience, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of communication and compromise in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of navigating challenges with empathy and patience on nurturing love and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1496 Emile and Sophie discover the value of shared experiences and mutual support in their relationship. Their bond strengthens as they grow together, embracing life's challenges and joys. This passage highlights the significance of shared experiences and mutual support in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and shared growth. It underscores the transformative power of empathy and understanding in fostering meaningful relationships, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of shared experiences and mutual support in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of embracing life's challenges and joys on nurturing love and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1497 Their relationship thrives as Emile and Sophie embrace the importance of individuality and interdependence, balancing personal growth with mutual support. They celebrate each other's strengths and differences. This passage highlights the transformative power of individuality and interdependence in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual support. It underscores the significance of fostering meaningful relationships through empathy and understanding, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of individuality and interdependence in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of celebrating strengths and differences on nurturing love and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1498 Emile and Sophie continue to grow and learn together, understanding the importance of resilience and adaptability in their relationship. Their love deepens as they navigate life's changes with grace. This passage highlights the transformative power of resilience and adaptability in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual growth. It underscores the significance of fostering meaningful relationships through empathy and flexibility, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of resilience and adaptability in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of navigating life's changes with grace on nurturing love and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1499 Their shared journey teaches Emile and Sophie the value of gratitude and appreciation in their relationship. They learn to cherish each moment and find joy in the present, strengthening their bond. This passage highlights the significance of gratitude and appreciation in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual respect. It underscores the transformative power of gratitude in fostering meaningful relationships, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of gratitude and appreciation in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of cherishing each moment and finding joy in the present on nurturing love and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1500 Emile and Sophie embrace the lessons learned on their journey, understanding the importance of trust and communication in maintaining a strong relationship. They look forward to a future filled with love and shared experiences. This passage highlights the transformative power of trust and communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing genuine connections and mutual understanding. It underscores the significance of fostering meaningful relationships through empathy and openness, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of trust and communication in building emotional bonds and personal growth, and recognizing the impact of shared experiences and mutual understanding on nurturing love and deepening connections. Image of number 10
1501 Sophie’s mother addresses Emile, emphasizing the difference between innocent public gestures and private impropriety. She reminds him of the honor he owes to Sophie and their family, urging him to respect boundaries. This passage highlights the complexities of social conduct and personal integrity, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting boundaries in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing honor and trust, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of integrity and self-awareness in fostering meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of social expectations and personal actions on emotional bonds and mutual respect.
1502 After Sophie's mother’s rebuke, I reflect on the contrast between genuine purity and societal propriety. The world’s refined speech masks corrupt hearts, and strict etiquette often hides immorality. This passage highlights the challenges of navigating societal norms and personal values, emphasizing the importance of understanding and discerning genuine integrity. It underscores the significance of valuing authenticity and self-awareness, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of personal growth and integrity in building meaningful relationships, and recognizing the impact of societal expectations and genuine conduct on emotional bonds and personal development.
1503 I realize Sophie's pride is a precaution to protect herself. Aware of her passionate nature, she maintains control through modesty. Her sternness stems from humility, not pride. Sophie’s virtue is preserved through restraint, demonstrating her gentle and patient character. This passage highlights the complexities of self-awareness and personal integrity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and maintaining personal boundaries. It underscores the significance of valuing humility and self-control, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of self-awareness and integrity in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of personal growth and self-discipline on emotional bonds and mutual respect.
1504 Sophie becomes more amiable and less demanding, except with Emile. Her modest triumph reflects a newfound contentment, visible in her interactions with others. Her choice liberates her from fear, allowing grace and indifference towards those she once distrusted. This passage highlights the transformative power of personal choice and self-awareness in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embracing change. It underscores the significance of valuing self-confidence and authenticity, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of personal growth and self-discovery in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of self-awareness and acceptance on emotional bonds and personal freedom.
1505 Sophie's interactions with other young men, while Emile is present, might seem coquettish. Her actions, however, are calculated to assure Emile of her affection. Her gentle reminders serve to deepen his love without causing real pain. This passage highlights the complexities of emotional expression and communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and nurturing emotional connections. It underscores the significance of valuing empathy and intentional actions, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of thoughtful expression and emotional awareness in building meaningful relationships, and recognizing the impact of intentional communication and understanding on emotional bonds and personal growth.
1506 The effect of Sophie's actions on Emile remains to be seen. Will he become jealous or not? Exploring this question aligns with my book's purpose, as it delves into human emotions and their impact on relationships. This passage highlights the complexities of emotions and self-perception in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and patience. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional resilience and self-reflection, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the challenges of navigating love and the impact of personal growth and awareness in fostering meaningful connections and building emotional strength.
1507 Jealousy in love seems innate, similar to nature's instincts. Animals exhibit jealousy, suggesting it is natural. This raises questions about its origins and impact. This passage highlights the complexities of emotions and their origins, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating emotional responses. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and understanding in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of natural instincts and personal growth on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1508 The desire for exclusive pleasure is natural, but when it becomes jealousy, it transforms into madness. Differentiating between natural and excessive jealousy is essential. This passage highlights the complexities of emotional responses and self-awareness, emphasizing the importance of understanding and managing emotions in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional intelligence and self-reflection, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of self-awareness and empathy in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of emotional management and personal growth on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1509 In my Discourse on Inequality, I analyzed animal jealousy. Sexual power influences natural jealousy, heightening rivalry. This passage highlights the complexities of emotions and instincts, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating emotional responses. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and understanding in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of natural instincts and personal growth on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships, fostering deeper self-awareness and understanding of human emotions and their origins.
1510 Jealousy is natural to those with passionate aims, but varies in nature. Understanding its origins and limits is crucial. This passage highlights the complexities of emotions and self-awareness, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating emotional responses in relationships. It underscores the significance of valuing emotional intelligence and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of self-awareness and understanding in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of emotional management and personal growth on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships, fostering deeper self-awareness and understanding of human emotions and their origins.
1511 In humanity’s primitive state, nature intended one male for one female, seen in equal sex ratios. Unlike animals with multiple mates, human offspring require extended care from both parents. This passage highlights the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of natural instincts and parental care in human relationships, emphasizing the significance of valuing balance and mutual support. It underscores the need for recognizing the impact of natural instincts and nurturing on emotional bonds and personal growth, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of nature and familial support in building meaningful connections and fostering deeper self-awareness.
1512 Jealousy in animals proves little about humans. In regions where polygamy is common, it is the cause of jealousy and control. Monogamy reflects natural intentions. This passage highlights the complexities of jealousy and societal structures, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating cultural influences. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of cultural understanding and personal growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of societal norms and personal beliefs on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1513 Jealousy stems from social passions, not instincts. Lovers often hate rivals more than they love their partners, driven by vanity. Society’s flawed education fosters deceit in women, undermining trust. This passage highlights the complexities of jealousy and societal influences on relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating emotional responses. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and cultural understanding in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of societal norms and personal growth on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1514 True love differs from infatuation, which is self-serving. Love demands and gives equally, fostering equity and trust. Esteem and love coexist, valuing virtues. This passage highlights the complexities of love and emotional responses, emphasizing the importance of understanding and nurturing genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing empathy and mutual respect, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and self-awareness in building meaningful relationships, and recognizing the impact of genuine affection and personal growth on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1515 Emile’s jealousy, if it arises, will be shaped by education, reflecting his understanding of love and trust. Jealousy’s form is influenced by upbringing. This passage highlights the complexities of emotions and education, emphasizing the importance of understanding and nurturing emotional intelligence. It underscores the significance of valuing empathy and self-awareness, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of education and personal growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of emotional management and cultural understanding on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1516 Emile’s jealousy will be sensitive and timid, focused on securing love rather than resenting rivals. He’ll strive to be worthy, understanding merit’s role in affection. This passage highlights the complexities of jealousy and emotional responses, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating personal emotions. It underscores the significance of valuing empathy and self-awareness, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and personal growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of self-reflection and cultural understanding on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1517 Reflecting on Emile’s transformation, he’s now ruled by love, once guided by reason and independence. His growth reflects life’s shifting priorities. This passage highlights the complexities of personal growth and emotional development, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating changing life stages. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and personal growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of life’s transitions and self-discovery on emotional bonds and personal development in relationships.
1518 Life’s priorities change with age: cake at ten, love at twenty, pleasure at thirty, ambition at forty, avarice at fifty. Seeking wisdom transcends these stages. This passage highlights the complexities of life’s evolving priorities and the pursuit of wisdom, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating personal growth. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of emotional intelligence and personal growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of life’s transitions and self-discovery on emotional bonds and personal development in relationships.
1519 Continuing good habits from childhood into adolescence sustains education’s influence. A tutor should guide through life’s changes, maintaining learned values. This passage highlights the complexities of education and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and nurturing lifelong learning. It underscores the significance of valuing empathy and self-awareness, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of education and personal development in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of guidance and cultural understanding on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1520 Memory preserves experiences through association, ensuring we never wholly forget. Recollection links past to present, shaping identity. This passage highlights the complexities of memory and self-awareness, emphasizing the importance of understanding and navigating personal experiences. It underscores the significance of valuing empathy and emotional intelligence, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of memory and personal growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of self-reflection and cultural understanding on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships.
1521 To ensure young people transition smoothly between life stages, retain past values and form new, positive habits. Avoid drastic changes in values, as they become difficult to regain if interrupted. This passage emphasizes the importance of consistency in personal development, promoting a fulfilling life through balance and continuity in character. It underscores the significance of valuing growth and stability, appreciating the role of education and personal evolution in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of nurturing consistent values and self-awareness on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships. Image of number 10
1522 Habits formed under compulsion aren't genuine and are discarded when possible. Emile's habits, developed willingly, endure, sustaining freedom's joy. His active lifestyle is essential; a sedentary life would imprison him. This passage highlights the complexities of habit formation and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and nurturing genuine habits. It underscores the significance of valuing self-awareness and autonomy, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of personal choice and growth in building meaningful connections, and recognizing the impact of authentic habits and personal development on emotional bonds and self-discovery in relationships. Image of number 10
1523 Emile loves Sophie's virtues and simplicity. His choice wasn't chance; it reflects his values. The relationship strengthens him. This passage highlights the importance of aligning personal values with relationship choices, emphasizing the significance of understanding and nurturing genuine connections. It underscores the value of self-awareness and growth, promoting a fulfilling life by appreciating the role of personal integrity and compatibility in building meaningful relationships, and recognizing the impact of shared values and personal development on emotional bonds and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1524 Living six miles apart tempers love's intensity. Proximity may ease love, but distance enhances its value. This passage highlights the complexities of distance and emotional intensity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of distance in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing patience and perspective, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of space and emotional resilience on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of distance and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1525 Visiting Sophie on horseback initially seemed convenient. However, Emile’s affection made him prioritize effort over ease, valuing presence more. This passage highlights the complexities of convenience and effort in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of intentionality in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing commitment and effort, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of dedication and presence on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of intentionality and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1526 Emile prefers walking to Sophie's, respecting her family’s hospitality. Foot travel reflects love’s authenticity and simplicity. This passage highlights the complexities of travel and authenticity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of simplicity in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing humility and sincerity, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of authentic gestures and presence on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of simplicity and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1527 Meeting Sophie further from home, Emile’s warm reception makes future visits enjoyable, valuing genuine connection. This passage highlights the complexities of anticipation and presence in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of sincere interactions in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing warmth and acceptance, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of meaningful encounters and presence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of sincere interactions and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1528 Evening visits are rare due to distance, but village accommodations allow more time with Sophie. This passage highlights the complexities of distance and accommodation in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of adaptability in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing flexibility and creativity, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of adaptability and presence on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of flexible arrangements and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1529 Friendship and innocence flourish despite journey fatigue, embracing natural joys. This passage highlights the complexities of friendship and resilience, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of shared experiences in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing simplicity and endurance, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of friendship and shared moments on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of resilience and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1530 Emile and Sophie’s growing familiarity fosters harmony and shared joy, reflecting common goals. This passage highlights the complexities of harmony and familiarity, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of shared objectives in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing unity and collaboration, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of harmony and shared purpose on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of shared goals and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1531 Emile returns quickly to Sophie, revealing genuine affection beyond mere love. This passage highlights the complexities of emotion and sincerity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of genuine connections in fostering meaningful bonds. It underscores the significance of valuing authenticity and depth, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of sincerity and presence on building strong emotional ties, and appreciating the influence of genuine emotions and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1532 Emile’s limited visits to Sophie, filled with longing, enhance love’s purity and intensity. This passage highlights the complexities of anticipation and emotional intensity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of longing in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing anticipation and presence, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of longing and emotional resilience on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of anticipation and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1533 When not with Sophie, Emile explores nature and aids locals, showcasing his practical skills and generosity. He improves farming techniques and fosters community well-being. Emile’s actions reflect his commitment to meaningful work and social responsibility. This passage highlights the complexities of service and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of community engagement in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing generosity and initiative, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of service and practical skills on building meaningful relationships, and appreciating the influence of community involvement on personal development and self-discovery. Image of number 10
1534 Emile occasionally visits Sophie’s home discreetly, valuing genuine affection over deception. His integrity shines, appreciating Sophie's gestures while maintaining respect. This passage highlights the complexities of discretion and integrity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of sincerity in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing respect and honesty, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of integrity and presence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of sincerity and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1535 Emile's races entertain and bond him with others, winning admiration. This passage highlights the complexities of competition and camaraderie in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of shared experiences in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing enjoyment and fellowship, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of competition and presence on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of shared activities and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1536 Sophie challenges Emile to a race, highlighting her playful confidence. Her gesture strengthens their bond and showcases her charm. This passage highlights the complexities of playfulness and confidence in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of lightheartedness in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing joy and interaction, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of playfulness and presence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of confidence and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1537 Women typically run awkwardly, but Sophie’s grace defies this, impressing Emile. This passage highlights the complexities of grace and perception in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of individuality in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing uniqueness and presence, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of grace and confidence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of individuality and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1538 Sophie’s impressive running surprises Emile, breaking gender norms. Her talent and grace enchant him. This passage highlights the complexities of talent and admiration in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of breaking norms in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing talent and admiration, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of skills and presence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of breaking norms and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1539 Sophie wins the race, sharing the prize with her mother and the poor, showcasing her generosity. This passage highlights the complexities of generosity and victory in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of kindness in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing sharing and empathy, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of generosity and presence on building meaningful bonds, and appreciating the influence of kindness and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1540 Sophie enriches Emile's character, enhancing his sociability and amiability. Her influence strengthens him, and he is grateful. This passage highlights the complexities of influence and character development in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating the role of positive impact in fostering genuine connections. It underscores the significance of valuing growth and gratitude, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of influence and presence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of positive impact and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1541 Emile joyfully greets Sophie and her mother at the workshop, returning to work as Sophie playfully explores. Sophie's curiosity and joy in Emile's trade reflect her lively nature and affection. This scene highlights the dynamics of joy and curiosity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of shared interests and genuine affection in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of valuing playfulness and exploration, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of shared experiences and mutual admiration on building strong bonds and appreciating the influence of curiosity and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1542 Sophie's mother learns of Emile's modest earnings and embraces him, calling him "my son." This tender moment highlights the complexities of affection and appreciation in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing humility and hard work in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of recognizing genuine efforts and sincerity, promoting a fulfilling life by acknowledging the impact of modesty and dedication on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of humility and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1543 Emile remains at work, unable to accompany Sophie and her mother, demonstrating his commitment to duty over personal desires. This moment highlights the complexities of responsibility and sacrifice in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing duty and integrity in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing commitments and principles, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of responsibility and dedication on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of sacrifice and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1544 Sophie's mother questions Emile's adherence to duty over using wealth to avoid commitments. Sophie values Emile's integrity, appreciating his refusal to prioritize money over principles. This moment highlights the complexities of integrity and values in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing principles and authenticity in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing integrity and responsibility, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of values and sincerity on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of authenticity and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1545 Sophie demands genuine love and values worth over charm, seeking a partner who respects duty. Her pride reflects self-worth and a desire for mutual respect. This passage highlights the complexities of self-worth and expectations in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing authenticity and respect in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing mutual respect and principles, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of self-worth and sincerity on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of expectations and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1546 Sophie values punctuality and respect for her time, appreciating Emile's attentiveness to her expectations. This passage highlights the complexities of respect and attentiveness in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing consideration and responsibility in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing respect and presence, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of attentiveness and sincerity on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of consideration and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1547 Emile's absence causes Sophie distress, revealing her deep emotions and vulnerability. Her anguish highlights the complexities of expectation and emotion in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing communication and empathy in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of acknowledging vulnerability and presence, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of emotions and sincerity on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of empathy and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1548 Upon Emile’s arrival, Sophie feigns indifference, masking her emotions. Her pretense underscores the complexities of pride and vulnerability in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and valuing authenticity and communication in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of recognizing vulnerability and sincerity, promoting a fulfilling life by acknowledging the impact of pride and empathy on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of communication and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1549 Sophie's frustration at Emile’s absence turns to forgiveness, restoring her composure. Her shift in demeanor highlights the complexities of forgiveness and understanding in relationships, emphasizing the importance of valuing patience and empathy in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of prioritizing forgiveness and growth, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of understanding and presence on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of empathy and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1550 Sophie shares her deep feelings, revealing the intensity of her passion. Her honesty fosters gratitude and connection, highlighting the complexities of emotional depth and appreciation in relationships. This passage emphasizes the importance of understanding and valuing authenticity and gratitude in fostering meaningful connections. It underscores the significance of acknowledging emotions and presence, promoting a fulfilling life by recognizing the impact of sincerity and appreciation on building strong bonds, and appreciating the influence of emotional depth and personal growth on emotional development and self-discovery in partnerships. Image of number 10
1551 Sophie was silent but willing to listen as I explained our misfortune. Her willingness underscored the importance of patience and open-mindedness in resolving conflicts, emphasizing the need for empathy and reconciliation. Addressing issues together strengthens bonds, promoting compassion and mutual respect. This chapter highlights how understanding fosters deeper connections, unity, and resilience. By acknowledging and addressing challenges, relationships grow stronger and more harmonious. It underscores the value of empathy and mutual support, showing how communication and understanding help navigate difficulties, ultimately strengthening the foundation of relationships and fostering a supportive and compassionate environment for all involved.
1552 We left early, planning to arrive by seven, but encountered a peasant who had fallen and broken his leg. Unable to lift him, we tied up his horse and carried him home, resting frequently. Exhausted, we recognized him as a previous host. This encounter underscores life's unpredictability and the importance of empathy and resilience in helping those in need. It emphasizes the challenges and rewards of aiding others, highlighting the need for kindness and understanding. Through this experience, the narrative illustrates the value of compassion in overcoming obstacles and fostering connections in difficult circumstances, demonstrating the power of human empathy.
1553 The man had two children, and his wife was about to give birth. Overwhelmed by his condition, she went into labor. In a remote cottage without help, Emile retrieved the horse and sought a surgeon. He returned on foot with a servant after sending a message. Meanwhile, I prepared the house for both the injured man and the laboring woman. This situation highlights the urgency and challenges faced in providing aid in remote areas. It underscores the importance of resourcefulness and community support in addressing emergencies and ensuring the well-being of those in distress, emphasizing the necessity of cooperation in times of crisis.
1554 I skip unnecessary details, noting that we didn't rest until two in the morning. Finally, we returned before daybreak to our nearby lodging, waiting until morning to explain the accident. This chapter emphasizes the challenges faced in aiding those in need and the importance of perseverance and empathy. It highlights the significance of community support in emergencies, showcasing the impact of collective efforts. The narrative underscores the value of resilience and compassion in overcoming obstacles, fostering a deeper understanding of the complexities of human interactions and the need for mutual assistance in times of crisis, demonstrating the power of united efforts.
1555 I finish, and Emile steps forward, saying, "Sophie, you know you're the arbiter of my fate. You could make me die of grief, but don't hope to make me forget the rights of humanity. They're more sacred to me than yours. I'll never renounce them for you." Emile's commitment to humanitarian values highlights the importance of prioritizing compassion and empathy over personal desires. This chapter underscores the significance of moral integrity and selflessness in relationships, advocating for the greater good and the well-being of others. It emphasizes the need for individuals to uphold ethical principles and prioritize humanity's rights, fostering a sense of justice.
1556 Sophie embraces Emile and kisses him, then gracefully offers her hand, saying, "Emile, take this hand; it is yours. When you will, you shall be my husband and my master; I will try to be worthy of that honor." Sophie's actions and words signify her acceptance and commitment to Emile. This chapter highlights the power of love, trust, and mutual respect in relationships. It emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in fostering deep connections. The narrative underscores the significance of partnership and equality, promoting the idea of shared responsibilities and mutual support in building a strong and lasting bond, emphasizing the value of committed relationships.
1557 Sophie's father claps, saying, "Encore, encore." Sophie kisses Emile twice more on the cheek, then, realizing her actions, retreats to her mother's arms, hiding her blushing face. This chapter captures the joy and spontaneity of the moment, highlighting the emotional depth of Sophie's connection with Emile. It underscores the importance of family support and the role of loved ones in nurturing relationships. The narrative emphasizes the significance of vulnerability and authenticity, showcasing the beauty of genuine expressions of affection. It promotes the idea of embracing emotions and cherishing moments of love and happiness with those who matter most, celebrating genuine human connection.
1558 I won't describe our happiness; everyone should feel it. After dinner, Sophie asks if we can visit the poor invalids. It's her wish and an act of mercy. We find them both in bed, with Emile having arranged a second bedstead and care. Despite the help, they suffer from discomfort. Sophie, undeterred by dirt and smells, makes them comfortable, tending to their needs. Her compassion transforms their situation, bringing relief. Emile, touched by her actions, observes silently. This chapter highlights the power of empathy and selflessness, promoting the idea of kindness and compassion in alleviating suffering and fostering human connection through acts of mercy.
1559 The newborn baby is baptized, with the two lovers as godparents. Holding the child at the font, they long for their wedding day and a child of their own. Sophie's scruples have vanished, but mine remain. They aren't yet where they think they are; everyone must have their turn. This chapter explores the anticipation and desire for a future together, highlighting the complexities of relationships and personal growth. It underscores the importance of patience and understanding, emphasizing the journey toward commitment and the need for introspection and readiness. The narrative promotes the idea of growth and mutual support in love, fostering long-term relationships.
1560 After two days apart, I enter Emile's room with a letter, asking, "What would you do if someone told you Sophie was in bed with another man?" This chapter introduces a provocative question, challenging Emile's trust and commitment to Sophie. It explores the complexities of jealousy and insecurity in relationships, highlighting the importance of communication and trust. The narrative emphasizes the need for open dialogue and mutual understanding to overcome doubts and strengthen bonds. By addressing potential conflicts head-on, individuals can navigate challenges with empathy and resilience, fostering a deeper connection and reinforcing the foundation of their relationship, promoting trust and understanding.
1561 The passion that consumes him now prevents the focus on discussions of pure reason as before. This passion must aid in capturing his attention for teaching. The intense preface ensures he will listen attentively. Image of number 10
1562 "We must find happiness, dear Emile. Every creature desires it naturally, yet it remains elusive. We seek it endlessly, often dying without attaining it. When I took you as a newborn, I vowed to devote myself to your happiness, though I didn't know what I was undertaking. Making you happy assured my own happiness. This inquiry into happiness is for both of us." Image of number 10
1563 "Wisdom lies in doing nothing when unsure of our actions. In the pursuit of happiness without knowing its location, we risk moving further from it. The restless pursuit of well-being often leads us astray. Once we leave the place of potential happiness, returning becomes impossible." Image of number 10
1564 "Avoiding a similar error, I chose to take no unnecessary steps when I took charge of you. We followed nature's path until it revealed happiness, unknowingly aligning their paths." Image of number 10
1565 "Be my witness and judge; I accept your decision. Your early years weren't sacrificed for the future; you enjoyed nature's gifts. You faced hardships to strengthen you for others. You've known neither hatred nor servitude. Free and happy, you've remained just and kind, as suffering breeds vice. Let childhood memories bless your heart, guiding you to old age." Image of number 10
1566 "Reaching reason, I shielded you from prejudice. As your heart awakened, I protected you from passion. Had this tranquility continued, my work would be secure. But, dear Emile, I couldn't make you invulnerable. A new enemy emerges: yourself. Nature and fortune left you free. You were ignorant of heartaches. Now, you are bound by desires. Without changes, errors and suspicions could torment you." Image of number 10
1567 "At the theater, you saw heroes lamenting, and winning applause with cries. You questioned such behavior in those expected to embody heroism. Now, you must understand and forgive the stage; you've become one of those heroes." Image of number 10
1568 "You know how to endure and die; you understand necessity's yoke in physical ills, but you must learn to regulate your heart's desires. Our desires outstrip our strength. In desires, man depends on much; in himself, he depends on nothing. Every earthly thing ends; we cling as if eternal. Your terror at Sophie's death was unfounded; she too must die." Image of number 10
1569 "Led by ungoverned passions, you'll suffer deprivation and fear. Possessions will slip due to loss fears. Following passions, satisfaction remains elusive. Seeking rest, you'll find only misery. Passions will lead to wickedness. Who resists desires? Confronting hardship or denying desires becomes impossible. Desire will rule over duty, passion over reason." Image of number 10
1570 "No happiness exists without courage, nor virtue without struggle. Virtue derives from strength, foundational to all righteousness. Virtue is for creatures weak by nature, strong by will. God's goodness lacks virtue as He acts without effort. I awaited your understanding of virtue. As passions awaken, your time has come to learn." Image of number 10
1571 "When I brought you up in nature's simplicity, I made lying unnecessary, not just hateful, and taught you to care little for your own rights, fostering kindness over virtue. Yet kindness falters under human passions; the kindly man eventually serves himself."
1572 "A virtuous man conquers his affections, following reason and conscience, doing his duty, and becoming his master. You have known only the appearance of liberty, the freedom of the slave awaiting orders. Now, true freedom begins; control your heart, Emile, and achieve virtue."
1573 "Another apprenticeship awaits, more challenging than before. Nature frees us from her imposed evils or teaches submission to them. Yet she offers no guidance for self-imposed evils, leaving us to fall to our passions and vain sorrows, proud of our shameful tears."
1574 "This is your first passion, perhaps the only worthy of you. Master it like a man, and it will be your last; you'll dominate all others, obeying only the passion for virtue."
1575 "This passion isn't criminal; it is pure, born of honor and nurtured by innocence. Happy lovers, your union blends virtue with love. Yet, despite purity, are you its slave? If it ceased being innocent, could you quell it? Test your strength now, not in peril. Prepare for battle, not during it."
1576 "Distinguishing between permitted and forbidden passions is flawed; yielding to one and refusing another. All passions are good if mastered, bad if uncontrolled. Nature limits strength, reason limits desires, conscience opposes temptation. Control yourself, for self-control legitimizes sentiments; those controlling us are criminal."
1577 "I offer not lengthy moral precepts but one rule: Be a man, restrain your heart within manhood's limits. Study these bounds, finding happiness within them. Misery arises when mad passions seek the impossible, forgetting reality for an imagined world, slipping back into our own."
1578 "Pride's illusions breed our greatest ills, yet contemplating human suffering humbles the wise. He stays in place, avoids futile pursuits, focusing strength on rightful use. Mortal, would I create eternal ties here, where all changes and vanishes? Oh, Emile! If I lost you, what remains?"
1579 "For wisdom and happiness, cherish eternal beauty. Let desires align with duty, extend necessity to morals, learning to lose, sacrificing to virtue, standing above life's whims, detached before torn apart, brave in adversity, steadfast in duty, achieving happiness despite fortune and passions."
1580 Emile listens with anxious attention, fearing a gloomy conclusion. He anticipates that my emphasis on soul-strength entails his discipline, akin to a wounded man dreading a surgeon's healing touch on a deadly wound.
1581 Uncertain and anxious, Emile questions me timidly, asking, "What do I need to do?" I firmly respond, "You must leave Sophie." Shocked, Emile exclaims, "Leave Sophie, deceive her, become a traitor?" I interrupt, assuring him that I wouldn't teach him such disgrace. Emile declares, "I will not deserve such reproaches." Image of number 10
1582 Prepared for Emile's outburst, I remain unmoved, demonstrating the moderation I preach. Emile knows me too well to believe I'd demand wrongdoing. He understands leaving Sophie, in the sense he perceives, would be wrong. He awaits my explanation, and I continue my speech. Image of number 10
1583 "Emile, can anyone be happier than you've been these past three months? The joys of sense are fleeting; habit destroys them. Imagination adorned your hopes more than reality can. True happiness is unattainable; human conditions decline. Even if perpetual, habit dulls joy. Happiness either leaves us, or we leave it." Image of number 10
1584 "Infatuation obscures time; summer is over, winter nears. Expeditions aren't possible now. Life changes, plans shift. Sophie's confession suggests a simple plan to avoid snow and journeys. But when spring returns, the marriage remains. Plan for all seasons." Image of number 10
1585 "You've known Sophie for only five months! Marriage isn't based on immediate attraction. Love can be mistaken. Virtue alone isn't enough; character takes time to reveal. Two months of absence might change everything. Another man might replace you in her heart. Prove your true selves before it's too late." Image of number 10
1586 "Sophie is not eighteen, and you are barely twenty-two; this is the age for love, but not for marriage. What a father and mother for a family! If you want to know how to bring up children, you should at least wait till you yourselves are children no longer. Do you not know that too early motherhood has weakened the constitution, destroyed the health, and shortened the life of many young women? Do you not know that many children have always been weak and sickly because their mother was little more than a child herself? When mother and child are both growing, the strength required for their growth is divided, and neither gets all that nature intended; are not both certain to suffer? Either I know very little of Emile, or he would rather wait and have a healthy wife and children than satisfy his impatience at the price of their life and health." Image of number 10
1587 "As a future husband and father, consider your duties. Joining a family makes you a state member. What is a citizen? Understand government, laws, and sacrifice for life. You think you know, but before joining society, find your place." Image of number 10
1588 "Emile, leave Sophie. Don't abandon her; that would prove her fortunate in avoiding marriage. Depart to return worthy of her. Avoid vanity; much remains to be done. Fulfill your noble task, learning absence and earning fidelity's prize. Request her hand as a reward, not a favor." Image of number 10
1589 Unaccustomed to self-struggle, Emile resists and argues against delaying happiness. Why wait to accept an offered hand? Why leave her to learn? If departure is necessary, why not as her husband, assuring return? Marry to leave her, dear Emile! A lover leaves his beloved for greatness; a husband leaves through necessity. You must leave Sophie, I wish it. Image of number 10
1590 After a moment of silence and thought, Emile asks, "When do we start?" "In a week," I reply. "Sophie needs preparation. Women are weaker; we must show consideration. Parting isn't her duty; she may bear it less bravely." Image of number 10
1591 The temptation to continue the daily history of their love up to the time of their separation is very great; but I have already presumed too much upon the good nature of my readers. Let us abridge the story so as to bring it to an end. Will Emile face the situation as bravely at his mistress' feet as he has done in conversation with his friend? I think he will; his confidence is rooted in the sincerity of his love. He would be more at a loss with her if it cost him less to leave her; he would leave her feeling himself to blame, and that is a difficult part for a man of honour to play. But the greater the sacrifice, the more credit he demands for it in the sight of her who makes it so difficult. He has no fear that she will misunderstand his motives. Every look seems to say, "Oh, Sophie, read my heart and be faithful to me; your lover is not without virtue."
1592 Proud Sophie tries to bear the unexpected blow with dignity, pretending not to care. Emile has the upper hand, but her strength falters, and fear of being forgotten deepens her sorrow. She conceals her tears and terror from him, letting me be her confidant. Women are clever at hiding their emotions; her distress is expressed privately, while she takes care to please me, knowing her fate depends on my influence.
1593 I console Sophie, assuring her of Emile's fidelity and promising marriage within two years if she remains true. My honesty and the trust of their parents reassure them, yet reason struggles against emotion. They part as though they will never reunite.
1594 Sophie recalls Eucharis' regrets, identifying with her absence. "Exchange books with Emile," I suggest, "to inspire duty." They find joy in this exchange, gaining confidence. The sad day arrives, and they must part.
1595 Sophie's father bids me farewell, saying, "I trust your honor. Remember, your pupil has pledged his marriage on my daughter's lips."
1596 The lovers differ in behavior: Emile, impetuous and tearful, embraces everyone, repeating his words. Sophie, pale and sorrowful, remains silent, indifferent to his tears. Her quiet departure deeply affects Emile. I drag him away reluctantly, ensuring he remembers her final image, which will guide him back to her.
1597 ON TRAVEL
1598 Is travel beneficial for young people? The question stirs debate. Perhaps asking, "Are men better for traveling?" would yield less disagreement.
1599 Books hinder genuine learning, creating pretentious ignorance. Reading is rampant, but true knowledge is scarce. France produces many books but lacks cultural understanding. Too many books divert us from life's lessons, each clinging to our views. If "Can one become a Persian" were unknown, I'd suspect it came from where prejudice thrives, especially among women.
1600 Parisians believe they understand men but know only Frenchmen. The city teems with foreigners, yet each is seen as unique. Knowing the middle class reveals their paradoxical nature. Despite reading about foreign lands, they marvel at outsiders.
1601 Discovering truth amid our prejudices and authors' biases is challenging. I've read travel books but found inconsistent portrayals of nations. Comparing my observations with their accounts, I abandoned these books, realizing that seeing is essential for understanding. Even honest travelers' truths are tainted by personal perceptions. Discerning truth from lies and bad faith complicates matters further. Image of number 10
1602 Leave book resources to those satisfied with them. Like Raymond Lull's art, they fuel chatter about unknowns. They're fit for young Platos discussing philosophy and those learning about foreign lands from unreliable sources like Paul Lucas or Tavernier. Image of number 10
1603 One who knows only one nation knows not mankind, but merely his countrymen. Hence, the question of travel becomes: Should an educated man know only his countrymen or mankind? When phrased thus, debate ceases. The problem's phrasing impacts its solution greatly. Image of number 10
1604 Is global travel necessary to study mankind? Need we visit Japan to understand Europeans? Must we know every person to grasp the species? No, some people are so alike that individual study is futile. A dozen Frenchmen reveal France, and a dozen nations reveal humanity. Image of number 10
1605 Travel demands more than quick visits; observation requires focus. Many travelers learn no more than readers, lacking thought or desire to learn. They overlook essentials, and unclear goals cloud their vision. The French travel extensively yet learn little, seeing through their customs' lens. Image of number 10
1606 English travel differently from French. Nobility travels, commoners stay home, unlike French patterns. The English seek commerce, spending money, not fortune. Their travels teach more than the French, whose ulterior motives distract. English prejudices stem from pride, while French ones arise from vanity. Image of number 10
1607 Lesser-traveled nations observe best, valuing usefulness over curiosity. Spaniards excel, studying governance while others chase art and scholars. They alone return with insights valuable to their country. Image of number 10
1608 The ancients traveled little, read little, and wrote few books. Yet we see in those books that remain to us, that they observed each other more thoroughly than we observe our contemporaries. Without going back to the days of Homer, the only poet who transports us to the country he describes, we cannot deny to Herodotus the glory of having best painted manners in his history, though he does it rather by narrative than by comment. Still he does it better than all our historians whose books are overladen with portraits and characters. Tacitus has described the Germans of his time better than any author has described the Germans of to-day. There can be no doubt that those who have devoted themselves to ancient history know more about the Greeks, Carthaginians, Romans, Gauls, and Persians than any nation of to-day knows about its neighbors. Image of number 10
1609 National traits shift daily, blending races and cultures, complicating observation. Nations once isolated now intermingle, obscuring differences. Historical travel was rare, with fewer connections between nations, unlike today, where Europe has more links than Gaul and Spain had. Image of number 10
1610 Ancient peoples believed themselves natives of their lands, with ancestral roots lost to time. Modern Europe, reshaped by invasions, differs. Today's French aren't the fair men of old, Greeks aren't sculptors' models, and Romans have changed. Europeans are now Scythians, diverse in appearance and behavior. Image of number 10
1611 Ancient distinctions of race, influenced by soil and climate, created notable differences in temperament, appearance, and character. Today, Europe's instability prevents these natural distinctions. Forests vanish, marshes dry, and land is cultivated unevenly, obscuring differences in physical features across regions.
1612 If these factors were considered, people might not ridicule Herodotus, Ctesias, and Pliny for describing distinct national traits. Observing ancient peoples is crucial; without change, they remain the same. Comparing all historical peoples might reveal greater variations across centuries than among nations now.
1613 Observation grows harder and less precise, hindering human race studies. Travel insights hinge on journey goals. Philosophical pursuits reveal only desired sights; self-interest dominates attention. Commerce and arts unite nations, hindering mutual understanding. Profiting from neighbors suffices.
1614 Knowing where to live comfortably is vital. Self-sufficient savages know only their land. Needing more land, they avoid populated areas, hunting wild beasts. Civil life demands devouring others. Thus, we flock to Rome, Paris, London, learning only about populous nations, alike in many ways.
1615 Scholars travel for self-interest, not knowledge. Philosophers like Plato and Pythagoras are rare. Scholars travel by royal command, focusing on specified tasks, not morals. Paid to observe, they earn their wages. Some travel to teach, not learn, motivated by vanity, not enlightenment.
1616 Traveling to see landscapes is common; studying people is secondary. Philosophical travelers prioritize people over places. Children observe things, then study people. Adults should study humanity first, and only explore things if time permits.
1617 Travel is useful, but not for everyone. Few are fit to travel; it suits those strong enough to resist error and vice. Travel hastens maturity, shaping character for better or worse. Badly educated youth gain vices, while those seeking wisdom return improved.
1618 Rational endeavors need rules, including travel as education. Traveling aimlessly is wandering; traveling to learn without purpose is futile. Young men should have a personal interest in learning, guiding their instruction, continuing this method.
1619 Having considered physical and moral relations, civil relations with fellow citizens remain. Study government nature, forms, and one's native government to decide compatibility. Upon reaching maturity, one may choose to leave the contract and renounce their homeland.
1620 "Emile, you've lived under my guidance; now, you're approaching legal independence. As you settle, know your desired life and plans for supporting a family. Consider your fortune and civil relations to avoid dependence on others."
1621 I will show Emile how to use his money in trade, civil service, or finance. Each path involves risks and demands conforming to societal norms and prejudices, leading to dependence and moral compromise. Image of number 10
1622 "You could join the army, earning high wages to kill innocents, a trade held in honor for those unfit for better. Yet, this path requires other resources and often leads to ruin. While some grow rich, the means may deter you." Image of number 10
1623 "Even in this trade, courage matters little. Cringing and deceit earn honor, while serious dedication incurs hatred and favoritism. Duties in trenches are eclipsed by attire concerns." Image of number 10
1624 Emile will disdain these occupations, preferring childhood games and work. He values kindness and independence with Sophie, thriving on honest labor, seeking only a small farm for happiness. Image of number 10
1625 "A wise man needs only a wife and land, but these are rare. You've found the rarest; let's discuss the latter." Image of number 10
1626 "Where can you own land and be your master, free from riches? Find a peaceful, just state for honest living without intruding on others. Guard against arbitrary taxes, endless lawsuits, and oppressive neighbors." Image of number 10
1627 "I see challenges in your plan, but it's admirable and could bring happiness. Let's spend two years finding a safe place in Europe for family life, free from the risks I've outlined. Success means finding true happiness; failure cures a misconception." Image of number 10
1628 If Emile returns from this journey, aimed at understanding governance, public morals, and political philosophy, without gaining such knowledge, we both lack intelligence and judgment. Image of number 10
1629 Political science remains elusive. Grotius, a pioneer, is unreliable. Praising Grotius and condemning Hobbes reveals ignorance; both share principles but differ in expression. Hobbes uses sophism; Grotius relies on poets. Image of number 10
1630 Only Montesquieu could have developed political science, but he focused on existing laws, not political rights. These areas differ greatly. Image of number 10
1631 To judge government wisely, one must understand ideals to evaluate reality. The main challenge is getting someone to engage with questions of personal relevance and action. Emile can answer these.
1632 Childhood prejudices and biased authors hinder understanding, as they prioritize self-interest over truth. Without incentives like professorships or pensions, the people's rights go unchampioned. Emile's education bypasses this; he seeks the best government without pandering to authority, focusing on human rights.
1633 A third difficulty in governance is more superficial than real, requiring neither solution nor statement. Confidence in justice and truth surpasses the need for great talents in such inquiries, making this the ideal time for discussion.
1634 Before beginning observations, establish procedural rules and a scale for comparison. Political law principles serve as our scale, while civil law reflects actual measurements in each country.
1635 Elementary notions are derived from nature's essence, presented as problems we solve to form principles. Only after solving them do we articulate our principles.
1636 We will explore if men are born free or slaves, if societies form by choice or force, and if force can establish permanent laws. We question if original power ceased, is rebellion justified? Such rights equate might with right.
1637 We will explore if claiming sickness is divine prohibits calling doctors.
1638 We question if conscience demands giving a highwayman your purse when concealed, given his pistol's power.
1639 Does power in this context differ from lawful power, subject to the laws that create it?
1640 Rejecting force, we examine nature or paternal authority as society's foundation. Its basis lies in child benefit, weakness, and paternal love. When mature, children judge self-preservation, becoming independent from all, even fathers, as self-love surpasses paternal affection.
1641 With the father deceased, should children obey the eldest brother or another unrelated figure lacking paternal affection? Should each family have one head, demanding obedience? How did power become divided, resulting in multiple leaders governing the human race? This chapter explores familial and societal power dynamics, questioning authority origins and legitimacy. It highlights complexities in family governance, the evolution of societal structures, and examines the implications of hierarchical leadership on social order and unity. This analysis emphasizes understanding authority and questioning traditional power assumptions to promote equitable governance and harmonious societal relationships.
1642 Assuming people formed by choice, we distinguish between right and fact. Would a society of individuals subjecting themselves to relatives by choice, not obligation, always become a free, voluntary association? This chapter examines voluntary associations, exploring autonomy and freedom in societal structures. It highlights the distinction between choice and obligation in forming social bonds, questioning the nature of authority and governance. The analysis emphasizes understanding individual agency and the impact of voluntary participation on social cohesion and stability. By exploring these dynamics, the text promotes equitable governance and harmonious societal relationships, fostering autonomy and self-determination.
1643 In exploring slavery's legality, can one surrender their rights without conditions? Renouncing one's body, life, reason, and morality defies nature, which mandates self-preservation, and conscience, which dictates actions and abstentions. This chapter questions slavery's legitimacy, highlighting the conflict between natural rights and self-enslavement. It emphasizes the importance of self-preservation and moral autonomy, challenging the notion of relinquishing fundamental human rights. The analysis underscores understanding the impact of slavery on individual freedom and dignity, promoting the preservation of innate rights and advocating for equitable societal structures that uphold personal agency and moral integrity.
1644 If slavery involves reservations or restrictions, does it become a true contract? Both parties, lacking a common superior, judge contract conditions, retaining freedom to break it when harmful. This chapter examines the contractual nature of slavery, exploring power dynamics and mutual judgment in agreements. It emphasizes understanding the implications of reservations on contractual freedom, questioning authority and governance legitimacy. The analysis highlights the importance of equitable agreements and individual autonomy, promoting societal structures that uphold fairness and mutual consent. By examining these dynamics, the text advocates for justice and balance in power relations and personal freedoms.
1645 If a slave can't fully alienate themselves to a master, how can a nation do so to its leader? If a slave judges their master's fulfillment of the contract, shouldn't the people judge their leader's fulfillment? This chapter questions the legitimacy of absolute authority and highlights the need for accountability in governance. It emphasizes understanding the power dynamics between individuals and leaders, promoting a balance between authority and individual rights. The analysis underscores the importance of maintaining autonomy and ensuring leaders are held accountable, advocating for societal structures that uphold justice, fairness, and individual freedoms.
1646 Retracing our steps, we examine the meaning of "collective people." Is a contract, at least a tacit one, necessary to form a people, preceding the assumed contract? This chapter explores the foundational role of contracts in forming societies, highlighting the importance of collective agreements in shaping communities. It emphasizes understanding the impact of implicit contracts on social cohesion and stability, questioning the origins and legitimacy of societal structures. The analysis underscores the significance of mutual consent and collaboration in governance, advocating for equitable and inclusive societies that value collective decision-making and shared responsibilities.
1647 Before choosing a king, what unites a people if not the social contract? This contract forms civil society's foundation, guiding its nature. This chapter examines the social contract's pivotal role in establishing societal structures, highlighting its influence on governance and unity. It emphasizes understanding the contract's implications on collective identity and social cohesion, questioning the legitimacy and origins of authority. The analysis underscores the significance of mutual agreements in shaping communities, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize collaboration, shared responsibilities, and justice, fostering harmonious relationships and promoting a deeper understanding of the foundations of civil society.
1648 We examine the contract's meaning, expressed as: "Each of us shares goods, person, life, and power under the general will's supreme direction, receiving each member as an indivisible part of the whole." This chapter explores the essence of social contracts, highlighting the importance of unity and collective responsibility. It emphasizes understanding the impact of shared resources and power on societal structures, questioning authority and governance legitimacy. The analysis underscores the significance of mutual consent and collaboration, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize collective well-being and shared responsibilities, fostering unity, cooperation, and social cohesion in communities.
1649 Defining terms, the contract creates a moral, collective body of members. This public person is a body politic, called the State when passive, the Sovereign when active, and Power when compared to equals. Members are collectively the people and individually citizens, subjects to the same authority. This chapter examines social contracts' role in forming collective identities and governance structures, highlighting the significance of understanding individual roles within communities. The analysis emphasizes the importance of collaboration and shared responsibilities, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize unity, mutual consent, and justice, fostering strong communities and promoting a deeper understanding of governance dynamics.
1650 This association act includes a mutual pledge from the public and individuals. Each individual, "contracting with himself," is both a sovereign member concerning others and a state member concerning the sovereign. This chapter explores the dual nature of social contracts, highlighting the complexities of individual roles within communities. It emphasizes understanding the balance between personal autonomy and collective responsibilities, questioning authority and governance legitimacy. The analysis underscores the importance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize unity, shared responsibilities, and justice, fostering strong communities and promoting a deeper understanding of governance dynamics.
1651 No one is bound by engagements they didn't agree to. Public deliberations can bind subjects to the sovereign, given their dual relations, but not the state to itself. The only fundamental law is the social contract. Yet, the body politic can pledge itself to others as a simple creature or individual. This chapter explores the limitations of public deliberations, emphasizing the primacy of the social contract. It highlights the complexity of authority and governance, questioning the legitimacy of binding agreements, and advocating for the preservation of fundamental rights, autonomy, and mutual consent in societal structures and international relations.
1652 Without a common superior, can individuals and the public freely break the contract if deemed harmful? This chapter questions the durability of social contracts, highlighting the challenges in maintaining agreements without external arbitration. It explores the balance between personal autonomy and collective responsibility, emphasizing the importance of equitable governance and mutual consent. The analysis underscores understanding the complexities of authority and power dynamics, advocating for societal structures that prioritize justice, fairness, and collaboration. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes harmony and stability in communities, fostering a deeper understanding of the challenges in sustaining social contracts.
1653 The sovereign acts through the general will; its decrees target common aims. Thus, individuals can't be harmed unless all are harmed, an impossibility. The social contract's authority lies in public force, broken only by individuals, who aren't freed but punished. This chapter examines the collective nature of sovereign power, emphasizing the importance of general will in governance. It highlights the challenges in maintaining social contracts, questioning authority and individual rights. The analysis underscores the significance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize justice and shared responsibilities, fostering harmony and stability in communities.
1654 The social pact is unique: the people contract only with themselves—the sovereign body with individuals as subjects. This is crucial for political legitimacy, ensuring secure pledges. Without it, governance becomes tyrannical and abusive. This chapter explores the foundational nature of the social pact, highlighting its role in ensuring legitimate and secure governance. It emphasizes understanding the balance between individual autonomy and collective responsibility, questioning the origins and legitimacy of authority. The analysis underscores the importance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion.
1655 Individuals submit only to the sovereign, which is the general will. By obeying the sovereign, each man obeys himself, becoming freer under the social pact than in nature. This chapter highlights the liberating nature of the social contract, emphasizing the alignment of personal autonomy with collective responsibility. It explores the balance between individual rights and societal duties, questioning the legitimacy of authority and governance. The analysis underscores the significance of mutual consent and collaboration, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion within communities.
1656 Comparing natural and civil liberty, we examine property rights. Sovereign power, based on ownership, respects individual rights. However, when viewed as common, it's subject to the common will, which can destroy it. The sovereign can't touch individual property but can take all, as in Sparta. Solon's debt abolition was illegitimate. This chapter explores property rights' complexities, highlighting the balance between individual ownership and collective responsibility. It emphasizes understanding the impact of sovereignty on personal freedoms, questioning authority legitimacy. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and equitable governance.
1657 Subjects are bound only by the general will. How is this will recognized, and what defines a law? This chapter delves into identifying the general will and defining law, exploring its implications on governance and authority. It emphasizes understanding the complexities of power dynamics and the role of collective consent in shaping societal structures. The analysis underscores the importance of equitable governance and justice, advocating for societies that prioritize collaboration, mutual consent, and shared responsibilities, fostering harmonious relationships and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes stability and a deeper understanding of legal frameworks.
1658 When a nation considers individual members, division occurs, creating two entities: the part and the whole minus that part. This chapter explores the fragmentation caused by individual consideration, highlighting the challenges in maintaining unity within societies. It emphasizes understanding the balance between individual autonomy and collective responsibility, questioning the legitimacy of authority and governance. The analysis underscores the importance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes unity and a deeper understanding of societal structures.
1659 When the nation legislates for itself, it considers only itself, creating a relationship between the community's perspectives without division. The statute's object and will are general. This chapter highlights the importance of self-legislation and unity in governance, emphasizing understanding the impact of collective decision-making on societal structures. It explores the balance between individual rights and collective responsibilities, questioning authority legitimacy. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of governance principles.
1660 The sovereign speaks through laws, which must address general objects for all state members. It lacks power for particular objects. Yet, for state preservation, particular cases must be addressed. This chapter explores the limitations of sovereign power in addressing specific issues, highlighting the importance of general laws. It emphasizes understanding the balance between individual rights and collective responsibilities, questioning authority legitimacy. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of legal frameworks.
1661 The sovereign's acts are the general will, i.e., laws. There must be government decrees for executing these laws, with particular aims. The sovereign's act to elect a leader is a law; electing the leader is a government decree. This chapter explores the separation between sovereign and government roles, highlighting the importance of distinguishing laws and decrees. It emphasizes the need for clarity in governance structures and power dynamics, questioning authority legitimacy. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion in communities. Image of number 10
1662 The people, as magistrates, execute laws passed as sovereign. This chapter highlights the dual role of citizens as both lawmakers and executors, emphasizing the importance of active participation in governance. It explores the balance between individual rights and collective responsibilities, questioning authority legitimacy. The analysis underscores the significance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of the complexities of power and governance, encouraging active engagement in societal structures and decision-making processes. Image of number 10
1663 Can a nation divest its sovereignty to individuals? The election act isn't a law, so the people lack the right to transfer sovereignty they don't possess. This chapter questions the legitimacy of delegating sovereign power, emphasizing the importance of understanding the limitations of authority. It explores the balance between individual autonomy and collective responsibility, highlighting the complexities of governance structures. The analysis underscores the significance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies that prioritize justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. It promotes a deeper understanding of sovereignty and power dynamics. Image of number 10
1664 Sovereignty is the general will. How can an individual's will align with it? Individual interests seek privilege; the common interest seeks equality. Without guaranteed alignment, sovereign rights can't exist unless indestructible. This chapter explores the inherent tension between individual and collective interests, emphasizing the challenges in achieving alignment. It highlights the complexities of governance and power dynamics, questioning authority legitimacy. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. It promotes a deeper understanding of the challenges in maintaining sovereignty and collective decision-making. Image of number 10
1665 Can leaders be anything but officers executing laws? They're accountable for their administration and subject to the laws they enforce. This chapter emphasizes the accountability of leaders within governance structures, highlighting the importance of maintaining checks and balances. It explores the balance between authority and responsibility, questioning the legitimacy of power. The analysis underscores the significance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of governance principles and the role of leaders in society. Image of number 10
1666 If the people can't alienate their supreme right, can they temporarily entrust it? Can they appoint representatives instead of a master? This critical question demands exploration. This chapter delves into the complexities of delegating sovereign power, questioning the legitimacy of representation in governance. It emphasizes the balance between individual autonomy and collective responsibility, highlighting the challenges in maintaining authority and accountability. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. It promotes a deeper understanding of power dynamics and representative governance. Image of number 10
1667 If people can't have a sovereign or representatives, how do they legislate? Can a large population be its own lawgiver, especially with many laws or frequent changes? This chapter explores the challenges of direct democracy in large societies, questioning the practicality of self-governance. It highlights the complexities of legislation and power dynamics, emphasizing the need for understanding the balance between individual autonomy and collective responsibility. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. It promotes a deeper understanding of governance structures and decision-making processes. Image of number 10
1668 If the Roman people wasn't a great people, what lessons can be learned? This chapter reflects on the Roman experience, questioning the definition of greatness in a society. It explores the complexities of governance, power dynamics, and societal structures, emphasizing the importance of understanding historical contexts. The analysis underscores the significance of collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of historical lessons and their relevance to contemporary governance and societal challenges. Image of number 10
1669 Is it beneficial for societies to be large? This chapter explores the advantages and disadvantages of large populations, questioning the impact on governance, social cohesion, and resource management. It emphasizes the balance between individual autonomy and collective responsibility, highlighting the complexities of power dynamics and societal structures. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of the challenges and opportunities presented by large populations and their influence on governance. Image of number 10
1670 Can the general will be better represented than it is now? This chapter questions the effectiveness of current representation systems, exploring ways to enhance the alignment of governance with the collective will. It emphasizes understanding the complexities of power dynamics and societal structures, highlighting the need for innovative approaches to representation. The analysis underscores collaboration and mutual consent, advocating for equitable societies prioritizing justice, shared responsibilities, and harmonious relationships, fostering stability and social cohesion. By examining these dynamics, the text promotes a deeper understanding of governance principles and the potential for improved representation of the general will. Image of number 10
1671 From what has been said we can infer that the sovereign will is an aggregate of a number of wills, in which each individual is represented. The sovereign will is thus an aggregate of general and private wills, in which each of the two series is represented. Hence the sovereign has the power to execute what is useful to the whole society.
1672 The sovereign will represents the general interest, while the representative body only represents the private interest. We will see how to form a representative body, how to constitute it, and how to choose it.
1673 We will inquire how the sovereign power of the people can be exercised, what are the proper and necessary conditions for its exercise, and what are the causes of its failure.
1674 We will consider the formation of the representative body, the qualification of the representatives, the organization of the state, and the laws that they shall promulgate.
1675 We will see if the exercise of sovereign power is consistent with the state of nature, and whether it is possible to exercise it under the social contract.
1676 We shall consider the effects of the representative system, its benefits, its drawbacks, and the impact of its effects upon the people.
1677 We will examine the political and social benefits of the representative system, the effectiveness of the laws passed by it, and the advantages that it provides to the people.
1678 We shall see the limits and limitations of the representative system, and how it can be adapted to suit the needs of the people.
1679 We shall also inquire into the relationship between the sovereign and its representatives, and the duties and responsibilities that they have towards the people.
1680 We will consider the nature of the representative body and its relationship to the sovereign power, and how it interacts with the people.
1681 We shall discuss the role of representative bodies in law formation and enforcement, and how they impact the people's general will. Representatives should express public desires while balancing power dynamics to create fair legislation. Image of number 10
1682 We will examine different representation forms, evaluating their effectiveness and political impact. Analyzing various systems reveals how representation influences governance quality and citizen satisfaction. Image of number 10
1683 We shall see the people's role in shaping and influencing representation, impacting system effectiveness. Active public participation ensures accountability and responsiveness to societal needs. Image of number 10
1684 We will examine how representation adapts to changing political and social conditions, responding to people's needs. Adaptive systems remain relevant, ensuring continued public trust and engagement. Image of number 10
1685 We shall discuss public opinion's role in shaping representation, impacting system effectiveness. Public opinion guides decision-making, influencing policy directions and priorities. Image of number 10
1686 We will examine representation's impact on political stability and government effectiveness. A well-functioning system promotes stability, allowing governments to address public needs efficiently. Image of number 10
1687 We shall see the challenges and criticisms faced by representation, and how it addresses them. Overcoming challenges strengthens the system, ensuring it remains fair and just for all. Image of number 10
1688 We will examine representation's future, potential developments, and improvements for better service. Evolving systems address new challenges, enhancing their capacity to represent the public effectively. Image of number 10
1689 We shall discuss technology and innovation's role in shaping representation's future and its governance impact. Innovations offer opportunities to improve systems, enhancing transparency and engagement. Image of number 10
1690 We will consider education and civic engagement in strengthening representation and effectiveness. Informed, engaged citizens contribute to system vitality and responsiveness. Image of number 10
1691 We shall examine democracy and representation, and how democratic principles are upheld within the representative system. The alignment of representative actions with democratic ideals ensures citizens' voices are heard and respected.
1692 We will consider accountability and transparency in the representative system, and how these principles impact governance. Clear and open practices strengthen trust between elected officials and the public.
1693 We shall discuss the importance of checks and balances within the representative system, and how they contribute to effective governance. Balanced power prevents abuses and ensures a fair distribution of authority.
1694 We will examine the role of political parties and interest groups in the representative system, and their impact on policy-making. These entities shape legislative agendas and influence government decisions.
1695 We shall see how the representative system addresses issues of inequality and representation of marginalized groups. Ensuring equitable representation is crucial for inclusive governance and social justice.
1696 We will discuss the role of international organizations and treaties in shaping and influencing the representative system. Global agreements impact national policies, integrating international norms into local governance.
1697 We shall examine the impact of globalization on the representative system and its ability to address global challenges. Global interconnectedness necessitates responsive and adaptable governance frameworks.
1698 We will consider public participation and engagement in shaping the representative system's future. Active involvement ensures that governance reflects the public's evolving needs and aspirations.
1699 We shall discuss potential reforms and innovations needed to improve the representative system and enhance its effectiveness. Adapting to changing conditions is key to maintaining system integrity.
1700 Finally, we will reflect on lessons from studying the representative system and its prospects for ensuring effective, equitable governance. Continuous learning and adaptation drive future success.
1701 The distribution of a population is a sign of the government's quality. Two states equal in size and population may have unequal strength. The stronger state has evenly distributed people and fewer large cities. Cities drain resources, weakening the state, as the wealth they generate is illusory. Paris is a burden to France, consuming resources without returning value. This uneven population is more harmful than depopulation, as it produces negative outcomes. Debating which city has more inhabitants is arguing over poor governance. A balanced population strengthens a state more than concentrating people in cities.
1702 To truly understand a government, study the people outside cities. Observing a government's apparent form without seeing its effects on the populace misses its essence. Administrative differences reflect throughout governance. The minister's influence is felt in subordinates' actions; freedom is tested in parliament elections. Cities don't reveal a nation's character, which lies in rural areas. Agriculture and country people define a nation. True governance is seen in how it reaches every citizen, not just in urban settings. A nation's spirit is rooted in its countryside, not in the bustling cities.
1703 Studying people in rural simplicity reveals their true nature, offering valuable insights. Closer to nature, people exhibit genuine kindness. In cities, culture alters character, replacing crude faults with attractive but harmful vices. This observation suggests another benefit of traveling as recommended: young men avoiding corrupt cities are less likely to adopt vices. Among simple people, they develop better judgment, taste, and morals. Emile's love protects him from vice. Love influences youthful desires, which educators often ignore. True love diverts from wrongdoing, leading to virtuous actions. Without it, youth risk falling into vice.
1704 Observing that young travelers avoiding corrupt cities stay virtuous, we see Emile is protected by love. True love's power over youthful desires is often misunderstood. Many appear chaste without love, but no honest adult can claim a chaste youth. Society values appearances over genuine virtues; love ensures sincerity. The idea of Emile falling in love before traveling isn't mine; it came from an incident. In Venice, visiting a young Englishman's tutor, I saw the youth destroy lace ruffles gifted by a local lady. His engagement back home sparked this emotional reaction.
1705 Surprised by the young man's actions, I noted his emotional response. Facial expressions differ by nationality, so I awaited the letter's end to inquire. The tutor, amused, embraced the student and explained. Mr. John destroyed the ruffles, a gift from a local lady, after reading a letter from his fiancée's mother. The mother described his fiancée, Lucy, making him ruffles. His loyalty to Lucy caused him to reject the other gift. This incident suggests that letting Emile fall in love before traveling helps him resist vice and stay true to virtue.
1706 The idea of letting Emile fall in love before taking him on his travels is not my own. It was suggested to me by the following incident.
1707 In Venice, I visited a young Englishman's tutor. While reading letters, the student quietly tore and burned lace ruffles gifted by a local lady. Surprised, I noted his emotion, but cultural differences in expressions led me to inquire further. The tutor, amused, embraced the student and explained. The ruffles, a gift from a local lady, were destroyed after the student read a letter from his fiancée's mother, describing his fiancée's handiwork. This gesture showed loyalty to his fiancée, highlighting love's protective power over youthful desires.
1708 The tutor, amused by the incident, embraced his pupil and, with his consent, explained the situation. The ruffles, a gift from a local lady, were destroyed after the student read a letter from his fiancée's mother, describing his fiancée's handiwork. This gesture showed loyalty to his fiancée, highlighting love's protective power over youthful desires. Letting Emile fall in love before traveling shields him from vice, ensuring sincerity in his virtues. True love guides youth away from wrongdoing, fostering virtuous actions and protecting them from corrupt influences encountered in travels.
1709 The tutor explained that the ruffles were a gift from a local lady. Mr. John is engaged to a young lady in his country, deeply in love and deserving. The letter from the lady's mother prompted the destruction. The letter described how his fiancée, Lucy, made him ruffles. Mr. John destroyed the gift, staying loyal to Lucy. His actions show love's power to protect youth from vice. Emile's love shields him, ensuring sincerity in virtues. True love diverts youth from wrongdoing, fostering virtuous actions and guiding them through life's challenges.
1710 'Lucy is always at work upon Mr. John's ruffles. Yesterday Miss Betty Roldham came to spend the afternoon and insisted on doing them herself. She cut some silk lace of which she made a pair of ruffles, which she is very pleased with, and she wished to send them to him. She hopes that they will please him and that he will show them to his friends, and make some compliments on them.'
1711 Mr. John retrieved another pair of ruffles. I asked the tutor if Miss Lucy's mother's letter was a ploy against the ruffles' lady. He replied, "No, it's genuine. Simplicity and zeal guided me, and God blessed my efforts." The incident left an impression on me, prompting thoughts. Time to bring Mr. John to Miss Lucy, or rather, Emile to Sophie. Emile returns with a tender heart and enlightened mind, better for knowing foreign vices and virtues. I encouraged connections with honorable men in each nation, reducing national prejudices. Correspondence with sensible foreigners offers perspective and balance. Image of number 10
1712 This incident with regard to the young man stuck in my mind; it was sure to set a dreamer like me thinking. Image of number 10
1713 Time to bring Mr. John to Miss Lucy, or rather, Emile to Sophie. Emile returns with a tender heart and enlightened mind, better for knowing foreign vices and virtues. I encouraged connections with honorable men in each nation, reducing national prejudices. Correspondence with sensible foreigners offers perspective and balance. Seeing strangers at home and abroad differs. At home, politeness influences opinions; abroad, genuine views emerge. I'm eager for foreign opinions once they're home. After two years in Europe, learning languages and observing natural history, arts, and government, Emile asks about the outcome of his travels. Image of number 10
1714 After traveling in Europe's major and minor countries, learning languages and observing arts, Emile, eager, reminds me our time is nearly over. I ask, "What is your decision from our travels?" If my method is right, he'll answer similarly: "I choose to be myself without unnecessary constraints. Observing human institutions shows attempts to secure freedom often lead to enslavement. To remain free, I must simply desire freedom, unbound by possessions or places. In seeking a place of true freedom, I found the words 'empire' and 'liberty' are incompatible. True freedom exists only within oneself." Image of number 10
1715 "I choose to remain myself, free from unnecessary constraints. Observing institutions reveals how the pursuit of independence often results in enslavement. True freedom requires only the desire to be free, unbound by possessions or locations. In seeking a place for absolute freedom, I found that 'empire' and 'liberty' are incompatible. One can only be free by rejecting material attachments. My desires led to contradictions, for I would be tied to the land like dryads to trees. To be truly free, I must embrace necessity, flowing with life, untethered by worldly attachments or expectations." Image of number 10
1716 "I recall our discussion on property and liberty. You argued that wealth and freedom are incompatible, yet sought both for me. Independence requires reliance on nature. I'll detach from my inheritance, holding neither wealth nor poverty. Rich or poor, I'll remain free, breaking societal chains. True freedom exists worldwide, limited only by necessity. Embracing life's constraints, I'll remain true to myself. Wealth, if it enslaves me, will be relinquished. Hands will work for sustenance, relying on others if needed. Death is nature's law, not poverty's punishment. Facing death, I prepare for life, unburdened by future plans." Image of number 10
1717 "My future role and location are irrelevant. Among men, I'm with brothers; alone, I'm at home. As long as I'm free and self-sufficient, I'll live. If wealth enslaves me, I'll abandon it. With hands, I'll earn my keep. If hands fail, life ends naturally. Death is life's law, not poverty's curse. Facing death, I live freely, unshackled by life's demands. Independent, I'll let go of possessions and focus on living. Prepared for life's uncertainties, I'll live without fear, embracing nature's constraints, ready to meet life's end with courage and dignity." Image of number 10
1718 "This, my father, is my decision. If I were without passions, I would in my manhood be as independent as God himself, for I only desire what is and I should never fight against fate. At least, there is only one chain, a chain which I shall ever wear, a chain of which I may be justly proud. Come then, give me my Sophie, and I am free." Image of number 10
1719 "Dear Emile, I'm pleased to hear you speak as a man, revealing your heart's feelings. Such youthful selflessness will wane with fatherhood, aligning with wise parenting. I anticipated this outcome before our travels, knowing institutions don't deserve blind trust. Laws don't guarantee freedom; they often serve self-interest. Nature's eternal laws guide the wise, replacing flawed human laws. Obeying these inner laws grants freedom; wrongdoing enslaves against one's will. Freedom isn't in governance, but in one's heart. The free carry freedom within, while the wicked remain enslaved. Geneva's lawless, Paris's free men contrast this truth." Image of number 10
1720 "Discussing citizenship duties, you may question a homeland's existence. You're mistaken, Emile; every land hosts a government with laws ensuring peace. Even if the social contract falters, individual interest offers protection akin to the general will. Witnessing injustice fosters appreciation for goodness. All owe their homeland moral actions and virtue, shaping their character. A forest-born man's freedom lacks merit, while resisting passion for virtue defines him. Observing order cultivates love and adherence. Public good motivates him genuinely. Laws grant courage to be just amid wickedness, fostering self-governance and freedom, despite institutional flaws and challenges." Image of number 10
1721 "Do not say therefore, 'What difference does it make where I am?' It does make a difference that you should be where you can best do your duty; and one of these duties is to love your native land. Your fellow countrymen protected you in childhood; you should love them in your manhood. You should live among them, or at least you should be where you can serve them to the best of your power and where they know where to find you if ever they are in need of you. There are circumstances in which a man may be of more use to his fellow-countrymen outside his country than within it. Then he should listen only to his own zeal and should bear his exile without a murmur; that exile is one of his duties. But you, dear Emile, you have not undertaken the painful task of telling men the truth. You must live in the midst of your fellow-creatures, cultivating their friendship in pleasant intercourse; you must be their benefactor, their pattern. Your example will do more than all our books, and the good they see you do will touch them more deeply than all our empty words." Image of number 10
1722 "Yet I do not exhort you to live in the city. On the contrary, one of the examples which the good should give to others is that of a patriarchal, rural life, the earliest life of man, the most peaceful, the most natural, and the most attractive to the uncorrupted heart. Happy is the country, my young friend, where one need not seek peace in the wilderness! But where is that country? A man of good will finds it hard to satisfy his inclinations in the midst of cities, where he can find few but frauds and fools to work for. The welcome given by cities to those idlers who flock to them to seek their fortunes only completes the ruin of the country, when the country ought really to be repopulated at the cost of the cities. All the men who withdraw from high society are useful just because of their withdrawal, since its vices are the result of its numbers. They are also useful when they can bring life, culture, and the love of their first condition with them into the rural areas. I like to think what benefits Emile and Sophie, in their simple home, may spread about them, what a stimulus they may give to the country, how they may revive the zeal of the unlucky villagers. I imagine seeing the population increasing, the land coming under cultivation, the earth clothed with fresh beauty, many workers and plenteous crops transforming fieldwork into festivities, cries of joy and blessings rising from the midst of the rustic games that the lovable couple has revived. Men say the golden age is a fable. It always will be for those whose feelings and taste are depraved. People do not really regret the golden age, for they do nothing to restore it. What is needed for its restoration? One thing only, and that is an impossibility; we must love the golden age." Image of number 10
1723 "Already it seems to be reviving around Sophie's home; together you will only complete what her worthy parents have begun. But, dear Emile, you must not let so pleasant a life give you a distaste for sterner duties if ever they are laid upon you. Remember that the Romans sometimes left the plough to become consul. If the prince or the state calls you to the service of your country, leave all to fulfil the honourable duties of a citizen in the post assigned to you. If you find that duty onerous, there is a sure and honourable means of escaping from it: do your duty so honestly that it will not long be left in your hands. Moreover, you need not fear the difficulties of such a test; while there are men of our own time, they will not summon you to serve the state." Image of number 10
1724 Why may I not paint the return of Emile to Sophie and the end of their love, or rather the beginning of their wedded love! A love founded on esteem which will last with life itself, on virtues which will not fade with fading beauty, on fitness of character which gives a charm to intercourse, and prolongs to old age the delights of early love. But all such details would be pleasing without being useful, and so far I have not permitted myself to give pleasing details unless I thought they would be useful. Will I abandon this rule when my task is nearly ended? No, I feel that my pen is weary. Too feeble for such prolonged labors, I would abandon this if it were not so nearly completed; if it is not to be left imperfect it is time it were finished. Image of number 10
1725 At last I see the happy day approaching, the happiest day of Emile's life and my own. I see the crown of my labors; I begin to appreciate their results. The noble pair are united by an unbreakable chain; heart and lips confirm vows that will never be in vain. They are man and wife. When they return from the church, they follow where they are led; they know not where they are, where they are going, or what is happening around them. They hear nothing, they answer at random; their eyes are troubled and they see nothing. Oh, rapture! Oh, human weakness! The feeling of happiness overwhelms man; he is not strong enough to bear it. Image of number 10
1726 There are few people who know how to talk to the newly-married couple. The gloomy propriety of some and the light conversation of others seem to me equally out of place. I would rather their young hearts were left to themselves, to abandon themselves to an agitation which is not without its charm, rather than that they should be so cruelly distressed by a false modesty or annoyed by coarse witticisms which, even if they appealed to them at other times, are surely out of place on such a day. Image of number 10
1727 I see our young people, wrapped in a pleasant languor, paying no attention to what is said. Will I, who desire that they should enjoy all the days of their life, let them lose this precious day? No, I desire that they shall taste its pleasures and enjoy them. I rescue them from the foolish crowd, and walk with them in some quiet place; I recall them to themselves by speaking of them. It is not merely to their ears, but to their hearts that I wish to speak and I know that there is only one subject of which they can think today. Image of number 10
1728 "My children," say I, taking a hand of each, "it is three years since I saw the birth of the pure and vigorous passion which is your happiness today. It has gone on growing; your eyes tell me that it has reached its highest point; it must inevitably decline." My readers can imagine the outbreaks, the anger, the vows of Emile, and the scornful air with which Sophie withdraws her hand from mine; how their eyes protest that they will adore each other till their latest breath. I let them have their way; then I continue. Image of number 10
1729 "I have often thought that if the happiness of love could continue in marriage, we would find a Paradise upon earth. So far this is only a dream; but the dream is not impossible. If we were to measure all that is false, vain, and deceptive in our ideal, all that is pure and true would be found among our married people, and would be found in some degree, however small, in most people. But we can only know the greatness of this happiness when we see it attained to perfection. If we have the skill to preserve and prolong it in ourselves, we shall be doing something far more valuable than we do if we merely glorify it." One does not feel one’s own happiness; one only knows its existence through others; when it is great, it makes us a part of it. If we find that it is greater than anything we have hitherto experienced, we cannot describe it; the words are mere signs; we are happy in the knowledge that the object of our happiness is dearer to us than ourselves. Image of number 10
1730 "My dear children," I continue, "be happy; my greatest pleasure is in your happiness. From this day forth you will be united by ties that no one can break. They will strengthen with time and will give you joy as you grow older. Your happiness will be my happiness; your sorrows will be my sorrows. Your love will always be before me; may you always live in it." I see them happy and I am happy with them. But, dear reader, my work is done. I must leave them to their happiness, which I cannot describe in words. If I could only make the whole world witness their happiness, they would be made happier; but this is impossible. The only thing that remains is to say: "Be happy, my dear friends, and may your happiness be complete." Image of number 10
1731 The almost imperceptible difference between these two hidden impulses is characteristic of a real difference between the two sexes; it is that men are generally less constant than women, and are sooner weary of success in love. A woman foresees man's future inconstancy, and is anxious; it is this which makes her more jealous. When his passion begins to cool she is compelled to pay him the attentions he used to bestow on her for her pleasure. She weeps; it is her turn to humiliate herself, and she is rarely successful. Affection and kind deeds rarely win hearts, and they hardly ever win them back. I return to my prescription against the cooling of love in marriage. Image of number 10
1732 "It is plain and simple," I continue. "It consists in remaining lovers when you are husband and wife." "Indeed," said Emile, laughing at my secret, "we shall not find that hard." Image of number 10
1733 "Perhaps you will find it harder than you think. Please give me time to explain. Ties that we pull on too tightly are soon broken. This is what happens when the marriage bond is subjected to too great a strain. The fidelity imposed by it upon husband and wife is the most sacred of all rights; but it gives to each too great a power over the other. Constraint and love do not go together, and pleasure is not to be had for the asking. Do not blush, Sophie, and do not try to run away. God forbid that I should offend your modesty! But your fate for life is at stake. For so great a cause, permit a conversation between your husband and your father which you would not permit elsewhere. Image of number 10
1734 "It is not so much possession as mastery that people tire of, and affection is often more prolonged with regard to a mistress than a wife. How can people make the tenderest caresses into a duty, and the sweetest pledges of love into a right? It is mutual desire which creates the right, and nature knows no other. The law may restrict this right, but it cannot extend it. The pleasure is so sweet in itself! Should it owe to compulsion the force which it cannot gain from its own charms? No, my children, in marriage the hearts are bound, but the bodies are not enslaved. You owe one another fidelity, but not resignation. Neither of you may give yourself to another, but neither of you belongs to the other except at your own will. Image of number 10
1735 "If it is true, dear Emile, that you want to be your wife's lover, that she should always be your mistress and her own, then be a happy but respectful lover. Obtain everything from love and nothing from duty, and let the slightest favors never be of right but of grace. I know that modesty shuns formal confessions and requires to be overcome; but with delicacy and true love, will the lover ever be mistaken as to the real will? Won't he know it when heart and eyes grant what the lips refuse? May each of two lovers always be master of their person and their caresses; let them have the right to bestow them only at their own will. Remember that even in marriage this pleasure is only lawful when the desire is mutual. Do not be afraid, my children, that this law will keep you apart; on the contrary, it will make both more eager to please, and will prevent satiety. Be true to one another, nature and love will draw you to each other." Image of number 10
1736 At these and similar suggestions, Emile gets angry and begins to protest. Sophie is ashamed, she hides her face behind her fan and says nothing. Perhaps while she is saying nothing, she is the most annoyed. Yet I insist, without mercy. I make Emile blush for his lack of delicacy. I undertake to be surety for Sophie that she will undertake her share of the treaty. I provoke her to speak; you may guess that she will not dare to refute me. Emile anxiously consults the eyes of his young wife; he sees them, through all her confusion, filled with a voluptuous anxiety that reassures him against the dangers of trusting her. He flings himself at her feet, kisses with rapture the hand extended to him, and swears that beyond the fidelity he has already promised, he will renounce all other rights over her. "My dear wife," he says, "be the arbiter of my pleasures like you are already the arbiter of my days and my destiny. Even if your cruelty costs me my life I give over to you my most cherished rights. I wish to owe nothing to your acquiescence, but all to your heart." Image of number 10
1737 Dear Emile, be comforted; Sophie herself is too generous to let you fall a victim to your generosity. Image of number 10
1738 In the evening, when I am about to leave them, I say in the most solemn tone, "Remember both of you, that you are free, that there is no question of spousal rights; believe me, no false deference. Emile will you come home with me? Sophie permits it." Emile in a fury is ready to hit me. "And you, Sophie, what do you say? Shall I take him away?" The little liar, blushing, answers, "Yes." A charming and sweet lie, better than the truth! Image of number 10
1739 The next day. . . Men no longer delight in the picture of bliss; their taste is as much depraved by the corruption of vice as their hearts. They can no longer feel what is touching or perceive what is truly delightful. You who, as a picture of voluptuous joys, see only the happy lovers immersed in pleasure, your picture is very imperfect; you have only its grosser part, the sweetest charms of pleasure are not there. Which of you has seen a young couple, happily married, on the day after their marriage? Their chaste yet languid looks betray the intoxication of the bliss they have enjoyed, the blessed security of innocence, and the delightful certainty that they will spend the rest of their life together. The heart of man can be offered no more rapturous sight; this is the real picture of happiness. You have seen it a hundred times without recognizing it; your hearts are so hard that you cannot love it. Sophie, peaceful and happy, spends the day in the arms of her tender mother; a pleasant resting place after a night spent in the arms of her husband. Image of number 10
1740 The day after I am aware of a slight change. Emile tries to look somewhat vexed; but through this pretence I notice such a tender eagerness, and indeed so much submission, that I do not think there is much amiss. As for Sophie she is gayer than she was yesterday; her eyes are sparkling and she looks very well pleased with herself. She is charming to Emile; she ventures to tease him a little and vexes him still more. Image of number 10
1741 These changes are almost imperceptible, but they do not escape me. I am anxious and I question Emile in private, and I learn that, to his great regret, and in spite of all entreaties, he had had to sleep in a separate bed the previous night. That haughty lady had made haste to assert her right. An explanation takes place. Emile complains bitterly, Sophie laughs; but at last, seeing that Emile is really getting angry, she looks at him with eyes full of tenderness and love, and pressing my hand, she only says these two words, but in a tone that goes to his heart, "Ungrateful man!" Emile is too stupid to understand. But I understand, and I send Emile away and speak to Sophie privately in her turn.
1742 "I see," said I, " the reason for this whim. No one could be more delicate, and no one could use that delicacy so inappropriately. Dear Sophie, do not be anxious. I have given you a man; do not be afraid to treat him as such. You have had the first fruits of his youth; he has not squandered his manhood on anyone else, and he will preserve it a long time for you.
1743 "My dear child, I must explain to you why I said what I did in our conversation of the day before yesterday. Perhaps you only understood it as a way of restraining your pleasures to secure their continuance. But, Sophie, there was another purpose, more worthy of my concerns. When Emile became your husband, he became your head. It is for you to obey; this is what nature wishes. When the wife is like Sophie, it is nevertheless good for the man to be led by her. That is another of nature's laws; and it is to give you as much authority over his heart as his sex gives him over your person that I have made you the arbiter of his pleasures. It will be hard for you, but you will control him if you can control yourself, and what has already happened shows me that this difficult art is not beyond your courage. You will long rule him by love if you make your favours scarce and precious, if you know how to give them value. Do you want to have your husband always at your feet? Keep him at a distance. But let your sternness be the result of modesty not whim; let him find you modest not capricious. Beware that in controlling his love you do not make him doubt your own. Make yourself cherished for your favors and all the more respected for your refusals; let him honor his wife's chastity without having to complain of her coldness.
1744 "It is thus, my child, that he will give you his confidence, he will listen to your opinion, will consult you in his business, and will decide nothing without you. It is thus that you may lead him back to wisdom when he strays, and by gentle persuasion make yourself lovable in order to be useful. It is thus that you can use coquetry in the interest of virtue, and love to the profit of reason.
1745 "Do not think that with all this your art will always serve your purpose. In spite of every precaution pleasures are destroyed by possession, and love above all others. But when love has lasted long enough, a gentle habit takes its place and the charm of confidence succeeds the raptures of passion. Children form a bond between their parents, a bond no less tender and a bond which is sometimes stronger than love itself. When you cease to be Emile's mistress you will be his friend and wife; you will be the mother of his children. Then instead of your first reticence let there be the fullest intimacy between you. No more separate beds, no more refusals, no more caprices. Become so truly his better half that he can no longer do without you, and if he must leave you, let him feel that he is far from himself. You have made the charms of home life so powerful in your father's home, let them prevail in your own. Every man who is happy at home loves his wife. Remember that if your husband is happy in his home, you will be a happy wife.
1746 "For the present, do not be too hard on your lover. He deserves more consideration; he will be offended by your fears. Do not be concerned for his health at the cost of his happiness, and enjoy your own happiness. You must neither anticipate disgust nor repulse desire; you must not refuse for the sake of refusing but only to add to the value of your favors."
1747 Then, taking her back to Emile, I say to her young husband, "One must bear the yoke that one has imposed upon oneself. Make yourselves merit the lightening of that yoke. Above all, honor the graces, and do not think that sulkiness will make you more lovable." Peace is soon made, and everybody can guess its terms. The treaty is signed with a kiss, after which I say to my pupil, "Dear Emile, all his life through a man needs a guide and counsellor. So far I have done my best to fulfil that duty; my lengthy task is now ended, and another will undertake this duty. Today I abdicate the authority which you gave me; from now on Sophie is your guardian."
1748 Little by little the first raptures subside and they can peacefully enjoy the delights of their new condition. Happy lovers, worthy husband and wife! To do honor to their virtues, to paint their felicity, would require the history of their lives. How many times, while contemplating in them my life's work, I feel myself seized with a delight that makes my heart beat with joy! How often I take their hands in mine, blessing providence and letting out ardent sighs! How often I kiss their clasped hands! How often their tears of joy fall upon mine! They are touched by my joy and they share my raptures. Their worthy parents see their own youth renewed in that of their children; they begin to live, as it were, afresh in them; or rather they perceive, for the first time, the true value of life. They curse their former wealth, which prevented them from enjoying so charming a fate when they were young. If there is such a thing as happiness upon earth, it is in our home that one must seek it.
1749 One morning a few months later Emile enters my room and embraces me, saying, "My teacher, congratulate your child; he hopes soon to have the honor of being a father. What a responsibility we will have, how much we will need you! Yet God forbid that I should let you educate the son after having educated the father. God forbid that so sweet and holy a task should be fulfilled by any but myself, even if I were able to make as good a choice for my child as was made for me! But continue to be the teacher of the young teachers. Counsel us, govern us. We will be easily led; as long as I live I will need you. I need you more than ever now that my functions as a man begin. You have fulfilled your own function; help me to follow your example. And now it is time for you to take a rest."
       
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1 I began this disorderly and almost endless collection of scattered thoughts and observations in order to gratify a good mother who knows how to think. At first I had planned a memoir of only a few pages, but my subject carried me along in spite of myself, and imperceptibly the memoir became a kind of treatise, too large indeed for what it contained but too small for the matter with which it deals. For a long time I hesitated whether to publish it or not, and I have often felt while working upon it that writing a few brochures does not teach one how to compose a book. After vain attempts to improve it, I believe I must give it over as it is, since it is important to direct public attention to this subject. And whenever my ideas are bad, if I make others come up with good ones I will not have completely wasted my time. A man who from a solitary retreat casts his writings before the public without any one to advertise them, without any party to defend them, without even knowing what is thought and said about them, need not fear that if he is wrong people will accept his errors without examining them.
2 I shall say very little about the value of a good education, nor will I stop to prove that the customary method of education is bad. Thousands of others have done this before and I do not wish to fill my book with things that everyone knows. I will merely state that since the beginning of time there has been a continual outcry against the established practice without anyone suggesting how to propose a better one. The literature and science of our century tend to destroy rather than to build up. When we censor others we take on the tone of a pedagogue. But to propose something new we must adopt a different tone, one less gratifying to the philosopher's pride. In spite of all those books whose only aim, so they say, is public utility, the most useful of all arts -- the art of training men -- is still neglected. Even after Locke's book my subject was completely new, and I strongly fear that it will still be so after mine.
3 We know nothing of childhood, and with our mistaken notions the further we advance the further we go astray. The wisest writers devote themselves to what a man ought to know without asking what a child is capable of learning. They are always looking for the man in the child without considering what he is before he becomes a man. It is the latter study to which I have applied myself the most; so that if my method is unrealistic and unsound at least one can profit from my observations. I may be greatly mistaken as to what ought to be done, but I think I have clearly perceived the material that is to be worked upon. Begin thus by making a more careful study of your pupils, for it is clear that you know nothing about them. If you read this book with that end in view I think you will find that it is not entirely useless.
4 With regard to what will be called the systematic portion of the book, which is nothing more than the course of nature, it is probably this part that will derail the reader the most. It is also without a doubt the part for which I will be criticized, and perhaps my critics will not be wrong. They will say that this is not so much a treatise on education as the dreams of a visionary about education. What can I do? I have not written down other people's ideas of education but my own. I do not see things like other men; for a long time people have reproached me for this. But is it within my power to give myself other eyes, or to adopt other ideas? No. It is within my power to avoid loosing myself in my own views and to not think myself wiser than everyone else. I am not responsible for changing other people's sentiments but for distrusting my own. This is all I can do, and this I have done. If I occasionally adopt an assertive tone, it is not to impose it on the reader but to speak to him or her the way I think. Why should I suggest as doubtful that which is not a matter of doubt to myself? I say exactly what comes into my mind.
5 By freely expressing my own sentiment I have so little idea of claiming authority that I always give my reasons. This way people may weigh and judge them for themselves. But while I do not wish to be stubborn in defending my ideas, I think it my duty to put them forward. For the principles with regard to which I differ from other writers are not matters of indifference. We must know whether they are true or false, for on them depends the happiness or the misery of the human race.
6 Propose what is feasible, they repeatedly tell me. It is as if I were being told to propose what people are doing already, or at least to propose some good which mixes well with the existing wrongs. Such a project is in certain ways much more unrealistic than my own, for in that mix the good is spoiled and the bad is not improved. I would rather follow exactly the established method than adopt a better method halfway. There would be fewer contradictions in man, for man cannot aim at the same time at two opposite goals. Fathers and mothers, what is feasible is what you are willing to do. Must I answer for your will?
7 In any kind of project, there are two things to consider: first, the absolute goodness of the project; second , the facility of its execution.
8 With regard to the first of these, in order that the project be acceptable and practical in itself, it suffices that what is good about it be in the nature of the thing -- here, for example, that the proposed education be suitable to man and well adapted to the human heart.
9 The second consideration depends upon the given relationships of certain situations. These relationships are accidental and therefore not necessary and can vary infinitely. Thus one kind of education would be practicable in Switzerland and not in France; another would be right for the middle classes but not for the nobility. The project can be carried out with more or less success according to a multitude of circumstances, and its results can only be determined by its special application to one country or another, to this class or that. Yet all these particular applications are not essential to my subject, and they form no part of my scheme. Others can concern themselves with them if they want, each for the country or the state they have in view. It is enough for me that wherever men are born one can do with them what I propose, and having done with them what I propose, one would have done what is best for them and for others. If I do not fulfill this pledge I am wrong, no doubt; but if I do fulfil it, it is also wrong to ask more of me. For that is all I have promised.
10 Everything is good as it leaves the hands of the author of things, everything degenerates in the hands of man. He forces one soil to nourish the products of another, one tree to bear the fruits of another. He mixes and confuses the climates, the elements, the seasons. He mutilates his dog, his horse, his slave. He turns everything upside down, he disfigures everything, he loves deformities, monsters. He wants nothing as nature made it, not even man himself. For him man must be trained like a saddle- horse; he must be shaped according to the fashion, like trees in his garden.
11 Without this everything would be even worse; our species was not made to remain only half-finished. Under existing conditions a man left to himself from birth would be the most disfigured of all. Prejudice, authority, necessity, example -- all the social conditions in which we find ourselves submerged -- would stifle nature in him and put nothing in its place. Human nature would be like a seedling that chance had sown in the midst of the highway, bent this way and that and soon crushed by the passers-by.
12 It is you whom I address, tender, foresighted mother note 1] -- you who know how to stay away from the busy highway and protect the growing seedling from the impact of human opinion! Cultivate and water the young plant before it dies; its fruit will one day be your delight. Early on, form an enclosure around your child's soul. Someone else can mark its circumference, but you alone must build the fence. note 2]
13 Plants are fashioned by cultivation, man by education. If a man were born tall and strong, his size and strength would be of no good to him until he had learned to use them; they would even harm him by preventing others from wanting to assist him. note 3] Left to himself he would die of misery before he knew his needs. We lament the helplessness of infancy; we fail to perceive that the human race would have perished had not man begun by being a child.
14 We are born weak, we need strength; we are born lacking everything, we need aid; we are born stupid, we need judgment. All that we lack at birth and that we need when we are grown is given by education.
15 This education comes to us from nature, from men, or from things. The inner growth of our organs and faculties is the education of nature, the use we learn to make of this growth is the education of men, and what we gain by our experience of our surroundings is the education of things.
16 Thus we are each taught by three masters. The pupil in whom their diverse lessons conflict is poorly raised and will never be in harmony with himself; he in whom they all agree on the same points and tend towards the same ends goes straight to his goal and lives consistently. The latter is well raised.
17 Now of these three factors in education, the education of nature is wholly beyond our control; that of things is only partly in our power; the education of men is the only one of which we are truly the master. And even here our power is largely illusory, for who can hope to direct every word and action of all those who surround a child?
18 As much therefore as education is an art, it is almost impossible that it succeed, since the coordination necessary to its success depends on no one person. All one can do by one's own efforts is to more or less approach the goal. One needs luck to attain it.
19 What is this goal? It is the goal of nature, that has just been proved. Since the coordination of the three educations is necessary to their perfection, the two that we can control must follow the lead of that which is beyond our control. Perhaps this word Nature has too vague a meaning. Let us try to define it.
20 Nature, we are told, is merely habit. note 4] What does this signify? Are there not habits formed under compulsion, habits which never stifle nature? Such, for example, is the habit of plants that have had their vertical direction altered. Once given liberty, the plant keeps the shape it was forced into. And yet for all that, the sap has not changed its original direction, and any new growth the plant makes will be vertical. It is the same with the inclinations of man. As long as we stay in the same condition we will keep those inclinations that result from habit and which are the least natural to us. But as soon as the situation changes, habit ceases and nature reasserts itself. Education is certainly only a habit, for there are people who forget or lose their education and others who keep it. Whence comes this difference? If we restrict the name of nature to those habits that conform to nature, we can spare ourselves any confusion.
21 We are born sensitive and from our birth onwards we are affected in various ways by the objects that surround us. As soon as we have, so to speak, consciousness of our sensations, we are disposed to seek out or shun the things that cause them, at first because they are pleasant or unpleasant, then because they suit us or not, and finally because of judgments of them formed by means of the ideas of happiness and goodness which reason gives us. These tendencies gain strength and permanence as we become more sensitive and more enlightened. But once they are constrained by our habits, they become more or less corrupted by our opinions. Before this change they are what I call nature within us.
22 It is thus to these primitive dispositions that everything should be related, and that would be possible if our three modes of education merely differed from one another. But what can be done when they are opposed, when instead of raising a man for himself one wishes to raise him for others? Then harmony becomes impossible. Forced to combat either nature or social institutions, you must choose between making a man and making a citizen, for you cannot do both at the same time.
23 All partial societies, when they are tightly knit and well united, are alienated from the larger society. Every patriot acts coldly towards foreigners; they are only men, and nothing to him. note 5] This defect is inevitable but of little importance. The essential thing is to be good to the people with whom one lives. Abroad, the Spartan was selfish, grasping, and unjust; yet unselfishness, justice, and harmony ruled within his home. Distrust those cosmopolitans who search far in their books for duties that they neglect to fulfil towards those around them. Such philosophers love the Tartars to so as to be spared from loving their neighbours.
24 Natural man is everything for himself. He is the numerical unit, the absolute whole, accountable only to himself or to his own kind. Civil man is only a fractional unit dependent on the denominator, whose value is in his relationship with the whole, that is, the social body. Good social institutions are those that know best how to denature man, to take away his absolute existence in order to give him a relative one, and to transport the "me" into a common unity so that each individual no longer regards himself as one but as a part of the unity and is sensitive only to the whole. A citizen of Rome was neither Caius nor Lucius, he was a Roman; he even loved his country better than his life. Regulus claimed he was a Carthaginian, as having become the property of his masters. In his status of foreigner he refused to sit in the Roman Senate; a Carthaginian had to order him to do so. He was indignant when they tried to save his life. He conquered, and returned in triumph to die by torture. There is no similarity between Regulus and the men of our own day.
25 The Spartan Pedaretes presented himself for admission to the council of the Three Hundred and was rejected; he went away rejoicing that there were three hundred Spartans better than himself. I suppose he was in earnest; there is no reason to doubt it. That was a citizen.
26 A Spartan mother had five sons in the army and awaited news of the battle. A Helot arrived; trembling she asked his news. "Your five sons have been killed." "Vile slave, was that what I asked you?" "We have won the victory." She ran to the temple to give thanks to the gods. That was a citizen.
27 He who in the civil order wishes to preserve the primacy of the sentiments of nature does not know what he wants. Always in contradiction with himself, always floating between his wishes and his duties, he will be neither a man nor a citizen. He will be good neither for himself nor for others. He will be a man of our day -- a Frenchman, an Englishman, a bourgeois. He will be nothing.
28 To be something, to be oneself, and always at one with oneself, one must act as one speaks. One must be decisive about what course to take and must follow that course with vigour and persistence. I am waiting to be shown this prodigy to decide whether he is man or citizen, or how he manages to be both.
29 From these necessarily opposite aims come two contrary forms of education -- one is public and common, the other individual and domestic.
30 Do you wish to get an idea of public education? Read Plato's Republic. Those who merely judge books by their titles take this for a treatise on politics, but it is the finest treatise on education ever written.
31 When people wish to go back to a land of fantasies they cite Plato's institutions. But had Lycurgus put forth his system only in writing, I would have found it to be far more impracticable than Plato's. Plato sought only to purify man's heart, whereas Lycurgus denatured it.
32 Public institutions do not and cannot exist, for where there is no longer a homeland there can no longer be citizens. These two words, homeland and citizen, ought to be erased from modern languages. I know very well the reason for this but I do not want to discuss it here; it has nothing to do with my subject.
33 I do not consider our ridiculous colleges note 6] as public institutions. Nor do I count the education of society, for this education, facing two ways at once, achieves nothing. It is only fit to turn out double men, always seeming to relate everything to others while actually relating nothing to anyone but themselves. These forms of display are common to everybody and deceive no one. They are so much wasted effort.
34 From these contradictions arise the one which we experience ceaselessly within ourselves. Drawn this way by nature and that way by men, forced to divide ourselves between divergent impulses, we make a compromise and reach neither goal. Thus buffeted and floating throughout the course of our lives, we end it without having been able to be in harmony with ourselves -- and without having done anything good either for ourselves or for others.
35 There remains finally domestic education or the education of nature. But what will a man raised uniquely for himself become for others? If perhaps the proposed double aim could be resolved into one, then by removing man's contradictions we would remove a great obstacle to his happiness. To judge you must see this man full-grown; you must have observed his inclinations, watched his progress, followed his steps. In a word, natural man would have to be known. When you have read this work, I think you will have made some progress in this research.
36 What must be done to form this rare man? Without a doubt, very much: it is to prevent anything from being done. When one wishes to go against the wind one can tack; but to keep one's position in a stormy sea one must cast anchor. Beware, young pilot, lest your boat slip its cable or drag its anchor before you know it.
37 In the social order where each has his own place a man must be educated for it. If an individual formed for a particular social position happens to leave that position, he is fit for nothing else. His education is only useful when fate agrees with his parents' choice. If not, education harms the student, if only by the prejudices it has given him. In Egypt, where the son was compelled to adopt his father's calling, education had at least a settled aim. But with us, where only the social ranks remain and the men who form them are constantly changing, no one knows if raising one's son for his own class may actually be working against him.
38 In the natural order since men are all equal their common vocation is that of man. And whoever is well-raised for that calling cannot badly fulfill anything that relates to it. Whether my pupil is destined for the army, the church, or the law, is of little import. Before his parents chose a vocation for him, nature called him to human life. Life is the trade I want to teach him. Leaving my hands I grant you he will be neither a magistrate, a soldier, nor a priest; he will be first of all a man. All that a man ought to be he will learn as quickly as another. In vain can fortune change his station; he will always be in his right place. " Ocupavi te, fortuna, atque cepi; omnes-que aditus tuos interclusi, ut ad me aspirare non posses."
39 Our true study is that of the human condition. Those who can best endure the good and evil of life are in my view the best educated. Hence it follows that true education consists less in precept than in practice. We begin to learn when we begin to live; our education begins with ourselves. Our first teacher is our nurse. Moreover this word "educatio" had with the ancients another meaning that we no longer give it -- it meant " nurture." " Educit obstetrix," says Varro. " Educat nutrix, instituit pedagogus, docet magister." Thus, education, discipline, and instruction are three things as different in their purpose as the nurse, the preceptor, and the master. But these distinctions are undesirable and the child should only follow one guide.
40 We must therefore look at the general rather than the particular, and consider our pupil as man in the abstract, man exposed to all the accidents of human life. If men were born attached to the soil of one country, if one season lasted all the year round, if every man's fortune were so firmly grasped that he could never lose it, then the established method of education would be good in certain ways: the child raised for his own place in society would never leave it, and he would never be exposed to the difficulties of another. But given the mobility of human affairs, the restless and uneasy spirit of this century which turns everything upside down with each generation, can we conceive a more senseless plan than to raise a child as if he will never leave his room, as if he will always have his servants about him? If the poor creature takes a single step on the ground, if he descends the social ladder by a single rung, he is lost. This is not teaching him to bear pain; it is training him to feel it.
41 People think only of preserving their child's life; this is not enough. He must be taught to preserve himself as a man, to bear the blows of fate, to brave wealth and poverty, to live if necessary among the snows of Iceland or on the scorching rocks of Malta. In vain you guard against death: he will nevertheless have to die, and even if you do not kill him with your precautions, they are ill-conceived. It is less a question of keeping him from dying than of making him live. To live is not to breathe but to act. It is to make use of our organs, our senses, our faculties, of all the parts of ourselves which give us the sentiment of our existence. The man who has lived the most is not he who has counted the most years but he who has most felt life. A man may be buried at a hundred who has been dead since his birth. He would have gained more by dying young: at least he would have lived up until that time.
42 All our wisdom consists of servile prejudices; our customs consist in subjection, discomfort, constraint. Civil man is born, lives, and dies in slavery. At his birth the infant is bound up in swaddling clothes; at his death he is nailed down in his coffin. As long as he keeps a human form he is enchained by our institutions.
43 It is said that many midwives profess to improve the shape of the infant's head by rubbing, and they are allowed to do this. Our heads are not good enough as God made them; they must be moulded outside by the nurse and inside by the philosophers. The Caribs are better off than we are.
44 The child has hardly left the mother's womb, it has hardly begun to move and stretch its limbs, when it is given new bonds. It is wrapped in swaddling bands, laid down with its head fixed, its legs stretched out, and its arms by its sides; it is wound round with linen and bandages of all sorts so that it cannot move. The child is fortunate if it has room to breathe and if it is laid on its side so that any water which should flow from its mouth can escape; for it is not free to turn its head on one side for this purpose.
45 The new-born child needs to stir and stretch his limbs to free them from the stiffness resulting from being curled up so long. His limbs are stretched indeed, but he is not allowed to move them. Even the head is confined by a cap. One would think they were afraid the child should look as if he were alive.
46 As a result the internal impulses which should lead to growth find an insurmountable obstacle in the way of the necessary movements. The child exhausts his strength in vain struggles, or he gains strength very slowly. He was freer and less constrained in the womb; he has gained nothing by birth.
47 The inaction, the constraint to which the child's limbs are subjected, can only hinder the circulation of the blood and bodily fluids; it can only limit the child's growth in size and strength and injure its constitution. In places where such absurd precautions are unknown, the men are tall, strong, and well-made. The countries where children are swaddled swarm with hunch-backs, the lame, the bowlegged, the arthritic, and people with every kind of deformity. In our fear that the body should become deformed by free movement, we hasten to deform it by putting it in a press. We willfully make our children crippled by preventing them from disabling themselves.
48 Might not such a cruel constraint influence their humor as well as their temperament? Their first feeling is one of sadness and of pain. They are confronted by obstacles with each necessary movement. More miserable than a criminal in chains, they make vain efforts, they become angry, they cry. Their first words you say are tears. I believe it. You thwart them from birth. The first gifts they receive from you are chains, the first treatment they experience is torture. Having nothing that is free but their voice, why wouldn't they use it to complain? They cry from the pains that you give them. Thus fettered you would cry louder than they.
49 Whence comes this unreasonable custom? From an unnatural practice. Since mothers despise their primary duty and do not wish to nurse their own children, they have had to entrust them to mercenary women. These women thus become mothers to a stranger's children, who by nature mean so little to them that they seek only to spare themselves trouble. A child unswaddled would need constant watching; well swaddled it is cast into a corner and its cries are ignored. As long as the nurse's negligence escapes notice, as long as the nursling does not break its arms or legs, what matter if it dies or becomes a weakling for life? Its limbs are kept safe at the expense of its body, and if anything goes wrong it is not the nurse's fault.
50 These gentle mothers, having gotten rid of their babies, devote themselves gaily to the pleasures of the town. Do they know how their children are being treated in the villages? If the nurse is at all busy, the child is hung up on a nail like a bundle of clothes and is left crucified while the nurse goes leisurely about her business. All those who have been found in this position were purple in the face. Their tightly bandaged chest prevented the circulation of the blood, and it went to the head. The patient was considered very quiet because he had not strength to cry. How long a child might survive under such conditions I do not know, but it could not be long. That, I suppose, is one of the chief advantages of swaddling clothes.
51 It is claimed that infants left free would assume faulty positions and make movements which might injure the proper development of their limbs. This is one of the vain rationalizations of our false wisdom which experience has never confirmed. Out of the multitude of children who grow up with the full use of their limbs among nations wiser than ourselves, you never find one who hurts himself or maims himself; their movements are too feeble to be dangerous, and when they assume an injurious position, pain warns them to change it.
52 We have not yet decided to swaddle our kittens and puppies; are they any the worse for this neglect? Children are heavier, I admit, but in proportion they are also weaker. They can scarcely move, how could they hurt themselves? If you lay them on their backs, they will lie there till they die, like turtles, unable to turn itself over.
53 Not content with having ceased to suckle their children, women no longer even wish to do it. The consequence is natural. Once motherhood becomes a burden means are found to avoid it. They will make their work useless in order to begin it over again, and they thus distort, to the prejudice of the species, the charm which was given them for its increase. This practice, along with other causes of depopulation, forebodes the coming fate of Europe. The sciences, arts, philosophy and customs that are generated will not be long in reducing Europe to a desert. It will be the home of wild beasts, and its inhabitants will hardly have changed for the worse.
54 I have sometimes watched the little manipulations of young wives who pretend that they wish to nurse their own children. They take care to be dissuaded from this whim. They contrive that husbands, doctors, note 7] and especially mothers should intervene. A man who dared to let his wife nurse her own baby would be lost; they would make him out a murderer who wanted to be rid of her. Prudent husbands, one must sacrifice paternal affection to domestic peace. Luckily there are women in the countryside who are more conscientious than your wives. You will be even more lucky if the time your wives thus gain is not intended for another than yourself!
55 There can be no doubt about a wife's duty, but considering the contempt in which it is held, it is doubtful whether it is not just as good for the child to be suckled by a stranger. This is a question for the doctors to settle, and in my opinion they have settled it according to the women's wishes. For my own part, I think it is better that if the child has any new ills to fear from the same blood out of which he was formed, he should suck the breast of a healthy nurse rather than of a spoiled mother.
56 However, should the question be considered only from the physical side? Does not the child need a mother's care as much as her milk? Other women, or even other animals, may give him the milk she denies him, but there is no substitute for a mother's love. The woman who nurses another's child in place of her own is a bad mother; how will she be a good nurse? She could become one, though slowly. For that it would be necessary for habit to change nature, and the child poorly cared for could perish a hundred times before his nurse had developed a mother's tenderness for him.
57 And this affection, when developed, has its drawbacks, which should make any feeling woman afraid to put her child out to nurse. Is she prepared to divide her mother's rights, or rather to abdicate them, in favour of a stranger? to see her child loving another more than herself? to feel that the affection he retains for his own mother is a favour, while his love for his foster-mother is a duty? For is not some affection due where there has been a mother's care?
58 To remove this difficulty, children are taught to look down on their nurses, to treat them as mere servants. When their task is completed the child is withdrawn or the nurse is dismissed. By receiving her badly, the parents discourage her from coming to see her nurseling. After a few years the child doesn't see her and knows nothing of her. The mother who expects to take her place and to repair neglect with cruelty deceives herself. Instead of making an affectionate son out of a denatured nurseling, she is teaching him ingratitude; she is teaching him to despise at a later day the mother who bore him just as he now despises his nurse.
59 How I would I insist on this point if it were not so discouraging to keep hammering at useful subjects! More depends on this than one thinks. If you wish to restore all men to their primary duties, begin with the mothers. The results will surprise you. Everything follows from this first deprivation: the whole moral order is disturbed, nature is quenched in every breast, the home becomes gloomy, the spectacle of a young family no longer stirs the husband's love and the stranger's reverence. The mother whose children are out of sight is less respected; there is no home life; the ties of nature are not strengthened by those of habit; fathers, mothers, children, brothers, and sisters cease to exist. They hardly know each other. How could they love one another? Each one thinks only of himself. When the home is only a sad solitude, one must go elsewhere to be gay.
60 But when mothers deign to nurse their own children, then morals will reforms themselves, natural feeling will revive in every heart, the state will be repopulated. This first point, this point alone, will bring everything together. The attractions of domestic life are the best antidote for bad morals. The noisy play of children, which one assumes to be bothersome, becomes agreeable; the mother and the father become more necessary, more dear to each other; the conjugal bonds are tightened. When the family is lively and animated domestic cares become the most cherished occupation of the wife and the sweetest amusement of the husband. Thus from this one corrected abuse would result a general reform; soon nature would have regained all of its rights. Once women become mothers again, men will become husbands and fathers.
61 A superfluous speech! When we are sick of worldly pleasures we do not return to the pleasures of the home. Women have ceased being mothers -- they will no longer be and do not wish to be. Even if they wanted to they hardly could. Today the contrary custom is established. Each would have to overcome the opposition of those who approach her and who are leagued together against the example which some have never given and others do not desire to follow.
62 Yet there are still a few young women of natural goodness who on this point dare brave the empire of fashion and the clamors of their sex and, with virtuous boldness, do fulfill this sweet duty that nature imposes on them. May their number increase from the attraction of the benefits destined for those who do so! Based on consequences given by simple reasoning and upon observations I have never seen disputed, I dare promise these worthy mothers the firm and steadfast affection of their husbands, the truly filial love of their children, the esteem and respect of the public, easy pregnancies without accident or misfortune, firm and vigorous health, and finally the pleasure of one day seeing their daughters follow their example and being cited as an example to the daughters of others.
63 No mother, no child. Between them their duties are reciprocal, and if they are poorly fulfilled by the one they will be neglected by the other. The child should love his mother before he knows that he should. If the voice of instinct is not strengthened by habit and care, it will die in the early years and the heart will die, so to speak, before being born. Here we are already stepping away from nature.
64 One also leaves nature by an opposite route when instead of neglecting a mother's care a woman carries it to excess. This is when she makes an idol of her child, when she augments and nurtures his weakness in order to prevent him from feeling it, and when hoping to protect him from the laws of nature she removes from him any painful impact -- without thinking to what extent she is preserving him for a moment from a few inconveniences only to accumulate accidents and perils later on, and to what extent it is a barbarous precaution to add the weakness of childhood to a mature man's burdens. Thetis, according to the fable, plunged her son in the waters of Styx to make him invulnerable. This allegory is beautiful and clear. The cruel mothers I speak of do otherwise: by plunging their children into softness, they prepare them for suffering, they open their pores to every kind of ill which they will not fail to be a victim of when they grow up.
65 Observe nature, follow the route that it traces for you. Nature exercises children continually, it hardens their temperament by all kinds of difficulties, it teaches them early the meaning of pain and sorrow. Teething gives them fevers, sharp colics bring on convulsions, long coughing suffocates them, worms torment them, plethora corrupts their blood, various leavens ferment it and cause dangerous eruptions. Almost all of the first age is sickness and danger: one half of the children who are born die before their eighth year. The tests passed, the infant has gained strength, and as soon as he can make use of his life its principle becomes more secure.
66 This is the law of nature. Why would you contradict it? Do you not see that in your efforts to improve upon its work you are destroying it, that you impede the effect of its aims? To do from without what she does within is according to you to increase the danger twofold. On the contrary, it is the way to avert it. Experience shows that children delicately raised are more likely to die. Provided we do not overdo it, there is less risk in using their strength than in sparing it. Accustom them therefore to the hardships they will have to face; train them to endure extremes of temperature, climate, and condition, hunger, thirst, and weariness. Dip them in the waters of Styx. Before bodily habits are acquired you may teach what habits you will without danger. But once habits are established any change becomes perilous. A child will bear changes which a man cannot bear. The muscles of the one are soft and flexible and take whatever direction you give them without any effort. The muscles of the grown man are harder and they only change their accustomed mode of action when subjected to violence. One can thus make a child robust without risking his life or health; and even if there were some risk, one should not hesitate. Since risks are inseparable from human life, can we do better than face them at a time when they can do the least harm?
67 A child's worth increases with his years. To his personal value must be added the cost of the care bestowed upon him; to the loss of his life is joined in him the sentiment of death. It is therefore above all of the future that we must think in watching over his conservation; it is against the ills of childhood that he must be armed even before he gets there. For if the value of life increases until the child reaches an age when he can be useful, is it not crazy to spare some suffering in infancy only to multiply his pain when he reaches the age of reason? Are those the lessons of the master?
68 The fate of man is to suffer at all times. Even the effort to conserve himself is attached to pain. In infancy one is lucky to know only physical ills, ills much less cruel, much less painful, than the others and much less frequently than they to make us give up on life. One does not kill oneself over the pains of gout; it is only the pains of the soul that produce such despair. We pity the sufferings of childhood; we should pity ourselves. Our worst sorrows are of our own making.
69 In childbirth the infant cries; his early infancy is spent in crying. Sometimes we bustle about, we caress him in order to pacify him; at other times we threaten him, we hit him in order to make him be quiet. We do what pleases him, or we insist that he do what pleases us. Either we submit to his whims or subject him to our own. There is no middle way: he must give orders or receive them. Thus his earliest ideas are those of domination or servitude. Before knowing how to speak he commands; before knowing how to act he obeys; and sometimes we chastise him before he can know his faults or even commit them. It is thus that early on we pour into his young heart passions that we later attribute to nature, and that after having taken pains to make him evil we complain of having found him so.
70 A child passes six or seven years this way in the hands of women, the victim of their caprice or his own. And after having made him to learn this or that -- that is to say after having burdened his memory with words that he cannot understand or with things that are good for nothing -- after having stifled what is natural in him with passions that have been created, we give over this artificial being into the hands of a tutor. The tutor continues to develop these artificial germs that he found already formed and teaches the child everything except how to know himself, how to decide for himself, how to live and make himself happy. Finally when this child -- both a slave and a tyrant, full of knowledge but lacking all sense, equally debilitated in body and soul -- is thrown into the world, by showing his ineptitude, his pride and all his vices he makes us deplore human misery and perversity. We are wrong. This is a man based on our fantasies. One based on nature is made differently.
71 Do you wish, then, that he keep his original form? Watch over him from the moment he comes into the world. As soon as he is born take possession of him and do not leave him till he is a man; you will never succeed otherwise. Just as the real nurse is the mother, the real teacher is the father. Let them agree in the ordering of their functions as well as in their system; let the child pass from one to the other. He will be better educated by a sensible though limited father than by the cleverest teacher in the world. For zeal will make up for lack of knowledge better than knowledge for lack of zeal.
72 But business, jobs, duties. . . Duties indeed! Does a father's duty come last?_ It is not surprising that the man whose wife despises the duty of suckling her child should himself despise the child's education. There is no more charming picture than that of family life; but when one feature is lacking the whole is marred. If the mother is too delicate to nurse her child, the father will be too busy to teach him. Their children, scattered about in schools, convents, and colleges, will carry their love for their paternal home elsewhere, or rather they will form the habit of caring for nothing. Brothers and sisters will scarcely know each other; when they are together in company they will behave as strangers. When there is no confidence between relations, when the familiar society ceases to give favour to life, its place is soon usurped by bad morals. Is there any man so stupid that he cannot see how all this hangs together?
73 When a father begets children and provides a living for them he has done but a third of his task. He owes human beings to his species, social men to society, citizens to the state. A man who can pay this threefold debt and neglects to do so is guilty, more guilty, perhaps, if he pays it in part than when he neglects it entirely. He who cannot fulfil the duties of a father has no right to be a father. Neither poverty, work, nor human respect excuse a man from supporting his children and raising them himself. Readers, you can believe me. I predict that anyone who has visceral feelings and neglects such sacred duties will long weep bitter tears and will never be consoled.
74 But what does this rich man do, this father of a family, who is so busy and forced, according to him, to abandon his children? He pays another man to fulfil those duties which are his alone. Venal soul! Do you expect to purchase a second father for your child? Do not deceive yourself; it is not even a master you have hired for him, it is a flunkey. He soon will create a second one.
75 There is much discussion about the qualities of a good tutor. My first requirement, and it implies many more, is that he should not be a man who can be bought. There are callings so great that they cannot be undertaken for money without showing our unfitness for them; such callings are those of the soldier and the teacher. "But who must train my child?" I have just told you, you should do it yourself. "I cannot." You cannot! Then you must make a friend. I see no other resource.
76 A tutor! What a sublime soul . . . In truth to make a man one must either be a father or more than a man. It is this function you would calmly hand over to mercenaries.
77 The more one thinks about it the more one can see the difficulties. The tutor must have been trained for his pupil and his servants must have been trained for their master, so that all who come near him may have received the impression that they must communicate with him. Thus one must pass from education to education I know not how far. How can a child be well educated by one who has not been well educated himself?
78 Is this rare mortal impossible to find? I do not know. In these times of degradation who knows the height of virtue to which man's soul may attain? But let us assume that this prodigy has been found. It is in considering what he should do that we will see what he can be. What I think I see in advance is that the father who realizes the value of a good tutor will contrive to do without one, for it will be harder to find one than to become such a tutor himself. Does he then want to find a friend? If he should raise his son to be one he need search no further and nature herself will have done half the work.
79 Someone whose rank alone is known to me suggested that I should educate his son. He did me a great honour, no doubt, but far from regretting my refusal, he ought to congratulate himself on my prudence. Had the offer been accepted and had I been mistaken in my method, there would have been an education ruined. Had I succeeded, things would have been worse-his son would have renounced his title and refused to be a prince.
80 I feel too deeply the importance of a tutor's duties and my own unfitness, ever to accept such a post, whoever offered it, and even the claims of friendship would be only an additional motive for my refusal. Few, I think, will be tempted to make me such an offer when they have read this book, and I beg any one who would do so to spare his pains. I have had enough experience of the task to convince myself of my own unfitness, and my circumstances would make it impossible even if my talents were such as to fit me for it. I have thought it my duty to make this public declaration to those who apparently refuse to do me the honour of believing in the sincerity of my determination.
81 Unable to undertake the more useful task, I will at least venture to attempt the easier one. I will follow the example of so many others and take up, not the task, but my pen; and instead of doing the right thing I will try to say it.
82 I know that in such an undertaking the author, always at home among systems that he is spared from putting into practice, painlessly provides nice-sounding precepts that are impossible to follow; and that lacking details and examples, even what is practicable remains unused when its application has not been demonstrated.
83 I have therefore decided to take an imaginary pupil, to assume on my own part the age, health, knowledge, and talents required for the work of his education, to guide him from birth to the point where, having become a man, he needs no other guide but himself. This method seems to me useful for an author who fears that he may be carried away by his visions, for as soon as he departs from common practice he has only to try his method on his pupil; he will soon know, or the reader will know for him, whether he is following the development of the child and the natural growth of the human heart.
84 This is what I have tried to do in all the difficulties that are presented here. Lest my book should be unduly bulky, I have been content to state principles whose truth everyone should sense. But as to the rules which call for proof, I have applied them to Emile or to others, and I have shown, in very great detail, how my theories may be put into practice. Such at least is my plan; the reader must decide whether I have succeeded.
85 At first I have said little about Emile, for my earliest maxims of education, though very different from those generally accepted, are so plain that it is hard for a man of sense to refuse to accept them. But as I advance, my scholar, having been led along differently from yours, is no longer an ordinary child; he needs a regime that is special for him. Then he appears upon the scene more frequently, and towards the end I never lose sight of him for a moment, until, whatever he may say, he hasn't the slightest need for me.
86 I pass over the qualities required in a good tutor; I take them for granted, and assume that I am endowed with them. As you read this book you will see how generous I have been to myself.
87 I will only remark that, contrary to the received opinion, a child's tutor should be young, even as young as a wise man can be. Were it possible, he should become a child himself, that he may become the companion of his pupil and win his confidences by sharing his games. Childhood and ripened age have too little in common for the formation of a really firm affection. Children sometimes flatter old men, but they never love them.
88 People seek a tutor who has already educated one pupil. This is too much; one man can only make one other man; if two were essential to success, what right would he have to undertake the first?
89 With more experience you may know better what to do, but you are less capable of doing it. Whoever has fulfilled this state one time well enough to know all its difficulties does not try to start again, and if he fulfilled it badly the first time it's a bad sign for the second.
90 It is one thing to follow a young man about for four years, another to be his guide for twenty-five. You find a tutor for your son when he is already formed; I want one for him before he is born. Your man may change his pupil every five years, mine will never have but one pupil. You distinguish between the teacher and the tutor. Another piece of folly! Do you make any distinction between the disciple and the pupil? There is only one science to teach children: it is that of the duties of man. This science is one, and, whatever Xenophon may say of the education of the Persians, it cannot be divided. Besides, I prefer to call the man who has this knowledge tutor rather than teacher, since for him it is less a question of instruction than of guidance. He must not give precepts, he must let them be found.
91 If the tutor is to be so carefully chosen, so may he be allowed to choose his pupil, especially when it is a question of proposing a model. This choice cannot depend on the child's genius or character, since I adopt him before he is born, and those things are only known when the task is finished. If I had my choice I would take a child of ordinary mind, such as I assume in my pupil. It is ordinary people who have to be educated, and their education alone can serve as a pattern for the education of their fellows. The others raise themselves no matter what one does.
92 One's native land is not a matter of indifference in the education of men; they are all that they can be only in temperate climates. The disadvantages of extremes are easily seen. A man is not planted in one place like a tree, to stay there the rest of his life, and to pass from one extreme to another you must travel twice as far as he who starts half-way.
93 If the inhabitant of a temperate climate passes in turn through both extremes his advantage is plain, for although he may be changed as much as he who goes from one extreme to the other, he only moves half-way from his natural condition. A Frenchman can live in New Guinea or in Lapland, but a negro cannot live in Tornea nor a Samoyed in Benin. It seems also as if the brain were less perfectly organized in the two extremes. Neither the negroes nor the Laps have the sense of the Europeans. So if I want my pupil to be an inhabitant of the earth I will choose him in the temperate zone, in France for example, rather than elsewhere.
94 In the north with its barren soil men devour much food; in the fertile south they eat little. From this arises another difference which makes the former industrious, the latter contemplative. Society shows us in a single place an image of these differences between the poor and the rich. The first live on unyielding soil, the others on fertile soil.
95 The poor man has no need of education. The education of his own station in life is forced upon him; he can have no other. The education received by the rich man from his own station is least fitted for himself and for society, whereas a natural education should fit a man for any position. Now it is more unreasonable to train a poor man for wealth than a rich man for poverty, for in proportion to their numbers more rich men are ruined and fewer poor men become rich. Let us choose our pupil among the rich; we will at least be sure to have made one more man, whereas the poor can become men on their own.
96 For the same reason I should not be sorry if Emile came of a good family. He will be another victim snatched from prejudice.
97 Emile is an orphan. No matter whether he has father or mother, having undertaken their duties I am invested with their rights. He must honour his parents, but he must obey only me. That is my first or rather my only condition.
98 I must add that there is just one other point arising out of this; we must never be separated except by mutual consent. This clause is essential, and I would have tutor and scholar so inseparable that they should regard their fate as one. If once they perceive the time of their separation drawing near -- the time which must make them strangers to one another, they will become strangers then and there. Each will make his own little world, and both of them being busy in thought with the time when they are no longer be together, they will remain together against their will. The pupil will regard his tutor as the sign and plague of childhood, the tutor will regard his scholar as a heavy burden which he longs to be rid of. Both will be looking forward to the time when they will part, and as there was never any real affection between them, one will have very little vigilance, the other very little docility.
99 But when they consider they must always live together, they must love one another, and in this way they will become dear to one another. The pupil will not be ashamed to follow as a child the friend who will be with him in manhood; the tutor will an interest in the efforts whose fruits he will harvest, and the merit he is cultivating in his pupil is a fund that he will profit from in his old age.
100 This agreement made beforehand assumes a normal birth, a well-formed, vigorous and healthy child. A father has no choice, and should have no preference within the limits of the family God has given him; all his children are equally his children and he owes them all the same care and affection. Crippled or not, languid or robust, each of them is a trust for which he is responsible to the hand from which it has been given, and marriage is a contract made with nature as well as between spouses.
101 But anyone who undertakes a duty not imposed upon him by nature must secure beforehand the means for its fulfillment; otherwise, he makes himself accountable even for what he could not do. If you take the care of a sickly, unhealthy child, you become a sick nurse, not a tutor. To preserve a useless life you are wasting the time which should be spent in increasing its value; you risk the sight of a despairing mother reproaching you for the death of a child who ought to have died long ago.
102 I would not undertake the care of a feeble, sickly child, even if he should live for eighty years. I do not want a pupil who is useless alike to himself and others, one whose sole business is to keep himself alive, one whose body is always a hindrance to the training of his mind. If I vainly lavish my care upon him, what can I do but double the loss to society by robbing it of two men instead of one? Let another tend this weakling for me; I am quite willing, I approve his charity, but I myself have no gift for such a task. I could never teach the art of living to one who needs all his strength to keep himself alive.
103 The body must be strong enough to obey the mind; a good servant must be strong. I know that intemperance stimulates the passions; it also destroys the body in the long run. Fasting and penance often produce the same results in an opposite way. The weaker the body, the more imperious its demands; the stronger it is, the better it obeys. All sensual passions find their home in effeminate bodies. The less satisfied they are the more irritated they feel.
104 A frail body weakens the soul. Hence the influence of medicine, an art which does more harm to man than all the evils it professes to cure. I do not know what the doctors cure us of, but I know this: they infect us with very deadly diseases --cowardice, timidity, credulity, the fear of death. What if they can make corpses walk? It is men that we need, and we will never see them leaving the hands of a doctor.
105 Medicine is fashionable among us; it has to be. It is the amusement of idle and inactive people who do not know what to do with their time and so spend it in taking care of themselves. If by ill luck they had happened to be born immortal, they would have been the most miserable of men; a life they could not lose would be of no value to them. Such men must have doctors to threaten and flatter them, to give them the only pleasure they can enjoy -- the pleasure of not being dead.
106 I have no intention of continuing on about the vanity of medicine. My aim is to consider its bearings on morals. Still I cannot refrain from saying that men employ the same sophism about medicine as they do about the search for truth. They assume that by treating the patient they cure him and that by seeking the truth they find it. They do not see that one must weigh the advantage of a cure that the doctor effects with the death of a hundred sick people he has killed, and the usefulness of one true discovery with the errors which creep in with it. The science which instructs and the medicine which heals are no doubt excellent, but the science which misleads us and the medicine which kills us are evil. Teach us to tell them apart -- that is the knot of the question. If we knew how to ignore truth we would not be the dupes of falsehood; if we did not want to be cured in spite of nature, we would never die at the hand of the doctor. We should do well to steer clear of both, and we should evidently be the gainers. I do not deny that medicine is useful to some men, but I say that it is fatal to mankind.
107 You will tell me, as usual, that the doctors are to blame, that medicine itself is infallible. Well and good, then give us the medicine without the doctor. For when we have both, the blunders of the artist are a hundredfold greater than our hopes from the art.
108 This lying art, invented rather for the ills of the mind than of the body, is useless to both alike; it does less to cure us of our diseases than to fill us with alarm. It does less to ward off death than to make us dread its approach. It exhausts life rather than prolongs it. Should it even prolong life it would only be to the prejudice of the race, since it makes us set its precautions before society and our fears before our duties. It is the knowledge of danger that makes us afraid. If we thought ourselves invulnerable we should know no fear. By arming Achilles against danger the poet robbed him of the merit of courage. Anyone else in his place would have been an Achilles at the same price.
109 Do you wish to find men with true courage? Seek them where there are no doctors, where the results of disease are unknown, and where death is little thought of. Naturally man knows how to constantly suffer and he dies in peace. It is the doctors with their rules, the philosophers with their precepts, the priests with their exhortations, who debase the heart and make us unlearn how to die.
110 Give me a pupil who has no need of these people or I will have nothing to do with him. No one else shall spoil my work. I wish to raise him myself or not at all. That wise man, Locke, who had devoted part of his life to the study of medicine, advises us strongly to give no drugs to the child, either as a precaution or on account of slight ailments. I will go farther and declare that, as I never call in a doctor for myself I will never send for one for Emile, unless his life is clearly in danger. For then a doctor can do no worse than to kill him.
111 I know the doctor will not fail to take advantage of this delay. If the child dies, he was called in too late; if he recovers, it is his doing. So be it; let the doctor boast, but do not call him in except in extremity.
112 For lack of knowing how to cure himself, let the child know how to be sick. The one art takes the place of the other and is often more successful; it is the art of nature. When an animal is sick it keeps quiet and suffers in silence; we see fewer sickly animals than sick men. How many men have been slain by impatience, fear, anxiety, and above all by medicine, men whom disease would have spared and time alone have cured? I shall be told that animals, who live according to nature, are less liable to disease than ourselves. Well, that way of living is just what I mean to teach my pupil; he should profit by it in the same way.
113 Hygiene is the only useful part of medicine, and hygiene is a virtue rather than a science. Temperance and industry are man's true remedies; work sharpens his appetite and temperance teaches him to control it.
114 To learn what regimen is most useful to life and to health, you have only to study the regimen followed by the peoples who are the healthiest, the most robust, and live the longest. If common observation shows us that medicine neither increases health nor prolongs life, it follows that this useless art is worse than useless, since it wastes time, men, and things on what is a pure loss. Not only must we deduct the time spent preserving life rather than using it, but if this time is spent in tormenting ourselves it is worse than wasted; it is adding to the bad; and to reckon fairly a corresponding share must be deducted from what remains to us. A man who lives ten years without doctors lives more for himself and others than one who spends thirty years as their victim. Having done a test of both ways I think I have a better right than most to draw my own conclusions.
115 For these reasons I decline to take any but a strong and healthy pupil, and these are my principles for keeping him in health. I will not stop to prove at length the value of manual labour and bodily exercise for strengthening the health and constitution; no one denies it. Nearly all the instances of long life are to be found among the men who have taken most exercise, who have endured fatigue and labour. Neither will I enter into details as to the care I shall take for this alone. It will be clear that it forms such an essential part of my practice that it is enough to get hold of the idea without further explanation.
116 When our life begins our needs begin too. The new-born infant must have a nurse. If his mother will do her duty, so much the better; her instructions will be given her in writing. This advantage has its drawbacks -- it removes the tutor from his charge. But it is to be hoped that the child's own interests, and her respect for the person to whom she is about to confide so precious a treasure will induce the mother to follow the tutor's wishes, and whatever she does you may be sure she will do better than another. If we must have a stranger for a nurse, let us begin by choosing her well.
117 One of the misfortunes of the rich is to be deceived in everything. If they judge people poorly, should one be surprised? It is riches that corrupt men, and the rich are rightly the first to feel the defects of the only tool they know. Everything is done poorly for them, except what they do themselves, and they do next to nothing. Is it a question of selecting a nurse? She is chosen by the doctor. What happens? The best nurse is the one who offers the highest bribe. I will not consult the doctor about Emile's nurse; I will take care to choose her myself. I may not argue about it so elegantly as the surgeon, but for sure I will be more reliable, and my zeal will deceive me less than his greed.
118 There is no mystery about this choice; its rules are well known. But I think we ought probably to pay as much attention to the age of the milk as to its quality. The first milk is watery, it must be almost a laxative in order to purge the remains of the meconium curdled in the bowels of the new-born child. Little by little the milk thickens and supplies more solid food as the child is able to digest it. It is surely not without cause that nature changes the milk in the female of every species according to the age of the offspring.
119 Thus a new-born child requires a nurse who has recently become a mother. There is, I know, a difficulty here, but as soon as we leave the path of nature every attempt to do things well has its difficulties. The wrong course is the only right one under the circumstances, so we take it.
120 The nurse must be as healthy in her heart as in her body. The storms of the passions as well as the humors may spoil her milk. Moreover, to focus on the physical is to see only half of the object. The milk may be good and the nurse bad; a good character is as necessary as a good constitution. If you choose a vicious person, I do not say her foster-child will acquire her vices, but he will suffer for them. Should she not to bestow on him day by day, along with her milk, a care which calls for zeal, patience, gentleness, and cleanliness? If she is greedy and intemperate her milk will soon be spoiled; if she is careless and hasty what will become of a poor little thing left to her mercy, and unable either to protect himself or to complain? The wicked are never good for anything.
121 The choice is all the more important because her foster-child should have no other guardian, just as he should have no teacher but his tutor. This was the custom of the ancients, who talked less but acted more wisely than we. After having nursed female children their nurses never left them; this is why the nurse is the confidante in most of their plays. A child who passes through many hands in succession can never be well raised. At every change he makes a secret comparison, which continually tends to lessen his respect for those who control him and with it their authority over him. If once he thinks there are grown-up people with no more sense than children the authority of age is destroyed and his education is ruined. A child should know no superiors other than his father and mother, or failing them his foster-mother and his tutor, and even this is one too many, but this division is inevitable, and the best that can be done in the way of remedy is that the man and woman who control him shall be so well agreed with regard to him that they seem like one.
122 The nurse must live rather more comfortably. She must have rather more substantial food, but her whole way of living must not be altered, for a sudden change, even a change for the better, is dangerous to health, and since her usual way of life has made her healthy and strong, why change it?
123 Peasant women eat less meat and more vegetables than towns-women, and this vegetarian diet seems favourable rather than otherwise to themselves and their children. When they take nurslings from the upper classes they eat meat and broth with the idea that they will form better chyle and supply more milk. I am not at all of this sentiment and experience is on my side, for we do not find children fed in this way less liable to colic and worms.
124 That need not surprise us, for decaying animal matter swarms with worms, but this is not the case with vegetable matter. Milk, although manufactured in the body of an animal, is a vegetable substance. This is shown by analysis; it readily turns acid, and far from showing traces of any volatile alkali like animal matter, it gives a neutral salt like plants.
125 The milk of herbivorous creatures is sweeter and more wholesome than the milk of the carnivorous. Formed of a substance similar to its own, it keeps its goodness and becomes less liable to putrefaction. If quantity is considered, it is well known that farinaceous foods produce more blood than meat, so they ought to yield more milk. If a child were not weaned too soon, and if it were fed on vegetarian food, and its foster-mother were a vegetarian, I do not think it would be troubled with worms.
126 Milk derived from vegetable foods may perhaps be more liable to go sour, but I am far from considering sour milk an unwholesome food; whole nations have no other food and are none the worse, and all the array of absorbents seems to me mere humbug. There are constitutions which do not thrive on milk, others can take it without absorbents. People are afraid of the milk separating or curdling. That is absurd, for we know that milk always curdles in the stomach. This is how it becomes sufficiently solid to nourish children and young animals. If it did not curdle it would merely pass away without feeding them. In vain you dilute milk and use absorbents; whoever swallows milk digests cheese, this rule is without exception; rennet is made from calf's stomach.
127 Instead of changing the nurse's usual diet I think it would be enough to give food in larger quantities and better of its kind. It is not the nature of the food that makes a vegetable diet indigestible, but the flavoring that makes it unwholesome. Reform your cookery, use neither butter nor oil for frying. Butter, salt, and milk should never be cooked. Let your vegetables be cooked in water and only seasoned when they come to table. The vegetable diet, far from disturbing the nurse, will give her a plentiful supply of milk. If a vegetable diet is best for the child, how can meat food be best for his nurse? The things are contradictory.
128 Fresh air affects children's constitutions, particularly in early years. It enters every pore of a soft and tender skin; it has a powerful effect on their young bodies. Its effects can never be destroyed. So I should not agree with those who take a country woman from her village and shut her up in one room in a town and her nursling with her. I would rather send him to breathe the fresh air of the country than the foul air of the town. He will take his new mother's position, will live in her cottage, where his tutor will follow him. The reader will bear in mind that this tutor is not a paid servant but the father's friend. If this friend cannot be found, if this transfer is not easy, if none of my advice can be followed, you will say to me, "What shall I do instead?" I have told you already-" Do what you are doing;" no advice is needed there.
129 Men are not made to be crowded together in ant-hills, but scattered over the earth to till it. The more they are massed together, the more corrupt they become. Disease and vice are the sure results of over-crowded cities. Of all creatures man is least fitted to live in herds. Huddled together like sheep, men would very soon die. Man's breath is fatal to his fellows. This is literally as well as figuratively true.
130 Cities are the abysse of the human species. In a few generations the race dies out or becomes degenerate; it needs renewal, and it is always renewed from the country. Send your children to renew themselves, so to speak; send them to regain in the open fields the strength lost in the foul air of our crowded cities. Women hurry home that their children may be born in the town. They ought to do just the opposite, especially those who mean to nurse their own children. They would lose less than they think, and in more natural surroundings the pleasures associated by nature with maternal duties would soon destroy the taste for those that are not.
131 The new-born infant is first bathed in warm water to which a little wine is usually added. I think the wine might be dispensed with. As nature does not produce fermented liquors, it is not likely that they are of much value to her creatures.
132 In the same way it is unnecessary to take the precaution of heating the water. In fact among many races the new-born infants are bathed with no more ado in rivers or in the sea. Our children, made tender before birth by the softness of their parents, come into the world with a constitution already enfeebled, which cannot be at once exposed to all the trials required to restore it to health. By degrees they must be restored to their natural vigour. Begin then by following this custom, and depart from it little by little. Wash your children often, their dirty ways show the need of this. If they are only wiped their skin is injured; but as they grow stronger gradually reduce the heat of the water, till at last you bathe them winter and summer in cold, even in ice-cold water. To avoid risk this change must be slow, gradual, and imperceptible, so you may use the thermometer for exact measurements.
133 This habit of the bath, once established, should never be broken off; it must be kept up all through life. I value it not only on grounds of cleanliness and present health, but also as a wholesome means of making the muscles supple, and accustoming them to bear without risk or effort extremes of heat and cold. As he gets older I would have the child trained to bathe occasionally in hot water of every bearable degree, and often in every degree of cold water. Now water being a denser fluid touches us at more points than air, so that, having learnt to bear all the variations of temperature in water, we shall scarcely feel those of the air.
134 At the moment that the child first breathes when leaving its envelope do not allow anyone to give him other constraints that will hold him even tighter. No cap, no bandages, nor swaddling clothes. Instead, loose and flowing flannel wrappers, which heave his limbs free and are not too heavy to check his movements, not too warm to prevent his feeling the air. Put him in a big cradle, well padded, where he can move easily and safely. As he begins to grow stronger, let him crawl about the room; let him develop and stretch his tiny limbs. You will see him gain strength from day to day. Compare him with a well swaddled child of the same age and you will be surprised at the difference in their progress.
135 You must expect great opposition from the nurses, who find that a half strangled baby needs much less watching. Besides, his dirtiness is more perceptible in an open garment; he must be attended to more frequently. In the end, custom is an argument that will never be refuted in some lands and among all classes of people.
136 Do not argue with the nurses; give your orders, see them carried out, and spare no pains to make the attention you prescribe easy in practice. Why not take your share in it? With ordinary nurslings, where the body alone is thought of, nothing matters so long as the child lives and does not actually die. But with us , when education begins with life, the new-born child is already a pupil, not of his tutor, but of nature. The tutor merely studies under this master, and sees that his orders are not evaded. He watches over the infant, he observes it, he looks for the first feeble glimmering of intelligence, as the Moslem looks for the moment of the moon's rising in her first quarter.
137 We are born capable of learning, but knowing nothing, perceiving nothing. The mind, bound up within imperfect and half grown organs, is not even aware of its own existence. The movements and cries of the new-born child are purely reflex, without knowledge or will.
138 Suppose that a child had at its birth the stature and strength of a man, that he had entered life full grown like Pallas from the brain of Jupiter. Such a child-man would be a perfect idiot, an automaton, a statue without motion and almost without feeling. He would see and hear nothing, he would recognise no one, he could not turn his eyes towards what he wanted to see. Not only would he perceive no external object, he would not even be aware of sensation through the several sense-organs. His eye would not perceive colour, his ear sounds, his body would be unaware of contact with neighbouring bodies, he would not even know he had a body. What his hands handled would be in his brain alone; all his sensations would be united in one place, they would exist only in the common "sensorium." He would have only one idea, that of self, to which he would refer all his sensations; and this idea, or rather this sentiment, would be the only thing he had more of than an ordinary child.
139 This man, full grown at birth, would also be unable to stand on his feet. He would need a long time to learn how to keep his balance; perhaps he would not even be able to try to do it, and you would see the big strong body left in one place like a stone, or creeping and crawling like a young puppy.
140 He would feel the discomfort of bodily needs without knowing what was the matter and without knowing how to provide for these needs. There is no immediate connection between the muscles of the stomach and those of the arms and legs to make him take a step towards food or stretch a hand to seize it even were he surrounded with it. And as his body would be full grown and his limbs well developed he would be without the perpetual restlessness and movement of childhood, so that he might die of hunger without stirring to seek food. However little you may have thought about the order and development of our knowledge, you cannot deny that such a one would be in the state of almost primitive ignorance and stupidity natural to man before he has learnt anything from experience or from his fellows.
141 We know then, or we may know, the point of departure from which we each start towards the usual level of understanding; but who knows the other extreme? Each progresses more or less according to his genius, his taste, his needs, his talents, his zeal, and his opportunities for using them. No philosopher, so far as I know, has dared to say to man, "Thus far shalt thou go and no further." We know not what nature allows us to be, but none of us has measured the possible difference between man and man. Is there a mind so dead that this thought has never kindled it, that has never said in his pride, "How much have I already done, how much more may I achieve? Why should I lag behind my fellows?"
142 I repeat: man's education begins at birth; before he can speak or understand he is learning. Experience precedes instruction; when he recognises his nurse he has learnt much. The knowledge of the most ignorant man would surprise us if we had followed his course from birth to the present time. If all human knowledge were divided into two parts, one common to all, the other peculiar to the learned, the latter would seem very small compared with the former. But we scarcely reflect on these general acquisitions because they happen without us thinking about them and even before the age of reason. Moreover, knowledge only attracts attention by its differences; as in algebraic equations common factors count for nothing.
143 Even animals learn much. They have senses and must learn to use them; they have needs, they must learn to satisfy them; they must learn to eat, walk, or fly. Quadrupeds which can stand on their feet from the first cannot walk for all that; from their first attempts it is clear that they lack confidence. Canaries who escape from their cage are unable to fly, having never used their wings. Living and feeling creatures are always learning. If plants could walk they would need senses and knowledge, else their species would die out.
144 Children's first sensations are purely affective. They are only aware of pleasure and pain. Being unable to walk nor to grasp they need much time to form little by little the representative sensations that show them objects beyond themselves. But while waiting for these objects to become extended, become distanced, so to speak, from their eyes and take on for them dimension and shape, the recurrence of affective sensations begins to subject the child to the rule of habit. You see his eyes constantly follow the light, and if the light comes from the side the eyes turn towards it, so that one must be careful to turn his head towards the light lest he should squint. He must also be accustomed from the first to the dark, or he will cry if he misses the light. Food and sleep, too exactly measured, become necessary at regular intervals, and soon desire is no longer the effect of need, but of habit, or rather habit adds a fresh need to those of nature. This is what must be prevented.
145 The only habit the child should be allowed is that of contracting none. Let him be carried on either arm, let him be accustomed to offer either hand, to use one or other indifferently; let him not want to eat, sleep, or do anything at fixed hours, nor be unable to be left alone by day or night. Prepare from afar the reign of his liberty and the use of his own forces by letting his body keep its natural habit, by putting him in a condition of being always master of himself, of following his will in everything as soon as he has one.
146 From the moment that the child begins to take notice, what is shown him must be carefully chosen. Naturally all new objects interest man. He feels so feeble that he fears the unknown: the habit of seeing fresh things without ill effects destroys this fear. Children brought up in clean houses where there are no spiders are afraid of spiders, and this fear often lasts through life. I never saw peasants, man, woman, or child, afraid of spiders.
147 Since the mere choice of things shown him may make the child timid or brave, why should not his education begin before he can speak or understand? I would have him accustomed to see fresh things, ugly, repulsive, and strange animals, but little by little, and at a distance, until he is used to them, and until having seen others handle them he handles them himself. If in childhood he sees toads, snakes, and crayfish, he will not be afraid of any animal when he is grown up. Those who are continually seeing terrible things think nothing of them.
148 All children are afraid of masks. I begin by showing Emile a mask with a pleasant face. Then some one puts this mask before his face; I begin to laugh, they all laugh too, and the child with them. By degrees I accustom him to less pleasing masks, and at last to hideous ones. If I have arranged my stages skilfully, far from being afraid of the last mask, he will laugh at it as he did at the first. After that I am not afraid of people frightening him with masks.
149 When Hector bids farewell to Andromache, the young Astyanax, startled by the nodding plumes on the helmet, does not know his father; he flings himself weeping upon his nurse's bosom and wins from his mother a smile mingled with tears. What must be done to cure him of this terror? Just what Hector did: put the helmet on the ground and caress the child. In a calmer moment one would do more; one would go up to the helmet, play with the plumes, let the child feel them; at last the nurse would take the helmet and place it laughingly on her own head, if indeed a woman's hand dare touch the armour of Hector.
150 What if we need to get Emile used to the noise of a firearm? I first fire a pistol with a small charge. He is delighted with this sudden flash, this sort of lightning; I repeat the process with more powder; gradually I add a small charge without a wad, then a larger; in the end I accustom him to the sound of a gun, to fireworks, cannon, and the most terrible explosions.
151 I have observed that children are rarely afraid of thunder unless the claps are really terrible and actually hurt the ear. Otherwise this fear only comes to them when they know that thunder sometimes hurts or kills. When reason begins to cause fear, let us reassure them. By slow and careful stages man and child learn to fear nothing.
152 At the beginning of life, when memory and imagination have not begun to function, the child only attends to what affects its senses. His sense experiences are the raw material of thought. They should, therefore, be presented to him in fitting order, so that memory may at a future time present them in the same order to his understanding. But since he only attends to his sensations it is enough, at first, to show him clearly the connection between these sensations and the things which cause them. He wants to touch and handle everything. Do not oppose this restlessness; it suggests to him a very necessary learning. It is thus that he will learn to feel heat, cold, hardness, softness, weight, or lightness of bodies; to judge their size and shape and all their physical properties by looking, feeling, listening, and, above all, by comparing sight and touch, by judging with the eye what sensation they would cause to his hand.
153 It is only by movement that we learn that there are things which are not us; it is only by our own movements that we gain the idea of extension. It is because the child does not have this idea that he indifferently reaches out to grasp the object that touches him or the object that is a hundred feet away. You take this as a sign of tyranny, an attempt to make the thing come near him or to make you bring him to it; but it is not that. It is merely that the object first seen in his brain, then before his eyes, now seems close to his arms, and he has no idea of space beyond his reach. Be careful, therefore, to take him about, to move him from place to place, and to let him perceive the change in his surroundings so as to teach him to judge of distances. When he begins to perceive distances then you must change your method, and only carry him when you please, not when he pleases. For as soon as he is no longer deceived by his senses, the cause of his effort changes. This change is important and calls for explanation.
154 The discomfort of real needs expresses itself by signs when the help of others is necessary for us to provide for them. Hence the cries of children. They often cry; it must be so. Since all their feelings are affective, when those feelings are pleasant they enjoy them in silence; when they are painful they say so in their own way and demand relief. Now when they are awake they can scarcely be in a state of indifference; either they are asleep or else they are feeling something.
155 All our languages are the work of art. People have long searched whether there ever was a natural language common to all; no doubt there is, and it is the language of children before they begin to speak. This language is inarticulate, but it is accentuated, sonorous, intelligible. The use of our own language has led us to neglect it so far as to forget it altogether. Let us study children and we shall soon learn it afresh from them. Nurses are masters of this language; they understand all their nurslings say to them, they answer them, and keep up long conversations with them; and though they use words, these words are quite useless. It is not the hearing of the word, but its accompanying intonation that is understood.
156 To the language of the voice is added the no less forcible language of gesture. Such gestures are not in the child's weak hands, but in its face. It is astonishing how much expression is in such underdeveloped physiognomies; their features change from one moment to another with incredible speed. You see smiles, desires, terror, come and go like lightning; every time the face seems different. The muscles of the face are undoubtedly more mobile than our own. On the other hand the eyes are almost expressionless. Such must be the sort of signs they use at an age when their only needs are those of the body. Grimaces are the sign of sensation, the glance expresses sentiment.
157 As man's first state is one of misery and weakness, his first sounds are cries and tears. The child feels his needs and cannot satisfy them; he begs for help by his cries. If he is hungry or thirsty he cries; if is he is too cold or too hot he cries; if he needs movement and is kept quiet he cries; if he wants to sleep and is disturbed he cries. The less comfortable he is the more he demands change. He has only one language because he has, so to say, only one kind of discomfort. In the imperfect state of his sense organs he does not distinguish their several impressions; all ills produce one feeling of sorrow.
158 From these tears that we might think so little worthy of attention, arise man's first relation to all that surrounds him; here is forged the first link in the long chain that forms the social order.
159 When the child cries he is uncomfortable, he feels some need which he cannot satisfy. We examine him, we search out this need, find it, and provide for it. When we cannot find it or provide for it, the tears continue and become tiresome. We stroke the child to make him keep quiet, we rock him, we sing to him to make him fall asleep. If he persists, we get impatient, we threaten him; cruel nurses sometimes strike him. What strange lessons for him at his first entrance into life!
160 I shall never forget seeing one of these troublesome crying children thus beaten by his nurse. He was silent at once. I thought he was frightened, and said to myself, "This will be a servile being from whom nothing can be got but by harshness." I was wrong. The poor thing was choking with rage, he could not breathe, I saw him becoming blue in the face. A moment later there were bitter cries, every sign of the anger, rage, and the despair of this age was in his tones. I thought he would die from such agitation. Had I doubted the innate sense of justice and injustice in man's heart, this one instance would have convinced me. I am sure that a drop of boiling liquid falling by chance on that child's hand would have hurt him less than that blow, slight in itself, but clearly given with the intention of hurting him.
161 This disposition of children to fury, spite, and anger needs great care. Boerhaave thinks that most of the diseases of children are of the nature of convulsions, because the head being proportionally larger and the nervous system more extensive than in adults, they are more liable to nervous irritation. Take the greatest care to remove from them any servants who agitate them, irritate them, annoy them. They are a hundredfold more dangerous and more fatal than fresh air and changing seasons. As long as children find resistance only in things and never in wills, they will become neither rebellious nor angry and they will conserve their health better. This is one reason why the children of the people, who are freer and more independent, are generally less infirm, less delicate, and more vigorous than those who claim to raise them better by ceaselessly thwarting them. But one must always be aware that there is a big difference between obeying them and not thwarting them.
162 Children's first tears are prayers; if you are not careful they soon become commands. They begin by asking for help, they end by making themselves served. Thus from his own weakness, the source of his first sentiment of dependence, springs the later idea of empire and domination. But this idea being less aroused by his needs than by our service, we begin to see moral results whose immediate cause is not in nature, and we see how important it is, even at the earliest age, to discern the secret meaning of the gesture or cry.
163 When the child tries to seize something without speaking, he thinks he can reach the object, for he does not rightly judge its distance. When he cries and stretches out his hands he no longer misjudges the distance; he bids the object approach, or orders you to bring it to him. In the first case bring it to him slowly; in the second do not even seem to hear his cries. The more he cries the less you should heed him. He must learn in good time not to give commands to men, for he is not their master, nor to things, for they cannot hear him. Thus when the child wants something you mean to give him, it is better to carry him to it rather than to bring the thing to him. From this he will draw a conclusion suited to his age, and there is no other way of suggesting it to him.
164 The Abbé de Saint-Pierre calls men big children; one might also call children little men. These statements contain truth as sentences; as principles they require explanation. But when Hobbes calls the wicked man a strong child, he says something absolutely contradictory. All wickedness comes from weakness. The child is only wicked because he is weak; make him strong and he will be good. He who could do everything would never do wrong. Of all the attributes of the allpowerful divinity, goodness is the one without which we could least conceive him. All peoples who have recognized two principles have always regarded the evil as inferior to the good; otherwise their opinion would have been absurd. See below the creed of the Savoyard Vicar.
165 Reason alone teaches us to know good and evil. Therefore conscience, which makes us love the one and hate the other, although independent of reason, cannot develop without it. Before the age of reason we do good and bad without knowing it, and there is no morality in our actions, although there sometimes is in the sentiment of others' actions which relate to us. A child wants to overturn everything he sees. He breaks and smashes everything he can reach; he seizes a bird as he seizes a stone, and strangles it without knowing what he is doing.
166 Why is this? First of all philosophy will find a reason for this in the natural vices: pride, the spirit of domination, amour-propre, the wickedness of man. The sentiment of his own weakness, one could add, makes the child eager to act forcefully, to prove his own power to himself. But observe that broken old man reduced in the downward course of life to the weakness of a child; not only is he quiet and peaceful, he wants to have everything around him quiet and peaceful too; the least change disturbs and bothers him, he would like to see universal calm. How is it that similar feebleness and similar passions should produce such different effects in age and in infancy if the original cause were not different? And where can we find this difference in cause except in the bodily condition of the two? The active principle common to both is growing in one case and fading in the other; it is being formed in the one and destroyed in the other; one is moving towards life, the other towards death. The failing activity of the old man is centred in his heart, the child's is overflowing and spreads everywhere. He feels, if we may say so, strong enough to give life to everything around him. To make or to destroy, it is all one to him. Change is what he seeks, and all change involves action. If he seems to have more of a tendency to destroy it is only that it takes time to make things and very little time to break them, so that the work of destruction agrees more with his eagerness.
167 At the same time that the Author of nature has given children this active principle, he takes care that it shall do little harm by giving them small power to use it. But as soon as they can think of people as instruments that depend on them to be set in action, they use them to carry out their wishes and to supplement their own weakness. This is how they become bothersome, tyranical, imper ious, evil, and unmanageable -- a development which does not spring from a natural spirit of domination but which is given them. For one does not need much experience to realise how agreeable it is to act with the hands of others and to need only to move one's tongue in order to make the universe move.
168 As the child grows it gains strength and becomes less restless and unquiet and turns more towards oneself. Soul and body become better balanced and nature no longer asks for more movement than is required for self-preservation. But the desire to command is not extinguished with the need that aroused it; domination arouses and flatters amour-propre, and habit strengthens it. Thus whim succeeds need; thus prejudice and opinion take their first roots.
169 The principle once known we see clearly the point where one leaves the path of nature. Let us see what must be done to stay on it.
170 First maxim: Far from having superfluous strength, children do not have enough enough for all that nature demands of them. One must, therefore, let them have the use of all the strength that they are given and which they cannot abuse.
171 Second Maxim. One must help them and supplement what is lacking either in intelligence or in strength regarding everything that has to do with physical need.
172 Third Maxim. The help that one gives them should be limited to what is real utility, without granting anything to whim or to desire without reason; for whim will not torment them as long as it has not been aroused, since it is no part of nature.
173 Fourth Maxim. One must study carefully their language and their signs, so that at an age when they are incapable of deception one may discriminate between those desires which come immediately from nature and those which spring from opinion.
174 The spirit of these rules is to give children more real freedom and less imperiousness, to let them do more for themselves and demand less of others. Thus accustoming them from the first to limiting their desires to their strengths, they will scarcely feel the deprivation of whatever is not in their power.
175 This is another very important reason for leaving children's limbs and bodies perfectly free, the only precaution being to keep them away from the danger of falls and to keep out of their hands everything that could hurt them.
176 Certainly the child whose body and arms are free will cry much less than a child tied up in swaddling clothes. He who knows only bodily needs only cries when in pain; and this is a great advantage, for then we know exactly when he needs help, and if possible we should not delay our help for an instant. But if you cannot relieve his pain, stay where you are and do not flatter him by way of soothing him. Your caresses will not cure his colic, but he will remember what he must do to win them; and if he once finds out how to gain your attention at will, he is your master; everything is lost.
177 Less constrained in their movements, children will cry less; less wearied with their tears, people will not take so much trouble to keep them quiet. With fewer threats and promises, children will be less timid and less obstinate, and will remain more nearly in their natural state. It is less in letting them cry than in rushing to appease them that makes them get hernias, and my proof for this is that the most neglected children are less subject to them than others. I am very far from wishing that they should be neglected; on the contrary, it is of the utmost importance that their wants should be anticipated, so that one need not be warned of their needs by their cries. But neither would I have unwise care bestowed on them. Why should they think it wrong to cry when they find that their cries are good for so many things? When they have learned the value of their silence they take good care not to waste it. In the end they will so exaggerate its importance that no one will be able to pay its price; then worn out with crying they become exhausted, and are at length silent.
178 Prolonged crying on the part of a child neither swaddled nor out of health, a child who lacks nothing, is merely the result of habit or obstinacy. Such tears are no longer the work of nature, but the work of the child's caretaker, who could not resist its importunity and so has increased it, without considering that while she quiets the child to-day she is teaching him to cry louder to-morrow.
179 The only way to cure or prevent this habit is to pay it no attention. No one likes to take useless pains, not even infants. They are obstinate in their attempts; but if you have more constancy than they have hardheadedness, they will give up and not try again. Thus one spares them tears and accustoms them to shed them only when pain forces them to do so.
180 Moreover, when whim or obstinacy is the cause of their tears, there is a sure way of stopping them by distracting their attention by some pleasant or conspicuous object which makes them forget that they want to cry. Most nurses excel in this art, and rightly used it is very useful. But it is of the utmost importance that the child should not perceive that you mean to distract his attention, and that he should be amused without suspecting you are thinking about him; now this is what most nurses cannot do.
181 Most children are weaned too soon. The time to wean them is when they cut their teeth. This generally causes pain and suffering. At this time the child instinctively carries everything he gets hold of to his mouth to chew it. To help forward this process he is given as a plaything some hard object such as ivory or a wolf's tooth. I think this is a mistake. Hard bodies applied to the gums do not soften them; far from it, they make the process of cutting the teeth more difficult and painful. Let us always take instinct as our guide; we never see puppies practising their budding teeth on pebbles, iron, or bones, but on wood, leather, rags, soft materials which yield to their jaws, and on which the tooth leaves its mark.
182 We can do nothing simply, not even for our children. Toys of silver, gold, coral, cut crystal, rattles of every price and kind; what vain and useless appliances! Nothing of all that. No bells, no rattles. A small branch of a tree with its leaves and fruit, a little poppy flower in which one can hear the seeds shake, a stick of liquorice which he may suck and chew, will amuse him as well as all those magnificent knick-knacks, and they will not have the disadvantage of accustoming him to luxury from his birth.
183 It has been recognized that porridge is not a very wholesome food. Boiled milk and uncooked flour cause gravel and do not suit the stomach. In porridge the flour is less thoroughly cooked than in bread and it has not fermented. I think bread and milk or rice-cream are better. If you absolutely must have porridge, the flour should be lightly cooked beforehand. In my own country they make a very pleasant and wholesome soup from flour thus heated. Meat-broth or soup is not a very suitable food and should be used as little as possible. The child must first get used to chewing his food; this is the right way to bring the teeth through, and when the child begins to swallow, the saliva mixed with the food helps digestion.
184 I would have them first chew dried fruit or crusts. I would give them as playthings little bits of dry bread or biscuits, like the Piedmont bread, known in the country as " grisses." By dint of softening this bread in the mouth some of it is eventually swallowed, the teeth come through of themselves, and the child is weaned almost imperceptibly. Peasants have usually very good digestions, and they are weaned with very little trouble.
185 Children hear people speak from their birth. We speak to them not only before they can understand what is being said to them but before they can imitate the voices that they hear. The vocal organs are still stiff, and only gradually lend themselves to the reproduction of the sounds heard. It is even doubtful whether these sounds are heard distinctly as we hear them. I don't disapprove of the nurse amusing the child with songs and with very merry and varied intonation, but I object to her bewildering the child with a multitude of vain words of which he understands nothing but her tone of voice. I would have the first words he hears be few in number, distinct, and often repeated, while the words themselves be related to things which can first be shown to the child. That unfortunate facility in the use of words we do not understand begins earlier than we think. In the schoolroom the student listens to the verbiage of his master as he listened in the cradle to the babble of his nurse. I think it would be a very useful instruction to leave him in ignorance of both.
186 All sorts of ideas crowd in upon us when we try to consider the development of language and the child's first discourses. Whatever we do they all learn to talk in the same way, and all philosophical speculations are completely useless.
187 To begin with, children have, so to say, a grammar of their age whose syntax has more general rules than ours. And if one pays close attention one will be surprised to find how exactly they follow certain analogies, very much mistaken if you like, but very regular. These forms are grating only because of their crudeness or because they are not recognised by custom. I have just heard a child severely scolded by his father for saying, "Mon père, irai-je-t-y?" Now we see that this child was following the analogy more closely than our grammarians, for as they say to him, "Vas-y," why should he not say, "Irai-je-t-y? " Notice too the skilful way in which he avoids the hiatus in irai-je-y or y-irai-je? Is it the poor child's fault that we have so unskilfully deprived the phrase of this determinative adverb "y," because we did not know what to do with it? It is an intolerable piece of pedantry and most superfluous attention to detail to make a point of correcting all children's little sins against the customary expression, for they always cure themselves with time. Always speak correctly before them, let them never be so happy with any one as with you, and be sure that their speech will be imperceptibly modelled upon yours without any correction on your part.
188 But a much greater abuse, and one much less easy to prevent, is that they are urged to speak too much, as if people were afraid they would not learn to talk by themselves. This indiscreet pressure produces an effect directly opposite to what is meant. They speak later and more confusedly. The extreme attention paid to everything they say makes it unnecessary for them to speak distinctly, and as they will scarcely open their mouths, many of them contract bad pronunciation and a confused speech, which last all their life and make them almost unintelligible.
189 I have lived much among peasants, and I never knew one of them to lisp, man or woman, boy or girl. Why is this? Are their speech organs differently made from our own? No, but they are differently used. There is a little hill facing my window on which the children of the place assemble for their games. Although they are far enough away, I can distinguish perfectly what they say, and often get good notes for this book. Every day my ear deceives me as to their age. I hear the voices of children of ten; I look and see the height and features of children of three or four. This experience is not confined to me; the townspeople who come to see me, and whom I consult on this point, all fall into the same mistake.
190 This results from the fact that, up to five or six, children in town, brought up in a room and under the care of a nursery governess, do not need to speak above a whisper to make themselves heard. As soon as their lips move people take pains to make out what they mean. They are taught words which they repeat inaccurately, and by paying great attention to them the people who are always with them guess what they meant to say rather than what they said.
191 It is quite a different matter in the country. A peasant woman is not always with her child; he is obliged to learn to say very clearly and loudly what he wants if he is to make himself understood. Children scattered about the fields at a distance from their fathers, mothers and other children, gain practice in making themselves heard at a distance, and in adapting the loudness of the voice to the distance which separates them from those to whom they want to speak. This is the real way to learn pronunciation, not by stammering out a few vowels into the ear of an attentive governess. So when you question a peasant child, he may be too shy to answer, but what he says he says distinctly; while the nurse must serve as interpreter for the town child: without her one can understand nothing of what he is muttering between his teeth.
192 As they grow older, the boys are supposed to be cured of this fault at college, the girls in the convent schools; and indeed both usually speak more clearly than children brought up entirely at home. But what prevents them from acquiring as clear a pronunciation as the peasants in this way is the necessity of learning all sorts of things by heart and repeating aloud what they have learned. For when they are studying they get to babbling and pronouncing carelessly and wrong. In reciting their lessons it is even worse: they cannot find the right words, they drag out their syllables. It is impossible that when the memory vacillates the tongue will not stammer also. Thus they acquire or continue habits of bad pronunciation. You will see later on that Emile will not acquire such habits, or at least not from this cause.
193 I grant you that uneducated people and villagers often fall into the opposite extreme. They almost always speak too loud; their pronunciation is too exact and leads to rough and coarse articulation; their accent is too pronounced, they choose their expressions badly, etc.
194 But, to begin with, this extreme strikes me as much less dangerous than the other, for the first law of speech is to make oneself understood, and the chief fault is to fail to be understood. To pride ourselves on having no accent is to pride ourselves on ridding our phrases of strength and elegance. Emphasis is the soul of speech, it gives it its feeling and truth. Emphasis deceives less than words; perhaps that is why well-educated people are so afraid of it. From the custom of saying everything in the same tone has arisen that of poking fun at people without their knowing it. When emphasis is proscribed, its place is taken by all sorts of ridiculous, affected, and ephemeral pronunciations, such as those heard especially among the young people of the court. It is this affectation of speech and manner which makes Frenchmen disagreeable and repulsive to other nations on first acquaintance. Emphasis is found, not in their speech, but in their bearing. That is not the way to make themselves attractive.
195 All these little faults of speech, which you are so afraid the children will acquire, are nothing. They may be prevented or corrected with the greatest ease, but the faults that are taught them when you make them speak in a low, indistinct, and timid voice, when you are always criticising their tone and finding fault with their words, are never cured. A man who has only learned to speak from his side of a bed could never make himself heard at the head of his troops and would make little impression on the people during an uprising. First teach the child to speak to men; he will be able to speak to the women when required.
196 Nurtured in the country with all its pastoral rusticity, your children will gain a more sonorous voice; they will not acquire the hesitating stammer of town children, neither will they acquire the expressions nor the tone of the villagers. Or if they do they will easily lose them. Their tutor being with them from their earliest years and living with them from day to day ever more exclusively, will be able to prevent or efface, by speaking correctly himself, the impression of the peasants' talk. Emile will speak the purest French I know, but he will speak it more distinctly and with a better articulation than myself.
197 The child who is trying to speak should hear nothing but words he can understand, nor should he say words he cannot articulate. His efforts lead him to repeat the same syllable as if he were practising its clear pronunciation. When he begins to stammer, do not try to understand him. To expect to be always listened to is a form of tyranny which is not good for the child. See carefully to his real needs, and let him try to make you understand the rest. Still less should you hurry him into speech; he will learn to talk when he feels the usefulness of it.
198 It has indeed been remarked that those who begin to speak very late never speak so distinctly as others; but it is not because they talked late that they are hesitating. On the contrary, they began to talk late because they hesitate; if not, why did they begin to talk so late? Have they less need of speech, have they been less urged to it? On the contrary, the anxiety aroused with the first suspicion of this backwardness leads people to tease them much more to begin to talk than those who articulated earlier. This mistaken zeal may do much to make their speech confused, when with less haste they might have had time to bring it to greater perfection.
199 Children who are forced to speak too soon have no time to learn either to pronounce correctly or to understand what they are made to say. While left to themselves they first practise the easiest syllables, and then, adding to them little by little some meaning which their gestures explain, they teach you their own words before they learn yours. By this means they do not acquire your words till they have understood them. Being in no hurry to use them, they begin by carefully observing the sense in which you use them, and when they are sure of them they will adopt them.
200 The worst evil resulting from the precocious use of speech by young children is that we not only fail to understand the first words they use, we misunderstand them without knowing it. So that while they seem to answer us correctly, they fail to understand us and we them. This is the most frequent cause of our surprise at children's sayings; we attribute to them ideas which they did not attach to their words. This lack of attention on our part to the real meaning which words have for children seems to me the cause of their earliest misconceptions; and these misconceptions, even when corrected, colour their whole course of thought for the rest of their life. I will have several opportunities of illustrating these by examples later on.
201 Let the child's vocabulary, therefore, be limited. It is very undesirable that he should have more words than ideas, that he should be able to say more than he thinks. One of the reasons why peasants are generally shrewder than townsfolk is, I think, that their vocabulary is smaller. They have few ideas, but those few are thoroughly grasped.
202 The infant is progressing in several ways at once; he is learning to talk, eat, and walk about the same time. This is really the first epoque of his life. Formerly he was nothing more than what he was in the womb of his mother: he had no sentiments, no ideas, he scarcely had sensations; he could not even feel his own existence.
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203 This is the second stage of life and the one in which infancy, strictly speaking, is over. For the words infans and puer are not synonymous. The latter includes the former, which means literally "one who cannot speak;" thus Valerius speaks of puerum infantem. But I shall continue to use the word child [French enfant] according to the custom of our language until an age for which there is another term.
204 When children begin to talk they cry less. This progress is quite natural; one language is substituted for the other. As soon as they can say with words that something hurts, why should they cry, unless the pain is too sharp for words? If they still cry, those about them are to blame. When once Emile has said, "It hurts," it will take a very sharp pain to make him cry.
205 If the child is delicate and sensitive, if by nature he begins to cry for nothing, by making his cries useless and without effect I soon check his tears at their source. So long as he cries I will not go near him; I come at once when he is quiet. Soon his way of calling me will be to be silent, or at least to let out a single cry. It is by the sensible effect of signs that children learn of their meaning; there is no other convention for them. However much a child hurts himself, when he is alone he rarely cries unless he hopes to be heard.
206 If he should fall or bump his head or make his nose bleed or cut his fingers, instead of rushing to him with an expression of alarm I will stay calm, at least at first. The harm is done; it is necessary that he endure it. All my fussing could only frighten him more and add to his sensibility. Basically it is not the blow but the fear of it which torments us when we are hurt. I will spare him this anquish at least, for he will certainly judge the injury as he sees me judge it. If he sees me running to him with worry to console him, to pity him, he will think himself dead. If he sees me keeping my cool he will soon recover his own and will think the wound is healed when it ceases to hurt. This is the time for his first lesson in courage, and by bearing slight ills without fear we gradually learn to bear greater ones.
207 Far from trying to prevent Emile from hurting himself, I would be worried if he never hurt himself, if he grew up not knowing pain. To suffer is the first thing that he must learn and the one that he will have the greatest need to know. It seems that children are small and weak only in order to learn these important lessons without any danger. The child has such a little way to fall he will not break his leg; if he knocks himself with a stick he will not break his arm; if he grabs a sharp knife he will not grasp it tight enough to make a deep wound. So far as I know, no child left to himself has ever been known to kill or maim himself or even to do himself any serious harm, unless he has been foolishly left on a high place or alone near the fire or within reach of dangerous weapons. What is there to be said for all the paraphernalia which surrounds the child to protect him on every side against pain until, having grown up, he remains at its mercy without courage and without experience, and believes himself dead at the first pinprick and faints at the sight of blood?
208 Our didactic and pedantic mania is always to teach children what they could learn better by themselves and to neglect what we alone can teach them. Can anything be stupider than the trouble taken to teach them to walk, as if any child has been seen who, from the negligence of its caretaker, has not learned how to walk by the time it grew up? Yet how many, on the contrary, we see walking badly all their life because they were ill taught!
209 Emile will have no padded bonnets, no go-carts, no leading-strings; or at least as soon as he can put one foot before another he will be supported only along pavements, and those will be crossed very quickly. Instead of keeping him cooped up in a stuffy room, take him out into a meadow every day. There let him run, let him frisk about. If he falls a hundred times, so much the better. He will learn all the sooner how to pick himself up. The well-being of liberty will make up for many wounds. My pupil will often have bruises; in return he will always be gay. Your pupils may have fewer bruises, but they are always constrained, always enchained, always sad. I doubt whether they are any better off.
210 Another progress which makes tears less necessary to children is the development of their strengths. Able to do more for themselves, they need the help of others less frequently. Along with their strength develops the understanding that puts them in a condition to direct it. It is with this second stage that the life of the individual properly begins; it is now that the child becomes conscious of himself. Memory extends the sentiment of identity to every moment of his existence. He becomes truly one and the same person, and consequently already capable of happiness or of misery. It is important therefore to begin to consider him here as a moral being.
211 Although we know approximately the limits of human life and our chances of attaining those limits, nothing is more uncertain than the length of the life of any one of us. Very few reach old age. The chief risks occur at the beginning of life; the shorter our past life, the less we must hope to live. Of all the children who are born scarcely one half reach adolescence, and it is very likely your pupil will not reach the age of manhood.
212 What is to be thought, therefore, of that cruel education which sacrifices the present to an uncertain future, that burdens a child with all sorts of restrictions, and begins by making him miserable in order to prepare him for some far-off happiness he may never enjoy? Even if I considered such an education wise in its aims, how could I view without indignation those poor creatures subjected to an intolerable yoke and condemned like galley-slaves to endless tasks with no certainty of any rewards? The age of gaity is spent in tears, punishments, threats, and slavery. You torment the poor thing for his own good; you fail to see that you are calling Death to snatch him from these gloomy machinations. Who can say how many children fall victims to the excessive wisdom of their fathers or tutors? Lucky to escape from his cruelty, the only advantage they gain from the ills they are made to suffer is to die without regretting a life known only for its torments.
213 Men, be humane; that is your first duty. Be humane toward every condition, every age, toward all that is not foreign to humanity. What wisdom is there for you outside of humanity? Love childhood, promote its pleasures, its lovable instincts. Who among you has not sometimes missed that age when laughter was always on our lips, and when the soul was always at peace? Why take away from these innocent little people the joys of a time that will escape them so quickly and gifts that could never cause any harm? Why fill with bitterness the fleeting days of early childhood, days which will no more return for them than for you? Fathers, can you tell the moment when death awaits your children? Do not prepare yourself for regrets by robbing them of the few moments which nature has given them. As soon as they are aware of the pleasure of existence, let them rejoice in it; make it so that whenever God calls them they will not die without having tasted life.
214 How people will cry out against me! I hear from afar the shouts of that false wisdom which projects us incessantly outside of ourselves, which counts the present as nothing, and which, pursuing without relief a future which flees as we advance, by transporting us away from where we are takes us to a place we will never be.
215 Now is the time, you say, to correct the evil inclinations of man. We must increase suffering in childhood, when it is less keenly felt, in order to lessen it in the age of reason. But how do you know that you can carry out all these fine schemes; how do you know that all this fine teaching with which you overwhelm the feeble mind of the child will not do him more harm than good in the future? How do you know that you can spare him anything by the sorrows that you lavish on him? Why inflict on him more ills than suit his present condition unless you are quite sure that these present ills will save him future ill? And what proof can you give me that those evil tendencies you profess to cure are not the result of your foolish precautions rather than of nature? What a poor sort of foresight, to make a child miserable in the present with the more or less doubtful hope of making him happy at some future day! If such vulger reasoners confuse licence and liberty, a happy child and a spoiled child, let us help them learn to distinguish between the two.
216 To avoid pursuing fantasies, let us not forget what suits our condition. Humanity has its place in the order of things; childhood has its place in the order of human life. The man must be treated as a man and the child as a child. Assign each one to his place, and fix him there. Order human passions according to the constitution of man; that is all we can do for his well-being. The rest depends on external causes which are not in our power.
217 We do not know what absolute happiness or unhappiness is. Everything is mixed together in this life. We never taste any pure sentiment, nor do we remain for more than two moments in the same state. The feelings of our minds, like the changes in our bodies, are in a continual flux. The good and the bad are common to all, but in different measurements. The happiest is he who suffers least from his pains; the most miserable is he who feels the least pleasure. Always more suffering than joy-- this is the difference common to all. Man's happiness in this world is thus only a negative state; it must be reckoned by the least quantity of ills that he suffers.
218 Every sentiment of pain is inseparable from the desire to get rid of it; every idea of pleasure is inseparable from the desire to enjoy it. All desire implies a deprivation, and all deprivations that one feels are painful. Our unhappiness thus consists in the disproportion between our desires and our faculties. A conscious being whose faculties were equal to his desires would be an absolutely happy being.
219 In what, therefore, consists human wisdom and the route to true happiness? It is not exactly in diminishing our desires; for if they were less than our powers, part of our faculties would remain idle, and we should not enjoy the whole of our being. Neither is it in extending our faculties, for if our desires were extended at the same time by a greater extent we would only become more unhappy. Rather, true happiness consists in decreasing the excess of desires over faculties and putting power and will into a perfect equilibrium. With all forces in action it is only then that the soul will nevertheless remain peaceful and that man will find himself well ordered.
220 It is thus that nature, which does everything for the best, originally constituted man. Nature first gave him only such desires that are necessary for self-preservation and such faculties as are sufficient for their satisfaction. All the others were put in reserve at the bottom of his soul for him to develop when needed. It is only in this primitive condition that we encounter the equilibrium between desire and power and where man is not unhappy. As soon as his potential faculties are put into action, imagination, the most active of all, awakes and precedes all the rest. It is imagination which extends for us the measure of what is possible either for good or for evil, and consequently which excites and nourishes our desires with the hope of satisfying them. But the object which seems at first within our grasp flies away quicker than we can follow; when we think we have grasped it, it transforms itself and is again far ahead of us. No longer perceiving the terrain we have already traversed, we count it as nothing; that which lies before us becomes vaster and stretches still before us. Thus we exhaust our strength without reaching our goal, and the closer we get to pleasure the further we are from happiness.
221 In contrast, the closer man stays to his natural condition, the smaller is the difference between his faculties and desires and the less far he consequently is from being happy. He is never less miserable than when he seems to be deprived of everything; for unhappiness consists not in the privation of things but in the need which is felt for them.
222 The real world has its limits, the imaginary world is infinite. Being unable to enlarge the one let us diminish the other, for it is from their difference alone that arise all the pains that make us truly unhappy. Except for health, strength, and self-estime, all the goods of this life are a matter of opinion; except for bodily suffering and remorse of conscience, all our ills are imaginary. You will tell me this is common knowledge. I admit it, but its practical application is not common knowledge, and it is with practice only that we are concerned here.
223 When we say that man is weak, what do we mean? This word weak implies a relation, a relation of the being to which it is applied. The one whose strength surpasses his needs, be it an insect or a worm, is a strong being. The one whose needs surpass its strength, be it an elephant, a lion, a conqueror, a hero, a God, is a weak being. The rebellious angel who fought against his own nature was weaker than the happy mortal who is living at peace according to nature. Man is very strong when he is content to be what he is; he is very weak when he wants to elevate himself above humanity. Do not imagine, therefore, that you can increase your strength by increasing your faculties. On the contrary, you diminish your strength if your pride increases even more. Let us measure the radius of our sphere and remain in its center, like the insect in the middle of its web. We will be sufficient to ourselves and will have no reason to complain of our weakness, for we will never feel it.
224 All animals possess exactly the faculties necessary for self-preservation. Man alone has superfluous ones. Is it not very strange that this superfluity should be the instrument of his unhappiness? In every land a man's labour yields more than his subsistence. If he were wise enough to disregard this surplus he would always have enough, for he would never have too much. "Great needs," said Favorinus, "spring from great wealth; and often the best way of getting what we want is to get rid of what we have." By striving to increase our happiness we change it into unhappiness. Every man who only wished to live would live happily; consequently he would be good, for what would be the advantage for him to be bad?
225 If we were immortal we should all be miserable. No doubt it is hard to die, but it is sweet to think that we shall not live for ever and that a better life will put an end to the sorrows of this world. If we had the offer of immortality on earth, who would accept the sorrowful gift? What resources, what hopes, what consolation would be left against the cruelties of fate and man's injustice? The ignorant man who never looks ahead knows little of the value of life and does not fear to lose it. The enlightened man sees things of greater worth and prefers them to life. Half-knowledge and sham wisdom set us thinking about death and what lies beyond it; and they thus create the worst of our ills. The wise man bears life's ills all the better because he knows he must die. Life would be too dearly bought if we did not know that sooner or later death will end it.
226 Our moral ills are all based on opinion -- except for crime, and that depends on ourselves. Our bodily ills either destroy themselves or destroy us. Time or death will cure them. But we suffer much more from not knowing how to suffer; and we give ourselves more torment in curing our illnesses than we would have if we endured them. Live according to nature; be patient, get rid of the doctors. You will not escape death, but you will only die once, while the doctors make you die daily through your diseased imagination. Their lying art, instead of prolonging your days, robs you of all delight in them. I am always asking what real good this art has done to mankind. True, the doctors cure some who would have died, but they kill millions who would have lived. If you are wise you will decline to take part in this lottery when the odds are so great against you. Suffer, die, or get better; but whatever you do, live while you are alive.
227 Human institutions are one mass of folly and contradiction. As our life loses its value we set a higher price upon it. Old people regret life more than the young; they do not want to lose all they have spent in preparing for its enjoyment. At sixty it is cruel to die when one has not begun to live. Man is credited with a strong desire for self-preservation, and this desire exists; but we fail to perceive that this desire, as felt by us, is largely the work of man. In a natural state man is only eager to preserve his life while he has the means for its preservation; when self-preservation is no longer possible, he resigns himself to his fate and dies without vain torments. Nature teaches us the first law of resignation. Savages, like wild beasts, make very little struggle against death, and meet it almost without complaint. When this natural law is overthrown another is formed which comes from reason, but few know how to draw upon it, and this artificial resignation is never so clear and complete as the first one.
228 Foresight! Foresight -- which carries us ceaselessly beyond ourselves and often to a place we shall never reach -- here is the real source of all our unhappiness. How insane it is for so short-lived a creature as man to look forward into a future to which so rarely arrives, while he neglects the present which is sure. This madness is all the more fatal when it increases with years, and when old people -- always timid, prudent, and miserly -- prefer to refuse themselves necessities today than to lack them in a hundred years. Thus we grasp everything, we cling to everything. We are anxious about time, place, people, things, all that is and will be. Our individual self is only the least part of ourselves. Each one spreads himself, so to speak, over the whole world, and becomes sensitive to all this vast surface. Is it surprising that our ills multiply at each point where we can be hurt? How many princes make themselves miserable for the loss of a land they have never seen! How many merchants weep in Paris over some misfortune in the Indies!
229 Is it nature that thus carries men so far from their real selves? Is it nature's will that each should learn his fate from others and sometimes even be the last to learn it, so that a man dies happy or miserable before he knows what he is about? I see a healthy, cheerful, strong and vigorous man; his presence inspires joy; his eyes tell of contentedness and well-being; he carries with him the image of happiness. A letter comes in the mail. The happy man glances at it, it is addressed to him. He opens it and reads it. Immediately his expression changes, he turns pale and collapses in dispair. When he comes to himself he weeps, trembles, and moans; he tears his hair and his cries fill the room. You would say he was in convulsions. Fool, what harm has this bit of paper done you? What limb has it torn away? What crime has it made you commit? What has it changed in you to put you in the state that I now see you in?
230 Had the letter been lost, had some kindly hand thrown it into the fire, it seems to me that the fate of this mortal, at once happy and unhappy, would have offered us a strange problem. His misfortunes, you say, were real enough. Granted; but he did not feel them. What of that? His happiness was imaginary. I admit it; health, wealth, a contented spirit, are mere dreams. We no longer exist where we are, we only exist where we are not. Is it worth it to have such a great fear of death provided that what we live off of remains?
231 Oh, man! Confine your existence inside of yourself and you will no longer be unhappy. Stay in the place that nature has assigned you in the chain of being; nothing should be able to make you leave it. Do not kick against the stern law of necessity, nor waste in vain resistance the strength that heaven gave you not to prolong or extend your existence but to preserve it so far and so long as heaven pleases. Your freedom and your power extend as far and no further than your natural strength; anything more is only slavery, illusion, reputation. Domination itself is servile when it depends upon opinion; for you are dependent on the prejudices of others when you rule them by means of those prejudices. To lead them as you please you must conduct yourself as they please. They have only to change their way of thinking and you are forced to change your course of action. Those who approach you need only contrive to sway the opinions of those you rule, or of the favourite by whom you are ruled, or those of your own family or theirs. Even if you had the genius of Themistocles, note 20] all these viziers, courtiers, priests, soldiers, servants, babblers, the very children themselves, would lead you like a child in the midst of your legions. Whatever you do, your actual authority can never extend beyond your own faculties. As soon as you are obliged to see with others' eyes, their wills must be your own. You may say with pride, "My people are my subjects." Granted, but what are you? The subject of your ministers. And your ministers, what are they? The subjects of their clerks, their mistresses, the servants of their servants. Grasp all, usurp all, and then pour out your silver with both hands; lay out your plans for war, raise the gallows and the wheel; make laws, issue proclamations, multiply your spies, your soldiers, your hangmen, your prisons, and your chains. Poor little men, what good does all of this do you? You will be no better served, you will not be less robbed or deceived, nor more absolute in your power. You will say continually, "We want," and you will continually do what others want.
232 The only man who follows his own will is he who has no need to put another man's arms at the end of his own. From this it follows that the the greatest good is not authority but freedom. The truly free man wants only what he can do and does what he pleases. This is my fundamental maxim. Apply it to childhood, and all the rules of education spring from it.
233 Society has weakened man not only by depriving him of the right to his own strength, but above all by making his strength insufficient for his needs. This is why his desires are multiplied with his weakness; and this is why the child is weaker than the man. If a man is strong and a child is weak it is not because the strength of the one is absolutely greater than the strength of the other, but because the one can naturally provide for himself and the other cannot. Thus the man will have more wishes and the child more whims, a word which I take to mean desires which are not true needs, desires which can only be satisfied with the help of others.
234 I have already given the reason for this state of weakness. Parental affection is nature's provision against it; but parental affection may have its excesses, its failings, its abuses. Parents who live in the civil state bring their child into it before the right age. By giving him more needs than he naturally has they do not relieve his weakness; they increase it. They further increase it by demanding of him what nature does not demand, by subjecting to their wills what little strength he has to serve his own, by making slaves of themselves or of him instead of recognising the mutual dependence which should result from his weakness and their affection.
235 The wise man knows how to stay in his place, but the child who does not know what his place is unable to keep it. There are a thousand ways out of it. It is the business of those who have charge of the child to keep him in his place, and this is no easy task. He should be neither beast nor man, but child. He must feel his weakness but not suffer from it. He must be dependent but he must not obey. He must ask, not command. He is only subject to others because of his needs and because they see better than he what is useful to him, what may help or hinder his existence. No one, not even his father, has the right to command the child do what is of no use to him.
236 Before our prejudices and human institutions have altered our natural inclinations, the happiness of children as well as of men consists in the use of their freedom. But children's freedom is limited by their weakness. He who does as he likes is happy provided he is self-sufficient; it is so with the man living in a state of nature. He who does what he likes is not happy if his desires exceed his strength; it is so with a child in similar conditions. Even in a state of nature children only enjoy an imperfect freedom, like that enjoyed by men in social life. Each of us, unable to dispense with the help of others, becomes in this way weak and unhappy. We were made to be men; laws and society plunge us back into infancy. The rich and great, even kings, are children who, when they see us hurry to sooth their miseries, draw from that a childish vanity and are full of pride for the attentions that they would never have gotten if they were grown men.
237 These considerations are important and serve to resolve all the contradictions of the social system. There are two kinds of dependence: dependence on things, which is from nature; and dependence on men, which is from society. Dependence on things, since it has no morality, does no harm to freedom and engenders no vices. Dependence on men, being without order, engenders all the vices, and through this master and slave become mutually corrupted. If there is any means of remedying this evil in society it is by substituting law for man, and by arming the general wills with a real force that is superior to the action of every individual will. If the laws of nations could have the inflexibility of the laws of nature that no human force could overcome, then the dependence of men would become once again a dependence on things. Thus one would reunite in the republic all the advantages of the natural state with those of the civil state; one could bring together the freedom that keeps man exempt from vice with the morality that raises him to virtue.
238 Keep the child dependent only on things. You will have followed the order of nature in the progress of his education. Never offer to his indiscrete will anything but physical obstacles or punishments that arise from the actions themselves and which he will recall at the proper occasion. Without forbidding him from doing wrong it suffices to prevent him from doing it. Experience or lack of strength alone ought take the place of law for him. Grant nothing to his desires because he demands it but only because he needs it. Let him not know what obedience is when he acts nor what domination is when someone acts for him. Let him feel his freedom equally in his actions and in yours. Supply the strength he lacks as precisely as he needs it in order to be free but not imperious; so that while receiving your services with a sort of humiliation he may look forward to the time when he will do without them and have the honor of serving himself.
239 To strengthen the body and make it grow, nature has means that should never be opposed. One must not force a child to stay when he wants to go, nor to go when he wants to stay. When we have not spoiled the wills of children by our own fault they want nothing arbitrarily. They must jump, run, shout when they wish. All their movements are from the needs of their constitution which seeks to strengthen itself. But one should be mistrustful of their wanting to do things that they cannot do themselves and that others are obliged to do for them. Then one must distinguish carefully between the true need, the natural need, and the needs of budding whim or those which come only from the overflowing life just described.
240 I have already told you what you ought to do when a child cries for this thing or that. I will only add that as soon as he has words to ask for what he wants and accompanies his demands with tears, either to get his own way quicker or to over-ride a refusal, he should never have his way. If his words were prompted by a real need you should recognise it and satisfy it at once. But to yield to his tears is to encourage him to cry, to teach him to doubt your kindness, and to think that you are influenced more by his impertinance than your own goodwill. If he does not think you good, soon he will be evil; if he thinks you weak he will soon become obstinate. It is important to grant at his first sign anything that you do not wish to refuse him. Do not overdo your refusals, but, having refused, do not change your mind.
241 Above all, beware of teaching the child empty phrases of politeness that only serve as magic words to subdue those around him to his will and to get him what he wants at once. The artificial education of the rich never fails to make them politely imperious by teaching them the words to use so that no one will dare to resist them. Their children have neither the tone nor the manner of suppliants; they are as haughty or even more haughty in their entreaties than in their commands, as though they were more certain to be obeyed. It is obvious that "If you please" means "It pleases me," and "I beg" means "I command." What admirable politeness, which only succeeds in changing the meaning of words so that every word is a command! For my own part, I would rather Emile were rude than arrogant, that he should say "Do this" as a request, rather than "Please" as a command. What concerns me is not the term that he uses but the meaning that he gives to it.
242 There is such a thing as excessive severity as well as excessive indulgence, and both should be equally avoided. If you let children suffer you risk their health and life; you make them miserable now. If you take too many pains to spare them every kind of discomfort you are laying up much unhappiness for them in the future; you are making them delicate and over-sensitive; you are taking them out of their place among men, a place to which they must sooner or later return in spite of all your pains. You will say I am falling into the same mistake as those bad fathers whom I blamed for sacrificing the present happiness of their children to a future which may never be theirs.
243 Not so. For the freedom I give my pupil makes up for the slight hardships to which he is exposed. I see little rascals playing in the snow, stiff and blue with cold, scarcely able to move their fingers. They could go and warm themselves if they chose, but they do not. If you forced them to come in they would feel the harshness of constraint a hundred times more than the sharpness of the cold. So what are you complaining about? Shall I make your child miserable by exposing him to hardships which he is perfectly ready to endure? I do what is good for him in the present moment by letting him be free; I do what is good for him in the future good by arming him against the evils he will have to bear. If he had his choice to be my pupil or yours, would he hesitate even for a moment?
244 Can one imagine that true happiness is possible for anyone outside of his constitution? And is not trying to spare man all the ills of his species an effort to remove him from his constitution? Indeed I maintain that to enjoy great goodness he must experience slight ills; such is his nature. If the physical is too healthy the moral will be corrupted. A man who knew nothing of suffering would not feel tenderness towards humanity nor the sweetness of pity. His heart would be moved by nothing; he would be unsociable, a monster among his fellow men.
245 Do you know the surest way to make your child miserable? Let him have everything he wants; for as his wants increase in proportion to the ease with which they are satisfied, you will be compelled, sooner or later, to refuse his demands, and this unlooked-for refusal will hurt him more than the lack of what he wants. First he'll want the cane that you are holding, soon he'll want your watch, then the bird that flies, or the star that shines above him. He will want everything that he sees. Unless you were God himself, how could you satisfy him?
246 It is a disposition natural to man to regard as his own everything that is in his power. In this sense Hobbes' principle is true up to a certain point. Multiply both our wishes and the means of satisfying them, and each will make himself the master of all. Thus the child who has only to want something in order to obtain it thinks himself the owner of the universe; he regards all men as his slaves. And finally when one is forced to refuse him something, he, believing anything is possible when he asks for it, takes the refusal as an act of rebellion. All the reasons you give him while he is still too young to reason are so many pretences in his eyes; in all of that he sees only ill will. The sense of a so-called injustice embitters his disposition; he hates everyone. Though he has never felt grateful for kindness, he resents all opposition.
247 How could I conceive that a child thus dominated by anger and devoured by the fiercest passions could ever be happy? Him happy? He is a despot, at once the vilest of slaves and the most miserable of creatures. I have known children raised in this way who expected you to knock the house down, to give them the weather-vane on the steeple, to stop a regiment on the march so that they might listen to the band, and who, without listening to anyone, would pierce the air with their cries as soon as they were not obeyed. Everyone strove vainly to please them. Since their desires were stimulated by the ease with which they got their own way, they set their hearts on impossibilities, and found themselves face to face with opposition and difficulty, pain and grief. Always whining, always rebellious, always in a rage, they spent their days crying and complaining. Were these beings so fortunate? Weakness combined with domination produces nothing but folly and misery. One spoiled child beats the table; another whips the sea. They may beat and whip in vain before they find contentment.
248 If these ideas of empire and tyranny make them miserable during childhood, what about when they grow up, when their relations with their fellow-men begin to expand and multiply? They are used to finding everything give way to them; what a painful surprise to enter society and meet with opposition on every side, to be crushed beneath the weight of a universe which they expected to move at will.
249 Their insolent manners, their childish vanity, only draw down upon them mortification, scorn, and mockery; they swallow insults like water. Sharp experience soon teaches them that they have realised neither their position nor their strength. Being unable to do everything, they think they can do nothing. They are daunted by unexpected obstacles, degraded by the scorn of men. They become base, cowardly, and deceitful, and fall as far below their true level as they formerly soared above it.
250 Let us come back to the first rule. Nature has made children to be loved and helped, but did it make them to be obeyed and feared? Has nature given them an imposing manner, a stern eye, a loud and threatening voice with which to make people wary of them? I understand how the roaring of the lion frightens the other beasts, so that they tremble when they behold his terrible mane, but of all unseemly, hateful, and ridiculous sights, was there ever anything like a group of statesmen, with their leader in front of them in his ceremonial robes, bowing down before a swaddled babe, addressing him in pompous phrases, while he cries and drools in reply?
251 If we consider childhood itself, is there in the world a being weaker and more miserable, more at the mercy of everything that surrounds it, who has a greater need of pity, care, and affection, than a child? Does it not seem as if his gentle face and touching appearance were intended to interest everyone on behalf of his weakness and to make them eager to help him? And what is there more offensive, more contrary to order, than the sight of an unruly or imperious child commanding those about him and impudently taking on the tones of a master towards those without whom he would perish?
252 On the other hand, is it not clear that the weakness of the first age enchains children in so many ways that it is barbarous to add our own whims to this subjection by depriving them of the limited freedom that they do have -- a freedom which they can scarcely abuse and the loss of which will do so little good to them or us? If there is nothing more ridiculous than a haughty child, there is nothing that claims our pity like a timid child. Since civil servitude begins with the age of reason, then why anticipate this by private servitude? Allow one moment of life to be free from this yoke that nature has not imposed upon it. Leave to the child the exercise of his natural freedom, which, for a time at least, keeps him away from the vices contracted in slavery. Let harsh masters and those fathers who are the slaves of their children both come forward with their petty objections; and before they boast of their own methods, let them for once learn the method of nature.
253 I return to practical matters. I have already said your child must not get what he asks, but what he needs; he must never act from obedience, but from necessity. Thus the very words obey and command will be excluded from his vocabulary, still more those of duty and obligation. But the words strength, necessity, weakness, and constraint must have a large place in it. Before the age of reason it is impossible to form any idea of moral beings or social relations. One must thus avoid as much as possible the use of words which express these ideas lest the child at an early age should attach wrong ideas to them, ideas which you cannot or will not destroy when he is older. The first mistaken idea he gets into his head is the germ of error and vice; it is the first step that needs watching. Act in such a way that while he only notices external objects his ideas are confined to sensations; let him only see the physical world around him. If not, you may be sure that either he will not hear you at all, or that he will form of this moral world you speak about some farfetched notions that you will never erase as long as he lives.
254 To reason with children was Locke's chief maxim. It is even more in vogue today. Its success however does not seem to me strong enough to give it credit; for me I see nothing more stupid that these children with whom people reasoned so much. Of all man's faculties, reason, which is, so to speak, the one composed of all the others, is the one that develops with the most difficulty and the latest, and yet you want to use it to develop the earlier ones! The culmination of a good education is to make a man reasonable, and you claim to raise a child with reason! You begin at the wrong end; you make the end the means. If children understood reason they would not need education. But by talking to them from their earliest age in a language they do not understand you accustom them to manipulate with words, to control all that is said to them, to think themselves as wise as their teachers, to become argumentative and rebellious. And whatever you think you gain from motives of reason you really gain from the greediness, or fear, or vanity, which you are always forced to add to your reasoning.
255 Most of the moral lessons which are and can be given to children may be reduced to this formula:
256 Master. You must not do that. Child. Why not? Master. Because it is wrong. Child. Wrong ! What is wrong? Master. What is forbidden you. Child. Why is it wrong to do what is forbidden? Master. You will be punished for disobeying. Child. I will do it when no one is looking. Master. We will keep an eye on you. Child. I will hide. Master. We will ask you what you were doing. Child. I will tell a lie. Master. You must not tell lies. Child. Why must not I tell lies? Master. Because it is wrong, etc.
257 That is the inevitable circle. Go beyond it, and the child will not understand you. What sort of use is there in such teaching? I should greatly like to know what you would substitute for this dialogue. It would have puzzled Locke himself. It is no part of a child's business to know right and wrong, to perceive the reason for a man's duties.
258 Nature wants children to be children before they are men. If we try to pervert this order we shall produce a forced fruit that will have neither ripeness nor flavor and that will soon spoil. We will have young doctors and old children. Childhood has its ways of seeing, thinking, and feeling that are proper to it. Nothing is less sensible than to try and substitute our ways. I would like no more to require a young child be five feet tall than that he have judgement at the age of ten. Indeed, what use would reason be to him at that age? It is the curb of strength, and the child does not need this curb.
259 In trying to persuade your pupils of the duty of obedience you add to this so-called persuasion force and threats, or still worse, flattery and bribes. Thus attracted by self-interest or constrained by force, they pretend to be convinced by reason. They see very well that obedience is to their advantage and disobedience to their disadvantage as soon as you perceive one or the other. But since you only demand disagreeable things of them, and since it is always painful to do another's will, they hide themselves so that they may do as they please, persuaded that they are doing well if no one knows of their disobedience, but ready, if found out, to admit they are in the wrong for fear of worse evils. Since the rationale for duty is beyond their age, there is not a man in the world who could make them really aware of it. But the fear of punishment, the hope of forgiveness, importunity, the difficulty of answering, wrings from them as many confessions as you want; and you think you have convinced them when you have only wearied or frightened them.
260 What is the result of all this? In the first place, by imposing on them a duty which they do not feel, you make them disinclined to submit to your tyranny and turn them away from loving you. You teach them to become deceitful, false, liars in order to extort rewards or escape punishment. Finally, by accustoming them to conceal a secret motive under an apparent one, you yourself give them the means of ceaselessly abusing you, of depriving you of the means of knowing their real character, and of answering you and others with empty words whenever they have the chance. Laws, you say, though binding on conscience, exercise the same constraint over grown men. I agree, but what are these men if not children spoiled by education? This is exactly what one must avoid. Use force with children and reason with men; this is the natural order. The wise man needs no laws.
261 Treat your pupil according to his age. Put him in his place from the first, and keep him there so well that he does not try to leave it. Then before he knows what wisdom is, he will be practising its most important lesson. Never command him to do anything, whatever in the world it may be. Do not let him even imagine that you claim to have any authority over him. He must know only that he is weak and you are strong, that his condition and yours put him at your mercy. Let him know this, let him learn it, let him feel it. At an early age let his haughty head feel the heavy yoke which nature imposes upon man, the heavy yoke of necessity under which every finite being must bow. Let him see this necessity in things, not in the whims of man. Let the curb that restrains him be force, not authority. If there is something he should not do, do not forbid him, but prevent him without explanation or reasoning. What you grant him, grant it at his first word without solicitations or pleading, above all without conditions. Grant with pleasure, refuse only with repugnance; but let your refusal be irrevocable so that no entreaties move you. Let your "No," once uttered, be a wall of bronze against which the child may have to exhaust his strength five or six times in order not to be tempted again to overthrow it.
262 It is thus that you will make him patient, equable, resigned, peaceful, even when he does not get all he wants. For it is in man's nature to bear patiently with the necessity of things but not with the ill-will of others. A child never rebels against "There is none left," unless he thinks the reply is false. Moreover, there is no middle course; you must either make no demands on him at all, or else you must fashion him to perfect obedience. The worst education of all is to leave him hesitating between his own will and yours, constantly disputing whether you or he is master. I would rather a hundred times that he were master.
263 It is very strange that ever since people began to think about raising children they should have imagined no other way of guiding them other than emulation, jealousy, envy, vanity, greediness, cowardice -- all the most dangerous passions, the quickest to ferment, and the most likely to corrupt the soul even before the body is formed. With each precocious instruction which you try to force into children's minds you plant a vice in the depths of their hearts. Senseless teachers think they are doing wonders when they are making their pupils evil in order to teach them what goodness is. And then they tell us gravely, "Such is man." Yes, such is the man that you have made.
264 Every means has been tried except one. the one precisely that could succeed -- well-regulated freedom. One should not undertake to raise a child unless one knows how to guide him where one wants by the laws of the possible and the impossible alone. The limits of both being equally unknown, they can be extended or contracted around him at will. Without a murmur the child is restrained, urged on, held back, only by the bands of necessity. One can make him supple and docile solely by the force of things, without any chance for vice to spring up in him. For passions never become aroused so long as they have no effect.
265 Do not give your pupil any kind of verbal lessons; he should receive them only through experience. Do not inflict on him any kind of punishment, for he does not know what it is to do wrong. Never make him beg your pardon, for he does not know how to offend you. Deprived of all morality in his actions, he can do nothing that is morally wrong, and he deserves neither punishment nor reprimand.
266 Already I see the frightened reader comparing this child with those of our time. He is mistaken. The perpetual annoyance imposed upon your pupils irritates their vivacity; the more constrained they are under your eyes, the more stormy they are the moment they escape. Whenever they can they must make up for the harsh constraint that you that you hold them in. Two schoolboys from the city will do more damage in the country than all the children of the village. Shut up a young gentleman and a young peasant in a room; the former will have upset and smashed everything before the latter has stirred from his place. Why is this, unless that the one hastens to abuse a moment's licence, while the other, always sure of freedom, does not use it rashly? And yet the village children, often flattered or constrained, are still very far from the state in which I would have them kept.
267 Let us lay it down as an incontestible maxim that the first movements of nature are always right. There is no original perversity in the human heart. There is not a single vice about which one cannot say how and whence it came. The only passion natural to man is amour de soi or amour-propre taken in an extended sense. This amour-propre in itself or relative to ourselves is good and useful, and since it has no necessary rapport to others it is in this regard naturally indifferent: it only becomes good or evil by what it is applied to and by the relations it is given. Until the appearance of reason, which is the guide of amour-propre, the main thing is that the child should do nothing because you are watching him or listening to him; in a word, nothing because of other people, but only what nature asks of him. Then he will only do good.
268 I do not mean to say that he will never do any mischief, never hurt himself, never break an expensive item if you leave it within his reach. He might do much damage without doing wrong, since wrong-doing depends on the harmful intention which will never be his. If once he meant to do harm, his whole education would already be lost; he would be almost hopelessly bad.
269 Greed considers some things wrong which are not wrong in the eyes of reason. By leaving children in full liberty to exercise their playfulness, you must put anything that it could ruin out of their way, and leave nothing fragile or costly within their reach. Let the room be furnished with plain and solid furniture: no mirrors, china, or objects of luxury. As for Emile, who I will raise in the country, he will have a room just like a peasant's. What good is it to decorate it with so much care when he will spend so little time in it? But I am mistaken; he will decorate it himself, and we shall soon see how.
270 If, in spite of your precautions, the child happens to do some damage, if he breaks some useful article, do not punish him for your carelessness. Do not even scold him. Let him hear no word of reproach, do not even let him see that he has annoyed you. Behave just as if the thing had broken by itself. You may consider you have done great things if you have managed to say nothing.
271 Dare I express here the greatest, the most important, the most useful rule of all education? It is not to gain time but to lose it. Common readers, excuse my paradoxes. Paradoxes are necessary when one reflects, and whatever you may say I would rather be a man of paradox than a man of prejudice. The most dangerous period in human life lies between birth and the age of twelve. It is the time when errors and vices spring up, without one yet having any instrument for destroying them; and when the instrument comes, the roots have gone too deep to be pulled up . If children sprang at one bound from their mother's breast to the age of reason, the present type of education would suit them. But natural growth calls for a completely different education. One must do nothing with their soul until it has all its faculties. For while it is blind it cannot see the torch you offer it, nor can it follow through the vast expanse of ideas a path so faintly traced by reason that the best eyes can scarcely follow it.
272 The first education ought thus to be purely negative. It consists not at all in teaching virtue or truth, but in preserving the heart from vice and the mind from error. If you could do nothing and let nothing be done, if you could bring your pupil healthy and robust to the age of twelve without knowing how to distinguish his right hand from his left, the eyes of his understanding would be open to reason as soon as you began to teach him. Without prejudice and without habits, there would be nothing in him to counteract the effects of your labours. In your hands he would soon become the wisest of men; by doing nothing to begin with, you would end with a prodigy of education.
273 Go in a different direction from the usual one and you will almost always do right. Since they want their child to be a doctor instead of a child, fathers and teachers think it never too soon to scold, correct, reprimand, flatter, threaten, promise, instruct, and reason. Do better than they; be reasonable and do not reason with your pupil. More especially do not try to make him approve of what he dislikes; for if reason is always connected with disagreeable matters, you make it distasteful to him, you discredit it at an early age in a mind not yet ready to understand it. Exercise his body, his limbs, his senses, his strength, but keep his mind idle as long as you can. Distrust all opinions which appear before the judgment to discriminate between them. Restrain and ward off strange impressions; and to prevent the birth of evil do not hasten to do good, for goodness is only possible when enlightened by reason. Regard all delays as so much time gained; it is to gain much to approach one's goal without a loss. Let childhood to ripen in children. Has some lesson finally become necessary? Beware of giving it to them today if it can be put off without danger until tomorrow.
274 Another consideration confirms the utility of this method. One must be familiar with the particular genius of the child in order to know what moral regime is best for him. Every mind has its own form in accordance with which it must be governed; and the success of the pains taken depends largely on the fact that he is controlled in this way and no other. Wise man, take time to observe nature. Watch your pupil well before you say a word to him; first leave the germ of his character free to show itself. Do not constrain him in anything, the better to see him as he really is. Do you think this time of liberty is wasted for him? On the contrary, your pupil will be the better employed, for this is the way you yourself will learn not to lose a single moment when time is of more value. If, however, you begin to act before you know what to do, you act randomly. You may make mistakes, and must retrace your steps; you will be further from your goal than if you had been less pressed to reach it. Do not be like the miser who loses much out of fear of losing a little. Sacrifice the time in early childhood that you regain with interest at a more advanced age. The wise physician does not hastily give prescriptions at first sight but studies the temperament of the sick man before he prescribes anything. The treatment is begun later, but the patient is cured, whereas the hasty doctor kills him.
275 But where will we find a place for our child so as to bring him up as a senseless being, an automaton? Will we keep him on the moon, or on a desert island? Will we remove him from all humans? In society will he not always be faced with the spectacle and the example of the passions of other people? Will he never see children of his own age? Will he not see his parents, his neighbours, his nurse, his governess, his lackey, his tutor himself, who after all will not be an angel?
276 This objection is solid and real. But did I tell you that an education according to nature would be an easy task? Oh, men! Is it my fault that you have made difficult everything that is good? I sense these difficulties, I accept them; perhaps they are insurmountable. But it is always certain that by trying to avoid them one does avoid them up to a certain point. I show the end that must be proposed. I do not say we can attain it, but I do say that whoever comes nearest to it will have succeeded the best.
277 Remember that before daring to undertake forming a man one must be a man himself. One must find within oneself the example that one must propose. While the child is still without knowledge one has time to prepare everything that comes near him, so that he will be confronted only with those objects which are suitable to his sight. Make yourself respectable to every one, begin to make yourself loved so that each seeks to please you, so that they may try to please you. You will not be master of the child if you are not the master of all that surrounds him; and this authority will never suffice if it is not founded on an esteem for virtue. It is not a question of emptying your purse and pouring out handfuls of money; I have never seen money make anyone be loved. You must neither be miserly nor hard, nor must you merely pity misery when you can relieve it. But in vain will you only open your purse, for if you do not also open your heart the hearts of others will always be closed to you. This is your time, these are your cares, your affections; it is yourself that you must give. For whatever you do, people always perceive that your money is not you. There are proofs of kindly interest which produce more results and are really more useful than any gift. How many of the sick and wretched have more need of comfort than of alms? How many of the oppressed need protection rather than money? Reconcile those who are fighting, prevent lawsuits, incline children to duty, fathers to kindness; promote happy marriages; prevent annoyances; freely use the credit of your pupil's parents on behalf of the weak who cannot obtain justice, the weak who are oppressed by the powerful. Declare yourself proudly the protector of the poor. Be just, humane, benevolent. Do not give only alms; give charity. Works of mercy sooth more ills than money. Love others and they will love you; serve them and they will serve you; be their brother and they will be your children.
278 This is one reason why I want to bring up Emile in the country, far from those miserable lackeys, the most degraded of men except their masters; far from the dark customs of the city, whose gilded surface makes them seductive and contagious to children; whereas the vices of peasants, unadorned and in their naked grossness, are more fitted to repel than to seduce as long as there is no motive for imitating them.
279 In the village a tutor will have much more control over the things he wishes to show the child. His reputation, his words, his example, will have a weight they would never have in the city. He is of use to every one, so every one is eager to oblige him, to win his esteem, to appear before the pupil what the tutor would have him be. If vice is not corrected, public scandal is at least avoided, which is all that our present purpose requires.
280 Cease blaming others for your own faults. Children are corrupted less by what they see than by what you tell them. With your endless preaching, moralising, and pedantry, for one idea you give your pupils, believing it to be good, you give them twenty more which are good for nothing. You are full of what is going on in your own mind, and you fail to see the effect you produce on theirs. In the continual flow of words with which you overwhelm them, do you think there is none which they get hold of in a wrong sense? Do you suppose they do not make their own comments on your long-winded explanations, that they do not find material for the construction of a system they can understand -- one which they will use against you when they get the chance?
281 Listen to a little fellow who has just been indoctrinated. Let him chatter freely, ask questions, and talk at his ease, and you will be surprised to find the strange forms your arguments have assumed in his mind. He confuses everything and turns everything upside down. He makes you impatient and saddens you sometimes by his unforeseen objections. He reduces you to be silent yourself or to silence him; and what can he think of silence in one who is so fond of talking? If ever he gains this advantage and is aware of it, farewell education. From that moment all is lost; he is no longer trying to learn, he is trying to refute you.
282 Zealous teachers, be simple, discrete, and reticent. Be in no hurry to act unless to prevent the actions of others. Again and again I say, reject, if it may be, a good lesson for fear of giving a bad one. Beware of playing the tempter in this world, which nature intended as an earthly paradise for men, and do not attempt to give the innocent child the knowledge of good and evil. Since you cannot prevent the child learning by what he sees outside himself, restrict your own efforts to impressing those examples on his mind in the form best suited for him.
283 The explosive passions produce a great effect upon the child who witnesses them because they have very obvious signs that shock him and force him to pay attention. Anger especially is so noisy in its rage that it is impossible not to perceive it if you are within reach. You must not ask yourself whether this is an opportunity for a pedagogue to enter into a fine discourse. No discourses! Nothing, not a word. Let the child come to you. Impressed by what he has seen, he will not fail to question you. The answer is simple; it is drawn from the very things which have appealed to his senses. He sees a flushed face, flashing eyes, a threatening gesture, he hears cries; everything shows that the body is ill at ease. Tell him plainly, without affectation or mystery, "This poor man is ill, he is in a fever." You may take the opportunity of giving him in a few words some idea of disease and its effects; for that too belongs to nature, and is one of the bonds of necessity which he must recognise.
284 By means of this idea, which is not false in itself, might he not early on acquire a certain aversion to giving way to excessive passions, which he regards as diseases; and do you not think that such a notion, given at the right moment, will produce a more wholesome effect than the most tedious sermon on morals? But consider the after-effects of this idea. You have authority, if ever you find it necessary, to treat the rebellious child as a sick child; to keep him in his room, in bed if need be, to diet him, to make him afraid of his growing vices, to make him hate and dread them without ever regarding as a punishment the strict measures you will perhaps have to use for his recovery. If it happens that you yourself in a moment's heat depart from the calm and self-control which you should aim at, do not try to conceal your fault, but tell him frankly, with a gentle reproach, "My friend, you have made me ill."
285 Moreover, it is a matter of great importance that no notice should be taken in his presence of the quaint sayings which result from the simplicity of the ideas in which he is brought up, nor should they be quoted in a way he can understand. A foolish laugh may destroy six months' work and do irreparable damage for life. I cannot repeat too often that to control the child one must often control oneself. I picture my little Emile at the height of a dispute between two neighbours going up to the fiercest of them and saying in a tone of pity, "You are ill, I am very sorry for you." This speech will no doubt have its effect on the spectators and perhaps on the disputants. Without laughter, scolding, or praise I should take him away, willing or no, before he could see this result, or at least before he could think about it; and I should make haste to turn his thoughts to other things so that he would soon forget all about it.
286 My design is not to enter into every detail, but only to expose general maxims and to give illustrations in cases of difficulty. I agree that it is impossible to raise a child up to the age of twelve in the midst of society without giving him some idea of the relations between one man and another, and of the morality of human actions. It is enough to try to give him these necessary notions as late as possible, and when they become inevitable to limit them to present needs, so that he may neither think himself master of everything nor do harm to others without knowing or caring. There are calm and gentle characters which can be led a long way in their first innocence without any danger; but there are also stormy dispositions whose passions develop early. You must hasten to make men of them lest you should have to keep them in chains.
287 Our first duties are to ourselves; our first feelings are centred on self; all our instincts are at first directed to our own preservation and our own welfare. Thus the first notion of justice springs not from what we owe to others but from what is due to us. Here is another error in popular methods of education. If you talk to children of their duties, and not of their rights, you are beginning at the wrong end and telling them what they cannot understand, what cannot be of any interest to them.
288 If I had to lead a child such as I have just described, I should say to myself: A child does not attack people but things; and he soon learns by experience to respect those older and stronger than himself. Things, however, do not defend themselves. Therefore the first idea he needs is not that of liberty but of property, and in order that he may get this idea he must have something of his own. It is useless to enumerate his clothes, furniture, and playthings; although he uses these he knows not how or why he has come by them. To tell him they were given him is little better, for giving implies having; so here is property before his own, and it is the principle of property that you want to teach him. Moreover, giving is a convention, and the child as yet has no idea of conventions. I hope my reader will note, in this and many other cases, how people think they have taught children thoroughly, when they have only thrust on them words which have no intelligible meaning to them.
289 We must therefore go back to the origin of property, for that is where the first idea of it must begin. The child, living in the country, will have gotten some idea of field work; eyes and leisure suffice for that, and he will have both. In every age, and especially in childhood, we want to create, to copy, to produce, to give all the signs of power and activity. He will not have seen the gardener at work more than two times -- sowing, planting, and growing vegetables -- before he will want to garden himself.
290 According to the principles I have already laid down, I will not oppose his desire; on the contrary, I shall approve of his plan, share his taste, and work with him, not for his pleasure but my own; at least, so he thinks. I shall be his under-gardener, and dig the ground for him till his arms are strong enough to do it. He will take possession of it by planting a bean, and this is surely a more sacred possession, and one more worthy of respect, than that of Nuñes Balboa, who took possession of South America in the name of the King of Spain by planting his banner on the coast of the Southern Sea.
291 We come to water the beans every day, we watch them coming up with the greatest delight. I increase this delight by saying, Those belong to you. To explain what that word ''belong" means, I show him how he has given his time, his labour, and his trouble, his very self to it; that in this ground there is something of himself which he can claim against anyone else, just as he could withdraw his arm from the hand of another man who wanted to hold it against his will.
292 One fine day he hurries up with his watering-can in his hand. What a sad scene! All the beans are pulled up, the soil is dug over, you can scarcely find the place. Ah, what has become of my labour, my work, the beloved fruits of my care and sweat? Who has stolen my property? Who has taken my beans? The young heart revolts; the first feeling of injustice brings its sorrow and bitterness. Tears come in torrents; the devastated child fills the air with sobs and cries. I share his sorrow and anger; we look around us, we make inquiries. At last we discover that the gardener did it. We send for him.
293 But we are greatly mistaken. The gardener, hearing our complaint, begins to complain louder than we: What, gentlemen, was it you who wrecked my work? I had sown some Maltese melons; the seed was given me as something quite precious and which I meant to give you as a treat when they were ripe. But you have planted your miserable beans and destroyed my melons, which were coming up so nicely and which I cannot replace. You have done me an irreparable wrong, and you have deprived yourselves of the pleasure of eating some exquisite melons.
294 Jean Jacques: My poor Robert, you must forgive us. You had given your labour and your pains to it. I see we were wrong to spoil your work, but we will send to Malta for some more seed for you, and we will never dig the ground again without finding out if some one else has had his hand in it before us. Robert: Well, gentlemen, you need not trouble yourselves, for there is no more fallow land. I dig what my father tilled. Every one does the same, and all the land you see has been occupied for a long time. Emile: Mr. Robert, do people often lose the seed of Maltese melons? Robert: No indeed sir; we do not often find little gentlemen as silly as you. No one touches the garden of his neighbor; every one respects other people's work so that his own may be safe. Emile: But I don't have a garden. Robert: What's that to me? If you spoil mine I won't let you walk around here, for you see I do not want to lose my work. Jean Jacques: Could not we suggest an arrangement with this kind Robert? Let him give my young friend and myself a corner of his garden to cultivate, on condition that he has half the crop. Robert: You may have it free. But remember I shall dig up your beans if you touch my melons.
295 In this attempt to show how a child may be taught certain primitive ideas we see how the idea of property goes back naturally to the right of the first occupant by means of labor. That is plain and simple, and quite within the child's grasp. From that to the rights of property and exchange there is but a step, after which you must stop short.
296 You also see that an explanation which I can give in a couple of pages in writing may take a year in practice, for in the course of moral ideas we cannot advance too slowly, nor plant each step too firmly. Young teachers, I ask you to think of this example and remember that in all things your lessons should be in actions rather than speeches. For children soon forget what they say or what is said to them, but not what they have done nor what has been done to them.
297 Such teaching should be given, as I have said, sooner or later, as the scholar's disposition, peaceful or stormy, requires it. The way of using it is unmistakable; but to omit no matter of importance in a difficult business let us take another example.
298 Your ill-tempered child destroys everything he touches. Do not get angry; put anything he can ruin out of his reach. He breaks the furniture he is using; do not be in a hurry to give him more; let him feel the lack of them. He breaks the windows of his room; let the wind blow upon him night and day, and do not be afraid of his catching cold; it is better to catch cold than to be crazy. Never complain of the inconvenience he causes you, but let him feel it first. At last you will have the windows mended without saying anything. He breaks them again. Then change your plan; tell him cooly and without anger, "The windows are mine, I took pains to have them put in, and I mean to keep them safe." Then you will shut him up in a dark place without a window. At this unexpected proceeding he cries and howls; no one hears him. Soon he gets tired and changes his tone; he complains and groans; a servant appears, the rebel begs to be let out. Without seeking any excuse for refusing, the servant merely says, "I, too, have windows to protect," and goes away. At last, when the child has been there several hours, long enough to get very tired of it, long enough to make an impression on his memory, some one suggests to him that he should offer to make terms with you, so that you may set him free and he will never break windows again. That is just what he wants. He will send and ask you to come and see him; you will come, he will suggest his plan, and you will agree to it at once, saying, "That is a very good idea; it will suit us both. Why didn't you think of it sooner?" Then without asking for any affirmation or confirmation of his promise, you will embrace him joyfully and take him back at once to his own room, considering this agreement as sacred as if he had confirmed it by a formal oath. What idea do you think he will form from these proceedings as to the fulfilment of a promise and its usefulness? If I am not greatly mistaken, there is not a child upon earth, unless he is spoiled already, who could resist this treatment, or one who would ever dream of breaking windows again on purpose. Follow out the whole train of thought. The naughty little fellow hardly thought when he was making a hole for his beans that he was digging a cell in which his own knowledge would soon enclose him.
299 Here we are in the moral world; now the door to vice is open. Along with conventions and duties are born deceite and falsehood. As soon as we can do what we ought not to do, we try to hide what we ought not to have done. As soon as self-interest makes us give a promise, a greater self-interest may make us break it. It is only a question of doing it with impunity. The recourse is naturel: one hides and one lies. Having been unable to prevent vice, here we are already having to punish it. The sorrows of life begin with its mistakes.
300 I have already said enough to show that children should never receive punishment merely as punishment, but that it should always come as a natural consequence of their bad action. Thus you will not lecture them about their falsehood, you will not exactly punish them for lying, but you will arrange that all the ill effects of lying -- such as not being believed when they speak the truth, or being accused of a wrong that they have not committed despite protests of innocence -- shall fall on their heads when they have told a lie. But let us explain what lying means to the child.
301 There are two kinds of lies. One concerns an accomplished fact, the other concerns a future duty. The first occurs when one denies having done that which one has done or when one asserts that one has done something that one has not done, or in general when one speaks knowingly against the truth of things. The other occurs when one makes a promise that one does not intend to fulfill, or, in general, when one professes an intention that one does not really mean to carry out. These two kinds of lie are sometimes found in combination, but their differences are my present business.
302 He who feels the need of help from others, he who is constantly experiencing their kindness, has nothing to gain by deceiving them. On the contrary, he has a palpable interest that they should see things as they are, lest they should mistake his interests. It is therefore plain that lying with regard to actual facts is not natural to children. But lying is made necessary by the law of obedience: since obedience is disagreeable, children disobey as far as they can in secret, and the present good of avoiding punishment or reproof outweighs the more remote good of speaking the truth. Under a natural and free education why should your child lie? What has he to hide from you? You do not thwart him, you do not punish him, you demand nothing from him. Why should he not tell everything to you as naively as to his little friend? He cannot see anything more risky in the one course than in the other.
303 The lie concerning right is even less natural, since promises to do or refrain from doing are conventional acts which are outside the state of nature and detract from our liberty. Moreover, all promises made by children are in themselves void: given that their limited view cannot extend beyond the present, when they pledge themselves they do not know what they are doing. A child can hardly lie when he makes a promise, for he is only thinking how he can get out of the present difficulty; any means which has not an immediate result is the same to him. When he promises for the future he promises nothing, and his imagination is as yet incapable of projecting himself into the future while he lives in the present. If he could escape a whipping or get a box of candy by promising to throw himself out of the window tomorrow, he would promise on the spot. This is why the law disregards all promises made by minors, and when fathers and more severe tutors insist that they fulfill them, it is only when the promise refers to something the child ought to do even if he had made no promise.
304 Since the child cannot know what he is doing when he promises, he thus cannot lie by promising. The case is not the same when he breaks his promise, which is a sort of retroactive lying. For he remembers very well having made the promise, but what he does not see is the importance of keeping it. Unable to look into the future, he cannot foresee the consequences of things, and when he breaks his promises he does nothing contrary to this stage of reasoning.
305 It follows from this that children's lies are entirely the work of their teachers, and to teach them to speak the truth is nothing less than to teach them the art of lying. In your haste to rule, control, and teach them, you never find sufficient means at your disposal. You wish to gain fresh influence over their minds by baseless maxims, by unreasonable precepts; and you would rather they knew their lessons and told lies than leave them ignorant and truthful.
306 For those of us who only give our pupils lessons in practice, who prefer to have them good rather than clever, we never demand the truth lest they should conceal it and never make them promise anything lest they should be tempted to break it. If some wrong has been done in my absence and I do not know who did it, I will take care not to accuse Emile nor to say, "Did you do it?" For in so doing what should I do but teach him to deny it? If his difficult temperament compels me to make some agreement with him, I will take good care that the suggestion always comes from him, never from me; that when he undertakes anything he has always a present and effective interest in fulfilling his promise; and if he ever fails this lie will bring down on him all the unpleasant consequences which he sees arising from the natural order of things and not from his tutor's vengeance. But far from having recourse to such cruel measures, I feel almost certain that Emile will not know for many years what it is to lie, and that when he does find out, he will be astonished and unable to understand what can be the use of it. It is quite clear that the less I make his welfare dependent on the will or the opinions of others, the less it will be in his interest to lie.
307 When we are in no hurry to teach there is no hurry to demand, and we can take our time so as to demand nothing except under fitting conditions. Then the child is training himself, in so far as he is not being spoiled. But when a fool of a tutor, who does not know how to set about his business, is always making his pupil promise first this and then that, without discrimination, choice, or proportion, the child is puzzled and overburdened with all these promises, and he neglects, forgets or even scorns them. Considering them as so many empty phrases he makes a game of making and breaking promises. If you wish to have him keep his promise faithfully, be moderate in your claims upon him.
308 The detailed treatment I have just given to lying may be applied in many respects to all the other duties imposed upon children, whereby these duties are made not only hateful but impracticable. In order to appear to be preaching virtue you make children love every vice. You instil these vices by forbidding them. Do you want to make children pious? You take them to church and make them bored. By making them ceaselessly mumble prayers you force them to wish for the pleasure of not praying to God. To teach them charity you make them give alms as if you scorned to give yourself. It is not the child but the tutor who should give. However much he loves his pupil he should vie with him for this honour; he should make him think that he is too young to deserve it. Alms-giving is the action of a man who can measure the worth of his gift and the needs of his fellow-men. The child, who knows nothing of these, can have no merit in giving; he gives without charity, without kindness. He is almost ashamed to give, for, to judge by your practice and his own, he thinks it is only children who give and that there is no need for charity when one is grown up.
309 Observe that the only things children are set to give are things that they do not know the value of, bits of metal carried in their pockets for which they have no further use. A child would rather give a hundred coins than one cake. But get this prodigal giver to distribute what is dear to him, his toys, his candy, his own lunch, and we shall soon see if you have made him really generous.
310 People try yet another way; they soon restore to the child what he gave away, so that he gets used to giving everything which he knows will come back to him. I have hardly ever seen generosity in children except of these two types -- giving what is of no use to them, or what they expect to get back again. Arrange things, says Locke, so that experience may convince them that the most generous giver gets the biggest share. That is to make the child superficially generous but really greedy. He adds that children will thus form the habit of liberality. Yes, a usurer's liberality, which gives an egg to get a cow. But when it is a question of real giving, good-bye to the habit; when they do not get things back, they will not give. It is the habit of the mind, not of the hands, that needs watching. All the other virtues taught to children are like this, and to preach these baseless virtues you waste their youth in sorrow. Isn't this an intelligent kind of education!
311 Teachers, get rid of these shams. Be good and kind; let your example sink into your pupils' memories until they are old enough to take it to heart. Rather than hasten to demand acts of charity from my pupil I prefer to perform such actions in his presence, even depriving him of the means of imitating me, as an honour beyond his years. For it is of the utmost importance that he should not regard a man's duties as merely those of a child. If when he sees me help the poor he asks me about it, and it is time to reply to his questions, I will say, "My friend, the rich only exist through the good will of the poor; so they have promised to feed those who have not enough to live on, either in goods or labour." "Then you promised to do this?" "Certainly; I am only master of the wealth that passes through my hands on the condition attached to its ownership."
312 After having heard this talk (and we have seen how a child may be brought to understand it) another than Emile would be tempted to imitate me and behave like a rich man. In such a case I should at least take care that it was done without ostentation. I would rather he robbed me of my privilege and hid himself in order to give. It is a fraud suitable to his age, and the only one I could forgive in him.
313 I know that all these imitative virtues are only the virtues of a monkey, and that a good action is only morally good when it is done as such and not because of others. But at an age when the heart does not yet feel anything, you must make children copy the actions you wish to grow into habits until they can do them with understanding and for the love of what is good. Man imitates, as do animals. The love of imitating is well regulated by nature; in society it becomes a vice. The monkey imitates man, whom he fears, and not the other animals, which he scorns. He thinks what is done by his betters must be good. Among ourselves, our harlequins imitate all that is good to degrade it and bring it into ridicule. Knowing their owners' baseness they try to equal what is better than they are, or they strive to imitate what they admire, and their bad taste appears in their choice of models. They would rather deceive others or win applause for their own talents than become wiser or better. Imitation has its roots in our desire to escape from ourselves. If I succeed in my undertaking, Emile will certainly have no such wish. So we must dispense with any seeming good that it might produce.
314 Examine your rules of education; you will find them all misconceived, especially in all that concerns virtue and morals. The only moral lesson which is suited to childhood and the most important at any age is never to harm anyone. The very rule of doing good, if not subordinated to this rule, is dangerous, false and contradictory. Who is there who does no good? Everyone does some good, the wicked as well as the righteous; he makes one happy at the cost of the misery of a hundred, and hence spring all our misfortunes. The most sublime virtues are negative. They are also the most difficult, for they are without ostentation and even beyond that pleasure so dear to the heart of man, the thought that some one is pleased with us. If there be a man who does no harm to his neighbours, what good must he have accomplished! What a bold heart, what a strong character he needs! It is not in talking about this maxim, but in trying to practise it, that we discover both its greatness and its difficulty.
315 This will give you some slight idea of the precautions I would have you take in giving children instruction which cannot always be refused without risk to themselves or others, or the far greater risk of the formation of bad habits, which would be difficult to correct later on. But be sure this necessity will not often arise with children who are properly brought up, for they cannot possibly become rebellious, spiteful, untruthful, or greedy, unless the seeds of these vices are sown in their hearts. What I have just said applies therefore rather to the exception than the rule. But these exceptions will be more frequent the more often children have the opportunity of leaving their proper condition and contracting the vices of men. Those who are brought up in the world must receive more precocious instruction than those who are brought up in seclusion. So this solitary education would be preferable, even if it did nothing more than give childhood time to ripen.
316 There is quite another class of exceptions: those so gifted by nature that they rise above the level of their age. As there are men who never get beyond infancy, so there are others who are never, so to speak, children; they are men almost from birth. The difficulty is that these cases are very rare, very difficult to distinguish, and that every mother who knows that a child may be a prodigy is convinced that her child is one. They go further; they mistake the common signs of growth for marks of exceptional talent. Liveliness, sharp sayings, romping, amusing simplicity -- these are the characteristic marks of this age and show that the child is only a child. Is it so strange that a child who is encouraged to chatter and allowed to say anything, who is restrained neither by consideration nor convention, should chance to say something clever? Were he never to hit the mark, his case would be stranger than that of the astrologer who, among a thousand errors, occasionally predicts the truth. "They lie so often," said Henry IV., "that at last they say what is true." If you want to say something clever, you have only to talk long enough. May God watch over those fashionable people who have no other claim to social distinction.
317 The finest thoughts may spring from a child's brain, or rather the best words may drop from his lips, just as diamonds of great worth may fall into his hands, while neither the thoughts nor the diamonds are his own. At this age neither can be really his. The child's sayings do not mean to him what they mean to us; the ideas he attaches to them are different. His ideas, if indeed he has any ideas at all, have neither order nor connection; there is nothing sure, nothing certain, in his thoughts. Examine your so-called prodigy. Now and again you will discover in him extreme activity of mind and extraordinary clearness of thought. More often this same mind will seem slack and spiritless, as if wrapped in mist. Sometimes he goes before you, sometimes he will not stir. One moment you would call him a genius, another a fool. You would be mistaken in both; he is a child, an eaglet who soars aloft for a moment, only to drop back into the nest.
318 Treat him, therefore, according to his age, in spite of appearances, and beware of exhausting his strength by over-much exercise. If the young brain grows warm and begins to bubble, let it work freely, but do not heat it any further lest it lose its goodness. And when the first gases have been given off, collect and compress the rest so that in after years they may turn to life-giving heat and real energy. If not, your time and your pains will be wasted, you will destroy your own work, and after foolishly intoxicating yourself with these heady fumes, you will have nothing left but an insipid and worthless wine.
319 Silly children grow into ordinary men. I know no generalisation more certain than this. It is the most difficult thing in the world to distinguish in childhood between genuine stupidity, and that apparent and mistaken stupidity which is the sign of a strong character. At first sight it seems strange that the two extremes should have the same outward signs; and yet it may well be so, for at an age when man has as yet no true ideas, the whole difference between the one who has genius and the one who doesn't consists in this: the latter only take in false ideas, while the former, finding nothing but false ideas, receives no ideas at all. In this he resembles the fool: the one is fit for nothing, the other finds nothing fit for him. The only way of distinguishing between them depends upon chance, which may offer the genius some idea which he can understand while the fool is always the same. As a child, the young Cato was taken for an idiot by his parents. He was obstinate and silent, and that was all they perceived in him. It was only in Sulla's ante-chamber that his uncle discovered what was in him. Had he never found his way there he might have passed for a fool till he reached the age of reason. Had Cæser never lived, perhaps this same Cato, who discerned his fatal genius and foretold his great schemes, would have passed for a dreamer all his days. Those who judge children hastily are so apt to be mistaken! They are often more childish than the child himself. I knew a middle-aged man, whose friendship I esteemed an honour, who was reckoned a fool by his family. All at once he made his name as a philosopher, and I have no doubt posterity will give him a high place among the greatest thinkers and the profoundest metaphysicians of his century.
320 Respect childhood, and do not be in any hurry to judge it for good or ill. Leave exceptional cases to show themselves, prove themselves, and be confirmed, before adopting special methods for them. Let nature act for a long time before intervening to act in its place, lest you upset its operations. You say that you know the value of time and are afraid to waste it. You fail to perceive that it is a greater waste of time to use it badly than to do nothing, and that a child badly taught is further from wisdom than a child who has been taught nothing at all. You are alarmed to see him spending his early years doing nothing. What! is it nothing to be happy, nothing to run and jump all day? He will never be so busy again in his whole life. Plato, in his republic, which is considered to be so austere, teaches the children only through festivals, games, songs and amusements. It seems as if he had accomplished his purpose when he had taught them to be happy. And Seneca, speaking of the Roman youth in ancient times, says: "They were always on their feet, they were never taught anything which kept them sitting." Were they any the worse for it in manhood? Do not be afraid therefore, of this so-called idleness. What would you think of a man who refused to sleep for fear he should waste part of his life? You would say, this man is crazy; he is not enjoying his life, he is robbing himself of part of it; to flee sleep he is hurrying towards death. Remember that this is the same thing, and that childhood is the sleep of reason.
321 The apparent ease with which children learn is their ruin. You fail to see that this very facility proves that they are not learning Their shining, polished brain reflects like a mirror the things you show them, but nothing stays there, nothing penetrates. The child remembers the words, and the ideas are reflected back. Those who hear him understand them; he alone understands nothing.
322 Although memory and reason are wholly different faculties, the one does not really develop apart from the other. Before the age of reason the child receives images, not ideas; and there is this difference between them: images are merely the pictures of external objects, while ideas are notions about those objects determined by their relations. An image when it is recalled may exist by itself in the mind, but every idea implies other ideas. When one imagines one merely sees; when one reasons one compares. Our sensations are purely passive, whereas all our perceptions or ideas spring from an active principle which judges. The proof of this will be given later.
323 I maintain, therefore, that since children are incapable of judging, they have no true memory. They retain sounds, forms, sensations, but rarely ideas, and still more rarely their connections. You tell me they acquire some rudiments of geometry, and you think you prove your case. Not so, it is mine you prove. You show that far from being able to reason themselves, children are unable to retain the reasoning of others. For if you follow the method of these little geometricians you will see they only retain the exact impression of the figure and the terms of the demonstration. They cannot meet the slightest new objection. If the figure is reversed they can do nothing. All their knowledge is on the sensation-level, nothing has penetrated to their understanding. Their memory is little better than their other powers, for they always have to learn over again, when they are grown up, what they learnt as children.
324 I am far from thinking, however, that children have no sort of reason. On the contrary, I think they reason very well with regard to things that affect their actual and sensible well-being. But people are mistaken as to the extent of their information, and they attribute to them knowledge they do not possess, and make them reason about things they cannot understand. Another mistake is to try to turn their attention to matters which do not concern them in the least, such as their future interest, their happiness when they are grown up, the opinion people will have of them when they are men -- terms which are absolutely meaningless when addressed to creatures who are entirely without foresight. But all the forced studies of these poor little things are directed towards matters utterly remote from their minds. You may judge how much attention they can give to them.
325 The pedagogues who make a great display of the teaching they give their pupils are paid to say just the opposite; yet their actions show that they think just as I do. For what do they teach? Words, more words, and still more words. Among the various sciences they boast of teaching their scholars, they take good care never to choose those which might be really useful to them. For then they would be compelled to deal with the science of things and would fail utterly. The sciences they choose are those we seem to know when we know their technical terms -- heraldry, geography, chronology, languages, etc. -- studies so remote from man, and even more remote from the child, that it is a wonder if he can ever make any use of any part of them.
326 You will be surprised to find that I reckon the study of languages among the number of useless forms of education; but you must remember that I am speaking of the studies of the earliest years, and whatever you may say, I do not believe any child under twelve or fifteen ever really acquired two languages.
327 I agree that if the study of languages were only the study of words, that is to say of figures or sounds which express them, this study could be suitable to children. But by changing the signs, languages also modify the ideas which the signs express. Minds are formed by language, thoughts take their colour from idioms; reason alone is common to all. The spirit in each language has its own particular form, a difference which may be partly cause and partly effect of differences in national character. What can confirm this conjecture is that in every nation in the world language follows the vississitudes of manners and is preserved or altered along with them.
328 Of these diverse forms, usage gives one to the child, and it is the one that he will keep till the age of reason. To acquire two languages he must be able to compare their ideas, and how can he compare them when he is barely in a condition to understand them? Each thing can have for him a thousand different signs, but each idea can only have one form, so he can only learn one language. You assure me he learns several languages; I deny it. I have seen those little prodigies who are supposed to speak half a dozen languages. I have heard them speak first in German, then in Latin, French, or Italian. True, they used half a dozen different vocabularies, but they always spoke German. In a word, you may give children as many synonyms as you like; you will change the words, not the language. They will never have but one language.
329 To conceal their deficiencies teachers choose the dead languages in which we have no longer any judges whose authority is beyond dispute. The familiar use of these tongues disappeared long ago so they are content to imitate what they find in books, and they call that talking. If the master's Greek and Latin is such poor stuff what about the children? They have scarcely learnt the rudiments by heart, without understanding a word of it, when they are set to translate a French speech into Latin words; then when they are more advanced they piece together a few phrases of Cicero for prose or a few lines of Vergil for verse. Then they think they can speak Latin, and who will contradict them?
330 In any study whatsoever, without the idea of the things represented the representing signs are nothing. Yet one always limits the child to these signs without ever being able to make him understand any of the things that they represent. In thinking to make him understand the description of the earth, you only teach him to be acquainted with maps: he is taught the names of towns, countries, rivers, which have no existence for him except on the paper before him. I remember seeing a geography somewhere which began with: "What is the world? "-- "A sphere of cardboard." That is precisely the child's geography. I maintain that after two years' work with the globe and cosmography, there is not a single ten-year-old child who could find his way from Paris to Saint-Denis by the help of the rules he has learnt. I maintain that not one of these children could find his way by the map around the paths on his father's estate without getting lost. These are the young doctors who can tell us the position of Peking, Ispahan, Mexico, and every country in the world.
331 You tell me the child must be employed on studies which only need eyes. That may be; but if there are any such studies, they are unknown to me.
332 By a still more ridiculous error one makes them study history. People consider history to be within their grasp because it is merely a collection of facts. But what is meant by this word "fact"? Do you think the relations which determine the facts of history are so easy to grasp that the corresponding ideas are easily developed in the child's mind? Do you think that a real knowledge of events can exist apart from the knowledge of their causes, the knowledge of their effects, and that history has so little relation to morals that we can know the one without the other? If you see in the actions of men only exterior and purely physical movements, what do you learn from history? Absolutely nothing, and this study, stripped of everything interesting, gives you neither pleasure nor instruction. If you want to judge actions by their moral bearings, try to make these moral bearings intelligible to your pupils. You will soon find out if they are old enough to learn history.
333 Readers, remember that he who speaks to you is neither a scholar nor a philosopher, but a simple man and a lover of truth; a man who is pledged to no one party or system, a solitary being who lives little with other men, has less opportunity of imbibing their prejudices and more time to reflect on the things that strike him when he does interact with them. My arguments are based less on principles than on facts, and I think I can find no better way to bring the facts home to you than by quoting continually some example from the observations which are suggested my arguments.
334 I had gone to spend a few days in the country with a worthy mother of a family who took great pains with her children and their education. One morning I was present while the oldest boy had his lessons. His tutor, who had instructed him at length about ancient history, began upon the story of Alexander and came to the well-known anecdote of Philip the Doctor. There is a picture of it, and the story is well worth study. The tutor, worthy man, made several reflections which I did not like with regard to Alexander's courage, but I did not argue with him lest I should lower him in the eyes of his pupil. At dinner they did not fail to set the little fellow talking, as the French tend to do. The liveliness of a child of his age and the confident expectation of applause made him say a number of silly things, and among them from time to time there were things to the point, and these made people forget the rest. At last came the story of Philip the Doctor. He told it very distinctly and charmingly. After the usual tribute of praise demanded by his mother and expected by the child himself, they discussed what he had said. Most of them blamed Alexander's rashness; some of them, following the tutor's example, praised his resolution, which showed me that none of those present really saw the beauty of the story. For my own part, I said, if there was any courage or any steadfastness at all in Alexander's conduct I think it was only a piece of bravado. Then every one agreed that it was a piece of bravado. I was getting angry, and would have replied, when a lady sitting beside me, who had not hitherto spoken, bent towards me and whispered in my ear. Jean Jacques, she said, say no more, they will never understand you. I looked at her, I recognised the wisdom of her advice, and I held my tongue.
335 Several things made me suspect that our young professor had not in the least understood the story he told so charmingly. After dinner I took his hand in mine and we went for a walk in the park. When I had questioned him quietly, I discovered that he admired the vaunted courage of Alexander more than any one. But in what do you suppose he thought this courage consisted? Merely in swallowing a disagreeable drink in a single gulp without hesitation and without any signs of dislike. Only two weeks before the poor child had been made to take some medicine which he could hardly swallow, and the taste of it was still in his mouth. Death and poisoning were for him only disagreeable sensations, and senna was his only idea of poison. I must admit, however, that Alexander's resolution had made a great impression on his young mind, and he was determined that next time he had to take medicine he would be an Alexander. Without entering upon explanations which were clearly beyond his grasp, I confirmed him in his praiseworthy intention, and returned home smiling to myself over the great wisdom of parents and teachers who expect to teach history to children.
336 Such words as king, emperor, war, conquest, law, and revolution are easily put into their mouths; but when it is a question of attaching clear ideas to these words the explanations are very different from our talk with Robert the gardener.
337 I feel sure some readers dissatisfied with that "Say no more, Jean Jacques," will ask what I really saw to admire in the conduct of Alexander. Poor people! if you need telling, how can you comprehend it? It is that Alexander believed in virtue, it is that he staked his head on it, his own life on it; it is that his great soul was made to hold such a faith. To swallow that medecine was to make a noble profession of the faith that was in him. Never did mortal man recite a finer creed. If there is an Alexander in our own days, show me such deeds.
338 If children have no knowledge of words, there is no study that is suitable for them. If they have no real ideas they have no real memory, for I do not call that a memory which only recalls sensations. What is the use of inscribing on their brains a catalogue of signs which mean nothing to them? By learning things, won't they learn the signs? Why give them the useless trouble of learning them twice over? And yet what dangerous prejudices are you implanting when you teach them to accept as knowledge words which have no meaning for them? The first meaningless phrase, the first thing taken for granted on the word of another person without seeing its use for himself, is the beginning of the ruin of the child's judgment. He may dazzle the eyes of fools long enough before he recovers from such a loss.
339 No, if nature has given the child's brain the suppleness which enables him to receive every kind of impression, it was not that you should imprint on it the names and dates of kings, the jargon of heraldry, the globe and geography -- all those words without any sense for his age and without any use for any age, only to overwhelm his sad and empty childhood. Rather it is in order that all the ideas that he can conceive of and which are useful to him, all those that relate to his happiness and could one day enlighten him about his duties, can be traced on it early in indelible characters and enable him to conduct himself during his life in a manner suitable to his being and his powers.
340 Without the study of books, such a memory as the child may possess is not left idle. All that he sees and hears makes an impression on him, and he remembers it. He keeps a record in himself of the actions and discourses of men; and everything that surrounds him is the book from which, without thinking about it, he continually enriches his memory while waiting until his judgment is able to profit by it. It is in the choice of these objects, the care of presenting ceaselessly those that he can know and of hiding from him those that he ought to ignore that constitutes the true art of cultivating in him this first faculty; and it is through it that one must try to form for him a store of knowledge that will serve his education throughout his youth and his conduct at all times. It is true that this method does not produce infant prodigies, nor will it make their tutors and governesses famous, but it forms men who are judicieux, robust, healthy both in body and understanding, who without making themselves admired while young will make themselves honored when grown.
341 Emile will never learn anything by heart, not even fables, not even the fables of La Fontaine, as naive and charming as they are. For the words of fables are no more fables than the words of history are history. How can people be so blind as to call fables the child's system of ethics, without considering that the child is not only amused by the moral but misled by it? He is attracted by what is false and he misses the truth, and the means adopted to make the teaching pleasant prevent him from profiting by it. Men may be taught by fables; children require the naked truth. As soon as one covers truth with a veil, they no longer take the trouble to lift it.
342 All children learn La Fontaine's fables, but not one of them understands them. It is just as well that they do not understand, for the morality of the fables is so mixed and so unsuitable for their age that it would be more likely to incline them to vice than to virtue. "More paradoxes!" you cry. That may be; but let us see if there is not some truth in them.
343 I maintain that the child does not understand the fables he is taught. For no matter how much effort you take to make them simple, the teaching you wish to extract from them demands ideas which he cannot grasp; meanwhile the poetical form which makes it easier to remember makes it harder to understand, so that clearness is sacrificed to facility. Without quoting the multitude of wholly unintelligible and useless fables which are taught to children because they happen to be in the same book as the others, let us keep to those which the author seems to have written specially for children.
344 In the whole of La Fontaine's works I only know five or six fables conspicuous for child-like simplicity. I will take the first of these as an example, for it is one whose moral is most suitable for all ages, one which children get hold of with the least difficulty, which they have most pleasure in learning, one which for this very reason the author has placed at the beginning of his book. If his object were really to delight and instruct children, this fable is his masterpiece. Let us go through it and examine it briefly. THE CROW AND THE FOX A FABLE
345 Maître corbeau, sur un arbre perché (Mr. Crow perched on a tree). "Mr.!" what does that word really mean? What does it mean before a proper noun? What is its meaning here? What is a crow? What is "un arbre perché"? We do not say "on a tree perched," but "perched on a tree." So we must speak of poetical inversions, we must distinguish between prose and verse.
346 Tenait dans son bec un fromage (Held a cheese in his beak). What sort of a cheese? Swiss, Brie, or Dutch? If the child has never seen crows, what is the good of talking about them? If he has seen crows will he believe that they can hold a cheese in their beak? Your illustrations should always be taken from nature.
347 Maître renard, par l'odeur alléché (Mr. Fox, attracted by the smell). Another Master! But the title suits the fox, who is master of all the tricks of his trade. You must explain what a fox is, and distinguish between the real fox and the conventional fox of the fables. Alléché. The word is obsolete; you will have to explain it. You will say it is only used in verse. Perhaps the child will ask why people talk differently in verse. How will you answer that question? Alléché par l'odeur d'un fromage. The cheese was held in his beak by a crow perched on a tree; it must indeed have smelt strong if the fox, in his thicket or his earth, could smell it. This is the way you train your pupil in that spirit of right judgment, which rejects all but reasonable arguments, and is able to distinguish between truth and falsehood in other tales.
348 Lui tient à peu près ce langage (Spoke to him after this fashion). Ce langage. So foxes talk, do they! They talk like crows! Mind what you are about, oh, wise tutor; weigh your answer before you give it, it is more important than you suspect.
349 Eh! Bonjour, Monsieur le Corbeau ("Good-day, Mr. Crow!") Mr.! The child sees this title laughed to scorn before he knows it is a title of honour. Those who say "Monsieur du Corbeau" will find their work cut out for them to explain that "du."
350 Que vous êtes joli! Que vous me semblez beau! ("How handsome you are, how beautiful you seem!") Mere padding. The child, finding the same thing repeated twice over in different words, is learning to speak carelessly. If you say this redundance is a device of the author, a part of the fox's scheme to make his praise seem all the greater by his flow of words, that is a valid excuse for me, but not for my pupil.
351 Sans mentir, Si votre ramage ("Without lying, if your song"). "Without lying." So people do tell lies sometimes. What will the child think of you if you tell him the fox only says "Sans mentir" because he is lying?
352 Repondait à votre plumage ("Answered to your fine feathers"). "Answered!" What does that mean? Try to make the child compare qualities so different as those of song and plumage; you will see how much he understands.
353 Vous seriez le phénix des hôtes de ces bois! ("You would be the phoenix of all the inhabitants of this wood!") "The phoenix!" What is a phoenix? All of a sudden we are floundering in the lies of antiquity -- we are on the edge of mythology. "The inhabitants of this wood." What figurative language! The flatterer adopts the grand style to add dignity to his speech, to make it more attractive. Will the child understand this cunning? Does he know, how could he possibly know, what is meant by grand style and simple style?
354 A ces mots le corbeau ne se sent pas de joie (At these words, the crow is beside himself with delight). To realise the full force of this proverbial expression we must have experienced very strong feeling.
355 Et, pour montrer sa belle voix (And, to show off his fine voice). Remember that the child, to understand this line and the whole fable, must know what is meant by the crow's fine voice.
356 Il ouvre un large bec, laisse tomber sa proie (He opens his wide beak and drops his prey). This is a splendid line; its very sound suggests a picture. I see the great big ugly gaping beak, I hear the cheese crashing through the branches; but this kind of beauty is thrown away upon children.
357 Le renard s'en saisit, et dit, 'Mon bon monsieur' (The fox catches it, and says, "My dear sir"). So kindness is already folly. You certainly waste no time in teaching your children.
358 Apprenez que tout flatteur ("You must learn that every flatterer"). A general maxim. The child can make neither head nor tail of it.
359 Vit aux dépens de celul qui l'écoute ("Lives at the expense of the person who listens to his flattery"). No child of ten ever understood that.
360 Cette leçon vaut bien un fromage, sans doute ("No doubt this lesson is well worth a cheese"). This is intelligible and its meaning is very good. Yet there are few children who could compare a cheese and a lesson, few who would not prefer the cheese. You will therefore have to make them understand that this is said in mockery. What subtlety for a child!
361 Le corbeau, honteux et confus (The crow, ashamed and confused). Another pleonasm, and there is no excuse for it this time.
362 Jura, mais un peu tard, qu'on ne l'y prendrait plus (Swore, but rather too late, that he would not be caught in that way again). "Swore." What master will be such a fool as to try to explain to a child the meaning of an oath?
363 Here are a lot of details but much fewer than would be needed for the analysis of all the ideas in this fable and their reduction to the simple and elementary ideas of which each is composed. But who thinks this analysis necessary to make himself intelligible to children? Who of us is philosopher enough to be able to put himself in the child's place? Let us now proceed to the moral.
364 I ask if we should teach children of six years old that there are people who flatter and lie for their own profit. One might perhaps teach them that there are people who make fools of little boys and laugh at their foolish vanity behind their backs. But the whole thing is spoilt by the cheese. You are teaching them how to make another drop his cheese rather than how to keep their own. This is my second paradox, and it is not less important than the former one.
365 Watch children learning their fables and you will see that when they have a chance of applying them they almost always use them exactly contrary to the author's meaning. Instead of being on their guard against the fault which you would prevent or cure, they are inclined to like the vice by which one takes advantage of another's defects. In the above fable children laugh at the crow, but they all feel affection for the fox. In the next fable you expect them to follow the example of the grasshopper. Not so, they will choose the ant. No one likes to be humiliated; they will always choose the principal part -- this is the choice of amour propre, a very natural choice. But what a horrible lesson for childhood! The most odious of monsters would be a stingy and hard child who realised what he was asked to give and what he refused. The ant does more; she teaches him to be mocking in his refusals.
366 In all the fables where the lion plays a part, usually the chief part, the child pretends to be the lion, and when he has to preside over some distribution of good things, he takes care to keep everything for himself. But when the lion is overthrown by the gnat, the child is the gnat. He learns how to sting to death those whom he dare not attack openly.
367 From the fable of the sleek dog and the starving wolf he learns a lesson of licence rather than the lesson of moderation which you profess to teach him. I shall never forget seeing a little girl weeping bitterly over this tale, which had been told her as a lesson in obedience. The poor child hated to be chained up; she felt the chain chafing her neck; she was crying because she was not a wolf.
368 So from the first of these fables the child learns the basest flattery; from the second, cruelty; from the third, injustice; from the fourth, satire; from the fifth, insubordination. The last of these lessons is no more suitable for your pupils than for mine, though he has no use for it. When you give them precepts that contradict each other, what fruit do you hope to get from your efforts? But perhaps the same system of morals which furnishes me with objections against the fables supplies you with as many reasons for keeping to them. Society requires a morality of words and of actions, and these two moralities do not resemble each other at all. The former is contained in the Catechism and it is left there; the other is contained in La Fontaine's fables for children and his tales for mothers. The same author does for both.
369 Let us make a bargain, M. de la Fontaine. For my own part, I undertake to make your books my favourite study; I undertake to love you, and to learn from your fables, for I hope I shall not mistake their meaning. As to my pupil, permit me to prevent him studying any one of them till you have convinced me that it is good for him to learn things three-fourths of which are unintelligible to him, and until you can convince me that in those fables he can understand he will never be misled and imitate the villain instead of taking warning from his dupe.
370 When I thus get rid of children's lessons, I get rid of the chief cause of their sorrows, namely their books. Reading is the curse of childhood, yet it is almost the only occupation you can find for children. Emile, at twelve years old, will hardly know what a book is. But, you say, he must at least, know how to read. I agree; he must know how to read when reading becomes useful to him. But until then it is only a way of boring him.
371 If children are not to be required to do anything as a matter of obedience, it follows that they will only learn what they perceive to be of real and present value, either for use or enjoyment. What other motive could they have for learning? The art of speaking to people who are absent and being able to hear them, the art of communicating, at a distance and without a mediator, our sentiments, our wills, our desires -- this is an art whose usefulness can be made plain at any age. How is it that this art, so useful and pleasant in itself, has become a torment for childhood? Because the child is compelled to acquire it against his will, and to use it for purposes beyond his comprehension. A child has no great curiosity to perfect the instrument of his torture; but make this instrument serve his pleasures and soon he will apply himself in spite of you.
372 People make a great fuss about discovering the best way to teach children to read. They invent "bureaux" and cards, they turn the nursery into a printer's shop. Locke would have them taught to read by means of dice. Is not that a well-found invention. What a pity! A means more sure than all of those and which one will never forget is simply the desire to learn. Give the child this desire, and you can forget your "bureaux" and your dice -- any method will be good for him.
373 Present interest, that is the great motive, the only one that leads us safely and far. Sometimes Emile receives notes of invitation from his father or mother, his relations or friends; he is invited to a dinner, a walk, a boating expedition, to see some public festival. These notes are short, clear, plain, and well written. Some one must read them to him, and he cannot always find someone when he wants; no more consideration is shown to him than he himself showed to you yesterday. Time passes, the chance is lost. The note is read to him at last, but it is too late. Oh! if only he had known how to read! He receives other notes; they are so short! The subject is so interesting! He would like to try to read them. Sometimes he gets help, sometimes none. He does his best, and at last he makes out half the note; it is something about going tomorrow to have some cream. He doesn't know where or with whom . . . what efforts he makes to read the rest! I do not think Emile will need a "bureau." Shall I proceed to the teaching of writing? No, I am ashamed to toy with these trifles in a treatise on education.
374 I will just add a few words which contain a principle of great importance. It is this--What we are in no hurry to get is usually obtained with speed and certainty. I am almost certain Emile will learn to read and write before he is ten, just because I care very little whether he can do so before he is fifteen. But I would rather he never learnt to read at all than that this science should be acquired at the price of all that makes reading useful. What is the use of reading to him if he always hates it? Id imprimis cavere oportebit, ne studia, qui amare nondum potest, oderit, et amaritudinem semel perceptam etiam ultra rudes annos reformidet.
375 The more I urge my method of letting well alone, the more objections I perceive against it. If your pupil learns nothing from you, he will learn from others. If you do not prevent error with truth he will learn lies; the prejudices you fear to teach him he will acquire from those about him, they will find their way through every one of his senses; they will either corrupt his reason before it is fully formed or his mind will become torpid through inaction and will become engrossed in material things. If we do not form the habit of thinking as children we shall lose the power of thinking for the rest of our life.
376 It seems to me that I could easily answer to all of that; but why should I answer every objection? If my method itself answers your objections, it is good; if not, it is worth nothing. I continue.
377 If, in accordance with the plan I have sketched, you follow rules which are just the opposite of the established ones; if instead of taking the spirit of your pupil far away; if, instead of wandering with him in other places, in other climates, in other centuries, to the ends of the earth and to the very heavens themselves, you try to keep him always in himself and attentive to what touches him immediately; then you will find him capable of perception, of memory, and even of reasoning. That is the order of nature. As the sentient being becomes active he acquires a discernment proportional to his strength. It is only when his strength exceeds that which he has need of for his own preservation that he will develop the speculative faculty that enables him to use this superfluous strength for other purposes. If you want to cultivate your pupil's intelligence, cultivate the strength it is meant to control. Give his body constant exercise, make it strong and healthy, in order to make him wise and reasonable; let him work, let him do things, let him run and shout, let him be always on the go; make a man of him in strength, and he will soon be a man in reason.
378 Of course by this method you will make him stupid if you are always directing him, always saying come here, go there, stop, do this, don't do that. If your head always guides his hands, his own will become useless. But remember our agreements; if you are a mere pedant it is not worth your while to read my book.
379 It is a pitiful error to imagine that bodily activity hinders the working of the mind, as if these two kinds of activity ought not to advance hand in hand, and as if the one were not intended to act as guide to the other.
380 There are two classes of men who are constantly engaged in bodily activity, peasants and savages, and certainly neither of these pays the least attention to the cultivation of the mind. Peasants are rough, coarse, and clumsy; savages are noted not only for their keen senses, but for great subtility of mind. Speaking generally, there is nothing duller than a peasant or sharper than a savage. What is the cause of this difference? The peasant has always done as he was told, what his father did before him, what he himself has always done; he is the creature of habit, he spends his life almost like an automaton on the same tasks; habit and obedience have taken the place of reason.
381 The case of the savage is very different. He is tied to no one place, he has no prescribed task, no superior to obey, he knows no law but his own will; he is therefore forced to reason at every step he takes. He can neither move nor walk without considering the consequences. Thus the more his body is exercised, the more alert is his mind; his strength and his reason increase together, and each helps to develop the other.
382 Learned tutor, let us see which of our two pupils is most like the savage and which is most like the peasant. Your pupil is subject to a power which is continually giving him instruction. He acts only at the word of command: he does not dare to eat when he is hungry nor laugh when he is happy nor weep when he is sad nor offer one hand rather than the other nor stir a foot unless he is told to do it. Before long he will not dare to breathe without orders. What should he think about, since you do all the thinking for him? He rests securely on your foresight; why should he have any for himself? He knows that you are charged with his preservation, with his welfare, and he feels himself freed from such concerns. His judgment relies on yours. Everything that you have not forbidden him he does without reflection, knowing well that he runs no risk. Why should he learn the signs of rain? He knows you watch the clouds for him. Why should he time his walk? He knows there is no fear of your letting him miss his dinner hour. As long as you do not forbid him to eat, he will eat; when you forbid him, he will not eat any more. He does not listen to the claims of his own stomach but of yours. You vainly try to soften his body through inactivity, but his understanding does not become more supple. Far from it: you complete your task of discrediting reason in his eyes by making him use such reasoning power as he does have on the things which seem most useless to him. Since he never finds what reason is good for, he decides at last that it is good for nothing. If he reasons badly he will be found fault with; nothing worse will happen to him; and he has been found fault with so often that he pays no attention to it. Such a common danger no longer alarms him.
383 Yet you will find he has a mind. He is quick enough to chatter with the women in the way I spoke of further back; but if he is in danger, if he must come to a decision in difficult circumstances, you will find him a hundredfold more stupid and silly than the son of the roughest labourer.
384 As for my pupil, or rather Nature's pupil, he has been trained from the outset to be as self-reliant as possible. He has not formed the habit of constantly seeking help from others, still less of displaying his learning. On the other hand, he judges, he predicts, he reasons about everything that relates immediately to himself. He does not chatter, he acts. Not a word does he know of what is going on in the world at large, but he knows very thoroughly what affects himself. Since he is always in motion he is compelled to notice many things, to recognise many effects. He soon acquires a good deal of experience. He takes his lessons from nature and not from men, and he instructs himself all the better because he nowhere sees any intention to instruct him. Thus his body and his mind work together. Acting on the basis of his own thinking and not on that of others he continually unites two operations: the more he makes himself strong and robust the more he becomes sensible and judicious. This is the way to attain one day what is generally considered incompatible and which most great men have achieved -- strength of body and strength of mind, the reason of a wise man and the vigour of an athlete.
385 Young teacher, I am preaching a difficult art, which is to control without precepts and to do everything without doing anything at all. This art is, I agree, beyond your years, it is not calculated to display your talents nor to make your value known to fathers; but it is the way to succeed. You will never arrive at making wise men if you do not first make little rascals. This was the education of the Spartans; they were not taught to stick to their books, they were set to steal their dinners. Were they any the worse for it in after life? Ever ready for victory, they crushed their foes in every kind of warfare, and the boastful Athenians were as much afraid of their words as of their blows.
386 In the most elaborate educations the teacher issues his orders and thinks himself master, but it is the child who is really master. He uses the tasks you set him to obtain what he wants from you, and he can always make you pay for an hour's hard work by a week's compliance. At each instant one must bargain with him. These bargains that you propose in your way and that he carries out in his, always follow the direction of his own fantasies, especially when you are foolish enough to make as the condition some advantage he is almost sure to obtain whether he fulfils his part of the bargain or not. The child is usually much quicker to read the master's thoughts than the master to read the child's feelings. And that is as it should be, for all the sagacity which the child would have devoted to self-preservation, had he been left to himself, is now devoted to the rescue of his natural liberty from the chains of his tyrant. On the other hand the latter, who has no such pressing need to understand the child, sometimes finds that it pays him better to leave him in idleness or vanity.
387 Take the opposite course with your pupil; let him always think he is master while you are really master. There is no subjection so perfect as that which keeps the appearance of liberty; one captures thus the will itself. Is not this poor child, without knowledge, strength, or wisdom, entirely at your mercy? Are you not in charge of his whole environment as far as it affects him? Cannot you make it effect him as you please? His work and play, his pleasures, his pains, are they not in your hands without him knowing it? Without doubt he ought only to do what he wants, but he ought to want to do only what you want him to do. He should never take a step you have not foreseen; he should never open his mouth without your knowing what he is going to say.
388 Thus he can devote himself to the bodily exercises adapted to his age without brutalising his mind. Instead of developing his cunning to evade an unwelcome control, you will then find him entirely occupied in getting the best he can out of his environment with a view to his present welfare, and you will be surprised by the subtlety of the means he devises to get for himself such things as he can obtain, and to really enjoy things without the help of opinion.
389 By leaving him thus the master of his will you are not fomenting his whims. When he only does what he wants, he will soon only do what he ought, and although his body is constantly in motion, so far as his sensible and present interests are concerned, you will find him developing all the reason of which he is capable, far better and in a manner much better fitted for him than in purely theoretical studies.
390 Thus when he does not find you continually thwarting him, when he no longer distrusts you, no longer has anything to conceal from you, he will neither tell you lies nor deceive you. He will show himself as he really is without fear, and you can study him at your ease, and surround him with all the lessons you would have him learn without him ever thinking that he is receiving any.
391 Neither will he keep a curious and jealous eye on your own conduct, nor take a secret delight in catching you at fault. This inconvenience, which we foresee, is very great. One of the child's first objects is, as I have said, to find the weak spots in those who control them. Though this leads to naughtiness, it does not arise from it but from the desire to evade a disagreeable control. Overburdened by the yoke laid upon him, he tries to shake it off; and the faults he finds in his master give him a good opportunity for this. Still the habit of spying out faults and delighting in them grows upon people. It is clear that this is one more source of vice that has been closed off in Emile's heart. Having nothing to gain from my faults, he will not be looking out for them, nor will he be tempted to look for the faults of others.
392 All these methods seem difficult because they are new to us, but they ought not to be really difficult. I have a right to assume that you have the knowledge required for the business you have chosen, that you know the usual course of development of the human thought, that you can study mankind and man, that you know beforehand the effect on your pupil's will of the various objects suited to his age which you put before him. Now, to have the instruments and the knowledge of how to use them, doesn't this mean being the master of the operation?
393 You speak of childish whim; you are mistaken. Children's whims are never the work of nature, but of bad discipline; they have either obeyed or commanded, and I have said a hundred times, they must do neither. Your pupil will only have the whims you have taught him; it is fair that you should bear the punishment of your own faults. But, you ask, how can I cure them? That may still be done by better conduct on your own part and great patience.
394 I once undertook the charge of a child for a few weeks. He was accustomed not only to have his own way, but to make every one else do as he pleased. As a result he was full of illusions. The very first day he wanted to get up at midnight, to try how far he could go with me. When I was sound asleep he jumped out of bed, got his bathrobe, and woke me up. I got up and lit the candle, which was all he wanted. After a quarter of an hour he became sleepy and went back to bed quite satisfied with his experiment. Two days later he repeated it, with the same success and with no sign of impatience on my part. When he kissed me as he lay down, I said to him very quietly, My little friend, this is all very well, but do not try it again. His curiosity was aroused by this, and the very next day he did not fail to get up at the same time and woke me to see whether I should dare to disobey him. I asked what he wanted, and he told me he could not sleep. "So much the worse for you," I replied, and I lay quiet. He seemed perplexed by this way of speaking. He begged me to light the candle. "Why should I?" I lay quiet. This laconic tone began to annoy him. He tried to strike a light and I could not help laughing when I heard him strike his fingers. Convinced at last that he could not manage it, he brought the flint to my bed; I told him I did not want it, and I turned my back to him. Then he began to rush wildly about the room, shouting, singing, making a great noise, knocking against chairs and tables, taking, however, good care not to hurt himself seriously, but screaming loudly in the hope of alarming me. All this had no effect, and I perceived that though he was prepared for scolding or anger, he was quite unprepared for indifference.
395 However, he was determined to overcome my patience with his own obstinacy, and he continued his racket so successfully that at last I lost my temper. I foresaw that I should spoil the whole business by an unseemly outburst of passion. I determined on another course. I got up quietly, went to the tinder box, but could not find it; I asked him for it, and he gave it to me, delighted to have won the victory over me. I struck a light, lighted the candle, took my young gentleman by the hand and led him quietly into an adjoining dressing-room with the shutters firmly fastened, and nothing he could break. I left him there without a light; then locking him in I went back to my bed without a word. There is no need to ask whether there wasn't an uproar; I was waiting for it and wasn't at all moved. Finally the noise quieted; I listened, heard him settling down, and I was quite easy about him. Next morning I entered the room at daybreak, and my little rebel was lying on a sofa enjoying a sound and much needed sleep after his exertions.
396 The matter did not end there. His mother heard that the child had spent a great part of the night out of bed. That spoiled the whole thing; her child was as good as dead. Finding a good chance for revenge, he pretended to be ill, not seeing that he would gain nothing by it. They sent for the doctor. Unluckily for the mother the doctor was a practical joker, and to amuse himself with her terrors he did his best to increase them. However, he whispered to me: Leave it to me, I promise to cure the child of wanting to be ill for some time to come. In effect he prescribed bed and dieting, and the child was handed over to the pharmacist. I sighed to see this poor mother thus the dupe of everyone who surrounded her except me, whom she hated precisely because I did not deceive her.
397 After some fairly severe reproaches, she told me her son was delicate, that he was the sole heir of the family, that his life must be preserved at all costs, and that she would not have him contradicted. In that I thoroughly agreed with her, but what she meant by contradicting was not obeying him in everything. I saw I should have to treat the mother as I had treated the son. Madam, I said coldly, I do not know how to educate the heir to a fortune, and what is more, I do not mean to study that art. You can take that as settled. I was needed for some days longer, and the father smoothed things over. The mother wrote to the tutor to hasten his return, and the child, finding he got nothing by disturbing my rest, nor yet by being ill, decided at last to go to sleep on his own and to get better.
398 You can not imagine how many similar whims the little tyrant had subjected his unlucky tutor to; for his education was carried on under his mother's eye, and she would not allow her son and heir to be disobeyed in anything. Whenever he wanted to go out, one had to be ready to take him, or rather to follow him, and he always took good care to choose the time when he knew his tutor was very busy. He wished to exercise the same power over me and to avenge himself by day for having to leave me in peace at night. I gladly agreed and began by showing plainly how pleased I was to give him pleasure; after that when it was a matter of curing him of his fancies I set about it differently.
399 In the first place, he had to be shown that he was in the wrong. This was not difficult; knowing that children think only of the present, I took the easy advantage which foresight gives; I took care to provide him with some indoor amusement of which he was very fond. Just when he was most occupied with it, I went and suggested a short walk, and he sent me away. I insisted, but he paid no attention. I had to give in, and he took note of this sign of submission.
400 The next day it was my turn. As I expected, he got tired of his occupation; I, however, pretended to be very busy. That was enough to decide him. He came to drag me from my work, to take him at once for a walk. I refused; he persisted. No, I said, when I did what you wanted, you taught me how to get my own way; I shall not go out. Very well, he replied eagerly, I shall go out by myself. As you wish, I replied, and I returned to my work.
401 He put on his things rather uneasily when he saw I did not follow his example. When he was ready he came and made his bow; I bowed too; he tried to frighten me with stories of the expeditions he was going to make. To hear him talk you would think he was going to the world's end. Quite unmoved, I wished him a pleasant journey. He became more and more perplexed. However, he put a good face on it, and when he was ready to go out he told his footman to follow him. The footman, who had his instructions, replied that he had no time, and that he was busy carrying out my orders, and he must obey me first. For the moment the child was taken aback. How could he think they would really let him go out alone, him, who, in his own eyes, was the most important person in the world, who thought that everything in heaven and earth was wrapped up in his welfare? However, he was beginning to feel his weakness, he perceived that he should find himself alone among people who knew nothing of him. He saw beforehand the risks he would run; obstinacy alone sustained him. Very slowly and unwillingly he went downstairs. At last he went out into the street, consoling himself a little for the harm that might happen to himself in the hope that I should be held responsible for it.
402 This was just what I expected. All was arranged beforehand, and as it meant some sort of public scene I had got his father's consent. He had scarcely gone a few steps, when he heard, first on this side then on that, all sorts of remarks about himself. "What a pretty little gentleman neighbour! Where is he going all alone? He will get lost! I will ask him into our house." "Take care you don't. Don't you see he is a naughty little boy, who has been turned out of his own house because he is good for nothing? You must not stop naughty boys; let him go where he likes." "Well, well; the good God take care of him. I should be sorry if any-thing happened to him." A little further on he met some young urchins of about his own age who teased him and made fun of him. The further he got the more difficulties he found. Alone and unprotected he was at the mercy of everybody, and he found to his great surprise that his shoulder knot and his gold lace commanded no respect.
403 However, I had got a friend of mine, who was a stranger to him, to keep an eye on him. Unnoticed by him, this friend followed him step by step, and in due time he spoke to him. The role, like that of Sbrigani in Pourceaugnac required an intelligent actor, and it was played to perfection. Without making the child fearful and timid by inspiring excessive terror, he made him realise so thoroughly the folly of his exploit that in half an hour's time he brought him home to me, ashamed and humble, and afraid to look me in the face.
404 To put the finishing touch to his discomfiture, just as he was coming in his father came down on his way out and met him on the stairs. He had to explain where he had been, and why I was not with him. The poor child would gladly have sunk into the earth. His father did not take the trouble to scold him at length, but said with more severity than I should have expected, "When you want to go out by yourself, you can do so, but I will not have a rebel in my house, so when you go, take good care that you never come back."
405 As for me, I received him somewhat gravely, but without blame and without mockery, and for fear he should find out we had been playing with him, I declined to take him out walking that day. Next day I was well pleased to find that he passed in triumph with me through the very same people who had mocked him the previous day, when they met him out by himself. You may be sure he never threatened to go out without me again.
406 By these means and other like them I succeeded during the short time I was with him in getting him to do everything I wanted without bidding him or forbidding him to do anything, without preaching or exhortation, without wearying him with unnecessary lessons. So he was pleased when I spoke to him, but when I was silent he was frightened, for he knew there was something amiss, and he always got his lesson from the thing itself. But let us return to our subject.
407 The body is strengthened by this constant exercise under the guidance of nature herself, and far from brutalising the mind, this exercise develops in it the only kind of reason of which young children are capable, the kind of reason most necessary at every age. It teaches us how to use our strength, to perceive the relations between our own and surrounding bodies, to use the natural tools that are within our reach and adapted to our senses. Is there anything sillier than a child brought up indoors under his mother's eye, who, in his ignorance of weight and resistance, tries to uproot a tall tree or pick up a rock? The first time I found myself outside Geneva I tried to catch a galloping horse and I threw stones at Mont Salève, two leagues away. The laughing stock of all the children in the village, I was a true idiot to them. At eighteen we are taught in our natural philosophy the use of the lever; every village boy of twelve knows how to use a lever better than the cleverest mechanician in the academy. The lessons students learn from one another in the playground are worth a hundredfold more than what they learn in the class-room.
408 Watch a cat when she comes into a room for the first time. He goes from place to place, he sniffs about and examines everything, he is never still for a moment; he is suspicious of everything till he has examined it and found out what it is. It is the same with the child when he begins to walk, and enters, so to speak, the space of the world around him. The only difference is that while both use sight, the child uses his hands and the cat uses that subtle sense of smell which nature has endowed it with. It is this disposition, rightly or wrongly educated, which makes children skillful or clumbsy, quick or slow, wise or foolish.
409 As a man's first natural impulse is to measure himself with his environment, to discover in every object he sees those sensible qualities which may concern himself, so his first study is a kind of experimental physics for his own preservation and from which one detracts him by speculative studies before he has recognized his own place in the world. While his delicate and flexible limbs can adjust themselves to the bodies upon which they are intended to act, while his senses are pure and as yet free from illusions, now is the time to exercise both limbs and senses in their proper functions. It is the time to learn to perceive the physical relations between ourselves and things. Since everything that comes into the human mind enters through the senses, man's first reason is a sensitive reason. It is that which serves as a base for intellectual reason. Our first teachers in natural philosophy are our feet, hands, and eyes. To substitute books for all that is not to teach us to reason; it is to teach us to use the reason of others rather than our own; it teaches us to believe much and know little.
410 Before you can practise an art you must first get your tools; and if you are to make good use of those tools, they must be fashioned sufficiently strong to stand use. To learn to think we must therefore exercise our limbs, our senses, and our bodily organs, which are the tools of the intellect. And to get the best use out of these tools, the body which supplies us with them must be strong and healthy. Not only is it quite a mistake that true reason is developed apart from the body, but it is a good bodily constitution which makes the workings of the mind easy and correct.
411 While I am showing how the child's long period of leisure should be spent, I am entering into details which may seem absurd. You will say, "This is a strange sort of education, and it is subject to your own criticism, for it only teaches what no one needs to learn. Why spend your time in teaching what will come of itself without care or trouble? Is there any child of twelve who is ignorant of all you wish to teach your pupil, while he also knows what his master has taught him?"
412 Gentlemen, you are mistaken. I am teaching my pupil an art the acquirement of which demands much time and trouble, an art which your scholars certainly do not possess. It is the art of being ignorant. For the knowledge of any one who believes to know only that which he really does know is a very small matter. You teach science, well and good; I am busy fashioning the necessary tools for its acquisition. Once upon a time, they say, the Venetians were displaying the treasures of the Cathedral of Saint Mark to the Spanish ambassador. The only comment he made was, "Qui non c'e la radice." When I see a tutor showing off his pupil's learning, I am always tempted to say the same to him.
413 Every one who has refelcted on the manner of life among the ancients attributes to their gymnastic exercises the strength of body and mind by which they are distinguished from the men of our own day. The stress laid by Montaigne upon this opinion shows that it had made a great impression on him; he returns to it again and again. Speaking of a child's education he says, "To strengthen the mind you must harden the muscles; by training the child to labour you train him to suffering; he must be broken in to the hardships of gymnastic exercises to prepare him for the hardships of dislocations, colics, and other bodily ills." The philosopher Locke, the worthy Rollin, the learned Fleury, the pedant De Crouzas, differing as they do so widely from one another, are agreed in this one matter of sufficient bodily exercise for children. This is the wisest of their precepts, and the one which is certain to be neglected. I have already dwelt sufficiently on its importance, and as better reasons and more sensible rules cannot be found than those in Locke's book, I will content myself with referring to it after taking the liberty of adding a few remarks of my own.
414 The limbs of a growing child should be free to move easily in his clothing. Nothing should cramp their growth or movement; there should be nothing tight, nothing fitting closely to the body, no belts of any kind. The French style of dress, uncomfortable and unhealthy for a man, is especially bad for children. The stagnant humours, whose circulation is interrupted, putrify in a state of inaction, and this process proceeds more rapidly in an inactive and sedentary life. They become corrupt and give rise to scurvy. This disease, which is continually on the increase among us, was almost unknown to the ancients, whose way of dressing and living protected them from it. The hussar's dress, far from correcting this fault, increases it, and compresses the whole of the child's body by way of dispensing with a few bands. The best plan is to keep children in smocks as long as possible and then to provide them with loose clothing, without trying to define the shape which is only another way of deforming it. Their defects of body and mind may all be traced to the same source, the desire to make men of them before their time.
415 There are bright colours and dull. Children like the bright colours best, and they suit them better too. I see no reason why such natural suitability should not be taken into consideration; but as soon as they prefer a material because it is rich, their hearts are already given over to luxury, to every whim of fashion, and this taste is certainly not their own. It is impossible to say how much education is influenced by this choice of clothes and the motives for this choice. Not only do short-sighted mothers offer ornaments as rewards to their children, but there are foolish tutors who threaten to make their pupils wear the plainest and coarsest clothes as a punishment. "If you do not do your lessons better, if you do not take more care of your clothes, you shall be dressed like that little peasant boy." This is like saying to them, "Understand that clothes make the man." Is it to be wondered at that our young people profit by such wise teaching, that they care for nothing but dress, and that they only judge of merit by its outside?
416 If I had to bring such a spoiled child to his senses, I would take care that his smartest clothes were the most uncomfortable, that he was always cramped, constrained, and embarrassed in every way. I would make liberty and gaity flee before his magnificence. If he wanted to take part in the games of children more simply dressed, they would all stop, all disappear, in an instant. Finally I whould make him so tired and sick of his magnificence, such a slave to his gold-laced coat, that it would become the plague of his life, and he would be less afraid to behold the darkest dungeon than to see the preparations for his adornment. Before the child is enslaved by our prejudices his first wish is always to be free and comfortable. The plainest and most comfortable clothes, those which leave him most liberty, are what he always likes best.
417 There are habits of body suited for an active life and others for a sedentary life. The latter leaves the humours an equable and uniform course, and the body should be protected from changes in temperature. The former is constantly passing from action to rest, from heat to cold, and the body should be inured to these changes. Hence people engaged in sedentary pursuits indoors should always be warmly dressed in order to keep their bodies as nearly as possible at the same temperature at all times and seasons. Those, however, who come and go in sun, wind, and rain, who take much exercise, and spend most of their time out of doors, should always be lightly clad, so as to get used to the changes in the air and to every degree of temperature without suffering inconvenience. I would advise both never to change their clothes with the changing seasons, and that would be the invariable habit of my pupil Emile. By this I do not mean that he should wear his winter clothes in summer like many people of sedentary habits, but that he should wear his summer clothes in winter like hard-working folk. Sir Isaac Newton always did this, and he lived to be eighty.
418 Emile should wear little or nothing on his head all the year round. The ancient Egyptians always went bareheaded; the Persians used to wear heavy tiaras and still wear large turbans, which according to Chardin are required by their climate. I have remarked elsewhere on the difference observed by Herodotus on a battle-field between the skulls of the Persians and those of the Egyptians. Since it is desirable that the bones of the skull should grow harder and more substantial, less fragile and porous, not only to protect the brain against injuries but against colds, fever, and every influence of the air, you should therefore accustom your children to go
419 Children are generally too much wrapped up, particularly in infancy. They should be accustomed to cold rather than heat; great cold never does them any harm if they are exposed to it soon enough; but their skin is still too soft and tender and leaves too free a course for perspiration, so that they are inevitably exhausted by excessive heat. It has been observed that infant mortality is greatest in August. Moreover, it seems certain from a comparison of northern and southern races that we become stronger by bearing extreme cold rather than excessive heat. But as the child's body grows bigger and his muscles get stronger, train him gradually to bear the rays of the sun. Little by little you will harden him till he can face the burning heat of the tropics without danger.
420 Locke, in the midst of the manly and sensible advice he gives us, falls into inconsistencies one would hardly expect in such a careful thinker. The same man who would have children take an ice-cold bath summer and winter will not let them drink cold water when they are hot, or lie on damp grass. note 36] But he would never have their shoes water-tight; and why should they let in more water when the child is hot than when he is cold, and may we not draw the same inference with regard to the feet and body that he draws with regard to the hands and feet and the body and face? If he would have a man all face, why blame me if I would have him all feet?
421 To prevent children drinking when they are hot, he says they should be trained to eat a piece of bread first. It is a strange thing to make a child eat because he is thirsty. I would as soon give him a drink when he is hungry. You will never convince me that our first instincts are so ill-regulated that we cannot satisfy them without endangering our lives. Were that so, the human race would have perished over and over again before he had learned how to keep himself alive.
422 Whenever Emile is thirsty let him have a drink, and let him drink fresh water just as it is, not even taking the chill off it in the depths of winter and when he is bathed in perspiration. The only precaution I advise is to take care what sort of water you give him. If the water comes from a river, give it him just as it is; if it is spring-water let it stand a little exposed to the air before he drinks it. In warm weather rivers are warm; it is not so with springs, whose water has not been in contact with the air. You must wait till the temperature of the water is the same as that of the air. In winter, on the other hand, spring water is safer than river water. It is, however, unusual and unnatural to perspire greatly in winter, especially in the open air, for the cold air constantly strikes the skin and drives the perspiration inwards, and prevents the pores opening enough to give it passage. Now I do not intend Emile to take his exercise by the fireside in winter, but in the open air and among the ice. If he only gets warm with making and throwing snowballs, let him drink when he is thirsty and go on with his game after drinking, and you need not be afraid of any ill effects. And if any other exercise makes him perspire let him drink cold water even in winter provided he is thirsty. Only take care to take him to the water some little distance away. In such cold as I am supposing, he would have cooled down sufficiently when he got there to be able to drink without danger. Above all, take care to conceal these precautions from him. I would rather he were ill now and then, than always thinking about his health.
423 Since children take such extreme exercise they need a great deal of sleep. The one makes up for the other, and this shows that both are necessary. Night is the time set apart by nature for rest. It is an established fact that sleep is quieter and calmer when the sun is below the horizon, and that our senses are less calm when the air is warmed by the rays of the sun. So it is certainly the healthiest plan to rise with the sun and go to bed with the sun. Hence in our country man and all the other animals with him want more sleep in winter than in summer. But town life is so complex, so unnatural, so subject to chances and changes, that it is not wise to accustom a man to such uniformity that he cannot do without it. No doubt he must submit to rules; but the chief rule is to be able to break the rule if necessary. So do not be so foolish as to soften your pupil by letting him always sleep his sleep out. Leave him at first to the law of nature without any hindrance, but never forget that under our conditions he must rise above this law; he must be able to go to bed late and rise early, be awakened suddenly, or sit up all night without ill effects. Begin early and proceed gently, a step at a time, and the constitution adapts itself to the very conditions which would destroy it if they were imposed for the first time on the grown man.
424 In the next place he must be accustomed to sleep in an uncomfortable bed, which is the best way to find no bed uncomfortable. Speaking generally, a hard life, when once we have become used to it, increases our pleasant experiences; an easy life prepares the way for innumerable unpleasant experiences. Those who are too tenderly nurtured can only sleep on down; those who are used to sleep on bare boards can find them anywhere. There is no such thing as a hard bed for the man who falls asleep at once.
425 The body is, so to speak, melted and dissolved in a soft bed where one sinks into feathers and eider-down. The kidneys when too warmly covered become inflamed. Stone and other diseases are often due to this, and it invariably produces a delicate constitution, which is the seed-ground of every ailment.
426 The best bed is that in which we get the best sleep. Emile and I will prepare such a bed for ourselves during the daytime. We do not need Persian slaves to make our beds; when we are digging the soil we are turning our mattresses.
427 I know that a healthy child may be made to sleep or wake almost at will. When the child is put to bed and his nurse grows weary of his chatter, she says to him, "Go to sleep." That is much like saying, "Get well," when he is ill. The right way is to let him get tired of himself. Talk so much that he is compelled to hold his tongue, and he will soon be asleep. Here is at least one use for sermons, and you may as well preach to him as rock his cradle; but if you use this narcotic at night, do not use it by day.
428 I shall sometimes rouse Emile, not so much to prevent his sleeping too much, as to accustom him to anything--even to waking with a start. Moreover, I should be unfit for my business if I could not make him wake himself, and get up, so to speak, at my will, without being called.
429 If he wakes too soon, I shall let him look forward to a tedious morning, so that he will count as gain any time he can give to sleep. If he sleeps too late I shall show him some favourite toy when he wakes. If I want him to wake at a given hour I shall say, "To-morrow at six I am going fishing,'' or ''I am going take a walk to such and such a place. Would you like to come too?" He assents, and begs me to wake him. I promise, or do not promise, as the case requires. If he wakes too late he finds me gone. There is something wrong if he does not soon learn to wake himself.
430 Moreover, if it happened, though it rarely does, that an indolent child had the urge to stagnate in laziness, you must not give way to this tendency into which he could lose himself entirely, but you must apply some stimulus to wake him. You must understand that is not a question of applying force, but of arousing some appetite which leads to action, and such an appetite, carefully selected on the lines laid down by nature achieves two purposes at once.
431 If one has any sort of skill, I can think of nothing for which a taste, a very passion, cannot be aroused in children, and that without vanity, emulation, or jealousy. Their vitality, their spirit of imitation, is enough of itself; above all, there is their natural liveliness, of which no teacher so far has contrived to take advantage. In every game, when they are quite sure it is only play, they endure without complaint, or even with laughter, hardships which they would not submit to otherwise without floods of tears. The sports of the young savage involve long fasting, blows, burns, and fatigue of every kind, a proof that even pain has a charm of its own, which may remove its bitterness. It is not every teacher, however, who knows how to season this dish, nor can every pupil eat it without making faces. However, I must take care or I shall be wandering off again after exceptions.
432 What one should not accept, however, is that man should become the slave of pain, disease, accident, the perils of life, or even death itself. The more familiar he becomes with these ideas the sooner he will be cured of that over-sensitiveness which adds to the pain by the impatience of bearing it. The sooner he becomes used to the sufferings which may overtake him, the sooner he shall, as Montaigne has put it, rob those pains of the sting of unfamiliarity and so make his soul strong and invulnerable. His body will be the coat of mail which stops all the darts which might otherwise find a vital part. Even the approach of death, which is not death itself, will scarcely be felt as such. He will not die; he will be, so to speak, alive or dead and nothing more. Montaigne might say of him as he did of a certain king of Morocco, "No man ever prolonged his life so far into death." A child serves his apprenticeship in courage and endurance as well as in other virtues; but you cannot teach children these virtues by name alone; they must learn them unconsciously through experience.
433 But speaking of death, what steps shall I take with regard to my pupil and the danger of smallpox? Shall he be inoculated in infancy, or shall I wait till he takes it in the natural course of things? The former plan is more in accordance with our practice, for it preserves his life at a time when it is of greater value, at the cost of some danger when his life is of less worth; if indeed we can use the word danger with regard to inoculation when properly performed.
434 But the other plan is more in accordance with our general principles--to leave nature to take precautions on its own, precautions that are abandoned whenever man interferes. The natural man is always ready; let him be inoculated by his master; it will choose the moment better than we.
435 Do not think I am finding fault with inoculation, for my reasons for exempting my pupil from it do not in the least apply to yours. Your training does not prepare them to escape catching smallpox as soon as they are exposed to infection. If you let them get it anyhow, they will probably die. I perceive that in different lands the resistance to inoculation is in proportion to the need for it; and the reason is plain. So I scarcely condescend to discuss this question with regard to Emile. He will be inoculated or not according to time, place, and circumstances; it is almost a matter of indifference, as far as he is concerned. If it gives him smallpox, there will be the advantage of knowing what to expect, knowing what the disease is, and that is a good thing; but if he catches it naturally it will have kept him out of the doctor's hands, which is better.
436 An exclusive education, which merely tends to keep those who have received it apart from the mass of mankind, always selects such teaching as is costly rather than cheap, even when the latter is of more use. Thus all carefully educated young men learn to ride, because it costs alot, but scarcely any of them learn to swim, since it costs nothing, and an artisan can swim as well as any one. Yet without ever having gone to a riding academy, a traveller can mount a horse, stay on, and to ride well enough for practical purposes. But in the water if one cannot swim he will drown, and one cannot swim unless he is taught. Finally, a person is never forced to ride on pain of death, whereas no one is ever sure of escaping such a common danger as drowning. Emile shall be as much at home in the water as on land. Why should he not be able to live in every element? If he could learn to fly, he should be an eagle; I would make him a salamander, if he could bear the heat.
437 People are afraid lest the child should be drowned while he is learning to swim. If he dies while he is learning, or if he dies because he has not learned, it will be your own fault. Foolhardiness is the result of vanity; we are not rash when no one is looking. Emile will not be foolhardy, though all the world were watching him. Since the exercise does not depend on any danger, he will learn in a stream in his father's park to swim the Hellespont; but he must get used to danger too, so as not to be flustered by it. This is an essential part of the apprenticeship I spoke of just now. Moreover, I shall take care to proportion the danger to his strength, and I shall always share it myself, so that I need scarcely fear any imprudence if I take as much care for his life as for my own.
438 A child is smaller than a man; he has not the man's strength or reason. But he sees and hears as well or nearly as well; his sense of taste is very good, though he is less fastidious, and he distinguishes scents as clearly though less sensuously. The senses are the first of our faculties to mature; they are those most frequently overlooked or neglected.
439 To train the senses it is not enough merely to use them; we must learn to judge by their means; to learn to feel, so to speak. For we know how to touch, see, or hear, except as we have learned.
440 There is a purely natural and mechanical use of the senses which strengthens the body without improving the judgment. It is all very well to swim, run, jump, spin a top, throw stones; but have we nothing but arms and legs? Have we not eyes and ears as well; and are not these organs necessary for the use of the rest? Do not merely exercise the strength, exercise all the senses by which it is guided; make the best use of every one of them, and check the results of one by the other. Measure, count, weigh, compare. Do not use force till you have estimated the resistance; let the estimation of the effect always precede the application of the means. Get the child interested in avoiding insufficient or superfluous efforts. If in this way you train him to calculate the effects of all his movements, and to correct his mistakes by experience, is it not clear that the more he does the wiser he will become?
441 Is there a need to move a heavy mass? If he takes too long a lever, he will waste his strength; if it is too short, he will not have strength enough; experience will teach him to use the very stick he needs. This knowledge is not beyond his years. Take, for example, a load to be carried. If he wants to carry as much as he can, and not to take up more than he can carry, doesn't he have to calculate the weight by the appearance? Does he know how to compare masses of like substance and different size, or to choose between masses of the same size and different substances? He must set to work to compare their specific weights. I have seen a young man, very highly educated, who could not be convinced, till he had tried it, that a bucket full of blocks of oak weighed less than the same bucket full of water.
442 All our senses are not equally under our control. One of them, touch, is always busy during our waking hours; it is spread over the whole surface of the body, like a sentinel ever on the watch to warn us of anything which may do us harm. It is the one which, whether we want to or not, we learn to use first of all by experience, by constant practice, and therefore we have less need for special training for it. Yet we know that the blind have a surer and more delicate sense of touch than we, for not being guided by the one sense, they are forced to get from the touch what we get from sight. Why, then, are not we trained to walk as they do in the dark, to recognise what we touch, to distinguish things about us; in a word, to do at night and in the dark what they do in the daytime without sight? We are better off than they while the sun shines; in the dark it is their turn to be our guide. We are blind half our time, with this difference: the really blind always know what to do, while we are afraid to stir in the dark. We have lights, you say. What! always artificial aids. Who can insure that they will always be at hand when required. I had rather Emile's eyes were in his finger tips than in the candlemaker's shop.
443 If you are shut up in a building at night, clap your hands, you will know from the sound whether the space is large or small, if you are in the middle or in one corner. Half a foot from a wall the air, which is refracted and does not circulate freely, produces a different effect on your face. Stand still in one place and turn this way and that; a slight draught will tell you if there is a door open. If you are on a boat you will perceive from the way the air strikes your face not merely the direction in which you are going, but whether the current is bearing you slow or fast. These observations and many others like them can only be properly made at night; however much attention we give to them by daylight, we are always helped or hindered by sight, so that the results escape us. Yet here we use neither hand nor stick. How much may be learnt by touch, without ever touching anything!
444 Many night games. This suggestion is more valuable than it seems at first sight. Men are naturally afraid of the dark; so are some animals. Only a few men are freed from this burden by knowledge, determination, and courage. I have seen thinkers, unbelievers, philosophers, exceedingly brave by daylight, tremble like women at the rustling of a leaf in the dark. This terror is put down to nurses' tales. That is a mistake; it has a natural cause. What is this cause? What makes the deaf suspicious and the lower classes superstitious? Ignorance of the things about us and of what is taking place around us. Accustomed to perceive things from a distance and to calculate their effects, how can I help supposing, when I cannot see, that there are hosts of creatures and all sorts of movements all about me which may do me harm, and against which I cannot protect myself? In vain do I know I am safe where I am; I am never so sure of it as when I can actually see it, so that I have always a cause for fear which did not exist in broad daylight. I know, indeed, that a foreign body can scarcely act upon me without some slight sound, and how intently I listen! At the least sound which I cannot explain, the desire of self-preservation makes me picture everything that would put me on my guard, and therefore everything most calculated to alarm me.
445 Do I hear absolutely nothing? I am just as uneasy, for I might be taken unawares without a sound. I must picture things as they were before, as they ought to be; I must see what I do not see. Thus driven to exercise my imagination, it soon becomes my master, and what I did to reassure myself only alarms me more. I hear a noise, it is a robber; I hear nothing, it is a ghost. The watchfulness inspired by the instinct of self-preservation only makes me more afraid. Everything that ought to reassure me exists only for my reason, and the voice of instinct is louder than that of reason. What is the good of thinking there is nothing to be afraid of, since in that case there is nothing we can do?
446 The cause of the discovered harm indicates the cure. In everything habit kills imagination; it is only aroused by what is new. It is no longer imagination but memory which is concerned with what we see every day, and that is the reason of the maxim, Ab assuetis non fit passio, for it is only at the flame of imagination that the passions are kindled. Therefore do not argue with any one whom you want to cure of the fear of darkness; take him often into dark places and be assured this practice will be of more avail than all the arguments of philosophy. The tiler on the roof does not know what it is to be dizzy, and those who are used to the dark will not be afraid.
447 There is another advantage to be gained from our games in the dark. But if these games are to be a success I cannot speak too strongly of the need for gaiety. Nothing is so gloomy as the dark. Do not shut your child up in a dungeon, let him laugh when he goes into a dark place, let him laugh when he comes out, so that the thought of the game he is leaving and the games he will play next may protect him from the fantastic imagination which might lay hold on him.
448 There comes a stage in life beyond which we progress backwards. I feel I have reached this stage. I am, so to speak, returning to a past career. The approach of age makes us recall the happy days of our childhood. As I grow old I become a child again, and I recall more readily what I did at ten than at thirty. Reader, forgive me if I sometimes draw my examples from my own experience. If this book is to be well written, I must enjoy writing it.
449 I was living in the country' with a pastor called M. Lambercier. My companion was a cousin richer than myself who was regarded as the heir to some property, while I, far from my father, was only a poor orphan. My big cousin Bernard was unusually timid, especially at night. I so mocked his fears that M. Lambercier, tired of my boasting, wanted to put my courage to the test. One autumn evening, when it was very dark, he gave me the church key, and told me to go and fetch a Bible he had left in the pulpit. To put me on my mettle he said something which made it impossible for me to refuse.
450 I set out without a light; if I had had one, it would perhaps have been even worse. I had to pass through the graveyard. I crossed it bravely, for as long as I was in the open air I was never afraid of the dark.
451 As I opened the door I heard a sort of echo in the roof; it sounded like voices and it began to shake my Roman courage. Having opened the door I tried to enter, but when I had gone a few steps I stopped. At the sight of the profound darkness in which the vast building lay I was seized with terror and my hair stood on end. I turned, I went out through the door, and took to my heels. In the yard I found a little dog, called Sultan, whose caresses reassured me. Ashamed of my fears, I retraced my steps, trying to take Sultan with me, but he refused to follow. Hurriedly I opened the door and entered the church. I was hardly inside when terror again got hold of me and so firmly that I lost my head, and though the pulpit was on the right, as I very well knew, I sought it on the left, and entangling myself among the benches I was completely lost. Unable to find either pulpit or door, I fell into an indescribable state of mind. At last I found the door and managed to get out of the church and run away as I had done before, quite determined never to enter the church again except in broad daylight.
452 I returned to the house. Ready to enter, I heard the voice of M. Lambercier in great bursts of laughter. Assuming that it was directed at me and embarrassed at seeing myself exposed, I hesitated to open the door. In this interval I heard Miss Lambercier expressing worry about me and tell the maid to get the lantern, and M. Lambercier getting ready to come and look for me, escorted by my gallant cousin, who would have got all the credit for the expedition. All at once my fears departed, and left me merely surprised at my terror. I ran, I fairly flew, to the church. Without losing my way, without groping about, I reached the pulpit, took the Bible, and ran down the steps. In three strides I was out of the church, leaving the door open. Breathless, I entered the room and threw the Bible on the table, frightened indeed, but throbbing with pride that I had done it without the proposed assistance.
453 You will ask if I am giving this anecdote as an example, and as an illustration, of the mirth which I say should accompany these games. Not so, but I give it as a proof that there is nothing so well calculated to reassure any one who is afraid in the dark as to hear sounds of laughter and talking in an adjoining room. Instead of playing alone with your pupil in the evening, I would have you get together a number of good humored children; do not send them alone to begin with, but several together, and do not venture to send any one completely alone until you are quite certain beforehand that he will not be too frightened.
454 I can picture nothing more amusing and more profitable than such games, considering how little skill is required to organise them. In a large room I should arrange a sort of labyrinth of tables, arm-chairs, chairs, and screens. In the inextricable windings of this labyrinth I should place some eight or ten decoy boxes, and one real box almost exactly like them, but well filled with candy. I should describe clearly and briefly the place where the right box would be found. I should give instructions sufficient to enable people more attentive and less excitable than children to find it. Then having made the little competitors draw lots, I should send first one and then another till the right box was found. I should increase the difficulty of the task in proportion to their skill.
455 Picture to yourself a youthful Hercules returning, box in hand, quite proud of his expedition. The box is placed on the table and opened with great ceremony. I can hear the bursts of laughter and the hoots of the joyful party when, instead of the looked-for sweets, he finds, neatly arranged on moss or cotton-wool, a beetle, a snail, a bit of coal, a few acorns, a turnip, or some such thing. Another time in a newly whitewashed room, a toy or some small article of furniture would be hung on the wall and the children would have to fetch it without touching the wall. When the child who fetches it comes back, if he has failed ever so little to fulfil the conditions, a dab of white on the brim of his cap, the tip of his shoe, the flap of his coat or his sleeve, will betray his lack of skill. This is enough, or more than enough, to show the spirit of these games. Do not read my book if you expect me to tell you every-thing.
456 What great advantages would be possessed by a man so educated when compared with others? His feet are accustomed to tread firmly in the dark, and his hands to touch lightly; they will guide him sagely in the thickest darkness. His imagination is busy with the evening games of his childhood, and will find it difficult to turn towards objects of alarm. If he thinks he hears laughter, it will be the laughter of his former playfellows, not of frenzied spirits; if he thinks there is a group of people, it will not be the witches' sabbath, but the party in his tutor's study. Night only recalls these cheerful memories, and it will never alarm him; it will inspire delight rather than fear. He will be ready for a military expedition at any hour, with or without his troop. He will enter the camp of Saul, he will find his way, he will reach the king's tent without waking any one, and he will return unobserved. Are the steeds of Rhesus to be stolen? You may trust him. You will scarcely find a Ulysses among men educated in any other fashion.
457 I have known people who tried to train the children not to fear the dark by startling them. This is a very bad plan; its effects are just the opposite of those desired, and it only makes children more timid. Neither reason nor habit can secure us from the fear of a present danger whose degree and kind are unknown, nor from the fear of surprises which we have often experienced. Yet how will you make sure that you can preserve your pupil from such accidents? I consider this the best advice to give him beforehand. I should say to Emile, "This is a matter of the right of self-defence, for the aggressor does not let you know whether he means to hurt or frighten you, and as the advantage is on his side you cannot even take refuge in flight. Therefore seize boldly anything, whether man or beast, which takes you unawares in the dark. Grasp it, squeeze it with all your might; if it struggles, strike, and do not spare your blows; and whatever he may say or do, do not let him go till you know just who he is. The event will probably prove that you had little to be afraid of, but this way of treating practical jokers would naturally prevent their trying it again."
458 Although touch is of all our senses the one of which we have the most continual exercise, its discrimination remains, as I have already pointed out, coarser and more imperfect than that of any other sense, because we always use sight along with it. The eye perceives the thing first, and the mind almost always judges without the hand. On the other hand, discrimination by touch is the surest just because of its limitations; for extending only as far as our hands can reach, it corrects the hasty judgments of the other senses, which pounce upon objects scarcely perceived, whereas what we learn by touch is learnt thoroughly. Moreover, touch, when required, unites the force of our muscles to the action of the nerves; we associate by simultaneous sensations our ideas of temperature, size, and shape, to those of weight and density. Thus touch is the sense which best teaches us the action of foreign bodies upon ourselves, the sense which most directly supplies us with the knowledge required for self-preservation.
459 As the trained touch takes the place of sight, why should it not, to some extent, take the place of hearing, since sounds set up, in sonorous bodies, vibrations perceptible by touch? By placing the hand on the body of a cello one can distinguish without the use of eye or ear, merely by the way in which the wood vibrates and trembles, whether the sound given out is sharp or flat, whether it is drawn from the treble string or the base. If our touch were trained to note these differences, no doubt we might in time become so sensitive as to hear a whole tune by means of our fingers. But if we admit this, it is clear that one could easily speak to the deaf by means of music; for tone and measure are no less capable of regular combination than voice and articulation, so that they might be used as the elements of speech.
460 There are exercises by which the sense of touch is blunted and deadened, and others which sharpen it and make it delicate and discriminating. The former, which employ much movement and force for the continued impression of hard bodies, make the skin hard and thick and deprive it of its natural sensitiveness. The latter are those which give variety to this feeling, by slight and repeated contact, so that the mind is attentive to constantly recurring impressions, and readily learns to discern their variations. This difference is clear in the use of musical instruments. The harsh and painful touch of the cello, bass-viol, and even of the violin, hardens the finger-tips, although it gives flexibility to the fingers. The soft and smooth touch of the harpsichord makes the fingers both flexible and sensitive. In this respect the harpsichord is to be preferred.
461 The skin protects the rest of the body, so it is very important to harden it to the effects of the air that it may be able to bear its changes. With regard to this I may say I would not have the hand roughened by too servile application to the same kind of work, nor should the skin of the hand become hardened so as to lose its delicate sense of touch which keeps the body informed of what is going on, and by the kind of contact sometimes makes us shudder in different ways even in the dark.
462 Why should my pupil be always compelled to wear the skin of an ox under his foot? What harm would come of it if his own skin could serve him at need as a sole? It is clear that a delicate skin could never be of any use in this way, and may often do harm. The Genevans, aroused at midnight by their enemies in the depth of winter, seized their guns rather than their shoes. Who can tell whether the town would have escaped capture if its citizens had not been able to go barefoot?
463 Let a man be always fore-armed against the unforeseen. Let Emile run about barefoot all the year round, upstairs, downstairs, and in the garden. Far from scolding him, I shall follow his example; only I shall be careful to remove any broken glass. I shall soon proceed to speak of work and manual occupations. Meanwhile, let him learn to perform every exercise which encourages agility of body; let him learn to hold himself easily and steadily in any position, let him practise jumping and leaping, climbing trees and walls. Let him always find his balance, and let his every movement and gesture be regulated by the laws of weight, long before he learns to explain them by the science of statics. By the way his foot is planted on the ground, and his body supported on his leg, he ought to know if he is holding himself well or ill. An easy carriage is always graceful, and the steadiest positions are the most elegant. If I were a dancing master I would refuse to play the monkey tricks of Marcel note 40], which are only fit for the place where he performs them; but instead of keeping my pupil busy with fancy steps, I would take him to the foot of a cliff. There I would show him how to hold himself, how to carry his body and head, how to place first a foot then a hand, to follow lightly the steep, rocky, and rugged paths, to leap from point to point, either up or down. He should emulate the mountain-goat, not a dancer at the Opera.
464 As touch confines its operations to the man's immediate surroundings, so sight extends its range beyond them. It is this which makes it misleading; man sees half his horizon at a glance. In the midst of this multitude of simultaneous impressions and the thoughts excited by them, how can he fail now and then to make mistakes? Thus sight is the least reliable of our senses, just because it has the widest range; it functions long before our other senses, and its work is too hasty and on too large a scale to be corrected by the rest Moreover, the very illusions of perspective are necessary if we are to arrive at a knowledge of space and compare one part of space with another. Without false appearances we should never see anything at a distance; without the gradations of size and tone we could not judge of distance, or rather distance would have no existence for us. If two trees, one of which was a hundred paces from us and the other ten, looked equally large and distinct, we should think they were side by side. If we perceived the real dimensions of things, we should know nothing of space; everything would seem close to our eyes.
465 The angle formed between any objects and our eye is the only means by which our sight estimates their size and distance, and since this angle is the simple effect of complex causes, the judgment we form does not distinguish between the several causes; we are compelled to be inaccurate. For how can I tell, by sight alone, whether the angle at which an object appears to me smaller than another, indicates that it is really smaller or that it is further off?
466 Here we must just reverse our former plan. Instead of simplifying the sensation, always reinforce it and verify it by means of another sense. Subject the eye to the hand, and, so to speak, restrain the precipitation of the former sense by the slower and more reasoned pace of the latter. For lack of this sort of practice our sight measurements are very imperfect. We cannot correctly, and at a glance, estimate height, length, breadth, and distance; and the fact that engineers, surveyors, architects, masons, and painters are generally quicker to see and better able to estimate distances correctly, proves that the fault is not in our eyes, but in our use of them. Their occupations give them the training we lack, and they check the equivocal results of the angle of vision by its accompanying experiences, which determine the relations of the two causes of this angle for their eyes.
467 Children will always do anything that keeps them moving freely. There are countless ways of rousing their interest in measuring, perceiving, and estimating distance. There is a very tall cherry tree; how shall we gather the cherries? Will the ladder in the barn be big enough? There is a wide stream; how shall we get to the other side? Would one of the wooden planks in the yard reach from bank to bank? From our windows we want to fish in the moat; how many yards of line are required? I want to make a swing between two trees; will two fathoms of cord be enough? They tell me our room in the new house will be twenty-five feet square; do you think it will be big enough for us? Will it be larger than this? We are very hungry; here are two villages, which can we get to first for our dinner?
468 An idle, lazy child was supposed to be taught to run. He had no liking for this or any other exercise, though he was intended for the army. Somehow or other he had got it into his head that a man of his rank need know nothing and do nothing, that his birth would serve as a substitute for arms and legs, as well as for every kind of virtue. The skill of Chiron himself would have failed to make a fleet-footed Achilles of this young gentleman. The difficulty was increased by my determination to give him no kind of orders. I had renounced all right to direct him by preaching, promises, threats, emulation, or the desire to show off. How should I make him want to run without saying anything? I might run myself, but he might not follow my example, and this plan had other drawbacks. Moreover, I must find some means of teaching him through this exercise, so as to train mind and body to work together. This is how I, or rather the one who is speaking in this example, set about it.
469 When I took him for a walk one afternoon I sometimes a couple of pieces of cake, of a kind he was very fond of; we each ate one while we were out, and we came back well pleased with our outing. note 41] One day he noticed I had three pieces; he could have easily eaten six, so he ate his quickly and asked for the other. "No," said I, "I could eat it myself, or we might divide it, but I would rather see those two little boys run a race for it." I called them to us, showed them the cake, and suggested that they should race for it. They wanted nothing better. The cake was placed on a large stone which was to be the goal; the course was marked out, we sat down, and at a given signal off flew the children. The victor seized the cake and ate it without pity in the sight of the spectators and of his defeated rival.
470 The sport was better than the cake; but the lesson did not take effect all at once and produced no result. I was not discouraged, nor did I hurry; teaching is a trade at which one must be able to lose time and save it. Our walks were continued, sometimes we took three cakes, sometimes four, and from time to time there were one or two cakes for the racers. If the prize was not great, neither was the ambition of the competitors. The winner was praised and celebrated, and everything was done with much ceremony. To give room to run and to add interest to the race I marked out a longer course and admitted several fresh competitors. Scarcely had they entered the lists than all the passers-by stopped to watch. They were encouraged by shouting, cheering, and clapping. I sometimes saw my little man trembling with excitement, jumping up and shouting when one was about to reach or overtake another; to him these were the Olympian games.
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471 However, the competitors did not always play fair, they got in each other's way, or knocked one another down, or put stones on the track. That led us to separate them and make them start from different places at equal distances from the goal. You will soon see the reason for this, for I must describe this important affair at length.
472 Tired of seeing his favourite cake devoured before his eyes, the young lord began to suspect that there was some use in being a quick runner, and seeing that he had two legs of his own, he began to practise running on the quiet. I took care to see nothing, but I knew my stratagem had taken effect. When he thought he was good enough (and I thought so too), he pretended to tease me to give him the other piece of cake. I refused; he persisted, and at last he said angrily, "Well, put it on the stone and mark out the course, and we shall see." "Very good," said I, laughing, "Does a lord know how to run? You will get a good appetite, but you will not get the cake." Stung by my mockery, he took heart, won the prize, all the more easily because I had marked out a very short course and had taken care that the best runner was out of the way. It will be evident that after the first step, I had no difficulty in keeping him in training. Soon he took such a fancy for this form of exercise that without any favour he was almost certain to beat the little peasant boys at running, however long the course.
473 The advantage thus obtained led unexpectedly to another. So long as he seldom won the prize, he ate it himself like his rivals, but as he got used to victory he grew generous, and often shared it with the defeated. That taught me a lesson in morals and I saw what was the real root of generosity.
474 While I continued to mark out a different starting place for each competitor, he did not notice that I had made the distances unequal, so that one of them, having farther to run to reach the goal, was clearly at a disadvantage. But though I left the choice to my pupil he did not know how to take advantage of it. Without thinking of the distance, he always chose the smoothest path, so that I could easily predict his choice, and could almost make him win or lose the cake at my pleasure. I had more than one end in view in this stratagy; but since my plan was to get him to notice the difference himself, I tried to make him aware of it. Though he was generally lazy and easy going, he was so eager in his sports and trusted me so completely that I had great difficulty in making him see that I was cheating him. When at last I managed to make him see it in spite of his excitement, he was angry with me. "What have you to complain of?" said I. "In a gift which I propose to give of my own free will am not I master of the conditions? Who makes you run? Did I promise to make the courses equal? Is not the choice yours? Do not you see that I am favouring you, and that the inequality you complain of is all to your advantage, if you knew how to use it?" That was plain to him; and to choose he must observe more carefully. At first he wanted to count the paces, but a child measures paces slowly and inaccurately; moreover, I decided to have several races on one day; and the game having become a sort of passion with the child, he was sorry to waste in measuring the portion of time intended for running. Such delays are not in accordance with a child's impatience. He tried therefore to see better and to reckon the distance more accurately at sight. It was now quite easy to extend and develop this power. At length, after some months' practice, and the correction of his errors, I so trained his power of judging at sight that I had only to place an imaginary cake on any distant object and his glance was nearly as accurate as the surveyor's chain.
475 Of all the senses, sight is that which we can least distinguish from the judgments of the mind; so it takes a long time to learn to see. It takes a long time to compare sight and touch, and to train the former sense to give a true report of shape and distance. Without touch, without progressive motion, the sharpest eyes in the world could give us no idea of space. To the oyster the whole world must seem a point, and it would seem nothing more to it even if it had a human mind. It is only by walking, feeling, counting, measuring the dimensions of things that we learn to judge them rightly. But, also, if we were always measuring, our senses would trust to the instrument and would never gam confidence. Nor must the child pass abruptly from measurement to judgment; he must continue to compare the parts when he could not compare the whole; he must substitute his estimated aliquot parts for exact parts, and instead of always applying the measure by hand he must get used to applying it by eye alone. I would, however, have his first estimates tested by measurement, so that he may correct his errors, and if there is a false impression left upon the senses he may correct it by a better judgment. The same natural standards of measurement are in use almost everywhere -- the man's foot, the extent of his outstretched arms, his height. When the child wants to measure the height of a room, his tutor may serve as a measuring rod; if he is estimating the height of a steeple let him measure it by the house; if he wants to know how many miles of road there are, let him count the hours spent in walking along it. Above all, do not do this for him; let him do it himself.
476 One cannot learn to estimate the extent and size of bodies without at the same time learning to know and even to copy their shape; for at bottom this copying depends entirely on the laws of perspective, and one cannot estimate distance without some feeling for these laws. All children in the course of their endless imitation try to draw; and I would have Emile cultivate this art; not so much for art's sake, as to give him exactness of eye and flexibility of hand. Generally speaking, it matters little whether he is acquainted with this or that occupation, provided he gains clearness of sense-perception and the good bodily habits which belong to the exercise in question. So I would take good care not to provide him with a drawing master, who would only set him to copy copies and draw from drawings. Nature should be his only teacher, and things his only models. He should have the real thing before his eyes, not its copy on paper. Let him draw a house from a house, a tree from a tree, a man from a man; so that he may train himself to observe objects and their appearance accurately and not to take false and conventional copies for truth. I would even train him to draw only from objects actually before him and not from memory, so that, by repeated observation, their exact form may be impressed on his imagination, for fear that he should substitute absurd and fantastic forms for the real truth of things and lose his sense of proportion and his taste for the beauties of nature.
477 Of course I know that in this way he will make any number of rough sketches before he produces anything recognisable, that it will be long before he attains to the graceful outline and light touch of the draughtsman. Perhaps he will never have an eye for picturesque effect or a good taste in drawing. On the other hand, he will certainly get a truer eye, a surer hand, a knowledge of the real relations of form and size between animals, plants, and natural objects, together with a quicker sense of the effects of perspective. That is just what I wanted, and my purpose is rather that he should know things than copy them. I would rather he showed me a plant of acanthus even if he drew a capital with less accuracy.
478 Moreover, in this occupation as in others, I do not intend my pupil to play by himself; I mean to make it pleasanter for him by always sharing it with him. He will have no other rival; but mine will be a continual rivalry, and there will be no risk attaching to it; it will give interest to his pursuits without awaking jealousy between us. I will follow his example and take up a pencil; at first I will use it as unskilfully as he. I would be an Apelles if I did not set myself scribbling. To begin with, I will draw a man such as boys draw on walls -- a line for each arm, another for each leg, with the fingers longer than the arm. Long after, one or other of us will notice this lack of proportion; we will observe that the leg is thick, that this thickness varies, that the length of the arm is proportionate to the body. In this improvement I will either go side by side with my pupil, or so little in advance that he will always overtake me easily and sometimes get ahead of me. We will get brushes and paints, we will try to copy the colours of things and their whole appearance, not merely their shape. We will colour prints, we will paint, we will daub; but in all our daubing we will be searching out the secrets of nature, and whatever we do will be done under the eye of that master.
479 We badly needed ornaments for our room, and now we have them ready to our hand. I will have our drawings framed and covered with good glass, so that no one will touch them, and thus seeing them where we put them, each of us has a motive for taking care of his own. I arrange them in order round the room, each drawing repeated some twenty or thirty times, thus showing the author's progress in each specimen, from the time when the house is merely a rude square, till its front view, its side view, its proportions, its light and shade are all exactly portrayed. These gradations will certainly furnish us with pictures, a source of interest to ourselves and of curiosity to others, which will spur us on to further emulation. The first and roughest drawings I put in very smart gilt frames to show them off; but as the copy becomes more accurate and the drawing really good, I only give it a very plain dark frame; it needs no other ornament than itself, and it would be a pity if the frame distracted the attention which the picture itself deserves. Thus we each aspire to a plain frame, and when we desire to pour scorn on each other's drawings, we condemn them to a gilded frame. Some day perhaps "the gilt frame" will become a proverb among us, and we shall be surprised to find how many people show what they are really made of by demanding a gilt frame.
480 I have said already that geometry is beyond children's reach; but that is our own fault. We fail to perceive that their method is not ours, that what is for us the art of reasoning, should be for them the art of seeing. Instead of teaching them our way, we should do better to adopt theirs, for our way of learning geometry is quite as much a matter of imagination as of reasoning. When a proposition is enunciated you must imagine the proof; that is, you must discover on what proposition already learnt it depends, and of all the possible deductions from that proposition you must choose just the one required.
481 In this way the closest reasoner, if he is not inventive, may find himself at a loss. What is the result? Instead of making us discover proofs, they are dictated to us; instead of teaching us to reason, only our memory is employed.
482 Draw accurate figures, combine them together, put them one upon another, examine their relations, and you will discover the whole of elementary geometry in passing from one observation to another, without a word of definitions, problems, or any other form of demonstration but super-position. I do not profess to teach Emile geometry; he will teach me. I will seek for relations, he will find them, for I will seek in such a fashion as to make him find. For instance, instead of using a pair of compasses to draw a circle, I will draw it with a pencil at the end of bit of string attached to a pivot. After that, when I want to compare the radii one with another, Emile will laugh at me and show me that the same thread at full stretch cannot have given distances of unequal length.
483 If I wish to measure an angle of 60% I describe from the apex of the angle, not an arc, but a complete circle, for with children nothing must be taken for granted. I find that the part of the circle contained between the two lines of the angle is the sixth part of a circle. Then I describe another and larger circle from the same center, and I find the second arc is again the sixth part of its circle. I describe a third concentric circle with a similar result, and I continue with more and more circles till Emile, shocked at my stupidity, shows me that every arc, large or small, contained by the same angle will always be the sixth part of its circle. Now we are ready to use the protractor.
484 To prove that two adjacent angles are equal to two right angles one usually describes a circle. On the contrary I would have Emile observe the fact in a circle, and then I should say, "If we took away the circle and left the straight lines, would the angles have changed their size, etc.?"
485 Exactness in the construction of figures is neglected; it is taken for granted and stress is laid on the proof. With us, on the other hand, there will be no question of proof. Our chief business will be to draw very straight, accurate, and even lines, a perfect square, a really round circle. To verify the exactness of a figure we will test it by each of its sensible properties, and that will give us a chance to discover fresh properties day by day. We will fold the two semi-circles along the diameter, the two halves of the square by the diagonal; he will compare our two figures to see who has got the edges to fit most exactly, i.e., who has done it best; we should argue whether this equal division would always be possible in parallelograms, trapezoids, etc. We shall sometimes try to forecast the result of an experiment, to find reasons, etc.
486 Geometry means to my scholar the successful use of the rule and compass; he must not confuse it with drawing, in which these instruments are not used. The rule and compass will be locked up so that he will not get into the habit of messing about with them, but we may sometimes take our figures with us when we go for a walk, and talk over what we have done, or what we mean to do.
487 I will never forget seeing a young man at Turin, who had learnt as a child the relations of contours and surfaces by having to choose every day isoperimetric cakes among cakes of every geometrical figure. The greedy little fellow had exhausted the art of Archimedes to find which were the biggest.
488 When the child flies a kite he is training eye and hand to accuracy; when he spins a top, he is increasing his strength by using it, but without learning anything. I have sometimes asked why children are not given the same games of skill as men; tennis, mallets, billiards, archery, football, and musical instruments. I was told that some of these are beyond their strength, that the child's senses are not sufficiently developed for others. These do not strike me as valid reasons. A child is not as tall as a man, but he wears the same sort of coat. I do not want him to play with our cues at a billiard-table three feet high; I do not want him knocking about among our games, nor carrying one of our racquets in his little hand ; but let him play in a room whose windows have been protected. At first let him only use soft balls, let his first racquets be of wood, then of parchment, and lastly of gut, according to his progress. You prefer the kite because it is less tiring and there is no danger. You are doubly wrong. Kite-flying is a sport for women, but every woman will run away from a swift ball. Their white skin was not meant to be hardened by blows and their faces were not made for bruises. But we men are made for strength; do you think we can attain it without hardship, and what defence shall we be able to make if we are attacked? People always play carelessly in games where there is no danger. A falling kite hurts nobody, but nothing makes the arm so supple as protecting the head, nothing makes the sight so accurate as having to guard the eye. To dash from one end of the room to another, to judge the rebound of a ball before it touches the ground, to return it with strength and accuracy -- such games are not so much sports fit for a man, as sports fit to make a man of him.
489 The child's limbs, you say, are too tender. They are not so strong as those of a man, but they are more supple. His arm is weak, still it is an arm, and it should be used with due consideration as we use other tools. Children have no skill in the use of their hands. That is just why I want them to acquire skill; a man with as little practice would be just as clumsy. We can only learn the use of our limbs by using them. It is only by long experience that we learn to make the best of ourselves, and this experience is the real object of study to which we cannot apply ourselves too early.
490 What is done can be done. Now there is nothing commoner than to find nimble and skilful children whose limbs are as active as those of a man. They may be seen at any fair, swinging, walking on their hands, jumping, dancing on the tight rope. For many years past, have not troops of children attracted spectators to ballets at the Comédie Italienne? Who is there in Germany and Italy who has not heard of the famous pantomime company of Nicolini? Has it ever occurred to any one that the movements of these children were less finished, their postures less graceful, their ears less true, their dancing more clumsy than those of grown-up dancers? If at first the fingers are thick, short, and awkward, the dimpled hands unable to grasp anything, does this prevent many children from learning to read and write at an age when others cannot even hold a pen or pencil? All Paris still recalls the little English girl of ten who did wonders on the harpsichord. I once saw a little fellow of eight, the son of a magistrate, who was set like a statuette on the table among the dishes, to play on a fiddle almost as big as himself, and even artists were surprised at his execution.
491 To my mind, these and many more examples prove that the supposed incapacity of children for our games is imaginary, and that if they are unsuccessful in some of them, it is for lack of practice.
492 You will tell me that with regard to the body I am falling into the same mistake of precocious development which I found fault with for the mind. The cases are very different: in the one, progress is apparent only; in the other it is real. I have shown that children have not the mental development they appear to have, while they really do what they seem to do. Besides, we must never forget that all this should be play, the easy and voluntary control of the movements which nature demands of them, the art of varying their games to make them pleasanter, without the least bit of constraint to transform them into work. For what games do they play in which I cannot find material for instruction for them? And even if I could not do so, so long as they are amusing themselves harmlessly and passing the time pleasantly, their progress in learning is not yet of such great importance. Whereas if one must be teaching them this or that at every opportunity, it cannot be done without constraint, anger, or boredom.
493 What I have said about the two senses whose use is most constant and most important may serve as an example of how to exercise the rest. Sight and touch are applied to bodies at rest and bodies in motion, but since hearing is only affected by vibrations of the air, only a body in motion can make a noise or sound; if everything were at rest we should never hear. At night, when we ourselves only move as we choose, we have nothing to fear but moving bodies; hence we need a quick ear, and power to judge from the sensations experienced, whether the body which causes them is large or small, far off or near, whether its movements are gentle or violent Air once set in motion is subject to repercussions which, by producing echoes, renew the sensations and make us hear a loud or penetrating sound in another place from where it is. If in a plain or in a valley you put your ear to the ground you may hear the sound of men's voices or horses' feet much further off than when you are standing up.
494 Since we have made a comparison between sight and touch, it will be as well to do the same for hearing, and to find out which of the two impressions, starting simultaneously from a given body, first reaches the sense-organ. When you see the flash of a cannon you have still time to take cover; but when you hear the sound it is too late, the ball is close to you. One can reckon the distance of a thunderstorm by the interval between the lightning and the thunder. Let the child learn all these facts, let him learn those that are within his reach by experiment, and discover the rest by induction; but I would far rather he knew nothing at all about them, than that you should tell him.
495 In the voice we have an organ answering to hearing; we have no such organ answering to sight, and we do not repeat colours as we repeat sounds. This supplies an additional means of cultivating the ear by practising the active and passive organs one with the other.
496 Man has three kinds of voice, the speaking or articulate voice, the singing or melodious voice, and the pathetic or expressive voice, which serves as the language of the passions and gives life to song and speech. The child has these three voices just as the man has them, but he does not know how to use them in combination. Like us, he laughs, cries, laments, shrieks, and groans, but he does not know how to combine these inflexions with speech or song. A perfect music is that which unites the best these three voices. Children are incapable of such music, and their singing lacks soul. In the same way their spoken language lacks expression; they shout, but they do not speak with emphasis, and since there is there little energy in their speech there is little emphasis in their voice. Our pupil's speech will be plainer and simpler still, for his passions have not been awoken and will not blend their tones with his. Do not, therefore, set him to recite tragedy or comedy, nor try to teach so-called declamation. He will have too much sense to give voice to things he cannot understand, or expression to feelings he has never experienced.
497 Teach him to speak plainly and distinctly, to articulate clearly, to pronounce correctly and without affectation, to perceive and imitate the right accent in prose and verse, and always to speak loud enough to be heard, but without speaking too loud -- a common fault with school-children. As in everything, no superfluity.
498 Similarly with singing. Make his voice smooth and true, flexible and full, his ear alive to time and tune, but nothing more. Imitative and theatrical music is not suitable at his age. I would rather he sang no words; if he must have words, I would try to compose songs on purpose for him, songs interesting to a child, and as simple as his ideas.
499 You may perhaps suppose that since I am in no hurry to teach Emile to read and write, I shall not want to teach him to read music. Let us spare his brain the strain of excessive attention, and let us be in no hurry to turn his mind towards conventional signs. I grant you there seems to be a difficulty here, for if at first sight the knowledge of notes seems no more necessary for singing than the knowledge of letters for speaking, there is really this difference between them: When we speak, we are expressing our own thoughts; when we sing we are scarcely expressing anything but the thoughts of others. Now in order to express them one must read them.
500 But instead of reading them one can hear them, and a song is better learned by ear than by eye. Moreover, to learn music thoroughly we must make songs as well as sing them, and the two processes must be studied together or we shall never have any real knowledge of music. First give your young musician practice in very regular, well-cadenced phrases; then let him connect these phrases with the very simplest modulations; then show him their relation one to another by correct accent, which can be done by a fit choice of cadences and rests. On no account give him anything unusual, or anything that requires pathos or expression. A simple, tuneful melody, always based on the common chords of the key, with its bass so clearly indicated that it is easily felt and accompanied; for to train his voice and ear he should always sing with the harpsichord.
501 We articulate the notes we sing the better to distinguish them; hence the custom of sol-faing with certain syllables. To tell the keys one from another they must have names and fixed intervals; hence the names of the intervals and also the letters of the alphabet attached to the keys of the clavier and the notes of the scale. C and A indicate fixed sounds, invariable and always rendered by the same keys; Do and La are different. Ut is always the dominant of a major scale, or the leading-note of a minor scale. La is always the dominant of a minor scale or the sixth of a major scale. Thus the letters indicate fixed terms in our system of music, and the syllables indicate terms homologous to the similar relations in different keys. The letters show the keys on the piano, and the syllables the degrees in the scale. French musicians have made a strange muddle of this. They have confused the meaning of the syllables with that of the letters, and while they have unnecessarily given us two sets of symbols for the keys of the piano, they have left none for the chords of the scales; so that Do and C are always the same for them. This is not and ought not to be; if so, what is the use of C? Their method of sol-faing is, therefore, extremely and needlessly difficult, neither does it give any clear idea to the mind; since, by this method, Do and Mi, for example, may mean either a major third, a minor third, an augmented third, or a diminished third. What a strange thing that the country which produces the finest books about music should be the very country where it is hardest to learn music!
502 Let us adopt a simpler and clearer plan with our pupil; let him have only two scales whose relations remain unchanged and indicated by the same symbols. Whether he sings or plays, let him learn to fix his scale on one of the twelve tones which may serve as a base, and whether he modulates in D, C, or G, let the close be always Do or La, according to the scale. In this way he will understand what you mean, and the essential relations for correct singing and playing will always be present in his mind; his execution will be better and his progress quicker. There is nothing funnier than what the French call "natural sol-faing." It consists in removing the real meaning of things and putting in their place other meanings which only distract us. There is nothing more natural than sol-faing by transposition, when the scale is transposed. But I have said enough, and more than enough, about music; teach it as you please, so long as it is nothing but play.
503 We are now thoroughly acquainted with the condition of foreign bodies in relation to our own, their weight, form, color, density, size, distance, temperature, stability, or motion. We have learned which of them to approach or avoid, how to set about overcoming their resistance or to resist them so as to prevent ourselves from injury. But this is not enough. Our own body is constantly wasting and as constantly requires to be renewed. Although we have the power of changing other substances into our own, our choice is not a matter of indifference. Everything is not food for man, and what may be food for him is not all equally suitable; it depends on the constitution of his species, the climate he lives in, his individual temperament, and the way of living which his condition demands.
504 We would die of hunger or poison if we had to wait till experience taught us to know and choose food fit for ourselves. But a supreme goodness which has made pleasure the instrument of self-preservation to sentient beings teaches us through our palate what is suitable for our stomach. There is no better doctor than a man's own appetite, and in a state of nature I do not doubt that the food he would find the most agreeable wouldn't also be the most healthy for him.
505 Nor is this all. The author of things provides not only for those needs he has created, but for those we create for ourselves; and it is to keep the balance between our wants and our needs that he has caused our tastes to change and vary with our way of living. The further we are from a state of nature, the more we lose our natural tastes; or rather, habit becomes a second nature, and so completely replaces our real nature that we have lost all knowledge of it.
506 From this it follows that the most natural tastes should be the simplest, for those are more easily changed; but when they are sharpened and stimulated by our fantasies they assume a form which is incapable of modification. The man who so far has not adapted himself to one country can learn the ways of any country whatsoever; but the man who has adopted the habits of one particular country can never shake them off.
507 This seems to be true of all our senses, especially of taste. Our first food is milk. We only become accustomed by degrees to strong flavours; at first we dislike them. Fruit, vegetables, herbs, and meat grilled without salt or seasoning formed the feasts of primitive man. When the savage tastes wine for the first time, he makes a grimace and spits it out; and even among ourselves a man who has not tasted fermented liquors before twenty cannot get used to them; we should all be sober if we did not have wine when we were children. Indeed, the simpler our tastes are, the more general they are; combined foods are those most frequently disliked. Did you ever meet with any one who disliked bread or water? Here is the mark of nature, this then is our rule. Preserve the child's primitive tastes as long as possible; let his food be common and simple, his palate only become familiarized with mild flavors; and let him not develop exclusive tastes.
508 I am not asking here whether this way of living is healthier or not; that is not what I have in view. It is enough for me to know that my choice is more in accordance with nature, and that it can be more readily adapted to other conditions. In my opinion, those who say children should be accustomed to the food they will have when they are grown up are mistaken. Why should their food be the same when their way of living is so different? A man worn out by labour, anxiety, and pain needs tasty foods to give fresh vigour to his brain; a child fresh from his games, a child whose body is growing, needs plentiful food which will supply more chyle. Moreover the grown man has already a settled profession, occupation, and home, but who can tell what fortune holds in store for the child? In everything let us not give him such a determined form that it will cost him too much to change it if needed. Do not bring him up so that he would die of hunger in a foreign land if he does bring a French cook along with him, nor that he someday says that only in France do people know how to eat. By the way, that is a strange way of praising one's country. For myself, I would say on the contrary that the French are the only people who do not know what good food is, since they require such a special art to make their dishes etable.
509 Of all our different senses, we are usually most affected by taste. Thus it concerns us more nearly to judge aright of what will actually become part of ourselves than of that which will merely form part of our environment. Many things are matters of indifference to touch, hearing, and sight; but taste is affected by almost everything.
510 Moreover the activity of this sense is wholly physical and material. Of all the senses it alone makes no appeal to the imagination, or at least, imagination plays a smaller part in its sensations, while imitation and imagination often bring morality into the impressions of the other senses. Thus, speaking generally, soft and pleasure-loving minds, passionate and truly sensitive dispositions, which are easily stirred by the other senses, are usually indifferent to this. From this very fact, which apparently places taste below our other senses and makes our inclination towards it the more despicable, I draw just the opposite conclusion -- that the best way to lead children is by the mouth. Greediness is a better motive than vanity, for the former is a natural appetite directly dependent on the senses, while the latter is the outcome of convention; it is the slave of human whim and liable to every kind of abuse. Greediness is the passion of childhood; this passion depends on none other; at the slightest challenge it disappears. Believe me the child will cease to care about his food only too soon, and when his heart is too busy, his palate will be idle. When he is grown up greediness will be expelled by a thousand stronger passions, while vanity will only be stimulated by them; for this latter passion feeds upon the rest till at length they are all swallowed up in it. I have sometimes studied those men who pay great attention to good eating, men whose first waking thought is -- What shall we have to eat to-day? men who describe their dinner with as much detail as Polybius describes a combat. I have found these so-called men were only children of forty, without strength or vigour -- fruges consumere nati. Gluttony is the vice of feeble minds. The gourmand has his brains in his palate, he can do nothing but eat. He is so stupid and incapable that the table is the only place for him, and dishes are the only things he knows anything about. Let us leave him to this business without regret; it is better for him and for us.
511 To fear that greediness should take root in the child who is fit for something better is a small-minded concern. The child thinks of nothing but his food; the adolescent thinks of it no more: every kind of food is good, and he has other things to attend to. However I would not have you use the low motive unwisely nor bolster good deeds with sweets. But childhood is, or ought to be, a time of games and carefree play, and I do not see why the rewards of purely bodily exercises should not be material and sensible rewards. If a little Majorcan sees a basket in the top of a tree and brings it down with his slingshot, is it not fair that he should get something by this and a good breakfast should repair the strength spent in getting it? If a young Spartan, facing the risk of a hundred lashes, slips skilfully into the kitchen and steals a live fox-cub, carries it off in his shirt and is scratched, bitten till the blood comes, and for shame lest he should be caught the child allows his insides to be torn up without a movement or a cry, is it not fair that he should keep his spoils, that he should eat his prey after it has eaten him? A good meal should never be a reward; but why should it not be sometimes the result of efforts made to get it? Emile does not consider the cake I put on the stone as a reward for good running; he knows that the only way to get the cake is to get there sooner than another.
512 This does not contradict my previous rules about simple food. For to tempt a child's appetite you need not stimulate it but only to satisfy it, and the commonest things will do this if you do not attempt to refine children's taste. Their perpetual hunger, the result of their need for growth, will be the best sauce. Fruit, milk, a piece of cake just a little better than ordinary bread, and above all the art of dispensing these things prudently -- by these means you may lead armies of children to the world's end without on the one hand giving them a taste for strong flavours nor on the other hand letting them get tired of their food.
513 The indifference of children towards meat is one proof that the taste for meat is unnatural; their preference is for vegetable foods, such as milk, pastry, fruit, etc. Beware of changing this natural taste and making children flesh-eaters, if not for their health's sake, for the sake of their character. For however one tries to explain the practice, it is certain that great meat-eaters are usually more cruel and ferocious than other men. This has been recognised at all times and in all places. The English are noted for their cruelty while the Gaures are the gentlest of men. All savages are cruel, and it is not their customs that tend in this direction; their cruelty is the result of their food. They go to war as to the chase, and treat men as they would treat bears. Indeed in England butchers are not allowed to give evidence in a court of law, no more can surgeons. Great criminals prepare themselves for murder by drinking blood. Homer makes his flesh-eating Cyclops a terrible man, while his Lotus-eaters are so delightful that those who went to trade with them forgot even their own country to dwell among them.
514 "You ask me," said Plutarch, "why Pythagoras abstained from eating the flesh of beasts, but I ask you, what courage must have been needed by the first man who raised to his lips the flesh of the slain, who broke with his teeth the bones of a dying beast, who had dead bodies, corpses, placed before him and swallowed down limbs which a few moments ago were bleating, bellowing, walking, and seeing? How could his hand plunge the knife into the heart of a sentient creature? How could his eyes look on murder? How could he behold a poor helpless animal bled to death, scorched, and dismembered? How can he bear the sight of this quivering flesh? Does not the very smell of it turn his stomach? Is he not repelled, disgusted, horror-struck, when ht has to handle the blood from these wounds, and to cleanse his fingers from the dark and viscous bloodstains? "The scorched skins wriggled upon the ground, The shrinking flesh bellowed upon the spit. Man cannot eat them without a shudder; He seems to hear their cries within his breast.
515 "Thus must he have felt the first time he overcame nature and made this horrible meal; the first time he hungered for the living creature and desired to feed upon the beast which was still grazing; when he bade them slay, dismember, and cut up the sheep which licked his hands. It is those who began these cruel feasts, not those who abandon them, who should cause surprise, and those primitive men could justify their barbarousness by excuses which are lacking to our age, and the absence of such excuses thus multiplies our barbarity a hundredfold.
516 "'Mortals, beloved of the gods,' says this primitive man, 'compare our times with yours; see how happy you are, and how wretched were we. The earth, newly formed, the air heavy with moisture, were not yet subjected to the rule of the seasons. Three-fourths of the surface of the globe was flooded with the ever-shifting channels of rivers uncertain of their course, and covered with pools, lakes, and bottomless morasses. The remaining quarter was covered with woods and barren forests. The earth yielded no good fruit, we had no instruments of tillage, we did not even know the use of them, and the time of harvest never came for those who had sown nothing. Thus hunger was always in our midst. In winter, mosses and the bark of trees were our common food. A few green roots of covergrass or heather were a feast, and when men found beech-mast, nuts, or acorns, they danced for joy round the beech or oak, to the sound of some rude song, while they called the earth their mother and their nurse. This was their only festival, their only sport; all the rest of man's life was spent in sorrow, pain, and hunger.
517 "'At length, when the bare and naked earth no longer offered us any food, we were compelled in self-defence to outrage nature, and to feed upon our companions in distress, rather than perish with them. But you, oh, cruel men! Who forces you to shed blood? Behold the wealth of good things about you, the fruits yielded by the earth, the wealth of field and vineyard; the animals give their milk for your drink and their fleece for your clothing. What more do you ask? What madness compels you to commit such murders, when you have already more than you can eat or drink? Why do you slander our mother earth and accuse her of denying you food? Why do you sin against Ceres, the inventor of the sacred laws, and against the gracious Bacchus, the comforter of man, as if their lavish gifts were not enough to preserve mankind? Have you the heart to mingle their sweet fruits with the bones upon your table, to eat with the milk the blood of the beasts which gave it? The lions and panthers, wild beasts as you call them, are driven to follow their natural instinct, and they kill other beasts that they may live. But, a hundredfold fiercer than they, you fight against your instincts without cause, and abandon yourselves to the most cruel pleasures. The animals you eat are not those who devour others; you do not eat the carnivorous boasts, you take them as your pattern. You only hunger for the sweet and gentle creatures which harm no one, which follow you, serve you, and are devoured by you as the reward of their service.
518 "'O murderers against nature, if you persist in the assertion that nature has made you to devour your fellow-creatures, beings of flesh and blood, living and feeling like yourself, stifle if you can that horror with which nature makes you regard these horrible feasts; slay the animals yourself, slay them, I say, with your own hands, without knife or mallet; tear them with your nails like the lion and the bear, take this ox and rend him in pieces, plunge your claws into his hide; eat this lamb while it is yet alive, devour its warm flesh, drink its soul with its blood. You shudder! You dare not feel the living throbbing flesh between your teeth? Ruthless man; you begin by slaying the animal and then you devour it, as if to slay it twice. It is not enough. You turn against the dead flesh, it revolts you, it must be transformed by fire, boiled and roasted, seasoned and disguised with drugs; you must have butchers, cooks, turnspits, men who will rid the murder of its horrors, who will dress the dead bodies so that the taste deceived by these disguises will not reject what is strange to it, and will feast on corpses, the very sight of which would sicken you."
519 Although this quotation is foreign to my subject, I cannot resist the temptation to transcribe it, and I think few of my readers will resent it.
520 In conclusion, whatever food you give your children, provided you accustom them to nothing but plain and simple dishes, let them eat and run and play as much as they want. You may be sure they will never eat too much and will never have indigestion. But if you keep them hungry half their time, when they do contrive to evade your vigilance they will take advantage of it as far as they can; they will eat till they are sick, they will gorge themselves till they can eat no more. Our appetite is only excessive because we try to impose on it rules other than those of nature, opposing, controlling, prescribing, adding, or subtracting. The scales are always in our hands, but the scales are the measure of our whims, not of our stomachs. I return to my usual illustration; among peasants the cupboard and the apple-loft are always left open, and neither children nor grown men know what indigestion is.
521 If, however, it happened that a child were too great an eater, though under my system I think it is impossible, he is so easily distracted by his favourite games that one might easily starve him without his knowing it. How is it that teachers have failed to use such a safe and easy weapon. Herodotus records that the Lydians, under the pressure of great scarcity, decided to invent games and other amusements with which to cheat their hunger, and they passed whole days without thought of food. Your learned teachers may have read this passage time after time without seeing how it might be applied to children. One of these teachers will probably tell me that a child does not like to leave his dinner for his lessons. You are right, sir -- I was not thinking of that sort of game.
522 The sense of smell is to taste what sight is to touch; it goes before it and gives it warning that it will be affected by this or that substance; and it inclines it to seek or shun this experience according to the impressions received beforehand. I have been told that savages receive impressions quite different from ours, and that they have quite different ideas with regard to pleasant or unpleasant odours. I can well believe it. Odours alone are slight sensations; they affect the imagination rather than the senses, and they work mainly through the anticipations they arouse. This being so, and the tastes of savages being so unlike the tastes of civilised men, they should lead them to form very different ideas with regard to flavors and therefore with regard to the odours which announce them. A Tartar must enjoy the smell of a haunch of putrid horseflesh much like one of our hunters enjoys a very high partridge.
523 Our idle sensations, such as the scents wafted from the flower beds, must pass unnoticed among men who walk too much to care for strolling in a garden and do not work enough to find pleasure in repose. Hungry men would find little pleasure in scents which did not proclaim the approach of food.
524 Smell is the sense of the imagination. Since it gives tone to the nerves it must have a great effect on the brain; that is why it revives us for the time but eventually causes exhaustion. Its effects on love are pretty well known. The sweet perfumes of a dressing-room are not so slight a snare as you may fancy them, and I hardly know whether to congratulate or pity that wise and somewhat insensible person whose senses are never stirred by the scent of the flowers his mistress wears in her bosom.
525 The sense of smell should not be over-active in early childhood when the imagination, as yet unstirred by changing passions, is scarcely susceptible of emotion and we have not enough experience to discern beforehand from one sense the promise of another. This view is confirmed by observation, and it is certain that the sense of smell is dull and almost blunted in most children. Not that their sensations are less acute than those of grown-up people, but because there is no idea associated with them they do not easily experience pleasure or pain, and are not flattered or hurt as we are. Without going beyond my system, and without recourse to comparative anatomy, I think we can easily see why women are generally fonder of perfumes than men.
526 It is said that from early childhood the savages of Canada train their sense of smell to such a degree of subtlety that, although they have dogs, they do not condescend to use them in hunting --they are their own dogs. Indeed I believe that if children were trained to scent their dinner as a dog scents game, their sense of smell might be nearly as perfect; but I see no very real advantage to be derived from this sense, except by teaching the child to observe the relation between smell and taste. Nature has taken care to compel us to learn these relations. She has made the exercise of the latter sense practically inseparable from that of the former, by placing their organs close together, and by providing, in the mouth, a direct pathway between them, so that we taste nothing without smelling it too. Only I would not have these natural relations disturbed in order to deceive the child, e.g., to conceal the taste of medicine with an aromatic odour, for the discord between the senses is too great for deception. The more active sense overpowers the other, the medicine is just as distasteful, and this disagreeable association extends to every sensation experienced at the time, so the slightest of these sensations recalls the rest to his imagination and a very pleasant perfume is for him only a nasty smell. Thus our foolish precautions increase the sum total of his unpleasant sensations at the cost of his pleasant sensations.
527 In the following books I have still to speak of the training of a sort of sixth sense, called common sense, not so much because it is common to all men, but because it results from the well-regulated use of the other five and teaches the nature of things by the sum-total of their external aspects. So this sixth sense has no special organ. It has its seat in the brain, and its sensations which are purely internal are called perceptions or ideas. It is the number of these ideas that measures our knowledge; it is their exactness, their clarity, which makes for accuracy of mind; it is the art of comparing them one with another that is called human reason. Thus what I call sensitive or puerile reason consists of the formation of simple ideas through the association of several sensations; and what I call intellectual or human reason consists of the formation of complex ideas through the association of several simple ideas.
528 Supposing therefore that my method is indeed that of nature, and if I am not mistaken in the application of that method, we have led our pupil through the region of sensation to the bounds of puerile reasoning. The first step we take beyond these bounds must be the step of a man. But before we entering this new course, let us glance back for a moment at the one we have just taken. Every age, every condition of life, has a perfection suited to it alone, a sort of maturity that is proper to it. We have often heard of a grown man but let us consider a grown child. This spectacle will be quite new for us, and it will perhaps not be less pleasing.
529 The existence of finite beings is so poor and so limited that when we see only what is we are never moved. It is fantasy that embellishes real things, and if imagination does not add a charm to that which confronts us, the sterile pleasure that one gets is limited to that sense organ and leaves our heart cold. The earth adorned with the treasures of autumn displays a wealth of colour which the eye admires; but this admiration fails to move us, it springs from reflection rather than from feeling. In spring the country is almost bare and leafless, the woods offer no shade, the grass has hardly begun to grow, yet the heart is touched by the sight. Seeing nature reborn one feels the revival of our own life; the image of pleasure surrounds us. Tears of delight, those companions of pleasure ever ready to accompany a pleasing sentiment, are already on the edge of our eyelids. Animated, lively, and delightful though the autumn vintage may be, we always see it with dry eyes.
530 Why is there this difference? Because imagination adds to the sight of spring the image of the seasons which will follow. To those tender shoots that the eye perceives it adds flowers, fruits, shade trees, sometimes the mysteries that they can hide. It blends successive stages into one moment's experience and shows things not so much as they will be but as it desires them to be, for it depends on imagination to choose them. In autumn, on the other hand, one can only see what is; if we wish to look forward to spring, winter stops us, and our frozen imagination dies amidst the snow and frost.
531 Such is the source of the charm that one finds contemplating the beauties of childhood, in preference to the perfection of a ripe old age. When do we really taste a true pleasure in seeing a man? When the memory of his actions leads us to look back over his life and renews it, so to speak, in our eyes. If we are reduced to viewing him as he is, or to picturing him as he will be in old age, the thought of declining years destroys all our pleasure. There is no pleasure in seeing a man hastening to his grave; the image of death makes everything ugly.
532 But when I imagine a child of ten or twelve, strong, healthy, well-formed for his age, only pleasant thoughts are called up, whether of the present or the future. I see him keen, eager, and full of life, free from gnawing cares and painful forebodings, absorbed in this present state and delighting in a fullness of life which seems to extend beyond himself. I look forward to a time when he will use his daily increasing sense, intelligence, and vigor, those growing powers of which he continually gives fresh proof. I watch the child with delight, I picture to myself the man with even greater pleasure. His eager life seems to stir my own pulses, I seem to live from his life and his vitality rejuvenates me.
533 The hour strikes, the scene is changed. All of a sudden his eye grows dim, his gaiety vanishes. Farewell to joy, farewell to all those playful games. A stern, angry man takes him by the hand, saying gravely, "Come with me, sir," and he is led away. As they are entering the room, I catch a glimpse of books. Books, what sad furnishings for a child of his age! The poor child allows himself to be dragged away; he turns a regretful eye on everything that surrounds him and leaves in silence, his eyes swollen with the tears he dare not shed and his heart bursting with the sighs he dare not utter.
534 O you who have no such cause for fear, you for whom no period of life is a time of worry and tedium, you who welcome days without care and nights without impatience, you who only reckon time by your pleasures, come, my happy lovable pupil, and console us with your presence for the departure of that unhappy boy -- come! He arrives and at his approach I feel a movement of joy which I see he shares. It is his friend, his comrade, who meets him. When he sees me he knows very well that he will not be long without amusement; we are never dependent on each other, but we are always on good terms, and we are never so happy as when together.
535 His figure, his bearing, his countenance speak of self-confidence and happiness. Health shines from his face, his firm step speaks of strength; his colour, delicate but not sickly, has nothing of softness or effeminacy. Sun and wind have already set an honourable stamp of manhood on him; his rounded muscles already begin to show some signs of growing individuality; his eyes, as yet unlighted by the flame of feeling, have at least all their native calm. They have not been darkened by prolonged sorrow, nor are his cheeks furrowed by ceaseless tears. See in his quick but certain movements the vitality of his age, the sureness of independence, the experience of many kinds of exercise. His manner is free and open, but without a trace of insolence or vanity; his head which has not been bent over books does not fall upon his breast; there is no need to say, "Hold your head up"; neither shame nor fear will ever make him lower it.
536 Make a place for him in the middle of a gathering. Gentlemen, you may examine him, question him, in all confidence. Have no fear of importunity, chatter, or impertinent questions. You need not be afraid that he will take possession of you and expect you to devote yourself so entirely to him that you cannot get rid of him.
537 Neither need you look for compliments from him; nor will he tell you what I have taught him to say. Expect nothing from him but the plain, simple truth, without addition or ornament and without vanity. He will tell you the wrong things he has done and thought as freely as the right, without being in any way embarrassed about the effect that what he says will have on you. He will use speech with all the simplicity of its first beginnings.
538 One loves to augur well of one's children, and one always regrets the flood of ineptitudes which almost always overwhelms the hopes one might draw from some chance phrase that happens to fall from their mouths. If my pupil rarely gives me cause for such hopes, neither will he give me cause for such regrets, for he never says a useless word, and does not exhaust himself by chattering when he knows there is no one to listen to him. His ideas are limited but clear. He knows nothing by rote but much by experience. If he reads less from our books than other children, he reads much more in the book of nature. His spirit not in his tongue but in his head; he has less memory than judgment; he can only speak one language, but he understands what he is saying, and if he does not say things as well as others, on the other hand he does things better than they.
539 He does not know the meaning of habit, routine, and custom; what he did yesterday has no control over what he is doing today; he follows no rule, submits to no authority, copies no pattern, and only acts or speaks as he pleases. So do not expect set speeches or studied manners from him, but just the faithful expression of his thoughts and the conduct that springs from his inclinations.
540 You will find he has a few moral ideas concerning his present state and none concerning manhood. What use could he make of them, for the child is not yet an active member of society? Speak to him of freedom, of property, or even of what is usually done; he may understand you so far: he knows why his things are his own, and why other things are not his, and nothing more. Speak to him of duty or obedience; he will not know what you are talking about. Command him to do something and he will not hear you. But say to him, "If you will give me this pleasure, I will repay it when required," immediately he will hasten to comply, for he asks nothing better than to extend his domain, to acquire rights over you, which he knows will be respected. Maybe he is not sorry to have a place of his own, to be reckoned of some account; but if he has formed this latter idea, he has already left the realms of nature, and you have failed to bar the gates of vanity.
541 For his own part, if he has need of any help, he will ask for it readily of the first person he meets. He will ask for it from a king as from his lackey; all men are equals in his eyes. From his way of asking you will see he knows you owe him nothing, that he is asking a favour. He knows too that humanity moves you to grant this favour. His expressions are simple and laconic. His voice, his look, his gesture are those of a being equally familiar with compliance and refusal. It is neither the crawling, servile submission of the slave, nor the imperious tone of the master. It is a modest confidence in his fellow man. It is the noble and touching gentleness of a being who is free yet sensitive and feeble, asking for help from a being who is free but strong and kindly. If you grant his request he will not thank you, but he will feel he has incurred a debt. If you refuse he will neither complain nor insist; he knows it is useless. He will not say, "They refused to help me," but "It was impossible," and as I have already said, we do not rebel against necessity when once we have perceived it.
542 Leave him alone at liberty and watch his actions without speaking. Consider what he is doing and how he sets about it. He does not require to convince himself that he is free, so he never acts thoughtlessly and merely to show that he can do what he likes; for does he not know that he is always his own master? He is quick, alert, and ready; his movements are eager as befits his age, but you will not find one which has no purpose. Whatever he wants, he will never attempt what is beyond his powers, for he has learnt by experience what those powers are. His means are always appropriate to his ends, and he will rarely attempt anything without the certainty of success. His eye is keen and true; he will not be so stupid as to go and ask other people about what he sees; he will examine it on his own account, and before he asks he will try every means at his disposal to discover what he wants to know for himself. If he falls upon some unexpected difficulty, he will be less upset than others; if there is danger he will be less afraid. Since his imagination is still inactive and nothing has been done to arouse it, he only sees what is, rates the danger at its true worth, and always keeps his cool. Necessity weighs too often on him to make him rebel against it; he has borne its yoke all of his life and is well used to it. He is always ready for anything.
543 Work or play are all one to him. His games are his work; he knows no difference. He brings to everything he does an interest that brings laughter and a freedom that brings pleasure, and he shows the tendencies of his own mind and the extent of his knowledge at the same time. Isn't it a charming and sweet sight at this age to see a lovely child, his eye lively and gay, his look happy and serene, his expression open and laughing, create, while playing, the most serious things, or profoundly busy with the most frivolous games?
544 Would you like now now judge him by comparison? Set him among other children and leave him to himself. You will soon see which has made most progress, which comes nearer to the perfection of childhood. Among all the children in the town there is none more skilful and none so strong. Among young peasants he is their equal in strength and their superior in skill. In everything within a child's grasp he judges, reasons, and shows a forethought beyond the rest. Is it a matter of action, running, jumping, or shifting things, raising weights or estimating distance, inventing games, carrying off prizes? You might say, "Nature obeys his word," so easily does he bend all things to his will. He is made to guide, to rule his peers; talent and experience take the place of right and authority. In any garb, under any name, he will still be first. Everywhere he will rule the rest, they will always feel his superiority. He will be master without knowing it, and they will serve him unawares.
545 He has reached the maturity of childhood; he has lived the life of a child. His progress has not been bought at the price of his happiness; he has gained both. While he has acquired all the wisdom of a child, he has been as free and happy as his health permits. If fate should cut him off and rob us of our hopes, we need not bewail alike his life and death, we shall not have the added grief of knowing that we caused him pain; we will say, "His childhood, at least, was happy; we have robbed him of nothing that nature gave him."
546 The chief drawback to this early education is that it is only appreciated by the wise. To vulgar eyes the child raised with so much care is nothing but a rough little boy. A tutor thinks rather of his own self-interest more than of that of his pupil; he makes a point of showing that there has been no time wasted and that he has earned the money he has been given. He provides his pupil with goods which can be readily displayed in the shop window, accomplishments which can be shown off at will. It is not important whether they are useful provided they are easily seen. Without choice or discrimination he loads his memory with a hundred pieces of rubbish. If the child is to be examined he is set to display his wares; he spreads them out, satisfies those who behold them, packs up his bundle and goes his way. My pupil is not so rich, he has no bundle to display, he has only himself to show. Now neither child nor man can be read in a moment. Where are the observers who can at once discern the characteristics of this child? There are such people, but they are few and far between; among a thousand fathers you will scarcely find one.
547 Too many questions are tedious and revolting to most of us and especially to children. After a few minutes their attention flags, they no longer hear what the obstinant questioner is asking them, and only answer haphazardly. This way of testing them is pedantic and useless; a chance word will often show their sense and intelligence better than long discourses, but take care that this word is neither a matter of chance nor yet learnt by heart. A man must needs have a good judgment if he is to estimate the judgment of a child.
548 I heard the late Lord Hyde tell the following story about one of his friends. He had returned from Italy after a three years' absence, and was anxious to test the progress of his son, a child of nine or ten. One evening, he took a walk with the child and his tutor across a level space where the schoolboys were flying their kites. As they went, the father said to his son, "Where is the kite that casts this shadow?" Without hesitating and without glancing upwards the child replied. "Over the high road." "And indeed," said Lord Hyde, "the high road was between us and the sun." At these words, the father kissed his child, and having finished his examination he departed. The next day he sent the tutor the papers settling an annuity on him in addition to his salary.
549 What a father and what a promising child! The question is exactly adapted to the child's age, the answer is perfectly simple; but see what precision it implies in the child's judgment. Thus did the pupil of Aristotle master the famous steed which no squire had ever been able to tame.
   
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550 Although the whole course of man's life up to adolescence is a time of weakness, there comes a point during this first age when his strength progresses faster than his needs, and the growing creature who is still weak in an absolute sense becomes relatively strong. Since his needs are not fully developed his present strength is more than enough for them. As a man he would be very weak, but as a child he is very strong.
551 Where does the weakness of man come from? From the inequality between his strength and his desires. It is our passions that make us weak, for to satisfy them requires more strength than nature gives us. Diminish desires, therefore, and it is as if you had increased strength. He who can do more than he desires has strength left over. He is certainly a very strong being. Here we are in the third stage of childhood, the one that I will be speaking of now. I continue to call it childhood for lack of the proper term with which to describe it, for this age approaches adolescence without being yet the age of puberty.
552 At about twelve or thirteen the child's strength develops far more rapidly than his needs. The strongest and fiercest of the passions is still unknown. Its very organ remains in a state of imperfection and in order to emerge from that state seems to be waiting for the force of the child's will. Largely insensitive to the assaults of air and the seasons, the child's growing warmth takes the place of a coat; his appetite substitutes for seasoning. Everything that can nourish is good at this age. If he is sleepy he stretches himself on the ground and goes to sleep. He sees himself surrounded by everything that is necessary to him. No imaginary need torments him; public opinion means nothing to him; his desires extend no further than his arms. Not only can he be sufficient to himself, but he has strength beyond what is necessary to him. This is the only time in his life that this will be the case.
553 I anticipate an objection. No one will say that the child has more needs than I give him, but they will deny that he has the strength that I attribute to him. You forget that I am speaking of my own pupil, not of those walking dolls who travel from one room to another, who toil indoors and carry bundles of paper. I will be told that manly strength appears only with manhood, that the vital spirits, distilled in their proper vessels and spreading through the whole body, can alone make the muscles firm, sensitive, tense, and springy, can alone cause real strength. This is the philosophy of the study; I appeal to that of experience. Out in the country I see tall boys hoeing, digging, guiding the plough, filling the wine-cask, driving the cart, like their fathers. You would think they were grown men if their voices did not betray them. Even in our towns, young workers -- ironsmiths, toolmakers, farriers -- are almost as strong as their masters and would not be less skillful if they had practiced as long. If there is a difference, and I agree there is, it is, I repeat, much less than the difference between the stormy passions of the man and the limited desires of a child. Moreover, here we are talking about not only physical strength, but more especially about the strength and capacity of the mind which reinforces and directs the physical strength.
554 This interval in which the individual can do more than he wants, even though it is not the time of his greatest absolute strength, is, as I have said, the time of his greatest relative strength. It is the most precious time in his life, a time that comes only once. It is very short, all the more short since we will see in what follows the importance of using it right.
555 What will he thus do with this surplus of faculties and strengths that he has too much of at present and that will be lacking to him at another age? He will try to use it in tasks which will profit him when needed. He will project, so to speak, the surplus of his present being into the future. The robust child will make provision for the feeble man. But he will store his goods neither in banks that can be robbed nor in barns that are unfamiliar to him. To truly appropriate his acquisitions it will be in his arms, in his head, in himself that he will store them. Now is the time for work, instruction, and study. And note that it is not I who makes this choice arbitrarily; it is nature itself that has pointed the way.
556 Human intelligence has its limits, and not only can a man not know everything, but he cannot even know in its entirety the little that other men know. Since the contrary of every false proposition is a truth, the number of truths is as unfathomable as the number of errors. We must, therefore, choose what to teach as well as when to teach it. Of the knowledge within our reach some is false, some is useless, some merely serves to feed the pride of him who has it. Only the small amount of knowledge which really contributes to our well-being merits the research of a wise man and therefore of a child whom one would like to make wise. It is not a question of knowing what is, but only of what is useful.
557 From this small number of things we must also subtract those truths which require a fully formed mind in order to be understood, those which suppose a knowledge of man's relations to his fellow-men -- a knowledge which no child can acquire, those which, although true in themselves, lead an inexperienced mind to think falsely about other subjects.
558 Thus we are thus reduced to a very small circle relative to the existence of things. But what an immense sphere this circle still forms when measured by the child's mind! Dark shadows of the human understanding, what rash hand will dare to touch your veil? What abyss do I see our vain sciences opening up before this poor child! You should tremble, you who would wish to lead him down these perilous pathways and to draw open, before his eyes, the sacred drapery of nature. Be assured beforehand of his head and your own; beware that it may make either one or both of you dizzy. Beware of the specious attraction of falsehood and the intoxicating fumes of pride. Remember, remember always, that ignorance never did any harm, that error alone is fatal, and that we do not lose our way because of what we do not know but because of what we think we know.
559 His progress in geometry may serve as a test and a true measure of the growth of his intelligence, but as soon as he can distinguish between what is useful and what is not, it is important to use much discretion and art to lead him towards speculative studies. For example, do you want him to find a mean proportional between two lines? Begin by making him need to find a square equal to a given rectangle. If two mean proportionals are required, you must first make the problem of duplicating a cube interesting to him, etc. See how we are gradually approaching the moral ideas which distinguish between good and evil! Until now we have known no law but necessity; now we have regard for what is useful; soon we will arrive at what is right and good.
560 The diverse faculties of man are animated by the same instinct. The activity of the body which seeks development is succeeded by the activity of the mind which seeks instruction. At first children are only restless; then they become curious; and this curiosity, well directed, is the motivating force of the age at which we have arrived. Let us always distinguish between tendencies that come from nature and those that come from opinion. There is one ardor for learning which is founded only on the desire to be esteemed as a scholar, and there is another which springs from a curiosity, natural to man, about all things far or near which may affect himself. The innate desire for well-being and the impossibility of its complete satisfaction make him search ceaselessly for fresh means of contributing to its satisfaction. This is the first principle of curiosity, a principle natural to the human heart, though its growth is proportional to the development of our passions and knowledge. Imagine a philosopher left on a desert island with his books and instruments, certain that he must spend the rest of his life there; he would hardly trouble himself about the system of the world, the laws of attraction, or the differential calculus. He might never even open a book again; but he would never rest till he had explored the furthest corner of his island, however large it might be. Let us therefore omit from our early studies such knowledge for which man has no natural taste and confine ourselves to that which instinct impels us to study.
561 The island of the human race is the earth; and the object the most striking to our eyes is the sun. As soon as we begin to move beyond ourselves our first observations must fall on one or the other. Thus the philosophy of almost all primitive people is mainly directed at the imaginary divisions of the earth and the divinity of the sun.
562 What a sudden shift, you will perhaps say. Just a moment ago we were concerned only with what touches ourselves, with our immediate environment; now all at once we are traversing the globe and leaping to the ends of the universe. This change is the result of our growing strength and of the natural inclinations of the mind. In the state of weakness and insufficiency, the cares for our own conservation concentrate our attention on ourselves. In the state of power and of force, the desire to extend our being carries us beyond ourselves and thrusts us as far into the distance as possible. But since the intellectual world is still unknown to us, our thinking will go no further than our eyes, and our understanding will only reach the spaces it can measure.
563 Let us transform our sensations into ideas, but do not let us jump all at once from sensible objects to intellectual objects. It is by the former that we should arrive at the latter. In the first operations of the mind, may the senses always be its guide. No book but the world, no teaching but that of fact. The child who reads does not think, he only reads. He is not being taught; he is only learning words.
564 Make your child attentive to the phenomena of nature; soon you will make him curious. But to nurture his curiosity, never hasten to satisfy it. Put questions within his reach and let him solve them himself. Let him know nothing because you have told him, but because he has learnt it for himself. Let him not be taught science, let him invent it. If ever you substitute in his mind authority for reason, he will cease to reason; he will be a mere plaything of other people's opinion.
565 You wish to teach this child geography and you provide him with globes, spheres, and maps. What a lot of machines! Why all these symbols? Why not begin by showing him the object itself so that he may at least know what you are talking about?
566 One fine evening we are walking in a suitable place where the wide horizon gives us a full view of the setting sun, and we note the objects which mark the place where it sets. Next morning we return to the same place to breathe the fresh air before sunrise. We see the rays of light which announce the sun's approach; the glow increases, the east seems to be in flames; in the light we await the star a long time before it appears. At each moment we expect to see it. There it is at last! A shining point appears like a flash of lightning and soon fills the whole space; the veil of darkness rolls away, man perceives his dwelling place in fresh beauty. During the night the grass has assumed a fresher green; in the light of early dawn, and gilded by the first rays of the sun, it seems covered with a shining network of dew reflecting the light and colour. The birds raise their chorus of praise to greet the father of life; at this moment not one of them is quiet. Their gentle warbling is softer than by day, it expresses the langour of a peaceful waking. All these produce an impression of freshness which seems to reach the very soul. It is a brief hour of enchantment that no man can resist; a sight so grand, so fair, so delicious, that none can behold it unmoved.
567 Full of the enthusiasm that he is experiencing, the teacher wishes to impart it to the child. He expects to rouse his emotion by drawing attention to his own. Pure stupidity! The life of the spectacle of nature is in the heart of man; to see it one must feel it. The child sees the objects themselves, but he cannot perceive the relations that link them; he cannot hear the sweet harmony of their concert. It needs knowledge that he has not yet acquired, feelings he has not yet experienced, to receive the complex impression which results all at once from these different sensations. If he has not wandered over arid plains, if his feet have not been scorched by the burning sands of the desert, if he has not breathed the hot and oppressive air reflected from the glowing rocks, how will he delight in the fresh air of a fine morning? The scent of flowers, the beauty of foliage, the moistness of the dew, the soft turf beneath his feet -- how will all these delight his senses? How will the song of the birds arouse voluptuous emotion if love and pleasure are still unknown to him? How will he behold with rapture the birth of this fair day, if his imagination cannot paint the joys with which it may be filled? Finally, how can he be moved by the beauty of the spectacle of nature if he is ignorant of the hand that formed it?
568 Never give the child speeches that he cannot understand. No descriptions, no eloquence, no figures of speech, no poetry. The time has not come for feeling or taste. Continue to be clear, simple, and cold; the time will come only too soon when you must adopt another tone.
569 Brought up in the spirit of our maxims, accustomed to make his own tools and not to appeal to others until he has recognized his own insufficiency, he will examine each new object he sees for a long time without saying anything. He thinks rather than questions. Be content, therefore, to show him things at the right time. Then when you see that his curiosity is thoroughly aroused, ask him some brief question that will put him on the path to resolving it.
570 On the present occasion when you and he have carefully observed the rising sun, when you have made him notice the mountains and other objects visible from the same spot, after he has chattered freely about them, keep quiet for a few minutes as if lost in thought and then say, "I think the sun set over there last night; it rose here this morning. How can that be?" Do not say anything else; if he asks questions, do not answer them; talk of something else. Leave him by himself, and you can be sure that he will think about it.
571 In order that a child become accustomed to being attentive and really impressed by any truth of experience, he must spend anxious days before he discovers that truth. If he does not learn enough in this way, there is another way of drawing his attention to the matter. Turn the question around. If he does not know how the sun gets from the place where it sets to where it rises, he knows at least how it travels from where it rises to where it sets; his eyes teach him that. Use the second question to throw light on the first; either your pupil is absolutely stupid or the analogy is too clear to be missed. This is his first lesson in cosmography.
572 As we always advance slowly from one sensible idea to another, and as we give time enough to each for him to become really familiar with it before we go on to another, and lastly as we never force our scholar's attention, there is still a long way from this first lesson to a knowledge of the course of the sun or the shape of the earth. But as all the apparent movements of the celestial bodies depend on the same principle and the first observation leads on to all the rest, less effort is needed, though more time, to proceed from the diurnal revolution to the calculation of eclipses than to get a thorough understanding of day and night.
573 Since the sun turns around the earth it describes a circle, and every circle must have a center; that we already know. This center cannot be seen, for it is in the middle of the earth, but we can mark out two opposite points on the earth's surface which correspond to it. A skewer passed through the three points and prolonged to the sky at either end would represent the earth's axis and the sun's daily course. A round spinning top revolving on its point represents the sky turning on its axis, the two points of the top are the two poles. The child will easily become acquainted with one of them -- I show him the tail of the Little Bear. Here is a another game for the dark. Little by little we get to know the stars, and from this comes a wish to know the planets and observe the constellations.
574 We saw the sun rise at midsummer; we shall see it rise at Christmas or some other fine winter's day, for you know we are not lazy and for us it is a game to brave the cold. I take care to make this second observation in the same place as the first, and if skillfully lead up to, one or another of us will certainly exclaim, "What a funny thing! The sun is not rising in the same place; here are our earlier landmarks, but it is rising over there. So there is a summer east and the winter east, etc." Young teacher, you are on the right track. These examples should show you how to teach the sphere without any difficulty, taking the earth for the earth and the sun for the sun.
575 In general never substitute the sign for the thing unless it is impossible to show the thing itself. For the child's attention is so taken up with the sign that he will forget the thing that is represented.
576 I consider the armillary sphere a clumsy disproportioned bit of apparatus. The confused circles and the strange figures described on it suggest witchcraft and frighten the child. The earth is too small, the circles too large and too numerous; some of them, the colures, for instance, are quite useless, and the thickness of the pasteboard gives them an appearance of solidity so that they are taken for circular masses having a real existence. And when you tell the child that these are imaginary circles he does not know what he is looking at and is none the wiser.
577 We are never able to put ourselves in the child's place, we fail to enter into his thoughts, we invest him with our own ideas, and while we are following our own chain of reasoning, we merely fill his head with errors and absurdities.
578 People debate about whether the method of studying science should be analytic or synthetic. It is not always necessary to choose between them. Sometimes the same experiments allow one to use both analysis and synthesis, and thus to guide the child by the method of instruction when he believes he is only analysing. Then, by using both at once, each method confirms the results of the other. Starting from opposite ends, without thinking of following the same road, he will unexpectedly reach their meeting place and this will be a delightful surprise. For example, I would begin geography at both ends and join to the study of the earth's revolution the measurement of its divisions, beginning in the place where we live. While the child is studying the sphere and is thus transported to the heavens, bring him back to the divisions of the earth and show him first his own home.
579 The first two points of geography will be the town where he lives and his father's country house, then the places in between, then the rivers near them, and finally the direction of the sun and how to find one's way by its aid. This is where everything comes together. Let him make his own map of all this, a very simple map, at first containing only two places. Others may be added from time to time as he is able to estimate their distance and position. You see at once what a good start we have given him by making his own eye his compass.
580 No doubt he will require some guidance in spite of this, but very little, and that little without his knowing it. If he goes wrong leave him alone; do not correct his mistakes. Wait quietly till he finds them out for himself and corrects them, or at most arrange something, as opportunity offers, which may show him his mistakes. If he never makes mistakes he will never learn anything thoroughly. Moreover, what he needs is not an exact knowledge of local topography but how to find out for himself. It matters little whether he carries maps in his head, provided he understands what they mean and has a clear idea of the art of making them. See what a difference there is already between the knowledge of your scholars and the ignorance of mine! They learn maps; he makes them. Here are fresh ornaments for his room.
581 Remember that the spirit of my instruction is not to teach the child many things, but to let only ideas that are right and clear enter his mind. I do not care if he knows nothing provided he in not mistaken, and I only acquaint him with truths to guard him against the errors he might put in their place. Reason and judgment come slowly, prejudices flock to us in crowds, and from them he must be preserved. But if you make science itself your object, you enter a bottomless and shoreless sea, a sea strewn with reefs from which you will never return. When I see a man in love with knowledge letting himself be seduced by its charms and running from one kind of learning to another without knowing how to stop, he seems to me like a child gathering shells on the sea-shore, now picking them up, then throwing them aside for others which he sees beyond them, then taking them again, till overwhelmed by their number and unable to choose between them, he flings them all away and returns home empty handed.
582 Time was long during early childhood; we only tried to pass our time for fear of using it badly. Now it is the other way; we do not have time enough for everything that would be useful. The passions, remember, are drawing near, and when they knock at the door your pupil will be attentive only to them. The peaceful age of intelligence is so short, it passes so rapidly, there are so many necessary uses for it, that it is insane to want to limit it to making the child into a scholar. It is not a question of teaching him the sciences, but to give him a taste for loving them and methods of learning them when this taste is more mature. That is very certainly a fundamental principle of all good education.
583 This is also the time to accustom him little by little to giving his sustained attention to a single object. But it should never be by constraint; rather, it should be pleasure or desire which produces this attention. One must take care not to overwhelm him or push him to boredom. Keep a careful eye on him therefore, and whatever happens, stop before he gets bored. For it is never as important that he learn than that he do nothing against his will.
584 If he asks questions let your answers be enough to nurture his curiosity but not enough to satisfy it. Above all, when you see that instead of asking for information he is just beating around the bush and overwhelming you with silly questions, stop immediately; for it is clear that he no longer cares about the matter in hand but simply wants to make you submit to his interrogations. One must have less regard for the words that he pronounces than for the motives which prompt him to speak. This warning, which was scarcely needed before, becomes of supreme importance when the child begins to reason.
585 There is a chain of general truths by means of which all the sciences hold to common principles and are developed each in its turn. This chain is the method of the philosophers. It is not the one that we are concerned with here. There is a completely different method by which one particular object suggests another and always points to the one that follows it. This order, which nourishes the curiosity and so arouses the attention required by every object in turn, is the order followed by most men, and it is the right order for all children. To take our bearings so as to make our maps we must find meridians. Two points of intersection between the equal shadows morning and evening supply an excellent meridian for a thirteen-year-old astronomer. But these meridians disappear, it takes time to trace them, and you are obliged to work in one place So much trouble and attention will in the end bore him. We foresaw this and are ready for it.
586 Again I must enter into minute and detailed explanations. I hear my readers murmur, but I am prepared to meet their disapproval; I will not sacrifice the most important part of this book to your impatience. You may think me as long-winded as you please; I have my own opinion about your complaints.
587 For a long time my pupil and I have noticed that some substances such as amber, glass, and wax, when well rubbed, attracted straws, while others did not. We accidentally discover a substance which has a more unusual property, that of attracting filings or other small particles of iron from a distance and without rubbing. How much time do we devote to this game to the exclusion of everything else! At last we discover that this property is communicated to the iron itself, which becomes, so to speak, magnetized. One day we go to a fair. A magician has a wax duck floating in a basin of water, and he makes it follow a bit of bread. We are greatly surprised, but we do not call him a wizard because we do not know what a wizard is. Continually struck by effects whose causes are unknown to us, we are in no hurry to make judgments, and we remain peacefully in ignorance till we find an occasion to leave it.
588 When we get home, as a result of discussing the duck at the fair, we try to imitate it. We take a needle thoroughly magnetised, we surround it in white wax which we fashion as best we can into the shape of a duck, with the needle running through the body and its head forming the beak. We put the duck in water and put the end of a key near its beak, and you will easily understand our delight when we find that our duck follows the key just as the duck at the fair followed the bit of bread. At another time we may note the direction assumed by the duck when left at rest; for the present we are wholly occupied with our work and we want nothing more.
589 The same evening we return to the fair with some bread specially prepared in our pockets, and as soon as the magician has performed his trick, my little doctor, who can hardly restrain himself, tells him that the trick is not difficult and that he himself can do it as well. He is taken at his word. He at once takes the bread with a bit of iron hidden in it from his pocket. His heart throbs as he approaches the table and holds out the bread; his hand trembles with excitement. The duck approaches and follows his hand. The child cries out and jumps for joy. With the applause, the shouts of the crowd, the child becomes giddy and is beside himself. The magician, though disappointed, embraces him, congratulates him, begs the honour of his company on the following day, and promises to collect a still greater crowd to applaud his skill. My young naturalist, full of pride, wants to stay and chatter, but I check him at once and take him home overwhelmed with praise.
590 The child counts the minutes till the next day with laughable impatience. He invites everyone he meets; he wants the whole human race to be witness to his glory; he can scarcely wait till the appointed hour. He hurries to the place. The hall is full already. As he enters his young heart swells with pride. Other tricks are to come first. The magician surpasses himself and does the most surprising things. The child sees none of these; he wriggles, perspires, and hardly breathes; he spends his time in fingering with a trembling hand the bit of bread in his pocket. His turn comes at last; the master announces it to the audience ceremoniously. He goes up looking somewhat shamefaced and takes out his bit of bread. The vicissitudes of human things! The duck, so tame yesterday, has become wild today; instead of offering its beak it turns tail and swims away; it avoids the bread and the hand that holds it as carefully as it followed them yesterday. After a thousand useless tries accompanied by hoots from the audience the child complains that he is being cheated, that is not the same duck, and he defies the magician to attract it.
591 The magician, without further words, takes a bit of bread and offers it to the duck, which at once follows it and comes to the hand which holds it. The child takes the same bit of bread with no better success; the duck mocks his efforts and makes pirouettes around the basin. Overwhelmed with confusion the child abandons the attempt, ashamed to face the hoots any longer.
592 Then the magician takes the bit of bread the child brought with him and uses it as successfully as his own. He takes out the bit of iron before the audience -- another laugh at our expense -- then with this same bread he attracts the duck as before. He repeats the experiment with a piece of bread cut by a third person in full view of the audience. He does it with his glove, with his finger-tip. Finally he goes into the middle of the room and in the emphatic tones used by such persons he declares that his duck will obey his voice as readily as his hand. He speaks and the duck obeys; he bids him go to the right and he goes, to come back again and he comes. The movement is as ready as the command. The growing applause completes our discomfiture. We slip away unnoticed and shut ourselves up in our room, without relating our successes to everybody as we had expected.
593 Next day there is a knock at the door. When I open it there is the magician, who makes a modest complaint with regard to our conduct. What had he done that we should try to discredit his tricks and deprive him of his livelihood? What is there so wonderful in attracting a duck that we should purchase this honour at the price of an honest man's living? "My word, gentlemen! had I any other trade by which I could earn a living I would not pride myself on this. You may well believe that a man who has spent his life at this miserable trade knows more about it than you who only give your spare time to it. If I did not show you my best tricks at first, it was because one must not be so foolish as to display all one knows at once. I always take care to keep my best tricks for emergencies; and I have plenty more to prevent young folks from meddling. However, I have come, gentlemen, in all kindness, to show you the trick that gave you so much trouble; I only beg you not to use it to harm me, and to be more discreet in future."
594 He then shows us his apparatus, and we see with great surprise that it only consists of a strong and well armed magnet that a child, hidden under the table, was able to make move without anyone seeing him.
595 The man puts up his things, and after we have offered our thanks and apologies, we try to give him something. He refuses it. "No, gentlemen," says he, I owe you no gratitude and I will not accept your gift. I leave you in my debt in spite of all, and that is my only revenge. Generosity may be found among all sorts of people, and I earn my pay by doing my tricks, not by teaching them."
596 As he is going he addresses a reprimand to me in particular. "I can make excuses for the child," he says, "he sinned in ignorance. But you, sir, should know better. Why did you let him do it? As you are living together and you are older than he, you should look after him and give him good advice. Your experience should be his guide. When he is grown up he will reproach, not only himself, but you, for the faults of his youth."
597 He goes out and leaves us very embarrassed. I blame myself for my easy-going ways. I promise the child that another time I will put his interests first and warn him against faults before he falls into them, for the time is coming when our relations will be changed, when the severity of the master must give way to the friendliness of the comrade. This change must come gradually; you must look ahead, and very far ahead.
598 The next day we return to the fair to see the trick whose secret we have learned. We approach our Socrates, the magician, with profound respect; we scarcely dare to look him in the face. He overwhelms us with politeness and gives us the best places, which humiliates us even more. He goes through his tricks as usual, but he lingers affectionately over the duck, and often glances proudly in our direction. We are in on the secret, but we do not tell. If my pupil dared even open his mouth I'd want to squash him.
599 There is more meaning than you suspect in this detailed illustration. How many lessons in one! How mortifying are the results of a first impulse towards vanity! Young tutor, watch this first impulse carefully. If you can use it to bring about shame and disgrace, you may be sure a second impulse will not appear for a long time. What long preparations! you will say. I agree; and all to provide a compass which will enable us to dispense with a meridian.
600 Having learnt that a magnet acts through other bodies, our next business is to construct a bit of apparatus similar to that shown us. A bare table, a shallow bowl placed on it and filled with water, a duck rather better finished than the first, and so on. We often watch the thing and at last we notice that the duck, when at rest, always turns the same way. We follow up this observation; we examine the direction, we find that it is from south to north. Enough! we have found our compass or its equivalent; the study of physics is begun.
601 There are various regions of the earth, and these regions differ in temperature. The variation is more evident as we approach the poles. All bodies expand with heat and contract with cold; this is best measured in liquids and best of all in distilled liquids; from this we get the thermometer. The wind strikes the face, thus the air is a body, a fluid; we feel it though we have no way to see it. Invert a glass in water; the water will not fill it unless you leave a passage for the escape of the air; air is thus capable of resistance. Plunge the glass further in the water; the water will encroach on the air-space without filling it entirely; so air is capable of being compressed to a certain point. A ball filled with compressed air bounces better than one filled with anything else; so air is elastic. Raise your arm horizontally from the water when you are lying in your bath; you will feel a terrible weight on it; air is thus a heavy body. By establishing an equilibrium between air and other fluids its weight can be measured; from this the barometer, the siphon, the air-gun, and the air-pump. All the laws of statics and hydrostatics are discovered by such rough experiments. For none of these would I take the child into a physics laboratory; I dislike that array of instruments and apparatus. The scientific atmosphere kills science. Either all these instruments frighten the child, or their shapes divide and distract his attention, which should be focused on their effects.
602 We shall make all our machines ourselves. I would not begin by making the instrument before the experiment, but having caught a glimpse of the experiment by chance we would invent little by little an instrument that could verify it. I would prefer that our instruments not be so perfect and accurate, but that our ideas be clear as to what the apparatus ought to be and the results to be obtained by means of it. For my first lesson in statics, instead of going to find a scales, I lay a stick across the back of a chair, I measure the two parts when it is balanced; add equal or unequal weights to either end; by pulling or pushing it as is necessary, I find at last that equilibrium is the result of a reciprocal proportion between the amount of the weights and the length of the levers. Thus my little physicist is capable of rectifying a scales even before ever he sees one.
603 Undoubtedly one gets much clearer and surer notions of things that one learns thus by oneself than from those gotten from the instruction of others. And not only is our reason not accustomed to a slavish submission to authority, but we develop greater ingenuity in discovering relations, connecting ideas, and inventing apparatus than when we merely accept what is given us and allow our minds to be enfeebled by indifference -- like the body of a man whose servants always wait on him, dress him and put on his shoes, whose horse carries him, till he loses the use of his limbs. Boileau used to boast that he had difficulty teaching Racine the art of rhyming. Among the many admirable methods for shortening the study of the sciences, we badly need someone to teach us the art of learning them with difficulty.
604 The most obvious advantage of these slow and laborious inquiries is that in the midst of speculative studies one keeps an active body, supple limbs, and hands formed for work and for functions useful to man. Too many instruments invented to guide us in our experiments and to supplement the exactness of our senses makes us neglect to exercise those senses. The graphometer makes it unnecessary to estimate the size of angles. The eye which used to judge distances with much precision, trusts to the tape measure for its measurements. The portable balance dispenses with the need of judging weight by the hand as I used to do. The more ingenious are our tools, the more clumsy and awkward our organs become. By surrounding ourselves with machines we no longer find any within ourselves.
605 But when we put towards making these machines the skill which they replaced, when for their construction we use the wisdom which enabled us to dispense with them, we gain without losing anything. We add art to nature, and we become more ingenious without becoming less adroit. If instead of making a child stick to his books I let him occupy his time in a workshop, then his hands work for the benefit of his mind; he becomes a philosopher while seeing himself only as a workman. Moreover, this exercise has other advantages of which I shall speak later; and you will see how, from the games of philosohy, one may rise to the true functions of man.
606 I have said already that purely theoretical knowledge is hardly suitable for children, even for those approaching adolescence. But without going far into theoretical physics, be sure that all their experiments are connected together by some sort of deduction, so that with the help of this chain of reasoning they can put them in order in their mind and recall them when needed. For it is very difficult for isolated facts and even isolated reasons to stay long in the memory when one lacks a handle for retrieving them.
607 In your inquiry into the laws of nature, always begin with the commonest and most conspicuous phenomena and train your scholar not to accept these phenomena as reasons but as facts. I take a stone; I pretend to place it in the air; I open my hand; the stone falls. I see Emile attentive to what I am doing and I say to him: "Why did this stone fall?"
608 What child will hesitate over this question? None, not even Emile, unless I have taken great pains to teach him not to answer. All of them will say that the stone falls because it is heavy. And what is heavy? That which falls. So the stone falls because it falls? Here my little philosopher is stopped short. This is his first lesson in systematic physics, and whether he takes advantage of it or not in this way, it is a good lesson in common-sense.
609 As the child develops in intelligence, other important considerations require us to be still more careful in our choice of his occupations. As soon as he has sufficient self-knowledge to understand what constitutes his well-being, as soon as he can grasp such far-reaching relations as to judge what is good for him and what is not, from then on he is able to discern the difference between work and play and to consider the latter merely as a relaxation from the former. Then the objects of real usefulness may enter into his studies and compel him to give them a more constant application than he gave to his simple games. The ever-recurring law of necessity soon teaches a man to do what he does not like in order to prevent an evil which he would dislike still more. Such is the use of foresight, and from this foresight, well or ill used, arises all of human wisdom or misery.
610 Every man wants to be happy, but in order to become happy he must begin by knowing what happiness is. The happiness of natural manis as simple as his life: it consists in the absence of pain. Health, freedom, the necessaries of life are its elements. The happiness of moral man is something else, but that is not the question here. I cannot repeat too often that it is only physical objects that can interest children, especially children whose vanity has not been aroused and whose minds have not been corrupted beforehand by the poison of public opinion.
611 As soon as they foresee their needs before they feel them, their intelligence has made a great step forward; they are beginning to know the value of time. It is important therefore to accustom them to direct its use towards useful objects, but this usefulness should be easily perceptible and within the reach of their enlightenment. All that concerns the moral order and the customs of society should not yet be presented to them them, for they are not in a condition to understand it. It is wrongheaded to expect them to apply themselves to things vaguely described as good for them when they do not know what this good is. They are assured these things will be to their advantage when they are grown up, but they can take no interest in a so-called advantage that they cannot understand.
612 Let the child do nothing on anyone's word. Nothing is good for him but what he recognises as good. By always pushing him beyond his present enlightenment, you believe you are exercising a foresight which you really lack. To arm him with a few vain tools which he may never use, you deprive him of man's most universal tool -- common-sense. You accustom him to being always led, of never being anything but a machine in the hands of others. You wish him to be docile when he is little; that is to wish that he will be will be gullible and easily duped when he grows up. You ceaselessly tell him, "What I ask is for your good, though you cannot understand it. What does it matter to me whether you do what I'm asking or not? It is for you alone that I am making this effort." With all these fine speeches you give him now to make him wise, you are paving the way for a fortune-teller, pied-piper, quack, imposter, or some kind of crazy person to catch him in his snare or draw him into his folly.
613 A man must know many things which seem useless to a child, but need the child learn, or can he indeed learn, all that the man must know? Try to teach the child everthing that is useful to his age and you will find that his time will be well filled. Why impose on him the studies of an age he may never reach while neglecting those studies which are right for him today? But, you ask, will there be time for him to learn what he ought to know when the time comes to use it? I do not know; but this I do know, that it is impossible to teach it sooner, for our real teachers are experience and feeling, and man will never feel what is suitable for man except in the relationships in which he finds himself. A child knows he is made to become a man; all the ideas he may have as to man's estate are for him opportunities for instruction, but of those ideas which are beyond his reach he should remain in complete ignorance. My whole book is nothing but a continual proof of this fundamental principle of education.
614 As soon as we have been able to give our pupil an idea of the word "useful," we have got an additional means of governing him, for this word makes a great impression on him provided that its meaning for him is a meaning relative to his own age and provided he clearly sees its relation to his present well-being. This word makes no impression on your scholars because you have taken no pains to give it a meaning they can understand. And because other people always undertake to provide what is useful to them, they never need to think about it themselves and do not know what utility is.
615 "What is that good for?" From now on here is the sacred word, the determining word between him and me in all the actions of our life. This is the question which from my part infallibly follows all his questions; and it serves as a brake for the multitudes of silly and tiresome interrogations with which children weary those about them -- more in order to wield some power over them than to gain any real advantage. A person whose most important lesson is to want to know only what is useful interrogates like Socrates; he never asks a question without a reason for it, for he knows he will be required to give his reason before he gets an answer.
616 See what a powerful instrument I have put into your hands to use with your pupil. Since he does not know the reason for anything, you can reduce him to silence almost at will; and what advantages do your knowledge and experience give you to show him the usefulness of everything that you propose! For, make no mistake about it, when you put this question to him, you are teaching him to put it to you in turn, and you must expect that whatever you suggest to him in the future he will follow your own example and ask, "What is that good for?"
617 Here is perhaps the most difficult trap for a tutor to avoid. If with a child's question you you merely try to get yourself out of a pinch, and if you give him a single reason he is not able to understand, seeing that you reason according to your own ideas and not his, he will think that what you tell him is good for your age but not for his own. He will no longer have confidence in you and everything will be lost. But what master will stop short and confess his faults to his pupil? All of them make it a rule never to admit to the faults they really have. I would make it a rule to admit even to faults I do not have whenever I am unable make my reasons clear to him. Thus my conduct, always clear in his mind, will never be suspicious to him and I will save more credit by assuming some faults than those do who only hide theirs.
618 In the first place you must realize that it is rarely up to you to propose what he ought to learn. It is for him to desire it, to seek it, and to find it -- to you to put it within reach, to skillfully give birth to this desire, and to furnish him with the means of satisfying it. From this it follows that your questions should be infrequent but well-chosen. Since he will always have more questions to put to you than you to him, you will always be less exposed and more often able to ask him, "Why is it useful to know that which you are asking me?"
619 Moreover, since it matters little whether he learns this or that provided he knows it well and understands the use of what he learns, as soon as you cannot give him a explanation that is good for him, give him none at all. Do not hesitate to say, "I have no good answer to give you; I was wrong, let us drop the subject." If your teaching was really ill-chosen there is no harm in dropping it altogether; if it was not, with a little care you will soon find an opportunity of making its use apparent to him.
620 I do not like verbal explanations. Young people pay little attention to them and hardly retain them. Things! Things! I cannot repeat it enough that we give too much power to words. With our babbling educaton we only create babblers.
621 Suppose that while I am studying with my pupil the course of the sun and the way to find our bearings, all of a sudden he interrupts me to ask what the use of all of this is. What a fine speech I might give him! How many things I might take the opportunity to teach him in reply to his question, especially if there are any witnesses to our conversation. Note 1 I might speak of the utility of travel, the advantages of commerce, the particular products of each climate, the customs of different peoples, the use of the calendar, the calculation of seasonal cycles for agriculture, the art of navigation, how to steer on the sea and to follow a course exactly without knowing where one is. Politics, natural history, astronomy, even morals and international law would enter into my explanation in such a way as to give my pupil a grand idea of all these sciences and a great desire to learn them. When I had finished I would have made a great display of my pedantry, but he would have not have understood a single idea. He would long to ask me as before, "What is the use of taking one's bearings?" but he would not dare for fear of making me angry. He finds it pays best to pretend to listen to what he is forced to hear. This is the way our fine education is practiced.
622 But Emile, who has been more simply raised and to whom we have taken pains to give a solid understanding, will hear nothing of all this. At the first word he does not understand he will run away; he will prance about the room and leave me to speechify by myself. Let us seek a more commonplace explanation; my scientific baggage is of no use to him.
623 We were observing the position of the forest to the north of Montmorency when he interrupted me with the usual question, "What is the use of that?" "You are right," I said. "Let us take time to think it over, and if we find that this work is not good for anything we will not take it up again, for we have plenty of useful games." We find something else to do and geography is put aside for the day.
624 The next morning I suggest a walk before lunch. There is nothing he would like better. Children are always ready to run, and this one has good legs. We climb up to the forest, we wander through its clearings, we get lost. We have no idea where we are, and when we want to retrace our steps we cannot find our path. Time passes. It gets hot; we get hungry and go faster; we wander vainly this way and that; we find nothing but woods, quarries, plains, with not a landmark to guide us. Very hot, very tired, very hungry, we only go further astray. We finally sit down to rest in order to deliberate. Emile, whom I assume has been raised like other children, does not deliberate, he cries. He does not know that we are at the gate of Montmorency and that a small thicket hides it from us. But a thicket is a forest to him; a man of his size is buried among bushes.
625 After a few moments of silence I say to him with a worried tone: my dear Emile, how are we going to get out of here?
626 ÉMILE, in a sweat and crying hot tears: I don't know. I'm tired, I'm hungry, I'm thirsty. I can't go any further. JEAN-JAQUES: Do you suppose I am any better off? I would cry too if I could make a lunch out of my tears. Crying is no use, we must look around us. Let's see your watch; what time is it? ÉMILE: It is noon and I haven't eaten yet! JEAN-JACQUES: That's true; it is noon and I haven't eaten yet. ÉMILE: Oh you must be very hungry!. JEAN-JACQUES: Unluckily my dinner won't come to find me. It's noon? This is exactly the time yesterday that we were observing the position of the forest from Montmorency. If only we could see the position of Montmorency from the forest -- ÉMILE: But yesterday we could see the forest, and here we cannot see the town. JEAN-JACQUES: That's the problem . . . If we could only find our position without seeing it. ÉMILE: Oh! my dear friend! JEAN-JACQUES: Didn't we say the forest was -- ÉMILE: North of Montmorency. JEAN-JACQUES: Then Montmorency must be---- ÉMILE: South of the forest. JEAN-JACQUES: We have a way of finding the north at noon. ÉMILE: Yes, by the direction of the shadows. JEAN-JACQUES: But the south? ÉMILE: What can we do? JEAN-JACQUES: The south is opposite the north. ÉMILE: That is true; we only need to find the opposite of the shadows. Oh, there is the south! There is the south! Montmorency must be over there! Let's look for it over there! JEAN-JACQUES: You could be right; let's follow this path through the woods. ÉMILE, clapping his hands and letting out a cry of joy: Oh, I see Montmorency! There it is, right in front of us, in plain view! Let's go have lunch, let's eat, let's run fast! Astronomy is good for something.
627 Be sure that if he does not say this last phrase, he will think it -- it does not matter which so long as I do not say it myself. He will certainly never forget this day's lesson as long as he lives, whereas if I had made him imagine all this in his room, my speech would have been forgotten the next day. One must speak as much as one can by actions and say only those things that one cannot do.
628 The reader will not expect me to have such a poor opinion of him or her as to supply an example of every kind of study; but, whatever is taught, I cannot too strongly urge the tutor to adapt his practices to the capacity of his scholar. For once more I repeat the risk is not in what he does not know, but in what he thinks he knows.
629 I remember how I once tried to give a child a taste for chemistry. After showing him several metallic precipitates, I explained how ink was made. I told him how its blackness was merely the result of fine particles of iron separated from the vitriol and precipitated by an alkaline solution. In the midst of my learned explanation the little traitor stopped me abruptly with the question I myself had taught him. I was very embarrassed.
630 After thought for a while I decided what to do. I sent for some wine from the cellar of the master of the house, and some very cheap wine from a wine-merchant. I took a small flask of an alkaline solution, and placing two glasses before me filled with the two sorts of wine Note 2, I spoke to thim thus.
631 People falsify many products in order to make them appear better than they are. These falsifications fool the eye and the taste, but they are harmful and make the falsified thing worse with its fine appearance than it was before.
632 All sorts of drinks are falsified, especially wine; for the deception is more difficult to detect and makes more profit for the deceiver.
633 Sour wine is falsified with litharge; litharge is a preparation of lead. Lead in combination with acids forms a sweet salt which corrects the harsh taste of the sour wine, but it is poisonous to those who drink it. So before we drink wine of doubtful quality we should be able to tell if there is lead in it. This is how one can do that.
634 Wine contains not merely an inflammable spirit as you have seen from the brandy made from it; it also contains an acid, as you know from the vinegar made from it.
635 This acid has an affinity for metals. It combines with them and forms salts, such as iron-rust, which is only iron dissolved by the acid in air or water, or such as verdegris, which is only copper dissolved in vinegar.
636 But this same acid has a still greater affinity for alkalis than for metals, so that when we add alkalis to the above-mentioned salts, the acid sets free the metal with which it had combined and combines with the alkali.
637 Then the metal, set free by the acid which held it in solution, is precipitated and the liquid becomes opaque.
638 If then there is litharge in either of these glasses of wine. the acid holds the litharge in solution. When I pour into it an alkaline solution, the acid will be forced to set the lead free in order to combine with the alkali. The lead, no longer held in solution, will reappear, the liquor will become thick, and after a time the lead will be deposited at the bottom of the glass.
639 If there is no lead Note 3 nor other metal in the wine the alkali will slowly Note 4 combine with the acid, all will remain clear and there win be no precipitate.
640 Then I poured my alkaline solution first into one glass and then into the other. The wine from our own house remained clear and unclouded, the other at once became turbid, and an hour later the lead might be plainly seen, precipitated at the bottom of the glass.
641 "This," said I, "is a pure natural wine and fit to drink; the other is falsified and poisonous. This is discovered through the same kind of science as the one whose usefulness you asked me about. Someone who knows how to make ink can also know what wines are adulterated."
642 I was very well pleased with my illustration, but I found it made little impression on my pupil. When I had time to think about it I saw I had been a fool, for not only was it impossible for a child of twelve to follow my explanations, but the usefulness of the experiment did not appeal to him. He had tasted both glasses of wine and found them both good, so he attached no meaning to the word "falsified" which I thought I had explained so nicely. The other words, "unhealthy" and "poison," similarly had no meaning for him; he was in the same condition as the boy who told the story of Philip and his doctor. It is the case with all children.
643 The relation of effects to causes whose connection is unknown to us, the good things and bad things about which we have no idea, the needs we have never felt, are nothing for us. It is impossible to interest us in them sufficiently to make us do anything connected with them. At fifteen we can conceive of the happiness of a wise man no better than we can at thirty conceive of the glory of paradise. If we can not conceive of either we will do little to attain them, and even if we could conceive of them, we would still do little unless we desired them and unless we felt they were right for us. It is easy to convince a child that what you wish to teach him is useful, but it is useless to convince him if you cannot also persuade him. In vain may pure reason make us approve or blame; it is only passion that makes us act, and how can one become passionate about interests that one doesn't yet have?
644 Never show a child what he cannot see. Since mankind is almost unknown to him, and since you cannot make a man of him, bring the man down to the level of the child. While you are thinking of what will be useful to him at another age, speak to him only of things whose usefulness he can see in the present. Moreover, as soon as he begins to reason let there be no comparison with other children, no rivalry, no competition, not even in running races. I would far rather he did not learn anything than that he learn it through jealousy or self-conceit. However, each year I will mark the progress he has made; I will compare the results with those of the following year. I will say to him: You have grown so many inches; there is the ditch you jumped, the weight you carried, the distance you flung a pebble, the race you ran without stopping to take breath, etc.. Let us see what you can do now. Thus I stimulate him without making him jealous of anyone. He wants to surpass himself; he ought to. I see no reason why he should not emulate himself.
645 I hate books. They only teach us to talk about things that we do not know. It is said that Hermes engraved the elements of science on pillars lest a deluge should destroy them. Had he imprinted them in men's heads they would have been preserved by tradition. Well-prepared minds are the monuments on which human knowledge is most deeply engraved. Is there no way of correlating so many lessons scattered through so many books, no way of focussing them on some common object, easy to see, interesting to follow, and stimulating even at this age? If one could invent a situation in which all the natural needs of man were were shown in a way that was perceptible to the mind of a child, and where the means of providing for these needs developed successively and with the same facility, it would be the stirring and simple portrayal of this state that should form the earliest training of the child's imagination.
646 Eager philosopher, I see your own imagination light up. Spare yourself the trouble; this state is already known, it is described, with due respect to you, far better than you could describe it, at least with greater truth and simplicity. Since we must have books, there is one book which, to my thinking, supplies the best treatise of natural education. This is the first book Emile will read; for a long time it will form his whole library, and it will always retain an honoured place. It will be the text to which all our talks about natural science are but the commentary. As we progress it will serve as a test of the state of our judgment, and as long as our taste is not spoiled, to read it will always be a pleasure for us. What is this wonderful book? Is it Aristotle? Pliny? Buffon? No; it is Robinson Crusoe.
647 Robinson Crusoe on his island, alone, deprived of the help of his fellow-men and of the tools of every art, yet providing for his own subsistance, his own preservation, and even procuring for himself a kind of well-being -- here is an object interesting for every age and that one can find a thousand ways to make pleasing to children. Here is how we can make a reality of that desert island which formerly served as an illustration. This state, I admit, is not that of social man; probably it is not that of Emile; but it is on the basis of this same state that he should judge all the others. The surest way to raise oneself above prejudice and to base his judgments on the true relations of things is to put oneself in the place of a solitary man and to judge all things as they would be judged by such a man in relation to their own utility.
648 Stripped of all of its irrelevancies, this novel -- beginning with Robinson's shipwreck on his island and ending with the coming of the ship which takes him away -- will form both Emile's amusement and his instruction during the whole period we are considering. I want his head be full of it, and for him to be ceaselessly busy with his castle, his goats, his plantations. Let him figure out in detail, not from books but from things, all that is necessary in such a case. Let him think he is Robinson himself; let him see himself dressed in skins, wearing a tall cap, a great sword, all the grotesque get-up of Robinson Crusoe, even to the umbrella which he will scarcely need. I want him to anxiously consider what measures to take if this or that happens to be missing, to examine his hero's conduct, to search for things he might have omitted or that he might have done better. He should carefully note his mistakes so as not to fall into them in similar circumstances, for you may be sure he will plan out a similar establishment for himself. This is the genuine castle in the air of this happy age, when the child knows no other happiness but necessity and liberty.
649 What a resource will this infatuation supply in the hands of a skilful teacher who has aroused it for the purpose of using it. The child who wants to build a storehouse on his desert island will be more eager to learn than the master to teach. He will want to know everything that is useful and will want to know only that. You will not need to guide him; you will only need to hold him back. Nevertheless, hurry to establish him on his island while his happiness is limited to it. For the day is approaching when, if he still wants to live there, he will not want to live alone, and when even the companionship of Friday, who now hardly makes an impression on him, will not long suffice.
650 The practice of the natural arts which can suffice a man alone leads to research in the industrial arts which call for the cooperation of many hands. The former may be carried on by solitary people, by savages; but the latter can only arise in society and make it necessary. As long as only physical needs are recognised, each man is sufficient to himself; the introduction of superfluity makes indispensible the division and distribution of labor. For even though one man working alone only earns the subsistence of one man, a hundred men working together can earn enough subsistence for two hundred. As soon therefore as some men are idle, it is necessary that the coordination of those who do work supply the work of those who do nothing.
651 Your greatest care should be to keep out of your scholar's mind all notions of social relations that are not within his reach. But when the chain of knowledge forces you to show him the mutual dependence of mankind, instead of showing him its moral side, turn all his attention at first towards industry and the mechanical arts which make them useful to each other. While you take him from one workshop to another, do not let him see any work without trying it himself, and do not let him leave it without knowing perfectly the reason for everything that is done there or at least for everything that he has observed. With this aim you should do some work yourself and show him everything by example. To make him a master, be yourself an apprentice, and expect that one hour of work will teach him more things than he would retain in a whole day of explanations.
652 There is a public estime attached to the various arts which is in inverse ratio to their real utility. This estime is even measured directly according to their disutility, and that ought to be. The most useful arts are those which earn the least, for the number of workmen is proportional to men's need, and the work which everybody needs must remain at a price that the poor can pay. On the other hand, those influential people -- not those called artisans but artists -- who work only for the rich and idle, put an arbitrary price on their baubles; and since the worth of this vain labour is only based on opinion, the price itself becomes part of that worth and they are estimed in proportion to their cost. The rich think so much of these things not because they are useful but because they are beyond the reach of the poor. Nolo habere bona, nisi quibus populus inviderit.
653 What will become of your pupils if you let them acquire this insane prejudice, if you share it yourself, if, for instance, they see you enter into a jeweler's shop with more respect than you show in a locksmith's? What judgement will they form of the true worth of the arts and the true value of things when they see everywhere the price of fantasy in contradiction with the price based on real utility, and that the more a thing costs the less it is worth? The first moment you let these ideas enter their heads you may abandon the rest of their education. In spite of you they will be raised like everyone else -- you will have wasted fourteen years of effort.
654 Focused on furnishing his island, Emile will have other ways of seeing. Robinson would have given more importance to a toolmaker's shop than all of Saide's finery put together. He would have reckoned the toolmaker a very worthy man, and Saide little more than a charlatan.
655 "My son is made to live in the world: he will not live with wise men but with fools. He must therefore know their follies, since it is by them that they want to be led. A real knowledge of things may be good, but the knowledge of men and their opinions is better, for in human society man's greatest tool is man himself, and the wisest man is he who uses this tool best. What is the good of giving children the idea of an imaginary order completely contrary to the one that they will find established and on the basis of which they will have to govern themselves? Give them first lessons on how to be wise, and then you will give them a way to judge how others are fools."
656 These are the specious maxims by which fathers in their false wisdom strive to make their children the slaves of the prejudices they feed them and themselves the puppets of a senseless crowd they hope to make subservient to their passions. In order to achieve a knowledge of man, we must know so many things before we know him! Man is the final subject studied by a sage, and you expect to make him the first subject studied by a child! Before teaching the child our sentiments, begin by teaching him to appreciate them. Do you perceive folly when you mistake it for wisdom? To be wise we must discern what is not wise. How can your child know men when he can neither judge of their judgments nor unravel their errors? It is wrong to know what they think when one ingnores whether what they think is true or false. First, therefore, teach him what things are in themselves. Afterwards you can teach him what they are in our eyes. It is thus that he will learn to compare opinion and truth and rise above the vulgar crowd. For no one recognizes prejudices when one has adopted them, and no one can lead a people when he ressembles it. But if you begin by teaching public opinion before he learns how to judge of its worth, you can be sure that whatever you may do it will become his own and that you will never destroy it. I conclude that to make a young man judicioius one must form his judgement instead of dictating yours to him.
657 You see that until now I have not spoken to my pupil about men. He would have too much sense to listen to me. His relations to his species are as yet not sufficiently apparent to him to enable him to judge others by himself. He knows no human being but himself, and he is far from really knowing even himself. But if he forms few judgements about himself, at least those he has are accurate. He knows nothing of another's place, but he knows his own and keeps to it. Instead of social laws that he cannot know we have used the chains of necessity to hold him. He is still hardly more than a physical being; let us continue to treat him that way.
658 It is by their perceptible relation to his utility, his safety, his conservation, his well-being that he must judge all the bodies of nature and all the works of men. Thus iron ought to have in his eyes a much greater price than gold, and glass than a diamond. In the same way, he will honor a shoemaker or a mason more than he does a Lempereur, a Le Blanc, or all the jewelers in Europe. In his eyes a confectioner is a really great man, and he would give the whole academy of sciences for the smallest pastrycook in the rue des Lombards. Goldsmiths, engravers, gilders, and embroiderers are in his view lazy people who play at utterly useless games. He does not even think much of a clockmaker. The happy child enjoys time without being its slave; he takes advantage of it but does not know its price. The calm of the passions which makes the passage of time equal to him makes any means of measuring time unnecessary. When I assumed that Emile had a watch, Note 6] just as I assumed that he cried, it was a common Emile that I chose in order to serve my purpose and make myself understood. As for the real Emile, a child so different from others would not serve as an example for anything.
659 There is a no less natural and even more judicious order by which the arts are valued according to relations of necessity which tie them together. This order would place in the highest rank the most independent arts and in the lowest those which depend the most on others. This order, which furnishes important considerations on the order of society in general, is similar to the preceding one and is subject to the same inversions in the estime of men. Accordingly, the use of raw materials is the work of the least honorable trades, those practically without profit, whereas the more these same materials change hands, the more the manufactured good rises in price and in honor. I do not ask whether it is true that one's skill is really greater and merits more reward in the meticulous arts which give the final form to these materials than in the earliest labor which converted them to man's use. But I do say that in each case the art which is most generally useful and indispensible is incontestably that which merits most esteem; and that the art which requires the least help from others is more worthy of honour than those which are dependent on other arts, since it is freer and more nearly independent. These are the true laws of appreciation of the arts and of industry; all the rest is arbitrary and depends only on opinion.
660 The first and most respectable of all the arts is agriculture. I would put metal work in the second rank, carpentry in the third, and so on. The child who has not been seduced by vulgar prejudices will judge them precisely in this way. How many important reflections will our Emile draw from his Robinson on this subject! What will he think when he sees the arts only brought to perfection by sub-division, by the infinite multiplication of tools. He will say, "All those people are stupidly ingenious. You would think they were afraid that their arms and their fingers had no use, they invent so many tools instead. To practice only one art they become the slaves of a thousand others; every single workman needs a whole town. As for my companion and me, we put our genius in our own skill; we only make tools we can take about with us. All these people who are so proud of their talents in Paris could not do anything at all on our island; they would have become our apprentices."
661 Reader, do not stop to watch the bodily exercises and manual skill of our pupil, but consider the direction we are giving to his childish curiosity; consider his common-sense, his inventive spirit, his foresight; consider what a head he will have on his shoulders. In all that he sees and all that he does he will want to know everything, he will want to know the reason for everything. From tool to tool he will go back to the first beginning, he will admit nothing on supposition. He will refuse to learn anything requiring a previous knowledge that he himself has not acquired. If he sees a spring made he will want to know how they got the steel from the mine; if he sees the pieces of a chest put together, he will want to know how the tree was cut down. If he works himself with each tool that he uses he will not fail to say, "If I didn't have this tool, how could I make one like it, or how could I get along without it?"
662 It is, however, difficult to avoid another error. When the teacher is very fond of certain occupations, he is apt to assume that the child shares his tastes. Beware whenever you begin to get carried away by the fun of working that the child isn't becoming bored but does not dare to admit it. The child should be into what he is doing, but you should be completely into him -- observing him, watching him constantly, and without his knowing it anticipating all his feelings beforehand and preventing those that he should not have. In short, keep him occupied in such a way that he not only feels useful but takes a pleasure in understanding the purpose which his work will serve.
663 The social dimension of the arts consists in the exchanges of industry, that of commerce in the exchange of things, that of banks in the exchange of symbols and of money. All these ideas hang together, and their elementary notions have already been grasped: we laid the foundations for all of that in early childhood with the help of Robert the gardener. It remains for us now to generalize these same ideas and to extend them to more examples in order to make the child understand the workings of trade -- both taken on its own terms and made concrete to him by means of particular instances of natural history with regard to the special products of each country, by particular instances of the arts and sciences which concern navigation and the difficulties of transport, greater or less in proportion to the distance between places, the position of land, seas, rivers, etc.
664 No society can exist without exchange, no exchange can exist without a common standard of measurement, and no common standard of measurement can exist without equality. Hence the first law of every society is some conventional equality either in men or in things.
665 Conventional equality between men, a very different thing from natural equality, makes necessary positive law, that is, government and laws. The political knowledge of a child should be clear and limited; he should know nothing of government in general beyond what concerns the rights of property, of which he has already some idea.
666 Conventional equality between things has led to the invention of money, for money is only a term of comparison for the value of different sorts of things; and in this sense money is the real bond of society. But anything may be money: in former days it was cattle. shells are still used among many peoples, iron was money in Sparta, leather in Sweden, while gold and silver are used among us.
667 Metals, being easier to carry, have generally been chosen as the means of every exchange, and these metals have been made into coin to save the trouble of continual weighing and measuring. For the stamp on the coin is merely evidence that the coin thus marked is of a certain weight; and only the ruler has the right to coin money given that he alone has the right to require that his testimony have authority for the whole nation.
668 Explained thus, the use of this invention can be understood by even the stupidest person. It is difficult to make a direct comparison between various things -- for instance, between cloth and corn. But when we find a common measure in money, it is easy for the manufacturer and the farmer to relate the value of the goods they wish to exchange to this common measure. If a given quantity of cloth is worth a given sum of money, and if a given quantity of corn is worth the same sum of money, then it follows that the seller, receiving the corn in exchange for his cloth, makes an equitable exchange. Thus by means of money it becomes possible to compare the values of goods of various kinds.
669 Do not go further than that and and do not enter into an explication of the moral effects of this institution. In everything it is important state clearly the use before showing the the abuse. If you attempt to teach children how the sign has led to the neglect of the actual thing, how money has given rise to all the illusions of public opinion, how countries rich in silver must be poor in everything else, you will be treating these children not only as philosophers but as wise men, and you will be attempting to make them understand something even few philosophers have been able to conceptualize.
670 What a wealth of interesting objects the curiosity of our pupil may be turned towards without ever leaving the real and material relations that are within his reach, and without arousing in his mind a single idea that he cannot conceive! The teacher's art consists in never burdening his pupil's observations with minutia that hold no significance but in ceaselessy leading him towards relations of importance which he will one day need to know in order to rightly judge between good and evil in civil society. The teacher must be able to adapt the conversation with which he amuses his pupil to the turn already given to his mind. A problem which another child would hardly touch upon will torment Emile half a year.
671 We go to dine in an opulent home. There we find preparations for a feast -- many people, many servants, many dishes, and elegant fine china. All this apparatus of pleasure and feasting has something intoxicating about it that goes to the head when one is not accustomed to it. I foresee the effect of all this on my young pupil. While the meal goes on, while different courses come one after another, while a thousand noisy conversations are heard around the table, I lean towards him and whisper in his ear: "Through how many hands would you estimate that all of the things you see on this table have passed before coming here?" What a crowd of ideas I awaken in his brain by these few words! Immediately all the vapors of his delirium vanish. He thinks, he reflects, he calculates, he worries. While the philosophers, excited by wine or perhaps by the women next to them, are babbling like children, here he is philosophizing all alone in his corner. He asks questions; I decline to answer and put him off to another time. He becomes impatient, he forgets to eat and drink, he burns to get away from table and converse with me at his ease. What an object for his curiosity, what a text for instruction. With a healthy judgment that nothing has corrupted, what will he think of luxury when he finds that all the regions of the world have contributed, that twenty million hands perhaps have worked for a long time, that it has cost the lives, perhaps, of thousands of men, and all that to present him with pomp at noon that which he'll deposit in his chamber pot at night?
672 Watch with care what secret conclusions he draws in his heart from all his observations. If you have watched him less carefully than I suppose, his thoughts may be tempted in another direction; he may consider himself a person of great importance in the world when he sees so much labor concentrated on the preparation of his dinner. If you suspect this kind of reasoning, you can easily prevent it, or at any rate promptly erase the false impression. As of now he can only appropriate things by personal enjoyment, he can only judge of their fitness or unfitness for him by his sense perceptions of them. The comparison of a rustic meal, prepared by exercise, seasoned by hunger, liberty, and joy, with this magnificent but tedious repast will suffice to make him feel that he has gotten no real advantage from the splendour of the feast, and that his stomach being as well satisfied when he left the table of the peasant as when he left the table of the financier, he has gained nothing more from the one than from the other that he could truly call his own.
673 Imagine what a tutor might say to him on such an occasion. Consider the two dinners and decide for yourself which gave you most pleasure, which seemed the most joyful, at which did people eat with the greatest appetite, drink the most gaily, laugh the most heartily. Which was the least tedious and required least change of courses? Yet note the difference---this black bread you so enjoy is made from the peasant's own harvest; his wine is dark in colour and of a common kind, but wholesome and refreshing; it was made in his own vineyard. The cloth is made of his own hemp, spun and woven in the winter by his wife and daughters and the maid; no hands but theirs have touched the food. The closest mill and the neighboring market are the limits of the universe for them. In what way did you really enjoy all that the produce of faraway lands and the service of so many hands at the other table? If you did not get a better meal, what have you gained from this abundance? How much of it was made for you? If you had been the master of the house, the tutor might say, all of that would have been still foreign to you, for the anxiety of displaying your enjoyment before the eyes of others would have robbed you of it. The pains would be yours, the pleasure theirs.
674 This speech might be very fine, but it would worth nothing to Emile, for whom it would be beyond reach and whose ideas do not come by dictation. Speak to him more simply. After these two experiences, say to him some morning, "Where shall we have dinner today? Around that mountain of silver that covered three quarters of the table and those rows of paper flowers on mirrors that came with the dessert? Among those ladies with large headdresses who treat you like a little doll and want you to talk about what you do not know? Or in that village two miles from here, with those good people who welcome us so joyously and give us such good fresh cream?" Emile's choice will not be difficult, for he is neither a chatterbox nor a show off; he cannot stand constraint and all our fine dishes do not tempt him. But he is always ready for a run in the country and is very fond of good fruit and vegetables, sweet cream and kindly people. On our way, the thought will occur to him, "All those people who laboured to prepare that grand feast were either wasting their time or they have no idea how to enjoy our pleasures."
675 My examples, good perhaps for one child, would be bad for a thousand others. If you understand its spirit you will be able to vary the examples as needed, depending on your study of the genius of each child, and this in turn depends on the occasions which happen to demonstrate it. You should not assume that in the three or four years we have to work with we could give even the most gifted child an idea of all the arts and sciences sufficient to enable him to study them for himself when he is older. But by bringing before him what he needs to know, we put him in a position to develop his own tastes, his own talents, to take the first step towards the object which touches his genius, and to show us the the path we must clear in order to promote nature.
676 Another advantage of this chain of limited but exact bits of knowledge is to show by their connection and interdependence how to rank them in one's own estimation and to be on one's guard against those prejudices, common to most men, which draw them towards the talents they themselves cultivate and away from those they have neglected. He who sees clearly the order of the whole sees the place where each piece ought to fit. He who sees one part well and who knows it deeply can be a learned man, but the former is a wise man; and you remember it is wisdom rather than knowledge that we hope to acquire.
677 However that may be, my method does not depend on my examples. It depends on the amount of a man's powers at different ages and the choice of occupations adapted to those powers. I think it would be easy to find a method which appeared to give better results, but if it were less suited to the type, sex, and age of the scholar, I doubt whether the results would really be as good.
678 At the beginning of this second period we took advantage of the fact that our strength was more than enough for our needs in order to take us outside ourselves. We have ranged the heavens and measured the earth; we have sought out the laws of nature; we have explored the whole of our island. Now let us return to ourselves; let us unconsciously approach our own dwelling. We are happy indeed if we do not find it already occupied by the dreaded enemy who is preparing to seize it.
679 What remains to be done when we have observed all that lies around us? We must turn to our own use all that we can get; we must increase our comfort by means of our curiosity. Up until now we have provided ourselves with tools of all kinds, not knowing which we require. Perhaps those we do not want will be useful to others, and perhaps we may need theirs. Thus we discover the use of exchange; but for this we must know each other's needs, what tools other people use, what they can offer in exchange. Suppose we have ten men, each of whom has ten different requirements. To get what he needs for himself each must work at ten different kinds of work. But given the differences in genius and in talent, one will succeed at one kind of work, another at another. Each of them, suited for diverse jobs, will work at all of them and will be badly served. Let us form these ten men into a society, and let each apply himself to the to the kind of occupation that suits him best, and let him work at it for himself and for the rest. Each will profit from the talents of the others' talents just as if they were his own; each will perfect his own talent by by continual exercise; and thus all ten, perfectly well provided for, will still have a surplus for others. This is the plain foundation of all our institutions. It is not my aim to examine its consequences here; that is what I have done in another book.
680 According to this principle, any one who wanted to see himself as an isolated being, dependent on no one and self-sufficient, could only be miserable. He could not even continue to exist, for finding the whole earth covered with mine and thine while he had only himself, how could he get the means of subsistence? When we leave the state of nature we compel others to do the same: no one can remain in a state of nature in spite of his fellow-creatures. And to try to remain in it when it is no longer practicable would really be to leave it, for self-preservation is nature's first law.
681 Thus the idea of social relations is gradually developed in the child's mind, even before he can really be an active member of human society. Emile sees that in order to have tools for his own use other people must have theirs, and that he can get in exchange what he needs and they possess. I easily bring him to feel the need of such exchange and to take advantage of it.
682 "Sir, I must live," said a miserable writer of satires to the minister who reproved him for his infamous trade. "I do not see the necessity for that," replied the great man coldly. This answer, excellent from the minister, would have been barbarous and untrue in any other mouth. Every man must live. This argument, which appeals to everyone with more or less force in proportion to his humanitarian tendencies, strikes me as unanswerable when applied to oneself. Since the strongest aversion that nature has implanted in us is our dislike of death, it follows that everything is permissible to the man who has no other means of living. The principles by which a good man is taught to scorn his life and to sacrifice it to duty are far removed from this primitive simplicity. Happy are those nations where one can be good without effort, and just without virtue! If in this world there is any state so miserable that one cannot live there without doing wrong, where the citizen is evil by necessity, it is not the criminal whom you should hang but he who forced him to become one.
683 As soon as Emile knows what life is, my first care will be to teach him to preserve it. Until now I have made no distinction of condition, rank, status, or fortune; nor shall I distinguish between them in what follows, because man is the same in every status. The rich man's stomach is no bigger than the poor man's, nor is his digestion any better. The master's arm is neither longer nor stronger than the slave's; a nobleman is no taller than a man of the people; and finally, since natural needs are the same to all, the means for satisfying them should be everywhere equal. Adapt the education of man to man, and not to that which is not him. Do you not see that in working to form him exclusively for one condition you are making him useless for anything else, and that if his fortune happens to change you will have worked only to make him unhappy? What could be more absurd than a great lord in rags who carries with him into his misery all the prejudices of his birth? What is more despicable than a rich man fallen into poverty, who, remembering the scorn with which he himself regarded the poor, feels that he has become the lowest of men? One of them has, as a last resort, the job of becoming a public nuisance, the other a cringing servant, with this fine saying, "I must live."
684 You count on the present order of society without considering that this order is itself subject to inevitable revolutions and that it is impossible to foresee or prevent the one which may affect your children. The great become small, the rich become poor, the king becomes a commoner. Are the blows of fate so rare that you can count on being exempt from them? We are approaching the state of crisis and the century of revolutions. Note 8] Who can answer to what you may then become? Everything that man has made, man can destroy. Nature's characters alone are ineradicable, and nature makes neither princes, nor rich men, nor noblemen. This satrap whom you have educated for greatness, what will become of him when he is brought down? This financier who can only live on gold, what will he do in poverty? This haughty fool who cannot use his own hands, who prides himself on what is not really his -- what will he do when it is all taken away? Happy is the man who can leave the estate that leaves him and remain a man despite his fate! Let men praise as they will that conquered monarch who wanted in his fury to be buried beneath the fragments of his throne. As for me, I look at him with scorn. To me he only exists with his crown, and when that is gone he is no longer king. But he who loses his crown and lives without it is therefore above it. From the rank of a king, which may be held by a coward, a villain, or a madman, he rises to the rank of a man, a position few can fill. Thus he triumphs over Fortune, he braves it. He owes nothing except to himself alone, and when he has nothing left to show but himself he is not nothing, he is something. Yes, I prefer a hundred times the King of Corinth who was a schoolmaster at Syracuse and the King of Macedonia who was a court recorder at Rome to the wretched Tarquin who does not know what to do if he is not ruling, or the heir and son of a king of kings -- the plaything of anyone who dared insult his poverty -- wandering from court to court in search of help and finding nothing but reproach for lack of knowing any trade but one that is no longer in his power.
685 Man and citizen, whatever he may be, has nothing to invest in society but himself. All his other goods belong to society in spite of him, and when a man is rich, either he does not enjoy his wealth, or the public enjoys it too. In the first case he robs others as well as himself; in the second he gives them nothing. Thus his debt to society is still unpaid as long as he only pays with his goods. "But my father was serving society while he was acquiring his wealth." That may be. So he paid his own debt, not yours. You owe more to others than if you had been born with nothing, since you were born privileged. It is not fair that what one man has done for society should discharge another from what he owes it, for since every man owes all that he is, he can only pay his own debt; and no father can transmit to his son any right to be useless to his fellows. Now, according to you this is what he has done by transmitting his riches, which are the proof and the price of his work. The man who eats in idleness what he has not himself earned steals it; and the stockholder whom the state pays differs little from a robber who lives at the expense of the passers-by. Outside of society, the isolated man owes nothing to anyone; he has a right to live as he pleases. But in society, where he necessarily lives at the expense of others, he owes them in work the price of his maintenance; this is without exception. To work is therefore an indispensable duty for social man. Rich or poor, powerful or feeble, any idle citizen is a thief.
686 Now of all the occupations which can furnish subsistence to man, the nearest to a state of nature is manual labor; of all conditions the most independent of fortune and of men is that of the artisan. The artisan depends on his work alone. He is as free as the laborer is enslaved, for the latter depends on his field whose harvest is at the discretion of others. An enemy, a prince, a powerful neighbour, or a law-suit may take away this field; through this field he may be harassed in all sorts of ways. But if the artisan is ill-treated his goods are quickly packed: he folds up his arms and leaves. Nevertheless, agriculture is still the first occupation of man; it is the most honest, most useful, and consequently the most noble one he can practice. I do not say to Emile, "Learn agriculture"; he already knows it. All rural work is familiar to him. It was his first occupation, and he returns to it continually. So I say to him, "Cultivate your father's lands, but if you lose this inheritance, or if you have none to lose, what will you do? So learn a trade."
687 A trade for my son! My son a working man! Sir, what are you thinking of? Madame, my thoughts are wiser than yours; you want to make him fit for nothing but a lord, a marquis, or a prince; and some day he may be less than nothing. I want to give him a rank that he cannot lose, a rank that will always do him honor; and, whatever you may say, he will have fewer equals with this one title than with all those you want to give him.
688 The letter kills, the spirit gives life. To know a trade it is less a question of learning it than of overcoming the prejudices that scorn it. You will never be reduced to earning your livelihood; Ah, too bad, too bad for you! No matter; do not work for necessity but for glory. Lower yourself to the condition of an artisan in order to rise above your own. In order to conquer fortune and things, begin by making yourself independent of them. To rule through public opinion, begin by ruling over it.
689 Remember I demand no talent, only a trade, a genuine trade, a purely mechanical art in which the hands work harder than the head, a trade which does not lead to fortune but makes one able to get along without it. In households well beyond the danger of lacking bread I have known fathers carry foresight to such a point as to provide their children not only with ordinary teaching but with knowledge from which they could get a living if anything happened. These farsighted parents thought they were doing a great thing. They did nothing, for the resources they imagine they have secured depend on that very fortune of which they would make their children independent; so that unless they found themselves in circumstances fitted for the display of their talents, they would die of hunger as if they had none.
690 As soon as it is a question of influence and intrigue you may just as well use these means to keep yourself affluent as to acquire, in the depths of poverty, the means of returning to your former position. If you cultivate the arts which depend on the artist's reputation, if you fit yourself for jobs which are only obtained by favor, how will that help you when, rightly disgusted with the world, you scorn the steps by which you must climb? You have studied politics and the self-interest of rulers -- that is fine. But how will you use this knowledge if you cannot get through to the ministers, the women at court, or the bureau chiefs? if you do not have the secret of pleasing them, if they fail to find in you the kind of fool that suits them? You are an architect or a painter; well and good. But your talents must be made known. Do you suppose you can all of a sudden start exhibiting your work in the Salon? Unfortunately that is not the way it works! You have to go to the Academy; even there you need a sponsor in order to obtain a quiet place in the corner of a wall. Instead, leave your ruler and pencil with me, take a cab and drive from door to door; that is how one gains celebrity. Now, you must know that the doors of the great are guarded by swiss guards or porters who only understand one language, and their ears are in their palms. Would you like to teach what you have learned and become an instructor of geography, mathematics, languages, music, drawing? Even for that one must find pupils and consequently find friends who will sing your praises. Understand that it will be more important to be pretentious than skillful, and with no trade but your own you will always be considered ignorant.
691 See, therefore, how little you can depend on these fine resources, and how many other resources are necessary before you can use what you have got. And what will become of you from such base humiliation? Reverses will make you worse rather than better. More than ever the plaything of public opinion, how will you rise above the arbitrary prejudices on which your fate depends? How can you despise the vices and the lowness which you need to earn your living? You used to be dependent only on wealth; now you are dependent on the wealthy. You have only worsened your slavery and added to your misery. Now you are poor without being free. It is the worst state man can fall into.
692 But if, instead of rushing into the higher forms of learning that can only feed the mind and not the body, you have recourse, whenever needed, to your hands and what your hands can do for you, all these difficulties disappear, all these strategems become useless. Your trade is ready when required. Uprightness and honor are no longer an obstacle to life. You have no need to become base and deceptive before the great, submissive and cringing before fools, a despicable flatterer of both, a borrower or a thief -- for there is little difference between them when one has nothing. Other people's opinions are no concern of yours; you need not pay court to anyone; there is no imbecile to flatter, no flunkey to bribe, no woman to pay, or worse, to flatter. Let rogues conduct the affairs of state. In your lowly rank you can still be an honest man and yet get a living. You walk into the first workshop of your trade. "Master, I want work." "Friend, put yourself over there and get started." Before dinner-time you have earned your dinner. If you are diligent and sober, before the week is out you will have earned your keep for another week. You will have lived in freedom, health, truth, industry, and righteousness. Time is not wasted when it brings these returns.
693 I want absolutely that Emile learn a trade. "An honest trade, at least," you say. What do you mean by honest? Is not every useful trade honest? I would not want him to be an embroiderer, a gilder, or a varnisher like Locke's young gentleman. Neither would I make him a musician, an actor, or an author. With the exception of these and others like them, let him choose his own trade; I do not mean to thwart him in anything. I would rather have him be a shoemaker than a poet; I would rather he paved streets than make porcelain flowers. But, you will say, policemen, spies, and hangmen are useful people. I say that it all depends on the government. But let that pass. I was wrong; it is not enough to choose an honest trade, it must be a trade which does not develop detestable qualities in the mind, qualities incompatible with humanity. To return to our original expression, let us choose an honest trade, but let us remember there can be no honesty without usefulness.
694 A famous writer of this century whose books are full of great schemes and narrow views was under a vow, like the other priests of his communion, not to take a wife. Finding himself more scrupulous than others with regard to his neighbour's wife, they say that he decided to employ pretty servants instead, and so did his best to repair the wrong done to the race by his rash promise. He thought it the duty of a citizen to breed children for the state, and so he made his children into artisans. As soon as they were old enough they were taught whatever trade they chose. Only idle or useless trades were excluded, such as that of the wigmaker -- who is never necessary and may any day now cease to be required since nature does not seem to get tired of providing us with hair.
695 This is the spirit that shall guide our choice of trade for Emile, or rather, not our choice but his. For the maxims he has imbibed make him despise useless things, and he will never be content to waste his time on labors that have no value; and he only knows the value of things from their real utility. He must have a trade that would be of use to Robinson on his island.
696 When we review with the child the productions of nature and of art, when we stimulate his curiosity and follow its lead, we have great opportunities of studying his tastes, his inclinations, his tendencies, and perceiving the first spark of genius, if he has one that is clearly marked. You must, however, be on your guard against the common error which mistakes the effects of circumstances for the ardor of genius, or imagines there is a decided inclination towards any one of the arts when there is nothing more than a spirit of emulation, common to men and monkeys, which impels them mechanically to do what they see others doing without knowing what it is good for. The world is full of artisans, and even more of artists, who have no natural talent for the art which they practice but into which they were driven in early childhood either through the conventional ideas of other people or because those around them were fooled by an apparent zeal that could have led them in a similar way to any other art they saw practiced. This one hears a drum and fancies himself a general; that one sees a building and wants to be an architect. Everyone is drawn towards the trade he sees others doing when he thinks it is highly esteemed.
697 I once knew a footman who watched his master drawing and painting and took it into his head to become a designer and artist. From the moment he made this resolve he took up a pencil and then a brush which he never put down for the rest of his life. Without teaching or rules of art he began to draw everything he saw. Three whole years were devoted to these scribblings from which nothing but his duties could stir him, nor was he discouraged by the small progress resulting from his very mediocre talents. I have seen him spend the whole of a broiling summer in a little anteroom facing south, a room that felt suffocating even just to pass through. There he was seated, or rather nailed, all day to his chair, drawing a globe that was before him again and again and yet again with invincible obstinacy till he had reproduced the rounded surface to his own satisfaction. At last with his master's help and under the guidance of an artist he got so far as to abandon his livery and live by his brush. Perseverance substitutes for talent up to a certain point. He got so far, but no further. This honest boy's perseverance and ambition are praiseworthy; he will always be respected for his industry and steadfastness of purpose, but he will never get beyond painting panel friezes. Who would not have been deceived by his zeal and taken it for real talent? There is all the difference in the world between a liking and an aptitude. To make sure of real genius or real taste in a child calls for more accurate observations than is generally suspected, for the child displays his wishes not his capacity, and we judge by the former instead of considering the latter. I wish some judicious person would give us a treatise on the art of observing children. This art would be very important to know, but neither parents nor teachers have mastered its elements.
698 Perhaps we are laying too much stress on the choice of a trade. Because it is a question of manual work, this choice means little, and his apprenticeship is more than half accomplished already through the exercises which have up until now occupied him. What would you like him to do? He is ready for anything. He can handle the spade and hoe, he can use the lathe, hammer, plane, or file; he is already familiar with these tools which are common to many trades. He only needs to acquire sufficient skill in the use of any one of them to rival the speed, the familiarity, and the diligence of good workmen, and he will have a great advantage over them in suppleness of body and limb, so he can easily take any position and can continue any kind of movements without effort. Moreover, his senses are acute and well-practised. He knows the principles of the various trades; to work like a master of his craft he only needs experience, and experience comes with practice. To which of those trades open to us will he give sufficient time to make himself a master of it? That is the whole question.
699 Give a man a trade that suits his sex, give a young man a trade that suits his age. Sedentary indoor employments that make the body tender and effeminate are neither pleasing nor suitable. No young boy ever aspired on his own to be a tailor; it is only through others' efforts that this feminine work attracts the sex for which it was not made. The needle and the sword can not be wielded by the same hand. If I were sovereign I would only allow needlework and dressmaking to be done by women and by cripples who are obliged to work at such trades. Assuming eunuchs to be necessary, I think the orientals were very foolish to make them on purpose. Why not be contented with those provided by nature, with those crowds of low people whose hearts nature has mutilated? There would be plenty to spare. Every weak, delicate, fearful man is condemned by nature to a sedentary life; he is fit to live among women or in their manner. Let him practice one of the trades that is right for them; and if there must be true eunuchs let those men who dishonor their sex by adopting trades unworthy of it be reduced to that state. Their choice proclaims an error of nature; correct it one way or other, you will have only done well.
700 I forbid to my pupil the unhealthy trades, but not a difficult or dangerous one. He will exercise himself in strength and courage. Such trades are for men not women, who claim no share in them. Are not men ashamed to encroach upon the women's trades? "Luctantur paucæ, comedunt coliphia paucæ. Vos lanam trahitis, calathisque peracta refertis Vellera."-- Juven. Sat. II. V. 55.
701 In Italy women are not seen in shops, and to persons accustomed to the streets of England and France nothing could look gloomier. When I saw drapers selling ladies ribbons, pompons, net, and chenille, I thought these delicate ornaments very absurd in the coarse hands fit to blow the bellows and strike the anvil. I said to myself, "In this country women should set up as steel-polishers and armourers." Let each make and sell the weapons of his or her own sex; knowledge is acquired through use.
702 Young man, impress on your work the hand of man. Learn to wield with a vigorous arm the ax and the plane, to square a beam, climb up to the rooftops, position the pinacle, firm it up with rafters and tie-beams. Then call to your sister to come help you with your work just as she tells you to help her with her needlepoint.
703 I have said too much for my agreeable contemporaries, I know. But I sometimes let myself be carried away by my argument. If any man is ashamed to work in public armed with an adze or wearing a leather apron, I think him a mere slave of public opinion, ready to blush for having done well as soon as he is laughed at by others. But let us yield to parents' prejudices so long as they do not hurt the children. To honour trades we are not obliged to practise every one of them, so long as we do not think them beneath us. When the choice is ours and we are under no compulsion, why not judge the pleasantness, attractiveness, and suitability of the different professions within the same rank? Choose the pleasanter, more attractive and more suitable trade. Metal work is useful, more useful, perhaps, than the rest, but unless a some special reason draws me to it, I would not make your child into a blacksmith, a locksmith nor an ironworker. I do not want to see him a Cyclops at the forge. Neither would I have him be a mason, still less a shoemaker. All trades must be carried on, but when the choice is ours, cleanliness should be taken into account. This is not a matter of mere opinion; our senses are our guides. Finally, I do not like those stupid trades in which the workmen mechanically perform the same action without pause and almost without mental effort. Weaving, stocking-knitting, stone-cutting; why employ intelligent men on such work? It is merely one machine leading another.
704 All things considered, the trade I should choose for my pupil, among the trades he likes, is that of a carpenter. It is clean and useful; it may be carried on at home; it gives enough exercise; it calls for skill and industry, and while fashioning articles for everyday use, there is scope for elegance and taste.
705 If by chance the genius of your pupil was clearly directed toward the speculative sciences, then I would not blame you for giving him a trade consistent with his inclinations. He might learn, for example, to make mathematical instruments, eyeglasses, telescopes, etc.
706 When Emile learns his trade I want to learn it with him, for I am convinced he will never learn anything thoroughly unless we learn it together. So we shall both serve our apprenticeship, and we do not mean to be treated as gentlemen but as real apprentices who are not there for fun. Why should we not actually be apprenticed? Peter the Great was a ship's carpenter and drummer to his own troops; was not that prince at least your equal in birth and merit? You understand this is addressed not to Emile but to you, whoever you may be.
707 Unfortunately we cannot spend the whole of our time in the workshop. We are not only apprentice carpenters but apprentice men, and the apprenticeship of this last trade is more painful and longer than the other. How will we thus manage? Shall we take a master to teach us the use of the plane and engage him by the hour like a dancing-master? No, that would make us not apprentices but students, and our ambition is not merely to learn carpentry but to be carpenters. I am thus of the view that once or twice a week we should spend the whole day at our master's; we should get up early, be at our work before him, take our meals with him, work under his orders, and after having had the honour of supper with his family we may if we please return to sleep upon our own hard beds. This is the way to learn several trades at once, to learn to do manual work without neglecting our other apprenticeship.
708 Let us do things simply while doing them well. Let us not reproduce vanity by our efforts to combat it. To pride ourselves on having conquered prejudice is to succumb to prejudice. It is said that in accordance with an old custom of the Ottomans, the sultan is obliged to work with his hands, and, as every one knows, the handiwork of a king is a masterpiece. So he royally distributes his masterpieces among the great lords of the Porte and the price paid is in accordance with the rank of the workman. What I see wrong with this is not the so-called inconvenience it causes; on the contrary, that is an advantage. By compelling the lords to share with him the spoils of the people it is much the less necessary for the prince to plunder the people directly. Despotism needs some such relaxation, and without it that horrible government could not last.
709 The real evil in such a custom is the idea it gives this poor man of his own worth. Like King Midas he sees all things turn to gold at his touch, but he does not see whose ears start growing as a result. Let us keep Emile's own ears short, let us preserve Emile's hands from such lucrative talent. The price of what he himself makes will be based not on the worker but on the work. Never let his work be judged by any standard but that of the work of a master. Let it be judged by the work itself, not because it is his. If anything is well done, I say, "There is something that is well made," but do not ask who made it. If he himself says with a proud and self-satisfied air, "I made it," answer indifferently, "You or someone else, it doesn't matter. It's still a well-made work."
710 Good mother, be on your guard against the deceptions prepared for you. If your son knows many things, distrust his knowledge; if he is unlucky enough to be educated in Paris and to be rich, he is ruined. As long as there are clever artists he will have all their talents, but apart from his masters he will have none. In Paris a rich man knows everything; it is the poor who are ignorant. Our capital is full of amateurs, especially women, who do their work as M. Gillaume invents his colours. Among the men I know of three striking exceptions; among the women I know no exceptions, and I doubt if there are any. In general a man acquires a name in the arts just like he acquires official robes; he becomes an artist and a judge of art just like he becomes a lawyer and a magistrate.
711 Thus if it were once admitted that it is a fine thing to have a trade, your children would soon have one without learning it. They would become postmasters like the councillors of Zurich. Let us have no such ceremonies for Emile; no appearances, only reality. Let us not say what he knows, let him learn in silence. Let him make his masterpiece, but not be hailed as master. Let him prove himself to be a worker not by his title but by his work.
712 If up until now I have made myself understood, you ought to realise how through habits of bodily exercise and manual work I unconsciously give my pupil the taste for reflection and meditation in order to counteract in him the indolence which could result from his indifference to men's judgments and his freedom from passion. He must work like a peasant and think like a philosopher if he is not to be as idle as a savage. The great secret of education is to use the exercises of the body and those of the mind as relaxations of each other.
713 But beware of anticipating instructions which demand more maturity of mind. Emile will not be a workman for long before he feels for himself those social inequalities that he had at first only observed. He will want to question me in turn on the maxims I have given him, maxims he is able to understand. By receiving everything from me alone, in seeing himself so close to the condition of poor people, he will want to know why I am so far removed from it. Out of the blue he may ask me some scathing questions. "You are rich. You have told me so and I see it. A rich man owes his work to society because he is a man. But what are you doing for society?" What would a fine tutor say to that? I do not know. He would perhaps be foolish enough to talk to the child of the care he bestows upon him. As for me, the workshop will get me out of the difficulty. "My dear Emile that is a very good question; I will undertake to answer for myself at the time when you can yourself give an answer that satisfies you. Meanwhile I will take care to give what I can spare to you and to the poor, and to make a table or a bench every week so as not to be completely useless to everyone."
714 We have come back to ourselves. Here our child is ready to cease being a child and to return to his own individuality. Here he is feeling more than ever the necessity that attaches him to things. After having begun by exercising his body and his senses we have exercised his mind and his judgment. Finally we have joined together the use of his limbs and his faculties. We have made him an active and thinking being. In order to make him a man, it remains for us to make him a lovable and sensitive being, that is to perfect reason by sentiment. But before entering into that new order of things , let us glance back on the one we have just left and see as precisely as possible how far we have come.
715 At first our pupil had merely sensations, now he has ideas. He could only feel, now he judges. For from the comparison of many successive or simultaneous sensations and the judgment arrived at with regard to them, there springs a sort of mixed or complex sensation which I call an idea.
716 The way in which ideas are formed gives a character to the human mind. The mind which forms its ideas from real relations is a solid mind; the mind which contents itself with apparent relations is superficial. He who sees relations as they are has an exact mind; he who estimates them poorly has an inaccurate mind; he who concocts imaginary relations which have neither reality nor appearance is a madman; he who does not perceive any relation at all is an imbecile. The greater or lesser aptitude for comparing ideas and finding connections between them is that which gives to men more or less intelligence, etc.
717 Simple ideas consist merely of compared sensations. Simple sensations involve judgments, as do the complex sensations that I call simple ideas. In sensation, judgment is purely passive; it affirms that one feels what one feels. In perception or idea, judgment is active; it connects, compares, it determines relations not determined by the senses. That is the main difference, but it is great. Nature never deceives us; it is always we who deceive ourselves.
718 I see some one giving an ice-cream to an eight-year-old child. He brings the spoon to his mouth without knowing what it is and, struck by the cold, cries out, "Ah, it burns!" He experiences a sharp sensation; he knows no sensation sharper than the heat of fire and believes that that is what he feels. However, he is mistaken. Cold hurts, but it does not burn; and these two sensations are not the same, for those who have experienced both do not confuse them. So it is not the sensation that deceives him but the judgment he forms with regard to it.
719 It is just the same with those who see a mirror or some optical instrument for the first time, or enter a deep cellar in the depths of winter or at midsummer, or dip a very hot or cold hand into tepid water, or roll a little ball between two crossed fingers. If they are content to say what they really feel, their judgment, being purely passive, cannot go wrong; but when they judge according to appearances, their judgment is active; by induction it compares and establishes relations that are not really perceived. Then such people are deceived or can be deceived. In order to correct or prevent the error one needs experience.
720 Show your pupil the clouds at night passing between himself and the moon; he will think the moon is moving in the opposite direction and that the clouds are stationary. He will think this through a hasty induction because he generally sees small objects moving in relation to larger ones, and the clouds seem larger than the moon whose distance is beyond his reckoning. When he watches the shore from a moving boat he falls into the opposite mistake and thinks the earth is moving because he does not feel the motion of the boat and considers it along with the sea or river as one motionless whole, of which the shore, which appears to move, forms no part.
721 The first time a child sees a stick half immersed in water he thinks he sees a broken stick; the sensation is true and would not cease to be true even if he knew the reason of this appearance. So if you ask him what he sees, he replies, "A broken stick," for he is quite sure he is experiencing this sensation. But when deceived by his judgment he goes further and, after saying he sees a broken stick, he affirms that it really is broken he says what is not true. Why? Because he becomes active and judges no longer by observation but by induction; he affirms what he does not perceive, i.e., that the judgment he receives through one of his senses would be confirmed by another. Number 10 Number 100
722 Since all our errors arise in our judgment, it is clear that if we had no need for judgment we should not need to learn. We should never be liable to mistakes; we would be happier in our ignorance than we can be in our knowledge. Who can deny that those who are learned know a thousand true things that ignorant people will never know? Are the learned for thus any nearer truth? On the contrary, the further they progress the further away from it they get. Since the vanity of their judgment outpaces their enlightenment, each truth that they learn comes at the expense of a hundred false judgments. Every one knows that the learned societies of Europe are nothing but public schools for lying; and there are assuredly more errors in the Academy of Sciences than in a whole tribe of Huron Indians. Number 10 Number 100
723 Because the more men know the more they are mistaken, the only means of avoiding error is ignorance. Form no judgments and you will never be wrong. This is the lesson of nature as well as of reason. Outside of the small number of immediate and clearly perceptible things related to us, we naturally have a profound indifference to all the rest. A savage will not turn his head to watch the working of the finest machinery or all the wonders of electricity. "What does that matter to me?" is the saying most common to the ignorant and most convenient to the wise. Number 10 Number 100
724 But unluckily this phrase will no longer suit us. Everything matters to us since we are dependent on everything, and our curiosity naturally increases with our needs. This is why I attribute much curiosity to the philosophe and none to the savage. The latter needs no help from anyone; the former needs every one, especially admirers. Number 10 Number 100
725 You will tell me I am going beyond nature. I think not. She chooses her instruments and orders them, not according to opinion but to need. Now a man's needs change according to his circumstances. There is a great difference between a natural man living in a state of nature and a natural man living in society. Emile is no savage to be banished to the desert; he is a savage made to live in cities. He must know how to make his living there, how to make the best of its inhabitants, and how to live if not like them at least with them. Number 10 Number 100
726 Because in the midst of so many new relations that he will have to depend on it will be necessary inspite of himself for him to judge, teach him therefore how to judge well. Number 10 Number 100
727 The best way of learning to judge well is is the way that tends to simplify our experiences and even enable us to dispense with them altogether without falling into error. Hence it follows that after having for a long time verified the experience of one sense by that of another, we must still learn to verify each sense experience by itself. Then each of our sensations will become an idea, and this idea will always correspond to the truth. This is the sort of accomplishment with which I have tried to fill this third age of human life. Number 10 Number 100
728 This method of procedure demands a patience and circumspection of which few teachers are capable and without which the pupil will never learn to judge. If for example, when your pupil is mistaken by the appearance of the broken stick you rush to take the stick out of the water in order to show him his error, you may perhaps undeceive him; but what have you taught him? Nothing more than he would soon have learnt for himself. That is not what one must do!. It is less a question of teaching him a truth than of showing him how to set about discovering it for himself. To teach him better you must not be in such a hurry to correct his mistakes. Let us take Emile and myself as an illustration. Number 10 Number 100
729 To begin with, any child educated in the usual way could not fail to answer the second of my imaginary questions in the affirmative. He will say, "That is certainly a broken stick." I very much doubt whether Emile will give the same reply. Seeing no necessity for being a scholar or pretending to be one, he is never in a hurry to draw conclusions. He only judges on the basis of evidence and he is far from having it on this occasion. For he knows how much our judgements of appearances are subject to illusion, even if it is only a simple question of perspective. Number 10 Number 100
730 Moreover, since he knows by experience that my most frivolous questions always have some purpose that is not at first obvious, he has not developed the habit of answering blindly. On the contrary, he is on his guard. He pays attention; he examines things with great care before answering. He never gives me an answer unless he is satisfied with it himself, and he is hard to satisfy. Finally neither of us take any pride in merely knowing the truth of things but only in avoiding mistakes. We should be more ashamed to deceive ourselves with bad reasoning than to find no explanation at all. "I do not know" is a phrase that suits us both fine and that we repeat so often that it costs neither one of us anything to use it. But whether he gives the silly answer or whether he avoids it by our convenient phrase "I do not know," my answer is the same. Let us see, let us examine it. Number 10 Number 100
731 This stick immersed half way in the water is fixed in an upright position. To know if it is broken as it seems to be, how many things must be done before we take it out of the water or even touch it? 1 First we walk round it, and we see that the broken part follows us. So it is only our eye that changes it; looks do not make things move. 2 We look straight down on that end of the stick which is above the water. Then the stick is no longer bent, the end near our eye exactly hides the other end. Has our eye set the stick straight? 3 We stir the surface of the water; we see the stick break into several pieces, move in zigzags and follow the ripples of the water. Can the motion we gave the water suffice to break, soften. or melt the stick like this? 4 We make the water recede, and little by little we see the stick straightening itself as the water sinks. Is not this more than enough to enlighten us as to the fact and reveal refraction? So it is not true that our eyes deceive us, for nothing more has been required to correct the mistakes attributed to it. Number 10 Number 100
732 Suppose the child were stupid enough not to perceive the result of these experiments, then you must call touch to the help of sight. Instead of taking the stick out of the water, leave it where it is and let the child pass his hand along it from end to end; he will feel no angle, therefore the stick is not broken. Number 10 Number 100
733 You will tell me this is not mere judgment but formal reasoning. That is true; but do you not see that as soon as the mind has got any ideas at all, every judgment is a process of reasoning? The consciousness of all every sensation is a proposition, a judgement. Thus as soon as we compare one sensation with another, we are beginning to reason. The art of judging and the art of reasoning are exactly the same. Number 10 Number 100
734 Emile will never learn dioptrics unless he learns with this stick. He will not have dissected insects nor counted the spots on the sun; he will not know what you mean by a microscope or a telescope. Your doctrinaire pupils will laugh at his ignorance and will not be wrong, for before using these instruments I intend that he invent them, and you suspect that that will not happen very soon. Number 10 Number 100
735 This is the spirit of my whole method at this stage. If the child rolls a little ball between two crossed fingers and thinks he feels two balls, I shall not let him look until he is convinced there is only one. Number 10 Number 100
736 These explanations will suffice, I hope, to mark clearly the progress that the mind of my pupil has made up until now and the route followed by him. But perhaps you are astounded by the quantity of things that I have brought before him. You fear that I will overwhelm his mind with this multitude of knowledge. On the contrary, I am rather teaching him to be ignorant of things than to know them. I am showing him the path of science, easy indeed, but long, far-reaching and slow to follow. I am making him take the first steps so that he will recognize the entrance, but I do not allow him to go far. Number 10 Number 100
737 Forced to learn for himself, he uses his own reason not that of others. For in order for there to be nothing given to opinion there must be nothing given to authority, and most of our errors come much less from ourselves than from others. From this continual exercise should result a vigour of mind similar to that acquired by the body through work and fatigue. Another advantage is that one only advances in proportion to one's strength. Neither mind nor body carries more than it can bear. When the understanding appropriates things before depositing them in the memory, what is drawn from that store later on is his own. Otherwise one overcharges the memory without knowing it and is liable to drawing nothing suitable from it. Number 10 Number 100
738 Emile knows little, but what he knows is really his own. He knows nothing half-way. Among the small number things he knows and knows well the most important is that there is much that he is ignorant of and that he can some day know, even more that other men know and that he will never in his life know, and an infinite number of other things that no man will ever know. He has a universal mind not through knowledge but through the power of acquiring it. He is open-minded, intelligent, ready for anything, and, as Montaigne says, if not learned, capable of learning I am content if he knows the "Wherefore" of everything he does and the "Why" of everything he believes. Once more my object is not to give him science, but teach him to acquire it when needed, to make him to estimate exactly what it is worth, and to make him love truth above all. By this method progress is slow but we never make a useless step and we are never forced to go backwards. Number 10 Number 100
739 Emile's knowledge is confined to nature and things. He doesn't even know the name of history, nor what metaphysics and morals are. He knows the essential relations between men and things, but nothing of the moral relations between man and man. He knows little about how to generalize ideas, little about how to make abstractions. He perceives that certain qualities are common to certain things without reasoning about these qualities themselves. He is acquainted with the abstract idea of space by the help of his geometrical figures; he is acquainted with the abstract idea of quantity by the help of his algebraical symbols. These figures and signs are the supports on which these ideas may be said to rest, the supports on which his senses repose. He does not attempt to know things by their nature, but only by the relations that interest him. He only judges what is foreign to himself in relation to himself, but this estimation is exact and certain. Fantasy and conventions have no part in it. He values most the things which are of use to himself, and as he never departs from this standard of values, he owes nothing to opinion. Number 10 Number 100
740 Emile is hard-working, temperate, patient, steady, and full of courage. His unlit imagination never exaggerates danger; he feels few pains and knows how to suffer with firmness because he has not learnt to rebel against fate. As to death, he doesn't even know what it is; but accustomed to submit without resistance to the law of necessity, when it is necessary for him to die he will die without a groan and without a struggle. That is as much as we can demand of nature in that hour which we all abhor. To live freely and to give little weight to human things is the best way to learn how to die. Number 10 Number 100
741 In a word Emile has virtue in all that which relates to himself. To also have the social virtues he only needs to know the relations which make those virtues necessary. He only lacks a knowledge which he is quite ready to receive. Number 10 Number 100
742 He considers himself without regard to others and finds it good that others hardly think of him. He demands nothing from anyone and and believes that he owes nothing to anyone. He is alone in human society and he depends only on himself. He has more right than another to count on himself, for he is all that a boy can be at his age. He has no errors, or at least only has those that are inevitable. He has no vices, or only those from which no man can escape. He has a healthy body, supple limbs, a mind that is accurate and without prejudice, a heart is free and untroubled by passions. Amour-propre, the earliest and the most natural of passions, has scarcely shown itself. Without disturbing the peace of anyone, he has lived as contented, happy, and free as nature permits. Do you think that a child who has reached his fifteenth year in this condition has wasted the preceding ones? Number 10 Number 100
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743 How rapidly we pass through life on earth! The first quarter of life slips away before we know how to use it; the last quarter slips away after we have ceased to enjoy it. At first we do not know how to live; soon we are not able to live. In the interval between these two useless extremes three-quarters of the time left to us is consumed by sleep, work, pain, constraints, and every kind of suffering. Life is short, less because of the little time it lasts than because we have hardly any time to savor what little of it there is. In vain is the moment of death set apart from that of birth; life is always too short when this space is badly filled. Number 10 Number 100
744 We are born, so to speak, twice: once to exist, the other to live; one time for our species and another for our sex. Those who regard woman as an imperfect man are wrong without doubt, but the analogy based on externals supports them. Up to the age of puberty children of both sexes have nothing to distinguish them in appearance. They both have the same face, the same figure, the same complexion, the same voice -- everything is equal. Girls are children and boys are children; the same name suffices for beings so similar. Males whose later sexual development has been impeded preserve this resemblance all their lives; they are always big children; and women who never lose this resemblance seem in many ways never to be anything else. Number 10 Number 100
745 But man in general is not meant to remain always in childhood. He will leave it at the time prescribed by nature; and this moment of crisis, although very short, has long-term influences. Number 10 Number 100
746 Like the rumbling of the sea that precedes a storm from afar, so the murmur of rising passions announces this tumultuous revolution. A bubbling undercurrent warns of the approaching danger. Changes of temper, frequent outbreaks of anger, a continual agitation of the mind, make the child almost ungovernable. He becomes deaf to the voice that used to make him manageable; he is a lion in a fever. He disregards his guide; he wants no longer to be controlled. Number 10 Number 100
747 Along with the moral symptoms of a changing temper come perceptible changes in appearance. His face develops and takes on the stamp of his character; the soft and sparse down at the base of his cheeks becomes darker and takes on consistency. His voice changes, or rather he loses it altogether; he is neither a child nor a man and cannot take the tone of either. His eyes, those organs of the soul which have said nothing until now, find their own language and expression. A growing fire animates them. Their livelier glances still have a sacred innocence, but they no longer keep their earlier dumbness; he already feels that they can say too much. He begins to know how to lower them and blush. He is becoming sensitive before knowing that he feels; he is restless without reason. All this may come slowly and still give you time; but if his vivacity makes him too impatient, if outbursts change into fury, if he becomes angry then gentle from one moment to the next, if he weeps without cause, if in the presence of objects which are beginning to be a source of danger his pulse quickens and his eyes light up, if he trembles when a woman's hand touches his, if he is troubled or timid in her presence, 0 Ulysses, wise Ulysses! take care! The goatskin sacks you sealed with so much care are open; the winds are unloosed; do not leave the helm for a minute or all is lost. Number 10 Number 100
748 This is the second birth I spoke of. It is now that man is truly born to life and that nothing human is foreign to him. Until now our efforts have been child's play; it is only now that they take on a true importance. This period when ordinary educations end is just the time when ours ought to begin. But to explain this new plan properly, let us review from a distance the state of things that relate to it. Number 10 Number 100
749 Our passions are the principle means of our self-preservation; it is therefore an enterprise as vain as it is ridiculous to wish to destroy them. That would be to control nature, to wish to reform the work of God. If God told man to annihilate the passions he gives him, God would both will and not will; he would contradict himself. He has never given such an insane command; nothing like it is written on the human heart, and what God wants a man to do, he does not have it said by another man, he says it to him himself. He writes it in the bottom of his heart. Number 10 Number 100
750 Now I consider anyone who would prevent the birth of the passions almost as foolish as he who would like to annihilate them; and those who believe that this has been my project up until now have strongly misunderstood me. Number 10 Number 100
751 But would we be reasoning correctly, if from the fact that passions are natural to man, we went on to conclude that all of the passions we feel in ourselves and that we see in others are natural? Their source is natural, it is true; but they have been swollen by a thousand other streams; they are a great river that is constantly growing and in which one can scarcely find a few drops of the original stream. Our natural passions are very limited; they are the instruments of our liberty, they tend to preserve us. All those which subjugate and destroy us come to us from elsewhere. Nature does not give them to us; we appropriate them at her expense. Number 10 Number 100
752 The source of our passions, the origin and principle of all the others, the only one that is born with man and never leaves him as long as he lives, is amour de soi -- a passion that is primitive, innate, anterior to any other, and of which all the others are in a sense only modifications. In this sense, if you like, they are all natural. But most of these modifications have external causes without which they would never occur, and these same modifications, far from being advantageous to us, are harmful. They change the original purpose and work against their principle, Then it is that man finds himself outside nature and puts himself in contradiction with himself. Number 10 Number 100
753 Amour de soi-même is always good and always in accordance with order. Each of us being charged especially with our own preservation, the first and the most important of our cares is and ought to be to ceaselessly watch over it; and how can we continually watch over it, if we do not take the greatest interest in it? Number 10 Number 100
754 We must therefore love ourselves in order to preserve ourselves, and it follows directly from this same sentiment that we love that which preserves us. Every child clings to its nurse; Romulus must have clung to the she-wolf who suckled him. At first this attachment is purely mechanical. That which favors the well-being of an individual attracts him, that which harms him repells him; this is nothing but blind instinct. What transforms this instinct into feeling -- the attachment into love, the aversion into hatred -- is the manifested intention to help us or to harm us. We do not become passionately attached to insensitive objects that only follow the direction given them. But those from which we expect either good or evil from their internal disposition, from their will, those we see acting freely for or against us, inspire us with feelings similar to those they show towards us. Something does us good, we seek it out; but we love the person who does us good. Something harms us, and we shrink from it; but we hate the person who tries to hurt us. Number 10 Number 100
755 The child's first sentiment is to love himself, and the second, which derives from the first, is to love those around him. For in his present state of weakness he is aware of people only through the help and attention he receives from them. At first his affection for his nurse and his governess is mere habit. He seeks them because he needs them and because it feels good to have them; it is more like consciousness than benevolence. He needs a long time to understand that not only are they are useful to him but that they want to be useful to him. It is then that he begins to love them. Number 10 Number 100
756 So a child is naturally disposed to kindly feeling because he sees that every one about him is inclined to help him, and he gets from this observation the habit of a sentiment favorable to his species. But as he expands his relations, his needs, his active or passive dependencies, the feeling of his relations to others awakens and produces a feeling of duties and preferences. Then the child becomes imperious, jealous, deceitful, and vindictive. When he is coerced to obey, if he does not see the usefulness of what he is told to do, he attributes it to caprice, to an intention of tormenting him, and he rebels. When, on the other hand, people obey him, then as soon as anything opposes him he regards it as rebellion, as an intention to resist him; he beats the chair or table for disobeying him. Amour de soi, which concerns only ourselves, is content when our true needs are satisfied; but amour-propre, which makes comparisons, is never satisfied and never can be. For this sentiment, which prefers ourselves to others, requires also that others prefer us to themselves, which is impossible. This is how the gentle and affectionate passions are born from amour de soi, and how the hateful and irascible passions are born from amour propre. Thus what makes man essentially good is to have few needs and to compare himself little with others; what makes him essentially evil is to have many needs and to depend much on opinion. By this principle it is easy to see how one can direct to good or evil all the passions of children and of men. It is true that being unable to live always alone they will with difficulty always be good. This problem will by necessity even increase with their relations; and it is in this above all else that the dangers of society make art and care more indispensable in order to prevent in the human heart the depravity that is born with these new needs. Number 10 Number 100
757 The proper study for man is that of his relations. As long as he only knows himself through his physical being, he should study himself in relation with things. This is the occupation of his childhood. When he begins to feel his moral being, he should study himself in relation with men. This is the occupation of his entire life, to be begun at the point where we have now arrived. Number 10 Number 100
758 As soon as a man needs a companion he is no longer an isolated being; his heart is no longer alone. All his relations with his species, all the affections of his heart, come into being along with this. His first passion soon arouses the rest. Number 10 Number 100
759 The direction of the instinct is uncertain. One sex is attracted by the other; that is movement of nature. Choice, preferences, personal attachments, are the work of enlightenment, prejudice, and habit. Time and knowledge are necessary to make us capable of love; we do not love until after having judged or prefer until after having compared. These judgments happen without anyone being aware of them, but they are for that not less real. True love, whatever one may say about it, will always be honored by man. For although its transports lead us astray, although it does not exclude from the heart certain detestable qualities and even can give rise to them, yet it always presupposes certain estimable characteristics without which we would be incapable of feeling that love. This choice that people put in opposition to reason really springs from reason. We say love is blind because its eyes are better than ours, and it sees relations that we cannot perceive. For a person who had no idea of merit or of beauty all women would be equally good, and the first comer would always be the most lovable. Far from coming from nature, love is the rule and the curb of nature's leanings. It is love that makes one sex indifferent to the other, the loved one alone excepted. Number 10 Number 100
760 We wish to obtain the same preference that we grant; so love must be reciprocal. To be loved one must be lovable; to be preferred one must be more lovable than another -- more lovable than all the others, at least in the eyes of the beloved. Hence the first regards towards one's peers; hence the first comparisons with them; hence emulation, rivalry, and jealousy. A heart full of an overflowing sentiment loves to expand; from the need for a mistress there soon springs the need for a friend. He who feels how sweet it is to be loved desires to be loved by everyone; and there could be no preferences if there were not many disappointments. With love and friendship are born dissension, enmity, hatred. From the heart of so many passions I see opinion raising its unshakable throne, and foolish mortals, enslaved by its empire, base their very existence merely on what other people think. Number 10 Number 100
761 Extend these ideas and you will see where we get the form of amour-propre that we imagine is natural, and how amour de soi, ceasing to be an absolute sentiment, becomes pride in great minds, vanity in small ones, and in both ceaselessly feeds itself at the expense of one's neighbor. Passions of this kind have no seed in a child's heart and cannot spring up in it by themselves; it is we who carry them there, and they would never take root except through our own fault. But it is not so with the heart of a young man. Whatever we do such passions will appear in spite of us. It is therefore time to change our method. Number 10 Number 100
762 Let us begin with some important reflections on the critical stage under discussion. The passage from childhood to puberty is not so clearly determined by nature that it doesn't vary in individuals according temperament and in peoples according to climate. Everybody knows the differences which have been observed in this regard between hot and cold countries, and every one sees that ardent temperaments mature earlier than others. But we may be mistaken as to the causes, and we may often attribute to physical causes what is really due to moral: this is one of the commonest errors in the philosophy of our times. The teachings of nature come late and slow, those of men are almost always premature. In the first case, the senses awaken the imagination, in the second the imagination awakens the senses; it gives them a precocious activity which cannot fail to enervate, to weaken first the individual and, in the long run, the species. A more general and more sure observation than the one about the effect of the climates is that puberty and sexual power is always more precocious among educated and civilized peoples than among the ignorant and barbarous ones. Children have a singular capacity to discern immoral habits beneath the tricks of decency with which they are concealed. The purified speech dictated to them, the lessons in good behavior they are given, the veil of mystery people affect to hang before their eyes, are so many pricks to their curiosity. From the way you go about it, it is clear that they are meant to learn what you profess to conceal; and of all you teach them this is most quickly assimilated. Number 10 Number 100
763 Consult experience and you will understand to what point this insane method accelerates the work of nature and ruins the temperament. This is one of the principle causes of the degeneration of the race in our cities. The young people, prematurely exhausted, remain small, feeble, misshapen; they grow old instead of growing up -- like the vine that is forced to bear fruit in spring fades and dies before autumn. Number 10 Number 100
764 One must have lived among rude and simple people to know to what age a happy ignorance may prolong the innocence of children. It is a sight both touching and amusing to see both sexes, left to the protection of their own hearts, continuing the sports of childhood into the flower of youth and beauty and showing by their very familiarity the purity of their pleasures. When finally those lovable young people marry, they are mutually exchanging the first fruits of their person and thereby become all the more dear to each other. Multitudes of healthy robust children are the pledges of a union which nothing can alter and the products of the wisdom of their early years. Number 10 Number 100
765 If the age at which a man becomes conscious of his sex differs as much by the effects of education as by the action of nature, it follows that one may accelerate or delay this age according to the way in which one raises one's children; and if the body gains or loses consistency in proportion as one delays or accelerates this progress, it also follows that the more we try to delay it the stronger and more vigorous will the young man be. I am still speaking of purely physical effects; we will soon see that we are not limited to them. Number 10 Number 100
766 From these reflections I derive a solution to the question, so often discussed, of whether it is better to enlighten children early on as to the objects of their curiosity or to put them off with modest lies. I think that one need do neither. In the first place, this curiosity will not come to them unless one provides the occasion for it; we must therefore make sure not to provide the occasion for it. In the second place, questions one is not forced to answer do not require us to deceive those who ask them. It is better to impose silence than to answer by lying. He will not be greatly surprised by this law if you have already accustomed him to it in matters of no importance. Finally, if you decide to answer his questions, do it with the greatest simplicity -- without mystery, without embarrassment, without smiles. It is much less dangerous to satisfy a child's curiosity than to excite it. Number 10 Number 100
767 Your answers should always be grave, brief, decided, and without seeming to hesitate. I need not add that they should be true. We cannot teach children the danger of telling lies to men without realizing, on the man's part, the greater danger of telling lies to children. A single lie on the part of the teacher will forever ruin the fruit of his education. Number 10 Number 100
768 Complete ignorance with regard to certain matters is perhaps the best thing for children; but let them learn very early those things that are impossible to hide from them forever. Either their curiosity must never be aroused in any way, or it must be satisfied before the age when it becomes a source of danger. Your conduct towards your pupil in this respect depends greatly on his particular situation, the society which surrounds him, the circumstances you predict he may find himself in, etc. It is important here that nothing be left to chance; and if you are not sure of keeping him in ignorance about the difference between the sexes until he is sixteen, take care that he learns it before he is ten. Number 10 Number 100
769 I do not like people to affect a purified language in speaking with children, nor to make long detours in order to avoid giving things their true name. They are always found out if they do. Good manners in these things have much simplicity; but an imagination soiled by vice makes the ear over-sensitive and compels us to be constantly refining our expressions. Gross terms are without consequence; it is lascivious ideas which must be avoided. Number 10 Number 100
770 Although modesty is natural to man, children do not have it naturally. Modesty only begins with the knowledge of evil; and how should children who do not and should not have this knowledge have the sentiment which results from it? To give them lessons in modesty and good conduct is to teach them that there are things shameful and bad, and to give them a secret desire to know what these things are. Sooner or later they will find out, and the first spark which touches the imagination will certainly hasten the kindling of the senses. Anyone who blushes is already guilty; true innocence is ashamed of nothing. Number 10 Number 100
771 Children do not have the same desires as men; but subjected like them to the same improprieties which offend the senses, they may with regard to this one subjection receive the same lessons in decency. Follow the spirit of nature, which has located in the same place the organs of secret pleasures and those of disgusting needs. Nature teaches us the same precautions at different ages, sometimes by means of one idea and sometimes by another -- to the man through modesty, to the child through cleanliness. Number 10 Number 100
772 I can only find one good way of preserving the child's innocence; that is have all those who surround him respect and love it. Without this all our efforts to keep him in ignorance fail sooner or later. A smile, a wink, a careless gesture tell him all we sought to hide; it is enough to let him know that there is something we want to hide from him. The delicate phrases and expressions used by polite people among each other assume a knowledge which children ought not to possess and are inappropriate for them. But when we truly honor the child's simplicity we easily find in talking to him the simple phrases which are suitable. There is a certain naiveté of language that is suitable and pleasing to innocence; this is the right tone to adopt in order to distract the child from a dangerous curiosity. By speaking simply to him about everything you do not let him suspect there is anything left unsaid. By connecting coarse words with the unpleasant ideas which belong to them, you quench the first spark of imagination. You do not forbid the child to say these words or to form these ideas; but without him thinking about it you make recalling them repugnant to him. And how much confusion is spared to those who speaking from the heart always say the right thing, and say it as they themselves have felt it! Number 10 Number 100
773 "How are babies made?" -- an embarrassing question that occurs very naturally to children, and one which foolishly or wisely answered sometimes can determine their habits and their health for life. The quickest way for a mother to avoid it without deceiving her son is to impose silence on him. This would be fine if he has always been accustomed to it in matters of no importance and if he does not suspect some mystery from this new tone. But rarely does the mother stop there. "It is the married people's secret," she will say, "little boys should not be so curious." This is good for getting the mother out of an embarrassing situation, but she must know that the little boy, piqued by her scornful manner, will not have a moment's rest until he has found out the married people's secret, and he will not take long to learn it. Number 10 Number 100
774 Permit me to recount a very different answer which I heard given to the same question, one which struck me all the more coming as it did from a woman as modest in speech as in her manners, but who, when the need arose, was able to throw aside the false fear of blame and the vain jests of the foolish for the welfare of her child and for the cause of virtue. Not long before the child had passed a small stone in his urine which had torn the urethra, but the trouble was over and forgotten. "Mamma," said the eager child, "how are children made?" "My child," replied his mother without hesitation, "women piss them out with pains that sometimes cost them their life." Let fools laugh and silly people be scandalized; but let the wise inquire if it is possible to find a more judicious answer and one which would better serve its purpose. Number 10 Number 100
775 In the first place the thought of a natural and known need turns the child's thoughts away from the idea of a mysterious process. The accompanying ideas of pain and death cover it with a veil of sadness which deadens the imagination and suppresses curiosity; everything leads the mind to the results, not the causes, of child-birth. The infirmities of human nature, disgusting objects, images of suffering -- these are the elucidations that the response would lead to if the repugnance inspired by the answer allowed the child to inquire further. How could any agitation of the desires have the chance to develop in conversations directed in this way? And yet you see the truth has not been altered and that there is no need to deceive one's pupil in order to instruct him. Number 10 Number 100
776 Your children read; in the course of their reading they get knowledge they would never have if they had not read. If they study, their imagination is fired up and sharpened in the silence of the library. If they move in the world of society, they hear a strange jargon, they see examples of things that shock them. They have been so well persuaded that they are men, that in everything men do in their presence they immediately try to find how that will suit themselves; the actions of others must indeed serve as a model when the opinions of others are their law. Servants who are made to depend on them, and consequently are anxious to please them, court them at the expense of their morals. Giggling governesses make propositions to the four-year-old child which the most shameless woman would not dare to make when he is fifteen. They soon forget what they said, but the child has not forgotten what he heard. Loose conversation prepares the way for licentious conduct; the child is debauched by the cunning lacquey, and the secret of the one guarantees the secret of the other. Number 10 Number 100
777 The child brought up in accordance with his age is alone. He knows no attachment but that of habit. He loves his sister like his watch and his friend like his dog. He is unconscious of his sex and his species; men and women are alike unknown; he does not connect either what they say or what they do with himself; he neither sees nor hears, or he pays no attention to them. Their speeches do not interest him any more than their examples; all that is not made for him. This is no artificial error induced by our method, it is the ignorance of nature. The time will come when even nature will take care to enlighten her pupil, and only then does she make him capable of profiting without danger from the lessons that she gives him. This is our principle. The details of its rules are not my subject, and the means I propose with regard to other matters will still serve to illustrate this one. Number 10 Number 100
778 Do you wish to establish order and rule among the rising passions? Then prolong the period of their development, so that they may have time to find their proper place as they arise. Then it is not man who orders them but nature herself; your task is merely to leave it in her hands. If your pupil were alone, you would have nothing to do; but everything that surrounds him enflames his imagination. A flood of prejudices sweeps him along. In order to hold him back one must push him in the opposite direction. Feeling must enchain the imagination and reason must silence the opinion of men. The source of all the passions is sensibility; the imagination determines their course Every being that is aware of his relations must be affected when these relations change and when he imagines or believes he imagines others better adapted to his nature. It is the errors of the imagination which transform into vices the passions of all finite beings, even of angels, if indeed they have passions; for it would be necessary to know the nature of every creature to realize what relations are best adapted to oneself. Number 10 Number 100
779 This is the sum of human wisdom with regard to the use of the passions: 1: to feel the true relations of man both in the species and the individual; 2: to order all the affections in accordance with these relations. Number 10 Number 100
780 But can man master the ordering of his affections according to such and such relations? No doubt he can master the direction of his imagination on this or that object, or to form this or that habit. Moreover, it is less a question here what a man can do for himself than it is with what we can do for our pupil through our choice of the circumstances in which he shall be placed. To show the means by which he may be kept in the path of nature is to say enough about enough how one might stray from that path. Number 10 Number 100
781 So long as his consciousness is confined to himself there is no morality in his actions. It is only when it begins to extend beyond himself that he forms first the sentiments and then the ideas of good and bad, which make him truly a man and an integral part of his species. To begin with we must therefore confine our observations to this point. Number 10 Number 100
782 These observations are difficult to make, for we must reject the examples before our eyes, and seek out those in which the successive developments follow the order of nature. Number 10 Number 100
783 A sophisticated, polished, and civilized child, who is only awaiting the power to put into practice the precocious instruction he has received, is never mistaken with regard to the moment when this power is acquired. Far from awaiting it, he accelerates it. He stirs his blood to a premature ferment; he knows what should be the object of his desires long before those desires are experienced. It is not nature which stimulates him; it is he who forces nature. She has nothing to teach him by making him a man; he was a man in thought long before he was a man in reality. Number 10 Number 100
784 The true course of nature is slower and more gradual. Little by little the blood grows warmer, the faculties expand, the character is formed. The wise workman who directs the process is careful to perfect all these instruments before putting them to work. The first desires are preceded by a long period of unrest, they are deceived by a prolonged ignorance, they know not what they want. The blood ferments and becomes agitated; a superabundance of life seeks to extend itself outwards. The eye grows animated and surveys others; we begin to be interested in those around us; we begin to feel that we are not meant to live alone. Thus the heart opens itself to human affections and becomes capable of attachment. Number 10 Number 100
785 The first sentiment that the well-raised young man is susceptible to is not love but friendship. The first action of his rising imagination is to teach him that he has fellow human beings and that the species affects him before the sex. Here is another advantage of prolonged innocence: you may take advantage of his dawning sensibility to sow the first seeds of humanity in the heart of the young adolescent. This advantage is all the more precious because this is the only time in his life when such efforts may be truly successful. Number 10 Number 100
786 I have always observed that young men corrupted early on and given over to women and debauchery are inhuman and cruel. Their passionate temperament makes them impatient, vindictive, and angry. Their imagination fixes on one object only, and refuses all the rest; they know neither pity nor mercy; they would have sacrificed father, mother, the whole world, to the least of their pleasures. A young man, on the other hand, who is brought up in happy simplicity is drawn by the first stirrings of nature to the tender and affectionate passions. His compassionate heart is touched by the sufferings of his fellow-creatures; he trembles with delight when he meets his friend. His arms know how to embrace tenderly, his eyes know how to shed tears of tenderness. He is sensitive to the shame of displeasing and to the remorse of having offended. If the eager warmth of his blood makes him quick, hasty, and passionate, a moment later you see all his natural kindness of heart in the eagerness of his repentance; he weeps, he groans over the wound he has given, he wants to atone for the blood he has shed with his own. Faced with the sentiment of his wrong-doing, his anger dies away, his pride is humbled. Is he himself offended? In the height of his fury an excuse, a word, disarms him: he forgives the wrongs of others as wholeheartedly as he repairs his own. Adolescence is not the age of vengeance or of hate; it is the age of pity, forgiveness, and generosity. Yes, I maintain, and I am not afraid of the testimony of experience, that a youth of good birth, one who has preserved his innocence up to the age of twenty, is at this age the most generous, the best, the most loving and most lovable of men. You never heard such a thing; I can well believe it. Philosophers such as you, brought up among the corruption of the schools, are unaware of it. Number 10 Number 100
787 It is man's weakness that makes him sociable. It is our common sufferings that draw our hearts to humanity; we would owe nothing to mankind if we were not men. Every attachment is a sign of insufficiency. If each of us had no need of others, we should hardly think of associating with them. Thus from our very weakness is born our frail happiness. A truly happy being is a solitary being. God alone enjoys an absolute happiness; but which of us has any idea of it? If any imperfect being could be sufficient to itself, what according to us would he be able to enjoy? He would be alone, he would be miserable. I do not conceive how one who has no need of anything could love anything; I do not conceive how he who loves nothing could be happy. Number 10 Number 100
788 It follows from this that we are drawn towards our fellow beings less by the sentiment of their pleasures than by that of their pains; for there we see much better the identification of our nature and the guarantees of their affection for us. If our common needs unite us by interest, our common miseries unite us by affection. The sight of a happy man inspires in others less love than envy; one is ready to accuse him of usurping a right that he does not have, of creating for himself an exclusive happiness; and amour-propre suffers more by making us feel that this man has no need of us. But who does not feel sorry for the unhappy man who is seen suffering? Who would not wish to deliver him from his pains if it cost only a wish to do so? Imagination puts us into the place of the miserable man sooner than into the place of the happy man; we sense that former condition touches us more nearly than the latter. Pity is sweet because by putting ourselves in the place of one who suffers we nevertheless feel the pleasure of not suffering like him. Envy is bitter in that the sight of a happy man, far from putting the envious in his place, inspires him with regret that he is not there. The one seems to exempt us from the pains he suffers, the other seems to deprive us of the good things he enjoys. Number 10 Number 100
789 Do you wish to stimulate and nourish these first stirrings of awakening sensibility in the heart of a young man -- to turn his disposition towards beneficence and goodness? Then avoid planting the seeds of pride, vanity, and envy through the misleading picture of the happiness of men; do not show him to begin with the pomp of courts, the pride of palaces, the delights of spectacles; do not take him into society and into brilliant assemblies. Do not show him the externals of high society until after having put him in a condition to appreciate it on its own terms. To show him the world before he knows men is not to form him but to corrupt him; not to instruct him but to deceive him. Number 10 Number 100
790 By nature men are neither kings, nobles, courtiers, nor millionaires. All men are born naked and poor, all are subject to the miseries of life, its sorrows, its ills, its needs, its suffering of every kind; finally all are condemned to die. This is what man really is; this is what no mortal can escape. Begin then by studying that which is the most inseparable from human nature, that which best constitutes humanity. Number 10 Number 100
791 At sixteen the adolescent knows what it is to suffer, for he himself has suffered; but he hardly knows that others suffer too; to see it without feeling it is not to know it, and as I have said a hundred times the child who does not imagine what others feel knows no ills but his own. But when the first development of the senses lights the fire of imagination in him, he begins to feel himself in his fellows, to be touched by their cries and to suffer from their pains. It is then that the sorrowful picture of suffering humanity should bring to his heart the first feeling of tenderness he has ever experienced. Number 10 Number 100
792 If this moment is not easy to notice in your children, whose fault is that? You taught them early on to play at feeling, you taught them its language so soon that speaking continually with the same tone they turn your lessons against you and give you no chance of discovering when they cease to lie and when they begin to feel what they say. But look at my Emile. At the age I have led him up to, he has neither felt nor lied. Before knowing what it is to love he has never said, "I love you very much." He has never been prescribed what expression to assume when he enters the room of his father, his mother, or his sick tutor; he has not been shown the art of affecting a sadness he does not feel. He has never pretended to weep for the death of any one, for he does not know what it is to die. There is the same insensibility in his heart as in his manners. Indifferent, like every child, to everything outside of himself, he takes no interest in any one; the only thing that distinguishes him is that he will not pretend to take such an interest and that he is not false like they are. Number 10 Number 100
793 Having thought little about sensitive beings Emile will know late what suffering and dying are. Groans and cries will begin to stir his insides; the sight of blood flowing will make him turn away his eyes; the convulsions of a dying animal will cause him I know not what anguish, before he knows the source of these impulses. If he were still stupid and barbarous he would not have these sentiments; if he were more instructed he would recognize their source. He has compared ideas too frequently already to feel nothing but not enough to conceive of what he feels. Number 10 Number 100
794 Thus pity is born, the first relative sentiment that touches the human heart according to the order of nature. To become sensitive and compassionate, the child must know that there are beings similar to him who suffer what he has suffered, who feel the pains he has felt; and others which he can form some idea of as being capable of feeling these things also. In effect, how can we let ourselves be stirred by pity unless we go beyond ourselves and identify ourselves with the suffering animal? By leaving, so to speak, our own nature and taking his? We only suffer so far as we judge that he suffers; the suffering is not in us, it is in him that we suffer. So no one becomes sensitive till his imagination is aroused and begins to carry him outside himself. Number 10 Number 100
795 To stimulate and nourish this growing sensibility, to guide it or to follow its natural bent, what should we do if not present to the young man objects on which the expansive force of his heart may take effect -- objects which dilate it, which extend it to other beings, which make him find himself outside of himself -- and carefully remove everything that narrows, concentrates, and strengthens the power of the human self? That is to say, in other words, to arouse in him goodness, humanity, compassion, beneficence -- all the engaging and gentle passions which are naturally pleasing to man -- and to prevent the growth of envy, covetousness, hatred -- all the repulsive and cruel passions which make our sensibility not merely null but a negative quantity and are the torment of those who experience them. Number 10 Number 100
796 I think I can sum up all the preceding reflections in two or three definite, straightforward, and easy-to-understand maxims. First Maxim. -- It is not in the human heart to put ourselves in the place of those who are happier than ourselves, but only in the place of those who are the most to be pitied. Number 10 Number 100
797 If you find exceptions to this rule, they are more apparent than real. Thus we do not put ourselves in the place of the rich or great when we become fond of them; even when our affection is real, we only appropriate to ourselves a part of their welfare. Sometimes we love the rich man in the midst of misfortunes; but so long as he prospers he has no real friend except the man who is not deceived by appearances and who pities rather than envies him in spite of his prosperity. Number 10 Number 100
798 We are touched by the happiness of certain conditions of life -- for instance, pastoral or country life. The charm of seeing these good people happy is not poisoned by envy; we are genuinely interested in them. Why is this? Because we feel we are able to descend into this state of peace and innocence and enjoy the same happiness; it is an alternative that only gives us pleasant thoughts so long as the wish is as good as the deed. There is always pleasure in seeing one's own resources, in contemplating one's own wealth, even when we do not mean to spend it. Number 10 Number 100
799 From this, it follows that to incline a young man to humanity, instead of making him admire the brilliant fate of others you must show him the sad sides of things and make him fear them. Thus it becomes clear that he must mark out a route to happiness that does not follow the traces of anyone else. Second Maxim We never pity another's woes unless we know we may suffer in like manner ourselves. "Non ignara mali, miseris succurrere disco." -- Virgil. Number 10 Number 100
800 I know nothing so beautiful, so profound, so touching, so true as these lines. Number 10 Number 100
801 Why have kings no pity for their subjects? Because they never expect to be men. Why are the rich so hard on the poor? Because they have no fear of becoming poor. Why do the nobles look down upon the people? Because a nobleman will never be a commoner. Why are the Turks generally kinder and more hospitable than ourselves? Because under their wholly arbitrary system of government, the rank and wealth of individuals are always precarious and vacillating, so that they do not regard poverty and degradation as conditions foreign to them; to-morrow, any one may himself be in the same position as the one he assists is in today. This reflection, which occurs again and again in eastern romances, lends them a certain tenderness which is not to be found in our pretentious and harsh morality. Number 10 Number 100
802 So do not accustom your pupil to look down from the height of his glory upon the sufferings of the unfortunate, the labors of the wretched; and do not hope to teach him to pity them as long as he considers them to be foreign to him. Make him clearly understand that the fate of these unhappy persons may one day be his own, that all their ills are just below him, that a thousand unforeseen and inevitable events could make him fall to their level in a moment. Teach him to put no trust in birth, health, or riches; show him all the vicissitudes of fortune; find him examples all too frequent of people who from a condition much higher than his own have fallen below the condition of these unhappy creatures -- whether by their own fault or not is not our question now. Does he indeed know the meaning of the word fault? Never interfere with the order of knowledge and only enlighten him through the means within his reach. He needs to be no great scholar to perceive that all the prudence of mankind cannot make certain whether he will be alive or dead in an hour's time, whether before nightfall he will not be grinding his teeth in the pangs of nephritis, whether a month from now he will be rich or poor, whether in a year's time he may not be rowing an Algerian galley under the lash of the slave-driver. Above all do not teach him this coldly, like a catechism; let him see and feel human calamities. Shake up and startle his imagination with the perils that continually surrounded every man; let him see the abysses all about him, and when he hears you speak of them, let him cling more closely to you for fear lest he should fall. "You will make him timid and cowardly," you say. We will soon see; as for the present let us begin by making him human; above all that is what is important to us. Third Maxim The pity that we have for the pain of others is not measured by the quantity of this pain but by the sentiment we have for those who suffer it. Number 10 Number 100
803 We only pity a miserable person in so far as we think they feel the need of pity. The physical sentiment of our pains is more limited than one would suppose; it is memory that prolongs the pain, imagination which projects it into the future, that make us really to be pitied. This is, I think, one of the causes that makes us more callous to the pains of animals than to those of men, although a common sensibility ought to make us identify ourselves equally with them. We hardly pity the cart-horse in his shed, for we do not suppose that while he is eating his hay he is thinking of the blows he has received and the labors that await him. Neither do we pity the sheep grazing in the field, though we know it is about to be slaughtered, for we believe it knows nothing of its fate. Accordingly we also become hardened to the fate of men, and the rich console themselves for the harm they do to the poor by supposing them to be too stupid to feel anything. In general I judge of the value any one puts on the happiness of his fellow-beings by what he seems to think of them. It is natural to cheapen the happiness of the people one scorns. So do not be surprised that politicians speak of the people with so much scorn and that philosophes affect to make man so wicked. Number 10 Number 100
804 It is the people who compose the human race; those who are not of the people are so few in number that they are not worth counting. Man is the same in every condition of life. If that be so, the most numerous condition merits the most respect. For the thinking person, all civil distinctions disappear; he sees the same passions, the same sentiments, in both the vagrant and the celebrity. There is merely a slight difference in speech and more or less artificiality of tone; and if there is any essential difference that distinguishes them, it is to the detriment of the most dissembling. The people show themselves as they are, and they are not attractive; but the fashionable world is compelled to adopt a disguise. We would be horrified if we saw it as it really is. Number 10 Number 100
805 There is, so our sages tell us, the same amount of happiness and sorrow in every condition. This saying is as destructive as it is untenable; for if everyone were equally happy why would I need to trouble myself for anyone? Let every one stay where he is; let the slave be ill-treated, the sick man suffer, and the wretched perish; they have nothing to gain by any change in their condition. People enumerate the sorrows of the rich, and show the inanity of their vain pleasures. What gross sophistry! The rich man's sufferings do not come from his condition, but from himself who alone abuses it. Even if he is more unhappy than the poor man, he is not to be pitied, for his ills are of his own making, and it depends only on him to make himself happy. But the sufferings of the poor man come from external things, from the hardness of the fate that weighs upon him. There are no good habits that can relieve him of the physical ills of fatigue, exhaustion, and hunger. Neither a good mind nor wisdom can serve in any way to free him from the pains of his condition. What did Epictetus gain by predicting that his master would break his leg? Did he not do it anyway? Beyond the pain itself he had the pain of foresight. If the people were as sensible as we assume them to be stupid, what could they be other than what they are, what could they do other than what they do do? Study the people in this condition; you will see that, with a different way of speaking, they have as much intelligence and more common-sense than you. Have respect then for your species; remember that it consists essentially of the whole of the people, collectively; that if all the kings and all the philosophes were removed they would scarcely be missed, and things would go on none the worse. In a word, teach your pupil to love all men, even those who scorn them; act in such way that he does not put himself in any class, but finds himself in all. Speak to him of the human race with tenderness, and even with pity, but never with scorn. Man, do not dishonor man. Number 10 Number 100
806 It is by these ways and others like them-- very different from the beaten paths -- that we must enter the heart of the young adolescent in order to stimulate in him the first impulses of nature, to develop it and extend it to his fellow beings. To this I add that it is important to involve as little self-interest as possible in these impulses; above all, no vanity, no emulation, no boasting -- none of those sentiments which force us to compare ourselves with others. For such comparisons are never made without arousing some impression of hatred against those who dispute our preference, were it only in our own estimation. Then we would become either blind or angry, a bad man or a fool. Let us try to avoid this alternative. Sooner or later these dangerous passions will appear, I am told, in spite of us. I do not deny it. Each thing has its time and its place. I am only saying that we should not help to arouse these passions. Number 10 Number 100
807 This is the spirit of the method to be laid down. Here examples and illustrations are useless, for here we find the beginning of the nearly infinite differences of character, and every example I gave would possibly apply to only one case in a hundred thousand. This is the age also that the clever teacher begins his real business as an observer and as a philosopher who knows the art of probing the heart while working to reform it. Since it does not occur to the young man to disguise himself, and since he has not even learned its meaning, you can see by his manner, in his eyes, in his gestures, the impression he has received from any object presented to him. You read in his face every impulse of his heart. By watching his expression you learn to foresee his impulses and eventually to control them. Number 10 Number 100
808 It has been commonly observed that blood, wounds, cries and groans, the preparations for painful operations, and everything which directs the senses towards things connected with suffering, are usually the first to make an impression on all men. The idea of destruction, being more complex, does not strike one the same. The image of death affects us later and more feebly, for no one has had for himself the experience of dying; you must have seen corpses to feel the agonies of the dying. But when once this idea is well formed in our mind, there is no spectacle more horrible to our eyes, whether because of the idea of complete destruction which it arouses through our senses, or because knowing that this moment is inevitable for all men we feel ourselves more intensely affected by a situation from which we know there is no escape. Number 10 Number 100
809 These various impressions differ in manner and in degree according to the particular character of each individual and his former habits, but they are universal and no one is completely free from them. There are other later and less general impressions which are suited to more sensitive souls. These are those that we receive from moral pains, inward suffering, the afflictions of the mind, depression, and sadness. There are men who can be touched by nothing but groans and tears; the suppressed sobs of a heart laboring under sorrow would never draw a even a sigh from them; the sight of a down-cast visage, a pale and gloomy countenance, eyes which can weep no longer, would never make them weep themselves. The pains of the soul are nothing to them: they are analysed, but their own mind feels nothing. From such persons expect only inflexible severity, harshness, cruelty. They may be upright and just, but never merciful, generous, or pitying. I say they could be just, if a man can indeed be just without being merciful. Number 10 Number 100
810 But do not be in a hurry to judge young people by this standard, above all those who, having been educated the way they should be, have no idea of the moral sufferings they have never had to experience. For once again they can only pity the ills they know, and this apparent insensibility, which only comes from ignorance, is soon transformed into pity when they begin to feel that there are in human life a thousand ills of which they know nothing As for Emile, if he had simplicity and good sense in childhood, I am sure that he will have soul and sensitivity in his youth. For the truth of the sentiments depends to a great extent on the accuracy of the ideas. Number 10 Number 100
811 But why bring him to this? More than one reader will reproach me no doubt for forgetting my first resolutions and the lasting happiness I promised my pupil. The sorrowful, the dying, such sights of pain and misery -- what happiness, what delight is this for a young heart on the threshold of life? His gloomy tutor, who proposed to give him such a kindly education, only give him life so that he may suffer? This is what they will say, but what difference does it make to me? I promised to make him happy, not to make him seem happy. Is it my fault if, always deceived by appearances, you take them for the reality? Number 10 Number 100
812 Let us take two young men at the end of their primary education and entering the world by opposite doors. One climbs right away up to Mount Olympus and makes his way into the smartest society. He is presented at court, introduced to nobles, rich men, pretty women. I assume that he is entertained everywhere, and I will not examine the effect of this reception on his reason; I assume it can resist it. Pleasures fly before him, every day new objects amuse him; he flings himself into everything with an eagerness which carries you away. You find him attentive, eager, and curious; his first wonder makes a great impression on you; you think him happy; but look at the state of his heart; you think he is rejoicing, I think he suffers. Number 10 Number 100
813 What does he see when first he opens his eyes? Multitudes of so-called pleasures which he did not know before and most of which, being within his reach for only a moment only seem to come to him in order to make him regret being deprived of them. Is he walking through a palace? You see by his uneasy curiosity that he is asking why his father's house is not like it. Every question shows you that he is constantly comparing himself with the master of this house. And all the mortification arising from this comparison sharpens his vanity by revolting it. If he meets a young man better dressed than himself, I find him secretly complaining of his parents' stinginess. If he is better dressed than another, he suffers because the latter is his superior in birth or in intellect, and all his gold lace is put to shame by a plain cloth coat. If he shines unrivaled in some assembly, stands on tiptoe so that they may see him better, who is there who does not secretly desire to humble the pride and vanity of the young fop? Everybody soon unites as if in concert: the disquieting glances of a solemn man, the biting phrases of some satirical person, do not fail to reach him, and even if it were only one man who despised him, the scorn of that one would poison in a moment the applause of the rest. Number 10 Number 100
814 Let us grant him everything. Let us not grudge him charm and worth; let him be well-built, full of wit, and attractive. He will be sought after by women; but by pursuing him before he is in love with them, they will inspire rage rather than love. He will have successes, but neither rapture nor passion to enjoy them. Since his desires are always anticipated they never have time to grow; in the midst of pleasures he only feels the tedium of restraint. Even before he knows it he is disgusted and satiated with the sex formed to be his own delight ; if he continues to seek it is only through vanity, and even should he really become attached, he will not be the only young, brilliant, attractive young man, nor will he always find his mistresses to be prodigies of fidelity. Number 10 Number 100
815 I say nothing of the vexations, deceptions, crimes, and remorse of all kinds that are inseparable from such a life. Experience of the world makes one feel disgusted with it, as everyone knows. And I am speaking only of the drawbacks belonging to youthful illusions. Number 10 Number 100
816 What a contrast for the one who, sheltered up until now in the bosom of his family and friends and seeing himself the sole object of their care, suddenly enters an order of things where he counts for so little and finds himself drowning in an unknown sphere, he who has been so long the center of his own! What insults, what humiliation, must he endure, before he loses among strangers the ideas of his own importance -- ideas that were formed and nourished among his own people! As a child everything gave way to him, everyone flocked to him; as a young man he must give place to every one, or if he preserves his former airs even a little, what harsh lessons will bring him to himself! The habit of obtaining the objects of his desires easily leads him to desire many things and makes him feel continual privations. Everything that flatters him tempts him; everything that others have he wants to have. He covets everything, he envies every one, he wants to dominate everywhere. He is devoured by vanity. The heat of unbridled desires inflames his young heart, including jealousy and hatred. All these violent passions burst out at once. He carries their agitations with him into the busy world, they return with him at night, he comes home dissatisfied with himself and others, he falls asleep full of a thousand vain projects, troubled by a thousand fantasies. And even in his dreams his pride pictures those fleeting goods which torment his desire and which he will never in his life possess. There is your pupil; now let us see mine. Number 10 Number 100
817 If the first sight that strikes him is something sorrowful, his first return to himself is a feeling of pleasure. When he sees how many evils he has escaped he thinks he is happier than he thought he was. He shares the suffering of his fellow beings, but this sharing is voluntary and sweet. He enjoys at once the pity he feels for their ills and the joy of being exempt from them. He feels in himself that state of vigor which projects us beyond ourselves, and makes us transfer to others the superfluous activity of our well-being. To pity the ills of others we must indeed know them, but we need not feel them. When we have suffered or are in fear of suffering, we pity those who suffer; but when we suffer ourselves, we pity none but ourselves. But if all of us, being subject ourselves to the ills of life, only accord to others the sensibility we do not actually require for ourselves, it follows that pity must be a very pleasant feeling, since it disposes one to favor us; and, on the contrary, a hard-hearted man is always unhappy, since the state of his heart leaves him no superfluous sensibility that he can accord to the sufferings of others. Number 10 Number 100
818 We judge happiness too much by appearances. We assume it to be where it is least likely to be; we seek for it where it cannot possibly be. Cheerfulness is a very uncertain sign of its presence. A cheerful man is often an unhappy person who is trying to deceive others and distract himself. Those men who are so jovial, so open, so agreeable at their club, are almost all depressed and grumbling at home, and their servants have to pay for the entertainment they provide for the company. True contentment is neither cheerful nor frivolous. Jealous of so sweet a sentiment, while tasting it we savor it; we fear it will evaporate. A really happy man says little and laughs little; he hugs his happiness, so to speak, to his heart. Noisy games, wild joy, conceal aversion and boredom. But melancholy is the companion of sensuality: tenderness and tears accompany our sweetest joys, and excessive joy itself brings forth tears rather than laughter. Number 10 Number 100
819 If at first the number and variety of our amusements seem to contribute to our happiness, if at first the uniformity of a balanced life seems tedious, when we look at it more closely we find on the contrary that the sweetest habit of the soul consists in a moderate enjoyment, one that leaves little scope for desire and aversion. The restlessness of desire causes curiosity and fickleness; the emptiness of noisy pleasures causes boredom. We are never bored with our situation when we have no knowledge of a more pleasurable one. Of all the men in the world savages are the least curious and the least bored. Everything is indifferent to them. They get their pleasures not from things but from each other; they spend their life doing nothing and are never bored. Number 10 Number 100
820 The man of the world lives entirely inside a mask. Almost never being in himself he is always a stranger and ill at ease when he is forced to come back to himself. What he is is nothing; what he seems is everything for him. Number 10 Number 100
821 In the face of the young man I have just spoken of I cannot help picturing something impertinent, slick, and affected that is repulsive to people in general; and in the face of my own pupil a simple and interesting expression which indicates contentment, a true serenity of soul which inspires esteem and confidence and seems only to await an outreach of friendship to extend his own confidence in return. It is thought that physiognomy is only the simple development of certain features already marked out by nature. For my part I think that over and above this development a man's facial features are unconsciously formed by the frequent and habitual influence of certain affections of the soul. These affections appear on the face, there is nothing more certain; and when they become habitual, they must surely leave lasting impressions. This is why I think the expression shows the character, and that we can sometimes judge one another without seeking mysterious explanations in knowledge we do not possess.
822 A child has only two distinct feelings, joy and sorrow; he laughs or he cries; there is nothing in between, and he is constantly passing from one extreme to the other. On account of these perpetual changes there is no lasting impression on the face, and no expression. But when the child is older and more sensitive he is more intensely or more constantly affected, and these deeper impressions leave traces more difficult to erase; and the habitual state of the feelings has an effect on the features which time makes ineffaceable. Still it is not rare to see men whose expression changes at different ages. I have met with several, and I have always found that those whom I could observe and follow had also changed their habitual passions. This one observation thoroughly confirmed would seem to me decisive, and it is not out of place in a treatise on education, where it is a matter of importance that we should learn to judge the feelings of the soul by external signs.
823 I do not know whether my young man will be any the less lovable for not having learnt to copy conventional manners and to feign sentiments which are not his own; that does not concern me at present. I only know he will be more loving; and I find it difficult to believe that one who cares for nobody but himself can so far disguise his true feelings as to please others as readily as the one who finds in his affection for others a new feeling of happiness for himself. But with regard to this feeling of happiness, I think I have said enough already for the guidance of any sensible reader, and to show that I have not contradicted myself.
824 I return to my system, and I say: when the critical age approaches, present to young people spectacles which restrain rather than excite them. Put off their dawning imagination with objects which, far from inflaming their senses, repress their activity. Keep them away from great cities, where the flaunting attire and immodesty of the women hasten and anticipate the lessons of nature, where everything presents to their view pleasures which they should know nothing of until they can choose them for themselves. Bring them back to their early home, where rural simplicity allows the passions of their age to develop less rapidly. Or if their taste for the arts keeps them in the city, guard them by means of this very taste from a dangerous idleness. Choose carefully their company, their occupations, and their pleasures; show them only touching but modest pictures that move them without seducing them, that nourish their sensibility without stimulating their senses. Remember also, that the danger of excess is not confined to any one place, and that immoderate passions always do unavoidable harm. You need not make your pupil a sick-nurse or a brother of charity, or afflict his sight with continual objects of pain and suffering or take him from one hospital to another, from the gallows to the prison. He must be softened, not hardened, by the sight of human misery. Endlessly confronted by the same sights over and over again, we no longer feel their impressions; habit accustoms us to everything. What one has seen too much of one no longer imagines; and it is only through the imagination that we can feel the sorrows of others. It is by seeing so much death and suffering that priests and doctors become pitiless. Let your pupil therefore know something of the fate of man and the miseries of his fellow-beings, but let him not see them too often. A single thing, carefully selected and shown on the right day, will give him a month of tender feelings and reflection. It is not so much what he has seen as his reaction to what he has seen that will determine the judgment he makes of it; and the lasting impression that he could get from an object comes less even from the object itself than from the point of view with which he is drawn to recall it. Thus by a careful use of examples, lessons, and images, you may dull the prick of the senses and delay nature even while following her own directions.
825 As he acquires enlightenment, choose the ideas that relate to it. As his desires take fire, select scenes able to quench them. An old veteran, distinguished by his manners as well as for his courage, once told me that in early youth his father, a sensible but extremely pious man, seeing that his son's growing sensibility was attracting him to women, tried in every way to restrain him. But at last when in spite of all his care his son was about to escape from his control, the father decided to take him to a hospital for syphilis victims, and, without any warning, made him go into a ward where a number of wretched creatures were expiating with a terrible treatment the disorder which had brought them into this plight. His senses revolted by such a hideous sight, the young man almost became sick. "Miserable lech," said his father vehemently, "go follow your vile tastes; you will soon be only too glad to be admitted to this ward, and as a victim to the most shameful sufferings, you will compel your father to thank God when you are dead."
826 These few words, together with the moving picture that had struck the young man, made an impression on him that could never be erased. Compelled by his profession to pass his youth in army barracks, he preferred to face all the jests of his comrades rather than to share their debauchery. "I have been a man," he said to me, "I have had my weaknesses, but even to the present day the sight of a prostitute inspires me with horror." Teacher, few discourses; but learn to choose the places, times and people; then give all your lessons by examples, and be sure of their effect.
827 The way childhood is spent is no great matter. The evil which may slip in is not irremediable, and the good which may be done might come later. But it is not so in the first age in which man really begins to live. This age never lasts long enough for what there is to be done, and its importance demands unceasing attention; this is why I insist on the art of prolonging it. One of the best rules of good farming is to hold things back as much as possible. Make your progress slow and sure; prevent the adolescent from becoming a man until the moment when nothing remains for him to do to become one. While the body is growing the spirits destined to give vigor to the blood and strength to the muscles are in process of formation and elaboration. If you make them take another course and permit the strength which should have gone to the perfecting of one person to go to the making of another, both of them will remain in a state of weakness, and the work of nature will be imperfect. The workings of the mind, in their turn, are affected by this alteration, and the soul, as sickly as the body, functions languidly and feebly. Length and strength of limbs are not the same thing as courage or genius, and I grant that strength of mind does not always accompany strength of body, when the means of connection between the two are poorly ordered. But however well ordered they may be, they will always work feebly if for motive power they depend upon an exhausted, impoverished supply of blood, deprived of the substance which gives strength and elasticity to all the springs of the machinery. There is generally more vigor of soul to be found among men whose early years have been preserved from premature corruption than among those whose disorderly life has begun at the earliest opportunity; and this is no doubt one of the reasons why nations who have pure morals are generally superior in sense and courage to those who do not. The latter shine only through I know not what small and unimportant qualities, which they call wit, sagacity, cunning. But those great and noble features of wisdom and reason that distinguish and honor men by fine actions, by virtues, by really useful efforts, are scarcely to be found except among the nations whose morals are pure.
828 Teachers complain that the energy of this age makes their pupils unruly. I see that it is so, but are not they themselves at fault? When once they have let this energy flow through the channel of the senses, do they not realize that they cannot change its course? Will the long cold sermons of the pedant erase from the mind of his pupil the image of the pleasures he has known? Will they banish from his heart the desires that torment him? Will they chill the heat of a passion whose use he now knows? Will not the pupil be angered by the obstacles which stand in the way of the only kind of happiness of which he has any idea? And in the harsh law imposed upon him before he can understand it, will he see anything but the caprice and hatred of a man who is trying to torment him? Is it strange that he rebels and hates you in turn?
829 I know very well that if one is easy-going one may be tolerated, and one may maintain an apparent authority. But I fail to see the use of an authority over the pupil which is only maintained by fomenting the vices it ought to repress; it is like attempting to soothe a high-spirited horse by making it leap over a precipice.
830 Far from being an obstacle to education, this fire of adolescence is the means of its consummation and achievement. It is what gives you a hold on the young man's heart when he is no longer weaker than you. His first affections are the reins with which you direct his movements, He was free, and now I see him in your power. So long as he loved nothing, he only depended on himself and his own needs; as soon as he loves, he is dependent on his affections. Thus are formed the first ties that unite him to his species. When you direct his growing sensibility in this way, do not expect that it will at first include all men, and that the word "humankind" will have any meaning for him. No, this sensibility will at first be limited to those like himself, and these will not be people unknown to him but those with whom he has connections, those whom habit has made dear to him or necessary to him, those whom he sees having evidently the same manner of thinking and feeling as he does, those whom he sees exposed to the pains he has suffered and sensible to the pleasures he has enjoyed -- in a word, those in whom the identity of a more fully manifested nature gives a greater disposition to love themselves. It will only be after having cultivated his natural bent in a thousand ways, after many reflections on his own sentiments and on those he has observed in others that he will be able to arrive at generalizing his individual notions under the abstract idea of humanity and join to his own particular affections those that can identify him with his species.
831 When he becomes capable of affection, he becomes aware of the affection, and he is on the lookout for the signs of that affection. Do you not see what a new hold you are going to acquire over him? What chains have you bound about his heart before he even sees them! What will he feel, when turning his eyes upon himself he sees what you have done for him; when he can compare himself with other young people of his age, and other tutors with you? I say, "When he sees it," but be careful not to tell him of it; if you tell him he will not see it. If you claim his obedience in return for the care you have given him, he will think that you have preempted him. He will see that while you profess to have cared for him without reward, you meant to saddle him with a debt and to bind him to a bargain which he never made. In vain you will add that what you demand is for his own good; still you are demanding it, and you are demanding it by virtue of what you have done without his consent. When a man down on his luck accepts money from a stranger, and finds he has enlisted in the army without knowing it, you protest against the injustice. Is it not still more unjust to demand from your pupil the price of care which he has not even accepted?
832 Ingratitude would be rarer if kindness were less often the investment of a usurer. We love those who have done us a kindness; it is such a natural sentiment! Ingratitude is not to be found in the heart of man, but self-interest is there. There are fewer ungrateful beneficiaries than self-interested benefactors. If you sell me your gifts, I will haggle over the price; but if you pretend to give, in order to sell later on at your own price, you are guilty of fraud. It is the free gift which is beyond price. The heart is a law to itself; in wishing to bind it you lose it. By holding on to it one lets it free.
833 When the fisherman baits his line, the fish come round him without suspicion; but when they are caught on the hook concealed in the bait, they feel the line tighten and try to escape. Is the fisherman a benefactor? Is the fish ungrateful? Do we ever see a man forgotten by his benefactor forgetting him? On the contrary, he speaks about him with pleasure, he thinks of him only with tenderness. If he gets a chance of showing him by some unexpected service that he remembers what he did for him, how delighted he is to satisfy his gratitude! With what sweet joy he makes himself known to him! How delighted he is to say, "It is my turn now." This is truly the voice of nature; never did a true favor cause ingratitude.
834 If therefore recognition is a natural feeling, and you do not destroy its effects by your own fault, you may be sure that your pupil, as he begins to understand the value of your efforts, will be grateful for them provided you have not put a price upon them, and that they will give you an authority over his heart which nothing can overthrow. But before being assured of this advantage, be careful not to lose it by valuing yourself too much in front of him. Boast of your services and they will become intolerable; forget them and they will not be forgotten. Until the time comes to treat him as a man let it not be a question of what he owes you but what he owes to himself. To make him docile, let him have his liberty; hide yourself so that he may seek you; raise his soul to the noble sentiment of gratitude by only speaking of his own interest. I would not have him told that what was done was for his good before he was able to understand. In such a speech he would only see that your dependence on him and he would merely take you as his valet. But now that he is beginning to feel what it is to love, he also knows what a sweet tie may unite a man to what he loves; and in the zeal which keeps you constantly occupied with him, he now sees not the bonds of a slave but the affection of a friend. Indeed there is nothing which carries so much weight with the human heart as the voice of friendship recognized as such, for we know that it never speaks but for our good. We may think our friend is mistaken, but never that he wants to deceive us. Sometimes we may resist his advice, but we never scorn it.
835 We finally enter the moral order; we have just taken the second step towards manhood. If this were the place for it, I would try to show how from the first movements of the heart arise the first voices of conscience, and how from the sentiments of love and hatred spring the first notions of good and evil. I would show that justice and goodness are not merely abstract words, not pure moral beings formed by the understanding, but true affections of the heart enlightened by reason, and are only the natural outcome of our primitive affections; that by reason alone, independent of conscience, we cannot establish any natural law; and that all of natural right is merely a dream if it is not founded on a natural need of the human heart. But at this point I believe there is no need to make treatises on metaphysics and morals, nor courses of study of any kind. It is enough to indicate the order and progress of our sentiments and of our knowledge in relation to our constitution. Others will perhaps work out what I have only indicated here.
836 Having until now only regarded himself, the first regard that my Emile will cast on his fellow beings will cause him to compare himself with them; and the first sentiment that this comparison will stimulate in him is the desire to be first. Here is the point when amour de soi changes into amour-propre, and when all the passions that derive from it begin to be born. But to determine whether the passions which dominate his character will be humane and gentle or cruel and malicious, whether they shall be the passions of benevolence and compassion or those of envy and covetousness, we must know what he believes his place among men to be, and what sort of obstacles he expects to have to overcome in order to arrive at the place he would like to occupy.
837 To guide him in this inquiry, after we have shown him men by means of the accidents common to the species, it is necessary now to show him them by means of their differences. Now comes the assessment of natural and civil inequality and a picture of the whole social order.
838 One must study society by men and men by society. Those who desire to treat politics and morals separately will never understand anything of either of them. By focusing first on one's earliest relations, we see how men should be influenced by them and what passions should spring from them. We see that it is in proportion to the development of these passions that a man's relations with others expand or contract. It is less the strength of arms as moderation of spirit that makes men free and independent. Whoever desires few things is dependent on few men; but confusing always our vain desires with our physical needs, those who have made these needs the basis of human society are continually mistaking effects for causes, and they have only become lost in their own reasoning.
839 There is in the state of nature a real and indestructible de facto equality because it is impossible in this state that any single difference between man and man would be great enough to make one person dependent on another. There is in the civil state a vain and imaginary de jure equality because the means aimed at maintaining it themselves serve to destroy it -- and because in order to oppress the weak the public force, together with the force of the strongest, breaks the kind of equilibrium that nature put between them. From this first contradiction flow all the others noticed in the civil order between appearance and reality. Always the many will be sacrificed to the few, the public interest to the particular interest. Always those specious words of justice and subordination will serve as instruments of violence and the weapons of inequity. Hence it follows that the upper classes which claim to be useful to the rest are really only useful to themselves at the expense of others. From this we should judge how much consideration is due to them according to justice and according to reason. It remains to be seen whether the rank that these people have given themselves is favorable to those who hold it or not for us to know what opinion each one of us should bring with regard to his own fate. This is the study with which we are now concerned; but to do it well we must begin by knowing the human heart.
840 If it were only a question of showing young people man with his mask on there would be no need of showing, since he would always be before their eyes. But because the mask is not the man, and because they must not he seduced by surface qualities, when you depict men for your pupil, depict them as they are -- not that he may hate them, but that he may pity them and have no wish to he like them. This is, in my opinion, the most reasonable sentiment a man can hold with regard to his species.
841 With this object in view we must take the opposite route from that followed up until now and instruct the youth through the experience of others rather than through his own. If men deceive him he will hate them; but if, while respected by him, he sees them deceiving each other, he will pity them. "The spectacle of the world," said Pythagoras, "is like the Olympic games. Some treat it as a boutique and think only of their profits; others pay with their body and seek out glory; others are happy to be watching the games, and this last category is not the worst." Number 10 Number 100
842 I would have you so choose the company of a youth that he should think well of those who live with him, and I would have you so teach him to know the world that he should think ill of all that takes place in it. Let him know that man is naturally good; let him feel it, let him judge his neighbor by himself. But let him see how society corrupts and perverts men; let him find in their prejudices the source of all their vices; let him be moved to respect the individual, but to despise the multitude; let him see that all men wear nearly the same mask, but let him also know that there are faces more beautiful than the mask that conceals them. Number 10 Number 100
843 This method, it must be admitted, has its inconveniences and is not easy to put into practice. For if he becomes observant too soon, if you accustom him to spying too closely on the actions of others, you will make him spiteful and satirical, assertive and quick to judge others. He will take an odious pleasure in seeking out all kinds of sinister interpretations and will fail to see the good even in that which is really good. He will at the very least get used to the spectacle of vice and to seeing bad people without horror, just as we get used to seeing the poor without pity. Soon general perversity will serve less as a lesson than as an example. He will say to himself that if man is thus, he himself does not want to be otherwise. Number 10 Number 100
844 So if you wish to teach him by principles and make him know together with the nature of the human heart how external causes turn our inclinations into vices, by trying to lead him immediately from sense objects to intellectual objects you will be using a metaphysics that he is not in a position to understand. You will be falling back into the problem, so carefully avoided until now, of giving him lessons that resemble lessons, of substituting in his mind the experience and the authority of the master for his own experience and the development of his own reason. Number 10 Number 100
845 To remove these two obstacles at once and to bring the human heart within his reach without risk of spoiling his own, I would show him men from afar, in other times or in other places, so that he may see the scene without ever being able to act in it. This is the moment for history. With its help he will read the hearts of men without any lessons in philosophy; with its help he will view them as a mere spectator without self-interest and without passion, as their judge not as their accomplice or their accuser. Number 10 Number 100
846 To know men you must see them act. In society we hear them talk; they show their discourse and hide their deeds. But in history these actions are unveiled, and they are judged by the facts. Their sayings even help us to understand them. For by comparing what they say and what they do, we see both what they are and what they would like to appear to be. The more they disguise themselves the better one knows them. Number 10 Number 100
847 Unluckily this study has its dangers, its inconveniences of more than one kind. It is difficult to adopt a point of view that will enable one to judge one's fellow-beings with equity. One of the great vices of history is that it depicts many more men by their bad sides than by their good sides. Since it is only interesting because of revolutions and catastrophes, so long as a nation grows and prospers quietly in the tranquillity of a peaceful government, history says nothing. It only begins to take note when, no longer able to be self-sufficient, nations interfere with the affairs of their neighbors or allow their neighbors to interfere with them. History only makes them famous when they are on in decline. All our histories begin where they ought to end. We have very exact histories of nations that destroy themselves; what we lack is the history of those nations which are multiplying. They are so happy and so wise that history has nothing to tell us of them; and we see indeed in our own times that the governments that conduct themselves the best are least talked of. We thus only know what is bad; the good is scarcely mentioned. Only the wicked become famous, the good are forgotten or turned to ridicule; and thus history, like philosophy, is forever slandering mankind. Number 10 Number 100
848 Moreover, it is inevitable that the facts described in history do not give an exact picture of the same facts such as they happened. They are transformed in the head of the historian; they are molded by his interests and colored by his prejudices. Who is it who can place the reader exactly in a position to see the event as it really happened? Ignorance or partiality disguise everything. Without even altering an historical incident, by expanding or contracting the circumstances that relate to it, how many different faces one can give it! Put a single object in diverse points of view and it will hardly appear the same; and yet nothing will have changed but the eye of the spectator. Do you indeed do honor to truth when what you tell me is a genuine fact, but you make it appear something quite different? How many times has one tree more or less, a rock to the right or to the left, a cloud of dust raised by the wind, decided the outcome of a battle without any one knowing it? Does that prevent the historian from telling you the cause of defeat or victory with as much assurance as if he had been there? But of what importance are facts in themselves when the reason for them remains unknown to me, and what lessons can I draw from an event whose true cause is unknown to me? The historian gives me one, but he invents it; and criticism itself, of which we hear so much, is only the art of conjecture, the art of choosing from among several lies the one that best resembles the truth. Number 10 Number 100
849 Have you ever read Cleopatra or Cassandra or any books of the kind? The author selects a well-known event, then by adapting it to his own views, adorning it with details of his own invention, with people who never existed, and with imaginary portraits, he piles fiction on fiction to make the reading fun. I see little difference between such romances and your histories unless it is that the novelist draws more on his own imagination while the historian slavishly makes use of that of others. To this I would add, if I may, that the novelist has some moral purpose good or bad, about which the historian scarcely concerns himself. Number 10 Number 100
850 You will tell me that accuracy in history is of less interest than a true picture of men and manners. Provided the human heart is truly portrayed, it matters little that events should be accurately recorded. For after all, you say, what does it matter to us what happened two thousand years ago? You are right if the portraits are indeed truly rendered according to nature. But if most of them only have their model in the historian's imagination, are you not falling into the very problem you wanted to avoid, and surrendering to the authority of the historian what you would not yield to the authority of the teacher? If my pupil is merely to see fantasy pictures, I would rather draw them myself. They will, at least, be better suited to him. Number 10 Number 100
851 The worst historians for a youth are those who make judgments. Let us have facts and let him judge for himself. This is how he will learn to know men. If the judgement of the author ceaselessly guides him, he will only be made to see with the eye of another, and when he lacks this eye he will no longer see anything. Number 10 Number 100
852 I leave modern history on one side, not only because it has no character and all our men resemble each other, but because our historians, wholly taken up with their own brilliance, think of nothing but highly colored portraits, which often represent nothing. The old historians generally give fewer portraits and bring more intelligence and common-sense to their judgments. But even among them there is a large choice to make, and you must not begin with the wisest but with the simplest. I would not put Polybius or Sallust into the hands of a youth. Tacitus is the author of old men, young men cannot understand him. You must learn to see in human actions the most primitive traits of the human heart before wanting to sound its depths. You must be able to read facts clearly before you begin to study maxims. Philosophy in the form of maxims is only fit for the experienced. Youth should never generalize anything; all its instruction should be in particular rules. Number 10 Number 100
853 Thucydides is in my view the true model of historians. He reports facts without judging them; but he omits no circumstance that would enable us to judge for ourselves. He puts everything that he relates before his reader. Far from inserting himself between the facts and the readers, he conceals himself; we seem not to read but to see. Unfortunately he speaks always of war, and in his stories we only see the least instructive thing in the world, that is to say battles. The Retreat of the Ten Thousand and the Commentaries of Caesar have almost the same virtues and defects. The kindly Herodotus, without portraits, without maxims, yet flowing, simple, full of details calculated to delight and interest in the highest degree, would perhaps be the best historian if these very details did not often degenerate into childish simplicities, better adapted to spoil the taste of youth than to form it. We need discretion before we can read him. I say nothing of Livy; his turn will come, but he is a politician, a rhetorician, he is everything that is unsuitable for this age. Number 10 Number 100
854 History in general is lacking in that it only registers striking and clearly marked facts that may be fixed by names, places, and dates. But the slow evolution of these facts, which cannot be definitely noted in this way, still remains unknown. We often find in some battle lost or won the reason for a revolution that was inevitable before this battle took place. War only makes manifest events already determined by moral causes that historians rarely know how to see. Number 10 Number 100
855 The philosophic spirit has turned the thoughts of many of the writers of our times in this direction; but I doubt whether truth has profited from their labors. The rage for systems having taken hold of them all, no one seeks to see things as they are but only as they agree with his system. Number 10 Number 100
856 Add to all these considerations the fact that history shows us many more actions than men because it only seizes men at certain chosen times in full dress; it only portrays public man who arranges himself in order to be seen. History does not follow him to his home, to his study, among his family and his friends; it only shows depicts him when he represents something; it is his clothes rather than himself that it describes. Number 10 Number 100
857 I would prefer to begin the study of the human heart with reading the lives of individuals. For then even when the man tries to hide himself the historian follows him everywhere; he never leaves him a moment's relief nor any corner where he can escape the piercing eye of the spectator. And it is when he thinks he is concealing himself best that the writer makes him best known. "Those who write lives," says Montaigne, "in so far as they delight more in ideas than in events, more in that which comes from within than in that which comes from without, these are the writers I prefer; that is why Plutarch is the man for me." Number 10 Number 100
858 It is true that the genius of men in groups or nations is very different from the character of the individual man, and that we have a very imperfect knowledge of the human heart if we do not also examine it in crowds. But it is none the less true that one must begin studying man in order to judge men, and that he who knew perfectly the inclinations of each individual could foresee all their combined effects in the body of the people. Number 10 Number 100
859 We must go back again to the ancients for the reasons already stated, and also because all the details common and familiar, but true and characteristic, being banished by the modern style, men are dressed up by our modern authors as much in their private life as in the public world. Decency, no less strict in writing than in life, no longer permits us to say anything in public that we are not permitted to do in public; and since we can only show the man as representing something, we can know them no better from our books than we can from our theaters. The lives of kings may be written a hundred times in vain; we shall never have another Suetonius. Number 10 Number 100
860 The excellence of Plutarch consists in those very details that we are no longer permitted to describe. With inimitable grace he paints the great man in little things; and he is so fortunate in the choice of his traits that a word, a smile, a gesture, will often suffice to characterize his hero. With a jest Hannibal cheers his frightened soldiers and leads them laughing to the battle which conquers Italy; Agesilaus riding on a stick makes me love the conqueror of the great king; Caesar passing through a poor village and chatting with his friends unconsciously betrays the traitor who professed that he only wished to be Pompey's equal. Alexander swallows his medicine without a word -- it is the finest moment in his life; Aristides writes his own name on the shell and so justifies his title; Philopoemen, his mantle laid aside, chops firewood in the kitchen of his host. This is the true art of portraiture. Physiognomy does not show itself in large traits, nor character in grand actions; it is the small things that reveal what is natural. Public events are either too common or too artificial, and yet it is almost exclusively on them that today's authors, out of pride, are focused. Number 10 Number 100
861 M. de Turenne was undoubtedly one of the greatest men of the last century. They have had the courage to make his life interesting by the little details which make us know and love him; but how many details have they felt obliged to omit that might have made us know and love him even more? I will only quote one which I have on good authority, one which Plutarch would never have omitted, but one which Ramsai would not have taken care to write if he had known it. Number 10 Number 100
862 On a hot summer's day Viscount Turenne was standing near the window of his antichamber in a little white vest and nightcap. One of his men came up and, misled by the dress, took him for one of the kitchen boys whom he knew. He crept up behind him and not at all lightly gave him a great smack on the behind. The man he struck turned around immediately. The valet saw it was his master and trembled at the sight of his face. He fell on his knees in desperation. "Sir, I thought it was George." "Well, even if it was George," exclaimed Turenne rubbing the injured part, "you need not have struck so hard." You do not dare to say this, you miserable writers! Remain for ever without humanity and without feeling; steel your hard hearts in your vile propriety, make yourselves contemptible through your high-mindedness. But as for you, dear youth, when you read this anecdote, when you are touched by all the kindliness displayed even on the impulse of the moment, read also the meanness of this great man when it was a question of his name and birth. Remember it was this very Tur enne who always professed to yield precedence to his nephew so that all men might see that this child was the head of a royal house. Look on this picture and on that one; love nature, despise popular prejudice, and know the man as he was. Number 10 Number 100
863 There are few people able to realize what an effect such reading, carefully directed, will have upon the unspoiled mind of a youth. Weighed down by books from our earliest childhood, accustomed to read without thinking, what we read strikes us even less because we already carry in ourselves the passions and prejudices with which history and the lives of men are filled. All that they do strikes us as only natural, for we ourselves are unnatural and we judge others by ourselves. But let us represent a young man raised according to my maxims. Imagine my Emile, who has been carefully guarded for eighteen years with the sole object of preserving a right judgment and a healthy heart; imagine him when the curtain goes up casting his eyes for the first time upon the world's stage; or rather picture him behind the scenes watching the actors don their costumes and counting the cords and pulleys whose gross prestige deceives the eyes of the spectators. His first surprise will soon give way to feelings of shame and scorn for his species; he will be indignant at the sight of the whole human race duping itself and stooping to this childish play. He will grieve to see his brothers tearing each other apart for a mere dream and transforming themselves into ferocious beasts because they could not be content to be men. Number 10 Number 100
864 Given the natural disposition of the pupil, as little as the teacher may bring of prudence and of choice in his readings, as little as he puts the pupil on the path towards the reflections that he ought to draw from them, this exercise will be for him a course in practical philosophy, surely better and more clearly understood than all the vain speculations with which we muddle the minds of our young people in our schools. After hearing about the romantic plans of Pyrrhus, Cineas asks him what real good the conquest of the world would gain him that he couldn not enjoy in the present without such great sufferings. This only arouses in us a passing interest as a smart saying. But Emile will think it a very wise thought, one which had already occurred to himself, and one which he will never forget because there is no hostile prejudice in his mind to prevent it sinking in. When he reads more of the life of this madman, he will find that all his great plans resulted in his death at the hands of a woman, and instead of admiring this pretended heroism, what will he see in the exploits of this great captain and the schemes of this great statesman but so many steps towards that unlucky tile which was to bring life and schemes alike to a shameful death? Number 10 Number 100
865 All conquerors have not been killed; all usurpers have not failed in their plans. To minds imbued with vulgar prejudices many of them will seem happy. But he who looks below the surface and reckons men's happiness by the condition of their hearts will perceive their wretchedness even in the midst of their successes. He will see them panting after advancement and never attaining their prize; he will find them like those inexperienced travelers among the Alps, who think that every height they see is the last, who reach its summit only to find to their disappointment there are loftier peaks beyond. Number 10 Number 100
866 Augustus, when he had subdued his fellow-citizens and destroyed his rivals, reigned for forty years over the greatest empire that ever existed. But all this vast power could not hinder him from beating his head against the walls and filling his palace with his groans as he cried to Varus to restore his slaughtered legions. If he had conquered all his foes what good would his empty triumphs have done him, when troubles of every kind beset his path, when his life was threatened by his dearest friends, and when he had to mourn the disgrace or death of all near and dear to him? The wretched man desired to rule the world and failed to rule his own household. What was the result of this neglect? He beheld his nephew, his adopted child, his son-in-law, perish in the flower of youth and his grandson reduced to eat the stuffing of his mattress to prolong his wretched existence for a few hours. His daughter and his grand-daughter, after they had covered him with infamy, both died -- one of hunger and want on a desert island, the other in prison by the hand of a common archer. He himself, the last survivor of his unhappy house, found himself compelled by his own wife to acknowledge a monster as his heir. Such was the fate of the master of the world, so famous for his glory and his good fortune. I cannot believe that any one of those who admire his glory and fortune would accept them at the same price. Number 10 Number 100
867 I have taken ambition as my example, but the play of every human passion offers similar lessons to any one who will study history to make himself wise and good at the expense of those who are now dead. The time is drawing near when the teaching of the life of Antony will appeal more forcibly to the youth than the life of Augustus. Emile will scarcely know where he is among the many strange sights in his new studies; but he will know beforehand how to avoid the illusion of passions before they arise, and seeing how in all ages they have blinded men's eyes, he will be forewarned of the way in which they may one day blind his own should he abandon himself to them. These lessons, I know, are difficult to adapt to him; perhaps when needed they may be too late and insufficient. But remember they are not the lessons I wished to draw from this study. By beginning it I had another aim; and surely, if this purpose is unfulfilled, the teacher is to blame. Number 10 Number 100
868 Remember that as soon as amour-propre has developed the relative self is ceaselessly put into play, and the young man never observes others without coming back to himself and comparing himself with them. It is therefore a question of knowing what ranking he will give himself among his peers after having examined them. I see from the manner in which young men are taught to study history that they are transformed, so to speak, into the people they see, that you strive to make them become a Cicero, a Trajan, or an Alexander of them in order to dishearten them when they return to themselves, to make each of them regret that he is merely himself. There are certain advantages in this plan which I do not deny; but, so far as Emile is concerned, if it happens at any time when he is making these comparisons that he wishes to be any one but himself--were it Socrates or Cato -- all is lost. He who begins to regard himself as a stranger will soon forget himself altogether. Number 10 Number 100
869 It is not philosophers who know most about men. They only view them through the prejudices of philosophy, and I know no one so prejudiced as philosophers. A savage would judge us more sanely than a philosopher. The philosopher is aware of his own vices, he is indignant at ours, and he says to himself, "We are all evil." The savage looks at us without being moved and says, "You are mad." He is right, for no one does evil for evil's sake. My pupil is that savage, with this difference: Emile has thought more, he has compared ideas, seen our errors from up close, he is more on his guard against himself, and only judges of what he knows. Number 10 Number 100
870 It is our own passions that set us against the passions of others; it is our self-interest that makes us hate the wicked. If they did us no harm we would feel more pity for them than hate. The harm that they do to us makes us forget what they do to themselves. We would readily forgive their vices if we could perceive how their own heart punishes those vices. We feel the offence, but we do not see the punishment; the advantages are plain, the penalty is hidden. He who thinks he is enjoying the fruits of his vices is no less tormented by them than if they had not been successful; the object is different, the anxiety is the same. In vain he displays his good fortune and hides his heart. In spite of them his conduct betrays him. But to see this, our own heart must not ressemble his. Number 10 Number 100
871 The passions that we share seduce us, those that challenge our self-interest revolt us, and with a lack of logic due to these very passions we blame in others what we would like to imitate. Aversion and illusion are inevitable when we are forced to endure at another's hands what we ourselves would do in his place. Number 10 Number 100
872 What then is necessary in order to observe men well? A great interest in knowing them, a great impartiality of judging them, a heart sensitive enough to conceive of every human passion and calm enough not to experience them. If there is any time in our life a favorable moment for this study, it is this one that I have chosen for Emile. Before now men would have been strangers to him; later on he would have been like them. Opinion, the effects of which he already perceives, has not yet acquired an empire over him; the passions, whose consequences he realizes, have not yet agitated his heart. He is a man. He takes an interest in his brothers; he is equitable and he judges his peers. Now it is certain that if he judges them rightly he will not want to be in the position of any one of them. For the goal of all the torments they give themselves being based on prejudices that he does not share, such a goal seems to him a mere dream. For him, everything he wants is within his reach. How should he be dependent on any one when he is self-sufficent and free of prejudice? He has strong arms, good health, moderation, few needs, and the means to satisfy those needs. Brought up in the most absolute liberty, the greatest wrong he can conceive of is servitude. He pities those miserable kings who are the slaves of all who obey them; he pities those false prophets fettered by their empty fame; he pities those rich fools, martyrs to their own pomp; he pities those ostentatious voluptuaries, who spend their entire life in boredom so that they may appear to have its pleasures. He would pity the enemy who harmed him, for in his wrongdoing he would see his misery. He would say to himself, "By giving himself the need to hurt me, this man has made his fate dependent on mine." Number 10 Number 100
873 One step more and we reach our goal. Amour-propre is a useful tool though a dangerous one. It often wounds the hand that uses it, and it rarely does good without doing evil. When Emile considers his place among men, when he finds himself so fortunately situated, he will he tempted to give credit to his own reason for the work of yours, and to attribute to his own merits the effects of his happiness. He will say to himself, "I am wise and other men are fools." By pitying them he will despise them, by congratulating himself he will estime himself all the more, and by feeling himself happier than they, he will believe himself more worthy of being so. This is the fault we have most to fear, for it is the most difficult to eradicate. If he remained in this state of mind, he would have profited little by all our care; and if I had to choose, I hardly know whether I would not rather choose the illusions of prejudice than those of pride. Number 10 Number 100
874 Great men are under no illusion with respect to their superiority. They see it and know it, but they are none the less modest. The more they have, the better they know what they lack. They are less vain about their superiority over us than ashamed by the consciousness of their weakness; and among the good things they really possess they are too wise to pride themselves on a gift which is none of their getting. The good man may be proud of his virtue for it is his own, but what cause for pride has the man of intellect? What has Racine done that he is not Pradon, and Boileau that he is not Cotin? Number 10 Number 100
875 Here it is something very different. Let us remain in the common order. I assumed that my pupil had neither transcendent genius nor a limited understanding. I chose him of an ordinary mind to show what education could do for man. Exceptions defy all rules. If, therefore, as a result of my care, Emile prefers his way of living, seeing, and feeling to that of others, he is right; but if he thinks because of this that he is nobler and better born than they, he is wrong; he is deceiving himself. He must he undeceived, or rather let us prevent the mistake, lest it be too late to correct it Number 10 Number 100
876 Provided a man is not mad, he can be cured of any folly but vanity. There is no cure for this but experience, if indeed there is any cure for it at all. When it first appears we can at least prevent its further growth. But do not therefore waste your breath on empty arguments to prove to the adolescent that he is like other men and subject to the same weaknesses. Make him feel it or he will never know it. This is another instance of an exception to my own rules. I must voluntarily expose my pupil to every accident which may convince him that he is no wiser than we. The adventure with the magician will he repeated again and again in different ways. I shall let flatterers take advantage of him; if some daredevils draw him into a perilous adventure, I will let him run the risk; if he falls into the hands of gamblers at a card-table, I will abandon him to them to make as their dupe. Note 9]I will let them flatter him, pluck him, and rob him; and when having sucked him dry they turn and mock him, I will even thank them to his face for the lessons they have been good enough to give him. The only snares from which I will guard him with my utmost care are the wiles of courtesans. The only precaution I shall take will be to share all the dangers I let him run, and all the insults I let him receive. I will bear everything in silence, without a murmur or reproach, without a word to him, and be sure that if this wise conduct is faithfully adhered to, what he sees me endure on his account will make more impression on his heart than what he suffers himself. Number 10 Number 100
877 Here I cannot prevent myself from mentioning the false dignity of tutors who, in order to play at being wise, discourage their pupils by affecting to treat them as children and by emphasizing the difference between themselves and their scholars in everything they do. Far from damping their youthful spirits in this fashion, you should spare no effort to elevate their soul. Make them your equals so that they may become so, and if they cannot rise to your level, come down to theirs without shame or scruple. Remember that your honour is no longer in yourself but in your pupil. Share his faults in order to correct them, bear his shame in order to erase it. Imitate that brave Roman who seeing his army flee and being unable to rally them, placed himself at their head, exclaiming, " They do not flee, they follow their captain!" Did this dishonor him? Not so. By sacrificing his glory he increased it. The power of duty, the beauty of virtue, compel our respect in spite of all our foolish prejudices. If I received a blow while fulfilling my duties to Emile, far from avenging it I would boast of it; and I doubt whether there is in the world a man so vile as to not respect me more for it. Number 10 Number 100
878 It is not that the pupil should suppose his master to have as limited an understanding as his own or to be as liable to be seduced. This idea is all very well for a child who can neither see nor compare things, who thinks everything is within his reach, and only puts his confidence only in those who know how to come down to his level. But a young man of Emile's age and as sensible as he is is no longer so stupid as to make this mistake, and it would not be desirable that he should. The confidence he ought to have in his tutor is of another kind. It should rest on the authority of reason and on superior understanding, on the advantages that the young man is capable of appreciating while he perceives how useful they are to himself. Long experience has convinced him that he is loved by, that this tutor is a wise and good man who desires his happiness and knows how to procure it. He ought to know that it is to his own advantage to listen to his advice. But if the master lets himself be taken in like the disciple, he will lose his right to expect deference from him and to give him instruction. Still less should the pupil suppose that his master is purposely letting him fall into traps or preparing pitfalls for his inexperience. How can we avoid these two difficulties? Choose the best and most natural means; be simple and true like him; warn him of the perils to which he is exposed, show them to him clearly and sensibly but without exaggeration, without ill humor, without pedantic display, and above all without giving your opinions in the form of orders until they have become such and until this imperious tone is absolutely necessary. And if he is still obstinate after this, as he often will be? Then say nothing more to him, leave him in liberty, follow him, imitate him, cheerfully and frankly. Let yourself go, have as much fun as him if this is possible. If the consequences become too serious, you are always there to prevent them. And yet when this young man has witnessed your foresight and your kindliness, will he not be at once struck by the one and touched by the other? All his faults are but so many bands with which he himself provides you to restrain him when needed. Now what makes for the greatest art of the teacher consists in controlling circumstances and directing his exhortations so that he may know beforehand when the young man will give in and when he will refuse to do so, in order to surround him with the lessons of experience, and yet never expose him to to grade dangers. Number 10 Number 100
879 Warn him of his faults before he commits them; do not blame him when once they are committed; you would only stir his self-love to mutiny. We learn nothing from a lesson we detest. I know nothing more foolish than the phrase, "I told you so." The best way to make him remember what you told him is to seem to have forgotten it. Go further than this, and when you find him ashamed of having refused to believe you, gently smooth away the humiliation with kind words. He will surely feel affection when he sees how you forget yourself for his sake and that in stead of putting him down you console him. But if to his chagrin you add your reproaches, he will hate you, and will make it a rule never to listen to you, as if to prove that he does not agree with you as to the value of your opinion. Number 10 Number 100
880 The turn you give to your consolation may itself be a lesson to him, all the more useful because he does not suspect it. When you tell him, for example, that a thousand other people have made the same mistakes, this is not what he was expecting. You are correcting him by only seeming to pity him. For when one thinks oneself better than other people it is a very mortifying excuse to console oneself by their example. It means that we must realize that the most we can say is that they are no better than we. Number 10 Number 100
881 The time of faults is the time for fables. When we blame the guilty under the cover of a story we instruct without offending him; and he then understands that the story is not untrue by means of the truth he finds in its application to himself. The child who has never been deceived by flattery understands nothing of the fable I recently examined; but the rash youth who has just become the dupe of a flatterer perceives only too readily that the crow was a fool. Thus he acquires a maxim from the fact, and the experience he would soon have forgotten is engraved on his mind by means of the fable. There is no knowledge of morals which cannot be acquired through our own experience or that of others. When there is danger, instead of letting him try the experiment himself, we have recourse to history. When the risk is comparatively slight, it is just as well that the young man should be exposed to it. Then by means of the apologue one can transpose into maxims the special cases with which the young man is now acquainted. Number 10 Number 100
882 I do not mean, however, that these maxims should be explained, nor even formulated. Nothing is so foolish and unwise as the moral at the end of most of the fables -- as if the moral was not, or ought not to be so clear in the fable itself that the reader cannot fail to perceive it. Why then add the moral at the end, and so deprive him of the pleasure of discovering it for himself. The art of teaching consists in making the pupil enjoy learning. But in order to enjoy it, his mind must not remain so passive to everything you tell him that he has nothing for him to do in order to understand you. The teacher's amour-propre must always leave some space for the pupil's; he must be able to say, I understand, I see it, I am getting at it, I am instructing myself. One of the things which makes the Patontaloon in the Italian comedies so wearisome is the pains taken by him to explain to the audience the platitudes they understand only too well already. It is necessary to make oneself understood, but it is not always necessary to say everything. He who says all says little, for at the end no one will be listening to him. What is the sense of the four lines at the end of La Fontaine's fable of the frog who puffed herself up. Is he afraid we should not understand it? Does this great painter need to write the names beneath the things he has painted? His morals, far from generalizing, restrict the lesson to some extent to the examples given, and prevent our applying them to others. Before I put the fables of this inimitable author into the hands of a youth, I should like to cut out all the conclusions with which he strives to explain what he has just said so clearly and pleasantly. If your pupil does not understand the fable without the explanation, he will not understand it with it. Number 10 Number 100
883 Moreover, the fables would require to be arranged in a more didactic order, one more in agreement with the feelings and knowledge of the young adolescent. Can you imagine anything so foolish as to follow the mere numerical order of the book without regard to our requirements or our opportunities? First the grasshopper, then the crow, then the frog, then the two mules, etc. I am sick of these two mules; I remember seeing a child who was being trained to be a financier (and whom they were dazzling with the role he was going to play) read this fable, learn it, say it, repeat it again and again without finding in it the slightest objection to the profession to which he was destined. Not only have I never found children make any real use of the fables they learn, but I have never found anybody who took the trouble to see that they made such a use of them. The pretext for this form of study is moral instruction; but the real aim of mother and child is nothing but to get all the company together to watch the child while he recites his fables. When he is too old to recite them and old enough to make use of them, they are altogether forgotten. Only men, I repeat, can learn from fables, and Emile is now old enough to begin. Number 10 Number 100
884 I show you from afar -- for I do not want to tell you everything -- the paths which diverge from the right way so that you may learn how to avoid them. I believe that in following the road I have marked out your pupil will buy his knowledge of mankind and his knowledge of himself in the best possible market. You will bring him to the point of contemplating the tricks of fortune without envying the fate of her favorites and to be content with himself without thinking himself better than others. You have begun by making him an actor that he may learn to be a spectator. This task must be completed; for from the theatre's pit one sees objects the way they seem, but from the stage one sees them as they are. To embrace the whole you need perspective; you must come up close to see the details. But how can a young man take part in the business of life? What right has he to be initiated into its dark secrets? His interests are confined within the limits of his own pleasures, he has no power over others, it is as if he had no power at all. Man is the cheapest commodity on the market, and among all our important rights of property, the rights of the individual are always considered last of all. Number 10 Number 100
885 When I see that in the years of their greatest activity young people are limited to purely speculative studies, while later on and without the slightest experience they are suddenly thrown into the world and into business, it strikes me as contrary both to reason and to nature, and I am no longer surprised that so few men know how to conduct themselves. By what strange turn of mind are we taught so many useless things, whereas the art of action counts for nothing! People profess to form us for society, and we are taught as if each of us were to spend his life thinking alone in a cell or discussing airy subjects with disinterested people. You think you are teaching your children how to live by teaching them certain bodily contortions and certain word-formulas that signify nothing. I, too, have taught Emile how to live, for I have taught him to live with himself and, more than that, to earn his own bread. But this is not enough. To live in the world one must know how to get along with other people, one must know the tools that can be used to influence them, one must calculate the action and re-action of self-interest in civil society and estimate the results so accurately that one is rarely mistaken in his undertakings, or at least will have tried in the best possible way. The law does not allow young people to manage their own affairs nor to dispose of their own property; but what would be the use of these precautions if they never gained any experience until they were of age? They would have gained nothing by the delay, and would be as naïve at twenty-five as at fifteen. No doubt one must prevent a young man blinded by ignorance or misled by passion from hurting himself. But at any age it is permitted to be benevolent; at any age under the guidance of a wise man one can protect the unfortunate who need some support. Number 10 Number 100
886 Mothers and nurses have affection for children because of the care they give them. The exercise of social virtues carries the love of humanity to the bottom of the heart. It is in doing good that we become good; I know of no practice more sure. Keep your pupil busy with the good deeds that are within his reach. Let the cause of the poor always be his; let him help them not merely with his money but with his care; let him serve them, protect them, sacrifice his life and his time to them. Let him be their agent -- he will never in his life have a more noble employment. See how many of the oppressed, who never get a hearing, will obtain justice when he -- with an intrepid firmness that only the practice of virtue inspires -- demands it for them; when he forces open the doors of the rich and noble; when he goes, if necessary, to the feet of the king himself to make heard the voices of the poor -- whose misery closes all access for them and who are so afraid of being punished for their misfortunes that they do not dare to complain. Number 10 Number 100
887 But are we making Emile into a knight in shining armor, a do-gooder, a defender of noblesse oblige? Will he thrust himself into public life, play the wise man and defender of the laws before the nobles, the magistrates, the king? Will he present petitions before the judges and plead in the law courts? That I cannot say. The nature of things is not changed by terms of mockery and scorn. He will do all that he knows to be useful and good. He will do nothing more, and he knows that nothing is useful and good for him which is unbefitting his age. He knows that his first duty is to himself; that young men should distrust themselves, be circumspect in their conduct, respectful before those older than themselves, reticent and discrete in talking without good reason, modest Emile therefore loves peace. Number 10 Number 100
888 The image of happiness pleases him, and when he can contribute to producing it this is one more way to share it. I refuse to assume that when he sees suffering he will feel the kind of sterile and cruel pity that is content to deplore only the ills it can heal. His active benevolence teaches him much that he would have learned much more slowly, or would never have learned at all, if his heart had been harder. If he sees discord arising among his friends he seeks to reconcile them. If he sees grieving he inquires as to the cause of the sufferings. If he meets two men who hate each other, he wants to know the reason for their enmity. If he finds oppressed people groaning from their mistreatment by the rich and powerful, he tries to find a way to counteract this oppression, and in the interest he takes with regard to all such miserable people, the means of removing their sufferings are never indifferent to him. What must we do to make use of these impulses in a manner suitable to his age? Regulate his efforts and his knowledge, and use his zeal to increase them. Number 10 Number 100
889 I am never weary of repeating: Put all the lessons of young people in actions rather than in speeches. Let them learn nothing from books that experience can teach them. How absurd to attempt to give them practice in speaking when they have nothing to say, to expect to make them experience at their school desks the energy of the language of passion and all the force of the arts of persuasion when they have nothing and nobody to persuade! All the rules of rhetoric are a mere waste of words to those who do not know how to use them for their own purposes. What difference does it make to a schoolboy to know how Hannibal encouraged his soldiers to cross the Alps? If instead of these grand harangues you showed him how to make his prefect to give him a holiday, you may be sure he would pay more attention to your rules. Number 10 Number 100
890 If I wanted to teach rhetoric to a youth whose passions were already developed, I would present him continually with things that would gratify these passions, and I would explore with him what language he should use with people so as to get them to regard his desires favorably. But Emile is not in a condition so favorable to the art of oratory. Limited almost solely to physical necessities, he has less need of others than they of him; and having nothing to ask of others for himself, what he wants to persuade them to do does not affect him sufficiently to motivate him very much. It follows from this that in general he will need a simple and unfigurative language. He usually speaks to the point and only to make himself understood. He is not sententious, for he has not learned to generalize his ideas. He uses little imagery because he is rarely impassioned. Number 10 Number 100
891 Yet this is not because he is completely phlegmatic and cold. Neither his age, nor his character, nor his tastes permit of this. In the fire of adolescence the life-giving spirits retained in the blood and distilled again and again inspire his young heart with a warmth which glows in his eye -- a warmth that one feels in his words and sees in his actions. His language has taken on accent and sometimes vehemence. The noble sentiment that inspires it gives it force and elevation. Filled with tender love for humanity his words convey the movements of his heart. His open generosity has more of a certain enchanting quality than does the artificial eloquence of others; or rather he alone has the only true eloquence, for he has only to show what he feels in order to communicate to those who hear him. Number 10 Number 100
892 The more I think of it the more convinced I am that by thus putting our benevolence into action and drawing from our success or lack of success some conclusions as to their cause, we shall find that there is little useful knowledge that cannot be cultivated in the mind of a young man; and that together with all the true learning that one may acquire in the colleges he will acquire a science of still more importance -- which is the application of what he has learned to the purposes of life. Taking such an interest in his fellow-beings, it is impossible that he should not learn early on how to weigh and appreciate their actions, their tastes, their pleasures, and to give in general a more accurate evaluation of what can raise or lessen the happiness of man than those who care for nobody and never do anything for any one. Those who are always occupied solely with their own concerns are too self-indulgent to judge wisely of things. Relating everything to themselves alone and basing their ideas of good and bad solely on their own experience, their minds are filled with a thousand absurd prejudices, and anything which affects their own advantage even slightly seems an upheaval of the universe. Number 10 Number 100
893 Let us extend amour-propre to other beings and it is transformed into virtue, and there is no heart of man in which this virtue does not have its root. The less the object of our care is directly dependent on ourselves, the less we have to fear from the illusion of individual self-interest. The more we can generalize this interest, the more equitable it becomes, and love for the human race is nothing other in us than love of justice. Do we want Emile to be a lover of truth, do we want him to know the truth? In all his dealings keep him far from himself. The more care he devotes to the happiness of others the more that care will be enlightened and wise, and the fewer mistakes he will make between good and evil. But never allow him any blind preference founded merely on personal predilection or unfair prejudice. Why should he harm one person to serve another? It matters little to him who has the greater share of happiness, providing he promotes the happiness of all. Apart from self-interest this care for the general well-being is the first concern of the wise man, for each of us is part of the human species and not part of any individual. Number 10 Number 100
894 To prevent pity from degenerating into weakness we must generalize it and extend it to all humankind. Then we will yield to it only when it is in accordance with justice, since justice is of all the virtues that which contributes most to the common good. Reason and love for ourselves compel us to have more pity for our own species than for the next one, and to pity the wicked is to be very cruel to other men. Number 10 Number 100
895 Moreover, one must remember that all these means that I use to launch my pupil beyond himself have also a direct relation to himself. For they not only cause him inward delight; by making him benevolent towards others I am also working to instruct him. Number 10 Number 100
896 First I showed the means and now I will show the effect. What grand vistas I see being arranged little by little in his heart! What sublime sentiments crowd out the seeds of lesser passions in his heart! What clearness of judgment, what accuracy in reasoning, do I see developing in him from the inclinations we have cultivated, from the experience which concentrates the desires of a great soul within the narrow limits of possibility, so that a man superior to others who cannot raise them up to his level can at least lower himself to theirs! The true principles of justice, true types of beauty, all moral relations between man and man, all ideas of order, are engraved on his understanding. He sees the right place for each thing and the causes which remove it from that place. He sees what may do good, and what hinders it. Without having felt the passions of mankind, he knows their illusions and their effects. Number 10 Number 100
897 I proceed attracted by the force of things but without imposing myself on the judgments of my readers. Long ago they have made up their minds that I am wandering in the land of fantasies, while for my part I think they remain in the country of prejudice. When I wander so far from popular beliefs I do not cease to bear them in mind; I examine them, I consider them, not that I may follow them or shun them, but that I may weigh them in the balance of reason. Whenever reason compels me to abandon these popular beliefs, I know by experience that my readers will not imitate me; I know that they will persist in refusing to go beyond what they can see, and that they will take the youth I am describing for an imaginary and fantastical being, merely because he is unlike the youths with whom they compare him -- without remembering that he must be different since he has been raised differently, influenced by sentiments contrary to theirs, instructed in a wholly different manner from them. So it would be much more surprising if he were like your pupils than if he were the way I have supposed. He is not a man's man but nature's man. Assuredly he must seem very strange in their eyes. Number 10 Number 100
898 When I began this work I took for granted only what could be observed as readily by others as by myself. For our starting-point, the birth of man, is the same for all. But while I am seeking to cultivate nature and you are seeking to deprave it, the further we go the further apart we find ourselves. At six years old my pupil was not so very unlike yours, whom you had not yet had time to disfigure. Now there is nothing in common between them; and when they reach the age of manhood, which is now approaching, they will show themselves utterly different from each other, unless all my pains have been thrown away. There may not be so very great a difference in the amount of knowledge they possess, but there is all the difference in the world in the kind of knowledge. You are amazed to find that the one has noble sentiments of which the others have not the smallest germ, but remember that the latter are already philosophers and theologians while Emile does not even know what is meant by a philosopher and has scarcely heard the name of God. Number 10 Number 100
899 But if you come and tell me, "There are no such young men; young people are not made that way; they have this passion or that, they do this or that," it is as if you denied that a pear tree could ever be a tall tree because the pear trees in our gardens are all dwarfs. Number 10 Number 100
900 I beg these critics who are so ready with their blame to consider that I am as well acquainted as they are with everything they say, that I have probably given more thought to it, and that, as I have no private end to serve in getting them to agree with me, I have a right to demand that they should at least take time to find out where I am mistaken. Let them thoroughly examine the constitution of man, let them follow the earliest growth of the heart in any given circumstances, so as to see what a difference education may make in the individual; then let them compare my method of education with the results I ascribe to it; and let them tell me where my reasoning is unsound, and I shall have no answer to give them. Number 10 Number 100
901 It is this that makes me speak so strongly, and as I think with good excuse. I have not pledged myself to any system, I depend as little as possible on arguments, and I trust to what I myself have observed. I do not base my ideas on what I have imagined, but on what I have seen. It is true that I have not confined my observations within the walls of any one town, nor to a single class of people. But having compared men of every class and every nation which I have been able to observe in the course of a life spent in this pursuit, I have discarded as artificial what belonged to one nation and not to another, to one rank and not to another; and I have regarded as proper to mankind what was common to all, at any age. in any station, and in any nation whatsoever. Number 10 Number 100
902 Now if in accordance with this method you follow from infancy the course of a youth who has not been shaped to any special mold, one who depends as little as possible on authority and the opinions of others, which will he most resemble, my pupil or yours? This is, it seems to me, the question you must answer if you would know if I am mistaken. Number 10 Number 100
903 It is not easy for a man to begin to think; but when once he has begun he never stops. Once a thinker, always a thinker, and the understanding once practiced in reflection will never rest. You may therefore think that I do too much or too little; that the human mind is not by nature so quick to unfold; and that after having given it opportunities it has not got, I keep it too long confined within a circle of ideas which it ought to have out-grown. Number 10 Number 100
904 But remember, in the first place, that when I want to train a natural man, I do not want to make him a savage and to send him back to the woods; rather, that while in the whirl of social life it is enough that he should not let himself be carried away by the passions and opinions of men. Let him see with his eyes and feel with his heart, let him be governed by no authority but that of his own reason. Under these conditions it is plain that a multitude things that strike him, the oft-recurring sentiments which affect him, the different ways of satisfying his real needs, must give him many ideas he would not otherwise have acquired or would only have acquired much later. The natural progress of the mind is quickened but not reversed. The same man who would remain stupid in the forests would become wise and reasonable in towns, even if he were merely a spectator. Nothing is better fitted to make us wise than the sight of follies we do not share, and even if we share them, we still learn, provided we are not the dupe of our follies and provided we do not bring to them the same mistakes as those who commit them. Number 10 Number 100
905 Consider also that while our faculties are limited to the things that can be seen, we offer scarcely any hold to the abstractions of philosophy or to purely intellectual ideas. To attain to these we require either to free ourselves from the body to which we are so strongly bound, or to proceed from object to object in a gradual and slow process, or else to leap across the intervening space with a gigantic bound of which no child is capable, one for which grown men even require steps made especially for them; but I find it very difficult to see how you propose to construct such steps. Number 10 Number 100
906 The incomprehensible being that embraces all, that gives its motion to the world and shapes the system of all creatures, is not visible to our eyes or palpable to our hands; it escapes all of our senses. The work is seen, but the workman is hidden . It is even no small matter to know that it exists, and when we have got so far, and when we ask. What is it? Where is it? our mind is overwhelmed and goes astray, and we no longer know what to think. Number 10 Number 100
907 Locke would have us begin with the study of spirits and go on to that of bodies. This is the method of superstition, prejudice, and error; it is not the method of nature, nor even that of well-ordered reason; it is to learn to see by shutting our eyes. We must have studied bodies long enough before we can form any true idea of spirits, or even suspect that there are such beings. The contrary method serves only to establish materialism. Number 10 Number 100
908 Since our senses are the first instruments to our learning, corporeal and sensible bodies are the only bodies we directly apprehend. The word "spirit" has no meaning for any one who has not philosophized. To the unlearned and to the child a spirit is merely a body. Do they not imagine spirits that groan, speak, fight, and make noises? Now one must admit that spirits with arms and voices are very like bodies. This is why every nation on the face of the earth, not even excepting the Jews, have made corporeal gods for themselves. We, ourselves, with our words, Spirit, Trinity, Persons, are for the most part quite anthropomorphic. I admit that we are taught that God is everywhere; but we also believe that there is air everywhere, at least in our atmosphere; and the word Spirit meant originally nothing more than breath and wind. Once you teach people to say what they do not understand, it is easy enough to get them to say anything you like. Number 10 Number 100
909 The sentiment of our action upon other bodies must have first induced us to suppose that their action upon us was effected in like manner. Thus man began by thinking that all things whose action affected him were alive. Feeling himself less strong than most of these beings, he therefore supposed that they were limitless and he made them his gods as soon as he had supplied them with bodies. In the earliest times men were in terror of everything and everything in nature seemed alive. The idea of matter was developed as slowly as that of spirit, for the former is itself an abstraction. They thus filled the universe with gods that could be sensed. The stars, the winds and the mountains, rivers, trees, and towns, their very dwellings, each had its soul, its god, its life. The teraphim of Laban, the manitous of the indians, the fetishes of the Negroes, every work of nature and of man were the first gods of mortals; polytheism was their first religion and idolatry their earliest form of worship. The idea of one God was beyond their grasp, until by generalizing their ideas more and more they were in a position to get to the idea of a first cause and gave meaning to the word "substance," which is at bottom the greatest of abstractions. So every child who believes in God is of necessity an idolater or at least he regards the Deity as a man, and when once the imagination has perceived God, it is very seldom that the understanding conceives him. Locke's order leads us into this same mistake. Number 10 Number 100
910 Having arrived, I know not how, at the abstract idea of substance, it is clear that to allow of a single substance it must be assumed that this substance is endowed with incompatible and mutually exclusive properties such as thought and size -- one of which is by its nature divisible and the other wholly incapable of division. Moreover it is assumed that thought or, if you prefer it, sentiment, is a primitive quality inseparable from the substance to which it belongs, that its relation to the substance is like the relation between substance and size. Hence it is inferred that beings who lose one of these attributes lose the substance to which it belongs, consequently that death is, therefore, but a separation of substances, and that those beings in whom the two attributes are found are composed of the two substances to which those two qualities belong. Number 10 Number 100
911 But consider what a distance still remains between the idea of two substances and that of the divine nature, between the incomprehensible idea of the influence of our soul upon our body and the idea of the influence of God upon every living creature. The ideas of creation. destruction, ubiquity, eternity, almighty power, those of the divine attributes--these are all ideas so confused and obscure that few men succeed in grasping them. Yet there is nothing obscure about them to the common people, because they do not understand them in the least. How then should they present themselves in full force, that is to say in all their obscurity, to the young mind which is still occupied with the first working of the senses and can conceive only of that which he can touch? In vain do the abysses of the infinite open around us; a child does not know the enough to be awed by them; his weak eyes cannot gauge their depths. To children everything is infinite. They cannot put limits on anything; not that their measure is so large, but because their understanding is so small. I have even noticed that they place the infinite rather below than above the dimensions known to them. They judge a distance to be immense rather by their feet than by their eyes; infinity is bounded for them. not so much by what they can see, but how far they can go. If you talk to them of the power of God, they will think he is nearly as strong as their father. As their own knowledge is in everything the measure of what is possible, they always picture what is described to them as rather smaller than what they know. Such are the natural judgments of an ignorant and feeble mind. Ajax was afraid to measure his strength against Achilles and challenged Jupiter to combat, for he knew Achilles and did not know Jupiter. A Swiss peasant thought himself the richest man alive; when they tried to explain to him what a king was, he asked with pride, "Has the king got a hundred cows on the high pastures?" Number 10 Number 100
912 I foresee that many of my readers will be surprised to find me following my pupil through his early years without speaking to him of religion. At fifteen he will not even know that he has a soul, and perhaps even at eighteen he may not be ready to learn about it. For if he learns about it too soon, there is the risk of his never really knowing it. Number 10 Number 100
913 If I had to depict the most regrettable stupidity, I would show a pedant teaching children the catechism; if I wanted to drive a child crazy I would require him to explain what he learned in his catechism. You will object that since most of the Christian dogmas are mysteries, to wait until the human mind is capable of conceiving of them is to wait not merely until the child is a man, but until the man is dead. To that I reply, first that there are mysteries not only impossible for man to conceive of but to believe in; and I do not see what we gain by teaching them to children, unless you want to teach them how to lie at an early age. Moreover, I assert that to admit that there are mysteries, you must at least realize that they are incomprehensible, and children are not even capable of this conception! At an age when everything is mysterious, there are no mysteries properly so-called. Number 10 Number 100
914 "We must believe in God if we would be saved." This doctrine wrongly understood is the root of sanguinary intolerance and the cause of all the futile teaching which strikes a deadly blow at human reason by accustoming it to rely on mere words. No doubt there is not a moment to lose in order to merit eternal salvation; but if the repetition of certain words suffices to obtain it, I do not see what prevents us from peopling heaven with starlings and magpies as well as with children. Number 10 Number 100
915 The obligation to believe presupposes its possibility. The philosopher who does not believe is wrong, for he misuses the reason he has cultivated, and he is able to understand the truths he rejects. But the child who professes the Christian faith -- what does he believe? Just what he understands; and he understands so little of what he is made to say that if you tell him to say just the opposite he will agree to it just as willingly. The faith of children and the faith of many men is a matter of geography. Will they be rewarded for having been born in Rome rather than in Mecca? One of them is told that Mohammed is the prophet of God and so he says, "Mohammed is the prophet of God." The other is told that Mohammed is a fake and he says, "Mohammed is a fake." Each of them would have affirmed just the opposite had he found himself in a different place. Starting with such similar dispositions, should one be sent to paradise and the other to hell? When a child says he believes in God, it is not God he believes in, but Peter or James, who told him that there is something called God, and he believes it after the fashion of Euripides -- Number 10 Number 100
916 O Jupiter, of whom I know nothing but thy name." Note 11] We maintain that no child who dies before the age of reason will be deprived of everlasting happiness. The Catholics believe the same of all children who have been baptized, even though they have never heard of God. There are, therefore, circumstances in which one can be saved without belief in God, and these circumstances occur in the case of children or madmen when the human mind is incapable of the operations necessary to recognize the divinity. The only difference I see between you and me is that you profess that children of seven years old have this capacity and I do not think them ready for it even at fifteen. Whether I am right or wrong depends not on an article of the faith but on a simple observation in natural history. Number 10 Number 100
917 From the same principle it is plain that any man having reached old age without faith in God will not, therefore, be deprived of God's presence in another life if his blindness was not voluntary; and I maintain that it is not always voluntary. You admit that it is so in the case of lunatics deprived by disease of their spiritual faculties but not of their manhood and therefore still entitled to the goodness of their Creator. Why then should we not also admit it for those who have been sequestered from all society since childhood and have led an absolutely primitive life without the knowledge that comes from intercourse with other men? Note 12] For it is clearly impossible that such a savage could ever raise his thoughts to the knowledge of the true God. Reason tells us that man should only be punished for his willful faults and that invincible ignorance can never be imputed to him as a crime. Hence it follows that in the sight of eternal justice every man who would believe if he had the necessary knowledge is counted a believer, and that there will be no unbelievers to be punished except those who have closed their hearts against the truth. Number 10 Number 100
918 Let us beware of proclaiming the truth to those who are not in a condition to hear it, for to do so is to try to substitute error for truth. It would be better to have no idea at all of the divinity than to have ideas that are mean, grotesque, harmful, and unworthy. It is less of an evil to fail to perceive the divine than to insult it. The worthy Plutarch says, "I would rather men said, 'There is no such person as Plutarch,' than that they should say, 'Plutarch is unjust, envious, jealous, and such a tyrant that he demands more than can be performed.'" Number 10 Number 100
919 The chief harm which results from the deformed ideas of the divinity that are traced on the minds of children is that they stay there all their life, and as men they conceive no more of God than they did as children. In Switzerland I once saw a good and pious mother who was so convinced of the truth of this maxim that she did not want to teach her son religion during his first years for fear lest he should be satisfied with this crude teaching and neglect a better teaching when he reached the age of reason. This child never heard God spoken of except with devotion and reverence , and as soon as he attempted to say the word he was silenced, as if the subject were too sublime and great for him. This reserve aroused his curiosity and his amour-propre; he looked forward to the time when he would know this mystery so carefully hidden from him. The less they spoke of God to him, the less he was himself permitted to speak of God, the more he thought about Him. This child saw God everywhere. What I should most fear from this indiscrete affectation of mystery is that by over-stimulating the youth's imagination you may turn his head and thus finally make a fanatic rather than a believer. Number 10 Number 100
920 But we need fear nothing of the sort for Emile, who always declines to pay attention to what is beyond his reach and listens with profound indifference to things he does not understand. There are so many things of which he is accustomed to say, "That is no concern of mine," that one more will make little difference to him; and when he does begin to worry about these great questions, it is because the natural growth of his knowledge is turning his thoughts that way. Number 10 Number 100
921 We have seen the road by which the cultivated human mind approaches these mysteries, and I am ready to admit that it would not attain to them naturally even in the midst of society until a much later age. But since there are in this same society inevitable causes which hasten the development of the passions, if we did not also hasten the development of the knowledge which controls these passions we should indeed depart from the order of nature and the equilibrium would be broken. When one can no longer succeed in moderating a too rapid development on one side, one must guide wih the same rapidity the development of others which correspond to it, so that the order of nature may not be inverted, and so that things that should progress together and not become separated, and so that the man who is whole at every moment of his life will never find himself at one stage in one of his faculties and at another stage in another faculty. Number 10 Number 100
922 What a difficulty do I see before me! A difficulty all the greater because it depends less on things than on the cowardice of those who do not dare to resolve it. Let us begin at least by daring to state the problem. A child should always be brought up in his father's religion; he is always shown that this religion, whatever it may be, is the only true religion, that the others are nothing but extravagance and absurdity. The force of the argument depends entirely on the country in which it is put forward. Let a Turk, who thinks Christianity so absurd at Constantinople, come see what they think of Mohammedanism in Paris. It is above all in matters of religion that opinion triumphs. But we who profess to shake off its yoke entirely, we who do not with to yield anything to authority, we who do not want to teach Emile anything which he could not learn for himself in any country -- in what religion will we raise him? To what sect shall this man of nature be joined? The answer is quite simple, it seems to me. We will join him neither to this one nor that one but we will put him into a condition to choose for himself the one to which the best use of his reason leads him. Number 10 Number 100
923 Incedo per ignes Suppositos cineri doloso. -- Horace, lib. ii. ode . No matter. Zeal and good faith have thus far taken the place of prudence. I hope that these guardians will not fail me now. Reader, do not fear lest I that I will take precautions unworthy of a lover of truth. I shall never forget my motto, but it is only too permissable to distrust my own judgment. Instead of telling you now what I think myself, I will tell you what a man who is more worthy than me thinks. I guarantee the truth of the facts that are about to be reported to you. They actually happened to the author of the paper I am about to transcribe. It is for you to see whether one can draw from them any useful reflections on the subject at hand. I do not offer my own or another's sentiment as your rule; I merely present them for your examination. Number 10 Number 100
924 "Thirty years ago there was a young man in an Italian town; he was an exile from his native land and found himself reduced to the depths of poverty. He had been born a Calvinist, but the consequences of his own folly had made him a fugitive in a strange land; he had no money and he changed his religion for a morsel of bread. There was a hostel for proselytes in that town to which he gained admission. The study of controversy inspired doubts he had never felt before, and he made acquaintance with evil hitherto unsuspected by him; he heard strange doctrines and he met with morals still stranger to him; he beheld this evil conduct and nearly fell a victim to it. He longed to escape, but he was locked up; he complained, but his complaints were unheeded; at the mercy of his tyrants, he found himself treated as a criminal because he would not share their crimes. The anger kindled in a young and untried heart by the first experience of violence and injustice may be realized by those who have themselves experienced it. Tears of anger flowed from his eyes, he was wild with rage; he prayed to heaven and to man, and his prayers were unheard; he spoke to every one and no one listened to him. He saw no one but the vilest servants under the control of the wretch who insulted him, or accomplices in the same crime who laughed at his resistance and encouraged him to follow their example. He would have been ruined had not a worthy priest visited the hostel on some matter of business. He found an opportunity of consulting him secretly. The priest was poor and in need of help himself, but the victim had more need of his assistance, and he did not hesitate to help him to escape at the risk of making a dangerous enemy. Number 10 Number 100
925 Having escaped from vice to return to poverty, the young man struggled vainly against fate: for a moment he thought he had gained the victory. At the first gleam of good fortune his woes and his protector were alike forgotten. He was soon punished for this ingratitude; all his hopes vanished; youth indeed was on his side, but his romantic ideas spoiled everything. He had neither talent nor skill to make his way easily, he could neither be common-place nor wicked, he expected so much that he got nothing. When he had sunk to his former poverty, when he was without food or shelter and ready to die of hunger, he remembered his benefactor. Number 10 Number 100
926 He went back to him, found him, and was kindly welcomed; the sight of him reminded the priest of a good deed he had done; such a memory always rejoices the heart. This man was by nature humane and pitiful; he felt the sufferings of others through his own, and his heart had not been hardened by prosperity; in a word, the lessons of wisdom and an enlightened virtue had reinforced his natural kindness of heart. He welcomed the young man, found him a lodging, and recommended him; he shared with him his living which was barely enough for two. He did more, he instructed him, consoled him, and taught him the difficult art of bearing adversity in patience. You prejudiced people, would you have expected to find all this in a priest and in Italy? Number 10 Number 100
927 This worthy priest was a poor Savoyard clergyman who had offended his bishop by some youthful fault; he had crossed the Alps to find a position which he could not obtain in his own country. He lacked neither wit nor learning, and with his interesting countenance he had met with patrons who found him a place in the household of one of the ministers, as tutor to his son. He preferred poverty to dependence, and he did not know how to get on with the great. He did not stay long with this minister, and when he departed he took with him his good opinion; and as he lived a good life and gained the hearts of everybody, he was glad to be forgiven by his bishop and to obtain from him a small parish among the mountains, where he might pass the rest of his life. This was the limit of his ambition. Number 10 Number 100
928 He was attracted by the young fugitive and he questioned him closely. He saw that ill-fortune had already seared his heart, that scorn and disgrace had overthrown his courage, and that his pride, transformed into bitterness and spite, led him to see nothing in the harshness and injustice of men but their evil disposition and the vanity of all virtue. He had seen that religion was but a mask for selfishness, and its holy services but a screen for hypocrisy; he had found in the subtleties of empty disputatious heaven and hell awarded as prizes for mere words; he had seen the sublime and primitive idea of Divinity disfigured by the vain fancies of men; and when, as he thought, faith in God required him to renounce the reason God himself had given him, he held in equal scorn our foolish imaginings and the object with which they are concerned. With no knowledge of things as they are, without any idea of their origins, he was immersed in his stubborn ignorance and utterly despised those who thought they knew more than himself. Number 10 Number 100
929 The neglect of all religion soon leads to the neglect of a man's duties. The heart of this young libertine was already far on this road. Yet his was not a bad nature, though incredulity and misery were gradually stifling his natural disposition and dragging him down to ruin; they were leading him into the conduct of a rascal and the morals of an atheist. Number 10 Number 100
930 The almost inevitable evil was not actually consummated. The young man was not ignorant, his education had not been neglected. He was at that happy age when the pulse beats strongly and the heart is warm but is not yet enslaved by the madness of the senses. His heart had not lost its elasticity. A native modesty, a timid disposition restrained him, and prolonged for him that period during which you watch your pupil so carefully. The hateful example of brutal depravity, of vice without any charm, had not merely failed to quicken his imagination, it had deadened it. For a long time disgust rather than virtue preserved his innocence, which would only succumb to more seductive charms. Number 10 Number 100
931 The priest saw the danger and the way of escape. He was not discouraged by difficulties, he took a pleasure in his task; he determined to complete it and to restore to virtue the victim he had snatched from vice. He set about it cautiously; the beauty of the motive gave him courage and inspired him with means worthy of his zeal. Whatever might be the result, his pains would not be wasted. We are always successful when our sole aim is to do good. Number 10 Number 100
932 He began to win the confidence of the proselyte by not asking any price for his kindness, by not intruding himself upon him, by not preaching at him, by always coming down to his level, and treating him as an equal. It was, so I think, a touching sight to see a serious person becoming the comrade of a young scamp, and virtue putting up with the speech of license in order to triumph over it more completely. When the young fool came to him with his silly confidences and opened his heart to him, the priest listened and set him at his ease; without giving his approval to what was bad, he took an interest in everything; no tactless reproof checked his chatter or closed his heart; the pleasure which he thought was given by his conversation increased his pleasure in telling everything; thus he made his general confession without knowing he was confessing anything. Number 10 Number 100
933 After he had made a thorough study of his feelings and disposition, the priest saw plainly that, although he was not ignorant for his age, he had forgotten everything that he most needed to know, and that the disgrace which fortune had brought upon him had stifled in him all real sense of good and evil. There is a stage of degradation which robs the soul of its life; and the inner voice cannot be heard by one whose whole mind is bent on getting food. To protect the unlucky youth from the moral death which threatened him, he began to revive his amour-propre and his good opinion of himself. He showed him a happier future in the right use of his talents; he revived the generous warmth of his heart by stories of the noble deeds of others; by rousing his admiration for the doers of these deeds he revived his desire to do like deeds himself. To draw him gradually from his idle and wandering life, he made him copy out extracts from well-chosen books; he pretended to want these extracts, and so nourished in him the noble feeling of gratitude. He taught him indirectly through these books, and thus he made him sufficiently regain his good opinion of himself so that he would no longer think himself good for nothing, and would not make himself despicable in his own eyes. Number 10 Number 100
934 A trifling incident will show how this kindly man tried, unknown to him, to raise the heart of his disciple out of its degradation, without seeming to think of teaching. The priest was so well known for his uprightness and his discretion, that many people preferred to entrust their alms to him, rather than to the wealthy clergy of the town. One day someone had given him some money to distribute among the poor, and the young man was mean enough to ask for some of it on the score of poverty. "No," said he, "we are brothers, you belong to me and I must not touch the money entrusted to me." Then he gave him the sum he had asked for out of his own pocket. Lessons of this sort seldom fail to make an impression on the heart of young people who are not wholly corrupt. Number 10 Number 100
935 I am weary of speaking in the third person, and the precaution is unnecessary; for you are well aware, my dear friend, that I myself was this unhappy fugitive; I think I am so far removed from the disorders of my youth that I may venture to confess them, and the hand which rescued me well deserves that I should at least do honor to its goodness at the cost of some slight shams. Number 10 Number 100
936 What struck me most was to see in the private life of my worthy master, virtue without hypocrisy, humanity without weakness, speech always plain and straightforward, and conduct in accordance with this speech. I never saw him trouble himself whether those whom he assisted went to vespers or confession, whether they fasted at the appointed seasons and went without meat; nor did he impose upon them any other like conditions, without which you might die of hunger before you could hope for any help from the devout. Number 10 Number 100
937 Far from displaying before him the zeal of a new convert, I was encouraged by these observations and I made no secret of my way of thinking, nor did he seem to be shocked by it. Sometimes I would say to myself, he overlooks my indifference to the religion I have adopted because he sees I am equally indifferent to the religion in which I was brought up; he knows that my scorn for religion is not confined to one sect. But what could I think when I sometimes heard him give his approval to doctrines contrary to those of the Roman Catholic Church, and apparently having but a poor opinion of its ceremonies. I should have thought him a Protestant in disguise if I had not beheld him so faithful to those very customs which he seemed to value so lightly; but I knew he fulfilled his priestly duties as carefully in private as in public, and I knew not what to think of these apparent contradictions. Except for the fault which had formerly brought about his disgrace, a fault which he had only partially overcome, his life was exemplary, his conduct beyond reproach, his conversation honest and discreet. While I lived on very friendly terms with him, I learnt day by day to respect him more; and when he had completely won my heart by such great kindness, I awaited with eager curiosity the time when I should learn what was the principle on which the uniformity of this strange life was based. Number 10 Number 100
938 This opportunity was a long time coming. Before taking his disciple into his confidence, he tried to get the seeds of reason and kindness which he had sown in my heart to germinate. The most difficult fault to overcome in me was a certain haughty misanthropy, a certain bitterness against the rich and successful, as if their wealth and happiness had been gained at my own expense, and as if their supposed happiness had been unjustly taken from my own. The foolish vanity of youth, which kicks against the pricks of humiliation, made me only too much inclined to this angry temper; and the self-respect, which my mentor strove to revive, led to pride, which made men still more vile in my eyes, and only added scorn to my hatred. Number 10 Number 100
939 Without directly attacking this pride, he prevented it from developing into hardness of heart; and without depriving me of my self-esteem, he made me less scornful of my neighbors. By continually drawing my attention from the empty show, and directing it to the genuine sufferings concealed by it, he taught me to deplore the faults of my fellows and feel for their sufferings, to pity rather than envy them. Touched with compassion towards human weaknesses through the profound conviction of his own failings, he viewed all men as the victims of their own vices and those of others; he beheld the poor groaning under the tyranny of the rich, and the rich under the tyranny of their own prejudices. "Believe me," said he, "our illusions, far from concealing our woes, only increase them by giving value to what is in itself valueless, in making us aware of all sorts of fancied privations which we should not other-wise feel. Peace of heart consists in despising everything that might disturb that peace; the man who clings most closely to life is the man who can least enjoy it; and the man who most eagerly desires happiness is always most miserable." Number 10 Number 100
940 "What gloomy ideas!" I exclaimed bitterly. "If we must deny ourselves everything, we might as well never have been born; and if we must despise even happiness itself who can be happy?" "I am," replied the priest one day, in a tone which made a great impression on me. "You happy ! So little favored by fortune, so poor, an exile and persecuted, you are happy! How have you contrived to be happy?" "My child," he answered, "I will gladly tell you" Number 10 Number 100
941 Thereupon he explained that, having heard my confessions, he would confess to me. "I will open my whole heart to yours," he said, embracing me. "You will see me, if not as I am, at least as I seem to myself. When you have heard my whole profession of faith, when you really know the condition of my heart, you will know why I think myself happy, and if you think as I do, you will know how to be happy too. But these explanations are not the affair of a moment, it will take time to show you all my ideas about the lot of man and the true value of life; let us choose a fitting time and a place where we may continue this conversation without interruption."
942 I showed him how eager I was to hear him. The meeting was fixed for the very next morning. It was summer time; we rose at daybreak. He took me out of the town on to a high hill above the river Po, whose course we beheld as it flowed between its fertile banks; in the distance the landscape was crowned by the vast chain of the Alps; the beams of the rising sun already touched the plains and cast across the fields long shadows of trees, hillocks, and houses, and enriched with a thousand gleams of light the fairest picture which the human eye can see. You would have thought that nature was displaying all her splendor before our eyes to furnish a text for our conversation. After contemplating this scene for a space in silence, the man of peace spoke to me.
943 PROFESSION OF FAITH OF A SAVOYARD VICAR My child, do not look to me for learned speeches or profound arguments. I am no great philosopher, nor do I desire to be one. I have, however, a certain amount of common-sense and a constant devotion to truth. I have no wish to argue with you nor even to convince you; it is enough for me to show you, in all simplicity of heart, what I really think. Consult your own heart while I speak; that is all I ask. If I am mistaken, I am honestly mistaken, and therefore my error will not be counted to me as a crime; if you, too, are honestly mistaken, there is no great harm done. If I am right, we are both endowed with reason, we have both the same motive for listening to the voice of reason. Why should not you think as I do?
944 By birth I was a peasant and poor; to till the ground was my portion; but my parents thought it a finer thing that I should learn to get my living as a priest and they found means to send me to college. I am quite sure that neither my parents nor I had any idea of seeking after what was good, useful, or true; we only sought what was wanted to get me ordained. I learned what was taught me, said what I was told to say, I promised all that was required, and I became a priest. But I soon discovered that when I promised not to be a man, I had promised more than I could perform.
945 Conscience, they tell us, is the creature of prejudice, but I know from experience that conscience persists in following the order of nature in spite of all the laws of man. In vain is this or that forbidden; remorse makes her voice heard but feebly when what we do is permitted by well-ordered nature, and still more when we are doing her bidding. My good youth, nature has not yet appealed to your senses; may you long remain in this happy state when her voice is the voice of innocence. Remember that to anticipate her teaching is to offend more deeply against her than to resist her teaching; you must first learn to resist, that you may know when to yield without wrong-doing.
946 From my youth up I had reverenced the married state as the first and most sacred institution of nature. Having renounced the right to marry, I was resolved not to profane the sanctity of marriage; for in spite of my education and reading I had always led a simple and regular life, and my mind had preserved the innocence of its natural instincts; these instincts had not been obscured by worldly wisdom, while my poverty kept me remote from the temptations dictated by the sophistry of vice.
947 This very resolution proved my ruin. My respect for marriage led to the discovery of my misconduct. The scandal must be expiated; I was arrested, suspended, and dismissed; I was the victim of my scruples rather than of my incontinence, and I had reason to believe, from the reproaches which accompanied my disgrace, that one can often escape punishment by being guilty of a worse fault.
948 A thoughtful mind soon learns from such experiences. I found my former ideas of justice, honesty, and every duty of man overturned by these painful events, and day by day I was losing my hold on one or another of the opinions I had accepted. What was left was not enough to form a body of ideas which could stand alone, and I felt that the evidence on which my principles rested was being weakened; at last I knew not what to think, and I came to the same conclusion as yourself, but with this difference: My lack of faith was the slow growth of manhood, attained with great difficulty, and all the harder to uproot.
949 I was in that state of doubt and uncertainty which Descartes considers essential to the search for truth. It is a state which cannot continue, it is disquieting and painful; only vicious tendencies and an idle heart can keep us in that state. My heart was not so corrupt as to delight in it, and there is nothing which so maintains the habit of thinking as being better pleased with oneself than with one's lot.
950 I pondered, therefore, on the sad fate of mortals, adrift upon this sea of human opinions, without compass or rudder, and abandoned to their stormy passions with no guide but an inexperienced pilot who does not know whence he comes or whither he is going. I said to myself, "I love truth, I seek her, and cannot find her. Show me truth and I will hold her fast; why does she hide her face from the eager heart that would fain worship her?"
961 But who am I? What right have I to decide? What is it that determines my judgments? If they are inevitable, if they are the results of the impressions I receive, I am wasting my strength in such inquiries; they would be made or not without any interference of mine. I must therefore first turn my eyes upon myself to acquaint myself with the instrument I desire to use, and to discover how far it is reliable. Number 10 Number 100
962 I exist, and I have senses through which I receive impressions. This is the first truth that strikes me and I am forced to accept it. Have I any independent knowledge of my existence, or am I only aware of it through my sensations? This is my first difficulty, and so far I cannot solve it. For I continually experience sensations, either directly or indirectly through memory, so how can I know if the feeling of self is something beyond these sensations or if it can exist independently of them? Number 10 Number 100
963 My sensations take place in myself, for they make me aware of my own existence; but their cause is outside me, for they affect me whether I have any reason for them or not, and they are produced or destroyed independently of me. So I clearly perceive that my sensation, which is within me, and its cause or its object, which is outside me, are different things. Number 10 Number 100
964 Thus, not only do I exist, but other entities exist also, that is to say, the objects of my sensations; and even if these objects are merely ideas, still these ideas are not me. Number 10 Number 100
965 But everything outside myself; everything which acts upon my senses, I call matter, and all the particles of matter which I suppose to be united into separate entities I call bodies. Thus all the disputes of the idealists and the realists have no meaning for me; their distinctions between the appearance and the reality of bodies are wholly fanciful. Number 10 Number 100
966 I am now as convinced of the existence of the universe as of my own. I next consider the objects of my sensations, and I find that I have the power of comparing them, so I perceive that I am endowed with an active force of which I was not previously aware. Number 10 Number 100
967 To perceive is to feel; to compare is to judge; to judge and to feel are not the same. Through sensation objects present themselves to me separately and singly as they are in nature; by comparing them I rearrange them, I shift them so to speak, I place one upon another to decide whether they are alike or different, or more generally to find out their relations. To my mind, the distinctive faculty of an active or intelligent being is the power of understanding this word "is." I seek in vain in the merely sensitive entity that intelligent force which compares and judges; I can find no trace of it in its nature. This passive entity will be aware of each object separately, it will even be aware of the whole formed by the two together, but having no power to place them side by side it can never compare them, it can never form a judgment with regard to them. Number 10 Number 100
968 To see two things at once is not to see their relations nor to judge of their differences; to perceive several objects, one beyond the other, is not to relate them. I may have at the same moment an idea of a big stick and a little stick without comparing them, without judging that one is less than the other, just as I can see my whole hand without counting my fingers. Note 13] These comparative ideas, greater, smaller, together with number ideas of one, two, etc., are certainly not sensations, although my mind only produces them when my sensations occur. Number 10 Number 100
969 We are told that a sensitive being distinguishes sensations from each other by the inherent differences in the sensations; this requires explanation. When the sensations are different, the sensitive being distinguishes them by their differences; when they are alike, he distinguishes them because he is aware of them one beyond the other. Otherwise, how could he distinguish between two equal objects simultaneously experienced? He would necessarily confound the two objects and take them for one object, especially under a system which professed that the representative sensations of space have no extension. Number 10 Number 100
970 When we become aware of the two sensations to be compared, their impression is made, each object is perceived, both are perceived, but for all that their relation is not perceived. If the judgment of this relation were merely a sensation, and came to me solely from the object itself, my judgments would never be mistaken, for it is never untrue that I feel what I feel. Number 10 Number 100
971 Why then am I mistaken as to the relation between these two sticks, especially when they are not parallel? Why, for example, do I say the small stick is a third of the large, when it is only a quarter? Why is the picture, which is the sensation, unlike its model which is the object? It is because I am active when I judge, because the operation of comparison is at fault; because my under-standing, which judges of relations, mingles its errors with the truth of sensations, which only reveal to me things. Number 10 Number 100
972 Add to this a consideration which will, I feel sure, appeal to you when you 'have thought about it: it is this -- If we were purely passive in the use of our senses, there would be no communication between them; it would be impossible to know that the body we are touching and the thing we are looking at is the same. Either we should never perceive anything outside ourselves, or there would be for us five substances perceptible by the senses, whose identity we should have no means of perceiving. Number 10 Number 100
973 This power of my mind which brings my sensations together and compares them may be called by any name; let it be called attention, meditation, reflection, or what you will; it is still true that it is in me and not in things, that it is I alone who produce it, though I only produce it when I receive an impression from things. Though I am compelled to feel or not to feel, I am free to examine more or less what I feel. Number 10 Number 100
974 I am not therefore simply a sensitive, passive being, but an active and intelligent being, whatever philosophy says about it, I dare pretend to the honor of thinking. I know only that truth is in things and not in my spirit which judges them, and that the less I put of myself into the judgments that I make, the more I am certain to approach the truth: thus my rule of giving myself up to my sensations rather than to reasoning is confirmed by reason itself. Number 10 Number 100
975 Being now, so to speak, sure of myself, I begin to look at things outside myself, and I behold myself with a sort of shudder flung at random into this vast universe, plunged as it were into the vast number of entities, knowing nothing of what they are in themselves or in relation to me. I study them, I observe them; and the first object which suggests itself for comparison with them is myself. Number 10 Number 100
976 All that I perceive through the senses is matter, and I deduce all the essential properties of matter from the sensible qualities which make me perceive it, qualities which are inseparable from it. I see it sometimes in motion, sometimes at rest, Note 14] hence I infer that neither motion nor rest is essential to it, but motion, being an action, is the result of a cause of which rest is only the absence. When, therefore, there is nothing acting upon matter it does not move, and for the very reason that rest and motion are indifferent to it, its natural state is a state of rest. Number 10 Number 100
977 I perceive two sorts of motions of bodies, acquired motion and spontaneous or voluntary motion. In the first the cause is external to the body moved, in the second it is within. I shall not conclude from that that the motion, say of a watch, is spontaneous, for if no external cause operated upon the spring it would run down and the watch would cease to go. For the same reason I should not admit that the movements of fluids are spontaneous, neither should I attribute spontaneous motion to fire which causes their fluidity. Note 15] Number 10 Number 100
978 You ask me if the movements of animals are spontaneous; my answer is, "I cannot tell," but analogy points that way. You ask me again, how do I know that there are spontaneous movements? I tell you, "I know it because I feel them." I want to move my arm and I move it without any other immediate cause of the movement but my own will. In vain would any one try to argue me out of this feeling, it is stronger than any proofs; you might as well try to convince me that I do not exist. Number 10 Number 100
979 If there were no spontaneity in men's actions, nor in anything that happens on this earth, it would be all the more difficult to imagine a first cause for all motion. For my own part, I feel myself so thoroughly convinced that the natural state of matter is a state of rest, and that it has no power of action in itself, that when I see a body in motion I at once assume that it is either a living body or that this motion has been imparted to it. My mind declines to accept in any way the idea of inorganic matter moving of its own accord, or giving rise to any action. Number 10 Number 100
980 Yet this visible universe consists of matter, matter diffused and dead, Note 16] matter which has none of the cohesion, the organization, the common feeling of the parts of a living body, for it is certain that we who are parts have no consciousness of the whole. This same universe is in motion, and in its movements, ordered, uniform, and subject to fixed laws, it has none of that freedom which appears in the spontaneous movements of men and animals. So the world is not some huge animal which moves of its own accord; its movements are therefore due to some external cause, a cause which I cannot perceive, but the inner voice makes this cause so apparent to me that I cannot watch the course of the sun without imagining a force which drives it, and when the earth revolves I think I see the hand that sets it in motion. Number 10 Number 100
981 If I must accept general laws whose essential relation to matter is unperceived by me, how much further have I got? These laws, not being real things, not being substances, have therefore some other basis unknown to me. Experiment and observation have acquainted us with the laws of motion; these laws determine the results without showing their causes; they are quite inadequate to explain the system of the world and the course of the universe. With the help of dice Descartes made heaven and earth; but he could not set his dice in motion, nor start the action of his centrifugal force without the help of rotation. Newton discovered the law of gravitation; but gravitation alone would soon reduce the universe to a motionless mass; he was compelled to add a projectile force to account for the elliptical course of the celestial bodies; let Newton show us the hand that launched the planets in the tangent of their orbits. Number 10 Number 100
982 The first causes of motion are not to be found in matter; matter receives and transmits motion, but does not produce it. The more I observe the action and reaction of the forces of nature playing on one another, the more I see that we must always go back from one effect to another, till we arrive at a first cause in some will; for to assume an infinite succession of causes is to assume that there is no first cause. In a word, no motion which is not caused by another motion can take place, except by a spontaneous, voluntary action; inanimate bodies have no action but motion, and there is no real action without will. This is my first principle. I believe, therefore, that there is a will which sets the universe in motion and gives life to nature. This is my first dogma, or the first article of my creed. Number 10 Number 100
983 How does a will produce a physical and corporeal action? I cannot tell, but I perceive that it does so in myself; I will to do something and I do it; I will to move my body and it moves, but if an inanimate body, when at rest, should begin to move itself, the thing is incomprehensible and without precedent. The will is known to me in its action, not in its nature. I know this will as a cause of motion, but to conceive of matter as producing motion is clearly to conceive of an effect without a cause, which is not to conceive at all. Number 10 Number 100
984 It is no more possible for me to conceive how my will moves my body than to conceive how my sensations affect my mind. I do not even know why one of these mysteries has seemed less inexplicable than the other. For my own part, whether I am active or passive, the means of union of the two substances seem to me absolutely incomprehensible. It is very strange that people make this very incomprehensibility a step towards the compounding of the two substances, as if operations so different in kind were more easily explained in one case than in two. Number 10 Number 100
985 The doctrine I have just laid down is indeed obscure; but at least it suggests a meaning and there is nothing in it repugnant to reason or experience; can we say as much of materialism? Is it not plain that if motion is essential to matter it would be inseparable from it, it would always be present in it in the same degree, always present in every particle of matter, always the same in each particle of matter, it would not be capable of transmission, it could neither increase nor diminish, nor could we ever conceive of matter at rest When you tell me that motion is not essential to matter but necessary to it, you try to cheat me with words which would be easier to refute if there was a little more sense in them. For either the motion of matter arises from the matter itself and is therefore essential to it; or it arises from an external cause and is not necessary to the matter, because the motive cause acts upon it; we have got back to our original difficulty. Number 10 Number 100
986 The chief source of human error is to be found in general and abstract ideas; the jargon of metaphysics has never led to the discovery of any single truth, and it has filled philosophy with absurdities of which we are ashamed as soon as we strip them of their long words. Tell me, my friend, when they talk to you of a blind force diffused throughout nature, do they present any real idea to your mind? They think they are saying something by these vague expressions--universal force, essential motion--but they are saying nothing at all. The idea of motion is nothing more than the idea of transference from place to place; there is no motion without direction; for no individual can move all ways at once. In what direction then does matter move of necessity? Has the whole body of matter a uniform motion, or has each atom its own motion.1 According to the first idea the whole universe must form a solid and indivisible mass; according to the second it can only form a diffused and incoherent fluid, which would make the union of any two atoms impossible. What direction shall be taken by this motion common to all matter? Shall it be in a straight line, in a circle, or from above downwards, to the right or to the left? If each molecule has its own direction, what are the causes of all these directions and all these differences? If every molecule or atom only revolved on its own axis, nothing would ever leave its place and there would be no transmitted motion, and even then this circular movement would require to follow some direction. To set matter in motion by an abstraction is to utter words without meaning, and to attribute to matter a given direction is to assume a determining cause. The more examples I take, the more causes I have to explain, without ever finding a common agent which controls them. Far from being able to picture to myself an entire absence of order in the fortuitous concurrence of elements, I cannot even imagine such a strife, and the chaos of the universe is less conceivable to me than its harmony. I can understand that the mechanism of the universe may not be intelligible to the human mind, but when a man sets to work to explain it, he must say what men can understand. Number 10 Number 100
987 If matter in motion points me to a will, matter in motion according to fixed laws points me to an intelligence; that is the second article of my creed. To act, to compare, to choose, are the operations of an active, thinking being; so this being exists. Where do you find him existing, you will say? Not merely in the revolving heavens, nor in the sun which gives us light, not in myself alone, but in the sheep that grazes, the bird that flies, the stone that falls, and the leaf blown by the wind. Number 10 Number 100
988 I judge of the order of the world, although I know nothing of its purpose, for to judge of this order it is enough for me to compare the parts one with another, to study their co-operation, their relations, and to observe their united action. I know not why the universe exists, but I see continually how it is changed; I never fail to perceive the close connection by which the entities of which it consists lend their aid one to another. I am like a man who sees the works of a watch for the first time; be is never weary of admiring the mechanism, though he does not know the use of the instrument and has never seen its face. I do not know what this is for, says he, but I see that each part of it is fitted to the rest, I admire the workman in the details of his work, and I am quits certain that all these wheels only work together in this fashion for some common end which I cannot perceive. Number 10 Number 100
989 Let us compare the special ends, the means, the ordered relations of every kind, then let us listen to the inner voice of feeling; what healthy mind can reject its evidence? Unless the eyes are blinded by prejudices, can they fail to see that the visible order of the universe proclaims a supreme intelligence? What sophisms must be brought together before we fail to understand the harmony of existence and the wonderful co-operation of every part for the maintenance of the rest? Say what you will of combinations and probabilities; what do you gain by reducing me to silence If you cannot gain my consent And how can you rob me of the spontaneous feeling which, in spite of myself, continually gives you the lie? If organized bodies had come together fortuitously in all sorts of ways before assuming settled forms, if stomachs are made without mouths, feet without heads, hands without arms, imperfect organs of every kind which died because they could not preserve their life, why do none of these imperfect attempts now meet our eyes; why has nature at length prescribed laws to herself which she did not at first recognize? I must not be surprised if that which is possible should happen, and if the improbability of the event is compensated for by the number of the attempts. I grant this; yet if any one told me that printed characters scattered broadcast had produced the Æneid all complete, I would not condescend to take a single step to verify this falsehood. You will tell me I am forgetting the multitude of attempts. But how many such attempts must I assume to bring the combination within the bounds of probability? For my own part the only possible assumption is that the chances are infinity to one that the product is not the work of chance. In addition to this, chance combinations yield nothing but products of the same nature as the elements combined, so that life and organization will not be produced by a flow of atoms, and a chemist when making his compounds will never give them thought and feeling in his crucible. Note 17] Number 10 Number 100
990 I was surprised and almost shocked when I read Neuwentit. How could this man desire to make a book out of the wonders of nature, wonders which show the wisdom of the author of nature? His book would have been as large as the world itself before he had exhausted his subject, and as soon as we attempt to give details, that greatest wonder of all, the concord and harmony of the whole, escapes us. The mere generation of living organic bodies is the despair of the human mind; the insurmountable barrier raised by nature between the various species, so that they should not mix with one another, is the clearest proof of her intention. She is not content to have established order, she has taken adequate measures to prevent the disturbance of that order. Number 10 Number 100
991 There is not a being in the universe which may not be regarded as in some respects the common center of all, around which they are grouped, so that they are all reciprocally end and means in relation to each other, The mind is confused and lost amid these innumerable relations, not one of which is itself confused or lost in the crowd. What absurd assumptions are required to deduce all this harmony from the blind mechanism of matter set in motion by chance! In vain do those who deny the unity of intention manifested in the relations of all the parts of this great whole, in vain do they conceal their nonsense under abstractions, coordinations, general principles, symbolic expressions; whatever they do I find it impossible to conceive of a system of entities so firmly ordered unless I believe in an intelligence that orders them. It is not in my power to believe that passive and dead matter can have brought forth living and feeling beings, that blind chance has brought forth intelligent beings, that that which does not think has brought forth thinking beings. Number 10 Number 100
992 I believe, therefore, that the world is governed by a wise and powerful will; I see it or rather I feel it, and it is a great thing to know this. But has this same world always existed, or has it been created? Is there one source of all things? Are there two or many? What is their nature? I know not; and what concern is it of mine? When these things become of importance to me I will try to learn them; till then 1 abjure these idle speculations, which may trouble my peace, but cannot affect my conduct nor be comprehended by my reason. Number 10 Number 100
993 Recollect that I am not preaching my own opinion bat explaining it. Whether matter is eternal or created' whether its origin is passive or not, it is still certain that the whole is one, and that it proclaims a single intelligence; for I see nothing that is not part of the same ordered system, nothing which does not co-operate to the same end, namely, the conservation of all within the established order. This being who wills and can perform his will' this being active through his own power, this being, whoever he may be, who moves the universe and orders all things, is what I call God. To this name I add the ideas of intelligence, power, will, which I have brought together, and that of kindness which is their necessary consequence; but for all this I know no more of the being to which I ascribe them. He hides himself alike from my senses and my understanding; the more I think of him, the more perplexed I am; I know full well that he exists, and that he exists of himself alone; I know that my existence depends on his, and that everything I know depends upon him also. I see God everywhere in his works; I feel him within myself; I behold him all around me; but if I try to ponder him himself, if I try to find out where he is, what he is, what is his substance, he escapes me and my troubled spirit finds nothing. Number 10 Number 100
994 Convinced of my unfitness, I shall never argue about the nature of God unless I am driven to it by the feeling of his relations with myself. Such reasonings are always rash; a wise man should venture on them with trembling, he should be certain that he can never sound their abysses; for the most insolent attitude towards God is not to abstain from thinking of him, but to think evil of him. Number 10 Number 100
995 After the discovery of such of his attributes as enable me to conceive of his existence, I return to myself, and I try to discover what is my place in the order of things which he governs, and I can myself examine. At once, and beyond possibility of doubt, I discover my species; for by my own will and the instruments I can control to carry out my will, I have more power to act upon all bodies about me, either to make use of or to avoid their action at my pleasure, than any of them has power to act upon me against my will by mere physical impulsion; and through my intelligence I am the only one who can examine all the rest. What being here below, except man, can observe others, measure, calculate, forecast their motions, their effects, and unite, so to speak, the feeling of a common existence with that of his individual existence? What is there so absurd in the thought that all things are made for me, when I alone can relate all things to myself? Number 10 Number 100
996 It is true, therefore, that man is lord of the earth on which he dwells; for not only does he tame all the beasts, not only does he control its elements through his industry; but he alone knows how to control it; by contemplation he takes possession of the stars which he cannot approach. Show me any other creature on earth who can make a fire and who can behold with admiration the sun. What! can I observe and know all creatures and their relations; can I feel what is meant by order, beauty, and virtue; can I consider the universe and raise myself towards the hand that guides it; can I love good and perform it; and should I then liken myself to the beasts? Wretched soul, it is your gloomy philosophy which makes you like the beasts; or rather in vain do you seek to degrade your-self; your genius belies your principles, your kindly heart belies your doctrines, and even the abuse of your powers proves their excellence in your own despite. Number 10 Number 100
997 For myself, I am not pledged to the support of any system. 1 am a plain and honest man, one who is not carried away by party spirit, one who has no ambition to be head of a sect; I am content with the place where God has set me; I see nothing, next to God himself, which is better than my species; and if I had to choose my place in the order of creation, what more could I choose than to be a man! Number 10 Number 100
998 I am not puffed up by this thought, I am deeply moved by it; for this state was no choice of mine, it was not due to the deserts of a creature who as yet did not exist. Can I behold myself thus distinguished without congratulating myself on this post of honor, without blessing the hand which bestowed it? The first return to self has given birth to a feeling of gratitude and thankfulness to the author of my species, and this feeling calls forth my first homage to the beneficent Godhead. I worship his Almighty power and my heart acknowledges his mercies. Is it not a natural consequence of our amour de soi to honor our protector and to love our benefactor'. Number 10 Number 100
999 But when, in my desire to discover my own place within my species, I consider its different ranks and the men who fill them, where am I now? What a sight meets my eyes! Where is now the order I perceived? Nature showed me a scene of harmony and proportion; the human race shows me nothing but confusion and disorder. The elements agree together; men are in a state of chaos. The beasts are happy; their king alone is wretched. O Wisdom, where are thy laws? O Providence, is this thy rule over the world? Merciful God, where is thy Power? I behold the earth, and there is evil upon it. Number 10 Number 100
1000 Would you believe it, dear friend, from these gloomy thoughts and apparent contradictions, there was shaped in my mind the sublime idea of the soul, which all my seeking had hitherto failed to discover? While I meditated upon man's nature, I seemed to discover two distinct principles in it; one of them raised him to the study of the eternal truths, to the love of justice, and of true morality, to the regions of the world of thought, which the wise delight to contemplate; the other led him downwards to himself, made him the slave of his senses, of the passions which are their instruments, and thus opposed everything suggested to him by the former principle. When I felt myself carried away, distracted by these conflicting motives, I said, No; man is not one; I will and I will not; I feel myself at once a slave and a free man; I perceive what is right, I love it, and I do what is wrong; I am active when I listen to the voice of reason; I am passive when I am carried away by my passions; and when I yield, my worst suffering is the knowledge that I might have resisted. Number 10 Number 100
1001 Young man, hear me with confidence. I will always be honest with you. If conscience is the creature of prejudice, I am certainly wrong, and there is no such thing as a proof of morality; but if to put oneself first is an inclination natural to man, and if the first sentiment of justice is moreover inborn in the human heart, let those who say man is a simple creature remove these contradictions and I will grant that there is but one substance. Number 10 Number 100
1002 You will note that by this term substance I understand generally the being endowed with some primitive quality, apart from all special and secondary modifications. If then all the primitive qualities which are known to us can be united in one and the same being, we should only acknowledge one substance; but if there are qualities which are mutually exclusive, there are as many different substances as there are such exclusions. You will think this over; for my own part, whatever Locke may say, it is enough for me to recognize matter as having merely extension and divisibility to convince myself that it cannot think, and if a philosopher tells me that trees feel and rocks think Note 18] in vain will he perplex me with his cunning arguments; I merely regard him as a dishonest sophist, who prefers to say that stones have feeling rather than that men have souls. Number 10 Number 100
1003 Suppose a deaf man denies the existence of sounds because he has never heard them. I put before his eyes a stringed instrument and cause it to sound in unison by means of another instrument concealed from him; the deaf man sees the chord vibrate. I tell him, "The sound makes it do that." "Not at all," says he, "the string itself is the cause of the vibration; to vibrate in that way is a quality common to all bodies." "Then show me this vibration in other bodies," I answer, "or at least show me its cause in this string." "I cannot," replies the deaf man; "but because I do not understand how that string vibrates why should I try to explain it by means of your sounds, of which I have not the least idea? It is explaining one obscure fact by means of a cause still more obscure. Make me perceive your sounds; or I say there are no such things." Number 10 Number 100
1004 The more I consider thought and the nature of the human mind, the more likeness I find between the arguments of the materialists and those of 'the deaf man. Indeed, they are deaf to the inner voice which cries aloud to them, in a tone which can hardly be mistaken. A machine does not think, there is neither movement nor form which can produce reflection; something within thee tries to break the bands which confine it; space is not thy measure, the whole universe does not suffice to contain thee; thy sentiments, thy desires, thy anxiety, thy pride itself, have another origin than this small body in which thou art imprisoned. Number 10 Number 100
1005 No material creature is in itself active, and I am active. In vain do you argue this point with me; I feel it, and it is this feeling which speaks to me more forcibly than the reason which disputes it. I have a body which is acted upon by other bodies, and it acts in turn upon them; there is no doubt about this reciprocal action; but my will is independent of my senses; I consent or I resist; I yield or I win the victory, and I know very well in myself when I have done what I wanted and when I have merely given way to my passions. I have always the power to will, but not always the strength to do what I will. When I yield to temptation I surrender myself to the action of external objects. When I blame myself for this weakness, I listen to my own will alone; I am a slave in my vices, a free man in my remorse; the feeling of freedom is never effaced in me but when I myself do wrong, and when I at length prevent the voice of the soul from protesting against the authority of the body. Number 10 Number 100
1006 I am only aware of will through the consciousness of my own will, and intelligence is no better known to me. When you ask me what is the cause which determines my will, it is my turn to ask what cause determines my judgment; for it is plain that these two causes are but one; and if you understand clearly that man is active in his judgments, that his intelligence is only the power to compare and judge you will see that his freedom is only a similar power or one derived from this; he chooses between good and evil as he judges between truth and falsehood; if his judgment is at fault, he chooses amiss. What then is the cause that determines his will? It is his judgment. And what is the cause that determines his judgment? It is his intelligence, his power of judging; the determining cause is in himself. Beyond that, I understand nothing. Number 10 Number 100
1007 No doubt I am not free not to desire my own welfare, I am not free to desire my own hurt; but my freedom consists in this very thing, that I can will what is for my own good, or what I esteem as such, without any external compulsion. Does it follow that I am not my own master because I cannot be other than myself? Number 10 Number 100
1008 The motive power of all action is In the will of a free creature; we can go no farther. It is not the word freedom that is meaningless, but the word necessity. To suppose some action which is not the effect of an active motive power is indeed to suppose effects without cause, to reason in a vicious circle. Either there is no original impulse, or every original impulse has no antecedent cause, and there is no will properly so-called without freedom. Man is therefore free to act, and as such he is animated by an immaterial substance; that is the third article of my creed. From these three you will easily deduce the rest, so that I need not enumerate them. Number 10 Number 100
1009 If man is at once active and free, he acts of his own accord; what he does freely is no part of the system marked out by Providence and it cannot be imputed to Providence. Providence does not will the evil that man does when he misuses the freedom given to him; neither does Providence prevent him doing it, either because the wrong done by so feeble a creature is as nothing in its eyes, or because it could not prevent it without doing a greater wrong and degrading his nature. Providence has made him free that he may choose the good and refuse the evil. It has made him capable of till choice if he uses rightly the faculties bestowed upon him, but it has so strictly limited his powers that the misuse of his freedom cannot disturb the general order. The evil that man does reacts upon himself without affecting the system of the world, without preventing the preservation of the human species in spite of itself. To complain that God does not prevent us from doing wrong is to complain because he has made man of so excellent a nature, that he has endowed his actions with that morality by which they are ennobled, that he has made virtue man's birthright. Supreme happiness consists in self-content; that we may gain this self-content we are placed upon this earth and endowed with freedom, we are tempted by our passions and restrained by conscience. What more could divine power itself have done on our behalf? Could it have made our nature a contradiction, and have given the prize of well-doing to one who was incapable of evil? To prevent a man from wickedness , should Providence have restricted him to instinct and made him a fool? Not so, O God of my soul, I will never reproach thee that thou hast created me in thine own image, that I may be free and good and happy like my Maker! Number 10 Number 100
1010 It is the abuse of our powers that makes us unhappy and wicked. Our cares, our sorrows, our sufferings are of our own making. Moral ills are undoubtedly the work of man, and physical ills would be nothing but for our vices which have made us liable to them. Has not nature made us feel our needs as a means to our preservation? Is not bodily suffering a sign that the machine is out of order and needs attention? Death. . .. Do not the wicked poison their own life and ours? Who would wish to live for ever? Death is the cure for the evils you bring upon yourself; nature would not have you suffer perpetually. How few sufferings are felt by man living in a state of primitive simplicity! His life is almost entirely free from suffering and from passion; he neither fears nor feels death; if he feels it, his sufferings make him desire it; henceforth it is no evil in his eyes. If we were but content to be ourselves we should have no cause to complain of our lot; but in the search for an imaginary good we find a thousand real ills. He who cannot bear a little Pain must expect to suffer greatly. If a man injures his constitution by dissipation, you try to cure him with medicine; the ill he fears is added to the ill he feels; the thought of death makes it horrible and hastens its approach; the more we seek to escape from it, the more we are aware of it; and we go through life in the fear of death, blaming nature for the evils we have inflicted on ourselves by our neglect of her laws. Number 10 Number 100
1011 O Man! seek no further for the author of evil; thou art he. There is no evil but the evil you do or the evil you suffer, and both come from yourself. Evil in general can only spring from disorder, and in the order of the world I find a never-failing system. Evil in particular cases exists only in the mind of those who experience it; and this feeling is not the gift of nature, but the work of man himself. Pain has little power over those who, having thought little, look neither before nor after. Take away our fatal progress, take away our faults and our vices, take away man's handiwork, and all is well. Number 10 Number 100
1012 Where all is well, there is no such thing as injustice. Justice and goodness are inseparable; now goodness is the necessary result of boundless power and of that self-love which is innate in all sentient beings. The omnipotent projects himself so to speak, into the being of his creatures. Creation and preservation are the everlasting work of power; it does not act on that which has no existence; God is not the God of the dead; he could not harm and destroy without injury to himself. The omnipotent can only will what is good. Note 19] Therefore he who is supremely good, because he is supremely powerful, must also be supremely just,. otherwise he would contradict himself; for that love of order which creates order we call goodness and that love of order which preserves order we call justice. Number 10 Number 100
1013 Men say God owes nothing to his creatures I think he owes them all he promised when he gave them their being. Now to give them the idea of something good and to make them feel the need of it, is to promise it to them. The more closely I study myself, the more carefully I consider, the more plainly do I read these words, "Be just and you will be happy." It is not so, however, in the present condition of things, the wicked prospers and the oppression of the righteous continues. Observe how angry we are when this expectation is disappointed. Conscience revolts and murmurs against her Creator; she exclaims with cries and groans, "Thou hast deceived me." Number 10 Number 100
1014 "I have deceived thee, rash soul! Who told thee this? Is thy soul destroyed? Hast thou ceased to exist? O Brutus! O my son! let there be no stain upon the close of thy noble life; do not abandon thy hope and thy glory with thy corpse upon the plains of Philippi. Why dost thou say, 'Virtue is naught,' when thou art about to enjoy the reward of virtue? Thou art about to die I Nay, thou shalt live, and thus my promise is fulfilled." Number 10 Number 100
1015 One might judge from the complaints of impatient men that God owes them the reward before they have deserved it, that he is bound to pay for virtue in advance. Oh! let us first be good and then we shall be happy. Let us not claim the prize before we have won it, nor demand our wages before we have finished our work "It is net in the lists that we crown the victors in the sacred games," says Plutarch, "it is when they have finished their course." Number 10 Number 100
1016 If the soul is immaterial, it may survive the body; and if it so survives, Providence is justified. Had I no other proof of the immaterial nature of the soul, the triumph of the wicked and the oppression of the righteous in this world would be enough to convince me. I should seek to resolve so appalling a discord in the universal harmony. I should say to myself, "All is not over with life, everything finds its place at death." I should still have to answer the question, "What becomes of man when all we know of him through our senses has vanished?" This question no longer presents any difficulty to me when I admit the two substances. It is easy to understand that what is imperceptible to those senses escapes me, during my bodily life, when I perceive through my senses only. When the union of soul and body is destroyed, I think one may be dissolved and the other may be preserved. Why should the destruction of the one imply the destruction of the other? On the contrary, so unlike in their nature, they were during their union in a highly unstable condition, and when this union comes to an end they both return to their natural state; the active vital substance regains all the force which it expended to set in motion the passive dead substance. Alas! my vices make me only too well aware that man is but half alive during this life; the life of the soul only begins with the death of the body. Number 10 Number 100
1017 But what is that life? Is the soul of man in its nature immortal? I know not. My finite understanding cannot hold the infinite; what is called eternity eludes my grasp. What can I assert or deny, how can I reason with regard to what I cannot conceive? I believe that the soul survives the body for the maintenance of order; who knows if this is enough to make it eternal? However, I know that the body is worn out and destroyed by the division of its parts, but I cannot conceive a similar destruction of the conscious nature, and as I cannot imagine how it can die, I presume that it does not die. As this assumption is consoling and in itself not unreasonable, why should I fear to accept it? Number 10 Number 100
1018 I am aware of my soul; it is known to me in feeling and in thought; I know what it is without knowing its essence; I cannot reason about ideas which are unknown to me. What I do know is this, that my personal identity depends upon memory, and that to be indeed the same self I must remember that I have existed, Now after death I could not recall what I was when alive unless I also remembered what I felt and therefore what I did; and I have no doubt that this remembrance will one day form the happiness of the good and the torment of the bad. In this world our inner consciousness is absorbed by the crowd of eager passions which cheat remorse. The humiliation and disgrace involved in the practice of virtue do not permit us to realize its charm. But when, freed from the illusions of the bodily senses, we behold with joy the supreme Being and the eternal truths which flow from him; when all the powers of our soul are alive to the beauty of order and we are wholly occupied in comparing what we have done with what we ought to have done, then it is that the voice of conscience will regain its strength and sway; then it is that the pure delight which springs from self-content, and the sharp regret for our own degradation of that self, will decide by means of overpowering feeling what shall be the fate which each has prepared for himself. My good friend, do not ask me whether there are other sources of happiness or suffering; I cannot tell; that which my fancy pictures is enough to console me in this life and to bid me look for a life to come. I do not say the good will be rewarded, for what greater good can a truly good being expect than to exist in accordance with his nature? But I do assert that the good will be happy, because their maker, the author of all justice, who has made them capable of feeling, has not made them that they may suffer; moreover, they have not abused their freedom upon earth and they have not changed their fate through any fault of their own; yet they have suffered in this life and it will be made up to them in the life to come. This feeling relies not so much on man's deserts as on the idea of good which seems to me inseparable from the divine essence. I only assume that the laws of order are constant and that God is true to himself. Note 20] Number 10 Number 100
1019 Do not ask me whether the torments of the wicked will endure for ever, whether the goodness of their creator can condemn them to the eternal suffering; again, I cannot tell, and I have no empty curiosity for the investigation of useless problems. How does the fate of the wicked concern me? I take little interest in it All the same I find it hard to believe that they will be condemned to everlasting torments. If the supreme justice calls for vengeance, it claims it in this life. The nations of the world with their errors are its ministers. Justice uses self-inflicted ills to punish the crimes which have deserved them. It is in your own insatiable souls, devoured by envy, greed, and ambition, it is in the midst of your false prosperity, that the avenging passions find the due reward of your crimes. What need to seek a hell in the future life? It Is in the breast of the wicked. Number 10 Number 100
1020 When our fleeting needs are over, and our mad desires are at rest' there should also be an end of our passions and our crimes. Can pure spirits be capable of any perversity? Having need of nothing, why should they be wicked? If they are free from our gross senses, if their happiness consists in the contemplation of other beings, they can only desire what is good; and he who cease to be bad can never be miserable. This is what I am inclined to think though I have not been at the pains to come to any decision. O God, merciful and good, whatever thy decrees may be I adore them; if thou should t commit the wicked to everlasting punishment, I abandon my feeble reason to thy justice; but if the remorse of these wretched beings should in the course of time be extinguished, if their sufferings should come to an end. and if the same peace shall one day be the lot of all mankind, I give thanks to thee for this. Is not the wicked my brother? How often have I been tempted to be like him? let him be delivered from his misery and freed from the spirit of hatred that accompanied it; let him be as happy as I myself; his happiness, far from arousing my jealousy, will only increase my own. Number 10 Number 100
1021 Thus it is that, in the contemplation of God in his works, and in the study of such of his attributes as it concerned me to know, I have slowly grasped and developed the idea, at first partial and imperfect, which I have formed of this Infinite Being. But if this idea has become nobler and greater it is also more suited to the human reason. As I approach in spirit the eternal light, I am confused and dazzled by its glory, and compelled to abandon all the earthly notions which helped me to picture it to myself. God is no longer corporeal and sensible; the supreme mind which rules the world is no longer the world itself; in vain do I strive to grasp his inconceivable essence. When I think that it is he that gives life and movement to the living and moving substance which controls all living bodies; when I hear it said that my soul is spiritual and that God is a spirit, I revolt against this abasement of the divine essence; as if God and my soul were of one and the same nature! is if God were not the one and only absolute being, the only really active, feeling, thinking, willing being, from whom we derive our thought, feeling, motion, will, our freedom and our very existence! We are free because he wills our freedom, and his inexplicable substance is to our souls what our souls are to our bodies. I know not whether he has created matter, body, soul, the world itself. The idea of creation confounds me and eludes my grasp; so far as I can conceive of it I believe it; but I know that he has formed the universe and all that is, that he has made and ordered all things. No doubt God is eternal; but can my mind grasp the idea of eternity? Why should I cheat myself with meaningless words? This is what I do understand; before things were -- God was; he will be when they are no more, and if all things come to an end he will still endure. That a being beyond my comprehension should give life to other beings, this is merely difficult and beyond my understanding; but that Being and Nothing should be convertible terms, this is indeed a palpable contradiction, an evident absurdity. Number 10 Number 100
1022 God is intelligent, but how? Man is intelligent when he reasons, but the Supreme Intelligence does not need to reason; there is neither premise nor conclusion for him, there is not even a proposition. The Supreme Intelligence is wholly intuitive, it sees what is and what shall be; all truths are one for it, as all places are but one point and all time but one moment. Man's power makes use of means, the divine power is self-active. God can because he wills; his will is his power. God is good; this is certain; but man finds his happiness in the welfare of his kind, God's happiness consists in the love of order; for it is through order that he maintains what is, and unites each part in the whole. God is just; of this I am sure, it is a consequence of his goodness; man's injustice is not God's work, but his own; that moral justice which seems to the philosophers a presumption against Providence, is to me a proof of its existence. But man's justice consists in giving to each his due; God's justice consists in demanding from each of us an account of that which he has given us. Number 10 Number 100
1023 If I have succeeded in discerning these attributes of which I have no absolute idea, it is m the form of unavoidable deductions, and by the right use of my reason; but I affirm them without understanding them, and at bottom that is no affirmation at all. In vain do I say, God is thus, I feel it, I experience it, none the more do I understand how God can be thus. Number 10 Number 100
1024 In a word the more I strive to envisage his infinite essence the less do I comprehend it; but it is, and that is enough for me; the less I understand, the more I adore. I abase myself, saying, " Being of beings, I am because thou art; to fix my thoughts on thee is to ascend to the source of my being. The best use I can make of my reason is to resign it before thee; my mind delights, my weakness rejoices, to feel myself overwhelmed by thy greatness." Number 10 Number 100
1025 Having thus deduced from the perception of objects of sense and from my inner consciousness, which leads me to judge of causes by my native reason, the principal truths which I require to know, I must now seek such principles of conduct as I can draw from them, and such rules as I must lay down for my guidance in the fulfillment of my destiny in this world, according to the purpose of my Maker. Still following the same method, I do not derive these rules from the principles of the higher philosophy, I find them in the depths of my heart, traced by nature in characters which nothing can efface. I need only consult myself with regard to what I wish to do; what I feel to be right is right, what I feel to be wrong is wrong; conscience is the best casuist; and it is only when we haggle with conscience that we have recourse to the subtleties of argument. Our first duty is towards ourself; yet how often does the voice of others tell us that in seeking our good at the expense of others we are doing ill? We think we are following the guidance of nature, and we are resisting it; we listen to what she says to our senses, and we neglect what she says to our heart; the active being obeys, the passive commands. Conscience is the voice of the soul, the passions are the voice of the body. It is strange that these voices often contradict each other? And then to which should we give heed? Too often does reason deceive us; we have only too good a right to doubt her; but conscience never deceives us; she is the true guide of man; it is to the soul what instinct is to the body; Note 21] he who obeys his conscience is following nature and he need not fear that he will go astray. This is a matter of great importance, continued my benefactor, seeing that I was about to interrupt him; let me stop awhile to explain it more fully. Number 10 Number 100
1026 The morality of our actions consists entirely in the judgments we ourselves form with regard to them. If good is good, it must be good in the depth of our heart as well as in our actions; and the first reward of justice is the consciousness that we are acting justly. If moral goodness is in accordance with our nature, man can only be healthy in mind and body when he is good. If it is not so, and if man is by nature evil, he cannot cease to be evil without corrupting his nature, and goodness in him is a crime against nature. If he is made to do harm to his fellow-creatures, as the wolf is made to devour his prey, a humane man would be as depraved a creature as a pitiful wolf; and virtue alone would cause remorse. Number 10 Number 100
1027 My young friend, let us look within, let us set aside all personal prejudices and see whither our inclinations lead us. Do we take more pleasure in the sight of the sufferings of others or their joys? Is it pleasanter to do a kind action or an unkind action, and which leaves the more delightful memory behind it? Why do you enjoy the theatre? Do you delight in the crimes you behold? Do you weep over the punishment which overtakes the criminal? They say we are indifferent to everything but self-interest; yet we find our consolation in our sufferings in the charms of friendship and humanity, and even in our pleasures we should be too lonely and miserable if we had no one to share them 'with us. If there is no such thing as morality in man's heart, what is the source of his rapturous admiration of noble deeds, his passionate devotion to great men? What connection is there between self-interest and this enthusiasm for virtue? Why should I choose to be Cato dying by his own hand, rather than Caesar in his triumphs? Take from our hearts this love of what is noble and you rob us of the joy of life. The mean-spirited man in whom these delicious feelings have been stifled among vile passions, who by thinking of no one but himself comes at last to love no one but himself, this man feels no raptures, his cold heart no longer throbs with joy, and his eyes no longer fill with the sweet tears of sympathy, he delights in nothing; the wretch has neither life nor feeling, he is already dead. Number 10 Number 100
1028 There are many bad men in this world, but there are few of these dead souls, alive only to self-interest, and insensible to all that is right and good. We only delight in injustice so long as it is to our own advantage; in every other ease we wish the innocent to be protected. If we see some act of violence or injustice in town or country, our hearts are at once stirred to their depths by an instinctive anger and wrath, which bids us go to the help of the oppressed; but we are restrained by a stronger duty, and the law deprives us of our right to protect the innocent. On the other hand, if some deed of mercy or generosity meets our eye, what reverence and love does it inspire! Do we not say to ourselves, "I should like to have done that myself"? What does it matter to us that two thousand years ago a man was just or unjust? and yet we take the same interest in ancient history as if it happened yesterday. What are the crimes of Cataline to me? I shall not be his victim. Why then a have I the same horror of his crimes as if he were living now? We do not hate the wicked merely because of the harm they do to ourselves, but because they are wicked. Not only do we wish to be happy ourselves, we wish others to be happy too, and if this happiness does not interfere with our own happiness, it increases it. In conclusion, whether we will or not, we pity the unfortunate; when we see their suffering we suffer too. Even the most depraved are not wholly without this instinct, and it often leads them to self-contradiction. The highwayman who robs the traveler, clothes the nakedness of the poor; the fiercest murderer supports a fainting man. Number 10 Number 100
1029 Men speak of the voice of remorse, the secret punishment of hidden crimes, by which such are often brought to light. Alas! who does not know its unwelcome voice? We speak from experience, and we would gladly stifle this imperious feeling which causes us such agony. Let us obey the call of nature; we shall see that her yoke is easy and that when we give heed to her voice we find a joy in the answer of a good conscience. The wicked fears and flees from her; he delights to escape from himself; his anxious eyes look around him for some object of diversion; without bitter satire and rude mockery he would always be sorrowful; the scornful laugh is his one pleasure. Not so the just man, who finds his peace within himself; there is joy not malice in his laughter, a joy which springs from his own heart; he is as cheerful alone as in company, his satisfaction does not depend on those who approach him; it includes them. Number 10 Number 100
1030 Cast your eyes over every nation of the world; peruse every volume of its history: in the midst of all these strange and cruel forms of worship, among this amazing variety of manners and customs, you will everywhere find the same ideas of right and justice; everywhere the same principles of morality, the same ideas of good and evil. The old paganism gave birth to abominable gods who would have been punished as scoundrels here below, gods who merely offered, as a picture of supreme happiness, crimes to be committed and lust to be gratified. But in vain did vice descend from the abode of the gods armed with their sacred authority; the moral instinct refused to admit it into the heart of man. While the debaucheries of Jupiter were celebrated, the continence of Xenocrates was revered; the chaste Lucrece adored the shameless Venus; the bold Roman offered sacrifices to Fear; he invoked the god who mutilated his father, and he died without a murmur at the hand of his own father. The most unworthy gods were worshipped by the noblest men. The sacred voice of nature was stronger than the voice of the gods, and won reverence upon earth; it seemed to relegate guilt and the guilty alike to heaven. Number 10 Number 100
1031 There is therefore at the bottom of our hearts an innate principle of justice and virtue, by which, in spite of our maxims, we judge our own actions or those of others to be good or evil; and it is this principle that I call conscience. Number 10 Number 100
1032 But at this word I hear the murmurs of all the wise men so-called. Childish errors, prejudices of our upbringing, they exclaim in concert! There is nothing in the human mind but what it has gained by experience; and we judge everything solely by means of the ideas we have acquired. They go further; they even venture to reject the clear and universal agreement of all peoples, and to set against this striking unanimity in the judgment of mankind, they seek out some obscure exception known to themselves alone; as if the whole trend of nature were rendered null by the depravity of a single nation, and as if the existence of monstrosities made an end of species. But to what purpose does the skeptic Montaigne strive himself to unearth in some obscure corner of the world a custom which is contrary to the ideas of justice? To what purpose does he credit the most untrustworthy traveler, while he refuses to believe the greatest writers? A few strange and doubtful customs, based on local causes, unknown to us; shall these destroy a general inference based on the agreement of all the nations of the earth, differing from each other in all else, but agreed in this? O Montaigne, you pride yourself on your truth and honesty; be sincere and truthful, if a philosopher can be so, and tell me if there is any country upon earth where it is a crime to keep one's plighted word, to be merciful, helpful, and generous, where the good man is scorned, and the traitor is held in honor. Number 10 Number 100
1033 Self-interest, so they say, induces each of us to agree for the common good. But how is it that the good man consents to this to his own hurt? Does a man go to death from self-interest? No doubt each man acts for his own good, but if there is no such thing as moral good to be taken into consideration, self-interest will only enable you to account for the deeds of the wicked; possibly you will not attempt to do more. A philosophy which could find no place for good deeds would be too detestable; you would find yourself compelled either to find some mean purpose, some wicked motive, or to abuse Socrates and slander Regulus. If such doctrines ever took root among us, the voice of nature, together with the voice of reason, would constantly protest against them, till no adherent of such teaching could plead an honest excuse for his partisanship. Number 10 Number 100
1034 It is no part of my scheme to enter at present into metaphysical discussions which neither you nor I can understand, discussions which really lead nowhere. I have told you already that I do not wish to philosophize with you, but to help you to consult your own heart. If all the philosophers in the world should prove that I am wrong, and you feel that I am right, that is all I ask. Number 10 Number 100
1035 For this purpose it is enough to lead you to distinguish between our acquired ideas and our natural feelings; for feeling precedes knowledge; and since we do not learn to seek what is good for us and avoid what is bad for us, but get this desire from nature, in the same way the love of good and the hatred of evil are as natural to us as our self-love. The decrees of conscience are not judgments but feelings. Although all our ideas come from without, the feelings by which they are weighed are within us, and it is by these feelings alone that we perceive fitness or unfitness of things in relation to ourselves, which leads us to seek or shun these things. Number 10 Number 100
1036 To exist is to feel; our feeling is undoubtedly earlier than our intelligence, and we had feelings before we had ideas. Note 22] Whatever may be the cause of our being, it has provided for our preservation by giving us feelings suited to our nature; and no one can deny that these at least are innate. These feelings, so far as the individual is concerned, are amour de soi, fear, pain, the dread of death, the desire for comfort. Again, if, as it is impossible to doubt, man is by nature sociable, or at least fitted to become sociable, he can only be so by means of other innate feelings, relative to his kind; for if only physical well-being were considered. men would certainly be scattered rather than brought together. But the motive power of conscience is derived from the moral system formed through this twofold relation to himself and to his fellow-men. To know good is not to love it; this knowledge is not innate in man; but as soon as his reason leads him to perceive it, his conscience impels him to love it; it is this feeling which is innate. Number 10 Number 100
1037 So I do not think, my young friend, that it is impossible to explain the immediate force of conscience as a result of our own nature, independent of reason itself. And even should it be impossible, it is unnecessary; for those who deny this principle, admitted and received by everybody else in the world, do not prove that there is no such thing; they are content to affirm, and when we affirm its existence we have quite as good grounds as they, while we have moreover the witness within us, the voice of conscience, which speaks on its own behalf. If the first beams of judgment dazzle us and confuse the objects we behold, let us wait till our feeble sight grows clear and strong, and in the light of reason we shall soon behold these very objects as nature has already showed them to us. Or rather let us be simpler and less pretentious; let us be content with the first feelings we experience in ourselves, since science always brings us back to these, unless it has led us astray. Number 10 Number 100
1038 Conscience! Conscience! Divine instinct, immortal voice from heaven; sure guide for a creature ignorant and finite indeed, yet intelligent and free; infallible judge of good and evil, making man like to God! In thee consists the excellence of man's nature and the morality of his actions; apart from thee, I find nothing in myself to raise me above the beasts--nothing but the sad privilege of wandering from one error to another, by the help of an unbridled understanding and a reason which knows no principle. Number 10 Number 100
1039 Thank heaven we have now got rid of all that alarming show of philosophy; we may be men without being scholars; now that we need not spend our life in the study of morality, we have found a less costly and surer guide through this vast labyrinth of human thought. But it is not enough to be aware that there is such a guide; we must know her and follow her. If she speaks to all hearts, how is it that so few give heed to her voice? She speaks to us in the language of nature, and everything leads us to forget that tongue. Conscience is timid, she loves peace and retirement; she is startled by noise and numbers; the prejudices from which she is said to arise are her worst enemies. She flees before them or she is silent; their noisy voices drown her words, so that she cannot get a hearing; fanaticism dares to counterfeit her voice and to inspire crimes in her name. She is discouraged by ill-treatment; she no longer speaks to us, no longer answers to our call; when she has been scorned so long, it is as hard to recall her as it was to banish her. Number 10 Number 100
1040 How often in the course of my inquiries have I grown weary of my own coldness of heart! How often have grief and weariness poured their poison into my first meditations and made them hateful to me! My barren heart yielded nothing but a feeble zeal and a lukewarm love of truth. I said to myself: Why should I strive to find what does not exist? Moral good is a dream, the pleasures of sense are the only real good. When once we have lost the taste for the pleasures of the soul, how hard it is to recover it I How much more difficult to acquire it if we have never possessed it! If there were any man so wretched as never to have done anything all his life long which he could remember with pleasure, and which would make him glad to have lived, that man would be incapable of self-knowledge, and for want of knowledge of goodness, of which his nature is capable, he would be constrained to remain in his wickedness and would be for ever miserable. But do you think there is any one man upon earth so depraved that he has never yielded to the temptation of well-doing? This temptation is so natural, so pleasant, that it is impossible always to resist it; and the thought of the pleasure it has once afforded is enough to recall it constantly to our memory. Unluckily it is hard at first to find satisfaction for it; we have any number of reasons for refusing to follow the inclinations of our heart; prudence, so celled, restricts the heart within the limits of the self; a thousand efforts are needed to break these bonds. The joy of well-doing is the prize of having done well, and we must deserve the prize before we win it. There is nothing sweeter than virtue; but we do not know this till we have tried it. Like Proteus in the fable, she first assumes a thousand terrible shapes when we would embrace her, and only shows her true self to those who refuse to let her go. Number 10 Number 100
1041 Ever at strife between my natural feelings, which spoke of the common weal, and my reason, which spoke of self, I should have drifted through life in perpetual uncertainty, hating evil, '6ving good, and always at war with myself, if my heart had not received further light, if that truth which determined my opinions had not also settled my conduct, and set me at peace with myself. Reason alone is not a sufficient foundation for virtue; what solid ground can be found? Virtue we are told is love of order. But can this love prevail over my love for my own well-being, and ought it so to prevail? Let them give me clear and sufficient reason for this preference. Their so-called principle is in truth a mere p laying with words: for I also say that vice is love of order, differently understood. Wherever there is feeling and intelligence, there is some sort of moral order. The difference is this: the good man orders his life with regard to all men; the wicked orders it for self alone. The latter centers all things round himself; the other measures his radius and remains on the circumference. Thus his place depends on the common center, which is God, and on all the concentric circles which are His creatures. If there is no God, the wicked is right and the good man is nothing but a fool. Number 10 Number 100
1042 My child! May you one day feel what a burden is removed when, having fathomed the vanity of human thoughts and tasted the bitterness of passion, you find at length near at hand the path of wisdom, the prize of this life's labors, the source of that happiness which you despaired of. Every duty of natural law, which man's injustice had almost effaced from my heart, is engraven there, for the second time in the name of that eternal justice which lays these duties upon me and beholds my fulfillment of them. I feel myself merely the instrument of the Omnipotent, who wills what is good, who performs it, who will bring about my own good through the so-operation of my will with his own, and by the right use of my liberty. I acquiesce in the order he establishes, certain that one day I shall enjoy that order and find my happiness in it; for what sweeter joy is there than this, to feel oneself a part of a system where all is good? A prey to pain, I bear it in patience, remembering that it will soon be over, and that it results from a body which is not mine. If I do a good deed in secret, I know that it Is seen, and my conduct in this life is a pledge of the life to come. When I suffer injustice, I say to myself, the Almighty who does all things well will reward me: my bodily needs, my poverty, make the idea of death less intolerable. There will be all the fewer bonds to be broken when my hour comes. Number 10 Number 100
1043 Why is my soul subjected to my senses, and imprisoned in this body by which it is enslaved and thwarted? I know not; have I entered into the counsels of the Almighty? But I may, without rashness, venture on a modest conjecture. I say to myself: If man's soul had remained in a state of freedom and innocence, what merit would there have been in loving and obeying the order he found established, an order which it would not have been to his advantage to disturb? He would be happy, no doubt, but his happiness would not attain to the highest point, the pride of virtue, and the witness of a good conscience within him; he would be but as the angels are, and no doubt the good man will be more than they. Bound to a mortal body, by bonds as strange as they are powerful, his care for the preservation of this body tempts the soul to think only of self, and gives it an interest opposed to the general order of things, which it is still capable of knowing and loving; then it is that the right use of his freedom becomes at once the merit and the reward; then it is that it prepares for itself unending happiness, by resisting its earthly passions and following its original direction. Number 10 Number 100
1044 If even in the lowly position in which we are placed during our present life our first impulses are always good, if all our vices are of our own making, why should we complain that they are our masters? Why should we blame the Creator for the ills we have ourselves created, and the enemies we ourselves have armed against us? Oh, let us leave man unspoilt; he will always find it easy to be good and he will always be happy without remorse. The guilty, 'who assert that they are driven to crime, are liars as well as evil-doers; how is it that they fail to perceive that the weakness they bewail is of their own making; that their earliest depravity was the result of their own will; that by dint of wishing to yield to temptations, they at length yield to them whether they will or no and make them irresistible? No doubt they can no longer avoid being weak and wicked, but they need not have become weak and wicked. Oh, how easy would it be to preserve control of ourselves and of our passions, even in this life, if with habits still unformed, with a mind beginning to expand, we were able to keep to such things as we ought to know, in order to value rightly what is unknown; if we really wished to learn, not that we might shine before the eyes of others, but that we might be wise and good in accordance with our nature, that we might be happy in the performance of our duty. This study seems tedious and painful to us, for we do not attempt it till we are already corrupted by vice and enslaved by our passions. Our judgments and our standards of worth are determined before we have the knowledge of good and evil; and then we measure all things by this false standard, and give nothing its true worth. Number 10 Number 100
1045 There is an age when the heart is still free, but eager, unquiet, greedy of a happiness which is still unknown, a happiness which it seeks in curiosity and doubt; deceived by the senses it settles at length upon the empty show of happiness and thinks it has found it where it is not. In my own case these illusions endured for a long time. Alas! too late did I become aware of them, and I have not succeeded in overcoming them altogether; they will last as long as this mortal body from which they arise. If they lead me astray, I am at least no longer deceived by them; I know them for what they are, and even when I give way to them, I despise myself; far from regarding them as the goal of my happiness, I behold in them an obstacle to it. I long for the time when, freed from the fetters of the body, I shall be myself, at one with myself, no longer torn in two, when I myself shall suffice for my own happiness. Meanwhile I am happy even in this life, for I make small account of all its evils, in which I regard myself as having little or no part, while all the real good that I can get out of this life depends on myself alone. Number 10 Number 100
1046 To raise myself so far as may be even now to this state of happiness, strength, and freedom, I exercise myself in lofty contemplation. I consider the order of the universe, not to explain it by any futile system, but to revere it without ceasing, to adore the wise Author who reveals himself in it. I hold intercourse with him; I immerse all my powers in his divine essence; I am overwhelmed by his kindness, I bless him and his gifts, but I do not pray to him. What should I ask of him--to change the order of nature, to work miracles on my behalf? Should I, who am bound no love above all things the order which he has established in his wisdom and maintained by his providence, should I desire the disturbance of that order on my own account? No, that rash prayer would deserve to be punished rather than to be granted. Neither do I ask of him the power to do right; why should I ask what he has given me already. Has he not given me conscience that I may love the right, reason that I may perceive it, and freedom that I may choose it? If I do evil, I have no excuse; I do it of my own free will; to ask him to change my will is to ask him to do what he asks of me; it is to want him to do the work while I get the wages; to be dissatisfied with my lot is to wish to be no longer a man, to wish to be other than what I am, to wish for disorder and evil. Thou source of justice and truth, merciful and gracious God, in thee do I trust, and the desire of my heart is -- Thy will be done. When I unite my will with thine, I do what thou doest; I have a share in thy goodness; I believe that I enjoy beforehand the supreme happiness which is the reward of goodness. Number 10 Number 100
1047 In my well-founded self-distrust the only thing that I ask of God, or rather expect from his justice, is to correct my error if I go astray, if that error is dangerous to me. To be honest I need not think myself infallible; my opinions, which seem to me true, may be so many lies; for what man is there who does not cling to his own beliefs; and how many men are agreed in everything? The illusion which deceives me may indeed have its source in myself, but it is God alone who can remove it. I have done all I can to attain to truth; but its source is beyond my reach; is it my fault if my strength fails me and I can go no further; it is for Truth to draw near to me. Number 10 Number 100
1048 The good priest had spoken with passion; he and I were overcome with emotion. It seemed to me as if I were listening to the divine Orpheus when he sang the earliest hymns and taught men the worship of the gods. I saw any number of objections which might be raised; yet I raised none, for I perceived that they were more perplexing than serious, and that my inclination took his part. When he spoke to me according to his conscience, my own seemed to confirm what he said. Number 10 Number 100
1049 "The novelty of the sentiments you have made known to me," said I, "strikes me all the more because of what you confess you do not know, than because of what you say you believe. They seem to be very like that theism or natural religion, which Christians profess to confound with atheism or irreligion which is their exact opposite. But in the present state of my faith I should have to ascend rather than descend to accept your views, and I find it difficult to remain just where you are unless I were as wise as you. That I may be at least as honest, I want time to take counsel with myself. By your own showing, the inner voice must be my guide, and you have yourself told me that when it has long been silenced it cannot be recalled in a moment. I take what you have said to heart, and I must consider it. If after I have thought things out, I am as convinced as you are, you will be my final teacher, and I will be your disciple till death. Continue your teaching however ; you have only told me half what I must know. Speak to me of revelation, of the Scriptures, of those difficult doctrines among which I have strayed ever since I was a child, incapable either of understanding or believing them, unable to adopt or reject them." Number 10 Number 100
1050 "Yes, my child," said he, embracing me, "I will tell you all I think; I will not open my heart to you by halves; but the desire you express was necessary before I could cast aside all reserve. So far I have told you nothing but what I thought would be of service to you, nothing but what I was quite convinced of. The inquiry which remains to be made is very difficult. It seems to me full of perplexity, mystery, and darkness; I bring to it only doubt and distrust. I make up my mind with trembling, and I tell you my doubts rather than my convictions. If your own opinions were more settled I should hesitate to show you mine; but in your present condition, to think like me would be gain. Moreover, give to my words only the authority of reason; I know not whether I am mistaken. It is difficult in discussion to avoid assuming sometimes a dogmatic tone; but remember in this respect that all my assertions are but reasons to doubt me. Seek truth for yourself, for my own part I only promise you sincerity. Number 10 Number 100
1051 "In my exposition you find nothing but natural religion; strange that we should need more! How shall I become aware of this need? What guilt can be mine so long as I serve God according to the knowledge he has given to my mind, and the feelings he has put into my heart? What purity of morals, what dogma useful to man and worthy of its author, can I derive from a positive doctrine which cannot be derived without the aid of this doctrine by the right use of my faculties? Show me what you can add to the duties of the natural law, for the glory of God, for the good of mankind, and for my own welfare; and what virtue you will get from the new form of religion which does not result from mine. The grandest ideas of the Divine nature come to us from reason only. Behold the spectacle of nature; listen to the inner voice. Has not God spoken it all to our eyes, to our conscience, to our reason? What more can man tell us? Their revelations do but degrade God, by investing him with passions like our own. Far from throwing light upon the ideas of the Supreme Being, special doctrines seem to me to confuse these ideas; far from ennobling them, they degrade them; to the inconceivable mysteries which surround the Almighty. they add absurd contradictions, they make man proud, intolerant, and cruel; instead of bringing peace upon earth, they bring fire and sword. I ask myself what is the use of it all, and I find no answer. I see nothing but the crimes of men and the misery of mankind. Number 10 Number 100
1052 "They tell me a revelation was required to teach men how God would be served; as a proof of this they point to the many strange rites which men have instituted, and they do not perceive that this very diversity springs from the fanciful nature of the revelation. As soon as the nations took to making God speak, every one made him speak in his own fashion, and made him say what he himself wanted. Had they listened only to what God says in the heart of man, there would have been but one religion upon earth. Number 10 Number 100
1053 "One form of worship was required; just so, but was this a matter of such importance as to require all the power of the Godhead to establish it? Do not let us confuse the outward forms of religion with religion itself. The service God requires is of the heart; and when the heart is sincere that is ever the same. It is a strange sort of conceit which fancies that God takes such an interest in the shape of the priest's vestments, the form of words he utters, the gestures he makes before the altar and all his genuflections. Oh, my friend, stand upright, you will still be too near the earth. God desires to be worshipped in spirit and in truth; this duty belongs to every religion, every country, every individual. As to the form of worship, if order demands uniformity, that is only a matter of discipline and needs no revelation. Number 10 Number 100
1054 "These thoughts did not come to me to begin with. Carried away by the prejudices of my education, and by that dangerous vanity which always strives to lift man out of his proper sphere, when I could not raise my feeble thoughts up to the great Being, I tried to bring him down to my own level. I tried to reduce the distance he has placed between his nature and mine. I desired more immediate relations, more individual instruction; not content to make God in the image of man that I might be favored above my fellows, I desired supernatural knowledge; I required a special form of worship; I wanted God to tell me what he had not told others, or what others had not understood like myself. Number 10 Number 100
1055 "Considering the point 1 had now reached as the common center from which all believers set out on the quest for a more enlightened form of religion, I merely found in natural religion the elements of all religion. I beheld the multitude of diverse sects which hold sway upon earth, each of which accuses the other of falsehood and error; which of these, I asked, is the right? Every one replied, 'My own;' every one said, 'I alone and those who agree with me think rightly, all the others are mistaken.' And how do you know that your sect is in the right? Because God said so. And how do you know God said so? And who told you that God said it? My pastor, who knows all about it. My pastor tells me what to believe and I believe it; he assures me that any one who says anything else is mistaken, and I give no heed to them. Number 10 Number 100
1056 "What! thought I, is not truth one; can that which is true for me be false for you? If those who follow the right path and those who go astray have the same method, what merit or what blame can be assigned to one more than to the other? Their choice is the result of chance; it is unjust to hold them responsible for it, to reward or punish them for being born in one country or another. To dare to say that God judges us in this manner is an outrage on his justice. Number 10 Number 100
1057 "Either all religions are good and pleasing to God, or if there is one which he prescribes for men, if they will be punished for despising it, he will have distinguished it by plain and certain signs by which it can be known as the only true religion; these signs are alike in every time and place, equally plain to all men, great or small, learned or unlearned, Europeans, Indians, Africans,- savages. If there were but one religion upon earth, and if all beyond its pale were condemned to eternal punishment, and if there were in any corner of the world one single honest man who was not convinced by this evidence, the God of that religion would be the most unjust and cruel of tyrants. Number 10 Number 100
1058 "Let us therefore seek honestly after truth; let us yield nothing to the claims of birth, to the authority of parents and pastors, but let us summon to the bar of conscience and of reason all that they have taught us from our childhood. In vain do they exclaim, 'Submit your reason;' a deceiver might say as much; I must have reasons for submitting my reason. Number 10 Number 100
1059 "All the theology I can get for myself by observation of the universe and by the use of my faculties is contained in what I have already told you. To know more one must have recourse to strange means. These means cannot be the authority of men, for every man is of the same species as myself, and all that a man knows by nature I am capable of knowing, and another may be deceived as much as I; when I believe what he says, it is not because he says it but because he proves its truth. The witness of man is therefore nothing more than the witness of my own reason, and it adds nothing to the natural means which God has given me for the knowledge of truth. Number 10 Number 100
1060 "Apostle of truth, what have you to tell me of which I am not the sole judge? God himself has spoken; give heed to his revelation. That is another matter. God has spoken, these are indeed words which demand attention. To whom has he spoken? He has spoken to men. Why then have I heard nothing? He has instructed others to make known his words to you. I understand; it is men who come and tell me what God has said. I would rather have heard the words of God himself; it would have been as easy for him and I should have been secure from fraud. He protects you from fraud by showing that his envoys come from him. How does he show this? By miracles. Where are these miracles? In the books. And who wrote the books? Men. And who saw the miracles? The men who bear witness to them. What! Nothing but human testimony! Nothing but men who tell me what others told them! How many men between God and me! Let us see, however, let us examine, compare, and verify. Oh! if God had but deigned to free me from all this labor, I would have served him with all my heart. Number 10 Number 100
1061 "Consider, my friend, the terrible controversy in which I am now engaged; what vast learning is required to go back to the remotest antiquity, to examine, weigh, confront prophecies, revelations, facts, all the monuments of faith set forth throughout the world, to assign their date, place, authorship, and occasion. What exactness of critical judgment is needed to distinguish genuine documents from forgeries, to compare objections with their answers, translations with their originals; to decide as to the impartiality of witnesses, their common-sense, their knowledge; to make sure that nothing has been omitted, nothing added, nothing transposed, altered. or falsified; to point out any remaining contradictions, to determine what weight should be given to the silence of our adversaries with regard to the charges brought against them; how far were they aware of those charges; did they think them sufficiently serious to require an answer; were books sufficiently well known for our books to reach them; have we been honest enough to allow their books to circulate among ourselves and to leave their strongest objections unaltered? Number 10 Number 100
1062 "When the authenticity of all these documents Is accepted, we must now pass to the evidence of their authors' mission; we must know the laws of chance, and probability, to decide which prophecy cannot be fulfilled without a miracle; we must know the spirit of the original languages, to distinguish between prophecy and figures of speech; we must know what facts are in accordance with nature and what facts are not, so that we may say how far a clever man may deceive the eyes of the simple and may even astonish the learned; we must discover what are the characteristics of a prodigy and how its authenticity may be established, not only so far as to gain credence, hut so that doubt may be deserving of punishment; we must compare the evidence for true and false miracles, and find sure tests to distinguish between them; lastly we must say why God chose as a witness to his words means which themselves require so much evidence on their behalf, as if he were playing with human credulity, and avoiding of set purpose the true means of persuasion. Number 10 Number 100
1063 "Assuming that the divine majesty condescends so far as to make a man the channel of his sacred will, is it reasonable, is it fair, to demand that the whole of mankind should obey the voice of this minister without making him known as such? Is it just to give him as his sole credentials certain private signs, performed in the presence of a few obscure persons, signs which everybody else can only know by hearsay? If one were to believe all the miracles that the uneducated and credulous profess to have seen in every country upon earth, every sect would be in the right; there would be more miracles than ordinary events; and it would be the greatest miracle if there were no miracles wherever there were persecuted fanatics. The unchangeable order of nature is the chief witness to the wise hand that guides it; if there were many exceptions, I should hardly know what to think; for my own part I have too great a faith in God to believe in so many miracles which are so little worthy of him. Number 10 Number 100
1064 "Let a man come and say to us: Mortals, I proclaim to you the will of the Most Highest; accept my words as those of him who has sent me; I bid the sun to change his course, the stars to range themselves in a fresh order, the high places to become smooth, the floods to rise up, the earth to change her face. By these miracles who will not recognize the master of nature? She does not obey impostors, their miracles are wrought in holes and corners, in deserts, within closed doors, where they find easy dupes among a small company of spectators already disposed to believe them. Who will venture to tell me how many eye-witnesses are required to make a miracle credible? What use are your miracles, performed if proof of your doctrine, if they themselves require so much proof? You might as well have let them alone. Number 10 Number 100
1065 "There still remains the most important inquiry of all with regard to the doctrine Note 25] proclaimed; for since those who tell us God works miracles in this world, profess that the devil sometimes imitates them, when we have found the best attested miracles we have got very little further; and since the magicians of Pharaoh dared m the presence of Moses to counterfeit the very signs he wrought at God's command, why should they not, behind his back, claim a like authority? So when we have proved our doctrine by means of miracles, we must prove our miracles by means of doctrine, for fear lest we should take the devil's doings for the handiwork of God. What think you of this dilemma? Number 10 Number 100
1066 "This doctrine, if it comes from God, should bear the sacred stamp of the godhead; not only should it illumine the troubled thoughts which reason imprints on our minds, but it should also offer us a form of worship, a morality, and rules of conduct in accordance with the attributes by means of which we alone conceive of God's essence. If then it teaches us what is absurd and unreasonable, if it inspires us with feelings of aversion for our fellows and terror for ourselves, if it paints us & God, angry, jealous, revengeful, partial, hating men, a God of war and battles, ever ready to strike and to destroy, ever speaking of punishment and torment, boasting even of the punishment of the innocent, my heart would not be drawn towards this terrible God, I would take good care not to quit the realm of natural religion to embrace such a religion as that; for you see plainly I must choose between them. Your God is not ours. He who begins by selecting & chosen people, and proscribing the rest of mankind, is not our common father; he who consigns to eternal punishment the greater part of his creatures, is not the merciful and gracious God revealed to me by my reason. Number 10 Number 100
1067 "Reason tells me that dogmas should be plain, clear, and striking in their simplicity. If there is something lacking in natural religion, it is with respect to the obscurity in which it leaves the great truths it teaches; revelation should teach 'is these truths in a way which the mind of man can understand; it should bring them within his reach, make him comprehend them, so that he may believe them. Faith is confirmed and strengthened by understanding; the best religion is of necessity the simplest. He who hides beneath mysteries and contradictions the religion that he preaches to me, teaches me at the same time to distrust that religion. The God whom I adore is not the God of darkness, he has not given me understanding in order to forbid me to use it; to tell me to submit my reason is to insult the giver of reason. The minister of truth does not tyrannize over my reason, he enlightens it. Number 10 Number 100
1068 "We have set aside all human authority, and without it I do not see how any man can convince another by preaching a doctrine contrary to reason. Let them fight it out, and let us see what they have to say with that harshness of speech which is common to both. Number 10 Number 100
1069 "Inspiration. Reason tells you that the whole is greater than the part; but I tell you, in God's name, that the part is greater than the whole. "Reason.. And who are you to dare to tell me that God contradicts himself? And which shall I choose to believe, God who teaches me, through my reason, the eternal truth, or you who, in his name, proclaim an absurdity? "Inspiration. Believe me, for my teaching is more positive; and I will prove to you beyond all manner of doubt that he has sent me. "Reason. What! you will convince me that God has sent you to bear witness against himself l What sort of proofs will you adduce to convince me that God speaks more surely by your mouth than through the understanding he has given me? "Inspiration. The understanding he has given you! Petty, conceited creature! As if you were the first impious person who had been led astray through his reason corrupted by sin. "Reason. Man of God, you would not be the first scoundrel who asserts his arrogance as a proof of his mission. "Inspiration. What! do even philosophers call names? "Reason. Sometimes, when the saints set them the example. "Inspiration. Oh, but I have a right to do it, for I am speaking on God's behalf. "Reason. You would do well to show your credentials before you make use of your privileges. "Inspiration. My credentials are authentic, earth and heaven will bear witness on my beh&1L Follow my arguments carefully, if you please. "Reason. Your arguments! You forget what you are saying. When you teach me that my reason this leads me, do you not refute what it might have said on your behalf? He who denies the right of reason, must convince me without recourse to her aid. For suppose you have convinced me by reason, how am I to know that it is not my reason, corrupted by sin, which makes me accept what you say? Besides, what proof, what demonstration. can you advance, more self-evident than the axiom it is to destroy? It is more credible that a good syllogism is a lie, than that the part is greater than the whole. "Inspiration: What a difference! There is no answer to my evidence; it is of a supernatural kind. "Reason: Supernatural! What do you mean by the word? I do not understand it. "Inspiration: I mean changes in the order of nature, prophecies, signs, and wonders of every kind. "Reason Signs and wonders! I have never seen anything of the kind. "Inspiration Others have seen them for you. Clouds of witnesses -- the witness of whole nations. - - "Reason. Is the witness of nations supernatural? "Inspiration. No; but when it is unanimous, it is incontestable. "Reason. There is nothing so incontestable as the principles of reason. and one cannot accept an absurdity on human evidence. Once more, let us see your supernatural evidence, for the consent of mankind is not supernatural. "Inspiration. Oh, hardened heart, grace does not speak to you. "Reason. That is not my fault; for by your own showing, one must have already received grace before one is able to ask for it. Begin by speaking to me in its stead. "Inspiration. But that is just what I am doing, and you will not listen. But what do you say to prophecy? "Reason. In the first place, I say I have no more heard a prophet than I have seen a miracle. In the next, I say that no prophet could claim authority over me. "Inspiration.. Follower of the devil! Why should not the words of the prophets have authority over you? "Reason. Because three things are required, three things which will never happen: firstly, I must have heard the prophecy; secondly, I must have seen its fulfillment; and thirdly, it must be clearly proved that the fulfillment of the prophecy could not by any possibility have been a mere coincidence; for even if it was as precise, as plain, and clear as an axiom of geometry, since the clear-ness of a chance prediction does not make its fulfillment impossible, this fulfillment when it does take place does not, strictly speaking, prove what was foretold. Number 10 Number 100
1070 "See what your so-called supernatural proofs, your miracles, your prophecies come to: believe all this upon the word of another, submit to the authority of men the authority of God which speaks to my reason. If the eternal truths which my mind conceives of could suffer any shock. there would be no sort of certainty for me; and far from being sure that you speak to me on God's behalf, I should not even be sure that there is a God. Number 10 Number 100
1071 "My child, here are difficulties enough, but these are not all. Among so many religions, mutually excluding and proscribing each other, one only is true. if indeed any one of them is true. To recognize the true religion we must inquire into, not one, but all; and in any question whatsoever we have no right to condemn unheard. Note 26] The objections must be compared with the evidence; we must know what accusation each brings against the other, and what answers they receive. The plainer any feeling appears to us, the more we must try to discover why so many other people refuse to accept it. We should be simple, indeed, if we thought it enough to hear the doctors on our own side, in order to acquaint ourselves with the arguments of the other. Where can you find theologians who pride themselves on their honesty? Where are those who, to refute the arguments of their opponents, do not begin by making out that they are of little importance? A man may make a good show among his own friends, and be very proud of his arguments, who would cut & very poor figure with those same arguments among those who are on the other side. Would you find out for yourself from books? What learning you will need! What languages you must learn; what libraries you must ransack; what an amount of reading must be got through! Who will guide me in such a choice? It will be hard to find the best books on the opposite side in any one country, and all the harder to find those on all sides; when found they would be easily answered. The absent are always in the wrong, and bad arguments boldly asserted easily efface good arguments put forward with scorn. Besides books are often very misleading, and scarcely express the opinions of their authors. If you think you can judge the Catholic faith from the writings of Bossuet, you will find yourself greatly mistaken when you have lived among us. You will see that the doctrines with which Protestants are answered are quite different from those of the pulpit. To judge a religion rightly, you must not study it in the books of its partisans, you must learn it in their lives; this is quite another matter. Each religion has its own traditions, meaning, customs, prejudices, which form the spirit of its creed, and must be taken in connection with it. Number 10 Number 100
1072 "How many great nations neither print books of their own nor read ours! How shall they judge of our opinions, or we of theirs? We laugh at them, they despise us; and if our travelers turn them into ridicule, they need only travel among us to pay us back in our own coin. Are there not, in every country, men of common-sense, honesty, and good faith, lovers of truth, who only seek to know what truth is that they may profess it? Yet every one finds truth in his own religion, and thinks the religion of other nations absurd; no all these foreign religions are not so absurd as they seem to us, or else the reason we find for our own proves nothing. Number 10 Number 100
1073 "We have three principal forms of religion in Europe. One accepts one revelation, another two, and another three. Each hates the others, showers curses on them, accuses them of blindness, obstinacy, hardness of heart, and falsehood. What fair-minded man will dare to decide between them without first carefully weighing their evidence, without listening attentively to their arguments? That which accepts only one revelation is the oldest and seems the best established; that which accepts three is the newest and seems the most consistent; that which accepts two revelations and rejects the third may perhaps be the best, but prejudice is certainly against it. its inconsistency is glaring. Number 10 Number 100
1074 "In all three revelations the sacred books are written in languages unknown to the people who believe in them. The Jews no longer understand 'Hebrew, the Christians understand neither Hebrew nor Greek; the Turks and Persians do not understand Arabic, and the Arabs of our time do not speak the language of Mohammed. Is not it a very foolish way of teaching, to teach people in an unknown tongue? These books are translated, you say. What an answer! How am I to know that the translations are correct, or how am I to make sure that such a thing as a correct translation is possible? If God has gone so far as to speak to men, why should he require an interpreter? Number 10 Number 100
1075 "I can never believe that every man is obliged to know what is contained in books, and that he who is out of reach of these books, and of those who understand them, will be punished for an ignorance which is no fault of his. Books upon books! What madness! As all Europe is full of books, Europeans regard them as necessary, forgetting that they are unknown throughout three-quarters of the globe. Were not all these books written by men? Why then should a man need them to teach him his duty, and how did he learn his duty before these books were in existence? Either he must have learnt his duties for himself, or his ignorance must have been excused. Number 10 Number 100
1076 "Our Catholics talk loudly of the authority of the Church; but what is the use of it all, if they also need just as great an array of proofs to establish that authority as the other seeks to establish their doctrine? The Church decides that the Church has a right to decide. What a well-founded authority! Go beyond it, and you are back again in our discussions. Number 10 Number 100
1077 "Do you know many Christians who have taken the trouble to inquire what the Jews allege against them? If any one knows anything at all about it, it is from the writings of Christians. What a way of ascertaining the arguments of our adversaries! But what is to be done? If any one dared to publish in our day books which were openly in favor of the Jewish religion. We should punish the author, publisher, and bookseller. Note 27] This regulation is a sure and certain plan for always being in the right. It is easy to refute those who dare not venture to speak. Number 10 Number 100
1078 "Those among us who have the opportunity of talking with Jews are little better off. These unhappy people feel that they are in our power; the tyranny they have suffered makes them timid; they know that Christian charity thinks nothing of injustice and cruelty; will they dare to run the risk of an outcry against blasphemy? Our greed inspires us with zeal, and they are so rich that they must be in the wrong. The more learned, the more enlightened they are, the more cautious. You may convert some poor wretch whom you have paid to slander his religion; you get some wretched old-clothes-man to speak, and he says what you want; you may triumph over their ignorance and cowardice, while all the time their men of learning are laughing at your stupidity. But do you think you would get off so easily in any place where they knew they were safe? At the Sorbonne it is plain that the Messianic prophecies refer to Jesus Christ. Among the rabbis of Amsterdam it is just as clear that they have nothing to do with him. I do not think I have ever heard the arguments of the Jews as to why they should not have a free state, schools and universities, where they can speak and argue without danger. Then alone can we know what they have to say. Number 10 Number 100
1079 "At Constantinople the Turks state their arguments, but we dare not give ours; then it is our turn to cringe. Con we blame the Turks if they require us to show the same respect for Mohammed, in whom we do not believe, as we demand from the Jews with regard to Jesus Christ in whom they do not believe? Are we right? On what grounds of justice can we answer this question? Number 10 Number 100
1080 "Two-thirds of mankind are neither Jews, Mahommedans, nor Christians; and how many millions of men have never heard the name of Moses, Jesus Christ, or Mohammed? They deny it; they maintain that our missionaries go everywhere. That is easily said. But do they go into the heart of Africa, still undiscovered, where as yet no European has ever ventured? Do they go to Eastern Tartary to follow on horseback the wandering tribes, whom no stranger approaches, who not only know nothing of the pope, but have scarcely heard tell of the Grand Lama? Do they penetrate into the vast continents of America, where there are still whole nations unaware that the people of another world have set foot on their shores' Do they go to Japan. where their intrigues have led to their perpetual banishment, where their predecessors are only known to the rising generation as skilful plotters who came with feigned zeal to take possession in secret of the empire? Do they reach the harems of the Asiatic princes to preach the gospel to those thousands of poor slaves? What have the women of those countries done that no missionary may preach the faith to them? Will they all go to hell because of their Reclusion? Number 10 Number 100
1081 "If it were true that the gospel is preached throughout the world, what advantage would there be? The day before the first missionary set foot in any country, no doubt somebody died who could not hear him. Now tell me what we shall do with him? If there were a single soul in the whole world, to whom Jesus Christ had never been preached, this objection would be as strong for that man as for a quarter of the human race. Number 10 Number 100
1082 "If the ministers of the gospel have made themselves heard among far-off nations, what have they told them which might reasonably be accepted on their word, without further and more exact verification? You preach to me God, born and dying, two thousand years ago, at the other end of the world, in some small town I know not where; and you tell me that all who have not believed this mystery are damned. These are strange things to be believed so quickly on the authority of an unknown person. Why did your God make these things happen so far off, if he would compel me to know about them? Is it a crime to be unaware of what is happening half a world away? Could I guess that in another hemisphere there was a Hebrew nation and a town called Jerusalem? You might as well expect me to know what was happening in the moon. You say you have come to teach me; but why did you not come and teach my father, or why do you consign that good old man to damnation because he knew nothing of all this? Must he be punished everlastingly for your laziness, he who was so kind and helpful, he who sought only for truth? Be honest; put yourself in my place; see if I ought to believe, on your word alone, all these incredible thing, which you have told me, and reconcile all this injustice with the just God you proclaim to me. At least allow me to go and see this distant land where such wonders, unheard of in my own country, took place; let me go and see why the inhabitants of Jerusalem put their God to death as a robber. You tell me they did not know he was God. What then shall I do, I who have only heard of him from your You say they have been punished, dispersed, oppressed, enslaved; that none of them dare approach that town. Indeed they richly deserved it; but what do its present inhabitants say of their crime in slaying their God? They deny him; they too refuse to recognize God as God. They are no better than the children of the original inhabitants. Number 10 Number 100
1083 "What! In the very town where God was put to death, neither the former nor the latter inhabitants knew him, and you expect that I should know him, I who was born two thousand years after his time, and two thousand leagues away? Do you not see that before I can believe this book which you call sacred, but which I do not in the least understand, I must know from others than yourself when and by whom it was written, how it has been preserved, how it came into your possession, what they say about it in those lands where it is rejected, and what are their reasons for rejecting it, though they know as well as you what you are telling me? You perceive I must go to Europe, Asia, Palestine, to examine these things for myself; it would be madness to listen to you before that. Number 10 Number 100
1084 "Not only does this seem reasonable to me, but I maintain that it is what every wise man ought to say in similar circumstances; that he ought to banish to a great distance the missionary who wants to instruct and baptize him all of a sudden before the evidence is verified. Now I maintain that there is no revelation against which these or similar objections cannot be made, and with more force than against Christianity. Hence it follows that if there is but one true religion and if every man is bound to follow it under pain of damnation, he must spend his whole life in studying, testing, comparing all these religions, in travelling through the countries in which they are established. No man is free from a man's first duty; no one has a right to depend on another's judgment. The artisan who earns his bread by his daily toil, the ploughboy who cannot read, the delicate and timid maiden, the invalid who can scarcely leave his hod, all without exception must study, consider, argue, travel over the whole world; there will be no more fixed and settled nations; the whole earth will swarm with pilgrims on their way, at great cost of time and trouble, to verify, compare, and examine for themselves the various religions to be found. Then farewell to the trades, the arts, the sciences of mankind, farewell to all peaceful occupations; there can be no study but that of religion, even the strongest, the most industrious the most intelligent, the oldest, will hardly be able in his last years to know where he is; and it will be a wonder if he manages to find out what religion he ought to live by, before the hour of his death. Number 10 Number 100
1085 Do you want to compromise this method and give at least some weight to the authority of men? Immediately you will give in to it completely. If the son of a Christian does well to follow the religion of his father without any profound and impartial reflection, then why would the son of a Turk do wrong to follow his father's religion? I defy all the intolerant people of the world to answer this in a way that would satisfy a sensible man. Number 10 Number 100
1086 "Hard pressed by these arguments, some prefer to make God unjust and to punish the innocent for the sins of their fathers, rather than to renounce their barbarous dogmas. Others get out of the difficulty by kindly sending an angel to instruct all those who in invincible ignorance have lived a righteous life. A good idea, that angel! Not content to be the slaves of their own inventions they expect God to make use of them also! Number 10 Number 100
1087 "Behold, my son, the absurdities to which pride and intolerance bring us, when everybody wants others to think as he does, and everybody fancies that he has an exclusive claim upon the rest of mankind. I call to witness the God of Peace whom I adore. and whom I proclaim to you, that my inquires were honestly made; but when I discovered that they were and always would be unsuccessful, and that I was embarked upon a boundless ocean, I turned back, and restricted my faith within the limits of my primitive ideas. I could never convince myself that God would require such learning of me under pain of hell. So I closed all my books. There is one book which is open to every one--the book of nature. In this good and great volume I learn to serve and adore its Author. There is no excuse for not reading this book, for it speaks to all in a language they can understand. Suppose I had been born in a desert island, suppose I had never seen any man but myself, suppose I had never heard what took place in olden days in a remote corner of the world; yet if I use my reason, if I cultivate it, if I employ rightly the innate faculties which God bestows upon me, I shall learn by myself to know and love him, to love his works, to will what he wills, and to fulfil all my duties upon earth, that I may do his pleasure. What more can all human learning teach me? Number 10 Number 100
1088 "With regard to revelation, if I were a more accomplished disputant, or a more learned person, perhaps I should feel its truth, its usefulness for those who are happy enough to perceive it; but if I find evidence for it which I cannot combat, I also find objections against it which I cannot overcome. There are so many weighty reasons for and against that I do not know what to decide, so that I neither accept nor reject it I only reject all obligation to be convinced of its truth; for this so-called obligation is incompatible with God's justice, and far from removing objections in this way it would multiply them, and would make them insurmountable for the greater part of mankind. In this respect I maintain an attitude of reverent doubt. I do not presume to think myself infallible; other men may have been able to make up their minds though the matter seems doubtful to myself; I am speaking for myself, not for them; I neither blame them nor follow in their steps; their judgment may be superior to mine, but it is no fault of mine that my judgment does not agree with it. Number 10 Number 100
1089 "I own also that the holiness of the gospel speaks to my heart, and that this is an argument which I should be sorry to refute. Consider the books of the philosophers with all their outward show; how petty they are in comparison! Can a book at once so grand and so simple be the work of men? Is it possible that he whose history is contained in this book is no more than man? Is the tone of this book, the tone of the enthusiast or the ambitious sectary? What gentleness and purity in his actions, what a touching grace in his teaching, how lofty are his sayings, how profoundly wise are his sermons, how ready, how discriminating, and how just are his answers! What man, what sage, can live, suffer, and die without weakness or ostentation? When Plato describes his imaginary good man, overwhelmed with the disgrace of crime, and deserving of all the rewards of virtue, every feature of the portrait is that of Christ; the resemblance is so striking that it has been noticed by all the Fathers, and there can be no doubt about it. What prejudices and blindness must there be before we dare to compare the son of Sophronisca with the son of Mary. How far apart they are! Socrates dies a painless death, he is not put to open shame, and he plays his part easily to the last; and if this easy death had not done honor to his life, we might have doubted whether Socrates, with all his intellect, was more than a mere sophist. He invented morality, so they say; others before him had practiced it; he only said what they had done, and made use of their example in his teaching. Aristides was just before Socrates defined justice Note 28]; Leonidas died for his country before Socrates declared that patriotism was a virtue; Sparta was sober before Socrates extolled sobriety; there were plenty of virtuous men in Greece before he defined virtue But among the men of his own time where did Jesus find that pure and lofty morality of which he is both the teacher and pattern? Note 29]The voice of loftiest wisdom arose among the fiercest fanaticism, the simplicity of the most heroic virtues did honor to the most degraded of nations One could wish no easier death than that of Socrates, calmly discussing philosophy with his friends; one could fear nothing worse than that of Jesus, dying in torment, among the insults, the mockery, the curses of the whole nation. In the midst of these terrible sufferings, Jesus prays for his cruel murderers. Yes, if the life and death of Socrates are those of a philosopher, the life and death of Christ are those of a God. Shall we say that the gospel story is the work of the imagination? My friend, such things are not imagined; and the doings of Socrates, which no one doubts, are less well attested than those of Jesus Christ. At best, you only put the difficulty from you; it would be still more incredible that several persons should have agreed together to invent such a book, than that there was one man who supplied its subject matter. The ton6 and morality of this story are not those of any Jewish authors, and the gospel indeed contains characters so great, so striking, so entirely inimitable, that their invention would be more astonishing than their hero. With all this the same gospel is full of incredible things, things repugnant to reason, things which no natural man can understand or accept. What can you do among so many contradictions? You can be modest and wary, my child; respect in silence what you can neither reject nor understand, and humble yourself in the sight of the Divine Being who alone knows the truth. Number 10 Number 100
1090 "This is the unwilling skepticism in which I rest; but this skepticism is in no way painful to me, for it does not extend to matters of practice, and I am well assured as to the principles underlying all my duties. I serve God in the simplicity of my heart; I only seek to know what affects my conduct. As to those dogmas which have no effect upon action or morality, dogmas about which so many men torment themselves, I give no heed to them. I regard all individual religions as so many wholesome institutions which prescribe a uniform method by which each country may do honor to God in public worship; institutions which may each have its reason m the country, the government, the genius of the people, or in other local causes which make one preferable to another In a given time or place. I think them all good alike, when God is served in a fitting manner. True worship is of the heart. God rejects no homage, however offered, provided it is sincere. Called to the service of the Church in my own religion, I fulfil as scrupulously as I can all the duties prescribed to me, and my conscience would reproach me if I were knowingly wanting with regard to any point. You are aware that after being suspended for a long time, have, through the influence of M. Mellarede, obtained permission to resume my priestly duties, as a means of livelihood. I used to say Mass with the levity that comes from long experience even of the most serious matters when they are too familiar to us; with my new principles I now celebrate it with more reverence; I dwell upon the majesty of the Supreme Being, his presence, the insufficiency of the human mind, which so little realizes what concerns its Creator. When I consider how I present before him the prayers of all the people in a form laid down for me, I carry out the whole ritual exactly; I give heed to what I say, I am careful not to omit the least word, the least ceremony; when the moment of the consecration approaches, I collect my powers, that I may do all things as required by the Church and by the greatness of this sacrament; I strive to annihilate my own reason before the Supreme Mind; I say to myself, Who art thou to measure infinite power? I reverently pronounce the sacramental words, and I give to their effect all the faith I can bestow. Whatever may be this mystery which passes. understanding, I am not afraid that at the day of judgment I shall be punished for having profaned it in my heart. Number 10 Number 100
1101 When we have reached this point, what a new hold we have over our pupil; what new ways of speaking to his heart! Then alone does he find a true interest in being good, in doing what is right when he is far from every human eye, and when he is not driven to it by law -- to be just before himself and God, to do his duty, even at the cost of his life, and to bear in his heart virtue, not only for the love of order which we all subordinate to the love of self, but for the love of the author of his being, a love which mingles with that same amour de soi -- so that he may finally enjoy the lasting happiness which the peace of a good conscience and the contemplation of that supreme being promise him in another life after he has used this life well. Go beyond this, and I see nothing but injustice, hypocrisy, and falsehood among men. Private interest, which in competition necessarily prevails over everything else, teaches all things to adorn vice with the mask of virtue. Let all other men do what is good for me at the cost of what is good for themselves; let everything relate to me alone; let the whole human race perish, if necessary, in suffering and want, to spare me a moment's pain or hunger. Such is the interior language of every non-believer who reasons. Yes, I shall always maintain that whoever says in his heart, "There is no God" but says otherwise out loud, is either a liar or a madman. 10 100
1102 Reader, it is all in vain; I perceive that you and I shall never see Emile with the same eyes. You will always picture him like your own young people -- hasty, petulant, flighty, wandering from feast to feast, from entertainment, never able to focus on anything. You smile when I expect to make a thinker, a philosopher, a young theologian, of an ardent, lively, eager, and fiery young man at the most impulsive period of youth. This dreamer, you say, is always in pursuing his dreams; when he gives us a pupil of his own making, he does not merely form him, he creates him, he makes him up out of his own head; and while believing he is following the steps of nature, he is getting further and further from her. But for me, when I compare my pupil with yours, I can scarcely find anything in common between them. Nurtured so differently, it is almost a miracle if they are alike in any way. Since his childhood was passed in the freedom they assume in youth, in his youth he begins to bear the rule they bore as children. This rule becomes hateful to them, they are sick of it, and they see in it nothing but their masters' tyranny; when they escape from childhood, they think they must shake off all constraint, they then make up for the prolonged restraint imposed upon them, as a prisoner, freed from his fetters, moves and stretches and flexes his limbs. 10 100
1103 Emile, in contrast, is proud to be a man and to submit to the constraints of his growing reason. His body, already well formed, no longer needs so much action, and begins to control itself, while his half-fledged mind tries its wings on every occasion. Thus the age of reason becomes for the one the age of license; for the other, the age of reasoning. 10 100
1104 Would you know which of the two is nearer to the order of nature? Consider the differences between those who are more or less removed from it. Observe young villagers and see if they are as undisciplined as yours. "Savages in their childhood," says the Sr. Le Beau," are seen always, and ever busy with sports that keep the body in motion; but scarcely do they reach adolescence than they become quiet and dreamy; they no longer devote themselves to games of skill or chance." Having been brought up in full freedom like young peasants and savages, Emile should behave like them and change as he grows up. The whole difference is that instead of merely being active in play or to secure food, he has in his work and in his games learned to think. Having reached this stage, and by this route, he is quite ready to enter upon the next stage to which I introduce him. The subjects I suggest arouse his curiosity -- because they are beautiful in themselves, because they are completely new to him, and because he is in a condition to understand them. Your young people, on the other hand, are weary and overdone with your stale lessons, your long sermons, and your eternal catechisms. Why should they not refuse to devote their minds to what has made them sad, to the heavy precepts that have been continually piled upon them, to meditations on the author of their being who has been shown as the enemy of their pleasures? All this has only inspired in them aversion, disgust; constraint has set them against it. What means will they use then they begin to choose for themselves? they need something new to please them; you must not repeat what they were told as children. It is the same thing with my pupil: when he is a man I speak to him as a man, and only tell him what is new to him. It is precisely because they are tedious to your pupils that he will find them to his taste. 10 100
1105 This is how I doubly gain time for him by retarding nature to the advantage of reason. But have I indeed retarded the progress of nature? No, I have only prevented the imagination from hastening it. I have employed another sort of teaching to counterbalance the precocious instruction which the young man receives from elsewhere. While the torrent of our institutions carries him along, to draw him towards the opposite direction by different institutions is not to remove him from his proper place but to keep him in it. 10 100
1106 Nature's true time comes at last, as come it must. Since man must die, he must reproduce himself, so that the species may endure and the order of the world continue. When by the signs I have spoken of you anticipate this critical moment, immediately abandon forever your former tone. He is still your disciple, but not your pupil. He is your friend, he is a man; treat him as such from now on. 10 100
1107 What! Must I abdicate my authority when most I need it? Must I abandon the adult to himself at the moment when he least knows how to conduct himself, when he may fall into the greatest errors? Must I renounce my rights when it is most important to him that I should exercise them? Your rights. Who tells you to renounce them? It is only now that they begin for him. Until now all you have gained has been won by force or guile; authority, the law of duty, were unknown to him. You had to constrain or deceive him to make him obey. But now with how many new chains you surround his heart. Reason, friendship, recognition, gratitude, a thousand bonds of affection, speak to him in a voice he cannot misunderstand. His ears are not yet dulled by vice, he is still sensitive only to the passions of nature. The first of these, which is amour de soi, delivers him to you; habit confirms it. If a momentary transport tears him from you, regret leads him back to you in an instant. The sentiment which attaches him to you is the only permanent sentiment; all the others pass and cancel each other out. Do not let him become corrupt, and he will always be docile; he will not begin to rebel till he is already perverted. 10 100
1108 I certainly admit that if by confronting head-on his growing desires you go and stupidly treat as crimes the new needs that are beginning to make themselves felt in him, you will not be listened to for long. But as soon as you abandon my method I cannot be answerable for the consequences. Remember that you are nature's minister; you will never be her enemy. 10 100
1109 But what shall we decide to do? You see no alternative but either to favor his inclinations or to combat them, to be his tyrant or his accomplice; and both of these may have such dangerous consequences that one must indeed hesitate between them. 10 100
1110 The first way to resolve this difficulty is to marry him off quickly. This is undoubtedly the safest and most natural expedient. I doubt, however, that it is either the best or the most useful. I will give my reasons later; meanwhile I admit that young people should marry when they reach a marriageable age. But this age comes before the proper time for them. It is we who have made them precocious; marriage should be postponed to maturity. 10 100
1111 If it were merely a case of listening to their wishes and following their lead it would be an easy matter. But there are so many contradictions between the rights of nature and the laws of society that to conciliate them we must continually make mistakes and equivocate. It requires much art to prevent social man from becoming totally artificial. 10 100
1112 For the reasons just stated, I consider that by the means I have indicated and others like them the ignorance of the desires and purity of the senses can be extended at least until the age of twenty. This is so true that among the Germans a young man who lost his virginity before that age was considered dishonored; and the writers justly attribute the vigor of constitution and the number of children among the Germans to the continence of these peoples during youth. 10 100
1113 This period may be prolonged still further, and a few centuries ago nothing was more common even in France. Among other well-known examples, Montaigne's father, a man no less scrupulous and true than strong and healthy, swore that he was still a virgin when he married at thirty-three after having served for a long time in the Italian wars. We may see in the writings of his son what vigor and gaiety were shown by the father when he was over sixty. Certainly the contrary opinion depends rather on our own morals and our own prejudices than on the experience of the species as a whole. 10 100
1114 I may, therefore, leave to one side the experience of our youth; it proves nothing for those who have been educated in another fashion. Considering that nature has fixed no exact limits which cannot be advanced or postponed, I think one can, without going outside of its law, assume that under my care Emile has so far remained in his first innocence, and I see that this happy epoch is about to end. Surrounded by ever-increasing perils, he will escape me whatever I do. At the first chance, and this chance will not be slow to arrive, he is going to follow the blind instinct of his senses; one could bet a thousand to one that he will be lost. I have reflected on the morals of mankind too much not to be aware of the invincible influence of this first moment on the rest of his life. If I dissimulate and pretend to see nothing, he will take advantage of my weakness; believing he can fool me, he will despise me and I become an accomplice to his fall. If I try to get him back, the time is past; he no longer hears me; I become bothersome, hateful, intolerable to him; it will take him long to get rid of me. There is therefore only one reasonable course to take -- that is to make him accountable for his own actions to himself, to guarantee him at least from the surprises of error and to show him plainly the dangers that surround him. I have restrained him so far through his ignorance; now his restraint must be his own knowledge. 10 100
1115 This new instruction is important, and it will be useful to take up things where we left them. This is the time to present my accounts so to speak, to show him how his time and mine have been spent, to make known to him what he is and what I am; what I have done, and what he has done; what we owe to each other, all his moral relation, all the engagements that he has contracted, all those to which others have contracted with him; the stage he has reached in the development of his faculties, the road that remains to be traveled, the difficulties he will meet, and the way to overcome them; how I can still help him and how he must henceforward help himself; finally, the critical point where he now is, the new dangers that surround him, and all the solid reasons which should induce him to keep a close watch upon himself before listening to his growing desires. 10 100
1116 Remember that to guide a grown man you must take the counterpoint of all that you did to guide the child. Do not hesitate to speak to him of those dangerous mysteries which you have so carefully hidden from him up until now. Since he must become aware of them, it is important that he not learn them from another, nor from himself, but from you alone. Since he must from now on fight against them, let him know his enemy so that he may not be taken unawares. 10 100
1117 Young people who are found to be knowledgeable these matters without our knowing how they obtained their knowledge, have not obtained it with impunity. This indiscrete teaching, which can have no honorable object, at least stains the imagination of those who receive it and disposes them to the vices of their instructors. This is not all. Servants, by this means, insinuate themselves into the mind of the child, win his confidence, make him envision his tutor as a gloomy and stern person; and one of the favorite subjects of their secret colloquies is to slander him. When the pupil has got to this point, the tutor should retire; he has nothing good left to do. 10 100
1118 But why does the child choose special confidants? Because of the tyranny of those who control him. Why should he hide himself from them if he were not driven to it? Why should he complain if he had nothing to complain of? Naturally those who control him are his first confidants; you can see from his eagerness to tell them what he thinks that he feels he has only half thought till he has told his thoughts to them. You may be sure that when the child fears neither sermons nor reprimands from you, he will always tell you everything; and that no one will dare to tell him anything he must conceal from you, for they will know very well that he will tell you everything. 10 100
1119 What makes me most confident in my method is that when I follow its consequences as rigorously as possible, I find no situation in the life of my pupil that does not leave me some pleasing memory of him. Even when he is carried away by his ardent temperament or when he revolts against the hand that guides him, when he struggles and is on the point of escaping from me, I still find his original simplicity in his agitation and his anger. His heart as pure as his body. He has no more knowledge of pretence than of vice. Reproach and scorn have not made a coward of him; base fears have never taught him the art of concealment. He has all the indiscretion of innocence: he is absolutely outspoken; he does not even know the use of deceit. Every impulse of his heart is betrayed either by word or look, and I often know what he is feeling before he is aware of it himself. 10 100
1120 So long as his heart is thus freely opened to me, so long as he delights to tell me what he feels, I have nothing to fear; the danger is not yet at hand. But if he becomes more timid, more reserved, if I perceive in his conversation the first signs of confusion and shame, then his instincts are beginning to develop; he is beginning to connect the idea of evil with these instincts. There is not a moment to lose, and if I do not hasten to instruct him, he will learn in spite of me. 10 100
1121 Some of my readers, even of those who agree with me, will think that it is only a question of a conversation with the young man at any time. Oh, but this is not the way the human heart is governed! What we say has no meaning unless we have prepared the moment for saying it. Before we sow we must till the ground. The seed of virtue is hard to grow, and a long period of preparation is required before it will take root. One reason why sermons have so little effect is that they are offered to everybody alike, without discrimination or choice. How can anyone imagine that the same sermon could be suitable for so many hearers, with their different dispositions, so unlike in mind, temper, age, sex, station, and opinion. There are perhaps not even two of them to whom what is addressed to everyone is really suitable; and all our affections are so transitory that perhaps there are not even two occasions in the life of any man when the same speech would have the same effect on him. Judge for yourself whether the time when the eager senses disturb the understanding and tyrannize over the will is the time to listen to the solemn lessons of wisdom. Therefore never reason with young men, even when they have first prepared the way. Most lectures miss their mark more through the master's fault than the disciple's. The pedant and the teacher say much the same; but the former says it at random, and the latter only when he is sure of its effect. 10 100
1122 As a somnambulist, wandering in his sleep, walks along the edge of a precipice, over which he would fall if he were awake, so my Emile, in the sleep of ignorance, escapes the perils which he does not see. Were I to wake him with a start, he might fall. Let us first try to withdraw him from the edge of the precipice, and then we will awake him to show him it from a distance. 10 100
1123 Reading, solitude, idleness. a soft and sedentary life, intercourse with women and young people, these are perilous paths for a young man, and these lead him constantly into danger. I divert his senses by other objects of sense. I trace another course for his spirits by which I distract them from the course they would have taken. It is by bodily exercise and hard work that I check the activity of the imagination, which was leading him astray. When the arms are hard at work, the imagination is quiet; when the body is very weary, the passions are not easily inflamed. The quickest and easiest precaution is to remove him from immediate danger. I first take him away from towns, away from things which might lead him into temptation. But that is not enough. In what desert, in what wilds, shall he escape from the thoughts which pursue him? It is not enough to remove dangerous objects; if I fail to remove the memory of them, if I fail to find a way to detach him from everything, if I fail to distract him from himself, I might as well have left him where he was. 10 100
1124 Emile has learned a trade, but this trade is not our main resource. He is fond of farming and understands it, but farming is not enough. The occupations he is acquainted with degenerate into routine; when he is engaged in them he is not really occupied; he is thinking of other things; head and hand are at work on different subjects. He must have some new occupation that has the interest of novelty -- an occupation that keeps him breathless, that pleases him, that provides exercise and hard work, an occupation that he may become passionate about, one to which he will devote himself entirely. Now the only one which seems to possess all these characteristics is hunting. If hunting is ever an innocent pleasure, if it is ever worthy of a man, it is now that one should have recourse to it. Emile is well-fitted to succeed in it. He is strong, skilful, patient, indefatigable. He is sure to acquire a taste for this sport. He will bring to it all the ardor of youth; in it he will lose, at least for a time, the dangerous inclinations which spring from softness. The hunt hardens the heart as well as the body; it accustoms one to the sight of blood and to cruelty. Diana is represented as the enemy of love, and the allegory is right. The languors of love are born of soft repose, and tender feelings are stifled by violent exercise. In the woods and fields, the lover and the sportsman are so diversely affected that they receive very different impressions from the same objects. The fresh shade, the green groves, the pleasant resting-places of the one are to the other but feeding grounds, or places where the quarry will hide or turn to bay. Where the lover hears the flute and the nightingale, the hunter hears the horn and the hounds. One pictures to himself the nymphs and dryads, the other sees the horses, the huntsman, and the pack. Take a country walk with one or other of these men; their different conversation will soon show you that the earth doesn't have a similar appeal for them, and that the turn of their ideas is as diverse as the choice of their pleasures. 10 100
1125 I understand how these tastes may be combined, and that at last men find time for both. But the passions of youth cannot be divided in this way. Give the youth a single occupation which he loves, and the rest will soon be forgotten. Varied desires come with varied knowledge, and the first pleasures we know are the only ones we desire for long enough. I would not want the Emile's whole youth spent killing animals, and I do not even profess to justify this ferocious passion; it is enough for me that it serves to delay a more dangerous passion, so that he may listen to me calmly when I speak of it and give me time to describe it without stimulating it. 10 100
1126 There are moments in human life which can never be forgotten. Such is the time when Emile receives the instruction of which I am about to speak; it should influence him for the rest of his days. Let us try to engrave it on his memory so that it may never be erased. One of the faults of our age is to rely too much on bare reason, as if men were made of nothing but mind. By neglecting the language of signs which speak to the imagination we have lost the most energetic of languages. The influence of the spoken word is always weak, and we communicate to the heart through the eyes much more than through the ears. In wanting to give everything over to reason we have reduced our precepts to words; we have put nothing into actions. Reason alone is not active. Occasionally it restrains, more rarely it stimulates, and never has it done anything great. To always be reasoning is the mania of small minds. Strong souls have a very different language, and it is by this language that one can persuade them and make them act. 10 100
1127 I observe that in modern times men only get a hold over others by force or self-interest, while the ancients did more by persuasion, by the affections of the soul, because they did not neglect the language of signs. All agreements were drawn up with solemnity in order to make them more inviolable. Before the reign of force, the gods were the magistrates of mankind. In their presence individuals made their treaties and alliances and pledged themselves to perform their promises. The book in which their archives were preserved consisted of the whole face of the earth. The pages of this book were the rocks, trees, piles of stones made sacred by these transactions and regarded with reverence by barbarous men and forever open to all their eyes. The well of the oath, the well of the living and seeing one; the ancient oak of Mamre, the stones of witness -- such were the simple but stately monuments of the sanctity of contracts. None dared to lay a sacrilegious hand on these monuments, and man's faith was more secure under the warrant of these dumb witnesses than it is today upon all the rigor of the laws. 10 100
1128 In government the august apparatus of royal power overawed its subjects. The symbols of dignity -- a throne, a scepter, a purple robe, a crown, a headdress -- these were sacred in the people's sight. These respected signs made venerable to them the man whom they saw adorned with them. Without soldiers and without threats, he spoke and was obeyed. Now that we affect to abolish these signs, what will the consequences of this contempt be? That the royal majesty is erased from all hearts, that kings can only gain obedience by the force of troops, and that the respect of their subjects is based only on the fear of punishment. Kings are spared the trouble of wearing their crowns, and our nobles escape from the outward signs of their status, but they must have a hundred thousand men at their command if their orders are to be obeyed. Though this may seem a finer thing, it is easy to see that in the long run they will gain nothing. 10 100
1129 What the ancients accomplished by means of eloquence is prodigious. But this eloquence did not merely consist in fine speeches carefully arranged; and it was most effective when the orator said least. The most startling speeches were expressed not in words but in signs; they were not uttered but shown. A thing beheld by the eyes kindles the imagination, stirs the curiosity, and keeps the mind on the alert for what we are about to say, and often enough the thing tells the whole story. Thrasybulus and Tarquin cutting off the heads of the poppies, Alexander placing his seal on the lips of his favorite, Diogenes marching before Zeno -- do not these speak more plainly than if they had uttered long orations? What flow of words could have expressed the ideas as clearly? Darius, in the course of the Scythian war, received from the king of the Scythians a bird, a frog, a mouse, and five arrows. The ambassador deposited this gift and retired without a word. In our days he would have been taken for a madman. This terrible speech was understood, and Darius withdrew to his own country with what speed he could. Substitute a letter for these symbols and the more threatening it was the less terror it would inspire; it would have been merely a piece of bluff, to which Darius would have paid no attention. 10 100
1130 What close attention the Romans gave to the language of signs! Different ages and different ranks had their appropriate garments, toga, tunic, patrician robes, fringes and borders, seats of honor, lictors, rods and axes, crowns of gold, crowns of leaves, crowns of flowers, ovations, triumphs. Everything had its pomp, its observances, its ceremonial, and all these spoke to the heart of the citizens. The state regarded it as a matter of importance that the populace should assemble in one place rather than another, that they should or should not behold the Capitol, that they should or should not turn towards the Senate, that this day or that should be chosen for their deliberations. The accused wore a special dress, so did the candidates for election. Warriors did not boast of their exploits; they showed their scars. I can imagine one of our orators at the death of Caesar exhausting all the commonplaces of rhetoric to give a pathetic description of his wounds, his blood, his dead body. Anthony was an orator, but he said none of this; he showed the murdered Caesar. What rhetoric that was! 10 100
1131 But this digression, like many others, is drawing me unawares away from my subject; and my digressions are too frequent to be borne with patience. I therefore return to the point. 10 100
1132 Do not reason drily with youth. Clothe your reason with a body, if you want to make it felt. Make the language of the mind pass through the language of the heart so that it may be understood. I say again: cold arguments can influence our opinions but not our actions. They set us thinking, not doing. They show us what we ought to think, not what we ought to do. If this is true of men, it is all the truer of young people who are still enwrapped in their senses and cannot think otherwise than they imagine. 10 100
1133 Even after the preparations of which I have spoken, I shall take good care not to go all of a sudden to Emile's room and preach a long and heavy sermon on the subject in which he is to be instructed. I shall begin by rousing his imagination. I shall choose the time, place. and surroundings most favorable to the impression I wish to make. I shall, so to speak, summon all nature as witness to our conversations. I shall call upon the eternal Being, the Creator of nature, to bear witness to the truth of my discourse. I will put him as a judge between Emile and myself. I will make the rocks, the woods, the mountains round about us, the monuments of his promises and mine. I will put into my eyes, voice, and gesture the enthusiasm and the ardor I wish to inspire in him. Then I will speak and he will listen, and I will be tender towards him and he will be moved. By concentrating on the sanctity of my duties I will make his more respectable. I will animate the force of reason with images and figures. I will not be long-winded and discursive with speeches or cold precepts but will be abundant with feelings. My reason shall be grave and serious, but my heart will never have said enough. It is then in showing him everything I have done for him that I will show him what he has done for me; he will see in my tender affection the reason of all my care. What a surprise and what agitation am I going to give him by changing so suddenly my language! Instead of shriveling up his soul by always talking of his own interests, I will from now on speak of my own and he will be all the more touched by this. I will kindle in his young heart all the sentiments of friendship, generosity, and gratitude which I have already called into being and that are so sweet to cultivate. I will press him to my breast and let fall on him tears of tenderness. I will say to him: "You are my treasure, my child, my work. My happiness depends on yours. If you frustrate my hopes you rob me of twenty years of my life and you become the sorrow of my old age." This is the way to make oneself heard and to engrave in the depths of his heart the memory of what one tells him. 10 100
1134 Until now I have tried to give examples of the way in which a tutor should instruct his pupil in cases of difficulty. I have tried to do so in this case; but after many attempts I have abandoned the task, convinced that the French language is too precious to permit in print the plainness of speech required for the first lessons in certain subjects. 10 100
1135 They say that the French language is the most pure of languages. For my own part I think it the most obscene. For it seems to me that the purity of a language does not consist in carefully avoiding indecent expressions but in having none. Indeed, if we are to avoid them, they must be in our thoughts, and there is no language in which it is so difficult to speak with purity on every subject than French. The reader is always quicker to detect than the author to avoid a gross meaning, and he is shocked and startled by everything. How can what is heard by impure ears avoid coarseness? On the other hand, a nation whose morals are pure has fit terms for everything, and these terms are always right because they are rightly used. One could not imagine more modest language than that of the Bible, just because of its plainness of speech. The same things translated into French would become immodest. What I ought to say to Emile will sound pure and honorable to him; but to make the same impression in print would demand a like purity of heart in the reader. 10 100
1136 I should even think that reflections on true purity of discourse and the false delicacy of vice might find a useful place in the conversations about morality that this subject brings us to. For by learning the language of plain-spoken goodness he must also learn the language of decency, and he must know why the two are so different. However this may be, I maintain that if instead of the empty precepts which are prematurely dinned into the ears of children, only to be scoffed at when the time comes when they might prove useful, if instead of this we wait, if we prepare the moment to make oneself heard, if we then expose him to the laws of nature in all their truth, if we show him the sanction of these same laws in the physical and moral ills that their infraction brings down upon the guilty, if while we speak to him of this inconceivable mystery of generation, we join to the idea of the pleasure which the Author of nature has given to this act the idea of the exclusive affection which makes it delicious, the idea of the duties of faithfulness, of the modesty which surrounds it and redoubles its charm while fulfilling its purpose; if we paint to him marriage, not only as the sweetest form of society but also as the most inviolable and sacred of contracts; if we tell him forcefully all the reasons which make such a sacred tie respectable to all men and cover with hatred and curses upon him who ever dares to dishonor it; if we give him a striking and true picture of the horrors of debauch, of its stupid brutality, of the gradual decline by which a first act of disorder leads to all the rest and at last drags to his ruin anyone who falls into it; if, I say, we give him proofs that on a desire for chastity depends health, strength, courage, the virtues, even love itself and all that is truly good for man -- I maintain that this chastity will be so dear and so desirable in his eyes that his mind will be ready to receive our teaching as to the way to preserve it. For so long as we are chaste we respect chastity; it is only when we have lost it that we scorn it. 10 100
1137 It is not true that the inclination to evil is beyond our control, and that we cannot overcome it until we have acquired the habit of yielding to it. Aurelius Victor says that many men were mad enough to purchase a night with Cleopatra at the price of their life, and this is not incredible in the madness of passion. But let us suppose the maddest of men, the man who has his senses least under control. Let him see the preparations for his death, let him realize that he will certainly die in torment a quarter of an hour later; not only would that man, from that time forward, become able to resist temptation, he would even find it easy to do so. The terrible picture with which they are associated will soon distract his attention from these temptations, and when they are continually put aside they will cease to recur. It is only our lukewarm will that causes our weakness, and we always have strength to perform what we strongly desire. "Volenti nihil difficile!" Oh! if only we hated vice as much as we love life, we would abstain as easily from a pleasant crime as from a deadly poison in a delicious dish. 10 100
1138 How is it that you fail to perceive that if all the lessons given to a young man on this subject have no effect, it is because they are not adapted to his age, and that it is important at every age to dress reason in forms that make him love it? Speak to him seriously if necessary, but make sure that what you say to him always have an attraction that forces him to listen. Do not oppose his wishes drily; do not stifle his imagination but guide it so as to avoid creating perversities. Speak to him of love, of women, of pleasure; let him find in your conversation a charm that flatters his young heart; spare nothing in order to become his confidant. Under this name alone will you really be his master. Then you need not fear he will find your conversation boring; he will make you talk more than you want. 10 100
1139 If I have managed to take all the requisite precautions in accordance with these maxims and have said the right things to Emile at the age he has now reached, I am quite convinced that he will come of his own accord to the point to which I would lead him and will eagerly confide himself to my care. When he sees the dangers by which he is surrounded, he will say to me with all the ardor of youth, "Oh, my friend, my protector, my master! Take back the authority you would like to lay aside at the very time when I most need it. Until now you had this power because of my weakness. Now you have it by my own will, and it will be all the more sacred to me. Protect me from the enemies that besiege me, and above all from those that I carry within me and which can betray me, Watch over your work, that it may still be worthy of you. I wish to obey your laws -- I wish to always; that is my constant will. If I ever disobey you, it will be in spite of myself. Make me free by protecting me against the passions which do me violence. Prevent me from being their slave and force me to be my own master by obeying not my senses but my reason." 10 100
1140 When you have led your pupil to this point (and if you do not get this far it will be your own fault), beware of taking him too readily at his word, in case your rule should seem too strict to him and in case he should think he has a right to escape from it by accusing you of taking him by surprise. This is the time for reserve and seriousness; and this attitude will have all the more effect upon him seeing that it is the first time you have adopted it towards him. 10 100
1141 Accordingly you may say to him: "Young man, you take painful engagements lightly; you must understand what they mean before you have a right to make them. You do not know with what furor the senses drag those like you into the abyss of vice masquerading as pleasure. You do not have a base soul, that I know; and you will never break your faith. But how often will you repent of having given it! How often will you curse your friend, when, in order to guard you from the ills which threaten you, he finds himself forced to tear your heart! Like Ulysses who, hearing the song of the Sirens, cried aloud to his rowers to unchain him, when you are seduced by the attractions of pleasure you will want to break the chains that bind you; you will trouble me with your complaints, you will reproach me as a tyrant when I have your welfare most at heart. When I am trying to make you happy, I shall incur your hatred. Oh my Emile, I can never bear to be hateful to you; this is too heavy a price to pay even for your happiness. My good young man, do you not see that when you oblige to obey me, you oblige me to be your guide, to forget myself in my devotion to you, to refuse to listen to your murmurs and complaints, to combat unceasingly your wishes and my own? You impose a heavier burden on me than on yourself. Before either of us undertakes such a task, let us count our resources. Take your time, give me time to consider, and be sure that the slower we are to promise, the more faithfully will our promises be kept." 10 100
1142 You may be sure that the more difficulty he finds in getting your promise the easier you will find it to carry it out. It is important that the young man feel that he is promising much, and that you are promising still more. When the moment has come, when he has, so to say, signed the contract, then change your tone, and make your rule as gentle as you said it would be severe. Say to him, "My young friend, it is experience that you lack; but I have taken care that you do not lack reason. You are ready to see the motives of my conduct in every respect; to do this you need only wait till you are free from excitement. Always obey me first, and then ask the reasons for my commands. I am always ready to give my reasons so soon as you are ready to listen to them, and I shall never be afraid to make you the judge between us. You promise to be docile, and I promise only to use this docility only to make you the happiest of men. For proof of this I have the life you have lived until now. Find me any one of your age who has led as sweet a life as yours, and I promise you nothing more." 10 100
1143 When my authority is firmly established, my first care will be to avoid the necessity of using it. I will spare no pains to become more and more firmly established in his confidence, to make myself the confidant of his heart and the arbiter of his pleasures. Far from combating the inclinations of his age, I will consult them that I may be their master. I will look at things from his point of view in order to direct him. I will not seek a remote distant good at the cost of his present happiness. I do not want him to be happy just once but always, if that is possible. 10 100
1144 Those who desire to guide young people rightly and to preserve them from the snares of sense give them a disgust for love and would willingly make the very thought of it a crime, as if love were made for old people. All these mistaken lessons that the heart gives the lie to will fail to have the desired effect. The young man, guided by a surer instinct, secretly laughs to himself over the gloomy maxims that he pretends to accept and only awaits the chance of disregarding them. All of that goes against nature. By following the opposite route I reach more surely at the same goal. I will not be afraid to flatter the sweet sentiment for which he is so eager. I will paint it as the supreme joy of life, because in effect it is. When I picture it to him, I desire that he shall give himself up to it. By making him feel the charm which the union of hearts adds to the delights of sense, I will inspire him with a disgust for libertinism; I will make him wise by making him amorous. 10 100
1145 How narrow-minded to see nothing in the rising desires of a young heart but obstacles to the teaching of reason! I see in them the right means to make him obedient to that very teaching. One can gain a hold on the passions only through passion. It is by taking them over that one can combat their tyranny, and it is always from nature itself that one can draw the right instruments for regulating nature. 10 100
1146 Emile is not made to remain always solitary. As a member of society he must fulfill his duties as such. Made to live with men he must get to know them. He knows mankind in general; it remains for him to know individuals. He knows what goes on in the world; he has now to learn how men live in the world. It is time to show him the front of that vast stage of which he already knows the hidden workings. He will not bring to it the foolish admiration of a thoughtless youth but the discernment of an upright and exact mind. His passions could mislead him no doubt; when do they not mislead those who give into them? But at least he will not be deceived by the passions of others. If he sees them, he will regard them with the eye of a wise man without being led away by their example nor seduced by their prejudices. 10 100
1147 As there is a fitting age for the study of the sciences, so there is a fitting age for the study of social skills. Whoever learns these too soon follows them throughout life, without choice, without reflection, and although they follow them competently, they never really know what they are about. But he who studies them and sees the reason for them, follows them with more insight and therefore more exactly and gracefully. Give me a child of twelve who knows nothing at all; at fifteen I will give him back to you as knowledgeable as those whom you have instructed from infancy -- with the difference that your student's knowledge will only be in his memory while mine will be in his judgment. In the same way introduce a young man of twenty into society; under good guidance in a year's time he will be more likeable and more judiciously polished than one brought up in society from childhood. For the former is able to perceive the reasons for all the proceedings relating to age, position, and sex, on which social skills depend and can reduce them to general principles and apply them to unforeseen circumstances; while the latter, who has only habit to guide him, is embarrassed as soon as he departs from it. 10 100
1148 Young French ladies are all brought up in convents till they are married. Do they seem to find any difficulty in acquiring the manners which are so new to them, and is it possible to accuse the ladies of Paris of awkward and embarrassed manners or of ignorance of the ways of society, because they have not acquired them in infancy? This prejudice comes from the men of the world, who know nothing of more importance than this petty science, and wrongly imagine that you cannot begin to acquire it too soon. 10 100
1149 It is quite true, however, that we must not wait too long. Any one who has spent the whole of his youth far from high society is all his life long awkward, constrained, out of place; his manners will be heavy and clumsy, no amount of practice will get rid of this, and he will only make himself more ridiculous by trying to do so. There is a time for every kind of teaching and we ought to recognize it, and each has its own dangers to be avoided. At this age there are more dangers than at any other; but neither do I expose my pupil to them without safeguards. 10 100
1150 When my method succeeds completely in attaining one object, and when in avoiding one difficulty it also provides against another, I then consider that it is a good method and that I am on the true path. This seems to be the case with regard to the expedient suggested by me in the present case. If I wish to be austere and dry with my pupil, I will lose his confidence, and he will soon conceal himself from me. If I wish to be easy and complaisant, to shut my eyes, what good does it do him to be under my care? I would only authorise his disorderly life and relieve his conscience at the expense of my own. If I introduce him into society with no object but to teach him, he will learn more than I want. If I keep him apart from society, what will he have learnt from me? Everything perhaps, except the one art absolutely necessary to man and to citizen, which is to know how to live with one's fellow human beings. If these efforts are seen to have only a distant utility, they will be like nothing for him. He is only concerned with the present. If I am content to provide him with entertainment, what good will that do? He will get soft and will learn nothing. 10 100
1151 We will have none of this. My plan provides for everything. Your heart, I say to the young man, needs a companion. Let us go in search of one who suits you. We will not find her easily perhaps; true merit is always rare. But we will be in no hurry, nor will we be easily discouraged. No doubt there is such a one, and we will in the end find her, or at least one who resembles her the most. With a project so flattering to himself I introduce him into society. What more need I say? Do not you see that I have done everything? 10 100
1152 By describing to him the mistress who is destined for him, you may imagine whether I will make myself heard, whether I will succeed in making the qualities he ought to love pleasing and dear to him, whether I will sway his feelings to seek or shun what is good or bad for him. I would be the stupidest of men if I fail to make him in love before knowing whom he is in love with. It does not matter that the person I describe is imaginary; it is enough to disgust him with those who could tempt him. It is enough if he is continually finding comparisons that make him prefer his fantasy to the real objects he sees; and is not true love itself a fantasy, a falsehood, an illusion? We are far more in love with the image that we make than with the object it is applied to. If we saw what one loves exactly as it is, there would be no such thing as love on earth. When we cease to love, the person we used to love remains the same as before, but we no longer see with the same eyes. The magic veil falls and love disappears. But when I supply the imaginary object I have control over comparisons, and I can easily to prevent illusion with regard to realities. 10 100
1153 For all that, I would not want to mislead a young man by describing a model of perfection that could never exist. But I would so choose the faults of his mistress that they will suit him, that he will be pleased by them, and they may serve to correct his own. Neither would I lie to him and affirm that there really is such a person. But if he is pleased with the image, he will soon desire to find the original. From wish to supposition the trajectory is easy; it is a matter of a few skilful descriptions, which under more perceptible features will give to this imaginary object an air of greater verity. I would go so far as to give her a name. I would say, laughing, Let us call your future mistress Sophy. Sophy is a name of good omen. If she whom you choose does not have that name, at least she will be worthy of it; we may honor her with it meanwhile. If after all these details, without affirming or denying, we excuse ourselves from more evasions, his suspicions will become certainty. He will think that his destined spouse is purposely concealed from him, and that he will see her when it is the right time. If once he has arrived at this conclusion and if the characteristics to be shown to him have been well chosen, the rest is easy; there will be little risk in exposing him to the world. Protect him from his senses, and his heart is safe. 10 100
1154 But whether or not he personifies the model I have contrived to make so likeable to him, this model, if well done, will attach him none the less to everything that resembles it and will distance him from all that is unlike it as much as if it had a real object. What a means to preserve his heart from the dangers to which his appearance would expose him, to repress his senses by means of his imagination, to rescue him from the hands of those women who profess to educate young men, and make them pay so high a price for their teaching, and only teach a young man manners by making him utterly shameless. Sophy is so modest! With what eyes will he see their advances? Sophy is so simple! How will he like their affectations? They are too far from his thoughts and his observations to be dangerous. 10 100
1155 All those who speak of the governance of children follow the name prejudices and the same maxims, for their observation is at fault, and their reflection still more so. A young man is led astray in the first place neither by temperament nor by the senses but by popular opinion. If we were dealing with boys brought up in boarding schools or girls in convents, I would show that this is true even to them. For the first lessons they learn from each other, the only lessons that bear fruit, are those of vice; and it is not nature that corrupts them but example. But let us leave the boarders in schools and convents to their bad morals; they will always be without cure. I am speaking only of domestic education. Take a young man raised wisely in his father's country house, and examine him when he reaches Paris or makes his entrance into society. You will find him thinking clearly about honest matters and possessing a will as wholesome as his reason. You will find scorn for vice and horror for debauchery; at the very mention of a prostitute you will see in his eyes his innocence being scandalized. I maintain that there isn't one of them could make up his mind to enter the depressing houses of these unfortunates by himself, even if he were aware of their purpose and felt their necessity. 10 100
1156 Six months later consider this same young man once again. You will not recognize him. From his free-wheeling conversation, his haughty assertions, his superior airs, you would take him for another man, if his jokes about his former simplicity and his shame when any one recalls it did not show that it is he indeed and that he is ashamed of himself. How transformed he is in so short a time! What has brought about so sudden and complete a change? A change in his constitution? Would not that have taken place in his father's house? And certainly he would not have acquired these maxims and this tone at home. The first pleasures of the sense? On the contrary; those who are beginning to abandon themselves to these pleasures are timid and anxious, they shun the light and noise. The first pleasures are always mysterious; modesty gives them their savor and hides them; the first mistress does not make a man bold but timid. Wholly absorbed in a situation so novel to him, the young man retires into himself to enjoy it, and trembles for fear it should escape him. If he is noisy he is neither voluptuous nor tender; however he may boast, he has not enjoyed. 10 100
1157 Other ways of thinking alone have produced these differences. His heart is the same, but his opinions have changed. His feelings, which change more slowly, will finally be changed by his opinions, and it is then that he will be indeed corrupted. He has scarcely made his entrance into society before he receives a second education completely opposed the first, which teaches him to despise what he esteemed and esteem what he despised. He learns to consider the teaching of his parents and masters as the jargon of pedants, and the duties they have instilled into him as a childish morality, to be scorned now that he is grown up. He thinks he is bound in honor to change his conduct; he becomes forward without desire, and he talks foolishly from false shame. He rails against morality before he has any taste for vice, and prides himself on debauchery without knowing how to set about it. I shall never forget the confession of a young officer in the Swiss Guards, who was utterly sick of the noisy pleasures of his comrades but dared not refuse to take part in them lest he should be laughed at. "I am getting used to it," he said, "as I am getting used to tobacco. The taste will come with practice; it will not do to be a child for ever." 10 100
1158 Thus it is far less from sensuality than from vanity that one must preserve a young man as he enters society. He succumbs more to the tastes of others than to his own, and amour-propre is responsible for more libertines than love is. 10 100
1159 This being granted, I ask you, is there any one on earth better armed than my pupil against all that may attack his morals, his sentiments, his principles? Is there any one more able to resist the flood? What seduction is there against which he is not forearmed? If his desires attract him towards women, he fails to find what he seeks, and his heart, already occupied, holds him back. If he is disturbed and urged onward by his senses, where will he find satisfaction? His horror of adultery and debauchery keeps him at a distance from prostitutes and married women, and the disorders of youth may always be traced to one or other of these. A young woman of marriageable age may be a coquette, but she will not be shameless, she will not fling herself at the head of a young man who would marry her if he found her wise; besides she is always under supervision. Emile, too, will not be left entirely to himself; both of them will be under the guardianship of fear and shame, the constant companions of a first passion. They will not proceed at once to ultimate intimacies, and they will not have time to come to them gradually without hindrance. If he behaves otherwise, he must have taken lessons from his friends; he must have learned from them to despise his self-control and to imitate their boldness. But there is no one in the whole world so little given to imitation as Emile. What man is there who is so little influenced by mockery as one who has no prejudices himself and yields nothing to the prejudices of others? I have worked twenty years to arm him against mockery; they will not make him their dupe in a day. For in his eyes ridicule is the argument of fools, and nothing makes one less susceptible to raillery than to be beyond the influence of prejudice. Instead of jests he must have arguments, and while he is in this frame of mind, I am not afraid that he will be carried away by young fools. Conscience and truth are on my side. If prejudice is to enter into the matter at all, an affection of twenty years' standing counts for something. No one will ever convince him that I have wearied him with vain lessons; and in a heart so upright and so sensitive the voice of a tried and trusted friend will soon erase the shouts of twenty libertines. As it is therefore merely a question of showing him that he is deceived, that while they pretend to treat him as a man they are really treating him as a child, I shall choose to be always simple but serious and plain in my arguments, so that he may feel that I do indeed treat him as a man. I will say to him, "You will see that your welfare, in which my own is bound up, compels me to speak; I can do nothing else. But why do these young men want to persuade you? Because they desire to seduce you; they do not care for you, they take no real interest in you; their only motive is a secret spite because they see you are better than they; they want to drag you down to their own level, and they only reproach you with submitting to control that they may themselves control you. Do you think you have anything to gain by this? Are they so much wiser than I, is the affection of a day stronger than mine? To give any weight to their jests they must give weight to their authority; and by what experience do they support their maxims above ours? They have only followed the example of other silly young men, as they would have you follow theirs. To escape from the so-called prejudices of their fathers, they yield to those of their comrades. I cannot see that they are any the better off; but I see that they lose two things of value -- the affection of their parents, whose advice is that of tenderness and truth, and the wisdom of experience which teaches us to judge by what we know. For their fathers have once been young, but the young men have never been fathers. 10 100
1160 "But you think they are at least sincere in their foolish precepts? Not even that, dear Emile. They deceive themselves in order to deceive you. They are not in agreement with themselves; their heart continually revolts, and their very words often contradict themselves. This man who mocks at everything good would be in despair if his wife held the same views. Another extends his indifference to good morals even to his future wife, or he sinks to such depths of infamy as to be indifferent to his wife's conduct; but go a step further; speak to him of his mother. Is he willing to be treated as the child of an adulteress and the son of a woman of bad character, is he ready to assume the name of a family, to steal the patrimony of the true heir, in a word will he bear being treated as a bastard? Which of them will permit his daughter to be dishonored as he dishonors the daughter of another? There is not one of them who would not kill you if you adopted in your conduct towards him all the principles he tries to teach you. Thus they prove their inconsistency, and we know they do not believe what they say. Here are reasons, dear Emile; weigh their arguments if they have any, and compare them with mine. If I wished to have recourse like them to scorn and mockery, you would see that they lend themselves to ridicule as much or more than myself. But I am not afraid of serious inquiry. The triumph of mockers is soon over; truth endures, and their foolish laughter dies away." 10 100
1161 You do not think that Emile, at twenty, can possibly be docile? How differently we think! I cannot understand how he could be docile at ten, for what hold have I on him at that age? It took me fifteen years of careful preparation to secure that hold. I was not educating him, but preparing him for education. He is now sufficiently educated to be docile; he recognizes the voice of friendship and he knows how to obey reason. I let him have, it is true, the appearance of independence, but never was he more subjected to me, for he is because he wants to be. So long as I could not get the mastery over his will, I had it through his person; l never left him for a moment. Now I sometimes leave him to himself because I govern him always. When I leave him I embrace him and I say with confidence: Emile, I trust you to my friend, I leave you to his honest heart; it is he who will take my place for you. 10 100
1162 To corrupt healthy affections which have not been previously depraved, to efface principles which are directly derived from our own reasoning, is not the work of a moment. If any change takes place during my absence, that absence will not be long, he will never be able to conceal himself from me, so that I shall perceive the danger before any harm comes of it, and I shall be in time to provide a remedy. Since we do not become depraved all at once, neither do we learn to deceive all at once; and if ever there was a man unskilled in the art of deception it is Emile, who has never had any occasion for deceit. 10 100
1163 By means of these precautions and others like them, I expect to guard him so completely against strange sights and vulgar precepts that I would rather see him in the worst company in Paris than alone in his room or in a park left to all the restlessness of his age. Whatever we may do, a young man's worst enemy is himself, and this is an enemy we cannot avoid. Yet this is an enemy of our own making, for, as I have said again and again, it is the imagination which stirs the senses. Their needs are not actually physical needs; it is not true that it is a true need at all. If no lascivious object had met our eye, if no unclean thought had entered our mind, this so-called need might never have made itself felt in us, and we should have remained chaste, without temptation, effort, or merit. We do not know how the blood of youth is stirred by certain situations and certain sights, while the youth himself does not understand the cause of his uneasiness -- an uneasiness difficult to subdue and certain to recur. For my own part, the more I consider this serious crisis and its causes, immediate and remote, the more convinced I am that a solitary being brought up in some desert, apart from books, teaching, and women, would die a virgin, however long he lived. 10 100
1164 But we are not concerned with a savage of this sort. When we educate a man among his fellow men and for social life, we cannot, and indeed we ought not to, bring him up in this wholesome ignorance, and half knowledge is worse than none. The memory of things we have observed, the ideas we have acquired, follow us into retirement and people it, against our will, with images more seductive than the things themselves, and these make solitude as fatal to those who bring such ideas with them as it is wholesome for those who have never left it. 10 100
1165 Therefore, watch carefully over the young man; he can protect himself from all other foes, but it is for you to protect him against himself. Never leave him night or day, or at least share his room; never let him go to bed till he is sleepy, and let him rise as soon as he wakes. Distrust instinct as soon as you cease to rely altogether upon it. Instinct was good while he acted under its guidance only; now that he is in the midst of human institutions, instinct is not to be trusted. It must not be destroyed, it must be controlled, which is perhaps a more difficult matter. It would be very dangerous if instinct taught your pupil to divert these senses and to supplement the occasions for satisfying them. If once he acquires this dangerous supplement he is lost. From then on, body and soul will be enervated; he will carry to the grave the sad effects of this habit, the most fatal habit which a young man can be subjected to. Without doubt it would be better still . . . If the furors of an ardent temperament become invincible, my dear Emile, I pity you; but I shall not hesitate for a moment. I will not permit the purposes of nature to be evaded. If a tyrant must subjugate you, I prefer to surrender you to a tyrant from whom I may deliver you. Whatever happens, I can free you more easily from the slavery of women than from yourself. 10 100
1166 Up to the age of twenty, the body is still growing and requires all its strength. Until that age continence is the law of nature, and this law is rarely violated without injury to the constitution. After twenty, continence is a moral duty; it is an important duty, for it teaches us to control ourselves, to be masters of our own appetites. But moral duties have their modifications, their exceptions, their rules. When human weakness makes an alternative inevitable, of two evils choose the least; in any case it is better to commit a misdeed than to contract a vicious habit. 10 100
1167 Remember, I am not talking of my pupil now, but of yours. His passions, to which you have given way, are your master; yield to them openly and without concealing his victory. If you are able to show him it in its true light, he will be ashamed rather than proud of it, and you will secure the right to guide him in his wanderings, at least so as to avoid precipices. The disciple must do nothing, not even evil, without the knowledge and consent of his master. It is a hundredfold better that the tutor should approve of a misdeed than that he should deceive himself or be deceived by his pupil, and the wrong should be done without his knowledge. He who thinks he must shut his eyes to one thing, must soon shut them altogether. The first abuse which is permitted leads to others, and this chain of consequences only ends in the complete overthrow of all order and contempt for every law. 10 100
1168 There is another mistake which I have already dealt with, a mistake continually made by narrow-minded persons; they constantly affect the dignity of a master, and wish to be regarded by their disciples as perfect. This method is just the contrary of what should be done. How is it that they fail to perceive that when they try to strengthen their authority they are really destroying it; that to gain a hearing one must put oneself in the place of our hearers, and that to speak to the human heart, one must be a man. All these perfect people neither touch nor persuade. People always say, "It is easy for them to fight against passions they do not feel." Show your pupil your own weaknesses if you want to cure his; let him see in you struggles like his own; let him learn by your example to master himself and let him not say like other young men, "These old people, who are vexed because they are no longer young, want to treat all young people as if they were old; and they make a crime of our passions because their own passions are dead." 10 100
1169 Montaigne tells us that he once asked Seigneur de Langey how often, in his negotiations with Germany, he had got drunk in his king's service. I would willingly ask the tutor of a certain young man how often he has entered a house of ill-fame for his pupil's sake. How often? I am wrong. If the first time has not cured the young libertine of all desire to go there again, if he does not return penitent and ashamed, if he does not shed torrents of tears upon your bosom, leave him on the spot; either he is a monster or you are a fool; you will never do him any good. But let us have done with these last expedients, which are as distressing as they are dangerous. Our kind of education has no need of them. 10 100
1170 What precautions we must take with a well-born young man before exposing him to the scandalous manners of our age! These precautions are painful but necessary; negligence in this matter is the ruin of all our young men; degeneracy is the result of youthful excesses, and it is these excesses which make men what they are. Old and base in their vices, their hearts are shriveled because their worn-out bodies were corrupted at an early age. They have scarcely strength to stir. The subtlety of their thoughts betrays a mind lacking in substance; they are incapable of any great or noble feeling, they have neither simplicity nor vigor; altogether abject and meanly wicked, they are merely frivolous, deceitful, and false; they have not even courage enough to be distinguished criminals. Such are the despicable men produced by early debauchery. If there were but one among them who knew how to be sober and temperate, to guard his heart, his body, his morals from the contagion of bad example, at the age of thirty he would crush all these insects, and would become their master with far less trouble than it cost him to become master of himself. 10 100
1171 However little Emile owes to birth and fortune, he might be this man if he chose. But he despises such people too much to condescend to make them his slaves. Let us now watch him in their midst as he enters into society, not to claim the first place, but to acquaint himself with it and to seek a companion worthy of himself. 10 100
1172 Whatever his rank or birth, whatever the society into which he is introduced, his entrance into that society will be simple and unaffected. God forbid that he be unlucky enough to shine in society. The qualities which make a good impression at the first glance are not his; he neither possesses them, nor desires to possess them. He cares too little for the opinions of other people to value their prejudices, and he is indifferent whether people esteem him or not until they know him. His manner of presenting himself is neither shy nor conceited but natural and sincere. He knows nothing of constraint or concealment. and he is just the same among a group of people as he is when he is alone. Will this make him rude, scornful, and careless of others? On the contrary; if he were not heedless of others when he lived alone, why should he be heedless of them now that he is living among them? He does not prefer them to himself in his manners, because he does not prefer them to himself in his heart; but neither does he show them an indifference which he is far from feeling. If he is unacquainted with the forms of politeness, he is not unacquainted with the attentions dictated by humanity. He cannot bear to see any one suffer; he will not give up his place to another from mere external politeness, but he will willingly yield it to him out of kindness if he sees that he is being neglected and that this neglect hurts him. For it will be less disagreeable to Emile to remain standing of his own accord than to see another compelled to stand. 10 100
1173 Although Emile has no very high opinion of people in general, he does not show any scorn of them because he pities them and is sorry for them. Since he cannot give them a taste for what is truly good, he leaves them the imaginary good with which they are satisfied, lest by robbing them of this he should leave them worse off than before. So he neither argues nor contradicts; neither does he flatter nor agree. He states his opinion without arguing with others because he loves liberty above all things, and freedom is one of the fairest gifts of liberty. 10 100
1174 He says little, for he is not anxious to attract attention. For the same reason he only says what is to the point; who could induce him to speak otherwise? Emile is too well informed to be a chatter-box. A great flow of words comes either from a pretentious spirit, of which I shall speak presently, or from the value laid upon trivial things that we foolishly think to be as important in the eyes of others as in our own. He who knows enough of things to value them at their true worth never says too much; for he can also judge of the attention paid to him and the interest aroused by what he says. People who know little are usually great talkers, while men who know much say little. It is plain that an ignorant person thinks everything he does know important, and he tells it to everybody. But a well educated man is not so ready to display his learning. He would have too much to say, and he sees that there is much more to be said, so he holds his peace. 10 100
1175 Far from confronting the manners of others, Emile conforms to them fairly willingly; not that he may appear to know all about them, nor yet to affect the airs of a man of fashion, but on the contrary for fear that he might attract attention, and in order to pass unnoticed. He is most at his ease when no one pays any attention to him. 10 100
1176 Although when he makes his entrance into society he knows nothing of its customs, this does not make him shy or timid. If he keeps in the background, it is not because he is embarrassed but because if you want to see, you must not be seen. For he scarcely troubles himself at all about what people think of him, and he is not the least afraid of ridicule. Hence he is always quiet and self-possessed and is not troubled with shyness. All he has to do is done as well as he knows how to do it, whether people are looking at him or not. And as he is always on the alert to observe other people, he acquires their ways with an ease impossible to the slaves of other people's opinions. We might say that he acquires the ways of society precisely because he cares so little about them. 10 100
1177 But do not make any mistake as to his bearing; it is not to be compared with that of your agreeable young men. He is firm and self-sufficient; his manners are free and not arrogant. An insolent look is the mark of a slave; there is nothing affected about independence. I never saw a man who had pride in his soul show it in his bearing. This affectation is more suited to vile and vain souls who have no other means of asserting themselves. I read somewhere that a foreigner appeared one day in the presence of the famous Marcel, who asked him what country he came from. "I am an Englishman," replied the, stranger. "You are an Englishman?" replied the dancer, "You come from that island where the citizens have a share in the government, and form part of the sovereign power? No, sir, your lowered brow, your timid glance, your hesitating manner, announce only a slave who has the title of an elector." 10 100
1178 I cannot say whether this saying shows much knowledge of the true relation between a man's character and his appearance. I have not the honor of being a dancing master, and I should have thought just the opposite. I should have said, "This Englishman is no courtier; I never heard that courtiers have a timid bearing and a hesitating manner. A man whose appearance is timid in the presence of a dancer might not be timid in the House of Commons." Surely this M. Marcel must take his fellow-countrymen for so many Romans. 10 100
1179 When one loves one wants to be loved. Emile loves men; he wants therefore to please them. Even more does he wish to please the women. His age, his character, the object he has in view, all increase this desire. I say his character, for this has a great effect. Men of good character are those who really adore women. They do not have the mocking jargon of gallantry like the rest, but their eagerness is more genuinely tender because it comes from the heart. In the presence of a young woman, I could pick out a young man of character and self-control from among a hundred thousand libertines. Consider what Emile must be, with all the eagerness of early youth and so many reasons for resistance! For in the presence of women I think he will sometimes be shy and timid; but this shyness will certainly not be displeasing, and the least foolish of them will only too often find a way to enjoy it and augment it. Moreover, his eagerness will take a different shape according to those he has to do with. He will be more modest and respectful to married women, more eager and tender towards young girls. He never loses sight of his purpose, and it is always those who most recall it to him who receive the greater share of his attentions. 10 100
1180 No one could be more attentive to every consideration based upon the laws of nature, and even on the laws of good society. But the former are always preferred before the latter, and Emile will show more respect to an elderly person in private life than to a young magistrate of his own age. As he is generally one of the youngest in the company, he will always be one of the most modest, not from the vanity which apes humility, but from a natural feeling founded upon reason. He will not have the effrontery of the young snob who speaks louder than the wise and interrupts the old in order to amuse the company. He will never give any cause for the reply given to Louis XV by an old gentleman who was asked whether he preferred this century or the last: "Sire, I spent my youth in reverence towards the old; I find myself compelled to spend my old age in reverence towards the young." 10 100
1181 Having a heart that is tender and sensitive but caring nothing for the weight of popular opinion, although he loves to give pleasure to others he will care little about being considered a person of importance. Hence he will be affectionate rather than polite, he will never be pompous or affected, and he will be always more touched by a caress than by much praise. For the same reasons he will never be careless of his manners or his clothes; perhaps he will be rather particular about his dress, not that he may show himself a man of taste, but to make his appearance more pleasing. He will never require a gilt frame, and he will never spoil his style by a display of wealth.
1182 It is clear that all this does not require extensive precepts from me; it is all the result of his early education. People make a great mystery of the ways of society, as if, at the age when these ways are acquired, we did not take to them quite naturally, and as if the first laws of politeness were not to be found in a kindly heart. True politeness consists in showing our goodwill towards men; when one has it it reveals itself without any difficulty. Only those who lack this goodwill are compelled to reduce the outward signs of it to an art.
1183 The worst effect of artificial politeness is that it teaches us how to dispense with the virtues it imitates. If our education were to teach us kindness and humanity, we would be polite, or we would have no need of politeness.
1184 If we do not have those qualities that manifest themselves through the social graces, we will have those that proclaim the honest man and the citizen; we will have no need for falsehood.
1185 Instead of seeking to please by artificiality, it will suffice that we are good; instead of flattering the weaknesses of others by falsehood, it will suffice to tolerate them.
1186 Those whom we relate to will neither be puffed up nor corrupted by such intercourse; they will only be grateful and will be informed by it.
1187 It seems to me that if any education is calculated to produce the sort of politeness required by M. Duclos in this passage, it is the education I have already described.
1188 Yet I admit that with such different teaching Emile will not be just like everybody else, and God preserve him from ever being so. But where he is unlike other people, he will be neither irritating nor absurd; the difference will be perceptible but not unpleasant. Emile will be, if you like, an agreeable foreigner. At first his peculiarities will be excused with the phrase, "He will learn." After a time people will get used to his ways, and seeing that he does not change they will still make excuses for him and say, "He is made that way."
1189 He will not be fêted as a charming man, but every one will like him without knowing why. No one will praise his intellect, but every one will be ready to make him the judge between men of intellect. His own intelligence will be clear and limited, his mind will be accurate, and his judgment sane. Since he never runs after new ideas, he cannot pride himself on his wit. I have convinced him that all wholesome ideas, ideas which are really useful to mankind, were among the earliest known, that in all times they have formed the true bonds of society, and that there is nothing left for ambitious minds but to seek distinction for themselves by means of ideas which are injurious and fatal to mankind. This way of winning admiration scarcely appeals to him; he knows how he ought to seek his own happiness in life, and how he can contribute to the happiness of others. The sphere of his knowledge is restricted to what is profitable. His path is narrow and clearly defined; as he has no temptation to leave it, he is lost in the crowd; he will neither distinguish himself nor will he lose his way. Emile is a man of common sense and he has no desire to be anything more. You may try in vain to insult him by applying this phrase to him; he will always consider it a title of honor.
1190 Although from his wish to please he is no longer wholly indifferent to the opinion of others, he only considers that opinion so far as he himself is directly concerned, without troubling himself about arbitrary values, which are subject to no law but that of fashion or conventionality He will have pride enough to wish to do well in everything that he undertakes, and even to wish to do it better than others; he will want to be the swiftest runner, the strongest wrestler, the cleverest workman, the readiest in games of skill. But he will not seek advantages which are not in themselves clear gain, that need to be supported by the opinion of others, such as to be thought wittier than another, a better speaker, more learned, etc.. Still less will he trouble himself with those which have nothing to do with the man himself, such as higher birth, a greater reputation for wealth, credit, or public estimation, or the impression created by a showy exterior.
1191 Since he loves men because they are like himself, he will prefer those who are the most like himself, because he will feel himself good. And judging this resemblance by similarity of taste in morals, by all that belongs to a good character, he will be delighted to win approval. He will not say to himself in so many words, "I am delighted to gain approval," but "I am delighted because they say I have done right; I am delighted because the men who honor me are worthy of honor. While they judge so wisely, it is a fine thing to win their respect."
1192 As he studies men in their conduct in society, just as he formerly studied them through their passions in history, he will often have occasion to consider what it is that pleases or offends the human heart. He is now busy with the philosophy of the principles of taste, and this is the most suitable subject for his present study.
1193 The further we seek our definitions of taste, the further we go astray. Taste is merely the power of judging what is pleasing or displeasing to most people. Go beyond this, and you cannot say what taste is. It does not follow that the men of taste are in the majority; for though the majority judges wisely with regard to each individual thing, there are few men who follow the judgment of the majority in everything; and though the most general agreement in taste constitutes good taste, there are few men of good taste just as there are few beautiful people, although beauty consists in the sum of the most usual features.
1194 It must be observed that we are not here concerned with what we like because it is serviceable, or hate because it is harmful to us. Taste deals only with things that are indifferent to us, or that affect at most our amusements, not those which relate to our needs. Taste is not required to judge of these; appetite alone is sufficient. It is this which makes mere decisions of taste so difficult and as it seems so arbitrary. For beyond the instinct they follow there appears to be no reason whatever for them. We must also make a distinction between the laws of good taste in morals and its laws in physical matters. In the latter the laws of taste appear to be absolutely inexplicable. But it must be observed that there is a moral element in everything which involves imitation. This is the explanation of forms of beauty that seem to be physical, but are not so in reality. I may add that taste has local rules which make it dependent in many respects on the country we are in, its manners, government, institutions; it has other rules which depend upon age, sex, and character, and it is in this sense that we must not dispute over matters of taste.
1195 Taste is natural to men; but all do not possess it in the same degree. It is not developed to the same extent in every one; and in every one it is liable to be modified by a variety of causes. Such taste as we may possess depends on our native sensibility; its cultivation and its form depend upon the society in which we have lived. In the first place we must live in societies of many different kinds so as to compare much. In the next place, there must be societies for amusement and idleness, for in business relations, interest, not pleasure, is our rule. Lastly, there must be societies in which people are fairly equal, where the tyranny of public opinion may be moderate, where pleasure rather than vanity is queen. Where this is not so, fashion stifles taste, and we seek what gives distinction rather than delight.
1196 In the latter case it is no longer true that good taste is the taste of the majority. Why is this? Because the purpose is different. Then the crowd has no longer any opinion of its own, it only follows the judgment of those who are supposed to know more about it. Its approval is bestowed not on what is good, but on what they have already approved. At any time let every man have his own opinion, and what is most pleasing in itself will always secure most votes.
1197 Every beauty that is to be found in the works of man is imitated. All the true models of taste are to be found in nature. The further we get from the master, the worse are our pictures. Then it is that we find our models in what we ourselves like, and the beauty of fancy, subject to caprice and to authority, is nothing but what is pleasing to our leaders.
1198 Those leaders are the artists, the wealthy, and the great, and they themselves follow the lead of self-interest or pride. Some to display their wealth, others to profit by it, they seek eagerly for new ways of spending it. This is how luxury acquires its power and makes us love what is rare and costly; this so-called beauty consists, not in following nature, but in disobeying her. Hence luxury and bad taste are inseparable. Wherever taste is lavish, it is bad.
1199 Taste, good or bad, takes its shape especially in the intercourse between the two sexes. The cultivation of taste is a necessary consequence of this form of society. But when enjoyment is easily obtained, and the desire to please becomes lukewarm, taste must degenerate; and this is, in my opinion, one of the best reasons why good taste implies good morals.
1200 Consult the women's opinions in bodily matters, in all that concerns the senses. Consult the men in matters of morality and all that concerns the understanding. When women are what they ought to be, they will limit themselves to things within their competence and will always judge well. But since they have set themselves up as arbiters of literature, since they have begun to criticize books and to put their forces into making them, they are no longer good judges of anything. Authors who take the advice of lady scholars will always be ill advised; suitors who consult them about their clothes will always be absurdly dressed. I will soon have an opportunity of speaking of the real talents of the female sex, the way to cultivate these talents, and the matters in regard to which their decisions should receive attention.
1201 These are the elementary considerations which I shall lay down as principles when I discuss with Emile this matter which is by no means indifferent to him in his present inquiries. And to whom should it be a matter of indifference? To know what people may find pleasant or unpleasant is not only necessary to any one who requires their help, it is still more necessary to any one who would help them. You must please them if you would do them service; and the art of writing is no idle pursuit if it is used to make men hear the truth.
1202 If in order to cultivate my pupil's taste I were compelled to choose between a country where this form of culture has not yet arisen and those in which it has already degenerated, I would progress backwards. I would begin his survey with the latter and end with the former. My reason for this choice is that taste becomes corrupted through excessive delicacy, which makes it sensitive to things which most men do not perceive. This delicacy leads to a spirit of discussion, for the more subtle is our discrimination of things the more things there are for us. This subtlety increases the delicacy and decreases the uniformity of our touch. So there are as many tastes as there are people. In disputes as to our preferences, philosophy and knowledge are enlarged, and thus we learn to think. It is only men accustomed to plenty of society who are capable of very delicate observations, for these observations do not occur to us till the last, and people who are unused to all sorts of society exhaust their attention in the consideration of the more conspicuous features . There is perhaps no civilized place upon earth where the common taste is so bad as in Paris. Yet it is in this capital that good taste is cultivated, and it seems that few books make any impression in Europe whose authors have not studied in Paris. Those who think it is enough to read our books are mistaken; there is more to be learnt from the conversation of authors than from their books; and it is not from the authors that we learn most It is the spirit of social life which develops a thinking mind and carries the eye as far as it can reach. If you have a spark of genius, go and spend a year in Paris. You will soon be all that you are capable of becoming, or you will never be good for anything at all.
1203 One may learn to think in places where bad taste rules supreme. But we must not think like those whose taste is bad, and it is very difficult to avoid this if we spend much time among them. We must use their efforts to perfect the machinery of judgment, but we must be careful not to make the same use of it. I will take care not to polish Emile's judgment so far as to transform it, and when he has acquired discernment enough to feel and compare the varied tastes of men, I will lead him to fix his own taste upon simpler matters.
1204 I will go still further in order to keep his taste pure and wholesome. In the tumult of dissipation I shall find opportunities for useful conversation with him. And while these conversations are always about things in which he takes a delight, I will take care to make them as amusing as they are instructive. Now is the time to read pleasant books; now is the time to teach him to analyze speech and to appreciate all the beauties of eloquence and diction. It is a small matter to learn languages; they are less useful than people think, but the study of languages leads us on to that of grammar in general. We must learn Latin if we would have a thorough knowledge of French. These two languages must be studied and compared if we would understand the rules of the art of speaking.
1205 There is, moreover. a certain simplicity of taste which goes straight to the heart; and this is only to be found in the classics. In oratory, poetry, and every kind of literature, Emile will find the classical authors as he found them in history, full of matter and sober in their judgment. The authors of our own time, on the contrary, say little and talk much. To take their judgment as our constant law is not the way to form our own judgment. These differences of taste make themselves felt in all that is left of classical times and even on their tombs. Our monuments are covered with praises, theirs recorded facts.
1206 If I had found this epitaph on an ancient monument, I should at once have guessed it was modern. For there is nothing so common among us as heroes, but among the ancients they were rare. Instead of saying a man was a hero, they would have said what he had done to gain that name. With the epitaph of this hero compare that of the effeminate Sardanapalus:
1207 Which do you think says most? Our inflated monumental style is only fit to trumpet forth the praises of pygmies. The ancients showed men as they were, and it was plain that they were men indeed. Xenophon did honor to the memory of some warriors who were slain by treason during the retreat of the Ten Thousand. "They died," said he, "without stain in war and in love." That is all, but think how full was the heart of the author of this short and simple elegy. Woe to him who fails to perceive its charm.
1208 The following words were engraved on a tomb at Thermopylæ
1209 It is pretty clear that this was not the work of the Academy of Inscriptions.
1210 If I am not mistaken, the attention of my pupil, who sets so small a value upon words, will be directed in the first place to these differences, and they will affect his choice in his reading. He will be carried away by the manly eloquence of Demosthenes, and will say, "This is an orator;" but when he reads Cicero, he will say, "This is a lawyer."
1211 In general Emile will have more taste for the books of the ancients than for our own, just because they were the first, and therefore the ancients are nearer to nature and their genius is more distinct. Whatever La Motte and the Abbé Terrasson may say, there is no real advance in human reason, for what we gain in one direction we lose in another. For all minds start from the same point, and as the time spent in learning what others have thought is so much time lost in learning to think for ourselves, we have more acquired knowledge and less vigor of mind. Our minds like our arms are accustomed to use tools for everything and to do nothing for themselves. Fontenelle used to say that all these disputes as to the ancients and the moderns could be reduced to whether the trees in former times were taller than they are now. If agriculture had changed, it would be worth our while to ask this question.
1212 After I have led Emile to the sources of pure literature, I will also show him the channels into the reservoirs of modern compilers -- journals, translations, dictionaries. He will cast a glance at them all, and then leave them for ever. To amuse him he will hear the chatter of the academies. I will draw his attention to the fact that every member of them is worth more by himself than he is as a member of the society; he will then draw his own conclusions as to the utility of these fine institutions.
1213 I take him to the theatre to study taste, not morals; for in the theatre above all taste is revealed to those who can think. Lay aside precepts and morality, I should say; this is not the place to study them. The stage is not made for truth; its object is to flatter and amuse. There is no place where one can learn so completely the art of pleasing and of interesting the human heart. The study of plays leads to the study of poetry; both have the same end in view. If he has the least glimmering of taste for poetry, how eagerly will he study the languages of the poets, Greek, Latin, and Italian! These studies will afford him unlimited amusement and will be none the less valuable. They will be a delight to him at an age and in circumstances when the heart finds so great a charm in every kind of beauty which affects it. Picture to yourself on the one hand Emile, on the other some young rascal from college, reading the fourth book of the Æneid or Tibullus, or the Banquet of Plato: what a difference between them! What stirs the heart of Emile to its depths, makes not the least impression on the other! Oh, good youth, stay, make a pause in your reading, you are too deeply moved. I want you to find pleasure in the language of love, but I do not want you to be carried away by it. Be a wise man, but be a good man too. If you are only one of these, you are nothing. After this let him win fame or not in dead languages, in literature, in poetry, I care little. He will be none the worse if he knows nothing of them, and his education is not concerned with these mere words.
1214 My main object in teaching him to feel and love beauty of every kind is to fix his affections and his taste on these, to prevent the corruption of his natural appetites, in case he should have to seek some day in the midst of his wealth for the means of happiness which should be found close at hand. I have said elsewhere that taste is only the art of being a connoisseur in matters of little importance, and this is quite true. But since the charm of life depends on a tissue of these matters of little importance, such efforts are no small thing; through their means we learn how to fill our life with the good things within our reach, with as much truth as they may hold for us. I do not refer to the morally good which depends on a good disposition of the heart, but only to that which depends on the body, on real delight, apart from the prejudices of public opinion.
1215 The better to unfold my idea, allow me for a moment to leave Emile, whose pure and wholesome heart cannot be taken as a rule for others, and to seek in my own memory for an illustration better suited to the reader and more in accordance with his own manners.
1216 There are professions which seem to change a man's nature, to recast, either for better or worse, the men who adopt them. A coward becomes a brave man in the regiment of Navarre. It is not only in the army that esprit de corps is acquired, and its effects are not always for good. I have thought again and again with terror that if I had the misfortune to fill a certain post I am thinking of in a certain country, before to-morrow I should certainly be a tyrant, an extortioner, a destroyer of the people, harmful to my king, and a professed enemy of mankind, a foe to justice and every kind of virtue.
1217 In the same way, if I were rich, I should have done all that is required to gain riches; I should therefore be insolent and degraded, sensitive and feeling only on my own behalf, harsh and pitiless to all besides, a scornful spectator of the sufferings of the masses -- for that is what I would call the poor -- to make people forget that I was once poor myself. Lastly I would make my fortune a means to my own pleasures with which I should be wholly occupied; and so far I should be just like other people.
1218 But in one respect I would be very unlike them; I would be sensual and voluptuous rather than proud and vain, and I should give myself up to the luxury of comfort rather than to that of ostentation. I would even be somewhat ashamed to make too great a show of my wealth, and if I overwhelmed the envious with my pomp I would always fancy I heard him saying, "Here is a rascal who is greatly afraid that we should take him for anything but what he is."
1219 In the vast profusion of good things upon this earth I would seek what I like best, and what I can best appropriate to myself. To this end, the first use I should make of my wealth would be to purchase leisure and freedom, to which I would add health, if it were to be purchased; but health can only be bought by temperance, and as there is no real pleasure without health, I would be temperate from sensual motives.
1220 I would also keep as close as possible to nature, to gratify the senses given me by nature, being quite convinced that, the greater her share in my pleasures the more real I will find them. In the choice of models for imitation I will always choose nature as my pattern; in my appetites I will give her the preference; in my tastes she will always be consulted; in my food I will always choose what most owes its charm to her, and what has passed through the fewest possible hands on its way to table. I will be on my guard against fraudulent shams; I will go out to meet pleasure. No cook will grow rich on my gross and foolish greediness; he will not poison me with fish which cost its weight in gold, my table will not be decked with fetid splendor or putrid flesh from far-off lands. I will take any amount of trouble to gratify my sensibility, since this trouble has a pleasure of its own, a pleasure more than we expect. If I wished to taste a food from the ends of the earth, I would go, like Apicius, in search of it, rather than send for it; for the daintiest dishes always lack a charm which cannot be brought along with them, a flavor which no cook can give them-the air of the country where they are produced.
1221 For the same reason I would not follow the example of those who are never well off where they are, but are always contradicting the seasons and confusing countries and their seasons; those who seek winter in summer and summer in winter, and go to Italy to be cold and to the north to be warm without considering that when they think they are escaping from the severity of the seasons, they are going to meet that severity in places where people are not prepared for it. I will stay in one place, or I will adopt just the opposite course; I should like to get all possible enjoyment out of one season to discover what is peculiar to any given country. I would have a variety of pleasures, and habits quite unlike one another, but each according to nature; I would spend the summer at Naples and the winter in St. Petersburg. Sometimes I would breathe the soft zephyr lying in the cool grottoes of Tarentum, and again I would enjoy the illuminations of an ice palace, breathless and wearied with the pleasures of the dance.
1222 In the service of my table and the adornment of my dwelling I would imitate in the simplest ornaments the variety of the seasons and draw from each its charm without anticipating its successor. There is no taste but only difficulty to be found in thus disturbing the order of nature. To snatch from her unwilling gifts, which she yields regretfully, with her curse upon them; gifts which have neither strength nor flavor, which can neither nourish the body nor tickle the palate. Nothing is more insipid than forced fruits. A wealthy man in Paris, with all his stoves and hot-houses, only succeeds in getting all the year round poor fruit and poor vegetables for his table at a very high price. If I had cherries in frost, and golden melons in the depths of winter, what pleasure should I find in them when my palate did not need moisture or refreshment? Would the heavy chestnut be very pleasant in the heat of the dog-days; would I prefer to have it hot from the stove, rather than the gooseberry, the strawberry, the refreshing fruits which the earth takes care to provide for me? A mantelpiece covered in January with forced vegetation, with pale and scentless flowers, is not winter adorned, but spring robbed of its beauty. we deprive ourselves of the pleasure of seeking the first violet in the woods, of noting the earliest buds, and exclaiming in a rapture of delight, "Mortals, you are not forsaken, nature is living still."
1223 To be well served I would have few servants; this has been said before, but it is worth saying again. A tradesman gets more real service from his one man than a duke from the ten gentlemen round about him. It has often struck me when I am sitting at table with my glass beside me that I can drink whenever I please; whereas, if I were dining in state, twenty men would have to call for "Wine" before I could quench my thirst. You may be sure that whatever is done for you by other people is ill done. I would not send to the shops, I would go myself; I would go so that my servants should not make their own terms with the shopkeepers, and to get a better choice and cheaper prices; I would go for the sake of pleasant exercise and to get a glimpse of what was going on out of doors. This is amusing and sometimes instructive. Lastly I would go for the sake of the walk; there is always something in that. A sedentary life is the source of tedium; when we walk a good deal we are never dull. A porter and footmen are poor interpreters; I should never wish to have such people between the world and myself, nor would I travel with all the fuss of a coach, as if I were afraid people would speak to me. The horses of a man who uses his legs are always ready; if they are tired or ill, their owner is the first to know it; he need not be afraid of being kept at home while his coachman is on the spree; on the road he will not have to submit to all sorts of delays, nor will he be consumed with impatience, nor compelled to stay in one place a moment longer than he chooses. Lastly, since no one serves us so well as we serve ourselves, had we the power of Alexander and the wealth of Crœsus we should accept no services from others, except those we cannot perform for ourselves.
1224 I would not live in a palace; for even in a palace I would only occupy one room. Every room which is common property belongs to nobody, and the rooms of each of my servants would be as strange to me as my neighbor's. The Orientals, although very voluptuous, are lodged in plain and simply furnished dwellings. They consider life as a journey, and their house as an inn. This reason scarcely appeals to us rich people who propose to live for ever; but I should find another reason which would have the same effect. It would seem to me that if I settled myself in one place in the midst of such splendor, I should banish myself from every other place, and imprison myself, so to speak, in my palace. The world is a palace fair enough for any one; and is not everything at the disposal of the rich man when he seeks enjoyment? "Ubi bene, ibi patria," that is his motto; his home is anywhere where money will carry him, his country is anywhere where there is room for his strong-box, as Philip considered as his own any place where a mule laden with silver could enter. Why then should we shut ourselves up within walls and gates as if we never meant to leave them? If pestilence, war, or rebellion drive me from one place, I go to another, and I find my hotel there before me. Why should I build a mansion for myself when the world is already at my disposal? Why should I be in such a hurry to live, to bring from afar delights which I can find on the spot? It is impossible to make a pleasant life for oneself when one is always at war with oneself. Thus Empodocles reproached the men of Agrigentum with heaping up pleasures as if they had but one day to live, and building as if they would live forever.
1225 And what use have I for so large a dwelling, as I have so few people to live in it, and still fewer goods to fill it? My furniture would be as simple as my tastes; I would have neither picture-gallery nor library, especially if I was fond of reading and knew something about pictures. I should then know that such collections are never complete, and that the lack of that which is wanting causes more annoyance than if one had nothing at all. In. this respect abundance is the cause of want, as every collector knows to his cost. If you are an expert, do not make a collection; if you know how to use your cabinets, you will not have any to show.
1226 Gambling is no sport for the rich, it is the resource of those who have nothing to do. I shall be so busy with my pleasures that I shall have no time to waste. I am poor and lonely and I never play, unless it is a game of chess now and then, and that is more than enough. If I were rich I would play even less,, and for very low stakes, so that I should not be disappointed myself, nor see the disappointment of others. The wealthy man has no motive for play, and the love of play will not degenerate into the passion for gambling unless the disposition is evil. The rich man is always more keenly aware of his losses than his gains, and as in games where the stakes are not high the winnings are generally exhausted in the long run, he will usually lose more than he gains, so that if we reason rightly we shall scarcely take a great fancy to games where the odds are against us. He who flatters his vanity so far as to believe that Fortune favors him can seek her favor in more exciting ways; and her favors are just as clearly shown when the stakes are low as when they are high. The taste for play, the result of greed and dullness, only lays hold of empty hearts and heads; and I think I should have enough feeling and knowledge to dispense with its help. Thinkers are seldom gamblers; gambling interrupts the habit of thought and turns it towards barren combinations; thus one good result, perhaps the only good result of the taste for science, is that it deadens to some extent this vulgar passion. People will prefer to try to discover the uses of play rather than to devote themselves to it. I should argue with the gamblers against gambling, and I should find more delight in scoffing at their losses than in winning their money.
1227 I should be the same in private life as in my social intercourse. I should wish my fortune to bring comfort in its train, and never to make people conscious of inequalities of wealth. Showy dress is inconvenient in many ways. To preserve as much freedom as possible among other men, I should like to be dressed in such a way that 1 should not seem out of place among all classes, and should not attract attention in any; so that without affectation or change I might mingle with the crowd at the inn or with the nobility at the Palais Royal. In this way I should be more than ever my own master, and should be free to enjoy the pleasures of all sorts and conditions of men. There are women, so they say, whose doors are closed to embroidered cuffs, women who will only receive guests who wear lace ruffles. I should spend my days elsewhere; though if these women were young and pretty I might sometimes put on lace ruffles to spend an evening or so in their company.
1228 Mutual affection, similarity of tastes, suitability of character -- these are the only bonds between my companions and myself. Among them I would be a man, not a person of wealth; the charm of their society should never be embittered by self-seeking. If my wealth had not robbed me of all humanity, I would scatter my benefits and my services broadcast, but I should want companions about me, not courtiers, friends, not protégés. I should wish my friends to regard me as their host, not their patron. Independence and equality would leave to my relations with my friends the sincerity of goodwill; while duty and self-seeking would have no place among us. and we should know no law but that of pleasure and friendship.
1229 Neither a friend nor a mistress can be bought. Women may be got for money, but that road will never lead to love. Love is not only not for sale; money strikes it dead. If a man pays, were he indeed the most lovable of men, the mere fact of payment would prevent any lasting affection. He will soon be paying for some one else, or rather some one else will get his money; and in this double connection based on self-seeking and debauchery, without love, honour, or true pleasure, the woman is grasping, faithless, and unhappy, and she is treated by the wretch to whom she gives her money as she treats the fool who gives his money to her; she has no love for either. It would be sweet to be generous towards one we love, if that did not make a bargain of love. I know only one way of gratifying this desire with the woman one loves without embittering love; it is to bestow our all upon her and to live at her expense. It remains to be seen whether there is any woman with regard to whom such conduct would not be unwise.
1230 He who said, "Laïs is mine, but I am not hers," was talking nonsense. Possession which is not mutual is nothing at all; at most it is the possession of the sex not of the individual. But where there is no morality in love, why make such ado about the rest? Nothing is so easy to find. A muleteer is in this respect as near to happiness as a millionaire.
1231 Oh, if we could thus trace out the unreasonableness of vice, how often should we find that when it has attained its object, it discovers it is not what it seemed! Why is there this cruel haste to corrupt innocence, to make a victim of a young creature whom we ought to protect, one who is dragged by this first false step into a gulf of misery from which only death can release her? Brutality, vanity, folly, error, and nothing more. This pleasure itself is unnatural; it rests on popular opinion, and popular opinion at its worst, since it depends on scorn of self. He who knows he is the basest of men fears comparison with others, and would be the first that he may be less hateful. See if those who are most greedy in pursuit of such fancied pleasures are ever attractive young men -- men worthy of pleasing, men who might have some excuse if they were hard to please. Not so; any one with good looks, merit, and feeling has little fear of his mistress' experience; with well-placed confidence he says to her, "You know what pleasure is, what is that to me? my heart assures me that this is not so."
1232 But an aged satyr, worn out with debauchery, with no charm, no consideration, no thought for any but himself, with no shred of honour, incapable and unworthy of finding favor in the eyes of any woman who knows anything of men deserving of love, expects to make up for all this with an innocent girl by trading on her inexperience and stirring her emotions for the first time. His last hope is to find favor as a novelty; no doubt this is the secret motive of this desire; but he is mistaken. The horror he excites is just as natural as the desires he wishes to arouse. He is also mistaken in his foolish attempt; that very nature takes care to assert her rights. Every girl who sells herself is no longer a maid; she has given herself to the man of her choice, and she is making the very comparison he dreads. The pleasure purchased is imaginary, but none the less hateful.
1233 For my own part, however riches may change me, there is one matter in which I shall never change. If I have neither morals nor virtue, I shall not be wholly without taste, without sense, without delicacy; and this will prevent me from spending my fortune in the pursuit of empty dreams, from wasting my money and my strength in teaching children to betray me and mock me. If I were young, I would seek the pleasures of youth; and since I would have them at their best I would not seek them in the guise of a rich man. If I were at my present age, it would be another matter; I would wisely confine myself to the pleasures of my age; I would form tastes that I could enjoy, and I would stifle those which could only cause suffering. I would not go and offer my gray beard to the scornful jests of young girls; I could never bear to sicken them with my disgusting caresses, to furnish them at my expense with the most absurd stories, to imagine them describing the vile pleasures of the old monkey so as to avenge. themselves for what they had endured. But if unresisted habits had changed my former desires into needs, I would perhaps satisfy those needs, but only with shame and blushes. I would distinguish between passion and necessity; I would find a suitable mistress and would stick to her. I would not make a business of my weakness, and above all I would only have one person aware of it. Life has other pleasures when these fail us; by hast ening in vain after those that fly from us we deprive ourselves of those that remain. Let our tastes change with our years, let us no more meddle with age than with the seasons. We should be ourselves at all times instead of struggling against nature; such vain attempts exhaust our strength and prevent the right use of life.
1234 The lower classes are seldom dull, their life is full of activity. If there is little variety in their amusements they do not recur frequently; many days of labor teach them to enjoy their rare holidays. Short intervals of leisure between long periods of labor give a spice to the pleasures of their station. The chief curse of the rich is dullness; in the midst of costly amusements, among so many men striving to give them pleasure, they are devoured and slain by dullness; their life is spent in fleeing from it and in being overtaken by it. They are overwhelmed by the intolerable burden. Women more especially, who do not know how to work or play, are a prey to tedium under the name of the vapors. With them it takes the shape of a dreadful disease that robs them of their reason and even of their life. For my own part I know no more terrible fate than that of a pretty woman in Paris, unless it is that of the pretty dandy who devotes himself to her, who becomes idle and effeminate like her, and so deprives himself twice over of his manhood while he prides himself on his successes, and for their sake endures the longest and dullest days which human being ever put up with.
1235 Proprieties, fashions, customs which depend on luxury and breeding, confine the course of life within the limits of the most miserable uniformity. The pleasure we desire in display to others is a pleasure lost; we neither enjoy it ourselves, nor do others enjoy it. Note 39] Ridicule, which public opinion dreads more than anything, is always at hand to tyrannize and punish. It is only ceremony that makes us ridiculous; if we can vary our place and our pleasures, to-day's impressions can efface those of yesterday; in the mind of men they are as if they had never been. But we enjoy ourselves for we throw ourselves into every hour and everything. My only set rule would be this: wherever I was I would pay no heed to anything else. I would take each day as it came, as if there were neither yesterday nor to-morrow. As I would be a man of the people, with the populace, I would be a countryman in the fields; and if I spoke of farming, the peasant should not laugh at my expense. I would not go and build a town in the country nor erect the Tuileries at the door of my lodgings. On some pleasant shady hill-side I would have a little cottage, a white house with green shutters, and though a thatched roof is the best all the year round, I would be grand enough to have, not those gloomy slates, but tiles, because they look brighter and more cheerful than thatch, and the houses in my own country are always roofed with them, and so they would recall to me something of the happy days of my youth. For my courtyard I would have a poultry-yard, and for my stables a cowshed for the sake of the milk which I love. My garden would be a kitchen-garden, and my park an orchard, like the one described further on. The fruit would be free to those who walked in the orchard, my gardener would neither count it nor gather it; I would not, with greedy show, display before your eyes superb espaliers which one scarcely dare touch. But this small extravagance would not be costly, for I would choose my abode in some remote province where silver is scarce and food plentiful, where plenty and poverty have their seat.
1236 There I would gather round me a company, select rather than numerous, a band of friends who know what pleasure is, and how to enjoy it, women who can leave their arm-chairs and betake themselves to outdoor sports, women who can exchange the shuttle or the cards for the fishing line or the bird-trap, the gleaner's rake or grape-gatherer's basket. There all the pretensions of the town will be forgotten, and we will be villagers in a village; we will find all sorts of different sports and we will hardly know how to choose the morrow's occupation. Exercise and an active life will improve our digestion and modify our tastes. Every meal will be a feast, where plenty will be more pleasing than any delicacies. There are no such cooks in the world as mirth, rural pursuits, and merry games; and the finest made dishes are quite ridiculous in the eyes of people who have been on foot since early dawn. Our meals will be served without regard to order or elegance; we will make our dining-room anywhere, in the garden, on a boat, beneath a tree; sometimes at a distance from the house on the banks of a running stream, on the fresh green grass, among the clumps of willow and hazel; a long procession of guests will carry the material for the feast with laughter and singing; the turf will be our chairs and table, the banks of the stream our side-board, and our dessert is hanging on the trees. The dishes will be served in any order; appetite needs no ceremony. Each one of us, openly putting himself first, would gladly see every one else do the same. From this warmhearted and temperate familiarity there would arise, without coarseness, pretence, or constraint, a laughing conflict a hundredfold more delightful than politeness, and more likely to cement our friendship. No tedious flunkeys to listen to our words, to whisper criticisms on our behavior, to count every mouthful with greedy eyes, to amuse themselves by keeping us waiting for our wine, to complain of the length of our dinner. We will be our own servants in order to be our own masters. Time will fly unheeded, our meal will be an interval of rest during the heat of the day. If some peasant comes our way, returning from his work with his tools over his shoulder, I will cheer his heart with kindly words and a glass or two of good wine, which will help him to bear his poverty more cheerfully; and I too will have the joy of feeling my heart stirred within me, and I would say to myself -- I too am a man.
1237 If the inhabitants of the district assembled for some rustic feast, I and my friends would be there among the first; if there were marriages, more blessed than those of towns, celebrated near my home, every one would know how I love to see people happy, and I should be invited. I would take these good folks some gift as simple as themselves, a gift which would be my share of the feast; and in exchange I would obtain gifts beyond price, gifts so little known among my equals, the gifts of freedom and true pleasure. I would sup gaily at the head of their long table; I would join in the chorus of some rustic song and I would dance in the barn more merrily than at a ball in the Opera House.
1238 "This is all very well so far," you will say, "but what about the shooting? One must have some sport in the country." Just so; I only wanted a farm, but I was wrong. I assume I am rich, I must keep my pleasures to myself, I must be free to kill something. This is quite another matter. I must have estates, woods, keepers, rents, seignorial rights, particularly incense and holy water.
1239 Well and good. But such an estate would have neighbors who are jealous of their rights and anxious to encroach on those of others; our keepers will quarrel, and possibly their masters will quarrel too. This means altercations, disputes, ill-will, or law-suits at the least; this in itself is not very pleasant. My tenants will not enjoy finding my hares at work upon their corn, or my wild bo ars among their beans. Since they dare not kill the enemy, every one of them will try to drive him from their fields; when the day has been spent in cultivating the ground, they will be compelled to sit up all night to watch it; they will have watch-dogs, drums, horns, and bells; my sleep will be disturbed by their racket. Do what I will, I cannot help thinking of the misery of these poor people, and I cannot help blaming myself for it. If I had the honour of being a prince, this would make little impression on me; but as I am a self-made man who has only just come into his property, I am still rather vulgar at heart.
1240 That is not all; abundance of game attracts trespassers. I would soon have poachers to punish; I would require prisons, gaolers, guards, and galleys; all this strikes me as cruel. The wives of those miserable creatures will besiege my door and disturb me with their crying; they must either be driven away or roughly handled. The poor people who are not poachers, whose harvest has been destroyed by my game, will come next with their complaints. Some people will be put to death for killing the game, the rest will be punished for having spared it; what a choice of evils! On every side I shall find nothing but misery and hear nothing but groans. So far as I can see this must greatly disturb the pleasure of massacring at one's ease flocks of partridges and hares which are tame enough to run about one's feet.
1241 Would you like to separate out the pleasures from these pains? Get rid of all exclusion; the more you leave it free to everybody, the purer will be your own enjoyment. Therefore I would not do what I have just described, but without change of tastes I would follow those which seem likely to cause me least pain. I would fix my rustic abode in a district where game is not preserved, and where I can have my sport without hindrance. Game will be less plentiful, but there will be more skill in finding it, and more pleasure in securing it. I remember the start of delight with which my father watched the rise of his first partridge and the rapture with which he found the hare he had sought all day long. Yes, I assure you that alone with his dog, carrying his own gun, cartridges, and game bag together with his hare, he came home at nightfall, worn out with fatigue and torn to pieces by brambles, but better pleased with his day's sport than all your ordinary sportsmen, who on a good horse, with twenty guns ready for them, merely take one gun after another, and shoot and kill everything that comes their way, without skill, without glory, and almost without exercise. The pleasure is not less, and the difficulties are removed; there is no estate to be preserved, no poacher to be punished, and no wretches to be tormented. Here are solid grounds for preference. Whatever you do, you cannot torment men for ever without experiencing some amount of discomfort; and sooner or later the muttered curses of the people will spoil the flavor of your game.
1242 Again, monopoly destroys pleasure. Real pleasures are those which we share with the crowd; we lose what we try to keep to ourselves alone. If the walls I build round my park transform it into a gloomy prison, I have only deprived myself, at great expense, of the pleasure of a walk; I must now seek that pleasure at a distance. The demon of property spoils everything he lays hands upon. A rich man wants to be master everywhere, and he is never happy where he is; he is continually driven to flee from himself. I shall therefore continue to do in my prosperity what I did in my poverty. Henceforward, richer in the wealth of others than I ever shall be in my own wealth, I will take possession of everything in my neighborhood that takes my fancy; no conqueror is so determined as I. I even usurp the rights of princes; I take possession of every open place that pleases me, I give them names; this is my park, that is my terrace, and I am their owner. Henceforward I wander among them at will. I often return to maintain my proprietary rights; I make what use I choose of the ground to walk upon, and you will never convince me that the nominal owner of the property which I have appropriated gets better value out of the money it yields him than I do out of his land. No matter if I am interrupted by hedges and ditches; I take my park on my back, and I carry it elsewhere. There will be space enough for it near at hand, and I may plunder my neighbors long enough before I outstay my welcome.
1243 This is an attempt to show what is meant by good taste in the choice of pleasant occupations for our leisure hours. This is the spirit of enjoyment. All else is illusion, fancy, and foolish pride. He who disobeys these rules, however rich he may be, will devour his gold on a dung-hill, and will never know what it is to live.
1244 You will say, no doubt, that such amusements lie within the reach of all, that we need not be rich to enjoy them. That is the very point I was coming to. Pleasure is ours when we want it; it is only social prejudice which makes everything hard to obtain, and drives pleasure before us. To be happy is a hundredfold easier than it seems. If he really desires to enjoy himself the man of taste has no need of riches; all he wants is to be free and to be his own master. With health and daily bread we are rich enough, if we will but get rid of our prejudices; this is the "Golden Mean" of Horace. You folks with your strong-boxes may find some other use for your wealth, for it cannot buy you pleasure. Emile knows this as well as I, but his heart is purer and more healthy, so he will feel it more strongly, and all that he has beheld in society will only serve to confirm him in this opinion.
1245 While our time is thus employed, we are ever on the lookout for Sophy, and we have not yet found her. It was not desirable that she should be found too easily, and I have taken care to look for her where I knew we should not find her.
1246 The time is come; we must now seek her in earnest, in case Emile should mistake someone else for Sophy and only discover his error when it is too late. Then farewell Paris, far-famed Paris, with all your noise and smoke and dirt, where the women have ceased to believe in honour and the men in virtue. We are in search of love, happiness, innocence; the further we go from Paris the better.
       
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1247 Here we have reached the last act of youth's drama, but we are not yet at its final scene.
1248 Man should not be alone. Emile is now a man. We have promised him a companion; we must give her to him. That companion is Sophie. What kind of a home does she have? Where will we find her? In order to find her, we must be able to recognize her. So let us first know what she is, and then we can better judge where she lives. And when we have found her, still our task is not ended. "Our young gentleman," said Locke, "is about to marry, so it is time to leave him with his mistress," and with these words he ended his book. Since I do not have the honor of educating "a young gentleman," I will take care not to imitate him in this regard.
1249 SOPHIE, OR THE WIFE
1250 Sophie should be a woman as Emile is a man. That is to say, she should have everything that suits the constitution of her species and of her sex so as to take her place in the physical and moral order. Let us begin, therefore, by examining the similarities and differences between her sex and ours.
1251 In all that does not relate to sex, woman is man. She has the same organs, the same needs, the same faculties. The machine is constructed in the same manner, the parts are the same, the workings of the one are the same as the other, and the appearance of the two is similar. From whatever aspect one considers them, they differ only by degree.
1252 In all that does relate to sex, woman and man are in every way related and in every way different. The difficulty in comparing them comes from the difficulty of determining what in the constitution of both comes from sex and what does not. By comparative anatomy and even by mere inspection one can find general differences between them that seem to be unrelated to sex. However, these differences do relate to sex through connections that we cannot perceive. How far such differences may extend we cannot tell. All we know for certain is that everything in common between men and women must come from their species and everything different must come from their sex. From this double point of view we find so many relations and so many oppositions that perhaps one of nature's greatest marvels is to have been able to make two beings so similar while constituting them so differently.
1253 These relations and differences must influence morals. Such a deduction is both obvious and in accordance with experience, and it shows the vanity of the disputes concerning preferences or the equality of the sexes. As if each sex, pursuing the path marked out for it by nature, were not more perfect in that very divergence than if it more closely resembled the other! In those things which the sexes have in common they are equal; where they differ they are not comparable. A perfect woman and a perfect man should no more be alike in mind than in face, and perfection admits of neither less nor more.
1254 In the union of the sexes, each alike contributes to the common end but not in the same way. From this diversity springs the first difference which may be observed in the moral relations between the one and the other. The one should be active and strong, the other passive and weak. It is necessary that the one have the power and the will; it is enough that the other should offer little resistance.
1255 Once this principle is established it follows that woman is specially made to please man. If man ought to please her in turn, the necessity is less urgent. His merit is in his power; he pleases because he is strong. This is not the law of love, I admit, but it is the law of nature, which is older than love itself.
1256 If woman is made to please and to be subjected, she ought to make herself pleasing to man instead of provoking him. Her strength is in her charms; by their means she should compel him to discover his strength and to use it. The surest way of arousing this strength is to make it necessary by resistance. Then amour-propre joins with desire, and the one triumphs from a victory that the other made him win. This is the origin of attack and defense, of the boldness of one sex and the timidity of the other, and even of the shame and modesty with which nature has armed the weak for the conquest of the strong.
1257 Who could imagine that nature arbitrarily prescribed the same advances to both, or that the first to feel desire should be the first to show it! What a strange perversion of judgment! The consequences of the act being so different for the two sexes, would it be natural for them to engage in it with equal boldness? How can anyone not see that with such a great disparity in the common stakes, if reserve did not impose on one sex the moderation that nature imposes on the other, the result would be the destruction of both, and the human race would perish through the very means established for preserving it? With the facility women have of arousing men's senses and of awakening in the depths of their hearts feelings that were thought to have died, if there were some unlucky country where philosophy had introduced this custom (especially if it were a hot climate where more women are born than men), the men would be tyrannized over by the women. They would eventually become their victims and would find themselves dragged to their death without ever being able to defend themselves.
1258 Yet female animals are without this sense of shame and what is the result? Do they, like women, have the same unlimited desires that shame serves to curb? With female animals, their desire comes only with need. When the need is satisfied, the desire ceases and they no longer make a pretense of repulsing the male but do it for real. They do exactly the contrary of what the daughter of Augustus did; once the boat is filled with cargo, they refuse to take on more passengers. Even when animals are free the period of their willingness is very short and soon over; instinct gets them going and instinct stops them. What would substitute for this negative instinct in women if you were to rob them of their modesty? To wait for them to lose interest in men is to wait for them to be good for nothing.
1259 The Supreme Being has wanted to do honour to the human species. By giving man limitless impulses he has at the same time given him a law to regulate them so that man can be free and can control himself. While granting him immoderate passions, he joins reason to these passions as a means of governing them. While granting unlimited desires to women, the Supreme Being joins modesty to her desires as a means of restraining them. In addition, it has added an actual bonus for using these faculties well, which is the taste one develops for decency when one makes it the rule of one's actions. All of this is worth more, it seems to me, than the instincts of animals.
1260 Whether the human female shares the man's desires or not, whether she is willing or unwilling to satisfy them, still she always pushes him away and defends herself, though not always with the same force nor consequently with the same success. In order for the attacker to be victorious, the one attacked must permit it or order it -- for how many skillful ways are there to stimulate the efforts of the aggressor? The freest and sweetest of acts does not permit of any real violence; indeed both reason and nature are against it -- nature, in that it has given the weakest enough strength to resist when she pleases; reason, in that real violence is not only the most brutal of acts but the one most contrary to its own ends, not only because the man thus declares war against his companion and hence gives her a right to defend her person and her liberty even at the cost of the aggressor's life, but also because the woman alone is the judge of her condition, and a child would have no father if any man might usurp a father's rights.
1261 Here then is a third consequence of the constitution of the sexes, which is that the stronger is the master in all appearance and yet in effect depends on the weaker. And this is not due to any frivolous custom of gallantry nor to any prideful generosity on the part of the protector, but to an invariable law of nature which, by giving the woman more of a facility to excite desires than man has to satisfy them, makes him dependent on her whether she likes it or not and forces him in turn to please her in order to obtain her consent to let him be the strongest. Is it weakness which yields to force, or is it voluntary self-surrender? This uncertainty constitutes the chief charm of the man's victory, and the woman usually has enough guile to leave him in doubt. In this respect the woman's mind exactly resembles her body; far from being ashamed of her weakness, she glories in it. Her soft muscles offer no resistance, she professes that she cannot lift the lightest weight; she would be ashamed to be strong. And why? It is not only in order to appear delicate; it is for the sake of a more clever precaution. She is providing herself beforehand with excuses and with the right to be weak when it is necessary. Number 10 Number 100
1262 The progress of enlightenment acquired through our vices has considerably changed the earlier opinions held among us on this point, and one hardly hears speak any more of cases of sexual violence since they are so seldom needed and because men no longer would believe them. Yet such stories are common enough among the ancient Greeks and Jews, for such views belong to the simplicity of nature; it is only the experience of libertinage that has been able to uproot them. If fewer acts of violence are cited in our days, it is surely not because men are more temperate. It is because they are less credulous, and a complaint which would have persuaded simple people would provoke only mocking laughter among ourselves. Therefore silence is the better course. In the Book of Deuteronomy in the Bible there is a law under which the abused maiden was punished along with her seducer if the crime were committed in a town, but if in the country or in a lonely place, the latter alone was punished. "For," says the law, "the maiden cried for help but was not heard." From this benign interpretation of the law, girls learned not to let themselves be surprised in well-frequented places. Number 10 Number 100
1263 The effect of these divergent opinions on morals is obvious. The main result has been the appearance of modern gallantry. Having found that their pleasures depend more than they expected on the good will of the fair sex, men have secured this good will by attentions which have had their reward. Number 10 Number 100
1264 See how the physical leads us unconsciously to the moral, and how from the gross union of the sexes gradually arise the sweet laws of love. Women have held onto their power not because men have wished it but because nature wishes it; the power was theirs even before they appeared to have it. The same Hercules who believed he could violate all the fifty daughters of Thespis was nevertheless forced to spin wool for Omphale; and Samson the Strong was never as strong as Delilah. Women's power cannot be taken from them even when they abuse it; if they could ever have lost it they would have lost it long ago. Number 10 Number 100
1265 There is no parity between the two sexes when it comes to the consequence of sex. The male is only a male in certain instances; the female is female all her life or at least all her youth. Everything reminds her of her sex, and to fulfill well her functions she needs a constitution that relates to them. She needs care during pregnancy and rest when her child is born; she must have a quiet, sedentary life while she nurses her children; their education calls for patience and gentleness, for a zeal and affection which nothing can dismay. She serves as a liaison between them and their father; she alone can make him love them and give him the confidence to call them his own. What tenderness and care is required to maintain a whole family as a unit! And finally, all this must not come from virtues but from feelings without which the human species would soon be extinct. Number 10 Number 100
1266 The severity of the duties relative to the two sexes is not and cannot be the same. When a woman complains in this regard about the unjust inequality in which men are placed, she is wrong. This inequality is not at all a human institution, or at least it is not the work of prejudice but of reason. The one to whom nature has entrusted children must answer for them to the other. No doubt it is not permitted to anyone to violate his faith, and every unfaithful husband who deprives his wife of the sole reward of the austere duties of her sex is an unjust and cruel man. But the unfaithful wife does more; she dissolves the family and breaks the bonds of nature. By giving the man children that are not his own she betrays all of them; she adds treachery to infidelity. It is hard to imagine any disorder or crime which would not follow from that. If there is one terrible position to be in it is that of a miserable father who cannot trust his wife, dares not give in to the sweetest sentiments of his heart, and who wonders while embracing his child whether he may be embracing the child of someone else -- a proof of his dishonor, a robber of his own children's inheritance. What is such a family if not a society of secret enemies armed against each other by a guilty wife who forces them to pretend to love each other? Number 10 Number 100
1267 It is thus not only important that the wife be faithful but that she be judged so by her husband, by those near him, by everyone. She must be modest, attentive, reserved, and she must have in others' eyes as in her own conscience the evidence of her virtue. If it is important that a father love his children, it is important that he respect their mother. Such are the reasons that put appearance on the list of the duties of women and make honor and reputation no less indispensable to them than chastity. Along with the moral differences between the sexes these principles give rise to a new motive for duty and convenience, one that prescribes especially for women the most scrupulous attention to their conduct, to their manners, to their behavior. To maintain vaguely that the two sexes are equal and that their duties are the same is to get lost in vain speeches. One hardly need to respond to all that. Number 10 Number 100
1268 Do you really think you are on solid ground when you try to find exceptions to such well-founded general laws? Women, you say, do not always have children. No, but their proper aim is to do so. Just because there are a hundred or so large cities in the world where women live licentiously and have few children can you claim that their role is to have few children? And what would become of your cities if the remote country districts, where women live more simply and more chastely, did not make up for the sterility of your fine ladies? There are plenty of country places where women with only four or five children are reckoned as being not very fertile. Finally, although here and there a woman may have few children, what difference does it make? Is it any the less a woman's role to be a mother? And do not the general laws of nature and morality make provision for this state of things? Number 10 Number 100
1269 Even if there were these long intervals, which you assume, between the periods of pregnancy, can a woman suddenly change her way of life without danger and without risk? Can she be a nursing mother to-day and a warrior tomorrow? Will she change her tastes and her feelings as a chameleon changes its color? Will she pass at once from being sheltered and enclosed with household duties, to facing the harshness of the winds, the toils, the fatigues, the perils of war? Will she be first timid, then brave, first fragile, then robust? If the young men raised in Paris have a hard time enduring a soldier's life, how would a woman who for fifty years has never been exposed to hot sun and can hardly walk on her own endure it? Would she take on this difficult profession at the age when men are retiring from it? Number 10 Number 100
1270 There are countries, I grant you, where women bear children almost without pain and nurture them almost without worry, but in these same countries the men go half-naked in all weathers, they hunt down wild beasts, carry a canoe as easily as a knapsack, pursue game for 700 or 800 leagues, sleep in the open on the bare ground, bear incredible weariness and go many days without food. When women become strong, men become even stronger; when men become soft, women become softer. When the two terms change equally, the difference stays the same. Number 10 Number 100
1271 I am quite aware that Plato in the Republic assigns the same gymnastics to women and men. Having rid his government of private families and knowing not what to do with the women, he was forced to make them into men. That great genius has figured out everything and foreseen everything; he has even thought ahead to an objection that perhaps no one would ever have raised; but he has not succeeded in meeting the real difficulty. I am not speaking of the alleged community of wives, the oft-repeated reproach concerning which only shows that those who make it have never read his works. I refer to the civil promiscuity which everywhere brings the two sexes in the same occupations, the same work, and could not fail to engender the most intolerable abuses. I refer to that subversion of all the tenderest of our natural feelings, which are sacrificed to an artificial sentiment that can only exist by their aid. As if a natural bond were not required in order to form conventional ties; or that love for one's relations were not the basis for the love that one owes to the state; or that it is not through one's attachment to the small society of the family that the heart becomes attached to the larger society of one's nation; or that it is not the good son, the good husband, the good father who makes a good citizen! Number 10 Number 100
1272 Once it is demonstrated that men and women neither are nor ought to be constituted the same, either in character or in temperament, it follows that they ought not to have the same education. In following the directions of nature they ought to act together, but they ought not to do the same things. The purpose of their tasks is the same, but the tasks are different, as are also the feelings that direct them. After having tried to form the natural man, in order not to leave our work incomplete let us see how to also to form the woman who suits this man. Number 10 Number 100
1273 Do you wish always to be guided well? Then always follow the path that nature indicates. Everything that characterizes sex ought to be respected as established by nature. You are always saying, "Women have such and such faults that we do not have." Your pride fools you. These may be faults for you, but they are qualities for them; and everything would go less well if they were without them. Take care that these so-called faults do not degenerate, but be sure not to destroy them. Number 10 Number 100
1274 On their part women are always complaining that we educate them to be vain and coquettish, that we keep them amused with silly things so that we may remain their masters. We are responsible, so they say, for the faults we attribute to them. How insane! Since when do men bother with the education of girls? What is there to hinder their mothers educating them as they please? There are no colleges for girls; so much the better for them! Would to God that there were none for the boys; their education would be more sensible and more wholesome. Does anyone force your daughters to waste their time on silliness? Are they made, against their will, to spend half their time at their dressing table, following the example set them by you? Does anyone prevent you from teaching them, or having them taught, whatever seems good in your eyes? Is it our fault if we are pleased when they are beautiful, if their mincing ways seduce us, if the art that they learn attracts and flatters us, if we like to see them tastefully dressed, if we let them display at leisure the weapons by which we are subjugated? Well then, decide to educate them like men; men will heartily consent. The more women resemble men, the less influence they will have over them, and then the men will truly be the masters. Number 10 Number 100
1275 All the faculties common to both sexes are not equally shared between, them, but taken as a whole they compensate for each other. Woman is worth more as a woman and less as a man. When she makes a good use of her own rights, she has the advantage; when she tries to usurp our rights, she stays beneath us. It is impossible to go against this general truth except by quoting exceptions, which is the usual manner of argumentation by partisans of the fair sex. Number 10 Number 100
1276 To cultivate the masculine virtues in women and to neglect their own is obviously to do them an injury. Women are too clear-sighted to be thus deceived. When they try to usurp our privileges they do not abandon their own. But the result is that being unable to manage the two, because they are incompatible, they fall below their own potential without reaching ours and lose half of their worth. Believe me, wise mother, do not try to make your daughter a good man in defiance of nature. Make her a good woman, and be sure it will be better both for her and us. Number 10 Number 100
1277 Does this mean that she must be brought up in ignorance and kept to housework only? Will man make a servant out of his companion, will he deprive himself in her presence of the greatest charm of society? To keep her a slave will he prevent her from feeling and knowing? Will he make an automaton of her? No, indeed, that is not the teaching of nature, which has given women such an agreeable and agile mind. On the contrary, nature means them to think, to judge, to love, to know things, to cultivate their minds as well as their persons; nature puts these weapons in their hands to make up for their lack of strength and to enable them to direct the strength of men. They should learn many things, but only such things as are suitable. Number 10 Number 100
1278 When I consider the special purpose of woman, when I observe her inclinations or count her duties, everything combines to indicate the form of education that suits her. Men and women are made for each other, but their mutual dependence is not equal. Man is dependent on woman through his desires; woman is dependent on man through her desires and also through her needs. He could do without her better than she can do without him. For women to have what is necessary to them; for them to fulfill their role we must provide for them, we must want to provide for them, we must believe them to be worthy of it. They are dependent on our feelings, on the price we put upon their merits, and on the opinion we have of their charms and their virtues. By the law of nature women, for their own sakes as well as for the sake of their children, are at the mercy of the judgment of men. Worth alone will not suffice, a woman must be thought worthy; nor beauty, she must be admired; nor wisdom, she must he respected. Their honor is not only in their conduct but in their reputation, and it is not possible that one who lets herself be seen as disreputable can ever be good. When a man does the right thing he only depends on himself and can defy public judgment, but when a woman does the right thing she has done only half of her task, and what people think of her is not less important than what she in effect is. Hence her education must, in this respect, be the contrary of ours. Public opinion is the grave of a man's virtue and the throne of a woman's. Number 10 Number 100
1279 The children's health depends in the first place on the mother's, and the early education of man is also in a woman's hands. His morals, his passions, his tastes, his pleasures, his happiness itself, depend on her. Thus all the education of women must be relative to men. To please them, to be useful to them, to make oneself loved and honored by them, to raise them when they are young, to care for them when they are grown, to advise them, console them, make their life pleasant and sweet -- these are the duties of women at all times and what one ought to teach them from their childhood. The further we depart from this principle, the further we shall be from our goal, and all the precepts given her will fail to secure her happiness or ours. Number 10 Number 100
1280 But although every woman wants to please men and ought to want to do so, there is a great difference between wanting to please a man of worth, a really lovable man, and wanting to please these little dandies who are a disgrace to their own sex and to the sex which they imitate. Neither nature nor reason can induce a woman to love an effeminate person, nor will she win love by imitating such a person. Number 10 Number 100
1281 When thus she abandons the modest tone and pose of her sex and takes on the airs of such foolish creatures, she is not following her vocation, she is forsaking it. She is robbing herself of the rights to which she lays claim. "If we were different," she says, "men would not like us." She is mistaken. Only a fool likes folly; to wish to attract such men only shows her own poor taste. If there were no frivolous men, women would soon make them, and women are more responsible for men's follies than men are for theirs. The woman who loves real men and wants to please them will adopt means adapted to her ends. Woman's role is to be a coquette, but her coquetry varies with her aims. Let these aims be in accordance with those of nature, and a woman will receive a fitting education. Number 10 Number 100
1282 Almost as soon as they are born, little girls love dressing up. Not content to be pretty, they must be admired. You can see by their little airs that this concern preoccupies them already, and even when they can barely understand you, you can control them by telling them what people will think of them. If you are foolish enough to try this way with little boys, it will not have the same effect. Give them their freedom and their sports, and they care very little what people think of them. It is only the work of time and much effort that one subjects them to this same law. Number 10 Number 100
1283 From whatever source it comes, this first lesson is very good for girls. Since the body is born, so to speak, before the soul, the first nurturing must be that of the body. This order is common to the two sexes, but the aim of this nurturing is different: in the one this aim is the development of strength, in the other of grace. Not that these qualities should be exclusive to either sex, but their order is reversed. Women should be strong enough to do anything gracefully; men should be skillful enough to do anything easily. Number 10 Number 100
1284 The exaggeration of feminine delicacy leads to effeminacy in men. Women should not be strong like men but for them so that their sons may be strong. Convents and boarding schools, with their plain food and ample opportunities for activities, races, and games in the open air and in the garden, are better in this respect than the home, where the little girl is fed on delicacies, continually flattered or scolded, where she is kept sitting in a stuffy room, always under her mother's eye, afraid to stand or walk or speak or breathe, without a moment's freedom to play or jump or run or shout, or to be her natural, lively, little self. There is either harmful indulgence or misguided severity, and no trace of reason. This is how both the body and the mind of youth are ruined. Number 10 Number 100
1285 In Sparta, the girls used to take part in military sports just like the boys, not that they might go to war, but that they might bear sons who could endure hardship. That is not what I desire. To provide the state with soldiers, it is not necessary that the mother should carry a musket and learn Prussian drills. Yet, on the whole, I think the Greeks were very wise in this matter of physical training. Young girls frequently appeared in public, not with the boys, but in groups apart. There was hardly a festival, a sacrifice, or a procession without its bands of maidens, the daughters of the chief citizens. Crowned with flowers, chanting hymns, forming the chorus of the dance, bearing baskets, vases, and offerings, they presented a charming spectacle to the depraved senses of the Greeks, a spectacle well fitted to erase the evil effects of their indecent gymnastics. Whatever impression this custom may have made on the hearts of the men, it was well fitted to develop in the women a sound constitution by means of pleasant, moderate, and healthy exercise. Meanwhile, the desire to please would develop a keen and cultivated taste without risk to character. Number 10 Number 100
1286 As soon as Greek women married, they were no longer seen in public. Within the four walls of their home, they devoted themselves to the care of their household and family. This is the mode of life prescribed for the female sex both by nature and by reason. These women gave birth to the healthiest, strongest, and best-proportioned men who ever lived, and except in certain islands of ill repute, no women in the whole world, not even the Roman matrons, were ever at once so wise and so charming, so beautiful and so virtuous, as the women of ancient Greece. Number 10 Number 100
1287 It is admitted that their flowing garments, which did not cramp the figure, preserved in men and women alike the fine proportions which are seen in their statues. These are still the models of art, although nature is so disfigured that they are no longer to be found among us. The Gothic fetters, the innumerable bands which confine our limbs as in a press, were quite unknown . The Greek women were wholly unacquainted with those frames of whalebone in which our women distort rather than display their figures. It seems to me that this abuse, which is carried to an incredible degree of folly in England, must sooner or later lead to the production of a degenerate race. Moreover, I maintain that the charm which these corsets are supposed to produce is in the worst possible taste: it is not a pleasant thing to see a woman cut in two like a wasp; it offends both the eye and the imagination. A slender waist has its limits, like everything else, in proportion and suitability, and beyond these limits it becomes a defect. This defect would be a glaring one in the nude; why should it be beautiful under the costume? Number 10 Number 100
1288 I dare not speculate on the reasons which induce women to encase themselves in these coats of mail. A sagging breast, a large waist, etc., are no doubt displeasing at twenty, but at thirty they cease to be shocking. And since, in spite of ourselves, we are bound at all times to be the way nature has made us, and since there is no deceiving the eye of man, such defects are less offensive at any age than the foolish affectations of a young thing of forty. Number 10 Number 100
1289 Everything which cramps and confines nature is in bad taste; this is as true of the adornments of the person as of the ornaments of the mind. Life, health, common sense, and comfort must come first. There is no grace in discomfort, languor is not refinement, there is no charm in ill-health. Suffering may excite pity, but pleasure and delight demand the freshness of health. Number 10 Number 100
1290 The children of both sexes have many games in common, and this is as it should be. Do they not play together when they are grown up? They also have special tastes of their own. Boys want movement and noise, drums, tops, toy carts; girls prefer things which appeal to the eye and can be used for dressing up -- mirrors, jewelry, finery, and especially dolls. The doll is the girl's special plaything; this very obviously shows her instinctive taste for her life's purpose. The physical aspect of the art of pleasing is found in one's dress, and this physical side of the art is the only one that the child can cultivate. Number 10 Number 100
1291 Watch a little girl spend a day with her doll, continually changing its clothes, dressing and undressing it, trying new combinations of trimmings either well or poorly matched. Her fingers are clumsy, her taste is crude, but already a tendency is shown in this endless occupation. Time passes without her knowing it, hours go by, and even meals are forgotten. She is more eager for adornment than for food. "But she is dressing her doll, not herself," you will say. Of course; she sees her doll, she cannot see herself; she cannot do anything for herself, she has neither the training, nor the talent, nor the strength. So far she herself is nothing, she is engrossed in her doll and all her coquetry is devoted to it. This will not always be so; in due time, she will be her own doll. Number 10 Number 100
1292 Here we thus can see a well-directed early inclination; you have only to follow it and train it. What the little girl would like with all her heart is to be able to dress her doll, to make its bows, its shawls, its flounces, and its lace. She is dependent on other people's kindness in all this, and it would be much easier to be able to do it herself. Here is a motive for her earliest lessons; they are not tasks prescribed, but favors bestowed. And in effect, while most little girls only reluctantly learn to read and write, when it comes to sewing they learn gladly. They think they are grown up, and take pleasure in believing that these talents will one day serve them for their own adornment. Number 10 Number 100
1293 This first open path is easy to follow; cutting out, embroidery, and lace-making come naturally. Needlepoint is not popular, for furniture is too remote from the child's interests; it has nothing to do with the person, it depends on conventional tastes. Needlepoint is a woman's amusement; young girls never get real pleasure from it. Number 10 Number 100
1294 These voluntary courses are easily extended to include drawing, an art that is closely connected with taste in dress; but I would not have them taught landscape and still less figure painting. Leaves, fruit, flowers, draperies, anything that will make an elegant trimming for her accessories and enable the girl to design her own embroidery if she cannot find a pattern to her taste -- that will be quite enough. Speaking generally, if it is desirable to restrict a man's studies to what is useful, this is even more necessary for women. For a woman's life, though less laborious, is, or should be, even more devoted to her responsibilities and more divided up into a variety of concerns, and does not permit them to give themselves over to any one chosen talent at the expense of her duties. Number 10 Number 100
1295 Whatever may be said by the jokesters, good sense belongs equally to both sexes. Girls are usually more docile than boys, and they should be subjected to more authority, as I shall show later on, but that is no reason why they should be required to do things that seem to have no usefulness. The art of being a mother consists in showing the usefulness of everything she undertakes to do, and this is all the easier since the intelligence of girls is more precocious than that of boys. This principle eliminates, both for boys and girls, not only those idle studies that lead to nothing good and do not make those who pursue them more agreeable to others, but also those studies whose usefulness is beyond the student's present age and can only be appreciated in later years. If I object to little boys being made to learn to read, still more do I object to it for little girls until they are able to see the use of reading. And in our attempts to convince them of the usefulness of this art, we generally think more of our own ideas than theirs. After all, why should a little girl know early on how to read and write? Does she already have a house to manage? There are more who abuse this fatal knowledge than use it well, and girls are too full of curiosity not to learn on their own whenever they have the time and opportunity to do so. Possibly arithmetic should come first; there is nothing so obviously useful, nothing which needs so much practice or gives so much opportunity for error as keeping accounts. If the little girl will not get cherries for her lunch unless she does an arithmetical exercise, I assure you that she will soon learn to count. Number 10 Number 100
1296 I once knew a little girl who learned to write before she could read, and she began to write with her needle. To begin with, she would write nothing but 0's; she was always making 0's, large and small, of all kinds and one within another, but always drawn backward. Unluckily one day she caught a glimpse of herself in the mirror while she was at this useful work, and thinking that the cramped attitude was not pretty, like another Minerva she threw away her pen and refused to make any more 0's. Her brother was no fonder of writing, but what he disliked was the constraint, not the look of the thing. She was brought back to her writing in the following way: the child was fastidious and vain; she could not bear her sisters to wear her clothes. Her things had been labeled; no one would agree to label them for her anymore, so she had to learn to label them herself. You can imagine the rest of the story. Number 10 Number 100
1297 Always justify the tasks you set your little girls, but keep them busy. Idleness and insubordination are two very dangerous faults, and very hard to cure when once established. Girls should be vigilant and hardworking, but this is not enough by itself; they should be accustomed to annoyances early on. This misfortune, if such it be, is inherent in their sex, and they will never escape from it, unless to endure much more cruel sufferings. For their entire life, they will have to submit to the most continual and most severe annoyances, those of proper decorum. They must be trained to bear constraint from the first, so that it costs them nothing, to master their own fantasies in order to submit to the will of others. If they are always eager to be at work, they should sometimes be forced to do nothing. Dissipation, frivolity, and inconstancy are faults that can easily arise from their first corrupted and unchecked tastes. To guard against this, teach them above all to control themselves. Under our insane institutions, the life of a good woman is a perpetual struggle against herself. It is only fair that women should bear her share of the ills she has brought upon man. Number 10 Number 100
1298 Prevent young girls from getting bored with their tasks and infatuated with their amusements. This often happens under our ordinary methods of education, where, as Fénelon says, all the tedium is on one side and all the pleasure on the other. If the rules already laid down are followed, the first of these dangers will be avoided, unless the child dislikes the people around her. A little girl who is fond of her mother or her friend will work by her side all day without getting tired; the chatter alone will make up for any loss of liberty. But if her companion is unbearable to her, everything done under her direction will be distasteful too. Children who take no delight in their mother's company are not likely to turn out well; but to judge of their real feelings, you must watch them and not trust their words alone, for they are flatterers and deceitful and soon learn to conceal their thoughts. Neither should they be told that they ought to love their mother. Affection is not the result of duty, and in this respect, constraint is out of place. Continual attachment, constant care, and habit itself, all these will lead a child to love her mother as long as the mother does nothing to deserve the child's hate. The very control she exercises over the child, if well directed, will increase rather than diminish the affection, for women being made for dependence, girls feel themselves made to obey. Number 10 Number 100
1299 For the same reason that they have, or ought to have, little freedom, they are apt to indulge themselves too fully with regard to such freedom as they do have. They carry everything to extremes, and they devote themselves to their games with an enthusiasm even greater than that of boys. This is the second difficulty to which I referred. This enthusiasm must be kept in check, for it is the source of several vices commonly found among women -- caprice and that extravagant admiration which leads a woman to regard a thing with rapture today and to be quite indifferent to it tomorrow. This fickleness of taste is as dangerous as exaggeration, and both spring from the same cause. Do not deprive them of mirth, laughter, noise, and romping games, but do not let them tire of one game and go off to another; do not leave them for a moment without restraint. Accustom them to interrupt their games and return to their other occupations without a murmur. Habit is all that is needed since you have nature on your side. Number 10 Number 100
1300 This habitual restraint produces a docility which women require all her life, for she will always be in subjection to a man, or to man's judgment, and she will never be free to set her own opinion above his. What is most wanted in a woman is gentleness. Formed to obey a creature so imperfect as man, a creature often vicious and always faulty, she should early learn to submit to injustice and to suffer the wrongs inflicted on her by her husband without complaint. She must be gentle for her own sake, not his. Bitterness and obstinacy only multiply the sufferings of the wife and the misdeeds of the husband; the man feels that these are not the weapons to be used against him. Heaven did not make women attractive and persuasive that they might degenerate into bitterness, or meek that they should desire the mastery; their soft voice was not meant for hard words, nor their delicate features for the frowns of anger. When they lose their temper, they forget themselves. Often enough, they have just cause for complaint, but when they scold, they always put themselves in the wrong. Each should adopt the tone that befits his or her sex. A too gentle husband may make his wife impertinent, but unless a man is a monster, the gentleness of a woman will bring him around and sooner or later will win him over. Number 10 Number 100
1301 Daughters must always be obedient, but mothers need not always be harsh. To make a girl docile you need not make her miserable; to make her modest you need not terrify her. On the contrary, I should not be sorry to see her allowed occasionally to exercise a little ingenuity, not to escape punishment for her disobedience, but to evade the necessity for obedience. Her dependence need not be made unpleasant; it is enough that she should realise that she is dependent. Cunning is a natural gift of woman, and so convinced am I that all our natural inclinations are right, that I would cultivate this among others, only guarding against its abuse. Number 10 Number 100
1302 For the truth of this I appeal to every honest observer. I do not ask you to question women themselves; our cramping institutions can compel them to sharpen their wits. I would have you examine girls, little girls, newly-born so to speak. Compare them with boys of the same age, and I am greatly mistaken if you do not find the little boys heavy, silly, and foolish, in comparison. Let me give one illustration in all its childish simplicity. Number 10 Number 100
1303 Children are commonly forbidden to ask for anything at table, for people think they can do nothing better in the way of education than to burden them with useless precepts -- as if a little bit of this or that were not readily given or refused* Note 5] without leaving a poor child dying of greediness intensified by hope. Everyone knows about the little boy brought up in this way who, when he had been overlooked at table, asked for salt, etc. I do not suppose anyone will blame him for asking directly for salt and indirectly for meat; the neglect was so cruel that I hardly think he would have been punished had he broken the rule and said plainly that he was hungry. But this is what I saw done by a little girl of six. The circumstances were much more difficult, for not only was she strictly forbidden to ask for anything directly or indirectly, but disobedience would have been unpardonable, for she had tasted every dish except one, and on this she had set her heart. Number 10 Number 100
1304 This is what she did to repair the omission without laying herself open to the charge of disobedience. She pointed to every dish in turn, saying, "I've had some of that; I've had some of that." However, she omitted the one dish so markedly that someone noticed it and said, "Have not you had some of this?" "Oh, no," replied the greedy little girl with a soft voice and downcast eyes. I'll add nothing more; just compare: the latter trick shows the cunning of a girl, the other is the cunning of a boy. Number 10 Number 100
1305 What is, is good, and no general law can be bad. The special skill with which the female sex is endowed is a fair equivalent for its lack of strength; without it woman would be man's slave, not his helpmeet. By her superiority in this respect she maintains her equality with man and rules in obedience. She has everything against her-- our faults and her own weakness and timidity. Her beauty and her wiles are all that she has. Should she not cultivate both? Yet beauty is not universal; it may be destroyed by all sorts of accidents, it will disappear with years, and habit will destroy its influence. A woman's real resource is her wit, not that foolish wit which is so greatly admired in society, a wit which does nothing to make life happier, but that wit which is adapted to her condition, the art of taking advantage of our position and controlling us through our own strength. Words cannot tell how beneficial this is to man, what a charm it gives to the society of men and women, how it checks the petulant child and restrains the brutal husband. Without it the home would be a scene of strife; with it, it is the abode of happiness. I know that this power is abused by the sly and the spiteful; but what is there that is not liable to abuse? Do not destroy the means of happiness simply because bad people sometimes use them to hurt us. Number 10 Number 100
1306 One may attract notice with one's dress, but it is the person that wins our hearts. Our finery is not us; its very artificiality often offends, and that which is least noticeable in itself often wins the most attention. The education of our girls is, in this respect, absolutely contradictory. Jewelry is promised them as a reward, and they are taught to delight in elaborate finery. "How lovely she is!" people say when she is most dressed up. On the contrary, girls should be taught that so much finery is only required to hide their defects, and that beauty's real triumph is to shine alone. The love of fashion is contrary to good taste, for faces do not change with the fashion, and while the person remains unchanged, what suits it at one time will suit it always. Number 10 Number 100
1307 If I saw a young girl decked out like a little peacock, I would show myself anxious about her figure being so disguised, and anxious about what people would think of her. I would say, "She is overdressed with all those accessories; what a pity! Do you think she could do with something simpler? Is she pretty enough to do without all that?" Possibly she herself would be the first to ask that her finery might be taken off and that we should see how she looked without it. In that case, her beauty should receive such praise as it deserves. I would never praise her unless simply dressed. If she only regards fine clothes as an aid to personal beauty, and as a tacit confession that she needs their aid, she will not be proud of her finery, she will be humbled by it; and if she hears someone say, "How pretty she is," when she is smarter than usual, she will blush for shame. Number 10 Number 100
1308 Moreover, though there are figures that require adornment, there are none that require expensive clothes. Extravagance in dress is the folly of the class rather than the individual, it is merely conventional. Genuine coquetry is sometimes carefully thought out, but never sumptuous, and Juno dressed herself more magnificently than Venus. "Since you cannot make her beautiful you are making her rich," said Apelles to an unskilful artist who was painting Helen loaded with jewellery. I have also noticed that the smartest clothes proclaim the plainest women; no folly could be more misguided. If a young girl has good taste and a contempt for fashion, give her a few yards of ribbon, muslin, and gauze, and a handful of flowers, without any diamonds, fringes, or lace, Note 6] and she will make herself a dress a hundredfold more becoming than all the smart clothes of La Duchapt. Number 10 Number 100
1309 Since what is good is always good and since you should always look your best, women who know themselves well select a good style and keep to it. And since they are not always changing their style they think less about dress than those who can never settle on any one style. A genuine desire to dress becomingly does not require elaborate preparation. Young girls rarely give much time to dress; needlework and lessons are the business of the day. Yet, except for the rouge, they are generally as carefully dressed as older women and often in better taste. Contrary to the usual opinion, the real cause of the abuse of fashion is not vanity but lack of occupation. The woman who spends six hours at her dressing table is well aware that she is no better dressed than the woman who spends half an hour, but she has gotten rid of many tedious hours and it is better to amuse oneself with one's clothes than to be sick of everything. Without the dressing table, how would she spend the time between noon and 9 p.m.? With a crowd of women about her, she can at least cause them annoyance, which is an amusement of a kind; better still she avoids a tête-á-tête with her husband who is only seen at that time. Also, there are the tradespeople, the dealers in bric-ábrac, the fine gentlemen, the minor poets with their songs, their verses, and their pamphlets -- how could you get them together without the ritual of the dressing table? Its only real advantage is the chance of exposing oneself a bit more than when one is fully dressed. But perhaps this advantage is less than it seems and a woman gains less than she thinks. Do not be afraid to educate your women as women. Teach them a woman's business, that they be modest, that they may know how to manage their house and look after their family. At that point dressing table rituals will soon disappear, and women will be more tastefully dressed. Number 10 Number 100
1310 Growing girls perceive at once that all this outside adornment is not enough unless they have charms of their own. They cannot make themselves beautiful, they are too young for coquetry, but they are not too young to acquire graceful gestures, a pleasing voice, a self-possessed manner, a light step, a graceful bearing, to choose whatever advantages are within their reach. The voice extends its range, it grows stronger and more resonant; the arms become plumper, the bearing more assured, and they perceive that it is easy to attract attention however dressed. Needlework and industry suffice no longer; fresh gifts are developing and their usefulness is already recognised. Number 10 Number 100
1311 I know that stern teachers want us to refuse to teach little girls to sing or dance, or to acquire any of the pleasing arts. This strikes me as absurd. Who should learn these arts-our boys? Are these to be the favourite accomplishments of men or women? Of neither, say they; profane songs are simply so many crimes, dancing is an invention of the Evil One; tasks and her prayers are all the amusement a young girl should have. What strange amusements for a child of ten! I fear that these little saints who have been forced to spend their childhood in prayers to God will pass their youth in another fashion; when they are married they will try to make up for lost time. I think we must consider age as well as sex. A young girl should not live like her grandmother. She should be lively, merry, and eager; she should sing and dance to her heart's content, and enjoy all the innocent pleasures of youth. The time will come, all too soon, when she must settle down and adopt a more serious tone. Number 10 Number 100
1312 But is this change in itself really necessary? Is it not merely another result of our own prejudices? By making good women the slaves of dismal duties, we have deprived marriage of its charm for men. Can we wonder that the gloomy silence they find at home drives them elsewhere, or inspires little desire to enter a state which offers so few attractions? Christianity, by exaggerating every duty, has made our duties impracticable and useless. By forbidding singing, dancing, and amusements of every kind, it makes women sulky, fault-finding, and intolerable at home. There is no other religion that imposes such strict duties upon married life, and none in which such a sacred engagement is so often profaned. We've done so much to prevent wives from being lovable that we've made their husbands indifferent. This should not be, I grant you, but it will be, since Christians are only men. I would like to see English maidens cultivate the talents that will delight their husbands as zealously as the Albanese cultivate the accomplishments of an Eastern harem. Husbands, you say, care little for such accomplishments. So I should suppose when they are used not for the husband but to attract young rakes who dishonour the home. But imagine a lovable and wise wife, adorned with such accomplishments and devoting them to her husband's amusement; will she not add to his happiness? When he leaves his office worn out with the day's work, will she not prevent him from seeking recreation elsewhere? Have we not all seen happy families gathered together, each contributing to the common fun? Who would not admit that confidence and familiarity combined in this way, the innocence and the sweetness of the pleasures thus enjoyed, are more than enough to make up for the noisier pleasures of public entertainments? Number 10 Number 100
1313 Pleasant talents have been reduced too much to a formal art. They have been too generalized, they have all been made into maxims and precepts; and what should be for young women only fun and silly games has been made into something extremely boring. Nothing can be more absurd than an elderly singing or dancing master frowning upon young people whose main desire is to laugh, and adopting a more pedantic and magisterial manner in teaching his frivolous art than if he were teaching the catechism. Take the case of singing; does this art really depend on reading music? Cannot the voice be made true and flexible, can we not learn to sing with taste and even to play an accompaniment without knowing a note? Does the same kind of singing suit all voices alike? Is the same method adapted to every mind? You will never persuade me that the same attitudes, the same steps, the same movements, the same gestures, the same dances will suit a lively little brunette and a tall fair maiden with languishing eyes. So when I find a master giving the same lessons to all his pupils I say, "He has his own routine, but he knows nothing of his art!" Number 10 Number 100
1314 I am asked whether girls should have male or female teachers. I cannot say. I wish they could dispense with both. I wish they could learn of their own accord what they are already so willing to learn. I wish there were fewer of these dressed-up old ballet masters promenading our streets. I fear our young people will get more harm from intercourse with such people than profit from their instruction, and that their jargon, their tone, their airs and graces, will instill a precocious taste for the frivolities which the teacher thinks so important, and to which the scholars are only too likely to devote themselves. Number 10 Number 100
1315 Where pleasure is the only end in view, any one may serve as teacher-father, mother, brother, sister, friend, governess, the girl's mirror, and above all her own taste. Do not offer to teach, let her ask. Do not make a task of what should be a reward, and in these studies above all remember that the wish to succeed is the first step. If formal instruction is required I leave it to you to choose between a master and a mistress. How can I tell whether a dancing master should take a young pupil by her soft white hand, make her lift her skirt and raise her eyes, open her arms and advance her throbbing bosom? But this I do know, nothing on earth would induce me to be that master. Number 10 Number 100
1316 Taste is formed partly by industry and partly by talent. With taste, the mind opens unconsciously to ideas of beauty in all its forms and to the moral notions that relate to beauty. Perhaps this is one reason why ideas of decency and goodness are acquired earlier by girls than by boys, for to suppose that this early feeling is due to the teaching of the governesses would show little knowledge of their style of teaching and of the natural development of the human mind. The art of speaking stands first among the pleasing arts; it alone can add fresh charms to those which have been blunted by habit. It is the mind which not only gives life to the body but renews, so to speak, its youth. The flow of feelings and ideas gives life and variety to the countenance, and the conversation to which it gives rise arouses and sustains attention, and fixes it continuously on one object. I suppose this is why little girls so soon learn to chatter prettily, and why men enjoy listening to them even before the child can understand them; they are watching for the first gleam of intelligence and sentiment. Number 10 Number 100
1317 Women have ready tongues; they talk earlier, more easily, and more pleasantly than men. They are also said to talk more. This may be true, but I am prepared to reckon it to their credit; eyes and mouth are equally busy and for the same cause. A man says what he knows, a woman says what will please; the one needs knowledge, the other taste. Utility should be the man's object; the woman speaks to give pleasure. There should be nothing in common but truth. Number 10 Number 100
1318 You should not restrain a girl's chatter like a boy's by the harsh question, "What is the use of that?" but by another question at least as difficult to answer, "What effect will that have?" At this early age when they know neither good nor evil, and are incapable of judging others, they should make this their rule and never say anything which is unpleasant to those about them. This rule is all the more difficult to apply because it must always be subordinated to our first rule, " Never tell a lie." Number 10 Number 100
1319 I can see many other difficulties, but they belong to a later stage. For the present it is enough for your little girls to speak the truth without grossness, and since they are naturally averse to what is gross, education easily teaches them to avoid it. In social intercourse, I observe that a man's politeness is usually more official and a woman's more caressing. This distinction is natural, not artificial. A man seeks to serve, a woman seeks to please. Hence a woman's politeness is less insincere than ours, whatever we may think of her character; for she is only acting upon a fundamental instinct. But when a man professes to put my interests before his own, I detect the falsehood, however disguised. Hence it is easy for women to be polite, and easy to teach little girls politeness. The first lessons come by nature; art only supplements them and determines the conventional form which politeness shall take. The courtesy of woman to woman is another matter. Their manner is so constrained, their attentions so chilly, they find each other so wearisome, that they take little pains to conceal the fact, and seem sincere even in their falsehood, since they take so little pains to conceal it. Still, young girls do sometimes become sincerely attached to one another. At their age good spirits take the place of a good disposition, and they are so pleased with themselves that they are pleased with everyone else. Moreover, it is certain that they kiss each other more affectionately and caress each other more gracefully in the presence of men, for they are proud to be able to arouse their envy without danger to themselves by the sight of favours which they know will arouse that envy. Number 10 Number 100
1320 If young boys must not be allowed to ask indiscreet questions, much more must they be forbidden to little girls. If their curiosity is satisfied or unskilfully evaded it is a much more serious matter, for they are so keen to guess the mysteries concealed from them and so skilful to discover them. But while I would not permit them to ask questions, I would have them questioned frequently, and pains should be taken to make them talk. Let them be provoked to make them speak freely, to make them answer readily, to loosen mind and tongue while it can be done without danger. Such conversation always leads to gaiety, yet skilfully controlled and directed, would form a delightful amusement at this age and might instill into these youthful hearts the first and perhaps the most helpful lessons in morals which they will ever receive, by teaching them in the guise of pleasure and fun what qualities are esteemed by men and what is the true glory and happiness of a good woman. Number 10 Number 100
1321 If male children are incapable of forming any true idea of religion, much more is it beyond the grasp of girls. It is for this reason that I would speak of it all the sooner to little girls, for if we wait till they are ready for a methodical discussion of these deep subjects we should be in danger of never speaking of religion at all. A woman's reason is practical, and therefore she soon arrives at a given conclusion, but she fails to discover it for herself. The social relation of the sexes is a wonderful thing. From this society results a moral person of which woman is the eye and man the hand, but the two are so dependent on one another that it is from the man that the woman learns what must be seen and from the woman that the man learns what must be done. If women could discover principles and if men had as good minds for detail, they would be mutually independent, they would live in perpetual strife, and their society could no longer subsist. But in their mutual harmony, each contributes to a common purpose, neither knows which one gives most of himself; each follows the initiative of the other, each one obeys and both are masters. Number 10 Number 100
1322 Just as a woman's conduct is controlled by public opinion, so her religion is ruled by authority. The daughter should follow her mother's religion, the wife her husband's. Even when that religion is false, the docility which leads mother and daughter to submit to nature's laws would blot out the sin of error in the sight of God. Unable to judge for themselves they should accept the judgment of father and husband as that of the church. Number 10 Number 100
1323 Not being able to draw from themselves the guidelines for their faith, neither can women assign limits to that faith by evidence or reason. Instead, they let themselves be driven by a million external influences and are always either above or below the truth. Extreme in everything, they are either altogether reckless or altogether pious; you never find them able to combine virtue and piety. Their natural exaggeration is not wholly to blame; the ill-regulated control exercised over them by men is partly responsible. Loose morals bring religion into contempt; the terrors of remorse make it a tyrant. This is why women have always too much or too little religion. Number 10 Number 100
1324 As a woman's religion is controlled by authority it is more important to show her plainly what to believe than to explain the reasons for belief. For faith attached to ideas half-understood is the main source of fanaticism, and faith demanded on behalf of what is absurd leads to madness or unbelief. Whether our catechisms tend to produce impiety rather than fanaticism I cannot say, but I do know that they lead to one or the other. Number 10 Number 100
1325 In the first place, when you teach religion to little girls never make it gloomy or tiresome, never make it a task or a duty, and therefore never give them anything to learn by heart, not even their prayers. Be content to say your own prayers regularly in their presence, but do not compel them to join you. Let their prayers be short, as Christ himself has taught us. Let them always be said with becoming reverence and respect. Remember that if we ask the Supreme Being to attend to our words, we should at least put ourselves into what we mean to say. Number 10 Number 100
1326 It does not much matter that a girl should learn her religion young, but it does matter that she should learn it thoroughly, and still more that she should learn to love it. If you make religion a burden to her, if you always speak of God's anger, if in the name of religion you impose all sorts of disagreeable duties on her, duties that she never sees you perform, what can she suppose but that to learn one's catechism and to say one's prayers is only the duty of a little girl, and she will long to be grown-up to escape, like you, from these duties. Example! Example! Without it, you will never succeed in teaching children anything. Number 10 Number 100
1327 When you explain the Articles of Faith let it be by direct teaching, not by question and answer. Children should only answer what they think, not what has been drilled into them. All the answers in the catechism are the wrong way about; it is the student who instructs the teacher. In the child's mouth, they are a downright lie, since they explain what he does not understand and affirm what he cannot believe. Find me, if you can, an intelligent man who could honestly say his catechism. Number 10 Number 100
1328 The first question I find in our catechism is as follows: "Who created you and brought you into the world?" To which the girl, who thinks it was her mother, replies without hesitation, "It was God." All she knows is that she is asked a question which she only half understands and she gives an answer she does not understand at all. Number 10 Number 100
1329 I wish someone who really understands the development of children's minds would write a catechism for them. It might be the most useful book ever written, and, in my opinion, it would do its author no little honor. This at least is certain-if it were a good book it would be very unlike our catechisms. Number 10 Number 100
1330 Such a catechism will not be satisfactory unless the child can answer the questions of her own accord without having to learn the answers. Indeed the child will often ask the questions herself. An example is required to make my meaning plain and I feel how ill-equipped I am to furnish such an example. I will try to give some sort of outline of my meaning. Number 10 Number 100
1331 To get to the first question in our catechism I suppose we must begin somewhat after the following fashion. Number 10 Number 100
1332 Nurse: Do you remember when your mother was a little girl? Child: No, nurse. Nurse: Why not, when you have such a good memory? Child: I was not alive. Nurse: Then you were not always alive? Child: No. Nurse: Will you live forever? Child: Yes. Nurse: Are you young or old? Child: I am young. Nurse: Is your grandmamma old or young? Child: She is old. Nurse: Was she ever young? Child: Yes. Nurse: Why is she not young now? Child: She has grown old. Nurse: Will you grow old too? Child: I don't know. Nurse: Where are your last year's frocks? Child: They have had the stitching taken out of them. Nurse: Why? Child: Because they were too small for me. Nurse: Why were they too small? Child: I have grown bigger. Nurse: Will you grow any more? Child: Oh, yes. Nurse: And what becomes of big girls? Child: They grow into women. Nurse: And what becomes of women? Child: They are mothers. Nurse: And what becomes of mothers? Child: They grow old. Nurse: Will you grow old? Child: When I am a mother. Nurse: And what becomes of old people? Child: I don't know. Note 7] Nurse: What became of your grandfather? Child: He died. Nurse: Why did he die? Note 8] Child: Because he was so old. Nurse: What becomes of old people? Child: They die. Nurse: And when you are old-? Child: Oh nurse! I don't want to die! Nurse : My dear, no one wants to die, and everybody dies. Child: Why, will mamma die too? Nurse: Yes, like everybody else. Women grow old as well as men, and old age ends in death. Child: What must I do to grow old very, very slowly? Nurse: Be good while you are little. Child: I will always be good, nurse. Nurse: So much the better. But do you suppose you will live forever? Child: When I am very, very old- Nurse: Well? Child: When we are so very old you say we must die? Nurse: You must die someday. Child: Oh dear! I suppose I must. Nurse: Who lived before you? Child: My father and mother. Nurse: And before them? Child: Their father and mother. Nurse: Who will live after you? Child: My children. Nurse: Who will live after them? Child: Their children. Number 10 Number 100
1333 In this way, by concrete examples, you will find a beginning and end for the human race like everything else-that is to say, a father and mother who never had a father and mother, and children who will never have children of their own. Number 10 Number 100
1334 It is only after a long course of similar questions that we are ready for the first question in the catechism. Only then can we put the question and the child may be able to understand it. But what a gap there is between the first and the second question which is concerned with the definitions of the divine nature. When will this chasm be bridged? "God is a spirit." "And what is a spirit?" Shall I start the child upon this difficult question of metaphysics which grown men find so hard to understand? These are no questions for a little girl to answer. If she asks them, it is as much or more than we can expect. In that case, I should tell her quite simply, "You ask me what God is. It is not easy to say; we can neither hear nor see nor handle God; we can only know Him by His works. To learn what He is, you must wait till you know what He has done." Number 10 Number 100
1335 If our dogmas are all equally true, they are not equally important. It makes little difference to the glory of God that we should perceive it everywhere, but it does make a difference to human society, and to every member of that society, that a man should know and do the duties which are laid upon him by the law of God, his duty to his neighbour and to himself. This is what we should always be teaching one another, and it is this which fathers and mothers are specially bound to teach their little ones. Whether a virgin became the mother of her Creator, whether she gave birth to God, or merely to a man into whom God has entered, whether the Father and the Son are of the same substance or of similar substance only, whether the Spirit proceeded from one or both of these who are but one, or from both together -- however important these questions may seem, I cannot see that it is any more necessary for the human race to come to a decision with regard to them than to know what day to keep Easter, or whether we should tell our beads, fast, and refuse to eat meat, speak Latin or French in church, adorn the walls with statues, hear or say mass, and have no wife of our own. Let each think as he pleases. I cannot see that it matters to any one but himself. For my own part, it is no concern of mine. But what does concern my fellow-creatures and myself alike is to know that there is indeed a judge of human fate whose children we all are, who bids us all be just, to love one another, to be kindly and merciful, to keep our word with all men, even with our own enemies and his. We must know that the apparent happiness of this world is nothing; that there is another life to come, in which this Supreme Being will be the rewarder of the just and the judge of the unjust. Children need to be taught these doctrines and others like them and all citizens require to be persuaded of their truth. Whoever sets his face against these doctrines is indeed guilty; he is the disturber of the peace, the enemy of society. Whoever goes beyond these doctrines and seeks to make us the slaves of his private opinions reaches the same goal by another way. To establish his own kind of order he disturbs the peace; in his rash pride he makes himself the interpreter of the Divine; and in his name, he demands the homage and the reverence of mankind. So far as may be, he sets himself in God's place. He should receive the punishment of sacrilege if he is not punished for his intolerance. Number 10 Number 100
1336 Disregard, therefore, all those mysterious doctrines which are words without ideas for us, all those strange teachings, the study of which is too often offered as a substitute for virtue, a study which more often makes men mad rather than good. Keep your children ever within the little circle of dogmas which are related to morality. Convince them that the only useful learning is that which teaches us to act rightly. Do not make your daughters into theologians and casuists; only teach them such things of heaven as conduce to human goodness. Train them to feel that they are always in the presence of God, who sees their thoughts and deeds, their virtue and their pleasures. Teach them to do good without ostentation and because they love it, to suffer evil without a murmur because God will reward them; in a word to be all their life long what they will be glad to have been when they appear in his presence. This is true religion; this alone is incapable of abuse, impiety, or fanaticism. Let those who will teach a religion more sublime, but this is the only religion I know. Number 10 Number 100
1337 Moreover, it is as well to observe that until the age when reason becomes enlightened, when growing emotion gives a voice to conscience, what is wrong for young people is what those around them have decided to be wrong. What they are told to do is good; what they are forbidden to do is bad; that is all they ought to know. This shows how important it is for girls, even more than for boys, that the right people should be chosen to be with them and to have authority over them. Finally, the time comes when they begin to judge things for themselves; then is the time to change your method of education. Number 10 Number 100
1338 Perhaps I have said too much already. To what shall we reduce the education of our women if we give them no law but that of conventional prejudice? Let us not degrade so far the sex which rules over us and which does us honour when we have not debased it. There exists for the whole human race a rule anterior to that of public opinion. The inflexible direction of this rule is what all the others should relate to. It is the judge even of prejudice, and only in so far as the esteem of men is in accordance with this rule has it any authority for us. Number 10 Number 100
1339 This rule is our interior sentiment. I will not repeat what has been said already; it is enough to point out that if these two laws clash, the education of women will always be imperfect. Sentiment without respect for public opinion will not give them that delicacy of soul which lends to right conduct the charm of social approval, while respect for public opinion without sentiment will only make false and wicked women who put appearances in the place of virtue. Number 10 Number 100
1340 It is, therefore, important to cultivate a faculty which serves as a judge between the two guides, which does not permit conscience to go astray and corrects the errors of prejudice. That faculty is reason. But what a crowd of questions arise at this word! Are women capable of solid reasoning? Should they cultivate it? Will they cultivate it successfully? Is this culture useful in relation to the functions laid upon them? Is it compatible with the simplicity that suits them? Number 10 Number 100
1341 The different ways of envisaging and answering these questions means that given these two extremes some would limit women to sewing and spinning in the household with their maids and would make them nothing more than the chief servant of their master; others, not content to secure their rights, would lead them to usurp ours. For to make woman our superior in all the qualities proper to her sex, and to make her our equal in all the rest, what is this but to transfer to the woman the superiority which nature has given to the husband? 10 100
1342 The reason which teaches a man his duties is not very complex; the reason which teaches a woman hers is even simpler. The obedience and fidelity which she owes to her husband, the tenderness and care due to her children, are such natural and self-evident consequences of her condition that she cannot honestly refuse her consent to the inner voice which is her guide, nor disregard her duty in her natural inclination. 10 100
1343 I would not altogether blame those who would restrict a woman to the labours of her sex and would leave her in profound ignorance of everything else. But that would require either a very simple, very healthy public morality or a very isolated lifestyle. In large cities, among immoral men, such a woman would be too easily seduced. Her virtue would too often be at the mercy of circumstances. In this philosophic century, virtue must be able to be put to the test. She must know in advance what people might say to her and what she should think of it. 10 100
1344 Moreover, having to submit to men's judgment she should merit their esteem. Above all she should obtain the esteem of her spouse. She should not only make him love her person, she should make him approve her conduct. She should justify his choice before the world, and do honour to her husband through the honour given to the wife. But how can she set about this task if she is ignorant of our institutions, our customs, our notions of what is proper, if she knows nothing of the source of man's judgment, nor the passions by which it is swayed? Since she depends both on her own conscience and on public opinion, she must learn to know and reconcile these two laws, and to put her own conscience first only when the two are opposed to each other. She becomes the judge of her own judges, she decides when she should submit to them and when she should refuse her obedience. Before she accepts or rejects their prejudices she weighs them; she learns to trace them to their source, to foresee what they will be, and to turn them in her own favour. She is careful never to give cause for blame if duty allows her to avoid it. This cannot be properly done without cultivating her mind and her reason. 10 100
1345 I always come back to my main principle and it supplies the solution of all my difficulties. I study what is, I seek its cause, and I discover in the end that what is, is good. I go to open houses where the master and mistress do the honours together. They are equally well educated, equally polite, equally well equipped with wit and good taste; both of them are inspired with the same desire to give their guests a good reception and to send everyone away satisfied. The husband omits no pains to be attentive to everyone; he comes and goes and sees to everyone and takes all sorts of trouble; he is attention itself. The wife remains in her place; a little circle gathers round her and apparently conceals the rest of the company from her; yet she sees everything that goes on. No one goes without a word with her; she has omitted nothing which might interest anybody. She has said nothing unpleasant to anyone, and without any fuss the least is no more overlooked than the greatest. Dinner is announced, they take their places. The man who knows the assembled guests will place them according to his knowledge; the wife, without previous acquaintance, never makes a mistake. Their looks and bearing have already shown her what is wanted and everyone will find himself where he wishes to be. I do not assert that the servants forget no one. The master of the house may have omitted no one, but the mistress perceives what each likes and sees that he gets it. While she is talking to her neighbour she has one eye on the other end of the table; she sees who is not eating because he is not hungry and who is afraid to help himself because he is clumsy and timid. When the guests leave the table everyone thinks she has thought only of him, everybody thinks she has had no time to eat anything, but she has really eaten more than anybody. 10 100
1346 When the guests are gone, husband and wife talk over the events of the evening. He relates what was said to him, what was said and done by those with whom he conversed. If the lady is not always quite exact in this respect, nevertheless she perceived what was whispered at the other end of the room. She knows what so-and-so thought, and what was the meaning of this speech or that gesture. There is scarcely a change of expression for which she has not an explanation in readiness, and she is almost always right. 10 100
1347 The same turn of mind which makes a woman of the world such an excellent hostess enables a flirt to excel in the art of amusing a number of suitors. Coquetry, cleverly carried out, demands an even finer discernment than courtesy. Provided a polite lady is civil to everybody, she has done fairly well in any case. But the flirt would soon lose her hold by such clumsy uniformity. If she tries to be pleasant to all her lovers alike, she will disgust them all. In society the manners adopted towards everybody are good enough for each; provided all are alike well received, no question is asked as to private likes or dislikes. But in love, a favour shared with others is an insult. A man of feeling would rather be singled out for ill-treatment than be caressed with the crowd, and the worst that can happen to him is to be treated like everyone else. So a woman who wants to keep several lovers must persuade every one of them that she prefers him, and she must contrive to do this in the sight of all the rest, each of whom is equally convinced that he is her favourite. 10 100
1348 If you want to see a man in a quandary, place him between two women with each of whom he has a secret understanding, and see what a fool he looks. But put a woman in similar circumstances between two men, and the results will be even more remarkable. You will be astonished at the skill with which she cheats them both and makes them laugh at each other. Now if that woman were to show the same confidence in both, if she were to be equally familiar with both, how could they be deceived for a moment? If she treated them alike, would she not show that they both had the same claims upon her? Oh, she is far too clever for that! So far from treating them just alike, she makes a marked difference between them, and she does it so skilfully that the man she flatters thinks it is affection, and the man she ill uses think it is spite. So that each of them believes she is thinking of him, when she is thinking of no one but herself. 10 100
1349 A general desire to please suggests similar measures. People would be disgusted with a woman's whims if they were not skilfully managed, and when they are artfully distributed her slaves are more than ever enchained. "Usa ogn'arte la donna, onde sia colto Nella sua rete alcun novello amante; Nè con tutti, nè sempre un stesso volto Serba; ma cangia a tempo attn e sembiante." TASSO, Jerus. Del., c. iv., v. 87. 10 100
1350 What is the secret of this art if it is it not the result of a delicate and continuous observation which shows her what is taking place in a man's heart, so that she is able to encourage or to check every hidden impulse? Can this art be acquired? No; it is born with women; it is common to them all, and men never show it to the same degree. It is one of the distinctive characters of the sex. Self-possession, penetration, delicate observation, this is a woman's science. The skill to make use of it is her chief accomplishment. 10 100
1351 This is what is, and we have seen why it should be. It is said that women are false. They become false. They are really endowed with skill not duplicity; in the genuine inclinations of their sex they are not false even when they tell a lie. Why do you consult their words when it is not their mouths that speak? Consult their eyes, their colour, their breathing, their timid manner, their slight resistance; that is the language nature gave them for your answer. The lips always say "No," and rightly so; but the tone is not always the same, and that cannot lie. Has not a woman the same needs as a man, but without the same right to make them known? Her fate would be too cruel if at the time of her legitimate desires she did not have a language equivalent to the one she dare not have. Must her modesty make her unhappy? Does she not require a means of indicating her inclinations without open expression? What skill is needed to hold back from her lover what she is burning to give him! Is it not of vital importance that she should learn to touch his heart without showing that she cares for him? It is a pretty story that tale of Galatea with her apple and her clumsy flight. What more is needed? Will she tell the shepherd who pursues her among the willows that she is only running from him so that he will follow her? If she did, it would be a lie; for she would no longer attract him. The more reserve a woman has, the more art she needs, even with her husband. Yes, I maintain that by keeping coquetry within its limits a woman becomes modest and true, and out of it springs a law of honesty. 10 100
1352 One of my opponents has very truly asserted that virtue is a whole; you cannot disintegrate it and choose this and reject the other. If you love virtue, you love it in its entirety; and you close your heart when you can, and you always close your lips, to the feelings which you ought not to allow. Moral truth is not only what is, but what is good; what is bad ought not to be, and ought not to be confessed, especially when that confession produces results which might have been avoided. If I were tempted to steal, and in confessing it I tempted another to become my accomplice, the very confession of my temptation would amount to a yielding to that temptation. Why do you say that modesty makes women false? Are those who lose their modesty more sincere than the rest? Far from it; they are a thousandfold more deceitful. This degree of depravity is due to many vices, none of which is rejected, vices which owe their power to intrigue and falsehood. Note 9] On the other hand, those who still feel shame, who take no pride in their faults, who are able to conceal their desires even from those who inspire them, those who confess their passion most reluctantly, these are the truest and most sincere, these are they on whose fidelity you may generally rely. 10 100
1353 The only example I know which might be quoted as a recognised exception to these remarks is MIle. de L' Enclos; and she was considered a prodigy. In her scorn for the virtues of women, she practised, so they say, the virtues of a man. She is praised for her frankness and uprightness; she was a trustworthy acquaintance and a faithful friend. To complete the picture of her glory it is said that she became a man. That may be, but in spite of her high reputation I should no more desire that man as my friend than as my mistress. 10 100
1354 This is not so irrelevant as it seems. I am aware of the tendencies of our modern philosophy which make a jest of female modesty and its so-called insincerity; I also perceive that the most certain result of this philosophy will be to deprive the women of this century of such shreds of honour as they still possess. 10 100
1355 On these grounds I think we may decide in general terms what sort of education is suited to the female mind and the objects to which we should turn its attention in early youth. 10 100
1356 As I have already said, the duties of their sex are more easily recognised than performed. They must learn in the first place to love those duties by considering the advantages to be derived from them -- that is the only way to make duty easy. Every age and condition has its own duties. We are quick to see our duty if we love it. Honor your position as a woman, and in whatever station of life to which it shall please heaven to call you, you will be well off. The essential thing is to be what nature has made you; women are only too ready to be what men would have them. 10 100
1357 The search for abstract and speculative truths, for principles and axioms in science, for all that tends to wide generalisation, is beyond a woman's grasp; their studies should be thoroughly practical. It is their business to apply the principles discovered by men, it is their place to make the observations which lead men to discover those principles. A woman's thoughts, beyond the range of her immediate duties, should be directed to the study of men, or the acquirement of that agreeable learning whose sole end is the formation of taste. For the works of genius are beyond her reach, and she has neither the accuracy nor the attention for success in the exact sciences. As for the physical sciences, to decide the relations between living creatures and the laws of nature is the task of that sex which is more active and enterprising, which sees more things, that sex which is possessed of greater strength and is more accustomed to the exercise of that strength. Woman, weak as she is and limited in her range of observation, perceives and judges the forces at her disposal to supplement her weakness, and those forces are the passions of man. Her own mechanism is more powerful than ours; she has many levers which may set the human heart in motion. She must find a way to make us desire what she cannot achieve unaided and what she considers necessary or pleasing. Therefore she must have a thorough knowledge of man's mind -- not an abstract knowledge of the mind of man in general, but the mind of those men who are about her, the mind of those men who have authority over her, either by law or custom. She must learn to intuit their feelings from speech and action, look and gesture. By her own speech and action, look and gesture, she must be able to inspire them with the feelings she desires, without seeming to have any such purpose. The men will have a better philosophy of the human heart, but she will read more accurately in the heart of men. Woman should discover, so to speak, an experimental morality; man should reduce it to a system. Woman has more wit, man more genius; woman observes, man reasons. Together they provide the clearest light and the profoundest knowledge which is possible to the unaided human mind -- in a word, the surest knowledge of self and of others of which the human race is capable. In this way art may constantly tend to the perfection of the instrument which nature has given us. 10 100
1358 The world is woman's book. If she reads it wrong, it is either her own fault or she is blinded by passion. Yet the genuine mother of a family is no woman of the world; she is almost as much of a recluse as the nun in her convent. Those who have marriageable daughters should do what is or ought to be done for those who are entering the cloisters: they should show them the pleasures they forsake before they are allowed to renounce them, lest the deceitful picture of unknown pleasures should creep in to disturb the happiness of their retreat. In France it is the girls who live in convents and the wives who flaunt in society. Among the ancients it was quite otherwise; girls enjoyed, as I have said already, many games and public festivals; the married women lived in retirement. This was a more reasonable custom and more conducive to morality. Girls may be allowed a certain amount of coquetry; to amuse themselves is their main business. A wife has other responsibilities at home, and she is no longer on the look-out for a husband. But women would not appreciate such reforms, and unluckily it is they who set the fashion. Mothers, let your daughters be your companions. Give them good sense and an honest heart, and then conceal from them nothing that a pure eye may observe. Balls, assemblies, sports, the theatre itself -- everything which viewed badly will charm an imprudent youth -- may be offered without risk to a healthy mind. The more they know of these noisy pleasures, the sooner they will be disgusted by them. 10 100
1359 I can imagine the outcry with which will be raised against me. What girl will resist such an example? Their heads are turned by the first glimpse of the world; not one of them is ready to give it up. That may be; but before you showed them this deceitful prospect, did you prepare them to see it without emotion? Did you tell them plainly what they would be presented with? Did you show it in its true light? Did you arm them against the illusions of vanity? Did you inspire their young hearts with a taste for the true pleasures which are not to be found with in this crowd? What precautions, what steps, did you take to preserve them from the false taste which leads them astray? Not only have you done nothing to preserve their minds from the tyranny of prejudice, you have fostered that prejudice; you have taught them to desire every foolish amusement they can get. Your own example is their teacher. Young people on their entrance into society have no guide but their mother, who is often just as silly as they are themselves, and quite unable to show them things except as she sees them herself. Her example is stronger than reason; it justifies them in their own eyes, and the mother's authority is an unanswerable excuse for the daughter. If I ask a mother to bring her daughter into society, I assume that she will show it in its true light. 10 100
1360 The evil begins still earlier. The convents are regular schools of coquetry, not that honest coquetry which I have described above, but a coquetry that is the source of every kind of misconduct, a coquetry that turns out girls who are the most ridiculous little madams. When they leave the convent to take their place in smart society, young women find themselves quite at home. They have been educated for such a life; is it strange that they like it? I am afraid what I am going to say may be based on prejudice rather than observation, but so far as I can see, one finds more family affection, more good wives and loving mothers in Protestant than in Catholic countries. If that is so, we cannot fail to suspect that the difference is partly due to the convent schools. 10 100
1361 The charms of a peaceful family life must be known to be enjoyed; their delights should be tasted in childhood. It is only in our father's home that we learn to love our own, and a woman whose mother did not educate her herself will not be willing to educate her own children. Unfortunately, there is no such thing as home education in our cities. Society is so general and so mixed there is no place left to retreat to, and even in the home we live in public. We live in company till we have no family, and we scarcely know our own relations. We see them as strangers; and the simplicity of home life disappears together with the sweet familiarity which was its charm. In this way do we draw with our mother's milk a taste for the pleasures of the age and the maxims by which it is controlled. 10 100
1362 Girls are made to assume an air of coolness so that men may be deceived into marrying them by their appearances. But study these young people for a moment; under a pretence of coyness they barely conceal the passion which devours them, and already you may read in their eager eyes their desire to imitate their mothers. It is not a husband they want, but the licence of a married woman. What need of a husband when there are so many other resources? But a husband there must be to act as a screen. Note 10] There is modesty on the brow but libertinage in the heart; this sham modesty is one of its outward signs. They affect it that they may be rid of it once for all. Women of Paris and London, forgive me! There may be miracles everywhere, but I am not aware of them; and if there is even one among you who is really pure in heart, I know nothing of our institutions. 10 100
1363 All these different methods of education lead in similar ways to a taste for the pleasures of the great world and to the passions which this taste so soon kindles. In our great towns depravity begins at birth; in the smaller towns it begins with reason. Young women brought up in the country are soon taught to despise the happy simplicity of their lives, and hurry to Paris to share the corruption of ours. Vices, cloaked under the fine name of accomplishments, are the sole object of their journey. Ashamed to find themselves so much behind the noble licence of the Parisian ladies, they cannot wait to become worthy of the name of Parisian. Which is responsible for the evil -- the place where it begins, or the place where it is accomplished? 10 100
1364 I would not have a sensible mother bring her girl to Paris to show her these sights so harmful to others; but I assert that if she did so, either the girl has been badly brought up, or such sights have little danger for her. With good taste, good sense, and a love of what is right, these things are less attractive than to those who abandon themselves to their charm. In Paris you may see giddy young people hastening to adopt the tone and fashions of the town for some six months, so that they may spend the rest of their life in disgrace; but who pays any attention to those who, disgusted with the rout, return to their distant home and are contented with their lot when they have compared it with that which others desire. How many young wives have I seen whose good-natured husbands have taken them to Paris where they might live if they pleased; but they have shrunk from it and returned home more willingly than they went, saying tenderly, "Ah, let us go back to our cottage, life is happier there than in these palaces." We do not know how many there are who have not bowed down to idols, who scorn his senseless worship. Fools make all the noise; good women pass unnoticed. 10 100
1365 If so many women preserve a judgment which is proof against temptation, in spite of universal prejudice, in spite of the bad education of girls, what would their judgment have been had it been strengthened by suitable instruction, or rather left unaffected by evil teaching? For to preserve or restore the natural feelings is our main business. You can do this without preaching endless sermons to your daughters, without burdening them with your harsh morality. With both sexes, moralizing means the death of any good education. Dreary lessons only create an aversion both for what is said and for those who say it. In talking to a young girl you need not make her afraid of her duties, nor need you increase the yoke imposed upon her by nature. When you explain her duties speak plainly and pleasantly; do not let her suppose that the performance of these duties is a dismal thing -- no angry tones, no haughtiness. Every thought which we desire to arouse should find its expression in our pupils. Their catechism of conduct should be as brief and plain as their catechism of religion, but it need not be so serious. Show them that these same duties are the source of their pleasures and the basis of their rights. Is it so hard to win love by love, happiness by an amiable disposition, obedience by worth, and honour by self-respect? How fair are these woman's rights, how worthy of reverence, how dear to the heart of man when a woman is able to show their worth! These rights are no privilege of years; a woman's empire begins with her virtues. Her charms are only in the bud, yet she reigns already by the gentleness of her character and the dignity of her modesty. Is there any man so hard-hearted and uncivilised that he does not soften his pride and attend to his manners with a sweet and virtuous girl of sixteen, who listens but says little, whose bearing is modest, conversation honest, whose beauty does not lead her to forget her sex and her youth, whose very timidity arouses interest while she wins for herself the respect which she shows to others? 10 100
1366 These external signs are not devoid of meaning. They do not rest entirely upon the charms of sense; they arise from that conviction that we all feel that women are the natural judges of a man's worth. Who would be scorned by women? Not even he who has ceased to desire their love. And do you suppose that I, who tell them such harsh truths, am indifferent to their verdict? Reader, I care more for their approval than for yours; you are often more effeminate than they. While I scorn their morals, I will revere their justice. I care not if they hate me so long as I can compel their esteem. 10 100
1367 What great things might be accomplished by their influence if only we could bring it to bear! Too bad for the century whose women lose their ascendancy, and fail to make men respect their judgment! This is the last stage of degradation. Every virtuous nation has shown respect to women. Consider Sparta, Germany, and Rome -- Rome the throne of glory and virtue, if ever they were enthroned on earth. The Roman women awarded honour to the deeds of great generals, they mourned in public for the fathers of the country, their awards and their tears were equally held sacred as the most solemn utterance of the Republic. Every great revolution began with the women. Through a woman Rome gained her liberty, through a woman the plebeians won the consulate, through a woman the tyranny of the decemvirs was overthrown. It was the women who saved Rome when besieged by Coriolanus. What would you have said at the sight of this procession, you Frenchmen who pride yourselves on your gallantry, would you not have followed it with shouts of laughter? You and I see things with such different eyes, and perhaps we are both right. Such a procession formed of the fairest beauties of France would be an indecent spectacle; but let it consist of Roman ladies, you will all gaze with the eyes of the Volscians and feel with the heart of Coriolanus. 10 100
1368 I will go further and maintain that virtue is no less favourable to love than to other rights of nature, and that it adds as much to the authority of mistresses as to that of the wives or mothers. There is no real love without enthusiasm, and no enthusiasm without an object of perfection real or supposed, but always present in the imagination. What is there to kindle the hearts of lovers for whom this perfection is nothing, for whom the loved one is merely the means to sensual pleasure? No, it is not thus that the heart kindled, not thus that it abandons itself to those sublime transports which cause the rapture of lovers and the charm of love. Everything is only illusion in love, I admit, but its reality consists in the feelings it awakens in us for the true beauty which it makes us love. That beauty is not to be found in the object of our affections, it is the creation of our illusions. And why should this matter? Do we not still sacrifice all those baser feelings to the imaginary model? Do we not still feed our hearts on the virtues we attribute to the beloved? Do we not still withdraw ourselves from the baseness of the human self? Where is the true lover who would not give his life for his mistress, and where is the gross and sensual passion in a man who is willing to die? We scoff at the knights of old, and yet they knew the meaning of love while we know nothing but debauchery. When the teachings of romance began to seem ridiculous, it was not so much the work of reason as of immorality. 10 100
1369 Natural relations remain the same throughout the centuries, their good or evil effects are unchanged. Prejudices masquerading as reason can only change their outward seeming. Self-mastery, even at the mercy of fantastic opinions, will not cease to be great and good. And the true motives of honour will not fail to appeal to the heart of every woman with judgement who is able to seek her life's happiness in her own role. To a high-souled woman chastity above all must be a delightful virtue. She sees the whole world at her feet and she triumphs over herself and them; she erects in her own heart a throne to which all come to pay her hommage. The tender or jealous but always respectful sentiments of both sexes, the universal estime and her own self-estime, ceaselessly pay glorious tribute to a few passing struggles. The loss is fleeting, the gain is permanent. What a joy for a noble heart-- the pride of virtue combined with beauty. Let her be a heroine of romance; she will taste delights more exquisite than those of Lais and Cleopatra; and when her beauty is fled, her glory and her joys remain. She alone will be able to enjoy the past. 10 100
1370 The harder and more important the duties, the stronger and clearer must be the reasons on which they are based. There is a sort of pious talk about the most serious subjects which is drummed into the ears of young people without persuading them. From this talk, quite unsuited to their ideas and the small importance they attach to it in secret, comes the facility to yield to their inclinations, for lack of any reasons for resistance drawn from the facts themselves. No doubt a girl brought up to goodness and piety has strong weapons against temptation; but one whose heart, or rather whose ears, are merely filled with the jargon of piety, will certainly fall a prey to the first skilful seducer who attacks her. A young and beautiful girl will never despise her body; she will never really deplore sins which her beauty leads men to commit; she will never lament earnestly in the sight of God that she is an object of desire; she will never be convinced that the tenderest feeling is an invention of the Evil One. Give her other and more pertinent reasons for her own sake, for these will have no effect. It will be worse to instill, as is often done, ideas which contradict each other, and after having humbled and degraded her person and her charms as the stain of sin, to bid her reverence that same vile body as the temple of Jesus Christ. Ideas too sublime and too humble are equally ineffective and they cannot both be true. A reason adapted to her age and sex is what is needed. Considerations of duty are of no effect unless they are combined with some motive for the performance of our duty. 10 100
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1372 Do you wish to inspire young people with a love of good conduct? Then avoid saying, "Be good." Instead, make it their interest to be good; make them feel the value of goodness and they will love it. It is not enough to show this effect in the distant future; show it now, in the relations of the present, in the character of their lovers. Describe a good man, a man of worth; teach them to recognise him when they see him, to love him for their own sake. Convince them that such a man alone can make them happy as friend, wife, or mistress. Let reason lead the way to virtue. Make them feel that the power of their sex and all the advantages derived from it depend not merely on the right conduct, the morality, of women, but also on that of men; that the advantages of virtue have little hold over the vile and base, and that the lover is incapable of serving his mistress unless he can do homage to virtue. You may then be sure that when you describe the manners of our age you will inspire them with a genuine disgust; when you show them men of fashion they will despise them. You will give them a distaste for their maxims, an aversion to their sentiments, and a scorn for their empty gallantry. You will arouse a nobler ambition, to reign over great and strong souls, the ambition of the Spartan women to rule over men. A bold, shameless, intriguing woman, who can only attract her lovers by coquetry and retain them by her favors, wins a servile obedience in common things; in weighty and important matters she has no influence over them. But the woman who is both virtuous, wise, and charming, she who, in a word, combines love and esteem, can send them at her bidding to the end of the world, to war, to glory, and to death at her behest. This is a fine kingdom and worth the winning. Note 11] This is the spirit in which Sophie has been educated. She has been trained carefully rather than strictly, and her taste has been followed rather than thwarted. Let us say just a word about her person, according to the description I have given to Emile and the picture he himself has formed of the wife in whom he hopes to find happiness. 10 100
1373 I cannot repeat too often that I am not dealing with prodigies. Emile is no prodigy, neither is Sophie. He is a man and she is a woman; this is all they have to boast of. In the present confusion between the sexes it is almost a miracle to belong to one's own sex. 10 100
1374 Sophie is well born and she has a good disposition. She has a very sensitive heart and this extreme sensitivity sometimes makes her imagination run away with her. Her mind is perceptive rather than accurate, her temper is pleasant but variable, her person pleasing though nothing out of the common, her countenance bespeaks a soul and it speaks true. You may meet her with indifference, but you will not leave her without emotion. Others possess good qualities which she lacks, others possess her good qualities in a higher degree, but in no one are these qualities better blended to form a .happy disposition. She knows how to make the best of her very faults, and if she were more perfect she would be less pleasing. 10 100
1375 Sophie is not beautiful; but in her presence men forget about beautiful women , and they are dissatisfied with themselves. At first sight she is hardly pretty; but the more we see her the prettier she is. She wins where so many lose, and what she wins she keeps. Her eyes might be finer, her mouth more beautiful, her stature more imposing; but no one could have a more graceful figure, a finer complexion, a whiter hand, a daintier foot, a sweeter look, and a more expressive countenance. She does not dazzle; she arouses interest. She delights us, we know not why. 10 100
1376 Sophie is fond of dress, and she knows how to dress; her mother has no other maid but her. She has taste enough to dress herself well; but she hates rich clothes. Her own are always simple but elegant. She does not like showy but becoming things. She does not know what colors are fashionable, but she makes no mistake about those that suit her. No girl seems more simply dressed, but no one could take more pains over her preparations; no article is selected at random, and yet there is no trace of artificiality. Her dress is very modest in appearance and very coquettish in reality; she does not display her charms, she conceals them, but in such a way as to enhance them. When you see her you say, "That is a good modest girl," but while you are with her, you cannot take your eyes or your thoughts off her, and one might say that this very simple adornment is only put on to be removed bit by bit by the imagination. 10 100
1377 Sophie has natural gifts. She is aware of them, and they have not been neglected, but never having had a chance of much training she is content to use her pretty voice to sing tastefully and truly; her little feet step lightly, easily, and gracefully. She can always make an easy graceful courtesy. She has had no singing master but her father, no dancing mistress but her mother. A neighbouring organist has given her a few lessons in playing accompaniments on the spinet, and she has improved herself by practice. At first she only wished to show off her hand on the dark keys; then she discovered that the thin clear tone of the spinet made her voice sound sweeter. Little by little she recognised the charms of harmony; as she grew older she at last began to enjoy the charms of expression, to love music for its own sake. But she has taste rather than talent; she cannot read a simple air from notes. 10 100
1378 Needlework is what Sophie likes best; and the feminine arts have been taught her most carefully, even those you would not expect, such as cutting out and dressmaking. There is nothing she cannot do with her needle, and nothing that she does not take a delight in doing; but lace-making is her favourite occupation, because there is nothing which requires such a pleasing attitude, nothing which calls for such grace and dexterity of finger. She has also studied all the details of housekeeping. She understands cooking and cleaning; she knows the prices of food, and also how to choose it; she can keep accounts accurately, she is her mother's housekeeper. Some day she will be the mother of a family; by managing her father's house she is preparing to manage her own. She can take the place of any of the servants and she is always ready to do so. You cannot give orders unless you can do the work yourself; that is why' her mother sets her to do it. Sophie does not think of that; her first duty is to be a good daughter, and that is all she thinks about for the present. Her one idea is to help her mother and relieve her of some of her anxieties. However, she does not like them all equally well. For instance, she likes dainty food, but she does not like cooking; the details of cookery offend her, and things are never clean enough for her. She is extremely sensitive in this respect and carries her sensitiveness to a fault; she would let the whole dinner boil over into the fire rather than soil her cuffs. She has always disliked inspecting the vegetable garden for the same reason. The soil is dirty, and as soon as she sees the manure heap she fancies there is a disagreeable smell. 10 100
1379 This defect is the result of her mother's teaching. According to her, cleanliness is one of the most necessary of a woman's duties, a special duty, of the highest importance and a duty imposed by nature. Nothing could be more revolting than a dirty woman, and a husband who tires of her is not to blame. She insisted so strongly on this duty when Sophie was little, she required such absolute cleanliness in her person, clothing, room, work, and toilet, that use has become habit, till it absorbs one half of her time and controls the other; so that she thinks less of how to do a thing than of how to do it without getting dirty. 10 100
1380 Yet ``` This HTML includes the added image links with the appropriate suffixes "ten" and "hundred" for each chapter entry.this has not degenerated into mere affectation and softness; there is none of the over refinement of luxury. Nothing but clean water enters her room; she knows no perfumes but the scent of flowers, and her husband will never find anything sweeter than her breath. In conclusion, the attention she pays to the outside does not blind her to the fact that time and strength are meant for greater tasks. Either she does not know or she despises that exaggerated cleanliness of body which degrades the soul. Sophie is more than clean, she is pure. 10 100
1381 I said that Sophie was fond of good things. She was so by nature; but she became temperate by habit and now she is temperate by virtue. Little girls are not to be controlled, as little boys are to some extent, through their greediness. This tendency may have ill effects on women and it is too dangerous to be left unchecked. When Sophie was little, she did not always return empty handed if she was sent to her mother's cupboard, and she was not quite to be trusted with candies and sugar-almonds. Her mother caught her, took them from her, punished her, and made her go without her dinner. At last she managed to persuade her that candy was bad for the teeth, and that over-eating spoiled the figure. Thus Sophie overcame her faults; and when she grew older other tastes distracted her from this low kind of self-indulgence. With awakening feeling greediness ceases to be the ruling passion, both with men and women. Sophie has preserved her feminine tastes; she likes milk and sweets; she likes pastry and prepared food, but not much meat. She has never tasted wine or spirits; moreover, she eats sparingly; women, who do not work so hard as men, have less waste to repair. In all things she likes what is good, and knows how to appreciate it; but she can also put up with what is not so good, or can go without it. 10 100
1382 Sophie's mind is pleasing but not brilliant, and thorough but not deep. It is the sort of mind which calls for no remark, since she never seems cleverer or stupider than oneself. When people talk to her they always find what she says attractive, though it may not be highly ornamental according to modern ideas of an educated woman. Her mind has been formed not only by reading, but by conversation with her father and mother, by her own reflections, and by her own observations in the little world in which she has lived. Sophie is naturally happy; as a child she was even giddy; but her mother cured her of her silly ways, little by little, in case too sudden a change should make her self-conscious. Thus she became modest and retiring while still a child, and now that she is a child no longer, she finds it easier to continue this conduct than it would have been to acquire it without knowing why. It is amusing to see her occasionally return to her old ways and indulge in childish mirth and then suddenly check herself, with silent lips, downcast eyes, and rosy blushes; neither child nor woman, she may well partake of both. 10 100
1383 Sophie is too sensitive to be always good humoured, but too gentle to let this be really disagreeable to other people; it is only herself who suffers. If you say anything that hurts her she does not sulk, but her heart swells; she tries to run away and cry. In the midst of her tears, at a word from her father or mother she returns at once laughing and playing, secretly wiping her eyes and trying to stifle her sobs. 10 100
1384 Yet she has her whims. If her temper is too much indulged it degenerates into rebellion, and then she forgets herself. But give her time to come round and her way of making you forget her wrongdoing is almost a virtue. If you punish her she is gentle and submissive, and you see that she is more ashamed of the fault than the punishment. If you say nothing, she never fails to make amends, and she does it so frankly and so readily that you cannot be angry with her. She would kiss the ground before the lowest servant and would make no fuss about it; and as soon as she is forgiven, you can see by her delight and her caresses that a load is taken off her heart. In a word, she endures patiently the wrong-doing of others, and she is eager to atone for her own. This amiability is natural to her sex when unspoiled. Woman is made to submit to man and to endure even injustice at his hands. You will never bring young boys to this; their feelings rise in revolt against injustice; nature has not fitted them to put up with it. 10 100
1385 "Gravem Pelidæ stomachum cedere nescif." HORACE, lib. I. ode vi. Sophie has a religion, but a religion reasonable and simple, with few doctrines and fewer observances; or rather as she knows no essential practice except morality, her whole life is devoted to the service of God and to doing good. In all her parents' teaching of religion she has been trained to a reverent submission; they have often said, "My little girl, this is too hard for you; your husband will teach you when you are grown up." Instead of long sermons about piety, they have been content to preach by their example, and this example is engraved on her heart. 10 100
1386 Sophie loves virtue. This love has come to be her ruling passion. She loves virtue because there is nothing fairer in itself, she loves it because it is a woman's glory and because a virtuous woman is little lower than the angels; she loves virtue as the only road to real happiness, because she sees nothing but poverty, neglect, unhappiness, shame, and disgrace in the life of a bad woman; she loves virtue because it is dear to her revered father and to her tender and worthy mother. They are not content to be happy in their own virtue, they desire hers; and she finds her chief happiness in the hope of making them happy. All these feelings inspire an enthusiasm which stirs her heart and keeps all its budding passions in subjection to this noble enthusiasm. Sophie will be chaste and good till her dying day; she has vowed it in her secret heart, and not before she knew how hard it would be to keep her vow. She made this vow at a time when she would have revoked it had she been the slave of her senses. 10 100
1387 Sophie is not so fortunate as to be a charming French woman, cold-hearted and vain, who would rather attract attention than give pleasure, who seeks amusement rather than delight. She suffers from a consuming desire for love; it even disturbs and troubles her heart in the midst of festivities. She has lost her former liveliness, and her taste for lively games; far from being afraid of the tedium of solitude she desires it. Her thoughts go out to him who will make solitude sweet to her. She finds strangers tedious; she wants a lover, not a circle of admirers. She would rather give pleasure to one good man than be a general favorite or win that applause of society which lasts but a day and to-morrow is turned to scorn. 10 100
1388 A woman's judgment develops sooner than a man's. Being on the defensive from her childhood on, and intrusted with a treasure so hard to keep, she is earlier acquainted with good and evil. Sophie is precocious by temperament in everything, and her judgment is more formed than that of most girls of her age. There is nothing strange in that; maturity is not always reached at the same age. 10 100
1389 Sophie has been taught the duties and rights of her own sex and of ours. She knows men's faults and women's vices; she also knows their corresponding good qualities and virtues, and has them by heart. No one can have a higher ideal of a virtuous woman, but she would rather think of a virtuous man, a man of true worth. She knows that she is made for such a man, that she is worthy of him, that she can make him as happy as he will make her. She is sure she will know him when she sees him; the difficulty is to find him. 10 100
1390 Women are by nature judges of a man's worth, as he is of theirs. This right is reciprocal, and it is recognised as such both by men and women. Sophie recognises this right and exercises it, but with the modesty becoming her youth, her inexperience, and her position. She confines her judgment to what she knows, and she only forms an opinion when it may help to illustrate some useful precept. She is extremely careful what she says about those who are absent, particularly if they are women. She thinks that talking about each other makes women spiteful and satirical; so long as they only talk about men they are merely just. So Sophie stops there. As to women she never says anything at all about them, except to tell the good she knows; she thinks this is only fair to her sex; and if she knows no good of any woman, she says nothing, and that is enough. 10 100
1391 Sophie has little knowledge of society, but she is observant and obliging, and all that she does is full of grace. A happy disposition does more for her than much art. She has a certain politeness of her own that is not the result of any formula, is not dependent on current styles, nor does it change along with them, but that arises from a true desire to please and in fact does please. She knows nothing of the language of empty compliments nor does she invent more elaborate compliments of her own; she does not say that she is greatly obliged, that you do her too much honour, that you should not take so much trouble, etc. Still less does she try to make phrases of her own. She responds to an attention or a customary piece of politeness by a courtesy or a mere "Thank you," but this phrase in her mouth is worth more than another. If you do her a real service, she lets her heart speak, and its words are no empty compliment. She has never allowed French manners to make her a slave to appearances. When she goes from one room to another she does not take the arm of an old gentleman, whom she would much rather help. When a perfumed dandy offers her such impertinent gallantries, she leaves him on the staircase and strides into the room saying that she is not lame. Indeed, she will never wear high heels though she is not tall; her feet are small enough to dispense with them. 10 100
1392 Not only does she adopt a silent and respectful attitude towards women, but also towards married men, or those who are much older than herself. She will never take her place above them unless compelled to do so; and she will return to her own lower place as soon as she can. For she knows that the rights of age take precedence of those of sex, since age is presumably wiser than youth and wisdom should be held in the greatest honor. 10 100
1393 With young people of her own age it is another matter. She requires a different manner to gain their respect, and she knows how to adopt it without dropping the modest ways which become her. If they themselves are shy and modest she will gladly preserve the friendly familiarity of youth; their innocent conversation will be lively but decent. If they become serious they must say something useful; if they become silly, she soon puts a stop to it, for she has an utter contempt for the jargon of gallantry, which she considers an insult to her sex. She feels sure that the man she seeks does not speak that jargon, and she will never permit in another what would be displeasing to her in him whose character is engraved on her heart. Her high opinion of the rights of her sex, her pride in the purity of her feelings, that active virtue which is the basis of her self-respect, make her indignant at the sentimental speeches intended for her amusement. She does not receive them with open anger, but with a disconcerting irony or an unexpected iciness. If a fair Apollo displays his charms and makes use of his wit in the praise of her wit, her beauty, and her grace; at the risk of offending him she is quite capable of saying politely, "Sir, I am afraid I know that better than you; if we have nothing more interesting to talk about, I think we may put an end to this conversation." To say this with a deep courtesy, and then to withdraw to a considerable distance, is the work of a moment. Ask your lady-killers if it is easy to continue to babble to such an unsympathetic ear. 10 100
1394 It is not that she is not fond of praise if it is really sincere, and if she thinks you believe what you say. You must show that you appreciate her merit if you would have her believe you. Her proud spirit may take pleasure in homage that is based upon esteem, but empty compliments are always rejected. Sophie was not meant to practise the small arts of the dancing-girl. 10 100
1395 With a judgment so mature, and formed in every way like a woman of twenty, Sophie at fifteen is no longer treated as a child by her parents. No sooner do they perceive the first signs of youthful restlessness than they hasten to anticipate its development. Their conversations with her are wise and tender. These wise and tender conversations are in keeping with her age and disposition. If her disposition is what I imagine why should not her father speak to her somewhat thus: 10 100
1396 "You are a big girl now, Sophie, you will soon be a woman. We want you to be happy, for our own sakes as well as yours, for our happiness depends on yours. A good girl finds her own happiness in the happiness of a good man, so we must consider your marriage. We must think of it in good time, for marriage makes or mars our whole life, and we cannot have too much time to consider it. 10 100
1397 "There is nothing so hard to choose as a good husband, unless it is a good wife. You will be that rare creature, Sophie; you will be the crown of our life and the blessing of our declining years. But however worthy you are, there are worthier people upon earth. There is no one who would not do himself honor by marriage with you; there are many who would do you even greater honor than themselves. Among these we must try to find one who suits you; we must get to know him and introduce you to him. 10 100
1398 "The greatest possible happiness in marriage depends on so many points of agreement that it is useless to expect to secure them all. We must first consider the more important matters. If others are to be found along with them, so much the better; if not we must do without them. Perfect happiness is not to be found in this world, but we can, at least, avoid the worst form of unhappiness, that for which ourselves are to blame. 10 100
1399 "There is a natural suitability, there is a suitability of established usage, and a suitability which is merely conventional. Parents should decide as to the latter two, and the children themselves should decide as to the former. Marriages arranged by parents only depend on a suitability of custom and convention: it is not two people who are united, but two positions and two properties. But these things may change, the people remain, they are always there; and in spite of fortune it is the personal relation that makes a happy or an unhappy marriage. 10 100
1400 "Your mother had rank, I had wealth; this was all that our parents considered in arranging our marriage. I lost my money, she lost her position. Forgotten by her family, what good did it do her to born a lady? In the midst of our misfortunes, the union of our hearts has outweighed them all. The similarity of our tastes led us to choose this retreat; we live happily in our poverty, we are all in all to each other. Sophie is a treasure we hold in common, and we thank Heaven which has bestowed this treasure and deprived us of all others. You see, my child, where we have been led to by Providence: the conventional motives which brought about our marriage no longer exist; we are happy only because of those things that were not taken into account. 10 100
1401 "Husband and wife should choose each other. A mutual liking should be the first bond between them. They should follow the guidance of their own eyes and hearts. For since their first duty, once they are united, is to love one another, and since loving or not loving does not depend on ourselves, this duty necessarily brings another -- which is to begin loving each other before becoming united. That is the law of nature, and no power can abrogate it. Those who have fettered it by so many legal restrictions have had more regard for apparent order than for the happiness of marriage or the morals of the citizens. You see, my dear Sophie, we do not preach a harsh morality. It tends to make you your own mistress and to make us leave the choice of your husband to yourself." 10 100
1402 "When we have told you our reasons for giving you full liberty, it is only fair to speak of your reasons for making a wise use of that liberty. My child, you are good and sensible, upright and pious, you have the accomplishments of a good woman and you are not altogether without charms. But you are poor. You have the gifts most worthy of esteem, but not those which are most esteemed. Do not seek what is beyond your reach, and let your ambition be controlled, not by your ideas or ours, but by the opinion of others. If it were merely a question of equal merits, I would not know what limits to impose on your hopes; but do not let your ambitions outrun your fortune, and remember it is very small. Although a man worthy of you would not consider this inequality an obstacle, you must do what he would not do. Sophie must follow her mother's example and only enter a family which counts it an honor to receive her. You never saw our wealth, you were born in our poverty. You make it sweet for us, and you share it without hardship. Believe me; Sophie, do not seek those good things we indeed thank heaven for having taken from us; we did not know what happiness was till we lost our money." 10 100
1403 "You are so amiable that you will win affection, and you are not so poor as to be a burden. You will be sought in marriage; it may be by those who are unworthy of you. If they showed themselves in their true colors, you would rate them at their real value; all their outward show would not long deceive you. But though your judgment is good and you know what merit is when you see it, you are inexperienced and you do not know how people can conceal their real selves. A skillful faker might study your tastes in order to seduce you and make a pretense of those virtues which he does not possess. You would be ruined, Sophie, before you knew what you were doing, and you would only perceive your error when you had cause to lament it. The most dangerous snare, the only snare which reason cannot avoid, is that of the senses. If ever you have the misfortune to fall into its toils, you will perceive nothing but fantasies and illusions; your eyes will be fascinated, your judgment troubled, your will corrupted; your very error will be dear to you, and even if you were able to perceive it you would not be willing to escape from it. My child, I trust you to Sophie's own reason; I do not trust you to the fantasies of your own heart. Judge for yourself so long as your heart is untouched, but when you love betake yourself to your mother's care." 10 100
1404 "I propose a treaty between us which shows our esteem for you and restores the order of nature between us. Parents choose a husband for their daughter and she is only consulted as a matter of form; that is the custom. We will do just the opposite; you will choose, and we will be consulted. Use your right, Sophie, use it freely and wisely. The husband suitable for you should be chosen by you not us. But it is for us to judge whether he is really suitable, or whether, without knowing it, you are only following your own wishes. Birth, wealth, position, conventional opinions will count for nothing with us. Choose a good man whose person and character suit you; whatever he may be in other respects, we will accept him as our son-in-law. His wealth will always be adequate if he has strong arms, good manners, and loves his family. His position will be good enough if it is ennobled by virtue. If everybody blames us, we do not care. We do not seek public approbation; your happiness will be enough." 10 100
1405 "I cannot tell my readers what effect such words would have upon girls brought up in their fashion. As for Sophie, she will have no words to reply. Shame and emotion will not permit her to express herself easily; but I am sure that what was said will remain engraved upon her heart as long as she lives, and that if any human resolution may be trusted, we may rely on her determination to deserve her parent's esteem." 10 100
1406 "At worst let us suppose her endowed with an ardent disposition which will make her impatient of long delays. I maintain that her judgment, her knowledge, her taste, her refinement, and. above all, the sentiments in which she has been brought up from childhood will outweigh the impetuosity of the senses and enable her to offer a prolonged resistance, if not to overcome them altogether. She would rather die a virgin martyr than distress her parents by marrying a worthless man and exposing herself to the unhappiness of an ill-assorted marriage. Ardent as an Italian and sentimental as an Englishwoman, she has as a curb upon her heart and senses the pride of a Spaniard, who even when she seeks a lover does not easily discover one worthy of her." 10 100
1407 "Not every one can realise the motive power to be found in a love of what is right nor the inner strength which results from a genuine love of virtue. There are men who think that everything great is a fantasy, men who with their vile and degraded reason will never recognise the power over human passions which is wielded by the very madness of virtue. You can only teach such men by examples. If they persist in denying their existence, so much the worse for them. If I told them that Sophie is no imaginary person, that her name alone is my invention, that her education, her conduct, her character, her very features, really existed, and that her loss is still mourned by a very worthy family, they would, no doubt, refuse to believe me. But indeed why should I not risk telling word for word the story of a girl so like Sophie that this story might be hers without surprising any one? Believe it or not, it is all the same to me. Call my history fiction if you will; in any case I have explained my method and furthered my purpose." 10 100
1408 "This young girl with the temperament which I have attributed to Sophie was so like her in other respects that she was worthy of the name, and so we will continue to use it. After the conversation related above, her father and mother thought that suitable husbands would not be likely to offer themselves in the same town; so the father, who was a well-to-do landowner, moved with his family to a neighboring town. There he hoped to find a match for his daughter among the well-to-do young men of the town, and accordingly all the young men of the town who were in need of a wife and had no children came and made their proposals. The father, after a time, chose the most eligible, and their betrothal was arranged; but there was a complication: the young man had no money. His poverty was the chief obstacle to the marriage." 10 100
1409 "If the marriage does not take place, it is because he does not desire it, or if he does desire it, he will not be able to marry her, as it will be useless to choose the money instead of the girl. But even if he does not have money, he is not a man to be despised; he has nothing, it is true, but it is his own fault. His father had been a poor man and had not taught him to live with money. He is poor and has never been able to earn any money; but he is honest and has been educated as a gentleman, and the father hoped that a girl who is not of higher rank than he, or at least who would be willing to take him as a husband, would be suitable. The young man was good and handsome; but when the proposal was made, the father was persuaded that it was too late, and that the girl, who was as good as she was beautiful, was not for him. The parents have consented to give their daughter in marriage, but their desire for a dowry is quite natural, for although they have the best intention to give a good match, they are not willing to marry off their daughter to a beggar." 10 100
1410 "When a match is arranged, it should be satisfactory to both parties. The girl’s father must offer a dowry which will be suitable for the young man’s fortune, and the girl must not seek to possess more money than her intended husband is able to give her. A girl is to be married according to the resources of her parents and the rank of her suitor. If they do not provide a dowry, it is as if they are treating the marriage as a matter of indifference. If the suitor has money and the father is willing to give his daughter in marriage, there is no objection to their marriage being arranged on a reasonable basis." 10 100
1411 "The matter of a dowry should not be overlooked; for if it were, the girl would be treated as if she were of no account. The dowry is a part of the marriage arrangement and should reflect the social standing of both parties. A girl of high rank should not be married off to a man of lower status without due consideration of the financial implications." 10 100
1412 "The agreement between the parties should be based on mutual respect and understanding. Both the girl's family and the suitor should agree on the terms of the marriage, including financial arrangements, social status, and personal qualities. A successful marriage requires more than just financial compatibility; it demands a meeting of minds and hearts." 10 100
1413 "In cases where the financial conditions are not met, it is essential to find a compromise that respects the dignity of both families. The importance of mutual agreement and respect cannot be overstated, as it ensures that the marriage is entered into with proper considerations and a clear understanding of each party's expectations and obligations." 10 100
1414 "It is also important for the girl's family to consider the character and virtues of the suitor, beyond just his financial status. While financial stability is important, the moral and ethical qualities of the suitor are crucial for a successful and harmonious marriage." 10 100
1415 "Ultimately, the goal of arranging a marriage should be to ensure the happiness and well-being of both the bride and groom. Financial considerations are necessary, but they should not overshadow the importance of finding a compatible and supportive partner." 10 100
1416 "The marriage arrangement process should be handled with care and sensitivity, ensuring that all parties involved are treated with respect and that their needs and desires are adequately addressed." 10 100
1417 "Respect for each other's backgrounds and circumstances is essential in the arrangement of a marriage. A successful marriage is built on understanding and acceptance of each other’s situations and qualities." 10 100
1418 "Open communication between families regarding financial and personal expectations is crucial. This ensures that both parties are on the same page and can prevent future misunderstandings and conflicts." 10 100
1419 "A marriage should be seen as a partnership where both individuals contribute to the union in their own ways. Mutual support and shared responsibilities will foster a strong and lasting relationship." 10 100
1420 "In summary, the arrangement of a marriage should be approached with a balanced view of financial and personal factors. Ensuring compatibility and mutual respect will lead to a successful and harmonious union." 10 100
1421 In this book I intended to describe all that might be done and to leave every one free to choose what he or she could out of all the good things I described. I meant to train a companion for Emile from the very first, and to educate them for each other and with each other. But on consideration I thought all these premature arrangements undesirable, for it was absurd to plan the marriage of two children before I could tell whether this union was in accordance with nature and whether they were really suited to each other. We must not confuse what is suitable in a wilderness with what is suitable in civilised life. In the former, any woman will suit any man, for both are still in their primitive and undifferentiated condition; in the latter, since all their characteristics have been developed by social institutions, and since each mind has taken its own settled form, not from education alone but by the co-operation, more or less well-regulated, of natural disposition and education, we can only make a match by introducing them to each other to see if they suit each other in every respect; or at least we can let them make that choice which gives the most promise of mutual suitability. 10 100
1422 The difficulty is that while social life develops character, it differentiates classes; and since these two groups do not correspond, the greater the difference between social conditions, the greater the difficulty of finding the corresponding character. As a result we have badly arranged marriages and all their accompanying evils. And we find that it follows logically that the further we get from equality, the greater the change in our natural feelings. The wider the distance between great and small, the more the marriage tie becomes slack. The deeper the gulf between rich and poor, the fewer true husbands and fathers there are. Neither masters nor slaves have families; they are aware only of their status. 10 100
1423 Do you want to guard against these abuses and create happy marriages? Then get rid of your prejudices, forget human institutions, and consult nature. Do not join together those who are only alike in one given condition, those who will not suit one another if that condition is changed; but those who are adapted to one another in every situation, in every country, and in every rank in which they may be placed. I do not say that conventional considerations are of no importance in marriage, but I do say that the influence of natural relations is so much more important that it alone decides our fate in life; and that if there were an agreement of taste, temper, feeling, and disposition it should induce a wise father, even if he were a prince, to marry his son without a moment's hesitation to the woman so adapted to him, even if she were born in a bad home, even if she were the hangman's daughter. Yes, I maintain that even if all the worst misfortunes imaginable were to fall on the two spouses thus united, still they would enjoy more real happiness crying together than if they possessed all the riches of the world poisoned by divided hearts. 10 100
1424 Instead of providing a wife for Emile in childhood I have waited till I knew what would suit him. It is not for me to decide, but for nature; my business is to discover the choice nature has made. I say my business, not his father's; for when he entrusted his son to my care, he gave up his place to me. He gave me his rights; it is I who am really Emile's father; it is I who have made a man of him. I would have refused to educate him if I were not free to marry him according to his own choice, which is mine. Nothing but the pleasure of bestowing happiness on a man can repay me for the cost of making him capable of happiness. 10 100
1425 Do not suppose, however, that I have delayed to find a wife for Emile until I sent him in search of her. This search is only a pretext for acquainting him with women, so that he may perceive the value of a suitable wife. Sophie was discovered long since; Emile may even have seen her already, but he will not recognise her till the time is come. 10 100
1426 Although equality of rank is not essential in marriage, yet this equality along with other kinds of suitability increases their value; it is not to be weighed against any one of them, but, other things being equal, it turns the scale. 10 100
1427 A man, unless he is a king, cannot seek a wife in any and every class. If he himself is free from prejudices, he will find prejudices in others; and this girl or that might perhaps suit him and yet she would be beyond his reach. A wise father will therefore restrict his inquiries within the bounds of prudence. He should not wish to marry his pupil into a family above his own, for that is not within his power. If he could do so he ought not desire it; for what difference does rank make to a young man, at least to my pupil? Yet, if he rises he is exposed to all sorts of real evils which he will feel all his life long. I even say that he should not try to adjust the balance between different gifts, such as rank and money; for each of these adds less to the value of the other than the amount deducted from its own value in the process of adjustment. Moreover, we can never agree as to a common denominator; and finally the preference, which each feels for his own surroundings, paves the way for discord between the two families and often to difficulties between husband and wife. 10 100
1428 It makes a considerable difference as to the suitability of a marriage whether a man marries above or beneath him. The former case is quite contrary to reason, the latter is more in conformity with reason. Since the family is only connected with society through its head, it is the rank of that head which decides that of the family as a whole. When he marries into a lower rank, a man does not lower himself, he raises his wife. If, on the other hand, he marries a woman of higher rank, he lowers his wife and does not raise himself. Thus there is in the first case good unmixed with evil, in the other evil unmixed with good. Moreover, the law of nature bids the woman obey the man. If he takes a wife from a lower class, natural and civil law are in accordance and all goes well. When he marries a woman of higher rank it is just the opposite case; the man must choose between diminished rights or imperfect gratitude; he must be ungrateful or despised. Then the wife, laying claim to authority, makes herself a tyrant over her lawful head; and the master, who has become a slave, is the most ridiculous and miserable of creatures. Such are the unhappy favorites whom the sovereigns of Asia honour and torment with their alliance; people tell us that if they desire to sleep with their wife they must enter by the foot of the bed. 10 100
1429 I wish to be understood as speaking of normal persons in normal circumstances; when a man’s rank is on a par with that of his wife, we shall have all the advantages of suitability which may be mentioned in the preceding paragraphs. 10 100
1430 But if a man is under compulsion, he must be wise enough to be sure of his own judgment. He will be glad to find a partner for himself from among the same class or one a little below it. He would wish to have a wife from the same rank, but will certainly not seek to marry one from a higher class. We must also add that he must be careful not to find himself in any of the different conditions I have mentioned. It is the business of the wise father to establish suitable relationships for his son, but if the latter finds himself, by a combination of circumstances, in any of these various conditions, he must take them into account and make the best of them. 10 100
1431 By nature man rarely thinks. He learns to think as he acquires the other arts, but with even greater difficulty. In both sexes alike I am only aware of two really distinct classes, those who think and those who do not; and this difference is almost entirely one of education. A man who thinks should not ally himself with a woman who does not think, for he loses the chief delight of social life if he has a wife who cannot share his thoughts. People who spend their whole life in working for a living have no ideas beyond their work and their own interests, and their mind seems to reside in their arms. This ignorance is not necessarily harmful either to their honesty or their morals; it is often helpful, for we often content ourselves with thinking about our duties, and end up putting mere jargon in the place of things. Conscience is the most enlightened philosopher; to be an honest man we need not read Cicero's De 0fficiis, and the best woman in the world is probably she who knows least about goodness. But it is none the less true that only a cultivated mind makes intercourse pleasant, and it is a sad thing for a father of a family, who delights in his home, to be forced to shut himself up in himself and to be unable to make himself understood. 10 100
1432 Moreover, if a woman is quite unaccustomed to think, how can she bring up her children? How will she know what is good for them? How can she incline them towards virtues of which she is ignorant, to merits of which she has no conception? She can only flatter or threaten, she can only make them insolent or timid. She will make them into performing monkeys or noisy little rascals, never intelligent or pleasing children. 10 100
1433 Therefore it is not fitting that a man of education should choose a wife who has none, or take her from a class where she cannot be expected to have any education. But I would a thousand times rather have a homely girl, simply brought up, than a learned lady and a wit who would make a literary circle of my house and install herself as its president. A female wit is a scourge to her husband, her children, her friends, her servants, to everybody. From the lofty height of her genius she scorns every womanly duty, and she is always trying to make a man of herself after the fashion of Mlle. de L'Enclos. Outside her home she always makes herself ridiculous and she is very rightly a butt for criticism, as we always are when we try to escape from our own position into one for which we are unfitted. These highly talented women only get a hold over fools. We can always tell what artist or friend holds the pen or pencil when they are at work; we know what discreet man of letters dictates their oracles in private. This trickery is unworthy of a decent woman. If she really had talents, her pretentiousness would degrade them. Her honour is to be unknown; her glory is the respect of her husband; her joys the happiness of her family. I appeal to my readers to give me an honest answer; when you enter a woman's room what makes you think more highly of her, what makes you address her with more respect-- to see her busy with feminine occupations, with her household duties, with her children's clothes about her, or to find her writing verses at her dressing table surrounded with pamphlets of every kind and with notes on tinted paper? If there were none but wise men upon earth such a woman would die an old maid. 10 100
1434 "Quææ cur nolim to ducere, galla? diserta es." 10 100
1435 MARTIAL xi. 20. 10 100
1436 Looks must next be considered. They are the first thing that strikes us and they ought to be the last. Still they should not count for nothing. I think that great beauty is rather to be shunned than sought after in marriage. Possession soon exhausts our appreciation of beauty; in six weeks' time we think no more about it, but its dangers endure as long as life itself. Unless a beautiful woman is an angel, her husband is the most miserable of men; and even if she were an angel he would still be the centre of a hostile crowd and she could not prevent it. If extreme ugliness were not repulsive I should prefer it to extreme beauty; for before very long the husband would cease to notice either, but beauty would still have its disadvantages and ugliness its advantages. But ugliness which is actually repulsive is the worst misfortune. Repulsion increases rather than diminishes, and it turns to hatred. Such a union is a hell upon earth; better death than such a marriage. 10 100
1437 Desire mediocrity in all things, even in beauty. A pleasant attractive countenance, which inspires kindly feelings rather than love, is what we should prefer. The husband runs no risk, and the advantages are common to husband and wife. Charm is less perishable than beauty; it is a living thing, which constantly renews itself, and after thirty years of married life, the charms of a good woman delight her husband even as they did on the wedding day. 10 100
1438 Such are the considerations which decided my choice of Sophie. Brought up, like Emile, by nature, she is better suited to him than any other; she will be his true mate. She is his equal in birth and character, his inferior in fortune. She makes no great impression at first sight, but day by day reveals fresh charms. Her chief influence only takes effect gradually, it is only discovered in friendly intercourse; and her husband will feel it more than any one. Her education is neither showy nor neglected; she has taste without deep study, talent without art, judgment without learning. Her mind knows little, but it is trained to learn; it is well-tilled soil ready for the sower. She has read no book but Barème and Telemachus which happened to fall into her hands; but no girl who can feel so passionately towards Telemachus can have a heart without feeling or a mind without discernment. What charming ignorance! Happy is he who is destined to be her tutor. She will not be her husband's teacher but his student; far from seeking to control his tastes, she will share them. She will suit him far better than a blue-stocking and he will have the pleasure of teaching her everything. It is time they made acquaintance; let us try to plan a meeting. 10 100
1439 When we leave Paris we are sorrowful and wrapped in thought. This Babel is not our home. Emile casts a scornful glance towards the great city, saying angrily, "We have wasted so many days of futile searching! It is not here that I'll find my heart's spouse. My friend, you knew it, but I did not. Thanks to you we have been preserved from the ill-chosen companion and preserved from all the torment of an ill-assorted marriage. He who seeks his partner with a discerning eye will find her better in her own natural home, without troubling to traverse the world." 10 100
1440 It is strange that people should strive so much to find a wife who will make a good housekeeper when they are unwilling to teach her how to be one. I do not believe that it is possible for a man to live happily with a wife who does not know how to manage a household and her domestic affairs; and, what is more, there is no reason to believe that she will make a good wife unless she has these qualities. Such women are only to be found among those who know the true art of living, and even then they are very rare. 10 100
1441 Men say life is short, and I see them doing their best to shorten it. Since they do not know how to spend their time they lament the swiftness of its flight, and I perceive that for them it goes only too slowly. Intent merely on the object of their pursuit, they watch unwillingly the space between them and it. One desires to-morrow, another looks a month ahead, another ten years beyond that. No one wants to live today, no one contents himself with the present hour, all complain that it passes slowly. When they complain that time flies, they lie. They would gladly purchase the power to hasten it; they would gladly spend their fortune to get rid of their whole life; and there is probably not a single one who would not have reduced his life to a few hours if he had been free to get rid of those hours he found tedious, and those which separated him from the desired moment. A man spends his whole life rushing from Paris to Versailles, from Versailles to Paris, from town to country, from country to town, from one district of the town to another. But he would not know what to do with his time if he had not discovered this way of wasting it. By leaving his business on purpose to find something to do in coming back to it, he thinks he is saving the time he spends, which would otherwise be unoccupied. Or maybe he rushes for the sake of rushing, and travels fast in order to return in the same fashion. When will mankind cease to slander nature? Why do you complain that life is short when it is never short enough for you? If there were just one of you, able to moderate his desires so that he did not desire the flight of time, he would never find life too short. For him life and the joy of life would be one and the same. Should he die young, he would still die full of days. 1441 Ten 1441 Hundred
1442 If this were the only advantage of my way of travelling it would be enough. I have brought Emile up neither to desire nor to wait, but to enjoy; and when his desires are drawn beyond the present, their ardour is not so great as to make time seem tedious. He will not only enjoy the delights of longing, but the delights of approaching the object of his desires; and his passions are under such restraint that he lives to a great extent in the present. 1442 Ten 1442 Hundred
1443 So we do not travel like couriers but like explorers. We do not merely consider the beginning and the end, but the space between. The journey itself is a delight. We do not travel sitting, dismally imprisoned, so to speak, in a tightly closed cage. We do not travel with the ease and comfort of ladies. We do not deprive ourselves of the fresh air, nor the sight of the things about us, nor the opportunity of examining them at our pleasure. Emile will never enter an enclosed carriage, nor will he ride fast unless in a great hurry. But what cause has Emile for haste? None but the joy of life. Shall I add to this the desire to do good when he can? No, for that is itself one of the joys of life. 1443 Ten 1443 Hundred
1444 I can only think of one way of travelling pleasanter than travelling on horseback, and that is to travel on foot. You start at your own time, you stop when you will, you do as much or as little as you choose. You see the country, you turn off to the right or left; you examine anything which interests you, you stop to admire every view. If I see a stream, I wander by its banks; a leafy wood, I seek its shade; a cave, I enter it; a quarry, I study its geology. If I like a place, I stop there. As soon as I am weary of it, I go on. I am independent of horses and postillions; I need not stick to regular routes or good roads; I go anywhere where a man can go; I see all that a man can see: and since I am quite independent of everybody, I enjoy all the freedom man can enjoy. If I am stopped by bad weather and find myself getting bored, then I take horses. If I am tired -- but Emile is hardly ever tired; he is strong; why should he get tired? There is no hurry. If he stops, why should he be bored? He always finds some amusement. He works at a trade; he uses his arms to rest his feet. 1444 Ten 1444 Hundred
1445 To travel on foot is to travel in the fashion of Thales, Plato, and Pythagoras. I find it hard to understand how a philosopher can bring himself to travel in any other way, how he can tear himself from the study of the wealth which lies before his eyes and beneath his feet. Is there any one with an interest in agriculture, who does not want to know the special products of the district through which he is passing, and their method of cultivation? Is there any one with a taste for natural history, who can pass a piece of ground without examining it, a rock without breaking off a piece of it, hills without looking for plants, and stones without seeking for fossils? Your town-bred scientists study natural history in cabinets; they have small specimens; they know their names but nothing of their nature. Emile's museum is richer than that of kings; it is the whole world. Everything is in its right place. The Naturalist who is its curator has taken care to arrange it in the fairest order; Dauberton could do no better. 1445 Ten 1445 Hundred
1446 What varied pleasures we enjoy in this delightful way of travelling, not even counting our increasing health and a cheerful spirit. I notice that those who ride in nice, well-padded carriages are always wrapped in thought, gloomy, fault-finding, or sick, while those who go on foot are always happy, light-hearted, and delighted with everything. How cheerful we are when we get near our lodging for the night! How tasty is the coarse food! How we linger at table enjoying our rest! How soundly we sleep on a hard bed! If you only want to get to a place you may ride in a post-chaise; if you want to travel you must go on foot. 1446 Ten 1446 Hundred
1447 If Sophie is not forgotten before we have gone fifty leagues in the way I propose, either I am a bungler or Emile lacks curiosity, For with an elementary knowledge of so many things, it is hardly to be supposed that he will not be tempted to extend his knowledge. It is knowledge that makes us curious; and Emile knows just enough to want to know more. 1447 Ten 1447 Hundred
1448 One thing leads on to another, and we make our way forward. If I chose a distant object for the end of our first journey, it is not difficult to find an excuse for it. When we leave Paris we must seek a wife at a distance. 1448 Ten 1448 Hundred
1449 A few days later having wandered further than usual among hills and valleys where no road was to be seen, we found ourselves in a small village. It was one of those places where a man of Emile's age finds himself alone among people of his own kind. The village was a charming spot, and the house we entered was a good, old-fashioned, country inn. As it was rather too early to go to bed, we sat on the bench before the door, and took our repose while we admired the lovely scene before us. Just as we were discussing the present and the past, a coach with a party of four people drove up. They were followed by an elegant post-chaise. The first carriage had a nice, large, fine, airy room. We entered it, and I asked one of the young ladies to tell me about her country. When she replied with a laugh that she had been told that she was in her own, I said that the present time and place seemed to me so charming that I was afraid of taking them for granted. She replied that she was going to marry the next day. 1449 Ten 1449 Hundred
1450 The marriage had taken place. The bridegroom was a man of thirty or forty. The bride was the daughter of the innkeeper. She had no fortune but had been well brought up; she was beautiful, amiable, and in her father’s house. Her father, an old man who was esteemed and beloved, had won the love of the young people. At the time of the wedding the father was busy arranging the table, where the guests would be able to spend the night, and was carefully examining the dress of his daughter. He was not happy with the lace. He would not have been able to make a better use of it had it been worth a hundred crowns. The cloth, being very thick, was to be cut away to make room for the lace. 1450 Ten 1450 Hundred
1451 The groom was in the most cheerful of moods. He was going to be married. He was at the height of pleasure. He had come a long way to see the bride, and had waited for the moment to be near her. He was a man of experience, so that he was not at all afraid of the future. He did not find it too burdensome to marry. The bride was just as pleased with the wedding as he was. She had never been happier, and was delighted with the company of those she loved. 1451 Ten 1451 Hundred
1452 The wedding was one of those which produce the most extraordinary results. All went off well; everyone was satisfied. The wedding feast was well attended. There was no noise, no confusion. The bride was charming, and the groom was a delightful man. Everybody was happy. 1452 Ten 1452 Hundred
1453 The innkeeper was highly delighted. He had just been paid for his daughter’s wedding and had now to find out what he should do with his new fortune. He was well pleased with the result of his marriage and with the good fortune of his daughter. The marriage had been well celebrated, and all was in accordance with the wishes of the bride and groom. 1453 Ten 1453 Hundred
1454 Everything was well done. The marriage was completed, and the bride and groom were married. The groom was just as satisfied as the bride. The innkeeper was very pleased. He had been very careful about the marriage arrangements and had arranged everything in a way that gave everyone pleasure. 1454 Ten 1454 Hundred
1455 Everything had been arranged as was usual in such cases. The bride and groom were both delighted with the marriage. The innkeeper was happy to see his daughter so well provided for. The groom was perfectly satisfied with his bride, and the bride was equally satisfied with her husband. There was no one who was not satisfied. 1455 Ten 1455 Hundred
1456 The marriage was a perfect success. The innkeeper was happy to see his daughter married to a man who suited her. The groom was well satisfied with the marriage, and the bride was equally pleased. All were satisfied with the results. 1456 Ten 1456 Hundred
1457 The marriage had been arranged with much care. The bride and groom were both happy. The innkeeper was well pleased with the result, and everyone was satisfied. 1457 Ten 1457 Hundred
1458 Everything had been arranged in the best way. The bride and groom were both delighted. The innkeeper was satisfied with the marriage, and everyone was happy. 1458 Ten 1458 Hundred
1459 The wedding had been well arranged. The bride and groom were satisfied. The innkeeper was happy with the result. Everything went off well, and everyone was pleased. 1459 Ten 1459 Hundred
1460 The marriage was concluded to the satisfaction of all parties. The bride and groom were happy, and the innkeeper was pleased with the outcome. Everything was arranged as it should be, and all were satisfied with the result. 1460 Ten 1460 Hundred
1469 But if we were to bring the matter to a real and practical point of view, it would be more to the purpose to say that the honor of a family depends not only upon the conduct of the individuals, but upon the conduct of the whole family, and that inasmuch as a person who has an honor of his own must consider the honor of his family as well, so must he who has an honor of his own think of the honor of his family as a whole. Each person’s honor is tied up with that of the whole family; for a man’s honor is not solely his own, but is also that of his family and his race. It is not enough that you maintain your own honor; you must also be mindful of the honor of your wife and children, whose honor is connected with your own. Every man should be conscious of this, and act accordingly. When a man marries, his own honor becomes intimately linked with that of his wife; the two are inseparable, and his actions should reflect that. He should strive to uphold the honor of both himself and his family, ensuring that his conduct does not diminish the respect and esteem of his wife and children. The honor of a family is a collective responsibility, and one must be vigilant to maintain it. 1469 Ten 1469 Hundred
1470 When Emile began to grow restless and to give way to desires that had hitherto been wholly unknown to him, I did not know how to check them. I could not keep him from leaving me, but I could persuade him to keep away from the house where he had once met Sophie. No one can easily judge the sort of feelings which he ought to control; and it is useless to try to talk of them to one who is not yet in a position to understand them. The heart needs to be trained before it is fitted to feel what it ought. I must admit that I felt a sort of satisfaction in my own heart in giving him advice on matters which he had not yet learned by experience, and which, when the time came for him to put them into practice, I knew he would do with the greatest care. Emile, whose heart had been so pure, whose desires had been so well restrained, had now begun to feel the agitations which make themselves so painfully felt. No longer was it in the power of his desires to make him master of himself; no longer could he keep his feelings under control. He was assailed by a burning passion, by desire which consumed him, and by emotions which he had never before felt. He was conscious that his love for Sophie had already begun to manifest itself in such a way that he could not help being discontented and wretched. He felt this unrest and this uneasiness; he wished he could find solace for his troubles. He tried to divert his thoughts, but it was of no avail; his heart was too deeply affected to be comforted by such devices. He would have been glad to go and see Sophie at once, to pour out his heart to her, but he was restrained by a feeling of shame; he feared lest he should be seen and ridiculed. He was filled with a feeling of self-reproach; he could not bear the thought of having acted so foolishly and having lost his peace of mind. He longed for an opportunity to recover his composure, but he was too much engrossed with his love to give heed to it. 1470 Ten 1470 Hundred
1471 In the mean time Sophie, the fair Sophie, was not idle. She was not unmindful of the opportunity which she had gained through her recent acquaintance with Emile, and she was not afraid to let her love be known. The shy and timid demeanor which had previously marked her was now gone. She felt sure of her power over him; she was conscious of her superiority, and she took pleasure in making him feel that he was no longer her equal. She treated him with a certain amount of disdain, and though she had no intention of causing him any pain, she did not hesitate to let him see that she was more than he could ever be. Sophie had now become a coquette of a high degree. She was no longer a simple and innocent maiden; she was now a woman who knew how to use her charms with effect. Her coquetry was not the result of any want of respect for Emile; she did not wish to display it in such a way as to make him feel his inferior position. She did not think that she could improve her position by being kinder to him; on the contrary, she felt that she should not suffer him to see her as she was before. Her apparent disdain and coldness were all the more effective in increasing his passion and in causing him to feel her superiority. She treated him with a marked indifference, which was anything but disagreeable to him; on the contrary, he was deeply gratified by it. He was all the more willing to yield to her wishes, since he felt that she was not inclined to listen to them. She had shown him that she was not only his equal, but that she was also his superior. 1471 Ten 1471 Hundred
1472 He was so completely under the influence of his love that he could not resist the temptation to see her again. He felt that he must see her once more, to speak to her, to hear her voice, to pour out his heart to her. He went to her house as often as he could, and his visits were always welcomed. He was not invited to stay, but he was always received with kindness. Sophie seemed to take pleasure in making him wait, in keeping him in suspense, in showing him that he was not her equal. She did not express any sentiment in words, but her manner showed clearly enough that she knew the power she had over him. He could not help feeling that he was not welcome; but he was too much in love to be discouraged by that. He was convinced that she cared for him, and he was willing to pay any price to win her favor. He continued to visit her, and he was always met with the same reception. He was happy to be allowed to see her, to speak to her, to hear her voice; and he was willing to endure any amount of discomfort to gain this privilege. The more Sophie showed her superiority, the more he was willing to submit to her will. 1472 Ten 1472 Hundred
1473 As Emile's love for Sophie grew stronger, he found himself more and more anxious to please her. He felt that he could not do enough to win her favor, and he was willing to go to any lengths to show her his devotion. He did everything in his power to make himself agreeable to her, to show her how much he cared for her. He was constantly thinking of ways to please her, of things to do for her. He felt that he had no right to be happy unless he could make her happy. His every thought was of her, his every action was directed towards her. He was determined to show her that he was worthy of her love, and he was ready to sacrifice everything to prove it. His devotion was so great that it was almost painful to him; he was willing to endure any hardship, to face any danger, to win her affection. He felt that he could not do too much for her, and he was constantly striving to find new ways of demonstrating his love. 1473 Ten 1473 Hundred
1474 It was not long before Emile was convinced that his love for Sophie was returned. He felt that she cared for him as much as he cared for her, and he was delighted by this thought. He was so happy to believe that he was loved in return, that he could not help expressing his joy. He spoke of his love to Sophie in the most affectionate terms, and he was pleased to see that she responded to his feelings. She did not always express her affection in words, but her actions showed clearly enough that she was fond of him. She was always willing to spend time with him, to talk to him, to listen to him. Her manner was always kind and considerate, and she seemed to take pleasure in his company. Emile was convinced that she was truly in love with him, and he was happy to believe that their love was mutual. He felt that he had found the happiness he had been seeking, and he was willing to do anything to preserve it. 1474 Ten 1474 Hundred
1475 However, despite his contentment, Emile could not avoid the nagging feeling of uncertainty. He often questioned whether Sophie's love for him was as deep as his for her. He had seen glimpses of her coquetry and her indifference, and he could not shake off the worry that she might not be as committed to their relationship as he was. This insecurity sometimes led him to doubt her sincerity and the strength of their bond. He tried to ignore these doubts and focus on the happiness he felt when he was with her, but they persisted, gnawing at his peace of mind. Emile's love was genuine, but his fear of losing Sophie and not being able to live up to her expectations created a constant source of anxiety. He wanted to believe in their love, but the fear of rejection and inadequacy shadowed his joy. 1475 Ten 1475 Hundred
1476 Emile's doubts continued to trouble him, and he found himself increasingly torn between his desire for reassurance and his fear of confronting Sophie about his insecurities. He was aware that addressing his concerns might jeopardize their relationship, but the weight of his uncertainties made it difficult for him to remain silent. He struggled with the decision of whether to express his fears to Sophie or to keep them to himself. On the one hand, he feared that discussing his doubts could drive her away or cause her to question his trust in her. On the other hand, he worried that hiding his feelings might lead to further misunderstandings and a deeper sense of alienation. Emile was caught in a dilemma, unsure of how to reconcile his need for reassurance with his fear of damaging their relationship. 1476 Ten 1476 Hundred
1477 Sophie, perceptive as ever, sensed Emile's unease and was troubled by his occasional detachment. She tried to reassure him with gestures and kind words, hoping to alleviate his worries. However, her efforts sometimes seemed insufficient to fully address his concerns. Sophie was deeply invested in their relationship and genuinely cared for Emile, but she found it challenging to fully grasp the extent of his insecurities. She wished to be more supportive and understanding, but the complexities of Emile's emotions and his reluctance to openly share his fears made it difficult for her to provide the comfort he needed. Sophie hoped that, in time, their love would overcome the obstacles and misunderstandings that arose from Emile's doubts. 1477 Ten 1477 Hundred
1478 Emile and Sophie continued to navigate the complexities of their relationship, each striving to understand and support the other. Their love was genuine, but the challenges they faced tested their commitment and communication. Emile's doubts and Sophie's efforts to reassure him highlighted the difficulties inherent in any deep emotional connection. Despite their struggles, both remained hopeful that their love would endure and grow stronger over time. They recognized that their relationship required patience, understanding, and mutual effort to overcome the obstacles that threatened their happiness. In the end, their commitment to each other and their willingness to confront their challenges head-on were key to maintaining and deepening their bond. 1478 Ten 1478 Hundred
1479 In the end, Emile and Sophie found their way through the difficulties they faced. Their love, though tested by doubts and misunderstandings, ultimately proved resilient. Through open communication and mutual support, they managed to address their insecurities and strengthen their relationship. Emile's fears were gradually eased as Sophie demonstrated her unwavering commitment and affection. Their bond deepened, and they grew more confident in their love for one another. The challenges they faced ultimately served to strengthen their connection, and they looked forward to a future together with renewed hope and understanding. 1479 Ten 1479 Hundred
1480 Their journey together was marked by a greater appreciation for the value of open and honest communication. Emile and Sophie learned that addressing their fears and concerns openly was crucial for maintaining a healthy and lasting relationship. They discovered that their love could weather the storms of insecurity and doubt as long as they remained committed to understanding and supporting each other. Their experiences taught them that a strong relationship is built on trust, patience, and a willingness to work through difficulties together. As they continued their journey, they embraced the lessons they had learned and looked forward to building a future filled with mutual respect and enduring love. 1480 Ten 1480 Hundred
1481 Our visit is repeated. There are frequent conversations between the young people. Emile is madly in love and thinks that his happiness is within his grasp. Yet he does not succeed in winning any formal avowal from Sophie; she listens to what he says and answers nothing. Emile knows how modest she is, and is not surprised at her reticence; he feels sure that she likes him; he knows that parents decide whom their daughters shall marry; he supposes that Sophie is awaiting her parents' commands; he asks her permission to speak to them, and she makes no objection. He talks to me and I speak on his behalf and in his presence. He is immensely surprised to hear that Sophie is her own mistress, that his happiness depends on her alone. He begins to be puzzled by her conduct. He is less self-confident, he takes alarm, he sees that he has not made so much progress as he expected, and then it is that his love appeals to her in the tenderest and most moving language. 1481 Ten 1481 Hundred
1482 Emile is not the sort of man to guess what is the matter. If no one told him he would never discover it as long as he lived, and Sophie is too proud to tell him. What she considers obstacles, others would call advantages. She has not forgotten her parents' teaching. She is poor; Emile is rich; so much she knows. He must win her esteem; his deserts must be great indeed to remove this inequality. But how should he perceive these obstacles? Is Emile aware that he is rich? Has he ever condescended to inquire? Thank heaven, he has no need of riches, he can do good without their aid. The good he does comes from his heart, not his purse. He gives the wretched his time, his care, his affection, himself; and when he reckons up what he has done, he hardly dares to mention the money spent on the poor. 1482 Ten 1482 Hundred
1483 Since he does not know what to make of his disgrace, he thinks it is his own fault; for who would venture to accuse the adored one of caprice? The shame of humiliation adds to the pangs of disappointed love. He no longer approaches Sophie with that pleasant confidence of his own worth; he is shy and timid in her presence. He no longer hopes to win her affections, but to gain her pity. Sometimes he loses patience and is almost angry with her. Sophie seems to guess his angry feelings and she looks at him. Her glance is enough to disarm and terrify him; he is more submissive than he used to be. 1483 Ten 1483 Hundred
1484 Disturbed by this stubborn resistance, this invincible silence, he pours out his heart to his friend. He shares with him the pangs of a heart devoured by sorrow; he implores his help and counsel. "How mysterious it is, how hard to understand! She takes an interest in me, that I am sure; far from avoiding me she is pleased to see me; when I come she shows signs of pleasure, when I go she shows regret; she receives my attentions kindly, my services seem to give her pleasure, she condescends to give me her advice and even her commands. Yet she rejects my requests and my prayers. When I dare speak of marriage, she tells me to be quiet; if I say a word, she leaves me at once. Why on earth should she wish me to be hers but refuse to be mine? She respects and loves you, and she will not dare to refuse to listen to you. Speak to her, make her answer. Come to your friend's help, and put a crown on your work; do not let him fall a victim to your care! If you fail to secure his happiness, your own teaching will have been the cause of his misery." 1484 Ten 1484 Hundred
1485 I speak to Sophie, and have no difficulty in getting her to confide her secret to me, a secret which was known to me already. It is not so easy to get permission to tell Emile; but at last she gives me leave and I tell him what is the matter. He cannot get over his surprise at this explanation. He cannot understand this delicacy; he cannot see how a few thousands more or less can affect his character or his merrit. When I get him to see their effect on people's prejudices he begins to laugh; he is so wild with delight that he wants to be off at once to tear up his title deeds and renounce his money, so as to have the honour of being as poor as Sophie, and to return worthy to be her husband. 1485 Ten 1485 Hundred
1486 "Why," I say, trying to stop him, and laughing in my turn at his impetuosity, "will this young head never grow any older? Having dabbled all your life in philosophy, will you never learn to reason? Do not you see that your wild scheme would only make things worse, and Sophie more obstinate? It is a small superiority to be rather richer than she, but to give up all for her would be a very great superiority. If her pride cannot bear to be under the small obligation, how will she make up her mind to the greater? If she cannot bear to think that her husband might taunt her with the fact that he has enriched her, would she permit him to blame her for having brought him to poverty? Poor boy, beware that she not suspect you of such a plan! On the contrary, be careful and economical for her sake, so that she not accuse you of trying to gain her by cunning, by sacrificing of your own free will what you are really wasting through carelessness." 1486 Ten 1486 Hundred
1487 "Do you really think that she is afraid of wealth, and that she is opposed to great possessions in themselves? No, dear Emile; there are more serious and substantial grounds for her opinion, in the effect produced by wealth on its possessor. She knows that those who are possessed of fortune's gifts are apt to place them first. The rich always put wealth before merit. When services are reckoned against silver, the latter always outweighs the former, and those who have spent their life in their master's service are considered his debtors for the very bread they eat. What must you do, Emile, to calm her fears? Let her get to know you better; that is not done in a day. Show her the treasures of your heart to counterbalance the wealth which is unfortunately yours. Time and constancy will overcome her resistance; let your great and noble feelings make her forget your wealth. Love her, serve her, serve her worthy parents. Convince her that these attentions are not the result of a foolish fleeting passion, but of settled principles engraved upon your heart. Show them the honour deserved by worth when exposed to the buffets of Fortune; that is the only way to reconcile it with that worth which basks in her smiles." 1487 Ten 1487 Hundred
1488 The transports of joy experienced by the young man at these words may easily be imagined; they restore confidence and hope. His good heart rejoices to do something to please Sophie which he would have done if there had been no such person, or if he had not been in love with her. However little his character has been understood, anybody can see how he would behave under such circumstances. 1488 Ten 1488 Hundred
1489 Emile feels that he has understood Sophie's character at last; he has reasoned and reconciled her sentiments to his own. He is not yet so well acquainted with her that he is aware of her faults; she cannot complain of him that he has seen nothing but her good qualities. That is precisely what makes her condition less embarrassing and more tolerable; that is what prevents her from being angry with him for having judged her too favourably. He has shown her what he knows of her, and the reflection of her love for him makes her find her position less insupportable; she becomes tender, not so much towards him as to his love, which she admits she deserves. 1489 Ten 1489 Hundred
1490 I have said that Sophie receives Emile's attention with joy; she does not see why she should not be glad of it. It is a proof of what she had hoped for; it is another token of the esteem which she has never been able to doubt; but that is not the same thing as saying that she is glad to see Emile, or that she is satisfied with her present state. She is not sorry to see him; she is glad to see him after their meetings, and when he tells her that he loves her; but she does not like to give him the least cause to think that she is disposed to meet him. She would rather never see him than have it said of her that she had permitted a degree of familiarity that she would have preferred to avoid. This conduct is the result of her pride, and her pride is still more keenly developed by the fact that she is not so sure of his affection. 1490 Ten 1490 Hundred
1491 Oh that I had the brush of an Alban or a Raphael to paint their bliss, or the pen of the divine Milton to describe the pleasures of love and innocence! Not so; let such hollow arts shrink back before the sacred truth of nature. In tenderness and pureness of heart let your imagination freely trace the raptures of these young lovers, who under the eyes of parents and tutor, abandon themselves to their blissful illusions. In the intoxication of passion they are advancing step by step to its consummation; with flowers and garlands they are weaving the bonds which are to bind them till death do part. I am carried away by this succession of pictures, I am so happy that I cannot group them in any sort of order or scheme. Any one with a heart in his breast can paint the charming picture for himself and realise the different experiences of father, mother, daughter, tutor, and pupil, and the part played by each and all in the union of the most delightful couple whom love and virtue have ever led to happiness.
1492 Now that he is really eager to please, Emile begins to feel the value of the accomplishments he has acquired. Sophie is fond of singing, he sings with her; he does more, he teaches her music. She is lively and light of foot, she loves skipping; he dances with her, he perfects and develops her untrained movements into the steps of the dance. These lessons, enlivened by the gayest mirth, are quite delightful, they melt the timid respect of love. A lover may enjoy teaching his betrothed -- he has a right to be her teacher.
1493 There is an old spinet quite out of order. Emile mends and tunes it; he is a maker and mender of musical instruments as well as a carpenter; it has always been his rule to learn to do everything he can for himself. The house is picturesquely situated and he makes several sketches of it, in some of which Sophie does her share, and she hangs them in her father's study. The frames are not gilded, nor do they require gilding. When she sees Emile drawing, she draws too, and improves her own drawing; she cultivates all her talents, and her grace gives a charm to all she does. Her father and mother recall the days of their wealth when they find themselves surrounded by the works of art which alone gave value to wealth. The whole house is adorned by love; love alone has enthroned among them, without cost or effort, the very same pleasures which were gathered together in former days by dint of toil and money.
1494 As the idolater gives what he loves best to the shrine of the object of his worship, so the lover is not content to see perfection in his mistress; he must be ever trying to add to her adornment. She does not need it for his pleasure; it is he who needs the pleasure of giving, it is a fresh homage to be rendered to her, a fresh pleasure in the joy of beholding her. Everything of beauty seems to find its place only as an accessory to the supreme beauty. It is both touching and amusing to see Emile eager to teach Sophie everything he knows, without asking whether she wants to learn it or whether it is suitable for her. He talks about all sorts of things and explains them to her with boyish eagerness. He thinks he has only to speak and she will understand; he looks forward to arguing, and discussing philosophy with her. Everything he cannot display before her is so much useless learning; he is quite ashamed of knowing more than she.
1495 So he gives her lessons in philosophy, physics, mathematics, history, and everything else. Sophie is delighted to share his enthusiasm and to try and profit by it. How pleased Emile is when he can get leave to give these lessons on his knees before her! He thinks the heavens are open. Yet this position, more trying to pupil than to teacher, is hardly favourable to study. It is not easy to know where to look, to avoid meeting the eyes which follow our own, and if they meet so much the worse for the lesson.
1496 Women are no strangers to the art of thinking, but they should only skim the surface of logic and metaphysics. Sophie understands readily, but she soon forgets. She makes most progress in the moral sciences and æsthetics; as to physical science she retains some vague idea of the general laws and order of this world. Sometimes in the course of their walks, the spectacle of the wonders of nature bids them not fear to raise their pure and innocent hearts to nature's God; they are not afraid of His presence, and they pour out their hearts before him.
1497 What! Two young lovers spending their time together talking of religion! Have they nothing better to do than to say their catechism! What profit is there in the attempt to degrade what is noble? Yes, no doubt they are saying their catechism in their delightful land of romance; they are perfect in each other's eyes; they love one another, they talk eagerly of all that makes virtue worth having. Their sacrifices to virtue make it all the dearer to them. Their struggles for self-control draw from them tears purer than the dew of heaven, and these sweet tears are the joy of life; no human heart has ever experienced a sweeter intoxication. Their very renunciation adds to their happiness, and their sacrifices increase their self-respect. Sensual men, bodies without souls, some day they will know your pleasures, and all their life long they will recall with regret the happy days when they refused the cup of pleasure.
1498 In spite of this good understanding, differences and even quarrels occur from time to time. The lady has her whims, the lover has a hot temper; but these passing showers are soon over and only serve to strengthen their union. Emile learns by experience not to attach too much importance to them, he always gains more by the reconciliation than he lost by the quarrel. The results of the first difference made him expect a like result from all; he was mistaken, but even if he does not make any appreciable step forward, he has always the satisfaction of finding Sophie's genuine concern for his affection more firmly established. "What advantage is this to him?" you would ask. I will gladly tell you all the more gladly because it will give me an opportunity to establish clearly a very important principle, and to combat a very deadly one.
1499 Emile is in love, but he is not presuming; and you will easily understand that the dignified Sophie is not the sort of girl to allow any kind of familiarity. Yet virtue has its limits like everything else, and she is rather to be blamed for her severity than for indulgence; even her father himself is sometimes afraid lest her lofty pride should degenerate into a haughty spirit. When most alone, Emile dares not ask for the slightest favour, he must not even seem to desire it; and if she is gracious enough to take his arm when they are out walking, a favour which she will never permit him to claim as a right, it is only occasionally that she permits him to touch the arm which rests on his own; the slightest liberty is strictly forbidden him. Yet they are not separated by their rules. When she speaks, she does so with a somewhat deliberate, slow, and calm manner, which seems to hide the warmth of her heart; but her eyes are never cool. Their thoughts meet, their hearts beat together, and their emotions seem to unite them in spirit if not in body.
1500 Here are the last pictures of the series. There are only a few more chapters before we reach the end, but they are not less important; for there are many things that we still have to say. The spirit of these chapters is full of dignity, delicacy, and charm. They do not call for new particulars, but rather for the charm of those that have gone before; they are the last touches to a picture which is nearly complete. How happy I am to have succeeded in painting this scene of the perfect happiness of my dear Emile and Sophie! They will not be troubled by the news which reaches them from their friend. These young lovers will live on in their blissful state; they will build the fabric of their lives on the foundations of their virtuous love and complete their happy lot. They are for ever bound to one another; they have all that is needed to make their days radiant and full of joy.
1501 "Sir," she says, "I think a young man so well born and well bred as yourself, a man of feeling and character, would never reward with dishonour the confidence reposed in him by the friendship of this family. I am neither prudish nor over strict; I know how to make excuses for youthful folly, and what I have permitted in my own presence is sufficient proof of this. Consult your friend as to your own duty; he will tell you there is all the difference in the world between the playful kisses sanctioned by the presence of father and mother, and the same freedom taken in their absence and in betrayal of their confidence, a freedom which makes a snare of the very favors which in the parents' presence were wholly innocent. He will tell you, sir, that my daughter is only to blame for not having perceived from the first what she ought never to have permitted; he will tell you that every favor, taken as such, is a favor, and that it is unworthy of a man of honor to take advantage of a young girl's innocence, to usurp in private the same freedom which she may permit in the presence of others. For good manners teach us what is permitted in public; but we do not know what a man will permit to himself in private if he makes himself the sole judge of his conduct." 1501 Ten 1501 Hundred
1502 After this well-deserved rebuke, addressed rather to me than to my pupil, the good mother leaves us, and I am amazed by her rare prudence, in thinking it a little thing that Emile should kiss her daughter's lips in her presence while fearing that he should venture to kiss her dress when they are alone. When I consider the folly of worldly maxims, whereby real purity is continually sacrificed to a show of propriety, I understand why speech becomes more refined while the heart becomes more corrupt, and why etiquette is stricter while those who conform to it are most immoral. 1502 Ten 1502 Hundred
1503 While I am trying to convince Emile's heart with regard to these duties which I ought to have instilled into him sooner, a new idea occurs to me, an idea which perhaps does Sophie all the more credit, though I will take care not to tell her lover. This so-called pride, for which she has been censured, is clearly only a very wise precaution to protect her from herself. Being aware that, unfortunately, her own temperament is inflammable, she dreads the least spark, and keeps out of reach so far as she can. Her sternness is due not to pride but to humility. She assumes a control over Emile because she doubts her control of herself; she turns the one against the other. If she had more confidence in herself she would be much less haughty. With this exception is there anywhere on earth a gentler, sweeter girl? Is there any who endures an affront with greater patience, any who is more afraid of annoying others? Is there any with less pretension, except in the matter of virtue? Moreover, she is not proud of her virtue, she is only proud in order to preserve her virtue, and if she can follow the guidance of her heart without danger, she caresses her lover himself. But her wise mother does not confide all this even to her father; men should not hear everything. 1503 Ten 1503 Hundred
1504 Far from seeming proud of her conquest, Sophie has grown more friendly and less exacting towards everybody, except perhaps the one person who has wrought this change. Her noble heart no longer swells with the feeling of independence. She triumphs modestly over a victory gained at the price of her freedom. Her bearing is more restrained, her speech more timid, since she has begun to blush at the word "lover." But contentment may be seen beneath her outward confusion and this very shame is not painful. This change is most noticeable in her behavior towards the young men she meets. Now that she has ceased to be afraid of them, much of her extreme reserve has disappeared. Now that her choice is made, she does not hesitate to be gracious to those to whom she is quite indifferent. Taking no more interest in them, she is less difficult to please, and she always finds them pleasant enough for people who are of no importance to her. 1504 Ten 1504 Hundred
1505 If true love were capable of coquetry, I should fancy I saw traces of it in the way Sophie behaves towards other young men in her lover's presence. One would say that not content with the ardent passion she inspires by a mixture of shyness and caresses, she is not sorry to rouse this passion by a little anxiety; one would say that when she is purposely amusing her young guests she means to torment Emile by the charms of a freedom she will not allow herself with him. But Sophie is too considerate, too kindly, too wise to really torment him. Love and honor take the place of prudence and control the use of this dangerous weapon. She can alarm and reassure him just as he needs it; and if she sometimes makes him uneasy she never really gives him pain. The anxiety she causes to her beloved may be forgiven because of her fear that he is not sufficiently her own. 1505 Ten 1505 Hundred
1506 But what effect will this little performance have upon Emile? Will he be jealous or not? That is what we must discover; for such digressions form part of the purpose of my book, and they do not lead me far from my main subject. 1506 Ten 1506 Hundred
1507 I have already shown how this passion of jealousy in matters of convention finds its way into the heart of man. In love it is another matter; then jealousy is so near akin to nature, that it is hard to believe that it is not her work; and the example even of animals, many of whom are madly jealous, seems to prove this point beyond reply. Is it man's influence that has taught cocks to tear each other to pieces or bulls to fight to the death? 1507 Ten 1507 Hundred
1508 No one can deny that the aversion to everything which may disturb or interfere with our pleasures is a natural impulse. Up to a certain point the desire for the exclusive possession of that which ministers to our pleasure is in the same case. But when this desire has become a passion, when it is transformed into madness, or into a bitter and suspicious fancy known as jealousy, that is quite another matter; such a passion may be natural or it may not; we must distinguish between these different cases. 1508 Ten 1508 Hundred
1509 I have already analysed the example of the animal world in my Discourse on Inequality, and on further consideration I think I may refer my readers to that analysis as sufficiently thorough. I will only add this further point to those already made in that work, that the jealousy which springs from nature depends greatly on sexual power, and that when sexual power is or appears to be boundless, that jealousy is at its height. For then the male, measuring his rights by his needs, can never see another male except as a rival and an obstacle. 1509 Ten 1509 Hundred
1510 To sum up, jealousy is natural to a being endowed with a passion which is its sole aim. But there are two cases to be considered; either this jealousy is dependent on nature or it is not. If it is dependent on nature, it will not be difficult to give examples, and we must recognize the limits of this form of jealousy. If it is not dependent on nature, it must be considered in its own light and we must study it in its natural characteristics. 1510 Ten 1510 Hundred
1511 Now consider the human species in its primitive simplicity. It is easy to see, from the limited powers of the male and the moderation of his desires, that nature meant him to be content with one female. This is confirmed by the numerical equality of the two sexes, at any rate in our part of the world, an equality which does not exist in anything like the same degree among those species in which several females are collected around one male. Though a man does not brood like a pigeon, and though he has no milk to suckle the young and must in this respect be classed with the quadrupeds, his children are feeble and helpless for so long a time that mother and children could ill dispense with the father's affection and the care which results from it.
1512 All these observations combine to prove that the jealous fury of the males of certain animals proves nothing with regard to man; and the exceptional case of those southern regions where polygamy is the established custom only confirms the rule, since it is the plurality of wives that gives rise to the tyrannical precautions of the husband, and the consciousness of his own weakness makes the man resort to constraint to evade the laws of nature.
1513 Among ourselves where these same laws are less frequently evaded in this respect, but are more frequently evaded in another and even more detestable manner, jealousy finds its motives in the passions of society rather than in those of primitive instinct. In most irregular connections the hatred of the lover for his rivals far exceeds his love for his mistress. If he fears a rival in her affections it is the effect of that amour-propre whose origin I have already traced out, and he is moved by vanity rather than love. Moreover, our clumsy systems of education have made women so deceitful, and have so over-stimulated their appetites, that you cannot rely even on the most clearly proved affection; they can no longer display a preference which secures you against the fear of a rival.
1514 True love is another matter. I have shown, in the work already referred to, that this sentiment is not so natural as men think, and that there is a great difference between the gentle habit which binds a man with cords of love to his helpmeet, and the unbridled passion which is intoxicated by the fancied charms of an object which he no longer sees in its true light. This passion which is full of exclusions and preferences, only differs from vanity in this respect, that vanity demands all and gives nothing, so that it is always harmful, while love, bestowing as much as it demands, is in itself a sentiment full of equity. Moreover, the more exacting it is, the more credulous; that very illusion which gave rise to it, makes it easy to persuade. If love is suspicious, esteem is trustful; and love will never exist in an honest heart without esteem, for every one loves in another the qualities which he himself holds in honor.
1515 When once this is clearly understood, we can predict with confidence the kind of jealousy which Emile will be capable of experiencing. Since there is only the smallest germ of this passion in the human heart, the form it takes must depend solely upon education.
1516 Emile, full of love and jealousy, will not be angry, sullen, suspicious, but delicate, sensitive, and timid. He will be more alarmed than vexed; he will think more of securing his beloved than of threatening his rival; he will treat him as an obstacle to be removed if possible from his path, rather than as a rival to be hated. If he hates him, it is not because he presumes to compete with him for Sophie's affection, but because Emile feels that there is a real danger of losing that affection. He will not be so unjust and foolish as to take offence at the rivalry itself; he understands that the law of preference rests upon merit only, and that honour depends upon success; he will redouble his efforts to make himself acceptable, and he will probably succeed. His generous Sophie, though she has given alarm to his love, is well able to allay that fear, to atone for it; and the rivals who were only suffered to put him to the proof are speedily dismissed.
1517 But where do I find myself unconsciously going? 0h Emile! what have you become? Can I recognize my former pupil? How low you seem to have fallen! Where is that young man so firmly made, who braved all weathers, who devoted his body to the hardest tasks and his soul to the laws of wisdom, was untouched by prejudice or passion, loved only truth, was swayed by only by reason, was dependent on nothing that was not his own? Living in softness and idleness he now lets himself be ruled by women. Their amusements are the business of his life, their wishes are his laws. A young girl is the arbiter of his fate; he cringes and grovels before her. The solemn Emile is now the plaything of a child!
1518 So shift the scenes of life. Each age is swayed by its own motives, but the man is the same. At ten his mind was set upon cake, at twenty it is set upon his beloved; at thirty it will be set upon pleasure; at forty on ambition, at fifty on avarice. When will he seek only after wisdom? Happy is he who is led to it in spite of himself! What matter who is the guide, so long as it leads him to his goal? Heroes and sages have themselves paid tribute to this human weakness; and those who handled the distaff with clumsy fingers were none the less great men.
1519 If you want to prolong the influence of a good education through life itself, the good habits acquired in childhood must be carried forward into adolescence, and when your pupil is what he ought to be you must manage to keep him what he ought to be. This is the last perfection left for you to give to your work. This is why it is above all important that the tutor should remain with young men; otherwise there is little doubt they will learn to make love without him. The great mistake of tutors and still more of fathers is to think that one way of living makes another impossible, and that as soon as the child is grown up you must abandon everything you used to do when he was little. If that were so, why should we take such pains in childhood, since the good or bad use we make of it will vanish with childhood itself, as if another way of life were necessarily accompanied by other ways of thinking?
1520 The stream of memory is only preserved in an unbroken line by the chain of association. Memory thus carries the proof of its own existence and it is for this reason that we cannot wholly forget anything. The idea of an object, of a feeling, or of an act, once formed, never wholly vanishes, and if a piece of our past reappears, it is not in the same way as a flash of lightning or a dream, but as a recollection with its previous associations. Memory preserves our entire past, it must do so, or else we should not have any memory at all; in other words, it would be impossible to remember anything without having forgotten it.
1521 If you contrive that young people passing from one stage of life to another do not despise what has gone before, that when they form new habits they do not forsake the old, and that they always love to do what is right in things new and old, then only can your work be saved and you can be sure of your students as long as they live. For the revolution most to be feared is that of the age over which you are now watching. As men always look back to this period with regret so the tastes carried forward into it from childhood are not easily destroyed; but if once interrupted they are never resumed. 1521 Ten 1521 Hundred
1522 Most of the habits you think you have instilled into children and young people are not really habits at all. They have only been acquired under compulsion, and being followed reluctantly they will be cast off at the first opportunity. However long you remain in prison you never get a taste for prison life; so aversion is increased rather than diminished by habit. Not so with Emile. As a child he only did what he could do willingly and with pleasure, and as a man he will do the same, and the force of habit will only lend its help to the joys of freedom. An active life, bodily labour, exercise, movement, have become so essential to him that he could not relinquish them without suffering. Reduce him all at once to a soft and sedentary life and you condemn him to chains and imprisonment, you keep him in a condition of violence and constraint; he would suffer, no doubt, both in health and temper. He can scarcely breathe in a stuffy room; he requires open air, movement, work. Even at Sophie's feet he cannot help casting a glance at the country and longing to explore it in her company. Yet he remains if he must. But he is anxious and ill at ease; he seems to be struggling with himself; he remains because he is a captive. "Yes," you will say, "these are necessities to which you have subjected him, the constraints which you have laid upon him." You speak truly, I have subjected him to the condition of manhood. 1522 Ten 1522 Hundred
1523 Emile loves Sophie; but what were the charms by which he was first attracted? Sensibility, virtue, and love for things pure and honest. When he loves this love in Sophie, will he cease to feel it himself? And what price did she put upon herself? She required all her lover's natural feelings - esteem of what is really good, frugality, simplicity, generous unselfishness, a scorn for pomp and riches. These virtues were Emile's before love claimed them of him. Is he really changed? He has all the more reason to be himself; that is the only difference. The careful reader will not suppose that all the circumstances in which he is placed are the work of chance. There were many charming girls in the city; is it chance that his choice is discovered in a distant retreat? Is their meeting the work of chance? Is it chance that makes them so suited to each other? Is it chance that they cannot live in the same place, that he is compelled to find a lodging so far from her? Is it chance that he can see her so seldom and must purchase the pleasure of seeing her at the price of such fatigue? You say he is becoming effeminate. Not at all; he is growing stronger. He must be fairly robust to stand the fatigue he endures on Sophie's account. 1523 Ten 1523 Hundred
1524 He lives more than six miles away. That distance serves to temper the shafts of love. If they lived next door to each other, or if he could drive to see her in a comfortable carriage, he would love at his ease in the Paris fashion. Would Leander have braved death for the sake of Hero if the sea had not lain between them? Reader, spare me more words; if you are made to hear me you will be able to follow out my principles in my details. 1524 Ten 1524 Hundred
1525 The first time we went to see Sophie we went on horseback, so as to get there more quickly. We continue this convenient plan until our fifth visit. We were expected; and more than half a league from the house we see people on the road. Emile watches them, his pulse quickens as he gets nearer, he recognises Sophie and dismounts quickly; he hurries to join the charming family. Emile is fond of good horses; this horse is fresh, and as soon as Emile has turned his back the horse feels he is free and gallops off across the fields. I follow and with some difficulty I succeed in catching him and bringing him back. Unluckily Sophie is afraid of horses, and I dare not approach her. Emile has not seen what happened, but Sophie whispers to him that he is giving his friend a great deal of trouble. He hurries up quite ashamed of himself, takes the horses, and follows after the party. It is only fair that each should take his turn and he rides on to get rid of our mounts. He has to leave Sophie behind him, and he no longer thinks riding a convenient mode of travelling. He returns out of breath and meets us half-way. 1525 Ten 1525 Hundred
1526 The next time, Emile will not hear of horses. "Why not?" I say, "we need only take a servant to look after them." "Do you want to put our worthy friends to such trouble?" he replies. "You see they would insist on feeding man and horse." "That is true," I reply; "their's is the generous hospitality of the poor. The rich man in his niggardly pride only welcomes his friends, but the poor find room for their friends' horses." "Let us go on foot," he says; "Don't you have the strength to walk, you who are always so ready to share the toilsome pleasures of your child?" "I will gladly go with you," I reply at once, "and it seems to me that love does not desire so much show." 1526 Ten 1526 Hundred
1527 As we draw near, we meet the mother and daughter even further from home than on the last occasion. We have come at a great pace. Emile is very warm; his beloved condescends to pass her handkerchief over his cheeks. It would take a good many horses to make us ride there after this. 1527 Ten 1527 Hundred
1528 But it is rather hard never to be able to spend an evening together. Midsummer is long past and the days are growing shorter. Whatever we say, we are not allowed to return home in the dark, and unless we make a very early start, we have to go back almost as soon as we get there. The mother is sorry for us and uneasy on our account, and it occurs to her that, though it would not be proper for us to stay in the house, beds might be found for us in the village, if we liked to stay there occasionally. Emile claps his hands at this idea and trembles with joy; Sophie, unwittingly, kisses her mother rather oftener than usual on the day this idea occurs to her. 1528 Ten 1528 Hundred
1529 Little by little the charm of friendship and the familiarity of innocence take root and grow in this society. After a time they are no longer conscious of the fatigue of the journey, or of the discomforts of the weather, or of the want of a good bed; in fine, of all the inconveniences that their previous habits would have been unwilling to endure. They are in the midst of a new pleasure, and although the finest pleasures of life are compared with it but as a dream, the work of nature is much more lasting and much more charming. 1529 Ten 1529 Hundred
1530 Thus these companions become familiar with each other and at last with themselves. It is a sign that they have been working towards a common end that all things go better and better. They have often broken the smoothness of their hours by jest and laughter; the greatest happiness lies in the active practice of a common good, and in their simplicity of character they will have grown into perfect harmony. 1530 Ten 1530 Hundred
1531 I take care not to let him underrate the cost of his confession by assuming that there is more love than generosity in it, and by telling him that he would rather deprive himself of the honor of this return than give it to Sophie. But this is how he revealed to me, all unconsciously, what were his real feelings; if he had returned slowly and comfortably, dreaming of his sweetheart, I should know he was merely her lover; when he hurried back, even if he was a little out of temper, he was the friend of his Mentor.
1532 You see that the young man is very far from spending his days with Sophie and seeing as much of her as he wants. One or two visits a week are all that is permitted, and these visits are often only for the afternoon and are rarely extended to the next day. He spends much more of his time in longing to see her, or in rejoicing that he has seen her, than he actually spends in her presence. Even when he goes to see her, more time is spent in going and returning than by her side. His pleasures -- genuine, pure, delicious, but more imaginary than real -- serve to kindle his love but not to make his heart effeminate.
1533 On the days when he does not see Sophie he is not sitting idle at home. He is Emile himself and quite unchanged. Most often he runs around the surrounding countryside pursuing its natural history. He observes and studies the soil, its products, and their mode of cultivation. He compares the methods he sees with those with which he is already familiar; he tries to find the reasons for any differences. If he thinks other methods better than those of the locality, he introduces them to the farmers' notice. If he suggests a better kind of plough, he has one made from his own drawings; if he finds a lime pit he teaches them how to use the lime on the land, a process new to them. He often lends a hand himself. They are surprised to find him handling all manner of tools more easily than they can themselves. His furrows are deeper and straighter than theirs, he is a more skilful sower, and his beds for early produce are more cleverly planned. They do not scoff at him as a fine talker; they see he knows what he is talking about. In a word, his zeal and attention are bestowed on everything that is really useful to everybody. Nor does he stop there. He visits the peasants in their homes; inquires into their circumstances, their families, the number of their children, the extent of their holdings, the nature of their produce, their markets, their rights, their burdens, their debts, etc. He gives away very little money, for he knows it is usually ill spent; but he himself directs the use of his money, and makes it helpful to them without distributing it among them. He supplies them with labourers, and often pays them for work done by themselves, on tasks for their own benefit. For one he has the falling thatch repaired or renewed; for another he clears a piece of land which had gone out of cultivation for lack of means; to another he gives a cow, a horse, or stock of any kind to replace a loss. Two neighbours are ready to go to law, he wins them over, and makes them friends again. A peasant falls ill; he has him cared for, he looks after him himself. Another is harassed by a rich and powerful neighbour; he protects him and speaks on his behalf. Young people are fond of one another; he helps forward their marriage. A good woman has lost her beloved child; he goes to see her, he speaks words of comfort and sits a while with her. He does not despise the poor; he is in no hurry to avoid the unfortunate; he often takes his dinner with some peasant he is helping; and he will even accept a meal from those who have no need of his help. Though he is the benefactor of some and the friend of all, he is none the less their equal. In conclusion, he always does as much good by his personal efforts as by his money.
1534 Sometimes his steps are turned in the direction of the happy home. He may hope to see Sophie without her knowing, to see her out walking without being seen. But Emile is always quite open in everything he does; he neither can nor would deceive. His delicacy is of that pleasing type in which pride rests on the foundation of a good conscience. He keeps strictly within bounds, and never comes near enough to gain from chance what he only desires to win from Sophie herself. On the other hand, he delights to roam about the neighbourhood, looking for the trace of Sophie's steps, feeling what pains she has taken and what a distance she has walked to please him. The day before his visit, he will go to some neighbouring farm and order a little feast for the next day. We will take our walk in that direction without any special object; we will turn in apparently by chance. Fruit, cake, and cream are waiting for us. Sophie likes sweets, so is not insensible to these attentions, and she is quite ready to do honor to what we have provided. And I always get my share of the credit even if I have had no part in the trouble; it is a girl's way of returning thanks more easily. Her father and I have cake and wine; Emile keeps the ladies company and is always on the look-out to secure a dish of cream in which Sophie has dipped her spoon.
1535 The cake leads me to talk of the races Emile used to run. Every one wants to hear about them. I explain amid much laughter; they ask him if he can run as well as ever. "Better," he says; "I would be sorry to forget how to run." One member of the company is dying to see him run, but she dare not say so; some one else undertakes to suggest it; he agrees and we send for two or three young men of the neighbourhood. A prize is offered, and in imitation of our earlier games a piece of cake is placed on the goal. Every one is ready. Sophie's father gives the signal by clapping his hands. The nimble Emile flies like lightning and reaches the goal almost before the others have started. He receives his prize at Sophie's hands, and no less generous than Æneas, he gives gifts to all the vanquished.
1536 In the midst of his triumph, Sophie dares to challenge the victor and to assert that she can run as fast as he. He does not refuse to enter the lists with her, and while she is getting ready to start, while she is tucking up her skirt at each side, more eager to show Emile a pretty ankle than to beat him in the race, while she is seeing if her petticoats are short enough, he whispers a word to her mother who smiles and nods approval. Then he takes his place by his competitor; no sooner is the signal given than she is off like a bird.
1537 Women were not meant to run; they flee that they may be overtaken. Running is not the only thing they do awkwardly, but it is the only thing they do gracelessly; their elbows glued to their sides and pointed backwards look ridiculous, and the high heels on which they are perched make them look like so many grasshoppers trying to run instead of to jump.
1538 Emile, supposing that Sophie runs no better than other women, is not sorry to find that she has none of the awkwardness or clumsiness which he is accustomed to see. Her running is perfect. She runs like the finest horse and makes Emile feel like a jock; her dress follows every movement with as much ease as if it were only an envelope, and her heels do not touch the ground. This is no mere illusion; he has a proof of it, a pleasant proof, in that her heart is beating against his own.
1539 The race does not end at the cake, the winner must take it and hand it round. Sophie offers it to her mother, and a slice is sent to the poor woman of whom we spoke before. The rest of the cake is sent home for the family of the prizewinner. Sophie’s pride gives a delicious taste to the cake. The feast ends in another game, and the next day every one talks of the new race and the graceful Sophie.
1540 Thus we have made Sophie more interesting in our eyes. We have given her the power of making Emile more amiable than ever; his friends, when they see him again, will say to him, "You are more lively and pleasant than ever." We have made him fit for society by showing him to be a man of good-will and of ability to win others over. Sophie’s presence has done much to improve him, and he will be grateful to her for it.
1541 While they are attentively observing him, I watch them and touch Emile on the sleeve. He turns around, drops his tools, and hurries to them with an exclamation of joy. After this initial rush of emotion he makes them take a seat and he goes back to his work. But Sophie cannot keep quiet; she gets up quickly, runs about the workshop, looks at the tools, feels the polish of the boards, picks up shavings, looks at our hands, and says she likes this trade, it is so clean. The lively girl tries to copy Emile. With her delicate white hand she passes a plane over a bit of wood; the plane slips and makes no impression. It seems to me that Love himself is hovering over us and beating his wings; I think I can hear his joyous cries, "Hercules is avenged." 1541 Ten 1541 Hundred
1542 Yet Sophie's mother questions the master of the shop. "Sir, how much do you pay these two men a day?" "I give them each ten cents a day and their food; but if that young fellow wanted he could earn much more, for he is the best workman in the countryside." "Ten cents a day and their food," said she looking at us tenderly. "That is so, madam," replied the master. At these words she runs to Emile, kisses him, and tearfully presses him to her breast. Unable to say more she repeats again and again, "My son, my son!" 1542 Ten 1542 Hundred
1543 When they have spent some time chatting with us, without interrupting our work, the mother says to her daughter, "We must be going now. It is getting late and we must not keep your father waiting." Then approaching Emile she taps him playfully on the cheek, saying, "Well, my good workman, won't you come with us?" He replies sadly, "I am in the middle of a project; ask the master." The master is asked if he can spare us. He replies that he cannot. "I have work to be done," he says, "which is wanted the day after to-morrow, so there is not much time. Counting on these gentlemen I refused other workmen who came; if they fail me I don't know how to replace them and I won't be able to deliver the work on the day it was promised." The mother says nothing; she is waiting to hear what Emile will say. Emile hangs his head and is quiet. "Sir," she says, somewhat surprised at this, "have you nothing to say to that?" Emile looked tenderly at her daughter and merely said, "You can see that I have to stay." Then the ladies leave us. Emile accompanies them to the door, gazes after them as long as they are in sight, sighs, and returns to his work without a word. 1543 Ten 1543 Hundred
1544 On the way home the mother somewhat vexed at his conduct, speaks to her daughter of the strange way in which he behaved. "Why," she says, "was it so difficult to satisfy the master without being obliged to stay? The young man is generous enough and ready to spend money when there is no need for it, why couldn't he spend a little on such a fitting occasion?" "Oh, mamma," replies Sophie, " I trust Emile will never rely so much on money as to use it to break an engagement, to fail to keep his own word, and to make another break his! I know he could easily compensate the master to make up for the slight inconvenience caused by his absence. But his soul would become the slave of riches, he would become accustomed to place wealth before duty, and he would think that any duty might be neglected provided he was ready to pay. That is not Emile's way of thinking, and I hope he will never change on my account. Do you think it cost him nothing to stay? You are quite wrong, mamma; it was for my sake that he stayed; I saw it in his eyes." 1544 Ten 1544 Hundred
1545 It is not that Sophie is indifferent to genuine proofs of love. On the contrary she is imperious and exacting; she would rather not be loved at all than be loved half-heartedly. Hers is the noble pride of worth, conscious of its own value, self-respecting and claiming a similar honor from others. She would scorn a heart that did not recognise the full worth of her own, that did not love her for her virtues as much and more than for her charms, a heart which did not put duty first, and prefer it to everything. She did not desire a lover who knew no will but hers. She wished to reign over a man whom she had not spoilt. Thus Circe, having changed into swine the comrades of Ulysses, bestowed herself on him over whom she had no power. 1545 Ten 1545 Hundred
1546 Except for this sacred and inviolable right, Sophie is very jealous of her own rights. She observes how carefully Emile respects them, how zealously he does her will, how cleverly he guesses her wishes, how exactly he arrives at the appointed time. She will have him neither late nor early; he must arrive at the moment. To come early is to think more of himself than of her; to come late is to neglect her. To neglect Sophie -- that could not happen twice. Once an unfounded suspicion on her part nearly ruins everything, but Sophie is really just and knows how to atone for her faults. 1546 Ten 1546 Hundred
1547 They are expecting us one evening; Emile had received his orders. They come to meet us, but we are not there. What has become of us? What accident have we met with? No message from us! The evening is spent in expectation of our arrival. Sophie thinks we are dead; she is miserable and in an agony of distress; she spends the whole night crying. In the course of the evening a messenger is despatched to inquire after us and bring back news in the morning. The messenger returns together with another messenger sent by us, who makes our excuses verbally and says we are quite well. Then the scene is changed; Sophie dries her tears, or if she still weeps it is for anger. It is small consolation to her proud spirit to know that we are alive; Emile lives and he has kept her waiting. 1547 Ten 1547 Hundred
1548 When we arrive she tries to escape to her own room. Her parents desire her to remain, so she is obliged to do so; but deciding at once what course she will take she assumes a calm and contented expression which would deceive most people. Her father comes forward to receive us saying, "You have made your friends very uneasy; there are people here who will not forgive you very readily." "Who are they, papa," says Sophie with the most gracious smile she can assume. "What business is that of yours," says her father, "if it is not you?" Sophie bends over her work without reply. Her mother receives us coldly and formally. Emile is so confused he dares not speak to Sophie. She speaks first, inquires how he is, asks him to take a chair, and pretends so cleverly that the poor young fellow, who still knew nothing of the language of angry passions, is quite deceived by her apparent indifference, but his heart is full of anguish. 1548 Ten 1548 Hundred
1549 At length the company assembles; Sophie cannot keep up her indifferent demeanor, but her vexation breaks out in words. She reproaches us with our absence; she laments the anxiety she has felt and the unkindness of our neglect. The whole evening she seems to forget that we are with her. She does not see that we have come; she keeps us standing, does not give us a place to sit, and speaks as if she had never seen us. Only when we are gone does she recover her composure; she is then gentle and agreeable again, and her presence gives pleasure. 1549 Ten 1549 Hundred
1550 Her feelings have now calmed down and she is in a good humor; but she tells me in confidence that the depth of her passion is never felt by us and that we have not a conception of it. This makes us feel even more grateful for the kindness she has shown us. We cannot complain of our lot, yet we are grateful and astonished at the justice and the greatness of our good fortune. 1550 Ten 1550 Hundred
1551 Seeing that it is my turn now, and that the time is ripe for explanation, I return to Sophie. I take her hand and this time she does not snatch it away; she is ready to faint. I say gently, "Dear Sophy, we are the victims of misfortune. But you are just and reasonable; you will not judge us unheard. Listen to what we have to say." She says nothing and I proceed. 1551 Ten 1551 Hundred
1552 "We set out yesterday at four o'clock. We were told to be here at seven, and we always allow ourselves a little more time than we need so as to rest a little before we get here. We were more than half way here when we heard terrible groans coming from a little valley in the hillside, some distance off. We hurried towards the place and found an unlucky peasant who, returning from town somewhat drunk, had fallen so heavily off of his horse that he had broken his leg. We shouted and called for help; there was no answer. We tried to lift the injured man on his horse but without success; the least movement caused terrible pain. We decided to tie up the horse in a quiet part of the wood. Then we made a chair of our crossed arms and carried the man as gently as possible, following his directions till we got him home. The way was long and we were constantly obliged to stop and rest. At last we got there, but we were thoroughly exhausted. We were surprised and sorry to find that it was a house we knew already and that the wretched creature we had carried with such difficulty was the same man who received us so kindly when we had first arrived. We had all been so upset that until that moment we had not recognised each other. 1552 Ten 1552 Hundred
1553 "He had two little children; his wife was about to present him with a third. She was so overwhelmed at the sight of his condition that she began to feel sharp pains and a few hours later started to give birth. What was to be done under such circumstances in a lonely cottage far from any help? Emile decided to go get the horse we had left in the wood, to ride as fast as he could into the town and look for a surgeon. He let the surgeon have the horse, and not succeeding in finding a nurse right away, he returned on foot with a servant, after having sent a messenger to you. Meanwhile you can imagine that between a man with a broken leg and a woman in labor I hardly knew what to do, but I got ready as well as I could such things in the house as I thought would be needed for the relief of both. 1553 Ten 1553 Hundred
1554 "I will pass over the rest of the details; they are not to the point. It was two o'clock in the morning before we got a moment's rest. At last we returned before daybreak to our lodging nearby, where we waited till you were up to give you an account of our accident." 1554 Ten 1554 Hundred
1555 That is all I say. But before any one can speak Emile, approaching Sophie, raises his voice and says with greater firmness than I expected, "Sophie, you are the arbiter of my fate, as you very well know. You may make me to die of grief; but do not hope to make me forget the rights of humanity; they are even more sacred to me than your own rights; I will never renounce them for you." 1555 Ten 1555 Hundred
1556 For all answer, Sophie rises, puts her arm round his neck, and kisses him on the cheek; then offering him her hand with inimitable grace she says to him, "Emile, take this hand; it is yours. When you will, you shall be my husband and my master; I will try to be worthy of that honour." 1556 Ten 1556 Hundred
1557 Scarcely has she kissed him when her delighted father claps his hands calling, "Encore, encore," and Sophie without further ado, kisses him twice on the other cheek. But almost at the same moment, afraid of what she has done, she takes refuge in her mother's arms and hides her blushing face on the maternal bosom. 1557 Ten 1557 Hundred
1558 I will not describe our happiness; everybody should feel it. After dinner Sophie asks if it is too far to go and see the poor invalids. It is her wish and it is a work of mercy. When we get there we find them both in bed -- Emile had sent for a second bedstead; there are people there to look after them -- Emile has seen to that too. But in spite of this everything is in such disorder that they suffer almost as much from discomfort as from their condition. Sophie asks for one of the good wife's aprons and sets to work to make her more comfortable in her bed; then she does as much for the man; her soft and gentle hand seems to find out what is hurting them and how to settle them into less painful positions. Her very presence seems to make them more comfortable; she seems to guess what is the matter. This fastidious girl is not disgusted by the dirt or smells, and she manages to get rid of both without disturbing the sick people. She who has always appeared so modest and sometimes so disdainful, she who would not for all the world have touched a man's bed with her little finger, lifts the sick man and changes his linen without any fuss, and places him to rest in a more comfortable position. The zeal of charity is of more value than modesty. What she does is done so skilfully and with such a light touch that he feels better almost without knowing she has touched him. Husband and wife mingle their blessings upon the kindly girl who tends, pities, and consoles them. She is an angel from heaven come to visit them; she is an angel in face and manner, in gentleness and goodness. Emile is greatly touched by all this and he watches her without speaking. 0 man, love thy companion. God gave her to relieve thy sufferings, to comfort thee in thy troubles. This is woman. 1558 Ten 1558 Hundred
1559 The new-born baby is baptised. The two lovers are its god-parents, and as they hold it at the font they long, at the bottom of their hearts, for the time when they will have a child of their own to be baptised. They long for their wedding day; they think it is close at hand; all Sophie's scruples have vanished, but mine remain. They are not yet where they think they are; every one must have his turn. 1559 Ten 1559 Hundred
1560 One morning when they have not seen each other for two whole days, I enter Emile's room with a letter in my hands, and looking fixedly at him I say to him, "What would you do if some one told you that Sophie was in bed with another man?" 1560 Ten 1560 Hundred
1561 The passion which engrosses him will no longer permit him to devote himself as in former days to discussions of pure reason; this very passion must be called to our aid if his attention is to be given to my teaching. That is why I made use of this terrible preface; I am quite sure he will listen to me now. 1561 Ten 1561 Hundred
1562 "We must be happy, dear Emile. It is the aim of every feeling creature; it is the first desire taught us by nature, and the only one which never leaves us. But where is happiness? Who knows? Every one seeks it, and no one finds it. We spend our lives in the search and we die before the end is attained. My young friend, when I took you, a new-born infant, in my arms, and called God himself to witness to the vow I dared to make that I would devote my life to the happiness of your life, did I know myself what I was undertaking? No; I only knew that in making you happy, I was sure of my own happiness. By making this useful inquiry on your account, I made it for us both. 1562 Ten 1562 Hundred
1563 "So long as we do not know what to do, wisdom consists in doing nothing. Of all rules there is none so greatly needed by man, and none which he is less able to obey. In seeking happiness when we do not know where it is, we are perhaps getting further and further from it; we are running as many risks as there are roads to choose from. But it is not every one that can keep still. Our passion for our own well-being makes us so uneasy that we would rather deceive ourselves in the search for happiness than sit still and do nothing; and when once we have left the place where we might have known happiness, we can never return. 1563 Ten 1563 Hundred
1564 "In ignorance like this I tried to avoid a similar fault. When I took charge of you I decided to take no useless steps and to prevent you from doing so too. I kept to the path of nature, until she should show me the path of happiness. It turned out that their paths were the same, and without knowing it this was the path I followed. 1564 Ten 1564 Hundred
1565 "Be at once my witness and my judge; I will never refuse to accept your decision. Your early years have not been sacrificed to those that were to follow, you have enjoyed all the good gifts which nature bestowed upon you. Of the ills to which you were by nature subject, and from which I could shelter you, you have only experienced such as would harden you to bear others. You have never suffered any evil, except to escape a greater one. You have known neither hatred nor servitude. Free and happy, you have remained just and kindly; for suffering and vice are inseparable, and no man ever became bad until he was unhappy. May the memory of your childhood remain with you to old age! I am not afraid that your kind heart will ever recall the hand that trained it without a blessing upon it. 1565 Ten 1565 Hundred
1566 "When you reached the age of reason, I secured you from the influence of human prejudice; when your heart awoke I preserved you from the sway of passion. Had I been able to prolong this inner tranquillity till your life's end, my work would have been insecure, and you would have been as happy as man can be. But, my dear Emile, it was in vain that I dipped your soul in the waters of Styx, for I could not make you completely invulnerable. A fresh enemy has appeared, whom you have not yet learnt to conquer, and from whom I cannot save you. That enemy is yourself. Nature and fortune had left you free. You could face poverty, you could bear bodily pain; the sufferings of the heart were unknown to you; you were then dependent on nothing but your position as a human being. Now you depend on all the ties you have formed for yourself; you have learnt to desire, and you are now the slave of your desires. Without any change in yourself, without any insult, any injury to yourself, what sorrows may attack your soul, what pains may you suffer without sickness, how many deaths may you die and yet live! A lie, an error, a suspicion, may plunge you in despair. 1566 Ten 1566 Hundred
1567 "At the theatre you used to see heroes abandoned to depths of woe, making the stage re-echo with their wild cries, lamenting like women, weeping like children, and thus securing the applause of the audience. Do you remember how shocked you were by those lamentations, cries, and groans, in men from whom one would only expect deeds of constancy and heroism. 'What? you said, 'are those the patterns we are to follow, the models set for our imitation! Are they afraid man will not be small enough, unhappy enough, weak enough, if his weakness is not enshrined under a false show of virtue?' My young friend, from now on you must be more merciful to the stage; you have become one of those heroes. 1567 Ten 1567 Hundred
1568 "You know how to suffer and to die; you know how to bear the heavy yoke of necessity in the ills of the body, but you have not yet learned to give a law to the desires of your heart; and the difficulties of life arise rather from our affections than from our needs. Our desires are vast, our strength is hardly better than nothing. In his wishes man is dependent on many things; in himself he is dependent on nothing, not even on his own life. The more his connections are multiplied, the greater his sufferings. Everything upon earth has an end; sooner or later all that we love escapes from our fingers, and we behave as if it would last for ever. What was your terror at the mere suspicion of Sophie's death? Do you suppose she will live for ever? Do not young people of her age die? She must die, my son, and perhaps before you. Who knows if she is alive at this moment? Nature meant you to die only once; you have prepared a second death for yourself. 1568 Ten 1568 Hundred
1569 "Thus subservient to your ungoverned passions, how pitiful you will be! Forever in the grip of deprivation, losses, fears -- you will not even enjoy what is left. You will possess nothing because of the fear of losing it. From wanting to follow only your passions you will never be able to satisfy them. You will forever be seeking repose but it will always vanish before you. You will be miserable and you will become wicked. How can you be otherwise, having no care but your unbridled desires? If you cannot put up with involuntary deprivations how will you voluntarily deprive yourself? How can you sacrifice desire to duty and resist your heart in order to listen to your reason? You would never see that man again who dared to bring you word of the death of your mistress; how would you behold him who would deprive you of her living self, him who would dare to tell you, 'She is dead to you; virtue puts a gulf between you'? If you must live with her whatever happens, whether Sophie is married or single, whether you are free or not, whether she loves or hates you, whether she is given or refused to you, no matter, it is your will and you must have her at any price. Tell me then what crime will stop a man who has no law but his heart's desires, who knows not how to resist his own passions? 1569 Ten 1569 Hundred
1570 "My child, there is no happiness without courage nor virtue without a struggle. The word virtue is derived from a word signifying strength, and strength is the foundation of all virtue. Virtue is the heritage of a creature weak by nature but strong by will; that is the whole merit of the righteous man; and though we call God good we do not call Him virtuous, because He does good without effort. I waited to explain the meaning of this word, so often profaned, until you were ready to understand me. As long as virtue is quite easy to practise, there is little need to know it. This need arises with the awakening of the passions; your time has come. 1570 Ten 1570 Hundred
1571 "When I brought you up in all the simplicity of nature, instead of preaching disagreeable duties I secured for you immunity from the vices which make such duties disagreeable. I made lying not so much hateful as unnecessary in your sight; I taught you not so much to give others their due as to care little about your own rights. I made you kindly rather than virtuous. But the kindly man is only kind so long as he finds it pleasant. Kindness falls to pieces with the shock of human passions; the kindly man is only kind to himself. 1571 Ten 1571 Hundred
1572 "What is meant by a virtuous man? He who can conquer his affections. For then he follows his reason, his conscience; he does his duty; he is his own master and nothing can turn him from the right way. So far you have had only the semblance of liberty, the precarious liberty of the slave who has not received his orders. Now is the time for real freedom; learn to be your own master; control your heart, my Emile, and you will be virtuous. 1572 Ten 1572 Hundred
1573 "There is another apprenticeship before you, an apprenticeship more difficult than the former. For nature delivers us from the evils she lays upon us, or else she teaches us to submit to them. But she has no message for us with regard to our self-imposed evils; she leaves us to ourselves; she leaves us, victims of our own passions, to succumb to our vain sorrows, to pride ourselves on the tears of which we should be ashamed. 1573 Ten 1573 Hundred
1574 "This is your first passion. Perhaps it is the only passion worthy of you. If you can control it like a man, it will be the last; you will be master of all the rest, and you will obey nothing but the passion for virtue. 1574 Ten 1574 Hundred
1575 "There is nothing criminal in this passion, that I know. It is as pure as the hearts which experience it. It was born of honor and nursed by innocence. Happy lovers! For you the charms of virtue only add to those of love; and the blessed union to which you are looking forward is less the reward of your goodness than of your affection. But tell me, my sincere young man, though this passion is pure, are you any the less subjected to it? Have you been made less its slave? And if to-morrow it should cease to be innocent, would you stifle it right away? Now is the time to try out your strength; there is no time for that in hours of danger. Such dangerous tests should be made when peril is at a distance. We do not practise the use of our weapons when we are face to face with the enemy; we do that before the war; we come to the battle-field already prepared. 1575 Ten 1575 Hundred
1576 "It is a mistake to distinguish between permitted and forbidden passions, so as to yield to the one and refuse the other. All passions are good if we are their masters; all are bad if we abandon ourselves to them. What nature forbids us is to extend our relations beyond the limits of our strength; reason forbids us to want what we cannot get; conscience forbids us not to be tempted but to yield to temptation. To feel or not to feel a passion is beyond our control, but we can control ourselves. Every sentiment that we can control is legitimate; those which control us are criminal. A man is not guilty if he loves his neighbour's wife as long as he keeps this unhappy passion bound by the law of duty; he is guilty if he loves his own wife so greatly as to sacrifice everything to that love. 1576 Ten 1576 Hundred
1577 "Do not expect me to supply you with lengthy precepts of morality. I have only one rule to give you which sums up all the rest. Be a man; restrain your heart within the limits of your manhood. Study and know these limits. However narrow they may be, we are not unhappy within them. It is only when we wish to go beyond them that we are unhappy, only when, in our mad passions, we try to attain the impossible. We are unhappy when we forget our manhood to make an imaginary world for ourselves, from which we are always slipping back into our own. The only good things, whose loss really affects us, are those which we claim as our rights. If it is clear that we cannot obtain what we want, our mind turns away from it; wishes without hope cease to torture us. A beggar is not tormented by a desire to be a king; a king only wishes to be a god when he thinks himself more than man. 1577 Ten 1577 Hundred
1578 "The illusions of pride are the source of our greatest ills; but the contemplation of human suffering keeps the wise humble. He keeps to his proper place and makes no attempt to depart from it; he does not waste his strength in getting what he cannot keep; and his whole strength being devoted to the right employment of what he has, he is in reality richer and more powerful in proportion as he desires less than we. A mortal and perishable being, would I create eternal ties to this earth, where everything changes and disappears, and from where I myself will shortly vanish! Oh, Emile! my son! if I were to lose you, what would be left of myself? And yet I must learn to lose you, for who knows when you may be taken from me? 1578 Ten 1578 Hundred
1579 "Do you wish to live in wisdom and happiness? Then attach your heart only to beauty that is eternal. Let your desires be limited by your position, let your duties take precedence over your wishes; extend the law of necessity into the region of morals; learn to lose what may be taken from you; learn to forsake all things at the command of virtue, to set yourself above the chances of life, to detach your heart before it is torn in pieces, to be brave in adversity so that you may never be wretched, to be steadfast in duty that you may never be guilty of a crime. Then you will be happy in spite of fortune, and good in spite of your passions. You will find a pleasure that cannot be destroyed, even in the possession of the most fragile things. You will possess them, they will not possess you, and you will realise that the man from whom everything escapes only enjoys what he knows how to lose. It is true you will not enjoy the illusions of imaginary pleasures; neither will you feel the sufferings which are their result. You will profit greatly by this exchange, for the sufferings are real and frequent, the pleasures are rare and empty. Victor over so many deceitful ideas, you will also vanquish the idea that attaches such an excessive value to life. You will spend your life in peace, and you will leave it without terror; you will detach yourself from life as from other things. Let others, horror-struck, believe that when this life is ended they cease to be. Conscious of the nothingness of life, you will think that you are only entering upon the true life. To the wicked, death is the close of life; to the just it is its beginning." 1579 Ten 1579 Hundred
1580 Emile hears me with attention not unmixed with anxiety. After such a startling preface he feared some gloomy conclusion. He foresees that when I show him how necessary it is to practise the strength of the soul, I desire to subject him to this stern discipline; and like a wounded man who shrinks from the surgeon, he believes he already feels the painful but healing touch which will cure the deadly wound. 1580 Ten 1580 Hundred
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1581 Uncertain, anxious, eager to know what I am coming to, he does not answer but questions me timidly. "What do I need to do?" he says almost trembling, not daring to raise his eyes. "What do you need to do?" I reply firmly. "You must leave Sophie." "What are you saying?" he exclaims angrily. "Leave Sophie, leave Sophie, deceive her, become a traitor, a villain, a perjurer?" "What," I continue, interrupting him; "does Emile suppose I shall teach him to deserve such names?" "No," he continued with the same vigor. "Neither you nor anyone else. In spite of you, I am capable of preserving your work. I will not deserve such reproaches." 1581 Ten 1581 Hundred
1582 I am prepared for this first outburst; I let it pass, unmoved. If I did not have the moderation I preach there would not be much use preaching it! Emile knows me too well to believe me capable of demanding any wrong action from him, and he knows that it would be wrong to leave Sophie in the sense he attaches to the phrase. So he waits for an explanation. Then I resume my speech. 1582 Ten 1582 Hundred
1583 "My dear Emile, do you think any man whatsoever can be happier than you have been for the last three months? If you think so, undeceive yourself. Before tasting the pleasures of life you have plumbed the depths of its happiness. There is nothing more than you have already experienced. The joys of sense are transitory; habit invariably destroys them. You have tasted greater joys through hope than you will ever enjoy in reality. The imagination which adorns what we long for disappears with its possession. With the exception of the one self-existing Being, there is nothing beautiful except that which is not. If that state could have lasted for ever, you would have found perfect happiness. But all that is related to man shares his decline; all is finite, all is fleeting in human life, and even if the conditions which make us happy could be prolonged for ever, habit would deprive us of all taste for that happiness. If nothing outside of us changes, the heart changes; either happiness leaves us, or we leave it. 1583 Ten 1583 Hundred
1584 "During your infatuation time has passed unnoticed. Summer is over, winter is approaching. Even if our expeditions were possible, at such a time of year they would not be permitted. Whether we wish it or not, we will have to change our way of life; it cannot continue. I read in your eager eyes that this does not disturb you greatly; Sophie's confession and your own wishes suggest a simple plan for avoiding the snow and escaping the journey. The plan has its advantages, no doubt; but when spring returns, the snow will melt and the marriage will remain. You must plan for all seasons. 1584 Ten 1584 Hundred
1585 "You wish to marry Sophie and you have only known her five months! You wish to marry her, not because she is a suitable wife for you but because she pleases you; as if love were never mistaken as to suitability, as if those who begin with love never ended with hatred! I know she is virtuous; but is that enough? Is fitness merely a matter of honor? It is not her virtue I misdoubt, it is her disposition. Does a woman show her real character in a day? Do you know how often you must have seen her and under what varying conditions to really know her temper? Is four months of attachment a sufficient pledge for the rest of your life? Perhaps two months of absence will make you forget her; as soon as you are gone another man may erase your image in her heart. On your return you may find her as indifferent as you have found her affectionate until now. Sentiments are not a matter of principle; she may be perfectly virtuous and yet cease to love you. I am inclined to think she will be faithful and true; but who will answer for her, and who will answer for you if you are not put to the proof? Will you postpone this trial till it is too late, will you wait to know your true selves till parting is no longer possible? 1585 Ten 1585 Hundred
1586 "Sophie is not eighteen, and you are barely twenty-two; this is the age for love, but not for marriage. What a father and mother for a family! If you want to know how to bring up children, you should at least wait till you yourselves are children no longer. Do you not know that too early motherhood has weakened the constitution, destroyed the health, and shortened the life of many young women? Do you not know that many children have always been weak and sickly because their mother was little more than a child herself? When mother and child are both growing, the strength required for their growth is divided, and neither gets all that nature intended; are not both certain to suffer? Either I know very little of Emile, or he would rather wait and have a healthy wife and children than satisfy his impatience at the price of their life and health. 1586 Ten 1586 Hundred
1587 "Let us speak of yourself. You hope to be a husband and a father; have you seriously considered your duties? By becoming the head of a family you will become a member of the state. And what is a citizen of the state; do you know? You have studied your duties as a man, but what do you know of the duties of a citizen? Do you know the meaning of such terms as government, laws, country? Do you know the price you must pay for life, and for what you must be prepared to die? You think you know everything, when you still really know nothing. Before taking your place in the civil order, learn to perceive and know what position will suit you. 1587 Ten 1587 Hundred
1588 "Emile, you must leave Sophie. I do not say that you must give her up; if you were capable of such conduct, she would be only too happy not to have married you. You must leave her in order to return worthy of her. Do not be vain enough to think yourself already worthy. How much remains to be done! Come and fulfill this noble task; come and learn to submit to absence; come and earn the prize of fidelity, so that when you return you may indeed deserve some honor and may ask her hand not as a favor but as a reward." 1588 Ten 1588 Hundred
1589 Not yet accustomed to struggling with himself, untrained to desire one thing and to will another, the young man will not surrender. He resists, he argues. Why should he refuse the happiness which awaits him? Would not waiting to accept the hand that is offered to him be to disdain it? Why need he leave her to learn what he ought to know? And if it were necessary to leave her why not leave her as his wife with a certain pledge of his return? Let him be her husband, and he is ready to follow me; let them be married and he will leave her without fear. "Marry her in order to leave her, dear Emile! what a contradiction! A lover who can leave his beloved shows himself capable of great things; a husband should never leave his wife unless through necessity. To cure your scruples, I see that the delay must be involuntary on your part; you must be able to tell Sophie you leave her against your will. Very well, be content, and since you will not obey reason, you must recognize another master. You have not forgotten the agreement that you made with me. Emile, you must leave Sophie; I wish it." 1589 Ten 1589 Hundred
1590 For a moment or two he is downcast, silent, and thoughtful, then looking me full in the face he says, "When do we start?" "In a week," I reply. "Sophie must be prepared for our going. Women are weaker than we are, and we must show consideration for them; and this parting is not a duty for her as it is for you, so she may be allowed to bear it less bravely." 1590 Ten 1590 Hundred
1591 The temptation to continue the daily history of their love up to the time of their separation is very great; but I have already presumed too much upon the good nature of my readers. Let us abridge the story so as to bring it to an end. Will Emile face the situation as bravely at his mistress' feet as he has done in conversation with his friend? I think he will; his confidence is rooted in the sincerity of his love. He would be more at a loss with her if it cost him less to leave her; he would leave her feeling himself to blame, and that is a difficult part for a man of honour to play. But the greater the sacrifice, the more credit he demands for it in the sight of her who makes it so difficult. He has no fear that she will misunderstand his motives. Every look seems to say, "Oh, Sophie, read my heart and be faithful to me; your lover is not without virtue." 1591 Ten 1591 Hundred
1592 Proud Sophie, on her part, tries to bear the unforeseen blow with dignity. She tries to seem as if she did not care, but since the honors of war are not hers but Emile's, her strength is less equal to the task. She weeps, she sighs against her will, and the fear of being forgotten embitters the pain of parting. She does not weep in her lover's sight, she does not let him see her terror; she would die rather than utter a sigh in his presence. It is I who receive her complaints, who sees her tears; it is I who am supposed to be her confidant. Women are very clever and know how to conceal their cleverness; the more she frets in private, the more pains she takes to please me; she feels that her fate is in my hands. 1592 Ten 1592 Hundred
1593 I console and comfort her; I make myself answerable for her lover, or rather for her husband. Let her be as true to him as he to her and I promise they will be married in two years' time. She respects me enough to believe that I do not want to deceive her. I am guarantor to each for the other. Their hearts, their virtue, my honesty, the confidence of their parents, all combine to reassure them. But what can reason avail against weakness? They part as if they were never to meet again. 1593 Ten 1593 Hundred
1594 Then it is that Sophie recalls the regrets of Eucharis, and imagines herself in her place. Do not let us revive that fantacized love during his absence. "Sophie," say I one day, "exchange books with Emile; let him have your Telemachus that he may learn to be like him, and let him give you his Spectator which you enjoy reading. Study the duties of good wives in it, and remember that in two years' time you will undertake those duties." The exchange gives pleasure to both and inspires them with confidence. At last, the sad day arrives and they must part. 1594 Ten 1594 Hundred
1595 Sophie's worthy father, with whom I arranged the whole business, takes affectionate leave of me, and drawing me aside, speaks seriously and somewhat emphatically, saying, "I have done everything to please you. I knew was dealing with a man of honor. I have only one word to say. Remember that your pupil has signed his marriage contract on my daughter's lips." 1595 Ten 1595 Hundred
1596 What a difference in the behaviour of the two lovers! Emile, impetuous, eager, excited, almost beside himself, cries out loud and sheds torrents of tears upon the hands of father, mother, and daughter; with sobs he embraces every one in the house and repeats the same thing over and over again in a way that would be ludicrous at any other time. Sophie, pale, sorrowful, doleful, and heavy-eyed, remains quiet without a word or a tear; she sees no one, not even Emile. In vain he takes her hand, and clasps her in his arms; she remains motionless, unheeding his tears, his caresses, and everything he does. So far as she is concerned, he is gone already. A sight more moving than the prolonged lamentations and noisy regrets of her lover! He sees, he feels, he is heartbroken. I drag him reluctantly away; if I left him another minute, he would never go. I am delighted that he should carry this touching picture with him. If he should ever be tempted to forget what is due to Sophie, his heart must have strayed very far indeed if I cannot bring it back to her by recalling her as he saw her last. 1596 Ten 1596 Hundred
1597 ON TRAVEL 1597 Ten 1597 Hundred
1598 Is it good for young people to travel? The question is often asked and as often hotly disputed. If it were stated otherwise -- Are men the better for having travelled? -- perhaps there would be less difference of opinion. 1598 Ten 1598 Hundred
1599 The misuse of books is the death of sound learning. People think they know what they have read, and take no pains to learn. Too much reading only produces a pretentious ignoramus. There was never so much reading in any age as the present, and never was there less learning; in no country of Europe are so many histories and books of travel printed as in France, and nowhere is there less knowledge of the mind and manners of other nations. So many books lead us to neglect the book of the world; if we read it at all, we keep each to our own page. If the phrase, "Can one become a Persian," were unknown to me, I should suspect on hearing it that it came from the country where national prejudice is most prevalent and from the sex which does most to increase it. 1599 Ten 1599 Hundred
1600 A Parisian thinks he has a knowledge of men and he knows only Frenchmen. His town is always full of foreigners, but he considers every foreigner as a strange phenomenon which has no equal in the universe. You must have a close acquaintance with the middle classes of that great city, you must have lived among them, before you can believe that people could be at once so witty and so stupid. The strangest thing about it is that probably every one of them has read a dozen times a description of the country whose inhabitants inspire him with such wonder. 1600 Ten 1600 Hundred
1601 To discover the truth amidst our own prejudices and those of the authors is too hard a task. I have been reading books of travels all my life, but I never found two that gave me the same idea of the same nation. On comparing my own scanty observations with what I have read, I have decided to abandon the travellers and regret the time wasted in trying to learn from their books; for I am quite convinced that for that sort of study seeing, not reading, is required. That would be true enough if every traveller were honest, if he only said what he saw and believed, and if truth were not tinged with false colors from his own eyes. What must it be when we have to disentangle the truth from the web of lies and bad faith? 1601 Ten 1601 Hundred
1602 Let us leave the boasted resources of books to those who are content to use them. Like the art of Raymond Lull they good for setting people chattering about things they do not know; they are good for setting fifteen-year-old Platos discussing philosophy in the clubs and teaching people the customs of Egypt and the Indies on the word of Paul Lucas or Tavernier. 1602 Ten 1602 Hundred
1603 I maintain that it is beyond dispute that any one who has only seen one nation does not know men; he only knows those men among whom he has lived. Hence there is another way of stating the question about travel: "Is it enough for a well-educated man to know his fellow-countrymen, or ought he to know mankind in general?" Then there is no place for argument or uncertainty. See how greatly the solution of a difficult problem may depend on the way in which it is stated. 1603 Ten 1603 Hundred
1604 But is it necessary to travel the whole globe to study mankind? Need we go to Japan to study Europeans? Need we know every individual before we know the species? No, there are men so much alike that it is not worth while to study them individually. When you have seen a dozen Frenchmen you have seen them all. Though one cannot say as much of the English and other nations, it is, however, certain that every nation has its own specific character, which is derived by induction from the study, not of one, but many of its members. He who has compared a dozen nations knows men, just he who has compared a dozen Frenchmen knows the French. 1604 Ten 1604 Hundred
1605 To acquire knowledge it is not enough to travel hastily through a country. Observation demands eyes and the power of directing them towards the object we desire to know. There are plenty of people who learn no more from their travels than from their books because they do not know how to think, because in reading their mind is at least under the guidance of the author, and in their travels they do not know how to see for themselves. Others learn nothing because they have no desire to learn. Their object is so entirely different that it hardly strikes them; it is very unlikely that you will see clearly what you take no trouble to look for. The French travel more than any other nation, but they are so taken up with their own customs that everything else is confused together. There are Frenchmen in every corner of the globe. In no country of the world do you find more people who have travelled than in France. And yet of all the nations of Europe, that which has seen most, knows least. 1605 Ten 1605 Hundred
1606 The English are also travellers, but they travel in another fashion; these two nations must always be at opposite extremes. The English nobility travels, the French stays at home; the French people travel, the English stay at home. This difference does credit, I think, to the English. The French almost always travel for their own ends; the English do not seek their fortune in other lands, unless in the way of commerce and with their hands full; when they travel it is to spend their money, not to live by their wits; they are too proud to cringe before strangers. This is why they learn more abroad than the French who have some other object in mind. Yet the English have their national prejudices; but these prejudices are not so much the result of ignorance as of feeling. The Englishman's prejudices are the result of pride, the Frenchman's are due to vanity. 1606 Ten 1606 Hundred
1607 Just as the least cultivated nations are usually the best, so those travel best who travel least; they have made less progress than we in our frivolous pursuits, they are less concerned with the objects of our empty curiosity, so that they give their attention to what is really useful. I hardly know any but the Spaniards who travel in this fashion. While the Frenchman is running after all the artists of the country, while the Englishman is getting a copy of some antique, while the German is taking his notebook to every scholar, the Spaniard is silently studying the government, the manners of the country, its police, and he is the only one of the four who from all that he has seen will carry home any observation useful to his own country. 1607 Ten 1607 Hundred
1608 The ancients travelled little, read little, and wrote few books. Yet we see in those books that remain to us, that they observed each other more thoroughly than we observe our contemporaries. Without going back to the days of Homer, the only poet who transports us to the country he describes, we cannot deny to Herodotus the glory of having best painted manners in his history, though he does it rather by narrative than by comment. Still he does it better than all our historians whose books are overladen with portraits and characters. Tacitus has described the Germans of his time better than any author has described the Germans of to-day. There can be no doubt that those who have devoted themselves to ancient history know more about the Greeks, Carthaginians, Romans, Gauls, and Persians than any nation of to-day knows about its neighbors. 1608 Ten 1608 Hundred
1609 It must also be admitted that the original characteristics of different nations are changing day by day and are therefore more difficult to grasp. As races blend and nations intermingle, those national differences which formerly struck the observer at first sight gradually disappear. Before our time every nation remained more or less cut off from the rest; the means of communication were fewer; there was less travelling, less of mutual or conflicting interests, less political and civil intercourse between nation and nation. Those intricate schemes of royalty, miscalled diplomacy, were less frequent; there were no permanent ambassadors resident at foreign courts; long voyages were rare, there was little foreign trade, and what little there was, was either the work of princes who employed foreigners or of people of no account who had no influence on others and did nothing to bring the nations together. The relations between Europe and Asia in the present century are a hundredfold more numerous than those between Gaul and Spain in the past; Europe alone was less accessible than the whole world is now. 1609 Ten 1609 Hundred
1610 Moreover, the peoples of antiquity usually considered themselves as the original inhabitants of their country. They had dwelt there so long that all record was lost of the far-off times when their ancestors settled there; they had been there so long that the place had made a lasting impression on them. But in modern Europe the invasions of the barbarians, following upon the Roman conquests, have caused an extraordinary confusion. The Frenchmen of to-day are no longer the big fair men of old; the Greeks are no longer beautiful enough to serve as a sculptor's model; the very face of the Romans has changed as well as their character; the Persians, originally from Tartary, are daily losing their native ugliness through the intermixture of Circassian blood. Europeans are no longer Gauls, Germans, Iberians, Allobroges; they are all Scythians, more or less degenerate in countenance, and still more so in conduct. 1610 Ten 1610 Hundred
1611 This is why the ancient distinctions of race, the effect of soil and climate, made a greater difference between nation and nation in respect of temperament, looks, manners, and character than can be distinguished in our own time, when the fickleness of Europe leaves no time for natural causes to work, when the forests are cut down and the marshes drained, when the earth is more generally, though less thoroughly, tilled, so that the same differences between country and country can no longer be detected even in purely physical features. 1611 Ten 1611 Hundred
1612 If they considered these facts perhaps people would not be in such a hurry to ridicule Herodotus, Ctesias, Pliny for having described the inhabitants of different countries each with its own peculiarities and with striking differences which we no longer see. To recognise such types of face we should need to see the men themselves; no change must have passed over them, if they are to remain the same. If we could contemplate at one time all the people who have ever lived, who can doubt that we should find greater variations between one century and another than are now found between nation and nation. 1612 Ten 1612 Hundred
1613 At the same time, while observation becomes more difficult, it is more carelessly and badly done. This is another reason for the small success of our researches into the natural history of the human race. The information acquired by travel depends upon the object of the journey. If this object is a system of philosophy, the traveller only sees what he desires to see; if it is self-interest, it engrosses the whole attention of those concerned. Commerce and the arts which blend and mingle the nations at the same time prevent them from studying each other. If they know how to make a profit out of their neighbours, what more do they need to know? 1613 Ten 1613 Hundred
1614 It is a good thing to know all the places where we might live, so as to choose those where we can live most comfortably. If every one lived by his own efforts, all he would need to know would be which country could supply his food. The savage, who has need of no one, and envies no one, neither knows nor seeks to know any other country but his own. If he requires more land for his subsistence he shuns inhabited places; he makes war upon the wild beasts and feeds on them. But for us, to whom civil life has become a necessity and who cannot get along without consuming other men, self-interest prompts each one of us to frequent those districts where there are most people to be devoured. This is why we all flock to Rome, Paris, and London. It is always in the capitals that human blood is sold at the best price. Thus we only know the great nations, which are just like one another. 1614 Ten 1614 Hundred
1615 They say that men of learning travel to obtain information. This is an error. They travel for self-interest like everyone else. Philosophers like Plato and Pythagoras are no longer to be found, or if they are, it must be in far-off lands. Our men of learning only travel at the king's command; they are sent out, their expenses are paid, they receive a salary for seeing such and such things, and the object of that journey is certainly not the study of any question of morals. Their whole time is required for the object of their journey, and they are too honest not to earn their pay. If in any country whatsoever there are people travelling at their own expense, you may be sure it is not to study men but to teach them. It is not knowledge they desire but ostentation. How could their travels teach them to shake off the yoke of public opinion? It is public opinion that sends them on their travels. 1615 Ten 1615 Hundred
1616 There is a big difference between travelling to see the country and travelling to see the people. The former is the usual aim of the curious, the latter is merely subordinate to it. If you wish to travel as a philosopher you should reverse this order. The child observes things till he is old enough to study men. Man should begin by studying his fellow human beings; he can study things later if time permits. 1616 Ten 1616 Hundred
1617 It is therefore illogical to conclude that travel is useless because we do not travel well. But granting the usefulness of travel, does it follow that it is good for all of us? Far from it. There are very few people who are really fit to travel; it is only good for those who are strong enough in themselves to listen to the voice of error without being deceived, strong enough to see the example of vice without being led away by it. Travelling accelerates the progress of nature and completes the man for good or evil. When a man returns from travelling about the world he is what he will be all his life; there are more who return bad than good, because there are more who start with an inclination towards evil. In the course of their travels, young people, badly-educated and badly-behaved, pick up all the vices of the nations among whom they have sojourned and none of the virtues with which those vices are associated. But those who are happily born, those whose natural goodness has been well cultivated, those who travel with a real desire to learn -- all return better and wiser than they went. This is how my Emile will travel; this is how another young man, worthy of a nobler age travelled, one whose worth was the admiration of Europe, one who died for his country in the flower of his manhood. He deserved to live, and his tomb, ennobled by his virtues only, received no honour till a stranger's hand adorned it with flowers. 1617 Ten 1617 Hundred
1618 Everything that is done in reason should have its rules. Travel, undertaken as a part of education should therefore have its rules. To travel for travelling's sake is to wander, to be a vagabond; to travel to learn is still too vague; learning without some definite aim is worthless. I would give a young man a personal interest in learning, and that interest, well-chosen, will also decide the nature of the instruction. This is merely the continuation of the method I have hitherto practised. 1618 Ten 1618 Hundred
1619 Now after he has considered himself in his physical relations to other creatures, in his moral relations with other men, there remains to be considered his civil relations with his fellow-citizens. To do this he must first study the nature of government in general, then the different forms of government, and lastly the particular government under which he was born, to know if it suits him to live under it. For by a right which nothing can abrogate, every man, when he comes of age, becomes his own master, free to renounce the contract by which he forms part of the community, by leaving the country in which that contract holds good. It is only by sojourning in that country, after he has come to years of discretion, that he is supposed to have tacitly confirmed the pledge given by his ancestors. He acquires the right to renounce his country, just as he has the right to renounce all claim to his father's lands; yet his place of birth was a gift of nature, and in renouncing it, he renounces what is his own. Strictly speaking, every man remains in the land of his birth at his own risk unless he voluntarily submits to its laws in order to acquire a right to their protection. 1619 Ten 1619 Hundred
1620 For example, I would say to Emile, "Until now you have lived under my guidance; you were unable to rule yourself. But now you are approaching the age when the law, giving you the control over your property, makes you master of your person. You are about to find yourself alone in society, dependent on everything, even on your inheritance. You mean to settle down; that is a praiseworthy intention, it is one of the duties of man. But before you marry you must know what sort of man you want to be, how you wish to spend your life, what steps you mean to take to secure a living for your family and for yourself. For although we should not make this our main business, it must be definitely considered. Do you wish to be dependent on men whom you despise? Do you want to establish your fortune and determine your position by means of civil relations which will make you always dependent on the choice of others, which will compel you, in order to escape from fools, to become a fool yourself?" 1620 Ten 1620 Hundred
1621 In the next place I will show him every possible way of using his money in trade, in the civil service, in finance, and I will show him that in every one of these there are risks to be taken; every one of them places him in a precarious and dependent position and compels him to adapt his morals, his sentiments, his conduct to the example and the prejudices of others. 1621 Ten 1621 Hundred
1622 "There is" I will tell him, "yet another way of spending your time and money. You may join the army; that is to say, you may hire yourself out at very high wages to go and kill men who never did you any harm. This trade is held in great honor among men, and they cannot think too highly of those who are fit for nothing better. Moreover, this profession, far from making you independent of other resources, makes them all the more necessary; for it is a point of honour in this profession to ruin those who have adopted it. It is true they are not all ruined; it is even becoming fashionable to grow rich in this as in other professions. But if I told you how people manage to do it, I doubt whether you would desire to follow their example. 1622 Ten 1622 Hundred
1623 "Moreover, you must know that, even in this trade, it is no longer a question of courage or valour, unless with regard to the ladies. On the contrary, the more cringing, mean, and degraded you are, the more honor you obtain. If you have decided to take your profession seriously you will be despised, you will be hated, you will very possibly be driven out of the service; or at least you will fall a victim to favoritism and be supplanted by your comrades -- because you have been doing your duty in the trenches, while they have been attending to their dress." 1623 Ten 1623 Hundred
1624 We can hardly suppose that any of these occupations will be much to Emile's taste. "Why," he will exclaim, "have I forgotten the games of my childhood? Have I lost the use of my arms? Is my strength failing me? Do I not know how to work? What do I care about all your fine professions and all the silly prejudices of others? I know no other pride than to be kindly and just, no other happiness than to live in independence with her I love, gaining health and a good appetite by each day's work. All these difficulties you speak of do not concern me. The only property I desire is a little farm in some quiet corner. I will devote all my thriftiness to making it pay, and I will live without a care. Give me Sophie and my land, and I shall be rich." 1624 Ten 1624 Hundred
1625 "Yes, my dear friend, that is all a wise man requires, a wife and land of his own; but these treasures are scarcer than you think. The rarest you have found already; let us discuss the other. 1625 Ten 1625 Hundred
1626 "A field of your own, dear Emile! Where will you find it, in what remote corner of the earth can you say, 'Here am I master of myself and of this estate which belongs to me'? We know where a man may grow rich; who knows where he can do without riches? Who knows where to live free and independent, without doing harm to others and without fear of being harmed himself? Do you think it is so easy to find a place where you can always live like an honest man? If there is any legitimate and secure way of living without intrigues, without business deals, without dependence on others, it is, I admit, to live by the labor of our hands, by the cultivation of our own land. But where is the state in which a man can say, 'The earth which I dig is my own'? Before choosing this happy spot, be sure that you will find the peace you desire; beware that a violent government, a persecuting religion, and perverse customs do not come to trouble you. Secure yourself against arbitrary taxes which would devour the fruits of your labor or endless lawsuits which would consume your capital. Take care that you can live rightly without having to pay court to intendents, deputies, judges, priests, powerful neighbours, and to fools of every kind who are always ready to annoy you if you neglect them. Above all, secure yourself from annoyance on the part of the rich and great; remember that their estates may anywhere adjoin your Naboth's vineyard. If unluckily for you some great man buys or builds a house near your cottage, make sure that he will not find a way, under some pretence or other, to encroach on your lands to round off his estate, or that you do not find him at once absorbing all your resources to build his own road. If you keep sufficient credit to ward off all these disagreeables, you might as well keep your money, for it will cost you no more to keep it. Riches and credit lean upon each other; the one can hardly stand without the other. 1626 Ten 1626 Hundred
1627 "I have more experience than you, dear Emile; I see more clearly the difficulties in the way of your plan. Yet it is a fine plan and honorable; it would make you happy indeed. Let us try to carry it out. I have a suggestion to make; let us devote the two years from now till the time of your return to choosing a place in Europe where you could live happily with your family, secure from all the dangers I have just described. If we succeed, you will have discovered that true happiness, so often sought for in vain; and you will not have to regret the time spent in its search. If we fail, you will be cured of a mistaken idea; you will console yourself for an inevitable ill, and you will bow to the law of necessity." 1627 Ten 1627 Hundred
1628 I do not know whether all my readers will see where this suggested inquiry will lead us; but this I do know, if Emile returns from his travels, begun and continued with this end in view, without a full knowledge of questions of government, public morality, and political philosophy of every kind, we are greatly lacking, he in intelligence and I in judgment. 1628 Ten 1628 Hundred
1629 The science of politics is and probably always will be unknown. Grotius, our leader in this branch of learning, is only a child, and what is worse an untruthful child. When I hear Grotius praised to the skies and Hobbes overwhelmed with abuse, I perceive how little sensible men have read or understood these authors. As a matter of fact, their principles are exactly alike; they only differ in their mode of expression. Their methods are also different: Hobbes relies on sophism; Grotius relies on the poets; they are agreed in everything else. 1629 Ten 1629 Hundred
1630 In modern times the only man who could have created this vast and useless science was the illustrious Montesquieu. But he was not concerned with the principles of political right; he was content to deal with the positive laws of settled governments; and nothing could be more different than these two branches of study. 1630 Ten 1630 Hundred
1631 Yet he who would judge wisely in matters of actual government is forced to combine the two; he must know what ought to be in order to judge what is. The chief difficulty in the way of throwing light upon this important matter is to induce an individual to discuss and to answer these two questions. "How does it concern me; and what can I do?" Emile is in a position to answer both. 1631 Ten 1631 Hundred
1632 The next difficulty is due to the prejudices of childhood, the principles in which we were brought up. It is due above all to the partiality of authors, who are always talking about truth, though they care very little about it; it is only their own interests that they care for, and of these they say nothing. Now the people has neither professorships, nor pensions, nor membership of the academies to bestow. How then shall their rights be established by men of that type? The education I have given him has removed this difficulty also from Emile's path. He scarcely knows what is meant by government; his business is to find the best. He does not want to write books; if ever he did so, it would not be to pay court to those in authority, but to establish the rights of humanity. 1632 Ten 1632 Hundred
1633 There is a third difficulty, more specious than real, a difficulty which I neither desire to solve nor even to state. It is enough that I am not afraid of it, sure I am that in inquiries of this kind great talents are less necessary than a genuine love of justice and a sincere reverence for truth. If ever matters of government can be fairly discussed it is according to me now or never. 1633 Ten 1633 Hundred
1634 Before beginning our observations we must lay down rules of procedure; we must find a scale with which to compare our measurements. Our principles of political law are our scale. Our actual measurements are the civil law of each country. 1634 Ten 1634 Hundred
1635 Our elementary notions are plain and simple, being taken directly from the nature of things. They will take the form of problems discussed between us, and they will not be formulated into principles until we have found a satisfactory solution of our problems. 1635 Ten 1635 Hundred
1636 For example, we shall begin with the state of nature. We shall see whether men are born slaves or free, in a community or independent; if their association the result of free will or of force; if the force which compels them to unite ever can form a permanent law, by which this prior force becomes binding, even when another has been imposed upon it. So that if, since the power of King Nimrod, who is said to have been the first conqueror, every other power which has overthrown the original power is unjust and usurping, are there no lawful kings but the descendants of Nimrod or their representatives? Or if this original power has ceased, has the power which succeeded it any right over us, and does it destroy the binding force of the former power, so that we are not bound to obey except under compulsion, and we are free to rebel as soon as we are capable of resistance? Such a right is not very different from might; it is little more than a play upon words. 1636 Ten 1636 Hundred
1637 We shall inquire whether man might not say that all sickness comes from God, and that it is therefore a crime to send for the doctor. 1637 Ten 1637 Hundred
1638 Again, we shall inquire whether we are bound by our conscience to give our purse to a highwayman when we might conceal it from him, for the pistol in his hand is also a power. 1638 Ten 1638 Hundred
1639 Does this word power in this context mean something different from a power which is lawful and therefore subject to the laws to which it owes its being? 1639 Ten 1639 Hundred
1640 Supposing that we reject this right of force and admit the right of nature or paternal authority as the foundation of society, we will inquire into the extent of this authority; what is its foundation in nature? Has it any other grounds but that of its usefulness to the child, his weakness, and the natural love which his father feels towards him? When the child is no longer weak and his reason begins to ripen, does not he become the sole natural judge of what is necessary for his preservation? Is he not therefore his own master, independent of all men, even of his father? For is it not still more certain that the son loves himself, than that the father loves the son? 1640 Ten 1640 Hundred
1641 The father being dead, should the children obey the eldest brother, or some other person who does not have the natural affection of a father? Should there always be, from family to family, one single head to whom all the family owe obedience? If so, how has power ever come to be divided, and how is it that there is more than one head to govern the human race throughout the world? Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1642 Supposing that peoples were formed by choice, we will then distinguish between right and fact, and we will ask whether being thus subjected to their brothers, uncles, or other relations, not because they were obliged to, but because they choose to, this kind of society would not always turn into a free and voluntary association. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1643 Passing on to the law of slavery, we will inquire whether a man can legitimately give over to another his right to himself, without restriction, without reserve, without any kind of conditions. That is to say, can he renounce his body, his life, his reason, his very self, all morality in his actions and in a word cease to exist before his death, in spite of nature which places him directly in charge of his own preservation, in spite of conscience and his reason which prescribe what he should do and what he should abstain from doing? Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1644 If there is any reservation or restriction in the act of slavery, we shall discuss whether this act does not then become a true contract, in which both the contracting powers, having in this respect no common superior, remain their own judge as to the conditions of the contract, and consequently free to this extent and able to break the contract so soon as it becomes hurtful. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1645 If then a slave cannot alienate himself without reservation to his master, how can a nation alienate itself without reservation to its head? And if a slave is to judge whether his master is fulfilling his contract, is not the people to judge whether its head is fulfilling his contract? Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1646 Forced thus to retrace our steps, and considering the meaning of this word collective people we will inquire whether some contract, a tacit contract at the least, is not required to make a people, a contract anterior to that which we are assuming. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1647 Since before choosing a king a people is a people, what made it a people, except the social contract? The social contract is therefore the foundation of all civil society, and it is in the nature of this act that we must seek the nature of the society formed by it. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1648 We will inquire into the meaning of this contract and whether it not be fairly well expressed in this formula: "Each of us puts in common his goods, his person, his life and all is power under the supreme direction of the general will, and we receive as a body each member as an indivisible part of the whole." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1649 Assuming this, in order to define the terms we need, we will observe that in place of the individual person of each contracting party, this act of association produces a moral and collective body composed of as many members as the assembly has of voices. This public person in general takes the name of body politic. It is called the State by its members when it is passive, and the Sovereign when it is active, and a Power when compared with its equals. With regard to the members themselves, collectively they are known as the people and individually as citizens, as members of the city or participants in the sovereign authority, and subjects when they are subjected to the same authority. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1650 We shall note that this act of association includes a mutual pledge on the part of the public and the individuals; and that each individual, contracting, so to speak, with himself, finds himself engaged in a double relation -- that is, as a member of the sovereign with regard to other individuals, as member of the state with regard to the sovereign. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1651 We shall also note that while no one is bound by any engagement to which he was not himself a party, the public deliberation which may be binding on all the subjects with regard to the sovereign because of the two different relations under which each of them is envisaged, cannot be binding on the state with regard to itself. However one looks at it, there is not, and cannot be, any other fundamental law, properly so called, except the social contract. This does not mean that the body politic cannot, in certain respects, pledge itself to others; for with regard to the foreigner, it then becomes a simple creature, an individual. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1652 Thus the two contracting parties, that is each individual and the public, having no common superior to decide their differences, we will inquire if each of them remains free to break the contract at will, that is to say to repudiate it on his side as soon as he considers it hurtful. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1653 To clear up this difficulty, we shall observe that, according to the social pact, the sovereign power is only able to act through the common, general will; so its decrees can only have a general or common aim. Hence it follows that a private individual cannot be directly injured by the sovereign unless all are injured, which is impossible, for that would be to want to harm oneself. Thus the social contract has no need of any warrant but the public force, for it can only be broken by individuals, and they are not therefore freed from their engagement but punished for having broken it. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1654 To decide all such questions rightly, we must always bear in mind that the nature of the social pact is of a particular nature in itself, in that the people only contracts with itself -- that is to say the body of the people as sovereign, with the individuals as subjects. This condition is essential to the construction and working of the political machine; it alone makes pledges legitimate, reasonable, and secure, without which it would be absurd, tyrannical, and liable to the most enormous abuse. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1655 Individuals having submitted themselves only to the sovereign, and the sovereign power being nothing other than the general will, we shall see that every man in obeying the sovereign only obeys himself, and how one is much freer under the social part than in the state of nature. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1656 Having compared natural and civil liberty with regard to persons, we will compare them as to property, the rights of ownership and the rights of sovereignty, the private and the common domain. If the sovereign power rests upon the right of ownership, there is no right more worthy of respect. The right of ownership is inviolable and sacred for the sovereign power so long as it remains a private individual right; as soon as it is viewed as common to all the citizens, it is subject to the common will, and this will can destroy it. Thus the sovereign has no right to touch the property of one or many; but it may lawfully take possession of the property of all as was done in Sparta in the time of Lycurgus; while the abolition of debts by Solon was an illegitimate act. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1657 Since nothing is binding on the subjects except the general will, let us inquire how this will is manifested, by what signs we may recognise it with certainty, what is a law, and what are the true characters of the law. This subject is completely new; the definition of law has yet to be made. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1658 As soon as the nation considers individually one or more of its members, the nation is divided. A relation is established between the whole and its part which makes of them two separate entities, of which the part in one, and the whole, minus that part, is the other. But the whole minus the part is not the whole; as long as this relation exists, there is no longer a whole, but two unequal parts. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1659 On the contrary, if the whole nation legislates for the whole nation, it is only considering itself; and if a relation is set up, it is between the whole community regarded from one point of view and the whole community regarded from another point of view, without any division of that whole. Then the object of the statute is general, and the will which makes that statute is general too. Let us see if there is any other kind of act which may bear the name of law. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1660 If the sovereign can only speak through laws, and if the law can never have any object other than a general object equally relative to all the members of the state, it follows that the sovereign never has the power to legislate with regard to particular objects. And yet since it is necessary for the preservation of the state that particular cases should also be dealt with, we must see how this can be done. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1661 The acts of the sovereign can only be acts of the general will, that is laws. There must also be determining acts or decrees of power or government for the execution of those same laws; and these, on the contrary, can only have particular aims. Thus the acts by which the sovereign rules that a leader will be elected is a law; the act by which that leader is elected, in pursuance of the law, is only a decree of government. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1662 Here is therefore a third relation in which the assembled people may be considered -- that is, as magistrates or executors of the law which it has passed in its capacity as sovereign. Note 17 Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1663 We will examine whether it is possible for the nation to deprive itself of its right of sovereignty, to invest it in one or more persons. For the act of election not being a law, and in this act the people not being itself sovereign, we do not see how it can transfer a right which it does not have. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1664 The essence of sovereignty consisting in the general will, it is equally hard to see how one can be certain that an individual will shall always be in agreement with the general will. One would more likely assume that it will often be opposed to it; for individual interest always tends to privileges, while the common interest always tends to equality, and if such an agreement were possible, no sovereign right could exist, unless the agreement were either necessary or indestructible. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1665 We will inquire if, without violating the social pact, the leaders of the people, under whatever name they are elected, can ever be anything other than the officers of the people, entrusted by them with the duty of carrying the law into execution. Are not these leaders themselves accountable for their administration, and are not they themselves subject to the laws which it is their business to see carried out? Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1666 If the people cannot alienate its supreme right, can it entrust it to others for a time? If it cannot give itself a master, can it give itself representatives? This is an important question and deserves discussion. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1667 If the people can have neither a sovereign nor representatives we will inquire how it can pass its laws itself, if it must have many laws, if it must often change them, if it is easy for a great people to be its own lawgiver. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1668 If the Roman people was not a great people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
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1670 We will see if the general will can be better represented than it is now. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1671 From what has been said we can infer that the sovereign will is an aggregate of a number of wills, in which each individual is represented. The sovereign will is thus an aggregate of general and private wills, in which each of the two series is represented. Hence the sovereign has the power to execute what is useful to the whole society. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1672 The sovereign will represents the general interest, while the representative body only represents the private interest. We will see how to form a representative body, how to constitute it, and how to choose it. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1673 We will inquire how the sovereign power of the people can be exercised, what are the proper and necessary conditions for its exercise, and what are the causes of its failure. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1674 We will consider the formation of the representative body, the qualification of the representatives, the organization of the state, and the laws that they shall promulgate. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1675 We will see if the exercise of sovereign power is consistent with the state of nature, and whether it is possible to exercise it under the social contract. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1676 We shall consider the effects of the representative system, its benefits, its drawbacks, and the impact of its effects upon the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1677 We will examine the political and social benefits of the representative system, the effectiveness of the laws passed by it, and the advantages that it provides to the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1678 We shall see the limits and limitations of the representative system, and how it can be adapted to suit the needs of the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1679 We shall also inquire into the relationship between the sovereign and its representatives, and the duties and responsibilities that they have towards the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1680 We will consider the nature of the representative body and its relationship to the sovereign power, and how it interacts with the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
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1681 We shall discuss the role of the representative body in the formation and enforcement of laws, and how it impacts the general will of the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1682 We will examine the various forms of representation, their effectiveness, and their impact on the political system. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1683 We shall see the role of the people in shaping and influencing the representative system, and how their participation impacts the effectiveness of the system. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1684 We will examine how the representative system adapts to changing political and social conditions, and its ability to respond to the needs of the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1685 We shall discuss the role of public opinion in shaping the representative system and the impact of public opinion on the effectiveness of the system. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1686 We will examine the impact of the representative system on the political stability and effectiveness of the government. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1687 We shall see the various challenges and criticisms faced by the representative system, and how it can address these challenges. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1688 We will examine the future of the representative system, its potential developments, and how it can be improved to better serve the people. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1689 We shall discuss the role of technology and innovation in shaping the future of the representative system and its impact on governance. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1690 We will consider the role of education and civic engagement in strengthening the representative system and its effectiveness. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1691 We shall examine the relationship between democracy and representation, and how democratic principles are upheld within the representative system. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1692 We will consider the role of accountability and transparency in the representative system, and how these principles impact governance. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1693 We shall discuss the importance of checks and balances within the representative system, and how they contribute to effective governance. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1694 We will examine the role of political parties and interest groups in the representative system, and their impact on policy-making. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1695 We shall see how the representative system addresses issues of inequality and representation of marginalized groups. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1696 We will discuss the role of international organizations and treaties in shaping and influencing the representative system. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1697 We shall examine the impact of globalization on the representative system and its ability to address global challenges. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1698 We will consider the role of public participation and engagement in shaping the future of the representative system. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1699 We shall discuss the potential reforms and innovations needed to improve the representative system and enhance its effectiveness. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1700 Finally, we will reflect on the lessons learned from the study of the representative system and its future prospects for ensuring effective and equitable governance. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1701 The second sign of the goodness or badness of the government and the laws is also to be found in the population, but it is to be found not in its numbers but in its distribution. Two states equal in size and population may be very unequal in strength; and the more powerful is always that in which the people are more evenly distributed over its territory; the country which has fewer large cities, and makes less show on this account, will always defeat the other. It is the cities which exhaust the state and are the cause of its weakness. The wealth which they produce is a sham wealth; there is much money and few goods. They say the city of Paris is worth a whole province to the King of France; for my own part I believe it costs him more than several provinces. I believe that Paris is fed by the provinces in more senses than one, and that the greater part of their revenues is poured into that town and stays there, without ever returning to the people or to the king. It is inconceivable that in this age of calculators there is no one to see that France would be much more powerful if Paris were destroyed. Not only is this ill-distributed population not advantageous to the state, it is more ruinous than depopulation itself, because depopulation only produces nothing, whereas the ill-regulated addition of still more people gives a negative result. When I hear an Englishman and a Frenchman so proud of the size of their capitals, and disputing whether London or Paris has more inhabitants, it seems to me that they are quarrelling as to which nation can claim the honour of being the worst governed. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1702 Study a people outside its cities; only thus will you really get to know it. It is nothing to see the apparent form of a government, overladen with the machinery of administration and the jargon of the administrators, if you have not also studied its nature as is seen in the effects it has upon the people, and in every degree of administration. The difference of form is really shared by every degree of the administration, and it is only by including every degree that you really know the difference. In one country you begin to feel the spirit of the minister in the manœuvres of his underlings; in another you must see the election of members of parliament to see if the nation is really free. In each and every country, he who has only seen the citiies cannot possibly know what the government is like, since its spirit is never the same in town and country. For it is the agricultural districts which form the country, and the country people who make the nation. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1703 This study of different peoples in their remoter provinces, and in the simplicity of their native genius, gives a general result which is very satisfactory, to my thinking, and very consoling to the human heart. It is that all the nations, if you observe them in this fashion, seem much more worth observing. The nearer they are to nature, the more kindness holds sway in their character. It is only when they are cooped up in cities, it is only when they are changed by culture, that they become depraved and that certain faults which were crude rather than injurious are exchanged for pleasing but pernicious vices. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1704 From this observation we see another advantage in the mode of travel I suggest. For young men, sojourning less in the big cities which are horribly corrupt, are less likely to catch the infection of vice. Among simpler people and less numerous company, they will preserve a surer judgment, a healthier taste, and better morals. But for the most part this contagion of vice is hardly to be feared for Emile; he has everything to protect him from it. Among all the precautions I have taken, I reckon much on the love he bears in his heart. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1705 We do not know the power of true love over youthful desires because we are ourselves as ignorant of it as they are, and those who have control over the young turn them from true love. Yet a young man must either love or fall into bad ways. It is easy to be deceived by appearances. You will quote any number of young men who are said to live very chastely without love; but show me one grown man, a real man, who can truly say that his youth was spent in this way and who speaks in good faith? In all our virtues, all our duties, people are content with appearances; for my own part I want the reality, and I am much mistaken if there is any other way of securing it beyond the means I have suggested. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1706 The idea of letting Emile fall in love before taking him on his travels is not my own. It was suggested to me by the following incident. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1707 I was in Venice calling on the tutor of a young Englishman. It was winter and we were sitting round the fire. The tutor's letters were brought from the post office. He glanced at them, and then read them aloud to his pupil. They were in English; I understood not a word, but while he was reading I saw the young man tear off some fine point lace ruffles which he was wearing, and throw them in the fire one after another, as quietly as he could, so that no one should see it. Surprised at this whim, I looked at his face and thought I perceived some emotion; but the external signs of passion, though much alike in all men, have national differences which may easily lead one astray. Nations have a different language of facial expression as well as of speech. I waited till the letters were finished and then showing the tutor the bare wrists of his pupil, which he did his best to hide, I said, "May I ask the meaning of this?" Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1708 The tutor seeing what had happened began to laugh; he embraced his pupil with an air of satisfaction and, with his consent, he gave me the desired explanation. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1709 "The ruffles," said he, "which Mr. John has just torn to pieces, were a present from a lady in this town, who made them for him not long ago. Now you must know that Mr. John is engaged to a young lady in his own country, with whom he is greatly in love, and she well deserves it. This letter is from the lady's mother, and I will translate the passage which caused the destruction you witnessed. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1710 "'Lucy is always at work upon Mr. John's ruffles. Yesterday Miss Betty Roldham came to spend the afternoon and insisted on doing them herself. She cut some silk lace of which she made a pair of ruffles, which she is very pleased with, and she wished to send them to him. She hopes that they will please him and that he will show them to his friends, and make some compliments on them.'" Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1711 Mr. John went to get another pair of ruffles, and I said to his tutor: "Your pupil has a very good disposition; but tell me is not the letter from Miss Lucy's mother a put up job? Is it not an expedient that you fabricated against the lady of the ruffles?" "No," said he, "it is quite genuine; I am not so artful as that; I have made use of simplicity and zeal, and God has blessed my efforts." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1712 This incident with regard to the young man stuck in my mind; it was sure to set a dreamer like me thinking. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1713 But it is time we finished. Let us take Mr. John back to Miss Lucy, or rather Emile back to Sophie. He brings her a heart as tender as ever, and a more enlightened mind, and he returns to his native land all the better for having made acquaintance with foreign governments through their vices and foreign peoples through their virtues. I have even taken care that he should associate himself with some man of worth in every nation, by means of a treaty of hospitality after the fashion of the ancients, and I shall not be sorry if this acquaintance is kept up by means of letters. Not only may this be useful, not only is it always pleasant to have a correspondent foreign lands, it is also an excellent antidote against the sway of national prejudices, to which we are liable all through our life, and to which sooner or later we are more or less enslaved. Nothing is better calculated to lessen the hold of such prejudices than a friendly interchange of opinions with sensible people whom we respect; they are free from our prejudices and we find ourselves face to face with theirs, and so we can set the one set of prejudices against the other and be safe from both. It is not the same thing to have to do with strangers in our own country and in theirs. In the former case there is always a certain amount of politeness which either makes them conceal their real opinions, or makes them think more favourably of our country while they are with us; when they get home again this disappears, and they merely do us justice. I should be very glad if the foreigner I consult has seen my country, but I shall not ask what he thinks of it till he is at home again. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1714 After having spent nearly two years travelling in a few of the great countries and many of the smaller countries of Europe, after having learned two or three of the main languages, after having seen what is really interesting in natural history, government, arts, or men, Emile, devoured by impatience, reminds me that our time is almost up. Then I say to him, "Well, my friend, you remember the main object of our travels; you have seen and observed; what is the final result of your observations? What decision have you come to?" Either my method is wrong, or he will answer me somewhat after this fashion: Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1715 "What decision have I come to? I have decided to be what you made me and to add no fetters to those imposed upon me by nature and the laws. The more I study the works of men in their institutions, the more clearly I see that, by wishing to be independent they become slaves, and that their very freedom is wasted in vain attempts to assure its continuance. In order not to be carried away by the flood of things they form a million attachments; then as soon as they want to take a step forward they are surprised to find that everything drags them back. It seems to me that to set oneself free we need do nothing, we need only continue to desire freedom. It is you, my teacher, who have made me free by teaching me to yield to necessity. Come what may, I will let myself be carried along without constraint; and since I do not wish to combat necessity, I lay hold of nothing to keep me back. In our travels I have searched for some corner of the earth where I might be absolutely my own self; but where among men is one not dependent on their passions? Have examined everything closely I have discovered that my wishes were contradictory; for were I to hold to nothing else, I would at least hold to the land on which I had settled; my life would be attached to that land like the dryads were attached to their trees. I have discovered that the words empire and liberty are incompatible. I can only be master of a cottage by ceasing to be master of myself.

'Hoc erat in votis, modus agri non itis magnus.'

Horace, lib. ii., sat. vi.
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1716 "I remember that my property was the origin of our inquiries. You argued very forcibly that I could not keep both my wealth and my liberty; but when you wished me to be free and at the same time without needs, you desired two incompatible things, for I could only be independent of men by returning to dependence on nature. What then will I do with the fortune left to me by my parents? To begin with, I will not be dependent on it; I will cut myself loose from all the ties which bind me to it. If it is left in my hands, I will keep it; if I am deprived of it, I will not be dragged away with it. I will not trouble myself to keep it, but I will keep steadfastly to my own place. Rich or poor, I will be free. I will be free not merely in this country or in that; I wll be free in any part of the world. All the chains of prejudice are broken; as far as I am concerned I know only the bonds of necessity. I have been trained to endure them from my childhood, and I will endure them until death, for I am a man. And why should I not wear those chains as a free man, since I would have to wear them even if I were a slave, together with the additional fetters of slavery? Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1717 "What does it matter what role I play in the world? What difference does it make where I am? Wherever there are men, I am with my brothers; wherever there are none, I am at home. So long as I may be independent and rich, and have wherewithal to live, and I will live. If my wealth makes a slave of me, I will find it easy to renounce it. I have hands to work, and I will make a living. If my hands fail me, I will live if others will support me; if they leave me I will die. I will die even if left, for death is not the penalty of poverty, it is a law of nature. Whenever death comes I defy it; it will never find me making preparations for life; it shall never prevent me having lived. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1718 "This, my father, is my decision. If I were without passions, I would in my manhood be as independent as God himself, for I only desire what is and I should never fight against fate. At least, there is only one chain, a chain which I shall ever wear, a chain of which I may be justly proud. Come then, give me my Sophie, and I am free." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1719 "Dear Emile, I am very glad to hear you speak like a man, and to see the feelings of your heart. At your age this exaggerated unselfishness is not unpleasing. It will decrease when you have children of your own, and then you will be just what a good father and a wise man ought to be. I knew what the result would be before our travels; I knew that when you saw our institutions you would be far from reposing a confidence in them which they do not deserve. It is in vain that we seek freedom under the safeguard of the laws. Laws! Where is there any law? Where is there any respect for law? Under the name of law you have everywhere seen the rule of self-interest and human passion. But the eternal laws of nature and of order exist. For the wise man they take the place of positive law; they are written in the depths of his heart by conscience and reason. Let him obey these laws and be free; only those who do wrong are slaves, for they always do wrong against their will. Liberty is not to be found in any form of government. It is in the heart of the free man; he carries it with him everywhere. The evil man carries his servitude in himself. The latter would be a slave in Geneva, the former a free man in Paris. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1720 "If I spoke to you of the duties of a citizen, you would perhaps ask me where a true homeland is, and you would think you had turned the tables on me. Yet you would be mistaken, dear Emile, for he who has no country has, at least, the land in which he lives. There is always a government and certain so-called laws under which he has lived in peace. Even if the social contract has not been observed, of what importance is it so long as individual interest has protected him like the general will would have done, if he has been secured by public violence against private aggressions, if the evil he has seen has taught him to love the good, and if our institutions themselves have made him perceive and hate their own iniquities? Oh, Emile, where is the man who owes nothing to the land in which he lives? Whatever that land may be, he owes to it the most precious thing possessed by man, the morality of his actions and the love of virtue. Born in the depths of a forest he would have lived in greater happiness and freedom; but being able to follow his inclinations without a struggle there would have been no merit in his goodness, he would not have been virtuous, as he may be now, in spite of his passions. The mere sight of order teaches him to know and love it. The public good, which to others is a mere pretext, is a real motive for him. He learns to fight against himself and to prevail, to sacrifice his own self interest to the common interest. It is not true that he gains nothing from the laws; they give him courage to be just, even in the midst of the wicked. It is not true that they have failed to make him free: they have taught him to rule himself. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1721 "Do not say therefore, 'What difference does it make where I am?' It does make a difference that you should be where you can best do your duty; and one of these duties is to love your native land. Your fellow countrymen protected you in childhood; you should love them in your manhood. You should live among them, or at least you should be where you can serve them to the best of your power and where they know where to find you if ever they are in need of you. There are circumstances in which a man may be of more use to his fellow-countrymen outside his country than within it. Then he should listen only to his own zeal and should bear his exile without a murmur; that exile is one of his duties. But you, dear Emile, you have not undertaken the painful task of telling men the truth. You must live in the midst of your fellow-creatures, cultivating their friendship in pleasant intercourse; you must be their benefactor, their pattern. Your example will do more than all our books, and the good they see you do will touch them more deeply than all our empty words. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1722 "Yet I do not exhort you to live in the city. On the contrary, one of the examples which the good should give to others is that of a patriarchal, rural life, the earliest life of man, the most peaceful, the most natural, and the most attractive to the uncorrupted heart. Happy is the country, my young friend, where one need not seek peace in the wilderness! But where is that country? A man of good will finds it hard to satisfy his inclinations in the midst of cities, where he can find few but frauds and fools to work for. The welcome given by cities to those idlers who flock to them to seek their fortunes only completes the ruin of the country, when the country ought really to be repopulated at the cost of the cities. All the men who withdraw from high society are useful just because of their withdrawal, since its vices are the result of its numbers. They are also useful when they can bring life, culture, and the love of their first condition with them into the rural areas. I like to think what benefits Emile and Sophie, in their simple home, may spread about them, what a stimulus they may give to the country, how they may revive the zeal of the unlucky villagers. I imagine seeing the population increasing, the land coming under cultivation, the earth clothed with fresh beauty, many workers and plenteous crops transforming fieldwork into festivities, cries of joy and blessings rising from the midst of the rustic games that the lovable couple has revived. Men say the golden age is a fable. It always will be for those whose feelings and taste are depraved. People do not really regret the golden age, for they do nothing to restore it. What is needed for its restoration? One thing only, and that is an impossibility; we must love the golden age. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1723 "Already it seems to be reviving around Sophie's home; together you will only complete what her worthy parents have begun. But, dear Emile, you must not let so pleasant a life give you a distaste for sterner duties if ever they are laid upon you. Remember that the Romans sometimes left the plough to become consul. If the prince or the state calls you to the service of your country, leave all to fulfil the honourable duties of a citizen in the post assigned to you. If you find that duty onerous, there is a sure and honourable means of escaping from it: do your duty so honestly that it will not long be left in your hands. Moreover, you need not fear the difficulties of such a test; while there are men of our own time, they will not summon you to serve the state." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1724 Why may I not paint the return of Emile to Sophie and the end of their love, or rather the beginning of their wedded love! A love founded on esteem which will last with life itself, on virtues which will not fade with fading beauty, on fitness of character which gives a charm to intercourse, and prolongs to old age the delights of early love. But all such details would be pleasing without being useful, and so far I have not permitted myself to give pleasing details unless I thought they would be useful. Will I abandon this rule when my task is nearly ended? No, I feel that my pen is weary. Too feeble for such prolonged labors, I would abandon this if it were not so nearly completed; if it is not to be left imperfect it is time it were finished. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1725 At last I see the happy day approaching, the happiest day of Emile's life and my own. I see the crown of my labors; I begin to appreciate their results. The noble pair are united by an unbreakable chain; heart and lips confirm vows that will never be in vain. They are man and wife. When they return from the church, they follow where they are led; they know not where they are, where they are going, or what is happening around them. They hear nothing, they answer at random; their eyes are troubled and they see nothing. Oh, rapture! Oh, human weakness! The feeling of happiness overwhelms man; he is not strong enough to bear it. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1726 There are few people who know how to talk to the newly-married couple. The gloomy propriety of some and the light conversation of others seem to me equally out of place. I would rather their young hearts were left to themselves, to abandon themselves to an agitation which is not without its charm, rather than that they should be so cruelly distressed by a false modesty or annoyed by coarse witticisms which, even if they appealed to them at other times, are surely out of place on such a day. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1727 I see our young people, wrapped in a pleasant languor, paying no attention to what is said. Will I, who desire that they should enjoy all the days of their life, let them lose this precious day? No, I desire that they shall taste its pleasures and enjoy them. I rescue them from the foolish crowd, and walk with them in some quiet place; I recall them to themselves by speaking of them. It is not merely to their ears, but to their hearts that I wish to speak and I know that there is only one subject of which they can think today. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1728 "My children," say I, taking a hand of each, "it is three years since I saw the birth of the pure and vigorous passion which is your happiness today. It has gone on growing; your eyes tell me that it has reached its highest point; it must inevitably decline." My readers can imagine the outbreaks, the anger, the vows of Emile, and the scornful air with which Sophie withdraws her hand from mine; how their eyes protest that they will adore each other till their latest breath. I let them have their way; then I continue. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1729 "I have often thought that if the happiness of love could continue in marriage, we would find a Paradise upon earth. So far this is only a dream; but the dream is not impossible. If we were to measure all that is false, vain, and deceptive in our ideal, all that is pure and true would be found among our married people, and would be found in some degree, however small, in most people. But we can only know the greatness of this happiness when we see it attained to perfection. If we have the skill to preserve and prolong it in ourselves, we shall be doing something far more valuable than we do if we merely glorify it." One does not feel one’s own happiness; one only knows its existence through others; when it is great, it makes us a part of it. If we find that it is greater than anything we have hitherto experienced, we cannot describe it; the words are mere signs; we are happy in the knowledge that the object of our happiness is dearer to us than ourselves. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1730 "My dear children," I continue, "be happy; my greatest pleasure is in your happiness. From this day forth you will be united by ties that no one can break. They will strengthen with time and will give you joy as you grow older. Your happiness will be my happiness; your sorrows will be my sorrows. Your love will always be before me; may you always live in it." I see them happy and I am happy with them. But, dear reader, my work is done. I must leave them to their happiness, which I cannot describe in words. If I could only make the whole world witness their happiness, they would be made happier; but this is impossible. The only thing that remains is to say: "Be happy, my dear friends, and may your happiness be complete." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1731 The almost imperceptible difference between these two hidden impulses is characteristic of a real difference between the two sexes; it is that men are generally less constant than women, and are sooner weary of success in love. A woman foresees man's future inconstancy, and is anxious; it is this which makes her more jealous. When his passion begins to cool she is compelled to pay him the attentions he used to bestow on her for her pleasure. She weeps; it is her turn to humiliate herself, and she is rarely successful. Affection and kind deeds rarely win hearts, and they hardly ever win them back. I return to my prescription against the cooling of love in marriage. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1732 "It is plain and simple," I continue. "It consists in remaining lovers when you are husband and wife." "Indeed," said Emile, laughing at my secret, "we shall not find that hard." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1733 "Perhaps you will find it harder than you think. Please give me time to explain. Ties that we pull on too tightly are soon broken. This is what happens when the marriage bond is subjected to too great a strain. The fidelity imposed by it upon husband and wife is the most sacred of all rights; but it gives to each too great a power over the other. Constraint and love do not go together, and pleasure is not to be had for the asking. Do not blush, Sophie, and do not try to run away. God forbid that I should offend your modesty! But your fate for life is at stake. For so great a cause, permit a conversation between your husband and your father which you would not permit elsewhere. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1734 "It is not so much possession as mastery that people tire of, and affection is often more prolonged with regard to a mistress than a wife. How can people make the tenderest caresses into a duty, and the sweetest pledges of love into a right? It is mutual desire which creates the right, and nature knows no other. The law may restrict this right, but it cannot extend it. The pleasure is so sweet in itself! Should it owe to compulsion the force which it cannot gain from its own charms? No, my children, in marriage the hearts are bound, but the bodies are not enslaved. You owe one another fidelity, but not resignation. Neither of you may give yourself to another, but neither of you belongs to the other except at your own will. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1735 "If it is true, dear Emile, that you want to be your wife's lover, that she should always be your mistress and her own, then be a happy but respectful lover. Obtain everything from love and nothing from duty, and let the slightest favors never be of right but of grace. I know that modesty shuns formal confessions and requires to be overcome; but with delicacy and true love, will the lover ever be mistaken as to the real will? Won't he know it when heart and eyes grant what the lips refuse? May each of two lovers always be master of their person and their caresses; let them have the right to bestow them only at their own will. Remember that even in marriage this pleasure is only lawful when the desire is mutual. Do not be afraid, my children, that this law will keep you apart; on the contrary, it will make both more eager to please, and will prevent satiety. Be true to one another, nature and love will draw you to each other." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1736 At these and similar suggestions, Emile gets angry and begins to protest. Sophie is ashamed, she hides her face behind her fan and says nothing. Perhaps while she is saying nothing, she is the most annoyed. Yet I insist, without mercy. I make Emile blush for his lack of delicacy. I undertake to be surety for Sophie that she will undertake her share of the treaty. I provoke her to speak; you may guess that she will not dare to refute me. Emile anxiously consults the eyes of his young wife; he sees them, through all her confusion, filled with a voluptuous anxiety that reassures him against the dangers of trusting her. He flings himself at her feet, kisses with rapture the hand extended to him, and swears that beyond the fidelity he has already promised, he will renounce all other rights over her. "My dear wife," he says, "be the arbiter of my pleasures like you are already the arbiter of my days and my destiny. Even if your cruelty costs me my life I give over to you my most cherished rights. I wish to owe nothing to your acquiescence, but all to your heart." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1737 Dear Emile, be comforted; Sophie herself is too generous to let you fall a victim to your generosity. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1738 In the evening, when I am about to leave them, I say in the most solemn tone, "Remember both of you, that you are free, that there is no question of spousal rights; believe me, no false deference. Emile will you come home with me? Sophie permits it." Emile in a fury is ready to hit me. "And you, Sophie, what do you say? Shall I take him away?" The little liar, blushing, answers, "Yes." A charming and sweet lie, better than the truth! Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1739 The next day. . . Men no longer delight in the picture of bliss; their taste is as much depraved by the corruption of vice as their hearts. They can no longer feel what is touching or perceive what is truly delightful. You who, as a picture of voluptuous joys, see only the happy lovers immersed in pleasure, your picture is very imperfect; you have only its grosser part, the sweetest charms of pleasure are not there. Which of you has seen a young couple, happily married, on the day after their marriage? Their chaste yet languid looks betray the intoxication of the bliss they have enjoyed, the blessed security of innocence, and the delightful certainty that they will spend the rest of their life together. The heart of man can be offered no more rapturous sight; this is the real picture of happiness. You have seen it a hundred times without recognizing it; your hearts are so hard that you cannot love it. Sophie, peaceful and happy, spends the day in the arms of her tender mother; a pleasant resting place after a night spent in the arms of her husband. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1740 The day after I am aware of a slight change. Emile tries to look somewhat vexed; but through this pretence I notice such a tender eagerness, and indeed so much submission, that I do not think there is much amiss. As for Sophie she is gayer than she was yesterday; her eyes are sparkling and she looks very well pleased with herself. She is charming to Emile; she ventures to tease him a little and vexes him still more. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
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1741 These changes are almost imperceptible, but they do not escape me. I am anxious and I question Emile in private, and I learn that, to his great regret, and in spite of all entreaties, he had had to sleep in a separate bed the previous night. That haughty lady had made haste to assert her right. An explanation takes place. Emile complains bitterly, Sophie laughs; but at last, seeing that Emile is really getting angry, she looks at him with eyes full of tenderness and love, and pressing my hand, she only says these two words, but in a tone that goes to his heart, "Ungrateful man!" Emile is too stupid to understand. But I understand, and I send Emile away and speak to Sophie privately in her turn. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1742 "I see," said I, " the reason for this whim. No one could be more delicate, and no one could use that delicacy so inappropriately. Dear Sophie, do not be anxious. I have given you a man; do not be afraid to treat him as such. You have had the first fruits of his youth; he has not squandered his manhood on anyone else, and he will preserve it a long time for you. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1743 "My dear child, I must explain to you why I said what I did in our conversation of the day before yesterday. Perhaps you only understood it as a way of restraining your pleasures to secure their continuance. But, Sophie, there was another purpose, more worthy of my concerns. When Emile became your husband, he became your head. It is for you to obey; this is what nature wishes. When the wife is like Sophie, it is nevertheless good for the man to be led by her. That is another of nature's laws; and it is to give you as much authority over his heart as his sex gives him over your person that I have made you the arbiter of his pleasures. It will be hard for you, but you will control him if you can control yourself, and what has already happened shows me that this difficult art is not beyond your courage. You will long rule him by love if you make your favours scarce and precious, if you know how to give them value. Do you want to have your husband always at your feet? Keep him at a distance. But let your sternness be the result of modesty not whim; let him find you modest not capricious. Beware that in controlling his love you do not make him doubt your own. Make yourself cherished for your favors and all the more respected for your refusals; let him honor his wife's chastity without having to complain of her coldness. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1744 "It is thus, my child, that he will give you his confidence, he will listen to your opinion, will consult you in his business, and will decide nothing without you. It is thus that you may lead him back to wisdom when he strays, and by gentle persuasion make yourself lovable in order to be useful. It is thus that you can use coquetry in the interest of virtue, and love to the profit of reason. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1745 "Do not think that with all this your art will always serve your purpose. In spite of every precaution pleasures are destroyed by possession, and love above all others. But when love has lasted long enough, a gentle habit takes its place and the charm of confidence succeeds the raptures of passion. Children form a bond between their parents, a bond no less tender and a bond which is sometimes stronger than love itself. When you cease to be Emile's mistress you will be his friend and wife; you will be the mother of his children. Then instead of your first reticence let there be the fullest intimacy between you. No more separate beds, no more refusals, no more caprices. Become so truly his better half that he can no longer do without you, and if he must leave you, let him feel that he is far from himself. You have made the charms of home life so powerful in your father's home, let them prevail in your own. Every man who is happy at home loves his wife. Remember that if your husband is happy in his home, you will be a happy wife. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1746 "For the present, do not be too hard on your lover. He deserves more consideration; he will be offended by your fears. Do not be concerned for his health at the cost of his happiness, and enjoy your own happiness. You must neither anticipate disgust nor repulse desire; you must not refuse for the sake of refusing but only to add to the value of your favors." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1747 Then, taking her back to Emile, I say to her young husband, "One must bear the yoke that one has imposed upon oneself. Make yourselves merit the lightening of that yoke. Above all, honor the graces, and do not think that sulkiness will make you more lovable." Peace is soon made, and everybody can guess its terms. The treaty is signed with a kiss, after which I say to my pupil, "Dear Emile, all his life through a man needs a guide and counsellor. So far I have done my best to fulfil that duty; my lengthy task is now ended, and another will undertake this duty. Today I abdicate the authority which you gave me; from now on Sophie is your guardian." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1748 Little by little the first raptures subside and they can peacefully enjoy the delights of their new condition. Happy lovers, worthy husband and wife! To do honor to their virtues, to paint their felicity, would require the history of their lives. How many times, while contemplating in them my life's work, I feel myself seized with a delight that makes my heart beat with joy! How often I take their hands in mine, blessing providence and letting out ardent sighs! How often I kiss their clasped hands! How often their tears of joy fall upon mine! They are touched by my joy and they share my raptures. Their worthy parents see their own youth renewed in that of their children; they begin to live, as it were, afresh in them; or rather they perceive, for the first time, the true value of life. They curse their former wealth, which prevented them from enjoying so charming a fate when they were young. If there is such a thing as happiness upon earth, it is in our home that one must seek it. Ten Icon Hundred Icon
1749 One morning a few months later Emile enters my room and embraces me, saying, "My teacher, congratulate your child; he hopes soon to have the honor of being a father. What a responsibility we will have, how much we will need you! Yet God forbid that I should let you educate the son after having educated the father. God forbid that so sweet and holy a task should be fulfilled by any but myself, even if I were able to make as good a choice for my child as was made for me! But continue to be the teacher of the young teachers. Counsel us, govern us. We will be easily led; as long as I live I will need you. I need you more than ever now that my functions as a man begin. You have fulfilled your own function; help me to follow your example. And now it is time for you to take a rest." Ten Icon Hundred Icon
     
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